/r/SexToys

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A place to discuss and ask questions about sex toys.

This is a 18+ subreddit and all posts stating that the poster is underage will be removed.


Take a look at our wiki for a quick guide on sex toys!!!

The wiki also have important information for reviewers and guidelines that will pertain to them specifically.


BEFORE SUBMITTING A REQUEST FOR SEX TOY RECOMMENDATION, WE NEED TO KNOW

  • Your price range

  • A size range ("small" and "big" are not enough)

  • Your country location

  • Tell us what you've previously tried and if/why it worked or did not work for you.


RULES AND GUIDELINES

  1. Feel free to ask questions and give your impressions of any/all toys, but please remember that we do not promote unsafe sex toys here. We support the Boycott Toxic Toys movement. If a sex toy is potentially toxic or very porous, please don't recommend it unless there are no other safe options.

  2. When recommending products, please ensure that your links bring the user to a specific toy recommendation, not a site section or landing page, etc. The mods don't have time to verify that your entire link consists of safe toys. Exceptions may be made at moderator discretion for "known safe" sites, searches, sections, etc.

  3. Advertising posts are only allowed in the Weekly Deals Post. If the sole purpose of your post is to link us to your product/store, it will be removed.

  4. No nudity or porn is allowed here. Do not link to porn, we won't watch it to help you name that sex toy. (Don't tell us which video to go watch, either.) Screenshot it and blur out the nudity. Pictures of your sex toy, or sex toy collection (not being used) and linked within the text area, are fine as long as the purpose is to have discussions about them. Pornographic written selections are also generally disallowed.

  5. We do allow "For Sale" posts of non-porous toys only. If you are making a post to sell a toy, please include:

  • A photo of the toy with your username and the date written on a piece of paper to serve as proof of you actually having the toy
  • The country you are located in, and what form of payment and currency you accept
  • Whether the price includes shipping or if shipping is extra; which countries you are willing to ship to
  • Condition of the toy and how it was used
  • Whether you are smoke, pet and disease free
  • Flair your post once you have posted it
  • Please do not constantly make for sale posts if your item doesn't sell. You are allowed to make a repost with a new time-stamped photo every 30 days.

If these requirements aren't met, your post will be removed.

  • Absolutely no hate-speak, derogatory or disrespectful comments will be tolerated. This includes sexist and rape jokes. In short, don't be a dick, don't be a creepy creep, do try not to be immature. Sex can be funny, and we want you to have fun, but there is a line somewhere. Please note: this rule includes solicitation of partners for using or controlling remote-control toys (Kiroo, Lovense, We-Vibe, etc.); r/ToyControl is a better place to post for that.


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    SheVibe Black Friday

    Does anyone know if SheVibe has a Black Friday deal or any discount codes? Just curious before I make a purchase.

    2 Comments
    2024/11/20
    12:01 UTC

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    Lube with sextoys

    I want to know if there are some benefits of using coconut oil as a lube for anal play with dildo.

    Some people saying it lasts longer and and whetever so I wanna know if you have some experinece.

    0 Comments
    2024/11/20
    11:31 UTC

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    I need recommendations

    What’s the best yet cheapest clit suckers and licker toys on Adam and Eve?

    0 Comments
    2024/11/20
    10:53 UTC

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    What kind of automotatic masturbators is good?

    I had my first automatic toy, and the function is good, it does sucking, vibration, Rotating+Thrusting. But the quality of the product is so lousy that I have to throw it after 2 months of use.

    Now I'm looking forward to buying another one since my hand are sore doing it everytime.

    The thing is, what kind of function will be good? I like suction mode, vibration is useless because you don't feel it when thrusting. I don't want to buy another same function. Is thrusting only good? I can't find a machine where there is rotating mode and thrust mode and both together in one machine. Too sad there's no perfect machine exist.

    What kind of modes you guys have and what do you guys have?

    2 Comments
    2024/11/20
    10:18 UTC

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    Short and thick silicone dildo EU help

    I would like to know if you know of some really good short and thick silicone dildos' in EU area (UK is fine as well).

