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Is Jesus eternal God same as God the Father, as Protestantism teaches or he just shared some of the divinity of God the Father and had to achive Goodhood the same as other gods before him?
When I do proxy baptisms at the temple, I usually get briefs under my one-piece under my jumpsuit. Well, they did away with the Hanes or Fruit of the Loom briefs. Now, they have white, slick flyless boxer briefs. I am thinking they are unisex. Can anyone confirm?
I feel like a lot of Christ's mission and purpose was about giving "glory to the father."
And I seek not mine own glory: there is one that seeketh and judgeth. John 8:50-51
For I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me.John 6:38
And we're taught that there were 2 plans: One where Satan was the savior and got the glory, and another where Christ was the savior and gave the glory to God.
- Satan, whom thou hast commanded in the name of mine Only Begotten, is the same which was from the beginning, and he came before me, saying—Behold, here am I, send me, I will be thy son, and I will redeem all mankind, that one soul shall not be lost, and surely I will do it; wherefore give me thine honor.
2 But, behold, my Beloved Son, which was my Beloved and Chosen from the beginning, said unto me—Father, thy will be done, and the glory be thine forever. - Moses 4
It makes sense why the rest of the Christian world would worship Jesus Christ, they believe that he and God are one person. But we don't believe that
So why do we put so much focus on Christ? If his entire mission and purpose is to give the glory to the father, why do we worship Christ and name ourselves after Christ and try to be like Christ? I rarely ever hear about God as a separate entity unless it is in the context of Christ being there as well, is there a reason that this changed?
I’m not a religious guy I’ll admit. But I’m interested in the prepping and homesteading aspects that I see some mormons practicing.
In my country there aren’t any preppers except for Mormons.
Would it be weird to try to make some mormon friends as someone who believes in God but not in any formal religion? Or would I be rejected?
I am personally not religious, but I like to study religions. Especially new religious movements, including Christian restorationist sects. I find it very interesting that Mormons/LDS testify that they KNOW their religion is true, that they KNOW Joseph Smith is a true prophet, and that they KNOW the Book of Mormon is true. This is unique among Christian sects, where most say they BELIEVE. When and why did this tradition become entrenched in Mormonism? How do members feel about this? Or do they not notice this difference? Thanks for your answers!
I saw quote on Reddit before that was financial advice maybe from the 1980s? It was talking about not worrying about investments like stocks, but to worry about food storage or something like that. I know that’s rather vague, but I’m hoping someone can point me in the right direction.
1984 quote The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.''
And if all others accepted the lie which the Party imposed--if all records told the same tale--then the lie passed into history and became truth.''
Why do so many members of the church go long with the constant gaslighting by the LDS regime leaders?
The church's own manuals and canon (Joseph Smith History) don't match what is taught from the pulpit or on YouTube videos.
The YouTube video of president Nelson explaining the rock in the hat narrative is in direct contradiction to what is said in the Joseph Smith translation in the pearl of great price.
But you can't say this out loud to an active member and not get blank looks or some complicated mental-twisting explanation.
I love my fellow members but they can't be taken seriously when they speak about important things if they won't be honest with themselves and demand better of their leaders.
Seriously, I'm not trying to be mean or cruel...just meet me halfway. Good relationships are built on honesty.
And did your experience in the Mormon church meet that objective?
Hello,
Non-Mormon here looking for some clarification. As I understand Joseph Smith allegedly translated the BOM through a hat with something called seer stones. What is meant by seer stones? Also, I remember seeing some Mormon literature a few decades ago about gold plates. Was Joseph Smith looking at the plates through the hat and stones? It is a little confusing. Thanks in advance for any answers.
I’ve always wondered this. Is it bad to wear a jacket or blazer if you’re mormon?
I've noticed as I've gone "church shopping" that people say Holy Spirit a lot more than Holy Ghost or even "the Spirit". Why do you think that is? Could it have been a personal Joseph Smith or Brigham Young thing?
Hi, we are not Mormon and we do not plan to convert. My spouse however has been welcoming missionaries into our home every other week to chat/discuss. I’m sure they are hopeful they will convert us but we are firm in our beliefs. How do we let them know? Or should we just continue to host them since it’s not bothering us?
Hello! Has anyone heard any updates about the Victoria BC temple?
Let me start with a background. I'm from a calvinist reformed background. I have an MDiv from a fancy seminary and I am very much a devout Presbyteryian. All this to say, I'm pretty smart and well versed in history, religion, and ancient biblical languages.
I've never been part of the mormon religion but I've always been fond of LDS members. I had friends in high school and college and i just liked them as people. Also, I find the historic and cultural impacts of the church to be facinating.
Honestly, no bad blood at all over here towards the LDS. At the same time, 0% chance of me converting. Then I go an read the book. And now I have thoughts and opinions and like no one in real life that cares. It wasn't so much a spiritual experience for me as an interesting dive into the mind of Joseph Smith. This was like big brained fantasy writing well before lord of the rings and I kinda liked it?
