/r/ForeverAloneDating

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Dating for the dating impaired. 18+ only. Positive comment karma required. Put your location in your title. Post flair is required and needs to be correct. No surveys or forms allowed. Don't be an ass and don't post a pic of yours.

Dating for the dating impaired


Don't forget about our parent subreddit, Forever Alone!


Posting requirements: you must be over 18! No exceptions. You need to have positive karma. Put your location in your title and Check the rules before posting. Don't be an ass and don't post a pic of yours. No surveys or forms allowed: any thread linking to an external site to gather user info or data will get you banned.

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Some tips:

  • Talk about your career and hobbies. What do you do for a living? What do you do for fun (besides Reddit)?

  • Don't self deprecate, talk about what makes you great!

  • Never had a relationship? Don't mention it. Don't get people thinking about what could be wrong with you.

  • This is still a smallish subreddit. Don't be let down by a meagre response, post again later, not everyone reads this every hour of every day!

  • Don't be discouraged by lack of public responses. NEARLY ALL RESPONSES ARE VIA PRIVATE MESSAGES! Remember, it's a dating site.


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39[F4M] #anywhere, online 🌙

Looking for someone to get to know each other. Someone who:

  • Is around my age. Not huge age gap : )
  • Is kind, honest, loyal, caring, mature, consistent, with actions that match their words, positive, humorous, intelligent, supportive, happy to share, open-minded, polite, gentle, generous, and considerate.
  • Has a nice and relaxed temper; this is really important to me as I only want healthy interactions.
  • Is willing to discuss their feelings and thoughts, invest time and effort into the relationship, and isn’t afraid to end it if necessary, as long as we’ve both tried our best and wish each other well. Values communication even during tough times and is willing to agree to disagree.
  • Keeps things clean and tidy, loves maintaining cozy spaces.
  • Has healthy hobbies they enjoy.
  • Ideally works from home and enjoys having company, whether it’s hanging out in voice chat, watching movies, or spending quality time together. We can work together, and you can watch me stream while I draw.
  • Is willing to share daily activities and keep each other informed.
  • Enjoys doing little activities together, sharing hobbies, and recommending things they love.
  • Is talkative but not overly chatty, values each other’s personal time and routines, and can navigate the relationship smoothly without overstepping.
  • Takes the relationship seriously but with a warm and lighthearted approach, willing to take things slow and become best friends in romance.
  • Is willing to schedule time, make time for each other, won’t randomly call or make empty promises.
  • Won’t ask for money or stuff when we’re just getting to know each other.
  • Does not involve nudes, but is open to discussing healthy adult topics when the time and feeling are right and both are comfortable.
  • Is willing to meet in real life and make plans when it feels right for both.
  • Is much taller than me (Asian, under 160cm and 42kg), exercises regularly, enjoys being fit, is clean-shaven, has hair, and is definitely single. We can exchange pictures and be honest if we don’t match.
  • Loves animals, plants, nature, travel, movies, TV series, isn’t overly into gaming (but willing to make time for each other), and enjoys cooking.
  • Is understanding and empathetic, as I’m still working through past experiences.
  • Would find it wonderful to journal together, as it can be romantic and helpful in a relationship.

✨ Prefers Discord/Telegram voice chat over text.

In general, I want to know if it’s possible to meet someone with whom we both feel grateful to have each other in our lives, both feel lucky in love and friendship. Someone who is stable, grounded, and feels like sunshine. Someone who understands love and is willing to try, to put in the effort for a happy, lovely future with me.

If this sounds like you and you’re willing to give it a try, tell me your favorite song or movie, whether it’s an all-time favorite or recent. Or tell me do you feel about my recent favorite songs, that I’ve added at somewhere, wonder if you can find them. It would be fun to start the chat!

Sorry if I don’t reply or delay my response, I will respond in a few days or next week. Past DMs were all replied : )

Best wishes! Have a wonderful day while looking for the one :)

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2024/10/31
07:21 UTC

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33 [M4F] #California - Introvert Looking for Adventure Partner

Hey everyone! I’m an introverted guy who’s been trying to figure out dating but haven’t had much luck yet. I enjoy hiking, backpacking, and exploring new places in the Sierras, and I recharge by watching old movies and tv shows with clever humor (currently watching Jeeves and Wooster).

I’m looking for someone patient who won’t mind a bit of overthinking and maybe an awkward moment or two. If you’re consistent, enjoy the outdoors, and want someone who’d love to swap trail stories or browse REI with you, let’s connect!

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2024/10/31
07:16 UTC

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26[M4A] looking to pass time and meet new people from all around!

