Hello! If you’re reading this hopefully my title caught your attention. It has consistently been negative temperature where I live so desolate wasteland pretty much sums up where I live right now. Outside of my distain for winter, I can write a little about myself. I’m 23 and graduated college last May. I’ve found a 9-5 that I enjoy in pharmaceutical marketing. My biggest hobbies are history, reading, classic cars, and video games.

I have a degree in history to show my love for it and I specialize in the Cold War! I’m mainly a fantasy and sci fi reader with Red Rising being a current favorite. I love cars and own a 1974 Corvette (yes a humble brag forgive me) that I love to drive when it’s not frigid outside. I spent some of my free time gaming and ideally that is how my prospective partner and I could bond! I play a little bit of everything but current favorites are League of Legends, Squad, and Tarkov.

Physically, I’m 6’2”, brown hair and short beard, green eyes, glasses, and working on losing some weight. I do have Tourette’s Syndrome which thankfully doesn’t impact my life very much but it’s worth calling out.

If any of this caught your interest please don’t hesitate to message me! I like to use discord to talk but happy to message on here.

I know you know what I'm talking about. That notification that when you see it pop up, you smile the biggest smile or go all giddy inside. Maybe you've had it before, maybe you've not had it yet. Either way, I want to be that for you.

It's a lazy Saturday evening and I don't have much planned so why aren't we chatting? It's that time of year when I'm definitely looking for someone to help make those long dark nights a bit less lonely. A love for horror, Swift and reading not a necessity but always a bonus!

I'm from England (terrible I know), I've lived here all my life but I love to travel and experience new places. I'd love to chat to people from all over the world (not to say that the UK is excluded, but I'm a sucker for a good accent) and learn more about your country - be that food, history, cinema etc...

About me:

• I love to read, always looking for a new recommendation. Maybe we could have a little one to one book club as part of our letters? Choose a book to read and discuss it, think this could be really fun!

• I love to bake and cook too, especially things I've not tried before so any recommendations from what you usually eat would be amazing. I always need a taste tester haha.

• I'm generally quite a big nerd, mostly in terms of history and books. But I also love movies, video games and music (secret swiftie)! I collect records as a hobby so chats about music are always appreciated.

I'd be happy to swap pics and verify each other early on..just really looking for that special someone to connect with and build something. Location doesn't bother me as I'm open to relocation (try to persuade me against running away to the wilderness and living in a cabin?). I'm career driven and work in what I think is a pretty cool job!

Hoping to hear from you soon! Maybe you could start by telling your biggest fear? Let's get all deep straight away 😂

Speak soon!

Hey guys! It's been a while. Looking for someone based on my preference.

• Chinese, Japanese, or Korean • Fit / Slim • Educated • 27-28 • 167 cm and up • Introvert / calm / patient

About me:

• Filipina • 27 yrs old • 151 cm / short black hair • Introvert • not a gamer

No creepy or nsfw (auto pass). Thank you for your response!

Hi everyone! This is going to be a long post :p

I’m looking for a relationship built on love, respect and trust. I want it to be long-term, and it will have to start off long-distance because I’m from South America. I’m more a “traditionalist” in the sense that I’m looking for the “man” of the relationship. I’m not really feminine, but I do like the idea of finding a man who will treat me like a prince, and who will take the lead on the relationship. That’s not to say I won’t pull my own weight. I will support and love you in every aspect that I can :).

I am willing to share my face if an initial level of trust is built. Especially if we kick off right from the start. I know I won’t find many actual initial connections because of the distance, and the specific of what I’m looking for. However, I’m willing to talk with everyone who at least reads my entire post lol.

I’ve never been in a relationship before, so the additional guidance your age would provide sounds fantastic. Especially if you’ll be patient with me :)

Who am I attracted to? Definitely not dealbreakers.

• HEIGHT: I do like tall men. A lot. Particularly taller than me, but around my height would be fine.
• AGE: I like guys older than 30. My upper limit would be 55. I would be open to dating a guy older than that that looks younger. I’m open to dating guys younger than 30 if we hit it off immediately.
• BODY: I prefer a guy who’s fit, healthy, and takes care of their body. That doesn’t mean you have to live at the gym or only eat vegan. I just want someone who is thinking of their health.
• BODY HAIR: I prefer guys with average body hair. Not super hairy either, but definitely some hair in the body haha.
• FACIAL HAIR: I don’t mind a smooth, shaved or beard. As long as it’s not unkept.
• DRUGS: No drugs please. Alcohol is fine.
• (SEX) PREFERENCE: Anything except a total bottom.
• MASC/FEM: I like more masculine guys, less attracted to feminine men.
• PERSONALITY: I like outgoing guys who can help carry a conversation. Also communicative guys who know how to share their thoughts and feelings.
• CAREER: I am attracted to professional men; especially if they have a career. Not because they will take care of me, but because that’s a clear sign of motivation. That they have/had a goal and realized it. Also because they can maybe help me with my career goals and offer advice.
• HOBBIES: Please have hobbies haha. Regardless of what they are, I would like to learn about them :).
• LOCATION: I would rather talk to people from the Americas or Europe because of time zones.

About me?