Like this is a question for ONLY mormons. Do you guys say bad words/swear or think of them? Like I know most people do it, but do yo do it?
Hi, i'm a former mormon, not here to create any controversy or anything but I'm really curious what this symbol means! I saw it on a old book listed on facebook and I can't find the meaning
The Economy of Human Life,Translated from an Indian Manuscript, Written by an Ancient Bramin. To which is Prefixed, an Account of the Manner in which the Said Manuscript was Discovered: in a Letter from an English Gentleman, Residing in China, to the Earl of *******. With Thirty-two Elegant Cuts by A. Anderson
https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Economy_of_Human_Life/8NkMAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=0
Single men ages 40 and older now allowed to serve full-time missions; roles for single women 40 and older increased
I'm glad for this policy change.
Feeling down today after ending my relationship with my Mormon boyfriend, whom I truly love. I’ve recently become a Christian after a journey from atheism. My boyfriend introduced me to Mormonism at this time as well, I was also studying the Bible on my own. I was open to learning, but over time, I felt a stronger conviction in my Christian beliefs.
He has strong goals within his faith, like getting married in a Mormon temple and eventually going on a mission, and he hoped I’d consider becoming Mormon one day. As much as I care about him, I realized I can’t support those goals and stay true to my own beliefs. It’s especially hard because I could see he was struggling with his faith, not following the church's commandments even though he was attending services and institute classes. I got the sense he might be feeling lost and maybe even hurting, but I’m not sure if he realized it.
I made the decision to end things, thinking it might help him be open to finding his own path and also protect my own faith journey. I pray every day that he’ll find peace and clarity.
Has anyone been in a similar situation, or does anyone have advice on navigating this? Or insight into how he may be feeling or understanding my decision? And if anyone has insight into why it can be so hard for Mormons to leave even when they have doubts, I’d really appreciate it.
So I'm a non mormon and I asked out one of the missionaries the other day and idk if it just went over her head or if she just really politely turned me down lol but like is there a specific thing I'm missing? Not hating or pouty just curious because we'll I'm not mormon lol
Earlier this week I asked for advice on how to tell my in-laws that I'm PIMO (Physically-In, Mentally-Out). Y'all recommended I shouldn't, and then after that only share what I need to. I can't get into too many details of the conversation, but I will say this:
Y'all were right, but not for the reasons I expected. They picked up quickly in the conversation that I might be PIMO, and before I even brought it up fully said it was my choice to stay or leave the LDS church, and that they don't want to put any pressure on that choice. I need to figure out what works for me. All they asked was to just tell them first before going public only so that they can be ready if anyone asks them questions.
We're going to talk more later, but honestly the fact that they led with that without hesitation was a godsend. And... y'all were right. People in healthy relationships don't necessarily need the details. They just need to know how to support you, and need your unconditional support back. I'm so happy I got lucky here.
Is anyone aware of when the earliest persecution of Joseph and/or the church started showing up in the historical record?
Joseph Smith-History indicates that persecution started with his alleged retelling of the First Vision immediately after it supposedly happened. Just like there is no reference to the alleged First Vision until 12+ years later, I'm having trouble finding any references to persecution in the 1820s that don't rely on Joseph's late 1838 history. Even Lucy Mack Smith's history draft didn't mention it (so far as I could find).
I've found "persecution" related to his treasure digging (which I wouldn't consider persecution, but rather disdain for fraudulent, illegal activity), but when did the true religious persecution show up in records? Was it around the time the saints moved to Ohio?
Reference to the order of creation as outlined in the temple and LDS materials: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/friend/2007/02/for-little-friends/the-creation?lang=eng
I've heard people say that God used events and phenomena such as the Big Bang and evolution to create the world, and that 7 days are really just 7 long periods of perhaps millions of years of creation. But that still doesn't work, because evolution is a process of mutational change that favors passing on genes that are favorable to the environmental pressures a species faces.
Day 3: God creates the water and plants. Exactly how is God using evolution as a tool to create the vast diversity of plants we see in the world today, without the pressures of the sun (day 4), birds to disperse seeds (day 5), and other animal life such as insects that feed on and pollinate plant life (day 6)?
Let's suppose plants are given 50 million years for God to tinker with through evolution before He introduces the sun. Um, how? Plants require the sun's rays. And then after introducing the sun, he finally introduces pollinators? Again, only someone with a complete ignorance of evolution could possibly see evolution in isolation - evolution requires comingling - plants and animals evolve together.
Just take the third day's description as an example of its ignorance of evolution:
12 And the earth brought forth grass, and herb yielding seed after his kind, and the tree yielding fruit, whose seed was in itself, after his kind: and God saw that it was good.
