/r/R4R30Plus

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Come in & meet people over 30!

Whether you're looking for friends, a partner, buddies, pals or friends with benefits, this is the place. This is a space for Redditors 30 or older to make connections, and maybe meet in real life. This is a safe for work subreddit, so NO NSFW material. You don't have to be 30+ to engage with the community, but you MUST be 30 or older to post. Please check the tagging guide and rules for further information. Be excellent to each other.

r4r30plus - Redditors for Redditors over 30

Whether you're looking for friends, a partner, drinking buddies, or friends with benefits, this is the place on Reddit to find people over age 30 to meet in real life. You don't have to be 30 to be a member, but if you want to post you need to be 30+.


Submission Guidelines When creating a submission please include a TAG in your title AT THE BEGINNING. Examples: 36 [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [T4M], [M4R], [F4R], [T4R], [TF4M], [TF4F], [TM4F], [NB4R].

Example Title: 36 [F4M] Kansas. Just feel like talking.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male

F - Female

T - Transgender

NB - Non Binary

R - Redditor/Anyone

While everyone is welcome, the sub is officially SFW and you need to be 30+ to post, it is not a kink sub and we do not want to be associated with infidelity of any kind so the following submissions are prohibited:

  1. Kink/Fetish/Sexually-explicit language or images
  2. Looking for affairs, Poly or 'ENM' situations that are looking for additional partners, etc
  3. Attached people looking for "flirty" or sex chats, etc.
  4. Ads/Solicitations to join other groups or servers (Kik, Snapchat, Discord, etc.)

POSTERS VIOLATING THE PROHIBITED POST GUIDELINES WILL BE BANNED.



Other r4r subreddits of interest

/r/r4r - Activity Partners, Groups, Dating, Hanging Out, Soulmates, FWBs.

/r/floridar4r - Florida Redditor 4 Redditor!

/r/cf4cf - Child free redditors looking for child free company!

/r/R4OlderWomen - Younger guys (and gals) looking for older women.

/r/Christianr4r - A place for the faithful to find like minded friends and romantic partners.

/r/l4l - Lesbians for Lesbians


Other subreddits of general interest

/r/AskMenOver30/ Asking men for a "Mature" perspective

/r/AmISexy_Over30 - Post a picture and get honest feedback

/r/Trentagenarians - A place for 30 somethings.

/r/40something/ - Redditors in their 40s, 50s and above.

/r/r4r40Plus A place to meet those over 40

/r/R4R30Plus

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33/US [M4F] Do you think your dad could beat Bigfoot in a fight?

Man, I don't know. Bigfoot can probably fuck us all up, even with dad strength.

Hi, I enjoy pasta, watching my cat sleep, and aimless walks in the woods. Do you listen to music? Do you enjoy eating and drinking to survive? Then damn, we have so much in common. It'd be silly if you didn't message me.

Don't be a silly billy and message me today.

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2024/12/03
05:20 UTC

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35 [M4F] #San Diego - Quadriplegic man seeks affectionate girl for long-term relationship

Let's get this out of the way first(don't want to waste your time)....I'm quadriplegic due to a genetic muscle disorder that causes progressive muscle weakness in every muscle of my body. This includes my cardiac and pulmonary muscles. I also use a power wheelchair so as you can imagine dating is a bit more difficult for me but I have found love on Reddit before so I’m back to find it again!

A LITTLE ABOUT ME: I would definitely call myself an introvert. I'm extremely even-tempered so it takes a lot to piss me off and/or offend me. I'm a good listener and very easy to talk to, I have been described by previous partners as genuine, kind and sweet. In person I can come across as quiet and shy at first but, I just need a little time to get comfortable with someone before I really open up.

----THIS IS ME----

Some things I enjoy....

-Making people smile/laugh

-Watching sports(Padres and Chargers)

-The cringiest of puns d4d jokes

-Standup comedy...Tom Segura, Bill Burr, Bert Kreischer, Andrew Schulz, Bobby Lee, Norm MacDonald, Mark Normand, Dave Chapelle, and many more.

