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Hi — I’m a 32 year old cisgender childfree black immigrant woman from New Jersey. I identify as a heteroromantic asexual. I work in the public health, specifically government health policy. My general interests and hobbies are: tv/movies, music, pop culture, fashion, traveling, shopping, spending time with friends + family, Broadway musicals, bars/clubs, concerts, comedy shows, reading, sightseeing, sports, etc. Overall, I like being social with people I’m comfortable with but I also like spending time at home. If it helps, my personality type is INFJ and I’m a Pisces.

I’m interested in a romantic relationship with a man (early 30s to early 40s) who I can consider both my companion and my friend. Ideally, he is someone who likes to experience life/do fun things (as mentioned above) and who also likes staying in… all while just holding hands and cuddling.

I did the long distance relationship thing and I don’t think I have it in me to do that again so please message me if you’re interested and in the New York metro area.

P.S. I’m also interested in making ace friends! 🫶🏾

Hi! I’m in Columbus Ohio and I’m looking for cool women to be friends with! I’ve realized I’m ace for a few years now. I’m definitely on the “ace spectrum” but I do have some fetishes.

About me: I’m 32, live in Columbus, Ohio, and I’m into all things horror and spooky. I like watching things about Bigfoot and aliens and ghost and unexplained mysteries. I also enjoy playing traditional card games and board games. I like football and I’m 420 friendly. I also am interested in religion and spirituality and I like watching and listening to things about those topics too.

About you: Preferably you’d be into the stuff I am into, too! I find girl-next-door type women to be cute. Long hair, smooth legs, enjoys hugs, things like that. Girls who can rock a sundress or skirt with Chucks are tens out of ten!

I’m looking for a friend to get coffee with, hang out with, have movie nights or game nights with, and maybe have some late night smoke sesh philosophical conversations with.

If you want to message me, please be in central Ohio!

Hi everyone! 😊 (Pic in profile)

It's been truly difficult finding anyone in the country to meet and have a good time with since I unfortunately struggle with long distance relationships.

I'm someone sweet and open minded, I can talk for hours on end about just any topic.

My interests are simple and varied:

• Music of all genres, YOUR favorite genre too!(So please share 🥺)
• Sci-fi, Psychological and Dark movies!
• Anime, Mangas/Manhuas, Video Games, Tabletop games, the whole popular culture, name something and I'll probably have heard of it or played it ;3
• I'd love to play with you on the Game of your choice c:
• Sports and Physical activity, bodybuilding, running, hiking and climbing
• Science, Learning, Psychology and Philosophy
• Not a big reader, but I've been getting into Audiobooks, please give me some recommendations 🙏
• I've gotten into many phases, Emo, Goth, Punk, Retro, and lots of stuff, we can even talk fashion 😉
• My humour is pretty dark and knows no limits, I looove teasing once I get comfortable hehe
• Talking, Talking AND TALKING! Please overwhelm me with messages, trauma dump, share your worries or even talk about your favorite color, idk ANYTHING 🥹 I'm a great listener.

I've also been feeling truly touch starved and it is pretty difficult to explain how Aces can also find value in physical intimacy such as another person's embrace, seeking comfort and tenderness... It is in no way a requirement, but I felt like sharing how I felt. So if you seek something similar like a cuddle buddy, I'm the person you're looking for ;3

DM me if you're interested, Whether you're looking for a friend or more, I would love to get to know you! 😊

Hello~ my name is Austin. I'm a 25 yr old guy living in the god forsaken state of Florida. And I figured why not give this a shot?

I'm a very funny and goofy person who loves to make people laugh and have fun with someone especially if I care about them. I'm very loving and affectionate a lot like a dog, I love cuddles and pets and being the little spoon. I'm very loyal and caring I love to do things to make my person smile and take care of them.

My hobbies are mainly video games so I'd love someone else who plays a lot so we can play together or at least play different things next to each other. I also love to listen to music and have something playing almost all the time. I love starset and pixel terror and stuff like that. Big plus if you like those too. I also like to write some, mainly short stories but I do hope to be an author someday. I like to write love stories most of all, I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. Aside from that I don't mind doing anything if it's with someone I care about.

