Under new management; work in progress, suggestions welcome

Woah wait! Don’t go anywhere! While I have your attention, please, stay awhile! I’d offer some wine… or soda… if we were in the same room but we are not, we are nose deep into our screens trying to find that flame in life, the one that moves with you, through your ups and your downs, perhaps if you read on, you might find that spark with me?

As per the title, I’m 25m from the west coast, looking for that spark in my life, to ignite the flame that burns forever in me.

If you dig deep enough into my history you may find my name, otherwise you are more than welcome to reach out, happy to chat!

As to not spoil too much of the fun about me, here are only a few basics… and a… twist?

Most of my free time is spent on a screen, between games, movies and editing, not much to see there haha

I enjoy cooking (I know right) and currently my go to meal is a spicy coconut chicken curry!

I also like the great outdoors, camping, hiking, general forestry stuff

I don’t read nearly as much as I used to but perhaps I’ll find someone that would enjoy a day or two in the week of no screens, just reading our books, side by side, enjoying that quality time together, who knows!

My preferences are my own, though I am a fairly flexible person, so I can adapt to things that you may consider a flaw in yourself but I call a bonus! Don’t hesitate to reach out, especially you introverts! I see you lurking, come dip your toe in! I promise, I am gentle and promise to not bite!

Now for the twist…

I managed to break my back in 6th grade, fractured 9 vertebrae, cracked 3 ribs, and had a punctured lung. Recovery was only 3 weeks, and I was back to normal. Feel free to guess how that happened! It’ll surprise you…

Anyways have a wonderful rest of your day/evening, I look forward to chatting!

First the spec sheet on me :)

Single/Taken/Complicated: Single

Seeking Relationship/Friends/Squish/Other: Seeking Relationship

Romantic Orientation: Hetero-Romantic

Gender: Male

Pronouns: He/Him

Age: 38

Height/Build: 6'2"

Physical Description: Very big, over 500 lbs, short brown hair, groomed facial hair minus mustache

Location: SW MO, Springfield Metro Area

Now for the manufacturer's description:

I'm a pretty laid back geek that loves humor, making people laugh, gaming of both the board and video variety, and watching videos of all kinds. I work full time remotely as a web developer and have worked at the same job for over 10 years. I am Christian but I don't rub it in people's faces. I'm not a fan of politics and consider myself a moderate, but leaning a bit left especially in recent years. I do my best to be kind to all as long as they do the same. I am very much a homebody and would rather enjoy a night in as opposed to going out.

I don't partake in any hard drugs, smoke, or drink and would greatly prefer someone who doesn't as well. Alcoholism runs in my family and I have do have a tendency to become addicted to stuff. I also have asthma and can't be around smokers. Another preference is that no kids are involved. I don't feel ready to take the role of a father before I'm a husband.

I'm looking for someone in the states, preferably nearby. I have had bad experiences in online only/long distance relationships and want to avoid them. I want something real. I also need to stay in the area due to family health reasons.

Last particular thing about me is that I am a big guy, partially disabled. I do my best to do what I can, but sometimes it is limited. Honestly, I don't mind being big because I'd rather be content and happy than miserable. So ideally my partner would be fine with that to some degree.

As for my asexuality, I can confidently say I'm on the spectrum, I just don't know exactly where. I am sex repulsed and am at most demi, but I'm content with never having sex ever. If it meant pleasing my partner and they really wanted it, I would participate as long as it is respectful and consented to. I am a chronic people-pleaser, arguably to a fault, lol. I will say I am totally down for hugs, kisses, cuddling, and snuggling. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a romantic. At the same time I am a bit of a clown and have a bad habit of telling terrible puns or dad jokes. You have been warned :)

Now that I've scared off 99% of the population if you have somehow made it past this point, you are something special!

I will totally be willing to share pictures of myself privately, I don't care to do so on public sites.

Thank you for reading and I wish the best for all of you!

