Hey there, I'm looking for someone new to talk to with the possibility of it becoming something more! (as the title says, I do prefer much larger body types as they're cute to me, but please know I'm not looking for sexual chat!) I really love learning about people, and would love to learn about someone new, about their passions and interests, and have someone who loves doing the same in return! I ideally would like to talk on discord eventually!

As the title says, I'm definitely more of a nerd than anything, haha. I love reading, cooking and baking, video games, and generally more homebody hobbies. I currently live in California and I'm going to start my first year of College this fall! To describe myself, I'm around 5'10, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, and I'm on the chubby side myself (although I'm losing weight, down 10 pounds and counting!). I'm also asexual, so I'd like someone who's okay with that!

For a partner, I'd ideally want someone genuine and caring, and while not required, it'd really help if you shared some of my hobbies! I don't have many appearance preferences, tbh!

Hello! My name is Isaac and I have EST time zones (Michigan)! I thought I’d look and see if I could find any cool people on here and see where things went and worst case scenario we end up being best friends :D

My main hobbies are playing games, watching anime/tv shows/movies, listening to music and podcasts, video editing, and learning more about psychology and other topics that interest me such as psychology!!!

I mainly play pc games even tho I also have a switch. Recently I’ve been playing a good bit of baldur’s gate 3 and league of legends but I also have games like Minecraft, terraria, r6, phasmophobia, valorant, and stardew valley so I don’t mind playing anything!

I love almost all sorts of music, anime, movies, and shows and have an open mind to trying out new things! So hit me up with your recommendations and maybe we can watch/listen together!! (Trying out new hobbies like drawing and whatever seems like fun!)

I hope to meet some cool people! Idm messages or comments if you want to ask something or get to hangout! Hope you have a wonderful day/evening!

Not just exclusively here for dating, I'm also open to friends! Always up for making friends, having interesting conversations and traveling to meet online friends 🥰

I'm a 23 year old STEM major, originally from the middle east/north east Africa residing in DE.

My likes/interests: I enjoy reading classical literature, working out(running, pilates and dancing), fashion, true crime, music(I'm obsessed with finding new music! I'm mainly into blues, jazz fusion, and funk but also blues rock or classic rock and some neo-classical music or other random genres! Feel free to send me your spotify playlist(s) ^^), science, philosophy, occasionally like art history and going to museums and I'm really into exploring new cultures and social dynamics.

My dislikes: I'm not too into things like anime/video games/movies and shows, but I can enjoy a good show or noir film here and there!(I LOVE 1940s fashion, cinema and food. Idk why, but the post world war era fascinates me a lot. Perhaps that's why one of the few video games I've played multiple times is LA noire lol). Generally speaking anything that doesn't make me actively use my brain I don't really enjoy because I won't get deeply hooked into it haha. I will say I'd prefer to get to know people who share similar interests, since gaming or watching shows together just wouldn't be fun for me personally 😅.

Personality-wise I would say I'm outspoken, sensible, vulnerable/open about who I am and morally opinionated haha. I am also very extroverted and really enjoy meeting new people or going to new places. I prefer to spend my time reading, studying, talking, meeting people (usually exploring random events/restaurants/bars/museums etc) and doing other hobbies. I occasionally enjoy stand-up and grew up on Dave Chappelle and Ali G lol. I also love animals and although I currently don't have pets, I'm looking to get a cat in the near future and I would love to raise different animals later in life as I once did back home.

What I'm looking for: interesting people to converse with, preferably someone who can keep a conversation going. As I've mentioned I'm quite extroverted, but I also enjoy reciprocated effort in conversations. I'd also probably prefer non-religious people, as I am agnostic myself and would say a moderate politically who is neither right nor left, but perhaps "left-leaning". I also enjoy conversations with people who aren't only well-read and intelligent, but also socially aware/emotionally intelligent. I also find it important to form relationships with good people who aren't selfish/overly judgmental.

As for what I look like, I guess we can discuss that in further chats/if we get to know each other first I have no issue showing what I look like after that :)

Message me if any of this sounds interesting to you!

(My profile is tagged N-S-F-W because I also post these in r/dirtyr4r since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you before all the beautiful sights are gone.

• Current games I've focused on lately is Helldivers 2 and Deep Rock Galactic. If you wanna play those together, that would be awesome! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc.
• My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans, probably within the next 6 years. I want to spend plenty of time with, well it might be you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high labido, but I only want to get intimate when we're both comfortable and ready. 👉👈

• Specs for those who would like them: - 6 feet tall (about 183 cm). - 219 lbs and dropping (about 99 kg). ~ My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told). ~ This is close to the most I've ever weighed, and I'm not happy with it. I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg). - Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short. - Blue eyes. - Caucasian.

• I have learned the hard way that I do have a type. I used to date outside that type, and it only led to hurt feelings, so I don't want to repeat that. That being said, my type is Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I would be open to going together. 😁 I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁

And I'm not just a cute nerd because I'm serious and sudden onset! badum tiss

I'm also a 5'7'' sorta thin white dude with long black hair, and I think that's kinda neat. I'm big into PC gaming, not that you have to be, but if you are, it's something that I'd love to do together! My interests also extend to things like Pokemon, anime, a couple books (Kingkiller Chronicles is GREAT), and I have a peace lily named Alphinaud! I am quite introverted, so I've always found it hard to make friends, even over the internet. Still, I have a lot of love to give, storing it all inside this rock I've been living under, and just looking for the right person to give it all to.

The kind of person I'm looking for is mostly just someone that genuinely enjoys my company. I want someone that will laugh at all of my stupid jokes, or at least the funny ones. Body type isn't super important to me either, bodybuilder, BBW, or anything in between, its always been more about the person inside, to me. I want someone super affectionate, caring, and gentle with me. Someone who can take the lead, too! I once spent five minutes in the breakfast aisle paralyzed about what cereal to get. I want someone I can fall in love with, to say "good morning" and "good night" to every day, someone I am excited to wake up and see next to me, give me that fairy tale love that everyone craves but few people find!

