/r/r4nonmonogamy

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An R4R just for non-monogamous Redditors! Whether you're looking for IRL friends, online pen-pals, swinging partners, dating, long-term relationships, orgies, love, threesomes...you name it, if you're non-monogamous, you've come to the right place. Find like-minded Redditors for fun, friendship, and more.

An R4R just for non-monogamous Redditors! Whether you're looking for IRL friends, online pen-pals, swinging partners, dating, long-term relationships, orgies, love, threesomes...you name it, if you're non-monogamous, you've come to the right place. Find like-minded Redditors for fun, friendship, and more.

BE NICE TO EACH OTHER! Be kind, helpful, and friendly. Share the non-monogamy love, help others learn!

Other relevant subs you may like:

/r/nonmonogamy

/r/polyamory

/r/hotwife

/r/swingers

/r/sex

/r/sexpositive

/r/bdsmcommunity

/r/dirtyr4r

/r/swingersr4r

** Please follow standard r4r protocols in your subject line - gender, age, location + brief description of what you're looking for.**

/r/r4nonmonogamy

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[22/21][MF4F][Gainesville, FL] - Couple looking for a third

Please READ what we are looking for and where we are located before replying, DMing or PMing! We are looking for a beautiful unicorn that we can build an amazing relationship with that could potentially turn into more than just hookups. We are interested in finding someone that vibes well with our fun, joking, and laidback lifestyle. Though we are looking for something more casual, we are not against meetups and 1 nighters. Verification is required and no we aren't sending nudes/NSFWs pics (nor will we ask for them). If you are interested, please reach out!

https://imgur.com/a/N7IQvjf

https://imgur.com/a/T7YwXiW

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2021/12/05
10:04 UTC

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55 [M4F] #NY Polyamorous man seeks Polyamorous ladies

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2021/11/29
10:17 UTC

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55 [M4F] #NY Polyamorous man seeks Polyamorous ladies

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2021/11/19
09:08 UTC

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55 [M4F] #NY Hombre poliamoroso busca mujeres o parejas poliamorosas / Polyamorous man seeks Polyamorous ladies or couples

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2021/11/08
14:45 UTC

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55 [M4F] #NY Hombre poliamoroso busca mujeres o parejas poliamorosas / Polyamorous man seeks Polyamorous ladies or couples

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2021/10/31
14:12 UTC

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41[M4F] #NH mono man seeking poly partner

I'm looking for that special someone, I am monogamous I am completely faithful to you, but you might have a bf and/or a fwb or two.

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2021/10/27
08:28 UTC

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55 [M4F] #NY Hombre poliamoroso busca mujeres o parejas poliamorosas / Polyamorous man seeks Polyamorous ladies or couples

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2021/10/23
19:26 UTC

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Hung white kinky slut y guy for couples

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2021/10/07
02:04 UTC

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38 hung male bull for hot wife kinky and bi is great fliorida

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2021/10/07
01:57 UTC

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[MF4A] M34/F33 Calgary Nerdy BBW Couple for New Sexy Friends

My girlfriend and I are a couple of fun, nerdy, folks looking for other fun nerdy folks to have fun with inside and outside of the bedroom. Connection is key for us.

We're not looking for anything or anyone specific. Rather we're interested in making fun new friends that we also want to be naked with.

Outside of the bedroom, both of us like to make things (he has multiple fun toys like a laser cutter and an oscilloscope), she is learning to 3D print and can already tell she's lost her footing on the slippery slope of hobby making....

Other hobbies include knitting for her, video games for him, and board games for them both.

Please feel free to shoot us a message if this interests you! We'd love to chat!

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2021/07/13
14:41 UTC

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Mf4f couple looking for female in illinois

Couple looking for another female to join us in illinois

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2021/06/14
20:40 UTC

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41[F4F]#LasVegas-Thank you for being a friend!

Two of my best lady friends have moved recently and I need some more feminine energy in my life. I am poly and have two wonderful male partners (happily married to one).

