/r/NYr4r
Redditor for Redditor means whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, or even social friends, this is the place to find it.
This is the New York state version of /r4r.
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r4r - Redditor for Redditor Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.
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When creating a submission you must include a location tag (i.e: #Manhattan) and gender tags in your title. Please note the tags are case sensitive.
Examples: [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [MtF4FtM]
In addition to a tag, please include pertinent information such as your AGE, LOCATION and a condensed version of WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR.
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trying find one maybe two girls who’d be down to share my cock and give me some head. Only qualifications is you must be able to throat at least 8”. I’m 6’3” and available to host Wednesday-Saturday. Also if you’re real please message me with “pizza” that way I know you read this.
I am all work, but of course not without play. If you've ever fantasized about being naughty at work then this post is for you. I work in advertising and when the day gets late I get incredibly frisky. Of course, I wouldn't want to risk any real working relationships, so I am here. Let's chat and see if we are a good match.
Fellow Redditors,
I'm a 37-year-old man living in Stamford, CT, with a thirst for adventure, a passion for life, and a desire to share it all with someone special.
When I'm not working, you can find me exploring the outdoors, cooking up a storm, or dreaming of my off-the-grid living future. But what really gets my heart racing is the thought of sharing these experiences with a like-minded woman who values healthy living, personal growth, and meaningful connections.
I'm looking for someone who is confident, curious, and always up for trying new things. Someone who values honesty, respect, and open communication. And, of course, someone who can appreciate a good sense of humor.
In the bedroom, I'm a firm believer that intimacy is about connection, trust, and mutual pleasure. I love exploring new ways to connect with my partner, from sensual massage to more adventurous activities. Let's just say I have a fascination with the female form, and I love discovering new ways to appreciate it.
I'm a dominant partner who values clear boundaries, open communication, and enthusiastic consent. After our intimate moments, I love to show my caring side through aftercare – gentle touches, soothing words, and tender affection. I believe this balance of strength and vulnerability is key to building trust and deepening our connection.
If you're a woman who is looking for a partner to share in your passions, desires, and adventures, let's connect!
Please share:
Let's ignite a passion that will leave us both breathless!
Remember, I prioritize respect, consent, and open communication in any potential relationship. Let's explore our desires and boundaries together!
Hello Farmingdale - Are you a local who needs to unwind from the daily rate race and the cold. I have the hotel room, nice pillows, massage oil, and music to prepare you for a nice relaxing therapeutic massage. I intend on giving you a spa-like massage that lasts for about 90 mins. If you've ever gotten a massage that made you yearn for a little inappropriate touching, now's your chance. After your muscles have been rubbed and kneaded and you're relaxed, I will slowly start to graze you in a teasing and suggestive way. If it were a spa you'd be slightly alarmed and questioning where my hand would go next. In this case your not going to stop it, you want my fingers to explore just a little more. Let your legs fall open naturally and give my head a little push down for a very happy ending
Reach out and we can chat. Ideally we meet for coffee, tea, or wine nearby before. Me: handsome business traveler, tested, vaxxed, white 180lbs, 5’9 easy on the eyes! I’m happy to host near Farmingdale airport
currently in collegee singgle sincee my ex cheattedd
i like animes , deathnote one piece and arcane are my top 3
i also love japanese bbbq and korean bbq
i like horror movies
but most importantly i lovee to peeegmen and owwwn them its the bigggesttturn on everrr for me!
u maaay findd me on teleeegraaam which is (Bianca600x)
currently in collegee singgle sincee my ex cheattedd
i like animes , deathnote one piece and arcane are my top 3
i also love japanese bbbq and korean bbq
i like horror movies
but most importantly i lovee to peeegmen and owwwn them its the bigggesttturn on everrr for me!
u maaay findd me on teleeegraaam which is (Bianca600x)
Hey hey everyone - single, looking to get off with someone chill from time-to-time, and maybe cuddle and hang out when you have no plans too? Me too.
Me - I'm a typical overworking capitalist working professional in NYC; i've been told i'm quite witty, intelligent, and fun to talk to, and while i'd love to date someone my life is just really hectic and busy between work and hobbies and such, but a guy's got needs, yano? I'm fairly in shape (here's a flattering pic: https://imgur.com/a/m-8NrMNxM ) and work out a fair bit, 5'8, average looks, east asian. I don't really want to share too much about myself otherwise but obviously happy to chat more privately. I've met up with someone off Reddit before and we had a nice FWB thing going for a while and i'm hoping to find the same again; sexually, I like being rough and dominant (but not always), dirty talk, light tying up, lots of making out and cuddling, and last a pretty long time ;) - also open to trying new things, but not overly kinky (yet?) otherwise.
