/r/SexToys

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A place to discuss and ask questions about sex toys.

This is a 18+ subreddit and all posts stating that the poster is underage will be removed.


Take a look at our wiki for a quick guide on sex toys!!!

The wiki also have important information for reviewers and guidelines that will pertain to them specifically.


BEFORE SUBMITTING A REQUEST FOR SEX TOY RECOMMENDATION, WE NEED TO KNOW

  • Your price range

  • A size range ("small" and "big" are not enough)

  • Your country location

  • Tell us what you've previously tried and if/why it worked or did not work for you.


RULES AND GUIDELINES

  1. Feel free to ask questions and give your impressions of any/all toys, but please remember that we do not promote unsafe sex toys here. We support the Boycott Toxic Toys movement. If a sex toy is potentially toxic or very porous, please don't recommend it unless there are no other safe options.

  2. When recommending products, please ensure that your links bring the user to a specific toy recommendation, not a site section or landing page, etc. The mods don't have time to verify that your entire link consists of safe toys. Exceptions may be made at moderator discretion for "known safe" sites, searches, sections, etc.

  3. Advertising posts are only allowed in the Weekly Deals Post. If the sole purpose of your post is to link us to your product/store, it will be removed.

  4. No nudity or porn is allowed here. Do not link to porn, we won't watch it to help you name that sex toy. (Don't tell us which video to go watch, either.) Screenshot it and blur out the nudity. Pictures of your sex toy, or sex toy collection (not being used) and linked within the text area, are fine as long as the purpose is to have discussions about them. Pornographic written selections are also generally disallowed.

  5. We do allow "For Sale" posts of non-porous toys only. If you are making a post to sell a toy, please include:

  • A photo of the toy with your username and the date written on a piece of paper to serve as proof of you actually having the toy
  • The country you are located in, and what form of payment and currency you accept
  • Whether the price includes shipping or if shipping is extra; which countries you are willing to ship to
  • Condition of the toy and how it was used
  • Whether you are smoke, pet and disease free
  • Flair your post once you have posted it
  • Please do not constantly make for sale posts if your item doesn't sell. You are allowed to make a repost with a new time-stamped photo every 30 days.

If these requirements aren't met, your post will be removed.

  • Absolutely no hate-speak, derogatory or disrespectful comments will be tolerated. This includes sexist and rape jokes. In short, don't be a dick, don't be a creepy creep, do try not to be immature. Sex can be funny, and we want you to have fun, but there is a line somewhere. Please note: this rule includes solicitation of partners for using or controlling remote-control toys (Kiroo, Lovense, We-Vibe, etc.); r/ToyControl is a better place to post for that.


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    3

    Toys for newbie couple

    Hi Me (M) and my wife want to try some toys. First time for her, almost first for me (I used a plug a couple of times) She had some anal sex but not regularly.

    I want to get:

    • 2 buttplugs, one for me and one for her. Not too wide, one a bit longer so we can switch them
    • 1 dildo, a bit more than average dick size, nothing monstrous. Realistic shape (details like veins or something not requested)
    • 1 strap on with harness, or just a harness to use with the aforementioned dildo
    • 1 pumping/thrusting vibrator, for anal use for both her and me

    The goal is to somehow simulate a double penetration by a third person for both. Suggestions where to buy safely in Europe? Links to products appreciated

    3 Comments
    2024/12/18
    08:26 UTC

    1

    Male here looking for recommendations

    Hey all,

    Planning on going to a sex toy store tomorrow. Not sure exactly what I want havnt had any before. Fleshlight? Cock ring? Maybe even dildo? Just looking for something fun haha would anyone be able to give suggestions or vouch or certain type of products?

    Not looking for super expensive

    0 Comments
    2024/12/18
    07:24 UTC

    2

    I need help picking out a new toy . . .

    Hello everyone! I'm in the process of picking out a new sex toy. My bf and I use all of the following toys together. I want something specifically for him though. I'm not looking for a specific toy as much as I am a type of toy. The toy must meet the following requirements:

    TIA!!!

