Hello! I'm Laura and I recently turned 36! I live in Illinois, about 4-5 hours south of Chicago. I'm about 30 minutes away from St. Louis. I'd definitely prefer for you to be located in the states as well and hopefully within travel distance of me too!

I'm atheist and left leaning, I prefer you to be the same. I don't have anything against Christians, I just grew up with religion shoved in my face and I'm not a fan.

Some about me...I'm single, well duh. I'm looking for that person. I am obviously child free, but I don't mind fur babies!

First things first: I'm on the bigger side, so if that's not your type, please don't message me. I am seeing a dietician to make dietary changes to help lose weight. I would like a supportive partner.

I love reading. Fiction, horror, romance, contemporary... basically anything that catches my eye. I also listen to audiobooks on Spotify.

Somewhat crafty. One of my favorite things to do is cross stitch. I can share some of my finished projects!

I love the St. Louis Cardinals! I'm wondering if the front office will actually do anything good during the off season (doubt it).

Music. I listen to a variety. I can send my Spotify playlist if you're interested. I can go from Bad Omens to Nsync to Garth Brooks to Metallica to Hanson. I saw Wicked last night so Defying Gravity is stuck in my head.

Tv/movies. Again, another variety. I don't exactly have a favorite of each. I could use some show recommendations! I I'd love to have someone to watch horror movies with!

I don't really play video games. I have a Switch. I play animal crossing, Mario kart, cruis'n blast, and Spyro. I have Killing floor 2 on steam. I play Stardew Valley on mobile.

I also like to cook. I don't know what my favorite thing to make is honestly. Currently my favorite food is Chinese.

I hope I've covered everything, if not ask me something!

I'll more likely respond to you if you tell me about yourself!

Hello, all you lovely people! I am here looking for my forever person. Easy, right??

I live in northern Wisconsin, although I'm not opposed to long distance and could be convinced to move to certain places eventually :) I'm obviously childfree, and snipped as well. I'm 6'3, average build I suppose, liberal, atheist, and vaccinated.

I am a homeowner, a dog and cat dad, and I love to cook. I am definitely more introverted than not, and love my remote job. I enjoy playing mtg, playing and dm'ing dnd, podcasts, true crime, shitty horror movies, running, hiking, and fantasy football. I am compassionate and empathetic, and I love listening to whatever people are passionate about.

I hope to hear from you beautiful ladies, and have a wonderful day, wherever you are!

Hello lovely world of reddit. I'm 35 5'7" 165lbs cancer. No kids and never married. It's a pleasure to meet you. My hobbies are a bit random but here we go. I love anything to do with cars or motorcycles. Working with my hands I feel is a lost art. I'm an electrical technician. Truly enjoy being outside but won't argue about having a lazy day inside. Recently I've gotten into home arcades. I have lots of nephew's and niece's they love em. Big into sports if you're not no worries. Music speaks to my soul I've been known to break out into song at random times. Love love all forms of arts. I'm today's age political views seem to be everything. I prefer agree to disagree. Don't smoke but will have a drink on certain events (rather be the sober one tho). Most people call me a giant kid. I do apologize it's hard for too talk about myself, much rather listen and learn. What I look for? For me It starts with the eyes. She's gotta have those kind of eyes that can look right through the bullshit, to the good in someone. 20% angel, 80% devil. Down to earth. Ain't afraid to get a little engine grease under her fingernails. Mostly be you. Would love to find somebody close but distance isn't a deal breaker. Anything worth having is worth putting the work in for. I have my passport and ready to travel are you? I'm new to this whole reddit thing. So please be patient with me I'm learning on the fly. I'm looking forward to hearing from you and hopefully we can build a future and make some amazing memories.

Hi there, my name is Reed, I'm a 28 year old guy from Orlando looking for a meaningful connection with someone who is looking for the same thing, what exactly is a meaningful connection? I think it's hard to exactly define as every relationship is different but I view it as someone that I can genuinely look forward to talking to, to being around to do everything and nothing with at the same time, be that close friends, or something more I'm totally open to either and would love to see how things progress for us, any kind of relationship takes effort to build and while I do respect your time I'm not interested in rushing into anything and someone getting hurt in the process.

About me

I currently have a job and a half I like to say, I work full time in a typical day job but also have a side gig creating content/writing online and am looking to eventually scale this to a full time thing so I can quit the day job, it is increasingly lucrative by the day and something I would say I'm really passionate about, feel free to ask me more! I'm a big time nerd who loves learning, I'm always going down new rabbit holes/looking to try new things, I've lost days of my life watching YouTube videos or reading articles/infographics. I was once upon a time a 'professional' gamer and still really enjoy PC gaming but don't do it as much as I did once upon a time, I really enjoy movies and would love to talk favorites with you. I'm also a HUGE appreciator of art, art in every form to me is effort + creativity, I am not artistically inclined in anyway shape or form but Music and Film are my two favorites. I also have more active hobbies that I really enjoy, I've been going to the gym pretty often lately and enjoying the process and progress, I've also always really enjoyed getting out and exploring all kinds of random things, I love pawn shops/thrift stores/garage sales and just seeing new places and trying new things (especially food.) I'm 99% sober as in I don't drink, smoke or do drugs but will very rarely enjoy a drink in a social setting, cool if you do any of these as long as you're responsible about it. (No hard drugs, sorry.)

I'm a fairly liberal person who swings to the right on certain topics and would love to discuss anything and everything with you, I'm an open book and always trying to expand my world view so I welcome those with differing opinions as I feel it makes me more aware even if it doesn't change my mind. At the end of the day my motto is 'do whatever you want if you aren't hurting anyone else.'

It is worth noting as this is important, I am very close to legally blind and cannot/do not drive, I live an entirely independent life and have for pretty much my entire adult life despite this fact and often times people don't even know until I tell them that I do not drive, this does not define who I am but it is part of who I am. :)

Who I'm looking for

I'm looking for an another adult (anyone 21+ is cool with me) who is emotionally available, a strong communicator and looking to build something great, kindness and transparency are things that are very important to me so even if we aren't on the same page I appreciate someone who is willing to work towards it with me, or find a compromise if not. I don't have a 'type' I think all women are beautiful in their own ways but would love to meet someone in Orlando. At the end of the day what is important to me is as mentioned above, a meaningful connection with someone to just really be able to enjoy life with.

