Ok so imagine this…

We regularly go out onto dates, sing and dance like no one’s watching, try new foods, and adopt animals together.

We support one another through thick and thin (that’s what she said). Whether it's cooking, baking, or reading together, we enjoy spending time with one another.

Or do something hot like.. do taxes together,

Communicate well so we understand each other,

Or clean our home together while jamming out to pop music… got me heated ALREADY 🥵

Hell, let’s take those cute pictures together or tease one another too with pictures we take… you know, those ones you see on Pinterest?

Ok ok let’s be serious now lol. There are many more things we can discover together. The things we love, like, dislike, and hate. We can date the old fashioned way and see if we click, perhaps deserving of a second date? Let’s do a cafe date? Let’s go to the movies and I’ll give you a flower. I won’t spoil all my secrets, of course :) we’ll have to level up our relationship to unlock these secret courses 👾🎮

A few things you should know about me though;

• I don’t condone cheating/one night stands.
• I don’t like smoking
• I’m looking for something serious
• I respond quickly, so if you’d like me to adjust that; please feel free to ask! (Reddit varies, it doesn’t notify me all the time)
• I love animals and I have a year old kitty.

The things I expect from our relationship;

• Communication! Please tell me how you feel or how something made you feel. We can make a routine on maybe reviewing how we feel at the end of the week and see what improvements we can make to help accommodate each others needs.

• Loyalty. I love deeply and you will be my priority above all else. I know actions speak more than words and I’m sure “loyalty” is self explanatory. I’d rather prove my loyalty above just saying it.

• Understanding. I am not a perfect human. No one is… I have flaws that I’m working on and actively fixing. My mind works differently. I have ADHD and have been through things in the past that, unfortunately, have left a mark on my mind (I.e anxiety, people pleasing, etc.) although I have more under control than before; I sometimes slip up.

🟩Green Flags about me🟩

• I’ll always find time for you. I will make time.
• I’ll almost never be late (can’t say never for this)
• I will always want to talk with you, phone call or text
• Career/family driven
• Bachelors degree
• I have a plan in life
• Car problems? No problem.
• I love baking and reading. Let’s cuddle and read to each other?

❌Red Flags about me❌

• ADHD
• Struggle to remember things (I take notes though)
• I overthink things. But this is why I love communicating.
• I think I’m a fairly average looking guy.
• I will find your tickle weak spots.

Here’s the jist of everything! Would absolutely love to hear from you. Have a wonderful day today or have a good night 💤

Hello there! I am back again in the “best”place to do as what the title says hahaha

Why Europe? Although I had no preferences, it’s been a year since I’ve had talks with mostly people from this side of the world and I enjoyed it, thus choosing this location. I live somewhere else though. So yes - I am looking for someone who I can have daily talks and have fun with. If the connection is there and with interest on both sides, open to eventually an LDR. I have tried for just something fun online for a while now but in the end, I realized I am looking for something that could end up being serious. (Please read the previous sentence again) I have met nice people here hence why I am back posting here.

As for me, I am from somewhere in Asia. I also started a job this year that requires me to work very long hours everyday, like shitty kind of work schedule. But I can still talk most of the time especially during my night shifts. When not at work, I spend my days drowning in caffeine, watching movies, going for walks, exercising and doing random things thought of that day. But most probably chilling with a dog (who is not mine, I only help spoiling him)

I like art and do some painting when there’s time. However, art doesn’t like me back 😅 Hoping I can start learning pottery in the future. Music? A bit random but leaning towards instrumentals and jazz. I love film scores. Movies? Horror is my go-to.

Lookswise - morena Filipina, 5’1 (155 cm), 45 kg (99 lb). Can exchange photo once we’re comfortable with each other. Or if you are willing to, right at the start. Let’s be honest attraction is very important in meeting people.

As for other things, let’s just talk. Open to any topics.

Also, please be a real person, with good intentions, honest and can communicate. And please don’t message if you’re just looking for a quick exchange 😊 I would more likely reply if with a photo (yours will get mine) and stating what you want out of the conversation. At this point, I need boundaries 😊

Hello! Quoting the GOAT Wayne Gretzky, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” (I love The Office btw). So here I am, shouting at the void, looking for a genuine connection. I am not into sports and don’t watch ice hockey, but maybe you can tell me more about it. :P

I am introverted and a homebody, so meeting people in real life is hard for me. I am looking for someone I can constantly talk to after a tiring day, play games with, or watch things with on weekends. I am busy during the day but can talk at night.

As for hobbies, I play video games a little bit, but I am not a gamer. I spend most of my time binge-watching TV shows and movies and scrolling senselessly online. I also love listening to music and kind of listen to all genres, but the late 2000’s emo era has a special place in my heart. I like travelling and experiencing new things, like eating at a new restaurant, visiting a museum, or attending a concert. I’ve done those things alone, and honestly, it’s so tiring doing them alone. I wish I could do it with someone, so who knows, we might do it together if we click.

As for you, I am looking for someone who can hold a conversation and is consistent. Tell me a bit about yourself, what music you listen to, what shows or movies you like, what your hobbies are, what makes you feel alive, and we’ll see it from there. I know reddit is not the best place to find a romantic partner, but I am tired of the dead conversations in the apps, so I might as well try here.

I started out in Henry County, KY and ended up in Northern Kentucky in 2009

In that time I graduated college, got divorced, started a record and Blu-ray and 4k collection, bought a house, and learned to drive and bought a car.

Now I’m just trying to navigate the dating world in my 30s.