    I have been enjoying immensely this one (https://www.lovehoney.eu/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-ultra-realistic-silicone-dildo-6.5-inch/a48316g86123.html), but on some days (after ovulation) it is too long for me and hits me in my cervix. I have a short canal, so ideally I'd like it to be no longer than 5 inch insertable length, thicker than this one, so around 1.9 to 2 inch girth and to have balls since I cum from balls slapping on my clit.

    If it could also be under 100E you'd really help me out.

    Thanks a lot!

    0 Comments
    2024/11/20
    09:16 UTC

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    Need to buy a discrete toy

    Like those vibrators in plushies, but for a male. Please I want one so bad but I have snooping roomates

    7 Comments
    2024/11/20
    07:08 UTC

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    Is the Njoy wand worth it?

    I’ve been recommend it several times and several friends have said it made them squirt for the first time. Is it worth the price? I’ve seen knockoffs on Amazon but no sure how great those would be, and probably not as body safe. Thanks!

    3 Comments
    2024/11/20
    06:31 UTC

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    I have a question about purchasing sex toys.

    I'm a marketer in Japan.

    I'm interested in sex toys and would like to know the feelings of buyers.

    ・What emotions do you feel when purchasing a sex toy?

    ・Do you feel embarrassed?

    ・If you feel embarrassed, how do you think you can solve that?

    ・If there were online sites with designs like HIMS or HERS, wouldn't you feel embarrassed?

    I look forward to hearing your opinions.

    3 Comments
    2024/11/20
    06:00 UTC

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    Please help me.

    Ok so long story short, today I bought my very first dildo and lube and decided to try it out tonight, and so far things were going well, the lube felt cold but then again, it’s lube and I got ready to place the dildo inside, although I had to go slow since I’ve never master baited with a dildo before, but after a while it really felt good, in fact I was pretty close to climaxing…until I changed into a kinda sitting position and after a while, my inner walls began to close and it jut hurt at little, so I took the dildo out, change the position and put some lube on my pussy again, but then, the lube began to have this weird burning kinda feeling when I put it inside and I had to stop, I don’t know why?

    (Edit:This is my first time using a dildo as I said and it was pretty good until I sat in a different position which tighten my inner wall and it hurt, what was worst was that I didn’t even get a chance to climax, so if any one knows why, please let me know)

    0 Comments
    2024/11/20
    04:32 UTC

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    How can i make a homemade buttplug?

    For personal reasons, i can´t buy any sexual toys, but i really need tips to buy a homemade buttplug even if it´s not the safest option

    18 Comments
    2024/11/20
    04:19 UTC

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    Are orgasms from air pulse toys really that great?

    I see reviews like 'I came in 30 seconds'. 'mind blowing'

    Are these orgasms really so good? Better than oral, fingers, or are these toys best for people who struggle to orgasm?

    I don't understand how women might need foreplay and build up to orgasm with a caring loving invested partner, yet a toy can make them orgasm in under a minute? Do they really need build up if a piece of silocne can do it?

    15 Comments
    2024/11/20
    03:47 UTC

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    [QUESTION] This one's a question for the ladies...

    Lesbians have been using strap-ons to "do each other" forever. Now, there are also dildos that slide over a man's penis to increase his length and girth, and which he could then use with a strap-on harness when fucking his girlfriend.

    I am guessing that in straight relationships, this is not that uncommon, either because the man, who doesn't have a large penis, feels it will help him feel better about himself, because he believes the larger size will make his girlfriend writhe and moan with pleasure, or because the woman has suggested it so she can sometimes experience something larger.

    So, my question for you ladies, gay or straight, is, if the dildo in question is "high quality," made to feel like the real thing, does it actually feel like a real penis, or at least close to it?

    4 Comments
    2024/11/20
    03:29 UTC

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    How do I hide my first dildo?

