/r/Pennsylvaniar4r
An r4r (Redditor for Redditor) community for Pennsylvania. Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek.
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Hiii, I’m a sissy looking for someone who is into feminizing sissies. I’m interested in roleplaying a scenario where you take control and turn me into a little sissy slut for you to use. I have some clothes you could dress me in, or you could bring your own. If you have any rp scenarios you want to play out, just let me know. I’ll make sure to reward you for your hard work;)
Hello!
I would like to offer my expert blowjob skills to a young professional type guy (18-35), who’s straight or bi-curious but has had little to no experience with men. This is a NSA type of thing, where you come to my homemade glory hole and receive anonymous head (maybe more). I enjoy being hospitable and have created a warm and cozy environment in my foyer for you to relax and release some stress. If invited, just come in, enjoy, and leave. Simple! The GloryHole setup is as soon as you enter. The foyer is small and not visible to the outside for privacy. Discreet entrance off a low traffic alleyway - so super private and easy.
Here Are Three Reason You Might Want To Try My GloryHole:
Ok, so let me know if this peeks your interests. It’s a great experience for someone who’s been flirting with the idea of m4m but needs a little help trying out the fantasy. Let me know if you’ve read some of my stuff in the past but haven’t worked up the courage to reach out.
Check out my reviews from past visitors.
Good luck!
I've had anxiety for as long as I can remember and that does a toll on your self esteem. Then I've never figured out how to date, I saw stupid shit, I'm in general kind of awkward. As a result on the rare occasion I get a date I feel like I'm giving off friend vibes rather than whatever vibes you're supposed to have at a date. That didn't help my already struggling self esteem.
BUT, this year a professional said I might be on the autism spectrum, something I'd considered before, but a mental health profession gave it some footing. So I have a reason why I can't approach women and I suck going on dates.
How you can you help? Just hang out with me would be a great start. Someone said I seem like I've never been around women and they aren't wrong. I'd love to meet up and see if we get along as friends. If we click you can give me advice on fashion, my dating apps, dating, and whatever else you notice I need work on. And the more optimistic end maybe we could be cuddle buddies or you could set me up with a friend or you could take my virginity, but that's all just extra on top of the cake.
Gaining a friend is a delicious triple chocolate cake. Me being part of a friend group puts chocolate chips all over the cake. Cuddle buddies adds some other delicious things. Sex would be like the cake is on top of a fudge sundae or something. Not something I expect but it'd be awesome.
So yeah, if you feel like adopting me, let me know lol. I swear, I can give you stuff through friendship in return, Ive been told I'm loyal, smart, funny, empathetic, and other positive adjectives. I also routinely make 3-5hr drives to see friends so I can travel. I was also called "mom" in college because I'm that kind of friend, the protective one that watches over everyone and helps take care of my friends. Seriously, once you get past my nervousness and my awkwardness, I am a really good and fun person. I just need help
Hey I'll try and cut to the chase. Just looking to have a spicy hookup (and maybe into a FWB) with within Lancaster city. Can travel to surrounding areas if its not too far. Just been craving some spicy kinky fun and a little touch starved lately too.
Not interested in couples, being your third or fucking your wife. Just ladies only please. (My post says M4F for a reason)
Some basic details:
Tall (about 6'1)
Skinny/slim build
Fluffy haired dork
8 incher if that helps my chances any lmao
Feel free to message me and if we click lets try and work something out! :)
I am always looking for new connections. Whether that ends up as a friendship, intimacy, connection, or a lasting relationship is up to the organic development of feelings and interest.
I appreciate positive people who are ambitious and always trying to grow. Conversation excites me. Philosophical musings fulfill me. I appreciate disarming honesty and I’ll always provide the same. I like daily check-ins and people who enjoy communicating often. I like to desire deeply and feel desired deeply myself.
I am at the intersection of pure daddy and strict dom. I adore both sides of the coin and my ideal match would have room for both. I can spank you red and use you like a fuck doll and then give you gummy bears afterward.
I want something that feels worth spending the time to unfold. I want us to teach each other and learn from each other and add a significant complement to our individual lives.
I hold out hope that that can be found locally someday.
Staying in Philly city center for New Year’s Eve and flying solo.
Already have dinner reservations at Alpen Rose and would love to add a strictly platonic companion. Maybe some cocktails and chill vibes to ring in 2025. All my treat. The world’s a mess so generosity is needed.
Hit me up if you are friendless for this year’s celebration. Artsy, non-normative, queer folks to the front. Epicureans work also. Looking for 30ish or over and don’t care what you look like.
