/r/Christianr4r

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A place for the faithful to find like minded friends and romantic partners.

This sub is a place for the faithful to find like minded friends, romantic partners, or perhaps just someone to talk to when things are tough.


"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." - Proverbs 27:17 (NIV)


Rules

  1. For Christian Use Only
  2. No Harassment
  3. Posters must be 16+.
  4. No bigotry of any kind.
  5. Accounts must be 1 week or older.
  6. No posting of personal information (contact info, real names, addresses)
  7. Please put effort into posts.
  8. Limit one post per 24 hours.
  9. No NSFW content.
  10. Have fun!

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28 M4F looking for a good Christian woman USA/Anywhere

It’s been a while since I last dated so I’m a bit rusty. I’m looking to find someone either in the USor Overseas, I’m also pretty liberal to be honest. I’m a bit on the chubby side but also muscular and around 6’0”. Chat is open if you are interested.

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2024/11/12
19:41 UTC

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26M - Florida/USA -- Looking for A Godly Woman

Hey there! Been some time since I posted before, and with the holidays coming up, I thought I'd try reaching out once again.

About me: 5'11, 194lb, broad shoulders, see picture for more. I'm open to gsending more, if you want! https://imgur.com/a/1ClP2hm

I'm open to someone anywhere in the country, though someone in Florida or the south would be nice. But if God calls me to someone across the country, or even in another country, than that's who I am meant for. So feel free to reach out!

About my faith: I grew up in the church, and really got "serious" around 7th grade. My view is closest to Baptist, but my beliefs on the faith comr from studying His word and learning from others over sticking to what's popular with any denomination. I really like the quote from Rupertus Meldenius: "In essentials Unity, In non-essentials Liberty, In all things Charity."

Some things I like: -History -Reading -Building and Painting plastic minatures -Learning to Bake -Games (Video and board, tell me your favorite board game!) -Music -Working out -Swimming -Laughter

I don't drink (Though I believe alcohol in moderation is fine. I just hate the taste haha) or smoke.

What I'm looking for: A woman between 22-27. Someone nice who seeks to grow every day. Someone who values kindness and promoting peace, and wants to create a family in the somewhat near future. Someone who looks for the good in life. And someone willing to meet in person within a month or two, if long distance

If I sound interesting at all and you'd like to chat, feel free to chat/message me. Have a Blessed Day!

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2024/11/06
23:06 UTC

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Anyone from Philippines?

Is there any Filipino Christians here? Let's go!

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2024/10/27
09:45 UTC

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Looking for friends?

It’s a website I’ve just made to promote a discord account.

https://www.bethelightdiscord.com

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2024/10/16
00:41 UTC

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24m4f Pennsylvania church nerd seeking a study buddy!

Hello! Thanks for stopping by! Like the title says, I'm just a church nerd looking for a woman with similar interests. I'm a Lutheran (NALC) by choice, and a relatively new one at that, even though I've been a Christian since I was a kid.

Some of my interests and hobbies are: -studyung theology, church history and doctrine -science (currently working on my BS in physics) -photography -history -reading -making things (I knit, crochet, nalbind (please ask me what that is, I love teaching people about it), cook, bake, build models, do calligraphy, I used to blacksmith, make items out of leather, I can go on for a while honestly) -learning new things (all of my other hobbies hinge on this one, and that does mean if you have a hobby or passion you want me to be interested in, I probably will get into it)

Other facts about me that may be pertinent are that I'm an animal lover (dyed in the wool dog person, but I'll love any animal that comes to me for pets, haha), I come from a close knit family, I was homeschooled, I've had several different jobs through my adult life, but I'm currently looking for work that will balance with my studies, I've never dated before, but I have had a lot of close platonic friends who are women, so I'm not a total incel or socially inexperienced, and I am currently discerning my vocation while working on my bachelor's. I am a firm believer that science and faith pair very well, and I will gladly explain my basis for believing that if you want me to.

Ideally, you would be woman who is passionate about her interests, loves learning new things, doesn't mind the occasional debate or talking in depth about our shared interests, either Lutheran or don't mind me attending a Lutheran church, and possibly pastoring one someday, wants to have a family either by birth, adoption, or both, and is looking to be a life partner/partner in crime/travel buddy/iron-sharpening-iron companion and equal with a similar man.

So yeah, that's my post. If I sound interesting, send me a DM or leave a comment. Thanks for visiting my tiny corner of the Internet, and I hope you have a great day, and that we'll talk soon! Safe travels!