I am female, 5'5", chubby but doing keto and trying to work in more activity, I probably will never be skinny and I am ok with this, I am trying to improve my body and my health but if you are not ok with someone that is on the thicker side then please carry on. I am feminine but not super girly, laid back and fairly low maintenence.

I'd like to think of myself as an artist... well, more of a crafter but I really enjoy doing artsy stuff, creating, painting, sewing, graphic design, sculpture, photography, crafting- I guess I am kind of a jack of all trades master of none. I enjoy lots of geeky stuff, conversations, trivia, animals, reading, music, concerts, trying new foods, cooking, Halloween, Disney, cars, playing Switch, the beach (although the sun and I aren't friends so I do have to limit my outdoor exposure) vintage, thrifting and antique shopping. Love traveling and would love someone who is up for a weekend adventure or a week long vacation.

420 friendly, not much of a drinker but will have a coctail on occasion. Had both my covid vaccinations.

Ideally I would love to have a friend to go out and have adventures with, who would like to travel, see shows or just take a drive around town but is just as comfortable staying in watching a shitty movie on Netflix. That being said, it would be ideal if you lived in Southern Nevada... but I'm open to the right person(s) if you are in the Southwest US.

Looking for a relationship and an emotional connection, honesty and good communication is very important to me, ideally someone who is in a poly or nonmongamous relationship or has experience with that. Looking for friendship first and a physical relationship once we get to know each other better.

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2021/03/26
03:53 UTC

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(42)T4MF im up for anything Alberta

So I'm M2F non-binary and transitioned late in life (40). I've spent the last year growing breasts and trying to figure out if I like boys or girls. My sex drive went away for many months. Now that's back..... mmmmmm,.

So it's a pandemic and I have to be safe, but I keep finding men who love jerking off to pictures of me? I barely pass, but the idea that a man would want to cum for me is such a huge turn on. My panties are ready to explode right now just thinking about it.

I'm having a great time indulging their needs. The more men and women who enjoy a woman like me the better. No violent or demeaning fantasies. Just some hot romance. Any man or woman of mine better enjoy sex at least as much as i do.

Im a horny bitch who has held back way to long. I love DMs and dick picks, cum tributes, bring them on. I have a local girl sending me pics of her tattoos and her pussy. All of which I just love 💘.

Im over 40, but im not dead yet. Bring it.

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2021/03/22
15:11 UTC

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32/31 [F&M4F] #Austria, Vienna - Get to know each other

About us:

We are a very happy and contented couple from Vienna and together for almost 10 years. Both with an academic background, double income, no kids - in the midst of life so to say. We love to go out and meet up with people, even though Corona made this harder, if not impossible. We have diverse and uncommon hobbies and interests that we are very passionate about. When it comes to looks, we are both slim, of average hight and consider ourselves handsome (even if we probably can't and shouldn't evaluate that). We look very young and people that don't know us often estimate that we are 10 years younger than we actually are.

What we are looking for:

We are interested in meeting new people. At the beginning of our thirties a lot of people in our sphere start to settle down and have children. So there are less interesting people that have interesting things to say. We are playing with the thought of expanding our exciting sex life with certain erotic experiences, which include other people. We are very curious, but without experience when it comes to that. What this adventure should look like and what it will include is not clear yet. The idea fascinates us in any case. Such experiences need to progress slowly and casually. For the beginning a friendship with the possibility of friends with benefits with a woman would be ideal, since our Lady is also devoted to women. In our ideal concept you are between 20 and 35 years old, intelligent, educated, live in Vienna or near Vienna, are single and outgoing. Since such constellations are new to us it would be perfect, but not necessary, if this would be your first trip into such a world - a united outbreak from monogamy so to say. Of course looks are important when it comes to the right chemistry. A well-groomed appearance and no transmittable diseases are a requirement. We find a slim to normal physique attractive, but when it comes to attraction it's better to decide face to face. It would be best to get to know each other online and talk about fantasies and ideas. Only then does it make sense to exchange pictures or even better meet in a café, if Corona allows it. Please no messages from men. We do not expect an immediate response from an appropriate person. So if you find this post in a few months or years, do not hesitate to contact us anyway. We look forward to you!