• Could be talked into DMing for you and your friends

• I still have not seen the Lord of the Rings movies

• I am absolutely full of dumb, awful jokes

• Once, I built a forge out of an old bbq grill and give hobby blacksmithing a try!

• I know how to solve a rubik's cube! Not particularly fast, mind you, but I can!

So yeah, I guess that's it? If any of this has interested you, any of it at all, don't hesitate to drop me a message or PM! I'm happy to move to discord whenever, and I'm also okay with exchanging pics once we've chatted a little. Thanks for reading, and have a great evening!

I'm 31 years old, live in NJ. 5'9", 165 lbs (fit/athletic build) 3rd generation Chinese American (my family immigrated here in the 1900s). My family identifies as American as we tend to eat more pasta than rice and my generation has not learned the language. College educated with a Bachelor's in Biomedical Science (switched from an Engineering major...turns out I don't like theoretical math); currently working in the pharmaceutical industry and pretty much love the industry as there isn't any work drama and it's relatively straightforward yet challenging.

I've tried a few long distance relationships and they're quite difficult to manage...they were great when we able to meet in person and I didn't mind putting in the extra work. I'd be willing to try one if the distance is reasonable and the there is a definite spark between us. I am pretty sure I fit the definition of a demisexual, so I'll be strictly trying to form a connection first. I REALLY need the emotional connection before there is a sexual attraction, mentally I can't do hook ups (they're just really hard for me to handle and I have turned people down).

Personality wise I've been told that I tend to bring people together and keep things fun. I have a few different groups of friends and communities I am often with...and they can vary from the youngsters (21 to 30) to the old guys (60+) to the group that's around my age. I would say I'm pretty good at conversing and I try to stay on top of most current events. Mentally I'm an old man and feel more comfortable in that setting, so much that I literally hang out with 60+ years olds at the gym after a workout in the hot tub. I call them the hot tub gang and it's always a set of regulars where we might talk about the same thing every single day until someone newer to the group says that we talked about it yesterday.

I would say fitness is a major player in my life. I started out hating swimming as a kid, but here I am almost 27 years later...I made it through the lessons at the YMCA, joined a club team, swam in high school, swam in college and now I'm a swim coach and instructor as a hobby/side job in my free time. There's something about being a part of coaching people and watching them grow up and succeed that makes me smile.

My free time in the cold months usually consists of planning DIY projects or working on them. I tend to work on all the cars in the family and am the one that fixes them up or finds replacements for them. Or planning my next road trip to somewhere nicer. Whereas in the warm months I love going down to the beach to go for a swim and have a nice relaxing breakfast outdoors. I do have a few kayaks that I'll bring out to go with friends or if I feel it's safe a nice solo paddle to clear my mind. When I think about it, too many of my hobbies involve water. But I do enjoy things on dry land I promise!

I'm really looking for someone I can grow together with, a long term or forever relationship. I want a relationship where both of us put 100% in all the time and if we don't, we can talk to each other about our concerns and work it out. Honestly what I've realized is that maybe I am altruistic...I miss making someone feel happy and loved, miss the good morning texts, the waiting around all day just to see their texts, I miss spoiling someone and the feeling of that feeling of seeing that look that you get when someone truly loves you. I would love to slowly get to know you by having some conversations where the time just flies, then to a point where we talk nonstop, maybe some in person dates and then maybe eventually settle down together and enjoy life together.

Important stuff: Although I enjoy interacting with kids and it's a major part of my life...I don't want any of my own so...sorry if this is a dealbreaker for anyone. I don't drink (except for maybe wine at special occasions....I get really bad Asian Flush so I'll turn bright red if I smell alcohol essentially lol), not into smoking/drugs (Bad asthma and I'm just not into any of that stuff). I don't judge anyone that's into drinking or recreational drugs, it's just not for me personally. Religion wise, I'm Agnostic. Politically I lean relatively to the left.

I'm really searching for that genuine connection; voice calls are definitely a plus and would love to get to know you. It's alright if we end up just as friends that talk here and there.

If it sounds like you could be the one send me a chat or DM and tell me a bit about yourself. My name is Kevin and I'd love to know about you.

Heyo!

I'm white, 5'3", with an average build, green eyes, brown hair (currently shaved), and a mustache. Goofy, shy, with a touch of the 'tism.

Music lover. I'm a massive metalhead and punk, who also enjoys goth, psychedelic rock, and dungeon synth. I occasionally dabble in concert promotion. A few favorite artists are Judas Priest, Black Sabbath, Blind Guardian, Candlemass, Testament, Gulch, Napalm Death, and Darkthrone. Record collector.

Big ole nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, and horror nerd. Love animation, video games, D&D, and manga/graphic novels. Enjoy learning about history, cultures, and religion. Aspiring writer who listens to a lot of media criticism. Tolkienite.

Leftist. Agnostic. Don't want kids.

I love women who are smart, funny, passionate, affectionate, empathetic, and curious. Bonus points if you're tall, busty, muscular, or rock an alternative aesthetic.

Let's talk and see what happens. Tell me about the things that make you happy.

Hey, Maybe we could talk all day for 2 or 3 days straight, and then go on a video call and hang out and talk one morning, and text the rest of the day. And you could tell me that you really enjoyed our video call too. And then say let's do it again tomorrow as well, then not respond tomorrow after you say good morning to me, and then I wait for you to respond, but you never do and then look at my friend list the next day and find out that you removed and blocked me from everything

Maybe we could talk for a couple days and be cool, and you could say I'll text you when I get back home so we can voice chat, and I'll say alright cool. Then you never do and the next day you text me saying oh sorry I didn't think you were interested in talking anymore and then remove/block me. And I can be confused because you said you were going to text me when you get home though?