I hope this stands out to you,

Reed

Hi there, thanks for clicking on my post and showing an interest. A while back I decided to create my own post, and I received a surprising number of nice replies from people. Unfortunately while I did have some nice conversations, in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

So I guess so much for the introduction, now to get to the meat of the post. Some facts to know about me;

• I'm 40 years old
• I'm from a small town in the Netherlands, and love the small town atmosphere and nature near here
• I work full time in IT, the easiest to describe it would be to say I'm a programmer though it's a bit more nuanced then that
• I love reading. I mainly read fantasy books and historical novels, and I also enjoy collecting books and have amassed quite a library through the years
• I also enjoy playing video games on my PC, board games with friends, Science fiction, long walks in nature and ancient cultures and mythology and I love traveling to countries to see ancient sites in person
• I'm introverted (INTJ)
• I love pets, and have been the proud owner of servant to a cat for a year now
• I'm childfree; I don't want children, either biological or adopted
• I'm left leaning politically
• I've been doing volunteer work for over 25 years
• I'm an Atheist
• I don't smoke, drink alcohol or do drugs

Now for some bad qualities I have, which have probably contributed to me being single;

• I don't enjoy going out to bars/ clubs / partying nor have I ever enjoyed that, that's just not my idea of a fun time. I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert though.
• I'm not the best at small talk
• I suffer from a form of depression (dysthymia if you're interested), enough that it can get me down and affect me but not enough that I'm unable to work or function in day to day life
• I would not describe myself as attractive, but have been told I'm mistaken; https://imgur.com/a/KtAM9Cm
• I'm working on my weight, it's getting to a healthy level again but I'm not there yet, still about 10Kg to go.

But obviously not everything is bad, I also have some good qualities;

• I consider myself fairly intelligent and although I don't have a college degree, I do have a good job
• I've been working full time for 20 years and have made the most out of every professional opportunity I've been given to get to where I am
• I've been told that where I lack in confidence about myself and my personal life, I don't lack that at all when it comes to work. Which means I do have it in me to be confident
• I've been told I have a funny but dry sense of humor
• I've been told I'm a very good listener and advice giver
• I'm loyal, dependable and always willing to help

So what am I looking for?

• I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship.
• I'm looking for someone intelligent, childfree and left leaning politically.
• I'm looking to meet someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I will, as hard as that might be for me at times.
• I'm looking for someone who makes me feel special and wanted, as I would make sure them feel special, wanted and loved.
• I'm looking for someone to accept me for who I am, with all my flaws, as I would accept them.
• I'm looking for someone that believes I could make their life better by me being in it, just as my life would be better by having them in it.

And while it's true that opposites can attract, I do think it would help a great deal if you share at least some of my hobbies/ interests.

Hi!

I am M, 32 years old and I live in the southwest of germany. I am open to contacts from further away, although I do prefer to stay in germany or in a country which functions similar to mine.

As my title says, I am monogamous, exclusivity is very important to me and I wish for commitment. I date with the goal of marriage and building a life together.

Important to know is, that I am childfree. I don't have any children and I don't want to have any in the future. It should be the same for you.

So, here is a bit about me.

Let's start with a quick physical description: I am about 167 cm (5'4 ft) tall and white. I have gorgeous long brunette hair, shiny brown eyes and my body type is thick/voluptuous/BBW. I have some tattoos and I plan on getting more.

I am a modern woman, with a liberal mindset yet my values regarding relationships can be described as more "traditional ".

I do believe in the one, I think it means something to give your body to someone and I crave a bond full of intimacy and vulnerability.

I live a peaceful but fulfilled life with my two cats. My tiny panthers mean the world to me and it is important that you like cats too. You can see pictures of them on my profile!

I am a homebody, my apartment is my sanctuary and my closest circle can be counted on one hand.

I have a life-long passion for books and I am building my own library with my favorite titles. I love music from a variety of genres and I enjoy being creative.

I cook almost every day, I like to try out new recipes and I bake for the gods. I hope you like chocolate cause my dark chocolate brownies are foodgasm deluxe (shameless self promotion).

I am spiritual and I practise witchcraft. Everything magical, mystical, mythical and occultish (is that a word? It is now.) is my world. Not horror though! I like everything that's a bit different and extra and I mostly wear black and red.

I describe myself as a confident, sassy, playful and very feeling person. I wear my emotions on my face and I put a lot of effort into what I care about.

I am not a conservative person and I am non religious. I don't smoke, I don't do drugs, I am NOT 420 friendly and I reject excessive drinking.

I work as the manager of a Café. We sell the best cheesecake in the city and I will fight you on this!

While I enjoy being a business woman, I crave a calm and easy life. Slow mornings, relaxed evenings, coming home to each other, having each others backs and being all domestic and homey.

I love being a woman and to be in my feminine energy. I care a lot about mental health and open communication and healthy boundaries are a priority to me.

I am opinionated but open minded, I love romance, healthy chivalry and taking the time to get to know each other.

I am sexual and kinky and I enjoy indulging into my primal and submissive self. I wish for my future partner to be my counterpart in this too.

I like a man who is older than me, mature, experienced, secure and naturally dominant and affectionate. The healthy masculine to my feminine.

You should want to be called Daddy and it should have more than a sexual meaning to you. It should be clear that I will not call you that after two days of texting.

My kinks are in the area of breeding/ claiming, ANR/ABR (I am open to induct), hucow/bull (in the monogamous way), Daddy kink, dirty talk, oral fixation (shameless size queen), just to give an idea. There are specifics about it and as with everything kink is a spectrum and people are individual.

I believe that if you take care of something, it lasts. I want something that lasts.

Ok, I stop now. Everything else we should talk about in person.

I hope to meet you soon. Until then, take care.

M.

