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"So, the Aneros brain based experience requires one to effectively turn off conscious control. There's an oxymoron for you. What's remarkable about this conundrum is that so many men, including myself have found success in spite of the inherent contradiction. Granted, some guys have spent years getting there, but they did get it eventually." - Dave "ten_s_nut" on Aneros Forums.

Absolutely no hate-speak, derogatory or disrespectful comments will be tolerated. This includes sexist and rape jokes. All posts here are NSFW.

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Black Friday sales?

I've saw a post here and in r/ProstatePlay that mentioned a Black Friday sale years ago...

Does Aneros usually have Black Friday sales yearly?

5 Comments
2024/10/29
19:59 UTC

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Aftermath of a session ?

Hi everyone, I’d like some opinions about this :

I’ve been an aneros user for 5 years now. Until a few months ago, it was to no avail.

I recently (about a year ago) started to feel slight tingling. As weeks passed by, it became a very good feeling. Usually, my sessions lasted about 45 minutes.

Until two weeks ago. I started my session utterly relaxed, for once. It wasn’t long before I felt waves of pleasure I had never experienced before. It was so pleasant, this session was a good one and a half hour.

Fast forward two days later. I began to have difficulty to urinate. It wasn’t painful at all, no burning, but the stream was damn weak, and I had, for a few days, to stay relaxed quite a long time to empty my bladder.

Someone else experienced the same ?

How many times before I can resume sessions ?

6 Comments
2024/10/29
15:52 UTC

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Best hands free Aneros

Just curious as to what you think the best hands free Aneros is to get a prostate big O! I’ve tried to Progasm and liked it but curious if there is one that stimulates the prostate more. Still haven’t had one and trying to get there.

5 Comments
2024/10/29
15:00 UTC

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At a bit of a crossroads...

Posting here since it seems to have been deleted from the prostate play subreddit. I'm not exactly sure why as I don't think I violated any rules. My only guess is maybe this counts as "research" but that's a bit of a generous interpretation imo.

Just recently having exited a long-term relationship has made me kind of re-evaluate my choices and I'm feeing a little conflicted. For context I do use weed a lot, though I've been taking a break for the last month or so. I wonder how much of it was wanting to take a break from weed versus wanting to take a break from prostate play. I felt like I was playing too much, maybe every other day or so for over an hour. Every time I got high on my own I would get insaitably horny for it and if I didn't have something to distract me I would just end up letting the feeling wash over me. "It" kind of did its own thing. I haven't had an actual session in about the same time as well. I still don't really like the tingles and feelings when I am not playing, though I have come to largely accept them. I'm not really sure where to go at this moment or what to do. I feel like part of me wants to stop just because I feel I was doing it too much, and, on a personal note, I do not want to be obsessing over it and I feel like I was. The feeling is there most times, and not everything in my life needs to be tainted with a newfound sexual component. I know you can just not focus on it and I am well past that initial "oh shit it's not going away" point but like...

don't think of the elephant boom you lose

I still want to be able to get stoned and listen to a good album or just focus on my own. I always enjoyed the quiet, slower side of things and I want to be able to enjoy that without those feelings. I also wonder if I am anxious that whoever the next woman is will accept me with this (admittedly less common) kink, and how much of the draw to do it in the first place would be reduced if the feeling was not there. Though that I do not know. Do I get horny because I feel the tingles or do I feel the tingles because I'm horny?

On the other hand as long as I could remember I was playing with my ass and I tried to stop before I met my ex gf. The first time we played together I felt so freed and I don't think I could ever go back to completely ignoring my ass. Ideally I'd just like to see what it's like with my prostate "back asleep" if that makes any sense, but even then I'm not sure. I've been holding off on making this post for a while and I'm really not even sure what I'm looking for, I was more just looking to ask a few questions of this community and gather information, mainly

If you have successfully quit before, how long did it take for the feelings to go away and, Did you smoke weed when you played and, if yes did you abstain for the entirity of the time you quit and, if you have started again was it because you felt drawn to or of a genuine want?

Ideally, I would be happy to do it every once in a while and wouldn't mind staying rewired so long as I could not have the feelings in my day-to-day life. I don't want it to be a multiple-hours, intense cravings sort of thing as it previously was. I feel I could have an orgasm sober but I've been too afraid to try because I worry then the floodgates would really be open, and I see people posting about how active their prostates become from frequent play. It's been something I've been trying to avoid, is all.

