/r/NYr4r
Redditor for Redditor means whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, or even social friends, this is the place to find it.
This is the New York state version of /r4r.
PLEASE READ THE RULES HERE BEFORE POSTING!
r4r - Redditor for Redditor Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.
POSTING GUIDELINES
When creating a submission you must include a location tag (i.e: #Manhattan) and gender tags in your title. Please note the tags are case sensitive.
Examples: [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [MtF4FtM]
In addition to a tag, please include pertinent information such as your AGE, LOCATION and a condensed version of WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR.
/r/NYr4r
5'3 and love to act feminine for large masculine men
please be ok to take it slow. dm me
I’m 5’8, 145lbs, fit, smooth, and white and looking to have some fun for the first time. I’m a virgin because of major insecurities when I was 90lbs heavier until recently. I figure starting with straight/masc/discreet guys would be easiest for me. I am open to just jerking, oral, or bottoming too. I am open to most kinks so feel free to share. I do also have some women’s lingerie and a wig if you’re into that. Please be clean and ddf!
I respond to everyone but please include some stats when you message ☺️
Unbearably horny looking for a hook-up session. Safe and discrete hookup. I can host! Stats: 5'6 Dominican & Jamaican, 165 lbs, medium brown skin complexion, full lips, bubble butt, submissive. Need a top to diggin' my throat and a tight hole.
Hey, the title says it all. If you want no strings attached head hit me up. Please send a dick/body pic and please be legal. I can host.
Good Hygiene is a must!
Huge plus to if you’re a straight and Latino or black.
Bi discreet guy here just looking for a bi or curious top in bk area. Can host at my place in bedstuy. 28 165 5’8 here. Ddf. Hit me up if you’re free and looking to meet. Please don’t message if you just want to chat/you’re not ready to meet up or you live way out in the burbs. Not looking for subs or fem.
Have you ever wanted to watch another guy flirt with your wife? Maybe watch them share an amazing kiss? Have her go on a date with another guy? I’d love to be a part of that. I’m 44, attractive and fit. I can also carry on a conversation.
I will be in NYC on business next week but I can be pretty mobile. I am super respectful and of course will honor all boundaries. Care to chat about it? I am happy to trade pics when we connect.
I'm looking for someone who's into passionate plus somewhat rough sex and is willing to be filled with cum. I don't have much of a refractory period so I'm always able to go a few rounds before being drained.
Honestly feeling overall very happy with my life, especially professionally. I have my shit together and am both emotionally stable and available. Latino & Black; I have dark features that are propped up by a Fit/athletic build. Love to laugh, easygoing, and understand the importance in self-care. I can gladly host in the city & also have a car to drive as well!
While this is a very horny post I'm certainly open and available to getting to know you with something that could even develop into us dating. I always carry clean, recent results & I expect you to have the same with the raw nature of what I'm looking for.
Besides the obvious love of pies; very much into spanking, dry humping, assjobs (which I guess are the same thing?), and making sure you're satisfied (Would love to have someone sit on my face for the first time).
Hey. I am a chilled dude that is into girls but also curious and would like to explore being more on the submissive side. Ideally looking for someone who would like to get sucked and that is also new to this and just wants a simple, safe, and adventurous but fun time. I am fit - approximately 175 lbs and 6 feet tall. Feel free to send me a chat if you would potentially be interested.
We’re a young, attractive, bi/flexible couple getting into the LS and are looking for a very specific other couple to play with. We want a bi or open-minded gay mm couple who would want to play with both him and her. We are also open to the prospect of another full bi MF couple but currently seeking the former. Open to most ages but be clean, in normal shape, clean, and fun.
Two guys here:
A: 35 chill/ handsome/ 5'5 / 165 / stocky hairy Puerto Rican guy
B: 29 chill/ handsome/ 5'9 / 180 / slim smooth Puerto Rican guy
Very respectful of privacy and discretion.
Can host in Brooklyn.
We love sucking, getting throat fucked, jerking off, getting our faces sat on, giving massages, and general servicing, but we take safe sex very seriously - so we use condoms for oral.
STI free and vaccinated for COVID and MPOX. Hoping to have a safe and fun time with someone. Contact info in profile. Good luck and happy blowjobs.
I want to experience girl cock lmk if interested
Hung married straight guy. Handsome, clean cut, in good shape. Looking for head. Someone is taking my load down their throat today. DM me if you want to be that someone.
Always been tempted to play with a tiny dick wither it be jerking it off or sucking it. Can't host, around my age is a huge plus 5in or less as well pls
As title mentions, i’m looking to help out any guys questioning or looking to experiment with their sexuality.i can host occasionally in brooklyn by crown heights, so message me if you’re interested in exchanging pics and meeting up. Otherwise, if you can host, great!
