/r/philadelphiar4r

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An r4r (Redditor for Redditor) community for Philly. Replacement for the previous r/Phillyr4r, which has closed down. Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek.

An r4r (Redditor for Redditor) community for Philly. Replacement for the previous r/Phillyr4r, which has closed down. Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek.

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    36 [M4FM] #CenterCity Looking for MFM or hotwife

    In town for a few days and want to see if any couples were interested in a M joining them for some fun. I have had successful encounters with numerous couples, mostly on Kasidie, and some on Reddit. DDF and recently tested.

    I have pictures in my post history.

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    2024/11/03
    01:18 UTC

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    32 [M4F] LF FWB in SJ/ Philly area

    I'm single, 32, white, 6'0" tall, average weight, decently hung, 420 friendly and clean. I'm looking for a FWB to chill and smoke with from time to time but I'm also open to a ONS. I'm in Gloucester Count, NJ area and I can host or travel. I'm kink friendly but also enjoy vanilla fun. I'm free most weeknights and anytime on weekends. No single men please, but I may be open to couples.

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    2024/11/03
    00:19 UTC

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    32 [M4F] #NortheastPhilly – Fit, clean BBC to give it to you passionately ~2x/week

    Hey there 👋🏾

    About Me:

    • 32 years old
    • Fit (6’0”, 205 lbs)
    • Clean (can show recent test results)
    • Well-educated
    • Well-endowed
    • Live in the Lower Bucks County/NE Philly area, have my own place and can host

    About You:

    • 22-45 years old
    • HWP (open to a variety of body types but fit or thick preferred)
    • Any race (interracial is very welcome)
    • Looking for something consistent and exclusive, meeting 1-3x per week
    • If you can host sometimes, that would be great (not a dealbreaker)
    • If you have an IUD/are on birth control/are infertile you'll jump to the top of the list (not a dealbreaker)

    What to do if you’re interested:

    • Reach out via DM or chat—tell me a bit about yourself in your initial message (age, city/town, what you’re looking for) and include a body pic (I provided mine on my profile page)
    • After we exchange a few messages back and forth, we’ll set a mutually convenient time to video chat so we can see each other’s faces, talk a bit more, and determine if we’d like to proceed further
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    2024/11/02
    21:43 UTC

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    31 [M4M] #Northeast Sub Hosting Head

    31, 5'8, 170lbs, blue eyes, long dirty-blonde hair

    Hosting for a laid back guy looking for a release. Very service-orientated here and enjoy edging a guy. I'm into body contact and making out, but it's not required for meeting. I live alone so I can host discreetly. I'm not too far from five-point near Fox Chase, if you know where that is.

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    2024/11/02
    20:23 UTC

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    48 [m4m] #South Philly bottom seeks top for NSA on Sunday or Monday

    Heavyset bottom looking for a hwp top 18-40 to fuck me sometime Sunday afternoon/evening or Monday. Huge plus if you kiss, suck dick and like your ass eaten. Tell me in your outreach which of those your into. NSA and discreet encounter - your privacy always protected. Can be a one time thing or ongoing fwb if we have the right chemistry. Private message me if interested.

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    2024/11/02
    13:48 UTC

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    40 [T4M] #NJ TS Cougar Looking 4 Fun

    Femme TS cougar here looking for some fun this with a sexy guy (or guys?). I’m located in Camden County NJ not too far from Philly. Non pro, just looking for a good time. I’m bottom only and very oral. Hit me up and see if we are a match!

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    2024/11/02
    05:13 UTC

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    32 [M4F] #Fairmount - Seeking first deepthroat experience

    Getting divorced and didn’t have many partners prior to her, and I’ve never been deep throated before. I’m on the bigger side of average, but nothing crazy.

    I’m tall, white, dad-bod, DDF (cool with 420 folks but don’t participate myself), friendly but sometimes awkward (neurodivergent friends, how’s it going?! 😂), nerdy guy that’s just craving some physical attention, and new experiences. Open to reciprocation and more. Free most evenings and weekends, able to host or travel. If you’re interested, let’s chat!

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    2024/11/02
    03:02 UTC

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    27 (M4F) #Fairmount. Looking for someone who is also frazzled from work to hookup with.

