Hello there, I'm a 27 year old guy who, as you've guessed it, is a virgin.

I'm 5'7 (169cm), ~150 pounds (70kgs), dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, no facial hair/barely, with an average build. I don't think I'm handsome but I don't think I'm ugly either, but you'll be the judge of that if you're interested.

As for hobbies, I'm into anything that has a good story and characters, so TV shows, anime, movies, videogames, etc. I love trying out new types of foods or from different countries, music from pretty much all genres and recently I've been enjoying going to the gym, which I started a few months ago.

Hoping to find someone who's patient and if you're experienced, willing to teach me along the way.

I'm a clean, vaxxed guy, so I hope you'd be the same. I'm into pretty much all body types, so I actually like bigger girls too. Agewise, I'd prefer if you were 19+.

If you're messaging me, please do not send just a "Hey, how are you" or something similar. Tell me about yourself. We can talk here on reddit first to see if we get along and if we do we can go for a coffee and see where it goes from there.

And I think that's about it, its probably a shot in the dark, but oh well, there's no harm in trying.

Hi all!!!

First off, thank you for reading this post, and to the mods for actually hosting such a cool and welcoming space!

About Me

• I’d say I’m a very positive guy, I love to look on the positive side and try to find something fun / to be grateful for in any situation - I think life’s a lot less stressful that way!
• I’m pretty chilled out and easygoing, I very rarely get stressed out thankfully, and love going with the flow!
• As to why I’m a virgin?? I never really got down to experiencing it with a busy life, especially during these teen years, and would love to get to know someone a little well before losing my V card!

What I look like!

• I’m 6’2, lean and athletic (abs etc), I play a lot of cardio heavy sports so I’m not naturally stocky but have a good runners build!
• I’ve been told I’m a mix between cute and handsome, I’ve got a sharp jawline but a pretty cheeky smile that’s infectious!

What I’m looking for!

• I’d love to meet a woman between the ages of 18 - 36 (a couple years older is cool too!)
• I’m happy for you to be completely inexperienced like myself, we can learn together and it’ll be fun, or to be super experienced too!

Anyways, I’ll try not to make this post too long, I’d love for you all to message, and thank you once again for reading!

Hey there, I’m Daniel, and I’m East Asian. I stand at a towering 172cm/5’8” and weight 68kg/150lb. I would consider myself decent looking, but feel free to shoot me a message and see for yourself! I Currently in Uni and wanting to make some lasting memories. Open to all levels of experience.

A bit about myself: In my free time, I like to jog, maintain bike and go for long hikes. When winter rolls around this year I plan on skiing as much as possible. I’m also like playing MMOs and reading sci fi. Currently working on “The three body problem”. I have a dog and two hermit crabs, so if you ever get a chance to meet me, I’ll probably be showing off my gallery of pet pictures to you :). I’m aspiring to break into infosec, and possibly become a red teamer!

I would consider myself a cheerful and laid back person. I try my best to be the kindest person I can. In a conversation, I prefer to listen to you speak: getting to know some is what makes conversations so interesting. When you initially meet me, I may be shy/reserved, but once we get to know each other, you’ll find that I love to makes jokes, and sprinkle in some dry humor and sarcasm to my conversations.

Not picky about looks, open to all ages/backgrounds. Just looking for someone who I can feel comfortable with.

Looking forward to hearing back from you :)

Hello Reddit,
I am a shy anxious guy, living in Northern Dallas. I like gaming on PC, watching TV series once in a while, listening to music, watching YouTube videos. I having been also recently getting into DnD and really like that as well. I also like playing TT, pool and foosball.

I am 5'10''. I workout regularly. Average build. Have beard and wear specs.

I haven't had any experience with women so far in life, neither sexual nor romantic, mainly because of anxiety, being shy and low self esteem. So, I decided to come out of my comfort zone and give this a try.

I am open minded, understanding and will be respectful of you. I dont have any preferences as such.

If anyone feels like you would give a try in connecting with me and hopefully doing it if we find ourselves compatible please hit me up. Fingers crossed.

Hi there, I'm a 24 year old black dude, and I'm a virgin guy. I'm 5 feet and nine inches. I'm also about 206 lbs, I like a lot of different kinds of music, including rock and roll and jazz. I also like art and going various places around town on urban exploration trips, and exploring nature is also a thing I like a lot. I'm also pretty big on ancient history as well. My favorite video game of all time is Red Dead Redemption 2 but these days I've been getting back into playing older Sonic games as well! These days I've also taken up biking and it's a lot of fun.

Growing up I never made any real strides towards gaining any sort of experience, but lately I've become more interested in the idea. Now that I'm on the older side, I feel like I'm ready to experience that a lot of other people experience.

I really would like to know what it's like on the other side of the aisle so to speak, and I really hope my this message catches the attention of at least one person willing to try! I don't have a race preference, and I'd say that I like pretty much any type of woman. If any one at all takes an interest in me or this post, feel free to write in!

