Recently been hitting a major wall with my Aneros sessions.

For the longest time I’ve had great sessions usually lasting around an hour of intense P waves and pure bliss. I’ve never quite achieved a super O and usually my prostate ends up tired and drained around the 1 hour mark and I have to stop.

Here’s how my play goes (progasm) I start out doing absolutely nothing and relax my entire body and mind and let the tiny sensations slowly build. Then I start contracting until my toy gets a mind of its own and the involuntarilys start. My penis and anal muscles start twitching and the toy starts moving uncontrollably inside me, followed by P wave after P wave. Interestingly though, the earlier waves are the strongest and they tend to die out and I become tired very fast and my sessions end lack luster. I hit a wall very fast and have trouble building on the sensations each P wave and have to start from scratch after each one. Almost as if it were a wet orgasm.

Any tips?

I've been playing with aneros alone for a while now, everything's good for now, no orgasms yet but awesome sensations.

Anyway, I'm thinking about bringing it to my girlfriend, I'm sure she'll not juge me but I have no idea how to use it with her, what are the different ways to use it ?

Thanks!

For those of you interested, I started a 30 day no cum challenge 3 weeks ago with the end goal of having a session with my aneros toys after those 30 days while also taking supplements to increase my load.

Here is the original post, 2 week update, and 3 week update

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/s/g3PRwCDxHx

2 week update: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/s/LPqTgj6XRs

3 week update: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/s/8mbJQdCAWt

It's now been 4 weeks since I last came and I can't believe I've made it this far. I stopped taking the pygeum last week and I feel like my libido has pretty much returned to normal. At times this past week I haven't felt like I needed to cum, but at the same time I've also felt so horny that I would do anything to feel some sexual stimulation.

My cock has been extremely sensitive lately and sometimes I would start to get hard just from my head rubbing against my boxers. I would also randomly push my cock down into me and rub the head of it like it was a clit and that would feel amazing, causing me to moan until I stopped. I did also edge myself before showering for a couple of nights and it only took me 20 seconds before I had to stop and take my hands off my cock.

I had a couple of close calls with wet dreams with one of them on Wednesday night. As a precaution, I decided to wear my chastity cage to sleep last night and that's when I had my other close call. I think it's safe to say that I'm ready to explode everywhere. I also found out that I will likely have my alone time starting tomorrow instead of on Sunday so if that's the case, I'm going to have my aneros session I talked about one day early. I don't think one extra day at this point will make much a difference and I'm very much looking forward to it and all the sensations I'll be feeling.

This is a really long post…I wanted to give a recap of my best session. I see a lot of different experiences on this forum but I have never really seen a detailed description of what I experience. I feel like it stays pretty close to the wiki but I still thought it would be helpful.

I kind of have 4 mental checkpoints I go through.

Setup (because I know people will ask)

I lay on my back with a rolled towel under my butt to keep the toy from hitting the ground. I do this on a towel on the carpet because I find the bed sinks too much and the toy hits. I also sometimes roll on my side with my bottom knee up when it seems like I need a change.

I use normal water based lube. I do have to reapply at times. It is annoying but sometimes it helps to take it out, lube it up and let it find a new place when it settles back in.

No THC or any other drugs/stimulants.

Starting: Getting turned on

I watched porn to turn myself on. Usually long videos or a playlist so I don’t get interupted. I prefer erotic artsy stuff with music or hypno audio mixed in. Something I don’t really have to pay attention to but just keep on in the background. Look up Halcyon Daze on Spankbang for an example.

Then I played with my nipples and tried to get turned on as much as I could. I did some contractions and squeezes but then I just took the do nothing approach and looked for pleasure.

First Checkpoint: Feeling a whisper of pleasure

I felt a little touch of pleasure from my prostate. Some contraction (voluntary or involuntary) or toy position or movement caused a tiny jolt of pleasure. (I imagine the toy hit the perfect spot or rubbed the right way when this happened.) It was tiny, barely noticeable but I focused on how it felt and what I did to feel it. Then I felt another. And another. Mentally I focused on making it happen over and over again. I tried not to focus on exactly what I was doing, just visualizing it to happen again. I also shifted the focus away from the porn I was watching. Just left it on in the background and listened to the moaning.