I'm a pretty laid back individual who works wayy to much lol 🤣 and do try to game when given the opportunity. I do have many hobbies perks of having ADHD I did just start painting like a week ago! So I'm having fun doing that so if you'd like you chat with me I do have what I look like on my pfp and such. Just have a sense of humor and please be chill and be funny!:) oh also whats your fav song right now?

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2024/10/31
06:56 UTC

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22 [M4F] USA/Online - Looking for my obsessive player two!

Hello, my name is Max. I'm just your shut in gamer who doesn't work and has mental issues! I've come here to start my love quest, in search of my yandere partner! My current interests are mostly just video games. My favorite ones at the moment being Cyberpunk 2077 for it's gameplay, and NieR Replicant Ver 1.22 for the story! I mostly just play singleplayers due to not having friends to play games with but I sometimes enjoy online games. I like some animanga but not many. My favorite media that isn't games or animanga is definitely Godzilla or Spider-Man, mostly Spider-Man since I was born! I don't really have any Goals in life other than finally finding a job and make some money. My favorite food is either Pasta or Fried Rice. My favorite drinks are either Coca Cola or Twisted Tea! Speaking of drinking, I have a habit of drinking when I'm depressed and lonely.

Some cons about myself, well, like I said I don't really have any goals other than just finding a job. I struggle with talking to people so I WILL come off as dry and hard to talk to. I also have Autism so do with that what you will. And lastly I think my voice is quite awful to listen to.

If my appearance is important then I'll describe myself here. I'm a 5ft (yes you read this right) Male with Black hair and Brown Eyes. I'm usually clean shaven and am pretty skinny except for my gut due to my drinking habits.

Lastly, my ideal type. I don't really have an ideal type. Although I will say I love an obsessive/possessive personality. And for features, I think short hair looks cute :P.

Thank you for reading this, if I'm not your type, cool! I hope you have better luck than I on our quests!

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2024/10/31
06:02 UTC

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31[M4F] #online/anywhere, let's fall in love too fast

31[M4F] #online/anywhere, let's fall in love too fast

I have a bad habit, I love too quick and I fall too hard.

To me love is not reasonable or rational, it is getting to know someone and be completely absorbed by the other. It is wanting to spend every minute in the others' presence and wishing to be the other's world.

So why be rational, why keep playing sane. Are you like me, looking to fall into love with someone just as boundless? Let's sink together and see where love takes us! Let's talk and see if this is the start of something :)

About me:

  • traditional guy
  • work in the public sector
  • a love for 50s and 60s music
  • love philosophy
  • loyal to a fault
  • love a good discussion, agree to disagree and such
  • some say clingy and intense, you say if that is a bad or good thing
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2024/10/31
06:01 UTC

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34 [M4F] Canada/Online - Looking for someone normal who isn't a normie (I realize how stupid this sounds)

I want to start things off a little dark. Maybe that will help me find people I can relate with emotionally. I have no family, I have been no contact with my parents for years and everyone else is dead. No siblings, live alone, spend holidays alone. It's not as bad as it sounds and I don't try to inject myself into my friends' family holidays even though they'd probably take me. I'd say I'm a chronically lonely person and that feeling almost never goes away, but it does dull when I surround myself with others. I struggled with mental health a lot growing up and it wasn't easy getting to where I am now. I empathize with anyone who had family members who put them down and invalidated them. If you're struggling now just know things can get better and it's okay to fail. Why do we fall, Bruce? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.

I have too many hobbies. I play card games competitively (magic the gathering is one of them) and fly to tournaments all over North America. I build models and paint them from time to time, I sing and I promise I'm not terrible. I'm an ex MMO player, I've played tons of diablo 2/3/4 (This season is not it by the way), and I'm currently playing a few shooters (deadlock) in addition to league of legends/tft/hs: battlegrounds. Sci fi/fantasy are my favourite genres. LOTR, The Expanse, Evangelion, Your Name, and A Silent Voice are close to my heart for movies/series/anime. I'd love to find someone to travel with, I have some places on my list I'd enjoy much more with the right company.

I exercise to keep my mental health in check for the most part, and while lifting isn't my favourite thing to do I really enjoy boxing and by extension MMA watching. I've been pretty reclusive since the pandemic (I know that was quite awhile ago now) and I spend most of my time inside mostly due to my plethora of indoor interests (But a little bit because of my mild sun allergy). My hairdresser thought I was 26 the other day. Goes to show what no sunlight and napping in between meetings can do for your skin.

