Give me some ideas of things I haven’t watched yet.

I have met up with >30 guys on the apps, and of that, only ONE had cats.

Why do they all have dogs??? Like a solid half of them have dogs.

Is it because I go after bears? Are bears predisposed to like dogs over cats?

I bought a ticket last week for a gay club underwear party for the first time, but my friend who was planning to go together with me told me that he could not make it for tonight. As an introverted and unconfident male(not in good shape), I am thinking of skipping it.

What's the obsession with bareback in the gay community? I've done both bareback and with condoms and I prefer to use condoms as they act like an all encompassing cock ring or cock suit that slightly constricts the blood vessels on the surface and keeps a hard on longer lasting.

Moreover with raw fucks, it can get unhygienic as bad stool smell may stink even if there's no stool on the dick or inside the bottom's rectum.

Since uploading my profile picture today (new), I have had 84 views, but no taps or anything.

Should I da a view? I would like to get laid tonight.

Hi! I published my first book on experience as lgbt in Oklahoma. It's on Barnes & Noble online. I'm hoping to generate interest. Thank you.

Dustin Terry's They Say You're An Interesting Person is a riveting exploration of a life filled with extraordinary events, dark family secrets, and a relentless search for inner peace. From the backroads of Oklahoma to the corridors of power, this memoir delves deep into the complexities of growing up gay in a region rooted in tradition, grit, and mystery.

Dustin's childhood was anything but ordinary. Raised in a family with ties to the infamous Little Dixie Mafia, his early years were marked by whispers of underground casinos and the daring exploits of his great uncles—legendary bank robbers who lived on the edge of law and danger. These stories shaped Dustin's understanding of loyalty, risk, and the shadowy side of the American dream.

But his journey didn't end with family lore. Determined to carve his own path, Dustin applied to the CIA, uncovering a world of espionage and intrigue, including the story of Robert Rouse, a family friend and pilot for Air America, a covert CIA operation. His career in the U.S. Air Force led him to work on the groundbreaking first stealth fighter, offering a rare glimpse into the innovation and intensity of military life.

Dustin's drive for justice saw him playing a pivotal role in being a whistleblower responsible for Iowa's anti-foreign lobbying laws, yet even as he achieved professional milestones, he faced personal battles. Growing up LGBT in the conservative heartland, he struggled to reconcile his identity with societal expectations.

This memoir is not just a recounting of extraordinary events; it's a deeply personal journey of self-discovery. They Say You're An Interesting Person explores themes of resilience, forgiveness, and the quest for authenticity. It's a story of breaking cycles, challenging norms, and seeking serenity amidst the turbulence of a life lived boldly.

Perfect for readers drawn to true stories of perseverance, untold history, and personal triumph, this book invites you to walk alongside Dustin as he navigates a world shaped by secrets, courage, and the unyielding desire to find peace.

or do i not understand how tinder works? i saw even some guys ask men not to like them but as far as i understand if you choose man as your gender there and select to show you women, you should not see men at all and they should not see you(unless they pick woman as their gender).

i find it very confusing when i see pretty guys in my feed but they mention in their bio their preferences for women or something like this that clearly indicates that they are hetero.

Has anyone ever had their doxypep fail? Like, you had an encounter, followed the guidelines perfectly, and then tested positive for an STI? The internet has stats on effectiveness but I can’t find a single story of it failing.

What’s the kinkiest thing you have done or want to do?

Now the shit weather is here I've been looking online at gays only holidays... I would be going on my own but just curious if anyone has been on one and can share there time there! I'm curious but the reviews don't go in to the nitty gritty parts it's always " I had a lovely time" and " great stay nice place nice staff" I wanna know what it's like to hook up at one or what the vibe is like there... Thank you in advance

I’m asking because I used to be not conventionally attractive myself until I got a ton of laser hair removal and it’s really improved my life. strangers and even my loved ones to an extent treat me alot better now

So I’m curious to hear from gay men who choose not to alter their appearance, why?

Hello!

I am curious to how you would go about fulfilling the fetish I have and if it's a strange thing to have. I've always been attracted to a man who's fully dressed and absolutely love the idea of clothing play. I have specifics in appearances that I really enjoy, but the range is quite wide. I am quite obsessed with jeans and cargo shorts.

Anyway, I prefer clothed interactions over nude ones (out the fly, etc). I have had a few experiences, but its become my main thing and I am concerned that if I tell a guy "keep your clothes on please" he may think I am calling him ugly.

How would you find this interest? Also, am I a very slim minority in this sense?

