Hey I’m a 5’6 about 175 pound average looking Hispanic in Queens. I’m looking for someone who would help me out and take their time with me as I’m shy. Never had luck in real life and I’m deciding to test my luck out through Reddit. Preferably I’d like this to be a more than once type of thing as I would like to get better at doing it after the first time and make a connection if possible. I’d also like to explore what I like and don’t like. I don’t mind traveling as long as it is not that far and it is convenient to get there but if it’s worth it I may travel far. Open to meeting up outside first as well.

I’m into video games, sports, specifically baseball and soccer as well as cooking even though I don’t cook. I like to do some reading as well or draw in my free time. I’m also very shy so I may not be as comfortable at first and maybe look submissive to you but I think once I get comfortable I can be better. Again this would hopefully be a more than once thing so I will be more comfortable after a bit.

As for you: age/race/weight/height doesn’t matter as long as you could host if I can’t on a certain date. Older ladies are a plus but open to any age even if you are a virgin too.

Hi! I'm a musician currently living in Seattle (Ballard area). I'm looking to meet some cool people and explore some new experiences.

A little about me: I'm 6'1" with a dad bod and long curly hair. I've been living in Seattle for a little over 3 years, studying, writing, and performing music (and working retail on the side, because music is brutal). I'm mostly a pianist, but I play a few other instruments too (if you're also a musician, I'm totally down to jam), and I write music, mostly for film and video games

For fun, I like playing video games and board games with friends, reading, music (obviously), being near the ocean, baking (I will 100% bake you delicious experimental desserts). I also love concerts (especially classical), so I'm always down for a concert date!

As far as compatibility, I tend to be a bit shyer, with a more submissive personality, so someone who likes to take charge a little more would be perfect. I'm especially looking for someone to cuddle with and explore physical touch, whatever form that takes; touch-starvation is so real lol

Also: I have my own apartment with no roommates, and I don't drive, so ideally I would host if it got to the point.

Hope to hear from you! :)

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I’ve gone back and forth on if I care enough about losing my virginity to try this again but I figure why not. For the next couple nights I’m staying in Houston around Aldine and am looking for someone who is preferably experienced or is also feeling like they just want to get over that hurdle of the first time.

About me I’m socially outgoing and have a tendency to make people laugh and warm up to me quickly. I work in IT so I follow a few of the nerd stereotypes like not working out like I used to. I’m very heavy set, some people hate that but I like myself. I’m also tall (6’3”) which is the first thing people notice or so I tell myself. I have long hair I’ve grown out just to try it and some facial hair.

I really don’t have any preferences in person, I’m into people who are into me. I imagine having this experience with someone who is experienced and patient with me. Age doesn’t matter (but minors do not contact me) I’m open to someone in a similar feeling about virginity as me and wanting their first time but I sadly don’t have the time to get to know someone as much as we might like.

If you read this far I appreciate it and hoping to find someone to work this out with before I leave Dec 5th. I also am searching in my hometown of Des Moines Iowa if anyone there reads this too.

Thanks.

I am a guy with Cerebral Palsy who has found it very hard to date online and would like to find someone I can cuddle with, be nude with, talk about everything with and would generally have a lot to give anyone in a relationship with a whole lot of love to give. Willing to host as quite nervous doing and asking for this but i have a variety of hobbies and love chatting face to face with a coffee. Love music and Star Trek especially.

Also have interests in martial arts and Japanese Culture although you can often find me in a coffee shop, in a pub or at home and with family, with that said I have a lot of love to give the right person. I am not a big fan of ghosting but of you decide you just want to be friends then that’s even better. The more friends the merrier in my book.  

I guess I am having to start again trying to find the right circle of friends and hopefully love if I am really lucky, but I’m not sure where to go or what to do to find the right people, because I have been treated badly in the past, but now I respect myself more and I want to be with the right people that respect you.

I’m not very good at introducing myself although I love meeting new people on a one-to-one basis as find it harder in a group. I also struggle if there is more than one conversation going at the same time.

Its nio I am a guy with Cerebral Palsy who has found it very hard to date online and would like to find someone I can cuddle with, be nude with, talk about everything with and would generally have a lot to give anyone in a relationship with a whole lot of love to give. Willing to host as quite nervous doing and asking for this but i have a variety of hobbies and love chatting face to face with a coffee. Love music and Star Trek especially.

Also have interests in martial arts and Japanese Culture although you can often find me in a coffee shop, in a pub or at home and with family, with that said I have a lot of love to give the right person. I am not a big fan of ghosting but of you decide you just want to be friends then that’s even better. The more friends the merrier in my book.  

I’m not very good at introducing myself although I love meeting new people on a one-to-one basis as find it harder in a group. I also struggle if there is more than one conversation going at the same time.