-Collecting Batman memorabilia

-Podcasts like YMH, Tigerbelly, Kill Tony, TYSO, 2 Bears 1 Cave, Bad Friends, etc.

-Music...I mostly like Alternative and Classic Rock but I'm into some pop and open to everything really. Foo Fighters, Wet Leg, Cage The Elephant, RHCP, Queen, The Eagles, AURORA, etc. (Current Obsession is Chappell Roan}

-Going to concerts

-Shows...Currently watching Hacks on Max. all time favorite show is Breaking Bad

-Watching movies like horror, thrillers, sci-fi, comedy, and Super Hero stuff is fun Taskmaster!

ABOUT YOU: I’m looking for my best friend and partner, someone who wants a serious relationship. I want someone who is kind and compassionate, trustworthy and genuine. Someone with a sense of (sometimes dark)humor who can make me laugh and doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Someone who is not afraid to be silly sometimes. As for location, anywhere in the U.S. is fine as long as you are able and willing to visit me. It would be ideal if you could eventually relocate because that is currently not an option for me.

To show me that you’ve read the entire post and are serious please include the word football in your message. If you have any questions regarding my condition please feel free to ask me ANYTHING.

Don’t be put off by my disability, I don’t bite....unless you're into that ;)

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2024/12/03
04:53 UTC

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32[F4M] - #LosAngeles #ktown - vantage points and sorrows

Hey there. It's me again. Had a rough end to my day and don't want to sulk alone. I'm down to play records while we lay on the floor and stare at the ceiling smoking weed and wondering where things went wrong. The strongest candidates are those who like dogs, fuck with drugs, and somehow have an alright head on their shoulders regardless. Treat me and my house with respect and I guarantee we will have an okay friendly rendezvous at the very least, and an impromptu tryst at best.

If you are genuinely interested and have taken the time to read this, please message me in chat with one activity you would like to see facilitated if you were to come over tonight.

Cheers xx

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2024/12/03
04:50 UTC

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34[M4F] #Iowa/online I think I lost Christmas

Good evening from the frosty plains of Iowa! It snowed today, which absolutely made my day—except my street wasn’t plowed, so now it’s basically an ice rink out there.

This year, though, Christmas feels like it’s eluding me. I’ve been searching for that familiar magic, but it seems to be hiding. I’ve got Christmas music on repeat in my car, the tree is up, the decorations are set, and the presents are bought and mostly wrapped. Yet, somehow, the joy just isn’t there. Even Christmas movies don’t feel the same. I love this season, but I feel like I’ve lost my connection to it. Does anyone else feel like this?

I’m looking for someone to share some playful banter, deep conversations, and maybe even a little fun flirting. Let’s talk about anything—your day, your dreams, your fears, your holiday plans, or even your New Year’s resolutions. Show me pictures of your pets, your latest creation in the kitchen, or anything you’re proud of. I’m here for it all.

I’m college-educated, intelligent, compassionate, and loyal. I value kindness and positivity, and I love encouraging others and seeing the good in people.

Music is a big part of my life—classic rock, new wave, and 80s/90s hits are my favorites, but I enjoy branching out into today’s music too. I also love reading, cooking, traveling, playing games, drinking coffee, taking peaceful walks in nature, and savoring the small joys life offers.

If this resonates with you, send me a DM. I’d love to hear from you. Please include your age and location—I’m open to chatting with anyone.

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2024/12/03
04:40 UTC

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34[M4F] #Iowa/online I think I lost Christmas

Good evening from the frosty plains of Iowa! It snowed today, which absolutely made my day—except my street wasn’t plowed, so now it’s basically an ice rink out there.

This year, though, Christmas feels like it’s eluding me. I’ve been searching for that familiar magic, but it seems to be hiding. I’ve got Christmas music on repeat in my car, the tree is up, the decorations are set, and the presents are bought and mostly wrapped. Yet, somehow, the joy just isn’t there. Even Christmas movies don’t feel the same. I love this season, but I feel like I’ve lost my connection to it. Does anyone else feel like this?

