a double rant because i think they go together-

(i apologize in advance for the orthograph)

first i do understand the desire to be desired,of course i do will all human and most of us here are straight so yeah but i think people talk about men too much but the thing is that men are the litteral poison ,they are the reason why we feel the we do about about our boobs because one day they decide that big is good! the truth men are not made to appreciate small boobs,think about it ever since men are in age of understand what boobs are,they are taught/show that big is better...so my question will be what did you except from them? I dont understand nor comprehend why a lot of you will appeal to them,because we could wear the lowest cut top they are not interest,and that not our fault,again its just that society decide that small big=bad.And we should look at the thing as they are do men try to appeal to us...no of course and even if they do let be honest they do it for men (because what the fuck is lookmaxxing standard,most women i know wouldnt be attracted to the rock but with hair and beard transplant),should we do try to appeal to them when they dont,i think its a question that go beyond that sub but think about it-

secondly what im about to say may sound mean and insensitive but i swear i say it with the best interest in mind for all of you because you all deserve better please!

so when i see some of you talking about your relationship and struggle with your partner,one think that stand up the most to me is that your guys is by your word self proclamed boob guy,and my real question will be why would you do that to yourself.i dont dare to say that in comment because it can sound mean but why because when a guy say is a boobs guy in short its mean "that he prefer big boobs" and long its mean "i may love her so i settle but my preference is still big boobs".Like when a guy told you he is a boobs guy,you should dump him because even if he dont plan on hurting you on purpose,its will hurt you someway / someday, yeah you may love him but you must protect yourself from this feeling of feeling bad-please you guys should always be alone then being delusional and letting guys that dont prefer you being with you,stop being giving yourself to those big boobs lover god dammit !!!!!! like i see "oh my partner is watch porn with big boobs but he still told me he love me" dump him? girl at this point we can do nothing for you,you want this for yourself.

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I feel so ridiculous when I wear anything that shows the slightest bit of cleavage. Don’t get me wrong I’m happy I can finally get SOME cleavage after slight growth (I have gained lots of weight but it doesn’t usually go to my upper body), but when it shows I feel like I’m trying too hard to be “sexy” and “feminine” and that anyone would think “What is she even doing?“. I rlly wish I could be uneffortlessly sexy and feminine… I feel like a girl who stopped developing too early, I’m 17 and so many girls I know have decent sized chests, and those who don’t still look fine. I don’t. I’m grateful for the growth but I still don’t feel like it’s enough. It doesn’t help that I can never appreciate the progress I make. I am mentally stuck in middle school, when I was so damn skinny and the “ugly” kid. Something about my body looks off. It’s like something is missing.

This is something I’ve struggled with for years and it’s difficult to put into words, so please bear with me.

Ever since I became conscious of having small breasts, I’ve felt like there’s this whole world of sexuality that I’m left out of — that I’m not “allowed” to be a part of because I lack the main thing that makes women be considered sexy and sexual

For example, I can’t enjoy any kind of porn or erotica even if I try. There’s so much emphasis on breasts and I don’t have them. What I wish could be a fun, erotic experience just turns into a reminder of how I’m inadequate and could never really be a part of someone’s sexual fantasy

Another example is that anytime there’s a passing reference to women being sexy and desirable, or men being obsessed with women (think stupid American Pie-type movies), it stings because I feel like I’m excluded from that category of desirable women.

It’s almost like it’s emotionally painful to be turned on now because it’s impossible to separate my sexuality from constant, intrusive thoughts of being sexually inadequate — or not even just inadequate, but like I don’t even qualify to be a sexual being.

It feels like I’m always on the outside looking in, looking into this beautiful sexy world that women with breasts get to be a part of. I think it’s also related to breasts being one of the main ways that women derive sexual power and currency, so there’s a sense of powerlessness.

Idk if any of this made sense but I had to get it off my chest 😩

does anyone else LOVE the ribbed top/no bra combo?! i find that the texture gives just enough compression and shaping while still leaving that natural silhouette that i think is so hot, esp when they aren't overly tight.

i'm always on the hunt for new shirts that fit this description, especially long sleeves this time of year. my absolute favorite is a bozolo brand crop top. would love to hear other brand recs if people have them!! i recently found a couple hollister ones that had the perfect feel and fit, but were faaaar too see-through to risk it

Hi ladies, I decided to spend some money on (what i thought) was a decent bra, i’ve seen advertisements about pepper bras being good for smaller chests and took out my measuring tape to make sure it was the right size (international shipping so i wanted to be sure) Since then i’ve seen posts saying how bad pepper bras are and that their sizing is off, I went to r/ABraThatFits and ended up having a smaller back size than what pepper gave me, however the bra i ordered has only just been shipped and i’m gutted it might be too big already .. just wondering if there is a way to make the back smaller (similar to the bra extension clips but for the other way around) i’ve been looking and can’t see anything, i hate returning online things especially international shipping

Readers be warned, this post is going to come off harsh to many. However, I am writing this to myself for myself, so please do not take anything personal if this message bothers you.