PS: in case you go scrolling through my post history, and find posts I left on exchristian subs, here's the explanation: I was at a very low point in my life several years ago, and I blamed God and fellow Christians for it. I have since come to terms with the fact that the church is made up of messed up people, and that's the whole reason why we need the church and, more importantly, Christ. I left these posts up because they are a part of my past, not because I agree with them anymore. I have to acknowledge that that part of my life happened, but I am continuing to grow from it, by the grace of God. So there's that, lol.

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2024/09/25
21:04 UTC

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Get some dialogue and conversations going

Hello and good Sunday afternoon. I’m looking to connect with a few people to talk to and have some good conversations.

It feels like the world is moving so fast. Too fast. There’s SO MUCH going on, we take in so much and it’s hard to absorb or really think on it because some other thing happens and takes our attention.

I live a pretty reclusive life right now—WFH and live alone. I like it but at times I don’t and it’s agonizing. I’m a people person. But I appreciate it and have learned a lot. I’m looking for people who may relate or who can understand. You don’t have to be in the same place as me though. Eventually I would like to have these talks on voice chats so please don’t reply if that’s not something you want to do. I’m missing connection in my life so if you can relate feel free to DM me.

Some topics (off the top and no particular order)

Plain old reading the bible and praying. How it relates in our everyday lives. How we see it and God in our day to day.

Technology (it’s affects good and bad)

America (where I live), other countries, the world and what’s going on good and bad (this covers a lot of topics - religions, politics, institutions, policies, environments etc)

The workforce (the present, future, wfh, AI)

AI

People, relationships

Health (physical, mental, emotional)

Growth

Hobbies and interests

Thanks and looking forward to it.

Edit: age group, older than 30s+ only please

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2024/09/01
18:26 UTC

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44 [M4F] Anywhere | Musings

I want a woman who adores me and I her. Of course that won’t always be the case. But as we grow in the Lord together we’ll experience more of that than the opposite.

Maybe it’s a mid-life crisis but, 1) if I can meet a woman and 2) get past a couple weeks without saying goodbye or being slowly ghosted then 3) I’d love to have some convos about having children and starting a family. I never had a great desire for children. Marriage, but not children. But the desire has grown these past couple years. Or maybe I’m getting old and I’m desperate to figure it out before I’m too old. In no rush but kind of am? If you get that, let’s commiserate.

I want hugs. I wanna cuddle on the couch watching a movie and eating popcorn. I miss saying sweetie and babe. I miss being the big spoon, snuggled up behind, kissing your neck and head, smelling your hair and falling asleep together. I miss my arm going numb under you hahah.

Roadtrips are in my future. You also? Let’s talk and plan.

Let’s find a church together. I would love to be a part of a community like Acts 2:40-47 or Philippians 2:1-4. Where is something like that?! Let’s look for it.

That’s all for now. Just sharing, and maybe we’ll connect. But until then…whatever. Lol j/k. IYKYK. Not jaded. Just fully experienced.

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2024/06/20
22:17 UTC

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25M - Florida/USA -- Looking for A Godly Woman

Hey there! Been some time since I posted before, and now that I recently moved to Florida,I thought I'd try reaching out once again.

About me: 5'11, 200 lbs and lowering, broad shoulders, see picture for more. I'm open to giving more if you want! https://imgur.com/a/1ClP2hm

I'm open to someone anywhere in the country, though someone in Florida or the south. But if God calls me to someone across the country, then that's who I am meant for. So feel free to reach out.

About my faith: I grew up in the church, and really got "serious" around 7th grade. My view is closest to Baptist, but my beliefs on the faith comr from studying His word and learning from others over sticking to what's popular with any denomination. I really like the phrase from Rupertus Meldenius: "In essentials Unity, In non-essentials Liberty, In all things Charity."

Some things I like: -History -Reading -Building and Painting plastic models -Learning to Bake -Games (Video and board, tell me your favorite board game!) -Music -Working out (new to doing it regularly) -Swimming -Laughter

I don't drink (though I believe alcohol in moderation is fine. I just hate the taste and smell personally haha) or smoke.

What I'm looking for: A woman between 22-26. Someone nice who seeks to grow every day. Someone who values kindness and promoting peace, and wants to create a family in the somewhat near future. Someone who looks for the good in life. And someone willing to meet in person within a month or so, if LDR.

If I sound interesting at all and you'd like to chat, feel free to chat/message me. Have a Blessed Day!

