/r/R4R30Plus

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Come in & meet people over 30!

Whether you're looking for friends, a partner, buddies, pals or friends with benefits, this is the place. This is a space for Redditors 30 or older to make connections, and maybe meet in real life. This is a safe for work subreddit, so NO NSFW material. You don't have to be 30+ to engage with the community, but you MUST be 30 or older to post. Please check the tagging guide and rules for further information. Be excellent to each other.

r4r30plus - Redditors for Redditors over 30

Whether you're looking for friends, a partner, drinking buddies, or friends with benefits, this is the place on Reddit to find people over age 30 to meet in real life. You don't have to be 30 to be a member, but if you want to post you need to be 30+.


Submission Guidelines When creating a submission please include a TAG in your title AT THE BEGINNING. Examples: 36 [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [T4M], [M4R], [F4R], [T4R], [TF4M], [TF4F], [TM4F], [NB4R].

Example Title: 36 [F4M] Kansas. Just feel like talking.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male

F - Female

T - Transgender

NB - Non Binary

R - Redditor/Anyone

While everyone is welcome, the sub is officially SFW and you need to be 30+ to post, it is not a kink sub and we do not want to be associated with infidelity of any kind so the following submissions are prohibited:

  1. Kink/Fetish/Sexually-explicit language or images
  2. Looking for affairs, Poly or 'ENM' situations that are looking for additional partners, etc
  3. Attached people looking for "flirty" or sex chats, etc.
  4. Ads/Solicitations to join other groups or servers (Kik, Snapchat, Discord, etc.)

POSTERS VIOLATING THE PROHIBITED POST GUIDELINES WILL BE BANNED.



Other r4r subreddits of interest

/r/r4r - Activity Partners, Groups, Dating, Hanging Out, Soulmates, FWBs.

/r/floridar4r - Florida Redditor 4 Redditor!

/r/cf4cf - Child free redditors looking for child free company!

/r/R4OlderWomen - Younger guys (and gals) looking for older women.

/r/Christianr4r - A place for the faithful to find like minded friends and romantic partners.

/r/l4l - Lesbians for Lesbians


Other subreddits of general interest

/r/AskMenOver30/ Asking men for a "Mature" perspective

/r/AmISexy_Over30 - Post a picture and get honest feedback

/r/Trentagenarians - A place for 30 somethings.

/r/40something/ - Redditors in their 40s, 50s and above.

/r/r4r40Plus A place to meet those over 40

/r/R4R30Plus

183,867 Subscribers

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33 [M4F] Texas - Looking for my player 2.

Hello my name is Derrick and I live in Fort Worth. I am 6 foot tall and bigger. Idk if you would call it dad bod.

I am into gaming and anime. I like playing games like Valorant, Overwatch, League, Apex, FF14, and plenty of other games. Always down to play games I haven't played before. I also love when someone wants to watch me play single player games and stream over discord and just hang out.

I enjoy anime although I tend to not watch it very often. I struggle to just sit down and watch stuff alone and would like someone that would enjoy sitting down and watching with me.

I am looking for a girl that wants something serious eventually. You don't have to be in Texas but closer is preferred. At least be in the US. Looks aren't that big of a deal for me but my preference is shorter than me with darker hair. Body type doesn't really matter to me.

Send me a chat or a PM and we can trade pics and possibly start to get to know each other on Discord!

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2024/10/06
03:17 UTC

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35[F4R] Finding Chat and Connections

Have a good weekend! I live in USA and it's a quiet Saturday night, anyone chat? At least let me know your ASL.

2 Comments
2024/10/06
03:17 UTC

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38 [m4f] CO. Let the wind take your troubles away.

Sitting here, finally enjoying some Autumn weather, and really wishing I had some company to share it with. These days, I find myself doing almost everything alone, and I'll admit that it is starting to wear on me. It has been a little while since I had to reset basically my entire life, and now I am in a place where I am ready to start adding people back into the mix.

Mostly, I am looking for friends. I want to have someone I can call to talk about our days and just shoot the breeze. A real connection is a must. I am fine if things eventually move beyond friendship, but it has to start there.