I’m not a stereotypical Metalhead as I don’t have tattoos and long hair however trust in the fact I do love metal.

Hey there!  I’m Gregory, I live in Indianapolis, and I’m 41 years old.  I’m single, just FYI

I’m 6’2, I work in accounting here, I have my own place and car, and have a pretty awesome beagle (honestly she’s the main attraction here I’m not gonna lie). 

Bands I like (real Xennial shit):

Deftones

Bring me the Horizon

Orgy

Deadsy

Falling in Reverse

Sports I’m into

Football (Detroit Lions)

NBA (Indiana Pacers)

Futbol lol (Fulham)

Sumo wrestling (I’d love to chat about this its my secret obsession)

Please feel free to DM me and ask me whatever you want!  I’m pretty open book

Dog pics are free, I have a 10 year old Beagle named Susie, and she is honestly what keeps me sane.

Been sober from alcohol for about 2.5 years as well. Bit of a struggle in my 30s. We can chat about that as well.  Really looking forward to finding something real and permanent after I’ve made so many positive changes. 

Or whatever you wanna chat about

I'm looking for long term, serious relationship; in other words, I'm looking for my soulmate. I like to play basketball; I'm studying Information Technology. I'm latino. I like to write, well, I wrote a summary of a book/movie idea that I have available if you would like to read it.

My dms are always open, and I'm looking forward to hearing from you😁

Also, I would consider myself to be romantic.

If you've read this far, thank you. I will say my name through dms.

Hello fellow Redditors!

As we enter the holiday season I’ve been feeling a bit more alone than normal. This year has been particularly difficult for me. And my melancholic temperament has been slipping closer towards despair…so you know I’m a lot fun ;)

I crave deep connection and deep conversations, which honestly makes the early stages of conversation difficult for me at times. But I love talking about art, music, film, and books. I love Russian literature, especially the stories of Chekhov. I love Kafka. And my favorite novel is “the Unbearable Lightness of Being”. I’m drawn to bands like Bright Eyes, Okkervil River, the National, and Phoebe Bridgers.

I enjoy watching foreign films by film makers like Ingmar Bergman and Michelangelo Antonioni. But I also love American film makers like the Coen brothers, Wes Anderson, and Charlie Kauffman.

Physically, I’m 6’5”. I have green eyes and brown hair. And I have an average body. I walk a lot for work, which is my primary form of exercise. Personality-wise, I’m an INFP on the MBTI.

I’m ultimately looking for my partner, but I know that takes time. I’m more than happy to find more friends. Ideally I’m looking for someone in the U.S. or Canada, but I’m open to talking to people from elsewhere too. I apologize in advance if it takes me time to reply. I wish everyone the best in finding their person. It can be such a lonely process sometimes.

You know what they say, if at first you don't succeed....... ehhhh something or another. You get the point!

(P.S. pictures of me on my profile. I would appreciate one or more in return when being messaged!)

Searching for the "one" isnt easy, but what can we do aye? First things first, to throw some random bits of info out there about me! (Info dump incoming 😂)

I'm 24 and biracial! Half Irish and half African/northern Indian, and I'm living in the UK!

I'm approximately 6'0"-6'1" in height and id say an average/kept build. I also have somewhat long-ish hair for a guy, going near my shoulders, it's naturally straight! I also have a well kept somewhat shorter and neat beard :) I also have very fair skin. I guess I took physically more from one side of my heritage 😂🤌 I'm also a Muslim lad! So just putting that out there too for the sake of it.

I do enjoy binging on junk food but between my high metabolism and my physically active job working as an electrician (which I'm trying to fully establish myself in) I tend to never put any weight on 🤷

So! What am I looking for? Well it's a long shot. I'd like to imagine something like the female version of myself. My other half. Someone I find attractive, kind, easy going, fun to get along with, can hold a conversation without making it feel like a one sided effort and chore. Etc!

Important note!!!

IF you are not from the UK. Be aware relocating doesn't appear to be an option for me currently 😅 so bear that in mind please. I am open to a potential long distance but again. There's that.

I guess I'm the hopeless romantic type. Fantasising about soulmates, something real, serious, natural and everything great. Is that easy to obtain these days? Bruh. HECK no 😭 but can a guy try? Well, here's to hoping I suppose. Guess only time will tell

Anyone between the ages of 20 - 29 is welcome! (Won't go lower than 20! But I may go higher than 29) Anyone who wants to actually get to know each other and dreams about something sincere and real! (With some fun stupidity and jokes thrown in there of course, that banter is a must🗿👍)

I like a woman with a little bit of confidence ya know? Probably one of the most attractive personality traits, who can hold a conversation and engage with the other person you know? Nothing more off putting than someone who gives single worded dead replies lol

Here's a bit more about me. My hobbies! my hobbies are various. I'd argue I'm an ambivert. Though my main hobbies lean towards something a little more introverted. You have hiking and the likes as well as going out with friends and driving around at night with them, but then you also have gaming which is a huge hobby of mine!! Well probably the thing I do most consistently

So yeah! There's my shot being let out. I'd say I consider myself to be an honest and open book and would like someone who is open, honest and genuine in the same way! P.S. If you actually read this post add the word "Lemon" into your message to see who's actually properly read 👀

Oh! And my preferred platform is Snap! Though I have one or two other things like discord etc, but realistically I'm not going to stay only on Reddit, and snap is the ideal choice

So. Here's to hoping!

