/r/cuddlebuddies

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A non-sexual subreddit for finding a cuddle buddy. r/cuddlebuddies aims to be a safe, welcoming, and open-minded environment, especially for aspec people.

A cuddle buddy is not the same thing as a sexual hookup or romantically dating someone; a cuddle buddy is a cuddle buddy. Cuddling is an inherently sensual activity, not necessarily romantic or sexual.

The flag is the Aspec flag :)

Link to this subreddit’s Pro Cuddlers policy.

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28 [M4F] Northern Virginia/NOVA or DMV: Looking for a winter cuddle buddy

Hello!

I’m looking for a cuddle buddy who’s interested in relaxing snuggles while eating snacks and watching some movies.

If this sounds like you feel free to send a chat!

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2024/12/01
23:58 UTC

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29 [M4F] Southern California - It's getting colder and I really like cuddling.

Honestly, one of my favorite things to do is cuddle. I just love the feeling of holding someone or being held, and when you're lonely it's one of the things you miss the most. I just really would love to cuddle with someone, and maybe even cuddle regularly. I would definitely love some kisses/making out as well, so if you're cool with that, that'd be nice but no worries.

I'm 29 years old from socal, and I'm 5'10 with black hair, brown eyes, brown skin and glasses. If you're interested, you should definitely message me!

1 Comment
2024/12/01
23:53 UTC

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28 [M4F] #nyc - Looking for a cuddle buddy

Searching for someone to nap with, cuddle with, fight the cold with etc :)

Full disclosure: I’m not looking for sex because of some trauma in my past, it’s been hard finding someone open that. (Partly why I’m posting here lol)

I am 28, brown skin, 5’8, fit, muscular. I love wearing fuzzy/cozy clothes for cuddling. In my free time I like to go on long walks, stay active with random sports, practice flow arts, cook, and play games. I also like giving / getting back rubs.

You:

  • hygienic
  • laid back
  • like watching trashy reality cooking shows
4 Comments
2024/12/01
22:44 UTC

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[M4F] 42 NYC - Let's Warm One Another

Hello,

Sometimes, we're just missing a decent hug.

I’m hoping to connect with someone warm, kind and caring for some touch and closeness. We can maybe order in some dinner and watch something together. Basic idea is to share the mutual energy flow of wrapping arms around and holding a fellow caring kindhearted person.

I’m a good communicator and am very affectionate. I enjoy curling together, caressing and giving back rubs as well. I’m clean and hygienic, and I can host.

I’m attached in Brooklyn but it’s complicated, so there's that.

Stay warm, people.

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2024/12/01
22:26 UTC

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30 M4F the Hague the Netherlands europe the weather outside is frightful...but in bed...it's so delightful

Looking for a cuddle buddy. The weather outside has gotten colder, the nights longer and the day shorter.

Let's cuddle together and make the dark not so scary and get nice and toasty together.

Platonic or non Platonic is fine...but let's be sure there is a click or Chemistry first.

Some stats : Rugby bod 1.82, built athletic and cuddle bear body

Looking forward to hearing from you

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2024/12/01
18:11 UTC

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28 [F4F] Asian girl in #VancouverBC ISO other Asian women to cuddle ( I cannot Host)

Cuddle buddy sought - Asian women only (respectful and Platonic)

Introduction

I'm a 28 year-old asian individual residing in Vancouver, BC seeking a platonic cuddle buddy. I'm looking for someone who shares similar interests and values the concept of physical touch and affection.

I CANNOT HOST!

Specific Demographic

I'm specifically looking for an Asian woman as a cuddle buddy. This preference is rooted in my personal comfort and cultural connection.

I want to emphasize that this preference is not intended to exclude or disrespect individuals of other backgrounds.

Boundaries and Expectations

I'm looking for a platonic relationship, focusing on emotional support, physical touch, and companionship. I expect mutual respect, open communication, and clear boundaries.

Interests and Hobbies

I enjoy walking, ice skating, being in the mundane (grocery shopping etc) the Legend of Zelda, fallout game series, PlayStation and I'm looking for someone who shares similar passions

Conclusion

If you're a kind-hearted, like-minded Asian woman interested in a platonic cuddle buddy relationship, I'd love to hear from you. Please share your thoughts, interests, and expectations in your response

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2024/12/01
17:59 UTC

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34 [M4F] #London / West Sussex - Need some touch and affection

Hey :) I'm simply looking for a cuddle buddy to share warm hugs and affection with. I'm NOT after anything sexual or an actual relationship but would be open to more if it felt natural.

I can't host so there's that...I live in rural Sussex but can travel anywhere within reason. I'm happy to meet up beforehand for coffee or at a museum (I now a few good ones) or even just call. It would help if we knew what we looked like though.