About me: I'm 5'11", brown hair, hazel eyes. I spend a lot of time out in the mountains and that keeps me in pretty good shape. I have a deep interest in the natural world, and that is where I find the most peace. . I love to read, play music (I play multiple instruments), and am an excellent cook.

Feel free to message me if any of this interests you. Tell me what you are reading lately, the last thing you cooked, or what your most recent adventure was.

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2024/10/06
03:05 UTC

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32 [M4F] #New Zealand/Online-Are there any women who are fun, weird or goofy?

I like deep conversations, but I feel lately a lot of the messages I have been getting on reddit are pretty heavy.

I would love to find people who like to have fun, are a bit goofy or like to giggle! There must be some fun people on here right?

I am very accepting of people no matter how they come across.

If we don't share the same interests that is more than okay, I like getting to know people who are not the same as me.

Happy to talk about NSFW things, but I don't want it to be only that.

I am looking for women 22-42ish, I'm open to women from anywhere in the world. Looks/body shape... is not important to me.

Sellers not interested! If you want to talk that's fine, but I'm not buying anything!

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2024/10/06
03:04 UTC

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32 [M4F] Tall Canadian looking for a connection

Hopefully everyone is having a great weekend. It’s a pretty quiet night so far for me. Hoping for some ppl to chat with and make a connection.

I’m really into anything horror related, so excited the fall season is coming up. I love gaming, music ( grew up with emo music) cooking and hiking.

If you wanna chat just send a message! I’m 6”1 if anyone is curious. Open to chatting with anyone. I like plus size/curvy also.

Hope to hear from you!

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2024/10/06
03:02 UTC

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35 [M4F] #Utah - Ready to have some fun! It’s only a DM away!

Hello hello!

Divorced dad here, with a career that keeps me on the move. I'm looking for someone special to connect with online—to talk, flirt, and share some fun moments.

Because I travel frequently for work, I'd love to find a charming travel companion to explore new cities with and create memorable experiences.

A bit about me: I really enjoy my high-pressure, yet rewarding career. 6’1, dad bod, I love movies and I try my best keep things light-hearted—I don't take myself or life too seriously.

About you: You're cute, bubbly, and have a positive outlook on life. An adorable voice is a delightful bonus! Ideally, you're fun-loving, outgoing, and laid-back with little drama (although a little bit is fun). 😂

Let's connect and make some unforgettable memories together! 😈

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2024/10/06
02:41 UTC

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43 [F4M] Great Plains USA, ISO long term online friends

Hi! As the title says, I’m looking for friends to chat with on a consistent basis. I’m seeking only people who want to form a long term friendship and are willing to put in effort to maintain the conversation and friendship. I really enjoy getting to know new people from all over. Age (as long as you’re over 18!!!) or location do not matter to me. Send me a chat if interested.

A little about me:

  • Reserved and introverted but very inquisitive and will ask you a million questions yourself
  • Solo parent to one awesome teenage son
  • Goal Oriented
  • Creative
  • Love seeing comedy shows, seeing live music and theater, especially musicals.
  • Enjoy living a healthy lifestyle, including eating healthfully, keeping fit, and abstaining from drugs and alcohol.
  • Politically liberal and accepting of all lifestyles
  • Non-religious, but consider myself spiritual
  • Not a fan of small talk and much prefer deep, introspective conversations
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2024/10/06
02:41 UTC

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[F4R] vintage friend model, limited time offer

Factory support long discontinued, but still mostly functional.

Key features:

-fluent in sarcasm, probably ventures into "too much" territory at times

-skilled at avoiding negative feelings by making jokes at inappropriate times

-introvert irl but has full digital capability

-soft-hearted, just well hidden

-occasionally a funny person

Offered "as-is." No exchanges. Romantic upgrade not available.

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2024/10/06
02:30 UTC

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32[F4M] Had a bad night and cant sleep looking to chat to help my night get better.

Hello, 32/F Upstate NY here. Just looking to meet people to have enjoyable conversations with as im more of an introvert so online friends i feel is a good start. Single but not currently looking for anything just some friends and good conversations. Little about me: I love horror movies, reading, photography, animals (cats mainly haha but also love dogs),tattoos, walking and i want to travel as much as possible over the next few years. No kids (child free by choice) and never married. I do have 1 fur baby tho-a cat her name is Gizmo. Im also 420 friendly/user i dont care if you dont smoke but at least dont lecture me about it haha.