I’m looking for someone to share some playful banter, deep conversations, and maybe even a little fun flirting. Let’s talk about anything—your day, your dreams, your fears, your holiday plans, or even your New Year’s resolutions. Show me pictures of your pets, your latest creation in the kitchen, or anything you’re proud of. I’m here for it all.

I’m college-educated, intelligent, compassionate, and loyal. I value kindness and positivity, and I love encouraging others and seeing the good in people.

Music is a big part of my life—classic rock, new wave, and 80s/90s hits are my favorites, but I enjoy branching out into today’s music too. I also love reading, cooking, traveling, playing games, drinking coffee, taking peaceful walks in nature, and savoring the small joys life offers.

If this resonates with you, send me a DM. I’d love to hear from you. Please include your age and location—I’m open to chatting with anyone.

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2024/12/03
04:40 UTC

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45 [M4F] looking for a friend, nothing more, nothing less.

I have way too much free time (hense my username) and I am looking for an online friend to spend time with. Timezone really doesn't matter as I work weird long hours all through the day and I am available 99.9% of the time at work (being the boss has privileges). I am am in mid 40s but I don't act a day over 29, I have twisted sense of humor and I can laugh at anything. I enjoy cooking, traveling, tech, video games, golfing and a good party with friends. Hoping to find someone to get to know, joke, chat and laugh with on the daily. The ideal candidate would be from earth, an adult and hopefully have a sense of humor that knows no boundaries. Look forward to having someone to share some life moments with past and present. So drop me a message, say hi, ask a question?

P.S. I don't want to collaborate with your friend to make OnlyFans videos and please don't start your messages with boob pictures.

Update: Ok my inbox is overloaded, I will get back to you ladies ASAP. Please read my post again, messages that are just pictures I won't respond to.

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2024/12/03
04:34 UTC

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32 [F4M] Let’s watch Hallmark and drink hot chocolate together

As the year draws to a close, I'm eager to connect with someone special. I’m hoping to wrap up the year with a best friend or a boyfriend.

I'm snuggled up enjoying a Hallmark movie right now. Thanks to my Hallmark+ subscription, I have access to an endless supply of Hallmark Christmas films. I can't believe I'm actually confessing this, but here we are!

A bit about me: I'm a 32-year-old woman living in New York City, working in the magazine industry. I enjoy a comfortable lifestyle thanks to my hard work, but I also prioritize having fun and maintaining a vibrant social life. I’m passionate about reading, watching movies, dancing to great music, and attending Broadway shows. I love dressing up and looking my best. I’m looking for someone to share laughter and tears with, and someone who values mutual respect.

I currently prefer to connect with men who reside in the United States, specifically those aged between 32 and 45. This is important. I’m not looking for someone who lives in another country, and yet I get people messaging me from other countries. It’s like, sweetie, can you read?

Now, here’s a crucial point that shouldn’t even need mentioning, but here we are: We’re both adults. If a conversation or voice chat isn’t vibing, let’s be upfront about it. Ghosting is unnecessary, and I promise to communicate the same way with you.

So lets see where this goes.

Please don’t message me if you are married. I don’t care if you are open; it’s something I don’t feel comfortable with.

Please put some info in your first message and your age/sex/location.

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2024/12/03
04:29 UTC

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35 [M4F] #Utah - Looking for something more than online? Let’s talk!

Hey there!

Divorced dad here, with a career that keeps me on the move. I'm looking for someone special to connect with, talk, flirt, and share some fun moments.

Because I travel frequently for work, I'd love to find a charming travel companion to explore new cities with and create memorable experiences.

A bit about me: I really enjoy my high-pressure, yet rewarding career. 6’1, dad bod, I love movies and I try my best keep things light-hearted—I don't take myself or life too seriously.

About you: You're cute, bubbly, and have a positive outlook on life. An adorable voice is a delightful bonus! Ideally, you're fun-loving, outgoing, have “yes, and” energy and of course laid-back with little drama (although a little bit is fun). 😂

Let's connect and make some unforgettable memories together!

