Single, introverted goofball looking for some folks to chat with here and there. Sometimes I can message during the day, sometimes not so much. That’s just kind of how it goes as life tends to get in the way. I’m sure you get it. Often, I can be found looking for conversation in the wee hours of the night as that is finally when things slow down and honestly, I have trouble sleeping. Working on that though.

While I’m not as new to this online chat thing as I was a year ago. I’m still not as well versed as most out here in the wild west of the interwebs. So if you reply give a girl some indication that you are real and want to have a conversation.

One of the things that I have learned is that ghosting is a very real and ever-present reality of this platform. For that reason, I’m not into trading pics until we’ve gotten to know each other a bit. I also really like the idea of getting to know you as a man and you getting to know me, before all that comes into play. I’m plus size and have been working on establishing a healthier way of life over the last few years. But I’ll always have these curves.

I love music and enjoy reading when I can find the time. I have certain shows and types of movies that I go for. But I don’t watch as much as I used to, just don’t have the time these days. I’m very much an adventure and comedy girl over drama and horror.

While I’m looking for a connection with a nonjudgmental single guy around my age to chat with, I don’t know where I want that to lead. So, I’m keeping an open mind for now. But will say for the time being it’s an online only deal. I’m not interested in anything in person as I just don’t have time for it. Doesn’t mean I won’t make the time if I meet the right guy. So, friends or friends plus, I’m open to the fun and flirty and serious alike.

What I’d love to do is continue to learn and grow as a person through building great and hopefully long-term friendships. I’m not going to click with everyone that replies and that’s okay. I will try to reply to anyone who sends me a message. I might not get back to you right away, but I will eventually if you’re patient with me. And if we don’t mesh, we learned something about ourselves that we can take to our next interaction with others.

I am currently looking for a new fiends , a constant na i can talk whenever i have rants in life. Nakakasawa na kasi yung alone ang atake.

Looking dun sa willing mag stay.

About Me : Chinita Jolly kasama huyy

About you : 29 and up Gentle I dont care kng wla kang car , basta pde ka maging constant

HMU! Using your ASL and best Intro lapag go!

Hey! Looking for a new connection who's up for anything, from deep conversations about life and the universe to light-hearted banter and playful debates. I’m someone who enjoys the company of people with a sharp wit, a good sense of humor, and a dash of mischief.

If you like talking about the latest Netflix binge-worthy series, comparing notes on the best street food, or sharing travel stories, we might just hit it off. I'm all about spontaneous chats that can go from zero to hilarious in a matter of minutes. No pressure, just good vibes and good times.

I also love diving into intriguing topics, so if you have some weird facts or hidden talents, I’m all ears. Let's skip the small talk and get to the fun stuff—like swapping stories or making each other laugh until our stomachs hurt.

If you think we’d make great chat buddies, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m excited to meet someone who can keep up with the energy and isn’t afraid to let loose. Let's make our conversations unforgettable!

Looking for an online connection that will distract from the monotony of the day to day.

Looking to chat, banter, flirt, vent and have a good time

Keeping this anonymous at first until maybe there’s a mutual comfort to move it ahead, but if it stays online that’s cool too

Me: 36, white, single, lives in Canada Open minded, opinionated and curious. Likes include; sports, WWE, Netflix, cooking, family Time

You: 18+, easy going, not pushy or ignorant.

Mild to wild welcomed

Let me me know if you think we could vibe

See you in my DMs,

-J

Transplanted New Yorker in Florida, Latino, separated, 5'8 with a dad bod (working on losing it) shaved head, beard, left-leaning, agnostic, dog dad, 80s/90s geek, foodie, 420 friendly, eclectic music taste.

Love having stimulating convo on a variety of topics; movies, politics, current events, sports, traveling, etc. I'm cool with exchanging pics early.

What am I looking for? I'm single for the first time in a decade, so nothing serious. Whatever happens happens. Please be in or around Orlando or NYC, unless there's mutual willingness to travel for a connection. If you're young enough to be my daughter, don't bother.