• I’m 5’11 (or 180cm). I’m pretty slim despite not going to the gym.
• I’m 22 years old. Probably look a bit older with my (not so great) beard.
• I’m average masculine wise. I rarely have feminine attitudes.
• I want a relationship based on love, trust, and respect. I’m particularly attracted to the wisdom and new perspectives that come with age. I don’t necessarily want a Dad/son relationship, but I’m not opposed to one either.
• I also am into d/s dynamics, but I rather explore and be more open about them after we’ve talked for a bit. I just wanted to be upfront about this aspect.
• I love kissing, body contact, and oral. I’d also consider myself a side and verse bottom.
• I’m relatively introverted and shy in real life. Like many other introverts, when I feel comfortable with someone, I won’t shut up. My social battery is not that large, so I like to spend some time alone.
• Due to the fact that we might start off long-distance. I will try to be as communicative as I can, but I would also like someone who is naturally good at this haha.
• I don’t do drugs or drink alcohol.
• Hobbies: I love to read, catch up on the latest TV shows, watch movies, and go out for a walk from time to time. I also enjoying discovering new music, and learning languages.

If you’ve read this far, thank you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out. Also, if you can share something about you, so I don’t have to ask myself for basic information 😅. I’m typically an open book.

So i could go on about how terrible i am at this, but i feel like everyone starts with that... oh wait i just did, oops.

In any case, I'm a swiss guy working in cyber security and feeling a bit lonely. It's been some time since i've been in a committed relationship and i feel like it's time again.

About me: i'm an introvert, but i like to hang out with friends and travel and be social, but i need my time to recharge. I enjoy Tabletop RPGs, traveling, video games, reading and writing (mostly fantasy). I'd say i'm pretty laid back, i'm an atheist/secular humanist if that matters, and on the MBTI i register as an INTP. I have a weird, unique kind of humor that's hard to describe: very sarcastic, a bit dry, maybe just a bit surreal.

I would love to find someone who is on a similar wavelength, someone intelligent who i can have that kind of best friend and soulmate dynamic. Maybe someone not too far away if possible. If that sounds like you, i'd love to hear from you!

Hey there!

I'm Luuk, 21 year old guy from the Netherlands, and I'm looking for someone special to share life's adventures with.

A bit about me: I'm passionate about a variety of activities that keep life exciting. Gaming is one of my main hobbies - I love diving into new worlds and challenges.

Traveling is another big part of my life; there's nothing like exploring new places and cultures. I'm also a regular at the gym, and enjoy swimming and snorkeling whenever I get the chance. Theme parks hold a special place in my heart, and I'm fascinated by steam trains.

I'm an introvert who prefers the comfort of home over the chaos of parties. My ideal evening is spent watching TV, i find joy in simple pleasures and love creating a cozy, fun environment at home.

I'm looking for someone who shares my interests and appreciates a laid-back lifestyle. If you're into gaming, traveling, or just chilling at home, we might just be a perfect match. Honesty and communication are key for me, and I believe in building a meaningful connection based on mutual respect and shared interests.

If you're looking for a genuine connection with a guy who values quality time and simple joys, I'd love to hear from you. Let's create some great memories together!

Edit apparently my last post wasn't long enough soo hopefully this ones good

About me: 40, mother, professional, lonely looking for attention, to be desired, someone to have fun and connection with. I'm pretty honest and always say what's on my mind.

What I'm looking for: someone kind andhonest I'm able to connect with. I wanna feel that spark.. Let's see how it goes

Hello I'm Steven I'm 32 will be 33 on the 4th im a hopeless romantic looking for a ldr that will end up evolving into a close in person relationship I'm willing to relocate for love I'm a huge gamer and nerd. I'm a Disney fanatic I listen to all kinds of music I think lin Manuel Miranda is a musical genius I'm very talkative I will not ghost u I have a deep voice i have BPD and adhd . I'm Hispanic I'm 6ft chubby . I am in mst time zone I play Xbox big Wwe fan I love star wars and marvel.my hot take is tom Holland is the best live action Spider-Man lol. I don't have an age preference can be younger or older. Send me a message

I am currently accepting applications for the position of girlfriend with the potential for a promotion if things go well.

Qualities being looked for: Smart Kind Funny Animal lover Nerdy

Job requirements: Listening to my game rants Cuddling (if close enough) Holding your side of the convo

Bonuses: Also a gamer Lives in Missouri or nearby as employer will be moving to Missouri sometime next yr

Qualities the employer has: Kind Caring Smart Funny Animal lover Nerdy

Perks of the job: Will always try to make you laugh Someone to vent to when needed Good morning and good night messages

If interested please leave your name, age, and location in your message. Applications that show no effort like just saying hi will be ignored

Hi everyone, I wrote a post here 10 days ago. And it was a flop.. this was my post:

''Hi, I'm 160cm, around 60kg, in good shape because I work outside. I am an artist and have my own little house in a very small village, and want to either build a home here with a partner and kids, or move somewhere where a similar, country side life would be possible. Love cats, I have 3 right now..but who knows if they will stay, cats roam around haha I am pretty handy and independent, have a good sense of humor and like to dance and sing for fun. I made my home look very cozy and whimsical, but it is clearly made for one person. And I would like to change that. I don't make a lot of money, because I couldn't work in the city, which would make the most sense, I feel really trapped in big cities. Last summer I worked in Romania as restorator on an old building. First time, went great! Direction in life is important to me, so I would love to meet someone who has similar goals and view as me, or knows more and can show me a new way of looking at things. I need someone who is grounded but excited about life, someone who is not afraid of taking risks, maybe a bit strange, because I usually steer ''regular'' guys away with my own weirdness. And there is plenty of it. For example, if there are a bunch of foxes screaming outside my house in the middle of the night and they wake me up, i run out and scream at them until they go away. I would like someone who could do that for me or with me :D I would like to travel a lot more, but I don't feel safe doing it on my own, would want a guy to be by my side, especially if we hitchike or travel in cheaper, but less safe ways maybe. I can cook well, I make great coffee and can cut down a tree.

Edit* I'm a cat person. Not a fan of dogs, at all. So, someone who would want to be with me, has to be ok with not having a dog.