The more it happened, the better it felt. Eventually my cock twitched, which felt good but I noticed the other “prostate” feeling stopped. I focused on bringing it back and when I did I tried to prevent my cock from twitching.

It's kind of like when you rub your frenulum or head very lightly and your cock twitches. It feels good when it happens but it's also a little relief from the tease.

I wanted to tease my prostate without allowing myself any kind of relief so I focused on not letting it twitch. When I did this the pleasure increased and the desire to let my cock twitch grew.

Second Checkpoint: P waves

After a lot of teasing (small pulses of prostate pleasure every few seconds) and focusing on every little pleasurable feeling I just relaxed and started to enjoy the sensations. Eventually it started to merge into something bigger.

What I can only describe as a wave of pleasure slowly grew and caught me off guard. It felt incredible. As it faded I wasn’t sure what to do. I wanted it to happen again so I just kept relaxed, kept focusing and, sure enough, it came back. Another wave grew and then receded and I audibly moaned. I probably would have called it an orgasm had I not read the wiki and known about P waves. It really felt that good.

I relaxed and thoroughly enjoyed each wave. They were getting stronger and I was moaning, rolling my head back and forth in disbelief of how good it felt.

Third Checkpoint: Spontaneous Erection

With the intense pleasure I noticed something else happening. To this point my cock was mostly soft. But now it was getting hard. It pulsed as the blood flowed into it and now I was feeling pleasure not only in my prostate but my cock too. It threw me off and for a few minutes I lost my focus and the P waves went away. This was upsetting because I knew I was building to something incredible.

I again took my focus away from my cock and back to the pleasure in my prostate. Luckily, after a little teasing, the waves came back.

Fourth Checkpoint: Dry Orgasm…Super O…I don’t know if it was but I don’t care.

Now I was rock hard and the P waves were intensifying. I felt a new sensation at the tip of my penis. It felt like a drop of precum was forming right at the tip and my head was so swollen. I focused on not letting my cock twitch because I knew in my mind it would feel good but interrupt the P waves.

Both feelings grew more intense. It felt like precum was dripping out of my cock and something was going on in my ass that is hard to describe.

People talk about the toy “auto fucking” them and it seemed like that was happening. I felt like the toy was really starting to move in a rhythm that I was not controlling and it felt incredible. A warm sensation started to grow from my prostate and it was becoming almost impossible to prevent my cock from twitching. Meanwhile I am moaning and my heart is starting to race.

Then I felt like I was going to cum. And I literally moaned out loud “OMG I'm cumming!”

And then I came. My cock was contracting and it felt like I was spurting load after load. Except I wasn't. Nothing was coming out. Over and over my cock “pumped” nothing. It felt like the really strong contractions when I'm shooting a huge load after edging myself for a long time. Except it just kept going and going.

It felt so good, my body was tensed up, I rolled my head back and forth moaning. It went on for so long (idk minutes??) that eventually a thought popped in my head “is this ever going to end? How long can I take this pleasure?”. That is what ended the waves. Everything subsided a bit and I was just in shock of what happened. Also a little disappointed it was over…

Three thoughts came to me as I relaxed: 1) I just had a Super O. 2) Where is all the cum that surely came out of me? 3) I want another one.

I focused on my prostate again and felt another P wave growing. It built up again and again and then I was cumming again. I'm not sure how long my second Super O lasted but it was pure bliss. 

Was it an out of body experience? I don't know…sort of. Was my body shaking and spasming? No. Did I feel the heartbeat of the earth and the transport to a different dimension? No. But it was so pleasurable I didn't know how to process it. I just let it happen and let it take over my mind and body. My whole body tingled, my cock was orgasming and my prostate was on fire. It was absolutely incredible.

Eventually that thought again came to me: “Is this my life now? Am I just going to lay here with this toy fucking my brains out? When do I end it?” Then the waves subsided. I was almost afraid my heart couldn't take it so I just let it stop.

End

Exhausted and ready to stop, I decided to touch my cock. I had a small puddle of fluid on my stomach (much smaller than what I thought would be there) and I used it to lube up myself and have a traditional penile orgasm. It was brief but intense and kind of felt like a good way to wrap things up.

But...

