/r/prochoice

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A sub dedicated to reproductive rights.

We stand against any laws which seek to give 3rd party & government power over other people's conception and pregnancy outcomes.

A sub for pro-choice redditors who care about preserving reproductive rights for girls, women, and all pregnant people.

Abortion bans are reproductive abuse and sex based violence on people afab. We are united in our cause to end reproductive abuse for all people who can experience pregnancy. We welcome others of opposing views when they're expressed with respect in discussions, but if you are only here to criticize, change minds, or tell people they are wrong you will be instantly banned.


Rules

  1. No anti-choice spam or propaganda Anti-choice spam and propaganda will be removed and the poster will be banned.

  2. Non pro-choice expectations If you are non pro-choice, you're welcome to come here and ask respectful questions. Pleading with us to change our minds is not a respectful question. Calling us murderers is not respectful. If you are genuinely interested in engaging in dialogue with us, you are expected to remain civil. This includes accepting answers you are given instead of pressing a point that has been explained. If you are not here to learn but to debate, you will be banned. Brigading will result in an automatic ban.

  3. Screenshots, direct links, & brigading If sharing conversations from elsewhere on Reddit, take a screenshot and block out the usernames. No direct links, no brigading. Avoid making too many of these posts; if there are a lot of them, they may get removed.

  4. Anti-choice article/video post requirements Anti-choice-leaning arguments and/or articles should have a descriptive title & be made as text posts, with links within the post. If it's a video, you should describe the argument sufficiently that watching the video is not necessary for a response to be made. Make it clear why you hope to get a pro-choice perspective on it. It should remain clear that a topic is being opened for discussion. It's a subjective call and moderators may still remove content if they feel it is dominating the sub.

  5. "Pro-Choice Only" post flair The "Pro-Choice Only" post flair is meant as a way to distinguish topics meant for just fellow pro-choicers to interact on. Not every pro-choicer wishes to engage with or hear from anti-choice views on this sub. If you are anti-choice, please refrain from commenting on these posts, else your comment will be removed and you will be banned.

  6. Be civil to pro-choice users We are all a team with a goal in common. Therefore, please act accordingly. If you have a problem with another user, work it out privately. Name calling and personal attacks are also not tolerated. Let's keep this subreddit related to gaining abortion rights. You're also expected to behave in a way that won't embarrass our sub in a screenshot and cause more brigading. Don't start a brigade.

  7. Civility towards non-pro-choice users There are people who genuinely want to engage in dialogue with us. Non-pro-choice users are expected to remain respectful & civil, & in return, we expect pro-choicers to return the civility. If a non-pro-choice user breaks the rule, users are allowed to enact 'Thunderdome' where pro-choicers can decide if they wish to continue to remain civil or not. This can be used ONLY regarding non-pro-choice users who decide to be hostile. Do not call 'Thunderdome' solely because a user is non-pro-choice.

  8. Banned words/comparisons for non pro-choicers Non pro-choicers are banned from using the following words and comparisons: murder, Nazi, Holocaust, genocide, slavery, Hitler, slut, whore, selfish, evil, etc. as well as iterations &/or coupled words to be suggestive of the aforementioned words and comparisons. This list is not exhaustive. Any such usage will result in an immediate ban. Words found to be within the spirit of this rule may result in a ban & is up to moderator discretion.

  9. Polls must have a "show results" option Or some iteration thereof. We get lots of prolifers who lurk the sub and like to see poll results. Please provide an option for our lurkers and those that do not wish to participate or are not the target participants.

  10. Gender Inclusive Please be mindful of the presence of all genders on this sub, whether cis, trans, non-binary, etc. We are here to advocate for the abortion rights of all people with a uterus & as such disrespect towards a person's gender identity will not be tolerated.

  11. No "paper abortion" type posts Abortion is a medical procedure. Child support is a parental rights issue. Conflating the two is insulting to bodily rights. Likewise, rights for the non-pregnant partner to stop or force an abortion do not coincide with bodily rights. And "having a say" is a relationship issue. Neither topic will be tolerated here.

  12. No Unsafe/Unreliable Abortion Suggestions We do not allow suggestions that people abort using herbs, folk remedies, or DIY methods. This does not include safe and reliable self managed methods like medication abortion. Additionally, though we do not recommend menstrual extraction or manual vacuum aspiration without a doctor’s supervision, we do not ban references to these options as they have a low risk of infection and perforation.

  13. Discussion of later abortions should be well-informed Somehow the rarest abortions get the most discussion. If you want to share your thoughts on abortion later in pregnancy, we expect that you you read and understand this post, and show that you're making a good faith effort to understand it. It's a long post, because it's a complex issue!


