/r/creepyPMs

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A place for people to share the strange and disturbing PMs they get from all over the internet. We encourage all kinds of posts from mildly off-putting to slightly weird to downright scary.

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  • Creepy PMs FAQ
  • What is Creepy PMs?
  • CreepyPMs is a subreddit for posting creepy, inappropriate, bizarre, awkward, or offensive PMs. Consider everything here to be adult material, and possibly triggering.
  • CreepyPMs is also a support sub, a safe space for people who have been creeped on. That means comments that are not conducive to a supportive and positive environment may be removed, even if they don't violate the rules.

  • What kind of community is /r/creepyPMs?

  • We are feminist and women-friendly. You don't have to identify as such, but you must be respectful of the environment. Low-substance humor and stale hivemind circlejerks are not welcome.

  • Is it OK to share personal anecdotes and stories?

  • Yes, especially if they are relevant to the post. However, our rules still apply. If your story defends or supports the creep, derails the discussion, or isn't empathetic towards the recipient of the messages, it will be removed. Questions regarding whether or not you come off as creepy should be directed to /r/relationships.


  • NEW RULE, PLEASE READ BEFORE SUBMITTING

  • ALL personal information must now be FULLY censored—this includes your own selfies, your profile/user photo, and your username if it does not match your Reddit handle.

  • This is for your safety. The last thing we want is for our users to be targeted after their photo or personal information was visible in a post.

  • Read this post for a complete breakdown of how you should be censoring your submissions. You can also find it in Other Helpful Links below👇


  • Rule One: Submission Guidelines
  • REMEMBER: CreepyPMs is a support sub.
  • The interpretation, definition, and enforcement of these rules is at the discretion of the mods. Click here for more information about the rules.
  • 🔹 Private messages only, except on Wednesdays.
  • 🔹 Messages from anonymous chat apps (Amino, Omegle, Whisper, etc.) are only allowed on Wednesdays.
  • 🔹 Video submissions are not allowed.
  • 🔹 Baited content is not allowed.
  • 🔹 No reposts.
  • 🔹 Remove all identifying info, including your own. Censor ALL—even your own—profile pictures and usernames, even if the creep's user photo isn't of themselves, or they don't use their real name. That includes links as well. When in doubt, block it out.
  • 🔹 All pictures of body parts must be blocked out. This includes face pictures, body pictures, and NSFW pictures. This is to prevent body-shaming, as we do not tolerate such.
  • 🔹 Make use of the tags and flairs (users are now able to add certain flairs to their submissions). Message the mods if you would like another flair added.
  • 🔹 If your post is not OC, it must be tagged accordingly. Users are now able to add not OC flair to their posts. Please credit the original source whenever possible.
  • 🔹 Images must be hosted on Imgur or Reddit.
  • 🔹 Meta posts must be approved by the mods before being submitted.
  • 🔹 Mods may flair your submission at their discretion.
  • 🔹 We recommend using a throwaway.
  • 🔹 If you receive an abusive/creepy PM as a result of your post here, send the mods an unedited screenshot.
  • Use the report button or message the mods to report comments that violate the rules. We listen.

  • Rule Two: Be Civil and Supportive
  • REMEMBER: CreepyPMs is a support sub.
  • The interpretation, definition, and enforcement of these rules is at the discretion of the mods. Click here for more information about the rules.
  • 🔹 We have zero tolerance for racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, generalizations, and being a jerk in general. This means that if you are being unnecessarily rude to OP or any other commenter your comments can and probably will be removed!
  • 🔹 Arguing semantics about the definition of "pedophilia" is not allowed.
  • 🔹 OP does not need to defend their reactions or responses. Comments that criticize the way OP handled the interaction will be removed.
  • 🔹 Don't say "it's not creepy." We encourage all kinds of posts from mildly off-putting to slightly weird to downright scary.
  • 🔹 Threats of violence/death wishes are not allowed.
  • 🔹 Do not ask for personal information.
  • 🔹 No body-shaming, no kink-shaming, no slut-shaming.
  • 🔹 Do not creep in the comments. This includes flirting with OP, asking for pics, and asking if the creep is hot.
  • 🔹 Absolutely no victim-blaming or creep-defending.
  • 🔹 No armchair psychology/diagnoses.
  • 🔹 Make use of quotes or the /s tag if your joke could be misinterpreted as a rule-breaking comment.
  • 🔹 Constructive advice is welcome unless marked No Advice Wanted. Simplistic advice or observations like, "just block them!" are not constructive and will be removed.
  • 🔹 Don't derail.
  • 🔹 Please censor images of body parts and block completely. This includes face pictures, body pictures, and definitely NSFW pictures. This is to prevent body-shaming and also because we don't want to see it any more than you did.
  • 🔹 If you have concerns or problems with a post send a message to modmail so that we can address them.
  • 🔹 Message the mods to discuss concerns about moderation, including removed comments. Do not reply to comment removals in the thread.
  • Use the report button or message the mods to report comments that violate the rules. We listen.