You - Under 40, F, Asian or white, shorter than me, in reasonable shape/average build or better (you don't need to be fit but i'm not into chubby/overweight girls; just a preference, sorry), and a reasonable, normal person that's hopefully a good hang. And not an organ harvester, i hope!
Interested? If you're interested, chat me and please include some sort of pic (doesn't need to show face) - or be willing to send one after a few messages - so we know if there's at least some mutual attraction off the gate! Feel free to share something else about you too; something fun you've done, are looking forward to, what you like to do, etc.
I'd want to chat for a bit and see if we hit it off, of course! Happy to share more about myself in DM.
As long as this post is still up, i'm still looking!
Hey guys, black male (31), living in Brooklyn/NYC.
I’m looking for an open-minded/kinky New York woman who’s interested in meeting up for some race-play foreplay/dirty talk and hook up sex. Mostly looking for white, Asian, or middle-eastern women, preferably around my age, but older women (40s and 50) are more than welcome as well!
Basically, I’m looking to hook up but involving dirty talk/foreplay using racially charged language. Which would involve you using racial slurs (hard or soft) depending on what you’d be comfortable with.
Looking to meet irl, so being in the NYC/NJ area (or traveling) is a must.
If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, shoot me a message ( feel free to tell me your kinks/fantasies) and we can start chatting. If we click, we can move things off the app!
The nitty gritty: I’ve got one month left of roommate-free apartment usage for debauchery and loud, raucous, kinky sex - let’s make my neighbors sigh with relief once I leave at the end of February?
Due to an attempt to be more fiscally responsible, I will be leaving my small-but-does-the-job 1 br apartment in upper Manhattan for one in the area but with roommates so that I can actually afford a down payment on something livable within this lifetime. Help me take the edge off being responsible by joining me in being loud and irresponsible with some sweaty, kinky sex that will irritate the neighbors and will be happy to see this place empty (also they’ve irritated me by calling the cops on me for having the Lord of the Rings a little too loud one time, can you believe the absolute gall?) I also work from home a couple of days so that could also be quite fun, especially if I have meetings and such.
Me:
6’1”
Latino
Well-educated and allegedly intelligent
Decently fit and DDF w proof (please have some as well)
Good selection of toys and bondage accessories
Dominant but may be convinced to try some experimentation
A bit odd but if you like me you really end up liking me
NSFW gif: https://www.redgifs.com/watch/unwittingusedcaracal
You:
Cool and/or chill
Somewhat active
Primarily submissive
Yaps a bit
That's pretty much it.
We can do a zero-pressure vibe check in public beforehand.
Lmk if you’re interested and stay warm out there.
I'm looking for another guy to come by tonight and chill and mess around. I'm pretty open. Would give a porn style bj to a straight or bi guy, gay guys welcome too. I host in Long Island City. Message me.
outta town white guy here in a hotel with easy access.....swing by for some nsa no recipe service......love quickies....
In-shape guy looking for a muscular dude to have fun. Head to start, chatting and chilling is also fine. Enjoy the idea of size difference and more dom. Prefer for a more regular thing.
Athletic build, East Asian, above average down there
Please be able to host. Hmu with a body pic to see if it's a match.
Hey there I would love to be in a discreet fwb relationship with a f or ftm. And if so you would be my 1st time because I’m still a virgin. I don’t kinky shame either as well. Bouns if you have a thing for guys who likes feet. Hope we can get to know each other more!. I’ll show my face as well
About myself: (I’m 23, chubby but in shape, hairy, tan, mixed race, beard and a lot of people say I’m handsome)
Looking to cuddle, make out, and suck someone's dick next weekend. Must be hung and be able to host. I'm open to talking about kinks too.
I'm 5'5", masc but cute, and slutty.
DM me with stats if you're interested.
Looking to link with someone who’s on the built side. If you’re curious, I’m pretty chill and looking to take it easy. I’m in midtown.
DM/chat me if you’re interested. Let’s chat and exchange some pics before meeting.
Im discreet, clean, and have been looking for a while for a clean masculine discreet straight guy to suck and swallow. If you're horny and need head I want to worship your hard c0ck, work your shaft and service/lick your b@lls, taint and all over your area down there. A guy that can go for a while or even multiple times a huge bonus, but ok if not. Finding a regular to do this with with also be very preffered.
I cannot host, can travel within a reasonable distance around lower to mid westchetser and close by bronx area if not too far. If you cannot host either but really need this im down to do this in your car in a safe spot.
Please message with stats and pics and we will go from there
All races accepted...