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2024/12/03
04:05 UTC

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41[M4F] Vegas - Retired Military

Hello! In Vegas for a week on a work trip. Looking for some new friends to chat with. I enjoy working out, tattoos, video games and fishing. I primarily use Snapchat and kik. Looking forward to chatting with you!

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2024/12/03
04:04 UTC

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34 [F4M] Southern US - Is anyone interested in a phone call? Bonus points for Irish or English accents

I know the accent thing is probably not likely considering I looked up what time it is over there, but worth a shot!

I’m going to be up for a few hours working on a few things at home like cleaning and considering I keep getting distracted by my phone, maybe having someone to help me get off of it would help. Or maybe this is just another subconscious reason to sit on my phone making a post. Who know!

I’m open to talk about anything (PG-13) but politics. I’m not looking for this to turn into something romantic, but I’m also not looking to talk to someone who has a family asleep in the next room. Maybe someone who is a bit bored with day to day life and enjoys having someone to pass time with. I’m super outgoing so I just ask that you’re engaging at the very least. Thanks for reading!

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2024/12/03
03:39 UTC

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31 [M4F] USA/California- Be my girlfriend for a day?

Want to feel loved, wanted, affection, sweet good morning and goodnight messages, to be excited when you get a message, to have deep conversations and be able to talk about anything without judgement and even encouraged to open up? I want to experience all of that too. Maybe we can experience it together. I know a relationship for a day isn’t realistic but it got you to read this far right? Maybe this is how we start talking and make something real

I am easy going and typically have a positive attitude. I like to joke around but I don’t want to take the jokes too far and be serious when it’s necessary. I am more of a homebody but I’m not opposed to going out and being adventurous. I’m a night owl. I also like organization and order so I’m not really the messy type.

I enjoy hanging out with family and friends, working out, watching stuff, video games, podcasts, being in the sun, etc.

If any of this sounds nice to you then shoot me a message! You never know until you try right? Either way, I appreciate you taking the time to read all this and hope you have a great day/life!

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2024/12/03
03:25 UTC

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38[M4F] City Boy seeks Country Girl

So here it goes. I’m kinda country, kinda nerdy, kinda tall and kinda witty :). Just looking to see what’s out there. Love a country girl but options are open :). Corporate guy by day, foodie by night. I’m tall, stocky, love the smaller things and not really sure why I’m posting but it can’t be half as bad as the other apps and sites :). Message me if interested.

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2024/12/03
03:22 UTC

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38 [F4M] SoCal - Seeking Adventure buddy & Meaningful Connection

I’m a tall, plus-sized, ambitious woman who loves road trips, animals, dancing, and laughing until my cheeks hurt. I believe life is about embracing joy and spontaneity, whether it’s singing along to The Lumineers, catching a baseball game, exploring the outdoors, or enjoying a Diet Coke on a lazy afternoon.

I’m finishing my degree in biological education and building a life full of purpose, but what’s missing is someone to share it with. I’m looking for a tall, kindhearted partner who’s ready for something real and meaningful—someone unafraid to put in the effort, even if distance is part of the equation.

If you’re ready to laugh, explore, and create a life full of unforgettable moments, let’s skip the small talk and start our next adventure together.

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2024/12/03
03:20 UTC

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31 [M4F] #NY looking for a connection

Hey there! I am a 31 year old guy from western New York looking for someone that wants to make an emotional connection, and would like to put efforts into conversations.

A bit about me: I'm 6’1". I get height can be a big deal for some women so I think it's best to just put it out there first 😅 I've got black hair, brownish black eyes. Average body, I'm muscular and wanting to start exercising both for health and a little bit for better shape. I like to think I'm fairly attractive but then most of us grew up with a relative always telling us we were not handsome or cute, etc. we can share pictures once we establish some comfort zone. If education is important, I am a college graduate with post-graduation degree as well and currently working as mechanical engineer.