It’s nice to meet you all and I hope we talk soon.

im 510 average wait will send pics in dms. basically when i was younger i was very social isolated and never really made moves and did stuff. but in recent years i have bin working on my self and am more out going. but my viginty has bin holding me back with relationships and i wanna move past this. i of course want this to be a fun and positive experience for all. some things about me i like art and photography i enjoy media as well. i allso like making things i guess.i think we can both have some fun and stuff hopefully. btw sorry for the bad spelling but i am dyslexic.

as for things i have done i have done hand stuff making out and biting. im a very open minded person who is attracted to all kinds of women. i have a lot of energy . i have bin told im attractive and funny. if you want a one time thing or to be friends after im down. we can allso talk on discord first to feel vibes before irl or what ever. im ready to grow and change this part of my self and have more options in life. if anyone is down dm and we can talk and see.

Recently turned 30 and decided I would like to finally lose my virginity. 6 ft 3 230 lbs, white. I have kissed and done some things before but never was able to go all the way. I am very shy and I take some time to warm up to somebody. Looking for somebody who can be patient with me and help teach me. Always have had a fantasy of having somebody to teach and guide me. Looking for somebody somewhat close to me. Currently working the typical 9-5 so I would prefer during the weekend. My job has been very stressful lately so trying to find something to take my mind off of work and to relax. I am into playing video games, anime, running and playing and watching sports. Also love to run or do cardio everyday. Have been getting into cooking as well so would love somebody to try some cooking out with. I am in finance so also looking to unwind after a busy quarter end close. If you’re interested, please send me a dm and we can talk from there! Not looking to buy or pay for any services, please keep any selling or spam out of my messages.

I turned 30 this year and would really like to lose it and start gaining some experience. There’s no real reason for why I’m inexperienced, I was never religious or anything like that, I mostly just never really put myself out there. Growing up I was shy and sort of embarrassed to ask girls out or try to date anyone. This progressed through college and my professional career and it just never ended up happening. I guess I sort of thought eventually I’d meet someone or be in situations where I was more outgoing in person and things would happen naturally.

I’ve never seriously dated anyone or been in a long term relationship. I’ve used dating apps and had some flings and meetups from reddit before but even when things got more involved we never ended up going all the way. So I’m not totally clueless. I’d like to finally take that step though. Unfortunately I cannot host. I’m happy to travel to you or work out other arrangements.

I’m a white male, about 6’0” feet tall, medium length red hair and blue eyes, average body type, nothing too impressive, about 185lbs at the moment. I tend to think I’m pretty outgoing and approachable, I guess just with romance I’m more introverted and shy. I’m into music, movies, concerts, cinema, art, literature, travel, and all sorts of stuff. I like attending music festivals, exploring new neighborhoods/places, hiking, running.

I’m pretty open to who I meet. I’m hopefully looking for someone sweet and caring who understands my situation and wants to help me gain some experience. Maybe you enjoy teaching or this is something you’ve always wanted to do. Or you could be another inexperienced person who’s looking to gain experience. Age and looks matter to me a bit less than your personality and if it sounds like we’d get along well together. Maybe we could take things slowly, one step at a time. Totally open to age, someone older would be nice.

Hello there, I'm 24M living in Edmonton. I'm searching for my cuddle partner to vibe with, to have movie nights and many more like popping my cherry. Would be great to connect with someone nearby in the city. I cannot host but i can travel around.

I'm 6'0", brown eyes, normal build, black hair , clean. My interest are photography, cooking, travelling and watching series or movies. Big fan of anime, kdrama, manga/webtoons. My music interests are western pop, kpop, instrumental music like soundtracks. I also love exploring new languages, culture, geography or history. Sometimes I immerse myself on Wikipedia, surfing through random stuff when I'm unable to sleep at nights.

I'm looking for someone who shares the same vibe as me from the age 18-35. I want someone to teach me or show the ropes of pleasure. I never really dated anyone before. So this everything is new to me. Fingers crossed, i hope the success rate is high

Would be ready to share photos once we get comfortable with each other. I would love to have voice calls in discord, watching movies together during nights or just simply vibing. I'm a great listener, so i would love to listen how your day went by and exchange our daily lives. I'm a big foodie, so i like exploring different cuisines at the same time I'm learning new recipes and baking. I just love ice cream so much. I would eat it at any time, any weather condition.