Maybe could go on voice chat and you could seem really sweet and then after like 10 minutes you could say you have to take another call and you'll be right back, and end the call and instantly remove me

Maybe we could talk all night and really connect, and then chat all the next day while at work, and then you can stop responding mid day and never respond again

Maybe we could talk for like 10 or so minutes and then you could just stop responding and all that cool stuff. Maybe I could tell you about some cool movies and shit and we could make plans to watch some stuff together and then never do it

Maybe we could talk for four months, and then you could remove me off discord randomly

Maybe we could talk all day every day for a week and then one day completely change and not communicate what's wrong and then remove me

Maybe we could have a great conversation and have matching personalities and then we could go into a voice chat and play Terraria until 3 in the morning and have a good time, and then you never respond to me again

Maybe you could be the next person to join this list

Hello, it’s me again! My name is David, a 28-year-guy from New Jersey. I'm here in search of a meaningful relationship with a like-minded individual who shares my values and aspirations.

In terms of appearance, I'm an average-height at around 5'10, bald but naturally blond with a stylish beard. You'll often find me rocking black band shirts and comfy sweatshirts. If you're into a laid-back and alternative aesthetic, we might just hit it off! here are multiple pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/la9rWt0

When I'm not immersed in a game or exploring extreme metal music (mostly Black Metal), I enjoy the company of my friends. Together, we enjoy going on camping trips, museum visits, getting dinner or treats together, watch movies, hang out. We also visited the Renaissance faire a couple times. I used to play music with friends as a vocalist. Recently I have been having movie nights with one of my best friends and been having fun watching new movies and showing him some he's never seen.

Academically, I hold a Bachelor of Science degree in Computer Science and Information Systems. I'm a laid-back individual who doesn't partake in drugs or party scenes (yes, I even abstain from coffee!). I don't drink alcohol either but I don't mind if you do, my friends have beers while I'm around. I apparently have a INTJ personality type, I have a positive and lighthearted atmosphere, constantly cracking jokes with my close-knit group of friends.

In terms of my ideal partner, I'm looking for someone around the ages of 18 and 24, preferably of East-Asian or Caucasian. As someone who's reasonably skinny I am also looking for someone who is slim, fit, or petite. I'm also not the biggest fan of tattoos or piercings either.

My long-term goals involve building a future together and creating a life filled with meaningful experiences and shared adventures. If you resonate with my interests, values, and long-term goals, shoot me a message and a pic — I'm genuinely looking forward to getting to know you!

first of all, here’s me

ntro speedrun: i’m 6ft, British (however willing to relocate), covered in tattoos with a shaved head so your dad may not like me at first, but he’s wrong for that bc i am a goddamb angel 😤

i spend a lot of my time listening to music, reading, watching new shows (i just finished Fallout & Shogun), generally being a homebody, but i’m a sucker for anything outdoors too, i love camping & lil adventures!! i’m a gamer at heart but not so much recently as i had to give up my PC, but if you’re a gamer i’ll definitely consider getting back into it (as long as you be my duo)

just looking for a cute girl, somebody sweet & positive. bubbly or shy i really don’t mind, i don’t care about age or location as i’d be willing to move like i said, let’s just see if we hit it off! but please don’t message me if you don’t think we’ll be together in the near future as i don’t want a purely long distance relationship

however physical attraction is important to me so i’d prefer it if you included pictures with your initial message

you don’t have to be too creative, i’m okay with a short lil summary/intro about yourself if you want!!

don’t be shy and message me, i don’t bite!!

…unless you want me to

I recently came across a wonderful lady on Reddit & I got intrigued by the idea. Since she has her little man forced to be acting and treating like a baby 24/7.

I'm looking for someone who wants to do the same but to me. I really like the aspect of this kind of nurturing love aspect where my potential girlfriend (you) would smother me and take care of me wether I want to or not.

Where you'd pick out my clothes, strap me in the bedroom and control my life like I'm a little baby. Have me drink out of a bottle or use my diapers, etc.

I know this hard to find. Most people just want a normal relationship but I want this as a lifestyle. So I'm opening up this ad towards anywhere in the world. No matter which age you are. The only thing I ask is that you are cis female.

You can expect total loyalty from me. So please if you read this ad let me know if you're interested!

About me: I'm 6'3 and I have black hair/ I've been told by previous people that i look handsome/adorable.

Hey there, Reddit! Hope you've all had a relaxing Mother's Day =)

I'm your fairly standard introvert--shy, but I warm up to people pretty quickly, and once I do I'll chat your ear off! 😂 I also like syncing up for activities together, from game nights to watching something together to simply VCing. Looks-wise, I'm ghostly pale white, with brown hair, and with a stick-like slim build. But what about my actual hobbies and interests? You know, things we can actually bond over! Well luckily for you, I've got a lot of them!

• I'm a computer scientist, but computers aren't just my job. Coding is literally one of the ways I measure my health--when I'm not doing it, I know I'm sick. 😂 I do gamedev in my free time, I have a horde of abandoned utilities I've made for myself, and I will bore you to tears tell you all about the development process!
• As you might guess from that, I'm also a PC gamer. OSRS is my main addiction, though I also like strategy games (think StarCraft) and roguelikes. I use an eye tracker, so a lot of games are a bit too fast-paced for me to properly play, but I'm quite content to just watch those.
• On a totally different note, I'm a major bookworm! Sci-fi and fantasy are my preferred genres, but I also like classics, particularly Russian literature, as well as a good history book. I'm always happy to trade recommendations!
• I'm also a major puzzler. I do the NYT crossword every day, along with wordle and quordle. I also enjoy KenKen, and have been trying to get into British-style crosswords. If it's a brain teaser, I'll probably enjoy it! (And if you also enjoy crosswords, I'll make you ones for your birthday!)
• I've been trying and failing to learn a second language for years now! 😅 Right now I'm floundering on my third attempt to crack Russian; I've also been defeated by Japanese, Latin, and Mandarin. If English is your second language, I will try to learn your L1.
• I love to watch more eclectic sports--or at least eclectic ones by boring American standards. Cycling (road, track, and cyclocross) is what I primarily follow, but I also enjoy curling, biathlon, and speed skating--when I can find them being broadcast.
• Finally, here's a random smattering of other things I like: houseplants, Star Wars, youtube, scambaiting, absurdist and dark humor, sitcoms (Parks and Rec, B99, Seinfeld), cybersecurity, national security, and geopolitics.