I’m tired of hating my body and honestly kind of over it. I have more reasons to 1. Appreciate my body, 2. Be neutral to my body, 3. Not to want a boob job.

If this is not the case for you I think it’s time to be very transparent over what supposed benefits/hardships you think you would overcome by having boobs, and think about why it is supposedly impossible to overcome these with small boobs.

Today I had a severe allergy autoimmune reaction to my normal cat/dust allergies despite talking multiple rounds of medicine. It kind of confirmed to me that I would probably not be a good candidate for implants because I could develop BII (an excessive autoimmune reaction to foreign objects in your body).

I’ve always wanted a boob job but the risks just aren’t worth it to me, and SO many women say they regret getting implants. So many say that it’s not IF you get BII, it’s WHEN, and that even in the best case scenario you might have minor issues but need another surgery to replace or remove your implants in 10-20 years.

Here are some reasons I love and am so glad to have a healthy body. Not in order!

-I can lay on my stomach no issues -lay on my side no issues -no back pain -I can exercise without any additional added weight -I can breathe without any foreign objects laying right above my heart and lungs/chest. -I can go braless and really have no issues -deep v neck tops are classy and beautiful on me BECAUSE I don’t have cleavage. -my boyfriend loves my body as is, why can’t I? -bralettes are more comfy than bras/push up bras -if I get pregnant, my tits are gonna make milk. That’s feminine enough -I’m 25 with a cooch, I’m 1000% a woman regardless of boobs size -the thousands of $$ spent on a boob job can be spent on multiple vacations, luxuries, hobbies, education, and investments!! -I don’t have to be self conscious of being fake/plastic or my boob job not coming out perfectly -if I have a daughter who I would love unconditionally, I can be a role model to love yourself -confidence is sexy, being natural is divine -I see so much beauty in nature, why not in my own natural state? -I AM HEALTHY!! That is such a huge thing to be endlessly grateful for and take advantage of while I can -you’re only young once. Why waste our youth on hating our bodies or being miserable? -anyone who criticizes small boobs is truly not worth my time ew. High quality men do not care, if you have nipples they are invested. -anyone who criticizes my boobs hasn’t faced my wrath/personality. I’ve turned my insecurities into comedy and empathy and now can switch it right back on them.
-I never look at other girls with small tits as lacking so why myself? -my life won’t change much with a boob job. I’ll appeal to men more sure, maybe feel better in bikinis, but then what? Wear more clothes? I’m over consumerism driven by influencers. -so many celebrities are a success regardless of their boob size. It’s because they cultivated their TALENTS and personality! Not their looks. The professionals did that for them lol.

Finally, all the time I spend hating my body could be spent on hobbies, education, exercise, things that will ACTUALLY make me admirable and grow as a person, not as a vessel.

I made a small boob community where you are able to vent everyday! I know, why make another one with one difference? Well, with different moderators there are many differences! Feel free for women and nonbinary people with boobs to join our group, known as communtitty

Took their size quiz and I'm a 34B. It also said the sister size is equivalent to a 36A. Which one is correct?

I was never comfortable with bras. They always marked my skin and made me feel more heat (i live in a tropical country). When i was a teenager, i tried to wear push-up bras to make my bosom more visible, but i gradually stopped. Tried to wear bralettes, but even those made feel squeezed. In the last few years, i only wore bras when the clothes made my nipples visible. This year, i switched the bras to nipple tampons when needed and i feel more comfortable than ever.

I think some bras are very cute, but they are not worthy my comfort. Besides, i don't really need support and it was almost impossible to find bras my size.

Has anyone else here also had this experience?

In case you’re interested, a woman on instagram called history_with_amy posted a video today about the fashion for small boobs in the past, and the crazy things women used to do to achieve them - really fascinating!

Most of my coworkers are bigger chested and I am smaller chested and that makes me feel more insecure.How do I feel more confident around myself and not compare myself to others?

I recently had a friendship transition to a more intimate relationship and he has unintentionally boosted my physical confidence by so much.