Edit nr2* So, unexpetedly, i got a lot of messages, too many, so if it seems like I'm ignoring you, its nothing personal, i just am a bit overwhelmed with responding to everyone, who wrote more than just ''hi'' or ''hello'' :)''

Now, as you can see from my edit, i got a lot of messages, as I expect every single female to get. I'm pretty sure it is not the same for men. And I didn't reply to a bunch, actually most people. Even the ones who wrote long messages. A lot of guys were really nice, but it all felt like I was conducting job interviews. And I disappeared for days. Because I cannot have multiple engaging conversations. It is like being on a texting date with 8 guys at the same time. So I have no idea how to approach this. I was thinking maybe I need to write stuff that is more.. off-putting? Or selective..? To give you a full picture.. I am sweet, but not really :) So.. here it is:

I am a bit feral, very hard headed, will disappear for days on end, I value my freedom over literally everything else. I perfer younger guys 25-30. If you look me up, you will see that I made a post looking for people to build a community with, so I need people who want to prioritize that. Plus points if you went to Waldorf school or any similar type of school. But nothing super religious and culty. I live in a catholic country, Croatia and even though I don't consider myself really religious, I do believe the old chistianity, (not the modern bible teaching that was translated and twisted left and right) has the right message. I would rather take someone who is atheist but kind hearted over someone who will do bad things in the name of religion. *also...kinda glad trump won ;)* (so that should tell you something abt my views.) Now, I don't have discord, snapchat or telegram. None of that gen z stuff haha, I still have facebook..but don't really use it. If we click, we can switch to ig or whatsapp.

Also, you can see my picture here, I can look better and worse than this..so take it with a grain of salt, women are chameleons ;) As an artist, I do need beauty in my life, so I am a bit picky when it comes to looks. I think attraction and chemistry is important so if we don't find each other attractive, it is pointless to talk towards romantic relationship. But, I'm not saying no to friendships - if they are honest. Not with the intention that it will change someday. It won't.

Also, I would rather have someone write something funny and personal, if they genuinely felt my post... Don't be lazy and write, ''hi'' or ''saw your post, was bored, wanna chat?''... I believe in something I heard: you cannot say the wrong thing to the right person. So try that.

So, thats that :)

this is me: https://imgur.com/Tzb00wb

Helllo! I hope you're doing great today :)

I'm looking for my own lil gremlin to match energy with. I love Banter and jokes even if they're really stupid I'm sure I'll laugh at it.

Some of my hobbies include:

• Singing in my car on the way to work. I'm not a good singer but I'm in the car nobody else can hear.
• PC gaming :) I mostly play or want to play Marvel Rivals, League(Bad at it) Path of Exile 2, Valheim, Sun Haven, Stardew, Escape from Tarkov (also bad at this). There's so many other games but that's my list!

-Painting Miniatures from warhammer or etsy :) -Pixel Art!! I'm still newish but I'm not artistic so it's a toughie :( _______ Some other small details_______ -I want to get a bunch of tattoos. Right now the main one is a dinosaur sleeve with some Easter eggs and all. Then another sleeve and a connecting chest tattoo. Honestly probably so many others but we will see

-My work schedule is 2pm-11pm so I won't be available from those hours cause I'm not allowed to have my phone in the building lol.

I'm a really goofy person. I try to be at least, I just want to laugh and have a good time. But in relationships I tend to be very affectionate and open about my feelings and worries. I don't like letting things build up and boil over. My love language is quality time but it's a mix of everything because I'm a big lover boi :) also I'm pretty shy at first. Please be patient.

-Physically I'm 6ft or something lol, I'm real pale, like I never seen the sun before... Also pretty slim but I'm working out more and just met a physical trainer! So maybe I'll come out looking super hot. But I think I'm handsome :) have a beard, light brown eyes (dark on camera) and short floors hair. I'm a whole snacc imo.

About you?

-Maybe a gamer? It's not a dealbreaker but tbh it is a big preference

• A big want is someone whose patient. Willing to talk about the problems they're having and can come to me about anything when we get comfy. I want to be your safe space.

• This is where I feel shitty but I need to be honest. I'm not really attracted to plus size. I'm sure you're all lovely but. It's just not for me. I'm sorry.

_________THANK YOU!

Please send me a little intro. Any msgs with none won't get a response and I'll sit firm on that..

I'm Kaat Online/Chris irl I am 25 from Ontario Canada I am 6'6 bigger build and working on it. I'm shy but I'm working on that as well. I don't have any preference on who you are. I love to cook haven't baked in a while, I love trying new things. Favorite food is Greek, Italian, and any chicken I can have buffalo on. I make my own buffalo and hot honey.

I play Xbox, Apex Legends, Overwatch, Rust, Stardew Valley, MARVEL RIVALS, Destiny 2, I have Fortnite for friends can send full list when we talk. (PC Valorant I'm not good. Minecraft Pixelmon, Shellshock live.

Let's go on dates do cute Halloween stuff, Christmas stuff, let's go to the zoo or aquarium, go on picnic. I want someone I can spend my life with, my other half someone that understands me, gets me someone I can bond with and love.

Likes: Cats, Video games, Marvel, Brooklyn nine nine, Supernatural, Riverdale, Snowpiercer, Flash, Disenchantment and The Walking Dead. Loves: Cuddles, Communication! Streaming games for my person or playing with them Hates: Liars, cheaters, this generation doesn't give me hope to find my person.

Personality: I'm a very sweet, loving, loyal, affectionate and romantic guy. I'm 6'6 blonde hair blue eyes. Tall, I'm very soft I love to praise and will give reassurance if needed I'm very very loving and will constantly give you my attention and love.