Unfortunately, there is a catch: I'm physically disabled. More specifically, I have a neuromuscular disease that has, among other things, left me wheelchair-bound and just in general sickly. I understand that can be a bit overwhelming, and I'm happy to go into more detail and answer any questions you might have.

Still here? Great! Let's go over what I am and am not looking for in you:

• I hope to find a long-term and serious relationship.
• You should be able to sync up with me for chats and activities. You can be from anywhere, but I'm in the eastern US, specifically Pennsylvania. (My hours are pretty flexible, though! =)
• Be willing to exchange some form of verification or deanonymization decently quickly.

And that's about it! If anyone is left at this point (doubt it 😅), I'd love to hear from you! Let me know your A/S/L and a little bit about you. =)

Hey there, I'm in the San Diego/ So Cal area . Looking to find people to chat with and see how things go. If there's a spark the end goal is to find a relationship.

About me: -huge movie fan, especially horror -video games of all types but RPGs in particular -I've been getting into painting and artsy stuff, in particular I have been getting into wargamming painting and the such. -I like to keep in good shape and work out regularly -huge coffee and tea fan, like way more recently. I am a huge cold brew person and/or iced coffee. I love trying new little places out and seeing what they have to offer -enormous sweet tooth, like it's kinda bad actually 😆. Also love baking and going to pastry shops.

About you -if any of what I said about you seems interesting feel free to send a chat. I'd love to talk about it.

I would love to socialize and maybe find a worthwhile connection. My name is Ryan and I am a college student who also enjoys spending time at the gym and time outdoors. I've had a pretty rough start with my adult life due to a severe health crisis shortly after turning 18. My main values as a person are communication, empathy, and most importantly to myself taking care of my physical and mental health.

Anyways, I would love to hear from anyone interested and we could talk things out from there!

Here's a pic of myself just so you know what you are getting into. 

https://imgur.com/a/LUR27fx

Hi!!! I’m here looking for a genuine relationship, or at least something that’s monogamous and long term. So if that sounds ideal then please read ahead!

I’ll start off with my personality, physical appearance then my interests.

I am pretty introverted, doesn’t mean I struggle with communication but I do ask that you give me something to reply to! But I’m fairly shy but I’m trying to put myself out there. I can be pretty talkative once I warm up to someone though and I like to joke around a lot.

Physically I am built pretty lean, I am 5’10, I weigh around 155, I have long brown hair and eyes, but I’m pretty skinny which I plan on working on.

When it comes to interests I have quite a bit that I like, one of my biggest things is music. I personally listen to like 2000s rock, my biggest bands ever are Foo Fighters and Red Hot Chili Peppers, but you’ll find me listening to Metallica or something on occasions.

I’m not too big on anime, but I’ve watched and enjoyed a few of them like Bleach, Soul Eater, Kengan Ashura, Jujutsu Kaisen, and Jojo’s. I would like to watch way more so I’d like some recommendations!

I also play video games, I’ve mostly spent my time on Roblox, which I’ve been on that since 2011, but I have had an interest to play Minecraft and Terraria as of late, I also have a pretty decent sized library on steam!

I have a few other small interests I do on occasions like drawing, cooking/baking, and I am planning to work out a lot more!

I’m trying to make this too lengthy, so I’ll close off soon, but I am mainly looking for anyone leaning more feminine, though I am ok with whoever I don’t mind, so feel free to message me still regardless.

One last thing too, please give me an introduction about yourself or at least try to be engaging because not doing that will feel like a chore responding, but besides that I do have discord which is my preferable way to talk, so feel free to ask for that, thanks for reading this though I look forward to meeting you!

Heya there! I really haven’t had a serious relationship and so I decided I wanted to put myself out there and see if I can build a new relationship
Lookwise, I’m a 5’10” white guy with an average build. I can also share pics once we start talking a bit more too.
From what I’m told, I’m usually pretty calm and don’t find myself being constantly in the action. I like to be able to relax, enjoy my surroundings and think about an assortment of things. I’d definitely say I am sarcastic and sometimes on the snarky side but not in the over the top manner. I think it’s also important to mention that I am a Christian (I would say this an important part of my life and would prefer someone who is Christian too.)
Here’s a little about myself and what I do:
-Currently studying for Information Systems and security. Was originally project management but realized I’d enjoy a career with a greater focus on IT.

• I recently got back into tennis and so far having a great time! So if you play it as well, it’d be great to have some matches together and have some fun
• Gaming is probably my biggest hobby at the moment. Ever since I was a kid, I’ve always loved playing them and have gone through many different types. Currently I play on PC but do have a switch that I play occasionally. I’d love if you do play games as well but it’s perfectly if not.

-If I had to say my favorite book series, it d be easily Lord of The Rings. I’ve always loved reading and while I haven’t read many fiction books recently I’m hoping to change that as well.
I would like to find someone that is similar age as me and that they live in Virginia (NOVA/DMV area is the most preferred). P.S. Tell me what your favorite food is so I know you read it. Can’t wait to hear from you!

If they care, they would. This phrase resonates strongly for me as it represents the effort and willingness in someone when it comes to establishing a relationship. If someone cares enough and is willing to invest the time, energy, and effort into it, then they would, which in turn would help fuel the relationship's growth. 