I know most people like to see who they are chatting with so this is me:

https://imgur.com/a/yY73n58

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2024/10/06
02:30 UTC

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36 [M4F] US looking to get to know someone

Hello, i'm single, currently in Illinois and moving to Texas soon. I don't have kids. I'm interested in getting to know a lady who's single, also in the United States, looking for a relationship that could lead to marriage, doesn't have kids yet but wants them adopting or biological. If you would like to talk, clean conversation. Send me a chat message with your age and which state you're in. I'm open to a long distance relationship, they can work. If we become a couple all other things can be discussed and decided on. I'm a mixed mutt. Some of my interests include nature, fitness, golf and a few other sports, cooking, trying new foods, whiskey, history, vintage items building things and exploring neat local areas. I'm also looking to make new friends who are also single and traveling abroad in a few months

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2024/10/06
02:16 UTC

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34 [M4F] Canada/Online - Looking for someone in a similar place in life

I have too many hobbies. I play card games competitively (magic the gathering is one of them) and fly to tournaments all over North America. I build dumb little models, paint them, and play a war game. I sing and I promise I'm not terrible. I'm an ex MMO player, I've played tons of diablo 2/3/4, and I'm currently playing a few shooters (deadlock) in addition to league of legends/tft/hs: battlegrounds. Sci fi/fantasy are my favourite genres. LOTR, The Expanse, Evangelion, Your Name, and A Silent Voice are close to my heart for movies/series/anime. I'd love to find someone to travel with, I have some places on my list I'd enjoy much more with the right company.

I exercise to keep my mental health in check for the most part, and while lifting kind of sucks I really enjoy boxing and by extension MMA watching. I've been pretty reclusive since the pandemic (I know that was quite awhile ago now) and I spend most of my time inside mostly due to my plethora of indoor interests (But a little bit because of my mild sun allergy).

I wear glasses, have dark blonde hair, blue-green eyes, 5'10" and look young for my age (Mid to late 20s depending on level of facial hair). I'm pale bordering on glow in the dark but how can you blame me if the sun wants to give me a rash all the time? I'm pretty physically active (at least by chronically online nerd standards) so I have that dadbod featuring muscles look. Voice clip for fun: https://voca.ro/1ShbPHVjjoF9

My corporate tech career lets me work from home and outside of meetings I can be available during the day. Nearby is always great but I think I can make most time zones work for the right person. If you're comfortable, I'd like to voice chat early on as I feel text is really lacking in tone/inflection.

If you made it this far tell me your favourite song in your opening message in addition to a few things about yourself/what we have in common. I'll tell you mine and then we can prematurely judge each other. :)

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2024/10/06
02:09 UTC

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30 [M4F] #NH// Online - You have never met someone quite like me. And you never will.

Broadcasting yourself as someone interesting who stands apart from the crowd of neckbeards on Reddit while not coming off as an arrogant tool is a difficult task. I'm not sure if I'm particularly excelling at it with this post, but I'm going to give it a try.

I'm looking for new people to talk to, to have genuine interesting conversation with, to talk games and movies, to trade dog pictures, or just flirt the night away. If you can do all of these, I might just fall in love.

I'm nerdy, flirty, and more than a bit wordy. When I'm not out with my dog exploring nature, I'm probably going on long drives with good music to find a new spot or restaurant. Or maybe I'm at home with a book, a game, a movie marathon.

I work in an Alzheimer's ward so it's basically a rule that you have to be nice to me and keep me company on these long shifts of dementia.

Message me. I'm reasonably sure you won't regret it.

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2024/10/06
02:05 UTC

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38 [M4F] Looking to make a new voice call connection

Hey there,

I’m looking to make a voice chat friend or something more. Someone to look forward to talking to on a voice call every once in a while. I’m a good listener and supportive kind of friend. Would love to just hear about someone else’s life and feel like part of their life a bit.

Looking for someone to just make life a bit lighter with and enjoy each other’s company.

I’m an introvert btw and get along best with other introverts.