Please message- no chat invitations.
Working college grad seeking casual fun. Could be a one time thing or more of an FWB relationship. Open minded to couples, please don’t hesitate to reach out to find out more. PM if you’re interested. I look forward to hearing from you. 7in 175lb 6ft fit build
I’m looking for a women to meet and fuck hard Iv been lookin for some I can breed I’m down to meet regularly and use you as my personal cumdump hmu if tour close to Altoona I’m also down to meet if your in state college hmu if interested
I'd really like to find another person that I vibe with really well. I've had many variations of FWB over the years, and ideally I'd like to find another long term partner (though I am open to short term as well). The friend aspect is important to me because I'd like the person to be someone I can casually hang out with as well. Those who are 420 friendly to the front, though not necessary. My sessions are typically described by my partners as, "hanging out with an old friend, having a smoke (optional), and cumming more than enough to put me to bed".
I've had a good handful of FWB like this in the past, and they're always pretty wholesome experiences. I do not randomly "catch feelings", always set safe words and am very good with boundaries, as I would expect my partner to be. I'm fully capable of dropping the benefits and remaining a close friend, should they find something romantic to pursue; I would never stand in the way of love.
So, what can you expect from me as a FWB?
I don't really have a set 'type', but I do prefer someone who is fit, average, or curvy. If you've made it this far, thank you for hearing me out. I'll include a brief bit about myself:
Hi there, I am a 27 yr old cross dresser from NW PA who is looking for a local friend around to my age who would like to dress up together and have a "girl's night" occasionally. I am not just looking for other cross dressers as anyone looking to embrace their femininity together is welcome. We could learn to do makeup together, dress up, paint nails, do our hair and both focus on self care with the goal to look as cute, beautiful, pretty, etc as we both want! I would like to not make it a sexual thing with the focus more on a potential friendship and would love to chat some before deciding to meet in person. Outside of my dressing, I love going for walks, video games, music, tv shows, anime and nature. I can potentially host if I feel comfortable with you.
I don't think currently any of us should be driving around the city for anything like this, but figured didn't hurt to post for a future meetup. 😊
Hello guys,
Asian couple here. We are a bottom and top. Looking for a top bwc or a big cock. Bottom wants to get pounded. We do host in Towanda. We are very friendly and just need to have a regular dick to suck and fuck. Be clean because we are clean. We are average size body and both are uncut dicks. The bottom loves being able to ride and doggy.
Hey y'all! Firstly, hope you had an amazing Thanksgiving! Secondly, how's your day? How are you? Tell me EVERYTHING!!!!
A little about me... I'm a single mom, motorsports photographer, model, and avid traveler who is addicted to racing, hockey, art, cooking, antiquing, and true crime. I would love to share my work with you (upon request), learn about your hobbies, travels, and favorite foods. Tell me your life story or even just a funny story.
Most people say I'm goofy, easy going, a dork, and kinda a flower child. I try to support people as much as I can and spread love and positive vibes. ❤️
Honestly I'm just here because I was hoping to meet some new people from wherever. I don't care how old you are, where you're from, political views, or what have you. I'm just here to chat and send memes. Contrary to what I post on here normally, I am really just looking for friends. If what I post isn't a vibe for you, that's okay. Save your thumbs and don't send me a message. But if you're curious, shoot me a message. I'm hoping for some crazy silly questions or ones that make me truly think.
Hope to hear from you 😋
Hey! I'm looking to offer a no strings attached blowjob or straight or curious guys who just want to kick back and enjoy themselves. My only goal is to focus on your pleasure and not into recip. I enjoy taking my time and making sure you feel good in a discreet space.
No pressure, no judgment, and most importantly a laid-back vibe. I host in Center City most days and evenings and would be fine with an FWB dynamic.
Hi! I'm a straight 27 year-old light-skin looking for a bit of fun from the day to day life. I'm 5'6" with a semi-athletic at 175 lbs. I am 8" & Cut. I am respectful and accommodating and willing to have conversation or anything friendly before and after.
I'm willing to be discreet, willing to travel (within reason) and host if need be.
I am willing to do mutual oral along with one-sided oral. I have my own supply of condoms and am DDF.
I am 420 friendly, but don't smoke, myself. I am also FtM friendly.
For couples, I'm willing to do cuckold or a threesome, but no guy on guy action. I do enjoy older women and willing to help neglected girlfriends or wives.