Hey all! First thing’s first…here are a few more pictures of me (other than my sultry little Reddit profile pic): https://imgur.com/a/rBsRIy3

About me: I’m 48 which I know sounds really old, but I don’t feel old, and I don’t think I act old. I’m short, 5’0”, so just about everyone is a giant to me. I think I’m an ambivert. I’m a huge nerd. I love Harry Potter, LOTR, Hamilton the Musical, British programming, British accents, and reading. I have a 19 year old son that I adore. I live in Louisiana but I don’t think I fit the typical Southern stereotype. I don’t have an accent and I’m not conservative or Christian. I love cold weather…and that doesn’t happen often here. I believe in kindness and that there’s not enough of it in this world. I try to be a positive person for the most part. I find negativity exhausting but I understand that we all have bad days. When I’m in a relationship, that person is my priority. If I don’t feel like I’m important to my partner, I get discouraged. I want someone who will actually make time for me. Not just at the beginning of things, but years down the line as well. It’s humiliating when you find yourself begging the person you love to find just a few minutes a day to spend with you. I think I love too big, but I’m hoping someone out there will love that about me. I am recently out of an almost three year relationship. I’m still processing and healing from this, so anything that starts here would need to be with the understanding that we start as friends.

What I’m looking for: someone between the ages of 35 and 45 (I don’t typically date people older than me because we don’t usually have much in common), someone attractive (because let’s be honest, physical attraction is important), someone fit (I don’t need a low body fat percentage but I know I’m not attracted to seriously overweight people), someone who will respect boundaries, someone kind, and someone with a good sense of humor. I’d like this person to match my energy and effort.

If you decide to reach out, please keep it clean and please include a picture of your face. It’s also really nice when someone actually puts effort into a first message.

I’m sure there’s a lot that I’m leaving out, so if you have questions, or just want to say hi, feel free to reach out.

Thanks for reading!

Hello! I'm Fredrik, and welcome to my post! ^^

As I'm an introvert by heart with introvert hobbies it's not been too easy to find women to connect with, so I'm trying my luck here. Perhaps I find someone in similar boat, who knows? ^^
I've previously not had the best experiences with relationships, so I hope it can finally change soon.

I have a lot of music, games, thoughts, laughs, and all sorts of other things I wish to share.
If I take from you then I've failed, I wish to be a giver, that makes me happy. ^^

I'm seeking someone which are loving, loyal, and someone which would want to spend time with me. Ideally you'd share similar interests to me, but I dont mind expanding my world either. I dont mind if you have baggage, as we all do. Just be yourself!

Focus of my life is to live the way that makes me the happiest, and I'm starting to put the pieces together for that, I'd love to share this part of me with someone and create the happiest life that is possible!
Reflection is important for me, so I know who I am, and I'm not very stressed in everyday life.

If you live far away I hope we can visit eachother 1-2 times a year.

My hobbies include

• Gaming (PC, Playstation and Switch) I play all sorts of games so if you happen to be a gamer I'm sure we'll find common ground.
• I draw pixel art (started in 2020). I have a creative side which wants to get out so I've tried to find what works and pixel art was an outlet for me.
• I cycle often, and like to go on bike trips in the summer.
• I watch movies / TV shows / anime of all kinds! my favorite genre is dark fantasy.

Part of me wants to be out in nature more, so hiking, fishing trips, camping etc is definitely possibilities in the future!

Favorite video games: Planescape: Torment, Elden Ring, Evil Islands. (I have a soft spot for MMOs also ^^)
Favorite movies: Inception, Batman: The Dark Knight, Wall-E.
Favorite TV shows: Game of Thrones (season 1-6), Band of Brothers, South Park.
Favorite Animes: Attack on Titan, Vinland Saga, Steins;Gate.

For appearance:

• 189cm(6'2") tall
• Brown hair
• Green/blue eyes
• Slightly overweight.

https://imgur.com/a/pS4plce

Feel free to ask me anything! Hope to hear from you. ^^

Hey.