I'm really just looking for input from people who have maybe been in similar situations. I'm not trying to spell out doom and gloom for myself or anything though I may have made it sound that way. I've always been the type to gather as much information as I can to really understand something and frankly I don't really know where else you could feisably go to get input on this stuff. That's all.

Edit: I apologize to anyone who has messaged me regarding dewiring. I have not been active on this account since my last post, but I'm sure this post has answered your questions as far as my personal attempt.

4 Comments
2024/10/29
14:51 UTC

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Beginner here, any advice on enema/douche?

When starting out I was told that it could be better to do enema, it's cleaner and using slightly above body temperature water can help sessions be more conducive. Haven't really tried it until recently and I realized it was not as straightforward as I imagined. Might just be a skill issue but the pipe doesn't go in as easily and squeezing in the water has some resistance as well so I'm still trying to figure out how this works. I tried using lube to help with inserting the pipe and it helps, but it does feel like a waste of lube since the water washes off some of it. Any advice on how you guys do it?

Also read in the subreddit that there's some discussions that enema may have it's downsides, regard important mucus and bacteria getting removed. If I'm doing this roughly 2-3 times a day, should I be concerned?

6 Comments
2024/10/29
12:26 UTC

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Is this anything?

So I am trying to get ready for nnn and trying to help rewire myself and I decided to just try it. I barely remember exactly how it went even though it was a few minutes ago but it started with my legs shaking and eventually it was my waist and hips with the legs eventually to fully squirming around feeling it radiate out of my stomach and thighs and my full body was shaking and it took like 15 or more minutes to stop and it felt good but not like tingling or anything just kinda made me squirm and felt good but idk what this means and afterwards I still wanted to ejaculate so I did and it made my whole body feel good too. Sorry for the rambling mess I'm just trying to get this out before I forget details

2 Comments
2024/10/29
08:35 UTC

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Broke my Aneros Progasm

Today I broke my Progasm by trying to stimulate a little too hard. One side of the t base broke off. It is still usable but definitely not the same. Looking for a more durable one. Anyone have suggestions? Also maybe one a little more intense if there is one.

12 Comments
2024/10/29
06:13 UTC

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Fabric Rubbing Body During Session

I'm interested in trying to get a fabric of some sort to rub over my body during a session, to give my hands something to do. I'm not sure what type though. I'm thinking something furry? Maybe satin?

Is this a thing people do? Any advice?

2 Comments
2024/10/29
03:16 UTC

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One Session, Two Revelations

I'm still working my way along my journey to my first Super O (not there yet) but wanted to share two things I had realized during my last session. The first of which, is pretty straight-forwards but it bears repeating; Maintain steady breath.

I have several times gotten to the point where I experience a build up of warmth, tingling, and pleasure coming from my prostate that, for months, I've been trying to focus on and harness. Like a penile male orgasm, I've been concentrating on it because that's how it works for me when masturbating regularly; I feel the building and, as I feed energy into it, it continues to expand until it overflows into an orgasm. With the prostate, I've realized I have to do the opposite and maintaining my breath was the last missing piece for me, personally.

When I felt that sensation once again building in my prostate, this time I focused on it but I didn't feed any energy into it the way I'll do when masturbating. By "not feeding energy" I mean I didn't squeeze any tighter, I didn't move the toy around manually, and I didn't try to chase anything more; I simply focused on breathing. As it built, the hardest part was resisting the urge to pursue anything more, to breath, and to let whatever would unfold happen. As a result, I got a good 15 minutes of prostate orgasms, one after the next. No clenching, no repositioning or forcing, just writhing in pleasure after as they came in waves. It was also my first time feeling the p-waves and sensations flow completely up through my head. I realized in that moment that by trying to force things to happen, I was actually holding back the release instead. I only had to stop because of how exhausted and dehydrated I felt from it all. I haven't had a super O yet but this pleasure I've experienced is well beyond anything I've ever felt. It was also the first time I truly felt the "waves" part of the p-waves. I've experience them before here and there but this felt like several every second the entire time, my entire body was convulsing, and as the first were making their way up my back and into my chest another was already on its way.