Send me a message and let's get to know each other I work nights so beware

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hi as stated I'm 23 y/o(edit: I'm so dumb I'm actually 22 y/o born in December 2001 I'm so dumb lol) and I don't mind an age gap. Im a very shy person but I will try to be very vocal with anyone that messages me. I'm most active on discord and eventually would want to move/discuss on there unless you pefer something else. I'm looking for a long time partner. I'm very touch adverse and would like to take things extremely slowly. I would like to eventually be comfortable to cuddle with u but so far only my mother and younger sister have that privilege. At first I just want to chat about things that you enjoy and things i enjoy. As stated I'm a trans man pre-op anything but I want to get top surgery eventually. I've been on T for about 2 years now. I would like to have fostered/adopted children in the future but only if we are both financially and mentally stable (currently started Prozac for anxiety) I'm 5'5" a bit on the heavier side of 195lb but am working towards a goal of 150lb. I'm not extremely masc more nb than anything else on looks. I do like reading bl so if that is a big no no I can understand. I casually listen to K-pop and othe language songs. I currently live with my mother and siblings I have stable job but my income is not super stable ( I am one of the main breadwinners in my family) so moving out will be a thing for in the far future until I can feel secure in my family own financial stability. I am the father of two cats and a snake. I've only ever been in one relationship so I'm still figuring things out but I can confirm I am 100% ace just not sure how sex-tolerant/sex-adverse I am. Um i really don't know what else to say haha. Oh I have a pretty good gaming setup but I don't play often if at all haha but I think it would be cute if we could have game night dates. I also enjoy cut things and have lots of plushies. I also enjoy reading danmei or anything bl (I know I stated that before XP) I draw sometimes. I'm a lot more of a listener than a talker so I'd love to hear you talk about anything u enjoy. Please be patient with talking to me I'm very shy XP. I also love penguins. Um yea. Lol

I have driving anxiety so would like to keep it pretty local but other than that, as long as you're willing to tolerate me, I'd love to hang out. I know if you're reading this, I'm probably old enough to be your mother but if you're alright with that, just drop me a message and I promise to get back to you ASAP :-)

Just to be upfront, I am not looking for anything more than friendship. I have a girlfriend and she’s enough for me. That being said.

Hey! I’m Ash! I’m gray ace, pronouns she/her, I’m super into stuff like video games, anime, and reading, I’ve been getting into cooking and wanting to get into cosplay too. Apart from that I like all the usual stuff. I’ve been obsessed with the new paper mario remake lately, and I’m gonna start reading spy x family (hopefully) today too.

If you wanna chat, just shoot me a message with your age and pronouns, as well as a fruit emoji (or type one if on desktop)

Hey guys! I'm a 23-year-old cis heteroromantic brown male in Canada and basically I am looking for emotional intimacy. Could be a relationship or a friendship, but preferably friendship. Plus points if you're also from Manitoba.

I don't want to be very picky with who you are. Please just be over 19 at least and an intro about yourself.

Now about me. I almost all genres. I also like to listen to music, mainly pop and EDM. For hobbies, I am into technology and I also like to dress well and be presentable. Oh, and I love coffee!

I am often described as a smart and funny person, with a calm and cool nature, and I can also be a nerd sometimes.

Now I am a demisexual, aromantic (still dk what specific aro I am), ISTJ and a Capricorn, and as you've read this far, please include an intro and the word "mocha" in your message.

Thanks for reading! :)

21F from US. I'm smart, independent , confident at times quite opionated. I see my life as a triangle, friends , family.. looking for soulmate. im looking for someone i can talk with and have some fun together. Im just new here. i wanna do something to get rid of my boredom.

Hi everyone- I'm a 23 year old man in the Portland, Oregon area. I'm not fully asexual, but my libido is so low that dating's been quite difficult.

A little more about me: I work as a consultant, although I'm hoping to switch into academic research. I enjoy working out, hiking, backpacking, volunteering, reading nonfiction, and comedy.

If you're nearby and looking for a friend/boyfriend, shoot me a DM! Please include your age and a picture of your face. I don't have a gender preference.

Hi, I'm Teskia, a black female who is currently looking for a partner either on the east cost or someone nearby and willing to travel within a few months.

Long story short, I'm lonely, and I'm looking to help ease the loneliness that has been eating away at me for the past 4 years. I've been trying dating apps and everything but no luck.

I'm extremely needy and my cup isn't able to be filled easily. I need a lot of reassurance and a lot of effort put into this even if it doesn't last.