If we share the same vibes, feel free to send me a message. I'm waiting for you, see you soon :)

Hello I’m a 25 year old man that lives in a town called Pontiac in the state of Illinois. Im a Hispanic with long hair 5’9 in height and weigh about 240lbs so I’m kind of chunky. My whole life I have never known what it was like to be in a relationship of any kind because I’ve had a hard time making friends. I’ve always been very shy but as I got older it’s gotten even worse that now I have terrible social anxiety. It’s even worse when I’m around women and it doesn’t help that I feel very ugly and hate being out in public because I think I look hideous. What brought me to this conclusion that I’m ugly was this instance in high school where I unfortunately told a friend I like this girl and thought it would stay between us but instead he tells her that I like her I understand he was just trying to help me out but I didn’t want him to say anything because I was afraid of what she might say. Well I was right to feel that way because when he told her the reaction was “ew him he likes me” it completely destroyed me. Fast forward to after I graduated high school I started to try my luck on dating apps and sites to no avail. Never got matches and if I ever did they would unmatch almost immediately when I tried to message them. I then tried a few other sites where you post ads about your situation like I’m doing now on Reddit and I’ve gotten a few messages but whenever I send a picture of what I look like they would ghost me or they would be honest and say I’m not their type which I understand. There a lot of things that come into play that really does not help my cause besides my appearance. Im unintelligible, mentally unstable, ugly, can’t drive, and I still live with my parents. The only thing I have going for me is that I have a job that i feel absolutely miserable at. I’ve been working on myself to get better by going to a psychiatrist and therapist and that seems to be helping. But it still does not help that I feel unwanted. My biggest wish is to be desired and loved by a woman even if it’s just once so that is why I’m posting on here to try my luck and finally have that feeling. I’m sorry for how long this is and I appreciate who ever takes the time to read it. If any one’s interested in helping or talking you can message me anytime thank you again for your time.

About me: 5'8, 125 lbs white, single, blue eyes, glasses.

I would like a woman who is 18 to 50, white or Asian, 5'5 to 5'10. I prefer women local to Massachusetts, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, and Maine, but I'm okay with long-distance, too, even just to chat. If you think I'm cute/hot or anything in-between, compliments are great.

My story:

I was shy growing up and mostly focused on schoolwork, so I did not know what I was doing with dating. I've also worked on my self-esteem, and I'm much more outgoing than before. I've never had a steady girlfriend before, and that was a source of insecurity for a while.

The furthest I've gone in a relationship is a couple of months.

I like to watch sports, movies, music, going to concerts, playing golf, watching TV, history, philosophy, trivia, and trying to get into cooking more. I am also looking to hit the gym and start a new job soon.

If you'd like to go on a date with any of these ideas in mind, that would be cool! I feel like we should go on a date first to see how we connect.

pics of me: https://imgur.com/a/Zjda67Y

Hi everyone, I hope you all have a good day!

Physical description

My name is Robert, Caucasian, 30 years old, weighting 70 kg (154 lbs) and 1,82 meters (6'' feet). I have a slim/fit body, blue eyes and blonde hair. People say i have a cute smile but i guess that’s for you to judge :P.

Why i'm here:

I haven't lost ''it'' yet, and so looking for someone understanding and respectable . I had very big body insecurity since i was very thin (2 years ago i was about 55 kg (122 lbs) and since i have a calm introvert personality that didn’t really help too :P. I also focused on college and my job (working as a financial advisor for a township). About 1,5 years ago i began working on my body by visiting the gym and going to a dietist. Hence i'm now 70 kg and this gave me much more confidence :). As for hobbies: I love videogaming, watching series (specifically anime) and actualities, exploring new cities and countries and meeting people. I also love watching sports and doing them.

What am i looking for:

I'm looking for someone who either would love to learn me the ropes or explore with me aka i don't mind if you're experienced or a virgin too. I am open to anyone of any race or size but have a preference for girls with curly hair. When it comes to age i like you to be at least 20 years old with a maximum of 50 years.

I would like to chat on here first and then eventually move to another platform where we verify who we say we are. Then when there is a connection i would like to meet first to see if there is still the connection when meeting face to face. I can host but also more than happy to pay for a hotel room or come to your place. I'm disease free (got proof of this) and expect you to be too. If you have proof I don't mind not using condoms but only if you have proof of being disease free! Most important is, when the moment is there, that we both have fun and everything is in full consent!

If you've made it this far in my post, then I hope you would be interested in helping me out here. And if not, than I'd like to thank you for going through anyway! Either way, I hope everyone who reads this will have a great day!

Pic of me: https://imgur.com/gPrvA5d

Why I'm here

Due to what I think is the typical combination of anxiety and introversion, I missed out on opportunities when I was younger to form relationships and have sex. As a teen I was shy and raised a bit religiously, and I had some hard years in my 20s in and out of school due to family and depression reasons, then the pandemic happened, but these last few years I've been much more conscious on working on my situation and improving myself and my outlook. My friends and family keep me from feeling lonely or like some outcast. I have actually kissed in the past and gone on a few dates but nothing really past that. The dating apps are hellish and frustrating.