29, 230lb 5’10 hairy, uncut male here in Brooklyn.
I love helping average guys discover the joys of male on male fun, in whatever capacity they are comfortable with. Really enjoy pleasing men too, but if you’re curious, want a safe and secure and discreet place to try something new, hit me up with stats and pics if possible. Will exchange pics.
I do not meet without face pics for my own safety. We can chat until we feel comfortable sharing.
Into all kinds of guys. Especially Desi, Arabic, or in general uncut guys. But I enjoy helping all men equally!
Fit chill guy attached looking for what's missing in both our lives.
Be in decent shape, be discreet, be legit.
MUST have sense of humor
I’ll admit that I’m posting for something casual which can hopefully be more than once, Saying that I want to meet a nice woman, one with whom I can feel comfortable with and vice versa. While we both know what we want, why not do it with a different twist?
Would you be interested in having a conversation in your birthday suit with a young looking tall in shape white Daddy who has a dad type body? It is a very pure way to get to know a person with clothes shed to get past the superficial part. We would meet at a motel or I can come to you and both of us undress and start talking.
I am white, 6', 200, well educated, non smoker, still have 2/3 of my graying black hair, dad type body with no surgical scars, cut equipment is in excellent working condition and lasts. When erect it is very thick but when limp it looks rather small because it is a big grower. I am saying that because if we meet I do not want you disappointed thinking that is too small for your liking.
In terms of how this would work lets set a 90 minute time limit for our conversation after which we dress and call it a day. Saying that if you walk over to me before the time is up and start touching me I will not reject you. That I promise, but I will not make a move because it’s possible you have no interest in me other than trying something totally different. I doubt you have ever done something like this before. I have done this twice but the last time was over 5 years ago.
Fee free to respond and ask me any questions you want. I am dead serious about wanting to do this again and I will keep the lights one. Hopefully you're not uptight about your body as I am not expecting you to be a model, and having extra pounds, stretch marks etc., is what all of us have including models, but in our society getting naked once meeting someone and talking is not an ever day occurrence, By the way, if you are shy bring a friend. I doubt you will because that will probably make you more uptight, but I would not say no. Now if you tell me to come to your place and get naked in front of a few of your friends while you remain dressed, I would not object because I am a guy. Or did I sound sexist. LOL. Regardless and in all seriousness, if you are even a bit interested, then drop me a line, Plus you do not need to wear a fancy outfit when we meet. Just what you were born in.
Hello!
Here, I am - posting again, part hopeful, part despondent in the hope that there’s someone out there who is the missing puzzle piece that’ll make this picture complete.
I seek to find that connection with someone on here, who’s willing to spend the time to get to know the person behind the other screen (at least initially). I find it hard to be turned on about someone and enjoy being naughty if I can’t make it specific or personal. I’ve realized investments reap rewards and, I’m willing to hedge my bets - if you are as well. I’m an engineer who builds things for a living and this requires patience, effort and an eye for detail, all valuable skills in finding that right individual. Also, facets in the a partner that makes any experience.. rewarding.
I’m hoping to connect with someone who’s genuine, looking for more than a fleeting conversation and someone who is articulate and can hold a conversation that’s not reliant on just discussing body parts.
About me: I’m 5’11, fit (into long distance running), dark haired and blessed where it counts. I have a PhD in engineering and my thesis centered on how to make things burn more efficiently. I’m interested in all things science. I love learning about history and the arts. Cinema and TV are so much more than just catharsis to me and literature helps me escape from the mundane realities of life. My kinks are wide ranging and currently centered around being a pleasure dom, exhibitionism and all things ass. I am open to the idea of being a switch, but with the right partner. Ask me about my limits, they’re easier to define. I want to create a safe space for both of us to express our desires in a manner that is empowering and liberating.
I’m on the quest to meet a woman who’s open minded, likes to explore and motivated in investing the time and effort it takes to build a truly fulfilling sensual experience. I’d love to be able to get to know you and be available whenever you have that craving, wherever it may be.Women of all forms, welcome! I pay attention to my health, and I request you do as well - taking care of yourself and being active are non-negotiable. Messages with what resonated with you, will likely elicit a quicker reply.
Apologies for the rambling post, but the devil lies in the details. If any of this resonates with you - send me a chat!
Divorced salt ‘n’ pepper dad, handsome, in great shape, 5’8” 170lbs, hung 8” (real and uncut), dominant, and really good at fucking. If you’re a little kinky, slutty, and want to explore, let’s chat. I especially like a woman who loves to be shared. I live alone in Queens and can host. Recently tested and STI free. Pics in profile.
