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LOOKING FOR AN AGE GAP RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!! Age isn't an issue for me but please no one over 35

I am a sex repulsed asexual transman looking to put myself out a bit and make connections. For partners I'd prefer someone who currently lives in Australia for friends I don't really mind.

I like to read, watch movies and shows, talk, collect CDs, make little DIYs all that stuff. I'm a goth and a metalhead and I cannot live without music, and I like all things dark and macabre, so I'd say those are pretty big interests of mine.

I don't mind smokers or people who like to enjoy a beer or two or whatever from time to time but please nothing more than that. I have depression and osteoarthritis and as far as I'm aware that's it. My biggest pet peeve are Republicans and Conservatives and trust I can sniff you guys out better than a police dog can sniff out crack cocaine so please do not dm me.

Cheers much love!!!!!

Hello. I'm from Spain and I'd like to meet guys up to 48 years old.

I like guys with a great sense of humor and very masculine in their manners and physical appearance. It's difficult for me to develop a bond if I can't laugh by your side.

About me? People use to say about me that I am attractive and that I have "a spark". Im very romantic but only when I fall for. I look younger physically and have an unusually young spirit. I consider Im a demisexual, demiromantic girl a bit sapio too.

I'm not going to talk about all my tastes and hobbies here, it's great to discover that chatting one night over hot tea or a beer. But I like to read and go to the movies, especially the last session.

Being demi it's not easy for me to like you at first so making male friends is my main goal, in a relaxed and non-expecting romantic way.

Feel free to send a message if you are from Europe and want to have a new female friend.

Age isn't an issue for me, but don't message me if you're in your 50sI'm fine with texting someone that is in their 40s.

Location and what else could we chat about besides the summary title that is given at hand.

I would love to chat with people from Europe more because. Europe also has landscape backgrounds that look like they came from a depressive atmospheric black metal band as well, haha. Europe is so rich in culture and history as well. Haven't listened to that kind of metal in ages. But it still reminds me of those albums, and I will say, though, Europe also reminds me of those folk album covers in the European lands that are dreary and somber, like in the dark gray winter with dead trees and a highly atmospheric landscape. As you can see, I do enjoy the gloomy, dreary, and somber-like settings that Europe provides. I love the medieval weapons, folk instruments, European markets, the raids, and, of course, the foods there. But this is all seen virtually by pictures or videos. But it still makes me happy to see such beauty. But that's okay if you're not from Europe; I will be okay if you're elsewhere. Also, speaking of folk, I really love folk music that is using traditional folk instruments. Examples.

Tagelharpa, the Näverlur, and a Vevlira (or Hurdy-Gurdy) Cow Horn, Lur, and Bone Flute, to name a few.

My methods of communications.

Tumblr and text messaging apps. If you're not willing to chat on one of these apps, it won't work out. It's important to me to never support Meta ever again. I'm very glad I left social media before things got really worse, I also heard now that Meta wants to make a deal for 25k to unban Trump from FB. Not only that, Meta owned apps are now fixed for Republican Party propaganda, right wing propaganda and conservative propaganda. Why do you think TikTok shut down for 24 hours? Because things needed to be fixed to support the Republican Party and anything that favors Trump. Can you say no thanks to Meta? Unless you're pro MAGA, haha. My chat request are turned on, you can message me, it's fine :)

Please let me know if your town has owls or what your local wildlife has to offer in your town, or you could let me know your favorite element; mine would be air.

I've met a couple of neat people in my time back on Reddit, but still feel the need to search again in the asexual community.

Single. Parent. Music lover. Dark themes. Not religious. Do not smoke or drink, party. I am silly, but serious when necessary. If you are wondering where I fall on this spectrum, it'd be asexual heteromantic. That said, I also identify with aegosexuality and placiosexuality.

I have met many friends throughout life because of music, and it's really the thing that makes my heart and soul the happiest. I would love to have a music buddy again.

I'd also love to meet someone nearby for an adventure-seeking partner. I work full time, but would like to share my free moments with someone. Location: Raleigh, NC , USA.

You'd ideally be in my age range. Let's song swap, chat, vent, share random parts of our day, eventually plan a meet for a museum or an escape room🤷🏽‍♀️ If you're not nearby, that's alright as well. Meeting my person would be nice to experience again. Again, I posted this about friends because I am not ready for a relationship, not even sure I ever want one again.