Im really bad at these things but I'll do my best to give any little info about myself. I'm a huge nerd into comics, scifi and fantasy but I also like outdoorsie stuff and general handy man stuff. For the most part the ADHD has had me try tons of stuff chasing the dopamine. Sports are about the only thing I'm not at least somewhat interested in. Im pretty reserved at first but can be wild/crazy once I'm comfortable with people. Physically I'm 6'2" 297lbs. I'm down from 337lbs and still loosing weight but I'm definitely a husky guy. I'm obviously child free, I'm also bisexual and a very big propionate of people's rights, i.e. fuck the GOP and neo liberals for making so many problems. As far as you are concerned I would hope that you are a cool person. I don't really have a type as much as I judge potential partners on an individual level. I care most about what kind of person you are and how you treat others but attraction does play a factor so I would ask that you share a pic or two of yourself if we do get to talking. If my picture and ramblings interest you at all please feel free to message me or comment.

I’m at the point in my life where I find myself googling “best toilet scrubber brush” or “best business socks”. But seriously , those are important things, right?

Navigating your 40s is weird. I don’t feel old and boring. But am I?

Or is it just this failing economy and inflation? Yeah, that’s it. It’s just the economy forcing me to be frugal

I’ve started wearing comfortable shoes … I haven’t gotten to the point of wearing hush puppies … but it’s getting there.

Anyhoo, hello. I’m 42, child free (not having kids at my age) and single. I’m an introvert and very picky with who I give my time and energy to. i haven’t dated since roughly 2020 and I’m starting to get annoyed with everyone questioning when I’m going to date again. Like I’m going to die tomorrow or something. But hey… maybe they can smell death and I should be heeding their warnings.

I actually wish there was a dating app strictly for introverts where you were forced to engage in conversation before ever seeing a picture of each other. And were forced to fill out a profile in great length.

A bit of foreshadowing there. If you respond with “hey” I will simply stare at the chat expecting to see the magic 3 dots that indicate you’re about to write an essay.

I laugh about children falling off of bikes. Not only because children falling off of bikes is funny, but also because it’s healthy for children to hear laughter when they get hurt. See how selfless I am? I’m just doing my part.

I’m experienced enough to know being with the wrong person is much much worse than being alone (see how I carefully and skillfully avoided saying I’m old again). So I totally understand if you are reading this thinking “oh god, why would anyone want to date you?”. Because I feel the same way when I read overly bubbly posts about finding true love. I’m looking for a very special kind of fucked up and you shouldn’t be offended by that if it’s not you. And I genuinely hope everyone in the world can either find the right person or be really happy being alone.

So what can I say about myself to entice someone?? Oof.

I cook a lot. Home cooked meals every night. Usually pretty good ones. I try not to eat toooo much red meat. And I rarely eat things with commercial preservatives. I’m even forcing myself to drink Coke Zero :/

I’m a pretty good guitarist. And a lover of most music. I’m a dictionary of music. But sadly, don’t know much modern music. So there’s a huge gap in my knowledge.

I have read things and have books. I’m not saying they’re “smart” books or trying to sound well read. But I’ve got a nice collection. I like fiction.

I’m Pretty good with communication. I speak my mind and don’t like to yell when there’s a disagreement. I may take a minute to gather my thoughts but what I say will be accurate and concise. I express my emotions and acknowledge my feelings.

I don’t have a ton of friends (by choice- I cut out unhealthy people) but the ones I have are good friends. Non judgmental and kind people are my people.

Ok. You made it this far. Congratulations. Here’s what I’m looking for.

Someone liberal. Or at least cares enough about people to avoid denying others happiness just because it bothers them morally (murder aside).

Someone not religious or superstitious. We all have that friend that believes the dumbest conspiracy theories and has a favorite psychic they go to once a month. And I am not dating that friend.

Someone omnivorous or at least understands there are situations where you’ll have to take a bite of something you don’t like so as not to offend your host.

Someone with at least a tolerance, if not an appreciation of dark humor. And fart jokes. “People who don't find farts funny will find less happiness in their lives but still the same amount of farts” I don’t know who originally said it but it’s true.

Someone with their life reasonably together. At least hoping to own a home one day and not live paycheck to paycheck.

I don’t care about your height or your Skin , eye or hair color. Those aren’t factors in who I’m attracted to.

I am not looking for a long distance thing so I’m sorry but I’m only looking for San Diego locals or at most people maybe a 2 hr drive from SD. Unless you just happen to visit SD often.

figured id give this another shot since i dont actually put myself out there irl lol

im a 29F 5'5, slimthicc/curvy/busty (size 8/10), long curly dark brown hair, hazel eyes, HWP, ukrainian-american, based in norcal, and am looking to meet my person.

here’s me https://imgur.com/a/gpIOwCr

i work in child welfare policy and am passionate about lessening the suffering of others.

im childfree (obvi), politically leftist & progressive, vaccinated, disease-free & 420 friendly. i have 3 kitties that are my whole world, and my future partner would have to see themselves as a cat parent as well haha. in my free time i enjoy touching grass, baking/cooking, hanging out with friends, playing fornite & reading at local cafe's. im passionate about nutrition and living a healthy lifestyle, i love anything dinosaur-related, horticulture, and cycling. im 60% homebody 40% outdoorsy.

looking for a monogamous LTR with compatibility, cuddles & consideration!

nsfw disclosure: i am not vanilla and want a partner who is wholesome in the streets but very much dominant in the sheets. i am submissive in the bedroom and am looking for someone who enjoys that and wants to explore/has experience in d/s dynamics. i want to clarify that i want to be a girlfriend first and a freak second. im looking for an authentic long lasting connection, not just intimacy.

possible/probable dealbreakers: not politically progressive, not into kinky sex, long distance, not career oriented, not a cat person, not seeking monogamy, not emotionally intelligent, not supportive of partners w/mental health struggles (searching for a kind patient nurturing and loving man)

physical disclosures: i understand im not conventionally attractive or thin so my preference may seem hypocritical and i get that, but i will be honest in saying im not much into dad bods and really appreciate men who have slim/fit/athletic bods. i also go for men 5’8 and up. generally dont pursue shorter than that.

open to anyone ages 26-42 :) please reach out if youre interested and think we might be compatible!!

Hi, my name is Joe and I would like to find someone who will be special to me, where we could talk regularly, i have a huge thing for communication and spending time together and enjoying each other’s company. If it goes well, I’d like something build a committed relationship based on honesty, loyalty and trust.

About me, I like cooking, baking, spending time with animals and in trying to get back into reading and drawing (badly).