I'm looking for my perfect person, I want someone that loves me for me! I love clingy. I love phone calls and late night texts, good night and good morning texts are also key, just want someone I can vibe with and be with, someone who is amazing and clingy and who wants to cuddle and spend time with me. Someone who wants to build trust with me and build a strong bond. Need to want to meet!  I'm wanting someone I can call mine and I can be theirs. I want to give all my love and affection to them and spend a lot of time with them.

I'm looking for someone I can be myself around, someone that accepts me for me and I'll do the same.

Equal relationships are key it's either 50/50 or nothing Communication is a need. It's key to a healthy relationship.

I look forward to meeting you. I hope you have a wonderful day and ask me anything

Hey there ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

I’m looking to form a connection that could lead to a romantic relationship, I'm only really looking for someone located within England so it would be possible to meetup someday if things developed. 👉👈 I’m based in the East Midlands (Derby), if that's a factor to consider--

Here are some pictures of me and my hampter 🐹: https://imgur.com/a/Zt8fZv2 <<<

About Me:

I have autism, ADHD, and struggle with anxiety, but these don't define who I am. I'm looking for someone who can relate to these experiences or is understanding enough to listen. It would be great to eventually play games together, have calls, watch anime or series we both enjoy, and bond over shared interests.

My past has been a bit troubled, and I don’t get out much, so I figured Reddit might be a good way to meet someone like-minded. Generally speaking, I feel like I haven't truly experienced love before and that I'm missing out on a lot of meaningful experiences. It would mean a lot to share those moments with someone who resonates with me and feels a mutual attraction 😊.

Currently, I’m not working and live with my mum (just for transparency). Ideally, I’d like to find someone who shares a similar lifestyle, where we can easily relate to one another, become close friends, and enjoy each other’s company as we build something special together. I’m pretty easy-going and have a lot of love to give, though I can be a bit clingy at times. I value consistency and good communication, especially since I tend to be more anxiously attached when I become close.

Interests:

• YouTube: I’m into true crime and educational rabbit hole content. Some of my favorite channels are MrBallen, Coffeehouse Crime, Rotten Mango, Disturban, and JCS - Criminal Psychology.
• Anime: I enjoy darker-themed anime like Devilman Crybaby (love the soundtrack), Vinland Saga, Berserk, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Attack on Titan, Junji Ito, Erased, Made in Abyss, and Chainsaw Man.
• Music: My taste is all over the place with over 1,000 random songs! Lately, I’ve been into Panic! at the Disco, The 1975, Porter Robinson, Hot Chip, Gorillaz, Miami Horror, and Studio Killers.
• Gaming: Currently playing Path of exile 2, Honkai Star Rail, and AFK Journey. I’m a fan of FromSoftware games, the Monster Hunter series (Iceborne is my favorite), Resident Evil, Persona 5 Royale + Metaphor: ReFantazio and Baldur's Gate 3. Bonus points if you play Runescape—it’s a childhood favorite of mine!
• Art: I sometimes draw, especially coloring, editing, and line art. If you’re into art too, I’d love to share our work and talk about it.
• TV Series: Some favorites include Black Mirror, Arcane, Love Death Robots, Game of Thrones (minus the ending), Vikings, The Boys, Narcos, Castlevania, Breaking Bad, and Invincible.

Lastly:

I’m an atheist with an open mind and lean towards moderation politically, valuing logical thinking with a moral compass. I know politics can be a touchy subject, so I usually avoid it.

If we vibe, we can move the conversation to Discord—Reddit chat isn’t the best haha

Hey there I am 23 from the beutiful Italy. A little bit about me, I am 181cm blue eyes and dark blonde hair, I am a student in economy and management approaching the final year of my studies, I am a VERY amateur footballer in a small team that often loses, I love reading but I won't define me a bookworm, mostly because sometimes I am inconsistent, I like playing video games, mostly single player but sometimes some multiplayers as well, if you wanna play together, I like hiking or walking near the beach, when it's not 34 degrees. About countries I don't have any problem with LDR or such, just need to be serious and commited

I will gladly share a picture if reciprocated See you soon!!

Hello everyone! I hope you read this fully since I know it’s a bit lengthy, but I wanted to express everything clearly.

About me: I am a 21 year old South Asian woman. I have never been in a relationship.I'm not interested and never had any dating apps and not interested in jumping into a casual thing, and I’d really like something that feels real and meaningful. I’m currently pursuing a BSc in Geology with hopes of doing my masters, finding a job and setting down outside Asia. My hobbies includes photography, yoga and practicing self-improvement- things that help me grow and connect with the world around me.

About my appearance: I'm a brown girl with brown eyes, black hair, tall and slim. I can be a bit shy at first, but I’m thoughtful and love deep conversations, whether about science, life goals, or just meaningful moments.

My preference:I value loyalty, trustworthiness, honesty, and kindness in a partner, someone who comprehend and communicates, so those qualities are important to me. I want to be with someone who hasn’t already been through “the one that got away” or is still hung up on an ex. Especially someone who someone who hasn’t been in a relationship before, so we can experience these “firsts” together.

I know it’s a bit unconventional, but I’ve been holding out for something meaningful. I’m really hoping to find someone who’s also looking for that special connection—someone who hasn’t been in a relationship before, so we can experience these “firsts” together.

As for who I’m looking for: I’ve always wanted being with a blonde-haired, blue-eyed guy or someone with coloured eye who is tall, ambitious and have a career. I know it sounds specific, but it’s something I’ve always been drawn to.

I don’t have any issues with long-distance relationships; we can always keep each other updated through texts and calls. If you’re in college, we can do study dates, and during weekends, we can make time for each other to watch movies or do something meaningful.