I'm a 43y black Man, 6'2 loving rough Dominant Daddy with a Dad bod. Yes I'm into a bunch of kinks you don't need to be, I just want a fuck buddy, to lick, eat, kiss and fuck all you got. Let's meet verify, get something to eat and move forward to the fun
You: I need you nasty or at least willing. Preferably into or curious about bdsm, Bisexual,18-35, 5'5 at the tallest, slim thick, thick. Huuuuge titties and a lil phat booty.
My Kinks: Age play/Dark Ageplay, Age Gap, Ler, Voyeur, exhibitionist, Sweat/Pheromones, Dominance, Impact play, Role play(dress up), Dirty talk, Cnc, Praise kink, Kissing, biting(firm), Spit, Anal/anal play(giving), Pet play(kitten/Puppy), ANR, Begging, Ddlg, Taboo, Slave, Sadist, Choking(giving), Head(giving & receiving), Creampies, Breeding, Pregnancy
It's cold outside but all I can think about is your big booty. If you're a lady blessed with junk in the trunk and love when it's noticed and given lots of attention, I'd love to be that person for you.
Would love to massage, kiss and eat it, and if you enjoy, spank it. As long as you leave satisfied and feeling incredibly hot as you should.
Me: Early 30s and fit, ass lover.
Send a chat if you're interested and can meet today. I can host or travel and will share pictures.
Horny, looking to host a safe and discrete hookup. I can host! Stats: 5'6 Dominican & Jamaican, 165 lbs, medium brown skin complexion, full lips, bubble butt, submissive. I need a top to dig my throat and a tight hole.
Sissy looking to get rid of my gag reflex, wanna help? 5'9, 140lbs, 25 ready today! Your stats and pics? Feel free to push my head down if u like. See ya soon!
Discreet and taken, looking to swallow a thick load and eat some ass 😈 Open to public play and older/younger! Hmu
We meet either on site or off site. Once we chat we can work out the details. Unless you know of any, the adult bookstore I have in mind is located in West Babylon near Republic Airport. Once inside we'll proceed to a medium size theater room. This is not an upscale place. However if you are uncomfortable once inside, just tell me and if you want to leave we will leave. This place is a bit sketchy i terms of who frequents it. It is the opposite of upscale. I just want to be loud and clear about that. It will be dark in the room. The only light will be emitted from large screen televisions displaying porn movies. There are approximately 8 or 9 sofas and loveseats arranged facing the screens based on when I scoped out the location as I am not one who typically these type of establishments. My friend took a woman there and told me about it and that is why I am posting. Based on what I've been told or read, you will typically see several men (once in a blue moon a woman alone or another couple) sitting and watching the movies. It's also possible the room may be empty when we arrive. I just do not know so it's hit or miss and the time of day does not matter. Some men may be self pleasuring while they watch. I'll lead you to one of the couches and we'll sit down. Assuming there are some men present, expect a brief shuffling as some of the men move closer to us. As your eyes get used to the light you notice that most are obviously watching you expecting something to happen. They're not overtly staring, but simply glancing at you and then the screen. They are waiting to see what you’ll do with me. Obviously you will go with me hoping several men will be present. Of course until we correspond how open you are is unknown to me, I am making assumptions now to give you a sense of the place but ultimately it depends upon what you are comfortable doing. Going to an extreme we can both get naked and start having sex but I doubt any woman reading this post would do it so I will talk about it more conservatively in the next paragraph. After a while, when you feel comfortable you grab my hand and tell me that it's ok. Then I will slowly start to rub your legs and thighs and slowly pull up your skirt. Or lower your sweats or leggings. You wear as much or as little as you want. There are no baskets for clothes so whatever is removed goes onto the couch. Be careful with keys and pocketbook too. I would only recommend bringing in your car keys, The men will probably move a little closer to see better. I'll unbutton your blouse and open the front of your bra (or maybe you go braless), and start playing with your breasts . You start to get excited. You feel some more hands exploring your legs, a strange hand reaches and caresses you breast. Then I pulls down your panties and one of the men starts touching between your legs. He asks if he can use his mouth on you.? Will you let him? One of the men takes your hand and moves it to his hard member. Do you use your hand on him? Where does this go from here? Do we just have sex while the watch and then after I cum or while fucking me do you want to manually relieve some of the men, or use your mouth? Of course you will be riding me reverse cowgirl to position yourself better for this. Or do you just want to be touched a little and put on a show. Do you want to go all the way? As little or as much as you’d like. Or maybe we take one of the men to a nearby motel and he watches us fuck or maybe you blow him or let him join in. Or go to his place and we do this. If this sounds like something you’ve fantasized about then write if you want to know more? As part of this do you want to perhaps fuck me alone once at a motel so you are comfortable with me before putting on a show with me in front of all these men? Or even a woman if one is there but that's unlikely. I am white, tall, 6', 200, non smoker, clean shaven, educated, thick, cut and.I last plus very oral. Write and lets chat if there is interest. This is not for most woman as it is quite intimidating but if you are an exhibitionist and love showing off this can be hot as hell. If you are soaking wet after reading this you may want to reach out to me.