Here is the kicker…A week or so later I was able to reproduce basically the same experience and I thought I had it all figured out. I was going to post a guide on here to help people and everything. But that was a few YEARS ago now and I haven’t been able to do it since. I try every once in a while and the most I’ve gotten is some P waves (which I consider a successful session because they do feel really good).

Where I get stuck is getting to that first checkpoint. I have a hard time finding that whisper of pleasure. I get all in my head about needing a different toy, or different lube or different position or technique. It usually takes a good hour or more to feel anything. And by that time I am so excited to feel the pleasure I forget to focus and look for the P waves. Or I’m just out of time.

I really believe it is mental. I have messed around with the Mindgasm app (during the free trial in November) and I think that its focus and meditative style is probably the key for me to get back. Especially those later lessons that tell you to stop contracting muscles and just imagine that you are and think about how it feels. I have actually gotten some P waves with no toy at all.

Next time I think I will do this:

1. Insert toy and go through some contractions and squeezes, look for any good feelings
2. Once my muscles are tired, stop thinking about the contractions and just relax.  Do nothing. Let the involuntaries do their thing.
3. Look for the whisper and focus as much as possible on the the feelings of pleasure
4. Do not let my cock twitch, force myself to be teased
5. When the waves come, relax and focus. Let go of any further expectations and stop looking for pleasure in my cock.

Just curious to see what everyone's favorite aneros model is and why.

For me, the Psy is my current favorite. The adjustable k and p tabs are great but what puts this model over the top for me is the additional nubs in the middle of the toy. When I start having involuntaries they provide such a great massage and feeling inside of me. Those plus the tip of the toy perfectly massaging my prostate gives me constant super o's for as long as I can take it

Been using the Aneros line for years now and enjoy them a lot to deliver strong orgasms hands-free. However, this purchase has turned on the afterburners. I bought mine in size 45mm and it’s tight getting it on. But the effect is to keep me rock hard throughout my session. And the outlay is next to nothing. Highly recommended.

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Hi everyone,

I have been using boy butter, it’s one of the thicker ones, and sometimes mixing some water based lube with it or on the toy for better movement.

I was wondering what sort of lubes you are using now a days? Anyone try the aneros thicker lube?

I am interested in mixing it up a little and was looking for some healthy options. I will probably buy boy butter again, but was hoping to get a more slippery one to use as well. Currently using the eupho trident, the psy, and helix syn trident.

Appreciate any input :)

I’ve been playing with my ass for. 3 years now and can never really find my prostate. Today after 2 hours no luck, I pulled everything out to clean up and I looked at images to find the prostate. I insterted my finger and found it a lot easier than with a toy. It was so close and narrow to the entrance of my ass. Helix synn was going past it because it was too fat and long… I ended up using the handles of the toy to reach it since the handles are very thin… I’m toying my ass rn, not sure if I will cum to it…

Anyone else use the handles of the toy to hit that spot?

Your libido?

Your need for release?

Your stamina?

Your skills as a lover?

Your relationship with wife/girlfriend?

Anything else?

Any comments welcome!

Has anybody else channeled the newfound pleasure and orgasms from prostate, aless, full body etc into their penile masturbation?

I've been applying all the mindeset and techniques I'd learned into my penile masturbation and it's resulting in rather wonderful full body multiple dry penile orgasms. So far only when using my hand, but I've begun to feel it during sex a little too.

For context I got deep into prostate, aneros, aless orgasms a few years ago. But ended up mixing it with a terrible porn addiction, leading to some very unhealthy habits and severe ED. In order to fix this I took a break from any aneros/prostate related activities for a year until my dick was fully back online, which it almost is now. And in re-exploring penile masturbation only, I've arrived at these full body dry orgasms,

OK, now that I have your attention please read this entire post. It is long, but will be worth the effort.

I have been on the r/prostateplay and r/aneros subs for several years and I have posted probably over 1,000 replies to people that are either just getting started or people that have been trying for a while but looking for tips and advice to help them. My own success in having amazing prostate orgasms is owed to what others have posted here so I consider it a duty, honor, and a privilege to help others when I can.

Unfortunately, 90% of my replies are just to refer people to information in other places that they should have been able to find with a quick search. That is OK though. I have no issue with giving the same information over and over again to new people knowing that it can help them. I just thought that maybe it would be better to put it all in one post and now I can refer people to my post instead of having to keep typing the same things over and over.

