How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice. Hey there, I’m a sub-leaning switch who wants to try out the sub dynamic again along with making a new friend. I'd rather it be a long-term dynamic if we get along but am open to short-term too. I’ve had a bit of experience in the past but will also need training, so you can mold me however you want. In my spare time, I like to collect, play video and board games and watch movies. I’m quite open-minded when it comes to any rules you want to set or tasks you want to have me complete. I am open to sending pics too (faceless to begin with) and hope to have some pics returned as well. I love praise and hate to disappoint so you know I’ll do what I’ve been told. As for other kinks, I like taking instructions and tasks, feet, oil, and more. I don’t have any toys yet but I’m open to buying some. My only hard limits are scat, marking, and anything illegal for now. If you sound interested, please dm me and tell me a bit about yourself and your kinks. Thank you for your time

I’m kind of bored and horny lol I posted a lil confession and would love to know what you think! Would love if u gave it a lil like I also posted a lil pic relating to it I thought it would be hot seeing a bunch of guys from all over the world chat about me in the comments of my pic. Like having full on conversations with each other about me and stuff. My fav convo gets a surpriseee xx

Hello, as the title says I'm looking for a new sub to play with. Finding a new sub who is a good match takes time. So I'd like to chat first and get to know your situation and kinks, with the expectation of meeting in person if we click.

With that said, I wouldn't mind someone who doesn't live in Vegas as long as you are willing to do more than just texting (such as verification pics, voice and video chats), and who would be willing to travel occasionally.

You: 21+, submissive, obedient, curious, "good girl" type. New to bdsm and eager to explore kinks and fetishes. Not over bratty, not overly curvy, and not overly needy.

NOT interested in couples, anyone married, dudes, dudes pretending to be females, trans, BBWs, or sissies, etc. Sorry, no judgement, but I'm just not into it so don't waste your time.

Me: single white male in my 40s, never married and no kids. Trustworthy mentor who loves to explore the mental side of bdsm as well as the physical. Not into anything extreme, illegal, or taboo. I especially love the subtle and mental aspects of kinks.

Let's start there. If you are interested, send me a message with some info about your age, location, experience level, and any notable kinks that are at the top of your list.

As the nights grow longer and winter settles in, I’m searching for a connection that’s more than just fleeting warmth—a partnership charged with intensity, trust, and passion. I want to share something dynamic, where the interplay of power and vulnerability creates an unforgettable bond.

About Me I’m a confident, experienced Dominant who values the art of connection as much as the dynamic itself. For me, a power exchange is built on trust, communication, and mutual investment in exploring both the mind and body. I’m assertive, thoughtful, and intentional—a leader who believes in creating a space where submission can be expressed freely and safely.

Outside of the dynamic, I enjoy meaningful conversations, humor that sharpens the wit, and finding beauty in the ordinary moments. I know how to balance intensity with ease, because life (and D/s) is all about rhythm.

What I’m Looking For I’m seeking a submissive who’s ready to dive into the layers of a D/s connection. Whether you’re experienced or just starting out, what matters most is your openness, your curiosity, and your desire to build something extraordinary.

I’m drawn to a partner who thrives on surrender—not just in actions, but in the trust it takes to let go. Someone who wants to explore that delicate balance of control and release, and who knows that the mind is often the most powerful tool in any dynamic.

Let’s Create Something Special If you’re ready to embrace the heat and depth of this season and connect in a way that could last well beyond the frost, let’s talk. Together, we might just build something worth holding onto, one lingering moment at a time.

Are you ready to explore?

Hi there! I'm Deer. Thanks for checking out my ad!

I'll start by listing potential deal-breakers first:

• I'm after a serious, long-term relationship.
• I'm open to date someone far away but only if we're both serious about putting in the effort to make it work, and (assuming we match) can make a reasonable plan on how to eventually move-in together. (I'm open to relocate for the right person.)
• I do not wish to have children.
• I'm politically on the left.