I really want to explore things like dildos, cock rings, vibrators, fake silicon butts etc. but I’ve never bought anything like that before I don’t even know where to start? Where do y’all like to buy stuff like that?

Mine is either getting gangbanged on a private jet by some "popular" individuals, or that one time I may or may not have been fucked by a politician in what may or may not have been a government building 👀

Just wandering on if it's a big thing or not?

Hello there. I’m 28 years old and have always considered myself straight, however for many years now I’ve obsessed over cock. I’ve got a similar story as a lot of people on here, can’t really see myself ever being with a guy and not really attracted to them in that way, but I can’t stop watching gay porn and getting on grindr/sniffies.

I’ve had 2 experiences giving into the urge. Both at random adult stores on roadtrips to be as anonymous as possible. One of those times I got sucked through a glory hole and the other time I did the sucking through the glory hole.

Embarrassingly, I made myself cum while I was sucking the guy off, got nervous and left without finishing the job. Ever since then the obsession to suck again has gotten stronger.

Eventually that desire has started to morph into being a complete bottom. I get on these sites like grindr and sniffies and send pictures of myself to people, get so horny and so close to meeting up but I chicken out. And often times after I cum I’m glad I didn’t go through with it.

I’ve begun to realize that these thoughts are never going to go away and they will keep getting stronger. I worry that once I take that leap, I won’t be able to stop.

There’s this part of me that just simply wants to be used. To be dominated. Told what to do, focus only on satisfying someone else. I need that push, someone to make me realize that I should give in. Someone to teach me how to be a true bottom and what it’s all about. I’m a pretty typical man, masculine and often on the position of taking charge. I don’t know why I have this desire to be treated like a beta fag.

More than down to DM about this. I want to behave like a sub.

As the title says. What would you feel if you were asked? Are you the one who will initiate? Share your thoughts or better yet, you're experience.

Just for curiosity.

(I'm not talking exclusively about dating, but for meeting guys, hooking up, etc.)

Hi woman here and I have really been into anal here lately with my husband. The problem is if it doesn’t happen as soon as I get out of the shower I don’t feel clean enough. Is there anything that anyone can tell me on how to stay clean there???? Please and thank you 🙏

I am 19M and the times I have had sex so far, I always finished handsfree with no issue at all, and some times my top gets confused and asks that how is it possible because we always see and hear people talk about needing to jerk off the bottom while having sex. I think I have premature ejaculation so I don't know if that's part of the reason or not

As a 24-year-old gay man, I have had my best friend (straight) for almost 2 years. I have always thought he was handsome, but as I got to know him, the desire to eat him disappeared and I began to love him like a brother. We both have our respective partners. but from time to time the feeling of desire comes back to me, I have never tried anything with him, and I don't see myself abandoning my boyfriend of 3 years of relationship for him if he hypothetically came out of the closet, it's just sexual desire, however I It's uncomfortable to feel like this, I want to know if this is usual or advice on the subject.

Anything exciting? Or, will it be pretty uneventful?

I started using this one with my last boyfriend who was a tall slm smooth young sub. He was the only one I've used it with as sex with him was special.

Bf was lying face down on the bed, cute ass up. I mounted him from behind and penetrated him. I now slid my hands under his body so I could grip him by the shoulders. I could then pull myself deeper inside him as he moaned with pleasure. I'd fuck him hard and deep until I spunked inside him.

Hey, I’m really curious to know what it feels like to bottom, as in pleasure wise. Can anyone explain in detail what it’s like? I know when fucking the sensations feels great on the cock, how does it compare to receiving?

I'm 42 and have been wearing andrew christian briefs for 20 years. They are comfortable to wear and have plenty of room. I particularly like the "almost naked" models. However they are expensive. Tried other different brands but they alwsys feel too tight (not on the waist band). Any suggestions?

Kind of a random thought But would you let a girl go down on you?

I just want to everyone's honest thoughts on grindr! I've been a frequent user on it and I'd say that it's ok. I seem to be running into more and more flakes and people kinda just ghosting me after we agree to make plans, so please let me know your thoughts on the app. Also let me know of any good alternatives that may yield or give me more pleasant interactions (If the title looks weird it's cause the stupid thing auto corrected)

I'm a 20 year old Bisexual guy from Mexico. I'm looking for my first serious relationship but I really don't know where to look. I've never had a boyfriend, I'm still a virgin, I haven't even had my first kiss. So although I would love a relationship, I'm a bit terrified of what I'll encounter. Any and all suggestions are welcome.

Boxer of Briefs?

What's the appeal? Is it the constant flow of new content, the community, or something else?

Let's hear your thoughts!