I had a double mastectomy and a hysterectomy. I'm 5'2. I am strictly monogamous. I prefer someone who is the same. I want a long term relationship/queerplatonic partner. I will give you most if not all my attention. My love language is gift giving and physical time together. I can easily be overwhelmed in certain scenarios. I like anime and comic book movies. I'm a nerd so hopefully we can nerd out together. I need alot of compassion and understanding. I really want someone committed to an actual relationship and not just a friendship or wanting to leave after a date or two. My main two requirements are guys older than me and taller than me and someone who can communicate openly and understand my boundaries.

hi! i wish i could make this short and simple, but i’m going to explain things i really want in this message (with a tl;dr in case you don’t want to read everything) <3

please be 18-21. that’s my range, but if you are little older, i can compromise

i am specifically cuprioromantic, probably full on asexual (i’m in the middle, so if you are favorable/repulsed, i won’t mind at all) though, the only thing i can’t compromise on is that you have to be aro or on the aro spectrum in some way

~ what i want in a relationship ~

i want to be able to call each other friends or roommates if we live together. maybe boyfriend/girlfriend/partner, whatever you prefer, but that would be in settings where we know someone wouldn’t understand immediately what we are. i would like to sleep in the same bed and cuddle, but i can negotiate that easily. i like things romantically coded without the romance, like going on dates, holding hands, kissing, etc. i don’t like public romantic things like kissing on the lips, but i would hold hands of kiss on the cheeks and such :)

i don’t want kids, but i’m up to foster older kids. along with dogs. i do own a small dog who is older, and i would prefer if i could bring him if we were to live together. in terms of marriage, i like the idea of eloping but i’m not sure about a whole wedding. i am also monogamous, so if you aren’t, we can discuss that but know that i am still very monogamous

~ what i would like in a partner ~

18-21 (with exceptions for someone older as i stated before). i like people who are blunt and are willing to talk about graphic or explicit things, since i like talking about harsher world things. though, if some topics are harder for you, i can hold off/just not mention them

i would like someone who is sweet ofc, and like to discuss boundaries in depth. i like people who are very similar to me, especially in terms of what we want in life (i discuss it later in the message). also would like someone who can put in some work to keep the relationship alive, and i would gladly do the same :D

appearance wise i have no preference as long as you are healthy and happy. and job wise, i think it would be cool if you can do something online, but obviously that’s scarce so it’s not my biggest issue if not lol

(all of this isn’t required, more just like brownie points)

~ what i am like ~

i’m 18, transitioned officially at 14, and have only had top surgery. i would like a hysterectomy at some point but just because i do not like the idea of a risk in any form of having a biological child

i was forced to drop out because of an issue with the schools system, but i am working on getting my ged

currently, i can’t drive, but i’m going on lessons to eventually get my license :). i like traveling a lot, and i like snowy places. what i would like is to move out of arizona as a whole and go somewhere colder and cheaper, but i also love big cities too

i have an older brother, my mother, and my father isn’t alive. i live with my mom right now. i don’t have a job, but am working on both doing art commissions and being a tattoo artist. i am leaning towards art commissions since i want to do something online

i like anime and video games, and i also love talking about games! i would totally sit there and talk for hours about one game as long as you engaged with it, and i would gladly listen to you

i am left leaning in politics, and not religious at all (don’t mind if you are, i can be respectful). i’ve learned from people around me that i’m a pretty laidback person who goes with the flow on things, so trust me, if you feel awkward about saying something, i won’t lol

TL;DR: dm me or comment and we can talk in dms about what we want/like :)

p.s. if you dm me, please talk about what you would want in a relationship instead of just saying one or two words

hi, im a 22 year old trans man looking for a man/nonbinary person 20+. i live in the midwest us. currently working as a graphic designer and doing school on top of that. asexual and somewhere on the aro spectrum. monogamous. my hobbies are: music, video games, movies, cartoons, drawing, painting, hiking, camping, reading, running, kickboxing, cooking. im not particularly good at any of these but i put my heart in to it so thats what counts lol. i mainly use discord so maybe we can get in contact there if we hit it off. looking for anyone thats willing to put in the same amount of work i put in.

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hello there!

My name is Robert and I'm a 34 y.o. nonbinary (AMAB) panromantic pseudosexual autistic. I'm seeking out an eventual life partner who would accept me for me. I'm hoping to find a friend that evolves into a partner. I'm into many things like being outside, working on vehicles, watching movies like documentaries and history related, and more. What are YOU into? I'd love to know! I consider myself a bit of an old soul who's ideal relationship consists of being open, honest with each other, filled with communication, and the capability to compromise with one another. I also enjoy cuddling and showing affection. Please, be kind with me and others as I will be kind to you and others as well. A long distance relationship is no issue as I don't plan to stay where I am long and willing to relocate. Please, send me DM if you're interested. Hope I here from someone soon! Be well!