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2024/10/06
02:03 UTC

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37 [M4F] Montreal/Canada/USA. Looking for good banter

I try to be to the point with these because when I write a detailed post it gets removed but don't let the few lines fool you, I generally talk more than the post lets on.

That said, the title speaks for itself. Are you a good texter? Have a good sense of humor and don’t take yourself too seriously? Then we’ll we’d probably be a good fit. I’m generally calm and serious but an escape does wonders for the soul.

If you can banter, joke around(light or dark) and looking for a chat partner long term then say hello:)

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2024/10/06
01:59 UTC

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42[m4f] #usa/Texas #Nerdy, but house broken

Let's see... I hate writing things like this and I hate talking about myself. Makes me feel like a bad salesman. How does one talk about themselves without sounding conceited or arrogant? I'll try my best...

I like to think I'm a nice guy. I'm smart, caring, and honest. I tend to be a very logical and detail oriented person. I am shy and introverted when I meet new people, but as time goes on I become comfortable and open up. I have many interests, everything from hiking and fishing to reading and videogames. I enjoy cooking, think I am pretty good at it.

Being separated is difficult, especially when it wasn't your choosing. The loneliness is the worst. For awhile I was hopeful that things would get better. They didn't, they got worse. Now things are moving towards permanence. Good. It's what I've wanted for quite awhile now.

Soon, I'll be a single father. Not really sure what I'm looking for, someone who is smart and nerdy. Someone that is into gaming and anime. Might be into sports and being outdoors, sometimes. Lol Someone that takes care of themselves physically and mentally. I'd prefer if you were in Texas, the USA at a minimum, but it's not necessary.

Well... If I write anything more, there will be nothing to talk about. Hope to hear from you.

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2024/10/06
01:51 UTC

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30 [M4F] #NY looking for a connection

Hey there! I am a 30 year old guy from western New York looking for someone that wants to make an emotional connection, and would like to put efforts into conversations.

A bit about me: I'm 6’1". I get height can be a big deal for some women so I think it's best to just put it out there first 😅 I've got black hair, brownish black eyes. Average body, I'm muscular and wanting to start exercising both for health and a little bit for better shape. I like to think I'm fairly attractive but then most of us grew up with a relative always telling us we were not handsome or cute, etc. we can share pictures once we establish some comfort zone. If education is important, I am a college graduate with post-graduation degree as well.

I have to lead with the fact that I can be pretty sarcastic at times. I also joke and (playfully) tease. I'm pretty easy going/chill and I like to keep things light and fun, but also enjoy getting into the really deep conversations as well. I'm a sucker for the whole good morning and goodnight text thing as well as checking in on those busier days. That doesn’t mean we have to just message good morning and good night for the whole week. Haha. I think most important part of knowing someone via online platform is initial conversations and if you don’t have enough time let me know otherwise that conversation is dead in no time.

I love animals. I've always felt very connected and attached to them and just enjoy interacting with them. While I am more of a dog person pet-wise, cats are still pretty cool in my book. Cats are more complex though I love the mysterious nature.

Anything outdoors is great in my opinion. Just feel like going for a walk? Let's do it. I do kayaking a bit in the summers, fish, hike, go for drives. I have the habit of occasionally stopping and taking pictures of plants and flowers I see around (I'm always down to share!). While sending me message write code - “I5U” so that I know it’s someone who actually read my post. Didn’t write in the end cuz some people might just skip to end. This doesn’t mean that you just send me the code. I am strictly gonna monitor now. I have skimmed through soo many texts and my innocent heart always gives chances, I am gonna try to be little strict this time.

It's not just the outdoors I love. I can also get down with chill days at home binging something on Netflix or playing something on my PC. Let's face it, I'm a bit if a nerd (everyone has something nerd about themselves) and if you like Jurassic park, board games, Any Mafia movies, gaming, etc we will get along great. I'm a sucker for horror movies as well and am always looking for recommendations. I listen to a lot of music. I shouldn’t brag but I listen to english ,german, Spanish, french and Hindi songs.

A bit about (possibly) you: I'd prefer if you were in some sort of professional environment and ambitious. I'm not extremely picky about things like hair and eye color. Height is also not a big deal. If you're alot smaller than me and worried that it's something you’ll be insecure about, it's not. The big thing for me is personality. I think personality can make us a lot more or a lot less attractive. I want someone that is genuinely kind and sweet, someone that likes to laugh, someone that's not afraid to be goofy.