I consider myself an introvert and i have a small number of friends and would like someone more on the introverted side as well but i dont mind the occasional adventure. Also I’d like someone who likes doing a mixture of both indoors and outdoors activities, we can play games one day and go for a hike the next or go to try some new food spots (im a huge foodie). We can chat first, and I don’t mind exchanging photos if we get along 🙂

dont be weird, just be normal lol. Dont be outside of the ranges that im about to specify i wont be replying otherwise.

Im from the UK but I don’t mind if you’re from elsewhere, as long as the time zones aren’t too far apart, lets say +or- 6hours. Tell me your age and where you’re from pls. I’m only looking to talk to people from ages 22-35, so please be in that range.

If you’d like to know more about me, you can ask in messages. So yeah, if this caught your eye, message me and we can chat more then!

Hello cf4cf. Michigan born and raised living in Pennsylvania at the moment. I currently work at a chocolate factory and know so much about making chocolate. The job also has a lot of benefits including an awesome 7 on and 7 off schedule so I can make meeting from a long distance happen.

Hobbies:

• Video games - I own a PC and a Switch for the exclusives. While I mostly enjoy single player RPGs, I also play some multiplayer games like Pal World or Guild Wars 2.
• Tabletop - My form of getting out to see people is rolling dice and making decisions on what to do in crazy fantasy scenarios. I've played quite a few systems, but none of them have been any more complicated than 5e.
• Concerts - Been seeing quite a few concerts lately. The last One I went to was to see Beartooth and before them I saw some really great lineups including Staind and Bush.
• Nature - I like going on nature walks when I'm on vacation or even just taking a walk in a local park to get some exercise.
• Tea - I'm an avid tea drinker since there are so many flavors. It's my healthier, more adventurous switch from soda.

Pets:

I have two kitties, a sassy one person ragdoll and a goofy Maine coon mix that loves people.

Personality:

I'm an easy, laid back kind of guy that's up for just about anything. I'm quite introverted too. If there is one thing I don't like it's drama, the kind where one party is pushing another's buttons to get a reaction out of another. Not to be confused with a normal civilized conflict between two adults. Those kind of conversations are necessary to foster good relationships. If I say something it's usually really worth saying if I'm with a group. I like getting into deep conversations that flow really well though.

Politics:

I consider myself centrist. The main thing I stand for is freedom and independence. The most relevant issue on this sub would be the right to our own bodies which no institution or entity has any right to except ourselves. Especially these days I feel like a rebel when it comes to being pro freedom.

Spirituality:

If I had to put a label on my beliefs, it would be paganism. I view spirituality as something to be explored and tested like science. I have had my own fair share of experiences and done some research on things science cannot explain yet such as past lives and astrology.

Who I'm looking for:

I would be a good match with another introvert though that is far from a requirement. The only issue with two introverts is that initial contact, but once we make it, it'll be smooth sailing. I wouldn't mind someone who is a little clingy either. I'd love to give attention to my SO. I also want to be with someone who is at least somewhat conscious of her health. A healthy body leads to a fun, happy life. I also like to be intellectually stimulated so I see a smart partner as an equal and not a threat. Finally, a sense of humor is a must. I've heard laughter is the best medicine and I like to engage in humor with those around me.

https://imgur.com/a/ZVV6Dhz

Hi hi! First things first, I am childfree, ambiverted, from the Netherlands, I have ADHD, and I'm 5'7/170cm tall. I've always had very warm hands, so maybe I can help keep yours warm this winter?

I love living a stress-free life and I'd describe myself as calm, stoic, and self-aware. I love laughing and spreading laughter. Not to brag, but I make funny memes sometimes. I like to work out (huge passion of mine), cook, play videogames, travel, watch sci-fi/fantasy/horror/trash reality tv, and spotify is on most of the day (mostly rock, metal, drum&bass, rap). One of my daily joys is watching my cat (he adopted me) have one of his zoomy sessions. I have plenty of other nerdy/creative interests, but we can talk about those later. Other than that I've been checking off some bucketlist items this year and the next thing I'm going to check off is cocktail making.

I lean left and care about causes like neurodiversity, animal welfare, and feminism. I'm a romantic at heart. Think "baby I won't let anything bad happen to you". I value honesty, openness, and vulnerability. Is there anything as attractive and good-feeling like truly being yourself, speaking your mind, and feeling safe while doing so? That's the kind of space I like to create and the type of love I like to give; the kind you don't have to question.

What I would love to find out of this is a best friend type of relationship. I believe when you're friends first, you can be even better partners. Genuine curiosity, a mutual interest in really getting to know each other, and some shared interests go pretty far. I also hope you'll climb on my back cause let's be honest, I can't reach the top shelf either. We can send each other cute animal videos, discuss aliens or true crime till 4 am (not till the sun comes up, come on, I'm in my 30s ¯\_(ツ)_/¯) or ruin your family's plans of once again asking you if you're single during Christmas dinner. I'm looking for someone between the age of 25-35 from Europe.

Thanks for reading! Reach out if this spoke to you <3

I'm making this post in the hope of finding a partner to be my person for a LTR or if you are averse to something serious, we can talk about any other labels/avenues/ideas you have or are open to. We don't have to be alone lol. Let's enjoy what 2024 has left to offer while we decide! We're on the last month sadly. I'm down to grab a cider or hot chocolate in some quaint small out of the way town. Who doesn't want to enjoy some hot beverage while browsing through some old shops (sample some fudge in a general store and grab some old-fashioned whatchamacallit) with some light hand holding? Ooooh maybe a kiss? Maybe go watch some lights or explore some Christmas festival if it's cold enough outside? This is literally my favorite time of the year! I'm always down for some adventure. lol

To start I have to disclose that I mainly like women, but I also like a very, very, very specific type of guy and certain trans men as I'm partially bi. (I'd rather be upfront about it as it's been a dealbreaker for most women in the past for some reason) Chances are you aren't that type but feel free to ask if you are. (Didn’t want to offend anyone so I’d rather say in private) Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women in general. Which why would it be? The number one reason I get is I'm going to cheat on them with a guy if we were to date. As if being bi has any bearing on cheating and not the person's character.

I'm a 36-year-old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long-Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague, so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bear with me.