Please be around my age!

If you align with this post, please connect! I’d love to hear your intro, and feel free to share a photo. I'll send mine as well! ☺️

Posting here to look for my other half! I've been single for a while so I'm hoping to find that special someone I can connect with. I have too much love to give and I'm happiest when I have someone to give it to. I love giving out compliments and validation, and I’d love for you to help me raise/maintain your self-esteem. Everyone needs reminding of their worth!

Before I talk about myself, if you don’t know what to talk about or how to approach, you can start a convo about any of my hobbies and interests, or anything else about me, and we can go from there :)

I’ll keep my “about me’s” as short, sweet, and to-the-point as I can. Some things about me:

•I’m American, 28 yo, located in Tennessee, white, average height and weight. Roughly 5”11 (180) and 170lbs (77kg)

•Very easy going personality, there isn't much that offends or upsets me, I'm almost always in a positive mood and I can talk about anything.

•I play video games, but I have my limits, I don’t want to play 24/7 and I will always prioritize responsibilities over games. Real-life takes priority, and games are a luxury. I mostly play on Xbox and Switch but I own all platforms. I mostly play games like Minecraft, Fortnite, Zelda, Sonic, Pokémon, Sea of Thieves, I try to play a little of everything.

•I work 12 hour shifts and I find time to respond as often as I can. Some days i can talk all day and some days it's not as often.

•I like virtually all genres of music, but my favorites are Rock/Metal. I like everything from Amon Amarth to Taylor Swift. I also go to as many concerts as I can.

•I am big into films, I try to watch as many as often as I can. Notable favorites are Alien, Star Wars, Godzilla/King Kong, Harry Potter, Planet of the Apes, The Thing, anything with Kurt Russell, and too many more to list here.

•I will shower you in validation, affirmation, and compliments. I'm here to lift you up, not bring you down. It makes me happy to make others happy.

·Thick/Bigger girls are loved and appreciated here. You’re beautiful, no matter your size or insecurities. I will never ask you to lose weight or make negative comments about your appearance. I’ll only lift you up and reassure you that you’re beautiful. You deserve love and affection, and someone in your corner that you can love, trust, and depend on.

·I’m into deep emotional conversations where we genuinely connect with each other. I'm down to share as much about myself as you're willing to ask. I’m down to share as much personal information about myself as you’d like to know, and I’m down to talk about any conversation topic and offer my complete honest opinion and views on them.

•I don’t have a preferred age-range, just that you are 18+

•A fun fact about me is that one of my insecurities is my accent. I keep seeing and being told that many people love the southern accent, but I’ve visited states like Illinois, Indiana, Michigan, Maryland, and even in North Carolina (coastal) and I was more or less “yee-hawed” out of the states. I don’t sound like Forrest Gump, but apparently to everyone outside of Appalachia I do.

If this caught or kept your attention at all, please feel free to reach out to me, and ask any questions you want. I’m an open book and a completely honest person. I respect your time too much to play games and beat around the bush. Let me know what stood out to you and convinced you to message me. I can’t wait to hear from you!

31 years old guy from England, UK- looking to meet someone who’s active and energetic, hopefully a new gym buddy. I am fit, 6ft tall, 210lbs, going into cutting now to drop some body fat % and get lean for the summer, I enjoy cooking and drinking coffee. I read non fiction and listen to podcasts in my free time or go exploring cities, art galleries or nature parks. If this is to your liking ping me a message ☺️

Hello! I’m a 28 year old guy from the UK. Looking to get chatting to some new people from all over the world!

So a bit about me:

• 6’1
• Drummer in a band
• Work in forensics
• Into rock / metal / alternative music, but honestly, I’ll listen to anything catchy
• Pic of me! https://imgur.com/a/bcUcBjY

I’ve left this purposely vague so that there are plenty of things to still talk about and learn about me. If you’d like to talk, drop me a message and tell me something fun about you. Or, send me your favourite playlist.

Look forward to hearing from you 😊

Serious only, LDR, looking for my genuine, committed as well

I hope everyone who reads this has a happy day ✨️

I'm 24F from Korea (Also living here). I studied computer science and am trying to figure out what to do next. I'm interested in many areas of the world. There are many things I want to learn while I'd like to live a financially stable life.

I have a dream with my partner to live happily throughout our lives together. I am ambitious and I also have a realistic side. I am thinking of moving away to Europe in the long term, but I'm not sure exactly when and where. It might depend on you. I think it will take some time so I welcome anyone who is open to a long distance relationship.

I'm an introvert, but I like going out. I'm into reading books, listening to music, walking, watching movies, stargazing, and also enjoy outdoor activities like hiking, traveling, seeing nature 🏞 I'm unjabbed from covid, so I hope to find someone who awakes about that. I want someone like me. And I'm not religious, more of an atheist/agnostic.

I'm affectionate, loyal, considerate, cuddly and honest. I have a lot of ways to express my love only for my person. And I'm traditional. I'm a bit tall, slender, have long dark brown hair. I want to shower my love for you. I'm willing to relocate for the right person. I prefer someone who has similar minds to me.

What I am looking for

• Preferably tall, average build, aged 23-32

• Not religious, similar perspectives like me

• Not extremely extrovert

• Interested in Korean culture (preference)

• Someone who is open to LDR, who communicates a lot

• Someone who doesn't easily give up on the ups and downs of a relationship and works through them together

Things I don't prefer (and I don't do any of these)  

• Smoke, drink, drugs, tattoos, social media, clubbing

I sometimes use social media when I need to, but I'm not attracted to people who use it a lot.