A final note: I'm a single guy and looking for someone dynamic. Sometimes I can respond immediately and sometimes it takes a minute due to the obvious circumstances. I also don't expect you to respond immediately to every message, I get that we all have lives and can be busy at times. It would be awesome if you are up for a voice chat. And please please when responding write something about yourself.

If any if this sounds remotely interesting to you, feel free to reach out via reddit DM or chat!

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2024/10/06
01:50 UTC

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38[m4f] - Looking for meaningless conversation with a chill stranger

Looking for someone to join me for some back and forth conversation to pass the time. Does not have to be specific or meaningful , I am down to talk about whatever. Just bring some good energy. I am always up for making a new friend but if you just want to chat to kill some time thats okay too. I like to keep things positive but don't mind if you just want to vent about life. Anyways you can reach out to me by shooting me a message and telling me a little about yourself and I will happily get back to you as soon as possible

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2024/10/06
01:47 UTC

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39 [M4R] Quiet neuro divergent introvert looking for a partner

18+ only, preferably late-20's and older

Hello there. I was born and raised in southwest Michigan and that's where I currently live. I’m 6ft, 375lbs, I have a beard, I wear glasses, I have brown eyes and brown hair.

I’m very quiet and introverted. I've always felt like I was different than most people, but I didn't really make an effort to find out until this year. I got a referral from my doctor and got diagnosed with adhd, a social disorder, anxiety and depression, which I've recently started treatment for.

I’ve been told I’m sweet and I think that’s true. I think I have a good sense of humor and I'm very laid back and easy to get along with. I’m politically liberal, LGBTQ+ (bi), and into a lot of nerdy stuff. I’m more of a dog person, but I like cats too. I don’t currently have any pets though. I love going to see movies and going out to eat.

I've never really had a career, and I’m currently looking for work. My hobbies include: watching movies/tv/youtube, cooking and baking, watching sports (baseball, football, hockey, NASCAR), Woodworking, camping, going for walks, listening to music and podcasts, writing, doing jigsaw puzzles.

Some of my favorite things in no particular order: The Simpsons, Marvel movies, Godzilla, Horror movies, Stephen King, Muppets, Star Wars, Dolly Parton.

My ideal partner would be single, have a good sense of humor, be kind and conscientious of others.

Like I said above I'm bisexual. I don't have a lot of experience with dating anyone, man or woman, but one thing I have learned is that personality and compatibility are more important than looks to me.

I'm looking for someone I can meet up with eventually if things go well so I'd prefer if you were in the US. Send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself if I seem like someone you could see yourself with.

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2024/10/06
01:46 UTC

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37 [F4R] Pumpkin Spice & Everything Nice

Bourbon and woodsmoke, or cinnamon and toasted marshmallow?

Apple pie or pumpkin?

Plaid or denim?

What’s your fall vibe? Are we talking PSL’s on the way to the library or early mornings with black coffee in a hunting blind?

I’m kind of a small-town French press it at home kinda gal, spill it on my pants on the way to work kinda gal, a pair of slippers in every room of my house and a ceramic pumpkin on the shelf kinda gal.

Currently ensconced in fuzzy pj’s, with some THC and high fantasy, listening to the wind outside while the house hums away in warmth.

Looking for some couch company tonight, while I’m a tick under the weather and combatting it with tea, cats, and cold meds galore.

Come hang for a while -

May your blankets be warm and your pets be fluffy. ✌🏻

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2024/10/06
01:22 UTC

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33 [F4M] want a guy to see me as more than a bro. Looking for online or in person friend or more

Hi I’m 33 divorced of almost 6 years with lots of fur babies. I don’t have any human kids, have my own house, and just want to take care of someone again and have that in return. Men always see me as a bro or side piece and never a SO. Hoping to find someone I vibe with on here.

I’ve been told I’m a 10/10 weird so if that’s your jam PM me. I’m super nice and non judgmental and believe ppl need to be more open minded. I love to laugh so kudos to you if you can make me. I love video games, reading, cars, and building things outta wood. I love working with my hands and keeping busy. But I also don’t mind being home with that special someone just chillen.