My corporate tech career lets me work from home and outside of meetings I can be available during the day. Nearby is always great but I think I can make most time zones work for the right person. If you're comfortable, I'd like to voice chat early on as I feel text is really lacking in tone/inflection. My voice for reference: https://voca.ro/1ShbPHVjjoF9

We'll see if anyone were able to make it through my wall of text. I'd love it if you introduced yourself, what we have in common, what made you reach out. The safety word is francais (which I can't speak fluently I'm sorry) so that I know you actually read my post. :')

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2024/10/31
05:55 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Mississauga / Online - Fluffy Haired Gamer Boy Looking for his forever

I'm Kaat Online/Chris irl I am 25 from Ontario Canada I am 6'6 bigger build and working on it. I'm shy but I'm working on that as well. I don't have any preference on who you are. I love to cook haven't baked in a while, I love trying new things. Favorite food is Greek, Italian, and any chicken I can have buffalo on. I make my own buffalo and hot honey.

I play Xbox, Apex Legends, Overwatch, Rust, Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Far Cry, Destiny 2, I have Fortnite for friends can send full list when we talk. (PC Valorant I'm not good. Minecraft Pixelmon, Shellshock live.

I work Monday through Friday, Off every other weekend but would definitely make time for you. Let's go on dates do cute Halloween stuff, Christmas stuff, let's go to the zoo or aquarium, go on picnic. I want someone I can spend my life with, my other half someone that understands me, gets me someone I can bond with and love.

Likes: Cats, Video games, Marvel, Brooklyn nine nine, Supernatural, Riverdale, Snowpiercer, Flash, Disenchantment and The Walking Dead. Loves: Cuddles, Communication! Streaming games for my person or playing with them Hates: Liars, cheaters, this generation doesn't give me hope to find my person.

Personality: I'm a very sweet, loving, loyal, affectionate and romantic guy. I'm 6'6 blonde hair blue eyes. Tall, I'm very soft I love to praise and will give reassurance if needed I'm very very loving and will constantly give you my attention and love.

I'm looking for my perfect person, I want someone that loves me for me! I love clingy. I love phone calls and late night texts, good night and good morning texts are also key, just want someone I can vibe with and be with, someone who is amazing and clingy and who wants to cuddle and spend time with me. Someone who wants to build trust with me and build a strong bond. Need to want to meet!  I'm wanting someone I can call mine and I can be theirs. I want to give all my love and affection to them and spend a lot of time with them.

I'm looking for someone I can be myself around, someone that accepts me for me and I'll do the same.

Equal relationships are key it's either 50/50 or nothing Communication is a need. It's key to a healthy relationship.

I look forward to meeting you. I hope you have a wonderful day and ask me anything

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2024/10/31
05:55 UTC

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20 [F4M] US/Anywhere

I will tell you my name in dms. I am 20F (21 next month) and I live on the east coast. I am in my third year of college where I am studying to be a teacher. In my free time I like to go to the beach, read, cook, and watch tv. I’ve also been getting into hiking recently!

Physically I am skinny and have brown hair and blue eyes.

I don’t care where you are from and anyone over 18 can message me. Physically I am more attracted to muscular men, but I’m open to anyone if the vibes are right. Please tell me a bit about yourself in your message.

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2024/10/31
05:42 UTC

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33M 4F [US/SoCal] Looking for my forever person/ Player 2

Hi. I'm a 33 year old Male living in SoCal. Looking for someone that doesn't mind talking every day or every other day, i know life can get in the way. Age doesn't matter too much except that i would like to have kids some day. I am a bit on the taller side of my family at 6'0 and on the bigger side and Hispanic.

Best way to describe me is that I am an introvert and homebody, but will go out if plans are made with friends. If I want to go out by myself I have been going to the movies by myself recently. And yes, I love movies along with video games and listening to music.

What I'm looking for is mainly someone with a good personality. That is the main thing i want because if your personality is not good then you are an ugly person. Location doesn't matter much at the moment either if we get along then great! I wouldn't mind my partner not liking video games to play. It would be nice to find someone that does. But there are other things we could do as well like watch movies and listen to music together.