I seek someone that has the desire and passion to make this work alongside me, because I do have a lot of love to provide. I know we’re not getting any younger (I can’t believe I’m 28 already!), so I don’t really want to waste my time with someone who isn’t motivated to stand with me and build this up over time. 

The qualities I seek in a partner (and what I’m able to provide her as well) are the following:

1. Time and Commitment - I realize everyone has a life and gets busy, but many people use that as an excuse to not contribute the time and effort into a relationship. While there are days when I might be busy, I would still make time for my partner. Because if I care for that person, then I would go above and beyond to make time and make sure I am committed to making this work with them. I've met people who were unable to keep a healthy balance and kept throwing excuses. I don't want an experience where I'm at the bottom of the list or someone that is easily forgotten about. I want a partner that is willing to provide a healthy time and commitment level to this
2. Communication - While people say communication is key, a lot of people struggle to put it into action. This goes hand-in-hand with time and commitment. Personally, I consider myself a strong communicator. I'm sure you can tell by this post how much time and effort I will commit to that lol. I don't provide one-worded responses nor would I want to see that from my partner. I want to be able to have nice, healthy discussions with my partner through the day where we continue to learn about each other. Communication is part of the basic foundation of the relationship, but I wish more people would value such and be strong communicators
3. Motivated - I'd love to be in a relationship where both parties are motivated to make this work. Similar to communication, I've seen people lose motivation to continue this as you see their responses and response times degrade. I'm someone who loves to say good morning and goodnight to my partner, check in randomly, send funny memes and videos, and make plans, but I found myself always initiating as well. It would be nice to get that in return and feel as though I matter equally
4. Loyalty - No one wants to be considered an option. Loyalty is a central quality I seek first and foremost. No, I don't want either of us to treat it as a dating app where we have options left and right that we're entertaining. I rather us focused on each other, providing the time and devotion that we deserve, and the respect. I know times are changing and people have access to meeting people online, but I like to be focused on getting to know someone who also shares a similar mindset in terms of loyalty! :)
5. Respect and Kindness - This should go without saying, but I do value when both partners can come together and discuss through things maturely and without arguing. Hearing both perspectives goes far and I can assure you I will take the time to listen to you and your concerns. It would be nice to have that reciprocated as well. Also, I'm non-judgmental. Share anything with me and I can assure you I won't invoke any sort of judgement
6. Honesty - Goes along with respect and kindness, but having an honest relationship will prevent us from overthinking or worrying. I like to be upfront and honest about my feelings, thoughts, and desires. I would love for my partner to do the same. If something is wrong, I want to know about it. Not be hit with "idk... Just forget about it" or be thrown on a wild chase, trying to figure out what is happening. If you're also not feeling this connection/conversation, I rather know than be ghosted. I promise you, I won't get upset :)

That was a lot lol... Not sure if anyone will take the time to read this but wanted to lay it all out there in case there is someone that has a similar mindset and values.

I almost forgot to share a bit about myself. Whoops!

So who is this mysterious 28 year old? Well...

• I am someone who enjoys writing (as you can probably tell). No, I don't have any novels out there, but I did write poetry growing up
• I live on the east coast of the US
• I would love to go to Antarctica some day
• Love taking on new hobbies. Would love to learn how to surf and snowboard some day
• I enjoy staying active (going on long runs and cardio), reading, wasting time on Google Earth as I explore various places with relaxing music playing on in the background, gaming, listening to music (let me know if you have recommendations), and playing soccer
• Feel free to ask any questions if you want to learn more!

Lastly, distance isn't an issue for me. I realize it's a genuine concern for people, but for me, love doesn't have any requirements for distance. I don't mind if you're close to where I am or super far. I don't mind age difference either.

I would love to learn about you! Tell me a bit about yourself!

Okay, I think that's it! Have an amazing day

Hello! I am looking for something serious. I am

• Tall (well over 6’)
• Intelligent (I want to be a professor)
• Kind
• Fit, with broad shoulders and muscular thighs

I am looking for someone

• Passionate about what they do
• Intellectually curious
• Empathetic
• Tolerant
• Tall is a plus but definitely not a priority

I don’t do casual stuff. I want to have kids one day. I love football, PC games, and my cats. I am white, with dark brown hair and hazel eyes. Location doesn’t matter. I’m currently in Texas but moving up north for my PhD next year, hopefully. I’m working on getting better at conversing so feel free to reach out. I am working on my master’s thesis so we can talk about that too if you’d like.

Hey there! I’m at a point where I’m doing really great and want to share that and build a really cool life with someone. I’m a huge nerd so I spend a ton of time reading, programming and doing math! I’m also involved in a lot of fitness stuff including lifting, swimming, freediving and paddle boarding with my dog! Also 6’2 athletic build if that matters Honestly I don’t really have a type or care about shared interests (it’s awesome when I learn cool things from someone who’s into totally different things than me!). I really do want someone who loves learning new things and exploring and wants a committed, monogamous relationship and growing together. I look forward to meeting you!

So I'm 29 I turn 30 near end of June. I live in Utah but not limiting to just the state I can handle a Long Distance Relationship.

I love to play video games, I play Xbox (Series S), Switch, and pc (Only got a gaming laptop but still works great)
watch movies, binge series, I love all movies really and watch almost anything and for series kinda the same favorite are animes, fantasy, comedy. and write (Stories, poems, and d&d campaigns) I love to play d&d and other ttrpgs as well as run them and even make my own homebrews. I love the outdoors from hiking to camping to backpacking, love to fish and go shooting targets. I love to cook and come up with new recipes, I also love to eat and try new things and love to eat everything besides canned spinach (love fresh spinach)

I'm looking for a partner in life someone that I can go camping with, hiking, or plan backpacking trips. Someone to game with or just spend days cuddling doing our own things. Someone to try new foods and cook and bake with, go try new restaurants. I'd love to play d&d with them even if I have to teach them about it I'm used to new players and it's a very fun and connective thing I feel.

