my bust is 3.5 inches bigger than my band size, which means I sit between a C and a D. What size would I buy? and what size do i say i am? Am I a C or a D?! I always just assumed I’m a C but my friends were all saying that I’m defiantly not and am for sure a D so now I’m confused🤷‍♀️

During high school I saw a new junior in our school, a transferee. I am 1 year ahead on him. When I realized I like him, I showed gradual signs for him to notice my feelings. I started following him on his social media accounts. Liking all his updates, sometimes I am chatting him. Before graduating from our school, I gave him gifts and handwritten letters, and those are full of affection and admiration. Now, I am second year college, same as mine, he entered the same university and program. We started to have conversations, he is asking about school and I am helping him, short conversations only but several times. Recently, I discovered that he is a choir in our church, and the mass I am attending to is the mass he is assigned to become one of the choir. I noticed that he is always looking at me during mass–everytime I am turning my head on their direction our eyes are meeting each other. Even when I am kneeling and praying and when I am leaving the church after mass he is still looking at me. But, just like when we are in highschool he is still kind of nonchalant.

I wanna know other people's thoughts? Because I will just become subjective if I judge these instances on my own.

There's this guy I've been talking to. I bought a motorcycle from him 2 years ago, got pregnant and moved away. Messaged him to say I sold it, and we've been talking since. We've got our first date Sunday. I'm nervous since I've gained 20 lbs and 5'8 since I last saw him. I am tall, so I carry the weight well. But I'm nervous about it.... idk how to feel about him seeing me the first time. He's seen me through pictures but not my body. I had a baby... so I'm trying to be nice but also realistic. I'm also going to the gym to get into shape. I feel chubby ahhhh Hhhhh stressed OUT

Anyone have any tips on how to make friends as an adult other than from work or school?

Hey I would love more women to talk to and be girlie with. Anybody love texting and talking like me?

Hey ladies!

I’ve noticed random abdominal pain that I’m not sure the cause of. I got my period 1/21 and it was a lot lighter than usual. I usually have atleast two heavy days. This time most of it was just brown and the entire cycle could have been just one 1 single pad. I was worried that it might be implantation bleeding since I have had unprotected sex but all three pregnancy test came back negative. I noticed the pain 4 days ago and it’s gotten more and more persistent each day. I’m now feeling pain every 2mins. The pain isn’t bad at all just very light uncomfortable cramp. I was tested for stds a month ago that came back negative but I have had unprotected sex since then. I’m worried it could be a number of things. Has anyone experienced this before?

Hello all, I'm a gay crossdresser looking for support and advice and some encouragement please. I am genuine and really looking for kindness through this journey 💖🌈🏳️‍⚧️🎀

hi i don't know where else to post this on, but i've been waking up in the middle of the night absolutely drenched in sweat but feeling really cold and having almost seizure like movements from shaking and shivering so much. my bf says that im hot to the touch but i feel so cold. my pjs and pillow will be soaked. i'm also a very hot person during the day, always sweating and never really cold apart from these "cold sweat episodes" please someone help and tell me it's not just me ahhhhg

Sooo because of my financial situation I can’t afford getting my nails done 😂

What’s the strongest nail glue I should buy for my press on nails? I work in a bar so there’s a lot of heavy lifting sometimes

The guy i liked asked for Chase Atlantic recommendations and I gave church, ozone and phases but he didn’t say anything abt church and now I’m totally overthinking it😭 am I overreacting abt it girlss.

Just now I was doing some of my usual girly maintenance things before bedtime. I’m laying here on my bed with my feet climbing the wall, my hair looking like a drowned rat, a face mask making me look like an alien, and I’m wearing an old tan-stained shirt I stole from my dad about ten years ago.

While I’m laying here, plucking a particular persistent hair from my chin (you know the ones) I catch a glimpse of myself in my mirror and I can’t help but laughing at the idea that a man finds me attractive.

It’s just the idea that there’s at least two men out there who I KNOW want to date me and I can’t imagine they still would if they saw this side of me. The idea that men HAVE seen this side of me, seen me in my dads old shirt pulling ugly faces as I stick a cotton bud up my nose try to clean my crooked piercing, and they still have thought “yeahhhh she’s hot” - and I can’t stop cackling at the idea of it.

I just can’t believe that anyone finds this attractive and hilariously, I think they’re insane for it… …but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna correct them

My boyfriend has cheated on me several times, always have BV when I’m with him, in December I called him he did pick I just had that intuition he was out with someone, I went to his house few days later and hit him, I feel angry and can’t believe I did that, that goes against everything I believe it but I just felt so angry and wanted war It made me really think I can’t be with someone who bring out this side I never knew I had, I have had longer relationships and never acted this way It’s soo hard to stay away being trying no contact but someone seen to speak to each other we have a business together

Hiii!! I’m 17, my boyfriend is also 17 and we’ve been dating for about like 6 months now and it’s been going great though there has been some things I’ve been overthinking about, like he follows SO many women on Instagram, like some follow him back but there’s some women I see him follow and they don’t even follow him back (these people are from his high school) in my opinion every girl he has followed so far is absolutely drop dead gorgeous, is it right to feel concerned? Like is his behavior a red flag, he also never likes my posts (until I pointed out he didn’t, he then specified he just doesn’t like to like people’s posts unless he finds it on reels) which makes me theorize he likes the pictures these girls from his high school but doesn’t show it, like why is following girls that aren’t his mutuals