Afternoon Reddit, figured I'd give this a go. My name is Ally, I'm a very nerdyand shy guy living in Dorset. I enjoy spending my time relaxing at home, usually by painting miniatures, playing some online games or just curled up reading/watching YouTube or anime. I do enjoy going out for walks quite often as the scenery around where I live is quite nice (when it's not raining).

I'm 6,2" with short dirty blonde hair and a beard. While I'm still a virgin Iv had a bit of experience with a girl and am more than happy to put what I know to work.

Don't know it anyone will read all of this but I hope that you at least have a nice day even if you don't msg me :)

I'm a 6'2'' 24 yo Middle Eastern guy who lives in the north DFW suburbs. I'm finishing up my last year of medical school and will probably be in the DFW area for a while. I like to workout, watch anime, read manga, and play basketball/soccer, depending on the friend group I'm with. I would describe myself as in shape, with fair skin, black hair, black eyes, although I don't have my abs back yet (lol). People are surprised when I say I've never had a gf but tbh, I've always been moving around and focused on school. A lot of the experiences people had when they were younger are stuff I missed out on. I haven't even had a close knit friend group until recently. I'm looking for someone I can connect with for a bit and vibe with; it doesn't, but I feel like I really have to know someone before doing anything with them. I won't post a pic here but if you dm me, I'll respond with pics of myself. My mom calls me handsome but I think I'm an average-looking guy. I don't expect anything to come of this but I might as well shoot my shot.

Happy Spooky season, Reddit!

I'm back again for another shot at this! Here's hoping for success!

A lover of all things nerdy, I have a few main hobbies such as video games, reading, writing, D&D, movies, shows, anime, etc. I am DDF, vaccinated against COVID, and I'm not a drinker or smoker. (I dont mind if you are though)

While I currently have my own apartment, I unfortunately have a roommate that is a homebody like me, so it's quite rare that I can host. I am willing to help pay for a hotel if needed, though!

Appearance wise, I am Caucasian, 5'7 (or 170cm) with a bit of a belly to me that I am currently in the process of losing. I have wide shoulders and wide thighs.

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I am more or less an open book.

Thank you for reading!

Hi! I am a 29 year old Portuguese guy with something clear on my mind: virginity has to be lost before turning 30.

I am not a conventional stereotype. I've passed through some family drama since a young age that ended up being solved by me focusing on studying and having a good career, with no time or energy for myself.

Now, that has come to an end and I want to meet a girl willing to provide a positive first time. I am open to an experienced person or to another inexperienced person too. In both cases, my dedication will be complete.

I consider myself a very romantic person who enjoys cheesy and predictable movies that everyone knows how it will end right in the start. But I am also a huge fan of sci-fi (MCU in particular). Music is also very important to me, pop and rock are my favorite.

I am an active self learner and my hobbies include researching on things that catch my interest (useful or not), watching series, movies and going out with friends.

Physically, I'm 5'8, 154lbs, white, with brown hair and eyes.

Feel free to send me a message!

Hi everyone, I hope you all have a good day!

Physical description

My name is Robert, Caucasian, 30 years old, weighting 70 kg (154 lbs) and 1,82 meters (6'' feet). I have a slim/fit body, blue eyes and blonde hair. People say i have a cute smile but i guess that’s for you to judge :P.

Why i'm here:

I haven't lost ''it'' yet, and so looking for someone understanding and respectable . I had very big body insecurity since i was very thin (2 years ago i was about 55 kg (122 lbs) and since i have a calm introvert personality that didn’t really help too :P. I also focused on college and my job (working as a financial advisor for a township). About 1,5 years ago i began working on my body by visiting the gym and going to a dietist. Hence i'm now 70 kg and this gave me much more confidence :). As for hobbies: I love videogaming, watching series (specifically anime) and actualities, exploring new cities and countries and meeting people. I also love watching sports and doing them.

What am i looking for:

I'm looking for someone who either would love to learn me the ropes or explore with me aka i don't mind if you're experienced or a virgin too. I am open to anyone of any race or size but have a preference for girls with curly hair. When it comes to age i like you to be at least 20 years old with a maximum of 50 years.

I would like to chat on here first and then eventually move to another platform where we verify who we say we are. Then when there is a connection i would like to meet first to see if there is still the connection when meeting face to face. I can host but also more than happy to pay for a hotel room or come to your place. I'm disease free (got proof of this) and expect you to be too. If you have proof I don't mind not using condoms but only if you have proof of being disease free! Most important is, when the moment is there, that we both have fun and everything is in full consent!

If you've made it this far in my post, then I hope you would be interested in helping me out here. And if not, than I'd like to thank you for going through anyway! Either way, I hope everyone who reads this will have a great day!