With that out of the way:

Me

• Age: 30
• Location: Sweden, Stockholm area
• Appearance: Average (rather lean) body, healthy weight. I go to the gym but I'm not a muscly guy. Happy to exchange verification pictures after a conversation!
• Language: English. I know some German and I'm learning svenska, but that needs a lot of time in the oven still.
• Orientation: demisexual

Personality-wise, I'm nerdy, creative, open-minded, empathetic, respectful. In my working life I'm an engineer working in green energy. Outside of that, I have a ton of interests and not enough time. I'm in a book club. I love films. I love analyses of films (and other stuff!). I'm learning drawing, sometimes I write short stories, sometimes I go bouldering, sometimes I roleplay. Politics, the environment and social justice are important issues to me, and hopefully to you too.

What I'm looking for:

• Aged ~23-37 (a bit flexible)
• Woman or femme nonbinary
• Wants to be in a monogamous relationship
• Dominant
• Cares about social issues / is progressive.

That's all the hard constraints! I have a fondness for nerdy and opinionated women (nothing is hotter than a passionate conversation) but you don't have to fit any particular mold. I find that almost everyone is interesting when they aren't afraid to show their true selves, so if you think we could be a good match, shoot a message!

I dream of a romance with some power dynamics mixed in. I'm not looking to be a doormat partner who uses femdom as an excuse to be passive and not make decisions. I want a relationship where we both grow and support each other, with clear communication about how we're feeling, what works and what doesn't. Where both of us put in the work to create something sweet and beautiful together.

The kinks

Power exchange, personal service, mental submission, body worship, orgasm control, roleplay, bondage are all things I'm interested it. This is not an exhaustive list; I'm very open to try new stuff with a trusted partner. My preference is for gentler domination, but something more intense is on the cards. Again, with a trusted partner and good communication, lots of doors are open.

Limits: Scat, blood, illegal stuff, stuff that marks (cuts, etc.), cuckoldry, age play, "hard" humiliation as opposed to playful.

Ok but do I have experience?

No, not really. I've had a little bit of experience but it was online only. That said, I've done my research, read books about d/s relationships, I've been in kink communities (both online and offline), have kinky friends, and generally consider myself reasonably knowledgeable, certainly enough to practice kink safely and with consideration for my theoretical partner.

Aaaand that's it. Thanks for reading all that if you came that far. I honestly appreciate it. If my post resonated with you, feel free to send a PM or chat message and say hi! Please include a short intro about yourself (ASL, etc.), what exactly you are looking for, and something that you're currently passionate/thinking a lot about.

Have a great day and I hope you all find what you're looking for!

Hi hi! I'm gonna try to sell myself like one of those door to door salesmen so I look way better than I actually am.

Ahem*

Hello Madam! Can I interest you in a top of the line, state of art, fully functional Jamie? [For the sake of this terrible joke I'm going to write the rest of this assuming you said yes to the previous question] I thought as much. However, you may be wondering, "Why do I need a new Jamie? I already have like 5 Jamie's at home." Excellent question! Let me give you a run down of Jamie's perks.

1. Jamie is submissive as hell and super affectionate, so prepare to be idolized

2. Jamie loves to build a bond with his dominant, and can thrive in both the kinky and emotional side to any dynamic

3. I heard that he's pretty cool and stuff

4. Has a lot of other qualities that are pretty great that he can't think of at the moment

See? I knew I'd convince you. And you can own your very one Jamie for only 15 low low payments of love and affection.

Don't laugh I know, I'm cringe.

Anyway, Im just a young submissive starting his journey on the path of submission, and I could use a guide.

I’m open to most anything, and I’ll try anything at least once.

Pm me 😊

P.S. this is kinda what I was going for Jamie who might actually be a car if you read into this too literally

Hi,

Perhaps we'll have interests in common and have a fulfilling relationship.

About me: I'm a 30 french lawyer, I'm educated, descriptive and imaginative.I enjoy reading, movies and listening to music.

I have a passion for travelling. I'm caring and considerate most of the time and enjoy a good conversation.