Hey guys! I'm a 23-year-old cis heteroromantic brown guy from Canada and I am mainly looking for a relationship, but I won't mind friends either. But I also prefer to start as friends and then move to being in a relationship.

I don't want to be very picky with who you are. Please just be over 19 at least and shoot me a message. I would love to hear about you from you and then see if we vibe.

Now about myself. I'm one of those people who like watching TV shows and movies but in many genres, except a handful. I also like to listen to music, mainly pop and EDM. For hobbies, I am into technology and I also like to dress well and be presentable. Oh, and I love coffee!

I am often described as a smart and funny guy, with a calm and cool nature, and I can also get nerdy sometimes.

Now I am a demisexual, aromantic (still dk what specific aro I am), ISTJ and a Capricorn, and if you've read till here, please be sure to include the word "mocha" in your message.

Thanks for reading! :)

I'm looking for someone new to talk to with the possibility of it becoming something more! I really love learning about people, and would love to learn about someone new, about their passions and interests, and have someone who loves doing the same in return! I ideally would like to talk on discord eventually!

As the title says, I'm definitely more of a nerd than anything, haha. I love reading, cooking and baking, video games, and generally more homebody hobbies. I currently live in California and I'm going to start my first year of College this fall! To describe myself, I'm around 5'10, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, and I'm on the heavy side (although I'm losing weight, down 10 pounds and counting!).

For a partner, I'd ideally want someone genuine and caring, and while not required, it'd really help if you shared some of my hobbies! I don't have many appearance preferences, but I will say I do find much larger/heavier body types particularly adorable!

Here's my AceSpace profile to make things easier - https://acespace.love/profile/Arth189

Hello! I’m trying here in hopes that I can find some new ace people to connect with! :)

To introduce myself. I'm a 24-year-old gal living in the Yeehaw state of Maryland. I identify as Ace and am sex-repulsed, though I do sometimes enjoy exploring nsfw topics fictionally. I lean more towards the introverted side, so I'm not really active all the time, partially thanks to my office job taking all my free time and energy. As for my personality, I’m the kind of person that's genuine and straightforward. Communication, trust, and honesty are values I hold dear, so I would appreciate the same ideals in return. Lastly, I may initially come across as shy and take a bit to warm up, but can be very silly and more chatty with the right people. I mainly use Discord to talk, so if you have an account, please let me know!

My Interests

My biggest interests are digital art and video games. I love to make stories, design characters, make fan art, and talk about things revolving around that. Horror and Sci-Fi are what I'm doing the most right now.

As for video games, I mainly play on Steam. I play a variety of games, from roguelikes (ROR2, TBoI), shooters, horror, puzzles (Inscryption), crafting (MC), farming games, and more. However, I usually tend to gravitate away from survival games, or anything that can get repetitive and boring. Having occasional stream sessions, watching someone play games, drawing, rambling about whatever, or messing with my friends is what I consider fun. I'm not someone who rages at games, so even if I'm joking, I respect boundaries with that.

Aside from games, I enjoy hearing people talk about their interests, even if I'm not 100% into something, I like to listen and contribute where I can. Talking about new things allows me to branch out my interests, which is always a great opportunity. Talk about the history of pennies for all I care, I'm here for it!

Lastly, I enjoy group outdoor activities when there is an opportunity. I also listen to all kinds of music, polyjamourous I've been called lol, and I'm slowly getting into anime, even though I suck at committing to it currently.

What I'm Looking For

I get along really well with creative people who are into digital art and video games since those are my biggest hobbies. I’d love to have more people like that in my circle! I'm mainly looking for friends, but I am open to romance if the connection is there. However, since friends are hard enough to get, it's not a priority. So, if you are a crazy, creative person send a message! :D

Dealbreakers

I have inattentive ADHD, and most likely am neurodivergent, but all that means is I get tired easier and have a few niche interests. I won't talk your ear off, but the niche part mainly pertains to video games. So that's good news if you have niche interests as well.