So here goes.

First of all, don't take this as me telling people that you should be able to find the answers on your own and you shouldn't ask questions. These subs are filled with people that are willing and happy to help and questions are encouraged. Many times the same question is asked over and over, but somebody gives a different or better response and we all learn from that. So don't be shy and ask away, but do read the resources available to you also.

One great resource is the r/prostateplay getting started guide. You can access it at this link: https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/wiki/index/#wiki_getting_started

The other great resource is the Aneros Wiki which you can get at this link: https://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page

Read all of those from cover to cover and it will save you a lot of time and frustration.

Another must do thing is that you need to learn the muscles used and how to isolate them if you want a hands free orgasm. The best resource for this is Mindgasm. You can go to https://mindgasm.net/ to learn more and you can download the app on your phone. The first three lessons are free and doing them will put you light years ahead of people that just try to figure it all out on their own. You can subscribe and get the other lessons, but 99% of what you need to learn are in the free lessons so I can't recommend them highly enough. Personally, I like to just to to YouTube and search "Mindgasm" and listen to them there. I think that is easier than installing the app.

You can also find posts on pretty much anything you can think of by using the search bar at the top of the prostateplay or Aneros subs. They are like Google to search just the particular subs. That is great in case you have a question on say lube just search "lube" in the bar and you will find a ton of posts on lube.

It helps if we are all using the same language when we discuss things. One thing that comes up nearly every single day here is somebody says something about a Super O, either they are asking how to get one when they have not even had a regular prostate orgasm yet or they state that they had their first Super O when they had what might not have even been a prostate orgasm. A Super O is a dry prostate orgasm that is many times more intense than a regular prostate orgasm. A regular prostate orgasm is much more intense than a traditional orgasm so a Super O is well beyond that and is usually not achieved by experienced prostate players for months or years, if ever. You can read the Aneros Wiki definition of Super O here https://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=The_Super-O and also from the r/prostateplay getting started guide here defining the terms that should be used. Obviously it is counterproductive if we try to discuss things and people are not using the same definition for the terms they use.

Now that you read all of this I am going to offer some links for posts that I feel will help you on your journey to the Super O and beyond.

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/7oq33j/prostate_orgasm_infographic/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/ncmee9/how_i_went_from_aneros_frustration_to_a_supero/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/12twejb/how_i_have_success_in_every_session/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/bvsqyj/everything_i_know_many_years_experience_as_a/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/e8wxiy/my_way_to_reach_multiple_super_os/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/15mxm95/rewire_first_then_learn_to_orgasm/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/enaswb/tips_for_awakening_to_anal_pleasure/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/11vuyji/types_of_anal_and_prostate_pleasure_a_quick_guide/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1gxx4jq/to_everyone_still_waiting_for_their_first/

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/1ckx7y9/my_ultimate_guide_to_lovense_edge_2/

https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/3mr466/quick_dirty_path_to_the_supero/

https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/efz5tn/the_quick_and_dirty_path_to_the_supero/

https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/i42mlh/stop_chasing_the_supero/

https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/s9ofgn/my_transformational_1_year_journey_and_method/

Hey I have this Progasm for 3 years (more or less) and now I see that it has several spot the plastic is melting and warped. Did I do something wrong?

For those of you interested, I started a 30 day no cum challenge 3 weeks ago with the end goal of having a session with my aneros toys after those 30 days while also taking supplements to increase my load.

Here is the original post and the 2 week update

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/s/g3PRwCDxHx

2 week update: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/s/LPqTgj6XRs

I'm now 3 weeks into my personal challenge and not cumming for 21 days has been rough. This past week has been hard as I have often been distracted at work with my thoughts of wanting and needing to cum so badly. Any time I look at any porn I'll instantly start leaking, yearning to touch myself and relive myself of everything I've been building up. So far I still haven't had any wet dreams and I hope that can continue for the next 8/9 days in hopes of having my load be as big as possible when I finally do get to play with my prostate and then finally cum.