I have dark hair, beard and brown eyes, and I'm 6ft tall.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for and attentive obedient sub for mind and body stimulation. Any body shape is welcome.

Be prepared to be edged and teased, mentally stimulated and denied for periods of my liking. I'll provide tasks and commands to keep you needy and wet.

I have a busy life so I'll expect plenty of communication from you. I'm not here to collect pictures but I'll expect a form of verification and some proof that tasks have been carried out.

If you'd like to find out more PM me and let's see if we have a connection.

Milorde

Hey there, I am a British daddy dom who is looking for an online arrangement with a sub who is either brand new to this or reasonably inexperienced. I want to train a sub and teach them how to submit to a master. I am 6'4 with a muscular build (ex rugby player). We can discuss further things about my appearance and exchange pics if you decide to message. Snapchat is my preferred method of communication. If you are interested please send me a DM and we can begin the dynamic. I am very open minded and I'm looking for someone who is also that way inclined. I am 95% of the time a dom but can also switch in occasion too so if you have an interest in that then please also hmu.

Hi there.

29M here, looking for a mistress to please and serve. I enjoy to obey my mistress, and do exactly as told (within my limits of course). I’m seeking a mistress to play with, and talk to about kinks and share stories with etc. I’m not inexperienced, but not overly experienced either. I don’t care if you are super experienced or not, as long as we are a match.

A little about me: I have brown skin, big brown eyes, a cute smile and a fit body. I am a very likeable person who enjoys sports and gaming. Most people will never have guessed that I’m a huge sub and love to give up all control. In my everyday life, I am quite dominant, but I love to give up all control when in bed. Im 5’7 so im not that tall haha - hope you don’t mind. I’m very focused and ambitious on my career and I work hard every day to be successful.

I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship, as I do also have a private life. However, I’m still looking for something long term. I would love my mistress to be creative, and make me do things that I have never thought of doing myself.

Please hmu if you are interested.

IF YOU ARE NOT ONE OR ALL OF THE FOLLOWING REQUIREMENTS, DO NOT MESSAGE ME, THANKS🥰💋

🩷German, Austrian, Or American 🩷Strong/Confident 🩷Military 🩷Will Support Me Financially/Emotionally As Daddies Are Supposed To Do 🩷Babies Me/Reassurance/ONLY WANTS ME 🩷Blue Or Green Eyes

Imagine : You have sent me a DM BEGGING me to take control of you and your life, your actions, your sexual pleasure, your body just as a good gf/wife should. How does it feel knowing you're owned the second you sent me that DM? How does it feel to know that you're now what a woman should be? How does it feel know your place?

I'll dominate the shit outta you, I'll use that body till it's last limits, I'll fully control you. You'll be nothing but a fuckmeat a sextoy nd maybe my gf in the future. I will spank and slap you when I feel you need it. Its a man's world and you wither submit or perish. Hahaha

Im looking for someone around my age and serious . DM me BEGGING properly. I will only respond to the ones where the begging turns me on. You can be from anywhere but must be willing to relocate.

About me : I'm 20, financially well off, Dark Skinned.

Hey y’all,

I’m looking for a Mommy to help me embrace being submissive. I haven’t found a domme yet who can really put me in my place, but I’m hoping to find someone that can play with my bratty and obedient sides.

I’m a bit more of a tomboy, but I’m interested in exploring femininity more along with orgasm control. I love to edge and be teased, so there’s some ammunition for you to work with 😉.

Some other info for you:

Kinks: choking, spanking, deep throating, humping, hypnosis, edging

Limits: vomit, scat, blood

Open to any feminine presenting people

Who's idea was it to have this nerdy fullstack tech expo on the same week as the rodeo? I'm not sure, but I know its making me want to meet a cowgirl for some riding crop shopping...

Me: 35, witty and wanton tech guy staying here through Sunday. I'm a flirt and a hedonist from a lefty city that doesn't have any cowgirls... Long hair, glasses, neat beard. I had a 6 pack ten years ago which I think might still be there under my tasteful layer of fluff. Kinky but classy about it.