Let me introduce myself:

I’m white, 5’11, skinny, longish brown hair

I’m a college student studying business

I love football and going to games

I love taking care of my cats

I enjoy comedy movies and much more

I enjoy video games on Xbox like cfb25, gta, roblox, minecraft

I enjoy music like kanye west, playboi carti, and lil wayne

Favorite shows are breaking bad, dexter, lost, outer banks

I have bad anxiety that controls my life sometimes but I’ve started medicine for it

I drink and smoke but I’m trying to quit both

Politically conservative

What im looking for in a partner:

F 18-28 preferably

Lives in the us

Long term relationship

Reliable communication

Enjoys traveling but also somewhat of a homebody

Passionate

If you have similar interests/hobbies and would like to be friends, feel free to message me

Hey there! I’m a guy looking to meet someone who could potentially become my boyfriend, but I’d like to start off as best friends and keep things strictly SFW. I’m serious about this, so I hope you are too—I’m not here to play games.

What I’m gonna say only works if you’re from the US or Canada, because I’m travelling to New York and Florida in March, if we get close enough we could meet up.

What I’m Seeking: I’m hoping to meet a handsome, skinny or average-built, masculine guy with a great personality. Let’s get to know each other and see where things might lead. My ideal age range is 18 to 28. Could that be you?

A Bit About Me: I’m more on the masculine side and I’m all about love, care, kindness, and being supportive. Writing love letters is something I really enjoy. I believe in compromise and commitment, and when I fall in love, I’m loyal to the core.

What I Look Like: I’ve got hazel eyes, short dark blonde hair, and an average build. There’s a picture of me in my profile.

What We Could Do Together: I’d love for us to chat on voice and video calls, watch movies, and enjoy music together. If any of this sounds good to you and you think you might fit what I’m looking for, feel free to send me a message. If not, no worries—just trying to save us both some time. Thanks, and I look forward to hearing from you!

Let’s make this a success story!

Hello! Prepare yourself for a detailed post meant to weed out those who aren't a good fit to save us both time.

I’m a Bisexual 31F from SoCal who enjoys reading a good story or watching a fun stream and telling my significant other all about it so they can also share in the excitement. I like sharing in the joys and spreading happiness around because I am invested in the well-being of those I care about. I try to better myself every day because I don't believe we ever stop learning or growing. I work as a research analyst for a mental health non-profit in LA and have learned that working with numbers is way better than working with people haha.

I am looking to start a fulfilling relationship with a person (M, F, 🌈NB, and 🌈T welcome). If you identify as ace, we won't be a good fit but I do hope you find your person!

About Me:

• I am an outgoing introvert with a sense of humor. Dad jokes, improvisational humor, sarcasm, wit-word play, and a tiny bit of dark and self-deprecating humor are the types of humor I engage in. I enjoy teasing people without making fun of them.
• Funny, caring, compassionate, logical, optimistic, mischievous, confident, assertive, observant, organized, and loyal are all words that describe me. I'm not big on lying (I struggle with keeping surprises a surprise), I tell it how it is (but I do try to soften how I say things), I mean what I say, am terrific at planning and thinking ahead, and I try to be flexible with plans. And sometimes, I goof around. But I am not much of a people person (no one would call me the life of the party).
• I always try to push myself to the next level. I enjoy finding my limits and pushing past them. If I don't know how to do something, there is nothing stopping me from learning it. For example, I have taught myself how to use some data analytical software just because I wanted to advance in my career. And I enjoy hitting new PRs in the gym.
• My preference in music is more in the realm of EDM but I also like pop and indie music. I enjoy music with quick beats and often listen to that when I work out.
• I recently got back into running but have been weightlifting for years now. I enjoy going to the gym and I think it could be nice to have someone to go with and cheer each other on. Strength building for health and quality of life are more important to me than the aesthetic outcome (that’s just a bonus).
• Thanks to my 1 year-old rescue, Arlo (Pitbull and Malinois mix), I spend a lot of time outside but genuinely enjoy going to new places and can’t wait once Arlo is more trained to explore new places again. But I also enjoy a good night in, watching a show/movie/stream.
• I love Harry Potter (I have this area of trivia covered, haha), Marvel Universe (Black Widow and Iron Man are my favorite characters; Tom Holland is my favorite Spiderman), some DC, Star Wars, and Twilight, and I am a big fan of Scooby Doo, mysteries, and puzzles. Clue is my favorite board game, and I can get competative in Monopoly. Like everyone, I also play UNO incorrectly (according to them) but honestly, the +4 card really should be skippable when countered with another +4. I enjoy Dramas, Crime, Action, Psychological Thrillers, and Fantasy in my shows/movies/books. I love watching horror movies but shy away from slasher films. Gore isn’t my thing.

Favorite holiday is Halloween. Then the Christmas season. I’ve always wanted to have an enjoyable Christmas season with my little family and even make corny Christmas cards to send out to our friends where we’re all in matching outfits.