Pic of me: https://imgur.com/gPrvA5d

(Pictures of me, to get looks out of the way first: https://imgur.com/a/me-T4Moq5i)

Hello everyone, my name is Chris. Here's a bit about me:

Physical: 20 year old black male, 5 foot 8.5 inches tall. I weigh a little bit under 150 lbs, so I have a very slim build, with a muscular undertone. Medium black hair, brown eyes, and a mini black goatee with a faded moustache. I do not wear glasses, but I own some pair of frames that I wear sometimes for fashionable purposes.

Personality/interests: In all honesty, it largely depends on who I'm around, and my comfort level with those people. I can be an introvert around the people who I have yet to get to know, or an extrovert around people I'm comfortable with, and have gotten to know. If we don't relate much to each other, I'll most likely be the silent type of person, and will not say too much. My family often tells me that's the observant part of me, which I can see for myself. If we do relate to each other, and have something interesting to talk about, then I will happily sit and chat for hours. I have some of the basic interests such as gaming (fantasy and RPG games), researching technological/historical topics, and classic crime shows/films. The Wire is my favorite show ever; I've rewatched it three times already. I also love board games such as Monopoly and Candyland. I'm financially stable as can be for an undergrad unit student (I work part-time while going to school), and I am majoring in Cybersecurity, with a minor in Criminal Justice. I am planning on pursuing a career in cybercrime after I graduate.

Why am I here?: I haven't really focused too much on losing my virginity due to having been homeschooled for much of my educational career, and therefore having a lack of exposure to the op. I was very shy and socially awkward for some time, up until I got my retail job this year. Working there and getting way more used to being social with people has definitely helped me out a lot.

What am I looking for?: Ideally, I'm looking for someone who is experienced. We can chat first, get to know each other, meetup once or twice (however long it takes to get comfortable), and then decide what to do from there. It's not a dealbreaker at all if you're inexperienced, and you want to learn with someone. Everybody is here for their own reasons. I have my ideal scenario. If you're responding to this, then you might have your ideal scenario. If you have any questions or concerns about anything regarding this, please feel free to reach out, and we'll chat about it. We'll hopefully meet somewhere in the middle, and both leave feeling satisfied! :)

In the end, I don't have any preferences at all; just as long as you're 18+, that's all the matters. It's also important to note that I cannot host, but I am mobile, and therefore can meet up with you beforehand.

I think that pretty much covers everything. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

5,8 reasonably fit, NZ Euro. My main hobbies are motorcycles, music, outdoor sports and fitness. I’d say i’m into music the most. I play a few instruments and i’m teaching myself to produce and mix. Favourite genres are house and indie. Outdoor sports are a close second, i’m always keen to get out and do something.

I would love for this to be something that happens naturally but I don’t really get out enough, and when I get out it’s to hike/run/climb so I don’t run into a heap of people my age who want to chat. The climbing gym is great for meeting people but I haven’t found anyone I’m interested in dating.

The reason I haven’t really done anything yet is because I dealt with pretty bad social and depression throughout school which stopped me from dating. I always regret not stepping out of my comfort zone because I’ve been approached by some very kind and genuine girls ( a few of them are good friends now). But now i'm doing a lot better and looking to connect with someone.

Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read this and feel free to ask any questions :)

A somewhat belated success post here, posting it as I know when I was searching previously, the success stories from others gave me encouragement, and also some good pointers and hints and tips! For those interested, my original post is here.

My story - I had left things to later in life, for a variety of reasons, and there were naturally a few things for me to work out relating to this to get myself in a comfortable position to even consider reaching out to see if there was someone out there for me. I had quite a lack of confidence, which coupled with being a bit shy and an introvert, does not make meeting people the easiest. However, I decided that if I did nothing, then nothing would happen, and if I did post, something might!

Why reddit? - Well, its useful to me in all sorts of ways for different hobbies, finding info and news etc, so why not see if it can work for this part of my life too. There is also the fact that with a separate account for this side of reddit there is not a link to my 'real' life, and if I did end up meeting someone and it was a complete disaster, I would never need to see that person again. So after a few false starts, writing and then deleting, I finally decided to put together a post.

My posts and their responses - Given that it had taken me so many years to get to this point, I was in no need to rush things, and had decided that I would be quite picky, and not just jump in bed with the first person who showed a glimmer of interest. Over time (and with a few re-posts) I did get quite a few responses - alas not all of them ones that fit the bill, some were on different continents to me, some were just to abrupt and to the point (e.g. meet up, have sex, move on) which was not what I was after, and then there were even some from other guys despite me being quite clear that was not what I was looking for, and I was also the unfortunate recipient of a couple of unsolicited dick pics - women of Reddit, I want to apologise on behalf of the decent blokes out there for the behaviour of some of the others, I dread to think what your inboxes look like when you make any posts!