I'm 39 and live in sunny Qld, Australia. Looking for people from the states or Canada, planing on visiting you guys next year. So I'm looking for something along the lines of serious/LDR. I'm not bothered by age, race, or if you have kids, just as long as you're a cool girl that's all that matters to me.

Here is a small snippet about me:

I have been to Japan 3 times (soon to be 4) and Canada.

I love to watch movies of all kinds

Listening to music, I recently bought a record player and have slowly started to build up a record collection.

I'll be looking into getting a betta fish (love the colours they come in).

I love gaming on my switch, I play most games like animal crossing, binding of Issac and Mario kart etc..

I collect Lego, but have slowed down due to lack of space (and expensive AF)

I enjoy going to the markets on a Sunday for breakfast and walks around the city.

If any of this interests you, send me a chat :)

I am somebody who loves physical displays of affection, both public and otherwise, so I want to be with someone who feels the same way. I believe that hugging and/or cuddling the one you love is one of the greatest feelings there is. Gestures like holding, hugging, etc, are something I absolutely adore and would always welcome, especially because I love the excitement and warm feeling that comes with being close to the one you love.

I want somebody who I can feel relaxed around; I hate the stress of being around someone who gets set off by the smallest thing. That is no way to live. My sense of humour is varied, although it can best be described as akin to that of Chandler Bing; the majority of the funniest lines in Friends came from Chandler, and he was the heart and soul of that show.

When my girlfriend, a term I prefer because it feels more personal, and I are together, my ideal night would involve spending our time together at home, curled up on the sofa, perhaps watching a film, or playing a game. I’m not against the occasional day/night out if it’s just the two of us, though. I watch almost nothing in the way of current television or films; I don’t even have a TV. And I watch little in the way of sport.

If we’re apart, as I presume would be the case in the early days of our relationship, then I would enjoy doing something together online, either playing a game together, or watching each other game. We can also watch something that could bring us close together, whatever that may be.

I want the relationship that goes the distance, the one that results in love and, when the time is right, the ‘m word’. I can’t think of anything I look forward to more than spending my life with the woman I love.

I’m a vegetarian, though I don’t mind being around meat eaters as long as they are respectful of how I feel. I don’t drink and, while I’m okay being with someone who does, it won’t work if you’re a person who drinks frequently. I’m non-religious and non-spiritual, and this will never change, and my views are generally what you’d call progressive and liberal. Disparate views are one thing, but if you use terms like ‘PC/PC culture’, ‘liberal’ or ‘woke’ as pejoratives, we will absolutely not get along. In addition, I do not smoke and will not be with a smoker.

I’m okay with either private messaging or Reddit chat, and I’d like to move off Reddit once we both feel comfortable doing so. Once we’ve moved to a different platform, exchanging pictures is then also something that would be done once we’re both comfortable, as would voice and video chat, especially because the best way to really get to know someone is through real-time communication.

Your opening message doesn’t have to be that long, just give me something to work with, something that can spark conversation. If you have any questions, queries, posers, then feel free to ask.

I’m in the UK, so I am primarily interested in someone who is also in the UK, as it would make things convenient for the both of us, and it would also make meeting up easier, and I would want to meet up if things progress well. However, I am open to talking to people who are overseas,but only if you’re moving to the UK in the near future, and that the move is, if not set in stone, then is at least guaranteed to happen. If these conditions are not meant, I ask that you don’t waste my time or yours; I can’t do a long-term LDR. Be aware that, for medical reasons, I am unable to travel overseas.

Never be afraid to ask for help.

Hi! I’m Simon, a 33 year old Brit from the south of England looking for something that will stick. Your location/race/religion/culture can be anything/anywhere - I’m open :)

I’m 5’10 (178cm) and average build

I work in the marine industry, and have done for 15 years - I spend half my life on the water, and love it. I live alone with my 2 cats - yes, you can ask for cat pics!