Another thing that describes me is

• I want to create a happy relationship, free from the negativity and control of mainstream media, where we can laugh together and think of each other even when we're apart.

• Open to LDR and positive about it.

• To be honest, I'm still improving my English, so I want someone who understands that. I hope that helping each other grow in our languages becomes one of the joys of our relationship.

• I'd like to learn how to cook for you to make you happy. I'm open to learning different cultures and cuisines. It makes me energetic and feel more challenged. I'm open to accepting and learning languages and cultures.

It's important to make an effort together.

• Someone who dreams of starting a family in the future. I see these values as important: spending quality time together, sharing our dreams, supporting each other, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

• Someone who is rational in work and studies but romantic in love. I want to make my person smile 😊

• Someone who treats you with care and respect. Someone who wants to make each other happy.

Other

• I have trauma from being bitten by a big dog when I was young. I like animals, but it might be a bit difficult to raise them.

• I want someone who I can give love to and form a deeper emotional connection with, even if we live far apart. We probably have a time difference, so conversations and actions through calls are important to me when we're far apart.

• Love is when two people who are lacking something meet and fill it together. I want to love while filling in each other's shortcomings and being considerate of each other.

Tell me if you have what I'm looking for. And it would be better to tell about you briefly. Don't send messages randomly please. I will not respond to insincere messages. Please send messages if you are only serious about this

I might seem rigid in this text, but I'm actually fun and kind in person! If you're still reading this and think we have a lot in common, send me a DM and we'll see if we click. Including a photo would be nice too. You'll get a quicker reply if you put some effort into your message rather than just saying 'hi' without any introduction about yourself. Then let's start this journey together!

Hello! Not really sure what to say. There's a hundred posts here saying the same thing that I intend to. All I know is that I look forward to the day to see someones smile whenever I see them. For now I'll settle for looking forward to your messages :P.

Seriously, you could probably make my or anyone elses day with just a hello.

I know I'm gonna really sell myself here, but I feel so boring. Probably partially due to me having a hard time coming out of my shell 😅. Also, partially just me being another dude who spends most days playing games or watching animes here on reddit.

Favorites of which are probably stuff like; Hollow Knight, Factorio, LoZ, can never really go wrong with like any Nintendo game really right? And then One Piece, Adventure Time, and Futurama would be some of my favorite things to watch.

I'm into DnD, mythology, 3D printing, rock music, I've got a bass guitar that needs learnin', rock climbing, hiking, and I do enjoy to cook even though I'm not any good at it. Hell, I'm actually not that good about doing a lot of that... Working on that though, lol.

If I were to describe myself I'd say I'm a realist, I'm reserved, I'm empathetic, and I'm a bit of a sarcastic butthole.

Physically I am 5'10", 175lbs average sort of build, bald (both by choice and not), andbI wear glasses. If you just ask I'll send pics.

Hmm... what else to say... I'm a liberal and non-religious. Religion is alright, but I like to think it should be more of a guide for people to be better people. I'm indifferent to having children.

I'll admit that I've never been in a relationship with anyone before. This would be all new to me if you took a chance with me.

As far as who I'm looking for. Hard to say, probably someone with some shared interests and ideals at least. I always imagine myself ending up with someone a bit nerdy like me, but also someone real who can give me guff as well as take it 😅.

Think that's about it.

Look forward to meeting and chatting with ya. If not, best of luck to you!

Anyway I’m lonely hoping to find a nice lady but have had no luck so I’m just seeing if anyone wants to chat with me or whatnot

I’m decent looking I work out not really sure why I’m single

I’m a tattoo artist im single with no kids I do art in my spare time I also like to watch tv movies and just drive around

I’m looking for someone who I get along with and hopefully can form a lasting relationship

I have my own house and car so Im not worried about how much money you have

Hello!

Currently live in UK but planning to move over to USA in about a year via work change.

I like lists, so let's get going:

About me

• I'm right leaning.

• I don't like traveling, which is somewhat ironic since I've visited about half Europe, USA for a bit, and have lived in 2 different places (long term) so far. I'll be fine with going on holiday for a few weeks every year, but more than that isn't for me.

• I was born in Ukraine (western part). Lived in Ukraine for 10 years, moved to UK - lived there for 19 years, and now am planning to go try live in the USA.

• I was raised orthodox christian, but these days I'm sort of an agnostic christian. I don't pray or go to church anymore.

• My hobbies are a lot of PC games (not that into consoles but have emulated in the past), making programs for whatever reason, doing projects (either on computer or DIY) e.g building my own microphone or using AI to make audiobooks etc... I like history, economics, I like to watch movies/tv shows (old ones too), I watch youtube a lot (either reviews, other people's projects, theories, etc...), I like to bake/cook, and I like to learn and experiment with diets/nutrition/supplements.

• I like to listen to synthwave music, though I'm fine with most genres, I even have my own collection I've saved on my local drive over the many years.

• My diet is keto-carnivore (mostly meat), it's low carb during workdays but I break it and eat lots of carbs during weekends (may change in future). I generally don't like greens but I like spice type stuff like onions, garlic, ginger, fermented stuff like pickles, kimchi etc...

• I look like a northern european with a dash of eastern european. I'm 6'1 (185cm)(70kg) without any shoes. Brownish-blondish hair, brown beard. I have a beard which I keep trimmed. I like to keep short hair. I don't have any bods, I'm lean. I exercise here and there, but not enough to get a gym membership. I'll send pictures if you send.

• I rarely drink, don't smoke or do drugs either.

• I've been working as a cloud engineer in London for the past 3 years now.

• I'm looking for a more genuine wholesome relationship, not interested in playing dating games if that makes sense.

