/r/NYr4r

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Redditor for Redditor means whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, or even social friends, this is the place to find it.

This is the New York state version of /r4r.

PLEASE READ THE RULES HERE BEFORE POSTING!

r4r - Redditor for Redditor Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

POSTING GUIDELINES

When creating a submission you must include a location tag (i.e: #Manhattan) and gender tags in your title. Please note the tags are case sensitive.

Examples: [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [MtF4FtM]

In addition to a tag, please include pertinent information such as your AGE, LOCATION and a condensed version of WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR.

/r/NYr4r

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23 [M4M] looking to give head in #hellskitchen can’t host

nsa head, be able to host. send pic and age

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2024/11/03
01:58 UTC

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19 [M4F/TF] #Queens looking for hookups

I’m dtf anyone that’s female, transfem, or nonbinary.

Stats:

•5’7

•6 inches and girthy

•thick thighs and ass

•I’m an experienced switch

•Can’t host but will travel

•Will send a photo if you do it.

•I don’t care about age differences

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2024/11/03
01:13 UTC

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21 [M4M] #NYC - Throat Goat🫦 (Can’t host)

21M, Blk, Bottom, Tall & Slender but a wide throat for fucking (strictly oral)

Throat goat here looking to give sloppy on a nice big dick today. Where the daddies at? Let me gag and slobber. Daddies is a term i use for all ages btw.

Let’s chat and have a conversation. Exchange pics first and foremost before conversation. Then let’s see if we’re a match and go from there

Recently tested and hope you are too. Message me with your stats to get the convo started 🤙🏾

LOOKING FOR TONIGHT!!!

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2024/11/03
01:03 UTC

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32 [M4F] #WestchesterNY - laidback, shy professional looking for first fuckbuddy

Hi. I’m mostly looking for a low-pressure, chill, cute FWB I can de-stress with. Love to cuddle, go on nice dates, share deep conversation, and stay in with a movie, but I’m searching here because I don’t want the time commitment and emotional baggage that come with a conventional relationship.

Here are my deepest desires to entice: biggest turn on is giving women the chance to explore and study a man’s body. I want to see what women would do with a dick and balls as if no one was watching, with no pressure to please, and with no fear of judgment. Open to anything but I fantasize about scenarios like 1) giving you the chance to practice before your first date with a crush 2) you wearing headphones while giving me head, trying to ignore me and just wanting to suck dick, almost annoyed it has to be attached to a guy 3) curious lesbian wants to feel balls for the first time 4) clinical settings, almost removed from sex, like you need cum for an experiment or something. Just wanna serve a purpose haha. Not into role play, just trying to paint a picture. BJs that have hit this note are the best memories of my life.

Stats

  • 6’2”
  • 185lbs, slightly dad-bodded, trending down
  • 7”
  • white

Pros

  • conventionally attractive
  • tall
  • good job, tech
  • cool car
  • super chill 😎
  • open

Cons

  • shy, introverted
  • depression 😢
  • erection not guaranteed with new partners
  • dad-bod
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2024/11/03
00:48 UTC

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33 [m4m] #brooklyn bottom here. Any one drive? South bk

I need a top

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2024/11/03
00:26 UTC

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35 [M4F] #NYC - Insatiable mouth between your legs

Are you sitting at home tonight wishing you could be ravaged by a talented mouth and tongue? Then you've clicked on the right post! I'm a 35 year old guy looking to come by so that I can watch your body tense up in ecstasy.

Lay back and close your eyes, and focus on the sensation of my tongue massaging your clit. You can feel my hands firmly gripping your legs, keep them open so my face is buried between your thighs. I want my lips dripping with your juices when you've hit the point where you simply can't cum anymore.

If the images I've described have you putting your hand down your pants, why not just invite me over?

1 Comment
2024/11/03
00:20 UTC

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30 [m4A] #NY Bi curious male looking for fun!

I’ll be in NYC Dec 11-12 and staying in the theater district! Looking to meet up for drinks and go from there! I’m new to LS and hope to meet likeminded folks from are into LS too!

2 Comments
2024/11/02
21:47 UTC

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34[m4m]#queens Dom for long term submissive

Hello,

I'm 34 Dom bear type looking for a long term submissive. This could just a sexual relationship or more depending on the connection, wants and needs.

I want someone with who I can control in the bedroom but also be friends with, ideally, in a perfect sub relationship.

