/r/UKLGBT

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For the LGBTQ+ community in the UK.

Anything pertaining to UK LGBT issues (gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender).

Related Subreddits

/r/UKLGBT

/r/TransgenderUK

/r/nonbinaryuk

/r/bisexualUK

/r/LGBTireland

/r/LGBT

/r/ainbow

/r/London

UK LGBT Helplines

London Lesbian and Gay Switchboard: 0300 330 0630

LGBT Helpline Scotland: 0300 123 2523

LGBT Cymru Helpline: 0800 840 2069

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29F looking for a man to enter lavender marriage with

Hi guys,

I hope I'm not breaking any sub-rules by posting this.

I'm a 29 year old woman who's interested in entering a lavender marriage. Here is a bit of information on what a potential agreement between myself and my potential partner would look like. Please note, this list is not exhaustive and anything is up for discussion. So if there's something not mentioned here, or something in the list you'd like to negotiate, let's have a conversation to see if we can reach a compromise.

Potential Partner:

  • Can be any race or ethnicity

  • Must live in the UK

  • Must be discrete

  • I'd like us to treat each other well and with mutual respect. I'm happy to discuss just how much we'd want to intertwine our lives. If you'd like to build a life together, great! If you'd like to be more to yourself behind closed doors, that also works for me.

  • No sexual relations are required between us. You are free to date or have relations with whomever you like.

  • I'd like someone who is employed or has an income of some kind, has good hygiene, is clean and organised.

  • It would be lovely if we could enjoy each other's company and enjoy spending time together so we can live peacefully together. No struggle marriage for me.

Me:

  • I'm a good-looking, friendly, sociable woman. I love to have a good laugh, dance and go to the theatre. I'm a good communicator. I'd say I'm quite laid back. If you're serious about getting married and want to get to know me better, DM me.
4 Comments
2024/10/29
20:36 UTC

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Intro 😅

Hey, I’m S 👋🏾 I’m 22, black, gay and I live in the UK. Trying to find new people, cause I don’t have any gay friends who I can relate w and I gets very boring and frustrating sometimes. Especially when life kicks you in the teeth 😪 I’m into fashion and anime as well . I’m watching Kaiju no. 8 and I’m thinking of starting 86 when I’m done. Someone who’s watched tell me if it’s good

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2024/10/29
20:06 UTC

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Where are the pansexuals at?

Exactly what it says on the tin, looking for other pans to discuss pancakes with 😊

17 Comments
2024/10/27
08:41 UTC

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Recently came out as gay?

Hi, recently I came out as gay ( to myself, long story) as in I finally accepted my own sexuality; but I am left without any friends from the community so I am looking to create some connections, on top of that I am quite shy and introvert and is a struggle for me to go alone at a gay bar or club.

Tried the apps, but with many the end goal seems to be sex, personally I don't have a crazy sex drive, I am the sort of guy who enjoys more cuddles in bed while watching a move and falling asleep in each others arms; besides the apps can be tiring so much talking which leads to nothing.

Any advice?

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2024/10/26
13:10 UTC

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Friends

Hey everyone!! I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I’ll give it a shot.

I’m moving to London in January, and I’m really excited but also a little anxious since I’ll be completely new. I’d love to connect with some people around my age (19-21, max 22) so I can have a few friends to meet up with once I arrive.

A little about me—I’m into creative things, such as painting, sketching, writing and sewing. I like to play piano, sometimes my guitar, i enjoy reading and cooking.. I'm really into language learning, tho i'm not the best at it and i enjoy going to concerts. Sometimes I like to game as well (: I’m super open to meeting people who share similar interests or just want to be friends!

If anyone’s up for chatting and maybe becoming friends, feel free to reach out! ᡣ𐭩

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2024/10/26
10:28 UTC

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Hi how's everyone

4 Comments
2024/10/25
16:06 UTC

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Looking for non Fatphobic gay bars/clubs.

Hi , I’m (M) 22 visiting London for the first time during new years and am was wondering what the best queer friendly bars are. I’ve seen a lot of bad reviews regarding SoHo, and I’m not sure if I want to go as I am a bigger guy. I was wondering what are some of your favorite spots?

7 Comments
2024/10/25
00:46 UTC

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Anything gay happening in Nottingham?

visiting here

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2024/10/19
23:01 UTC

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NEW ARTICLE: Revealed: Over 200 Transgender patients have been refused hormone care by GPs

2 Comments
2024/10/19
15:59 UTC

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In London on 9 Nov - lesbian scene solo traveller?

Hey, I'm going to be in London on the 9 November - any recommendations for lesbian/gay bars with a welcoming crowd? I'm 24, lesbian, looking to meet some cool people and chat.

1 Comment
2024/10/19
13:17 UTC

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Birthday on 20th October - Feeling Alone, Looking for Company

Hey everyone,

I hope you’re all doing well. My 21st birthday is this Sunday, 20th October, and I’m feeling quite alone. I’m an international student who’s just moved to the UK for the first time, and I haven’t been able to find many people from the LGBT community here in London.

Being new here and far from home, I’d really love to spend my birthday with someone, make some new friends, and feel a bit more connected. I’m 21, gay, and would appreciate it so much if anyone is free to hang out on Sunday and maybe help make my day a little special.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to meet some lovely people soon!

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2024/10/17
13:59 UTC

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BiCon 2024, 30 Nov to 1 Dec in London

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2024/10/17
10:28 UTC

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Based in Southampton or Bournemouth? Interested in Getting Into Coding?

The Southampton Chapter of Codebar are hosting another event next week at Rareloop!

If you are a female, LGBTQ+ or underrepresented aspiring developer and want experienced people to talk to then please reach out to us at Codebar (we're a friendly bunch!)

The next Southampton event is being held on the 23rd October at Rareloop. More information can be found here: https://codebar.io/workshops/3081

Alternatively if you just wanna chat, reach out to one of us via linkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/company/codebarcommunity/

PeacE!

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2024/10/15
20:59 UTC

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how do i meet a future girlfriend in scotland?

i’ve tried apps and they’re all kinda gross, are there lesbian spaces that aren’t hookup heavy near Glasgow?

3 Comments
2024/10/13
09:29 UTC

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What’s an app for anonymous lesbian hookups?

Any

7 Comments
2024/10/13
08:50 UTC

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hi, want to know who this guy is, does he have TikTok? Thanks

3 Comments
2024/10/09
07:34 UTC

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The only one

I might be the only single lesbian in the east midlands. It feels that way… where are you all hiding, I’m not good at hide and seek

0 Comments
2024/10/08
21:35 UTC

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Grindr

Hi, new to Grindr, however, all the guys seem to be over 250km away. Close to Manchester so find this very, very odd. Anyone else having the same issue?

0 Comments
2024/10/07
18:21 UTC

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Any Lesbian in the South of the UK want to be friends?

0 Comments
2024/10/07
00:22 UTC

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How do I meet other Lesbian in the UK?

4 Comments
2024/10/05
15:36 UTC

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London pride 2025 dates

Hi there!

I was wondering if anyone knows when the dates for the London pride parade are usually announced during the year? Might have two jobs clashing at the time and need to know when to start keeping my eyes peeled for announcements…

Thanks!

5 Comments
2024/10/04
18:51 UTC

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New

Hello any lesbians in the south preferably Hampshire

0 Comments
2024/10/04
08:52 UTC

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