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2024/10/06
00:49 UTC

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38[f4f] looking to dip my toe into a flirty fun conversation.

I’m learning more and more about myself as I finally have decided I’m allowed to. With that comes the desire to get outta my head and actually indulge in some fun flirty conversations with women. I’m an introvert to the core. I enjoy reading and listening to books, hanging with my cat, occasionally some friend time, way too much screentime, finding fun coffee drinks at local places, board games, my plants, and am 420 friendly. I’m in the US if that matters, EST for reference.

Looking forward to whatever the universe might bring me from this chaotic post.

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2024/10/06
00:47 UTC

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32 [M4F] Spain/online - Well, there we go again

Life feels like an eternal drift in which I can't seem to find that spark that makes me want to say "Yeah, this feels nice. I want to keep It and cherish It" And almost everytime I try to look for it, a voice inside of me starts reciting a list of my many insecurities, and ends with two words I can never escape from "it's useless" Many times I have tried to ignore this voice, and this is one of such times...At least for now. I don't want to keep giving up halfway through and admit to myself that I don't have what it takes to share a genuine connection with someone. I want to be the person that someone thinks about in both the happiest and the darkest of times, and I want someone for me like that, as well. Will I ever have that? Only time will tell. But not giving up on It it's the first step.

A bit about myself: -1,80m (5'11"), brown short hair, bearded fellow with eyes being mostly brown with a shade of olive green. Broad shoulders, not super fit but slightly toned. Honestly, I just look like the average mediterranean guy lol

-Into music (mostly blues, folk, indie and rock), boxing, videogames (I've played more jrpgs that I'm willing to admit), literature (mostly scifi, with some non fiction every now and then). Not that much of a film/show dude nowadays, but overall I'd say I'm into every piece of media that can deliver a story that hits the spot.

Anyway, if you feel like any of the things I've written on this post speaks to you, why don't you try sending a PM, and see where It leads us? Hopefully, it'll be the start of a great adventure :)

P.S: If you just want to be "playful", well, at least you'll make my day, I guess, I won't discriminate you for that lol

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2024/10/06
00:47 UTC

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38[M4F] Northern NJ- Tattooed and pierced divorced teacher looking for the Morticia to his Gomez

You know the type, obsessed with one another, everyone else thinks we're weird but we don't care because we're living in our own world.

I'm divorced with 2 kids and a pit bull mix 50% of the time. Kind of a package deal so it's a non-negotiable. Currently teaching middle school English so you know I have patience.

I'm getting back in touch with myself and getting back into hobbies that I've put on the back burner for too long. Reading, writing, gaming (mostly board variety but dabbles in the video kind). I'm training for 10k's again, and trying to teach myself to play the guitar (key word trying). I'm always down for a dad joke or a pun (hence the name) and have too many new recipes to try in the kitchen.

I'm 6', brown hair, blue eyes, glasses tattoos all over and a few piercings. Average body type which runs hot when I sleep and is great for cuddles.

You: Someone who takes care of themselves emotionally, mentally, and physically. Somewhat close to NJ and honestly isn't afraid to have the hard conversations. Someone who can dance that fine line between romance and roasting.

IF you think we might gel, send me a bit about you. Where you're from, what you're looking for, and what your favorite piece of clothing is (just to make sure you read all the way through). Talk to you soon!

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2024/10/06
00:41 UTC

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32 [M4F] Florida/USA - Is the person out there who can match my love and intensity for the other person?!

My name is Austin, I'm 32 years old, and I live in Orlando, FL! 🌴

Here is me: https://imgur.com/a/6Uzz1x4 I'm on a quest to find that special someone who makes my heart race. I value creating a safe and supportive emotional space in a relationship, where we can be honest, open, and our true selves. Let's build something wonderful together and have a blast along the way. Whether it's sharing our deepest thoughts or just laughing at silly YouTube videos and memes, I'm all in!

One of my dreams is to have a family and kids. If that's not your thing, no worries – it's not for everyone, and I respect that. 😊

Here's a quick look at what I'm passionate about:

🍳 Cooking: I love experimenting in the kitchen and trying out new recipes. Let's create some culinary masterpieces together!