Hi I am looking for a QPR/Squish! Someone I can hang out with, talk to frequently, cuddle, and also bug with my goofy puns and cheesy jokes. Someone that really gets me and wants to have fun and go on dates with and talk but not in a true romantic relationship. Just have fun in other’s company and rely on each other for support. Also the closer we live to each other the better! I have a blondish buzz cut at the moment that I’m hoping to grow out again to look like a member of a 90’s boy band with the spikes thanks to my many cowlicks. Some of my interests include long walks in the cemetery, arts and crafts, music, fashion, age regression, etc. I do not want children. I have autism and OCD.

At the end of the day, What I am looking is something that defies the normal boundaries of a relationship, but still something better than just being friends with someone. If that sounds appealing to you, feel free to send me a chat :)

Hi I am just looking for some company I had made a post a while back my interests are in math science philosophy psychology tv show movies videogames and manga. I have ADHD dyslexia autism anxiety bipolar two and a undignosed trauma disorder. If any of you people want to have some company that will talk your ear off about the fallout tv show and the lore of all the games or little details from movies or even some level of conversation of quontim mechanics around shrowdingers cat please let me know. Also since I am demi romantic and demi sexual do not respect something to happen on the first meeting it tends to take some time of getting to know someone ok? You can message me when ever I only use redit to read some stuff and not much else I am not on here much but I will get back to you if you message me.

Woah wait! Don’t go anywhere! While I have your attention, please, stay awhile! I’d offer some wine… or soda… if we were in the same room but we are not, we are nose deep into our screens trying to find that flame in life, the one that moves with you, through your ups and your downs, perhaps if you read on, you might find that spark with me?

As per the title, I’m 25m from the west coast, looking for that spark in my life, to ignite the flame that burns forever in me.

If you dig deep enough into my history you may find my name, otherwise you are more than welcome to reach out, happy to chat!

As to not spoil too much of the fun about me, here are only a few basics… and a… twist?

Most of my free time is spent on a screen, between games, movies and editing, not much to see there haha

I enjoy cooking (I know right) and currently my go to meal is a spicy coconut chicken curry!

I also like the great outdoors, camping, hiking, general forestry stuff

I don’t read nearly as much as I used to but perhaps I’ll find someone that would enjoy a day or two in the week of no screens, just reading our books, side by side, enjoying that quality time together, who knows!

My preferences are my own, though I am a fairly flexible person, so I can adapt to things that you may consider a flaw in yourself but I call a bonus! Don’t hesitate to reach out, especially you introverts! I see you lurking, come dip your toe in! I promise, I am gentle and promise to not bite!

Now for the twist…

I managed to break my back in 6th grade, fractured 9 vertebrae, cracked 3 ribs, and had a punctured lung. Recovery was only 3 weeks, and I was back to normal. Feel free to guess how that happened! It’ll surprise you…

Anyways have a wonderful rest of your day/evening, I look forward to chatting!

First the spec sheet on me :)

Single/Taken/Complicated: Single

Seeking Relationship/Friends/Squish/Other: Seeking Relationship

Romantic Orientation: Hetero-Romantic

Gender: Male

Pronouns: He/Him

Age: 38

Height/Build: 6'2"

Physical Description: Very big, over 500 lbs, short brown hair, groomed facial hair minus mustache

Location: SW MO, Springfield Metro Area

Now for the manufacturer's description:

I'm a pretty laid back geek that loves humor, making people laugh, gaming of both the board and video variety, and watching videos of all kinds. I work full time remotely as a web developer and have worked at the same job for over 10 years. I am Christian but I don't rub it in people's faces. I'm not a fan of politics and consider myself a moderate, but leaning a bit left especially in recent years. I do my best to be kind to all as long as they do the same. I am very much a homebody and would rather enjoy a night in as opposed to going out.

I don't partake in any hard drugs, smoke, or drink and would greatly prefer someone who doesn't as well. Alcoholism runs in my family and I have do have a tendency to become addicted to stuff. I also have asthma and can't be around smokers. Another preference is that no kids are involved. I don't feel ready to take the role of a father before I'm a husband.

I'm looking for someone in the states, preferably nearby. I have had bad experiences in online only/long distance relationships and want to avoid them. I want something real. I also need to stay in the area due to family health reasons.

Last particular thing about me is that I am a big guy, partially disabled. I do my best to do what I can, but sometimes it is limited. Honestly, I don't mind being big because I'd rather be content and happy than miserable. So ideally my partner would be fine with that to some degree.