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2024/10/31
05:39 UTC

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27[M4F] in Melbourne, Australia - Seeking relationship

Hello! I'm a 27-year-old man in Melbourne, Australia. I'm a counsellor, and also host a podcast discussing psychology. I'm a massive lover of music; it has great meaning in my life and is an amazing form of emotional stimulation, and I write songs and plan to one day play in a band. Outside of it all, I love to spend time with people in the company of nature or animals (brushing horses and throwing balls for dogs, anyone?), have a good conversation, crack jokes (I challenge you to have a wackier sense of humour than me!), and enjoy good food. You may also find me working with my hands on projects occasionally. I'm around 5'10", Mediterranean, slim and well-built, and have dark and extremely short hair. I'm equal parts thinker and doer; I'm passionate about trying to be the best that I can be in every aspect of my life and enjoy the challenge of examining and learning about the world, setting goals for myself, engineering my life, and helping others. I'm a free thinker, so within reason I'm not just looking to associate with people who share all of my values; I want to learn about others' perspectives and see the humanity in people.

I'm seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship with my eventual soul mate. I've decided that I want to remain child-free and live separately from my partner, as I believe that not being co‑dependent creates freedom for us to enhance each other's lives. As long as you're at least 18 (of course!), I'm not as concerned about your age or background; I'm seeking mutual attraction, intuitive chemistry, and the willingness to properly get to know each other, listen, and commit. I'm a celibate, but other forms of physical and emotional affection are fundamental to me, so I'll want to exchange warm snuggles, cute glances, and genuine words of affirmation.

While I'm happy to meet a range of people, I do have my deal-breakers. I am only seeking in‑person relations with people in Melbourne. My hard limits are smoking, excessive alcohol usage, narcotics, crime, and extremism. Please also be emotionally available, communicative, willing to enter in to respectful discussions if we don't agree, and please don't ghost!

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2024/10/31
05:38 UTC

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22 [F4M] #Oregon - Full time teacher and anime nerd looking for other similarly dorky people to pursue a relationship with.

Hi there! If you’re reading this you’re hopefully another animanga fan in the same vein as myself. Recently, I’ve been feeling the pangs of loneliness really hard especially with some difficulties at work so I’ve taken to the internet. Generally though, my interests end up being a bit too niche to appeal to guys and the ones that it does apply to are drowned out by the dozens who think with their penis.

Anyways, on a better note. A bit about me; I’m a teacher in Oregon and have been for two years and really love my work. I teach music and band and really enjoy writing. Irl I play drums and piano and like to write music. I also love love love cooking and getting cooked for so that’s an immediate chance at my heart haha.

Other hobbies that I would be super super excited if anyone had would be obvi more obscure animanga including most genres that aren’t just your typical shonen dreck. One of my favs of all time in fact is Lupin the 3rd and I ended up cosplaying Fujiko for Halloween because she is peak girlboss. I also am a member of some other fandoms including k on, csm, Homestuck, and fma brotherhood so if you’re a fan of any of those then that’s a big sign to message me hahaa.

So requirements for my partner are personally that they can’t be too much younger or older than me so please no one under 22 and no one over 30. I’d also like someone at least local to the United States so there is a possible irl implication in our relationship.

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2024/10/31
05:36 UTC

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21 [F4M] Take care of me

Hi, I am a 21F from the United States, east coast. I'm ethnically Asian and am seeking an Asian partner. That is a very strong preference I have, mostly due to cultural differences. That being said, I am not completely opposed to an interracial relationship but I have reasons not to enter one. While I’m open to getting to know people from anywhere, relocating isn’t something I’m considering.

I am looking for someone:

  1. Educated, has a strong work ethic, and always striving for self-improvement
  2. Gentle, considerate, proactive, emotionally mature and empathetic. Also wholly aware of the issues surrounding men and not making any excuses for them.
  3. Wants to settle down
  4. Elder sibling
  5. Has never smoked/done drugs etc. I'm a teetotaler but okay if you drink socially
  6. Has a stable family and a good upbringing. Values education and hard work.
  7. Provider, generous, responsible, and reliable. Is capable of and more than willing to provide a quality of life at least at par with my current lifestyle. How much I make, and what I do, is irrelevant to you.
  8. Atheist.
  9. Capable of caring for self, clean, helpful.
  10. I’m not into facial hair, piercings, or tattoos. My personal preference.
  11. 5’10”+. I’m over average height myself.

With the right person, I would like to have a family. I value having a loving, happy family life as I did growing up (and still enjoy :)). However, I also enjoy being single and live very comfortably right now. My peace and safety are two things I value greatly- similarly, while I would consider having a family, my health and appearance would be negatively impacted. All that to say I won’t be throwing any of this away for someone that won’t meet my needs. Aside from (possibly) point 4 (a strong personal preference), these are non-negotiable. Also bonus if you’re fluent in another language.

I'll stop there- if you're interested, send me a DM with a self-description and what you're looking for.