There’s been some other really weird instances, and to narrow down if this is weird behavior idm any questions about the relationship!!! I would also love to call somebody from like discord or instagram since I have more to dive into (also really just need a girly to talk to rn)

I just need to know if maybe I’m just a bit panicked? Or he really is not the best

i struggled finding a community that i could talk to about this because (funnily enough very fitting to my topic) but every community that had the word “girl” in it were porn filled.

i just want to talk to women on this conversation, every post on all types of platforms discussing whether porn is okay or not is flooded with boys saying any girl who has an issue is sensitive and telling her that it’s her problem her boyfriend can only get it up from whatever fucked up porn he’s advanced onto.

21st centuary porn has gotten to a level that had completely desensitised people to extreme levels of violence against women. i don’t know a single platform that doesn’t have access to it. Reddit being the worst. try search up a random work and right under it you’ll see a long list of NSFW porn filled communities. am i going crazy or is this not normal? how have we normalised this amount of pornography, and if this is the kind of stuff you can easily access i don’t want to know what else is out there. we all know.

are we as women made to feel like us being uncomfortable with porn is unrealistic as a way for them to continue this habit. have your cake and eat it i guess.

i need someone to tell me i’m not crazy because i feel like i am. i know not all men are porn addicts, i know there are good ones out there. but especially when i was younger, “in love”, being gaslit into believing that my boyfriend looking at photos of girls he knew, girls he followed, girls that are “just cosplayers” with an OF link in every post. being made to believe that i was in the wrong for not wanting him to look at that? not just look at but lust over, masterbate to. everytime we had sex it felt like a show. smile and wave as he uses extreme force that doesn’t actually make you feel good but he’s having a good time so what does it matter? as i get older i cant change what i once put up with but i can now recognise the harm it is doing.

will anything make them change?

Met this guy at a club in November. We’ve been in heaven since, but of course all good things come to an end and I could feel us pulling away from each other for weeks. We met up yesterday and ended things. I don’t even think I’m mad at him, i’m more mad at myself because I knew in my gut it was going to end bad and still ignored that gut feeling because he was cute and sweet. he’s such a piece of shit, and wants to blame mental health for his pulling away. Mental health could very much be the reason why he was pulling back, but it’s hurts because i know that in a few months if im lucky, but more likely a few weeks he’ll meet some amazing girl that he is ready to give the world to, and i’ll be some distance memory and a blip in the grand scheme of things. And i know in a few weeks ill be over it and probably won’t even bat an eye to his name, but right now I feel like an idiot destined to die alone forever because every man i met runs away at the prospect of being in a relationship……

K, im done. i’m going back to watching wwe and pretending it’s him getting his ass beat.

Hey y'all I'm posting this because I would like some advice on an awkward situation. So I ordered some sex toys when I was away from home during study abroad and had them delivered back home. (They were on SALE I couldn't help myself lol). Usually my family just puts my packages in a pile without touching them because they respect my stuff. But when I got home (months later) and my brother gave me the packages, unopened,the one with my toys was missing.💀 It's been almost a year since this happened and nobody had said anything to me about it and I have no idea where the package went. My brother always gets the mail so I have a feeling he might know but maybe my mom does too. Anyways, I'm not sure how to bring it up without it being awkward. My brother is going away soon to work out of state so I wouldn't have to deal with any awkwardness there. And I don't feel too weird asking my mom either although she might be taken aback that I ordered these items.

Any advice would be appreciated!!

So Google isn’t giving me answers but you know how during your menstrual cycle, oestrogen goes down AFTER ovulation which means the few days before your period you should be the LEAST turned on.

For some reason the day right before my period i always get super horny for no reason 😭 so do any other girls feel that way too??

i had a one night stand with a guy who i thought was really nice and respectful. he made me feel super comfortable and safe with him. even though it was just that one time with no strings attached, i remember him fondly because i really had a great time and he was so nice to me.

that being said, i later found out that he sleeps around with pretty much any girl who gives him attention. and it makes me wonder—did he even care about the experience at all? was i just another girl he had sex with? was all his kindness and understanding just an act? this realization has made me question whether he was genuine, and it has somewhat distorted the nice memory i had of both the experience and him :/

just to clarify, i don’t think or believe he’s a bad person!! it’s just that now i feel a little dumb lol. also, i’m not someone who typically has casual sex with people i don’t really know. this just happened naturally that one time after going on two dates.

is this just a me problem because i somewhat wanted to feel special? or am i taking this too personally when it’s really not that deep?

So the top says it all. In my defense I was told there relationship was bad, they weren’t even talking and when they were they were fighting and so I thought he was ending it, now all of his posts r abt her and he isent talking to me anymore. Genuinely what do I do. I don’t want to start things but I feel bad, and he keeps reposting things on tik tok one was abt Bruno mars singing that nasty song it said how can this guy also be this guy or somthing idk how to explain it and then I realized, he’s sweet and stuff, but in reality he’s nasty so how can he be reposting that? Do I speak up? Or what. I told him before I dident want to homewreck and he told me they like were practically broken up.

