/r/cuddlebuddies
A non-sexual subreddit for finding a cuddle buddy. r/cuddlebuddies aims to be a safe, welcoming, and open-minded environment, especially for aspec people.
A cuddle buddy is not the same thing as a sexual hookup or romantically dating someone; a cuddle buddy is a cuddle buddy. Cuddling is an inherently sensual activity, not necessarily romantic or sexual.
The flag is the Aspec flag :)
Link to this subreddit’s Pro Cuddlers policy.
/r/cuddlebuddies
Hi,
I've been feeling rather lonely since the break-up with my previous girlfriend. And I would love to cuddle up with someone and watch a movie or TV-series.
If you're interested, feel free to reply here and I'll send you a chat invite. And we can talk, see if we click and then see what happens from there.
In case it matters, I'm about 179cm, 75kg, medium-length black hair, hazel eyes, white.
Hi, Thanks for taking the time to click on my post.
I would like someone to spend time with on the weekends and evenings.
I, myself, am not a home-body. I get out as often as I can,
but a big part of what I'm looking for, is someone to consume media with at home (Movies, TV, Music, possibly video games) (your home or mine).
I want someone to cuddle with while consuming this media (comfy clothes on, cozy, head scratches, shoulder rubs, hand holding, no further expectations on my part).
I'm not necessarily looking for a homebody/shut-in/Agoraphobic/Socially anxious person, but if you are... I can work around that, and bring the cuddles and media to you. Someone to cuddle and consume media with is my bare-minimum.
I don't want a Trump Supporter.
As far as Religion is concerned, I am an Agnostic (former Christian),
And I have no issue with whatever religion you practice, whether it's Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Wiccan etc... Sadly, I consider support for Trump to be a form of Idolatry/Idol worship. It's an extreme that I cannot get behind.
I'm not looking to be the 3rd or 4th wheel in someone's Polycule.
I'm not looking to be with anyone who's married, or in a relationship already.
I'm also not looking for anyone that's looking to swing, or to open up our relationship (in the event that our relationship moves beyond the point of platonic cuddling, which I am open to, but also not in any kind of rush for).
I'm not into horror movies that feature excessive (non-comedic) Gore/Torture.
I'm not into reality TV (exceptions to this would be wholesome "Reality TV" like Ru Paul's Drag Race, Mythbusters, Great British Bake off etc...).
I'm not into cigarette smokers.
I gravitate towards people that are feminine in appearance/presentation?
(hair on the longer side, not afraid to apply makeup, etc...)
About me:
Gen-X, Straight-Cis "AMAB", 5'10, 155lbs, Caucasian, clean-cut brown/grey hair, blue eyes, grey/brown tidy beard (I am not overly attached to my facial hair, it's negotiable).
I am a t-shirt + Dickies Pants + Hoody kinda dude.
I am chill/laid-back, kind, respectful.
I have a punny/dry sense of humor (Like Mitch Headberg, Norm Macdonald).
I am an IT nerd by trade, a music geek by hobby.
I enjoy 80s Movies and Music, and 80/90s inspired Funk/Soul Synthpop/New Wave Techno/IDM/Acid, Surf, Synthwave.
Fave bands include:
Aphex Twin, Men I trust, Depeche Mode, Naked Eyes, The Beach Boys, Thundercat, BadBadNotGood, Hotel Pools, Ginger Root, The Human League, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, MxPx, Portishead, Sneaker Pimps, Nirvana, Weezer, VNV Nation, The Ventures, The Supremes, James Brown, Yaz, Kraftwerk
I like Sci-fi (robots/Ai, time travel, dystopian, dream exploration).
I like Comedy, and Comedies, Sitcoms.
I like Drama/Thrillers/Mystery/Adventure.
I am not the Jealous, Possessive, nor Obsessive type.
I am neither egotistical, demanding nor impatient.
I don't drink, (It's okay if you do).
I don't do drugs, (But I'm also not anti-drug, please party responsibly)
I am not a player (I don't even crush a lot).
I am honest, almost to a fault
(but not honest like "Does that offend you?, I'm just being honest."