I did have a few good conversations with people, some just wanting to chat and give advice (very welcome), some that just then disappeared after a message or two, and some where for one reason or another I did not feel was right for me. I decided to take a bit of a break from things, and logged out of here, and didn't look for about 3 weeks, after which I decided to give it one last go. When I logged back on I had two or three new messages, of which one stood out to me in the way they had worded their introduction and asked a couple of questions.

Setting a date - After a few messages back and forth, with lots of questions from both sides, a date was set and a hotel booked - having somewhere neutral ground seemed like a good plan and I felt would put me more at ease. We chatted over the coming days, setting the scene a bit, and some suggestions of how the evening might progress. Not going to lie, I was quite nervous about the whole thing, with my mind going round in circles with what now seem like silly thoughts - will she actually turn up? what if we don't find each other attractive? how will I know what to do? will she mind my awkwardness? - and was doing so pretty much up to the moment she arrived, though the nerves did not disappear right away.

The evening - Not going to give a full account of the evening, suffice to say much fun was had, nerves did diminish, lots of new experiences were had, and confidence gained. Did it all go smoothly? Nope. Did it matter? Not really no! She put me at ease throughout, laughed along with me, gave me tips and suggestions, let me try things out while letting me know what felt good for her, and what she was enjoying - all this interspersed with a few breaks to catch our breath and chat about all sorts of things - so much so that the next thing we knew it was into the early hours of the morning.

The follow up - We chatted following this, and did meet up another couple of times, where again a good time was had. There were less nerves from me, and a chance to talk candidly about stuff, what worked well, what didn't and what else would we both like to experience. Overall for me it was a really great experience, and I am grateful for the time, care and attention that I was given through out - it certainly helped me with my confidence massively.

Gents - For those of you thinking about posting, I would say go for it - but with a couple of caveats. Think through first what you want - what is it you are looking for - why this way - what are your fears - and what is the outcome you want. And be prepared to chat about this and be open and honest! Also, do some research! Protection comes in a variety of sizes - try some out and find the right size for you. Some sites let you order 'trial' packs with a variety of different sizes and brands, well worth a bit of an investment. Also some research to help you with some of the activities you hope to be doing. There are some good 'tutorials' and explainer videos available, some of which I found very useful and was complimented on my research. Take along a speaker, having a bit of background music can help ease any silences. Take plenty of water - you are going to get a proper workout and use some muscles you didn't know you had. But most of all be prepared to be vulnerable, to be honest and to communicate. Oh, and don't be an idiot - goes without saying, but treat the people who do get in touch with you with respect.

Ladies - Thank you to those of you out there who frequent some of these subs and reach out to people like me - it genuinely is appreciated, and I'm sure is just as, if not more, nerve wracking for you either making your own post, or responding to someone else's post like mine.

Conclusion - Am I glad I posted - Yes, I am. Do I have any regrets? No I honestly don't, I think being upfront and honest with myself throughout helped here. Am I a different person now? Not really, but I do have some increased confidence and have gained some invaluable knowledge. Was it fun? At times no, it was very nerve wracking, but then at other times incredibly fun!

Been awhile since I’ve posted but I figured why not try and post again and see what happens. The obvious is I am still a virgin at age 28, being shy has held me back in most things in life but I’d like to think I’ve gotten better at overcoming it over the years with therapy and exercise. I really just want to lose my virginity and be done with this! But I’d like to sort of get to know you first before hand. So I figured maybe I can find someone on here to get to know well and eventually meet with. And with that I put a tiny bit of effort in trying to tell you about myself below.

About me

So anyways here some things about me... I consider myself a hardworking person, I enjoy helping others when I can, its also my job too. I work in Information Technology for a University, so computers are my expertise. I worked for a nonprofit for a couple of years beforehand. I live pretty close to Boston and went there for college. I majored in Computer Science. I love dark humor more than anything, and corny jokes. I'm a bit of a quiet person but open up more when I get to know someone.

For my hobbies I enjoy fitness, painting, reading, music, sports, and video-games. Patriots is my favorite football team like everyone else, but the team is incredibly bad at the moment. And watching Netflix when I can, currently finishing up The Walking Dead. I go to the gym that’s right next to my work a few days a week. I might be skinny but I am definitely out of shape and not where I want to be right now! Also I sit down most of the day so it helps to be active. I also play games quite a bit on Xbox and on my Nintendo switch, Animal Crossing is my go to right now. I’m always down for a drink or to just hangout and talk.

What I’m looking for

What I’d like to do if you reached out to me is maybe we could message each other for a bit. Then exchange pictures, I understand that mutual attraction is important for some people. Also would prefer you live close by or at least in the state. I’m open to any age as well not a big deal. Just sort of looking ahead in the future we could meet somewhere public first to get to know each other better. Either to get a drink, or just something super easy like a walk in the park. And take it from there when you’re comfortable. I completely respect boundaries and expect the same. Also I’ll be happy to answer any questions you might have too.