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Compensation for forced births in America

If a person is forced to donate organs, then they should be compensated millions through law suits.

A mother in Texas was also forced to go through extra vaginal wand ultrasounds and carry her dead fetus for weeks. A rape victim was put through child birth and morning sickness. Women and girls will no longer have access to abortion or contraception, this is a HUMAN RIGHTS VIOLATION declared by the UN.

Sue them all.

2 Comments
2025/02/01
21:32 UTC

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"Abortion is murder, but banning it is unethical"

I have a libertarian friend who has this view. He believes abortion to be murder, but that banning it is unconstitutional and unethical due to being impossible to regulate. He also shares this view about banning guns and banning drugs: in a perfect world they could be banned, but realistically it would just lead to higher crime rates and more danger. Thoughts on this view?

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2025/02/01
19:25 UTC

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(TW: Miscarriage) My mother used her experience to back up her anti-abortion argument.

My mother is pro-life and I am pro-choice. We were talking recently, but then she started talking about how she's against abortion because the fetus has a heartbeat. Therefore it's a life and equally is important as the mother. I obviously don't agree.

But then she talked about her experience having an early-term miscarriage and she got emotional of course. But she said that the baby was "sucked out of her violently" and that abortions are the same. And I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to be insensitive to her experience... but at the same time, I disagree about the "violent" nature.

She then brought up that he friend had an abortion when she was younger because she didn't want a child and that she apparently now regrets it because she wonders what the child could have been. She talked about this as if it's some reason why other people shouldn't have abortions. It's the whole argument that the fetus will eventually become a baby thing. And I never know how to argue this point in the right way.

I'm just so unsure how to even talk to people like this who are so sure that abortion is murder and that it's killing a living being that, in their eyes is equally important as the living, breathing mother. It feels so irrational.

38 Comments
2025/02/01
19:04 UTC

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Pro Choice Argument I have never heard anyone make, and it's driving me insane

People debate all the time whether a fetus should have human rights.

Go ahead and grant them full human rights.

Someone who has already been born also doesn't have the right to use my organs against my will. Pro lifers are pro organ harvesting.

32 Comments
2025/02/01
15:06 UTC

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No abortions, no funding for natal care, no healthcare, and food prices went up so all these new kids will be malnourished with negligent parents. "For want of a nail the kingdom was lost" or something like that

11 Comments
2025/02/01
15:04 UTC

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Trump pardoned pro lifers that were arrested for protesting outside of abortion clinics

What are your thoughts on this? I was curious to ask if you all believe the pro lifers were wrongfully arrested? Or do you think they should have stayed in prison? They were arrested under some thing Biden put together called the face act. But now they are free to go. If I remember correctly I think these are the same ones I saw that were blocking people from going into the clinic. I remember seeing a video on youtube that pro lifers were arrested under the face act because they were blocking people from going into the clinics. If thats what they were doing then I see why they were arrested. I mean blocking people from going into a building should be illegal.

But I dont know if these pro lifers are the same people that did that. I think they are. The news is claiming they were peacefully protesting. But if they were blocking people from going in the clinic then they were not peaceful. I remember on the video there was a man infront of the door and the clinic lady asked him to move and he said "No mam" And if they were doing that then in my opinion I see why they got arrested. That should be considered harrassment if they are blocking you from going in the building. Then they all were praying infront of the door blocking people from going in. What do you all think about this? I would search for links but for some reason when I send links on subreddit it gets taken off. But I am sure you all have heard about this already.

0 Comments
2025/02/01
14:42 UTC

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It's rarely about the fetus. It's misogyny.

Just got done arguing with a family member about abortion.

Honestly? What I gather from most of these pro-lifers is that they don't actually care about the fetus. Why is it that many people go on and on about how abortion is "murder" but then suddenly they say, "Oh but it's okay if it's in cases of rape or incest."

So... you don't actually care about the embryo/fetus. If they honestly think the fetus is just as important and equal as the person who is pregnant, then why would they not just want to force the rape victim to have the baby? Obviously they don't seem to care about the woman's quality of life, but just about saving another life.

You know what this tells me? They don't actually care about the fetus. They care about how the fetus was conceived. If it was forced upon a person, then they are okay with "murdering" it. But if it was an accident or if it's just a person who electively wants to abort... then they need to live with the "consequences" of their actions.

It's all about hating women who have sex for something other than procreation, shaming them and then having zero empathy for them. Because suddenly if someone accidentally gets pregnant, then I guess their rights to their own body and healthcare are no longer important. Whereas if someone willingly does something stupid out in the world and gets hurt... you can guarantee that person will still get treated at the hospital no questions asked. Because people are still allowed to get treatment even if they "caused the problem."