I know that receiving male validation shouldn’t be the primary reason for loving my small boobs but the way that he is unable to stop himself from touching them is such an incredible and alien feeling. Whenever we cuddle in a more intimate way, he just loves to play with them and lay his head on my chest and it makes me feel so feminine and desirable.

I’ve never had a partner who really paid any special attention to my breasts unless I explicitly asked for it but now to have him (intelligent, funny, very conventionally attractive) become basically obsessed with them, it’s kind of impossible for me to not feel sexy and less envious of larger breasts.

Anyway, there’s not really much of a point to this post other than to share how a positive experience like this has proved to me that someone can find you sexy because of small boobs and not in spite of them, which is just a lovely feeling.

Hi smallbooblove girlies with partners! What are some ways you’ve teased a person you’re just newly dating to let them appreciate your small boobs and build tension before letting them see or touch your chest? Collecting notes so I can use them again soon!

Just sharing a sexy story from before…

FEEDING HIS IMAGINATION The first time I got intimate with my ex, moving forward from a heated make out, I let him feel my bare chest under the cloth, then I ask him to tell me what he thinks they looked like. I got so much pleasure from him gently moving his hand around, feeling every part of my breast.

“They’re pretty firm, it’s a perky shape, and oh wow…I think you have really big nipples…”

And we got even more aroused with more touching and guessing. After, I got the strength to pull down my shirt and exposing my boob to him. He was just staring at it, then went straight and started sucking. It was such a hot moment.

Thanks in advance!

I want to make a safe space for people who have smaller breasts and have dealt with the struggle of loving their body, which can be hard. Girls need to support girls!! No dudes allowed either 🤢 AND you are able to vent any day!! What other things should the community be about?

A couple of days ago me and my classmate (m16) were talking about our literature teacher, and I was commenting on how beautiful she is. He agreed, but than he said that she has no breasts, which startled me quite a bit since she, as a woman, does in fact have them. I asked why he felt that way, since having small boobs doesn’t mean not having them, and he said that they were very small. I was pretty irritated since I hate when people talk about small breasts like they are not breasts, and so I wanted to come here and remind all of you beautiful gals that we are in fact very valid and are not less womanly because of our boob size, thank you very much lol

That was it, love to y’all ❤️❤️❤️

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I was watching this reel. She's a model and does a lot of swimsuit shoot. She doesn't have big boobs, but it suits her figure very well.

I wonder if hers are "small" or just average size ???

Whenever I go braless my nipples poke out and I get so embarrassed. To spot me irl look for a girl awkwardly trying pulling her hair trying to make it cover her nips LMFAO. But I see posts on this sub and they look fine with no nipples visible

Do you all wear the chicken cutlet nipple things? Or do I just have weird nipples. I don't wear bras but I also don't wear the nipple covers cuz I've heard both are not good for you

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I'm having a really rough body image day today as I'm getting ready for an event and just fussing over my appearance in general. I thought it would be good to remind myself of nice things that have been said about my boobs instead of only dwelling on the negative. Feel free to join in :)

Sexy

Fit well in my hands

Soft and warm

Elegant

Like a goddess in classical paintings

So I struggle a lot with my body image. I have a very low self esteem and I just want to be able to listen to a podcast without feeling triggered by anything. Like I hate when people randomly talk about how amazing big boobs are in any type of media, like yeah we get it. Tell me something I don’t know. Or when anyone compares people’s bodies. I just can’t stand to hear any of this type of stuff. Unless it’s small boob love, I don’t want to hear it since I hear it constantly everywhere I go. Is there any podcasts or YouTubers who talk about anything but don’t praise others bodies too much? Kinda like Anything Goes by Emma Chamberlain. Or any podcasters who can give me advice about loving myself more?

The reason I need to avoid these people who make comments about women’s bodies is because I tend not to trust them after I hear their basic opinions. It’s just obvious that most humans love big boobs since it’s shoved in our face all the time, so when someone feels the need to make comments about that it’s like cool, what else is new? They just sound boring to me and I lose interest (and also kinda take it personally most of the time) so yes, please give me recommendations if you have any!

Thank you, smallbooblove fam for all your love! 🥰Ladies…I was overwhelmed with your support, I really did not expect that so many people would leave kind words for my boobs. Thank you so much! After gathering the strength to post here and hearing that they’re “beautiful” really boosted my confidence 😭

On that note, I think my side profile is one of my favorite angles. Here you can really see its ski-slope shape and the slight upturn of my breast — I think those are the sexiest features.

In a world that glorifies big round boobs, know that people with small point and puff breasts— can be beautiful and sexy too!! 💖 I think I won’t be posting for a while after this, but thank you again. I’ll continue to love my body better day after day.