I had a rough past with friends, so it takes me a while to trust/feel comfortable around someone.

I come from a workaholic family, so I missed out on a lot of experiences growing up if I come off as out of touch with some media.

Other things are. I don't want children, agnostic, 4/20 friendly, hate cigarettes.

Please don't interact if you are racist, not pro-LGBTQ+, attracted to minors (people under 20 tbh), problematic, etc. etc.

Okay, let's give this a try!.. 😬

A bit about me - I work from home, which doesn't give me any opportunity to meet new people. That's part of why I'm here. I do like to get out and exploring new places, whether that's a walk in nature or just wandering around a new town. I like to visit other countries too - I'm going to Japan next month (alone!), and have been to various countries around Europe and to America a few times. So not one of these huge "look at all the places I've been" travellers, but I do enjoy getting out of this country when I can!

I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and hate "partying", so if your idea of a good time is clubbing and getting drunk then, yeah, we're not gonna have much in common! But I do like having someone to grab a coffee or a meal with and just have a chat.

I know that's all pretty generic boring info - I have more specific interests that I'm happy to talk about with anyone who's interested. Nothing creepy or weird at all haha, the only reason I'm not writing more about me here is just because I don't want to put so much info out there as publicly as this; and it's more fun to get to know each other by chatting when reading a full description here!

To give a little description of myself: I'm tall, slim, short dark blonde hair, green/blue/grey eyes.

As for being asexual - I'm not sex repulsed, but it's also not something I ever instigate or particularly enjoy. I do miss being physically close to someone though - cuddling, etc.

If you want to chat then I look forward to it! Unfortunately I'm only looking for people local - and definitely within the UK. I've had a go at posting something like this before, and did get a few replies but from people all over the world. Which is great, but honestly I'm looking for someone to spend time with in real life (eventually, when we know each other!) and not something that's pretty much all going to be online.
If you do want to say hi, please send a photo - as it's nice to know who you're talking to, and also, being totally honest, I do find aesthetic attraction important. I'm happy to share photos of myself in return of course.

Thanks for reading :)

Hey, it's the weekend! Most people start with what they are looking for. I'm not really looking for anything in particular. I guess friends, and if a relationships grows that is great, if not then yay friends!

I would describe myself as sapioromantic, introverted (and in need of being adopted by a local extrovert to get me out of the house), childfree, sober, a mix of nerdy and artsy. I like going to live theatre (recently saw The Book of Mormon) and the museums. Staying home consist of a lot of reddit, discord, and tv. Sometimes board games, webtoons, legos, and I just started reading Fables. No spoilers! Although, if you have read it I have feelings about Colin.

I'm not an overly interesting person, but if you think we have some shared interest hit me up. We can talk here or on discord.

Hello,

I have no hope for this but let's give it a shot:

I'm a 34 y/o nonbinary (AMAB) panromantic pseudosexual autistic. Wow what a description right? I usually present masculine because I keep a beard. I am seeking eventually a life partner that will accept me for me. I have a past that I'm not proud of and have lost everything but actively rebuilding my life. Why not focus on rebuilding my life you might ask? I am focused on that but I want to find a friend that can eventually develop into a life partnership. If you can accept me at my low point then everything else is easy. My ideal relationship is open, honest, compromise and a lot of communication. I'm not much of a gamer but if that is your thing I'm happy to sit and watch. I enjoy being outside, working on anything and driving. I'm an old soul as I like watching movies that are based on true stories or are documentaries. I will watch other types of movies if a partner is into it. I usually end up liking whatever a partner likes. I enjoy cuddling and being affectionate. I don't mind having a long distance relationship because I have no intention on staying where im at and if things get serious I can move. Please be kind not to me but everyone. If interested please DM me and thank you for reading.

Hello there! I’m a 22F from Europe. I’m demiromantic and on the ace spectrum (not sure what i am label wise there, but what i can say is that i’d be 100% fine never having sex again). I’m looking for friendships and/or a romantic relationship, the latter preferably starting as friends.