What I look like

So now a short summary about what I look like... I am 165Ibs, 5'11 in height, white/ mixed, dark hair, hazel eyes, and have a short beard. Looks wise I am average. I get compliments on my eyes every now and then. No one can seem to guess my ethnicity either. Not the best way to paint a picture but maybe that will change later if we happen to see each other?

I hope I caught your attention. Send me a message or Reddit chat about yourself if you're seriously interested. I also have discord if you prefer that too. Thanks.

[27][M4F][Miami][Florida/USA]

Ever since I was a teen, I wanted my first time to be with someone I loved/cared deeply for. However, being so introverted and antisocial, that obviously had no chance of happening. Now, I just want to have my V card punched before I turn 30. I’m a white Hispanic, 5’ 4”, and 187lbs currently. I’ve lost 13lbs so far since starting to take exercise and diet more seriously. I have mid-length dark brown hair and brown-greenish eyes. And I wear glasses. I’d like to get to know the person before we dive anything. I’d like to know your interests, your likes and dislikes, your aspirations. I like gaming, YouTube videos, movies, shows, memes, and puzzles. I’d also would like to get back into reading and writing. I hope to become a successful fiction author someday. I’m also interested in dabbling into streaming and video editing. That’s not to say that I don’t like going out; I just don’t have anyone to go out with. Basically, I’m looking for someone to start out as friends, send messages back and forth, and see if we click. To any woman that stopped to by to read this: I thank you for taking the time to read through my post and I do hope to hear from you!

Hey so I guess I finally racked up the courage to try this and definitely stepping out of comfort zones

So just turned 25 last month, yay and I’m still a virgin not lack of trying mind you I think we all get that and I definitely would like to move form that part of my life before I end up in a serious relationship. It’s also what been holding me back from getting into one. But i guess a little about myself I’m Hispanic,I’m six foot six, I wouldn’t call myself ugly maybe like 7 or 6/10(I’ve always been super self conscious about myself and if I was“handsome” being virgin probably didn’t help with self confidence ) I weigh about 230lbs, I have black hair kinda resembling, Prince charming in Shrek I definitely should probably get a hair cut, have well kept beard and I wear glasses. I’m into gaming, dnd, music and movies, I guess I’m don’t really have type i wouldn’t mind if you take the lead in all of this or if you’re a virgin like me that would be nice as well that way we could both graduate from this lonely life. But if you read all this thanks for taking the time

Willing to travel if your close by like 3 hours max

Hey everyone! I hope you’re all doing well. I wanted to share a quick life update: I recently landed an internship in San Francisco! It’s been challenging but I’m excited to finally be working. I’ve also had the chance to reconnect with a few old friends here, which has been great.

If you're interested, I’ve included my ad below. Looking forward to hearing from you!

I'm 24, East Asian, 6"0, and 175 pounds. A bit about me: I am super into tech be it computers, keyboards, or any kind of cool gadgets. When I am not geeking out over tech, you'd most likely find me reading manga and manhwa. I'm always looking for new recommendations!

I'm a big foodie too, always down to check out new restaurants and search for the best dessert spots. To balance that out, I like to stay active by hitting the gym, going for hikes, or playing some pickleball.

First and foremost, I am looking for someone whom I vibe with. Maybe we can chat over lunch or a drink and see how things go from there. I am a decent listener and conversationalist, but I get pretty nervous when it comes to more intimate stuff. So, I'm looking for somebody patient and understanding who can help guide me through! I am able to host, though if you're more comfortable with getting a hotel we can arrange something!

If any of this interests you, don't hesitate to send me a DM or chat!

Looking forward to connecting with you!

Hi there, 26M in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. I’m tall and on the skinny side, and just like the title says I’m looking to gain some much needed experience and meet someone with some similar interests. A bit about me, I’m a guy that likes animals and nature, especially extinct animals! I like video games, manga/anime, and recently I’ve become interested in art, specifically digital art. If deep convos are your thing, then I’m your guy too!

I’d love to get to know you if we have any common interests. I’ve made some other posts about looking for a friends with benefits situation, which although that’d be cool, I’d like the emphasis to be on friends, going out and exploring the city, trying new restaurants, and of course with the possibility for something long term.

Looking forward to speaking with you! :)

Hi all,

I am a student from Wageningen University, 24 years old and soon graduating from my MSc. (1.98m ~90kg, in case you want to know) I was raised as a relatively conservative Christian, so while I enjoyed a good social life during my time as a student I struggled a bit with dating. I have tried a few dating apps but don't really enjoy the endless swiping. This subreddit seems like a long shot but I thought why don't I give it a try?

I would like to go on a walk or do something outside for a first date, and am quite familiar with the parks and nature around Wageningen. (Though I am willing to travel for someone who lives further away) I like chatting about all kinds of stuff such as hobbies, technology, philosphy, you name it. I like a variety of music styles from rock, metal, indie, classical music and a few more. I don't play any instrument myself but have always been a little fascinated by people who do.