So, I've spent the past two New Years alone. Rang in this one just like last New Years in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night. The next day I cried randomly while browsing for a movie to watch on TV. At first, I didn't know why as I'm not much of a crier/feeling's person, but I realized for the first time that I genuinely felt alone. I have no partner, no family that I speak to, no friends just acquaintances, really no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years to accomplish through me being closed off and just shutting people out, so I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into this predicament. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I'd never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky AKA fat and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes.

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold and festive activities. (Seriously let's go do some festive activities!)

I come from a medium-ish family.

I'm exceptionally patient but every person has a breaking point lol

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But I've found lots of people hate to leave their house, town or state so if that's you we probably might not be a good match. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees, and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to, I think about doing it I'd about die or twist a cankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean I won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as I'm horrible in a classroom setting and at taking tests. (I'm slowly bettering myself)

I used to have probably the most boring job imaginable (Ask me about it)

Overweight but trying to work on it and make better choices (Get healthier and lose weight together maybe?) Slowly getting there!

Non-religious but no issue with what you believe. (If anything)

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own red flags 🚩

I work too much and oftentimes can't talk.

I send selfies often. I'm a visual person and like receiving photos. Apparently, it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures are neat as well? Is it really that weird to want to see you and your life and show you mine?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times I've learned but still very much doable.

Due to childhood trauma I'm secretive which can be annoying.

MY own "HELL YES" 🏁

I know how to cook.

I will always drive if you want. (Within reason)

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map and follow directions.

Decent at reading backwards upside-down writing.

What I'm looking for:

Is my age or older. But I'm willing to go quite a bit lower if you are neat and we have stuff in common. But super young isn't my goal here.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky wouldn't hurt)

Someone who never cheats, honesty and trust are important to me.

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy.

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally because we are both adults.

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe? Maybe Wordle or some online vidya game?

P.S. I realize my post isn't for everyone but if you're seeing red flags from my post then I'd say trust your gut and please don't message me as we probably aren't compatible. I honestly don't mean that in a mean or hurtful way. I've just been messaged quite often with women saying they pushed aside red flags to get to know me. Please don't, it never ends well, and you end up wasting both of our time. Wouldn't you rather spend it finding your person with no flags?

My ideal lifestyle is one in the countryside, away from the smog, the rat races, the cars, the constant hurry. Growing one's own vegetables, building beehives out of spare wood, planting saplings to reforest an area, exchanging preserves with neighbors in addition to tons of other DIY projects. I want to try to live a self-sustainable life in order to regain some of the freedom capitalism forces is to relinquish. A life of learning academic knowledge, skills, instruments, crafts, creativity and practical knowledge. Figuring out how to enjoy any activity, instead of choosing just the few familiar ones. A routine of the exercise, meditation and mindfulness that keeps one grounded, grateful and aware of the lessons learnt. The ability to goof around without prying eyes, and the time to experience the childish delight of just being a part of the world. Few meaningful friends over large superficial groups. I'd like to find a rural place with progressive people, where knowledge, humility, genuineness, adventurousness, creativity, tolerance, comraderie and kindness are emphasized.

I like avoiding egotistical thoughts. I detest the more usual kinds of normie conversations that devolve into competitions, fueled by insecurity. I want to be real with someone, vulnerable. I want to talk about deep, logical and mind-broadening topics. Even when not considering other people, I want to diminish my private consideration of ego adjacent thoughts. I've found that self centered thoughts often lead to anxiety, inadequacy, and fear, while thoughts totally devoid of self can be blissfully zen.

I like living by the motto "If you love something, set it free". I'm keenly aware of how obligation can ruin even one's favorite activity. My struggles, my mood, my chores, my failures are my own. If a partner chose to help, I'd try to be mindful to view their help as something gracious, and not something to rely upon, something to begin to expect. No good deed should be punished by entitlement.

I like structured care and change. While I think that I have a decent memory, I'm under the impression that we are very biased in our day to day thinking. We assume that the other person will understand words in the same way, that their preferences, morals and annoyances are similar to ours. Even when informed otherwise, it is hard to avoid falling back to the same old routine way of thinking. I want to write down these differences and regularly remind myself of them in order to avoid the small frictions, to augment giving.

If my ideal lifestyle and I seem appealing to you, please contact me through a message, or by adding me on discord(vosheck, or Vosheck#3934). Willing to use some other platform as well. I heavily prefer voice chats to text, so I hope you'd be open to having a voice call sooner rather than later. Simple small talk messages like "Hello", or "How are you doing?" will be ignored.

Thanks for reading.

34 Male living in North Jersey. So instead of telling all you lurkers about me and making this super long… I will give you some quick bullet points.

— college educated, a job that pays the bills.

— workaholic I usually will work 70+ hours a week

— early riser I start my day at 330 to 430am and usually will try to sleep 930 - 1130pm (I suck at sleeping it takes a bit for my body to feel tired 🥲)

— into nfl, nba, a little nhl and a few other sports

— into tech and how it is changing the whole landscape of the world.

— travel, foodie, tv show binger. I do watch k-dramas n anime as well.

— going to the gym is part of my self care routine n is very important to me

If you enjoyed any of this feel free to send me a message totally down to send pics of myself as well.

Looking for men my age and older who feel the need for companionship and love and grow old together who are loyal, monogamous, single and child free/empty nest, retired/have lots of free time to spend with their partner/homebody ✨ ( I do have a preference for east asian or native american men )

I want someone who will be my best friend, family, and soulmate✨

I want someone who is a gentleman, protector, provider, respectful attentive and kind. ✨

I love movies and reality shows, cooking/baking/good food, reading, dancing, gaming✨

I'm am not into bdsm and I'm not sub , not into casual, just to save everyone's time.

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Been looking to get snipped for a few years now and finally got the time to get it done last month. So I suppose it’s as good a time as ever to make a new post here! Looking like it’s gonna be a long one so sorry about that lol

So hey! I’m Joey, 6’1” and 225lbs. Very introverted and nerdy. Undiagnosed but almost certainly on the spectrum. Once you get past my initial shyness I think I’m a pretty kind and easygoing guy to get along with.

My big thing is quality time, time spent doing fun things with the people I love. I would sacrifice a lot in my life to keep that. In particular, I’m not very career-oriented past a baseline of living comfortably and I wouldn’t want to try to be with someone who is always busy toiling away. On a related note, while I’m open to meeting folks from all over, I’d prefer to find someone within a few hours of East Arkansas (my condolences for those living here). Definitely would consider moving in the future but that’s probably not on the cards financially any time soon.

