Hey all... sun-shiney Saturday & no ability to sun bathe as a man should. Also, all alone & lonely. 🤣 Who wants company?

Hi all,

If you have time and are comfortable, myself and the other researchers on this topic would love for any individuals who fall into the population mentioned in the photo (18-25, LGBTQ+ and in Hillsborough) to take part in this survey!

ALL responses are completely anonymous and voluntary and will be used for a class project at USF.

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Thank you, it is greatly appreciated!

My landlord has a room available in this 3br house for a single man. Since I'd like some say in who else I have to live with, I'm advertising. I'd like a gay man, comfortable with casual nudity, & full-time 1st-shift worker. We're not an interactive house, preferring to stay in our rooms, but the rent is comparatively cheap (tho I don't know the exact dollar amount landlord would charge). The room available is the master bedroom with bath.

Hey there. I saw there are a few Tampa-related servers, but they're all very niche. I wanted to create something more general that could serve everyone in the area. Anyone is welcome to join. If you remember the old MSN ChatTampaBay, something like that.

https://discord.gg/WkemfUze58

Hey y’all.

Over the past year I’ve become friends with this boy at my school. Him and I became friends when we were put in the same group in a mandatory retreat (we go to a Catholic school) and we ended up having the same sense of humor. He invited me to his birthday and things developed from there. Since his Birthday, we have been a part of a mutual friend group of about 8 people, that also formed early this year.

The two of us will play-flirt and joke around whenever we're together. He knows I'm gay, but also understands that any flirting he or I do, is a joke, so theres no pressure or discomfort.

However, recently his streaks on snap have been VERY revealing. He used to just send his face but now he’s been sending me low-angle, shirtless, v-line, abs, and arms. The first time this happened I didn’t think much of it, but after doing it multiple times, I asked him (on snap) if he was sending these as streaks. He said, “nope just u”. I replied with “ok don’t let me stop you” in order to keep it unserious, and he sent me 💀💀💀💀, so he knows it wasn’t serious.

Here’s what really worries me. He has liked this girl in our friend group for several years now, and has openly told her more than once. She always turns him down, and this pattern repeated itself recently. This time was different though, because usually he’ll bounce right back and continues to be jovial around us. But since then, he’s become cold and distant from the whole group except for me. I’m worried about him as a friend, and know that there has to be more to the story than him getting rejected. I also don’t want him to go looking for satisfaction in me, just because he got rejected again. I don’t know how to help him and desperately don’t want my friend group to fall apart because of this. Any advice is appreciated

Hi. I’m 17 and I have know that I’m gay since I was a little kid. Growing up I wasn’t super comfortable telling people and unfortunately, when I got to high school, my best friend outed me to everyone. It was awful, and it made me different from all of the people I had just met. I wanted so desperately to be accepted by the other people at my school because up until then, I had been homeschooled and very isolated. Unfortunately, because I go to a Catholic school, there wasn’t really a community I could be a part of, and I was instead treated to blatant rejection and harassment from the majority of my classmates. Fortunately, my parents didn’t get the memo that I was gay, and home became a sanctuary for me. Having seen how others reacted when finding out about my sexuality, I was paralyzed by the notion that my family would suddenly treat me the same way I was treated at school. So instead of looking to them for support, I stayed closeted and resentful. However, last Monday night, I was arguing about my future and how I would never go to a Catholic college. Eventually I told them the reason why I wouldn’t be accepted at a place like that. However, instead of hating me, they feel only confused and concern over why I didn’t tell them sooner. Although this isn’t the resounding support I hoped for, I can’t even describe how much lighter I feel with this secret off my chest. I don’t know what the future holds, but for the first time in years, I feel so grateful to be alive and I can’t wait to open myself to the possibility of love.

Hey everyone,

I’m Zach, a 20-year-old from Tampa, Florida. After spending quite a bit of time searching online, I realized there’s a real need for a space where we can connect and support each other, especially if you’ve ever felt like your identity was questioned or misunderstood.

Growing up, I often felt like I was supposed to fit into a specific mold of who I should be. That’s something I’m still working through as I navigate my identity as a gay young adult. It’s been a journey of figuring out how to be true to myself in a world that sometimes tries to put us in a box.