Honest like, if there's a piece of upsetting news that could impact our dynamic, I'm not going to delay telling you, or keep secrets. I'll just tell you, because I would rather deal with the reality of the situation, than construct a complex web of lies that's bound to unravel at some point and cause way more pain in the long-run).
I'm easy to get rid of.
(Why would I want to force someone to engage with me that doesn't want to engage with me any more? That seems like more trouble than it's worth.
SFW pics available on request.
I think that covers most of the juicy tidbits.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Hello all! I’m looking for a person to regularly be my cuddle buddy. I’d say for now I’d like to keep things platonic but if things go in a certain way I wouldn’t be opposed to it. I’d love to say I can host but unfortunately I can’t but I am willing to get us an Airbnb. I’m naturally a very warm person so I’m willing to cuddle you or be cuddled. Hopefully I’ve piqued the interest of someone and I hope to hear back soon.
Looking for someone I can chat and cuddle with. Whilst I travel through London
Would love to watch a movie, hold hands and be the big spoon; can switch depending on what your preferences are. I’m pretty opened minded, spiritual and caring. I’m a huge fan of clear communication :) I like music, poetry and cooking
I’m tall and plus sized. QWOC to the front :) 30+ ideally x
I'm okay with pets if they're fine with new people—I live with pets of my own. I'm not so open at first, but when I'm comfortable, I'm able to crack a bad joke or two. I'm pretty open when it comes to any movies or shows and willing to try things before giving an opinion. 420-friendly and nothing harder.
Trans men/FtM and nonbinary individuals also free to show interest—I identify as agender myself. I'm willing to go within and outside the perimeter, as far out as Athens, UGA in terms of distance.
Let's chat and see if we can keep each other warm and occupied for a while.
TL;DR: Looking for someone to cuddle with in the early mornings and enjoy the peace and comfort it brings. I’m chill, hygienic, and open to most cuddling styles. Let’s start simple and see where it goes. For a detailed look into what to expect, look at the “For the unacquainted” post on my profile! If you’re interested, message me and hope to see you on the other side!
I’m hoping to find someone that enjoys cuddling in the morning as a great way to start the day, and would like to share the peace, warmth, and comfort it brings.
I have an average build, am hygienic and respectful of one’s boundaries. I can host some days, or travel anywhere in the DC, Nova, or MD (DMV) area within reason.
I’m open to most forms of cuddling, and enjoy cuddling over watching a movie, listening to music, or relaxing. If you think we’d be a good fit, reach out with a little about yourself, and what your favorite way to cuddle is!
For the unacquainted, you may wonder, what’s my ideal cuddle session? For me, the longer we cuddle, the better! We both are busy people, so the length can vary.
Getting into a show or movie works with me. We can talk, but we don’t have to talk all the time, you know? We can cuddle with music playing, or we can cuddle in silence and enjoy each other’s presence. Anything to ensure you’re comfortable :)
We can start with the basics, and let it evolve over time as we build trust and comfort with each other.
I’m easy-going, open-minded, non-judgemental, soft spoken till you get me on a topic I’m passionate about, and a great listener.
For a detailed look into what to expect, look at the “For the unacquainted” post on my profile!
If you’re interested, feel free to send me a message. What’s your ideal cuddle session like? Look forward to hearing from you!
Hey, it’s snowing outside, and I’m thinking it’s the perfect kind of day for staying in, wrapping up in blankets, and just relaxing. Anyone up for a cuddle session? I’ve got a warm spot here if you’re interested.
The chill of winter has settled in, and there’s something about these cozy days that makes me crave a little extra warmth and comfort. I’m all about finding the perfect balance between staying active and taking time to unwind, especially when the weather calls for it.
I’m a 30-year-old athletic guy, 5’9” and 150 lbs, with a passion for movies, cooking, working out, and traveling. But when the snow falls and the air gets crisp, nothing beats curling up with a good movie, a warm drink, or just enjoying the peace of the season. Whether you’re into long chats, sharing playlists, or simply chilling under a blanket, I’m all for embracing those quiet moments that winter brings.