I'm going to discontinue taking the pygeum supplement as it has definitely decreased my libido. I had decreased the dosage the past couple of days, but now is the time to stop it completely. The thought here is that I should be back to normal by the time my aneros session comes around next weekend and I'll be bouncing off the walls ready to go. I'll be eagerly counting down the days until I can have my session, hopefully this next week can go by quickly and without any accidents so I can experience everything to the fullest extent on day 30.

I haven’t had a normal orgasm for over a week

Last night I had my progasm in for a bit and I could definitely feel cum rising up. There was no orgasm apart from all the good feelings that were in the background and when I looked there was a decent amount of cum that had cum out on my stomach

Is this milking? Is it just cause I haven’t orgasmed in a while? Thank you

Here are some techniques I have been using:

1. Light PC Squeeze + Focusing onPerineum Pulsing

• I hold a light PC muscle squeeze (like stopping the flow of urine) while focusing on the top of my penis.
• As I hold this, I shift my attention to feeling for any pulsing sensations in my perineum. It's subtle but creates a nice feedback loop that builds pleasure over time.

2 Light Base Anal Flex + PerineumPulsing

• Similar to the first, but this time l lightly flex the base/anal muscles (as if trying to lift the toy slightly).
• Again, I focus on detecting pulsing sensations in the perineum and at the base of the penis. It feels more grounded and connects the sensations better for me.

3 Holding the Aneros with Base/Anal + PC Muscle Work

• I hold the Aneros toy in place using my base/anal muscles, keeping it gently engaged.
• Then I contract and release my PC muscles rhythmically. The interplay of these two muscle groups seems to stimulate deeper sensations and amplifies the toy's movement.

4 Lower Abdominal Movement

• This one is unique but feels great: I contract and move my lower abs, just above the pelvic bone.
• It adds another layer of stimulation and seems to spread thesensations upward, complementing the prostate sensations.

While the manual methods I mentioned above haven't produced a Super-O yet, they have led to consistent results like producing precum-especially technique #1. I see these techniques as part of the journey, and I'm hopeful they're helping me build toward something more.

So far, my most notable experiences have happened when I do absolutely nothing and drift off to sleep. Somewhere between being awake and asleep, I've felt waves of energy that produce a buzzing feeling throughout my body. It's a deeply pleasurable sensation that feels like it radiates from my core. These have happened to me about twice a month for the past three months, but they're hard to replicate because they rely on the right balance of relaxation and arousal. I've noticed that overthinking or trying to force the experience can disrupt the process, and falling asleep during an Aneros session doesn’t guarantee results.

Hi everyone,

I’m kind of a newbie when it comes to prostate play. My first toy is the Edge 2, and it’s not bad. However, I’m planning to buy the Aneros Psy and just wanted to understand how it works.

Do I need to move it up and down with my hands? The Edge 2 has vibration and simulates prostate stimulation quite well. From what I understand, the Aneros Psy doesn’t have vibration and doesn’t require you to sit on it.

How do you use it to stimulate your prostate? I can’t quite imagine how it works. I assume it provides constant pressure rather than in-and-out pleasure or release.

Thanks for your help!

Hello, I bit the bullet and bought my first last month, a syn helix. I've only had a few sessions but I have read the FAQ about relaxing, going through a rewiring process and have been following mindgasm, doing kegels etc. I'm still getting used to things, and I'm not entirely sure I've located the p spot, let alone started to stimulate p waves etc. my 2nd last session towards the end I experimented with moving it, and found that pointing it upwards slightly towards my prostate increased the feeling, I then found that lightly fucking myself with it in this spot would quickly build up excitement, which ended up with me contracting and pushing the toy out. If I held it in and continued the fucking I felt very close to some sort of release, but it also felt like I might pass a bowel movement so I chickened our and stopped.

Tonight I did a half hour session of kegels/mindgasm etc, but had things to do so I switched to normal masturbation to finish, but as I was beginning to reach climax, I again decided to switch to stimulating my prostate, this time I reached a wet orgasm which felt different than a regular one, I was afterwards able to continue masturbating regularly and had another regular wet orgasm, and this time I clenched inside and partly pushed the toy out. Can anyone offer any insight as to what is going on here, am I experiencing blended orgasms? Is this possibly part prostate orgasm.