Also into sci-fi movies/TV, and a bit of gaming now and then too, so I’d consider myself a bit of a nerd. Somebody once told me I’d class as an ISFJ personality, if that means anything to you.

I’m into the outdoors, I love doing stuff in the garden, or heading to the beach, but I am also just as happy chilling on the couch watching movies, or my guilty pleasure, Below Deck😅. But I’d also class myself as slightly introverted - unless I know you, then it’s the opposite.

Thanks for reading my short description! If anything has caught your attention, drop me a chat invite and let’s see where it goes :). Happy to exchange selfies early on too as it’s always nice to see who you’re talking to.

Anyone from Illinois? Looking to build friendships and share some thoughts throughout the day. My schedule is usually busy but I thought I’d give this a try. Daily conversations are great, let’s see how this works out

Hey there,

I’m 32, an Aries (for those who find meaning in the stars), and just an ordinary guy with some extraordinary dreams. My life is driven by a passion for helping others heal, grow, and find purpose. Thought I’d take a chance here and see if there are others looking for meaningful connections that go beyond the surface… maybe friendship, maybe something more if it feels right.

I’ve spent years on a journey of self-discovery through mindfulness, meditation, and personal growth, working to live authentically. Friends tell me I have a knack for listening and making others feel comfortable enough to open up, and that’s something I genuinely value. I love deep conversations, the kind where we both leave feeling a bit lighter and more connected.

When it comes to connecting, I’m hoping to meet people who value maturity, openness, and emotional intelligence. I’m looking for connections that feel real, where we can share life’s ups and downs without judgment and grow together. I’m open to letting things unfold naturally and, if there’s chemistry, who knows?

As a preference, I’d love to connect with someone around my age or older. If this speaks to you, drop a comment or reach out. Let’s see where the conversation takes us!

Looking forward to what might come next. ✌🏽

Hello, I’m a night shift worker and I’m bored. Who is online and bored? I like to chat about different topics, food, travel and ideas.

Hi there,  

I (37F) am hunting for that one person who will be there for whatever life will throw at us. Someone to be open, honest and venerable with. For the same in return. A partnership, not a merger. would love you to have your own interests and passions. I am non-smoking, drug free and only drink on occasion. I am retuning to physical fitness after a decade of illness. I would decribe my physical self as a gently curvy size 14.  

I am happy to start long distance with hopes to close the distance in the not-so-distant future.  I am currently in Tas but will be moving to SA within a year.  
  
My interests include video games, 3D artistry, animation, photography, visual effects, as well as animals, gardening and exploring nature. Although I have traveled almost every state nationally, I have never left the country but Europe, Canada, and many other locations are calling, begging to be explored.  
  
You must have great conversational skills, and an urge to find a life partner. Prefer someone working, and stable. Please provide a short introduction of yourself with your first message.  

I look forward to hearing from you. 

Finished off a big week of teaching and various other bits of work. Glad to have that done and dusted, just back from a couple of drinks with my mates and now to relax. I was hoping to fall asleep pretty much straight away but I feel my mind has been a little too active this week meaning I can’t quite get to sleep yet.

I’m happy to chat and get to know someone as I’m always happy for company. Feel free to ask me any questions about university life. However if not, I do have interests in travelling, sports (watching and competing), reading, and a little bit of gaming.

Basically what the title says. Looki for positive peoples to lean on for support. Have been working on keeping sanity while dealing with life sober. 100+ days in. Just started a new job but still working to get out of the hole financially after being laid off months ago. Also dealing with depression and anxiety. Trying really really hard to stay positive. But it doesn’t really help that I stay with obscenely controlling landlords who don’t share my space but stay on the property. Just going through a lot with no emotional support.

Currently watching DCC: Making the team. Trying to get back into reading books, big on sci-fi. Also love playing Animal crossing new horizons but don’t have money for online play atm so I can’t visit your island, yet. But maybe one day. Thanks for reading, take care.