About me: I’m currently studying a librarianship program, hoping to work at a public library someday. I like reading (surprise), gaming, fashion, anime, concerts, taking walks and going to different kinds of events. I am an ambivert who likes staying home just as much as going out. Both are more fun to do together with someone tho :) I am a person who generally loves to learn! I love fun facts and learning about people’s hobbies and interests. So i am hoping to find someone who is just as interested and curious about other ppl and about the world in general, someone i can try new things and learn with! ✨

When it comes to friends, gender and location doesn’t matter to me as long you’re between the age 20-29. When it comes to relationships however, i am only looking for F or NB people between the ages 21-26 located in Europe. Long distance is fine as long as the goal is to meet up someday 😊

If you’re interested, hit me up !

hii so I’m kind of looking for a friend / friends? There’s reasons Im suspecting I could be asexual idk if I should list them on a public place 😭

I'm gonna try to shoot my shot here as well so here it goes! I figured I should also make it more digestible than just having paragraphs.

About me:

• I'm Asexual and Genderfluid (mostly female presenting)!
• She/He/They (I have no preference but I don't mind you only using She/Her if it comes to it)
• Southeast Asian (Philippines specifically)
• My height is 5ft or 153cm. Pretty fair skin, brown eyes, and brown (though it really looks more like black) hair.
• Neurodivergent (I prefer you ask me about it if you're interested)

Important note:
I'm using a dating app because my bestfriend wants me to have some IRL experience with dating since I've only ever been in (two) online relationships. I'm only really willing to do it for the experience and I'm not interested in going further than that using that app. So if that bothers you, I understand.

My dealbreakers:

• I don't want any kids, so if you happen to have any or want to do adoption, it's a no go for me.
• I don't like smokers (cigarette or other) as I have bad reactions to it.
• If you do recreational drugs, I don't think we could work out.
• I can't go vegan if you are.

Things I'm okay with:

• Drinking is okay (I do it socially).
• I'm an Atheist but it's okay if you're more on Agnostic (other religions may be a bit more difficult for me).
• If you're sex-favourable, I wouldn't mind (we could discuss more on this eventually).
• Discussing politics is fine. Just know I'm more moderate.

Other important stuff:

• I can only do long distance relationship for now.
• I would like to move to Europe eventually (sadly not soon) so I would prefer my partner to be living in Europe or is a European.
• If you're not from Europe but have plans or ideas to move there as well, maybe we could work as well!

Some more stuff about me:

• I'm very into languages! I'm actually currently learning French!
• I love to play all sorts of games and sometimes I stream them!
• I tend to go on tangents when I talk and sometimes I sing out loud when I'm in a voice call talking to other people.
• I love cooking and baking so when I meet someone new, I usually ask what their favourite food is so I can try it myself!

I would put more information but I think we could learn more about each other on the way! If you made it this far and plan to message me, please include "cheese" in your message so I know you read all of this! I think that if it doesn't work out, I'd still love to be friends though feel free to tell me if you'd prefer to just be friends from the get go! I'm always open to having more friends!

Of course if there are more questions, don't hesitate to ask me!

Welcome.

Before I mention anything else I want to make it clear that if whomever is reading this feels like we may have a connection or ability to bond together they should message me. No hesitations or doubts, please. I don't believe in losing potential and being self-defeated before anything even occurred. I've not uncommonly been told I'm patient, kind, and easy to talk to, which I hope is just as true for those I come across here. Should you like or need it, please allow me to soothe your nerves instead of allowing us to suffer from any misunderstandings or difficulties.

I ended up here on a whim and came across a few communities that resonate with me in some ways. I'm used to meeting people sporadically in less deliberate places, so please excuse anything that seems odd or that doesn't meet standard expectations.