Who I'm looking for

• Has to play video games on the computer. I don't like to stick with one game for too long, so someone who likes a variety genre would work best. May work if you start with xbox (game pass) and work your way up to PC. Video games make pretty good LDR activity, or even general activity, so that's why this is here.

• No older than 25 years old. I want to have at least 3 kids eventually, and I'm not quite convinced older than 25 can cut it for an average woman, especially when there'll be a few years of courting involved.

• Has to be slim.

• Has to like to cook, do housework and take care of kids. I can help around with those though as I usually cook for myself and would like to do some work with taking care of the kids.

• Has to be white, mixed latina and/or asian is fine too. Sorry but just not attracted to the other races.

• I'm not looking to settle down in a few months, so you'll have to be fine with waiting a year or two for marr_iage.

• I don't mind LDR at first, I can come visit you here and there, but you'll have to come live with me eventually, I probably won't be moving to your country (Unless you're in USA).

• No smoking, no tattoos, no fun drugs.

End

That's about it. Send me a DM if you're interested, if you want you can put in a picture, I'll return a picture back, if not then we can exchange at a later time.

Also, in your DM response, if you could put in general information would be nice, what your hobbies are, where you're from, etc... I don't mind reading a lot.

Hey you! Yes, you, the one reading this. I hope this post makes you smile or at least helps you procrastinate in style.

I’m a 28-year-old from Europe looking for interesting conversations, people with great music taste, and someone who enjoys recommending underrated movies. I’m open to friendships, meaningful connections, and whatever naturally unfolds.

Who the hell am I?

💉 Healthcare Assistant – I work with people with learning disabilities, so my sleep schedule is more of a concept than a reality. If I reply at 3 AM, it’s not insomnia—it’s dedication.
🎵 Music Addict & Future Vinyl Hoarder – One day, I’ll have an impressive vinyl collection. For now, I have playlists and an algorithm desperately trying to figure out my mood.
🎮 All-Game Enthusiast – From single-player adventures to multiplayer chaos where I’ll probably lose with style. Lately, I’ve been playing more on Nintendo Switch, but I’m open to anything fun.
🎬 Movie Lover – I enjoy everything from cinematic masterpieces to films so bad they become art. Some favorites: The Godfather I & II, Interstellar, The Green Knight, Grand Budapest Hotel, Before Sunrise, Princess Mononoke… but I also love a good dumb comedy.
📖 Book Addict – I love stories, whether it’s fantasy, fiction, poetry, or the back of a cereal box if it’s well-written.
✏️ Aspiring Writer & Artist (In Progress™) – Learning to draw (results are questionable) and getting back into writing. One day, I’ll publish a book—after a few more years of procrastination.
🔍 Endlessly Curious – I love learning random things, diving deep into topics for no reason, and pretending I’ll remember any of it in a week.
😂 Introverted Until Comfortable – After that, good luck getting me to shut up.

What I’m Looking For

I don’t have a checklist, but if you enjoy:
❤️ Great conversations – Whether it’s about movies, music, or why cats act like they know something we don’t, we’ll get along.
🧠 A Curious Mind – You love learning, discovering new things, and seeing the world with an open perspective.
🎭 A Good Sense of Humor – If you can laugh at life’s absurdity, you’re in the right place.
🌍 Exploring New Ideas – Whether it’s finding a new artist or discussing wild theories, I’m all for it.

In the long run, I’d love to build something meaningful in life, share unforgettable moments, and maybe even start a family someday. But there’s no rush—the journey is what matters.

Reasons to Message Me

If none of this convinced you, maybe these 100% real and verified testimonials will:

🧐 "He is a really handsome boy." – My grandmother
🤨 "My brother is special and crazy, don’t talk to him." – My brother
🎤 "I wanted to write a song about him, but we haven’t dated yet." – Taylor Swift
⚔️ "I wanted him as my Padawan, but they gave me Anakin instead. You know how that turned out." – Obi-Wan Kenobi
🎨 "I considered using him as the model for my David sculpture, but he’s neither handsome nor strong enough." – Michelangelo
🎬 "I’d love to see him die in one of my movies." – Quentin Tarantino
☕ "At least he doesn’t blast his music too loud." – My neighbor

End of the Post, But Not the Story

If this made you smile, we’ve already accomplished something. If not, at least you made it this far, which is still impressive.

I’m here, ready to share music, talk about movies, or laugh at life’s absurdities. See you in the messages. 😊

Childless weiner dog lady looking for man who doesn't want kids. Must have a love of travel and the little things- like seeing a double rainbow or finding a lucky penny!

I'm looking for someone who is along for the ride. I want someone to fall in love with..like, fall hard! I am neurodivergent- I'm looking for someone who will bluntly tell me "Hey, I really like you" instead of throwing hints at me. I am looking for something real and serious!

I would prefer it if you didn't live in SC...unless you're ACTIVELY wanting to move somewhere way better (which is NOT NC or anywhere in the south, sorry).

My hobbies include:

1. Being too afraid to drive (Yep yep yep dropped that on ya).
2. Flipping between the same 3 apps (I spend an embarrassing amount of time on tiktok. Don't judge).
3. Staying in my pajamas alllll day. I'm not above going to my local grocery store. Who am I going to see, anyway? A parent from school? Ha.
4. Listening to the same songs over and over (Right now it's Heaven Knows I'm Miserable Now...my life's song 🤣).
5. Overthinking...about things that have happened or may never happen! Did he look at me funny?
6. Srudying my astrology chart like I understand what I'm looking at (Yeah, I used to make fun of my sister for her astrology obsession).
7. Making lists in my head and then forgetting about them until I'm in bed. Yeah, it doesn't get done unless my anxiety makes me do it. Womp womp.
8. Talking to my dog like she understands me.