    Hi,

    I'm a 27 year old man and a school teacher. Had enough of work and looking to talk bullshit about work with someone else and relax. I'm 6'4" fit, white, dark med-long hair, mustache, big dick and balls. I'm good with my hands and solid at oral. Can definitely provide some oral stress relief. Open to throwing a few bottles of wine into the mix.

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    2024/11/01
    21:22 UTC

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    20 m4m asian virgin want to experiment Ne philly

    Hi there. I’m a chubby 20 year old that doesnt have much experience in general. Never really tried anything or was sexual with people before so I really want to meet someone that can guide me and stuff. Text me if youre interested

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    2024/11/01
    14:08 UTC

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    32 [M4F] #CenterCity - Amazing oral for you, no reciprocation needed. Some forced orgasms perhaps?

    Straight to the point, I’m looking to give you amazing oral for as long as you need, no reciprocation needed. This means pure pleasure for you and nothing to lose. My mouth, tongue, lips, and fingers are all yours for your pleasure. About me: I’m an attractive 32 year old white male living in Philly. This can be one-time or ideally recurring- up to you. I can be flexible, given my hybrid work schedule.

    My other related interests include exploring forced orgasms, orgasm torture, and ruined orgasms if any of those appeal to you (but not required). Hope you hear from you soon.

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    2024/11/01
    05:01 UTC

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    30s (M4M) couple seeking no strings attached hangout in #montco #pennsylvania #kop

    Hello, Couple here looking for bottom or verse guys that would like hangout , grab a drink, and maybe more. About us: 30's , 6'3, 9in top, & 29, 5'8, 6.5 verse. Both mixed race, Safe play only. We are in Montco (kop area), prefer to travel but can host. If interested hmu, the closer to kop the better. Or let's link for drinks As long as this post is up , we are looking We can also do pic for pic

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    2024/11/01
    02:26 UTC

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    19 TM (T4M) Philadelphia, PA #Center City Looking for Long Term Fwb but mostly looking for head

    Hey I'm Teddy a 19 year old trans man, I'm looking for a fwb but mostly just want someone to give me head every so often, I have a piss kink as well that I was looking to get more into, also I always wanted to try thigh fucking, where you would fuck my thighs while your cock rubs against my clit, if you are interested in that then let me know, if you aren't looking for long term then don't message me and don't ghost just say you don't wanna talk anymore

    P.S. I'm not into penetration rn and I don’t host but CarPlay is fine

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    2024/11/01
    02:14 UTC

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    38 [M4M] #MontCo - Football Fun

    I’m 38, white, 5’10”, 160 lbs, non smoker, and a submissive oral slut looking for older men.

    I enjoy watching football but it’s always more entertaining when something is on the line. Shoot me a message and then let’s make a deal :)

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    2024/10/31
    19:45 UTC

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    24[M4F] #NorthPhilly looking for fwb or more

    Wassup so I’m 24 yrs old turning 25 soon have my own place, tall, lightskin, and I’m in decent shape. I am in northeast Philly and I’m looking for someone to hangout with sometimes on weekends or maybe more if we vibe (im open to that to) Can also be a one time thing I guess too. Im free this weekend or could setup something another time. Send a dm and pic of yourself if ur interested:)

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    2024/10/31
    18:33 UTC

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    35 [M4F] #Philly suburbs - I need you to sit on my face

    Is there anything better than having a woman sit on your face while you just absolutely devour her? For me at least, the answer to that is “no.” :)

    I realize it can be hard to balance in this position, but I do have a solid headboard you can hang onto, and of course you don’t have to stay in that position. I’d be equally happy if you want to lay back and relax while I tease, lick, and suck you for as long as you want.

    I’m 35, single, 5’10”, athletic but thicc build, nice butt, broad shoulders, hairy chest, blue eyes. Please send a PG-rated pic, a little about yourself, and what you’d like to get out of this experience. No one-liners or “hey” messages. Thanks for reading!

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    2024/10/31
    03:51 UTC

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    45 [M4F] #Philadelphia (and suburbs). In search for my sexy teacher

    Hello beautiful women of Philly

    I am looking for something slightly specific. Even though I am older, I'd like a sexy single teacher 32-38 (age range negotiable), preferably a music teacher but not fixated on that.

    My first crush in life happened in 5th grade and I really want to relive that moment where i was super fascinated my my 5th grade teacher.

    To be clear this is NOT AGE PLAY! I will NOT be playing a little boy and you wont be mommy!

