/r/cuddlebuddies

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A non-sexual subreddit for finding a cuddle buddy. r/cuddlebuddies aims to be a safe, welcoming, and open-minded environment, especially for aspec people.

A cuddle buddy is not the same thing as a sexual hookup or romantically dating someone; a cuddle buddy is a cuddle buddy. Cuddling is an inherently sensual activity, not necessarily romantic or sexual.

The flag is the Aspec flag :)

Link to this subreddit’s Pro Cuddlers policy.

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24 m4a durham NC

Hey I know this is a long shot but, anyone in or near Durham free for late night snuggles tonight? Halloween is a really rough time for me emotionally, and I’d really rather not be alone tonight. I get off work around 11:30. No sex or romance requires, although I am down for both. I’m a chubby, soft, 24 year old man with strong arms, and I run super hot so cuddling with me is like cozying up next to a furnace. Down for later dates too if you see this after Halloween.

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2024/10/31
22:23 UTC

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[26] [M4M] Masc fraternity bro seeking cuddle buddy’s Hablo español

Hey bros, looking for a long-term cuddle buddy. Someone to call after a long day, get into bed, and cuddle as we give each other soft kisses and hold each other close.

Very much into intimacy and creating a space of comfort. I’m playful and enjoy flirting. Would like to have a dynamic similar to when I was in a fraternity. I also speak Spanish. It would be cool to have a big bro or best bro friendship. Looking to call on Snapchat, not really into texting only. 21 and older please

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2024/10/31
18:01 UTC

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37 M4M Independence MO

In a poly relationship but separated long distance due to work. I feel kinda hollow with the distance. I have an indefinite time before I get to go back to my partners again. I'm 6ft and big overweight dude. I'm a big caring fluffy teddy. Very positive dude and DDF. Currently in a hotel with the work travel. I miss the physical touch and maybe a little more. Very low pressure. Let's talk if you're interested.

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2024/10/31
15:38 UTC

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28 [M4F] Northern Virginia/NOVA or DMV: Looking for a fall cuddle buddy

Hello!

I’m looking for a cuddle buddy who’s interested in relaxing snuggles while eating snacks and watching some movies.

If this sounds like you feel free to send a chat!

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2024/10/31
00:18 UTC

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38 [M4F] Cuddles Montreal

(SFW only please)
Whether it's after a stressful day, watching to cozy stuff in good company or simply a little nap in the warmth, I am someone respectful, affectionate, comforting and protective who expresses himself well, has a head on his shoulders, joker, simple and who knows how to hold intelligent conversations.

-Single
-I can host / No pets / No kids
-Caucasian, 5p10, 200lbs, body average a bit on the fit side, blue eyes, full beard, deep voice and looks like 30yo
-Speak French

I like to play in hair, give/receive massages and caresses, kissing if the vibe is good and I advocate listening and respecting each other's limits.

I would be happy to make a video call with you, to go for a walk or a coffee, just to discuss it together.

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2024/10/30
23:07 UTC

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35 [M4F] #Toronto regular cuddle buddies

Hello all! I am looking for a woman who lives in the GTA / Niagara / Toronto area who is looking for an ongoing cuddle buddy. I really miss the human warmth and I feel as if all I do is work. I’m looking for evenings or weekends and can host in the Niagara area. I can drive and pick you up if you’re not too far. I am not looking for anything other than cuddles. We meet, have tea or coffee, and cuddle (maybe watch tv?). If we click, you can stay overnight if it gets too late. But I’m strictly looking for cuddles. I’m 35 but look younger and am on the thinner side. If you’re feeling lonely as well and would like to talk, message me! I love holding hands and giving head/feet massages!