I figured it was about time I put myself out there again, so here goes nothing! My name is Alex, I’m 28, M living in Eastern Washington. I currently work graveyards at a hotel and am working towards my bachelor’s in HR Management. I enjoy playing games, both video and board, building and painting minis, D&D, and watching a good movie (generally sci-fi or fantasy though I do enjoy historical movies as well). I do have a discord for my gaming and just general communication, so I’m happy to share that if it works better for you! I am happy to share a picture of myself if you need to see my face. I am a bigger guy with a beard and somewhat long hair. I’m not that physically active and probably won’t ever be a fitness nut so if that bothers you then apologies. I’ve never been particularly outdoorsy despite growing up in Colorado and living in the PNW. As for what I’m looking for here, I’m looking for a long term relationship. Marriage would be nice but is not strictly necessary as I am not religious. I am childfree and would like to find someone of the same mindset. Nothing against kids, I just don’t want to live with them 24/7/365. I am also sex repulsed as far as I am aware, though there are a couple of kinks I have. I am quite open to international people as well as my graveyard schedule leaves me awake when most people here are asleep and vice versa. I also would like my partner to be around my age or older (26 at the youngest, 32 at the oldest). I tend to be more attracted to fem people, though personality is most important to me. If anything I have said here appeals to you, then please reach out! I hope to hear from you!

Hello! I’m almost 27 years old and I’m 5’7. I’m looking for a long term relationship with a woman either in Minnesota or in the surrounding states. I’m open to a LDR if there’s a plan to meet up.

About me: I like to game. My favorites are Pokemon and Zelda. I like anime. My favorite is Shouen. I like movies. My favorites are superhero, horror, and musicals. I currently don’t have kids but eventually I want them.

What I’m looking for: A woman between the ages of 25 to 30, a woman who doesn’t currently have kids but wants them eventually, a woman who has a job, and a woman who wants low/minimal sex.

If anything I mentioned resonates with you, please reach out. I’m looking forward to talking with you!

Hello!

I've come here to mutually satiate a longing for connection with another person.

I want someone to chat with daily. I want someone to write lengthy letters back and forth with. I want someone to go on adventures with. I want someone with a strong, vibrant soul who can play well with my own strong and vibrant soul. All in the same person? Wonderful! But, I don't have such lofty expectations of anyone - including of myself. If all we can have are the daily chats, or penpal exchanges, or adventures, I'd be more than happy, and hope you would be too.

I'm 34, male, and live in the Eastern US. My only requirement for those who message me is that they're 18 or older, but I do tend to get along with cisgender women best.

I adore passionate people and interactions with a meaningful basis. I have a zest for many things in life and much prefer people who also do. Of course, this isn't always how things are. I can also be deeply lethargic and melancholic and would hope whomever I meet understands that side of life as well. The deep bonds I'm seeking are developed over time and with a full comprehensive understanding of each other. I dislike trivialities and limited interactions. I want us to feel each other out until we've mapped out every aspect of the other, allowing us to know what's possible and what we'd like to see happen.

I want to make it clear that if whoever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. Many of my most monumental and longest connections were the result of someone casting away self-doubt and not letting it stop them from meeting me. There's far more to gain than there is to lose, as foreboding and discouraging as things may seem sometimes.

So, who am I, exactly? And who are you? Here are some notable values, interests, and traits to consider:

• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch. I get along very well with people across this spectrum despite having sexual desires myself. If nothing else, we can have amazing conversations.
• I strive to engage in genuine and authentic discussion. I understand that it can take time to open up and feel comfortable, and this is completely understandable, but my ultimate and ideal goal is to engage in a deep, intimate, meaningful way.
• The complex vulnerabilities within a person are as important as anything else. Most people have endured some form of trauma or pain, or are subject to some form of mental turmoil or woes. The type of connection I want understands, accepts, and embraces this reality. However, the type of connection I want also strives to live in spite of these things and to heal and advance in a comprehensive and considerate way.
• Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I engage in more literary arts, primarily writing intellectually, about observations and thoughts, and conversationally, not uncommonly poetically and intensely. I can appreciate and admire many different types of expression, whether I involve myself in them or not.
• Ruminating, researching, and coming to understand new things is a major and critical part of my life. I, by choice, am an autodidact. The motto 'Nitimur in vetitum semper cupimusque negata.' is a pretty good summary of my intellectual ethics. I deem nothing to be above reproach, and also that there is no outcome in which everyone benefits or avoids misfortunate calamity. While we're on the topic, since it fits better here than in most spots, I don't do the politics thing. If it's a requirement of yours that someone shares your exact political, cultural, or personal values, we should discuss it bluntly and quickly to see if something is possible between us. No 'side' or 'sphere' is one I relate all that much to and I have contentions with all of them.
• I'm not a 'present moment' or 'live your life the the fullest' type. A lot of my life and values are based in things beyond myself. I exist as a blip of a transient moment with two sets of eternity, the past and future, all around me. That being said, I'm beginning to absorb that present moment in new and unique ways and am excited to see where it goes.
• More casual hobbies of mine include photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, collecting, coffee, and abstraction. Inquire within if one stands out to you. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here. I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me. If you're looking for a gaming buddy or TV junkie you'll need to find it elsewhere, but I'm not fully opposed to sharing or talking about these things with someone either.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and other demands of my life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone, even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• I'm INTJ and am Type 5. I only list these psychological evaluations because some people find them important or revealing. Personally, I find many of these sorts of tests to be bunk, although I do like studying myself and other people. It's a fun activity to share with those who are into it.