Degradation & humiliation. They should be the cornerstones of our sex life. The two things that drive you wild, that leave me rock hard. Are you into that? Then get in touch. Brutal fucking is how prefer it. Gentle and slow? mean, sure, sometimes, We both want brutality, with rough, hard, forceful sex. Push your legs apart, and expose your dripping cunt for use and abuse. Sensual blow jobs? You licking and sucking? Not really my thing. Gripping your hair and brutally fucking your throat, watching you drooling helplessly & heavily all over your own tits, as your main concern becomes simply breathing? Then fuck yes.
How might I humilate you? That depends on our exact chemistry, but getting you to the edge of orgasm, keeping you there, getting you desperate to cum, seeing how your mind changes, how you'd be prepared to beg for orgasm, that's what appeals to me. Using your own g-spot against you. How, if you're desperate enough, you'd admit to anything. Yes, including that. l'd love to force you to take huge, massive toys into all three of your holes. As far as kinks definitely looking for the more depraved. All of these do not need to be included but enjoy face fucking, slapping, size difference, anal, hair pulling, choking and breathplay, free use, verbal abuse, psychological abuse, watersports, and just anything overly depraved and degrading,
I'm looking for submissive literal slut whore depraved and wanna be used as just a body and holes for my cock while fucking use your worthless body. Kinks: Rough sex, Domination, Corruption, Degradation, Humiliation, deepthroat, face fucking, Abuse, Spanking, Intense Orgasm, Cum Play, Anal , Rules , tasks , Punishments etc. .
Hey there! Looking for some new people to chat with, I have a long weekend and not really anything planned so why not make some new friends!
a little About me:
-6 Foot tall, brown hair, hazel eyes with glasses, got a bit of a dad bod
-6 tattoos, hopefully more in the future
-Some of my hobbies include, collecting vinyl, video games, reading, watching sports, collecting cologne and cars!
-I have two cats that are my favorite, Yes I will share pics if you ask nicely.
-Really into movies, specifically anything horror related!
-Fall is my favorite season and Halloween is for sure my favorite holiday.
-I Love music, I've been to a decent amount of concerts and I just got into collecting vinyl and I just bought a turntable to play them on.
What I'm looking for:
-Someone willing to switch to another app.
-Someone willing to exchange selfies and open to voice calling/voice messages.
That's pretty much it, if you're interested shoot me a dm with a short intro and your preferred chat method!
Need an in shape manly guy 20-35 that wants his dick sucked. I just want to worship you, treat you like a king and send you on your way after feeding me your load. No strings attached and no one will know except you and I. Looking for tonight.
Tall, lean, long hair, beard. Let's grab a drink and then head somewhere private where I can worship you. Plus if you won't be weirded out by my wanting to sniff your hairy patch before fully diving in.
I can host at my comfy place in Philadelphia, but also open to travel within reasonable distance if you can host as well.
Hey 21m. Im 6'4, 285lbs, chubby and im pretty experienced as a kinky top. As a top, I enjoy cnc, groping, spanking, slapping, hitting, choking, multiple rounds, foreplay, and im open to more. Being vanilla is also fine, i enjoy mutual masterbaition with all genders aswell if you're looking to keep it simple. Obviously if we were to link we would set up a safe word. Im free tn or message me to make plans another time
I'm an intelligent, attractive, passionate white man looking for one special female for ongoing erotic fun. and mindblowing sex. AGE/RACE OPEN!
There have to be some normal adults on Reddit who are in the same situation as me. Looking for someone mature, professional and ready to meet or at least chat.
Contact me and we can exchange pix on Kik or via text. Life is short - let's meet!
Looking to fill your free time with someone fun? Do you have a fantasy youve been thinking of lately? Lets make this happen. Quick chat or text, meet up and if were comfortable go to my place. Vanilla or pushing some limits, Im up for anything. Very down to Earth and hoping to find the right woman to vibe with.
I’ve hosted a few PA GUYS before so if you happen to be traveling this way… Mature Straight Dominant Slim or Muscular Guys Only! I love skinny & long white cocks…I sometimes do GloryHoles also…Here for Straight Cocks that love to dump a Load BallsDeep! CONDOMS ONLY! DRUG&DISEASE FREE! FreeUse PoundTown Submissive Slut!
Towson College Area! I love fun anon meaningless quickies I have a recording fetish/kink. I’m very real! Anal Lovers come in your Mask & enjoy a real GoatThroat Pound a Big Submissive Soft Jiggly Tight Grippy Phat Ass that can take Dick BallsDeep & Dump A Quick Nut & Leave! I make Cock Cum Quick & Hard. I relieve stress not add to it.
