a guy i rlly like texted me that and i feel like that's so weird but i like him so i have to play along😭

Just a little rant and also wondering if anyone had the same problem. I made the first move on a guy I really like, but it hasn’t been working. I text first and he engages but lately it’s just been one word responses, and he never keeps the convo going only me. I’ve been obsessing over it like crazy that I can’t even do my work because my mind won’t be silent abt him. I wonder if anyone can help with this? It feels like it’s ruining my life and self esteem.

Me and my boyfriend had intimacy for first time We didn’t do sex like proper and neither his semen touched my vagina. It was after we were just making out naked his dick was touching my vagina But Next day i got my periods for two days usually i have longer but This is time it was two days . Is there any problem?

I don't really know what to do about this but I've been friends with this guy for a few years now and I'm not certain when he got a girlfriend or if he had one the entire time because he never really said anything he just brought up that he was hanging out with her one time. I think in the course of about 2 years he's only brought her up 5 times at most and never by name.

I was never really all that worried about her, honestly I was excited by the possibility of meeting her someday and becoming friends with her and finding out our mutual interests and maybe I could introduce her to some cool new bands and we could swap recommendations.

I have 2 accounts on Instagram, a family one that my mum created when I was 12, and a more personal/friend/main one that I created at 14. My friend follows both of these accounts. One day I noticed an account I'd never seen before looking at my stories on my family account. I saw she was followed by my friend and didn't think much of it because maybe my account came up in recommended or something, but I did take screenshots just in case. A few weeks or so later and I'd noticed she'd looked again, took more screenshots. This time on my story I had mentioned having another account and, guess what, she looked at my entire story on my main account, too. This is when I started to get really creeped out, because she would've had to have specifically looked for it, like made an active effort to search up my name in an attempt to find more of my accounts.

This is when I started to get so scared and started mentioning I had a stalker to people and asking for advice. I felt constantly watched and violated. I couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, was anxious to leave my house. So I put her on my hide story list. After about a month or 2 I felt kind of bad about it and removed her from it. Next day she'd looked again. So, I suppose she'd been trying to look the entire time and had just been unable to.

Left it for a few days, she did it again. I had a really long story, too, and she watched all of it. I've taken screenshots every time I ever saw her look. She's seen maybe about 30 or more stories of mine.

I couldn't take anymore. Never seen her account before. Never met her. Never hears her name or seen it before. No clue who she was. Didn't follow me, I didn't follow her. Private account, profile picture not of her. So I messaged my friend all freaked out and asked who she was. He was shocked to hear she was stalking me and brought it up to her and told her to stop. She said she will, and she hasn't that I've seen since, there have been new accounts stalking me but they seem to just be other people and not her (people I went to school with follow those accounts and my friend's girlfriend probably wouldn't know them, especially since they don't follow her actual account).

Turns out, anyway, that she was insecure about my friendship with her boyfriend, my friend. I have never heard of her doing this to any of his other friends, he has several other friends who are also girls. My friend doesn't know what he could've said about me that made her do this but I'm now really scared of her. I don't hold it against her or anything, I understand but I'm still scared. Still struggling to eat and sleep. And my friendship with her boyfriend is now kind of awkward, although I think it's coming back around, now.

I also feel like she's out to get me because I brought it up to her boyfriend and he was upset about it. She's probably upset she got called out, but she was making me incredibly uncomfortable. Is there anything I can do in this situation? Did I do the right thing by calling her out? Should I stop being friends with my friend?

Girls, what’s your opinion on porn when in a relationship? Here’s the situation Twice now I have found porn and only fans creators on his phone (I know snooping through a phone is a whole other thing that’s not the point of this though) the first time I was in shock. I was so upset and asked him about it, we had a conversation he apologised and told me how he felt like a shit bf for doing it and promised me to never do it again. He did. Multiple times since then.