I'm very interested in meeting like-minded folk who believe they have some similarities with me and that we may click. Specifically, I'm seeking a woman that's 18 or older from any country and background (who that woman is matters more to me than details of this sort). I'm 33 and male myself, living in the Eastern US, and adore thorough and passionate interactions with a meaningful basis. I dislike trivialities and meaningless interactions. I want to feel and create a deep bond that's built little by little with every conversation and action. I'm very open to an LDR with the right person and possibly advancing that or having more in time. We'd need to feel out what worked best for us and where we wanted to take things.

I've also always been the type to want to meet new and interesting people. Lacking similarities has actually opened me and those I met to things we would have never considered before. Some common interests and especially character traits are vital, but completely relating and having everything in common isn't everything. Knowing what traits matter most comes out in chat and interaction, not a checklist of things to conform to. I've been surprised by who I was able to bond and share with, so I'm open to a lot. I hope you are as well.

Some basic facts about me:

• I like long and intimate discussion. By this, I mean not being restricted by trivialities and actually being ourselves. I'm not someone who likes casual chat about things that don't matter to either of us.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing and more literary arts but appreciate all sorts of expression, even if it's a type I'm not personally involved in.
• I like to research and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself and am interesting in seeing various topics in intricate and new ways.
• I adore vulnerable people with complexity and seeing who someone really is. Having a comfortable space to fully let loose is an ideal. I'm openly accepting of sensitive and traumatized people.
• Photography, movies, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so.
• I stopped being able to comprehend how old I feel some time in my 20s. I've been feeling very surreal lately, hence trying something like this. Apparently this is very common in these sorts of places, so I mention it.
• I'm INTJ, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking different types of tests to understand myself and others better. A lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI, but it can be a fun activity to share with someone, to take them together and then discuss the results and test itself.
• Due to my personality and desires, I could be considered part of the asexual spectrum. I am demisexual and demiromantic IRL. I am not okay with so much as a hug unless I really know, like, and trust someone. I am more prone to graysexuality online due to it not requiring actual physical touch. I tend to get along very well with asexuals despite having active sexual desires myself.

I look forward to us chatting and connecting around meaningful and fervid passions.

Note: I don't feel comfortable dating anyone younger than 22 sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️

Hiya! I'm here cause I'm looking for a long term queer-platonic relationship with someone where we have bestie energy. 😌 I am aroace but that doesn't mean I wouldn't be affectionate or lovey dovey, I love expressing affection in relationships through kissing and cuddling and other mushy stuff too 😌 I just want someone to be my best friend before they are my partner 💃🏻

Me being aro I kinda navigate relationships a little differently (not massively, I've been told relationships the way I navigate relationships can be seen as more romantic than allo people others have met, I don't get it but there's that 🥴🥴) so if you have any questions please do ask!

I describe myself as sex-ambivalent cause I'm mostly sex-repulsed, I don't like going into deep details about sex and would rather be with someone who isn't massively driven by sex, but also I'm open to it in VERY specific circumstances if the person I'm with understands me as a person, my feelings surrounding sex and provide me the safety, care and understanding I need to feel safe enough to do it. That being said don't expect it from me cause I could go without it forever if needs be.

Let's start by just hanging out! In a call or whatever. Let's play some video games, chill and see how we vibe platonically! If we get along well then it'll happen naturally 😌 I have a Nintendo Switch and wanna play Overcooked 2 with someone or Monster Hunter or make a Started farm with someone 😌

Deal breaker stuff for people to know if we'd vibe:

• I'm strictly monogamous. When I get attached to someone I only have eyes for them and don't feel attraction to other people (except platonically but I can only feel queer-platonically attracted to one person at a time). Also I'm too clingy in a mono way to be poly sorry LOL
• Also I'm never going to be in an open relationship or ENM. I get that I don't like sex often or ever but if that's an issue we just shouldn't date
• I don't drink, smoke or do drugs. I probs wouldn't be comfortable being with someone who is heavily into that stuff cause of trauma and recovery stuff.
• I'd ideally like kids one day (not really thinking about it right this second 😭 LOL but if we were to date its good to keep in mind). Also I love kids and have lots of younger siblings so if you hate kids we won't vibe sorry 🥴 I can't have kids so it would ideally be adoption

Greetings wherever you may be (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠✧⁠*⁠。

I'm a 21 year old university student from the Philippines, looking for ace friends (but open to the possibility of being more!)