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2024/05/15
22:55 UTC

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24[M4F] - anywhere/ online - looking for serious relationship

▫️I’m Joseph, 24 years old ▫️Faith - Christian ▫️I been working in advertisement field under Amazon. As well as doing my Masters (MBA) in Business Analysts. ▫️I’m waiting to complete masters by 2025. And move to business analyst/ Data Analyst roles in the future. ▫️I’m a God fearing Christian guy. ▫️I like to sing and write song and listen to music ▫️In lesiure time I like to play games and listen to some interesting topics on YouTube like mystery or something that’s informative and thrilling ▫️Been involved more in church, like to take worship.

▫️I’m brown skinned guy with black hair with brownish red eyes and little bit heavy ( been working on myself in gym to get down the size). ▫️Im very active and always energetic to do thing. Like to travel around and always ready get outside of home and go for a spin in the city time to time

Looking for someone who is God Fearing woman. Who believes in Bible. Also like to help me and support me. Who is kind and caring and loving.

If you’re interested and wanna talk and know more about me. You can dm me with your intro. Would love to get to know about you. I’m okay with LDR and relocating too

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2024/05/13
14:40 UTC

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22 [M4F] from North Carolina, looking for love!

Hi! I'm from North Carolina and have lived here all my life. I've grown up in the church, and I have been saved since around the summer after 8th grade (or earlier, I can't remember the exact date). I'm currently working on completing my bachelor's degree in business management and marketing, and I expect to graduate in December. Looking for someone who truly has Jesus in her heart and has biblical values and beliefs! I love Jesus, and I want to be able to talk about God on a daily basis. Lastly, I don't mean to sound negative to anything but I have a pet peeve regarding lack of hygiene. I'm not asking for perfection and of course we all slip up at times, but if you don't brush your teeth/take a shower regularly I am not interested in a romantic relationship with said person. I know this might sound a little ridiculous (but that's how my ex was and I really don't want to go through that again 🤢).

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2024/04/07
21:39 UTC

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24[M4F] - anywhere/ online - looking for serious relationship

▫️I’m Joseph, 24 years old ▫️Faith - Christian ▫️I been working in advertisement field under Amazon. As well as doing my Masters (MBA) in Business Analysts. ▫️I’m waiting to complete masters by 2025. And move to business analyst/ Data Analyst roles in the future. ▫️I’m a God fearing Christian guy. ▫️I like to sing and write song and listen to music ▫️In lesiure time I like to play games and listen to some interesting topics on YouTube like mystery or something that’s informative and thrilling ▫️Been involved more in church, like to take worship.

▫️I’m brown skinned guy with black hair with brownish red eyes and little bit heavy ( been working on myself in gym to get down the size). ▫️Im very active and always energetic to do thing. Like to travel around and always ready get outside of home and go for a spin in the city time to time

Looking for someone who is God Fearing woman. Who believes in Bible. Also like to help me and support me. Who is kind and caring and loving.

If you’re interested and wanna talk and know more about me. You can dm me with your intro. Would love to get to know about you. I’m okay with LDR and relocating too

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2024/04/06
04:07 UTC

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Looking for some advice

Hey all, just wanna start with saying I appreciate you taking time to read this, I’m new to Reddit and never really use it so I hope I’m not breaking any “rules” as I’ve been called out for that before on other subreddits.

Regardless. I just wanted to ask around for some advice on good dating sites to find a Christian girl (Im a guy). For context, I don’t wanna dox my location as I’m not comfortable with that; but I live in a pretty liberal city and even the churches in my immediate surroundings are pretty liberal as well (unfortunately).

I’ve heard a few good things about an app/website called SALT and another called CDFF. If y’all have any other recommendations I would be really appreciative! Also as an aside I’d like to not pay, I’m in college and not trying to spend unnecessary money (not that I’m broke lol, just seems pointless if match rates are usually practically 0 most of the time).

Thanks!

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2024/03/28
18:33 UTC

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32F Christian looking for other Christian friends

Hello. I hope you are doing well.
I'm a 32 year old Christian women looking for other Christians to be friends with. I hope we can all grow together on our Christian walk.