🎮 Video Games: I'm an avid gamer and can't resist a good gaming session. Whether you're a fellow gamer or just curious, I'd love to share the controller with you.

📺 TV/Anime/Movies: I'm a huge fan of all things on screen, from binge-watching TV series to diving into the captivating worlds of anime and movies.

🏋️‍♂️ Going to the gym or Batting Cages: Staying active is important to me, and I used to play baseball. I'd love a workout buddy or someone to join me at the batting cages.

🐱🐶 Playing with my cat and dog (Licorice and Wade): My furry friends are a big part of my life, and I hope you'll love them as much as I do!

🎺 Playing my trumpet: I've recently picked up my trumpet again from high school, and I'm excited to share some tunes with you. Maybe you can be my number one fan!

🎶 Music: If music could be a love language, it would be mine! I'm a massive music lover and always excited to share playlists and discuss favorite artists. My musical taste is pretty diverse, but I particularly enjoy Rock, Metal, EDM, Punk, and Musicals.

Also side note, I am 420 friendly and am hoping to find someone of similar mindset with it!

If you're looking for a partner who's genuine, caring, and ready for a meaningful and fun relationship, let's chat and see if we click. I'm excited to get to know you, share experiences, and build a future together. Feel free to reach out, and let's start this adventure!

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2024/10/06
00:39 UTC

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36 [m4f] I’ve never seen die hard and other confessions. Spooky artist for dreamy correspondence. I want to be haunted

Dreamy pajamas and tasty coffee. Scary movies and soft puppies

Sometimes I want to read the most miserable books and feel my heart sink to the floor

I went to the video store and I got four movies I’ve never seen and visited the old lady that owns the place and accidentally bopper her on the cheek with my camera.

Would love to talk an adult about dumb things. Nostalgia, Americana, let’s time travel and time warp(the dance is cool too) and reminisce on places we only see in our dreams

Bare with me a moment things going nowhere

troubled waters, these dogs are howling in the distance and my dogs are howling just in front of me and everyone’s afraid of the earthquakes we’ve been getting but it can’t be that bad can it?

I was here in 94 and and saw the freeways collapsed and the balconies smashed and the apartments sinking into the ground.

California dreaming? I have the worst sleep. I take melatonin and I have the weirdest dreams. Always I’m in a bust station or a train station or moving though a casino like an ant on a sugar trail.

Drunk as drunk on turpentine.

But I found out Neruda is a piece of so maybe we don’t quote him tonight.

My dog stepped on a bee and somehow they both lived. Well obviously rhe dog but I managed to get the bee to a hummingbird feeder and he drank up and then flew off.

I’m afraid of those really blue nights I haven’t seen since I was sixteen coming home to an empty place and I’m outside waiting for that blue light to come but I don’t think it’s coming.

Who needs coasts when you’re perfectly adrift?

What’s your favorite scary movie?

I want to be an urban legend. I want to be haunted.

I want to live forever.

My job. I make people feel pretty. And I make things that; with care, can last forever.

Oh the lemon tree. The lemons are green still but so and when the pomegranates are out we’ll make pomegranate lemonade and listen to my favorite song; it’s called

Hopelessly dreamy rainy day vibes with new socks and soft sheets and soft windows and soft sunshine. Wake up to turn out the lights. My fears are soft and so are my knees. These dreams have had their fun with me.

I make art for a living. Dreamy sad moody nostalgic stuff for dreamy people with bad intentions.

I want to feel my heart drop through my stomach. I want to feel something good or bad and I want something to write about. Let me turn you into literature and bad paintings. Let’s take Polaroids and hide them in library books.

Collector of old books and Polaroid photos. Constant reader and dreamer. Following foxes down rabbit holes and making all the worst mistakes.

I want to believe in ghosts but I’ve never seen proof of one. Someone said your hearts as big as your fist.

It’s okay if you’re dead inside.

Let’s be zombies. All braindead and ruled by instinct.

I want to feel something. Tell me the sky is falling. Tell me the world is ending. Tell me something you can say today and never again.

Come in from the rain and trade your wet socks for something new.

I’ll read you old poems and tell you all about that time, The one you dream about

our dreams play games in convincing ways. Sometimes I dream that I’m trapped in a

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2024/10/06
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38 [M4F] #NC - Let's go to every spooky house ever!