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2024/10/31
05:25 UTC

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19 (M4F) London Ontario. Figured I’d try my luck

Hey y’all. I just moved to London to get out of homelessness and to build my life back up a little bit. Little about me

I worked at a performance parts shop while I was in FL (where I used to live) and now I’m doing that same job but remote up here. I practice BJJ in my spare time and work out pretty consistently to prep myself for joining the military. Slow process but it’s moving along

Not too sure what else to put down, I’m better with actual conversation than just writing about myself lol. Give me a shout, I’m open to online, in person, whatever. Hopefully somewhere along the lines a spark shows up 🤷🏻‍♂️

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2024/10/31
05:19 UTC

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22 [M4F] US/anywhere I want an Asian Goth gf

I’m a 5’10 white male with brown hair and hazel eyes. I have a huge thing for Asians and Goths so why not have both. I love playing video games, watching anime, and watching wrestling. I don’t drive and I still live with my parents.

I would love to know about you, like your hobbies and some fun facts about you. I would want you to start with an introduction message, you can include a pic of yourself if you want.

I don’t know what else to add but I hope you have an amazing day or night because you deserve it.

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2024/10/31
05:09 UTC

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21F (F4M) Thailand, looking for a LTR, LDR is fine!

Hey yall 😼! My names Evie and I'm from Thailand. I have to say first that I am a TGirl (transwoman) that is soon to be post-op (no chasers PLEASE, if you don't know what those are you probably arent one ahhaha). I'm 21 years old and in my fourth year of uni. Majoring in Spanish with a double minor in French and Psychology.

I'm 6ft. Or 182cm and I'm half Thai Japanese so my skin is a mix between fair and tan. I have dark brown eyes and my natural hair colour is brown. I recently dyed it so it's bright red now!

My hobbies include playing video games (specifically League of Legends and Honkai Star Rail), reading romance novels, learning about biology, psychology, mbti, astrology, collecting perfume and doing my makeup, and finally dancing. I'm a Leo and ESFJ for all the Astro and Mbti boys out there ahhahaa.

I'm a very chill person who likes to make people laugh. I'm an extrovert and love meeting new people, and l'm also a heart over head kinda girl. I tend to talk alot and have no filter.

Lastly to what l'm looking for, l'm looking for a man whos preferably 20-27 but a bit older or younger is fine as long as you are 18+. I'm okay with long distance as long as we plan to meet up. According to my friends I tend to go for White and East Asian men so I guess that might be my type, but I'm open to talking to anyone as long as you're not a chaser. You obviously have to be okay with me being trans as I don't think it'll work out if you aren't. Hope to find someone out there that meets the criteria! If you've read this far, end your text with this emoji 😾 (it's my favourite one haha)

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2024/10/31
05:06 UTC

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24 [M4F/TF] Midwest/Online - Keep me company?

Hey there, I'm Matt, I'm 24. I'm a master's student currently. I'm pretty nerdy. I like video games, music, concerts, movies, cooking, and spacing out watching youtube. I'm looking for a connection with someone. I'd love to get to know you if you're just lonely and looking for somebody to fill that void in your life. I'm open to anything right now. I don't have any expectations or any sort of qualifications for you. Any age or walks of life are welcome to message. Shoot me a message if you feel like it, take a chance on me.

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2024/10/31
05:04 UTC

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32[M4F]Arizona/Anywhere - Anyone else feeling bored and lonely? Let me give you the affection and attention you deserve!

Hello, I hope everyone's having a nice night!Anyways im feeling a little bored and pretty lonely, so I figured I'd try and meet some new people. So Iv usually been the quiet shy type, the one that tends to sit in the back of class and hope i don't get noticed. People tend to judge you before they get to actually know you, so its always been kinda hard meeting new people for me. I am trying to work on being less introverted and more social, plus lately iv been feeling kinda lonely so I would like to find a chat buddy. Short-term chat is fine but preferably id like a long term friend. I would like someone that wants to talk about both serious topics and silly topics. Also if you have anything on your mind and need to vent i dont mind listening.

So a bit about me im about 5'10 with brown eyes and long dark brown hair. I have 2 cats with plenty of pictures!  Im a pretty big geek, I love comic books some of my favorites would be The walking dead, Spawn, Invincible, Batman, Hellblazer/Constantine, Spiderman, Old man logan to name a few. I also enjoy reading books like The expanse, ready player one, Lord of the rings. I am currently reading The witcher series. i also enjoy hiking, sleeping, going to the movies,mall,bars, concerts.