It's ridiculous to think that these people actually think a fetus is equivalent in importance to a living, breathing person. If there was a building on fire with 10 fertilized and viable embryos and also a screaming 1 year old baby... you're telling me these people would choose the embryos? I bet not. Because we all know, even if just at a subconscious level, that an embryo/fetus isn't the same as a living person.

17 Comments
2025/02/01
00:16 UTC

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My take in this debate: epistemic violence

Yesterday I engaged in a discussion with a 15 year old that clearly was strongly influenced by some far right Christian believes. I’m not American so I guess I cannot comprehend his views. But since religion is partly on the ground of philosophy, I decided to test out in how far epistemic violence can be seen as a form of violence from a pro choice perspective.

First of all, what is epistemic violence? Epistemic violence refers to the ways in which dominant groups (f.e. during the colonization colonizers) suppress, distort, or erase knowledge, particularly knowledge from the marginalized groups (f.e. The indigenous population).

In the abortion debate you can apply this concept by arguing that pro-life activism relies on epistemic violence in multiple ways, such as:

  1. Silencing the experiences of people that had abortions.

Many people have come forward and shared their experiences. But the pro life movement usually only focuses on the cases where people regret having gone through with their decision, therefore silencing the people that can argue that this decision has been a good one for their personal life’s.

  1. Misinformation (Sadly in some cases, but not all)

The pro life companies rely often on so called “pseudoscience”, which is often old news or propaganda, like for example falsely claiming that abortion causes infertility or depression. Don’t get me wrong, this can happen, but I could not find any numbers that proof what they say is true. So maybe you can also give some of your information to it and educate me as well.

  1. Legal and Institionalized suppression of knowledge

Under this category can fall any restriction of sex education, limit access to contraceptives, and even criminalize doctors for providing abortion care. This actively erased knowledge that actually could help people make informed reproductive choices, reinforcing systemic control over bodies, especially those of women and marginalized genders.

  1. Religious believes and cultural erasure

Pro lifers often say that “life begins at conception”, which is a subjective opinion. Differnt cultured and religions have (most likely) other believes and perspectives. So enforcing this well Christian-centered view, actively promotes erasing other world views and not accepting any other view at all.

  1. Gender and Racial suppression as well as classicism

From observing some debates online, the pro-life movement often ignores how forced birth disproportionately harms marginalized communities, especially Black, Indigenous, and poor women who already face systemic barriers in healthcare. By pretending abortion bans affect everyone equally, they erase the knowledge and experiences of these groups of people and try (again) to reinforce their own believes

So now I know since it’s philosophy, this can be probably easily debunked, but I still wanted to share this take to hear some other opinions and maybe other takes.

Thank you for reading all that and have a nice day :)

0 Comments
2025/01/31
06:44 UTC

169

Most people regret abortion?

A pro lifer used this site to promote the whole belief behind; abortions are forced and are roots of patriarchy. I know that these pro suffering have a strong way of playing and making you believe their ideas but what do you think of this site?

115 Comments
2025/01/31
22:54 UTC

184

Insane the USA believe all their female children should do this

24 Comments
2025/01/31
22:31 UTC

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Awww i love false equivalencies!

https://preview.redd.it/pna8zmy4bcge1.jpg?width=255&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5f440c187c324f88a0658e8497ec9add1f0c2d9d

I've seen this image floating around by anti-choicers. Do they not realize how stupid an argument this is? First off all, Loggerhead sea turtles don't "choose" to abort their eggs the way people do. A human will get arrested for stepping on the eggs because you are disturbing the wildlife. Stepping on a loggerhead sea turtle egg is not comparable to a woman getting an abortion by her own choice, it is comparable to a tiger eating a fetus out of a woman's womb, which i am very obviously against. If a sea turtle could make a decision to abort its own eggs, i would let it. But it can't, because its a fucking animal. These are the same type of people who try to put morality on alligators for eating puppies. Its a fucking animal.

Also, humans aren't endangered.

Sorry for shit quality image lol

8 Comments
2025/01/31
14:35 UTC

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Worst nightmare ever

Oh god…

I dreamt that I got pregnant somehow, and I was trying desperately to come up with the money for the abortion before I hit 6 weeks. If I didn’t find anyone by 6 weeks, I’d be stuck with the child. I also couldn’t find a planned parenthood and it was this nightmarish countdown…

Obviously I’ve been having these kinds of nightmares due to the chaos that’s been happening in our country. I’m terrified of losing this option if I ever fall pregnant…

6 Comments
2025/01/31
18:02 UTC

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I’m lost on whether to have kids or not

I’ve been going back and forth since the election. My husband and I were originally going to try the beginning of this year but with all of these bans, it makes me very hesitant.