You: 25-49ish, ideally here for the rodeo, owns at least one pair of boots (possibly even a pickup truck), raised right -- but interested in what it might be like to take the bit.

Normally this would be a link to pictures but the subreddits have been the Wild Wild West lately with bots and scammers so your message gets my pics (if you can pass the Turing test).

If this sounds like fun, what are you waiting for? Come take me to my first rodeo ;)

I've really been enjoy worshipping and serving lately, and I'm on the hunt either for women who share my interests to chat and share notes with, or women who might want to be on the receiving end up some of these things.

Things like:

• Licking pussy, feet & ass clean
• Drinking piss
• Being cucked
• Being used and abused however you like

Anyone curious?

hi :) i'm looking for someone close to my age (~18-24) to explore with online. i'd like to make friends with similar interests to talk to and see where it goes from there.

i live in the midwestern US. i'm 5'2, chubby with short brownish hair and c-cups. i like anime, stuffed animals, cooking, and history + politics.

being left leaning and queer friendly is a must as i'm bisexual and kind of nonbinary. i present as a girl so that's usually what i identify with when i don't want to get into it. i'm AFAB.

i'm not experienced, so i don't mind if you aren't either, i think it would be nice to learn more about our preferences together. i'm into primal play, bondage, and overstim. there's more but i'd rather talk about it privately.

please feel free to message me!

Hey there everyone! My name is Kara, I'm a 20 year old hypersexual trans girl who would like to make a genuine connection with a dominant person! I'm a pretty sexual and kinky person who would love to meet other people like me so we can be horny and kinky with eachother without worry of having to hide that part from eachother~ :3. I'd particularly love more dominant people as I'm submissive myself! To be completely candid, I am a pretty clingy person if I really really like you haha. I'm also a self conscious person who needs reassurances that, yes I'm not being stupid or awkward (and eventually if things go this way), that you do still love me lol :p. As you can probably tell, I might be a little high maintenance so if that's something your not willing to work with, thats fine! I hope you find what you want elsewhere <3.

Though for a bit more about me, I love video games like rpgs or survival horror games! I also love music (generally all kinds), writing, and reading :). My favorite time of year is the winter and I absolutely love the sound of rain and thunder, it's really relaxing! I'm also a bit of a stoner lol. Getting high is a activity I like to do a lot so if your interested about maybe getting high together lemme know! I'm a very loving person who loves with all my heart if I do fall in love with someone, so much so that I usually end up falling for people pretty quick (to my own detriment lol). I also don't show pictures of myself at the moment as I'm pre HRT and my dad is a massive transphobe so I'm in boymode more often then not :(

As for more kinky stuff as it is a bit of an important thing to mention with an ad like this, here's a list of kinks! These don't include all my kinks, as most of the rest are what kind of porn I like to watch but I figure we can talk about that in DMs ;3.

Kinks: Edging Chastity Pet play Intox play Gooning Hypno CNC Dom/sub dynamics And tons more! if there's something not here your interested in, just ask!

Anyhow I'll keep this a bit short, if you do message I'd prefer you message a bit more then just "Hey"! I hope to hear from some people, DMs are open!

Also if you check my account you'll notice i post on a T4T subreddit alot but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm exclusively T4T, it's just a nice place to meet trans people. So if your cis, don't be afraid to message still!

Asian male seeking the right connection. I'm nervous about my lack of sexual experience and feel like I've missed out. Recently, I've been working on my confidence by improving my diet, exercising, and being more active.

I'm looking for someone experienced, understanding, and patient, or someone new to sex who wants to explore safely together. The idea of a hedonistic lifestyle excites me, and I have some dominant fantasies I want to try. I'm open-minded and willing to explore different things, ideally building a connection and friendship. I'd rather get to know someone first before anything else.

Interests: CNC, breeding, roleplay, forced orgasms, rope bondage, degradation, humiliation, taboos, etc.

Please do not message if you're a guy, an escort, or a couple.