My Christian walk so far

Parents took me to a Presbyterian church when I was younger. Don't remember too much about it other than a Church member setting it on fire one time. Some time after that we moved and went to a non-denominational Church closer to home. I credit this Church on giving me a strong foundation of the Bible.
I believe got saved around the 6th grade and tried to read the Bible on my own during this time. I didn't understand a lot of it but I tried my best.
In High School I joined the Christian club. When the club disbanded in my senior year, I joined Fellowship of Christian Athletes even though I am terrible at sports and anything athletic. I'm glad they let me join. High school was a rough time for me and these clubs really helped me through it. I thank God for bringing me great Christian friends during this time.
Had another rough time when I was at college. It was out of state so I had no church family at the time. I knew someone who went to my college that was open about her faith and I asked her about going to Church with her. It was really great going to Church with her group of friends every Sunday and eating breakfast afterwards at the cafeteria. Felt like this helped me grow in my faith a lot too.
Fast forward to a few years ago, my family and I were not happy where we lived. Someone at my job talked about moving to North Alabama and working at that location for the company. Talked to my mom about moving to North Alabama because we have relatives in North Mississippi and how we could be closer to them if we moved. First she was kind of dismissive but slowly warmed up to the idea. I prayed about it a few times too. Then one day when we all went to a TobyMac concert and the man in front of us in line was from North Alabama. We talked to him about North Alabama and what life was like there. We felt like God put him there for a reason because of it. Like you all need to move to North Alabama.
Some time after the concert we did move to North Alabama. I lived at an apartment at time and it was next to a Baptist church. Went there when I was finally settled in and it felt like home. It reminded me of my old church and everyone was so kind and welcoming. I went to the guest services to learn more about the Church and by chance someone there was my age and invited me to her life group. Also started going to Bible study on Wednesday nights. With me going to life group and Bible study, my faith grew even more. Felt like God really blessed me with this Church.
My Church would hold a lake baptism event. Even though I was baptized when I was a baby, I felt God was calling me to do it. I was kinda pulling a Jonah at first though. At first I was like, "God, I know you really want me to do it but I don't think I can because it is the day before my business trip". I know. Extremely dumb excuse. The event got rescheduled to a different date. I took that as a sign that I needed to get baptized so I did.
That has been my walk so far.

About me

I am an introvert. I like doing a lot of arts and crafts. Drawing, digital art, comics, quilting, crochet, painting, animation and more. Harder to list an art thing I don't like doing. I enjoy watching anything animated. I also read comics and manga. I do puzzles sometimes too. So basically I am a huge nerd with a side of weirdo.
If you have come this far, thank you for taking your time to read this giant wall of text.

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2024/03/15
12:35 UTC

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47 M4R California 209 Area Code

I'm currently in the process of divorcing (Just waiting for her to sign some last paperwork) and do to some of her isolationist tendencies I am trying to rebuild community. Not really ready to date at this point, but would love some more believers in my life.

A bit about me. 47, two kids 9 & 11 boys who I have 1/2 time. I work in IT so I can be a bit of a geek at times. I play bass guitar for my church and have an irreverent sense of humor. I am spirit filled, and if you are not I don't think that needs to be something that comes between friends. I believe in having people in your life that see things differently.

I enjoy movies (though pickings have been slim lately) trying new things be that food, events, or just doing something I've never done before and just getting together with people. I play a few online games and one of the things I have enjoyed is getting to talk (Discord) to people I would never had met before but would love to meet people who are not 1000+ miles away.

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2024/03/04
17:59 UTC

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M25 - Florida/USA -- Christian Lawyer Looking for A Godly Partner

Hello there! I in the process of moving to Florida (should be done soon) so I thought I'd try reaching out once again.

About me: Lawyer, 25, 5'11, broad shoulders, see picture for more: https://imgur.com/a/UP51FrJ

Non-denominational, Baptist-leaning Christian. I'm open to someone anywhere in the country, though I'd prefer someone in Florida, particularly someone near Sarasota county. But if God calls me to someone across the country, then that's who I am meant for.

Some things I like: -History -Reading -Trying out new food -Games (Video, board and tabletop) -Music -Hikes (or at least starting to enjoy them!) -Swimming -Laughter

What I'm looking for: A woman between 21-26. Someone nice who seeks to grow every day. Someone who values kindness and promoting peace, and wants to create a family in the future. Someone who looks for the good in life.

If I sound interesting at all and you'd like to chat, feel free to chat/message me. Have a Blessed Day

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2024/02/19
01:14 UTC

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37F losing faith but hopeful for a spiritual mature and intellectual man aged 35 to 50.