    1. Can(doesn't have to) be a bondage toy

    2. Can(doesn't have to) be an anal toy

    3. Can(doesn't have to) be a penis toy

    4 Must be $50 or less (I know this one depends on brand etc)

    Here are the toys we already own:

    1x 8 in long 3 in wide dildo

    1x 8 in long 1.5 in wide thrusting dildo

    1x 5 in long 2 in wide vibrating butt plug

    1x 38 in long 1 in wide anal snake

    1x 12 in long 2 in wide dildo

    1 x hand dildo with full arm (full size)

    1 x 1.5 in wide glass plug ​(no taper for constant stretch)

    4x Anal Plug

    1 ​x han​dcuffs

    1 ​x ​a​nklecuffs

    2 ​x ni​p​ple Clamps

    1 ​x T​raction Rope

    1 ​x ​Neck Restraint Ring

    1 x Ball Gag

    1 x ​Anal beads

    1 x ​Flogger

    1 x ​Feather Teaser

    1 x E​ye Mask

    1 x cross Strap

    1 x ​rope

    1 x paddl​e

    4 Comments
    2024/12/18
    05:15 UTC

    2

    Pink bunny vibe

    One night, my boyfriend and I decided to get a little extra kinky. He took off my top and shorts, cuffed my hands, and tied them to the bed. He moved my panties to the side, and we had a great round in that setup before he finished on my tummy. This wasn’t the first time we’d done something like this.

    But what was new this time was what happened after he came. He brought out my pink bunny vibrator, set it to max, inserted it inside me, and then put my panties back on to keep it in place. And girl, I couldn’t do anything but just feel everything it was so insanely good! My clit and everything inside were so overstimulated. I was shaking, moaning, and almost shouting from the overwhelming pleasure. Sorry, neighbors! Haha.

    And then suddenly, our food delivery arrived! He actually left me tied up like that! I wouldn’t be surprised if the delivery guy heard my “singing notes” LOL.

    My husband took his sweet time coming back, and by the time he returned, I was completely drained and sprawled out on the bed. Only then did he finally remove the vibrator. Hahaha!

    11/10 would absolutely do it again.

    Xoxo

    0 Comments
    2024/12/18
    04:47 UTC

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    First time user need help selecting a toy

    30/male searching for a penile masturbator/sleeve/hole. I am disabled (SCI/nerve damage.)

    Penis size girth: 2-2.5/6 inches around. Length. 6-7 inches. Closer to 6.5-7.

    I need something firm/tight but not painfully tight. I have spinal damage and was wondering if vibrating would help me feel things? I was looking at the Lovense max 2 or calor.

    I have never owned a sex toy before. I am looking to shop USA. But do not mind EU.

    Notes to add: I have fine motor skill issues (gripping. Holding things) so something automatic might help. I have no foreskin. I can keep and maintain an erection unassisted for 5-10 minutes or so. I cannot ejaculate easily. If I should consult a doctor then that will be my next step.

    Thank you.

    ETA: if it can be used long distance I would appreciate it.

    0 Comments
    2024/12/18
    04:41 UTC

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    Mixing lubes

    I've heard that boybutter is very good for long term plug wear, but also that mixing lube with white food dye makes a decent fake cum.

    If I were to fill myself up with a few pints of fake cum and then plug myself with a plug generously coated in boybutter, would there be any negative effects to the two making prolonged contact inside me?

    0 Comments
    2024/12/18
    03:43 UTC

    2

    Things to know about pocket pussies

    I’m 18 and I finally got my first pocket pussy it comes in tomorrow and I’m wondering what are something’s I should know before I go to town on it?

    5 Comments
    2024/12/18
    03:42 UTC

    11

    I really get what a cock cage means now.

    At first, I was worried about whether it would be obvious when I wore it outside, but the more I worried, the more it actually made the experience even more exciting. When you're walking outside, that feeling like you might be caught really gives you an unbelievable thrill. I absolutely love it.

    11 Comments
    2024/12/18
    02:32 UTC

    1

    Is the website Healthy & Active reliable?

    Hi, first time posting here, I'm leaving my safety zone of browsing my local Spencer's. I was trying to buy directly from a brands website and it brought me to Healthy & Active. That place has everything I did and didn't know I wanted! It feels almost too good to be true especially with this holiday discount, so please, tell me it's true? I can get some lovely reliable toys at a good price from them? Thanks

    1 Comment
    2024/12/18
    02:31 UTC

    4

    What’s a good plug for gaping and all day wear?

