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We are not a personal advice, health, or mental health sub.

Please only respond directly to posts if you were born on or before 1980. If you are younger, please restrict your activity to asking questions and responding to existing comments.

This is not an advice forum.


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We are not a personal advice, health, or mental health sub.

Please only respond directly to posts if you were born in or before 1980. If you are younger, please restrict your activity to asking questions and responding to existing comments.


Rules

1. Respondents to posts must be "old": Born 1980 or prior

2. Please do not seek personal advice or emotional support here.

3. Posts must be 300 characters or less

4. No surveys or homework help

5. Be cool to one another

6. Maximum three questions per user per week, one per day

7. Questions should be topical for the subreddit and its audience

8. Questions about current politics are banned until Inauguration Day, 2025

9. Health questions belong in other subreddits


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32

What are your thoughts on the new generation of adults not wanting to have kids and less birth rates?

130 Comments
2024/10/31
11:30 UTC

22

What do you think is the biggest mistake people in their 20s make, that have the biggest impact throughout life?

105 Comments
2024/10/31
09:40 UTC

23

What were some of the biggest wastes of time in your life?

I don't mean biggest regrets per se. I mean what were the things you spent the longest time doing, that ended up not being worth it? I'm curious, because I feel there are a lot of small things that will add up to my eventually feeling unfulfilled if I don't stave some of them off.

85 Comments
2024/10/31
08:42 UTC

21

Were you a regular at The Rocky Horror Picture Show in the theater? And, if so, how far into it did you get?

38 Comments
2024/10/31
05:38 UTC

1

Parent with chronic illness

Anyone here struggle with your own chronic illness when your children were young? If your kids are now grown, how have they faired? Do they resent your limitations? Anything you would change looking back?

1 Comment
2024/10/31
03:20 UTC

9

Do you still read the newspaper?

34 Comments
2024/10/31
02:21 UTC

138

What weird things did you not have a clue about before you got old?

what weird things about life, or about your body (lol!) have happened, that you had no clue about before you got old?

I'll go first: so. many. skin. tags! šŸ˜³ šŸ„“

nobody told me!

296 Comments
2024/10/31
02:31 UTC

162

Do you still watch the Charlie Brown specials every year for Halloween and Christmas?

85 Comments
2024/10/31
02:06 UTC

9

Did quitting bad circumstances in life always lead to something better eventually?

27 Comments
2024/10/31
01:50 UTC

5

Any elderly Swifties in here? If so, how did you get into Taylor Swift?

85 Comments
2024/10/30
22:48 UTC

4

Stepparents, what is your relationship with your stepchildren now that they are adults ?

Particularly if you actively helped raise them as kids/teens etc. Are you close with them? Are you an active grandparent in their kids lives? Did they ever thank you for all you did for them? Did things ever come full circle?

14 Comments
2024/10/30
21:12 UTC

45

Which were the worst 80s TV shows, in your opinion?

Small Wonder was pretty bad. That theme song was catchy but cringy.

Charles in CHarge was horrible with Scott Baio and Willie Aames competing on who gets to be the most annoying.

247 Comments
2024/10/30
20:06 UTC

32

What are you guys doing for fun?

As I get older, my definition of "fun" changes quite a bit! What are you all doing that consider to be fun?

173 Comments
2024/10/30
18:13 UTC

0

Have your preferences for platonic physical affection changed over time?

Are their certain types of non-sexual physical affection that you used to like/dislike but your feelings have changed over time? Is there a type of platonic physical affection that you wish that you received more often now?

16 Comments
2024/10/30
17:45 UTC

236

Which celebrities are you surprised that are still alive?

Knowing Mel Brooks and Dick Van Dyke are still around at their age is really surprising. Then again people live a lot longer these days. Olivia de Havilland made it to like 104

534 Comments
2024/10/30
17:36 UTC

1

Mischief or Devilā€™s Night

Where I grew up, early to mid seventies, the night before Halloween was known as Mischief Night. All of the teenagers would go out and do nuisance activities like egging, tp trees, etc. Growing up, did you have it and how did you participate?

28 Comments
2024/10/30
17:04 UTC

13

Did you know or have any experience with beatniks?

For anyone who came of age in the 1950s; did you know anyone who would be considered a beatnik? How would you describe them? Was the way the media portrayed them (black turtlenecks, berets) accurate or was it more of a media stereotype?

50 Comments
2024/10/30
14:30 UTC

337

What was a commonly accepted truth in your youth that seems bizarre today?

I'm curious about the things you grew up believing were absolutely true, only to find out they aren't anymore. Whether it's fashion, technology, or social norms, what was a widely accepted idea back then that would surprise younger generations today?

1811 Comments
2024/10/30
13:57 UTC

0

Taken as a whole, at what stage of life are humans the most kind, generous, and understanding toward one another, and at what stage are they the least?

50 Comments
2024/10/30
12:09 UTC

16

Those who were around in the early-mid 60s old enough to witnessed the earlier days with Motown, what were your initial thoughts and reaction of ā€œLittleā€ Stevie Wonder at age 12-13?

At the time, have yā€™all thought that this young 12 year old kid who is blind and talented can play the harmonica like no other and happened to be a musical genius of your time, were you aware at the time or just thought he wasnā€™t gonna last long or become a novelty act?

33 Comments
2024/10/30
04:43 UTC

32

What cigarette did your doctor smoke?

74 Comments
2024/10/30
04:29 UTC

21

At what age did you stop keeping up with the trends and in jokes of the youth?

62 Comments
2024/10/30
03:54 UTC

59

Did any of you have loving relationships with elder family members?

I see so many people on this sub talk about traumatic childhoods, neglectful parents, abuse, etc.

How many of you had positive childhoods? Where you can look back and say yeah, I had a good childhood?

161 Comments
2024/10/29
23:14 UTC

301

How many of you started smoking marijuana in your older years

I havenā€™t smoked marijuana since 1982, I was in the state last night that had legalized marijuana and thought what the hell. Smoked a fatty, slept 12 hours and feel like I was 40 again!

384 Comments
2024/10/29
22:10 UTC

25

What were your favorite arcade video and / or pinball games (please specify) from back when they only cost a quarter to play.

268 Comments
2024/10/29
20:09 UTC

408

What would 20 year-old you think if they met current you?

What do you think your 20 year old version of you would think if they were time-travelled to today and saw/met/spoke with you as you are now?

1754 Comments
2024/10/29
19:38 UTC

4

Who will answer .. by Ed Ames

My mom says no one on here will remember this song ?!? What songs do you remember that were forgotten??

41 Comments
2024/10/29
18:00 UTC

8

What was band merch like in the 1960s?

Iā€™m going to assume T-shirts werenā€™t really a thing yet

52 Comments
2024/10/29
16:37 UTC

312

What's something you're not buying anymore of until it runs out because you think you have enough for the rest of your life?

For me, I'm not buying anymore window cleaner or bar soap. I'm not buying any worcestershire sauce either.

1206 Comments
2024/10/29
11:35 UTC

52

Did teachers really used to come to your house?

It's often shown in older entertainment, and I didn't know if it was reality or a way to move a plotline.

249 Comments
2024/10/29
04:56 UTC

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