Here are some of my interests: I'm an artistically-inclined person, some of my hobbies being digital art, clay art, and makeup. I love Japanese manga and anime. Some of my favorites are Fullmetal Alchemist (Brotherhood), Haikyuu!!, and Ouran High School Host Club. I like to watch Drag Race in my free time (currently in love with Marina Summers) and sitcoms such as Brooklyn Nine-Nine and Modern Family. My major is psychology and I love to nerd out about my subjects.

I would love for you to be kind, understanding, and wouldn't mind me being chatty (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

Sana masarap ulam mo! (I hope your food tastes good!)

Here is a new Ace safe space for anyone interested in connecting with fellow aces.

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https://discord.gg/wndGX5pa

Anyone in BC looking for a friend or partner? Let’s chat!

Most people include what they are looking for in the title, but I'm not sure if I am looking for anything specific. I'm open to just chatting, friendship, or relationship. My interest include:

Live and musical theatre

Museums, including art, science, and natural history.

Legos

Board games, I have BGA but I don't have a TTRPG group but LFG if you are in my area. I'm open to most rule systems but DnD never clicked for me.

I read mostly webcomics lately, but need to get back into books, although I've been saying that for like a year.

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Please message me if you are interested in talking!

Giving this a shot.

Please excuse my typing I’m not the best. Hi, I’m Adrian [25NB]. My pronouns are They/Them and I am Panromantic [Pan/Ace] I currently live in Canada (Montreal to be exact.) However, I came from Orlando, Florida originally. Im black, 5’3, and on the chubby side. I’m very quiet, and quiet laid back. I work 5 days a week(6am-2pm) currently saving up to go to school. But when I’m not at work I’m usually a homebody, I like to play games mostly farming and Pokémon games 😅and listen to music. I have been in a like 2 relationships in my time that left me struggling with trust. I’m just asking to be patient with me please. I don’t mind Long distance relationships etc. I just want to hopefully find someone who actually cares for me for once. I think that’s all 🥹 sorry if this is terrible 😞

Hi I'm Ren

I really love anime , trash reality shows like lib, horror movies and video games

I'm a female at birth but I'm kinda mix of both genders

I do suffer from anxiety/depression/c-ptsd/ chronic pain and im on the spectrum so I'm really looking for someone super caring very patient and nurturing who would really love to chat and share their day with

Hi. I'm Onyx, I'm 24 years old, born female but identify as a trans man. I have currently transitioned socially, intend on taking hormones, but most likely I'll avoid surgeries.I currently reside in the Netherlands where I am obtaining my Masters degree. After I submit my thesis on August, or possibly in the beginning of summer when I am done with core courses, I'll be moving to Lithuania. And after a year or so of me resting from my burnout I will be moving to either Sweden or Norway or Finland to obtain a PhD (free education for Europeans, yes please!). I might stay in either of these countries and settle there with my primary partner.

I have a long term allo partner, but due to us having incompatibile needs we have tried polygamy. It went horribly wrong and now we are talking about how we could pursue it again on better terms. She wants to fall in love with someone and have that partner as a real second partner, whom she sometimes lives with just like she lives with me, but with regular sex on the table. I also would like to have a partner like that but asexual, because I want to have a person who just "gets it". As odd as it sounds I have a need to have a romantic partner who understands me, where sexual attraction is not an expectation and to whom I can pay attention whenever my primary decides to live with her other partners for a while. Thus far I hadn't been able to find anyone like that, because people have always asked for sex and always want to move fast and want 0 attachments. Me and my primary love eachother a lot, we don't feel like seperating because we share a deep connection, but there are some needs we simply cannot meet for one another, that is why we are looking for people to add into our relationship. Therefore, ideally you'd be on good terms with my primary, as her partners should be on good terms with me.