I see a lot of folks here say they’re childfree but don’t mind kids; I’m not that guy. I don’t hate em either but I already have a hard time keeping up with people in general as an introvert and children take even more out of my limited social battery. So I generally avoid dealing with kids.

I try not to “get into” politics personally but I don’t think there’s any escaping that these days. I am very firmly left/liberal for what I hope are obvious reasons in the current political landscape. Part of my coping mechanism is my terrible and inappropriate sense of humor lol

I have many hobbies and interests to keep my brain satisfied. Anything remotely nerdy and hands-on is right up my alley. Most of my traditionally masculine hobbies, I end up elbow-deep in the nerdy aspects. Like cars, I really enjoy autocross (nerdy precise driving). Guns, I like going to long range competitions (math with fancy boomsticks). Hell I got into sewing to make specialized gear for shooting competitions and ultralight camping (mostly cause I’m a cheapass). The science of cooking is very interesting to me; I wouldn’t say I like cooking, but I do like eating good food so the ends justify the means.

Other than that, I’m very much into video games (and enthusiast PC hardware). Longtime League of Legends player unfortunately… plus my unending Steam backlog. Lotta variety there but I definitely tend towards the more strategic games. I’ve practiced guitar for a few years (don’t wanna stretch the definition of “playing” lol). Hard rock and heavy metal are the most represented on my playlist but you’d be hard-pressed to find any rhyme or reason there otherwise. In particular I absolutely love Halestorm and Nightwish and am dying to go to some of their shows whenever they get around to touring the states again. I don’t keep up with movies and TV shows as well as most people but I will say that I absolutely love Arcane.

I try to maintain an active lifestyle for obvious health reasons and to facilitate many of my hobbies. Definitely not great at it given my love of good food. I don’t like gyms so I try to go about it through hiking/camping and exercises at home. I have mild asthma so I don’t smoke or vape or anything, and I don’t like the taste of alcohol or most caffeinated beverages. So I’ve accidentally done well on that part I guess lol. Not a teetotaler ideologically and I have nothing against light drinking or cannabis use but I probably wouldn’t be able to keep up with any heavy substance usage. No significant preference on age as long as we aren’t too far apart in stages of our lives.

Solid and healthy communication is important to me as well. I don’t know if I care about marriage beyond the obvious stuff but I am looking for a serious, dedicated, lifelong partnership. I think the difference between an extremely close friendship and a significant other is physical attraction/intimacy, so that is important to me. I am a bit shy of pictures so I hope the one above is useful; if you wish to reach out to me please do include a picture. Looking forward to chatting with you!

Sorry for the wall of text, hope at least some of it was comprehensible lol. I’ve surely missed a lot but I wouldn’t wanna spill all the beans right off the bat! Thanks for reading and I hope yall lovely folks have a wonderful day!

Im hoping to build a friendship into a long term relationship that supports empathy and growth. Just friendships are also fine. I text alot 🙂

Im pretty slim, 5'10", and live a relatively active lifestyle. Right now im remodeling my next home so thats keeping me moving.

I work in the diesel repair industry and i have a passion for automotive engineering. I also like working on weird stuff like appliances, Tvs, and HVAC.

My music taste ranges from country and rock to techno. Short of screamo im not picky.

I used to be a big gamer but now its a rare treat. Im a huge fan of stand up and go to amatuer comedy nights all the time. Road trips are super fun! I usually go on a 1k motorcycle trip every year.

Funny story, i hate having a beard but i need it for work. 😂

I also have a cat named Francis 🩶

If any of this resonates with you feel free to shoot me a message 🙂

Hello reader. I'm 34, 5'8, white, a bit chubby, auburn hair and beard kept most shortish, with dark brown eyes. I'm single, clean, vaxxed, and boosted. I'm funny and nerdy, according to peer reviews.

I'm looking for someone to share individual experiences with while sometimes doing things together. I'm a homebody and have no siblings, so I tend to focus on activities that can be done single player. That doesn't mean I don't want companionship, though. I'd enjoy having someone to go to museums with, to try new foods, to play different games in the same room with. We can share pictures of our hobbies with one another and remind each other to call for doctor's appointments and do our taxes. Making excitement out of the mundane.

I'm looking for something romantic, not platonic. Being friends is an important part of a relationship but I'm not looking for just-friends.

Ideally, you are: a cat lover, also politically leftist, monogamist, into abstract and avant garde art / entertainment, feminist, independent, child free, nonreligious, sardonic, and always looking to learn.

If you don't match perfectly, that's fine. Send me a message if you're interested, meeting new people fosters growth and memorable living.

Please include a description of yourself or a selfie in your message.

I'm looking forward to your response, reader. Cheers.

Hello! 😊

Note: I know this post is a bit lengthy, but I believe in being open and transparent. I wanted to give you a clear picture of who I am and what I’m looking for. If you prefer a shorter version, feel free to scroll to the bottom for a TL;DR. Thanks for taking the time to read it!

Location: I’m a software developer living in Phoenix, Arizona. My current employer requires me to reside in AZ, but my profession allows for fully remote positions with many other companies. I’m actively seeking an employer who offers this flexibility, especially if I enter a long-distance relationship. I’m willing to travel and relocate for the right person, even considering opportunities abroad if we find a strong connection. I hope you'd be willing to do the same for me, should your circumstances permit it. I can technically live in another state as long as it's not for the majority of the year, which should help with a LDR.

For now, I want to move to Philadelphia. It’s way too hot and dry here! 🥵 I believe living there will increase my chances of dating locally, including nearby cities like Baltimore, DC, and NYC. Just think of all the fun day trips we could take together! Being within a 2-hour flight of most of the U.S. population would also make long-distance relationships more feasible.

I aim to live car-free, so other walkable cities like Chicago, DC, and Seattle would also be ideal if I had a partner there to help justify the high cost of living. That said, it’s not a hard requirement. What are your thoughts on relocating for love?

Hobbies: I enjoy good food and love trying new restaurants. While I don’t do a lot of fancy cooking at the moment, I hope to revisit it in the future—it’s always a fun date option! Quality TV, movies, and books are also high on my list, with a particular fondness for animated works. Studio Ghibli films are definitely a highlight for me!