I was hesitant to put a post after not having much success finding the type of ppl I'd like to get to know, but here comes a shot in the dark :)

I'm 37,never married, no kid, intellectual and spiritual mature typed looks for a gentleman of similar nature. I've lived in 4 distinct regions in the US, as well as few different countries in different continents.

Personality:

• I'm becoming more introvert as I become older, but always down for intellectual,heart to heart conversation with good company.

• Downtime: Enjoy reading various forms of non-fiction books or watching YT videos on personal finance, economy, scientific and current events.

• Hobbies: Being out in nature for a hike, gardening, painting, variety of library events, thrift store deal hunts, local history and museums exploring, traveling or road trip, playing strategic boardgames. I've been an avid strategy board gamer, eurogames if you have heard of it, for about couple of years and enjoy volunteering in convention.

• love language: words of encouragement, caring gesture and serving, quality time and heart to heart conversation

Character:

• Heart of gold, gentle spirit and believe in doing the right thing, spiritually aware of my emotion and intentional about my behaviors and thoughts

• I hold traditional views on social and fiscal issues in my personal life, but libertarian view on governorship.

I've a master's degree in a technical field. My life has been guided by sense of curiosity about our world , society and self. Looking forward a genuine connection with a gentleman who is age between 36 to 50, at least 5'8" ( because I am), hwp, emotional available, thoughtful, and intellectually curious.

If you like what you read this far, I'd also like to share that I am Southeast Asian Born, and located in northwest FL. I have no problem engaging LDR and willing to move to anywhere in the country. I have no immediate family here.

I'm on the FIRE path, and would prefer someone with a good sense of personal finance management, or at least open for positive change. look forward to hearing from you.

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2024/02/10
00:08 UTC

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23 M4F: New Hampshire/Massachusetts/Nearby

Hi! If you’re reading this, I hope you’re having a sweet day.

My name is Andrew, I’m a 23 year old Christian man and I’ve wanted somebody to really spend some time with in hopes it sprouts into something more.

My conversion to Christianity was actually fairly recent, having witnessed myself the comfort it has brought to me and my family, and studying it makes me enjoy life even when it seems like things are hopeless.

I love talking about other countries, culture, and religions, (I’m obviously knowledeable on Christianity and Judaism but I do enjoy learning about Islam) and I’m not opposed to talking to somebody outside the U.S, however if you are in the U.S, I’d personally much prefer you be either in or at least near Massachusetts.

I also enjoy acts of service and being physically affectionate, but in a sweet way and not solely a lustful way (I am a virgin). I enjoy giving rubs and taking walks especially, I also enjoy a decent sense of humor.

I’m 6:4 with a rather average build that I’m working on improving, I’m ethnically Italian as both sides of my parents are from there.

Requirements:

Has to be in Massachusetts, now if you’re relocating here, ignore this.

I would love a faithful women of course, but she doesn’t have to just be a Christian, I love Jewish women as well (Wouldn’t be opposed to a Muslim, Hindu or other type of women either but that really depends). I like a women who is devout in her beliefs and even willing to teach me things. I’m very open to learning more about anything and enjoy spending time in any capacity.

I want someone who comes from a good background, now I don’t mean that you can’t have any issues from your past, we all have problems, but I just want someone relatively stable.

Age is a complicated issue, anyone 18-31 is welcome but if you’re older I can Maaaaaaybe work with it.

Most importantly, I want someone who is loyal, have had issues with this in the past and have a zero tolerance for disloyalty put into me by my parents.

Feel free to talk and don’t be nervous, I can be an awkward guy and understand how it can be on here.

Take care! God be with you.

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2024/01/08
02:25 UTC

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38M... Iowan Chef/ Artist/ Musician Seeks Spouse for Wonderful Happy life...

Hey, my name is Tom. I'm a chef (hibachi), artist and musician from Iowa. Just turned 38 last month...

I work hard. I'm super dedicated. Sometimes I think having a big family would be amazing, and while I would absolutely LOVE being a father, I suppose I'm still discerning that calling upon my life. I definitely envision myself with a stay-at-home-mom type - someone who would back me in my ambitions and take care of the kids, but who knows what God has in store. We can think we know everything, and then wup - turns out that wasn't the thing all along.

Reach out if you need some recipes or have some to share! I'm always looking for more. Seems nobody is cooking nowadays. I have some interest in herbalism and the homesteading lifestyle, but it's more of a peripheral thing at this point. I am an experienced gardener and have quite a nice library of herbalism books and other stuff. Cookbooks, of course...