So, if you're looking to share cozy vibes, trade some stories, or even plan a casual cuddle session to keep warm, hit me up. Let’s make the most of this winter together.
Sending good vibes and warmth to everyone ❤️
Anyone up for cuddles tonight? I am severely craving some snuggles tonight I can host
26 muscular guy pics on profile 5'8"
Doesn't need to be sexual
I’m 5’6, plain, 135 lbs dark hair, dark eyes. Olive complexion. Live in my own apartment. If there is any woman in your life who is under the impression that she is married to you or in a relationship with you- I am not for you.
I miss hugging somebody. I want to share forehead kisses. I want to sit next to you quietly and intertwine our fingers and listen to you if you have something to say. I want to rest my head on your shoulder or have you rest yours on mine.
I don’t have any happening hobbies or happening interests and am not a fan of loud music. I enjoy solitude, reading, Audible, cleaning, trying out restaurants, and petting dogs. I am quiet. I have a job that I like. I cook. I walk when I can. I read a lot. I try to be and wish for someone who isn’t searching for sex, is non-judgmental, caring, affectionate, humble, kind, gentle, loyal, consistent, independent, respectful. Do I want all that ? No . I am only looking for a person who will hold my hand and hug me every day.
If you are older and bigger than me, you already are a good fit.
Send me an introduction please. I hope you are local. Thank you.
Hello everyone! Im looking for a cuddlebuddy in Frankfurt or close by.
I kindof want to try it out for some time! We can watch shows or movies, like the time Viggo Mortensen stubbed his toe Have nice talks, having a gentle time with one another or take a nap.
I can host this and spend out some food. It's important to me that we get along well so some chats beforehand would be nice to see if we get along and trust each other.
I want that to stay platonic!!!
I’m looking for a cuddle buddy who loves to be the little spoon and watch movies or just gently fall asleep together as we drift off into a dream.I love to watch horror movies & marvel movies and tv shows like the office, schitts creek and how I met your mother.
I am recently single, no kids and I have my own apartment so I am able to host. I love to work out, swim, travel and I love getting new tattoos. I am looking for someone who is friendly, respectful and also loves to cuddle. I don’t judge so any age or status, I just want someone who loves having someone warm next to them as well.
I just want to cuddle, just to be able to relax. Prefer to cuddle with folks closer in age to me 29-40.
Hi everyone,
My name is Tim (27M) and I live in the Netherlands. At the moment, I don't have a partner or friends around with whom platonic cuddling feels right. Therefore, I am looking for someone who is in the same boat as me and enjoys platonic cuddling. I am open to getting to know each other first and seeing what feels right. Preferably looking for somebody from Europe.
Hey there,
Looking for a cuddle buddy to keep warm during the cold and dark winter days. Looking to curl up together under a blanket, fingers intertwined and enjoying each other’s company ☕️🧣
Currently located in North London. 5”10, 75kg and great conversationalist.
Come say hi 👋
Hello!
I'm a cuddle starved guy currently living around the North West part of London, hoping to find a cuddle buddy (emphasis both on cuddle, and buddy, as looking for a friend as well as someone to get snuggly with) to hang out with and make both this cold weather and life in general more bearable.
Interests:
Things I like:
Things I don't like:
Extra details:
I have some anxiety issues regarding people and to a lesser degree longer distance travel, probably not a surprise in the slightest given my interests mentioned above but I'm somewhat awkward when I'm getting to know someone + suspect I'm some flavour of neurodivergant.
That being said, I'm chatty as can be with people I'm close with/click with.
I live alone, and (depending on distance) don't particularly mind hosting to travelling to visit for hanging out/cuddling.
Despite giving my life savings to a self proclaimed wizard who said he was going to teach me how to see the future, I sadly cannot, so I don't know anything that'd go in here. If you'd be so kind as to tell me about yourself through conversation instead then that would be really great.
I'm hypothetically available for talking, cuddling, going out to museums, gaming, investigating wizard fraud, etc, most evenings and weekends.
I mostly use Discord and Signal for talking to people.