Ideally I would like to meet someone who is 19-27 years old. A higher level of education is appreciated, but the most important thing to me is that you have an open mind an that we can keep a conversation going. I don't care if you are technically a virgin or not, just think it would be easier if there isn't a huge difference in sexual experience. If you message me, I would like to exange pictures befor meeting. (Also helps to avoid scams)

I'm an engineer that graduated college about a year ago. Obviously, not a total failure in life, but I've always had issues with shyness/self-esteem that gets in the way of my relationships (or prevents them from ever forming). I'm in relatively good shape and at least decent looking (others have said), so that's not an issue. I've been getting better at connecting one-on-one recently, so I feel I would finally be comfortable with someone who's understanding. I would prefer someone nearer to my age, say 18-30. But I wouldn't necessarily count out someone outside of that. The important thing is that you are able to make it comfortable and meaningful.

More about me, outside of work/engineering (which I do enjoy thankfully), I love watching/discussing sports, especially football & baseball. I also try to stay active, so I enjoy activities like running & hiking. I also really enjoy travelling & road trips whenever I have extended free time. I've always wanted to say I visited all 50 states, and I'm reasonably close to reaching that goal.

Otherwise, I'll be living in the Charlotte area for at least the next few months, so if we vibe well, I would definitely be open to continuing to see each other, if that's something you're interested in. Let me know if you want to connect!

Howdy howdy! So, when I was here a year ago I was at rock bottom, depressed, and hoping losing it would save me. A series of unfortunate events later it didn't happen, but I went to therapy and feel better about life and myself. So now I'm trying to lose it because I want to! I'm out there on the dating apps and all, but it doesn't hurt to keep all my options open. I am 5'5" and admittedly I'm a bigger guy. That's 275 pounds, but I'm working out. (Thanks Noom!) I'm really big into movies, comics, and honestly all your standard nerd stuff. Well, not Magic the Gathering, but give it 5 minutes. Anyway, I'm looking for someone to get to know me a bit and let's be friends. Then, when we're both free and comfortable let's make plans. Take it slow and have a good time. I'm in no rush and I'm hoping you aren't either. I'm not exactly looking for love here, but I am looking for a minor connection :). So seriously don't expect to be in the sheets a few hours after messaging. If you have any questions just ask! My DMs are open and so am I. Can't wait to hear from you! You are appreciated :). If you've read this whole thing say toast when you message.

6ft1 and about 185lbs with some muscle. One of my favorite activities is working out. I find it stimulating and productive. I have brown hair, broad shoulders and a big chest. I also enjoy going for walks. If there's a beach nearby I'll always be down for a trip to it. I'm hoping to travel more. I like basketball especially the New York Knicks. Semi sneakerhead. Into trying a variety of video games. Watching funny or interesting shows and movies. Recently been getting into more anime. I love animals. I also love cooking and trying new foods from around the world. I would like to start going to concerts because I enjoy a wide variety of music. Trying to overcome by homebody introvert lifestyle. Hoping to meet someone here who would be interested in getting to know each other. I'm a really good listener. Kind, caring and compassionate. Looking for the same. I've been told I'm emotionally intelligent and sweet. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know, please message me a little about yourself. Thanks for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon.

Hey everyone, Likeminded guy who is trying to lose their card as well. I don’t know the success rate but I do hope to make a success post on here!

A little bit about me I’m a guy who’s passionate about photography and art. Whether it's capturing the perfect shot or getting lost in a gallery or catching artwalks in the city, I love immersing myself in creative pursuits. I just started learning photography through YouTube and friends so I’m not the greatest lol but i try to always be ready to document the beauty I find in everyday life.

Recently, I’ve picked up pickleball and it’s become a surprisingly fun way to stay active and meet new people. If you’re into trying new things or already love the game, we might just have found our first activity together! I’m Asian about 5’7 145 lbs and am trying to get into better but I’m also a foodie so that doesn’t help lol.

I genuinely enjoy engaging conversations and getting to know people on a deeper level. I believe everyone has a story worth hearing, and I’m a great listener with a lot of patience. I’m still a virgin, and while it’s something I’ve been hesitant to share, I’m ready to find someone who can appreciate my openness and be understanding as I navigate this part of my life.

So If you’re interested in art, photography, pickleball, or just enjoy meaningful conversations, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s explore, create, and share some memorable experiences together.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

It is a pleasure to (hopefully) meet you. Here is a bit about me.

Epic Backstory: I am a laid-back homebody who doesn't go out very much. I spent most of my earlier life chilling at home, focusing on building a stable career. Then, when I felt ready to go out and make some connections, the lockdown happened and put a halt to plans. When that ended, I spent a year helping my mother out of some debt. While I believe I made the right choices in helping family and working to build a future, I unfortunately was unable to really get out and explore and meet people. Added with how expensive things are, it has not gotten any easier, but I am proud to say I am at a very stable point in life and would like to explore.