I currently work for Redmond Life which is a Salt Producer, I work as a production simply fulfilling orders and making products. I also am a part time private chef for them cooking for several classes they offer and work events. I'm currently trying to get a job as a chef to use my trade and schooling. I'm 6" tall weighing about 200, I love to workout even though I tend to use my VR for it.

If any of this speaks to you send me a message either private or just a chat. If you've read this all why not starting with your favorite type of food.

25[M4F] Hackettstown NJ/USA/Australia/Europe/South America, Neurodivergent Seeking His Soulmate

For now you can call me Skadi

I'm 5'11 with a Dad Bod or similar body type

I'm a gamer and I play on PS5

I'm looking for an older partner from 29 to 35 who will meet my needs

I'm into Role Reversal and I am searching for a partner who wants to take care of me and be the breadwinner

I can't say exactly what I am looking for here so check my profile and posts before reaching out

I need to be with someone physically before I can start to properly develop trust and an emotional attachment and bond

With that being said I need anyone who is long distance to come see me ASAP

I'm autistic, I have trust issues and I am still dealing with past heartbreaks

I can be obsessive and possessive and I am looking for those traits in a partner too

I have recently decided that looking after my best friend is more important to me than a relationship, so please don't get between my best friend and I because we're like family

There's nothing romantic or sexual between us and I won't tolerate anyone getting jealous because my bestie is more important

I also have no tolerance for cheating, infidelity or anything that is related

I am new to and somewhat into spiritual stuff, I am into monsters, folklore and weird stuff as well

I have a fondness for reptiles and I myself even have a reptile-like personality

I love Sci-fi franchises like Alien, Predator, Godzilla, Fallout, Resident Evil and others

I'm not a political person and have no interest or affiliations as I view politics as something that divides people and I say that from experience

I'm very ride or die with relationships and prefer to jump straight into things as I'm not very patient and I require physical intimacy and affection first in order to start properly bonding

My ideal partner is motherly, loyal, faithful, brutally honest, loving, caring, soft, sweet understanding and not the type to ghost

In terms of body type I prefer Curvy, a Few Extra Pounds, BBW and PAWG types

Bonus points if you're Yandere-like, are a gamer with similar interests and who also prefers to be physically involved first

I have traumas and as such I am accepting of a partner who has trauma and bad experiences as well

I'm very understanding, sweet and caring

I hope that someone who meets my needs will find this and reach out

If you're Australian, French, British, Russian, or Spanish you are already MY GF OFF THE BAT

Looking forward to hearing from someone who may be exactly who and everything I need

Don't forget to check my profile, bio and posts to get a better idea of what I am looking for

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic.

Asian 23M. Hated to date my whole life now myself fell vulnerable lately as life happened lol. Since socially withdrawn mostly hence never dated. Lately lonely & emptiness begin to build up so instinctively set off looking for partner. Immersed amid chasing life chores, admitted to halt chose myself look for love right on time.

Yes I’d prefer voice chats audios over texts what I do is yapping to voice over as hates to text so phone writes it for me 😅 would be down for in person meetup otherwise getting to know over phoning one another etc.

Noticeable traits that I’m into women my age or older than me as I seem older than I’m therefore yeah- also witty & tall. For me I’m close to nature- Hiking and running enthusiast, photography is my thing, tech savvy, Somewhat of a writer myself, great listener, likes to keep small circle, Math & Computers Major.

Someone I could befriend with, having real connection, flirty touch, similar interests in programming and stuff we’d look to grow together ultimately becoming everything to each other *blushes

I’d gladly share photos w and no facial hair both, if it does click hit me up

Hi, Ps: if your message has nothing to do with a potential relationship or trying to get to know me I will simply not respond . 🤗

Just A femboy looking for a serious ltr , so I’ll get to the point 🤗. I’m here for something long term. Dating apps don’t work for me sadly.

Located: Texas . Willing to move to another state or have my further partner live with me .

▶️Appearance : A thick black femboy who loves dressing up sometimes . Height : 5’3. I wear glasses to read manga . My style is mostly goth/casual clothes from mostly anime shirts and chokers

💙hobbies:

Anime, card games, cosplay, anime cons, Dueling (Yu-Gi-Oh!) , Pokémon, Yaoi, Pc gaming , overwatch, marvel , DC, Horror, ect. I’m a super friendly outgoing individual. I do collect a lot of anime merch (ask to see my collection). I do play yugioh IRL, Duel Links & Master duel.

🌹 Music

• K-Pop, J-Pop, heavy metal , edm , classic , rock. Please take a listen to #BabyMetal one of my favorite bands like ever . Huge BTS AND BLACKPINK Stan.

What im looking for Whether its a LRT OR LDR.

I would like to meet irl, as much as chatting and voice calls are great I want to actually meet you 🤗. I’m open to moving in together

Age range: to date for me is 21-40 years old .

▶️MY TYPE: TALL (taller than my own height) , very communicative, masculine(mostly beards and body hair) gamers/anime nerds. These are just preferences so I’m open to dating without them .

✅Ps: for compatibility reasons I’m a 100% bottom.

• Fun Fact : I’ve been to Japan 4x , UK, 2x , Korea -1x. I’ll be back to Japan in December for 2 weeks. Would love a partner to go with . Let’s do a discord voice call if you’d like to really get to know each other. Willing to send face pictures as well .

If you made it this far, please message me an introduction about yourself. This is extremely important as it tells me alot about you and for me to give you a well detailed response. Mostly a name to call you , hobbies, location (state wise) and what you’re looking for . You may send pics in the first message if you may like 😊

Here I am doing this again. I never have much luck on here and still I come back. Definition of insanity right.

Well i guess i can start of by saying hope everyone having a fun weekend. I already have the Monday dreads. I guess we can talk about that if you want. I looking for someone local so we can hang out and see if it goes anywhere but I am open to get to know anyone from any location. We are all chronically online so why not have another excuse not to go touch grass. I really suck at talking about myself so ill just go with the basics.