I have to lead with the fact that I can be pretty sarcastic at times. I also joke and (playfully) tease. I'm pretty easy going/chill and I like to keep things light and fun, but also enjoy getting into the really deep conversations as well. I'm a sucker for the whole good morning and goodnight text thing as well as checking in on those busier days. That doesn’t mean we have to just message good morning and good night for the whole week. Haha. I think most important part of knowing someone via online platform is initial conversations and if you don’t have enough time let me know otherwise that conversation is dead in no time.

I love animals. I've always felt very connected and attached to them and just enjoy interacting with them. While I am more of a dog person pet-wise, cats are still pretty cool in my book. Cats are more complex though I love the mysterious nature.

Anything outdoors is great in my opinion. Just feel like going for a walk? Let's do it. I do kayaking a bit in the summers, fish, hike, go for drives. I have the habit of occasionally stopping and taking pictures of plants and flowers I see around (I'm always down to share!). While sending me message write code - “I5U” so that I know it’s someone who actually read my post. Didn’t write in the end cuz some people might just skip to end. This doesn’t mean that you just send me the code. I am strictly gonna monitor now. I have skimmed through soo many texts and my innocent heart always gives chances, I am gonna try to be little strict this time.

It's not just the outdoors I love. I can also get down with chill days at home binging something on Netflix or playing something on my PC. Let's face it, I'm a bit if a nerd (everyone has something nerd about themselves) and if you like Jurassic park, board games, Any Mafia movies, gaming, etc we will get along great. I'm a sucker for horror movies as well and am always looking for recommendations. I listen to a lot of music. I shouldn’t brag but I listen to english ,german, Spanish, french and Hindi songs.

A bit about (possibly) you: I'd prefer if you were in some sort of professional environment and ambitious. I'm not extremely picky about things like hair and eye color. Height is also not a big deal. If you're alot smaller than me and worried that it's something you’ll be insecure about, it's not. The big thing for me is personality. I think personality can make us a lot more or a lot less attractive. I want someone that is genuinely kind and sweet, someone that likes to laugh, someone that's not afraid to be goofy.

A final note: I'm a single guy and looking for someone dynamic. Sometimes I can respond immediately and sometimes it takes a minute due to the obvious circumstances. I also don't expect you to respond immediately to every message, I get that we all have lives and can be busy at times. It would be awesome if you are up for a voice chat. And please please when responding write something about yourself.

If any if this sounds remotely interesting to you, feel free to reach out via reddit DM or chat!

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2024/12/03
03:10 UTC

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42[m4f] #uk/online, struggling to sleep and the alarm goes off in 3 hours. Maybe time to make new friends..

Good Morning from the UK.

Its 3am here right now and i cannot fall asleep and my alarm goes off in 3 hours to get ready for work so what better way to spend this time that to make new friends

I am a 42yo guy who is in the middle of a divorce at this moment in time still feels lost and a little lonely but i am learning to live on my own and rebuild my confidence in myself

I would like to find new female friends to chat with and share this space with me and help me move on with life

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2024/12/03
03:08 UTC

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36 [M4F] TN/Online its hallmark season!

Its meee https://imgur.com/a/C9EM6wt

I'm kind of in the mood to watch a hallmark movie, maybe crush some hot cocoa. Also starting a loaf of bread in the bread maker so would love to chat! It's too chilly out to keep working outside in the darkness.

I'm 36, I moved to TN from WA 2 years ago. I own 2 motorcycles and im s gym rat. I also enjoy casual games and anime when I can fit it in. Super busy and very career driven but I love chatting as often as I can. I am usually an outdoor kinds guy and do a lot of hiking and camping but it's getting too cold to keep doing it. My best friend is a corgi.

You can just be you and im cool with that!

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2024/12/03
02:43 UTC

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33 [M4F] NoVa Tired of dating, just want someone to relax with.

Hey there,

I'm a 33 year old white guy, 5'7", average build. I live in Chantilly and my work schedule has made it difficult (but certianly not impossible!) to meet people or to maintain aquantinces. I'd love to be able to just jump straight into a relationship that feels like it's already 2 years in. I want to just sit around and watch some good movies, eat some good food and just enjoy having someone there with me without pressure from either party to try to impress the other or whatever.