Description: I am 6ft 3in, of mixed ethnicity, and have a bushy head of curly hair. I am currently on a weight loss journey (50 lbs and counting) but still a bit husky. I take a lot of pride in my hair despite how much it infuriates me sometimes. Even ran an afro for a good couple of years, though I fro no more. I am a dork, but at least I'm a funny dork.

Interests: I love to read (would constantly get in trouble for it in school, go figure), and while I haven't done so in a while, it is a past time I intend to rekindle. I still prefer the high school fantasy style books like Percy Jackson. I also really enjoy cooking, with my specialty being pastas. That said, I am actively expanding my repertoire. Currently, steaks and some fish are my area of focus.

Hello there, I am a 36 year old bi guy from central Pennsylvania! 

I am white 5'9 and about 155 lbs, with an average build. Looking to get myself into a bit healthier state, but I would not say I am unhealthy. I don't drink or smoke and am free of diseases. Smoking is a bit of a turn off to be honest.

Had some experience with guys but next to none with girls. I tend to be introverted and have been for as long as I can remember, however I am getting out more now. It's difficult for me to start conversations with new people but once the ice has been broken I can be very talkative. I don't think covid has done me any favors when it comes to meeting new people. It seems harder than ever for me to connect with people, could be a me thing. Been on dates but never really had a relationship, I have always found it difficult to form an emotional bond with someone. Could also just be that I never found the right person. I feel like confusion around being bi as well as being introverted got me to this point. If I could have sorted out one of them years ago I may not be in this situation. It has also been suggested that I might be on the autism spectrum.

PC gamer but I also have a PS5, but you are more likely to find me on my PC. God of War is such a good game! Would rather go for a cup of coffee than a drink at a bar. I really only taste alcohol lol, I don't really drink it. 

I am not much of a TV watcher, I don't even have cable lol. It would seem that only having internet is not that uncommon in today's world. When I am watching movies or a TV show odds are it will be something sci-fi, action, or fantasy. Think Lord of the Rings, Star Trek, Star Wars, John Wick! I used to like some reality shows like Survivor or Hell's Kitchen but I got bored of that sort of thing. I am not into sports, playing or watching. I really only watch the super bowl. However seeing a game in person can be fun, just don't go very much.

Outside the house I really am into roller coasters and amusement parks. I do enjoy going for walks around the neighborhood!

Age or experience is not that important, just be legal and safe. Who knows maybe things work out and a relationship is born. I would prefer to chat a bit and get to know each other at least a little before anything happens, I just want both of us to be comfortable with everything. I would like to find someone relatively close, I can travel but I don't want to go to the other end of the country lol. Can meet by me, or by you, or somewhere in the middle. I also hope to find someone who can take the lead!

I also will not send money to anyone over chat for any reason! So many scams going around! The last few people I chatted with were definitely fake. I do have snap so maybe chatting there could work.

Thanks for reading, I hope to hear from you soon.

Hey there. A bit about me:

Physical: 32 year old white male. 5 foot 9 inches tall. I weigh a bit shy of 150lbs, so I've got a pretty slim build. Darker brown hair, brown eyes, and a lighter brown beard with a little red mixed in (a little weird I know, not sure where I got it from). Former glasses wearer, but the proud owner of laser eyes for a few years (lasik)

Personality/interests: Depending on who I'm around and my comfort level with those people, I'm either an introverted introvert or an extroverted introvert (as much as the latter pains me to admit after years of trying to deny it). If we don't have much common ground, I'll probably be quiet and let my conversation partner do more of the talking. If we do have interesting thing to talk about though, I'm happy to sit and chat for hours. I have some of the traditional male homebody interests like reading (fantasy/romantasy/sci-fi) and gaming (big JRPG kick lately), but also love board games and tabletops. In the warmer months of the year, I play a fair amount of disc golf (average-ish) and some occasional volleyball. Also just recently started getting into yoga. I hang out with friends once or twice a week doing some of the aforementioned activities. I'm financially stable and work from home 99% of the time.

Why am I here?: I've never really made dating a priority in my life and my work/hobbies don't bring me around single women often. I was also painfully shy/socially awkward for a long time (until after graduating college). I've grown a lot since then and have gone on some dates in recent years but haven't found someone that I've mutually clicked with. I'd eventually like to find my person, but that's not why I'm here right now.

What am I looking for?: Ideally, I'm looking for someone local who also has low/limited experience. We can chat and meetup once, twice, or however long it takes to be comfortable and decide to move on to the next step. In a perfect world, we'd continue to see each other for a little bit to explore and grow together for a time. That's just my ideal, but if it's not exactly what you have in mind, please feel free to get in touch and we can chat about it. It's not a dealbreaker if you're experienced and want to help someone learn. Everyone is here for their own reasons. I have my ideal scenario. If you're responding to this, then you have your own ideal scenario. We'll probably meet somewhere in the middle and hopefully both leave feeling satisfied ;). Just a note - I'm not looking for any couples right now (single women only), but maybe in the future.