• I am 34 from Los Angeles, California
• I work at a hospital doing inventory but I am hoping to change that. Finding a job is about as much work as finding a partner.
• As much as I enjoy reddit chat, I think some of use find Discord easier.
• I have a degree in accounting and I like to cybersecurity as a hobby.( i mean can it really be a hobby, I guess i like pretending to be a pen tester is more fitting)
• Video Games I Play are Street Fighter 6, Balatro, XCON 2. I tried playing DnD once but it wasn't for me. Guess my nerd creed isn't something to mention
• I love to read, especially dense and boring stuff(think Economic and Finance). I last book i read and that I can remember is "Snow Crash"

What I am looking for is someone I can chat with every day, get to know, some mindless flirting. Some not so mindless flirting. I guess what I am looking for is company more than anything. I know this post wont really stick out but thanks for reading it anyway.

PS. I don't know why the YouTube Music Algorithm decided to introduce me to Obscurest Vinyl but I am glad it did

*Do Not message or add me just to unfriend me or ghost me. * Greetings future partner ❤️ I'm still searching for you. I have to be honest and say that I am losing hope trying to find you.Please be somewhere. I want my search for a partner to be over. I'm seeking adventure in my life with someone I can call a forever partner. I'm tired of the loneliness and the sheltered lifestyle that I've lived. It would mean a lot of you could read through this post so that I could make sure we are compatible. Even if we start off as friends that would be fine.

Here's to new beginnings and new connections. *PLEASE make sure you READ through the WHOLE POST also please be respectful when messaging me * If you're the type to be impatient, block, or ghost easily, then save both of us the trouble and DO NOT message me! I'm not trying to come off as mean but I'd much rather you not message me if you're the type of person to do that. If something isn't working just let me know. We're all adults.

Greetings, I am seeking a long term relationship monogamous with the end goal being matrimony. I am not one for playing around and being used casually as it doesn’t suit me personally. Ideally I'd prefer a man that has his life already in place so that I can be able to share life with him and for him to take care of me. I would expect my future man to have a fiscally stable job and be able to support me and our future family. I wouldn’t be opposed to being a housewife. There are few reasons why I would like to work or work part time: 1) Being abandoned with nothing, 2) I want to feel fulfilled and not bored. Happy to discuss possible dynamics, I'm flexible. I would love a synergistic partnership where we are both able to mold our minds and fill our hearts with warm affection. I will be there to support you throughout your journey and celebrate every moment with you. I want you to be proud of you just as you are with me. I want to show you that you are truly cared for and appreciated by gestures of love such as massages and other forms of entertainment. I would expect the same from you as well. Even if we are both working adults we can still make our relationship work in the best way possible. I have seen this come out well for people who are dedicated and willing to make their relationships work. For a strong relationship to occur I would expect effective (transparent) communication from you. If you are going to be busy just be honest and let me know you won’t be able to talk to me.Also, if you need your space both mentally and physically let me know. I understand that we all have our lives to attend to but it is incredibly important for people in a relationship to be transparent when circumstances arise in a timely manner in order to avoid future conflict. If this relationship isn’t going to work I would expect you to tell me and not ghost or block me before giving me a reason why. We are all adults so I would expect nothing but maturity. Starting out I don’t want the pressure of sex to be pushed onto me. I’d rather let time tell in all of its glory.

Now onto my true introduction

My name is Angie and I'm from Georgia in the United States. I've been lonely for quite some time and find it hard to find a soulmate in IRL. What I'm looking for is someone who I can connect with and have wholesome conversations with. I want to be able to treat my future soulmate well just as much as they do me. The biggest part of a long lasting relationship is the ability to communicate openly without worry. I'd love it if my significant other has a dark sense of humor and continues to crack me up non-stop. As cheesy as it may sound I long for those late night calls and cute texts. I want for us to drive out the very best in each other; become our support system. A little bit about me is that I grew up in Florida and not too long ago moved to Georgia. I'm currently in college to become an RN but I'm also passionate about cosmetic chemistry and nutrition so I may seek to build my own business in the future. I'm passionate about science and theoretical applications especially within the medical field. I'd appreciate it if my partner is open minded about varying topics and welcomes healthy conversations. Appearance wise I'm open to seeing if we have a connection and feel as long as you are well groomed and practice basic hygiene you are good. Although, I must say that attraction is key in a relationship so I will have to go off on that as well. To add on, I enjoy playing video games, exercising (I've been slacking off lately), cooking and baking (vegan), playing board games, reading, exploring nature, playing sports (basketball and soccer) for fun, and trying new experiences. I hope to save up and travel someday. It would be nice for my partner to be able to set up our travel itinerary.

My Physical Description:

I am a black woman who’s twenty five years old (almost 26 in December) with Afro-Carribean, Japanese and Swedish ancestry. I’d still consider myself black presenting since that’s more along the lines of what I appear as phenotypically. I have dark brown curly hair (Mainly 3c type curls) and brown eyes. I am 5 '4 on the thicker spectrum (not at all obese but thick boned and have thunder thighs). I am trying to exercise more to become fit. I used to weight lift when I was younger but since then have lost lean muscle mass. Having a partner that is willing to work out together sometimes is rather rewarding. A man who has drive and appeal is incredibly sexy. I would also like to point out that I am curvy and noticeable in certain aspects (I’ll leave it up to you to decide).

*You have to be MINIMUM 21 to date me *

If distance will be a problem and you aren't willing to make it work then DON'T MESSAGE ME!!