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2021/01/07
23:18 UTC

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41 [M4F] Time to stop waiting to live. ~ #Florida #Anywhere ~

Things aren’t getting back to “normal” so we need to make our own. I don’t want to wait for things to calm down, but I want us to stay safe. Let’s text, and talk, and see each other with video chats. If things click, let’s meet at some outdoor cafe, or in a park. Let’s get to know each other like we would if there was no pandemic. We can live our lives and be safe.

I’m 41, male, liberal, Polyamorous, kinky, and pagan.

I live in Coral Springs. My work is from home right now, I usually have an office job.

My current passions and pastimes include cooking, brewing mead, growing things in my yard, participating in my pagan community, and taking walks outdoors, when it’s not too hot.

I’m an extroverted social person. I miss house parties. I miss going to the movies. I miss game nights like board games and D&D. I miss social gatherings like my pagan meetings.

I love the concept of Kitchen Table Poly, and hope everyone gets along. I like to meet my metas if they are okay with that, and need there to be some communication between all parties. As for partner priority, I use no hierarchy, instead I try to take everyone's needs into consideration. I have one solo-poly partner. I have no nesting partner, and I am enjoying this solo-poly situation. I am open to new partners, play partners, or just friends. It is especially difficult to do that without social gatherings these days.

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2020/11/17
06:06 UTC

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36 f Sylvania GA area looking for local FWB

I'm a busy single mom looking for new FWBs that live in the surrounding area. I'm open to potential casual relationships. I'd like to meet people that I cam enjoy hanging out with outside of the bedroom as well as inside. I'm 5'2", roughly 220 lbs, bi, blue eyes, long dark burgundy hair, 42DDD. All genders and couples are welcome to respond.

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2020/10/26
14:49 UTC

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30 [M4F] - Los Angeles/ Married / NonMonog

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2020/09/21
23:50 UTC

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I’m Poly and looking. Let’s chat.

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2020/07/29
07:14 UTC

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24f/25m [MF4M/MF] Hershey, PA - Aug 15th, 16th

Couple here looking for some fun during a short trip to Hershey on the 15th and 16th of august. Open to many scenarios! Prefer chatting for the next few week with you then meeting up sometime that weekend. For guys please be 8”+ and confident and comfortable in group play. Check our post history for verification, will also need you to verify. 😘

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2020/07/28
01:07 UTC

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26/35 [MF4F] Fit #Chicago Couple Looking for a Third

We are looking for someone in the Chicago area who would like to get together - we live walking distance to the Loyola campus.

I [F26] am looking forward to my first time with a girl, and he [M35] is very dominant and has had a few before.

We ARE NOT looking to hook up with or swing with other couples at this time (unless you are a lesbian couple).

We are interested in anything from casual hook-ups, to dating as a thruple. We are definitely open to an LTR if we really hit it off though. No expectations.

We are very laid back, low maintenance and drama free.

Her: bi-sexual, 26, Caucasian, 5'10" curvy but athletic Him: heterosexual, 35, Caucasian, 5'10", athletic build

WOMEN ONLY PLEASE!

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2020/07/22
21:54 UTC

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43 M Looking for a Female play partner for flirting online and eventual meetup.

Hello I'm in Massachusetts Male 43. I look young for my age. I love the outdoors and am very 420 friendly. I'm looking to flirt online with a sexy lady while cooped up at home. My wife and I are swingers and we like to play separately on occasion. Send me a message. I love sexy chat but I also like real life connections a bit more. I'm on kik at Laurentius_Brook

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2020/04/12
19:49 UTC

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37 F4M online connection and relationship

Hi I’m a 37 year old white female looking for good conversation and flirting. I’m 5’7 blonde and blue eyed curvy in all the right places. I’m an educated professional and mom of two. I’m not desperate or lonely, just adventurous and looking to have fun. I love taking care of others, helping people, and making people smile.