I never used one but someone recommended Aneros Helix Syn V. Any tips or recommendations to newbie like me who wants to explore such. Also, I knew people with removal of prostate due to cancer. Will they benefit on such still? Is it even safe to use one? Thanks.

I just found my Helix Syn Trident in storage that I bought 5 years ago. I tried it when it was new but never felt anything. I put it away and forgot about it. It's still in perfect condition but I want to make it work this time. What am I supposed to do after inserting it? Just kegel sqeezes and tighten my hole over and over? For how long? I want the hands free, super intense, explosive orgasm that made me buy it?

So I recently started making it a point to douche out prior to every session, and it's been a game changer in a couple of ways. I feel like the toy simply has clearer access to my prostate and I'm able to feel their effects greater than I would otherwise. This has led to some absolutely sublime sensations, and some of the best O's I've ever had, especially early on.

But lately though it's had some downsides. Namely the fact that it's just time-prohibitive. It takes time for me to douche out, get relaxed, prepare my ass for a session, and go in for it. This has led me to not play nearly as often as I would like to, and more often than not resorting to traditional masturbation. At times I even have to force myself to play; my prostate just doesn't get "hungry" like it used to. I also feel as though there's pressure to have an amazing session after I've spent so much time prepping, and that gets in my head and has me chasing orgasms.

Maybe I'm overthinking this, but honestly I just can't help it. But I wanna see what the community thinks. Anyone else ever find over-preparation hinders their progress?

For context, I have yet to achieve the super O but am getting incrementally closer and closer by the session (My Sessions are amazing and filled with p-waves and calm seas orgasms so far, nothing out of body or utterly mind bending but I can feel it beckoning to me and I know i’m close)

So for this post my main question is, how did you feel after your first super O? or maybe a better question to ask might be, what were the after effects that first 24 hours following the first super O for you?

I currently live with my girlfriend, and while I 100% plan on introducing my aneros use into our sex life in the future, it’s something that I would like to further learn, explore and understand on my own first. After reading some of the posts on here, I guess my main concern is I want to make sure that i’m not incapable of functioning or getting things done afterwards. I work from home, so the mornings are the only time that i’m alone in the house and have time to relax and have a little session. I guess i’m just nervous of hitting my super O breakthrough during a session and then not being able to function the rest of the day/evening. Maybe i’m over reacting or thinking a bit deeply, but from the way the pleasure is described on here, it seems like the type of pleasure that would leave you with the “check engine light” on for the rest of the day.

What has been your experience? Were you able to hop back up and get right back to business as usual right after? Did you need some time to come all the way down? I appreciate everyone in the community for their input!!

Last night was exceptional. About 9 pm I decided to call it a night, grabbed my small Peridise and lube shooter. I was so completely relaxed (I did about 3 or 4 hits off my vape) that I lost all track of time. I can’t tell you how many times I came but things started tingling and warming in no time at all then those warm waves of pleasure started rolling in. Next thing the involuntary contractions began and just wouldn’t stop. That Peridise was just hammering my backside and I was loving it. Eventually my calves seem to cramp up so I decided to end the session and remove my toy. Checked the clock and it was 1:30 in the morning so for about 4 hours I had the best time with this little toy. Back to bed and tried to fall asleep and as I felt myself drifting off my prostate starting buzzing and I was having Aless orgasms which much have gone on for another hour or so. Eventually I did fall asleep and this morning while writing this and sipping on a a coffee those Aless orgasms kicked back in. OMG best session ever. I would never have thought such a small unobtrusive toy could be so much fun. The closest I’ve come to a session like this was with my Maximus trident a few months ago. Given the Tempo is stainless steel and heavier than the Peridise I can only imagine where I might be taken too…yes that will be my next purchase. Folks speak of an out of body experience and they ain’t shittin. Truly a magical experience that I’m so grateful for.

I got a vibrating prostate massager and I was expecting it to be amazing.

so far it literally just feels like something vibrating in my ass.

Am I doing something wrong? Do I need to position it or myself in a certain way or anything like that?

I'm definitely getting some big peaks of pleasure, but I'm not sure they're orgasms?

They're very different from penile orgasms.