    I’m looking for a plug that would help me achieve a nice gape but is also comfortable enough to wear all day. I’ll prefer more affordable options but I’m open to considering more pricey ones.

    5 Comments
    2024/12/18
    01:32 UTC

    3

    What are some reputable realistic dildo brands?

    I'm currently looking at dildos from Fukena and a couple of them have caught my attention so I'll probably be getting Fukena in the near future.

    I do enjoy exploring my options and doing quite a bit of window shopping. I know of Vixen, Naked Addiction, Blush, and Hankey's. I've tried Vixen, NA, and Blush, but I would like to know if there are there any other good brands to look at for a quality realistic dildo.

    Thanks in advance!

    9 Comments
    2024/12/18
    01:08 UTC

    1

    Desinfection sextoy

    I have a Satisfyer rechargeable toy and i want to know how to desinfect it properly other than with those cleaning spray?

    I saw boiling sextoy but i don't think it will work with electronics.

    11 Comments
    2024/12/18
    01:03 UTC

    118

    Texas Bill to Ban Sex Toys from Large Retailers

    So stupid. This is really what Texas politicians are focused on.

    https://capitol.texas.gov/tlodocs/89R/billtext/pdf/HB01549I.pdf

    69 Comments
    2024/12/18
    00:28 UTC

    0

    Dildo suggestion for anal play on a Liberator Wing

    Hi, I’m a guy and enjoy anal stimulation. My wife occasionally pegs me, but when she’s not in the mood for it, it can be a bit hard to have the same fun solo. I have found that riding her with the strap on tends to work well for me so I ordered a liberator Wing today.

    The dildos we currently have and use are a vixen vixskin mustang that has been the one we usually use. We occasionally use a fuse tango, but more for hand use as she finds the bulb too large / uncomfortable, and that it doesn’t position the dildo at the right spot for my ass. It’s also tricky managing it through a Spare Parts harness. We used to use a Tantus Goliath, but while it’s been a while, I think it was a bit on the large side (diameter wise) if we weren’t playing very often so would take a bit more warming up.

    I like the Mustang, but I feel like it’s a bit too soft almost, which can make it a bit tricky to get in (and esp. “back in” if it falls out during). Likely also because of its softness, I feel like I’d want it to be thicker to feel more full. The Goliath I think was a little on the hard side, and a bit large at the head. The fuze tango is an ok length, but is much thinner so I wish it were more filling feeling.

    I’m not sure if these toys will be long enough with the Wing, when it arrives, and losing that length would be sad :(

    Based on my experiences with the mentioned toys, does anyone have any recommendations?

    Thanks!

    1 Comment
    2024/12/18
    00:19 UTC

    1

    First time buyer, really need advice with authenticity!

    Hello everyone, I’m looking at my first purchase (I will provide all links at the bottom). I have three options in mind, 2 from one site one from another. I just want to know what you guys think about the legitimacy of the site and product. I have done my own research but just wanted to do more! Thanks for the help!!

    Supplier sites: rosemarytorso / linkdolls

    Product supplier: Qita Doll, DANG XIA

    Links:

    https://www.rosemarytorso.com/product/25cm-10in-28lb-tpe-big-ass-masturbator-lu-lu/

    https://linkdolls.com/products/t683-24lbsexy-and-real-realistic-ass-sex-doll-torso

    1 Comment
    2024/12/17
    23:35 UTC

    1

    Dom seeking a soft tail buttplug for my puppy sub with sensory requirements

    Hi all! I'm looking for a tail buttplug for my sub, who's inexperienced with anal but wants to try. He hates artificial scratchy faux-fur textures -- having done a cursory search just now, I can't trust any of the options available to NOT be weird and scratchy.

    So I need individual opinions here. I'm looking for the softest, smoothest, fluffy/silky/whatever tail for my sub. Preferably on the smaller side buttplug-wise, and preferably in some kind of bright colour (bonus for purple/multicoloured, double bonus with matching soft ears), but I'll take anything that lets him be a pretty puppy while not being irritated by sensory issues!

    Shipping to the UK (or Canada, and I'll bring it over to him; I could possibly swing US shipping if necessary). Appreciate any and all help!