I host some Weekdays 9am-12pm/12am-3am…Saturdays 4pm-9pm Sundays 930am-1pm
Real Pics Pique My Interest! Flakes & Weirdos Blocked!
Greetings! One holiday down and two to go! I would like to find someone to spend Christmas and New Years with this year. I am looking for a woman who is on the nerdy side and has a dry sense of humor, to match my own. My love language is very much touch, and I am kink friendly.
I am a homebody typically who prefers a good night in reading or playing a game. I am trying to teach myself to cook and be healthier, the goal is to be better today than yesterday. If any of this rings true for you, please hit me up by the chat function. I am looking for a woman to date and connect with genuinely, so no pen pals, online only relationships, or time wasters, please.
I consider myself switch with a strong sub lean. So having me take charge or initiate is rare, and I may be on the needy side when it comes to attention on affection.
Kinks: age gap, bondage, humiliation, degradation, some public play, and rough play
Limits: scat, age regression, group play
Curious about: cuckolding, anal
I am pent up. I am frustrated. I need a body to use and abuse. Maybe you want to experience an older man. Maybe you just like being used. Maybe you just like being with married men. Regardless of your reason, we can make it happen. I’m open to any and all. Whatever your race, age, or size, you should hit me up to at least chat.
I don’t care about age, race, or size. I’m open to any or all. I don’t have a time period, but I would like to make this happen soon. I’m game for messages or a dm. I look forward to hearing from you.
36 m 6'1and I'm looking for female for a serious relationship I'm looking here because other outlets arent working I'm tired of being alone would like to have someone to spend the holidays and the rest of my life with. I enjoy the outdoors, going to concerts, working on cars, love animals.
Hey guys, I’am a hairy masc guy with my stats being 5’4, 140lbs. Looking for bearded hairy guy who’s down for a fwb if interested. I’m really into country or military guys but I’m really open so if you’re interested, shoot me a message. Also, if anybody’s into weather or storm chasing, I’m your guy
I'm an educated, handsome, working guy who is bisexual. I'm masculine acting and not out of open about my sexuality. Being closeted makes it difficult to meet a guy who wants to have fun. Safe hookups can be fun if that's all we wanted and are open about it. If we both enjoyed that interaction a repeat thing would be cool. Married men or men with gf rest assured that discretion guaranteed. In any situation it would be no strings attached and discreet. You have your life and I have mine. Just two guys messing around naked.
I don't smoke, I don't drink, and I don't do drugs. I'm clean with no Stds and I know because I was recently tested. I have an average build (6'2 220) with some chest hair, trimmed pubes w/ a shaved big sack, peach fuzz on the ass, a nice plump rear, nice d (6.5 ish) and always freshly showered.
I'm open to just stroking if that's all you are looking for. Open to oral; giving, receiving, or just giving with no reciprocaton. Can top or bottom. If you are feeling it possibly kiss or rim. Definitely no pressure for anything and would ask before (respectful of boundaries).
So if you read all this and are still interested, feel free to send a message.
25 5'10 blonde hair blue eyed fit(runners body) hung white male here in the mountains for hunting season. I'm not built for the cold and would love for someone to warm up tonight. Here until Wednesday night. So let's make some memories we can put in our memory banks for later.
Me: 31 M Korean-American, Experienced Dom, 5’10, 170 lbs in shape and active, and DDF. I will be visiting Philly from 11/30 - 12/03!
So let’s get straight to it - we are both tired from the day to day routines of life. It gets repetitive, draining - and honestly - quite boring. Sometimes we just need a moment to escape and indulge our deepest cravings and desires. You need to let go for a fleeting moment and I want to massage and satisfy you with my hands, mouth, and possibly more. So let’s make sure you get treated the way you deserve, and give you the space to let out to comfortably let out those moans.
No need for reciprocation unless you are in the mood. I’m completely content pleasuring you in whatever ways you need.
Kinks include: Spanking, oral, degradation mixed with praise, bdsm, master/slave dynamics, orgasm control and denial, edging, pet play, lots of foreplay and more
I’m looking for a woman that wants a man to lead. I like being confident for you and having a woman on my arm is a turn on. I’m seeking a woman who is open to a D/s dynamic and/or relationship depending upon how we connect. Taking you on dates and flirting all night would be fun. I like the build up. I’m into going to bars and checking out music and events. I enjoy giving praise, comfort, and aftercare. My kinks go from mild to wild, but we can talk about that privately. An introduction to yourself would be appreciated.