I am 29, Hispanic, dark skinned and I am stocky. I’m looking for a throat master to help me improve my throating skills. Please have experience in this department. I don’t have much of a gag reflex but my breath control isn’t great. I’m aspiring to be a human fleshlight and I’d like a master to help with that. On the other end, I do have a big dick (8 inches uncut) and I’m told my oral skills are great so I’m happy to teach any beginners or just provide a big dick for newbies. If this interests you, please let tell me what you’re interested in doing, your experience and how you can help me become one of the best cocksuckers out there. (Calling me a good boy will go a long way btw)
Hey there! We are a fun, experienced queer couple looking for a new friend. Any gender identity welcome!
She/They are 26, white, fit, 5’6 135. Nonbinary AFAB with a pretty face and a tight little pussy. Switchy and versatile.
He is 49, 5’11, 180, shaved head, beard, blue eyes, experienced Dom
We have had some great experiences with folks on Reddit and made some lasting friendships! Hoping to make more.
With cis guys, we prefer submissive leaning, anyone else we are open to most vibes. We are experienced in kink and group stuff, but don't mind if you are inexperienced (it's kinda hot, tbh!)
If we are interested we'll send some sfw pics right away and will expect the same from you. We don't meet people without seeing faces. No online please, local and interested in meeting in person only.
Queer/bisexual folks only, please. We can host this week in Brooklyn ❤️
Edit: to the dozens of you who are messaging “hey” or “I’m down” just realize that this is why you “never have any luck on Reddit”
HV area here. Chubby obedient boy looking to suck some dick. HMU. I also can dress up as a sissy if you’re into that. HMU Ideally looking for a FWB. Down to get a hotel room if needed.
Hi I'm 30 years old black, athletic build, living in brooklyn. I'm looking for a girl who diesnt.kind giving hand jobs.
We can exchange pictures and more details in chat. I have good response time.
Hello! I’m a curvy, 30 year old gal and can host in manhattan. I am looking for someone with strong and skilled hands for a full body massage tonight. If interested, message me with a picture and a bit about yourself. I can also give a strong and sensual massage if you’d like that :)
Good looking MASC dude here. Just like being a submissive slut sometimes. Ideally i’d want a discreet/DL man but gay tops work too lol
I DONT SEND FACE PICS AND DONT ASK FOR THEM !!
I just want dick pics, age and location from you and the time you wanna meet.
Searching for a fwb, ideally in Brooklyn this winter. Want to do more stuff with guys, would like to top. Down for just head or even cuddles if we vibe like that. Currently only into guys who are really fit and muscular.
I’m athletic/in shape and average height. Recently tested and clean. You should be in-shape and chill and clean, race/size doesn't matter. Please be able to host.
Hey what's up. My discord is Therealwukong2018, I'm super into feet, hentai, frotting, mutual jo, head. These are just a few things I'm into. Love meeting up and gooning out together. Add me on disc, let's make it happen. I'm gonna be heading out for the night soon, so if I don't reply sorry, but send a friend request and I'll get back to you sexy cocks in the morning.
I'm 5,7, Indian, 165lb lean. I'm pretty masc. Super down to share pics.
Looking to find another woman out there who's in the capital region or willing to travel to the capital region who feels the need to breed as badly as I do. Interracial breeding I also find hot. But I'm looking to meet in the back of my car or somewhere else and fuck like we're trying to restart the human race.
I really enjoy teasing and pleasing a woman orally/sexually and it's been a while since I've done that. Looking for someone eager to have me between their legs for some time with some making out/teasing beforehand.
White, fit on the slim side, seven inches. I've done this before and eager to do it again! Open to all body types.
I can host. Down to get a drink beforehand and see if we click in person. Thanks!
As title mentions, i’m looking to help out any guys questioning or looking to experiment with their sexuality.i can host occasionally in brooklyn by crown heights, so message me if you’re interested in exchanging pics and meeting up. Otherwise, if you can host, great!
29, 230lb 5’10 hairy, uncut male here in Brooklyn.
I love helping average guys discover the joys of male on male fun, in whatever capacity they are comfortable with. Really enjoy pleasing men too, but if you’re curious, want a safe and secure and discreet place to try something new, hit me up with stats and pics if possible. Will exchange pics.
I do not meet without face pics for my own safety. We can chat until we feel comfortable sharing.
Into all kinds of guys. Especially Desi, Arabic, or in general uncut guys. But I enjoy helping all men equally!
I'm 26m, 5’9, 140, asian, cleancut, vers, 7”. Can host around UES. See pic.
Really enjoy playing with other vers guys about my size or bigger. Ideally, would like to match with someone around my age, fit/average build, cleancut.
Send a pic and stats in dm.