At the moment, I'd say I'm pretty denominationally homeless, but I have a lot of experience with the Catholics and the Orthodox. Have recently been to some non-denominational services with a friend and they were cool. Mostly attending Catholic services as of late, but sparsely. I have a deep devotion to and personal relationship with Jesus.

Open to discussion on anything!

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2023/12/19
07:21 UTC

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22F - Oklahoma looking for Christian friendship

Hiya I'm Rue and I am a Christian (Evangelical is would say). I'm gonna say this first I'm kinda awkward at times and don't text long paragraphs all the time either. But if you're ok with that here's more about me. I love art and horror. I prefer ink and pencil art because they tend to have a lot of details and wonder to them. Why I like horror? Because of the hidden details that come with that as well 🥰. There's a cool 4 hour on Hereditary that talks about the hidden meaning and all that if you're interested. Fashion and Makeup are super cool and underrated imo lol. Clothes and tell so much or nothing at all haha it can tell be style (same with art too TBH). Some of my favorites things? The color pink and gray, fave meal salad, fave Flim Killer Klowns of outer space. I would love to talk about my faith more with you if you would like, I'm currently working on it so I'm definitely not on the same level as some of you guys. Have a bless one!

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2023/12/17
14:41 UTC

3

[20M] Evangelical Christian searching for long lasting friendships.

I am a human who has a few too many hobbies. I don't mind if you don't have similar interests. What matters to me is if we get along together y'know? That's all.

I will be studying Psychology in college next semester and it will begin in not too long. I'm an Evangelical Christian. I love hearing peoples thoughts and ideas of and about this world, life, and Christianity. Sometimes I ramble on about my own thoughts as well not gonna lie. Depends on who I'm with I suppose.

If you need to vent, as well I am willing to listen. Seems many people are looking for friends and could be potentially struggling. Can be hard out there so give it a try, as is there's not much to lose I'm just a stranger to you right now.

I do play games sometimes, but rarely. I play MC every now and then but never too long as I can get bored easily. Maybe we could play together every once in awhile. But that will, not be my main focus for a little bit here there's much I am to do before I allow that for myself.

I also write, and enjoy doing so. And well, I suppose researching random topics of interest to myself. If there's a topic of interest to you, maybe I'll find it interesting. Anyways the real reason, I guess for posting this is to make friends before the college experience begins so I'm set to go with everything I got.

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2023/12/16
02:08 UTC

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M25 - Florida/USA -- Law School Grad looking for Long-Term.

Hello there! I thought I'd try reaching out once again.

About me: Lawyer, 25, somewhat quiet but I open up when comfortable. 5'11, broad shoulders, see picture for more: https://imgur.com/a/UP51FrJ

Non-denominational Christian. I'm open to someone anywhere in the country, though I'd prefer someone in Florida/the South, since I'm moving to Florida next Spring (in Washington right now though). If God calls me to someone across the country, then that's who I am meant for.

Some things I like: -History -Reading -Trying out new food -Games (Video, board and tabletop) -Music -Hikes (or at least starting to enjoy them!) -Swimming -Laughter

What I'm looking for: A woman between 21-26. Someone nice who seeks to grow every day. Someone who values kindness and family, and wants to create a family in the future. Someone who looks for the good in life.

If I sound interesting at all and you'd like to chat, feel free to chat/message me. Have a Blessed Day!

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2023/11/24
00:25 UTC

7

31 [M4F] #Ireland/Europe- Looking for someone in particular

*Had to label this as NSFW, because of words I include in this post.

Isn’t dating fun? Isn’t looking for someone fun?

- “Uh, hello? Anyone there? Yes, hello. I’m, uh, I’m looking for Somebody. Can you tell me where she is?

- No, I don’t know her name.

- Uh, no but I’ll know what she looks like when I see her.”

- No, she doesn’t know me either, I’m afraid, but I’m here to find her anyway”.

Seriously, isn’t this fun? No one else finds it fun?

Anyway, if you’re here, then please get back to me, because I’ve been looking for you everywhere.

I'm looking for something that shall become serious. Therefore, if you're serious too, then allow me to introduce myself.

Child-free... I don't desire children, so this is the biggest dealbreaker.

I'm happy with a long-term relationship, as long as you're in Europe and I can fly to you. It'd be nice for us to go traveling too. I’d be willing to travel that bit of distance for someone truly serious, and hopefully, she’d feel the same. My work allows that too, so not just holidays.