As for my asexuality, I can confidently say I'm on the spectrum, I just don't know exactly where. I am sex repulsed and am at most demi, but I'm content with never having sex ever. If it meant pleasing my partner and they really wanted it, I would participate as long as it is respectful and consented to. I am a chronic people-pleaser, arguably to a fault, lol. I will say I am totally down for hugs, kisses, cuddling, and snuggling. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a romantic. At the same time I am a bit of a clown and have a bad habit of telling terrible puns or dad jokes. You have been warned :)

Now that I've scared off 99% of the population if you have somehow made it past this point, you are something special!

I will totally be willing to share pictures of myself privately, I don't care to do so on public sites.

Thank you for reading and I wish the best for all of you!

Here's my AceSpace profile to make things easier - https://acespace.love/profile/Arth189

Hello! I’m trying here in hopes that I can find some new ace people to connect with! :)

To introduce myself. I'm a 24-year-old gal living in the Yeehaw state of Maryland. I identify as Ace and am sex-repulsed, though I do sometimes enjoy exploring nsfw topics fictionally. I lean more towards the introverted side, so I'm not really active all the time, partially thanks to my office job taking all my free time and energy. As for my personality, I’m the kind of person that's genuine and straightforward. Communication, trust, and honesty are values I hold dear, so I would appreciate the same ideals in return. Lastly, I may initially come across as shy and take a bit to warm up, but can be very silly and more chatty with the right people. I mainly use Discord to talk, so if you have an account, please let me know!

My Interests

My biggest interests are digital art and video games. I love to make stories, design characters, make fan art, and talk about things revolving around that. Horror and Sci-Fi are what I'm doing the most right now.

As for video games, I mainly play on Steam. I play a variety of games, from roguelikes (ROR2, TBoI), shooters, horror, puzzles (Inscryption), crafting (MC), farming games, and more. However, I usually tend to gravitate away from survival games, or anything that can get repetitive and boring. Having occasional stream sessions, watching someone play games, drawing, rambling about whatever, or messing with my friends is what I consider fun. I'm not someone who rages at games, so even if I'm joking, I respect boundaries with that.

Aside from games, I enjoy hearing people talk about their interests, even if I'm not 100% into something, I like to listen and contribute where I can. Talking about new things allows me to branch out my interests, which is always a great opportunity. Talk about the history of pennies for all I care, I'm here for it!

Lastly, I enjoy group outdoor activities when there is an opportunity. I also listen to all kinds of music, polyjamourous I've been called lol, and I'm slowly getting into anime, even though I suck at committing to it currently.

What I'm Looking For

I get along really well with creative people who are into digital art and video games since those are my biggest hobbies. I’d love to have more people like that in my circle! I'm mainly looking for friends, but I am open to romance if the connection is there. However, since friends are hard enough to get, it's not a priority. So, if you are a crazy, creative person send a message! :D

Dealbreakers

I have inattentive ADHD, and most likely am neurodivergent, but all that means is I get tired easier and have a few niche interests. I won't talk your ear off, but the niche part mainly pertains to video games. So that's good news if you have niche interests as well.

I had a rough past with friends, so it takes me a while to trust/feel comfortable around someone.

I come from a workaholic family, so I missed out on a lot of experiences growing up if I come off as out of touch with some media.

Other things are. I don't want children, agnostic, 4/20 friendly, hate cigarettes.

Please don't interact if you are racist, not pro-LGBTQ+, attracted to minors (people under 20 tbh), problematic, etc. etc.

Hey, it's the weekend! Most people start with what they are looking for. I'm not really looking for anything in particular. I guess friends, and if a relationships grows that is great, if not then yay friends!

I would describe myself as sapioromantic, introverted (and in need of being adopted by a local extrovert to get me out of the house), childfree, sober, a mix of nerdy and artsy. I like going to live theatre (recently saw The Book of Mormon) and the museums. Staying home consist of a lot of reddit, discord, and tv. Sometimes board games, webtoons, legos, and I just started reading Fables. No spoilers! Although, if you have read it I have feelings about Colin.

I'm not an overly interesting person, but if you think we have some shared interest hit me up. We can talk here or on discord.

Hello there! I’m a 22F from Europe. I’m demiromantic and on the ace spectrum (not sure what i am label wise there, but what i can say is that i’d be 100% fine never having sex again). I’m looking for friendships and/or a romantic relationship, the latter preferably starting as friends.