My second revelation may or not be helpful to folks but it would've helped me if someone had told me when I was starting. As a singer, the sensation of involuntaries feels exactly like natural vibrato. When singing a note, there's a lot of tension involved in the various muscles. When your vocal registers are properly coordinated and the muscles are utilized in just the right way, vibrato is naturally produced as a neuromuscular tremor. As a singer, I don't think "I'm going to start oscillating my pitch a few times every second." Instead, to produce natural vibrato I instead think "I'm going to hold this note with this very specific balance and simply trust the vibrato will show up" and it does! That took years of work with a vocal coach to achieve but it's there now and I can do it regularly throughout my range as an after-though. During my last session, I noticed my involuntaries are the exact same sensation but in the prostate. I leave my Aneros in until I feel the tingling and then force some contractions here and there to find it better. Once I've found it, it feels like I'm just holding a very specific, very light tension and the fluttering beings; I get the exact same feeling of neuromuscular tremors and the rest kinda feels like a balancing act.

FWIW, my Aneros of choice for solo sessions is the VICE 2 without turning on the vibrator. When I'm with my wife, I'll give her the remote and let her mess with it but when I'm just having a solo session, I leave it in without turning it on; I love how full it makes me feel compared to the other models.

6 Comments
2024/10/28
20:17 UTC

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Any sissies using aneros?

Hi, I am interested to hear of any sissies that are using aneros. What do you usually do during and before your sessions? Looking for inspirations!

1 Comment
2024/10/28
15:19 UTC

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Uneasy feeling in my core

I’ve been learning to embrace my role as an observer during play and it’s been great so far. I just finished a 45 min session with the psy. I felt possibly the most relaxed I ever have throughout, and had three decently intense orgasms.

Directly after the second one though (which was more of a mind-O, mostly just my head spinning but with not much physical pleasure), I was met with a somewhat uneasy feeling around my gut. Not like I was sick or anything, but just a feeling that something wild was about to happen. I read a bit in this sub about “terror at the gate”, and began to just repeat to myself in my head “this is safe, you are safe, this is what you want” and just let whatever was about to happen, happen.

It was the best orgasm I’ve ever had. I can’t accurately describe it, but it felt warm and fuzzy all over. The shape of my body ceased to exist; I was simply an orb floating in space. Breathing deeply into it made it feel even better. Totally calm seas, I remained entirely still throughout, barring any vocal cord movement from the moaning and whimpering I was doing.

It lasted about two minutes I’d estimate. Just wanted to share this with y’all. I’m coming out of a slump as of late, we are so back.

3 Comments
2024/10/28
03:33 UTC

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Is anyone else's prostate way too low for the Aneros to hit?

I recently found out that my prostate is really low, toward my anus. The only two models I've used are the Helix Syn Trident and Progasm Jr. It feels really good during and after insertion, but the feeling gets lost after about a minute.

I've tried using the Pro-State® 950, which is made for people like me who have low prostates, and this thing hits the spot. It's apparently made from a sister company to Aneros called High Island Health. It's really hard for me to make the Aneros work (I'm still new), but this one gave me instant pleasure waves without any breathing techniques or contractions. The only problem I have is that the material is really uncomfortable. It's supposedly "medical grade, non-porous plastic", but it feels like stone to me. I'm looking for something similar, but made out of different material (preferably silicone) if anyone knows!

On another note, you guys who also have low prostates, how do you use your Aneros? I heard some people put a folded towel under the P-Tab, but I was never able to make that work.

Edit: got the PSY!

12 Comments
2024/10/27
22:24 UTC

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A Plateau

I’m in my late teens and started exploring this a few years ago, but it has been on and off. Recently, I’ve developed a strong desire to focus on this aspect of my life and practice it consistently. Initially, I felt nothing, then moved to experiencing mild pleasure for about a minute. Now, I can enjoy the sensation of insertion for a certain period or when I contract.

The good news is that I've started to feel what are known as involuntaries—those buzzing or tingling sensations deep in the prostate. I find these sensations are more pronounced when I'm aroused. On a couple of lucky occasions, this involuntary sensation lasts for a while, and I experience a cold feeling in my body, which is accompanied by spasms. Unfortunately, this only happens rarely, and when it does, I struggle to sustain it; it tends to fade, and I find it difficult to replicate in the same session.