Are we looking for each other? Doppelgängers are loved, but some of my best and most significant connections have been with people I had notable and vast dissimilarities with. I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I'll just end up asking about these things at some point anyway so it's simply more convenient and fluid if our conversation starts this way. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hi, my name is Remy. I'm a 23-year old college student studying psychology at UMass Amherst. Eventually, I want to become a marriage/family therapist. Currently, I work in political activism.

I lean libertarian politically and religiously, I am a traditional Catholic. I put this up front in case it turns anyone away.

I'm interested in friends and/or a QPR (queerplatonic relationship) with any sex/gender. I'm open to an explicitly romantic relationship and eventually even marriage, but only with a faithful Catholic woman. Other than that, I'm not only tolerant of people with differing political and religious views from my own, but I love interacting with people vastly different from myself and considering alternative perspectives.

My hobbies include adventure sports such as rock climbing, skiing, hiking, biking, and kayaking; writing songs and poetry; singing; and cooking. Other interests include philosophy, politics, theology, ethics, psychology, nuclear energy, and nutrition.

I love learning new skills and trying new things. I would especially love to learn to play an instrument and read sheet music, as well as learn to paint, dance, act, and make jewelry.

Personality-wise, I'm energetic, empathetic, and adaptable, but assertive. I love spoiling my friends and I'm very protective of them.

If you've made it this far without being turned off, here are the five things I value most in any kind of close relationship:

1. Emotional intimacy. This is what I expect from my closest friends. This entails complete trust, openness, and vulnerability with each other. It means I know all your secrets and you know mine. It means you can cry on my shoulder for seven hours straight and I can cry on yours. Words of affirmation are also important to me.

2. Someone to challenge, criticize, and inspire me. All good relationships, no matter their type, should be able to help me grow as a person in some way. There are few things I loathe more than stagnation and sameness. I want my relationships to be expansive.

3. Intellectual conversation. I consider myself an intellectual and being able to discuss complex ideas related to philosophy, politics, religion, ethics, psychology, or anything else is important to me. Not every conversation has to be a philosophical debate, but I'd at least expect that people won't lock up and shy away from a debate when it arises naturally in conversation.

4. Physical affection/intimacy. It took me a long time to come to terms with this, but physical intimacy is important to me, whether it be holding hands, cuddling, soul gazing, kisses on the cheek, or something as simple as hugging or an arm around the shoulder. Even braiding each other's hair, sleepovers, sitting next to each other, or sharing things like food, drink, clothes, etc. falls in this category for me.

5. At least one or two shared interests and a willingness to try each other's interests. While shared interests aren't hugely important to me, it's hard to spend quality time together unless there are at least a couple of activities we actually enjoy doing together. Ideally, I like people to be willing to try the things I enjoy. I'm almost always willing to try things others enjoy and I love learning new skills.

I have photos of myself, but apparently can't put them in this post, so comment or message me for them.

Hi, I'm Wolfy and I live in France, I have 19 years old and I love videogame, anime and stupid meme. Also, I like boring thing like psychology, sociology or geopolitic (yeah, maybe I can be serious sometime lol).

A presentation of myself :

• I am aegosexual
• I don't smoke and I don't drink
• I'm a homebody guy (I prefer stay at home to go outside) and I'm introvert
• I love cute and adorable thing :3
• I love cuddle and affection ^w^

I have a Discord account if you want to chat, discuss, watch anime or play with me.