About me (safe for work): I am currently a surgical doctor. I would describe myself as very introverted, however my career often requires me to be extroverted and so I'd say I'm now an ambivert. My hobbies include going to the gym, traveling to new countries (when I'm not at work!), reading a good book and playing some old retro video games.

Why I'm posting on here: I am looking for something serious (I know that gets eye rolls) but the emotional foundation is the most important part of a relationship. I want to speak to someone I can one day marry.

Marriage is fulfilling in multiple ways and I'm looking for someone who shares my kinks and fantasies. I'm looking for a kinky girl who has a high libido and isn't afraid of what she wants. I want to make some new love languages. Just for you:

• cooking you dinner
• kissing your feet for the longest time with eye contact as I work my way upwards teasing you
• telling you how incredible you are whilst I worship every inch of your body
• licking your ass and you sitting in my face
• spoiling you with nice gifts and big kisses

My biggest fantasy would be to come home after a very long shift and you'd be waiting for me in some heels with an exciting outfit and then you'd make me kneel and please you however you want to be pleased.

I'm not into anything non monogamous. I am totally against pegging and chastity. I am into body worship, oral (giving more than receiving), rimming (giving more than receiving), milking. In fact I'd say it's a safe bet to say I'm more of a giver than a receiver.

Currently, I live in a nice little apartment overlooking a beautiful city with a gorgeous river. It has a nice balcony, cozy carpets, a big TV, comfortable beds, a brilliant kitchen, all it's missing is you.

I have already put a down payment on my dream house, however I have a lot of renovations which I'm doing because I want the house to be absolutely perfect.

I plan to stay here for a little while whilst I build my skillset and pursue my career as a surgeon for children. I have been very blessed and I have been able to use my skills by volunteering abroad and helping people in conflict and disaster zones with my medical skills. I don't think I can name all the countries on here as I don't want this post to mysteriously vanish

Physically (it's what everyone wonders online huh) I am 6'2 with well developed muscles, with dark hair and a thick beard (not what you imagined when I mentioned my kinks hm)

I am a practicing Muslim (shocking I know!!!) , I pray 5 times a day and am a Hafiz ul quran (bonus points if you know what that means), however I don't have a clear sect or madhab. Sunni is probably the best description but I am more of a spiritually focused Muslim.

How would I be as a husband?

I'd be kind and tender. I'd love to hold you when you feel overwhelmed or on days when it all gets a little bit too much. I'd love to spend time just talking with you for ages about anything and everything. I'm looking for something in real life so I'd love to spend time together. My ideal date would be to do a workout together and then to treat you to a lovely meal together? ( I know that might be a bit too sudden but I move fast). I've been told by my friends I have some great stories and I have a very dark sense of humour (maybe it's the profession).

What I'm looking for in a partner?

• I'm open minded about age, anywhere from 19-35
• ideally live in the UK or be open to relocate
• Muslim or open to converting
• open to call (as soon as we're both comfortable)
• stimulating conversationalist
• understand sometimes because of my job I reply slower or briefly (but I guarantee when I get back to you it'll be worth it)

If you’ve made it this far drop me a message! You can share a lot of detail and introduce yourself! Tell me about your hobbies and what is your favourite meal? What do you like about my post? To everyone searching, I wish you all the best even if I'm not your cup of tea ;)

I'm posting once again, hoping new people will read it

Hey, I'm Bwen, I'm 26, gender fluid, pansexual, polyamory, switch mainly Dom and I'm from Chile, I'd just like to meet new people and form new connections. I'd love to find myself a switch or a sub, but I'm open to having a Dom if we vibe.

I have lots of experience as a Dom, but not much as a sub I have experience as a caregiver and a pet owner, I'd rather discuss kinks and things I like in dm, but I can tell you some of my favorites are breeding, petplay, cgl, CNC, cumplay, amongst many others.

I like getting to know you before we become anything, so I'd like for us to build up trust, not just jump into anything. Also, if you've read this far tell me your favorite color on your first message.

My limits are gore, puke and scat. Almost anything else I like.

Feel free to dm me and ask me anything you'd like to know about me.