If you will be too busy to pursue a relationship then DO NOT contact me!! * Again, No ghosters or blockers!! Seeking a person who seeks a relationship with God and/or is open to one Must be free from venerial diseases and must be willing to get tested(will discuss) Bonus points if you're vegan Ideally I would like someone that is taller than me (I’m 5’4) I prefer a man that is fit or trying to be. I'd prefer someone who is fiscally stable and able to support the both of us A big red flag for me is smokers. It isn't good for your health nor is it sexy to me.* It's important for me to point out that I want children in the future and need someone who may want that as well. If you're interested in how I look and want to know more about me, message me. Although I don’t make it a huge deal, I do prefer White and East Asian men. But I do love all types of men and welcome them. As stated before I emphasize communication and would prefer you to be honest and say if something is wrong instead of ghosting or blocking without stating the reason. Fair warning if I can be socially awkward sometimes and don't know what to talk about so please be patient with me as I'm learning to be better conversation wise

Believe it or not, there was a time when people actually talked to each other—shocking, especially for the younger generation, right?

But kidding aside, there's a grain of truth in that jest. I'm a firm believer that genuine connections start with meaningful conversations. I'm on the lookout for someone who appreciates the beauty of communication as much as I do.

About Me: I'm the kind of person who finds joy in learning about people from all walks of life. Whether it's through the pages of a book, the scenes of a movie, or engaging in conversation, there's always something to discover about the human condition. I believe in making every moment count.

I've been told I have a knack for turning ordinary conversations into something a bit more exciting. If you enjoy a good laugh, playful banter, and a dash of charm, we might just hit it off.

I'm searching for someone who knows how to keep a conversation interesting. If you appreciate witty banter, love sharing your favourite cheesy jokes, and aren't shy about throwing in a compliment or two, you might be the one I'm looking for.

If you're ready to embark on a communication adventure filled with laughter, curiosity, and a hint of flirtation, send me a message. Let's see where our conversation takes us and if we can make each other's day a little brighter.

About You:

I do have a type. Currently working on my overall fitness journey during bouts of depression (somewhere between fit and dad bod?). I'm looking for a partner/sub who is somewhat in shape or thin. Apparently, someone once told me that I have a thing for dark-haired women with big lips—go figure!

A bit about me: I'm pretty open, dark-skinned, 5'7, black hair, brown eyes, working in IT. Feel free to bounce ideas off me to see if there's a match. I enjoy wordplay, encouragement, and, of course, seeing you. Intellectual stimulation is crucial, and effort goes a long way. Currently learning guitar for fun (what a journey!). I'm pretty much an open book.

If any of this resonates with you, don't hesitate to reach out. Pouring yourself out there isn't easy, but to make sure you've read this far, please include your favourite drink or any books you've read lately in your message!

Hard to meet new people when all I do is work and game 💀, so I come to you other aloniens, I like to play games on pc, watch basketball, and anything funny.

I like spooky sci fi stuff, ghost and aliens, cloverfield movies uhhh I’m so bad at describing myself tbh, I’d just like something easy and simple, we don’t have to fall in love we can just be friends

Hope to get to know some of yall 💜

Hey Everyone! I’m a Hispanic male/nonbinary person. Looking to make a nice connection with a nice open masculine man. I lean more towards the feminine side of the scale and want to be up front about that. Additionally, I’m typing this on my phone so forgive me on spelling, grammar, and editing issues.

My Hobbies: Video Games, meeting new people, reading books, taking long walks, trying new restaurants, going out to dance, shopping, and traveling.

Physical Description: As I stated before I’m Hispanic. I lean on the feminine side. I stand at about 5’6. Average body. Thicc thighs and booty lol. I keep my hair short. I’ve been described often as cute. I’m light skinned. I have my ears pierced. I’m happy to send pics and you should be too.

What I’m looking for: Ideally I’m looking for a masculine top. But more importantly someone I can be friends with. If you’re someone who struggles to maintain contact and can’t initiate conversation it’ll be hard for us. I want us both to feel wanted. We can start on reddit chat and then work to other apps if we click. Please be around my age. Lowest age I will go is 26 years old. My ideal friend would be someone who is open to platonic and romantic pursuits.

If any of this resonates with you please message me.

Hope to hear from yall soon.

Just your average diesel mechanic, 6'1, I game, I watch movies, I can cook. I know 2 languages and I'm a huge nerd... also have tats.

Big into gaming but it's fine if you're not. Just finished building my new pc and I have a switch

Music wise I'm big into deftones, well anything Chino Moreno. Though I also enjoy anything with a good beat so most genres are on the table. Let's share some musical

Ask to see my tats, I don't mind showing them. Only have 2 though.

Love horror, comedy, action and suspense. Honestly prefer horror but I know it's not everyone's thing. Zombies are the best monsters change my kind. 1982's The Thing is my favorite movie of all time... which has nothing to do with zombies lol. Ghost and demonic movies give me the heebie jeebies.

One on one relationship

I'd like to find someone who is into the same hobbies. Some are pretty common and some are more unique. So, if you like all of them then I'd love to meet you.

● I love sports. Specially tennis, padel and football (the real football). If you watch and play then you are awesome.

● Video games. Would be nice to have someone to play with. Rocket League, Minecraft, Smite, Fall Guys, Age of Empires. I know, not the common ones except for Minecraft lol.

● Board games. I'm very competitive, if you have the same competitive spirit then we are gonna get along pretty well.

● Puzzles and riddles. Something fun to keep the mind sharp

● Love driving at night listening to music. Specially Rock and electro. Songs in English and Spanish. Ac/dc, guns and roses, bon Jovi, Enanitos Verdes, Fito Paez, Ataque 77, etc...

● Drawing from time to time. Nothing to impressive. I just do it for fun

● Series more than movies but I can do both, also documentaries. If you are watching "House of the dragon" we can talk about it and watch it together on Sunday.

● Cooking and baking. I have to thanks the quarantine for that one.

● Traveling, of course, i want to visit as many countries as I can!

● Someone who like to ask tons of question and most important not only answer with one word

Ready to be blown away by who ever scored 10/10. Don't think is possible but..