I want someone I can show all my love and my affection, someone I can be myself to and be clingy with her, I hope you will be that person <3

Hi! I’m in Columbus Ohio and I’m looking for cool women to be friends with! I’ve realized I’m ace for a few years now. I’m definitely on the “ace spectrum” but I do have some fetishes.

About me: I’m 32, live in Columbus, Ohio, and I’m into all things horror and spooky. I like watching things about Bigfoot and aliens and ghost and unexplained mysteries. I also enjoy playing traditional card games and board games. I like football and I’m 420 friendly. I also am interested in religion and spirituality and I like watching and listening to things about those topics too.

About you: Preferably you’d be into the stuff I am into, too! I find girl-next-door type women to be cute. Long hair, smooth legs, enjoys hugs, things like that. Girls who can rock a sundress or skirt with Chucks are tens out of ten!

I’m looking for a friend to get coffee with, hang out with, have movie nights or game nights with, and maybe have some late night smoke sesh philosophical conversations with.

If you want to message me, please be in central Ohio!

Hi everyone! 😊

It's been truly difficult finding anyone in the country to meet and have a good time with since I unfortunately struggle with long distance relationships.

I'm someone sweet and open minded, I can talk for hours on end about just any topic.

My interests are simple and varied:

• Music of all genres, YOUR favorite genre too!(So please share 🥺)
• Sci-fi, Psychological and Dark movies!
• Anime, Mangas/Manhuas, Video Games, Tabletop games, the whole popular culture, name something and I'll probably have heard of it or played it ;3
• I'd love to play with you on the Game of your choice c:
• Sports and Physical activity, bodybuilding, running, hiking and climbing
• Science, Learning, Psychology and Philosophy
• Not a big reader, but I've been getting into Audiobooks, please give me some recommendations 🙏
• I've gotten into many phases, Emo, Goth, Punk, Retro, and lots of stuff, we can even talk fashion 😉
• My humour is pretty dark and knows no limits, I looove teasing once I get comfortable hehe
• Talking, Talking AND TALKING! Please overwhelm me with messages, trauma dump, share your worries or even talk about your favorite color, idk ANYTHING 🥹 I'm a great listener.

I've also been feeling truly touch starved and it is pretty difficult to explain how Aces can also find value in physical intimacy such as another person's embrace, seeking comfort and tenderness... It is in no way a requirement, but I felt like sharing how I felt. So if you seek something similar like a cuddle buddy, I'm the person you're looking for ;3

DM me if you're looking for a friend, I would love to get to know you! 😊

Hello~ my name is Austin. I'm a 25 yr old guy living in the god forsaken state of Florida. And I figured why not give this a shot?

I'm a very funny and goofy person who loves to make people laugh and have fun with someone especially if I care about them. I'm very loving and affectionate a lot like a dog, I love cuddles and pets and being the little spoon. I'm very loyal and caring I love to do things to make my person smile and take care of them.

My hobbies are mainly video games so I'd love someone else who plays a lot so we can play together or at least play different things next to each other. I also love to listen to music and have something playing almost all the time. I love starset and pixel terror and stuff like that. Big plus if you like those too. I also like to write some, mainly short stories but I do hope to be an author someday. I like to write love stories most of all, I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. Aside from that I don't mind doing anything if it's with someone I care about.

Send me a message and let's get to know each other I work nights so beware

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hi as stated I'm 23 y/o(edit: I'm so dumb I'm actually 22 y/o born in December 2001 I'm so dumb lol) and I don't mind an age gap. Im a very shy person but I will try to be very vocal with anyone that messages me. I'm most active on discord and eventually would want to move/discuss on there unless you pefer something else. I'm looking for a long time partner. I'm very touch adverse and would like to take things extremely slowly. I would like to eventually be comfortable to cuddle with u but so far only my mother and younger sister have that privilege. At first I just want to chat about things that you enjoy and things i enjoy. As stated I'm a trans man pre-op anything but I want to get top surgery eventually. I've been on T for about 2 years now. I would like to have fostered/adopted children in the future but only if we are both financially and mentally stable (currently started Prozac for anxiety) I'm 5'5" a bit on the heavier side of 195lb but am working towards a goal of 150lb. I'm not extremely masc more nb than anything else on looks. I do like reading bl so if that is a big no no I can understand. I casually listen to K-pop and othe language songs. I currently live with my mother and siblings I have stable job but my income is not super stable ( I am one of the main breadwinners in my family) so moving out will be a thing for in the far future until I can feel secure in my family own financial stability. I am the father of two cats and a snake. I've only ever been in one relationship so I'm still figuring things out but I can confirm I am 100% ace just not sure how sex-tolerant/sex-adverse I am. Um i really don't know what else to say haha. Oh I have a pretty good gaming setup but I don't play often if at all haha but I think it would be cute if we could have game night dates. I also enjoy cut things and have lots of plushies. I also enjoy reading danmei or anything bl (I know I stated that before XP) I draw sometimes. I'm a lot more of a listener than a talker so I'd love to hear you talk about anything u enjoy. Please be patient with talking to me I'm very shy XP. I also love penguins. Um yea. Lol