Me in a long sentence: 5'8, 'meh' looking, Rock/Metal/Synthwave fan, Gamer, keen amateur photographer and lover of Taskmaster.

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2024/12/01
15:49 UTC

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18 (M4F) Seeking affection. Nottingham UK

Sigh… I dont even know why Im posting this but Im doing it anyway. Ive never cuddled or huged a stranger in my life but the urge to seek comfort from someone and to be told everything is going to be ok is more then enough for me. A little background about me Im 18 years of age Im currently in college studying computer science, Im pretty nerdy about somethings it just depends on what it is, Im a very shy around people but still can hold a good level of communication with them. I can speek two languages them being Polish and English. Im super sweet and kind to everyone around me. I enjoy going to cafes, going on walks , exploring areas. Feel free to DM me to find out more about me.

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2024/12/01
10:59 UTC

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29 M4F Las Vegas

Metalhead living in Las Vegas, looking for someone who wants to be held. Someone who wants to feel safe. Movie nights? Cuddle nights? Or even just naps lol DM for pics to see if you'd be interested for a guy with tattoos 🙋‍♂️

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2024/12/01
10:03 UTC

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24 [M4F] Indiana looking for a cuddle buddy / friend

It's getting cold outside and I'm watching everyone else get into their cuffing season. I could really just use a hug, cuddling up with someone, watching a movie and eating our favorite snacks. In the Indy area...

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2024/12/01
08:10 UTC

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27M4F Beloit, WI region, willing to travel

Hey everyone!

As the winter chill sets in, I find myself craving some warmth and comfort. I’m looking for someone who’s interested in cuddling and sharing cozy moments together.

A little about me:

I’m 27 and live in Beloit, Wi. I enjoy watching movies, anime, reading, D&D, board games, and hot chocolate. I’m a pretty laid-back, affectionate, quiet guy, not shy, just soft spoken. I can't host at my place but if you’re also looking for some warmth and companionship this winter, feel free to reach out! Let’s chat and see if we vibe.

Looking forward to hearing from you! 😊

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2024/12/01
06:40 UTC

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19 [F4M] SoCal - too busy and need a hug

Anyone ever feel that way ? U have a lot to do daily and you're constantly busy but a hug goes a long way? Basically how I've felt lately, a hug just feels good and releases some endorphins :)

2 Comments
2024/11/30
15:59 UTC

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29 [M4F] #London #Cambridge - Inexperienced Muslim looking for someone to make out and cuddle with

Sigh....I probably shouldn't be posting as much on reddit as I do. But I guess there's a part of me that's always yearning for that sweet connection that I can't seem to find anywhere else. Sometimes you get that right connection and it's fireworks!

My tale is one that's likely familiar to other South Asians or Muslims. I've never really experienced any relationships or hookups or anything romantic or sexual really. I told myself that I'd get married happily, most probably arranged, and be able to enjoy all the relationship stuff. Nsfw and otherwise.

So the marriage thing never happened and now I'm almost 30. I hit my breaking point two years ago and ever since then, I want to explore and make up for my 20s. I'd like to meet someone and explore some casual, and hopefully physical, fun together. Right now, I'm open to anything and seeing how things go. At the end of the day, I'd always be down for something serious and long-term but we'll need to see how things go. I'm so starved for affection that I'm happy just to meet up to kiss and cuddle together. It'll definitely make cuffing season a lot easier!

My own ideals have become more liberal and left wing over the years.. I'd prefer to talk about it over DMs rather than pouring my heart out now lol.

So I'm a Pakistani guy based in the UK. I'm a data scientist. I like all things creative and nerdy. I try to create art myself. I also like to cook and stay in shape!

But yes! I'm looking for people who can relate to my post and want to connect. Maybe you're a kindred spirit who can relate to what I have to say? I'd love to explore something cute and physical together. Let's see what the vibes are

Feel free to get in touch and we'll have some fun together!

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2024/11/30
20:09 UTC

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27 [M4F] East London Looking for a friend and cuddle buddy

Hey there. Looking for a reliable connection , friend and a cuddling relationship.

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2024/11/30
13:48 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Netherlands Amsterdam - Looking for a cuddle buddy

I love giving long hugs and cuddling. I'm looking for someone who also enjoy cuddles as much as I do :)

I am very caring, happy person and love to show affection. It makes me happy to do everything to bring a lovely smile on your face :)

I'm mostly looking for someone with whom it's fun to be around, to talk, and cuddle. I give long hugs and cuddles. Cuddles give me best feelings :) I am not looking for sex and I respect our agreement.

We can cook, talk, watch tv or movies while snuggle each other. We can surely meet outside for first meet.

I am in my 30s, brown skin, 182cm, broad shoulders, fit, little muscular. I speak English and learning Dutch. I'm well educated and work in executive position in a company. I live alone in Amsterdam so I can easily host you but we can also meet in public where you feel safe and comfortable.