Once I composed myself We had an in depth conversation about how I and many women see porn and how it affects a her and a relationship. He promised he understood and wouldn’t do it again. I told him “you promised last time so how do know you’re not going to do it again” He told me he doesn’t know how to make me believe him and cried about hurting me again and breaking my trust and I consoled him like last time this happened It’s been about two months since then And I feel like he’s just gotten better at hiding it. There’s gaps in his instagram and phone history where I knew for a fact he was on the app or whatever website he was on. My thought is maybe he’s just hiding it now. I know. I feel like a complete asshole about not trusting him which is why I’m here. We’ve been together for almost 8 months now and that’s been the only problem or argument we’ve had. I love him so much and in all other aspects he makes me so happy and valued. I love him so much. I see a future with him. I just don’t know how to move past this situation. I feel like I’ll never I unsee those girls in his phone, I don’t feel pretty anymore. When we’re out and there’s a girl walking by, I’m watching his eyes to see if he’s looking at them. I trust him enough not to cheat. It’s only this porn and checking out other girls aspect I struggle with and I know it comes from my own insecurities more than anything. I need advice on how to forgive and trust again. How to stop feeling so insecure in myself I want to make this work between us, I don’t want to let my insecurities ruin this.

I'm slowly growing more uncomfortable and irritated with this one guy who wrote me a dm on instagram and followed me like half a year ago (around june I think) and I texted back since I'm sometimes way too nice and tend to think the best of others lmao. In my defense, his initial dm wasn't weird or anything. He just asked if by chance I went to the same uni as him (which I did) bc he saw me posting about it. We texted back and forth for maybe 24 hours, just small talk about uni and ourselves. To me, the conversation was in no way fliratious or anything and I didn't think much of it. After the convo just fizzled out - like these kind of convos tend to go - I just didn't text him anymore + I had no desire to continue the conversation.

He on the other hand obviously thought differently bc the next few days he started sending good morning texts and asking about my day which imo just comes across as weird, when you have only texted with each other for maybe a day. I didn't text back and ghosted him at this point because I, once again, had no desire to get to know him better or pursue anything. He seemed to get the hint and stopped and I didn't hear from him for months at which point I also removed him from my followers (I hadn't followed him back).

Last week he once again sent a dm, asking what I was doing, to which I didn't respond a deleted the whole coversation. Today he texts AGAIN asking why I removed him from my following (he followed me again) and asked "wHaT hE dId WrOnG".

I haven't texted him back and have zero desire to have another conversation with him. My profile is open for anyone to follow bc I usually don't really care who sees my posts but now I think I have to privat my account and block him bc I'm starting to think that he's stupid enough to just not get the hint. He hasn't done anything wrong per se but he just comes across as pushy and him noticing that I removed him, points to him frequently checking my profile. idk I'm just uncomfortable bc I know I gave him no reason to think I was interested in him but he doesn't seem to care. I'm also not sure if blocking him will necessarily do the trick bc anyonce can just make a new profile and dm you again. Should I text him back and just let him know one and for all that I don't want anything to do with him or should I just ignore him? pls help

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My boyfriend’s dad makes me very uncomfortable, he’s constantly saying things about me being small and not eating a lot, like jokes. He’s usually not home weekdays and only on weekends but last time I went over to his I dident know his dad would be there that day. He sits on the couch on his phone and occasionally makes a dumb joke abt me being small. Then makes us go out for dinner knowing I don’t eat in public ( I hardly even eat around my bf I’m still getting comfortable with it and his dad dosent make my eating issues any easier for me.) I was also in pajamas planning to stay at his house and watch movies like always. Them both in actual going out clothes. When we get in the truck he dosent give me passenger while my bf drives (which like is kinda rude to me but okay whatever least of my worries) but constantly talks abt putting me in “the gf seat) which is behind his. Idk why it’s called that but I honestly thing it’s because the seat vibrates from the speaker thing and the other dosent. That’s the only thing I can tell is different. I can tell these things make my bf uncomfy aswell he immediately walked me to the other side of the car, and he ignored his dad’s rude jokes and comments. I don’t want to say anything to my bf about not wanting to be there when his dad is there but I also have to stop myself from crying every time. I need advice please. We’ve been dating in total about 5 months maybe with a month bresk in between and I also talked to his ex who said his dad did the same thing to her and would even ask her about sex with his son and a lot of other inappropriate stuff.

So I had a few modeling agencies contact me back but with more research I found out all they want is money. I wanted to model so bad. My boyfriend now calls me a super model and honestly it pisses me off. I am not a supermodel. I modeled for a few months as a kid and have had agencies messaging me for months but that’s it. I’m not on magazines, ads, popups, runways, anything that I’ve always dreamed of and he still calls me one and i hate it. I always just say no when he calls me it but he dosent get the hint.