About me

I am an engineer, in a STEM major, finishing a Masters degree. I'm 5'6", 140lb, hwp, average bodied, I'm respectful, not very serious, and empathetic. I do yoga or try to go the gym on occasion but I've been slacking now during the heavier part of the semester. I'm lightly bearded, kinda curly dark hair, and wear glasses usually. I'm into most nerdy things: gaming, reading, writing, anime, and I love film, live music, and picnics, and food. I listen to a lot of electronic and rock music these days. I'm 420 and drinking friendly, but only ever partake rarely, in social settings.

Hopes for you

Really I'm just looking for someone friendly, patient, and kind and able to have fun in this situation, no restrictions on your level of experience. Ideally we could have an expectation-free date or meet in public, maybe meet up a few times to give me some actual experience since I can feel I've built up nervousness and performance anxiety around this all.

Logistics

I am based near Downtown Los Angeles/Echo Park, but I'd be happy to drive around preferably in LA, or to OC, Ventura, SD, or even further for the right opportunity. When the time comes I could figure out the hosting too.

So yeah, feel free to ask me anything if you're curious. Please message me with an intro about you or something you liked in my post, something original since the AI chat bots have gotten insane.

Greetings everyone. Saw this community and I thought that I can take a crack at it.

Appearance: 6'5, Black, Chubby, 290ish lbs, short somewhat curly hair

About me: I love gaming and chatting with people online. I even try to do some content creation as well. But at the same time, I love to play basketball whenever I can (I play power forward or center because of how much of a big guy I am. Center is my favorite position though) I do have dreams of being an actor, so if I decide to go off on a tangent, I apologize. I’m that passionate about it. Been playing ZZZ as of late, but most of the time, I’d be playing multiplayer online games because I like the competitive nature. Guess that happens when you played sport for a long time. Also, I’m a binge watcher. If you show me a show and it catches my interest, expect me to put an all nighter just watching it.

But the real kicker is that I’m a full on virgin. Hell, I haven’t even had my first kiss yet. Full on KHHV. I’m not exactly picky and I’ve asked people out before, but no luck. I do want to gain experience so I do want to lose my v card. Dm if interested please :)

Hey everyone, Likeminded guy who is trying to lose their card as well. I don’t know the success rate but I do hope to make a success post on here!

A little bit about me I’m a guy who’s passionate about photography and art. Whether it's capturing the perfect shot or getting lost in a gallery or catching artwalks in the city, I love immersing myself in creative pursuits. I just started learning photography through YouTube and friends so I’m not the greatest but i try to always be ready to document the beauty I find in everyday life.

I’m Asian about 5’7 145 lbs and am trying to get into better shape but I’m also a foodie and loving adding winter weight to help insulate from the cold lol.

I genuinely enjoy engaging conversations and getting to know people on a deeper level. I believe everyone has a story worth hearing, and I’m a great listener with a lot of patience. I’m still a virgin, and while it’s something I’ve been hesitant to share, I’m ready to find someone who can appreciate my openness and be understanding as I navigate this part of my life.

So If you’re interested in art, photography, pickleball, or just enjoy meaningful conversations, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s explore, create, and share some memorable experiences together.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hello Reddit. I’m 18 years old and I’m new to the Peoria area. I’ve been here for about 3 months and have enjoyed being here so far. I’ve been new to meeting people here and wanted to step out of my comfort zone. I’d say I’m still a Virgin because I haven’t really put myself out there and with the new location change I’m hoping to fix this. I would also say I’ve been a little shy and stuck to one group of people all my life. I’m hoping to find experienced people that are wholesome and understanding. I’m 5’8 130 lb white and on the slimmer side. I’m looking for people between the ages of 18-35 and open to all body types. I’m looking for a woman and would be open to trans women.

In my free time I try to go to the gym and when I’m more of a homebody I play video games. I like to play games that are multiplayer. My favorite game is Zelda breath of the wild. When I’m not having downtime I would most likely be doing college work or at work so I would prefer to meet up outside of these times or on a weekend. I’m an open-minded person who enjoys trying new things but can be cautious at first. My dms are open and I am often active on Reddit and most likely will respond fast. I could be a little shy in person so I apologize in advance and am hoping I can gain some confidence and experience from doing this. I’d love to respond and thank you for reading.

Hello :)

As someone who grew up quite shy and introverted (although I have been improving in this regard) I have reached the age of 25 without having any real sexual experiences.

I consider myself to be quite a normal guy and have never had trouble making friends or getting people to like me before, and have been romantically involved with girls, but due to nerves that come with my lack of experience, they have never led to anything more serious

I'm 5'7, British-Asian. Go to the gym and reasonably athletic. Interests include playing football and reading. Good job with a decent salary.