Typically, my experience goes like this: I insert, which feels great and I enjoy the sensations, but after a while, they diminish. I then hold both my pelvic and anal muscles at 80% tension for several seconds while breathing deeply. Once I slowly release, I try to find the sweet spot again. When I find it, the involuntaries return for a minute or two, and then they fade away again.

My questions are: how can I consistently reach that 'cold body' state more frequently, and once I’m there, how can I move beyond it? What should I focus on when I'm feeling that buzzing sensation, which has become a constant background feeling throughout my sessions? I feel like I might be lacking concentration on something that could enhance my enjoyment.

6 Comments
2024/10/26
22:43 UTC

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Eupho classic vs Eupho Trident

I am a long time Aneros user and mostly use the Eupho classic white plastic model. I cut off the curly back tab. Lately though it's been digging into me during sessions. Is there anyone that has the classic model and also the got the Trident version and was it any better?

Does anyone that has any of the classic models think the Trident versions are better?

7 Comments
2024/10/26
20:00 UTC

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First session complete... Mixed feelings

Welp, I finally did it. And it was certainly a mixed experience.

I'll start by saying I'm a compete newbie and never really ventured into the nether region until today. I was ultra horny today after a lot of edging and denial and said "f*ck it, today's the day I use the aneros." I'd been trying to muster the courage all week and was finally horny enough to dare try it.

I laid down some towels in preparation. I got the xlube I'd prepared a couple days ago out of the drawer, admired it's consistence and started with a finger dipped in the concoction. "Damn, they're right. This stuff is stringy." At that point I knew this would end up being a messy operation (and it was). I was reasonably prepped now with the finger and moved on to the lube shooter - also a first for me. I get it in me, push the lube through (was expecting way more resistance) and got ready for what was next.

"Here it is - the Helix Syn Trident." I drown it in lube, get to all fours and insert, imagining it's simply just my finger again. "Nope, it doesn't wanna go i- oh wait okay it's all the way in. Omg it's in." It felt... foreign, kind of uncomfortable, definitely not relaxing. Everything was still as I remained in position, waiting, listening to my body.

I decided after a few minutes it was time for a new position, so I went onto my side with one knee up and simply shut my eyes for a bit, focusing on breathing and the new sensations. Then something unexpected happened. That feeling of a foreign object in me started to transform and grow into a source of mild pleasure. My arousal grew with it, as did the pace of my breath, and things began to pulsate rhythmically. It was good. And then it left, and I just had a foreign object in my ass again. I took it out with some discomfort and reapplied some more of the stringy, slimy stuff.

Reinsertion certainly felt better than the first time round - in a sort of "Ooh, I might have to take it out and put it in again to feel that one more time" kind of way (but I couldnt be bothered to then have to apply more lube to it after). I get back into position on my side and focus in again on breathing and listening to my body. I manage to get two more spikes of pleasure over the course of around 10 - 15 minutes - attempting some kegels during that time which only felt good on occasion. Like before, the foreign object became a pleasure sensation, I could feel some pulsating, and this time even my feet began to tingle a little. Eventually it died down again though, and I'd had enough of the mixture of discomfort and dwindling pleasure and decided to end things the usual way - with it still in though of course... and a lot of xlube all around because why not?

Someone could have warned me that this thing would start POUNDING me as I cum! "Fuckinnnng ouch!" Not quite the enhanced pleasure I was expecting. I take it out, put it to the side, and go one more round without it in. Then came the cleanup operation... yay.

Not sure what to make of this first experience. I suppose it was somewhat of a success - especially as a first-timer. I will say though that the preparation and cleanup process is rather tedious. I also didn't mention the vague smell left on the aneros which I'm still attempting to remove AND unfortunately a small bit of "nether realm matter" which I guess it to be expected but still made me feel a little weird.

Anyways, that's me done for today. I feel emotionally drained from the experience (lol). Not sure when I'll next try it again but I will probably prepare a little better next time. Thanks for reading.

10 Comments
2024/10/26
16:24 UTC

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Question - What is Aneros play effects on PSA test levels?

I'm an older male and was wondering if there are any studies on what the effects of Aneros play has on your PSA levels? They say not to ejaculate 48 hours prior to being tested but never go near mentioning anything about prostate play. I would like to know if any long time players with these devices have seen their PSA levels change, either higher or lower? I would think it should have some effect, curious to hear what others have found?