I used to write from time to time and would like to try my hand at it again someday. I also want to explore local attractions once I move, like museums, botanical gardens, and festivals. While I enjoy going out, I’m not into overnight or extreme outdoor activities like camping, backpacking, or rock climbing. Sports bore me to tears! 🥱

My primary hobby is video games, with action-adventure and RPG being my favorite genres. The Zelda series and Stardew Valley are top-tier for me. It would be wonderful to have gaming as a mutual interest, but it’s not a necessity.

What are some of your favorite cuisines or games?

Appearance: I’m 5’9", 130 lbs., and Caucasian/German with brown hair, blue eyes, and long eyelashes. I have a slim build and a traditional look (not feminine presenting). I take pride in my appearance and exercise regularly to stay healthy and fit.

Personality: I’m rather introverted and a good listener. While I can be talkative, it’s usually with someone I enjoy being around. I love deep conversations and consider myself to be pretty introspective. I appreciate meaningful connections and enjoy spending time in quieter settings, whether that’s a cozy café or a peaceful walk.

Relationship Preferences:

• Starting Point: I’m hoping we can start as friends and see where the relationship organically takes us.
• Dealbreakers: Dealbreakers for me include smoking, being a picky eater (I prefer omnivorous diets), and being an irresponsible animal owner. I don’t own pets and don’t plan to, as I’m more of a cat person—dogs don’t do much for me.
• Lifestyle Choices: I don’t drink or use soft drugs (like marijuana), but I’m okay with my partner using them as long as it’s not excessive or indicative of an addiction.
• Monogamy & Age Preferences: I’m only interested in monogamy and ideally looking for someone between the ages of 20 to 32. I could consider someone a bit older, but younger would likely feel uncomfortable.
• Future Goals: I’m childfree and envision a dual income, no kids (DINK) lifestyle. If you’re a remote worker, that’s a bonus! While I’m not against someone taking care of me, I recognize that might be a stretch! 🤣
• Values & Beliefs: I’m an atheist and politically independent, valuing personal freedom and pro-choice beliefs. It’s important that we share similar worldviews.
• Physical Preferences: I have preferences for taller women with pale skin, natural brown or red hair, or an alt look, but what truly matters is someone who takes care of their appearance and health.
• Personal Growth: I strive for independence and self-sufficiency, with long-term goals like achieving FIRE and owning a home. I’m more sensitive and in touch with my emotions than the traditional masculine archetype, and I’m working on my self-confidence. I want a partner who loves and accepts those parts of me, fostering vulnerability on both sides.
• Attractive Qualities: Kindness, empathy, intelligence, and ambition are all qualities I find highly attractive in a woman.
• Role Reversal: I love the idea of role reversal—where I can be cared for and protected—but I’m also committed to supporting my partner equally. In a relationship, I believe effort and care should go both ways. I’m looking for someone who can match that balance!
• Mutual Respect: Ultimately, I want a relationship built on mutual love and respect, where neither of us feels lesser due to our personalities or preferences.

TL;DR:

Location:

I’m a software developer currently in Phoenix, AZ, but I’m looking to relocate to Philadelphia for its walkability and proximity to major cities. I’m open to remote work and willing to travel or relocate for the right person, even considering opportunities abroad.

Hobbies:

I love good food and trying new restaurants, and while I’m not a fancy cook yet, I hope to explore it more. I enjoy quality TV, movies (especially Studio Ghibli), and video games like the Zelda series and Stardew Valley. I’m also interested in local attractions like museums and festivals, but I’m not into extreme outdoor activities or sports.

Appearance:

5'9", 130 lbs., Caucasian/German with brown hair and blue eyes. I have a slim build and a traditional look. I take pride in my appearance and stay fit through regular exercise.

Personality:

I’m introverted, a good listener, and appreciate deep conversations. I enjoy quieter settings, whether it’s a cozy café or a peaceful walk.

Relationship Preferences:

• Starting Point: Friends first, then see where it goes.
• Dealbreakers: Smoking, picky eaters, and irresponsible pet owners.
• Lifestyle Choices: I don’t drink or use soft drugs, but I’m okay if my partner does moderately.
• Monogamy & Age: Looking for monogamy with someone aged 20-32.
• Future Goals: Childfree, DINK lifestyle, and striving for financial independence (FIRE).
• Values: Atheist, politically independent, valuing personal freedom and pro-choice beliefs.
• Physical Preferences: I prefer taller women with naturally brown or red hair—or an alt look if dyed—but what truly matters is taking care of your health and appearance.
• Attractive Qualities: Kindness, empathy, intelligence, and ambition.
• Role Reversal: If you're into being the knight in shining armor, I'd definitely be up for that dynamic - and I'd bring my best to make it a strong, supportive partnership too.
• Mutual Respect: Seeking a relationship built on mutual love and respect.

Let’s Connect!

I’d love to hear from you if you think we’d be a good match! I’m open to sending pictures or video chatting privately once we’ve connected.

Alright, "✨forever✨ person" came off a bit more possessive than I thought but I'm rolling with it. Or rather, ✨we're✨ rolling with it since you've read this far.

Anywho, I've been on the dating apps for longer than I'd like to admit and have yet to find that special someone. I figure that it doesn't hurt to explore other avenues (posting on Reddit) to see who is out there and take a different approach (posting on my NSFW account and starting with kink compatibility(usually the last thing I talk about with people when I date)). Before that, I just want to note that I am ultimately looking for something in person, not something online/long-distance. Though, I am open to it in the short-term to mid-term. With that being said, I plan on staying near the Boston, Massachusetts area for the foreseeable future. If you reach out then I ask that you be open to relocating to Massachusetts at some point in the future.

Let's talk ✨kink✨! Alright, that was the last sparkle emoji, I swear. Kink is important to me but it isn't everything to me. I fall into the "mostly in the bedroom only" category and especially like to keep the D/s aspect there as well, unless it's being used playfully. Outside of kink, I view my partner as my equal and expect the same in return. I am a switch and I lean more submissive than not. So, naturally, I am looking for a switch who leans more dominant than not to complement that. Connection is far more important to me than ensuring that our laundry lists of kinks has sufficient overlap, but I'm happy to chat further about that in private if it's important to you!

