/r/creepyPMs

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A place for people to share the strange and disturbing PMs they get from all over the internet. We encourage all kinds of posts from mildly off-putting to slightly weird to downright scary.

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  • Creepy PMs FAQ
  • What is Creepy PMs?
  • CreepyPMs is a subreddit for posting creepy, inappropriate, bizarre, awkward, or offensive PMs. Consider everything here to be adult material, and possibly triggering.
  • CreepyPMs is also a support sub, a safe space for people who have been creeped on. That means comments that are not conducive to a supportive and positive environment may be removed, even if they don't violate the rules.

  • What kind of community is /r/creepyPMs?

  • We are feminist and women-friendly. You don't have to identify as such, but you must be respectful of the environment. Low-substance humor and stale hivemind circlejerks are not welcome.

  • Is it OK to share personal anecdotes and stories?

  • Yes, especially if they are relevant to the post. However, our rules still apply. If your story defends or supports the creep, derails the discussion, or isn't empathetic towards the recipient of the messages, it will be removed. Questions regarding whether or not you come off as creepy should be directed to /r/relationships.


  • NEW RULE, PLEASE READ BEFORE SUBMITTING

  • ALL personal information must now be FULLY censored—this includes your own selfies, your profile/user photo, and your username if it does not match your Reddit handle.

  • This is for your safety. The last thing we want is for our users to be targeted after their photo or personal information was visible in a post.

  • Read this post for a complete breakdown of how you should be censoring your submissions. You can also find it in Other Helpful Links below👇


  • Rule One: Submission Guidelines
  • REMEMBER: CreepyPMs is a support sub.
  • The interpretation, definition, and enforcement of these rules is at the discretion of the mods. Click here for more information about the rules.
  • 🔹 Private messages only, except on Wednesdays.
  • 🔹 Messages from anonymous chat apps (Amino, Omegle, Whisper, etc.) are only allowed on Wednesdays.
  • 🔹 Video submissions are not allowed.
  • 🔹 Baited content is not allowed.
  • 🔹 No reposts.
  • 🔹 Remove all identifying info, including your own. Censor ALL—even your own—profile pictures and usernames, even if the creep's user photo isn't of themselves, or they don't use their real name. That includes links as well. When in doubt, block it out.
  • 🔹 All pictures of body parts must be blocked out. This includes face pictures, body pictures, and NSFW pictures. This is to prevent body-shaming, as we do not tolerate such.
  • 🔹 Make use of the tags and flairs (users are now able to add certain flairs to their submissions). Message the mods if you would like another flair added.
  • 🔹 If your post is not OC, it must be tagged accordingly. Users are now able to add not OC flair to their posts. Please credit the original source whenever possible.
  • 🔹 Images must be hosted on Imgur or Reddit.
  • 🔹 Meta posts must be approved by the mods before being submitted.
  • 🔹 Mods may flair your submission at their discretion.
  • 🔹 We recommend using a throwaway.
  • 🔹 If you receive an abusive/creepy PM as a result of your post here, send the mods an unedited screenshot.
  • Use the report button or message the mods to report comments that violate the rules. We listen.

  • Rule Two: Be Civil and Supportive
  • REMEMBER: CreepyPMs is a support sub.
  • The interpretation, definition, and enforcement of these rules is at the discretion of the mods. Click here for more information about the rules.
  • 🔹 We have zero tolerance for racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, generalizations, and being a jerk in general. This means that if you are being unnecessarily rude to OP or any other commenter your comments can and probably will be removed!
  • 🔹 Arguing semantics about the definition of "pedophilia" is not allowed.
  • 🔹 OP does not need to defend their reactions or responses. Comments that criticize the way OP handled the interaction will be removed.
  • 🔹 Don't say "it's not creepy." We encourage all kinds of posts from mildly off-putting to slightly weird to downright scary.
  • 🔹 Threats of violence/death wishes are not allowed.
  • 🔹 Do not ask for personal information.
  • 🔹 No body-shaming, no kink-shaming, no slut-shaming.
  • 🔹 Do not creep in the comments. This includes flirting with OP, asking for pics, and asking if the creep is hot.
  • 🔹 Absolutely no victim-blaming or creep-defending.
  • 🔹 No armchair psychology/diagnoses.
  • 🔹 Make use of quotes or the /s tag if your joke could be misinterpreted as a rule-breaking comment.
  • 🔹 Constructive advice is welcome unless marked No Advice Wanted. Simplistic advice or observations like, "just block them!" are not constructive and will be removed.
  • 🔹 Don't derail.
  • 🔹 Please censor images of body parts and block completely. This includes face pictures, body pictures, and definitely NSFW pictures. This is to prevent body-shaming and also because we don't want to see it any more than you did.
  • 🔹 If you have concerns or problems with a post send a message to modmail so that we can address them.
  • 🔹 Message the mods to discuss concerns about moderation, including removed comments. Do not reply to comment removals in the thread.
  • Use the report button or message the mods to report comments that violate the rules. We listen.