I'm having really heavy periods and need just a little advice please and thank you ❤️

I feel like a lot of woman have this problem and don’t like how small there tits are. Would you recommend getting a cream to make them bigger or plastic surgery or is there any tips yall have to make your tits bigger.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple months and every time one of us leaves to go home it is like my heart breaks every time it's only a couple hours away but it is still hurts, I don't know how to deal with it and i would like some advice on how to deal with how to make it easier

Hey guys! So I, (15f) just took out a tampon, and when I did so, there was a clear liquid (looked just like water) that just kind of splashed out after it, as if it had been clogged by the tampon. It didn't hurt and wasn't uncomfortable, so I'm not worried, but was wondering if anyone else has ever experienced this, or knows what it is/why it happens? Thanks.

I (22f) was talking to a guy in his early twenties also. We met on hinge and everything was going great, just my type , had a great sense of humor and all. He kinda apologized for late replies and explained the next two weeks we’re gonna be really busy so we might not be able to see each other right away which I was fine with if we were talking through text and getting to know each other better anyway(he knew that) . A few days went by and then he didn’t answer me for two days straight but still saw everything I posted. So today I sent him a message saying that I was feeling like he wasn’t interested anymore because of that and if that was the case the maybe we should just stop there and he replied, and I quote “if all it takes is just two days of not responding for this maybe we should stop. Take care”. And I’m not sure if I’m in the right or if there’s no right or wrong in the situation. But for me if somebody is interested and wants to talk, they just will (specially if they are active on their socials). So what do you guys think?

Just bored and thought of a random question lol

I need some Shampoo and Conditioner recommendations, I've already used Pantene and Herbal Essences, both worked fine in the beginning but now I need to switch. Any good and affordable ones you guys like?

So for years my older brother has been weird. I can’t remeber when I was little but the last couple years (I’m 16 he’s 20 and lives with us) we would play fight and my dad pointed out that he always touched my boobs every time, and now he finds any reason to touch me and when he does his hands always go to my boobs. It makes me uncomfy and my mom never listens to me. He just did it just now while I’m eating. And the way our couch used to be it would be near the hallway door so when I walked in and he was sitting there he would “block” me from coming in but instead his hand would just touch my belly/ribs/boobs. And when we’re in the kitchen standing around or anything he’ll push/touch my belly. I’ve brought it up countless times to my mom with no response, what should I do? It makes me so uncomfy

we became friends at the start of uni in August. we hit it off because we were both introverts who enjoyed comfortable silences and had a few similar opinions. She was really nice at first (emphasis on really) but slowly she became annoying. she would disagree with everything I say in casual convos. But that was just annoying, not a necessarilt a bad personality trait. then I started to feel like she often keeps talking about herself and her family, life etc to lengths and somehow diverts all our convos to herself. I didn't feel seen or heard, and this feeling grew with the passage of time. She was nice about many things still, so I dismissed those feelings. for me, we had a friendly banter thing going on from the start where we would roast eachother as a joke. intention wise I never actually meant things I said in banter. maybe I unintentionally hurt her some way, or make her insecure. but I noticed signs of deep insecurity in her since the very beginning, which she now tries to cover up with over confidence. she has begun insulting me as joking "banter" and she says things that are straight up mean. I have the same relationship with my other friends where we roast eachother hard, but it never feels mean coming from them. but this person is passive aggressive, often insults me as a joke in front of other friends which makes them laugh. I try to give as less attention as possible to things she says. Normally I would straight up cut out a person like her but she's a part of my uni group and it'll be hard to survive uni without a group. I can't go on creating beef. And the way she says mean things can be justified as jokes, so there's really no way to call her out without making it awkward in front of the whole group. This is annoying to me because I feel disrespected everytime it happens and I just don't wanna have such a resentful relationship with a friend. Please tell me how to deal with this. examples of mean things she has said : I showed her a picture of mine without hijab (I'm a hijabi) and she says "I didn't realize your forehead was this big" I was ranting about how the tumbler I have is now on temu for cheaper and I regret buying it more expensive. she said "it doesn't even look like it's worth (a muchh cheaper price" I said I like a teacher because she gave me good marks on a project and she says "she only gave you one more mark than us, stop acting like it's a big deal". (I literally struggled so hard with my grades this sem and that project was one of my very few wins) I was trying to calm her anxiety down before exam by saying that " you don't believe in yourself but you should be more confident." And she said "just because you said something insightful once now you act all like a therapist" There are other things I could quote but the list is so long already. I literally hate being around her atp

5 months ago I met a guy with only one intention… and we’ve been together since lol We get along really well and have occasionally gone through ups and downs but bounced back in a stronger relationship. I feel safe emotionally, mentally and physically. I’m 27 and he’s 21. His friends know our age gap, mine don’t. I’m worried what his friends think and what mine will. Mostly bc his friends are my age.