I’m a 37 year old man living in Manhattan with an adorable dog, and I’m currently in a wildly frustrating dry spell after a 5 year relationship ended last year.
Things in the bedroom were great for most of that time, and then it was meh, and then it was dead. She was fine with little to no sex for the rest of her life, and I was not. It’s no one’s fault, we just reached a point where we wanted very different things.
I’m 5’10 with a strong build, shaved head with a dark beard, and cute (or so I’m told). I’m a busy person, but in my free time I enjoy cooking, reading, museums, live music, many nerdy things, and long walks in the park with my dog (especially in the Fall). I’m a kink friendly Dominant person, and aside from occasionally partaking in 420, I’m DDF and expect the same from you.
Aside from being busy enough to where it’s difficult to find the time to meet people organically, the main reason I’m in this dry spell is because watching your significant other gradually lose interest in having sex with you tends to wreck your confidence and I’m having a hard time assessing a woman’s interest level to transition from flirting to physical intimacy.
I’m looking for an intelligent woman who doesn’t my play games, because I’ve clearly forgotten how to play. I just need you to be straight forward with me and I’ll take it from there. I’m looking to chat, grab a drink if the conversation is goes well, and lose myself inside of you if we really hit it off.
In other words, I’m looking to connect with a woman who gets turned on by a dominant man taking out their ravenous horniness on her.
Happy to trade pics when you are. Look forward to connecting soon
Fellow Redditors,
I'm a 37-year-old man living in Stamford, CT, with a thirst for adventure, a passion for life, and a desire to share it all with someone special.
When I'm not working, you can find me exploring the outdoors, cooking up a storm, or dreaming of my off-the-grid living future. But what really gets my heart racing is the thought of sharing these experiences with a like-minded woman who values healthy living, personal growth, and meaningful connections.
I'm looking for someone who is confident, curious, and always up for trying new things. Someone who values honesty, respect, and open communication. And, of course, someone who can appreciate a good sense of humor.
In the bedroom, I'm a firm believer that intimacy is about connection, trust, and mutual pleasure. I love exploring new ways to connect with my partner, from sensual massage to more adventurous activities. Let's just say I have a fascination with the female form, and I love discovering new ways to appreciate it.
I'm a dominant partner who values clear boundaries, open communication, and enthusiastic consent. After our intimate moments, I love to show my caring side through aftercare – gentle touches, soothing words, and tender affection. I believe this balance of strength and vulnerability is key to building trust and deepening our connection.
If you're a woman who is looking for a partner to share in your passions, desires, and adventures, let's connect!
Please share:
Let's ignite a passion that will leave us both breathless!
Remember, I prioritize respect, consent, and open communication in any potential relationship. Let's explore our desires and boundaries together!
Hey fellow Redditors,
I'm a 37-year-old outgoing, single, and financially stable guy living in Stamford, CT. When I'm not working, you can find me exploring the outdoors, cooking up a storm, or dreaming of my off-the-grid living future.
I'm looking for someone special to share in my passions and adventures. If you're a self-sufficient, like-minded woman who values healthy living, personal growth, and meaningful connections, let's connect!
Some things that bring me joy:
In the bedroom, I value mutual respect, trust, and open communication. I'm not vanilla, but I prioritize my partner's comfort and consent. I'm excited to meet someone in real life and take them on fun, enriching dates. My only expectation is respect.
Age is just a number to me; I'm open to connecting with younger women who are mature, curious, and eager to grow into their aspirations. I want to know that you've taken the time to reflect on your values, passions, and goals – that you've at least tried to draw your own map in life using your heart as a compass.
I don't mind taking the lead, but I want a partner who is proactive, self-aware, and motivated to continue learning and evolving.
If you're interested in getting to know me, please share:
Please don't ask for photos unless you're genuinely interested in connecting. I value your time, and I ask that you do the same for mine. I'm approachable, patient, and kind – let's take the time to get to know each other.
Looking forward to connecting with someone special! We could all be gone tomorrow so let’s not take ourselves too seriously. Tip your toe with me, and maybe I’ll add a glass slipper to it.
HMU if you’re interested
White guy here
Bi discreet guy here just looking for a bi or curious top in bk area. Can host at my place in bedstuy. 28 165 5’8 here. Ddf. Hit me up if you’re free and looking to meet. Please don’t message if you just want to chat/you’re not ready to meet up or you live way out in the burbs. Not looking for subs or fem.