I Also enjoy video games and I usually just play on my xbox. Some of my favorites would be Red dead redemption 1&2, Fallout New Vegas&4, Assassins creed 2 and origins, Pubg, skyrim, Bioshock, mass effect, i have plenty of more

If you would like to know my music tastes i am very much a punk,metal, classic rock type of guy but that doesn't mean I won't listen to other stuff. If you enjoy bands like Greenday, The adicts, The misfits, Ramones, Weezer, Foo fighters will get along.

For Movies and Tv i like scifi fantasy but ill watch anything. Some of my likes would be , a good amount of marvel and dc shows and movies.

As for who im looking for age, ethnicity,location dont matter just be fun and nice! Of course it would be great to find someone with common interests but its not a deal breaker im willing and want to learn about new hobbies. So if you think we might make great friends lets chat, we can chat on reddit or whatever app you might use.

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2024/10/31
04:52 UTC

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20 [F4M] - Online / Anywhere

Hey!

Let me introduce myself a little! I'm here hoping to meet someone who is truly serious about finding their significant other. I am going through a lot right now, but I hope that special someone will help me get through it. I'm very selfless and caring, and a very simple person. Almost anything interests me; I'm always open to talking about anything.

I’m looking for someone who is committed and serious and would understand the situation of the person and carry forward the relationship accordingly—someone who’s ready to communicate openly and isn’t here for just casual chat. I don't mind long distance, as I am a firm believer that if some people are meant to be, then this shouldn't be a big hindrance to their relationship. I don't care where you're from or how you look; I'm looking for a simple human being. If you’re interested in building a solid, real connection with someone who values you for who you are, let’s see where this could take us! Please be around 21–25. We can take it to discord if we click! Hope to see you soon!

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2024/10/31
04:44 UTC

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23 [F4M] looking for a genuine connection

Hello! I’m a simple vet student girly from the Philippines. Some facts/things about me:

*I have natural curly hair, average height and I’m a chubby girl.

*I love to do arts and crafts when I have free time.

*Provincial life over city life (altho I like socializing and experiencing the active life of the city).

*I have a lot of cats and dogs, but I dream about owning a horse and a cow someday.

*I love listening to old music (especially 70s and 80s) (I’m a Rick Astley fan).

*Tina Belcher is my spirit animal.

I don’t really restrict myself to a certain part of the world. I am fine with us having different time zones. If you want to know more about me, just message me. I would love to know things about you and to exchange silly/random things and thoughts with you.

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2024/10/31
04:42 UTC

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18[M4F] #Nevada; or #Online. Tall, Fit, and Cute Boy-Next Door looking!

Hey! My name is Joe. 6’2, 190Lbs, Muscular Athletic Build, Greenish-Brownish Eyes. Wavy Brown hair with clear skin and a few freckles. I am kind, respectful, and a little shy. I say please and thank you to Siri and I always talk to dogs in a baby voice. I drive the speed limit and open the door for anyone and everyone. I am very down-to-earth and in touch with my emotions. I am very emotionally resilient and independent. I love to laugh and enjoy life.
I love fitness. My whole life revolves around it and I am a complete nerd about fitness. I like cooking, exploring new food places, watching football, going outdoors, and watching animals. I have a dog and he is the best. I am kind of a germaphobe. I am very clean, hygienic, and tidy. I am a weird blend of smart and oblivious. I don’t have any shallow or materialistic requirements or expectations. If anything I said piqued your interest, please send a message! If my post is still up I am still looking

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2024/10/31
04:26 UTC

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29 [M4A] - Truly forever alone?

Hey, everyone. I'm a 29 year old guy from California. I've posted here plenty of times before, but I rarely get replies. It's understandable though. I struggle deeply with social anxiety disorder and I suspect I may be on the autism spectrum, but I'm not officially diagnosed or anything. Because of these hindrances I live a very sheltered life and I've not experienced many many things. I'm hoping to meet someone here to help me not feel so lonely and someone who can understand me and accept me for who I am.

a bit about me: I'm a pretty big nerd. I LOVE video games and if you let me will talk your ear off about them (special interest maybe?), I like reading, I like psychology and music. I usually enjoy your typical nerdy things as well. As far as looks go I'm a very heavy set dude, I'm 5'11, Latino, black hair, brown eyes, wear glasses.

Maybe we will get along? If you think so hmu please! :)

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2024/10/31
04:19 UTC

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28M[M4F] Oregon, USA. "I just want real love, guess it's been a minute."