Am I there yet? Will I know when it's happened?

dunno where to start on this so for context I'm 18 and have been using aneros for ~10 months with 0 to no feelings at all. until about a month ago (xmas eve!) which was involuntary contractions p-waves and sensations that came from me stimulating my nipples a lot. I have done lots of changes to help with aneros including: changed my diet, exercised to try put on muscle/weight, done kegels regularly, got rid of all body hair cause it feels nicer during sessions, practiced meditation and practiced long periods of abstinence/chastity (max was 14 days so far)

so far I've only used a helix syn but I treated myself to a progasm ice for xmas (horny shopping is dangerous) and was shocked at how big it was. tried to get it in once and it hurt so much that I didn't touch it again til last night. was kinda sad about wasting money tbh and felt a bit silly. I read on another forum that its suited to bigger guys and I'm quite small so just felt like id wasted money on something that wasn't for me

last night I woke up at like 3am in a hot sweat with adrenaline flowing and my heart beating fast idk why. I realised I was reallllly horny but wanted to sleep so just tried to ignore it. after a bit I started playing with my nipples and it woke my prostate up like never before. tingly and I could feel it throb too which was so exciting. decided to lube myself up and went straight for the progasm. I took my time and sorta teased myself with it a bit which made me excited. idk why but last time it hurt so much and I could barely even get the tip in. this time I tried pushing out a bit and it went in (with a little pushing) I was so freaking excited it felt SO big like it was stretching a little. I had to go over to the mirror to look at it in me haha. I was so hard and excited just from having it in me that I didn't care if I didn't get any feelings from it yet

anyway I laid back down and could feel my heartbeat in my prostate straight away which was new and again very hot. relaxed myself for a bit and breathed slowly and contractions started after abit. just little twitches but it felt amazing!! my prostate started to throb more against the progasm and I could actually feel it. then more pleasure like warm and tingly but super concentrated in one spot. this carried on for ages and it was lovelyyy. idk if its cause I was a bit sleepy but it felt like I kinda drifted off a bit? not to sleep though cause I was still aware of everything. it started to feel even nicer and I had some feelings in my stomach

for whatever reason I decided to pull my legs right back so my knees were pulled up right to my shoulders/chest but spread wide and I could definitely feel the contractions more. at this point it got a little weird. I started to dream/imagine a guy having sex with me (I've not reallllly been attracted to guys before but sometimes bit curious) and it made me feel kinda uneasy but I definitely got hard because of it. then when I thought about it there must be a reason I was imagining it and tried to chill out and accept it but it had gone. enjoyed more contractions and pleasure before he reappeared and I just totally let go. I got hard straight away again and my heart was pounding. every time the progasm went in to me I was just imagining his dick sliding in. he was a much older guy and much bigger than me and hairy too. I found it quite comforting and calming kinda like I wasn't alone? in a weird way I could feel his pleasure as well as mine? and I realised that my pleasure wasn't JUST in my prostate anymore it was in my ass cheeks and pelvis and pit of my stomach too. it was sooo fucking good. I wasn't even in control of this fantasy it was just happening. I've seen other people comment things like this and it's just so cool like how does that happen??

eventually I came back to reality and realised my legs were almost cramping up so laid them back down and I think I was DONE. like almost exhausted. looked at the clock and it was almost 6am haha wtf pretty much 3 hours went by so quick

this morning I feel kinda sore (esp legs) shaky and trembly and I keep feeling my prostate tingle. my hands are shaking just from writing this lmao and it's kinda overwhelming

the way I orgasmed was like wow. now so much of what I've read on here and the aneros forum make sense! I finally felt what I'd been reading about all this time

but I can't stop thinking about the weird dream man thing. and I'm wondering if this was the catalyst for my first orgasms or would it happen anyway? and I think I'm probably NOT straight haaaa. so much to process

has anyone else accidentally had a sexual awakening with the help of a toy?