My husband and I are looking for an online boyfriend for me. Preferably someone who is somewhat dominant. Hubs will and always be my master but He would like to loan me out to someone for a period of time where He will have minimal control. I will be yours. I hope to form a connection with you in all aspects of life. Our relationship is rock solid and neither of us are going anywhere. My online boyfriend would be to enhance what we already have. Not looking for anything beyond online. I am very happily married and fulfilled with him in all ways. I like meeting people of like mind. Hubby is and always will be #1. I will always love and respect him above all else.

I want someone to make me laugh, smile, and whatever else. I would like to find a flirty friend in a similar situation. Someone that I can talk with about daily things and flirt and have fun with. Good conversation and not just about nudity and sex, although we know that’s fun. I get too many guys just wanting to talk dirty and send nudes. I’m looking for more than just that. I want to get to know you first. Also discretion is important to me so i will not be showing my face, at least not right away.

Those who send me pics to verify and tell me about themselves will get a response.

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2020/04/11
18:35 UTC

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Help!! I miss people!!!

Are y’all cracking yet? I think I hit a wall today. I miss talking to people. I miss touching people (not in a creepy way (all the time)) 😬😂

32F bi and married to a 🍆 looking for some 🥥

It’d be rad to find someone local to chat with but I’m open to a pen pal from afar. Not many requirements - bitching about work/school/life, sharing funny memes, obsessing over good tv. If you know what 🐯🤴🏼 means, you’re probably good!! Hit me up..

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2020/03/27
17:05 UTC

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Single Male for a couple

Looking for a couple or a wife to play with in the suburbs of Chicago. Hoping for something ongoing 🙂

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2019/12/21
13:29 UTC

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Sonoma County, CA for Thanksgiving! Looking for a woman to join us.

She's bi, he's straight. We're looking for some no-strings-attached fun with a woman during our visit in Sonoma County, CA. We're happy to meet up for drinks to make sure everyone is on board and comfortable first. Reach out if you're interested and we can discuss more details. ;) Only looking for women, thank you.

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2019/11/14
05:41 UTC

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M 35 Bham, WA M4MF Looking for a nerdy bi couple that wants a third for FWB and possibly poly relationship.

I'm a 35 year old bi man looking for a fun couple who is into doing and talking about nerdy things as I'd like to actually hang out in addition to pleasing each other in the bedroom. If it progresses to a relationship between the three of us that would be awesome, but if it doesn't well at least we all had a little fun first 🤓 DM me if you're interested and/or have any questions.

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2019/11/08
03:54 UTC

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Couple looking for a unicorn or other couple to play with online. Video calls and photo sharing welcome ;) 28[M] and 38 [F]

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2019/11/01
14:44 UTC

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24M/29F looking for a unicorn in Utah

We are looking for an (F) unicorn to invite for some FFM fun! We're fun loving and adventurous with super high sex drives. We love trying new things and want someone to explore with! Shoot us a message if interested and would like to know more.

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2019/10/25
21:07 UTC

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24 [M4F] OKC OK

Hey all!

I'm in an open/poly relationship and was hoping to find someone in or around OKC. Not looking for a FWB or to bring anyone into my relationship, at least not yet. I'm 6'1, go to the gym regularly, and love.. well.. a lot Haha

Open to a FWB, just not actively searching. Anyways, PM if interested and let's see if we hit it off! We can send pics of each other in the PM.

edit- Yes, you can also verify with my S.O. ince we start talking. Dont want anyone to think I'm just trying to cheat!

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2019/10/15
23:22 UTC

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21 [M4F/MF/MMFF] etc #Chicago BBC looking for new people to play with.

I've been crazy busy and horny the past few days and I'd love to get into some nasty ass sex with locals in Chicago but posts are quite here. I'm a Dom I'm the Northside of Chicago looking for the next cumshot my dms are open if you see the same future.

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2019/09/01
09:27 UTC

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