As for my kinks I like to talk about that as we get to know each other but some includes, light degradation bondage, service & role play, pup gear, spanking,and more.

You- under 40, clean, submissive and ready to serve.

Under 22 a pic is required when applying before any sexual conversation

Hit me up on chat with BDSM & basic information about yourself. So we can talk from there.

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2024/11/02
21:01 UTC

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43 [MF4M] #Long Island #NY Seeking FWB for her

We are an educated, white couple looking for a play partner for an ongoing FWB-type situation for the female half. We are looking for someone for her but the male half will (likely) always be present (at least in the beginning) and may (or may not) participate (only with me). Note - male is straight.

We are looking for an educated individual who is respectful, capable of conversation, articulate, thoughtful, and otherwise upstanding, but looking for a little extra fun in his life.

If you’re interested, reach out with a meaningful message and be prepared for substantive dialogue. We will only select the perfect candidate and it will require significant vetting considering safety and privacy issues involved. After we get to know each other, be prepared eventually to show proof of STD testing and ID prior to any actual physical encounter.

2 Comments
2024/11/02
20:54 UTC

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30 [FM4M] #NY Looking for a Bull and/or sexy Trans-Girl for a night of adventures

I'll be in NY for a week with my cuck, and we are both looking for a sexy and endowed bisexual bull, or beautiful Trans-Girl to play with us both.

He's my submissive and I want to fullfil his "train" fantasy. We are both a beautiful and fit couple on our 30's. Description below, and photos to be shared on DM.

Me: 5'3 Latina, slim but also curvy, fair skin and brunette. D cup, light brown eyes and a beautiful smile.

Him: 6'2 Caucasian man with an incredible body, beautiful smile and exquisite blue eyes. Hungry for... You know what! Obedient and devoted.

Two sane and fun people looking for a sane, safe, but also dirty play. I hope hear from you all!

2 Comments
2024/11/02
20:20 UTC

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25 [M4MF] #Manhattan, experienced with couples and several years in the lifestyle. PM if interested, tested and can verify, can send more pics if interested

Pm

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2024/11/02
19:35 UTC

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25 [M4M] #NYC fit guy looking for muscular fit

Looking to link with someone who’s on the built side. If you’re curious, I’m pretty chill and looking to take it easy. I’m in midtown.

DM/chat me if you’re interested. Let’s chat and exchange some pics before meeting.

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2024/11/02
19:29 UTC

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27 [M4M] #NYC - “Straight” & Fit but Curious To Be More on Submissive Side & to Discreetly Suck Someone Who Is Also Curious

Hey. I am a chilled dude in new york city that is into girls but also curious and would like to explore being more on submissive side and making someone else feel good. Ideally looking for someone who would like to just get sucked and that is also new to this and wants a simple, safe, and adventurous but fun time. I am fit - approximately 175 lbs and 6 feet tall. Feel free to send me a chat if you would potentially be interested.

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2024/11/02
17:26 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Fishkill NY Shy weeb wants to have his dick pissed on

Bonus if you have a bush. I’m willing to help u out trying a fetish u would like to try. I’m 5’8”and weigh 205lbs and Latino. Huge anime and video game nerd. I am also into tcgs like Yugioh.Thank you.

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2024/11/02
14:15 UTC

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28 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for a fun, safe, pleasurable experience with a cute redditor

I'm 28, Black and Latino, fit, good-looking and very clean. Overall feeling very happy with my professional life! I don't have any real preferences here; we're both single redditors and that is plenty in common for me. I should add that I'm emotionally open and available to more, along with even dating.

Looking for someone who wants to let loose and enjoy each others bodies safely. I don't mind inexperienced, experienced, shy or outgoing women.

Things I am into:

-Breastplay (anything from sucking to teasing)

-Dry humping

-Massages (mostly giving but don't mind receiving!)

-Making out

-Whispering/Moans/whimpers/Communicating/Expressing your pleasure, (Overall sounds of getting sexual)

-Open to more

I always carry clean + recent test results and expect the same of you!

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2024/11/02
11:34 UTC

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27 [M4R] Brooklyn, #NYC - Sports Massage

Athletic 27-year-old bro in Brooklyn, NY, gaining practice in the sports massage field. I’m interested in building up skills with male or female athletes or fitness people interested in softening their muscles after a strong workout. This is free of charge. If you are a male, only open to massage to other straight guys. DM for more details or any questions you may have.