35 [M4F] Los Angeles - Looking for someone to talk things geeky with

I'm missing an element in my life. I know I'm bad at conversations, but I'm hoping to meet someone who doesn't mind that. I miss talking with someone and have long conversations with. There's a lot I want to talk about and no one to share those things with. Likewise, I want to hear someone talk and share things back with me. On my mind a lot right now is the anime Dandadan, which I'm sure everyone is watching, but it's so good. I have no one to talk about it with. I want to talk about other anime, maybe talk about the video game we are playing, or a movie that you saw and can't get out of your head. Or anything really.

I'd like something like that with someone. It's been a long time. I have a lot of interests like comics, Star Wars (Yes even the new stuff), classic horror stuff (but I generally like all genre of movies as I collect them), board games, and that's all I can think about at the moment.

Anyone is welcome to talk to me. I have adhd and a few other things. But if you have something similar maybe we can help each other with conversations too. I am usually shy at first, at least in person. I am a bit excited to talk right now though. Not sure what else I can say. We can discover more as we talk. Prefer someone close, but open if you think we could really get along and see where things go.

Looking for a friend, someone forever or anything really. Hope everyone has a good day. Always looking while this is up.

I woke up this morning in the mood to talk to some new people. Given that I live in the Japanese countryside, my current options are:

1. the crows flying around the persimmon tree outside
2. the cats eyeing the crows
3. the old ladies feeding the cats (they are sweethearts)
4. some koi fish (just want me for my food)

All great options, but here I am! lol

I'm originally from the US, but I've lived in the west of Japan working in tech for a few years now. I'll be starting a new job this week that will help to cap off an... interesting year. Ask me about it (the job) if you want to start that hot, hot nerd talk.

I'm 179cm, 85kg, brown hair and eyes. Mom says I’m the most handsome guy around, so take that everyone else.

My hobbies include working out (that's where I got my 85kg), studying, traveling around my local area, outdoors stuff like mountain climbing and the beach, music (singing and instruments), tech stuff, hot springs.

I also enjoy reading, especially poetry. I'm also looking to get back into salsa/bachata.

I'd like to talk to a cool, down-to-earth girl. Someone who takes care of themselves and enjoys the life they lead. If we vibe and that leads to something more, that would be great. If not, no worries at all; I’m not the pressuring kind.

It would be great if we could exchange pictures, as it's always good to have a face to match the name.

Feel free to shoot me a message if interested!

Anyone want to chat? 7am is awfully far away and I only have so much coffee. We can talk about weekend plans and pretend work isn't slowly making us all miserable.

Having a relaxing night and just want to chat with someone and see if we hit it off.. I know this is Reddit and not the best place for dating but why not.. just wanting to see if I click with someone and bonus points if you can make me laugh! message me and let’s see if we vibe :-)

A little bit about me.. I like to read..I also enjoy coffee too much and can drink it any time in the day. I’m a huge romantic so if you’re looking for a quick fling that’s not me. I also like to have a real conversation and not just chat whenever.. so I’m hoping to find someone that wants to put in the effort so the convos not just one sided :-) I dream of traveling but never really get to do much of it. I love rainy days and just being cozy on the couch or in bed watching my favorite movies. I’m kind of an introvert but I would love to explore new places with the right person x Also, if you have a pic that would be amazing so I know who I’m talking to :-)

I’ll be moving to the UK this winter for a career advancement opportunity and a very new chapter in my life. Im very ready to feel a real connection and the magic that might strike!

Me: tall, bald, heavy weightlifter, tatted, very very single. Im a MAN’s man and very comfortable in that. Im very openminded in life and always down for new experiences. I take pride in my life, my career and my body. Ive one child who’s off to university now.

You: mature of mind, lover of life, been through some fires. Im open to all body types but big girls have a special place in my heart. I prefer a single parent. Open to date in due time.

Im very eager to see what the UK holds for me, and maybe you.

Pics available in chat

I just moved to Colorado last year for work. I really don’t have any friends or family in state, but I’m hoping I could find someone to connect with here.