Each type of plant has seeds? I suppose all of them were wind-pollinated, since other pollination types were impossible? Well, what is fruit doing here? How would fruit exist through evolution when the primary reason for fruit to exist is to propogate genetics through enticement of animals that would eat and store said fruit? Without squirrels or blue jays, how would plants evolve to have acorns? Notice how God didn't use this period to create a single-celled plant organism, and then move on to the next period. No. Before the sun even enters the earth's atmosphere or animal life comes onto the scene, God has trees and various types of grasses (which didn't thrive on the earth until after several eras of evolutionary animal pressures).
Ben Spackman (contributor to FAIR) really tries to comprehensively cover the church's position and reconcile science and scripture, but he does so by simply sidestepping any interpretation (literal or otherwise) of any of the creation account except that Adam and Eve existed as people.
TL;DR: Apologists try to circumvent a young earth claim made in scriptures like D&C 77 and Genesis, by saying that the creation "days" could have represented creation "periods" of millions of years, asserting that evolution and religious stories of creation are wholly compatible. But apologists have to also consider the order of the periods and reconcile them with empirical evidence about how we have come to the vast diversity of life we see on earth today. The mere separating of tasks into periods in a timeline is incompatible with evolution, since plants, animals, light, water, etc., all factors of a grand co-evolutionary process that results in what we have today.
*This got a little long, so feel free to just read the headings and conclusions if you don't want all the details
The lds gospel topics essay on Joseph's polygamy claims that "[i]n biblical times, the Lord commanded some of His people to practice plural marriage..." While many (about 30) of the Old Testament prophets or characters were polygamists, I will consider here those who were mentioned explicitly in the gospel topics essay (Abraham, David, Solomon, and Moses) in addition to verses that address polygamy directly:
Abraham (Abram):
While it is unclear if Abraham was ever actually married to Hagar, it is clear that it was Sarah who told him to initiate sexual relations with her. God maintained--despite Sarah and Abraham's incredulity--that it was Sarah who would be pregnant, but he also did not condemn Abraham's relations with Hagar. Abraham's marriage with Ketubah had no overlap with his marriage with Sarah.
David:
God gave David the prior wives of Saul. There was no command for David to enter into polygamy, but it does seem like God was involved. God condemned David's act of sending Uriah off to war to die while taking his wife Bathsheba as his own as evil.
Solomon:
Solomon's many wives and concubines led him to sin (turning his heart from God), but his relationships with them were not explicitly denounced as sin.
Moses:
While the gospel topics essay refers to Moses as a polygamist--relying on the language in D&C 132--it is unclear if Moses was married to anyone other than his first wife Zipporah. (Exodus 2).
Other polygamists:
The Old Testament shows, of the over 30 other polygamists mentioned in it, a general trend of disapproval of polygamous relationships because all of them end in conflict of some sort. This can be seen with Abraham and the conflict between Sarah and Hagar, Isaac and Ishmael, Jacob and the conflict between the sisters Rachel and Leah and their servants and the conflict between the brothers and Joseph, Elkinah and the conflict between Hannah and Peninnah, David and his multiple marriages which led to conflict with Saul, with his own advisors and soldiers, and conflict between his children including rape and murder, which would be magnified by his son and eventually led to the split of his kingdom. As an object lesson, these stories show that polygamy does not lead to peace or success.
General Old Testament teachings on polygamy:
What does the Old Testament tell us about polygamy:
The New Testament has no clear polygamists.
General New Testament teachings on polygamy:
What does the New Testament tell us about polygamy:
The Book of Mormon has no clear polygamists.
General Book of Mormon teachings on polygamy:
What does the Book of Mormon tell us about polygamy:
Many polygamists in the early church. Only Joseph Smith's polygamy will be covered in detail below.
General Doctrine and Covenants teachings on polygamy:
What do the Doctrine and Covenants tell us about polygamy:
No, it is not. With just the following two details, Joseph's polygamy practices violated scriptural polygamy requirements from all four sources:
Although those two facts are all that is needed to show there is no scriptural justification for Joseph's polygamy, his practices violated many additional scriptural and moral standards:
No scripture in any way supports the practice of polygamy as Joseph did it. His polygamy was manipulative, immoral, and without foundation even when looking at his own revelations. I see no way to justify or accept these awful practices as anything that could come from a loving God who cares for his daughters on the earth.
The thing is that in my country of residence, there are very few Mormons and I can't say anything about them, but in the media, they seem like very positive and kind guys who spend a lot of time with their families. How close to the truth is that?
Assume for a moment the church is not true, many of you probably already believe this. Joseph Smith was not a prophet. The Book of Mormon is not an ancient record. Priesthood restoration is not real.
If you were the one to choose if Mormonism were true, would you? That means the apologetic arguments are valid, we have priesthood authority here on earth, and God’s true church is the one headquartered in Salt Lake City.
What is your decision? Why or why not? What would you change or alter?