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2024/11/02
09:24 UTC

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28 [T4M] #NYC Any guys that need to be drained?

Broadway and 33rd This may be unpopular opinion nowadays but I think straight men are supreme. They should be served like kings and treated with respect. I think many natural born females are buying into feminism and not needing a man or making them work too hard for their primal nature. With all that being said, I am reaching out to straight men that want to experience a place where they are worshiped, and made to feel the way their primal nature is. Fully serviced and baby batter emptied so he can go back to hunting and gathering. That is my purpose, for being that female for men behind closed doors and in privacy with discretion. DDfree and I am comfortable to give you Hawk tuah , but I don’t offer pussy until I know you as a Fwb. But I can guarantee I’ll give you the best throat you’ve ever had and I’ll sever my purpose as a T for you especially if you never been with one.

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2024/11/02
04:06 UTC

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35 [m4m] #Queens #BK #Nyc Hung straight/curious dude looking to suck hung straight BWC. You host, asap

https://freeimage.host/i/jun-21-2024-12-16-391.ddn45s1

No fats no bushes. Dick pics and hosting availability in first msg.

1 Comment
2024/11/02
02:10 UTC

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19 [m4m] #queens Sissy looking to get sucked and fucked

Looking for a bi or verse. For some fun today About me: 18yr, 5'10", 5" uncut, Hispanic, bi and discreet feminine. Can't host but can travel. I have some pics posted. Just dm me

2 Comments
2024/11/02
01:53 UTC

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29 [M4M] #nyc #brooklyn straight/bi curious looking for DL for first try.

Fit Asian , Looking for someone also a DL to try out for guys fun. Slim/fit body preferred.

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2024/11/01
23:26 UTC

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52 [M4M] #Astoria - Kinky guy looking for other kinky guys

I'm 52 (look younger), masc, white, 5'8", 170ish, cleancut, down-to-earth and chill guy. Looking for guys to get into some kinky mischief with. Open to casual or longer-term.

I'm a skilled hypnotist and love hypnotizing guys to help them live out their sexual fantasies. Very open to most including dom/sub, roleplay, bondage. Also have a huge foot/sock fetish and told I give great foot massages.

Looking for guys mid20s-40s, masc, gay/straight/whatever, just be creative and with a wild side. NOT into fem play, sorry.

If you want to get in touch, please send me a message (NOT CHAT) with some basic info (age, stats, interests) about you.

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2024/11/01
20:41 UTC

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32 [M4M] #Westchester: Bicurious looking for lean/ripped or super skinny guys

Into guys with very little body fat. Either super skinny or lean/ripped guys who like to flex/show off their biceps and abs (into muscle worship). PM me for telegram or other if interested

2 Comments
2024/11/01
17:31 UTC

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24 [M4A] #Westchester

DM

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2024/11/01
15:42 UTC

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68 [M4F] #Long Island/Manhattan - You want the company of an older tall in shape well educated white male older than your Dad

I’m an older in shape tall white well educated male seeking an intelligent but very very naughty woman who has only one thing one her mind. You obviously know what I want as it all still works. I trust you enjoy very very taboo salacious fun. Whether you’re married, dating or single, you’ve always wanted to go to bed with a significantly older male. If you are interested then lets start chatting and find out where we have common interests including sexually. I am not looking to meet immediately and prefer to chat and determine if an eventual meet starting off for a cup of coffee or something similar makes the most sense. I'm a retired professional with many interests and enjoy the company of intelligent woman. I will tell you that I am not a MAGA person and while I have many interests, I am not one who likes to keep talking about politics. Sexually I am wide open whether you just enjoy making love with lot of foreplay, kissing, etc. etc. Or if you are playful and enjoy light or even more kink and roleplay, of course within your limits.

I’m 6’, 200, clean shaven, look young for my age, dad type body, still have 2/3 of my graying black hair, non smoker, do not drink. My equipment is cut, very thick and nice size but not monster. At my age I know how to give orally and if you enjoy an hour or oral without stopping I will be fine pleasuring you that way too.

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2024/11/01
14:58 UTC

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41 [M4F] #Nassau Love to find a fun friend who is local

Love to find someone local to chat with and become friends/confidantes

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2024/11/01
14:24 UTC

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25 [TF4F] #NYC #Manhattan - dom tomgirl for femme sub

HI! 25 asian tomgirl, i have a couple pics on my profile, about 5'9" and skinny/fit with longish black hair. https://imgur.com/a/dckDHBu Not the best at describing myself.. but I've been told I'm cute!