    0 Comments
    2024/12/17
    22:08 UTC

    1

    Site/Brand check!! Please help! Does this purchase look potentially suspicious??

    Hello, I was thinking about making a purchase but I just wanted to run it through here and see if anyone has any experience with rosemarytoros the site as well as the brand of toy I’m buying in “Qita Doll”. Did some basic research and both brands seems legit. Does anything about this listing look suspicious??

    Site listing below: https://www.rosemarytorso.com/product/25cm-10in-28lb-tpe-big-ass-masturbator-lu-lu/#&gid=1&pid=6

    0 Comments
    2024/12/17
    21:55 UTC

    5

    I'm looking for an internal/G-spot vibrator that has a 1.5+ hour battery life.

    I recently purchased a CalExotics Azure G-spot vibe... it was the toy OF MY LIFE until it quickly died thirty minutes after a full charge. It dies within use every time I use it. It's heartbreaking because the shape and size and vibration patterns are absolutely ah-mazing. Does anyone have any suggestions for a moderate to slightly large-sized G-spot vibrator that has a 1.5 - 2 hour minimum battery life? My budget is around $60.

    This is the vibrator I'm in love with, but can only use for very short periods of time before it dies. The dimensions are 1.75" at widest point, and an insertable length of 6.5".

    7 Comments
    2024/12/17
    21:10 UTC

    2

    Does anyone have experience ordering from Hole Punch Toys or Self Delve? What was the packaging like?

    I’m considering ordering from them, but I share a mailing address with other people, and I’d rather not be sent a package that is very obviously a sex toy. Was the packaging discrete?

    Also if you’d like to provide experience on how the toys were, I’d appreciate that as well!

    2 Comments
    2024/12/17
    20:29 UTC

    3

    Smooth/non-textured thick toy?

    Largest toy my wife takes is the Vixon Randy. Likes the stretch but the head ridge is too much. The Randy is listed at 2.25” diameter (7.1” circumference). Anyone have a good recommendation of something large but very smooth? The doc Johnson great American challenge looks nice and smooth but the head ridge looks pretty intense.

    2 Comments
    2024/12/17
    19:36 UTC

    2

    Pegging dildo without harness?

    In my search for a dildo small enough for me (under 1” in width) I came across some small pegging dildos that might work, but is there a way to find dildos like that without the harness that seems to come with them all?

    Also, are there any like that vibrate as well? Something like this but without the harness?:

    https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Toys-Harness-Dildos-Strap/dp/B0CBPHN87G/ref=gp_aw_ybh_a_m_sccl_1/144-2432922-8626942?pd_rd_w=YrQsU&content-id=amzn1.sym.9720001e-8f8b-4ff3-adb5-e19707d971f6&pf_rd_p=9720001e-8f8b-4ff3-adb5-e19707d971f6&pf_rd_r=9E7BKHSJES27YV4RZ9YF&pd_rd_wg=PP0DD&pd_rd_r=18b76ad1-22cb-4719-bad2-91ae361f297a&pd_rd_i=B0CBPHN87G&psc=1

    Thank you so much!

    3 Comments
    2024/12/17
    19:14 UTC

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    Unicorn vibrators are way too good for how adorable they are!!

    I’ve been searching for a clit flicking vibrator for a while and I was shocked when the staff at my local shop recommended the Unihorn. There are several different models, and they all are super powerful and well designed. They look like a child’s bath toy little unicorn lol but they are legit!

    Quality silicone and fully waterproof. Comfortable to hold, and are fun and comfortable in different positions as the entire body vibrates. Three of them had the flicky tongue feature I was looking for, but I ended up going with Mount n’ Peak.

    I’ve owned vibrators for 20 years and usually the more cutesy the toy the less quality it is. So I was so thrilled to find a toy that functions exactly how I’d hoped (did I mention the amazing o’s???) and as a bonus is adorable 10/10

    https://unihornofficial.com/collections/the-unihorns?srsltid=AfmBOopJWvWrS_amAMKXue8v2kDZZe04_ecxTIUqgbjgutMS0poujAwd

    1 Comment
    2024/12/17
    18:46 UTC

    1

    G spot Vac u Lock toy

    I’m looking for a really good realistic dildo that is curved upward and firm enough that the curve remains strong.. Like firm on the inside and soft outer core.
    There are a couple of porn star models but they are fricking huge. I don’t want something; that I need months to get used to.