🇳🇱 Ik leer nederlands en spreek een beetje nederlands

Wie is er klaar om te knuffelen met deze knuffel beer?

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2024/11/29
21:30 UTC

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23 [Agender4Anyone] Pittsburgh. Looking to cuddle and cry

This is something I would rather not do/ not what I want, but it’s what I need. Nothing extremely depressing has happened to me, crying can just be a good emotional outlet for me. (Ever heard of autistic meltdowns? Lol)

Looking to watch an extremely sad movie/ tragedy and have a good cry. I usually do this by myself, but I don’t think I would mind finding a cuddle buddy/ someone who hasn’t been taking care of their health properly & could also use something like this. I am autistic & I feel like I’m more of a quiet cryer, but idk

Cuddle positions don’t matter to me super much. I have some pictures of myself on my profile. I will probably watch my sad movie this weekend regardless if I hear from anyone

Please, above all else, no romance whatsoever. Receiving romantic affection tends to make me need this kind of outlet

Happy National Day of Mourning. clickbait

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2024/11/29
02:29 UTC

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31M4F #toronto Cuddle buddy season is upon us 👀

Looks like it’s that time of year again. Winter is coming and cuddle buddy season is upon us. I’m looking for someone cute and chill to hang and keep warm with :)

A bit about me: I’m tall, slim, handsome and black/lightskinned. I’m pretty chill, creative (I’m an artist) and I love creative/nerd culture - music, film, games, anime and beyond. If you think we’d vibe give me a shout and let’s connect. Talk soon :)

P.s. what have you been watching or listening too lately?

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2024/11/29
00:38 UTC

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[26][M4F][NYC][Brooklyn] Looking for someone

Hi!

A little about me: I'm currently going to an ivy league school and feel very out of place, and would love to have someone to keep each other's spirits up. If you're also looking for someone to vibe with, and share a cuddle, I'm open! I am easy going, but a little on the shy side. I'm 26, 5'8", east asian, 140 pounds, and I have been in a relationship but just haven't had a chance.

In my free time, I like taking long walks, visiting museums, and playing some casual games.

Let me know if you should be interested! We can chat first before exchanging pictures. Thank you and have a great day!

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2024/11/28
18:58 UTC

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24 [F4M] [T4M] [NB4M] #Massachusetts • Trans Girl / Gender nonconforming person needs cuddles.

Hi all. Just looking for someone in my area who would cuddle on occasion. Someone who's okay with me the way that I am as a gender nonconforming trans girl (androgynous).

Not looking for sex, just wanting to hang out. I'm in Southcoast MA. Im a nerd, I like video games and tabletop RPGs so if you wanna be friends or game buds that works too but my main desire is someone to cuddle with. I'm 5'7" and 245lbs. Black hair, brown eyes. I like larger guys (taller or bulky) because being hugged by a bear is one of life's greatest pleasures.

No married people cus that feels weird to me and no trump fans cus.. conflict of interest and that would also be weird to me. Ty

Edit: also I can't host so looking for a host. I can travel.

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2024/11/28
05:03 UTC

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40 [M4F] #WV Keep warm in winter

The most wonderful time of the year when it is cold and snowy? I am looking for a partner to keep warm with physical attention. Non-smoking and no drugs, rarely do any drinking, so I would expect the same. Physically, I’ve git a slim body (145 lbs) and do try to keep a good appearance. Beared with white showing, if you enjoy that. I am able send photos, just feel more comfortable after talking with a potential partner.

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2024/11/27
17:46 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Pennsylvania - Holidays More Happy

The holidays can be a great time for most but if you need someone to cuddle with by a super legit fake fire while watching holiday movies from oldies all the way to new stuff, I gotcha! I'm open to just snuggle close or if we progress to kissing and such, no complaints here. A bit more about me is in my profile. I can host and travel and I'm located specifically in Harrisburg.

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2024/11/27
16:27 UTC

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23 [F4A] looking for cozy affectionate cuddles. Asheville NC

Hey all, Just a stressed college senior looking to unwind with someone now and then. Would love someone who’s into making it special with music, lights, movies, snacks, etc.

About me: pretty easy going, 5’3, love dogs and scary movies and desserts, not a smoker, very clean and respectful.

I can’t host, willing to figure something out!

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2024/11/27
05:15 UTC

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27 [M4F] #Buffalo Regular-ish cuddles

Trans-inclusive! Sorry I copied an old post.

Hi again! I met someone two posts ago and it was really nice, but I am hoping to meet someone closer to the WNY area. It's slowly getting chilly and it'd be nice to find someone to cuddle with in the colder months. I live downtown on my own and would love to meet someone in or around Buffalo including north and south towns. Ideally watch a movie/show/listen to music/play a game and cuddle regularly on the weekends or a weeknight permitting. I can host or drive!