Hello and welcome to my little shop! And do I ever have a special for you today! Today's special is a slightly older model called the SideEyeWombat! Here are the stats: 38 M from NC who is looking to help fulfill your spooky dreams!

Do your dreams include finding someone to stay up late with and watch scary movies? Do you want to squeeze his arm while walking through haunted houses? Someone to join your party on that DnD dungeon dive? Someone to play adult Legos with and help you build that new computer desk? This does also include normal Legos as well! How about watching them cook without a shirt on to offer dinner and a show? Are you into that nerdy grunge aesthetic? Would you like to watch them get nice and dirty helping you plant your new spring garden? Would you want to just snuggle up on the couch and take a nap together?

Act now while supplies last!

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2024/10/06
00:04 UTC

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31[F4R] Mexico. I'm looking for online friendship

Hi everyone, lately it's been hard to talk to new people, I'm socially anxious and I have attention deficit (that doesn't help). But leaving that aside I'd love to talk to people close to my age, from anywhere, who like similar things to me. 💖

Let me tell u a lil about me... I'm 31 years old, I'm a woman, I live in Mexico (Tijuana). I studied architecture and work on marketing.

About my tastes, well I love video games (rpgs, some horror and chill games). Right now I'm playing a lot of Starrail, so I can add you as a friend✨. I also really like drawing, especially BL. I like alternative rock music from the early 2000s That's all, if you have free time we'll gladly chat c:

Si hablas español mucho mejor ✨

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2024/10/06
00:04 UTC

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33 [F4M] London, UK, looking for laughter and a meaningful connection

Hi :) I'm looking for a partner where we make each other laugh until we cry and share a supportive and loving relationship.

I work full time in the civil service, I enjoy gaming (mostly open world RPGs and, unfortunately, Dead by Daylight), horror, strange films (the Big Lebowski is my all time favourite film) but most of all enjoy chatting and laughing together and cosy evenings in or having fun together exploring new places or experiences.

Equally, not to sound like a Hinge profile, I am adventurous and open to trying new things. I dabble in skiing, running, have travelled quite widely (I grew up abroad and lived in 4 different countries and speak German, French and Spanish to varying degrees). Would be great if someone could help me get over my fear of heights and do a skydive or something. Get in touch if you're London based and think we might be a good match :) pics in my post on photoshop request, I'm on the right, will also provide more- please also send a pic if you send me a message. Hope to hear from you :)

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2024/10/05
23:48 UTC

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40 [M4F] - California - Are we dancer, or are we human?

Feeling a little bored and lonely lately. Would love to connect, make a new friend and chat or talk on the phone. Long term would be great, you can never have too many memes to trade.

I’m in Southern California, would be great if you are too but not required. Meeting up in the future would be great if you’re up for it. I love going to the movies, theme parks and trying new places to eat. Fancy food or hole in the wall food, as long as it’s good!

Feel free to message me. I can use discord or snap for chat or voice calling! Any good shows to recommend for binging? Or movies?

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2024/10/05
23:47 UTC

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31 [M4F] John's Creek, Georgia. Meh.

I've extremely, rarely been with anybody my whole life. An extremely small amount of people will get near me or even touch me. They'll stand 10ft away with their phone cameras out. People have made me feel horrible all my life just because of my looks. I've been considered a joke to a whole college university and everyone has made me feel bad and try to make me fail because they think I am ugly.

I love to play video games, watch anime and tv, and enjoy peace and quiet when I can. I am a half Asian and half White male. Not very photogenic but can provide a picture of myself.
What I'm looking for:

  • Age: 25-50. Can be flexible, but not too flexible. Race is not a huge deal for me. Some types of people treat me slightly better than others, so I can be a tiny bit picky. Not picky on height either. Weight isn't a big deal either.
  • Personality wise, would prefer an introvert, but not a big deal if not. You don't really need the same interests either.

The only thing I require when it comes to messaging me is a promise to show a real, normal pic of you in the future as well as your city and state. Really only looking for something local at the moment. If you want to show me a group pic, just let me know which one is you. I will, of course, return the favor.
Hope to hear from anybody.

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2024/10/05
23:31 UTC

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