  • UNDERAGE USER HELP
  • If you are underage and someone is asking for nude pictures, they are breaking the law. If you are underage and an adult is making inappropriate, or otherwise sexual, remarks to you, they are breaking the law.
  • YOU HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING TO DESERVE THIS. Even if you went along with their advances and sexual remarks, the adult knows better. You are the victim, do not blame yourself.
  • Find e-stalking laws by state here.
  • Report offenders using www.cybertipline.com or call 1-800-843-5678.
  • If you are uncomfortable filing a report, message the mods to assist you.
  • If you do not live in the US or need additional resources, please visit our wiki page.
  • Post a comment saying "underage user help" to page AutoMod resources

  • Sexual Assault Hotline
  • YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING TO DESERVE THIS, YOU ARE A VICTIM AND A SURVIVOR.💪
  • National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE(4673)
  • Their Online Chat
  • Chat online with a trained staff member who can provide you confidential crisis support.
  • Post a comment saying "sexual assault hotline" OR "sexual assault help" to page AutoMod resources



Read the rules before posting AND commenting.

/r/creepyPMs

783,225 Subscribers

15

Why can't some people just take the L?

5 Comments
2025/02/01
16:42 UTC

10

Seriously tho. Why would you even admit something like this and not just close the chat???

1 Comment
2025/02/01
16:40 UTC

43

Freelancer problems

I (F) sent a proposal to a new client (M) for ongoing social media management after creating his business website.

His first response was pretty normal- "need to go over this", so I replied with the above professional response. I'm 47 and have seen a lot but jfc, it's 2025 ffs!! 🫥

4 Comments
2025/02/01
12:13 UTC

187

genuinely how tf do you come up with openers like that

26 Comments
2025/01/31
11:36 UTC

97

After I told off and blocked a weirdo, he made a new account and spammed my DMs

24 Comments
2025/01/31
07:40 UTC

110

What

21 Comments
2025/01/30
13:44 UTC

88

I honestly don't know what to say about this...

7 Comments
2025/01/30
09:46 UTC

145

no excuse for this, it says im 17 ALL OVER my profile 😭😭

these weird minor lovers need to stop messaging me lol

24 Comments
2025/01/30
04:20 UTC

81

yikes…

Found on twitter by the guy POSTING THE SCREENSHOT being like “heh.. i guess i’m kind of crazy” as if treating ppl like this is smth cute and quirky instead of abusive.

14 Comments
2025/01/30
04:00 UTC

101

Random number texting me unconsentually

So I have a suspicion on how he got my number but I can't prove it. Also his number is from my home state and I'm no longer located there.

22 Comments
2025/01/30
02:37 UTC

173

idek just ew

tired of men bro

27 Comments
2025/01/29
19:13 UTC

19

Well, I did it. Here is, If You Was A Rat. A song compiling some of the weird dms I've recieved on here

11 Comments
2025/01/29
19:01 UTC

92

if you’re wondering what it’s like to be an alternative woman on the internet, this is it.

19 Comments
2025/01/28
22:19 UTC

3

It's Whatever Wednesday, folks!

Happy Hump Day! 😉

Today, all creepy findings and encounters from anonymous chats are welcome while this sticky is up. Now's your chance to submit your Whisper, Omegle, Amino posts!

Also on Whatever Wednesday, we will accept creepy convos and messages in other formats outside of the usual guidelines.

Remember, the rules still apply. Please ensure you've read them before posting.

Have fun while supporting your fellow Redditors!

* P.S.** — This is an automated post by r/Automoderator, CreepyPMs mods are not notified if you comment. If you have any questions regarding Whatever Wednsdays, please message the mods. Thanks!

1 Comment
2025/01/29
04:00 UTC

98

Excuse me ?

9 Comments
2025/01/28
19:16 UTC

86

guy saw my post about not being happy with my weight

made a post over the summer about men on dating apps being upset with me being bigger and saying they “wasted a swipe” since they didn’t go through my whole profile

i’ve gotta a lot of chubby chasers since then, but this one was really out there

(been working on myself and my health since then. i wasn’t hurt, but did laugh really hard)

20 Comments
2025/01/28
18:43 UTC

215

“Respect” from this gross dude 🤢

45 Comments
2025/01/28
09:36 UTC

86

creepy pedo w r*pey behavior.. seriously ew.

im 17 and unfortunately i experience things like this constantly. makes me wanna throw up

12 Comments
2025/01/28
10:48 UTC

92

Maby

Mind you, this is a grown man that sent this like 6 messages in.

16 Comments
2025/01/28
04:46 UTC

68

Stranger approached me wanting to a relationship. Does anyone know why they do this?

11 Comments
2025/01/27
23:12 UTC

59

I have no words.

5 Comments
2025/01/27
22:47 UTC

56

how do i block people on discord 😭

9 Comments
2025/01/27
22:44 UTC

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