10 Comments
2024/10/26
13:16 UTC

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Please help! I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

I will try to make this as short and not-whiney as I can, but TL;DR is: I have been on my journey for 2 years, and I cannot find one single thing that consistently leads to pleasure or orgasms. I had chained dry orgasms my first 2 rides. I have no idea how I did it or how to get back.

I have been working on achieving prostate orgasms for over 2 years now. I have every trident model of Aneros except pro jr. and MGX. I have coached multiple people to dry orgasms. Yet, I can't do it myself...

My rides are usually with thc. I start by taking the gummy and getting prepped for the ride. Then I lay down and do some calming breathing exercises or mindgasm to warm up. By this time, the gummy is starting to hit and I'll insert.

It always feels good. I always get pleasure. However, I can't seem to get an orgasm. Whenever I ask a more experienced person about my situation I pretty much just get "that sucks," or "that's weird" and it's getting really discouraging helping others but not getting anything back in return.

My first two orgasms felt like very long and insanely intense traditional orgasms where my penis was throbbing and pulsing like a traditional wet O, but it was completely dry. Both sessions I was able to chain 3 of these back to back. It was so blissful and amazing. Leading up to it I had building pleasure in my naval and then an irresistable urge to roll onto my side and start thrusting my hips. This lead to the orgasms.

Since then, my "orgasms" are more like my body thrashing around. But when that happens, it feels like an involuntary reaction more than an orgasm. Usually pleasure is building and then out of nowhere I have an uncontrollable shake/quiver pop up, which kills the pleasure. If I try to breathe and relax through it so I don't thrash around, it just plateaus. If I give in and let my body writhe and shake, there's no pleasure with it. It's just tiring and sometimes even uncomfortable. My body is moving like all the videos of people having orgasms, but there's no pleasure there.

I've tried staying still and relaxed. I've tried being very horny and vocal. I've tried watching porn. I've tried on my back, my front, my sides, both still and thrusting. I will have pleasure with all of them usually, but it never builds like it did my first two times.

I am truly at a loss. It feels like my body is broken. How is it I can coach others to dry Os (some in as little as 3 sessions) but cannot get myself there? Has anybody experienced anything remotely similar? Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.

11 Comments
2024/10/25
16:07 UTC

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Wearing plug before session?

Does wearing a plug before a session will prevent me from enjoying the session? Or make me feel less pleasure?

2 Comments
2024/10/25
15:48 UTC

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Take all my previous posts and throw them away. This is bigger than I thought.

Tl;Dr - everything I thought was just the start and the factory must grow...along with p-waves

Also this was 100% no THC I haven't had anything since last Friday night a week ago.

This got a lot longer than I intended. Skip to the 4th paragraph for the juicy bit, the rest is just history/my trial and errors and techniques for those looking for advice on their journey.

As the title says all my previous posts of "success stories" might have been something else completely different. The last one about maybe having a super o, I began to question it a few weeks after posting. If you have to question it then it wasn't a super o. On the contrary, I believe what I had was what aneros calls intense clamping but without pleasure. I'm not sure why I got the full body tingling but it's possible since I was hyperventilating that I was making myself lightheaded? The reason I questioned it was because while feeling good, I didn't feel pleasure. So onto last night's breakthrough.

This past few weeks I have been experimenting without toys. I have noticed that if I do all the things without a toy in that I do while I have a toy in, I got greater pleasure. Almost like the toy was blocking something for me at least. I've also started down the path of doing nothing as much as I thought it wouldn't work at all, and have seen some interesting results. Ask me about visualization. Every now and then, also with toys in, I've felt something building. In fact I always though "somethings coming" and it would shortly fade, I was probably sub-consciously chasing when I thought that. Reading some recent posts, I believe these are what p-waves are because it starts to build through your whole body, almost like numbness and warmth.

Yesterday I was looking at still picture porn because video there's so much going on and you can't focus on it unless you pause, I suggest some people who are struggling to try that, that way you can remember that one picture that turned you on a lot and think about that while stimulating your nipples. I noticed that there was a heartbeat in my pelvis. I did my thing and got to that building something but this time I just blanked my mind and breathed. I got a sensation in my pelvis/prostate that I've only experienced while on edibles. It was like a tingly tapping. Could almost bee a vibration on my prostate. Like not to fast but faster than I could physically flex those muscles, think physically someone taptaptaptaptaptaptaping but constant. But with as light as it felt the intensity for me mentally was bambambambambambam! This too faded after awhile and I took a break but still looked at porn now and again. Sorry for this being so long, you're almost there though.