That being said, I do like to go out occasionally. I'm always down to try a new resturaunt or out on fun little dates or day trips when I have the time.

I'm hoping to find someone within an hours travel or less ideally.

Also, full disclosure in case it's a dealbreaker for anyone, I'm divorced with 2 kids that live out of state with their mother.

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2024/12/03
02:23 UTC

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32 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Looking for my soulmate and forever person ❤

Hello! I'm from Dallas, Texas and I'm hoping to find a long term relationship with an amazing woman who is like a best friend and soulmate with whom I can spend time with and enjoy life together with! Please be from Texas so we can actually meet, but for the right person I don't mind long distance as long as its within the United States and we intend on moving.

I'm on the introverted side and a homebody, so spending time indoors is what I prefer, but I'd also like someone who enjoys both and would like to get out more with to explore. I'm into pc gaming, reading, puzzles, movies/shows. Hopefully we share common interests but its fine if not, id also like to learn about your interests or we could pick up new ones together!

If this interests you at all please feel free to DM me and say hello! Look forward to getting to know you and hopefully we can find love! 😁 looking for someone in the age range of 24 - 32.

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2024/12/03
02:10 UTC

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41 [M4F] What do you call a Karen that works in the Library?

Shhhhh-Aaron….😂Hit me with your best joke or pick up line. Looking to make some new friends chat it up and see what’s out there. Musician , former military officer and a filmmaker are just a few things that describe me. Recently got out of the longer term relationship. This new dating world is crazy, and I’m sure you feel the same way too so shoot me a message with your best pick up line or joke see you in the messages!

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2024/12/03
02:08 UTC

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32 [M4F] #Texas- Looking for company on my night off filled with chores, cooking, and gaming

I'm a 32 year old guy from Texas. I'm up during the night most days due to working night shift in law enforcement. I'm single with no kids and I've never been married. I don't really mind if you have kids or anything. I'm mainly just looking for someone to chat with on my night off. If it's a short term platonic chat I don't mind at all. I'm open to more and having a long term thing if things feel right. I don't mind if you're near me or international. I love learning about other cultures and learning new things in general so feel free to teach me cool stuff if you're from somewhere outside of the US.

About me:

As I said before I work nights in law enforcement which makes for a weird schedule. In my free time I've been getting back in to playing games on my PC. Mostly play foxhole and star citizen right now. I've also started playing the Pokémon Trading Card Game on my phone cause that's pretty addicting.

Outside of that i love riding my motorcycle when the weather permits. I usually ride to a quiet bar and read a book on my phone or find a new place to explore. When I feel like staying in I love cooking and binge watching a new show. I usually watch a good drama show or anime. I also love music. I listen to all kinds of music. A jam session on a road trip cures any bad feeling I have.

I am 6'2 with tattoos and glasses. I'm kind of a bigger guy but I'm hitting the gym more to shed some weight and build muscle. The late night gym trips are pretty relaxing. I'm open to exchanging pictures whenever you're comfortable.

If you like anything that you find palatable feel free to message me.

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2024/12/03
01:52 UTC

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32 [M4F] Florida Looking for a new lady to get to know

God damnit. I poured my soul out. Got removed. So, small post.

Im single. I care about people other than myself. I bathe. Im 6'1. I don't have kids. I don't hate kids, that's weird. I do a lot of things. I don't have much in the way of a niche.

Im looking for a friend first. Friend only? That'd be fine, if that's how we end up. But we start. Both single.

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2024/12/03
01:09 UTC

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31 [M4F] California/US - Anyone else want a DINK type of relationship?

I'm from California, and really just looking for someone to talk to, but hoping for a relationship. I'm open to basically anywhere in the US or Europe (which sounds really appealing right about now after our election results) and I don't really have a problem traveling. Which speaking of is something I really want to do with a partner. I spent a month in England and Germany earlier this year going solo, and I definitely felt the loneliness. Ultimately I'm looking forward to retiring early in a few years and just want someone to enjoy life with basically.