Is anybody else’s packages coming early??? My last few have came atleast like a week early. I want to grab my package before my family does but my account never shows my stuff being delivered if that makes sense. It kinda just shows up and I have to confirm it arrived early so i have no clue when it’ll be here

So in my friend group, there was one who i recently cut ties with, because of her toxic behavior suggesting narcissistic patterns, though the rest of the group didn't interfere and treat us both not siding with one. The problem is how it is so shitty seeing my friends knowing she is there completely ignoring me (that's fine i was the one ending things) but her trying constantly to attract them to her leaving me left out.

This was on campus after lectures, i told myself it is fine i just won't isolate myself just because of her and i missed them, as for hang outs i don't know, for me they are free therapy and intimate talk. Do you think i should hang out as well while she is there? I don't want these to be ruined as well and not sure if my friends can make another time for me unless we are on holidays.

We’ve been talking for almost a year. It’s something like a long distance relationship. We can’t make it official for a few reasons. We’ve met many times. Im 20 and never had a bf before. I always thought men never shows interest but this guy😭 his literally the best I could ask for. Because we discussed the relationship part, I’ve been trying to ignore my feelings but I can see that he has feelings for me too and that makes it so hard for me. We decided to stop talking a few times and we both ended up crying. I honestly think I love him. I say “think” cause I’ve never felt like this before. I’m trying to find a red flag so I can change my feelings for him but I really can’t. I talked to my best friend about it,we’re really honest with each other, she also said she can’t find anything toxic. I really don’t know what to do. I feel like I won’t find anyone like him. Our personalities match so well, our humor, literally everything 😭

Sorry if it doesn’t make sense. I’m writing my feelings for the first time 🥲

I want to get my girlfriend makeup for her birthday because she has recently gotten into doing makeup and really enjoys it so I wanted to get her more things to use. The problem is I know makeup is very specific to each person, skin tones and also with what look you want to go for. So my idea was that I would get her a gift card with x amount of money and take her shopping on her birthday so she can pick out exactly what she wants and we can make it like a fun day.

What would be a good brand, I'm thinking like sephora or Ulta. And also since we have been together about 4 months how much money would be an appropriate but still generous amount to put on the card so she can get what she wants without having to worry too much about spending more then what's on the card. I'm also 21 so I can't do like a ridiculous amount, but I still want to spoil her.

Hi guys, i’m currently in a weird FWB situation with my most recent ex (we broke up on halloween and were closer to our two year anniversary than our one, his decision to breakup also) so i’m comfortable with how we are doing things right now and have decided that i’m not trying to date him right now but we still want to do coupley things, i found out yesterday that he was flirting with some other girl through messages after lying and reassuring me that he wasn’t entertaining other women (i asked him not too as we were still being touchy and sexually active together). He knows her personally and i’ve been upset with him about it because of the connection to her (both of them suck for it fr) and he’s been trying to act like it’s fine and that i can’t say anything to her because he doesn’t want “drama” and said he’d be upset with me about it if i did contact her and i am at a point where i could really care less about how he feels on the matter but i don’t wanna lose him so i think i need to just vent but idk, help pls (open to answering any questions in the comments)

I want to start posting more and gaining followers like other tik tokers. For example (Austin Taylor, Gavin magnus, piper rockelle, etc) I have some insecurities with my teeth, eyes, and nose, and am also so worried about what people think and don’t even like taking pics or vids in public. But I wanna post more, and idk how to get my posts to reach more people. If anybody has any tips for me pleaseee lmk

Does it work?? I’m trying to grow my girls guys and if any body does it please give me tips on how to take it?? Or is there any other way to grow them naturally? Plz lmk!

So, I like a boy(14) and he’s younger than me(15) and I’m not sure if he likes me, he gives me signals sometimes but they come out very mixed, i used to see him in a brotherly way but now it has changed and I feel like I like him, the way he talks to me is just so sweet and funny and I don’t know how to tell him, because it might be weird, how can I tell him?