Fast forward to bedtime I was laying there and horny and said why not. This is where I realized this is bigger than i thought. Ever since I got to that point that I only experienced on my first time using THC with the tapping, if I thought about it or touched my nipples I could feel it along with the normal tingling I get from touching my nipples. This was like 3 hours. If I didn't think about it it wasn't there. So with that tapping I noticed that I could move it in more if I relaxed a bit more from the base of my penis to the urethra behind my sac wow it felt intense and a little bit of pain/discomfort, but in a good way like your first time using a toy. Certain things I'll answer in comments happened because this is already long but I relaxed, stopped moving everything but my fingers on my nipples and slowly breathing. That's when I felt the p-wave or numbness building. Every breath I let out, it felt like fluid was seeping out my tip. And that numbness turned it heat, my hearing go a little quieter but not muffled. And the tingles, oh man the tingles. They were always nice, but these ones were more like needles that they were so much more intense, but they felt way better than nice. This warmth spread through my entire body and would go up a tiny bit with each breath and each time I felt that seeping feeling or a half the size of a marble on my prostate that was also very needly. It didn't feel like sexual penile pleasure but it did feel like a different kind of pleasure. I remember smiling and thinking "this is pleasant" For those of you further along, is this how you'd describe a p-wave?

If this is just a p-wave then this whole thing is way bigger than I thought. And we're all in for a wild ride. Sorry this is so long and I'll answer any questions on the comments. I'm usually pretty good at responding but the new factorio DLC dropped and well...the factory must grow.....as the p-waves as well ideally.

6 Comments
2024/10/25
10:55 UTC

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Wanting to get introduced to prostate play and don’t know where to start

Hi all. This is just me trying to get some more info. I’ve attempted prostate stimulation a couple times with no toy and it feels good but I just don’t think it’s hitting the right spots. With my limited experience, would you all recommend purchasing an aneros? I did the quiz online and it recommended the mgx trident and I’m really thinking about getting it. Should I wait til I experience more myself or just go ahead and purchase?

9 Comments
2024/10/24
18:30 UTC

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How to dispose of old lube?

I've bought xlube and a separate bottle to put it in but I've heard it only last around two weeks. How do I dispose of any unused lube (particularly if it's a large quantity)?

I don't want to block or damage any pipes.

7 Comments
2024/10/24
14:35 UTC

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First ever O/super O? Learn from how I struggled and finally achieved one!

Posted in ProstatePlay, was suggested to repost here as well.

I have been experimenting with prostate play on and off for numerous amount of years now. I've had toys in the past, such as the Aneros, but gave up as I was forcing it and it hurt more than anything (didn't know of this thread). I recently got an Aneros Psy adjustable after rewiring and getting to the point where I knew I wouldn't get much further with my fingers and my arm getting tired. I was successfully able to milk myself once and had a pretty intense hands-on O, but no success otherwise.

After getting my new Aneros, I was doing what I did before and instead of slowly building pleasure, I was forcing the Aneros in where my ass would hurt. I was getting really intense P-waves, and they would build until my heart started racing, I would start to shake uncontrollably, then, all of a sudden, nothing. I was wondering if I was doing anything wrong, was I not horny enough? I would pull up some porn. Was I forcing it to much subconsciously? I would relax and undo what my body had naturally done. Was I chasing the feeling? Yes, but I also didn't realize that you have to follow your body, enjoy the ride, and be submissive to the experience. Somewhere deep down, I felt like I was either chasing the feeling or trying to relax, and both would, in the end, come to find out and cancel the process.

Well, today after reading some success posts with weed, I smoked right before my session, booted up some porn for about 20 minutes, closed my laptop, and went into it. This time, I slowly inserted my Aneros, playing first with my ass, before it felt like my prostate was craving it, and after very slowly over a few minutes inserted it about an inch. From there I didn't touch it, just put my hand behind it from popping out by accident. Over about 15 minutes I received some various P-Waves ranging in intensity and again would get to the point of intense P-Waves, heart racing, started convulsing then nothing. So I tried changing positions to laying flat down on my belly legs straight. I hadn't normally experienced P-waves in this position but this time I did, and I got to the point again where I thought I overdid it and kept telling myself to relax, but really had just undone but my body was doing naturally. I finally switched positions to my back, with my legs straight which I get the most intense P-waves from, and tried a different strategy.