Alright physically, I'm 5'6", average weight, hazel eyes, and reluctantly work out a few times a week to counteract my love of pastries. Chocolate chip oatmeal cookies are my go to for baking, but maybe we can have a date and get creative with it. I love to play sports, especially soccer and basketball. Personality-wise, I'm mostly laid back, open minded and tend to be more on the introverted side. Though I still like to make conversation and like to be outgoing if I have company.

My interests are probably pretty typical reddit things like video games, reading sci-fi novels (are you reading anything currently?), binge watching tv shows (just finished Agatha All Along), and trying to discover new music. I'm nerdy about all things computers, love to program, and I also do that for a career. I also like politics, and have been getting into some podcasts lately, so definitely feel free to give me any recommendations. In general though, I like to keep myself informed with what's happening in the world.

Overall I'm looking for someone that wants to get to know me and has similar outlooks on life. As in left-leaning, cares about social issues, and generally tries to be a good person. Preferably not a smoker or alcoholic, but I do love getting drinks and going to sports bars occasionally. I'm also not religious.

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2024/12/03
01:06 UTC

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41[M4F] PNW/US Seeking Player 2

If you like you can be player one. the control is always better.

I'm 41 years old. I am living in the PWN, halfway between Portland and Seattle. I'm a big dude 6'6 and on the heavy side but I'm told I carry it well. I make most people feel tiny around me. I have started working on losing it. A lot of people like hiking in the PWN maybe I should try it. I would say I'm a bit nerdy. I do have a life-size baby Yoda figure. No regrets about buying it. I play mostly PC games. I have been playing Satisfactory lately along with Icurses. I have played OW1/2 D1- 4 Wow, and Hearthstone. I don't play them as much lately. Overall I play a lot of video games.

I love movies and books. It's probably why I sometimes daydream of that Hollywood love story happening to me. I know that isn't how it really works and that a real relationship takes work to make last. but it's a nice thought tho. I haven't been in a relationship in a rather long time. It wasn't something I thought about that often after. But lately, I have been thinking it's a part of life I'm missing. having companionship or someone there to talk about your day whether it's good or bad. Helping each other when you are sick and just want to curl up and watch the old Disney cartoons because you want to be an adult anymore.

I'm hoping to find someone that is kind and funny, who shares some of the same interests I do. That's pretty easygoing and friendly. I can be rather introverted so if you are one to that's cool but if not that's ok. I'm sure there a way to make it work.

Let's chat and see how it goes.

who
PS i don't drink or smoke. no drugs. not even pot. Just wasn't for me.

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2024/12/03
00:59 UTC

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42[M4F] Looking for friends

Making friends as an adult sucks, especially IRL. I guess that's why we are all here. Looking for friends and people to talk too.

I'm 42, in eastern Canada and married. Not looking to change anyone's situation. Just being open and honest. I like to joke around. I'm fluent in sarcasm and dad jokes. I like witty banter that flows easily. I'm a sports fan. I enjoy gaming. I love to cook. I love Christmas and am looking forward to the holidays. I have pets and will share pics of them with you.

That's it. Short and sweet. The only thing I ask from you is your human and can talk in more than one word sentences and emojis.

If you'd like to chat and get to know one another send me a message and hopefully we click.

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2024/12/03
00:38 UTC

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36 [M4F] looking for chat buddy possibly more…

36 Single Dad Hispanic 6’ Short black hair, brown eyes, tattoos, no piercings.

Hey there! Giving this another try. I’m a hardworking guy (some might say a workaholic), but I always make time for the right person. Outside of work, I enjoy the simple things in life—hanging out at home with my son and pup, binge-watching TV shows, playing board games, or battling it out on some video games.

I also love cooking, though I might just be the messiest chef ever but don’t worry, I always clean up after myself!

I’m looking for someone to chat with and see if we vibe. If you’re interested, tell me a little about yourself and share your current top 3 songs. let’s see if we’re on the same wavelength!

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2024/12/03
00:31 UTC

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39[M4F] East Coast/Anywhere - Quiet night at home, and would love great company!