Recently, I've been working on trying to be more social and dating a bit. I'm definitely less introverted and shy than I used to be, but I feel like losing my virginity is a big obstacle in my way of truly feeling confident.

I can host, travel or we can get a hotel. Would obviously like to get to know you first, exchanging messages and pictures. Would ideally like something long term, but open to short term fun if that is what you would prefer.

Hello there, I'm a 29 year old guy living in southern California and I am looking for someone to help me lose my virginity.

About me: I consider myself to be a shy introverted person, which is probably one of the reasons why I have some trouble meeting and connecting with people. Although I can be quite sociable once I get to know someone and feel comfortable around them.

For my appearance I'm 5 '8' at 120 lbs. I would also describe my appearance as cute or adorable. I have shoulder length brown hair with brown eyes as well.

I'm really into video games, audiobooks, cooking/baking, dungeons and dragons, anime, manga, and playing instruments, so basically I'm pretty nerdy. Lately I've been playing the new leagues event on OSRS, but I also play a lot of other games as well

I would like to find someone who is willing to help me out with my first sexual experience. I'm also willing to exchange photos as well after talking for a bit. If you'd like to help me out, or want to get know me then feel free to send me a message

Hey everyone, I'm a 6'2'' 24 M living in the north DFW suburbs that's looking to experience things with someone out there. I have black hair, black eyes, and a Middle Eastern look with a decently fit build. I'm about to finish school and start my professional career, but amidst the hectic academic life I had, I haven't found the time to date long-term or meet anyone special. I also come from a religious household so I didn't have the freedom to do anything either unfortunately. I'm not necessarily looking for something that has to be long-term, but I would ideally like to get to know someone first. I'll be around DFW for the next couple months.

In my free time, I enjoy playing basketball, working out, and watching anime. I'm a mavs and lakers fan and I consider Code Geass to be my favorite anime, although we can debate that later if you disagree. I’m a pretty friendly guy who values honesty and openness. Communication and respect are big for me, so if you decide to reach out, feel free to share a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for too.

I feel like my virginity kind of holds me back and makes me nervous to go out and talk to and date women. I would like to get some more confidence and experience so I can feel confident that I know how to take care of my future partner(s).

I'll respond to your dm with a pic of myself too so you know what I look like. If you have any questions, jokes, thoughts to share, just hit me up :).

Hi, my names Rick, 33 years old, 5'10, normal body.

I have never been in a relationship, but definitely want to. Always seemed to be that nice guy the girl just messes with or gets stuff from with a problem if getting past that friendzoned.

Other than that I would probably describe myself as caring, funny and shy at the begging. Huge goofball quite honestly, rather spend my life joking and smiling then anything else. Want kids someday

I love going antique shopping (stores, outdoor events) as well as spending time outside either exploring small towns, walking/hiking - around forests/water. I also enjoy football and baseball. Relaxing car rides, traveling, etc (I'm quite chill). Social drinker, haven't smoked since I was like 20, neither of which is essential, just throwing it out there.

I love the idea of this to be more of a beautiful moment like it was when my Grandparents where dating vs what it has become.

Love older women, but can be persuaded. Someone who is also funny and caring but more so nurturing. Would love to initiate it conversation to see if we vibe as well as seeing I am comfortable with you. This is obviously a new experience and it'd be great to feel some sort if comfort.

Hi! I am a 29 year old Portuguese guy with something clear on my mind: virginity has to be lost before turning 30.

I am not a conventional stereotype. I've passed through some family drama since a young age that ended up being solved by me focusing on studying and having a good career, with no time or energy for myself.

Now, that has come to an end and I want to meet a girl willing to provide a positive first time. I am open to an experienced person or to another inexperienced person too. In both cases, my dedication will be complete.

I consider myself a very romantic person who enjoys cheesy and predictable movies that everyone knows how it will end right in the start. But I am also a huge fan of sci-fi (MCU in particular). Music is also very important to me, pop and rock are my favorite.

I am an active self learner and my hobbies include researching on things that catch my interest (useful or not), watching series, movies and going out with friends.

Physically, I'm 5'8, 154lbs, white, with brown hair and eyes.

Feel free to send me a message!

I am 24 yo, living in Northern Dallas. I am 5'10'', lean, 145lb, brown. Looking for someone to take away my virginity. I would prefer if you hosted, or meet somewhere. I can share my pic once you dm me, and hope you do the same. Don't contact asking for money upfront.

I am generally chill and open to things. My hobbies include gaming, cooking, DnD, watching TV series, listening to music.

I don't have particular preference, but having tattoos and maybe few piercings will be really a plus. Also if you are into some interesting stuff.