Hey there! I’m a 28-year-old Oregonian who runs a resale business—think eBay but with way cooler finds. I'm a big dude (and tall, apparently, according to everyone I meet), on a weight loss journey, and living proof that you can go from couch potato to...well, a slightly smaller couch potato. I was in a 9-year relationship from 17-26, so I’ve been around the block and have a pretty good idea of what I’m looking for.

Books, movies, and TV are my holy trinity—whether it's getting lost in a fantasy novel or binge-watching a series, I’m all about it. I’m also 420-friendly, so brownie points if you are too (pun intended).

I'm a hopeless romantic looking for my storybook ending. I want to date my partner even after things get "official," with all the cheesy date nights and late-night calls. Looking for someone who's kind, caring, genuine, and maybe a little clingy (the good kind). I crave deep conversations about everything—the universe, books, movies, TV, sex, love—you name it. Let's talk about why we think the way we do, and dig into all those topics that keep us up at night. I’d love someone who enjoys sending voice notes throughout the day and is down for nighttime calls. If you have tattoos and piercings, I’m probably already swooning, but it's not a dealbreaker!

Distance is okay with me, but I’d prefer if you were in Oregon, Washington, or California for travel purposes. I work from home, so I’m readily available, and I come drama-free—I’m all about fixing things, not ghosting. If you’re into a guy who’s committed, communicative, and ready to bring a bit of romance back, let's chat!

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2024/10/31
04:17 UTC

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27 [T4F] #Online/Anywhere Trans Male Looking for my Dva (Hana Song) (Overwatch Reference)

My name is Mikey. Hello. I am a Transgender Male, I'm Pansexual/Asexual. I'm 27 and I live in Texas

When it comes to Relationships, I do grow attached romantically to someone if I truly know they're the one

I am someone who yaps a lot about overwatch and fanfics and fandoms and has a fun sense of humor and makes funny cute jokes and I want someone who will find it endearing.

I have a YT Channel, I make videos, I edit them, and I have a Roblox Horror VTuber / Overwatch Channel I post almost every day to. It's basically something that I feel is passionate for myself.

I do like to sing, write, draw, video edit and spend time with family and friends. walk and play with my dog, baking.

I'm someone who does have mental health issues and truly wants someone who will love me as I want to love them and protect them so much from any worries they have, and I want them to worry for me

I truly want a lover to love me as I love them My age range of a partner is 22+ and I'm strictly monogamous

I may be Pansexual, but I do prefer femmes (no matter the gender) Cis, Trans, etc.

Please whoever comes across this know I am friendly and kindhearted and whether I'm a catch or not (PS, I'm probably not.) Just know we can be friends, even if I'm not your type. I'll do anything to be the greatest friend either way.

But romantically, I'll be there for anyone who comes across this and even reads it I want them to one day meet my parents, meet my mom on a call one day. The both of us can meet each other's irl or online friends.

We watch YouTube videos, movies, tv shows or anime together. We can play video games. I do prefer overwatch but it's not a big need to play though, I can play other games if you prefer.

Thanks for whoever read this

I truly want to love someone and care, respect, be there, protect and forever let them take my heart and keep it in its fragile state.

In your beautiful hands. I know this seems poetic and long, but I mean every word from the bottom of my heart.

Thanks on who read up this far just know my dms are open ^^ and If you're interested send a shark emoji! (I love sharks, I'll probably ignore it if there's no shark emoji)

Photo of me: https://imgur.com/a/wWjqBYt

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2024/10/31
04:16 UTC

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21 (F4M) Canada / North America looking for someone I can at least connect with

I feel broken and honestly I just want someone to tell me it'll be okay

I'm not really expecting much out of reddit but I thought I could connect with people in my situation as well

I've never been in a romantic relationship and idk I just feel so behind, lost

I don't want this post to be purely negative but my headspace isn't that great right now

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2024/10/31
04:14 UTC

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18/m4f 6’ft nerdy trying to find a connection

18/M hi looking for a connection on Reddit cause dating apps premiums suck

Hi y’all I’m a an anthropology major residing in US (Pacific Northwest). I wanna try to meet a gal who’s dedicated and nerdy like me! ( I love listening about peoples interests and sharing about my own I just want to yap and casually flirt) it’s my freshman year so while I’m online and have a good amount of social battery I’m tryin to get to know some cool peeps. I really like the idea of long distance I’ve always dropped the ball when it comes to asking people out. I’m not like afraid of rejection necassarily, my brain I guess catches up with my confidence and asks for its license and registration. I’m a little clingy but I’m working on it.

My interests includes nature, history, anime , transformers, culture, 80’s music and so much more. I’m a big talker so be prepared for long convos, I’m neurospicy with a photographic memory so chances are I know at least a little about your interest
If you’ve read this far and are genuinely interested in chatting.DM me if you’d like to chat.