I am a romantic person, I love cuddles, kisses, holding hands being intimate, but I dislike sex. I want to be with someone who doesn't expect sex, if we have it, we probably would have it super rarely or not at all. Mainly I want a woman who's smart, likes deep conversations, loves hiking and being in nature, and can fulfill my need to be physically active (my partner is blind, so Im kinda deprived from being able to connect with her trough sports). My dream is to see the Nordic lights and hike in the mountains. I love camping outside and I can light a fire in any weather conditions- try me. I am a huge nerd, I read a lot. I love talking about philosophy, politics, good literature and if you want to understand Russia- I know all about this country and East European countries in general. I'm ADHD, but I am not very social, I enjoy peace and quiet, I am not a huge fan of cities, clubs or big gatherings because I have sensory processing issues. I'm akward at first, but if you give me time and be patient with me until I get out of my akward stage, I can be fun to be around.

I'd like to take things slow, text at first, do long distance at first. Then I'd love to come to you or have you visit and if all goes well and we like eachother a lot we will definitely find a way. I'm quite flexible with my future plans. If you find me interesting or want to know more or have any questions about the seemingly strange settlement I have with my primary partner, feel free to drop me a PM.

Hi I'm Ren

I really love anime , trash reality shows like lib, horror movies and video games

I'm a female at birth but I'm kinda mix of both genders

I do suffer from anxiety/depression/c-ptsd/ chronic pain and im on the spectrum so I'm really looking for someone super caring very patient and nurturing who would really love to chat and share their day with

I’ve always known something was different but just did what I thought I was supposed to. I’ve got 3 kids and a ton of failed relationships. Tired of feeling like something is wrong or broken bc no one around me gets it

Hello everybody!

I recently came out as asexual and I was looking for places to meet other aces! I saw about the Ace-Date Discord Server but I can't find an invite. So maybe there is someone that can invite me?

Also feel free to share other ways of meeting aces on the internet, as I know it is very difficult to find other people like us!

Going to take a trip with LSD any ladies wanna join and take a trip with me. Open minded so guys welcome

22F from US. I'm smart, independent , confident at times quite opionated. I see my life as a triangle, friends , family.. looking for soulmate. im looking for someone i can talk with and have some fun together. Im just new here. i wanna do something to get rid of my boredom.

23F4M Looking for a mocha latte to my pumpkin spice

Hi, I'm Mochi! I'm a black nonbinary female. I've had top surgery and I've had a hysterectomy. I am not on hormone therapy nor do I plan to have any other gender reassignment surgery done. I am a bit on the chubby side and have a thicker frame. I wear glasses. I'm 5'2. I'm asexual and aromantic and not willing to compromise sexually anymore. Strictly monogamous. I don't want kids. I am extremely sex repulsed but I would like a partner to cuddle and kiss. If travelling is off the table (unless local) than I rather not do ldr. I have severe depression, anxiety, psychosis and body dysmorphia. But I'm working on getting better. I have severe trust issues and I am extremely clingy. I currently don't work.

Things about me: I live on the east coast of the US. My hobbies include art, cooking/baking, sewing and writing. I suck at holding conversations. I've been told I'm funny. I love cinema although I'm mostly a Marvel fan. I like watching random shows and movies at times. Big fan of nature, but not looking to hike. I love music, and I'm extremely open to suggestions as my tastes are almost everywhere except country. I love anime conventions.

What I'm looking for: Amab people, ages 26+. Someone open to talking about sex but not participating. Is okay with touching, cuddling, and kissing. Looking for something long-term. Has things in common with me. Someone who is understanding and open and patient with me. I know I can be a struggle to deal with but I can be overwhelming sometimes. Open to going to anime conventions and pride with me. And hopefully you live nearby.