I want to continue living in Europe. This means I won't be moving to North America, Asia or any other continent. Visiting, sure, living, no.

I'm hugely into languages, I can cook, I am very disciplined with finances, and am fit. It's important to me that you make an effort to be as healthy as you can be. I don't believe in perfection but in being the best version I can be, and I want my partner to help me become the best I can be, and I her. If you're looking for someone, then you gotta put in a bit of work too, and I'd like to be with someone who understands that.

As a Christian, I am non-denominational. I also value simplicity as part of my faith. I don't mind Catholic, Protestant or Orthodox. I will totally respect your path, and I expect you respect mine.

I believe that kindness is a virtue, but I don’t consider myself a “nice guy”. Good guy would describe me better.

I love to lightly tease, and I love to make naughty jokes, because I love to express my naughty and mischievous side with my lover. I can be too serious, so I love being able to truly be myself with someone.

I never like to describe my positive traits, because I prefer others to do that for me. However, one thing I can 100% say about me is that I am a great listener and am able to be very understanding. That is something I can 100% stand by. I like being listened to as well, because I believe conversations are a two-way street.

I'm introverted and don't like nightlife, and I’d prefer things that involve small groups rather than large groups with my partner. That said, I have good social skills, it's not like I'm a hermit. I love to keep an element of simplicity in everything I do, and that’s a vital ingredient in creating special memories together with my partner.

Age-wise, I prefer 23 - 36. I prefer you don't smoke, take any drugs or drink too much... I do none of those.

Don't worry, not gonna send *bleep* pics and I guarantee respect in every message... and expect the same back.

Just so you know, monosyllabic answers totally undo a conversation. The way I see it, if you're looking for someone, then you gotta put in the work, and I'd like to be with someone who understands that. I put effort into conversations, and frankly, don’t wanna spend ages texting.

So if anyone sees her, can you let me know and DM me with her pic? I’ll know then that it’s her! I’ll send my pic too, so you’ll know from my good looks. And uh, we gotta catch up on voice chat some time, too! We’ve never done that before. If you see this, please do get back to me.

Cheers everyone and take care.

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2023/11/05
17:36 UTC

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I (25M) need some advice on whether to let my GF (26F) go or save the relationship

I 25M play for a pro sports team and have been dating one of the athletic trainers in our organization 26F for about 8 months. It's been mostly long distance because she works for one of the other teams we have and we would probably lose our jobs if people found out. She's the first girl I ever told that I loved her and have had really strong feelings about her for sure but as of late I've questioned. She has said she would leave her job to be with me and I feel insanely guilty about that. I don't know if I can fully commit to her right now and don't want her to leave her dream job on that chance. Also to make things worse, I am a pretty devout Christian and she isn't. I feel guilty when we sin together but she doesn't and it's started weighing heavily on me. We are living in my hometown right now for the offseason and she doesn't really want anything to do with my family and she gets mad at TINY things all the time and won't talk to me for an hour or more til I come back and kiss up to her... so that's burning me out a bit. And on multiple occasions she's twisted the reality of what's happened while we're arguing so that worries me. We had another big fight last night and I finally snapped and broke up with her and moved out back across town to my parents house but she said she would be willing to work on the stuff I talked about and give me another chance. But I feel like I'm seeing the writing on the wall that we just aren't gonna work in the long run. We would continue to have to hide our relationship from everybody for at least the next year if not the one after that too in order to keep our careers going. We went from long distance straight to moving in together after the season and it's been pretty rough at points but also great at other points. She’s been really good to me at times and has been a good GF but all of the times she gets mad at me are making me feel like it’s not worth it. We’ve only been living together in our own place for a week and l'm already having these doubts. Im really torn because emotionally I love her but her actions mixed with the job situation and our religious views are making me seriously doubt it all in the long run. I know that was a lot but any feedback is appreciated. Thank you!

TLDR- lots of factors playing into me deciding to continue the relationship or let her go.

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2023/11/05
01:12 UTC

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33 YO Male for Female. Southern Cali

I'm pretty down to earth. I love comedy and like to laugh. I like music and films. Like to hike, Nature and animals I also have a big dog. Not into alcohol or drugs. So obviously not into partying. I dig sci fi and Marvel alot. I'm very much into paranormal and looking into related stuff. Just looking to talk and get to know someone. I am active in church and my faith. Just a guy looking for his person.

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2023/10/31
05:58 UTC

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20M Looking for friendship to enjoy.