Haven't been able to loose my virginity so far for lots of reasons. Haven't even got my first kiss ever actually, nor a hug. Lol. I got like no experience with anything related to relationship and intimacy at all. Mainly because I got social anxiety since a really long time, so never developed a confidence to ask someone out.

I have been fine with that so far, but the insecurity has been creeping in, seeing others around me have those experience and me being left behind. But I am hoping that getting this experience would help me gain a new confidence ahead in life. So, really hoping someone nice would DM and I am able to level up on that front in life.

Hey there,

I’m a 26-year-old guy from Baltimore, MD, and I’m looking for a woman who’d like to share this meaningful first experience with me. I’ve waited for the right moment because I wanted it to feel special, and now I’m ready to take that step with someone who values connection, trust, and mutual respect.

A bit about me:

Appearance: I’m 5’6” with a somewhat stocky build. I weigh 160 pounds, have brown eyes, a brown beard, and a shaved head. I stay active and take care of myself, balancing fitness with other hobbies.

Personality: I’d describe myself as a good guy who’s thoughtful and respectful. That said, I’m pretty introverted—it might take me a little time to warm up and feel fully comfortable, but once I do, I’m easygoing and loyal. I value honesty, patience, and a genuine connection.

Hobbies and Interests: When I’m not working, I enjoy gaming, reading, working out, and solving puzzles. I also love relaxing with a good movie or exploring new stories and ideas through books or games.

Why I’ve waited: Originally, I was waiting until marriage due to my religious beliefs. Over time, though, I’ve realized this decision has become more of an obstacle to my personal growth. I want to move past the awkwardness of inexperience and take this step as part of continuing to grow as a person.

What I’m looking for: I’d like to meet someone who’s understanding, kind, and down-to-earth. Whether you’re also a virgin or someone who appreciates how significant this is for me, I’m open to connecting. I’m not rushing into anything—I want to take the time to build trust and make sure we’re both on the same page. Whether this leads to a one-time meaningful experience or something more lasting, I’m open to seeing where things go.

Why I’m posting here: It’s time for me to move forward and experience this milestone in my life. I want it to be a safe, consensual, and memorable moment for both of us. If you’re interested in getting to know me, feel free to send a message or chat request. I’m happy to talk more and see if we’re a good match.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Well that’s a lie.. I’m still taking other L’s because I’m in Iowa. Anyway I’m just a 31 year old Hispanic looking for someone to help and teach me. I enjoy watching sports, and started doing yoga recently too just to get my body back in motion lol.. I also enjoy a good video game from time to time, and also just got into anime/manga. somewhat. I had the mentality of “waiting for someone special”, but now I’ve wasted time from just enjoying myself and having fun. Now I’m ready to practice before I find that someone special.

I’m in the Des Moines area and it’s very rare that there’s ever anyone from here just lurking around. I’m also willing to travel if the distance isn’t too bad too. I can host, but we can discuss stuff once we start talking.

It’s not much but this subreddit seems to be getting picky on what you can and can’t talk about on this page so if I catch someone’s attention I let’s talk and get to know each other. Let’s PM and go from there.

Well i guess i somewhat lied about taking an L.. I've been taking an L since i live in Iowa... So yea... Anyway there is another L I'd like to take. Which I believe is a good thing to lose. About me, I'm about 5'9, Overweight Hispanic I just turned 28 not to long ago and every year my birthday wish has always been the same to lose my virginity. Somehow I either get close to posting on here or I just don't want to try because i'm sure no one is near me, or i just don't think I'll even do this, but this time i'm gonna give it a shot, i mean i've always wanted it but was to scared to.

I've always wanted to "wait" for that "someone special" but I somewhat feel like i've missed out on sex and even helping a future partner by not looking so confused and not know what i'm doing. Lol.. And it also doesn't hurt anyone if you just practice reproducing you know. LMAO...

I’m willing to travel to you. (At least close to where I’m at lol) and I can host also!

But yes if anyone is interested lets chat. I have KIK, Snapchat, and everything else to communicate with someone, and talk and exchange pictures with each other. Let’s get to know each other if it doesn't lead to anything at least we can talk and get to know each other.