Favorite artists and bands: Type O Negative, Mastodon, Opeth, Venom, Electric Wizard, Uncle Acid and the Deadbeats, Deftones. Summoning, and At The Gates.

Music is my life. I love playing guitar after a long day. I know the basics of most instruments, and have been trying to work on my piano skills lately. I'm classically trained and playing for about 19 years now. I love going to concerts whenever I'm able to get the chance.

No tattoos, but I have 3 piercings. Also long (shoulder length) black hair. I have a full time job plus 2 small side jobs. Fortunately the side jobs are fun and don’t make me feel overwhelmed.

I love the outdoors, and now that I’m in Colorado, I’ve been taking advantage of that. I love hiking and mountain biking and do both extremely often.

Favorite hobbies include board game nights with friends, going to car shows, reading, sitting by the lake and listening to music, and drawing/painting on my tablet.

Love going to trivia nights with friends. I usually go once or twice a week.

I am definitely a dog person, although I don't currently have one (looking to change that soon).

I will totally make you a playlist of songs to share with you on Spotify, and you'll know I really like you if I suggest that we make a shared one.

If I caught your attention, shoot me a message. Your pic gets mine

Wide awake here and can't seem to be able to sleep. Not sure if that's gonna happen anytime soon.

So here I am on Reddit to hopefully find someone to talk to so l can pass the time till my sleepiness sets in.

Open to talk to anyone. Just have a good sense of humor and we can figure out the rest.

Ask me anything you want.

Hope to hear from you

Hey! I thought I would give this another try. Maybe there is someone here who is looking for the same thing and has some similar interests. I am looking for good conversation, someone who shares some similar interests and hopefully is looking for a relationship.

A little about me:

I am definitely a mix of outdoorsy and nerdy. For my outdoors side, I like to hike, camp, hunt, golf and do anything that deals with the water. I also like skiing, but not much of a snowboarder. For my nerdy side, I like to play games on PC and PS5. I have a ton of games also. I also enjoy cooking, trying new bars and restaurants, traveling, puzzles, reading and love watching movies.

Laid back and sweet, I have a good sense of humor. Being a handy guy, I enjoy projects, and can fix almost anything. For looks, I am 5'7, 140lbs, fit, with brown hair and green eyes. I also have a good job.

What am I looking for:

I'm searching for an incredible woman to build a life with. Ideally, she is someone to share breakfast or brunch, spend holidays, travel, and cuddle up on the couch for movies. A sweet and kind personality with a good sense of humor is crucial. While age isn't a deal breaker, I value emotional connection over physical attributes, although I do want you to be physically active, take care of yourself, and live in the US.

If you have made it this far, I would love to hear about you.

Excited to get to know you!

Would anybody out there disagree to a little chat or two?

I'm trying to rehab my social muscles, and get better at listening to people. I have ADHD, and with that, comes bad habits- like trying to maintain eye contact at the expense of actually listening, or trying to resist going off on tangents, which then redirects my focus off the actual conversation and before I know it, I'm in the dark playing catch-up, and trying to survive the conversation rather than enjoying it.

I hear, the only way to break 'em, is to have lots and LOTS of quality practice.

So! If talking and getting to know people is your idea of fun, I'm your guy. You like being asked lots of questions about you? Ay, that's me. ...Also though, I'm looking for some reciprocal conversation- so you gotta put in some work too. I'm not lookin' for *that* kind of a challenge- I think we'd all rather flog ourselves then be subjected to one-sided conversations: There's less pain involved in the latter. If you know, you know, lol.

You may be wondering why it's M4F rather than M4R, and that's because it's easier for me to talk to women, rather than men- when it's online at least. In person it's very much the reverse. Go figure, lol.

So I know this sounds transactional, and it is. At the same time, my goal is to see the human in front of me for who they are, and hopefully have some fun in the process. I hope that's okay with you.

Also, I'm intentionally leaving my interests, and hobbies etc. out so we can explore those things in conversation. It's not like real people walk around with their passions on a nametag, so I figure it's better that way.. Train real, fight real, amirite?