If you're interested in talking and getting to know eachother/potentially cuddling then feel free to send me a message. To show you're a real person and you've read my post before responding, if you could include any of the following in your initial message then that'd be great: a fun fact you like, your favourite animal, a magical spell you'd learn if you could to either fix a minor problem or just for fun.
Thanks to anyone who took the time to read this, and hope you have a lovely rest of your day.
Hello! Black guy here, 5’9” and 160lbs with a slim/athletic build. I’m more of a little spoon, but I don’t mind being the big spoon for the right person. My love language is physical touch, and I really enjoy cuddling. I’m particularly drawn to taller white guys, but I’m open to connecting with anyone as long as we vibe. Hoping to find a long-term cuddle buddy, and who knows, maybe even a bromance. Let’s get to know each other! Hit me up if you’re interested! (If in Illinois, I can’t host, but willing to travel)
Some of my hobbies: Gaming (been playing the heck out of Marvel Rivals), listening to music (I have very diverse taste), writing, watching old school TV shows, walking, and spending time in nature. There may be a few more I can’t think of right now!
Things are not going well. Just turn the news on and a new person is saying things are fucked and we wont recover from this every 10 minutes...I just want an escape. Lets put a movie on and simply cuddle. Not looking for sex, despite my other posts, I just want human connection where I don't have to think about whats going on. 34, 5'9, 190lbs.
Oh hi everybody! Hoping I could receive and give physical affection after quite a while. 6’0” guy on the slimmer side.
Kind of nervous since I’ve never done this before, but if anybody is wanting to, feel free to reach out to me anytime!
I’m looking for a cuddle buddy in the DMV area.
Description of me.
-Kind, compassionate, and communicative. I love making my cuddle buddy feel safe, cared for and comfortable with me and creating a space that feels wholesome together and fulfill our needs.
-Extremely big on communication and ongoing enthusiastic consent/respect for anything and everything. Being cuddle buddies should be a vast comfort and relaxation zone.
-I enjoy stand up comedy, movies, sci fi/fantasy, and listening to music, board games, and anime; as well as hearing about your interests and hobbies
If this sounds interesting and/or relatable, feel free to reach out by chat (not dm). I look forward to hearing from you all.
I can’t host, but I’m willing to drive if it’s within like 6 miles from me (maybe some leeway there). I want someone who can whisper sweet things in my ear and hold me tightly. I’m a little chubby so if that makes you feel more comfortable, there’s that. I’ve just been so depressed and touch-deprived lately so I decided to fix that LOL. Also, I’m 5’2, enjoy watching movies, reading classics, and listening to either punk rock, classical, pop, or rap.
Hi everyone! I’m Nick, and I’m looking for a cuddle buddy to share some warmth and good vibes with.
About Me: I’m 27 and live in Beloit, WI. I enjoy watching movies and shows, anime, reading and bunch of nerdy hobbies as well.
What I’m Looking For: Ideally, I’d love to find someone who is open-minded, funny and perhaps a bit nerdy like me.
Why I Want This: I believe cuddling is a great way to connect and feel comforted. Plus, who doesn’t love a good cuddle session?
If you’re interested, send me a message! Let’s chat and see if we vibe!
Here in the city everyone’s too busy coding the next big thing than to actually touch another human being. Technology has made us more and more connected yet at the same time more and more distant. So why not use technology to bridge the gap? Let’s fill that void with some good old fashioned human contact. Let’s participate in the intrinsic human need of holding someone while watching mediocre Netflix shows. We all need some touch, to touch and be touched, beyond the black mirrors of our screens.
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. I'd love to feel someone's touch to turn my life around, to melt away the stress and the cold starkness of work. Don't we all want to have someone there for us? I'm tall and thin so I can give warm lanky hugs, hugs that remind you and I that we exist, that we are here and that we are cared for.
Hello, I am a full time caregiver seeking care of my own in the form of an ongoing platonic Cuddle Buddy. I highly desire to be in the company of a willing woman, snuggled up close, chatting, caressing, kissing, listening to music, and comforting each other.