Relationship-wise, I am ultimately looking to live the DINKWAD (Double Income No Kids With A Dog(or ten)) lifestyle. I don't want children of my own, but I plan on being the cool uncle to my friend's children. I am content/happy with my life as it is and am looking for someone who is in a similar spot. I value independence, trust, mutual respect, and, most importantly, silliness/goofiness/playfulness. I don't do well with excessive clinginess, though a small amount can be endearing. Despite that, I am monogamous and don't like to share. Sadly, my brain is not wired for anything ENM/poly.

Personality-wise I am not very serious at all. I am very playful and I love to laugh and make others laugh. I'm super affectionate when I get comfortable enough and I call everyone dude. Did the dude part belong in that sentence? No. Will I call you dude in weirder contexts? Yes. I'm a healthy balance between a homebody and someone who likes to do too much and regrets having no time left to be a homebody. I'm nerdy and like to describe myself as "a nerd who lifts weights". In levels of nerdiness, I'm a Star Wars nerd, not a Star Trek nerd. Not that I like Star Wars, I think it's bad. Don't even @ me. My main hobbies are weight lifting, hiking, video games, D&D, anime/manga, traveling, and spending time with my friends. I have a good career in tech and do my best to not bring corporate buzzwords home with me. Physically, I am 5'8", keep my hair buzzed, have brown eyes, and have a hairy dadbod with muscle underneath. I've been trying to get rid of the dadbod, or at least trim some fat away, but it has been a slow and inconsistent process. I have loads of very NSFW videos on my profile if you want to see what I look like. Look at your own discretion.

I am not sure what else to write. If you are interested and would like to chat then I'd love to hear a bit about you! It would also be super helpful if you let me know whereabouts you are from and if you read the part about relocating to Massachusetts in the long-term in your opening message. However, just to be transparent, it's unlikely that I'll send a face picture to you given what is on my profile. There are so many scammers and blackmailers out there that it's unhealthy to not have that sense of paranoia... That's not to say that I haven't sent them before, but if that is your minimum expectation then you're not going to have a good time. That being said, I don't expect a face picture from you either. I'm more than happy to go on a blind date and just have fun.

Hi! A little bit about myself. I'm 6'0, white, and a bigger guy, but I am working on making some lifestyle changes. My interests can definitely be described as nerdy. I'm mostly introverted, but I enjoy hanging out with friends and family. I work in medical records and while it's a bit of a boring office job, compared to my previous one (Retail) it's the dream. I'm left leaning, non-religious, and don't have (Or want) any kids.

Interests

Movies - I'm definitely more of a critical guy when it comes to movies, but I'll give anything a go. My favorite movie of last year was Past Lives. Some of my all time favorites include The Lord of the Rings trilogy, It's A Wonderful Life, and Airplane.

Video games - I have a Switch. I play a variety of genres from metroidvanias to JRPGs. Some of my all time favorite franchises include Xenoblade Chronicles, Super Smash Bros, and Fire Emblem. I'm always down for some fun multiplayer games like Mario Kart or Smash Bros.

Music - I listen to a wide variety. Sometimes 70's classic rock, sometimes video game OST or film scores. I'm always down for learning about new bands or artists. I've been listening to Kendrick Lamar's most recent album lately.

Food - I'm honestly not much of a cook, but that doesn't mean I'm not willing to learn and improve! It could also be a fun activity to do together. I'm a huge fan of sushi and I will never say no to it.

What I'm looking for

-Someone with some similar interests. Let's watch a movie or play a game sometime!

-Someone with similar views (Left leaning, non-religious)

-I'm unfortunately allergic to both cats and dogs. I have yet to be around hypoallergenic breeds, so I would give it a shot

-I think an ideal partner is someone who appreciates you as you are, but also wants to uplift you to become the best version of yourself. Surface level conversations are fine to start off, but I enjoy deeper discussions. That doesn't mean it has to be like that all time.

-I would prefer someone at least in the US or Canada, but if it's the right person, I'm willing to give anything a shot.

If you've read through this to the end, thanks for reading! I would love to start up a conversation with you! Tell me about some of your favorite movies, or tell me your top 5 albums. Anything to get things started. Take care.

Hello!

I am looking for something serious, but I think relationships should start casual and be given room to grow without the weight and burden of expectations.

I am 33, originally from Egypt and moved to Portugal. I am very liberal, open minded and agnostic.

I am a forever learner, I love learning new things. I tend to over analyze stuff.

As for hobbies and pastimes I love reading, writing, cooking, walking around the city, going to the beach, swimming, spa days, eating out and discovering new places. I am recently started learning the electric guitar, baking and painting. I am also trying to be more comfortable with nature and camping.

I am hoping to eventually find a life partner, to share our lives together and witness each others moments.

Definitely child free so if you are on the fence, then we are not compatible :/

I am an animal and pet lover though, especially cats.

I can provide my photos and socials if you are willing to share as well of course.

Dating apps suck. Dating as an entrepreneur in general is tough - it's a particularly type of mindset you know? Of course you know.

I want to find someone I can be friends with first and then grow it from there. I'm not an open book on all things right off the bat, but I am with a little getting to know each other. Ideally we make each other feel safe, seen, heard, accepted and continuously bring out the best in one another.

A top tier contender is available (fully single, not separated or going through a divorce), monogomous, in EST or CST, aged 28-45, generally emotionally stable, financially secure, and has 0 children. (I am also all of these things <3)

As far as my career goes - I own my own business in the real world and consider myself ambitious and career oriented. I tend to vibe with similarly wired people.

Looks wise I am told I am easy on the eyes; more concretely I am 5'7, white/pale, freckled, auburn hair. I'm happy to trade my pic for yours when you are ready!

My primary interests are studying business operations, making art, reading nonfiction, traveling, visiting spas, enjoying/judging high tea, and more! I'm not much of a gamer or TV watcher but don't mind if you are. I've been pretty inconsistent with gym and fitness classes lately so an accountability buddy there would be cool. My preferred brand of nerdy things is medieval type fantasy (hello ren faires!)

I'm also a little weird. Maybe we live in a simulation. Maybe we will have alien contact soon. Maybe 432hz is meaningful. Maybe thoughts in this head of mine. Sometimes it is nice to have no thoughts.

That feels like enough writing.

<3