    I am just fascinated by how sexy some teachers are and they impart knowledge and shape young mind! I'd like to really really thank them eating her out for hours!

    Anywhere in the Philly area? I cant host!

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    2024/10/31
    01:13 UTC

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    20 M4M looking for a fwb and makeout buddy. NE philly

    Or anything really, open to experiment. If you’re going to ask to see me, at least show yours. From the northeast philly can’t host unfortunately but we can always come up with something lol. I have no experience so I need you to teach me:)

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    2024/10/31
    00:44 UTC

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    35 [M4F] - Play doctor with me #NEPhilly

    Ever fantasize about receiving a realistic gyno exam? or maybe one that's a little less realistic and more kinky? Here's your opportunity to live that fantasy out with a very experienced play doc here in the Philly area. I run the Philly medfet group on fetlife and have done more play exams than I can count. I've had some luck on here in the past and am currently looking for a new play partner to examine. I have all the supplies and know how to perform realistic comprehensive head to toe physical exams and gyno exams. Send me a message to schedule your appointment.

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    2024/10/31
    00:25 UTC

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    40[M4F]#Greater Philadelphia-Offering Free Therapeutic Massage with Sensual Twist

    I am offering a free amazing therapeutic massage with optional sensual touch. I have a professional and clean massage set up with massage table, clean sheets, heated blanket, essential oils, ambient music and lighting, blindfold, and hot stones. This massage is individually customized just for you! Imagine a spa like quality massage and atmosphere with the ability for sensual touch if you choose.

    I have many years of experience, multiple amazing reviews, and have an incredible touch. I am tall, good looking, in shape, and highly successful. I provide free massages to women out of hobby and interest and not as a profession.

    I am looking to massage attractive and physically fit women. Open to single or married women. *this massage can be therapeutic, sensual, or both. I remain clothed at all times in order to completely focus on you.

    This may sound too good to be true but I assure you that what I am offering is completely real.

    Please only respond if you consider yourself fit, attractive and willing to share pics prior to meeting. I am open to share in kind.

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    2024/10/31
    00:01 UTC

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    36 [M4M] #CenterCity - Discreet Non-Recip Oral for Straight & Curious Guys

    Hey! I'm looking to offer a no strings attached blowjob or straight or curious guys who just want to kick back and enjoy themselves. My only goal is to focus on your pleasure and not into recip. I enjoy taking my time and making sure you feel good in a discreet space.

    No pressure, no judgment, and most importantly a laid-back vibe. I host in Center City most days and evenings and would be fine with an FWB dynamic.

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    2024/10/30
    19:35 UTC

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    30 [M4F] #Rittenhouse. Seeking AA FWB Maybe More

    Hey everyone,

    I’m a 6' attorney with an athletic build and blue eyes, looking to meet new people and explore connections in Philadelphia. I'm particularly interested in dating black women and would love to find someone to hang out with, enjoy good conversation, and see where things go.

    If you have any recommendations for fun spots to meet up or events happening in the area, I’d appreciate it!

    Looking forward to hearing from you!

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    2024/10/30
    06:10 UTC

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    37 [M4F] #Media - Seeking a local friend to eat out on a regular basis

    Hello! I’ve grown really frustrated with the dating apps recently, and would like to find someone fun, attractive, and cool who wants to meet up on a regular basis for some sexy fun. Specifically looking for a woman who loves being eaten out, as that is one of my favorite activities.

    Other things I’m into (you don’t need to be into any of these, this is just an fyi): making out, cuddling, extended foreplay, giving massages, creampies, bondage, public play.

    I’m a 37M white guy, single, educated, and employed. I’m 5’11”, 245lbs, muscular and also somewhat chubby (great for cuddling, in my opinion). My main hobby is lifting weights, I do a mix of powerlifting and olympic style lifting. It helps keep me sane and really helps me manage stress. I also enjoy reading (sci fi, fantasy, mystery), watching movies/tv, and trying new foods and restaurants.

    I’d like to meet someone who is similarly active, between 25-40 years old, and in Philly or the close suburbs. In your message, send your age, physical description or pic, and what you do for work and fun.

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    2024/10/30
    01:22 UTC

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    30 [M4F] #West Chester- looking for a fwb

    Hello, married but separated for the time being. Looking for a very discreet and casual fwb situation while I’m separated. I prefer older women, no preference on if you’re attached or not. Would ideally like to find someone close to West Chester or Delco but would be willing to travel a little bit. Anymore questions just ask!