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2024/10/30
23:01 UTC

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22 [F4M] Mississippi , need a Chill Cuddle Buddy

hi y'all!!! on the lookout for a genuine cuddle buddy who’s down for some cozy hangouts. im 22, tall (5'9”), with long black hair, a few tattoos, and an average build. not hosting, but open to meeting up at your place if we vibeee.

im all about simple hangouts and cozy nights in. im more of a homebody than anything and not much into crowded places. I’d rather be listening to good music or watching a movie with one person than anything else. described as calm, easy to talk to, and here for good, no-drama vibes.

im always up for a movie marathon, a bit of gaming, or just chatting. send me a pic, lmk what youre looking for, and let’s make a plan to meet up

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2024/10/30
22:40 UTC

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M4A 31 Manchester

Seeking a cuddle buddy in Manchester area. I can accommodate and travel within reason.

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2024/10/30
21:19 UTC

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24 M4F London - I’d love a cuddle buddy in this weather lol

Pakistani who recently moved to the UK, and would just love someone to cuddle up with and chill. I live in Southend but don’t mind traveling to London at all or vice versa.

I can also host but in Southend.

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2024/10/30
18:15 UTC

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26 M4F Austin texas, Cuddles, kisses, coffee and candy!

I can host. Holloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas are right around the corner. Its gonna get colder! So, Lets cuddle up and keep each other warm. I am a bored black guy with little to no one to really spend time with or anything. I'm currently a physics student at ACC. Come over and lets cuddle up and binge something! Cuddles and horror movies! Cuddles and games, Whatever! I'll have coffee, Holloween candy, and kisses waiting for you.

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2024/10/30
03:00 UTC

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28 [M4F] Mumbai, India. Seeking a cuddle buddy to connect, heal and empower (purely platonic)

I'm building a community focused on the simple, healing power of human connection through cuddles and hugs. Research shows that physical touch boosts oxytocin, helping to relieve stress, improve mood, and even support overall well-being. Imagine a safe, welcoming space where people can recharge, connect, and experience the comfort of positive, platonic touch. Interested in joining?

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2024/10/29
16:18 UTC

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21 [M4F] #Manila, Philippines - Nerdy Weeb Looking For Physical Affections

Heyya! So my friend recommended this place, and here I am! I actually feel somewhat surprised that I haven't found this subreddit in my long enough lifespan around here.

While I am generally looking for a genuine relationship, a cuddle buddy is also a good idea, knowing the facr that I never really cuddled someone else other than, well, my parents and relatives 😅

So knowing that something like this sub exists just makes me wanna hop in, hoping to find someone who can fulfill my cuddly needs 🥹

I may not be the best cuddle buddy, but I'm willing to adapt and get better, as soon as I have someone to cuddle with 👉👈

So yeah! DM's always open. Drop by and say hi if you're up for this! It's not like I have a lot of contacts to chat anyway. See ya! 💚

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2024/10/29
15:57 UTC

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18 [M4F] #Orange County anyone nearby i can host or travel

Life has just been hitting me nonstop, eyes have gone red from stress and honestly if anyone would like to cuddle pls dm me been out of a relationship for a while now too so just miss it as well. dms are open

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2024/10/29
07:00 UTC

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47 M4F Seattle

Just want somone to alternate holding and being held these cold dark days. Just chilling out with music playing and if one or both of us falls asleep it's quite alright. I live in First Hill alone with no pets, and don't smoke.

I am quite needy too with a love of pinball, New Wave, comic books, and more

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2024/10/29
02:31 UTC

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Age 20 m4f Eugene Oregon

Hi all I would absolutely love to find someone to cuddle with I just really want to hold someone close and tell them how great they are a little about me I am bubbly and kind I love all things sci-fi and things that are cute other that's me have a great rest of your day!

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2024/10/28
20:29 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Newark, Delaware - looking for a cuddle partner

Hi I’m chubby 5’10 guy in Newark looking for someone to cuddle with for a short time, I never had one before. We can watch a tv show or a film. We can exchange pics and meet in public first if you like.

I can’t host at the moment or travel very far.