• Have three degrees in psychology (AA, BA, MS). While I enjoy learning about certain aspects of human behavior (decision-making is very interesting), I prefer working with numbers so my background is more analytical and centered around healthcare.
• I do some casual gaming on my PS4, mostly RPGs and FPS like God of War and Call of Duty. I’m currently playing Black Ops 6 with friends, and I'm willing to play with you if you're interested. Heads up, I'm mid at best, but that doesn't stop me from having fun (and I'm not a camper or toxic, but I will curse if frustrated enough--I'm looking at you, Warzone).
• Not religious (but supportive of those who are spiritual or religious), left-leaning politically, happily part of the LGBTQ community, am a sucker for cute animals, will sing in the car if I love the song that's playing, am willing to give you the last bite of food (that I saved because its the best piece), I avoid sad endings in movies and shows, love language is acts of service, not someone who does things a certain way just because that is how it has always been done, resistant to peer-pressure, and I try to meet people somewhere in the middle during conflicts. Us vs The Problem, not You vs Me.
• Arlo and I both love cuddles and want someone else to cuddle with.
• I am not a smoker, drug user, and barely a social drinker.
• I want to run a 10K one day, travel more, practice my Spanish because I'm forgetting it (no one tell my mom because I’ll never hear the end of it😂), actually finish a short story I have started, jump out of a plane, learn to swim (I haven't gotten around to it), go glamping, try my hand at pottery, and so much more.
• Physically, I’m 5’6” Hispanic, tanned, with brown eyes under the glasses, pixie-cut dark brown hair, one tattoo (I want more), and a little overweight (although I am actively working on slimming down a bit).

Are we compatible:

• What I’m looking for is someone to talk to daily, who puts effort into getting to know one another, can banter back and forth a bit, and is serious about connecting with someone. Because this is online, transparency and communication are very important and I want to connect with people who are going to tell me what they’re thinking and feeling and are inquisitive about what I’m thinking and feeling and want to get to know me.
• You need to have your act together, be financially responsible, have a job/career, be LGBTQ friendly, be a decent human being, be independent, emotionally mature, consistent, supportive, affectionate, honest, have a growth mindset, and be politically left-leaning.
• You should mostly know yourself, and if you're part of the LGBTQ community, you should be "out." I'm too old to be with someone in the closet or who isn't being true to themselves.
• Be dog-friendly. And cat friendly because those of you who hate cats for no reason are weird.
• You should be someone who takes care of their health. I don't care if you're "chubby" or have a "dad bod." Do keep in mind I have an active working dog and I would like you to join us in our adventures. This requires at least a low level of physical activity. And I am happy to cheer you on if you're someone who is currently working on yourself 👏. We can go on chill walks together.
• You would have to be willing to move to SoCal one day. I might be willing to move somewhere temporarily for the right person (1-2 years), but SoCal is the endgame. I'm too attached to the beach, the culture, the food, and the entertainment to leave forever.
• I have a preference for those taller than me.
• You aren't a smoker, a drug user, or a heavy drinker (I am 420-friendly so long as you're not smoking it as it gives me a headache-- edibles welcomed).
• You are likely between the ages of 27-36, give or take a year or two for the right person if we really connect.
• You don't have children (see below for an explanation).

Potential dealbreakers:
Honestly, I have no idea if I want children or not. Therefore, for those of you who are parents, it wouldn’t be fair to your child if I wasn’t sure about committing to them. I have great qualities that would make me a wonderful mother, but I am so burnt out from having parented adults during my childhood and young adult life that I don't know if I can commit to parenting children for the rest of my life at this moment. Maybe with the right person, this wouldn't be such an exhausting journey but right now I am on the fence, although I have always wanted a family since I was a child, having been neglected by my own. But for now, Arlo and a partner would be enough.

FYI, I would like to get another two dogs in the future (a Malinois or Dutch Shepard and a Doberman) and possibly a cat once I have a bigger place to accommodate them all 😅so hopefully that fits in your 5-year plan. Raising pets has not been as exhausting as raising people, apparently.

Some interests, hobbies, personality traits, aspirations, goals, dreams, or qualities should overlap. I think a good sign would be that if we could see being friends with each other, then it could be an indication of something more working out. Lastly, if we hit it off, I'd like to do voice chats on Discord and if that goes well, meeting up eventually would be important. In the meantime, we can chat on here. I am very active on my phone.

If any of this interests you, feel free to reach out with a meaningful introduction about yourself and be prepared to share a recent selfie when we connect. Just "hi" messages will be ignored.

Me: (https://imgur.com/a/snCmcnl)

Hi, I’m Ally! Long time lurker, fourth time poster. I guess I’m looking for the same as most? My person, soulmate, love of my life, you know the drill 🤷‍♀️ too much to ask from a Reddit post?? Absolutely but hey, I’m an optimist

I guess this is the part where I talk about my self? Well, I’m 25, from Canada, I’m a teacher and super passionate about it. I like to read, watch movies and binge TV shows, go on nature walks/hikes, get into stupid shit with my friends (all the usuals right?). I should probably add that I’m a bigger gal, so if you’re looking from some thin model type I’m probably not the one. I definitely feel like it’s more exciting to learn about someone through conversation, so message me if you’re interested?

As for who I’m looking for, I’m willing to talk to anyone in US or Canada (it gets too complicated otherwise). Although if I base myself off of past posts, I may not be able to answer all of you but I thank you so much in advance for reaching out! ☺️ Also if it’s not too much to ask, could you add something in your message so I know you’ve read this? Can’t make it too easy with a question, comment on something I’ve said and I’ll know! I hope you all have a wonderful rest of the night and (hopefully) look forward to hearing from some of you!

I'm 30 and living in Ontario (Southern), work full time from home as well (finance).

I like:

-Playing bass guitar, and learning guitar recently

-Video games (Pc,PS5, Switch)

-Working out (10k steps daily + weight training often)

-Cooking (No one has died yet)

-Sports (Soccer mostly)

-Movies (Mostly binge worthy TV shows)

I am very affectionate and love to express my feelings. I can be slightly shy in the beginning but I can easily beat that once I am comfortable. I am your biggest hype man and try to make you feel as good about yourself as possible!