About me: I’m currently studying a librarianship program, hoping to work at a public library someday. I like reading (surprise), gaming, fashion, anime, concerts, taking walks and going to different kinds of events. I am an ambivert who likes staying home just as much as going out. Both are more fun to do together with someone tho :) I am a person who generally loves to learn! I love fun facts and learning about people’s hobbies and interests. So i am hoping to find someone who is just as interested and curious about other ppl and about the world in general, someone i can try new things and learn with! ✨

When it comes to friends, gender and location doesn’t matter to me as long you’re between the age 20-29. When it comes to relationships however, i am only looking for F or NB people between the ages 21-26 located in Europe. Long distance is fine as long as the goal is to meet up someday 😊

If you’re interested, hit me up !

hii so I’m kind of looking for a friend / friends? There’s reasons Im suspecting I could be asexual idk if I should list them on a public place 😭

I'm gonna try to shoot my shot here as well so here it goes! I figured I should also make it more digestible than just having paragraphs.

About me:

• I'm Asexual and Genderfluid (mostly female presenting)!
• She/He/They (I have no preference but I don't mind you only using She/Her if it comes to it)
• Southeast Asian (Philippines specifically)
• My height is 5ft or 153cm. Pretty fair skin, brown eyes, and brown (though it really looks more like black) hair.
• Neurodivergent (I prefer you ask me about it if you're interested)

Important note:
I'm using a dating app because my bestfriend wants me to have some IRL experience with dating since I've only ever been in (two) online relationships. I'm only really willing to do it for the experience and I'm not interested in going further than that using that app. So if that bothers you, I understand.

My dealbreakers:

• I don't want any kids, so if you happen to have any or want to do adoption, it's a no go for me.
• I don't like smokers (cigarette or other) as I have bad reactions to it.
• If you do recreational drugs, I don't think we could work out.
• I can't go vegan if you are.

Things I'm okay with:

• Drinking is okay (I do it socially).
• I'm an Atheist but it's okay if you're more on Agnostic (other religions may be a bit more difficult for me).
• If you're sex-favourable, I wouldn't mind (we could discuss more on this eventually).
• Discussing politics is fine. Just know I'm more moderate.

Other important stuff:

• I can only do long distance relationship for now.
• I would like to move to Europe eventually (sadly not soon) so I would prefer my partner to be living in Europe or is a European.
• If you're not from Europe but have plans or ideas to move there as well, maybe we could work as well!

Some more stuff about me:

• I'm very into languages! I'm actually currently learning French!
• I love to play all sorts of games and sometimes I stream them!
• I tend to go on tangents when I talk and sometimes I sing out loud when I'm in a voice call talking to other people.
• I love cooking and baking so when I meet someone new, I usually ask what their favourite food is so I can try it myself!

I would put more information but I think we could learn more about each other on the way! If you made it this far and plan to message me, please include "cheese" in your message so I know you read all of this! I think that if it doesn't work out, I'd still love to be friends though feel free to tell me if you'd prefer to just be friends from the get go! I'm always open to having more friends!

Of course if there are more questions, don't hesitate to ask me!

Welcome.

Before I mention anything else I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

I ended up here on a whim and came across a few communities that resonate with me in some ways. I'm used to meeting people sporadically in less deliberate places, so please excuse anything that seems odd or that doesn't meet standard expectations.

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US, and adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless interactions. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. I'm very open to an LDR with the right person and possibly advancing that or having more in time. We'd need to feel out what worked best for us and where we wanted to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't everything. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

Some basic facts about me:

• I like long and intimate discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts but appreciate all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a comfortable space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people.
• Photography, movies, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so.
• I stopped being able to comprehend how old I feel some time in my 20s. I've been feeling very surreal lately, hence trying something like this. Apparently this is very common in these sorts of places, so I mention it.
• I'm INTJ, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, to take them together and then discuss the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the asexual spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am not okay with so much as a hug unless I really know, like, and trust someone. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch. I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself.

I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Here is a new Ace safe space for anyone interested in connecting with fellow aces.

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https://discord.gg/wndGX5pa

Anyone in BC looking for a friend or partner? Let’s chat!

Most people include what they are looking for in the title, but I'm not sure if I am looking for anything specific. I'm open to just chatting, friendship, or relationship. My interest include:

Live and musical theatre

Museums, including art, science, and natural history.

Legos

Board games, I have BGA but I don't have a TTRPG group but LFG if you are in my area. I'm open to most rule systems but DnD never clicked for me.

I read mostly webcomics lately, but need to get back into books, although I've been saying that for like a year.

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Please message me if you are interested in talking!