Please introduce yourself with your age, gender, role, name and favorite kink!

:3

I’m new here so not too sure what to include but I’ll give it a go!

I am new to the whole kinks and BDSM thing but I’m open to learning as long as someone can show me the ropes… My current kinks that I’m aware of include foot fetish/nipple play and being dominated but I am hoping to find many more and find a new side to myself. I am usually pretty bad over text and I can understand that many won’t like this but I’m hoping a woman out there can help me with experimenting and finding that new side.

DM’s are always open so feel free to message me, I hope to hear off you soon!

Hey :) I'm Jessica. I'm 31 F and I'm looking for someone around my age (or older) to submit to. I've been absolutely craving some proper submission lately, and I'd like to find a Domme who can get that sub side out of me :)

I'm also looking for someone I can chat with casually when we're not in a kinky setting. I'm MtF trans, and please include your favorite song in the first message so I know you read all of this haha

I'm very kinky. My first and biggest kink is bondage. I have a lot of kinks and I like to explore new ones. I have a ton of toys, and... Well, I'll leave it at that. Please reach out via chat if you're interested!

-Jess

24 [M4A] #EU #Online

Please humiliate me and send me threats

Hey everyone!

I'm very high and incredibly horny. I need someone dominant to put me in my place. Please humiliate me and degrade me. Send rape threats, ask degrading or humiliating questions, or do anything else you want to show me who's in charge.

Limite : identifying information, scat, anything illegal, and pics. Creativity and depravity are encouraged!

I look forward to pleasing you

Hi everyone! I made a post here a while ago but wanted to make another one going into more detail.

DMV native submissive looking for her forever Dom (yes asking Reddit is funny but why not give it a try?)

Vanilla life: I am currently doing a major in psychology, born and raised here in America, have a really big passion of animals, I write poetry so maybe you’ll get some poetry about you by me, I speak around 5 languages (guess my mother tongue) and also currently trying to learn Arabic. I’m very open and proud of my faith as I am quite literally a “walking shadow” in the public eye haha (I wear a niqab and a burqa in public). I’m more of a home body, or a house cat if you would, but I do enjoy the occasional going to the movies (horror and actions are my favorite), and trying restaurants. I’m also quite religious and very proud of it (Sunni, Salafi, Athari) and while it may seem very confusing how I can be, just remember every coin has two sides 😇

Kink: I desire to submit to my forever Dom/Daddy in mind, body, soul and heart. A man who would be right below الله for me and I would be under Him. I’m pretty traditional, don’t have male friends (nor do I touch men as I also wear gloves), and absolutely adore ownership/possession/gheera. I am to be His prized possession and the best i can be for Him. While I do have many desires and wants for the bedroom kink life, I also highly desire the out of bedroom kinks too such as rules, protocol, and discipline. While I do enjoy and love being a good girl 90% of the time, I am still an afghan and we are quite stubborn and hot blooded people so you’ve been warned haha.

Fair warning I’m still a virgin and plan on keeping it till marriage and no other sexual things till marriage as well!

Looking for a 24/7 dynamic close to a TPE, not just bedroom. My s types are a little (main one), pet, masochist, prey, and slave (my most vulnerable headspace).

No I don’t want to hookup, do something casual, or have someone convert me to something else

Priority to the Muslims but I am open to people who are very much looking into reverting as well!

I'm 27 owner who is looking for a female sub who wants to be owned and micromanaged. Someone that l'll take full control over her and by full I mean FULL starting from the very minor details to the big ones and everything in between. Ultimately want you to become rellant on my input and my input only, decision making for your choices. You'll be micromanaged and ordered around. Perhaps even a shared calendar to set you tasks, and assignments and let you know your schedule for the day and it's not just a kink for brats, this will be a 24/7 relationship with rules and tasks you'd have to follow every day. I'm looking for something long term but I want to start online and see where it goes. You could be anywhere as long as you can speak English or Arabic. You can be any age but you must be +18. if you're interested please tell me more about you and don't just say "hey" Attaching a picture is a plus, looking forward to talking to you.