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2024/10/31
04:12 UTC

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30 [F4M] r4r scares me so I'm here instead haha. Also, it's spooky time so why not. 🎃

Hello all once more! So. I recently made a post and I managed to speak to a few folks, but unfortunately, all of them died out. Rip. So I am here once again, chumming the waters. Hopefully I'll catch an elusive Halloween shark. Just, no catfish please. Selfies are a must. I also expect to video chat as time progresses. I get that some folk are shy and such. I understand. But I want to build something. With someone who wouldn't mind it.

Some quick little notes- No children. Looking for something serious but I understand that takes time. I am by no means looking to fall in love TONIGHT. Rome wasn't built in a day. I am located in Tennessee. I'm active on the apps and on the dating scene but I don't want to just gridlock myself. okay! Boring stuff aside let's get to the meat of it all.

I am stealing this idea but I have a little semi-Halloween themed questionnaire for you all to fill out for this boyfriend application.

  1. What is your age?

  2. What is your name?

  3. Where are you located?

  4. What are your plans for Halloween?

  5. What's the sweetest memory you have of Halloween?

  6. Alternatively, what's the spookiest?? 🎃

  7. If you had to live in any universe of a classic horror film, which would it be and why?

So what happens after you send in your answers? Well, shoot me a selfie! I'm not going to lie. Looks are important 🫠 without physical attraction, I can't see developing a relationship.

After we get looks out of the way, I would love to play a game of questions to get to know one another.

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2024/10/31
04:09 UTC

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26 [M4F] Illinois/Anywhere - Hey you (with rizz)

I am a psychology major, nothing is more fascinating than understanding people better and understanding what makes them tick. I also have such a love and passion for music, my favorite type of music being love songs because they have such a passion about them with how it's expressed. I also have been listening to a lot of pop punk over the past year! I also love to sing with a passion, especially love songs since I can serenade people (Even if I'm not a good singer). You can always spot me out in the wild, windows down, blasting music and singing my heart out!

People would think I'm a musician with all my instruments, but to be honest, those things are basically decorations at this point. However, I have a piano and I'm trying my best to learn how to play that! I love the way that it sounds and the melodies it can produce, so that keeps me going with wanting to become better at it!

Ideally, I would like to talk to someone around my age (21-29), but I make exceptions for some pretty awesome people! So if you think I sound interesting enough, send me a message! I also have a picture of myself on my profile if you need a face for reference as to who you are talking to! If you have made it this far, well kudos to you! Hope to hear from you soon!

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2024/10/31
04:05 UTC

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28M if your a nerdy girl who's sick of getting ghosted why not try me. Missouri/U.S.

Heyo, I'm currently having a wonderful day and hoping you are to. Ive been deciding to shoot my shot, I'm currently working to be an author and really want a girlfriend. If you in missouri and want to see were this gose, shoot me a text and I'll talk to you for hours about my favorite tv shows/video games. Bouns points if you send me pictures of your Halloween costume.

A bit about me. Eagerly awaiting the next season of miraculous ladybug Fallout: New Vegas is my favorite game In d&d I like going for ether the rouge or the spellcaster I'm always quick with a joke I'm shy and if I like you, it will take me months to work up the courage to ask you out

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2024/10/31
03:56 UTC

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18M looking for my player 2! Ohio/Anywhere

Hi, my name is Jake, some of my main interests are gaming, anime, nature, swimming, animals and Watching movies. I'm okay with dating any race and dating online if you live in another part of the world or another state. Some things about me is that I have blue eyes, where glasses, I'm shy and have social anxiety, I'm 6'3, I have longer hair that's brown, I have a beard and mustache that's forming, im white and i enjoy a huge variety of games and anime. Things I'm looking for in a partner is someone who is caring, enjoys gaming and anime like me, is within the age range of 18-21, your height doesn't matter since I like both short and tall girls and I also don't mind if your a little chubby for those of you who may be worried about that. Please dm me if your interested in getting to know eachother and maybe fotm a special connection.

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2024/10/31
03:51 UTC

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21 [m4f] I'm looking for somebody who will play games with me and sit on the phone all night with me

About me I'm a big time nerd and the biggest geek you will ever meet and I'm not ashamed I'm a bigger guy and I want to meet somebody who doesn't care about my flaws and likes me for me I don't have any preferences I just want to meet somebody kind that will play games with me if you're interested please let me know

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2024/10/31
03:43 UTC

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