Almost a year ago I lost pleasure in my prostate. I felt nothing for a long time. Now I only feel a tickle when I rub my left nipple only. I used to be able to do kegels and feel something without even touching my nipples or my penis. I've tried everything to get this pleasure back. Then a week ago I started feeling something again but it only lasted for about 30 secs on and off for about 15 min , and then completely disappeared again. I also was using vibration mode with the helix syn v but it won't charge anymore so I can't try to see if it was the vibrations that were helping. I would buy another but I don't wanna waste anymore money if I'm gonna continue not feeling anything in my prostate 😪

Disclaimer:I've looked around and pieced together what I think is a fairly thorough and easy to understand routine. It also includes all four types of kegel "flexes" that most guides seem to be lacking. Some is lifted right out of people's posted routines, so call this a curated list if you like. I'm sure theres science saying certain kegels are the important ones to exercise but personally I wanted balace:

Types of kegels: front and rear, and with each of those a regular and reverse. How to do each: Front regular: stop peeing midstream is the muscle to flex. Front reverse: force pee out while peeing to make stronger stream. Rear regular: hold in a fart Rear reverse: force out a fart.

Note: the times I give for the routine aren't strict, either stop early if you are tired or shorten the hold times or the opposite if too easy:

3 routines I do each day, moving through the 4 different kegels for each routine. I do one in the morning, one at lunch and one before bed. Do them in any order you like. I use a stopwatch on the phone to monitor

Routine 1- flex kegel and hold for 2 seconds, release for 1 second and repeat. I do this for 1 minute for each kegel area.

Routine 2- flex kegel and hold for 10 seconds then release for 5 seconds. I repeat until I've done a flex 5 times, so just over a minute for each kegel area.

Routine 3- flex kegel area for 2 minutes and hold. There's a good chance you may not be able to hold for 2 minutes, no worries just reflex if you stutter until 2 minutes reached for each kegel area.

I'm finding this routine to be fairly thorough and tweakable as I get better at it. Welcome any feedback and constructive criticism.

Hi, i wanna know that do you guys feel aneros inside your rectum? I think i feel the toy only only at anus, sometimes tab at k-spot and perineun, but i got the feeling that anything that is inside rectum is no existence. I cant really feel the toy inside, even with contracting. Same with even progasm. I got somekinda response when i move toys by my hand. I have one curved glass dildo that i definetely feel inside when manually moving, but with massagers the feeling is for me really only in the anus.

I got wierd feelings too when using massagers (dont know if because i have adhd) that when i try to focus on the feelings of massager eyes closed, sometime the focus of feeling the toy shifts. Hard to explain but sometimes i notice that i "feel" the anus wrapped around the toy in "wrong" place, like in left asscheek or thight, hard ro explain. When i open eyes it shifts back in right spot. Like eyes closed its mentally moving the spot around body.

Do you focus on what part of body when playing? Anus, perineun, cock, lower stomach or what?

Hey everyone, I'm reaching out to the community for some advice on my experiences with Aneros devices. I've been exploring different models and techniques, but I'm still not quite where I'd like to be.

I currently own the Psy, Helix, GMX, Progasm, Progasm Jr, Maximus, and Eupho. I've also experimented with THC and CBD edibles, as well as CBD oil, to see if they could enhance the experience.

Normally I wait 3 or more days without mastubation before an session

My typical session involves cleaning myself internally, then finding a comfortable position. I usually start on my back with my legs spread, but sometimes I'll lie on my side. I use coconut oil as lube and gently insert the chosen Aneros device. From there, I try to relax and simply observe what my body does.

I've noticed some interesting things: • I experience occasional twitching, but it's quite random and doesn't seem to have a consistent pattern.

• I can sometimes initiate these twitches by contracting my muscles, but it feels more like I'm amplifying existing manual twitches rather than creating them from scratch. It feels like the you suck the aneros in but it gets very strong and maybe like a cramp

• I've tried using binaural beats, but they usually just put me to sleep. It's really hard for me to stay in that relaxed, "doing nothing" state for very long. I am not feeling very horny listening that beats.

• With the Psy model, I get a nice pressure when I use the k-tab bent out of contact with my body, but it doesn't go much further than that. I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong, or if there's a particular technique or device that might be better suited for me.

• Are there any specific exercises or techniques that might help me increase the intensity and consistency of these sensations?

• Given my current experiences, is there an Aneros model that you think might be a better fit?

• Any tips for improving my relaxation and focus during these sessions?

• Can you send me Binaural Beats you liked?

I'd really appreciate any insights or advice from those of you who have more experience with Aneros devices. Thanks in advance!

EDIT (19Jan2025):

When I relax and concentrate I feel a rhythmic pulse like a heartbeat. I don't know if it is really my heartbeat...