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    2024/10/29
    21:42 UTC

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    25 [M4M] #NE. looking for chill laid back bros who can host

    Black guy who would love to meet bros that want to hang out naked around each other. Don't necessarily have to get into it. We can play games, talk about life, personal shit or just watch TV. Cuddling is available especially with the weather being so cold out. If we do get down, mutual JO, nipple play, spanking and fingering others are on the table. Dm me to let me know if you're interested. Can't host, can travel, looking for ages 18-38

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    2024/10/29
    19:16 UTC

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    24 [M4R] Philly/Online #northphilly would so be down for a bud that would love to chat and send each other what has been getting us off lately

    Not really trying to rush into meeting anyone. More than down to chat on kik or snap about literally whatever has been getting us off lately. I've always felt that it was best to just be able to have buds who loved to talk about what has been getting us off lately and then get off to it with other buds. If that's up your alley, then lets chat!

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    2024/10/29
    06:53 UTC

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    42MF4M - #Center City hotwife for FWB

    I'm looking for a guy for her to play with, eventually solo and long-term if it's a good match, but we'll see how it all goes to start. She's new to this but game. 42, cute, fit, professional, brunette. If you have experience, that's great but not necessary. No dates expected, just looking for a good time here and there. Looking for a fit, bull-ish type. Tell me about yourself in your intro or you'll likely be ignored.

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    2024/10/29
    02:44 UTC

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    32 [M4M] #South Philly sissy with a skirt mask and knee pads ready for you to walk in, dump your load down my throat and go (Daddies and BBC a plus)

    Exactly what it says. Don’t care if you’re straight, DL, whatever, just send a face pic and dick pic and I’ll send my pics.

    I’m a pro with deepthroating and taking big dicks down my throat.

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    2024/10/29
    00:54 UTC

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    37 [F4M] #SouthPhilly domme looking for athletic sub

    i’m an experienced domme looking for an athletic submissive guy. i like obedient men and i’m into femdom, we can talk specifics in the chat.

    there are some things i’m not into so i will let you know if it’s not a match.

    send me a chat if you want to talk more :) (re joined reddit from an old account)

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    2024/10/28
    23:44 UTC

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    43 [M4F] #City of Philly - Seeking FWB for connection, dates, and fun

    Hello! I'm an attractive (not just by reddit standards 😂), attached white male who is looking to connect with a younger woman for an ongoing, gratifying, and discreet friendship with benefits. I do have experience with this and would prefer that you know what you want from it if we connect. I'm laid-back, fun, and witty. I did list a preference, but I'm open to age and race if you think you'd be a good fit. Please be local to my area, not halfway around the world. Also, be a good conversationalist, have a sense of humor, and be somewhat mature. Feel free to ask any questions when you reply. Stay awesome!

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    2024/10/28
    20:27 UTC

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    26[M4F] Looking for a mature FWB #Delco

    Hi there. From the title, i’m a younger man in the delco area looking for a fwb. Thing is, i’m only looking for a mature woman, around 10 years older or more, that is also interested in younger men. Shot in the dark, I know, but might as well see what’s out there!

    About me: I’m 26 (I’ve been told I look younger), white, 5’9 155lb, frequent gym goer, educated, employed, open minded. My interests: I’m a home body. When i’m not working from home, i’m at the gym or looking for a new show to watch or restaurant to try. I love philly sports and all the emotional turmoil that comes with watching them. Also try to get out for a round of golf as much as I can.

    About me (nsfw): D&D free and Kink friendly. I love women with curves and enjoy giving. More dominant than submissive but open to switching. downstairs i’m average length, curved, and thick. Not afraid of or allergic to protection.

    About you: 36+ (not required), open to a younger man, and also looking for some fun.

    Goal for this post: I’d love to talk over reddit, exchange pics to establish mutual attraction, and meet up for a drink and see where it goes. When all goes well, i’d like to have a reoccurring fwb relationship and meetup as much as we can handle! I can host in delco or travel to you.

    If you liked the post and are interested in a unique adventure, send me a message! Would really appreciate a swf picture and i’ll respond with some of me. Hope to hear from you.

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    2024/10/28
    19:23 UTC

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