Here is a picture for reference : https://imgur.com/a/PHtiLdZ

Looking to meet some new women with the hope of dating . Some of my favorite activities include playing pool, drawing, writing, all kinds of art, watching sports and playing hockey. I am writing my own book and look for inspiration everywhere I go. I am somewhat introverted but am looking for someone to branch out with. Looking to experience new and fun things. Hope we can talk more soon.

Hello, and welcome!

This ad features bolded portions for those who don't want to dedicate the time without some reassurance it may pay off!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman (a preference of mine, even for platonic relations) that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 34 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations.

I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to something more intimate. Our connection should develop over time. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jibe with regardless of where we end up. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things and when. I've experienced everything from becoming very close with someone within the first conversation to remaining very brief with others after weeks. I've enjoyed everything from regular/daily casual texts and banter to several page e-mail penpal exchanges. Let's get creative and go with the flow.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whoever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a comfortable space to fully let loose is an ideal. We all hurt, and some more than others - I disagree with the notion that one should hide these aspects of themselves. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties. Personally, I'm in a sort of 'third phase' of my own development. I no longer do the opposite of what caused my difficulties and no longer intellectualize my pain in hopes of convincing myself I've somehow fully eradicated it. I meet people where they are, but find it important to state where I am.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself better, although a lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram. But, it can be a decent basis and fun activity to share with someone. I also enjoy taking tests with other people and comparing results, as well as discussing the tests themselves.

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to ruminate, research, and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself, and I strive to see various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact, and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can. The motto 'Nitimur in vetitum semper cupimusque negata.' is a pretty good summary of my intellectual ethics. Those who believe certain topics are beyond any and all forms of reproach probably won't do well with me in this endeavor. In this case, we should limit ourselves in order to benefit from what does happen to be there, or simply adopt a different motto: 'Friends who want to stay friends don't discuss religion or politics.' In my experience, it's not polarizing stances that cause difficulties between people, but how unwavering someone is in their resolve, refusing to so much as listen to what another person has to say.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there. I'm not uncommonly melancholic, but am almost never lackadaisical.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone, even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here. I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me. If you're looking for a gaming buddy or TV junkie you'll need to find it elsewhere, but I'm not fully opposed to sharing or talking about these things with someone either. I used to love it at one point.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

A little about myself. I'm a 5'7 long brown haired, skinny white guy (selfie provided upon request or if you share one). I usually go for people close to myself physically but nothing is explicitly off the table! I love writing, biking, gaming, and just having a good time. I love to make people laugh and generally like to take life less than seriously. I'm looking for someone who is into games or random shows, and just kinda wants to chill even if there's not much else going on. Just enjoying each others company and vibes. What type of games you may ask? Well that's a big question there. I have over 700 steam games now, but I mainly go for chill/indie games. Not into competitive stuff or shooters so ignore this if that's all you got! A few specific examples I love are card games like Magic (would love to teach), relaxing stuff like Terraria, Bloons or chill stuff like that, puzzle games like We Were Here, every rougelike ever, story games, board games!.. the list goes on! Would also have an interest in chilling out with shows that aren't anime, I like comedy or plot driven stories like Avatar or Walking dead. Anyways I bet no one has the time to be reading a novel of a post, message me if you are around my age, are within the USA, have Discord, and play PC games ( no console only sorry!)

Disclaimer: before I start I feel like I need to say this after getting messaged by so many toxic people. If you don't intend to get to know each other and put in effort as well, don't bother then. If you are just a troll and are here to make fun of lonely men, I feel sorry for you and I will block you. I am here like any other person to find love so let's just be respectful towards each other as fellow human beings.

So, let's start, name is Victor and I am from UK. I work as an admin, it is a pretty boring office job but won't be staying there forever since I am actually studying to become a personal fitness trainer. Working out is my passion and I really hope I can share passion with other people to help them improve their fitness level. So yeah, you know one of my passions, second one is gaming! I own Ps5, pc switch and even and occulus rift S VR. Big hardcore gamer here, but not a huge fan of multiplayer games. I do enjoy some like dead by daylight and league of legends but mostly I am a big fan of singleplayer games like rpgs, adventures, FPS, hack and slash and so on. I also enjoy watching movies, especially horror ones. Big horror fan here!

As a character I would say I am funny, sarcastic kind, friendly, social, supportive, understanding. I love listening to people and helping them as much as I can with a kind word. I am also very honest, maybe a bit too honest sometimes. I really hate lying

As for my physique: 160 cms tall, 59 kgs weight, brown hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, pretty athletic body.

One more thing about me: I suffered with depression and suicidal tendencies before. Right now I do suffer with anxiety and some panic attacks, which means at times I do have difficulty breathing but it is pretty much under control most of the time.

I hope I find a wonderful, loyal and honest girl and will appreciate me for who I am and I promise I will love and appreciate them with all I got.

Hello! I am looking for something serious. I am

• Tall (well over 6’)
• Intelligent (I want to be a professor)
• Kind
• Fit, with broad shoulders and muscular thighs

I am looking for someone

• Passionate about what they do
• Intellectually curious
• Empathetic
• Tolerant
• Tall is a plus but definitely not a priority

I don’t do casual stuff. I want to have kids one day. I love football, PC games, and my cats. I am white, with dark brown hair and hazel eyes. Location doesn’t matter. I’m currently in Texas but moving up north for my PhD next year, hopefully. I’m working on getting better at conversing so feel free to reach out. I am working on my master’s thesis so we can talk about that too if you’d like.