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2024/10/28
19:53 UTC

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23 M4F Hanover, Maryland USA

Im looking for a friendly person to cuddle with I can’t host but I have my own transportation. Im open to doing pretty much anything except having my kidneys taken haha. If we even meet up semi regularly that’s a bonus! If anyone is interested in being my cuddle buddy hmu.

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2024/10/28
19:39 UTC

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27 [M4F] Metro Detroit Nerdy Cuddles?

Hey there, I am a 27 year old by the metro airport. I am 5'7, 175 lbs

Me: https://imgur.com/a/uOBm3VS

Missing that intimate comfort that comes with cuddling, so here i am. I am happy to talk, watch something, or do nothing other than enjoy each other's company. I am into a bunch of nerdy things, movies, shows, games, D&D, so if you'd like to nerd out, I am happy to listen.

Not seeking sex from here.

I am unable to host but am mobile and happy to meet in person in public or whatever arrangement we reach.

If any of this interests you, I'd love to hear from you

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2024/10/28
18:51 UTC

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31 [M4F] #NewYork #Rochester - 6'5" Gentle giant looking for long term cuddle partner!

Hey there!

After finding a successful cuddle partner here on Reddit I figured I would give it another shot! I am in the WNY / Rochester area and would very much like to find a constant cuddle buddy.

My soulmate passed away last year and since then I've been pretty depressed and touch starved and would just like to cuddle with someone.

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2024/10/28
08:48 UTC

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36 [M4F] - Kings Cross, London - Cozy, calm, cool closeness

Good day! Due to unforeseen circumstances (people moving away) I'm looking for a platonic cuddle buddy who values companionship and physical touch the way I do.

About Me:

I'm Welsh, and need my cwtches! This is pretty much just a Welsh word meaning cuddles. I enjoy both thoughtful conversation and thoughtful, comfortable silence.

I'm a musician and drummer, so there's a possibility of me absent-mindedly tapping away on you as we cuddle. I've been told this can be very relaxing.

I'm a bit of a nerd (surprise, it's Reddit!)

About You:

I'm looking for someone who's friendly, respectful, and fine with things being purely platonic.

It's absolutely essential that you're a strong communicator, and that you're comfortable speaking about your boundaries and needs.

Ideally you have mischievous dark humour, and are fluent in sarcasm.

Logistics:

Let's go for a walk first, to establish connection and also to ascertain that neither of us is a catfishing pervert. This would be during a weekday evening between 6 and 9.

Once we successfully navigate that mildly awkward first encounter, I'm open to coffee, walks (with arm-linking or hand holding), cinema, or heading back to my place to watch movies/series/sports, play Wordle and other games, and generally just make each others' day a whole lot better!

If this sounds good to you, tell me how you feel about the above, and state your case for being a great cuddle buddy.

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2024/10/28
08:26 UTC

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22[M4A] Toronto, Canada- looking for a genuine cuddle buddy.

I don’t care about gender. I’m looking for someone that wants to cuddle and maybe not chat for a while. I’ve been feeling really stressed with life, and just need to someone to care for, even for a while. I’m 5’11, slim, clean and hygienic. I usually like wearing soap perfume, but let me know if you don’t like it.

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2024/10/28
04:45 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Sacramento CA - Seeking Non Sexual Cuddles

May be a long shot but found this subreddit and thought I’d make a post. I’m seeking a non sexual cuddle buddy due to lack of touch or any form of affection. I tend to have a stressful work environment and would enjoy a stress free zone to decompress. I’m a 36 years old guy, good hygiene, kind, friendly, respectful of any boundaries. I’m also HWP and not ugly. Seeking a woman between 25-50 years old. Would prefer to chat and make a connection as well to make things less awkward of course. To be safe I’d get us a hotel (on me) and even a brief coffee meet prior as well. Again cuddles while enjoying a movie or music, or just chatting would be great. If this is still up I’m still searching. Hoping to find someone soon. Take care

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2024/10/28
04:18 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Southern California looking for a cuddle buddy

I’m looking for a cuddle buddy who loves to be the little spoon and watch movies or just gently fall asleep together as we drift off into a dream.I love to watch horror movies & marvel movies and tv shows like the office, schitts creek and how I met your mother.