Im into nerdy stuff like history, gaming, anime, drawing, 3d printing, scifi.. I love talking to people who have something theyre really passionate about or interested in! Love shooters, mobas, and RTS games. Also really into art, esp pencil and pen tho trying to learn digital, and very into psychedelics!!

Hookups are cool, but ideally I'm looking for someone that wants to be fwbs or something similar with a free use or owner/pet dynamic ♡

In terms of kink, I'm looking for someone obedient that likes being told what to do and treated like a pet/ toy. Some kinks I'm into are bondage, forced orgasms/overstimulation, humiliation/ degrading, biting, edging, groping, sensation play, shockwands, impact play, pain, etc... can be a bit sadistic~ love scenarios that are taboo or emphasize power dynamics, but I love to explore and indulge in my sub's kinks as well. Whatever will get you to squirm the most.. Bonus points if you're into threesomes / playing with other subs :))

Thinking about a scenario like you coming over for a date or "tutoring" and getting taken raped and turned into a pet/ slave.. Or maybe a childhood friend or classmate coming over to hang out or work on a project with similar results.. but very open to ideas and suggestions!

If my post caught your interest, send me a dm and tell me what you're into and ASL :) LOOKING MOSTLY FOR IRL. Dont mind sending extra face/verification pics, please be ok with sharing yours too. Not meeting anyone without seeing your face first... INTERESTED IN OTHER FEMS. Not interested in anyone hairy, masculine, or way older please.

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2024/11/01
14:09 UTC

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28 [T4M] #NYC Any guys that need to be drained?

This may be unpopular opinion nowadays but I think straight men are supreme. They should be served like kings and treated with respect. I think many natural born females are buying into feminism and not needing a man or making them work too hard for their primal nature. With all that being said, I am reaching out to straight men that want to experience a place where they are worshiped, and made to feel the way their primal nature is. Fully serviced and baby batter emptied so he can go back to hunting and gathering. That is my purpose, for being that female for men behind closed doors and in privacy with discretion. DDfree and I am comfortable to give you Hawk tuah , but I don’t offer pussy until I know you as a Fwb. But I can guarantee I’ll give you the best throat you’ve ever had and I’ll sever my purpose as a T for you especially if you never been with one.

8 Comments
2024/11/01
12:48 UTC

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30 [M4F] #NYC #Long Island - Oral Slave looking to Eat/Rim - No Recip

Extremely oral and submissive guy from NYC and Long Island area - Looking for a Woman who loves to get eaten and rimmed for hours until You can’t cum anymore. Talented tongue that never tires - Entirely there to give You pleasure and do what I’m told. Not looking for recip - my mouth is Yours to use however You please. Disease free, clean cut and professional. Would love a regular thing. Talented with my fingers to make You squirt too if that is an interest.

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2024/11/01
12:44 UTC

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49 [M4F] #NYC Professional seeks younger for mutual fun

Hello Redditors!

Let’s get rid of the fall malaise and do something fun tonight or next week. Please don’t respond if you just want to chat

I’m looking for a younger female who may not what the wherewithal to experience some of the fun the city has to offer. NY is expensive and she’s looking for a generous friend to escape with…

As for me, I’m a fit, fun, professional WM who seeks respite and adventure. 5’11, 170 with athletic build.

Please be serious. I’m NOT interested if you (i) are a dude (i)I cannot meet in Manhattan (iii) want me to Venmo cash to you or (iv) are not height / weight proportionate

Thanks! https://imgur.com/gallery/fn0iV6h

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2024/11/01
11:22 UTC

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35 [TF4A] #Manhattan #NYC - Looking for a roommate!

Heya, so I'm looking to relocate to Manhattan preferably as I'm just starting my transition! A room on a month to month basis would be ideal as I get on my feet in the city!

As I said I'm just starting my HRT journey and looking for a fresh start. Ive got a little saved and can work remote for a while until I find something new for myself.

I'm respectful, quiet and keep to myself. I also have a bit of a kinky side but definitely no expectations unless things click and go that way. I'm pretty open to whatever 😅

Serious only please! Check out my profile for some naughty pics if you want lol. Please put some effort into your message and let me know where you are in the city!

Hope to hear from you 🥰

2 Comments
2024/11/01
04:01 UTC

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