This session I finally told myself, DON'T THINK, just enjoy the ride and allow whatever happens to happen. This time the P-waves built, and they got so intense it felt like electricity was flowing through my lower half, then built throughout my whole body. At one point it felt like a blanket that was weighing me down and I couldn't move and I let it. At the same time, I could feel what felt like my Aneros digging deeper and deeper as it had before, which had led me to believe I was overdoing it subconsciously, so I relaxed and ruined it, but I let it keep going this time. It was like a video game. It felt like a new level after another. Building in new more intense waves each time the Aneros felt like it kept getting deeper and deeper, which I would assume was my prostate getting larger and larger or more pressure from my anal cavity squeezing naturally. I kept letting it build, it felt like a horizontal loading bar going up my shaft and each 20% was a new level. Finally, my body started convulsing and instead of psyching myself out, I let the blanket of my P-wave just weigh me down and submit to it. After what felt like many minutes passed and me moaning which I normally don't do and more intensively convulsing IT HAPPENED. I spewed everywhere like a dam had collapsed and had the most intense euphoria like I was on more intense drugs like MDMA. I tried to move and wanted to clean up but couldn't move a damn muscle while more and more p-waves and smaller reactions kept building up after that. Finally, after an hour or so I could move.

Now, I couldn't tell if this was a super-O or not, but if it gets more intense than this... holy shit. This being my first HFO, it was a transcending experience as some of you may know.

Some tips:

  1. After trying today, weed can help you get over that hump. I will try now that I know the feeling without weed to see how it is and will update. But it helped me a lot today.
  2. Don't chase the feeling, just let it happen. Don't squeeze, move, or do anything... your body will do it for you. You will feel your body acting on its own, as long as you are not forcing it and you really feel like your body is doing it, let it happen.
  3. Going along with #2, you have to relax but don't over-relax where when your body is naturally contracting or moving, you undo the progress and relax to step one. Be in a relaxed state beforehand, but don't overdo it.
  4. While you can snap out of any of this process at any moment if you want to and get back control over your body... DON'T. Sometimes during my previous sessions, I felt I was convulsing subconsciously so I would stop myself but no. This is part of the experience and it happens for a few minutes before the O, although you might not feel the most pleasure while convulsing, it will come and build up.
  5. If you're new, I felt as if when I would gently press on my perineum in the right spot for a few minutes I would feel pleasure from my prostate, this is how I knew I was rewired, but also this is a good warm-up before starting your session or sticking any toy in/finger in.
  6. Get a good toy if you haven't already.
  7. Find the right position for you that produces the best P-waves. Mine is on my back, legs down straight, hands comfortably to my side. My insertion position is the same, but with my legs up in the air, with my arms hugging the bottom side of my legs for support.
  8. DON'T GIVE UP! I almost did, it's worth it in the end. (+6 year journey on and off)

If I think of anything else, I will update this post, and I will be happy to answer some questions, too.

22 Comments
2024/10/24
14:32 UTC

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Looking to buy my first Aneros.

I like a thicker toy that can stay in but not too intense on the vibrations. Any suggestions ? Thank you!

9 Comments
2024/10/23
13:52 UTC

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First time squirting experience - Helix-syn Trident

Hello,

I've read stories online alluding to guys squirting from prostate play, but always just believed it to be something that only girls could experience. Oh boy was I proven wrong!

I was using my aneros helix-syn and was having a good session. I had a couple dry orgasms while lying in bed, however I could tell that it wasn't going to go anywhere further.

I was not satisfied yet, so I decided to watch myself in my bathroom mirror, and to film myself. I find these two things to turn me on and increase my arousal. I wasn't expecting what happened next.

I warm feeling started to wash over my body starting from my head down to my groin. This feeling was so satisfying, and as I felt it reach my groin, I thought I was going to have a wet orgasm. Instead I only shot out a little bit of pre-cum. It really felt like I came. I continued on, and the same feeling started to wash over me again, this time more intense. My legs started to shake a bit, and my breathing was very rapid. My head started to spin, and this time I literally squirted across my bathroom sink. I couldn't really believe it. I found it really hot and incredibly arousing, and this drove me to have another one of these squirting prostate orgasms a few minutes later (about the same intensity). After this one I was able to coax out another small one by stimulating my nipples.