SELECT name, age, height, ethnicity

FROM VirginityExchange

WHERE redditID = 1005;

Result: Ken | 28 | 5’9 | American/Jamaican/British

I’ve been here before, and it feels like the right time to put myself out there again. The basic SQL queries above are something I picked up since my second year of college. Overall, anything to do with databases has made me feel more confident about my direction in life. It’s one of those things that will take time, but I’m determined to make it worth it. I’m about to graduate from community college soon, and I’ve almost figured out which university I’ll attend. It might be City Tech, since it aligns with what I want to do. Honestly, I never thought I would get this far in life. There was a time when I thought I couldn’t do anything for myself, and it didn’t help when people I expected to support me were calling me a loser. I used to stay in bed all day, playing games and watching anime. While I enjoyed those things, I also used them as an escape from reality. Losing a lot of weight has helped, though I’m still working on it. Being overweight for so many years comes with its own set of challenges, and it’s more than just what’s under my shirt. Hiding my emotions has always been easy for me. People might think I’m okay, but not really. I’m just glad that I’m not suicidal. Mostly, I’m glad I don’t have to worry people. I hate attention, which is one reason why I try to stay unapproachable, even though I get lonely sometimes. I’m still socially awkward, something I’ve grown up with. I had a good childhood, but things started to change as I got older. As you age, you begin to notice the little things, and how you can regret them later. I never really had someone to talk to about these things, but I guess that’s something that will take time. When I sit on the train, I sometimes look around at the people around me. They all seem to have their lives together, and I wonder if they have their own problems that I can’t see. Anyway, I used to make these posts detailed, but I never had any luck. Does sharing everything about my life really matter? I feel like it’s better to just talk about it. If you’re here, I assume you're looking for the same thing I am. I’m not here to replace anyone, and I’m not here to be perfect. I’m here to start something, and give it time.

Hello there, I am a 36 year old bi guy from central Pennsylvania! 

I am white 5'9 and about 155 lbs, with an average build. Looking to get myself into a bit healthier state, but I would not say I am unhealthy. I don't drink or smoke and am free of diseases. Smoking is a bit of a turn off to be honest.

Had some experience with guys but next to none with girls. I tend to be introverted and have been for as long as I can remember, however I am getting out more now. It's difficult for me to start conversations with new people but once the ice has been broken I can be very talkative. I don't think covid has done me any favors when it comes to meeting new people. It seems harder than ever for me to connect with people, could be a me thing. Been on dates but never really had a relationship, I have always found it difficult to form an emotional bond with someone. Could also just be that I never found the right person. I feel like confusion around being bi as well as being introverted got me to this point. If I could have sorted out one of them years ago I may not be in this situation. It has also been suggested that I might be on the autism spectrum.

PC gamer but I also have a PS5, but you are more likely to find me on my PC. God of War is such a good game! Would rather go for a cup of coffee than a drink at a bar. I really only taste alcohol lol, I don't really drink it. 

I am not much of a TV watcher, I don't even have cable lol. It would seem that only having internet is not that uncommon in today's world. When I am watching movies or a TV show odds are it will be something sci-fi, action, or fantasy. Think Lord of the Rings, Star Trek, Star Wars, The Expanse, John Wick! I used to like some reality shows like Survivor or Hell's Kitchen but I got bored of that sort of thing. I am not into sports, playing or watching. I really only watch the super bowl. However seeing a game in person can be fun, just don't go very much.

Outside the house I really am into roller coasters and amusement parks. I do enjoy going for walks around the neighborhood!

Age or experience is not that important, just be legal and safe. More experience could be helpful!! Who knows maybe things work out and a relationship is born. I would prefer to chat a bit and get to know each other at least a little before anything happens, I just want both of us to be comfortable with everything. I would like to find someone relatively close, I can travel but I don't want to go to the other end of the country lol. Can meet by me, or by you, or somewhere in the middle. I also hope to find someone who can take the lead!

I also will not send money to anyone over chat for any reason! So many scams going around! The last few people I chatted with were definitely fake. I do have snap so maybe chatting there could work.

Thanks for reading, I hope to hear from you soon.

I'm a college student and I would love to lose my virginity. Just haven't gotten much luck unfortunately lol. I'd like to chat for a bit first and then see where things go. I like to make sure safety is first.

About me, I am Hispanic and I'm super proud of where I come from! Right now I'm a senior and I'm studying business. I'm currently trying to get more involved and volunteer more to prepare for after graduation. I love to workout and try to go as much as possible. I'm mainly just working or studying so I can get stressed. Working out is my best way to release that stress. I'm also really into sports. I love basketball, baseball, soccer, and football! I used to play but not anymore, now I just watch my favorite teams. I'm also really into martial arts. I used to do karate and made it to black belt! Now I've been doing jiu jitsu and I'm currently a white belt. I also really love music! My favorite genres are Latin trap, reggaeton, banda, mariachi, and corridos. Other than that, I also like to hang out with friends and I'm currently learning the guitar.

6'2 175lbs Fairly fit

I've never done anything like this before, so I want a woman who would be patient and helpful with me. I ultimately want a good experience for the both of us. I don't have a lot of kinks for obvious reasons lol, but I do love linegrie. I don't have a specific preference as far as looks and age. If you liked my post, feel free to hit me up!