  • UNDERAGE USER HELP
  • If you are underage and someone is asking for nude pictures, they are breaking the law. If you are underage and an adult is making inappropriate, or otherwise sexual, remarks to you, they are breaking the law.
  • YOU HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING TO DESERVE THIS. Even if you went along with their advances and sexual remarks, the adult knows better. You are the victim, do not blame yourself.
  • Find e-stalking laws by state here.
  • Report offenders using www.cybertipline.com or call 1-800-843-5678.
  • If you are uncomfortable filing a report, message the mods to assist you.
  • If you do not live in the US or need additional resources, please visit our wiki page.
  • Post a comment saying "underage user help" to page AutoMod resources

  • Sexual Assault Hotline
  • YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING TO DESERVE THIS, YOU ARE A VICTIM AND A SURVIVOR.💪
  • National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE(4673)
  • Their Online Chat
  • Chat online with a trained staff member who can provide you confidential crisis support.
  • Post a comment saying "sexual assault hotline" OR "sexual assault help" to page AutoMod resources



Read the rules before posting AND commenting.

/r/creepyPMs

785,475 Subscribers

75

This one weirded me out so much.

14 Comments
2024/11/01
02:36 UTC

64

I love when this happens so much

The person in the photo is me he would slide up on the same pic every time too😭😭😭(I'm not scribbling my ass out anymore that's too much work, especially since I'm easy to find on my other acct)

1 Comment
2024/10/31
23:02 UTC

48

Parasite cleansing?

16 Comments
2024/10/31
22:24 UTC

61

what a line

8 Comments
2024/10/31
14:20 UTC

49

My gut feeling tells me i dont wanna see those pics. (He has send 1 more pic)

6 Comments
2024/10/31
13:16 UTC

117

“You’re 17 so close enough” 💀

Posted on teens meet teens too 🤢

50 Comments
2024/10/31
10:20 UTC

79

Sigh.

10 Comments
2024/10/31
03:53 UTC

43

Because sexuality is a choice 💀

I bet this is a man

11 Comments
2024/10/30
23:04 UTC

39

I have so many questions 💀💀

21 Comments
2024/10/30
22:55 UTC

25

Wow- just wow-

He send me a video of it after-

1 Comment
2024/10/30
22:31 UTC

68

Woke up to this gem this morning

12 Comments
2024/10/30
16:13 UTC

23

hello im doing this coming weekend is going to travel ❤️☺️

What does this even mean

5 Comments
2024/10/30
19:43 UTC

41

I posted my handmade halloween costumes on a subreddit and got this message.

I just wanted people to like my cos

7 Comments
2024/10/30
19:12 UTC

55

Pussy ?

Funny how each of his messages has nothing to do with the previous one. He’s blue, im red

15 Comments
2024/10/30
18:06 UTC

164

Why. Just why. I did not ask for this ffs

45 Comments
2024/10/30
16:05 UTC

44

Dear lord... I don't even know how to comment on that.

13 Comments
2024/10/30
15:08 UTC

15

Unwanted tag of my name from a stranger middle aged man on FB public post.

Just why??? I hate when men do this to us women. 😭😤

I am a young woman in my 30s and this man looks like he’s approximately 20-25 years older than me which is downright disgusting to me.

The post asked a question on a public FB thread for people to comment relating to signs of someone who doesn’t love you and I simply answered my opinion.

Then I got this unwanted comment. Pissed me off so much; I became blunt. I also reported his comment for tagging me and harassment & removed my name tag from it. One more comment from him, automatic block.

Men like him need to understand such comments especially if it’s not wanted in the first place, can come across as creepy and they are why women often feel uncomfortable online. They have no respect for our boundaries at all.

1 Comment
2024/10/30
14:50 UTC

33

Do you interested in my post?

Got an Indian gold here. "Do you interested in my bio"

3 Comments
2024/10/30
12:20 UTC

96

He'd previously asked for a picture where I said no. He asked my height and I gave it and asked why he asked. Then this came.

He'd been asking questions like "what's your biggest fantasy?" and "what's something you've always wanted to do?" I kept my answers PG.

This makes me wonder why I accept DMs

6 Comments
2024/10/30
13:57 UTC

55

Weirdest DoorDash interaction

About three years ago, I decided to order myself some lunch. I just remembered this incident the other day, but I was able to find the creepy DM I received after my order was delivered. I want to note that I purposely have my orders set to ‘leave at door’, and he STILL knocked and made me take the food in person.

3 Comments
2024/10/30
08:15 UTC

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