I have driving anxiety so would like to keep it pretty local but other than that, as long as you're willing to tolerate me, I'd love to hang out. I know if you're reading this, I'm probably old enough to be your mother but if you're alright with that, just drop me a message and I promise to get back to you ASAP :-)

Just to be upfront, I am not looking for anything more than friendship. I have a girlfriend and she’s enough for me. That being said.

Hey! I’m Ash! I’m gray ace, pronouns she/her, I’m super into stuff like video games, anime, and reading, I’ve been getting into cooking and wanting to get into cosplay too. Apart from that I like all the usual stuff. I’ve been obsessed with the new paper mario remake lately, and I’m gonna start reading spy x family (hopefully) today too.

If you wanna chat, just shoot me a message with your age and pronouns, as well as a fruit emoji (or type one if on desktop)

21F from US. I'm smart, independent , confident at times quite opionated. I see my life as a triangle, friends , family.. looking for soulmate. im looking for someone i can talk with and have some fun together. Im just new here. i wanna do something to get rid of my boredom.

Hi everyone- I'm a 23 year old man in the Portland, Oregon area. I'm not fully asexual, but my libido is so low that dating's been quite difficult.

A little more about me: I work as a consultant, although I'm hoping to switch into academic research. I enjoy working out, hiking, backpacking, volunteering, reading nonfiction, and comedy.

If you're nearby and looking for a friend/boyfriend, shoot me a DM! Please include your age and a picture of your face. I don't have a gender preference.

Hi, I'm Teskia, a black female who is currently looking for a partner either on the east cost or someone nearby and willing to travel within a few months.

Long story short, I'm lonely, and I'm looking to help ease the loneliness that has been eating away at me for the past 4 years. I've been trying dating apps and everything but no luck.

I'm extremely needy and my cup isn't able to be filled easily. I need a lot of reassurance and a lot of effort put into this even if it doesn't last.

I had a double mastectomy and a hysterectomy. I'm 5'2. I am strictly monogamous. I prefer someone who is the same. I want a long term relationship/queerplatonic partner. I will give you most if not all my attention. My love language is gift giving and physical time together. I can easily be overwhelmed in certain scenarios. I like anime and comic book movies. I'm a nerd so hopefully we can nerd out together. I need alot of compassion and understanding. I really want someone committed to an actual relationship and not just a friendship or wanting to leave after a date or two. My main two requirements are guys older than me and taller than me and someone who can communicate openly and understand my boundaries.

hi! i wish i could make this short and simple, but i’m going to explain things i really want in this message (with a tl;dr in case you don’t want to read everything) <3

please be 18-21. that’s my range, but if you are little older, i can compromise

i am specifically cuprioromantic, probably full on asexual (i’m in the middle, so if you are favorable/repulsed, i won’t mind at all) though, the only thing i can’t compromise on is that you have to be aro or on the aro spectrum in some way

~ what i want in a relationship ~

i want to be able to call each other friends or roommates if we live together. maybe boyfriend/girlfriend/partner, whatever you prefer, but that would be in settings where we know someone wouldn’t understand immediately what we are. i would like to sleep in the same bed and cuddle, but i can negotiate that easily. i like things romantically coded without the romance, like going on dates, holding hands, kissing, etc. i don’t like public romantic things like kissing on the lips, but i would hold hands of kiss on the cheeks and such :)

i don’t want kids, but i’m up to foster older kids. along with dogs. i do own a small dog who is older, and i would prefer if i could bring him if we were to live together. in terms of marriage, i like the idea of eloping but i’m not sure about a whole wedding. i am also monogamous, so if you aren’t, we can discuss that but know that i am still very monogamous