I am recently single, no kids and I have my own apartment so I am able to host. I love to work out, swim, travel and I love getting new tattoos. I am looking for someone who is friendly, respectful and also loves to cuddle. I don’t judge so any age or status, I just want someone who loves having someone warm next to them as well.

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2024/10/27
21:29 UTC

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37 [M4F] #Seattle winter time cuddle buddies

If post is still up I am still available for meeting a new friend :)

The seasons are changing and its getting colder, so its time to say bye bye to outdoor stuff, but A great time for cuddles and fun indoors :)

Late 30's white guy, looking to see if a Seattle or south end lady might enjoy an evening together. Happy to host at my place or yours, ideally we could chat for a bit here then meet up, get cozy together and let the chemistry unfold :)

Happy to have a sexual or non sexual encounter, we could just embrace and cuddle, enjoy some nice kissing and foddling, or explore more if we are really feeling it ^_^

Open to any race, body size, agegap, status, so feel free to message if interested. You can be a shy homebody type or someone who is outgoing and the life of the party, I am pretty open minded and very much a go with the flow fella.

Non smoker/drink/420 myself but ok if you are. I am clean/tested with recent results.

Message if interested and wish the best!

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2024/10/28
00:52 UTC

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19 [M4A] #salt lake City #Utah

19 M looking for a cuddle buddy we could watch a movie, lay in bed, talk, or just sleep.

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2024/10/27
23:06 UTC

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35 [M4F] Washington State

Hello, I am reaching out to see if there is anyone interested in cuddling in Washington State. I am currently located in Olympia but am willing to travel up to Seattle. I would like to meet someone who enjoys touch and the warmth cuddling provides. We can talk about life or just enjoy a moment of intimacy.

About me: Average dad bod, 5’8”, clean, gentle and respectful.

Thank you~

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2024/10/27
10:09 UTC

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37 [m4f] salt lake Utah

Looking for a cuddle buddy around the salt lake area, flexible north or south a bit.

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2024/10/27
09:39 UTC

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29 [M4F] Knoxville TN nerdy night owl

I lead a busy life and find platonic cuddling to be one of the best remedies for stress. I get along with most everyone, though nerds/weebs best of all, and don't judge people for their circumstances.

We can cuddle in public at a park or the movies. I can host though I have roommates, or I can come to you. If you don't drive we can find somewhere near you or I can pick you up, just whatever you're comfortable with. We can talk, watch movies/shows, listen to music, or even nap.

I'm white, about 6' 235lbs with short hair and glasses. I prefer to cuddle someone smaller than myself as I'm usually the big spoon. I work nights monday-thursday. Feel free to message me, I'm not shy about answering any questions.

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2024/10/27
09:01 UTC

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M4F 32 Newtown, Australia

Any girls interested in cuddling today? I can host or we can go somewhere public like a movie theatre etc

I'm m32, caucasian, 6'2, dm for pics if interested.

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2024/10/27
02:49 UTC

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29 [T4M] Michigan - Let’s warm each other up!

Hello everyone! I am hoping to find a cuddly companion who’s serious about getting to know each other! I would love to find a guy whose embrace I won’t be able to get enough of when we are together, and fantasize about when we are apart. My love language is definitely communicated through touch, and I would be really happy to find someone who is not shy about expressing themselves with me! It would be the most ideal to find someone in the southeastern Michigan area so that we can see each other regularly, but I’m also open to those outside of that area as well if you’d be willing and able to travel! If any of this at all sounds up your alley, you’re more than welcomed to message me!

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2024/10/27
00:12 UTC

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