You must be able to host because I share my home with my charge. Or we can pick a mutually agreed upon space. I am 5’9, 226lbs, sort-of fit, well-educated, fully vaccinated, and otherwise DDF. I will be respectful of all agreed upon boundaries.
Race, age, and body type are not a consideration, just a desire to seek mutual satisfaction through the healing power of the touch, caress, kisses, hand holding and smiles.
Let’s cuddle on the couch and talk, apply butterfly kisses upon each other's soft skin, watch a good movie, or lie under the covers listening to soft music while getting to know one another and luxuriating in the physical touch we both desperately need.
NOTE (1): I have been fully vaccinated and expect you to be as well.
NOTE (2): I expect that we will chat here, or another chat app, and get to know each other a little first before meeting in a public place. Even then there is no expectation that a cuddle session will happen as we will need to ensure that we jell before mutually agreeing to proceed.
Your picture gets mine, no exceptions!
Let’s be cuddle buddies!
Hi! First time posting here 😊
A little bit about me - I'm 26F from Adelaide, South Australia. Blonde, Caucasian, 5'6, average body type and I wear glasses. Happy to send pictures of myself if you are too, just so we have an idea of who eachother are talking to 😊 I enjoy a few things for fun, I game, collect/build nanoblocks, gym, read. I take myself out on little solo dates often, so definitely love to explore the city as well! I could say more! Id love to know what you're into as well!
Im looking for a non sexual cuddle buddy. Id like you to be AMAB and between 25-40. Life has been quite stressful for me lately, between chronic back pain, a recent endometriosis diagnosis, a job change and now a painful cyst in a part of my body it shouldn't be, i feel like i cant catch a break sometimes 😅 Frankly, I miss being touched and I crave to be held tight, melt into your arms and be told everything is gonna be ok 🥹 We could curl up with some movies and snacks, or honestly just lay there holding eachother and yapping away. As long as cuddling is involved, I'm happy 🤭
Connection is very important to me despite the non sexual nature, so I would like to meet up first, maybe for a coffee before we go home with eachother. I can very occasionally host but it's much easier if you can.
Hoping there is some Adelaide people in here! Would love to hear from you 😊
43 year old chubby woman in San Diego. Looking for good company. Cuddling, great conversation, movie buddy. Local only. Happy Cuddling!
Hello everyone! I am looking for a cuddle buddy in Bonn or close by.
I miss being held but enjoy holding you and stroking your hair just as much. We could watch a show or movie together, talk about anything or take a nap.
It’s important for me that we get along well and feel safe with each other so let’s grab a coffee or something like that before to see if we click.
I am 1,69m and 73kg. My hair has shoulderlength and is brown. Both German and English language works for me.
Hello! I'm a 30 year old guy located in Torrance. It's getting cold again and I'd love to cuddle away these rainy days.
I'm 5’7” with an in shape body, blonde hair and blue eyes. I work hard as an engineer and I'm pretty successful in what I do. When I'm not working I love to be outside whether it's hiking, biking, or taking a stroll on the beach. I've also recently been getting back into climbing. I also really enjoy quiet endings in watching Netflix or just scrolling tiktok or Reddit.
I look forward to getting to know you!
Hi! I thought I’d give this a go and see what happens...
It’s been about 2 and a half years since I’ve been in a relationship. I’m not looking for one (I'm not closed to the idea, but it’s not something I'm looking for right now), but I do miss having someone to be close to - figuratively and literally!
I miss human touch (sounds weird but I don't know how else to put it 🙃), so would love to find someone to spend time with - getting a drink, visiting somewhere (I like theme parks if that's your thing too, but no problem if not!) or just wandering around and chatting. And honestly, I really miss the little things like sitting next to someone, hugging, or even holding hands. Friends with non-sexual benefits? 😂 I’m not interested in sex at all, just missing that closeness from another person in my life.
I’m clean, tidy, and take care of myself, so I’d hope to find someone who's the same. Ideally, someone in their late 20s to late 30s so we’d have some things in common.
If you'd like to chat and get to know each other more then please send me a message. Would be happy to share photos so we each know who we're talking to!
Anyone wanna cuddle ?