Here is a little about me so you have a better idea who I am. During the weekdays, I’m dedicated professional from Eastern Canada. Physically I’m medium build, quite fit, 6’1”, blue eyes and brown hair. Enjoy working out! I’m really looking forward to meeting someone, who has plenty lf substance and can carry a conversation.Things I enjoy outside of work are boating, travelling, reading, working out and going out with friends. I speak 2 languages, can you guess which ones? Thank you for reading my post and looking forward to hearing from you, we both don’t have anything to lose in trying to achieve that connection!

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2024/12/03
00:24 UTC

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35[M4F]. Online. Looking for someone to chat with! Casual!

DM or send a personal message. I’m into surfing, skiing, great books, and tequilaaa! The drink, not the song.

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2024/12/03
00:14 UTC

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32[F4M] - online - looking for someone to talk to throughout the day

Hello, I live alone in a capital city in central Europe and I am looking to get to know someone who is preferably a native english speaker. I do have an accent! As far as my interests go, I'm into painting, learning, cooking, media, hiking, culture and volunteering. It is okay if we don't share the same interests as I believe that doesn't determine the quality of the conversation anyways, mindset is more important. I spend quite a lot of time at home since I struggle with my mental health, however, I'm constantly working on improving myself and in my experience talking to people from other countries is so helpful to broaden perspective and is always a good time. We can chat but I do prefer phone calls. I like to talk about whatever, just going with the flow of the conversation. If you are open to possibly becoming friends, or maybe even a future contact for your upcoming travels to Europe, feel free to send me a chat invite here on reddit! :)

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2024/12/03
00:07 UTC

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34 [M4F] US East Coast/Online Looking for holiday rom com magic

Hey there!

It's cold outside, but after walking around the city and looking at all the Christmas trees and maybe watching a few too many bad Xmas Rom Coms, I was inspired to post. I have lurked on this sub for a while, and I have greatly enjoyed reading about so many intriguing and lovely people looking for a connection.

I enjoy my work and tend to do well for myself, but my career isn't what defines me, so I won't bore you with what I do. Instead, I'll tell you a little bit about my story and who I am now, and what I am seeking here. If it resonates with you, send me a message telling me about you and what you're seeking.

About me:

  • I live on my own with my 5 yr old Jack Russel
  • I am currently finishing up a 3 year grad school program and I can't wait to have my life back
  • I am a morning person, so I'm in bed by 11 most days and up by 6 (I don't expect this from a partner :))
  • I have lived outside the US for almost a decade, only returning a year ago
  • I enjoy cooking, but I enjoy eating more (Ethiopian, Indian are my current faves)
  • I read a lot of non-fiction, but watch some really crappy shows to balance it out
  • I spend most of my weekends out and about hiking or traveling
  • I am tall and have a fit build
  • I was born in South America but spent my formative years in the States

What I'm looking for:

  • a strong communicator, someone who knows what they want out of life and is comfortable as an individual
  • a kind and generous person who is thoughtful and considerate
  • someone who is passionate about what they do - doesn't matter what it is
  • someone who enjoys travel, is outgoing, and enjoys new experiences
  • someone who isn't held back by previous relationship drama and lives in the moment; someone who is ready for a long term relationship
  • someone who is curious and can teach me new things
  • someone who enjoys sports and being active (I participate in a good amount of adult sport leagues)

I am happy to share more! Figured this a good starting point. Also, happy to exchange pics. If we got it off, it would be great to meet in person. I would prefer the US, but I am open to travel (esp Europe). In any case, thanks for reading and I hope you have a great holiday season!

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2024/12/03
00:02 UTC

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33 [M4F] #Georgia Let’s make it our last first date

Hey you! Are you single? Ready to have fun? And ready to have our last, first date? If so, let’s get to know each other!

I’m a single guy living in the peachy state. Coffee drinker, enjoyer of great food, amazing communicator, book reader, and dog dad are some of things to describe me. But I’m definitely more than that! Care to come find out?

If you’re also single, emotionally available, and ready to start something great! Send a chat or a dm so we can get to know each other.

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2024/12/02
23:47 UTC

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