Hey, how goes? I'm looking for a partner. Someone that I can talk to every day and who gets just as excited to see messages from me as I do from them. I'm looking for something long term. I eventually want to start a family.

I’m a pretty laid-back guy from the midwest. I enjoy hiking, Legos, video games, museums, traveling and learning about other cultures. I like to joke around and have fun. While I might be a bit shy at first, I quickly warm up when I’m comfortable.

I love talking about and learning about anything STEM related. If you have any projects you've been working on, or if you have any studies you want to talk non-stop about, let's talk about it!

I’m on the lookout for my best friend and if things go well, romantic partner. I deeply value genuineness, honesty, straightforwardness, and kindness. If you’re someone who appreciates these qualities and shares some of my interests, we might just hit it off!

Whether we end up conquering the next video game boss together, building the LEGO Millennium Falcon together, discussing the latest scientific breakthroughs, or talking about art or projects were working on, I’m excited for the adventures our relationship could bring.

About you:

Age: 27 to 35 (don't be outside this range)

Interests: Art, Music, STEM, Video games, Books, Museums, Travel, History (doesn't have to be every single thing, or any of it as long as you don't mind sharing and talking)

Status: Ideally single, ready to make a new friend and see where things go and enjoy the journey, hopefully looking for something serious

Personality: As I mentioned, I'm pretty laid back and I prefer someone more confident and assertive to balance that. Preferably someone who can also balance being kind and gentle. I also prefer someone that I can learn from more so than someone who needs me to help them all the time.

If you’re looking for a genuine connection and some good laughs along the way, don’t hesitate to reach out. If you barely put any effort into the conversation, or you expect me to do all of the work, you will get blocked/ignored.

Hello everyone, I hope you’re having a good night/day.

The apps suck, so here I am. Do you want a sweet boyfriend? Someone who will shower you with affection? Someone who will be your cheerleader? If you want someone who will love you with all their heart, I’m right here. I will love you when we’re together, I will love you when we’re apart, I will love you on good days, I will love you on bad days, I will love you on the days you don’t love yourself.

I won’t claim to be perfect, for sure I am not. I have many flaws, but I know I would be the best boyfriend. I have so much love in my heart, and I’m just waiting to have someone to give it to. You won’t be wanting for affection.

Alright, but who am I? I’m a big anime and manga nerd, and I also love Japanese video games. Some of my fave anime are Berserk, Death Note, Cowboy Bebop, Ghost in the Shell, and The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya. Some of my fave games series are The Legend of Zelda, Mario, EarthBound, Pokémon, Silent Hill, and Resident Evil. I also like to write essays on art (like the aforementioned anime and games) when I find the time. I love animals and biology! I’m a pacifist and I really care about treating other people well.

All I ask is that you’re not a bigot, a prude, remotely pro-AI, and over 20. Say hi if you think we’d get along!

Hi there, this might be a bit long lol. I appreciate you reading everything :)

What I’m Looking For:

I want a deep connection with someone, where we truly know and understand each other. I’m looking for something serious, a partner who wants to build a future together and someone I can share my life with. I want someone I can share every part of myself, the good, the bad, and the unhinged lmao. While feeling safe and accepted, and this person wants to be just as vulnerable with me. I have a world of love to give and want someone I can pour that into, and hopefully create something that will last forever. I believe in true love and I think it’s possible to find.

About Me:

Personality: I’m an INTJ 5w4, and tbh I’m like 2 different people. On one side, I’m sweet, affectionate, and always there for the people I care about, and constantly telling them how much they mean to me. But on the other, I can be an overly logical jerk and a bit cynical lol. I am strongly opinionated, but I try to stay positive and nonjudgmental. I’m also a total hopeless romantic, that loves cheesy cute moments lol. When I’m comfortable, I can be loud and extra, giving a goofy, crackhead energy but in the beginning I’m quite shy and reserved. I’m also both wholesome and dark.

I’m just a walking contradiction and I love that about myself lol

Looks:

I’m Black, 5’2” I’m very very masculine in looks. I’m actually questioning my gender at the moment. I dress very masculine, and I keep my hair masculine as well. I’m also plus size, but currently I’m on a weight loss journey and lost 40 pounds :)

If you prefer someone even remotely feminine, or have issues with plus size. I’m not going to be for you.

Interests: I love gaming, true crime documentaries, and horror/thriller movies. I’m into all kinds of music, especially R&B, rock/metal, and K-pop. Tbh I’m a huge homebody but I really want to get out more and have new experiences. Also I just recently started a YouTube channel.

Other Things to Know:

• I can be very clingy and obsessive after I fall for you (not in a crazy way lol).
• Strictly monogamous.
• I’m an agnostic atheist.
• I have BPD and we can talk about what that entails.
• Currently in college and working part time in mental health.
• I have a dark sense of humor sometimes XD
• I’m demisexual, waiting for deep feelings before anything physical. It will most likely take a good while before I feel safe doing anything. Do not message me if you have any sort of problem with this. (If you have to ask how long will it take I’m not for you.)

Who I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for someone 24 or older, preferably a woman, though I am bi so I’m open to guys. If you’re a guy, I like guys with softer looks and personality, and without facial hair tbh. I’m not into very masculine men at all. Personality wise, emotional intelligence is an important, along with being patient, caring, and mature. I’m affectionate and clingy, so I’d match best with someone who loves attention and isn’t afraid to show it. Race doesn’t matter to me, and location doesn’t matter either, because I want to relocate eventually.