~ what i would like in a partner ~

18-21 (with exceptions for someone older as i stated before). i like people who are blunt and are willing to talk about graphic or explicit things, since i like talking about harsher world things. though, if some topics are harder for you, i can hold off/just not mention them

i would like someone who is sweet ofc, and like to discuss boundaries in depth. i like people who are very similar to me, especially in terms of what we want in life (i discuss it later in the message). also would like someone who can put in some work to keep the relationship alive, and i would gladly do the same :D

appearance wise i have no preference as long as you are healthy and happy. and job wise, i think it would be cool if you can do something online, but obviously that’s scarce so it’s not my biggest issue if not lol

(all of this isn’t required, more just like brownie points)

~ what i am like ~

i’m 18, transitioned officially at 14, and have only had top surgery. i would like a hysterectomy at some point but just because i do not like the idea of a risk in any form of having a biological child

i was forced to drop out because of an issue with the schools system, but i am working on getting my ged

currently, i can’t drive, but i’m going on lessons to eventually get my license :). i like traveling a lot, and i like snowy places. what i would like is to move out of arizona as a whole and go somewhere colder and cheaper, but i also love big cities too

i have an older brother, my mother, and my father isn’t alive. i live with my mom right now. i don’t have a job, but am working on both doing art commissions and being a tattoo artist. i am leaning towards art commissions since i want to do something online

i like anime and video games, and i also love talking about games! i would totally sit there and talk for hours about one game as long as you engaged with it, and i would gladly listen to you

i am left leaning in politics, and not religious at all (don’t mind if you are, i can be respectful). i’ve learned from people around me that i’m a pretty laidback person who goes with the flow on things, so trust me, if you feel awkward about saying something, i won’t lol

TL;DR: dm me or comment and we can talk in dms about what we want/like :)

p.s. if you dm me, please talk about what you would want in a relationship instead of just saying one or two words

hi, im a 22 year old trans man looking for a man/nonbinary person 20+. i live in the midwest us. currently working as a graphic designer and doing school on top of that. asexual and somewhere on the aro spectrum. monogamous. my hobbies are: music, video games, movies, cartoons, drawing, painting, hiking, camping, reading, running, kickboxing, cooking. im not particularly good at any of these but i put my heart in to it so thats what counts lol. i mainly use discord so maybe we can get in contact there if we hit it off. looking for anyone thats willing to put in the same amount of work i put in.

Hello, and welcome!

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a cisgender woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US. I adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless expectations. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. In this way, I'm open to any possible type of relationship with the people I meet here, from acquaintances, to friends, to penpals, to a life partner. My ultimate goal is to bond with those I jive with regardless of where we end up. I'd especially like something more intimate, so an LDR or more than friendly situation would be ideal. However, I'm plenty open to conversation partners and less romantic situations if one or more details between us don't quite work out. We'll need to feel out what works best for us and where we want to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't as important as you would think. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I like long, intimate, deep, and personal discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us. Be genuine and authentic. It can take time to feel comfortable and be seen in a raw form, but doing so is an ultimate goal.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a content space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people and see their mental state and experiences as having a great deal to offer despite the difficulties.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts. In particular, I write intellectually, about general observations and thoughts, and poetically - mostly to other people in the form of conversation partners (I'm very much a conversational thinker and writer and can go on for a long, long time about a plethora of topics with the right person). I appreciate and admire all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, whether talking about it or taking tests together and then discussing the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the ace/aro spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch (I'm open to what happens - depends on the person and how well we get along). I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself (although friendship may be better depending on your own views and needs).

More about my values, passions, and interests:

• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact and prefer this sort of person as well, or at least those who can appreciate liberated knowledge acquisition and comprehension. I believe there's always more to know, and more ways to know those things - humanity can only comprehend so much, and less than we think we can.
• I believe in eternity - in both directions. This means I have a primary focus on the future, a significant focus on the past, and acknowledge the present moment as a form of transience between the two. I'm not a "live your life to the fullest" type. My life started before I had it and will continue after it's gone, but I do believe in simply absorbing what's there while it's there.
• I live a very dynamic life and have since I was young. I might stay up chatting until dawn one night and then be passed out by 5 PM the next one - likely because of the lack of sleep during the first. My pursuits, job, and the other demands of life are in constant flux. My resolution has always been to regulate these various needs and wants and to intensely focus on them when and if possible. I don't believe in being "too busy". You can always find time for someone even if it's not consistent - finding that flow and appreciation of each other is vital.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here.
• I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger, mostly including movies, anime/manga, and video games. I still watch movies from time to time, being more prone to it when I have someone else to accompany me.