Apologies for the title. Unless you enjoyed it, in which case, that'll be ten dollars and your first crop of legumes. Thanks.

Anywho, I want to explore the idea of starting a life overseas—so I'd like to meet people outside of Australia. Internal applications are also considered.

I’m gentle, chill, and understanding. I've been told I'm a refreshing and pleasant person, and now I'm looking for someone uplifting whom I can connect with on an intellectual and eventually an emotional level.

I have a feminine, youthful energy that I love, and while people often mistake me for being younger, I fully embrace my age and the process of growing older.

I’d vibe with someone sturdy, understanding, and confident with who they are/what they want to do. I'm attracted to someone who knows themselves and supports my passions rather than holds me back. Let's hype each other up daily.

I'm after someone who enjoys going places and getting out of the house, even if it's a leisurely stroll to a park to enjoy the weather or a day out at the museum. I don't want to have to drag my darling away from a screen.

I'm slim both physically and genetically (read: not "thick"), but im not super skinny and not all at all bone-y. On the shorter side. Small waist, a little jiggle. (Age range 18 to like..50+? But any age is fine with me really).

My sense of humour may unsettle even the bravest warrior. I am Australian. Proceed with caution. I'll take your questions now, thank you.

Hey, I'm Kris 26m from Poland but I live/grew up in the UK (Which means I get to hear those funny bottle of water jokes but then I can make your jaw drop as you think "WTF did he just say in that vodka language ??")

Quickly a bit about myself, I'm 180cm tall, have curly hair/blue eyes and I have a semi-athletic build. I love cooking, reading, playing games, going on runs with my dog and plenty of other things.

I've been described by friends as the golden retriever type when in a relationship so hopefully that's a good thing. Although it's only really applicable when I'm in a relationship. Outside one they've said I'm more like a skittish cat.

I'd love to meet someone to play games with, or just simply voice chat on discord while we each do our own thing (at least before meeting in person happens) and in general just have someone that I can bother without worrying that I'm actually bothering them and vice versa.

If you'd like to know anything about me or see what I look like then feel free to ask and odds are I'll answer most of them.

Hey there! I’ve posted here once before but this is me taking my shot again. Sooo, A little about me: I'm a 24-year-old grad student in Arizona, balancing school with my side gig as a photographer. I love all things sports, nature, and travel (seriously, my camera’s always ready to go). You’ll also probably catch me listening to indie music on repeat, with bands like Cage the Elephant, The Backseat Lovers and Mt. Joy on my playlist. Oh, and movies? I’m a huge movie buff! I’m definitely on the introverted side, so while I might take a little time to open up, once I’m comfortable, I love getting to know people on a deeper level and having those real, fun conversations.

What I'm looking for: I’m looking for someone around my age who’s funny and enjoys some playful banter. I lead a healthy-ish lifestyle and would love to be with someone that enjoys cooking or spending time in the kitchen. Affection is important to me, so I’d love to be with someone who values that too.

Distance isn’t a huge deal for me, and since I’ll be graduating in a few months, I’m open to exploring new places. So if you think we’d click, let’s chat and see where things go!

Looking for something that leads to a longterm relationship, I'm open to people outside of Europe if you enjoy travelling and would be okay visiting every now and again <3
I'm a pretty open book, so I'm happy to answer any questions you may have!
Please also send me a little introduction about yourself! <3

About me:

• Mental health nursing student (first year)
• Musician (Bass guitar)
• 175cm
• Chubby but actively going to the gym
• INFP
• Gamer (Pretty much anything, love Indie titles)
• Compassionate
• Value communication
• Loyal
• Animal/Nature lover (Mountains and sea <3)
• Love travelling
• Cycling
• Camping
• Archery

https://imgur.com/a/jnkpPux - Me

I only ask that you are a kind person and have no problem showing your affection <3
Hope you all have a wonderful day/evening/night <3

 I am a 6'4 tall athletic SWM tight bearded salt and pepper, established, financially stable, beautiful home, and future vacation home to be created, I am sapio/demi/ not closed off / creative sexually. Esoteric Spiritual seeking, Meditate daily, give back to others, I do not drink/smoke/drug., I workout, also jog, enjoy cooking, garden, beach, sports, arts, travel, and others. Open minded and seeking a smart, vibrant, goal oriented, sensual, sexual, passionate, hard headed woman who enjoys being enjoyed and is ready for something wonderful..

Let's start with my positives: I am very funny according to friends and family. I enjoy making/eating food. I love swimming, tho I haven't gone swimming in years. Adam drinking/smoking friendly, but I do neither. I'm bilingual! Neat-o! Making ppl laugh or happy is what I want to do. I hope you'll be one of those ppl I make smile.

Now for my negatives! I'm unable to drive due to being blind in my left eye. It sucks! I once tried riding a bike as a kid, and ran into a parked car when turning left. I never saw it coming! ... Th-that was supposed to be funny, so... your still not laughing? Ok. I'm also SUPER DUMB! See above story for an example. My intelligence speaks for itself! Negative #3 is I try to inject humor in bad situations. It gets on ppls nerves sometimes, so I apologize. It's a habit I'm trying to break.

Things I'd like from you are your atleast 24-30, you can drive, you live in Cali, and your a lady. Also, don't be a brick when we talk. A relationship can't go anywhere if we don't talk. If you are in college or employed, it don't matter to me.

Things that make me say no are if you are toxic to me or other ppl. My last partner was very much an abusive, toxic person, so I will not tolerate that type of stuff again.

If you feel like you can accept what I've said here, DM me. Give a brief description of yourself, as in more than 1 line. I can't wait to talk to you!