    I 18M (bi curious) was thinking about buying myself my first dildo. I have everything picked out, a water based lube and a beginner safe dildo. I figured out how I would be able to ship it to me (through Amazon cause I’m too scared to go in person) and how to get it into my hands without it being sent to my house(a Amazon locker at a gas station less then 3 minutes from my home) I don’t know how to sneak it in, how to hide the box, and how to hide the dildo and lube from my parents. I have a box full of computer parts and was thinking of hiding it there in one of those boxes. but I’m scared they’ll find it, they’d never look in there so it might be a prime spot to hide it. My parents are quite conservative and I don’t want them to find this stuff or even know I’m bi/bi curious. Does anyone have any tips about doing this or should I just say screw it and order it or wait till I have my own space/in college

    Ps:was thinking about getting a Chasity cage too but I don’t know if that’s overboard

    7 Comments
    2024/11/20
    02:42 UTC

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    Recommendations for realistic feeling first male toy

    I might buy a toy for myself but i want something that feels very close to real and also has to be from a seller with very discrete packing as i would die if anyone found out i bought this. Also no machine or vibrating ones as i dont want anyone to hear me. Thank you in advance.

    3 Comments
    2024/11/20
    02:33 UTC

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    Cleaning anal toys when traveling to an area with contaminated water?

    So I'm traveling to Mexico and I was wondering if it would be a bad idea to use the tap water to clean my toys since you shouldn't drink it? Would the soap be enough to remove the bacteria or should I get some alcohol wipes or something?

    4 Comments
    2024/11/20
    01:58 UTC

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    How does a beginner buy a sex toy discreetly?

    I'm male and I'm 19. I'm quite embarrassed to say but I'm a virgin and slightly sexually frustrated.

    I really wanted to get a sex toy to "experience" the sensation for the first time in my life. I work and have my own money to compensate for one and was seeing on getting one from amazon.

    Problem is I live with my mom. If she were to find my package delivered before me I would be so finished lol. So what do I do?

    Do I just have to bear with it until I have my own living space or is their a discreet way to get my package without my mom finding out?

    27 Comments
    2024/11/20
    01:55 UTC

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    Satifyer won't work, help!

    I can't remember when I got it or where I got it, but it's fairly recent. It's a satifyer that's red that has the clit stimulation plus a vibrator handle angled for pleasure. Now my problem is the clit part has broken. The vibrate still works, the buttons respond, but there's just no suction I'm dying

    What can I do? Located new Zealand if that makes any difference

    Please help!

    0 Comments
    2024/11/20
    01:28 UTC

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    Advice please for new relationship toys?

    So my new gf and I are away for a night month end and we had a chat re sex toys. Both of us are in our 40's so not new to things etc but we are new to each other. She's said about getting a cock ring which I've had many before but I want to get her a suction dildo for some fun. BUT I'm worried about the sizes etc She's had two children so she's not brand new but feels amazing might I add, so if possible from experience what one would you suggest please? Amazon seems pretty cheap too compared to online stores in the UK

    4 Comments
    2024/11/20
    00:50 UTC

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    Please clarify this to me.

    Am freaking out - Is this correct or not. (India)

    I ordered my muse jack from zepto. Non vibrating product. It was plastic wrapped (looked like new. I had to tear the wrap open) and no seal. When I tore plastic wrap and opened the box, there was a zip lock and inside that a plastic cover and massager

    But it was some kind of liquid inside the pack where toy is present. I could sense smell that it might be lubricant. Is this expected or did I get a used one?

    Did anyone know they ship with some lubricants pre applied or what?

    Any chance I might get HIV or STD ? I don’t have visible cuts. I touched with my hand and washed my hand with hot water .

    1 Comment
    2024/11/20
    00:31 UTC

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    App controlled vibrator for couples

    Looking to get a vibrator my bf can control with his phone. I see many advertised with mixed reviews. I’m one of those ladies that can only finish with clitoral stimulation so one that does a good job with that/ minimal sliding out of place. Any recommendations that you guys have had good experiences with?

    4 Comments
    2024/11/20
    00:18 UTC

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    Strokers

    Hey so question for the guys here. I just bought an Abella danger stroker from Spencer's but I read I would need the revival powder. So do I just sprinkle it on the sex toy or do I also add it inside the toy? This is my first ever sex toy so I don't wanna fuck it up and bc I lack common sense. My last two brain cells are already dying as I type this out.