Are we looking for each other? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. I would like to get to know people with a level of depth akin to what I wrote here, and will end up asking about these things at some point anyway. I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Hello there!

My name is Robert and I'm a 34 y.o. nonbinary (AMAB) panromantic pseudosexual autistic. I'm seeking out an eventual life partner who would accept me for me. I'm hoping to find a friend that evolves into a partner. I'm into many things like being outside, working on vehicles, watching movies like documentaries and history related, and more. What are YOU into? I'd love to know! I consider myself a bit of an old soul who's ideal relationship consists of being open, honest with each other, filled with communication, and the capability to compromise with one another. I also enjoy cuddling and showing affection. Please, be kind with me and others as I will be kind to you and others as well. A long distance relationship is no issue as I don't plan to stay where I am long and willing to relocate. Please, send me DM if you're interested. Hope I here from someone soon! Be well!

Hi I am looking for a QPR/Squish! Someone I can hang out with, talk to frequently, cuddle, and also bug with my goofy puns and cheesy jokes. Someone that really gets me and wants to have fun and go on dates with and talk but not in a true romantic relationship. Just have fun in other’s company and rely on each other for support. Also the closer we live to each other the better! I have a blondish buzz cut at the moment that I’m hoping to grow out again to look like a member of a 90’s boy band with the spikes thanks to my many cowlicks. Some of my interests include long walks in the cemetery, arts and crafts, music, fashion, age regression, etc. I do not want children. I have autism and OCD.

At the end of the day, What I am looking is something that defies the normal boundaries of a relationship, but still something better than just being friends with someone. If that sounds appealing to you, feel free to send me a chat :)

Hi I am just looking for some company I had made a post a while back my interests are in math science philosophy psychology tv show movies videogames and manga. I have ADHD dyslexia autism anxiety bipolar two and a undignosed trauma disorder. If any of you people want to have some company that will talk your ear off about the fallout tv show and the lore of all the games or little details from movies or even some level of conversation of quontim mechanics around shrowdingers cat please let me know. Also since I am demi romantic and demi sexual do not respect something to happen on the first meeting it tends to take some time of getting to know someone ok? You can message me when ever I only use redit to read some stuff and not much else I am not on here much but I will get back to you if you message me.

Woah wait! Don’t go anywhere! While I have your attention, please, stay awhile! I’d offer some wine… or soda… if we were in the same room but we are not, we are nose deep into our screens trying to find that flame in life, the one that moves with you, through your ups and your downs, perhaps if you read on, you might find that spark with me?

As per the title, I’m 25m from the west coast, looking for that spark in my life, to ignite the flame that burns forever in me.

If you dig deep enough into my history you may find my name, otherwise you are more than welcome to reach out, happy to chat!

As to not spoil too much of the fun about me, here are only a few basics… and a… twist?

Most of my free time is spent on a screen, between games, movies and editing, not much to see there haha

I enjoy cooking (I know right) and currently my go to meal is a spicy coconut chicken curry!

I also like the great outdoors, camping, hiking, general forestry stuff

I don’t read nearly as much as I used to but perhaps I’ll find someone that would enjoy a day or two in the week of no screens, just reading our books, side by side, enjoying that quality time together, who knows!

My preferences are my own, though I am a fairly flexible person, so I can adapt to things that you may consider a flaw in yourself but I call a bonus! Don’t hesitate to reach out, especially you introverts! I see you lurking, come dip your toe in! I promise, I am gentle and promise to not bite!

Now for the twist…

I managed to break my back in 6th grade, fractured 9 vertebrae, cracked 3 ribs, and had a punctured lung. Recovery was only 3 weeks, and I was back to normal. Feel free to guess how that happened! It’ll surprise you…

Anyways have a wonderful rest of your day/evening, I look forward to chatting!

First the spec sheet on me :)

Single/Taken/Complicated: Single

Seeking Relationship/Friends/Squish/Other: Seeking Relationship

Romantic Orientation: Hetero-Romantic

Gender: Male

Pronouns: He/Him

Age: 38

Height/Build: 6'2"

Physical Description: Very big, over 500 lbs, short brown hair, groomed facial hair minus mustache

Location: SW MO, Springfield Metro Area

Now for the manufacturer's description:

I'm a pretty laid back geek that loves humor, making people laugh, gaming of both the board and video variety, and watching videos of all kinds. I work full time remotely as a web developer and have worked at the same job for over 10 years. I am Christian but I don't rub it in people's faces. I'm not a fan of politics and consider myself a moderate, but leaning a bit left especially in recent years. I do my best to be kind to all as long as they do the same. I am very much a homebody and would rather enjoy a night in as opposed to going out.

