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We are not a personal advice, health, or mental health sub.

Please only respond directly to posts if you were born on or before 1980. If you are younger, please restrict your activity to asking questions and responding to existing comments.

This is not an advice forum.


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We are not a personal advice, health, or mental health sub.

Please only respond directly to posts if you were born in or before 1980. If you are younger, please restrict your activity to asking questions and responding to existing comments.


Rules

1. Respondents to posts must be "old": Born 1980 or prior

2. Please do not seek personal advice or emotional support here.

3. Posts must be 300 characters or less

4. No surveys or homework help

5. Be cool to one another

6. Maximum three questions per user per week, one per day

7. Questions should be topical for the subreddit and its audience

8. Questions about current politics are banned

9. Health questions belong in other subreddits


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10

Where did you meet your spouse?

89 Comments
2025/02/01
13:56 UTC

12

How would you have invested your money if you could start again?

For those who are in there 60s, given your years of wisdom and experience, what were some great financial investment decisions you’ve made? What were some bad ones? And how would you have invested if you could start again

57 Comments
2025/02/01
11:16 UTC

0

Stoic old people - how have you processed intense emotional situations?

Those folks who stay dry-eyed whether by nature or nurture, but still have big feelings…being that way too, I could use tips on doing more than internalizing…

23 Comments
2025/02/01
10:32 UTC

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What do you do online that unintentionally reveals your age?

Apparently, it is practically geriatric to have an AOL email address. So, anytime I have to give my email address out. I’m letting people know that I’m over 40. Or even 50. Also, the use of ellipses In texts apparently it’s not used by the young… who knew?

161 Comments
2025/02/01
07:54 UTC

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What did the old people of your childhood think about air travel? Did they consider it special or futuristic at all?

I didn't realize that it didn't really become common until around the 1950s or so from what I saw on Google.

61 Comments
2025/02/01
05:26 UTC

4

what are unique particular things you're grateful for?

what are unique particular things you're grateful for?

30 Comments
2025/02/01
05:15 UTC

19

Does anyone still subscribe to the daily newspaper?

Or has it got too expensive? My subscription rates have gone up 250% in five years. Ridiculous. I'm ready to bail.

58 Comments
2025/02/01
04:08 UTC

11

Old people who never learned to drive what was that like?

B

16 Comments
2025/02/01
03:56 UTC

74

Who is the first presidential candidate you voted for?

I don't remember any elections before 1992. ( Yes this is an American post) Basically the title, and why. The older the better.

702 Comments
2025/02/01
02:23 UTC

23

Where were you during the Apollo 11 mission on the moon?

For those who got to catch it on television or read about it in the papers.

How did you feel about the news? What thoughts raced in your head getting to live in the same era humanity left the cradle for the first time?

145 Comments
2025/02/01
01:50 UTC

2

Why were the nightclub scenes of NYC, London, and Hollywood in the 60's, 70's, and 80's seemingly more infamous / legendary for their wildness and debauchery than the club scenes in other large cities? What made those three stand out, compared to all the others?

13 Comments
2025/02/01
01:27 UTC

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Ageism in the workplace—is it really this bad?

I work for a small cleaning company that (indirectly) discriminates against older people, and it breaks my heart.

My coworker, who works in HR, came to my office asking me to interview an older woman in her sixties, saying, “Can you interview her? She’s a senior, I won’t hire her anyway.”

66 Comments
2025/02/01
01:02 UTC

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What was your reaction when Nelson Mandela was released from prison?

We're nearing the 35th anniversary of Nelson Mandela's release from prison. Curious to know what the reaction of those who remember Mandela's release was. How did people around you react?

59 Comments
2025/02/01
00:54 UTC

21

You guys get scared or lonely, living by yourselves?

103 Comments
2025/02/01
00:44 UTC

24

People who grew up in the West or Western-aligned countries during the Cold War: how much was the Soviet Union seen as a threat?

I was a kid when the USSR collapsed, so have no memory of when it was powerful. Were people in the West, of all ages, constantly terrified of it? I'd like to get answers from a wide range of countries, if possible.

102 Comments
2025/01/31
23:36 UTC

320

What's a food people don't make anymore?

The other day i was thinking, when was the last time I had salisbury steak, has to be the early 80s.

2269 Comments
2025/01/31
22:00 UTC

263

What small thing you've acquired has made a big difference in the quality of your life?

I'd have to say it was buying a toilet seat bidet ($39). Can't believe I lived over 60 years without a device to do what toilet paper can never do!

380 Comments
2025/01/31
19:23 UTC

21

Did something ever happen to you, that you don't have explanation for?

Paranormal/glitch in the matrix

86 Comments
2025/01/31
17:16 UTC

17

Hobbies that were popular during your time.

Are there any hobbies/pastimes that were popular especially during your time? Specifically, are there any that you don't see younger people enjoying today? I am 21, but I noticed that fewer people go to movie theaters now compared to when I was a kid.

118 Comments
2025/01/31
17:03 UTC

14

For those in between 58-63 that are retired, do you feel like you have enough?

90 Comments
2025/01/31
16:10 UTC

4

What are some good satirical comics, publishings from the past?

Seems like they have been around forever. Curious to know some from political venues of yesteryear. Or just current event related.

16 Comments
2025/01/31
15:36 UTC

62

Whats the coolest thing you've crossed off your "bucket list" so far?

With February upon us, one of our neatest was going to see Punxsutawney Phil on Groundhog Day. Absolutely not what we were expecting but super happy we did it for the experience.

372 Comments
2025/01/31
15:34 UTC

8

What was the moment that you decided to live life your own way?

77 Comments
2025/01/31
15:32 UTC

225

How quickly did the years 35 to your age feel like they passed by?

I'm 36. I often wonder. In hindsight it seems like yesterday I was 18 finishing highschool heading to college. I know that during most of it it felt like a snails pace though.

For you how quickly did the time feel like it was passing by from it mid thirties?

588 Comments
2025/01/31
13:46 UTC

27

What is the most sick you’ve ever been, and how did you make it through?

Looking for your stories of hope and overcoming.

183 Comments
2025/01/31
13:20 UTC

15

What's up for the weekend, vintage comrades?

You tell me your story, I'll tell you mine.

78 Comments
2025/01/31
13:12 UTC

9

Why is it easier to say, "I love you," to dogs than it is to my loved ones?

34 Comments
2025/01/31
12:54 UTC

0

What group of fans was most annoying in the 60s/70s/80s?

Sports, entertainment, or other?

113 Comments
2025/01/31
11:50 UTC

17

Women who were around in the 70s, how big was the “natural” makeup look really? Always thought it looked real pretty in movies from back then, and seems like it’s kind of making a comeback these days

59 Comments
2025/01/31
11:44 UTC

8

What’s your favorite memory as a kid ?

62 Comments
2025/01/31
05:49 UTC

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