    0 Comments
    2024/11/19
    23:14 UTC

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    Sex Toy for Boyfriend

    I'm wondering if anyone has any sex toys for my boyfriend, specially for his cock. I want to get him a good solo gift as we both enjoy solo play. He has a downward curved cock and rather than the tip it's the base of his cock that's sensitive.

    He enjoys gripping and squeezing the base when stroking. So anything right with a good grip and open end would be preferable but I'm having a hard time finding anything as most masturbators are difficult to get a good grip with on his cock.

    If anyone could recommend anything id appreciate it.

    4 Comments
    2024/11/19
    22:55 UTC

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    ED and PE issues- help

    Married for 10 years, I’ve always been pretty quick to the trigger but wife never really mentioned it as an issue. Recently she confessed she wants hard sex but knows I won’t last long enough to satisfy her. She has a toy we’ve used before which has been great. But she just wants hard sex. Thinking about hollow dildo, but any other thoughts or recs ?

    4 Comments
    2024/11/19
    22:47 UTC

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    Lovense Gush Girth

    I’ve been looking at getting one but I want to know what kind of girth it can handle. I’m about 7-7.5” thick. I have the Pulse Solo and I have some problems fitting into it, so I just want to make sure I can actually use it.

    2 Comments
    2024/11/19
    22:15 UTC

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    Rose toy

    Yall!!!! I just got my rose in the mail and tried it out for the first time. I never squirted a day in my life and boom rose toy made me do it. I see what the hype was about so glad I bought it lol. I got mine from SHEIN for about 7$ free shipping too.

    2 Comments
    2024/11/19
    22:03 UTC

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    Affordable Sex Machines

    A friend of mine is interested in getting a sex machine, but doesn't have the budget for a premium Hismith. Does anyone have any suggestions for a cheaper alternative? I know what you get what you pay for, but I'm hoping I can find something that is at least okay quality and isn't over £300+. The machine would be used vaginally.

    4 Comments
    2024/11/19
    21:45 UTC

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    Double ended dildo length

    Hi all, I am after some advice and couldn’t think of a better place to ask than here after some extensive googling and yet no clear answer.

    I am looking to get a double ended dildo for my girl to play with our girlfriend. But she wants something that lets their pussy get very close and ideally touch while they both have the dildo inside them. So they can feel each other very close.

    The problem is that most of the ones I found are 18” long and at that length it is more likely to hit them inside before their pussies touch.

    What length have you used in back to back and scissor positions that was good?

    It would have to be the same girth on both ends and it is for vaginal penetration only.

    Also what brands? Preferably silicone, purple, pink, blue, clear.

    Thanks in advance

    8 Comments
    2024/11/19
    21:11 UTC

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    Ive been in several relationships where they find toys not interesting. Are there actually people out there that enjoy toys in a whole and like make them included in their day to day life

    As i said I (22m) have been in several relationships where my partner finds toys unattractive or just arent as i guess "kinky" as me? Its a pain cause after a few dates and we settle in i try to introduce toys (mainly vibrators) so its not anything to big but most are uninterested im curious about peoples thoughts/advice!

    27 Comments
    2024/11/19
    20:53 UTC

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    Sex toys for someone with no idea what they're doing!

    For some reference about me: I am a virgin. I've tried stimulating with my fingers however I cannot really feel anything on my clit (my technique might be bad? Idk I've just had 0 luck stimulating it) and only a little bit with penetration. Like it makes me feel good but not really good. I have no clue what to choose between a dildo and a vibrator, and what products to choose in the more specific categories. Basically, I'm overwhelmed with choices and need help. Anyone have some specific product recommendations that are preferably under like 70$. That would be greatly appreciated.

    8 Comments
    2024/11/19
    20:07 UTC

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    3rd broken Satisfyer, advice on whats next...

    Hello all of you. Ive had 3 of the Satisfyer Pro 2s in the last 4-5 years. One with the single button and then two "next gen" ones and ive absolutely loved them. But the latest one have now unfortunately died also, so im looking for some advice on my next helper.
    Im most interested in the gen 3 of the Pro 2 at the moment but im undecicive on wether i should go for it or try something else, but similar. Would love to hear your ideas and experiences.

    3 Comments
    2024/11/19
    19:33 UTC

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