A bit about me, I am 5'9", Korean, and chubby with a belly, hygienic, do NOT smoke (cigarettes or weed). I like to watch shows (anime, Marvel stuff like Agatha All Along, detective shows, and others), play MTG and video games (mostly play TFT nowadays, but have played OW, Valorant, LoL, party games, and others in the past), hike, listen to music, and take long walks.

About you: no preferences appearance wise, just be hygienic please and do NOT smoke (okay with weed, but definitely no cigarette). Title was supposed to include trans as well, I copied without thinking 🥲 It would be great if we had similar interests, but it's not a deal-breaker.

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2024/11/27
04:14 UTC

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29M4F Seattle - Want a Platonic Cuddle Buddy

Hello!

I’m 29M looking for a platonic cuddle buddy for the weekend. Little bit about myself - I’m a software engineer and can share my ID before we meet.

I’m open to any race/religion/body type and I’d love to watch Friends or Seinfeld or Frasier or Dr. House or go to a beach and have a beautiful conversation while we cuddle.

  1. I can’t host.
  2. I’m on semen retention so things can’t escalate beyond holding hands and hugging.
  3. I’m open to watch any other TV series or go out on Sunday to some beautiful beach where we cuddle.

I appreciate your time reading so far, so DM/comment if interested.

A little bit about myself - I’m reasonably good looking, not tall, know my boundaries and have a lot of self-control. I prefer meeting at a public place first.

That’s all, have a good one :)

Fun part: I love Frasier because it is set out in Seattle. I’m originally not from here, so I consider myself lucky and a dream realized to be living in the city that I adored while watching the show.

See ya!

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2024/11/27
04:12 UTC

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21 [M4A] #mississippi #scott County

Hello 21M here in need of a cuddle buddy, we can watch a movie while cuddling or just talk. I can be big spoon gender doesn't really matter to me neither does looks as long as you are kind.

If interested DM

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2024/11/27
02:14 UTC

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27 [M4F] Metro Detroit Nerdy Cuddles?

Hey there, I am a 27 year old by the metro airport. I am 5'7, 175 lbs

Me: https://imgur.com/a/uOBm3VS

Missing that intimate comfort that comes with cuddling, so here i am. I am happy to talk, watch something, or do nothing other than enjoy each other's company. I am into a bunch of nerdy things, movies, shows, games, D&D, so if you'd like to nerd out, I am happy to listen.

Not seeking sex from here.

I am unable to host normally, but will be able to host in December, the 7th to the 14th, also am mobile and happy to meet in person in public or whatever arrangement we reach.

If any of this interests you, I'd love to hear from you

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2024/11/26
21:41 UTC

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36M [M4F] Central Massachusetts, I’m big and warm and I need contact.

Winter is here and this year I’m going to have to supplement my brain with some endorphins. I need someone to relax with and talk to. Movies, tv shows, YouTube videos to play in the background, maybe some music I’m not too picky. I’m 250lbs and 5’10” without being too too muscular, I will definitely keep you warm this winter. I also want to get out for hikes this winter with someone willing and enjoy holiday activities as December approaches, willing to travel a little within reason. Will provide pictures upon request.

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2024/11/26
20:01 UTC

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30 [M4M] London, UK - Looking for a platonic cuddle buddy (I can't host)

I'd ideally like to meet before cuddling and not jump straight into it. Also happy to take an even slower approach with becoming more acquainted before any cuddling happens, just let me know. I'd be happy to watch something or enjoy each other's company in silence whilst cuddling.

I can't host so please be able to host! I'm looking for clothed platonic cuddling.

My interests are anime and gaming so it'd be cool to connect with anyone who has those interests but that's not a requirement.

5 Comments
2024/11/26
17:56 UTC

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19 [M4A] #Utah #Salt lake City

Hello 19 M here in need of a cuddle buddy, we can watch a movie while cuddling or just talk. I can be big spoon or little spoon, gender doesn't really matter to me neither does looks as long as you are kind. I unfortunately cannot host if you can that be great :)

If interested DM

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2024/11/26
07:54 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Hollywood - hello? Is it me you're looking for?

Hey reddit, A little about me:

I'm 30, 5'8", Latino, from Hollywood. I'm a nerdy guy who loves going to pool bars, like music, video games and things along those lines. I'm a pretty easy going guy. I can be shy but, i do open up with a little liquid courage. I am pretty "go with the flow" kind of guy, so I hope that isn't a turn off.

What I'm looking for:

I am looking for someone who wants to cuddle maybe catch up on some shows. And someone who wants something close. Someone who wants some physical touch.

With this weather finally getting cooler, it'd definitely be nice to linger around the house and just chill.

If you have any questions, please feel free to respond to this ad! Cheers

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2024/11/25
20:47 UTC

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