I want a liberal or left leaning partner, and while I don’t mind if they’re religious, conservatives are a absolute deal breaker. I also want someone who shares my views on sex, seeing it as something meaningful they only want to share with someone they genuinely care about. A virgin is preferable tbh. I am also.

That’s it lol. Thank you for reading all of this! If you’re interested please message me with a little about you and why we’d be a good match. 💛 Say apple in your message if you read everything.

Hi!! My name is kyle! i’m from the florida panhandle! (so cst timezone!)

some basic stuff about me: I can be kinda shy at first, but once i get to know someone, i can go on and on about the most pointless stuff 😭

i’m not into like parties or anything like that i would rather stay at home, and watch a movie, or play a game!

Some of my interests/hobbies:

I really really love hockey! i’m a massive panthers fan, but i’ll watch any game that’s on haha i can talk nonstop about hockey if you let me!

i’m also trying to get into baseball! i’m gonna follow the tampa bay rays next season i think??

i like to game sometimes! i don’t play as much as i used to, but im down to play something together! i have ps5 and pc! some of my favorites are Dark Souls 3, Stardew valley, terraria, bloodborne, rdr2!

i love horror movies!, but my favorite movie of all time is Coraline :)

some of my other interests are fishing,music, lego, anything ocean related!

also i have 6 pets! 1 cat, 5 reptiles :)

about you: preferably est or cst around my age! personality is #1! looks aren’t important to me willing to learn about each other interests/hobbies (i’m 100% down to learn about your hobbies!!)

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I am here again in search for a genuine connection that would end up in serious relationship with that special someone ^_^ .

I can do long distance as long as you have the patience and have plans to close it with me (=^ ^)

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Myself:

Just call me Em and I am born and raised in the Philippines. Also I live there too, fairly short, chubby (i am huggable!) and I do say myself that i'm average looking so i wont disappoint you in case we exchange pics (' ^ ^)

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My main interests are very simple though. I love to cook, read manga/ manhwa and watch youtube/ tiktok. I haven't played alot since I was busy in life but I am welcome to watch you play or help me find a relaxing game that we could team up !

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Three things that are important and you agree upon:

Having kids and pets in the future You like a traditional relationship and You're not smoking (v v `)

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P.S. - I find military men attractive or anyone in the service.. i've dated someone in service before, so I'll give you a chance if you're in one! If not, that's alright as well I welcome anyone to message me! ^_^

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If interested to date or know me more.. DM me your age, location, physical description and anything that describes you, also be respectful. Please be between 20 to 30 yrs of age. See you in my inbox and goodluck!

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I should also add I have cats and my most listened to artist this year was Taylor Swift.

If you are still reading, Hi!

I’m a 42 year old single mom living in NM. I’ve been single for basically forever. I’m often asked why I’m single and I think the reason is pretty simple: I’m a hermit, I’m attracted to men, and apparently my standards are too high.

What are these impossibly high standards you might wonder? Here, I’ll list them and you decide:

-age mid thirties to late forties

-I don’t do god, gods, or the church thing so ideally prefer someone that is agnostic or atheist

-Can’t want to have biological children. I’m over that life phase.

-no absentee fathers

-no young children that need babysitters for an evening out

-Has to be employed or have some legal independent means of support

-legally single

-emotionally available

-doesn’t live with an ex, parents, or some other weird fucked up living situation

-Can legally drive and ideally has a car, or own form of reliable transportation

-no criminal record

-no hardcore drugs

-no alcoholics

-no potheads (if it is part of your identification this is probably you, also if you use the phrase 420)

I honestly don’t think my list is all that wild. I’m 5’2” so height is never really an issue as most men are taller than me. I’m fat so I don’t judge others that are too. Your weight doesn’t matter much either as long as you can handle a 5ish mile hike on occasion.

I like girlie coded things like artsy stuff and crafting. I like walks and hikes. I like older sci-fi. I read romance novels that are all about love and finding your one person. I like Disney and animated stuff but never got into anime and have no interest in it.

I love love and just need someone in my life to share it with.

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Hey Reddit! I’m a 26-year-old Black woman with a big passion for art and a love for thoughtful, genuine conversations. I’m here to meet someone who values loyalty, patience, and open communication, and I'm not interested in anything sexual.

A bit about me:

🎮 I enjoy video games, reading, singing, piano, and history. Whether it’s diving into a game or discussing history, I’m always up for interesting conversations!

🎨 I’m an artist focusing on oil painting, and I dream of going full-time with my art someday. If you’re someone who appreciates creativity, that’s a big plus.

🌎 Physically, I’m 5'7" and 200 lbs, but I’ve been working on losing weight. I’m looking for an Asian guy who is kind-hearted and respects boundaries. If you’re patient, open-minded, and looking for a meaningful connection, we might just click! I would prefer someone in my home state, but it doesn't matter overall.

If this sounds like you, send me a message with a picture. I have some posted if you check my post history. Looking forward to connecting! 😊

Hello! My name's Joshua, I'm from the super exciting state of Illinois, and it looks like I'm looking for a person for me.

Anyways a bit about myself/what I like to do

• I work fulltime, anywhere from 44 to 50 hours a week. On top of working I also do a couple of different kinds of volunteer work.

• I'm slowly but surely getting covered in tattoos. I have a fairly random assortment of them right now, some of the more recognizable ones are the Jedi Order insignia, Bender from futurama, brand of sacrifice from berserk.