Overall this felt incredible, and I'll have to try it again. Has anyone else here experienced something similar?

11 Comments
2024/10/22
16:45 UTC

3

Butterflies?

Ok, so...took a few months off...was mostly trying with the Psy to no avail...and then I decided to order the Eupho, Progasm and Edge 2.

They came the other day and I had some free time and of course dove into everything and tried to force things...

The Eupho was first...I managed some good feelings and got that "tickle I can't scratch" feeling briefly.

Then tried the progasm. Was intimidated by the size, but it was ok. Didn't move much, but certainly caused a lot of pressure. Tough to walk in for sure.

Then the edge...felt almost like a HFWO was going to happen and then the numbness took over.

Today I had 45 min, so I figured I'd go back to the Eupho. Stayed as relaxed as possible, and felt a little movement and some more of that "itch i cant scratch feeling." Then I felt like maybe the tip was trying to balance on a marble and it kinda slid itself back and forth, then something interesting happened.

I relaxed and it felt like stuff fluttered...and it felt like stuff fluttered by my tailbone...and things felt like they were building a bit and then it subsided.

I'm assuming these are the p-waves people talk about? This is the most its happened by far...I think when I became aware I tensed a bit and killed the momentum.

When this starts, am I fairly close to what we are all looking for??

Thanks!

8 Comments
2024/10/21
21:06 UTC

9

Help me shop for my man?

I bought the Helix Syn Trident earlier this year and we’ve had a lot of fun with it. No HFO - because we usually end up playing and I make him cum. But he had had some prostate orgasms with it.

I would like to get him something new. That he can use on his own - since I can’t keep my hands off of him - that he can just relax and enjoy. Maybe something that will give him the best chance of a HFO (this is MY wish for him I don’t think he cares much about a HFO).

Any suggestions? I don’t know if this matters but I can easily give him a prostate O with just my fingers (and I have pretty small hands). We discovered this before I bought the Trident.

Thank you! And thanks in advance for your kindness if I used the wrong terminology in this post. ❤️

20 Comments
2024/10/21
12:55 UTC

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Cleaning and preparation help (no douche)

Hi, I'm completely new to prostate stuff but ive been lurking here for the last two week absorbing lots of information like a sponge. I have a helix syn trident waiting for me but I'm feeling pretty nervous about it.

I'd like to ask two things: Firstly - for those who don't douche (edit: or use an enema), is there another way to get the inside a bit more clean? I eat healthily and I'm trying to get more fiber in my diet as I know the benefits. But is there anything else I could do (e.g. anything in the shower for example)?

Secondly - in terms of getting lubed up, what's the simplest and most effective way to go about it? I'm not looking for a frozen coconut oil, bees wax, mountain dew concoction, but I do have water-based lube and a vaseline-branded coconut oil (I can't tell if it's the same kind of coconut oil other people mention on here or not). Should I start with a finger to get lube in there?

I'm super excited, just need a little bit of guidance here before I get started. Thanks!

11 Comments
2024/10/20
19:47 UTC

2

Tips to reset

Hey guys! I’ve had an up and down journey with prostate play. I’ve been able to have some really amazing sessions with lots of dry orgasms but the last couple of months have been just a bit… meh.

I’m not reliably getting the orgasms anymore. I want to go back to basics to try and progress further.

Any tips from guys that seem to have lost their groove? I’m going to try tonight, haven’t ejaculated since Thursday so fingers crossed!

16 Comments
2024/10/20
17:17 UTC

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Watching College Football

....and no one around me is aware that an Aneros is in the room doing it's thing for me secretly as I sit comfortably here in my reclined recliner. Who'd a thought....

2 Comments
2024/10/19
22:19 UTC

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Flexing

Does any one have an insightful visualisations that help them with the movement of the pelvic muscles? I think I’m hindering myself by flexing what I think to be the muscles. I always imagine them moving in a sort of direction etc. so maybe I’m focusing too much on doing it incorrectly ? Any stories would be amazing, thanks!

8 Comments
2024/10/18
22:39 UTC

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