I’m passionate about staying active—I love working out, playing pickleball, and hitting the beach. I’m looking to create a group where we can not only share our experiences but also enjoy these activities together. The goal is to build a community where we can be our authentic selves, support each other, and break free from stereotypes.

If you’re interested in meeting up in person and connecting with others who understand what it’s like to navigate these challenges, I’d love to hear from you. Drop a comment or send me a message if you’re interested in joining or just want to chat.

Looking forward to connecting!

Best,
Zach

I moved to Florida 3 years ago for work and still really haven't gone anywhere. I've been trying to date and make friends with varying levels of failure. I mostly been online dating, unfortunately, and I'm starting to get really frustrated.

I keep going on meetup to find a gay social group. I used to be in a board game group that was really fun but that disbanded pretty much right after. It's so far the only time I was successful. But of the two friends I made, one moved away and the other became my boyfriend and broke up with me for nebulous reasons after 2 and a half months. And another person I've been talking to seems to be getting ready to flake on me. Sorry for the rant.

So, I know my best bet is to physically get out there. It's hard because I'm shy and I don't have anyone to do things with, so I haven't had the courage.
So I'm trying to find a gay bar that has a chill atmosphere and isn't too wild. I've never gone to a gay bar, so something too lively will probably overwhelm me.
Or if anyone knows a good social group....that isn't a nudist, cruising, or sex club and not only for women (There are a lot of those I found), advice would be appreciated.

Hey Tampa gays, I’m visiting for the week and wanted to see if anyone had a connect to grab some 420 or a gay telegram group for Tampa in general. Thank you in advance!

Hey! I'm wondering if anyone knows any gay bars or places to meet women in Pasco or Pinellas??

Are you a young adult looking for friends in the Tampa Bay area? In our own search for a place where young adults in Tampa Bay can connect and grow together, we created the Tampa Bay Young Adults Discord server.

Creating the Tampa Bay Young Adults Discord was driven by a core mission: to build a welcoming community where making new friends is easy and everyone feels at home. All are welcome! We're all in the same boat here and can help each other and make friends together. We are very LGBTQ+ friendly and several of our members (including some of the mods!) are in the community.

We created a community where those who are new to the area, currently in college, recently graduated, just starting out in their careers, or otherwise finding their way in life can find a network of support, forge meaningful friendships, make connections, and experience a genuine sense of belonging amidst these life transitions. Even if you've been in the area a while, it's a great place to meet new people and connect with other young adults.

If you'd like to join and help grow our community, please join here: https://discord.gg/ErPMD8hXMk

If you have ideas, feedback, or suggestions on how the community can be improved, we'd love to hear from you and have a channel for your thoughts. Your input is essential in shaping the future of our growing community and we hope you enjoy our server! Hope to see you there :)

It's that season again! lets get out there and support our local businesses and our community.

June 1st - Kickoff Block Party (21+) @ Cocktail
You'll find us on June 1st from 7-10pm on the 2300 & 2400 blocks of Central Ave dancing in streets, enjoying live entertainment, and celebrating in a way that only the LGBTQIA+ community can! Featuring DJ Ace Vedo, a giant Red Bull truck, local LGBTQIA+ performers, corn hole, and a few surprises, the first Satur-GAY of June in the Grand Central District will not disappoint!
https://www.stpetepride.org/events/2024-kickoff-block-party

June 6th - Stonewall Reception ($75pp) @ The James Museum
Join us in celebrating the history of the Pride movement while supporting St Pete Pride's mission during this impactful event. With guest speakers, open bar, and some other special treats, this is an evening you won't want to miss.
https://www.stpetepride.org/events/stonewall-reception-2024

June 8th - Youth & Family Day (free) @ North Straub Park
This joy-filled event will bring thousands of LGBTQIA+ youth, queer families and allies to North Straub Park for this one-of-a-kind Pride event. Last year’s event was a remarkable reflection of St. Pete’s diverse and open-minded community, with many of the attendees being ally families. Guests will enjoy family-focused activities, vendors, and main stage performances.
https://www.stpetepride.org/events/st-pete-pride-youth-family-day