• I like to travel. A lot of times on my weekends off I'll just plan a little weekend trip to wherever and get a airbnb. I also really like hiking and camping although I haven't gone camping for some time now. I also go to a convention in Atlanta every year.

• An avid concert goer although I haven't seen any this year unfortunately. I really want to try and catch one more Rob Zombie show at some point

• Currently I've been playing some games on my PC a lot more. My friend told me he'd get all the zombies camos on bo6 before and I'm way to competitive to let that happen.

• Sometimes I like to go pick up and put down heavy stuff, so kinda strong.

Hopefully that's enough to give you an idea about myself. I honestly don't have many preferences on who I'd like to talk to, would just enjoy getting to know someone and going from there

Hey there, I am male in my 40s. I have Aspergers and currently looking for work. My one of my big interests is music , I liked the decades from 60s,70s,80s,90s to present. I liked so many bands and artists such as Nirvana,ELO, Billy Joel,Elton John,Elvis,The Smiths,Guns N Roses,Queen,REM, Fleetwood Mac,Pixies,Beach boys,The Doors,Beatles,Ac/Dc, Grunge music,pop music,rock music. I go to many gigs to see local bands. I like books, mostly reading true crime stuff.

I like reading and watching stuff about true crime, I am jogger too . I watch Netflix an odd time.And like memes, I don’t play video games.But can talk about anything. Send a pm or chat if you would like to talk!.

Hii loves, I'm shrimpy and I have have been diagnosed with both adhd and depression 🫠

A bit about me:

I play the drums( mostly freestyle, some soad songs )

I used to swim on a swim team( i was a breaststroke swimmer )

I make jewelry ( mostly bracelets and rings, some pendants )

I read a lot( favorite books being fourth wing and heavenbreaker )

I can be very clingy once I get to know you

My favorite music is by twenty one pilots and ren

I paint( watercolor landscapes )

Like I said earlier I do have depression but I am getting treated for it

What im looking for:

Someone who is caring and able to put up with both my adhd and to help me with my depression. Someone who is kind and hopeful be able to eventually be able to move to or near the hampton/ Newport news area

If you find anything interesting then feel free to dm me

I’m not good at writing these things but here it goes .. I’m looking for what everyone else here is, a genuine connection that hopefully turns into a relationship so being lonely around the holidays becomes a thing of the past.

I have no problem meeting men IRL or getting dates but it’s all very superficial and/or physical but I’m not into the sort of thing. I’d rather find something sincere, serious and deeper than that. Seriously, trauma dump on me (and I will on you but trust me, there’s a lot to unpack lol) Lets just discuss literally anything. I’m so over meaningless conversations and being led on by people pretending to care.. I’d much rather do this via voice chat if you’re comfortable.

I have pretty basic interests but my main hobby is music - I play sing and play a variety of instruments (guitar is my fav). I love all kinds of music but I’m a huge Taylor Swift fan, I just got home from the tour in Toronto and it was amazing! So, don’t message me if you’re gonna just make fun of my “Swifty-ness” lol

Aside from music I also really enjoy watching movies, tv shows and reading - fantasy, sci-fi and action are my preferred genres but I’ll give anything a try. I’m currently reading Station Eleven, what are you reading or watching right now? If anything? Maybe we can watch together? I’m down for that!

I also fill most of my time with doing puzzles, casual gaming and going the gym (I’m a black belt in karate) but I don’t really train anymore! I just like to work out for my physical and mental health.

Im also currently a student for my Masters Degree in Business but I do work a few hours a week as well. I do feel like my life is going extremely well for the most part but I’m just missing having someone special to share and experience it with.

I also have a daughter (7) incase that’s an issue and I am looking for something “real” to develop like I don’t want to be online penpals forever and I want a relationship just so you know what my expectations are.

Hi there! I’m looking to hopefully make a connection that leads to more! Posting into the Reddit void because I’m kinda bad at flirting and approaching people romantically irl! I’m a little shy sometimes! 🤣

A lil about me, I am a bi cis lady, from Canada. I am have a very cute, comfortable and casual style, and I do want to get a few more tattoos in the future as well! I am about 5’4ish, average size ish, dark brunette, and brown eyes. In terms of like actual hobbies I do spend most of my free time doing fibre crafts. I do love napping when I can, I do smoke sometimes, I love collecting blind box toys, vinyl and sneakers! I also enjoy doing my makeup and tweaking my skincare routine, and self care (does this count as a hobby lol?) I love going for walks with my music blasting, and hiking when I have the time, love me some cute coffee dates and I do game very seldom sometimes on my switch. I also love dogs, if you have one send pics PLZ. 🥰 I have an alright job, a few close friends and a boring life so overall my life is pretty quiet and drama free! ✨ Really just looking to share in the monotony of day to day life with someone, the highs and lows and whatever falls between those places too 😌

Im not really dead set on someone particular I’m looking for, I’m very chatty and am hoping you are too though! I’d love to hear about your day everyday, your hobbies, yours passions and everything else going on! Also please have a good sense of humour!✨ I would prefer if you were close ish to my age or a bit older (23+), and preferably from Canada or North America? I can’t do huge time zone differences, I sleep too early! 😂 I am also monogamous relationship wise, and want to be around people who share the same values (politically left.) Also happy to swap selfies if you wanna see who you’re talking to!

If you do reach out, please tell me your age, where you’re from and a little blurb about you so we can get to chitty chatting! Thanks for stopping by lmao ✨🫶🏼