Hey there,

I know the odds of me finding what I’m after on here are fairly slim, but I thought I’d give it a try anyway. As such, I won’t write too much, but if you fancy getting to know me better then feel free to drop me a message.

A little about me: I’m 23 years old, 5’8”, and in somewhat decent shape, with blue eyes, dark brown hair, and a beard which I tend to keep short. As far as work is concerned, I finished my masters’ degree last year and now practice professionally in an industry which I’m gonna keep a secret for now. In my free time, I like to watch football, play video games, and travel – be it to sit by a pool with a cocktail in hand, or to ski in the Alps.

I’m looking for someone who – provided we hit it off – is looking for a serious, long-term relationship. As cliché as it sounds, I’d like to find ‘my person,’ and I don’t fancy wasting my time if I can’t see a future in it. Ideally, you also value honesty, commitment, and open communication, as I think these are all key to any successful relationship. On a much more shallow level (because physical attraction is important too, of course), I’m looking for somebody who’s my height or shorter, in decent enough shape, and without too many tattoos or piercings. Oh, and I don’t think I would date anybody older than 25/26, or outside the UK.

[EDIT: just to cover some potential dealbreakers: I don’t smoke or do any drugs at all, I enjoy the occasional drink, and - no - I don’t have any kids]

If you think we sound like a good match and you’d like to chat, then send me a chat/message and I’ll get back to you :)

Hello! I'm a 28 year old white male. I'm 5'9", 160 lbs with a skinny but mildly athletic build. I have brown hair, hazel eyes and wear glasses normally. I'm originally from Colorado but recently moved to Oregon. I come from a large family and enjoy the chaos when we get together.

I enjoy reading, playing games and pretty much doing anything outside. I've been taking advantage of the wonderful hiking around waterfalls when I have the time. I started bouldering at the start of this year and it's my new favorite thing!

The last couple of years I've been able to travel which I love doing! I took a solo road trip from CO to the Grand Canyon then to CA up the coast to OR and back to CO. I took my father to Italy and Switzerland last year. And over the summer I drove to Canada for the first time!

In September I started an intense university program. My ambition is to graduate in a few years and start working as a nurse. The program is keeping me very busy which means I don't have the time to be going out to mingle and have zero success on the apps. So I'm hoping that someone here can help me finally lose that V-Card!

Hey there! I'm 5'8", around 160lbs with curly brown hair, glasses, and the classic dad bod that most can only dream of. Maybe it isn't THAT bad but I do like high cut socks and fur lined crocs so do with that info what you will.

I'm the kind of nerd that collects manga/watches anime (Frieren was so good), plays dnd, and likes magic the gathering. As for why I'm here, please see the previous sentence.

In all seriousness, I just haven't really done much to get into a relationship. I always feel like I want companionship but without any experience I've been nervous, and doubt whether I really want a connection or...a connection. if you catch my drift. Not to mention, my remote job and focus on my studies and nerdy hobbies in college really set me back in the dating game.

I'd like to know what it feels like, if I'm being perfectly honest, because I want to know if it's worth it, boost my confidence, and sort of get my mind past that huge barrier. I don't mind sending pictures, I can host, we can meet publicly first, the more the merrier for a safe experience.

Oh and I can make a KILLER baked ziti--if that influences your decision.

Hi there, I'm a 25 year old guy in Cincinnati, Ohio area. Physically I am white, 6'1" tall, I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and I weigh about 200 lbs. I have a fairly average build (fairly fit and not overweight). Overall I live a pretty healthy lifestyle, I don't to any drugs and I rarely drink. Personality wise I'm a fairly reserved person and I'm often quiet when I'm around people that I don't know. I just moved here and started a new job in engineering a few months ago so that takes up most of my days. Outside of work I like to listen to music, play guitar, watch baseball or play golf. I love music, mainly classic rock (The Beatles, Tom Petty, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, ect), I also like to watch shows (Parks and Rec, Scrubs, That 70's show, ect. I'm a bit of a nerd and I love Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, and all sorts of stuff like that. The other thing I like to do in my free time is read. I love history and I really enjoy reading about it. Moving on to my experience with relationships and such or rather my lack of experience. I have absolutely zero experience when it comes to dating, relationships, and anything sexual. When I was in highschool I never really put myself out there. Then I got into college and I'm not a college party or frat kind of person so that combined with my courseload prevented me from having any real opportunities at dating. Ideally I am looking for someone in a similar situation as myself, but I'm open to people with experience as well. I'm not looking to jump right into anything or for a one time hookup or anything like that. Ideally I am looking for something regular or potentially a relationship. I am able to host and would also be willing to get a hotel room if that makes more sense. Thanks for reading this giant essay, if you have any questions for me or want to get to know each other please feel free to send me a message or pm. Thanks again and I hope to hear from you soon!