Every decision I’ve made since starting college was to build up and become a mother. I have a great career with amazing benefits and paid maternity leave, my husband has a great job also with paternity leave. We bought a house, our bills are manageable, and were fortunate enough to be able to build savings.

Now, I have PCOS and chronic inflammation; which just makes miscarriages much higher. And now that my state requires your information to be public if you need any abortions. This is horrifying to me.

But this is what we want, but on the other hand is it even safe to bring a child in this mess? I also think the ones having kids are the mindless MAGAts and maybe we need to pop out like one so there’s at least one good human in the future. I just had an appointment with my provider and she said please don’t worry about not receiving life saving care, that the network will 10000% back me up if things go south.

What do I do? I’m so crossed.

56 Comments
2025/01/31
17:54 UTC

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Pro life republicans the minute the baby is born

26 Comments
2025/01/31
01:54 UTC

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Here is my statement about Anti-Abortion legislation

When laws made by men with no medical education contradict the evaluations and perspectives of doctors who possess a wealth of knowledge and expertise, we are dangerously back-pedaling as a society. It should concern everyone that no medical professionals, such as those participating in the American Medical Association, are advocating for anti-abortion laws. Our law-makers have about as much medical experience as a stone, and have no place for making decisions that so adversely affect women’s health.

0 Comments
2025/01/30
21:14 UTC

91

Slavery is indefinitely solved

3 Comments
2025/01/30
23:40 UTC

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This Was A Quote By Greg Abbott Today In News Article About Trans Rally

I love how he gives the definition for sex discrimination which based on his segue is guilt of.

10 Comments
2025/01/30
23:21 UTC

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As a woman in the US, I no longer feel safe…

If the federal abortion ban occurs, women are no longer safe in this country. If they become victims of sexual assault, they will be forced to have babies against their will. Some will unfortunately die because their bodies can’t carry to term among other health issues. Is this really what we want for our future?

85 Comments
2025/01/30
22:21 UTC

1,545

This is so true.

sorry if this doesn’t belong here/allowed here.

21 Comments
2025/01/30
21:03 UTC

19

Abortion Pill

I am thinking about getting this. Do you hide your identity when buying this ie vpn, safe emails, and visa gift card for payment. Or not. It is still legal.

4 Comments
2025/01/30
18:08 UTC

122

How do you talk to your kids about abortion?

My boyfriend and I are both super liberal, but he’s scared to talk to his kids about abortion. They’re 8 and 10. He doesn’t even want me to wear my pro-roe or abortion shirts because he’s afraid they’ll ask about it. I’m like… it’s a medical procedure. You don’t have to get into it! But he thinks that because they’re kids they’ll think I like killing babies. 🙄

We live in Louisiana so it’s quite taboo here and his family is super conservative so of course he is also trying to protect me from their judgement and he doesn’t want me to cause a sticky situation for myself. But we’ve been together for over 2 years and it’s a potential deal breaker for me moving forward.

This is a big issue for me because if they were my children, they would know. Obviously they aren’t so it’s not up to me, but I feel a social responsibility to educate in order to prevent stigma. Am I the crazy one? Are they just too young? How do I navigate this?

43 Comments
2025/01/30
16:14 UTC

89

Father’s choice?

I keep seeing people, pro life or just pro choice who keep saying it's at the end the father's choice to abortion or keeping the baby. What kind of nonsense is this, it makes me enraged.

Does any of you think that this anyway and anyhow applies, I certainly don't. I do think it's better to ask or have a small discussion but it should always be the woman's choice at the end. Genuinely going to start praying for such men to get pregnant with triplets in the US this year.

41 Comments
2025/01/30
12:37 UTC

70

After a total abortion ban in my state, my sterilization surgery appointment is set with the VA (Veterans Affairs)

My state has a total abortion ban, with no exceptions. I chose to get sterilized to protect my life, as well as to support my child-free lifestyle.

I am a military veteran, and asked the VA if they will do it for me. I got ZERO pushback from the VA doctor. The doctor even encouraged my choices! After the initial consultation with the surgeon, my surgery date was set for Feb 4, only a week away (which is so quick considering how long it takes to get a normal appointment for lost vet)

I was actually really surprised, especially since the VA has been pro life for a very long time, refusing to help veterans get access to abortion services even before the over turn of roe v wade.

So, if any of my brothers, sisters, and LGBTQIA+ siblings in arms need to hear it, the VA supports your decision!

3 Comments
2025/01/30
07:11 UTC

122

Can’t cause her any harm, she could put the marriage up for adoption

31 Comments
2025/01/30
07:58 UTC

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