I am always a nervous person and an introvert at that. So, I made friend with this guy last year which was around August and we started talking. Though, I noticed that we almost have the same personality and mentality. Now, I like him. Did you think telling him is the best thing or I should just keep my feelings to myself?

Basically theres an policy on certain apps that if you say an age that isnt allowed on the platform they automatically ban you, well in my case it was on discord... I was talking to people on a general chat when suddenly a random dude asked me "if i was a 5th grader" and by joking I responded "Yes" and he then proceed to say "fr?" and i said right after it was a joke, i wasnt serious, but losers being losers, likes to wipe off the smiles off people faces, so what he did is screenshot the thing without context, reported me and made me banned off the whole platform where i spent money on. So yea, that's pretty much it as of right now, i can do nothing about it, lemme know if yall got a solution to this.

Hi, I am bored want to meet new people....

Hey everyone,
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how tricky it can be to meet new people, especially when life feels a bit isolating. For me, it’s the small challenges like feeling awkward with eye contact or unsure how to start a conversation that sometimes make it harder. Can anyone else relate?

What are your go-to strategies for breaking the ice or making friends IRL? Whether it’s a chill activity, a fun story, or even just a mindset shift, I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Let’s support each other in finding ways to connect more easily. Who knows, your tip might make someone’s day a little brighter

I’ve been lurking around Reddit for a while—reading posts, commenting here and there, learning the secret handshake... but every time I try to post something, Reddit slaps me on the wrist like a disappointed teacher.

“Your karma isn’t high enough.”
Excuse me? I’ve been out here, trying to contribute, trying to be a part of the conversation, and Reddit’s basically like, “Sorry, you can’t sit with us.”

Honestly, I didn’t think karma mattered this much after I left high school, but here we are. Apparently, my digital worth is defined by imaginary internet points, and it’s starting to feel like a Black Mirror episode.

So, how did you guys dig yourself out of the karma pit? Should I start making memes, or is there a secret ritual involving an offering to the Reddit gods?

Anyway, if you’ve been in the trenches of low karma and made it out, drop some wisdom (or an upvote, I’m not picky). Otherwise, I’ll just be here in my karmic purgatory, watching the rest of you thrive. 😭

Okay, spill the tea: What are the most chill ways to meet new people IRL?

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I feel like ever since college I slowly became more nervous and uncomfortable with eye contact when speaking to people. I can't pinpoint what started it specifically but it just seems to progressively become more noticeable in my life since then and it really annoys me, especially because when I avoid eye contact I wind up missing reactions and facial expressions that help me gauge how the conversation is going which just ends up making me feel more self-conscious and unsure. This sounds so dumb writing it out lol hopefully I'm not the only one. Advice appreciated!

i have been scared to start talking irl for quite some time, before a couple months i kinda could but now i cant say anything at all

I want to change my name, but have no idea to what. I can’t stand the sound of my legal name, Jackie (Jaqueline). Open to any suggestions! Thanks in advance 🫶🏻

I 29M and my girlfriend 27F I’ve known her for 10 years, live together after 3 years . Unfortunately, I made a lot of mistakes during that time—cheating and not paying enough attention to her. Despite it all, she forgave me time and again.

In 2019, I went to jail for 3 years, and she stood by me through it all. She supported me emotionally and financially, waiting for me while I was locked up. We spoke on the phone twice a day, and when I finally got out, she was there waiting at the prison door with gifts and a planned trip to London with friends. I had promised myself I would propose to her with a ring when I got out, but I never did.

After my release, we went on several holidays together, but we often found ourselves arguing over small things. Our last trip to Egypt was particularly rough; we didn’t speak for two days because she was understandably upset with my behavior. I had planned to propose to her there, using a cheap ring to symbolize my commitment, but I hesitated.

Then, after a year of being back together, I made another grave mistake. I cheated on her, thinking I deserved it after the years I spent in prison. I was honest with her about it, but she buried her feelings for months. Eventually, the truth came out, and it took a toll on our relationship.

I still hadn’t found the right moment to propose, mainly because her family was pushing me to do it in front of her, and I didn’t want to feel pressured. Then, on her birthday, I drank too much and vanished for 24 hours, leaving her alone. That was the last straw for her.

I’m left reflecting on my actions and the love we had. I realize now how much I took her for granted and how important communication and trust are in a relationship.

Has anyone else gone through a similar experience?

Hi everybody!!!!!! Am new am from the caribbean and I live in Canada.