Lately I haven't focused too much on my social life and I think that is holding me back a little bit in finding a bit more joy out of it. So I guess I'll give you a few facts about myself. I enjoy deep conversations, joking and laughing. Only now attempting to grow closer to God and for this reason I am looking for Christian friends here, as well as real life. That however will take a bit more time. However I do make certain that this won't stop my growth with the Lord.

I would like to get to know whoever you are even if we hold different interests or points of view as logically speaking why attempt to limit yourself to things that only I know? That's not the best way of going about things. While yes it does allow for an easier method of connection it is also good just to know and expand my knowledge.

I am continuing to study and pursue a few goals which I might tell you a few of in the future however please be certain to note that I am attempting to leave some things till when we speak in order to allow more connection and discussion about all that. So that being said, hope you understand and maybe we can speak soon :)

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2023/10/18
20:09 UTC

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25M UK looking for Christian friend

I don't know anyone around my age that's Christian. I'm an artist that runs a small business and I'm also into gaming and film/tv. I'm mixed race, tall and on the slimmer side if that matters to you.

No offence but I'm not interested if you're not serious about your faith

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2023/09/24
06:07 UTC

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Dating advice for christian teens?

I’m 16F and looking for a christian friend. if you guys have any tips I would really appreciate it

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2023/09/17
21:46 UTC

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M4F 23: New Hampshire/Nearby. Looking for a long term relationship.

Hi! If you’re reading this, I hope you’re having a sweet day.

My name is Andrew, I’m a 23 year old Christian man and I’ve wanted somebody to really spend some time with in hopes it sprouts into something more.

My conversion to Christianity was actually fairly recent, having witnessed myself the comfort it has brought to me and my family, and studying it makes me enjoy life even when it seems like things are hopeless.

I love talking about other countries, culture, and religions, (I’m obviously knowledeable on Christianity and Judaism but I do enjoy learning about Islam) and I’m not opposed to talking to somebody outside the U.S, however if you are in the U.S, I’d personally much prefer you be either in or at least near Massachusetts.

I also enjoy acts of service and being physically affectionate, but in a sweet way and not solely a lustful way (I am a virgin). I enjoy giving rubs and taking walks especially, I also enjoy a decent sense of humor.

I’m 6:4 with a rather average build that I’m working on improving, I’m ethnically Italian as both sides of my parents are from there.

Requirements:

Has to be in Massachusetts, now if you’re relocating here, ignore this.

I would love a faithful women of course, but she doesn’t have to just be a Christian, I love Jewish women as well (Wouldn’t be opposed to a Muslim, Hindu or other type of women either but that really depends). I like a women who is devout in her beliefs and even willing to teach me things. I’m very open to learning more about anything and enjoy spending time in any capacity.

I want someone who comes from a good background, now I don’t mean that you can’t have any issues from your past, we all have problems, but I just want someone relatively stable.

Age is a complicated issue, anyone 18-31 is welcome but if you’re older I can Maaaaaaybe work with it.

Most importantly, I want someone who is loyal, have had issues with this in the past and have a zero tolerance for disloyalty put into me by my parents.

Feel free to talk and don’t be nervous, I can be an awkward guy and understand how it can be on here.

Take care! God be with you.

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2023/09/01
16:15 UTC

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[20M] Christian looking for a few friends to grow with

I am a human who enjoys a variety of different things and hobbies. Although don't mind if you don't have similar interests. What matters to me is if we get along together y'know? That's all.

Trying to study psychology some which is one of my many interests. I may state more of them later but for now I just wanna make this short. I'm an Evangelical Christian. I love hearing peoples thoughts and ideas of and about this world, life, and Christianity. Sometimes I ramble on about my own thoughts as well not gonna lie. Depends on who I'm with I suppose.

If you need to vent, as well I am willing to listen. Seems many people here looking for friends are potentially struggling. Can be hard out there so give it a try, as is there's not much to lose I'm just a stranger to you right now.

I realized I didn't include my interests too much, now it feels almost too long to add too much more so I suppose I can leave you off with something basic such as gaming. I play MC every now and then (although very rarely honestly as I find games boring to play often and for too long), maybe we could play together every once in awhile or find something else to do. Whichever the case I do not mind.

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2023/08/28
03:39 UTC

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Any success?

Anyone have a success story here? Like have you meet someone from here? I feel like Christian dating is not that easy in this modern world.

5 Comments
2023/08/10
18:12 UTC

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