Idea of a perfect date: Us drinking hot pumpkin spice lattes while we watch the snow fall around us.

Turn offs would include being satanic, and smoking (might be okay as long as you don't do it around me.) Unable to hold a conversation. Lives outside of the US.

Hi, I’m 26 cis F born and raised in California. I am a substitute teacher and a counseling student training to become a therapist. One of my biggest wants in life is to be a mom and have a loving relationship with a partner. I like a “traditional” lifestyle (family, pets, house in the ‘burbs if we can afford one) without the traditional values (I’m a leftist that is pro-choice, pro-trans rights, anti-capitalist, etc.) I’m looking for someone compatible to build a life with. My timeline is flexible but I don’t want to waste time on someone who isn’t actually invested in me or someone I don’t genuinely connect with.

I’m not an active person. For fun I mainly write, draw, watch YouTube, and take care of my chahoua gecko Pancake. Reptiles are a big hobby of mine so if you’re not willing to at least give them a shot then 🤷‍♀️ I hate driving myself but I like traveling.

My ideal partner would be someone who want the same things as me in life and shares my values. In terms of attraction and what I lean towards: -cis men -ages 25-35 -spiritual but not religious -emotionally intelligent -wants to be a parent/parental figure

Please write “pineapple” and your age/gender/rough location at the top of your message/chat and let’s see if we’re a good match 🙂

My name is Joe Winko & I'm a single Autistic Gay man who's looking for a relationship with an OLDER Asexual Man ♥ ⛤

I live in Volusia County Florida, near Daytona Beach. I wouldn't quite consider myself "Asexual" I definately am a cis-gendered Gay male, BUT my sexual interest are extremely limited. As in, I only enjoy having Oral Sex preformed on me by another man A LOT. I don't suck penis myself & I'm not interested in Anal Sex at all. I only like having Oral Sex preformed on me by another man (another man sucking my penis a lot). It's mainly because I enjoy the contact & intimacy really & the Extremely vulnerable feeling I get from it... even after he makes me orgasm, he can still continue preforming Oral Sex on me. (there's a lot more I can say about that...) But I feel like I'd be much better off with an Asexual Man ♥ ⛤

Besides that, i'm 6 foot 3. 145lbs. hiv/std free & tested regularly. I love scary movies & video games & i post a lot of stuff on youtube. I also practice withcraft too (hence the stars in my post) ⛤

MAJOR PLUS: If you like to drive & go on roadtrips also ☺ ♥ ⛤

If you're interested, just send me a message ☺ ♥ ⛤ I prefer Older men ⛤ the Older the better ♥ ⛤

here's a bunch of pictures of me ☺ ♥ https://imgur.com/a/Z9WpxZ6

You're welcome for the flashbang by the way, but if you're at least a little interested, please read on below.
I am hoping to make a magical forest (imagine a forest for elves if you can't visualize anything else), on a popular Java Minecraft server (80 players on average), that is populated by modern civilization. This is encouraged with plugins that add industrialization, tanks, planes, guns, and other craft to the server.
I previously played on this server before in a town of vikings (as I typically do), but it fell through and I decided to leave the town. I typically play pretty violent nations on Minecraft, but I've been going through a lot lately, and I could use a change of scenery with a calming and diligent atmosphere, and I truly do believe that taking on a project like this would be a wonderful idea.
What do I want to do, exactly? Well, for starters, I want to build a truly massive oak tree, surrounded by glades and willows, with a sprawling city in the trunk and roots of the tree. Surrounding that, I would like to build smaller, but still giant trees, with communities around these trees. I think it would be a beautiful experience, and although I both work and go to college full-time, my classes are all online, and work gives me some downtime, so I can be on quite a lot.
I will be personally playing as a Wood Elf, but you do not have to roleplay in any capacity in this town.
If you're interested, or want to know more, please feel free to reach out to me!
Reddit: spectreshell24
Discord: allisonreturns