I live alone and thus have the ability to host, but I'm also happy to get a hotel if that's more comfortable.

I think that covers all the basics. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Bonus picture because this went so long

https://imgur.com/a/AzxSrjX

Hi there! I'm a 27-year-old guy from Arnhem, and I’m looking to meet someone new. I’m tall (2.05m), dark blonde with blue eyes, and I have a bit of a dad bod, though I’m working on my fitness and building muscle. I have a little experience with kissing, I did that when I was 18 after that it hasn't happened. Dating Through apps isn't really working for me since I just don't seem to get matches at all and in real life im just to oblivious to hints

In my free time, I’m really into music production—specifically techno—and my goal is to release tracks regularly and eventually play live gigs. I also enjoy going to the gym and relaxing with some gaming now and then.

What I’m Hoping For: I'm interested in meeting a woman (preferably between 18-30, but I’m open to older) to get to know and spend some time with. I appreciate meaningful connections, so someone with similar interests or just a good vibe would be great! If you're tall, that's a plus, but I’m not too focused on specific body types—what matters most is chemistry.

If you’re interested, I’d love to hear more about you—your age, where you're from, and what you enjoy doing. Feel free to send a message, and let's see if we click!

Hi there :)

I'm a 34 m in South Florida (Miami / Ft. Lauderdale area) - 6'0 and about 180 w/ an average build.

As you might expect, I'm a rather shy & quiet guy until I get to know people, then I open up and tend to be light and funny. I've always focused on school and then work, and never prioritized personal and romantic relationships, so I'm looking to change that.

I'm happy to meet up for coffee or dessert and we can see from there :) I am open to connecting with someone experienced or inexperienced.

Some of my hobbies are trying new restaurants (big foodie), traveling, comedy clubs and hanging out at the dog park with my pup.

Shoot me a message if you want to chat and help out!

I'm a college student and I would love to lose my virginity. Just haven't gotten much luck unfortunately lol. I'd like to chat for a bit first and then see where things go. I like to make sure safety is first.

About me, I am Hispanic and I'm super proud of where I come from! Right now I'm a senior and I'm studying business. I'm currently trying to get more involved and volunteer more to prepare for after graduation. I love to workout and try to go as much as possible. I'm mainly just working or studying so I can get stressed. Working out is my best way to release that stress. I'm also really into sports. I love basketball, baseball, soccer, and football! I used to play but not anymore, now I just watch my favorite teams. I'm also really into martial arts. I used to do karate and made it to black belt! Now I've been doing jiu jitsu and I'm currently a white belt. I also really love music! My favorite genres are Latin trap, reggaeton, banda, mariachi, and corridos. Other than that, I also like to hang out with friends and I'm currently learning the guitar.

6'2 175lbs Fairly fit

I've never done anything like this before, so I want a woman who would be patient and helpful with me. I ultimately want a good experience for the both of us. I don't have a lot of kinks for obvious reasons lol, but I do love linegrie. I don't have a specific preference as far as looks and age. If you liked my post, feel free to hit me up!

Hi there, I'm a 25 year old guy in Cincinnati, Ohio area. Physically I am white, 6'1" tall, I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and I weigh about 200 lbs. I have a fairly average build (fairly fit and not overweight). Overall I live a pretty healthy lifestyle, I don't to any drugs and I rarely drink. Personality wise I'm a fairly reserved person and I'm often quiet when I'm around people that I don't know. I just moved here and started a new job in engineering a few months ago so that takes up most of my days. Outside of work I like to listen to music, play guitar, watch baseball or play golf. I love music, mainly classic rock (The Beatles, Tom Petty, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, ect), I also like to watch shows (Parks and Rec, Scrubs, That 70's show, ect. I'm a bit of a nerd and I love Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, and all sorts of stuff like that. The other thing I like to do in my free time is read. I love history and I really enjoy reading about it. Moving on to my experience with relationships and such or rather my lack of experience. I have absolutely zero experience when it comes to dating, relationships, and anything sexual. When I was in highschool I never really put myself out there. Then I got into college and I'm not a college party or frat kind of person so that combined with my courseload prevented me from having any real opportunities at dating. Ideally I am looking for someone in a similar situation as myself, but I'm open to people with experience as well. I'm not looking to jump right into anything or for a one time hookup or anything like that. Ideally I am looking for something regular or potentially a relationship. I am able to host and would also be willing to get a hotel room if that makes more sense. Thanks for reading this giant essay, if you have any questions for me or want to get to know each other please feel free to send me a message or pm. Thanks again and I hope to hear from you soon!