Does anybody else bite there lip when they focus? I was doing my nails and notice I was digging my teeth into my lip (I also do it while shopping and other hobbies and stuff) I now have a bump on my lip with what looks like tiny holes from my teeth. Tips anybody?😓😅

I tried putting on a tampon for the first time and it is stuck. Half of the tampon is up there and the other half will not go in or out when i try to push it in i feel like i hit a wall and when i try and pull it out it hurts like hell. Please help

am i red flag if i wouldnt like if my bf has a girl best friend? or talks to girls? i don’t mind friends that are girls as long as i know their name or something but like a girl best friend just turns me off.

i dont know some dude said i’m insecure and a red flag and that no guy would ever want me bc i said that.

So this is the first time I've used reddit but I'm really freaked out. Like every time after I do something sexual with a guy I feel like he doesn't want me after and I feel like pulling away even though that's often not the case. Like I immediately get scared fr.

Anyone have the same issue? How did u

Does anybody know was a gf seat is in a truck? My bfs dad keeps saying to put me in the “gf seat” (behind the passenger seat) idk why it’s called that. My theory is because it vibrates from the speaker maybe? He’s kind of a weird inappropriate man so I wouldent put it past him but it does make me a bit uncomfortable and I think my bf too because when his dad brings it up he brings puts me to the other seat. Anybody hear this term before tho?

So long story short me and that guy don’t speak the same language, we are in the same school but we don’t have any classes together. I met him after school while player soccer with some of the other guys in MY class and he joined in. After we finished he left and started talking to this girl who was waiting for him (i am positively sure was his girlfriend AT THE TIME) The next day the guy winked at me and i he helped me to find my classroom. Then the next day he winked and smiled and the next and the next. I thought to myself ooo this guy is cute but then quickly regathered my senses and told myself he had a girlfriend. But all of a sudden i never saw him with that girl (he used to walk with her but now i always see him alone and she is with her friends). Also since then he now opens doors for me, he once came in break time and played some soccer with me. We have had all these confrontations and we have barely said a word to each other. I once tried confronting him and saying “do you wink at everyone or just me”, i tried to say that in his language not english and i got so EMBARRASSED HE DIDNT UNDERSTAND ME. He looked super embarrassed too. I told someone about him and complained he wasnt asking for my number, but they replied “you gave him nothing to make you think you like him”, i replied “i smile back when he winks at me”. Anyways i thought to maybe come up to him and ask him some questions, but before i got a chance i was biking home from school and heard him YELLING MY NAME(even though i never told him my name). I turned around and he smiled and waved at me (ughh it was so cute) i asked him whats your name and if he has any brothers and sisters, then i left. After that i told myself ok that will show him that i like him. Now looking back at it, i literally gave him nothing, and here i am complaining he doesnt want to make a move. Also i kinda want to get his number before i change schools in literally three weeks but he is taking forever. Please girls give me advice on how to let him know i like him and encourage him to make a move. (Or do you guys think he even likes me at all?)

This is the 4th guy I’ve been intimate with this week… Story goes, I’ve been seeing this guy #1 since Aug, nothing serious tho. The deed is so good 🤤 but he doesn’t fully eat me just teases. Friday i danced w guy #1 Sunday danced w guy #2 Tuesday guy#3 was only fingers And guy #4 tomorrow. All 4 I’ve had relations w multiple times in tbe past. #4 said he’ll eat me and that’s all I want 😩 I’m ovulating and I ain’t see guy#1 for two weeks. I am not someone who judges ! but idk if I’m being like gross ? I need advice !!!!! Am I being too much and need to chill ??? Btw it’s all be protective deeds

I’m not okay I’m insecure If I see a girl that I perceive to be prettier than me or I’ll think other guys will think is prettier than me my heart sinks and my face twitches a little. It’s completely embarrassing. I can barely bare to look at someone that looks better than me sometimes. They’re better than me I think. He definitely wants her I think. He wants her more than me I think. I want to be free from this type of thinking. I don’t want to be compared to anyone. I just want to be pretty to me and accept me. Be my own beauty standard and stop making everyone else that for me. I’m beautiful, pretty, gorgeous. But I want to be the most beautiful, the prettiest, the most gorgeous. I wanted to be undeniable. I want to be drop dead gorgeous. No flaws or imperfections. Completely desirable and not undesirable in any way. Let me get off social media, cry, and get back to studying.