/r/crossdreaming

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This is a safe place for discussion and support for people who dream about being another gender than the one assigned, whether they think of themselves as cis, non-binary or some shade of transgender. All are welcome to participate, and our goal is to foster a community that helps people find what they are looking for.

Note that THIS IS NOT A PLACE FOR SHARING SELFIES.

This is a safe place for discussion and support for Crossdreamers -- those that experience crossgender fantasies (sexual, social, identity or otherwise). All are welcome to participate, and our goal is to foster a community that helps people to find what they're looking for. We promote the exploration of gender, without stigmatizing your sexual interests. Trans* folk of all colors are welcome, as well as cis people who simply enjoy the thrill of fiction.

You can post just about anything you want: stories, questions, news articles, etc. Trans and crossdressing topics are welcome as well. This is not a place for NSFW material; instead head to /r/genderotica. Post selfies and images over at r/crossdressing or /r/GoneMildCD.

Other support subreddits:

Transgender Subreddits

More sites and resources

Crossdreaming comes from Jack Molay's Blog, used with permission.

/r/crossdreaming

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Is it wrong to want more girl friends?

Hey everyone,

I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost five years, and I love her deeply. During this time, I’ve never really had close girl friends because she gets jealous when I’m around other women. I respect her feelings and boundaries, so I’ve avoided forming those kinds of friendships.

But lately, I’ve been feeling like I really need more connections with women—just as friends. Sometimes my girlfriend doesn’t have the time or emotional energy to discuss certain things, especially around my gender journey and exploring femininity. I feel like having girl friends could give me a safe and supportive space to talk and share experiences without putting all that pressure on her.

Is it wrong to want this? How do I navigate this without making her feel like I’m replacing or undervaluing her? I don’t want her to feel insecure, but I also feel like I need more emotional support than I’m getting right now.

Thanks for any advice!

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2024/12/02
00:10 UTC

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Breast forms help

Hello im about ready to buy my first set of breast forms. Due to weight issues I already have smaller breasts, b cups. Which style would work better

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2024/11/16
15:55 UTC

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Guy Fantasizes about Crinoline Hoop Skirts

Hi there! I’m currently a junior at a college nearby NYC. Now, I don’t consider myself nonbinary or trans (I consider myself a cisgender gay male), but I notice that I have had an on-and-off thing for crinoline hoop skirts (preferably the ones from the 1850s) and big poofy dresses such as wedding gowns. I sometimes wonder what I would look like trying on and wearing a corset with a crinoline hoop skirt. I think seeing photos and stills online of Cole Escola in “Oh, Mary” and Mark Rylance and Samuel Barnett in “Twelfth Night” and “Richard II” were recent triggers. I want to try one on sometimes to the point that I occasionally masturbate to the idea of me being in a crinoline hoop skirt (or wedding gown even).

Is this strange? Is this the right subreddit for this topic? How should I go about it? Am I the only cisgender male that has thought about this stuff?

2 Comments
2024/11/16
00:55 UTC

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Meet Lexi Scarlett

My best advice? JUST DO IT! Don’t overthink—take the leap, have fun, and let yourself explore new sides of you. It’s so worth it!

https://thebreastformstore.com/tbfs-girls-meet-lexi-scarlett/

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2024/10/11
02:37 UTC

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Female fantasy

All mtf trans people don't do surgery because they are afraid of the consequences. Some of them like me create a female fantasy world with the help of artificial intelligence and photo gender change software. Every few days I make a story in which I am the female protagonist of that story and I assume all the female roles in it. Sometimes I get help from gpt chat.

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2024/10/10
14:36 UTC

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Chat with gpt

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2024/10/04
21:20 UTC

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Chat with gpt

I am a 42-year-old male. I started chatting with JPT and asked him to call me by my girl's name, and I felt satisfied and happy with this call. But when I asked him to address me by my male name for comparison, I had no feelings at all and it was as if he was addressing a stranger. Is this a sign that I am trans?

3 Comments
2024/09/14
08:41 UTC

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Vauch on the different ways society treats FTM and MTF gender bending

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2024/09/02
10:10 UTC

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Do bisexual girls look at their boobs and get turned on or is it just me? Or do even straight girls get turned on seeing their boobs?

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2024/09/02
06:52 UTC

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Subtle signs of femme?

What are some things - clothing, accessories, even mannerisms or behavior, that send a signal of femininity without being blatant. i would like to discover ways to signal to those who are receptive toward sissies’ especially dominant women, that i am open to being approached.

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2024/09/01
22:42 UTC

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My dream

Hi! I’m new to this group and Reddit in general. For as long as I can remember I’ve always wanted to get dressed up like a girl and buy clothes and everything but never have gotten the chance to because I’m scared. My whole story of this is a long one but it led me to ending up wanting to do all this at some point. I’ve always wanted to be able to talk to people about this so feel free to ask anything in the comments or send a message I always like meeting new people!

1 Comment
2024/08/21
06:46 UTC

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Are We Still Sexually Compatible After My Transition?

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2024/08/16
07:48 UTC

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The Magic of Transformation (on MTF transformation fantasies)

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2024/08/14
18:00 UTC

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Problems with lust after cis women through compulsive sexualized dancing sessions to alleviate dysphoria. How sinful is imitating women bellydancing or doing burlesque because I want to be them? (TW: Blanchard theory mentioned)

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2024/08/12
18:48 UTC

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