June 13th - Rhythms of Pride (Latin Dance) @ Wet Spot
Get ready for a night filled with vibrant music, dazzling drag performances, and captivating arts from south of the border. Experience the fiery spirit and colorful culture of our Latin Queer family as we come together to dance, laugh, and celebrate. DJ Ace Vedo will be spinning the hottest beats to keep the energy high all night long.
https://www.stpetepride.org/events/2024-rhythms-of-pride

June 14th & 15th - Shades of Pride (Juneteenth Remembrance) @ The Factory
Day 1, Friday, from 5:30pm-3:00am will feature a Prequel to Ballroom, Poetry Slam and Night Party.
Day 2, Saturday, from 1:00pm-3:00am will feature panel discussions, live musical performances and closing out with The Honors Ball.
https://www.stpetepride.org/events/shades-of-pride-2024

June 22nd - Pride Parade Festival (free) @ North & South Straub Parks
The festival, held on June 22nd, from 2pm-10pm, in North and South Straub parks will host a variety of local vendors and food trucks, Glamstand front row parade seating, beverage gardens, multiple stages, family area, and more! Make sure to check back for event maps and updates!
https://www.stpetepride.org/events/2024-pride-parade-festival

June 22nd - Pride Parade (free) @ Bayshore Dr
Get your confetti, Pride flags, and dancing shoes ready as over 100 groups march the parade route coming together for an unforgettable celebration of inclusion, representation, and visibility!  Grab your crew and get set to show that world that in Florida love always wins!
https://www.stpetepride.org/events/2024-st-pete-pride-parade-presented-by-seminole-hard-rock-hotel-casino-tampa

I'm a 30 something 420 loving straight female new to Tampa and looking for Gay friends in the area. And you might be thinking well if you're not gay, why? Well because the best times and best friends I ever had were part of that community and I would love to meet some new ones in this area. recently moved from fort Lauderdale but I don't know how to meet me people. Any ideas?! Halp lol . I love concerts and nature and going out and having good times with good people.

Tampa has got to have more than 1.1K people. And even those of us who're members here have got to have something to say.

HEy all, visiting this coming wknd and would love to know of any events or places to meet ppl - are all the best spots in Ybor? any places around tampa airport. Any club/ bar suggestions willl be appreciated/

Just looking for a little hole in the wall gay bar where I can just be around some queer folk for a bit. Don't have any gay friends or anything and just want to be around some people like me without doing the whole club/ybor thing. Just some where to go, have a drink, and just let my guard down for a little while. Does anything like that exist around here?

Seeking roommate.

I've recently learned about the San Francisco Stank Party celebrating musk and BO.

https://www.tumblr.com/stankpartysf-blog

I would love an event like that here.

Anyone know of any? If not, would there be enough interest to start one up?

Hey Guys a man from your location broke my hearth, He was a narcissist named Matt, I have a horrible depression, I accept advice, I want to get out of this #chile

Hi redditors. I’m currently living in Chicago and my company is relocating me to Tampa area. I’m considering either Tampa or St Petersburg. I reckon St Pete is closer to beaches and “smaller” vibe? But from a gay-point of view, I wonder what do you guys think? Any comment / thought / suggestion / tip is highly appreciated.

Hi everyone. New here but a friend and I are seeing Madonna in Tampa in September. Is there a gay male strip club in the area? If so, is it fully nude? Normally I have seen her in Atlanta and the famed “Swinging Richards” has closed. Any help would be much appreciated-as well as any other recommendations for things to do. Ty!

Hey y'all!

This is the closest subreddit i could find to the topic. I'm from Canada, going to Disney World in May and I wanna do a day at Cocoa Beach. I haven't been since I was a kid and I don't know if it's gay friendly. Can my partner and I hold hands there? Can i wear a speedo? I know things are tough in Florida right now politically, but what's it really like on the ground in the beach towns?

Thanks guys!

I'm staying at the river walk and I know Ybor City is a spot. Anything specific I need to check out for New Year's?