    These are the only ones I can really find. They all seem really huge. Also, the Doc Johnson Black g spot toy isn’t what I’m looking for. It’s cheap and has bad reviews.

    Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Signature Series - Jeff Stryker - 10 Inch Realistic ULTRASKYN Dildo with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - F-Machine & Harness Compatible - for Adults Only, Vanilla : Health & Household

    Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Merci - The Perfect P-Spot Dildo 9.5" - with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - ULTRASKYN - for Adults Only, Black : Health & Household

    Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Signature Series - Dredd - 13.5 Inch ULTRASKYN Dildo with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - F-Machine & Harness Compatible - for Adults Only, Chocolate : Health & Household

    Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Signature Series - JJ Knight - 8.5 Inch Realistic ULTRASKYN Dildo with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - F-Machine & Harness Compatible - for Adults Only, Vanilla : Health & Household

    https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/prince-yahshua-10-5-ultraskyn-cock

    6 Comments
    2024/12/17
    18:41 UTC

    3

    Looking for a new career in designing and making sex toys!

    Hello!

    I’m a 25m mechanical engineer from the US looking for a new career. I am looking for a new opportunity as I believe I have done as much as I can for my current company.

    A bit about my credentials:

    A bachelor’s of science in mechanical engineering

    4 years in industry with a focus on design and production line efficiency

    Proficient with multiple forms of CAD, using some for more then 10 years at this point

    Works well with Microsoft office suite of apps, as well as use of SAP and other ERP software.

    Lastly for this simple post a love for the fun side of life that I think sex toys are able to bring people in their day to day life.

    Feel free to message me for more details and resume information. I’m also just looking for a career in product design so I’ll gladly ask to reach out as well even if it’s not about sex toys haha.

    4 Comments
    2024/12/17
    18:34 UTC

    8

    Any good penis sex toys?

    not looking for a fleshlight or pocket pussy though. i wanna try something interesting!

    21 Comments
    2024/12/17
    18:00 UTC

    1

    Reputable dildo brands

    I need to find some reputable brands that do import their dildos outside and don’t only stay in the US and are the safest material there is and money can buy, its not an issue how expensive it may be, ı just want to be safe and thanks in advance

    2 Comments
    2024/12/17
    17:58 UTC

    3

    The Handy. Anything better, stronger?

    I love the Handy. It's a great toy. I bought the Venus 2000 and the Handy is even better than that to imo. I bought the Norbra Twincharger and I was disappointed.

    But I'm looking for something similar to the Handy with, as Tim Taylor would say: "More Power!"

    I heard about the SR6 or OSR2. Or that automatic fleshlight.

    Something like a Stroker but that can go faster and harder?

    Any suggestions?

    3 Comments
    2024/12/17
    17:44 UTC

    14

    Cock rings

    As a follow-up to my previous post about what sex toys to get my wife, I've got some questions about cock rings. First off how do I pick on out and second are the ones with little clit vibraters/suckered worth it and finally what are the benefits of cock rings. Thanks in advance ☺ have a merry Christmas 🎅

    24 Comments
    2024/12/17
    17:36 UTC

    1

    Recommendations for toys that aid female orgasm during sex

    I’m going to look for some sex toys today and I was wondering if anyone knew of some that would help a female orgasm during sex penetration wise?

    I typically have some issues finishing during sex by just penetration and I’d like to look for some ways that would make it easier.

    Any and all suggestions and questions are welcome

    64 Comments
    2024/12/17
    16:31 UTC

    1

    Toys for Eating Out? Preferably a porn star/model mold

    I saw that there is a pussy juice lube... And I wanted a great toy to eat out. I'm getting a lovense max for my dick, but wanted something else to eat out. ❤️ I wasn't sure if Fleshlights, etc. were good for that or if maybe I should get one that's just a lower torso? Something preferably easy to hide but if it has to be a lower half then I'd prefer something that's a realistic size. Anyone have expert with this?

    I could just get a Fleshlight or similar product of a model I like and eat that, but wanted to know what else I had for options that would taste and feel good hehe

    3 Comments
    2024/12/17
    16:30 UTC

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