TTYS!

Hello Fellow Redditors,

I’m a 31-year-old guy, relocated to Austin, and trying to find someone special who vibes with me. I work remotely, so meeting people organically has been a challenge, but I’m hoping this post changes that. I’m all about building a genuine connection, whether that’s over a great conversation or sharing unique experiences.

Here’s what I’m looking for: I’d love to take you out to a brewery or dinner first and really get to know each other. I’m a bit picky, and it’s important that we vibe—chemistry is key! I’m not just looking for someone to fill time with, I want to share thoughtful and meaningful conversations. If you can keep up and enjoy intellectually stimulating talks, that’s a huge plus in my book.

A few things about me:

•	I’m into traveling, live music (Bluses/rock/metal), racquet sports, and Netflix binges (especially true crime).
•	Big fan of poetry, College football and sports in general.
•	Love both spontaneous adventures and quiet, cuddly nights in.
•	I hold family and relationships close.

I’m not putting a bracket on race, ethnicity, or age (as long as it’s legal, of course). But please maintain good hygiene, be easygoing, and open to deeper conversations. Oh, and if cuddling is your thing—hit me up!

If any of this resonates with you, let’s start with some good conversation and see where it goes!

Tired of not having anyone to talk to and would really like to spice things up. Single Nerdy guy with a dad bod. I’m into most music but it’s been rap and metal heavy lately. Horror Movies are my peanut butter and jam. I’ll leave the rest for us to talk about I can’t wait to hear from ya :)

Hi there! Happy Friday!

A little about me: I’m 33, 5’5”, plus-size, single, and DDF. I’m passionate about my career, educated, and a blend of respectful, witty, and open-minded. Travel is one of my big loves, and I’ve got a list of destinations—my latest trips took me to Turkey and Mexico. I’m also all about music, live events, good books, arts, food, and jumping into new adventures.

Who I’m hoping to meet: Ideally, someone in their 30s to early 40s who’s educated, single, DDF, local, and maybe a little taller than me (bonus points, haha!). I’d love someone who shares a few interests, is emotionally available, well-grounded, and values meaningful conversations. Emotional intelligence, intuition, and a great sense of humor? Yes, please!

I’m definitely not looking for just a pen pal. :)

I’d love to build something real—emotionally and physically connected. Honesty, clear communication, trust, and vulnerability mean a lot to me. I’m hoping for something long-term and open to more if the connection feels right. If any of this resonates with you, drop me a message—I’d love to chat!

P.S: Please write more than a sentence. I do not respond to hey, wassup, or one liners.

I just want to try something new.

Me: Introvert - a bit of a storyteller if we are close Fit - I do workouts everyday. I am not muscular tho, just fit

DM me 😉

Hi, Everyone! This is very unusual.

Tall, athletic, tattooed, open-minded, introverted, vegetarian writer here. Into dark, geeky, and bookish things. Feeling a little existential as a certain birthday approaches. A little socially awkward but can hold my own if I apply myself. Enjoys exploring, working out, electronic and industrial music, concerts, comics, books, gin and tequila in moderation, Mexican and Mediterranean food, and short walks to the fridge. Perfectly shaped to be a big spoon. Practices impeccable hygiene and emotional awareness. Decent cook. Minimal baggage. Values honestly, empathy, self-care, and being kind to animals, especially cats.

Toxic trait: Often outwardly cynical to conceal inner sensitivity, but self-aware about it and willing to lower my guard for certain people.

I overall feel happy and content being on my own, and I always keep myself occupied and productive in healthy ways, but lately I've been missing and longing for that experience of getting un-inhibited and silly with someone over drinks, getting to know someone new, the excitement and nervousness of clicking and connecting with someone new, making out for the first time, having a hand to hold, and spending a night cuddling, watching movies, having deep, late night conversations until the sun's starting to come up, and losing track of time with someone.

Oh, and absolutely willing to lie about how we met.