Looking for kinky-minded weirdos to chat with. I'm into a wide range of kinks, and love people with wild imaginations.

I'm a BBW who loves being objectified, degraded and praised. I love attention and pain on my huge pussy, and I love being humiliated for being a nympho masturbation addict. The right words make me soaking wet.

Send me an interesting message and let's see if it turns me on. Bonus points for originality.

Hi! :) I’m a 30m from California, but mainly looking for an online d/s relationship. I want someone who is caring, kind, and sweet, and in return I’ll make sure you always feel safe and secure. I enjoy TPE, so I will help you make decisions, give you rules on how to behave to make sure you’re a good girl for me.

I also enjoy many, many other kinks. Cnc, choking, bondage, etc. basically there is very little I don’t enjoy.

Also, I’d like this to be long term. I’m looking for someone I can talk to consistently throughout the day.

Physically, I’m 5’11, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes. I like to play tennis, golf, and I joined a softball league recently. I like watching tv and movies, skateboarding, and photography.

Don’t be afraid to reach out :))

It probably started with my fascination with psychology. I was enraptured with the human mind and the nearly endless ways that it functions and it changes with experiences. Words, thoughts, sensations, all of it can be used to change how a person thinks and perceives things, and it became a passion.

After getting my psychology degree, I quickly discovered that the "moral" methods of psychological application didn't appeal to me. They were too tame, there were too many rules, and everyone was too careful. It probably progressed much in the way a sexual addiction does, wanting to try more and more extreme measures to get what I wanted until it brings us to what I am here for today.

I want a real woman who struggles with real sexual/psychological problems. Someone who is open to the ways her mind can be shaped and changed for both of our pleasure. This is often done through sharing fantasies or experiences, but simple conversation and discussion can do this as well with the right person.

Is this wrong? Yes. Should we not be doing this? Absolutely. Would it turn us both on to no end? Message me if you are brave enough to find out.

Women who KNOW you shouldnt be messaging me are deeply encouraged. Married? Lesbian? Convinced you're always in control? Have no idea why this turns you on? I can help you find the answers.

Mention the subreddit you saw this post in so I know you read it to the end.

Limits: Extreme violence, bodily fluids.

Hiii, I’m currently going through a really harsh break up from my daddy🥺 I am struggling to do daily tasks like eating, bathing and enjoying myself off of work. I could really use a male friend that I can chat with and vent to, maybe even take care of me. I think I’m a pretty cool person, I don’t want to talk to much about me because I feel like it could be a cool conversation starter☺️ I’d prefer a older daddy to chat with 35+ I’m not to picky on location but I’d like someone who is available to chat day or night as sometimes I kinda just need to talk about my day or my feelings, I hope that’s not to much to ask for. Again since I just wanna be friends I’d prefer no sexual talk. Some things I’m into: I love to play video games! I have a PC which I play an unhealthy amount of sims on. I love to read, mostly romance novels but I also love to read graphic novels as well. I looove to color! Especially the cute kawaii color books. Lastly I’m autistic, it doesn’t affect my daily life to much but if your interested please don’t be afraid to ask. Thank you I hope to hear from you heh🤭

Searching for TPE sub who is okay with my busy schedule. thats only you if you can hold a REAL conversation. I'll make time for you... You are clingy. send me texts all day. Follow my instructions, then beg me to cuddle. The more you want it, the deeper Im in. Message me for it. I'm fit. I want a Petite/fit female. I want physical and emotional power over you. I'm 6"3' 245lbs. Give me TPE. Let's connect first. Message me and tell me your kinks, your limits, and your age/build. I'll send pics. You will send me pics. We will talk. Let me get to know you, and what you have to offer. tell me your asl. tell me your limits. tell me your hobbies. tell me why you think you are a fit for me. looking for younger victims. 19-21 pref, but willing to negotiate if your bring the right mindset to the table. its all about you. are you the one? tell me your kinks and limits.