I don't partake in any hard drugs, smoke, or drink and would greatly prefer someone who doesn't as well. Alcoholism runs in my family and I have do have a tendency to become addicted to stuff. I also have asthma and can't be around smokers. Another preference is that no kids are involved. I don't feel ready to take the role of a father before I'm a husband.

I'm looking for someone in the states, preferably nearby. I have had bad experiences in online only/long distance relationships and want to avoid them. I want something real. I also need to stay in the area due to family health reasons.

Last particular thing about me is that I am a big guy, partially disabled. I do my best to do what I can, but sometimes it is limited. Honestly, I don't mind being big because I'd rather be content and happy than miserable. So ideally my partner would be fine with that to some degree.

As for my asexuality, I can confidently say I'm on the spectrum, I just don't know exactly where. I am sex repulsed and am at most demi, but I'm content with never having sex ever. If it meant pleasing my partner and they really wanted it, I would participate as long as it is respectful and consented to. I am a chronic people-pleaser, arguably to a fault, lol. I will say I am totally down for hugs, kisses, cuddling, and snuggling. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a romantic. At the same time I am a bit of a clown and have a bad habit of telling terrible puns or dad jokes. You have been warned :)

Now that I've scared off 99% of the population if you have somehow made it past this point, you are something special!

I will totally be willing to share pictures of myself privately, I don't care to do so on public sites.

Thank you for reading and I wish the best for all of you!

Here's my AceSpace profile to make things easier - https://acespace.love/profile/Arth189

Hello! I’m trying here in hopes that I can find some new ace people to connect with! :)

To introduce myself. I'm a 24-year-old gal living in the Yeehaw state of Maryland. I identify as Ace and am sex-repulsed, though I do sometimes enjoy exploring nsfw topics fictionally. I lean more towards the introverted side, so I'm not really active all the time, partially thanks to my office job taking all my free time and energy. As for my personality, I’m the kind of person that's genuine and straightforward. Communication, trust, and honesty are values I hold dear, so I would appreciate the same ideals in return. Lastly, I may initially come across as shy and take a bit to warm up, but can be very silly and more chatty with the right people. I mainly use Discord to talk, so if you have an account, please let me know!

My Interests

My biggest interests are digital art and video games. I love to make stories, design characters, make fan art, and talk about things revolving around that. Horror and Sci-Fi are what I'm doing the most right now.

As for video games, I mainly play on Steam. I play a variety of games, from roguelikes (ROR2, TBoI), shooters, horror, puzzles (Inscryption), crafting (MC), farming games, and more. However, I usually tend to gravitate away from survival games, or anything that can get repetitive and boring. Having occasional stream sessions, watching someone play games, drawing, rambling about whatever, or messing with my friends is what I consider fun. I'm not someone who rages at games, so even if I'm joking, I respect boundaries with that.

Aside from games, I enjoy hearing people talk about their interests, even if I'm not 100% into something, I like to listen and contribute where I can. Talking about new things allows me to branch out my interests, which is always a great opportunity. Talk about the history of pennies for all I care, I'm here for it!

Lastly, I enjoy group outdoor activities when there is an opportunity. I also listen to all kinds of music, polyjamourous I've been called lol, and I'm slowly getting into anime, even though I suck at committing to it currently.

What I'm Looking For

I get along really well with creative people who are into digital art and video games since those are my biggest hobbies. I’d love to have more people like that in my circle! I'm mainly looking for friends, but I am open to romance if the connection is there. However, since friends are hard enough to get, it's not a priority. So, if you are a crazy, creative person send a message! :D

Dealbreakers

I have inattentive ADHD, and most likely am neurodivergent, but all that means is I get tired easier and have a few niche interests. I won't talk your ear off, but the niche part mainly pertains to video games. So that's good news if you have niche interests as well.

I had a rough past with friends, so it takes me a while to trust/feel comfortable around someone.

I come from a workaholic family, so I missed out on a lot of experiences growing up if I come off as out of touch with some media.

Other things are. I don't want children, agnostic, 4/20 friendly, hate cigarettes.

Please don't interact if you are racist, not pro-LGBTQ+, attracted to minors (people under 20 tbh), problematic, etc. etc.