My Kinks (the part you've been waiting for) TPE (obv), bondage, impact play, degredation, DD/Lg, CNC, Freeuse, Brat Taming, and many more. ask me about it.

personal limits; tats, perm, scat, illegality, the usual

lmk. i l know you are interested. i see you peeping the post. just send asl. ill ask for th rest

As long as our kinks line up, that can be the extent of the kink aspect of the conversation while we get to know each other personally over the next few months. BDSM is an enhancement and not the entirety of the relationship. If you're interested in a non-emotional relationship, I'm open to that as well. We're all here for one kinky reason or another, as important as that is to me, I'm learning that I've focused on this aspect too soon from the beginning or not at all with vanilla dating and it hasn't been very helpful. I don't want someone to be attracted to me because of my kinks, but to want to be with me because of the person I am. The kinks are a plus, but I'm proposing to start things off rather vanilla. I need a partner where there is love, support, and care in the relationship. As much as I want to tie you up, edge, spank, and all the fun stuff, I want to pamper and show that affection and dote on them, make love to them, spoil them. I want to show you how much I care about you as a person before moving into the kink. I want someone I can spend time with, travel with, grow together emotionally with outside of the kink, someone that I'm comfortable just being around. That's just a simplistic version of my desires and happy to elaborate more.

About me: I'm 33 5'8 180lbs and Egyptian. I've got my shit together and I've worked hard for my stuff. Now, it would be nice to share it with the right person.

I am very athletic and work out hard 6-7 days a week so someone who is fitness/health conscious is ideal. I've learned that I love hiking and camping and anything outdoors related. I love traveling to foreign countries for fun and eating my way across them. I love food. I love to cook and bake, experiment with recipes, and try new things all of the time. I've taken up skydiving and kayaking and enjoy doing that in my free time when I can. There's so much out there to experience cuisine wise and culturally and I want it. I enjoy playing video games when I can as well as reading. I'm a total history nerd and love everything about history. I go to museums wherever I travel to (I'm the type that reads all the little placards).

I'm very dedicated to my work and take great pride in it and doing well. I strive to do the right thing and do right by people. I'm not religious and I lean left politically. I like collecting cool trinkets in my travels and have recently started a record collection. I'm a pretty laid back and go with the flow kind of person. I think that's a good snapshot of myself as l'd let my potential partner learn more about me over time.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a woman, 18+ from wherever, that's is ready for me to earn her love and affection while offering me herself (if that makes sense). I don't care where you're from, a connection is a connection and distance is whatever. You need to be willing to meet eventually as I want the real thing. I'm sick of online shit, but I understand these things take time in order to build a trusting relationship so l'm patient for it if I feel like it's going somewhere.

I would want you to have your shit together. Know what you want. Independence is just as important as dependence. There's a healthy balance of relying on someone as well as being your own person with your own life. If you want to learn about the lifestyle, I'm happy to converse about it. We all have our kinks, I don't judge yours, you shouldn't judge mine. Which leads to what I'm looking for in a sub

Eagerness and willingness to please, serve, and submit. Learning what your role is in our relationship. Do these things and there's nothing I wouldn't do for you (double neg? Idc) as l've elaborated above. You are my partner.

My kinks: it has taken me a while to realize my interests and kinks. Once I figured it out, I knew I could never go back to a traditional vanilla relationship. I just crave it too much and when my partner isn't into anything it makes me resent them (wrong, I know). I enjoy the D/s dynamic as well as Master/slave, so something in between is ideal. I'm dominant, aggressive, and insatiable. I enjoy CNC, free use, and completely possessing my sub. I'll be more specific with someone who if you're interested and got this far. I have had subs in the past but due to things in life we've had to go separate ways. I understand the importance and need for aftercare, limits, and safety. I'm sadistic, not an asshole.

If you made it this far then I applaud you. There's so much more I want to say, but I think this is enough to narrow down who may be interested. I have pictures in my profile but l've decided to hide the nude ones for now and seeing how this new approach works. Reach out if you'd like to talk more and I really do wish everyone the best of luck in all their future endeavors.