/r/amwfdating
This is a dating subreddit for those who are open to or pursuing an AMWF relationship.
What does AMWF mean? AMWF stands for Asian Male + White Female and is the most common acronym used to describe these types of relationships.
So, this is a fetish sub? No. Some people may have a preference and others may just be open to dating someone of another race. Whichever one it may be doesn’t matter though. The motivation behind somebody’s interest in an AMWF relationship is not policed here.
What if I’m interested in more than just AMWF, can I post here? Of course. This subreddit for anybody who is open to an AMWF relationship. You don’t have to be exclusively into AMWF.
What if I’m not an AM or a WF? If you’re Asian, or looking for an Asian, there’s r/r4rasian. If neither of those apply to you, try r/r4r.
What if I don’t want to post an ad? What if I just want to ask a question? This is a dating subreddit, not a discussion subreddit. If you are looking to ask a question or discuss something, please go to r/AMWFs. Anything posted here that isn’t a personal ad will be removed.
How do I post an ad?
All personal ads must follow this basic title format:
Age [M/F] Location - Title
25 [M] Dallas - I like video games and food.
25 [F] San Francisco - I like food and video games.
If your ad does not meet this format it will be removed.
Your post or comments may be removed for failing to follow any of these rules:
If you have any issues or questions please send them via mod mail.
/r/amwfdating
Asian college student here who's attracted to white women looking to spend some time chatting with a Caucasian woman around my age who's into Asian men and see where things go 😀. About me: 5'7, 150lb and pretty lean. Grew up in a pretty white neighborhood and had some white celebrity crushes (Miranda Cosgrove, Avril) when I was younger so I guess that played into it for me. On my free time, I hit the gym and play badminton quite often (not as boring of a sport as it sounds I promise lol) to stay active cuz being healthy is very important to me 😎. I'm kind of kinky and a switch who's a sucker for neck kisses, ugh and I'm hoping you're a bit kinky too since we could explore and do great things together 👀. I'm definitely into women who are fit and a cute smile absolutely meltss me. I don't mean to brag but I've got a really nice pair of hands if you wanna see (and maybe hold) but please let me know what you're into in dms 😛.
Let's be honest, dating apps can be awkward. So, here's the deal: My cat thinks I should be spending less time on the computer and more time cuddling. Maybe you can help convince him? Seriously though, I'm a 25-year-old Korean guy working in STEM with a passion for cars, music, and photography – when I'm not hanging out with my cat of course!
I'm looking for a kind and fun-loving white woman to share adventures and a meaningful connection with. I'm 5'8" and tend to be attracted to white women around my age (23-35) and shorter than me. What's your current anthem?
Hey there. I'm a 45 year old gamer from Arkansas who is looking to make friends and maybe more. I'm into houseplants, painting, binge watching things, exploring this new city I live in, animals, reading and cooking. I'm around 5'2, hazel eyes, tattooed with wavy auburn hair. I'm starting to ease my way into a healthier lifestyle and have since lost 49 lbs, with about 30 more to go before I hit my goal. I'm cute but make no mistake. I'm a little thiccums. (For now)
I prefer to build a connection and bond for a while through chat, video calls and phone calls before agreeing to meet. I'm a slow burn, so I'm built for LDRs.
I don't really have a "type," so shoot your shot, I suppose. Though I prefer that, if your goal might be something other than friendship, that you be within my age range and not immediately start talking about banging. SFW pics exchanged early on would be awesome.
Happy November 💜
Who needs to save all that daylight in the first place, right? It's time for things to get dark and cozy.
About me: 44-year-old, 5’7”, long haired Vietnamese-American software developer who is taking a break from computers to take some art classes. I'm single, never been married and have no kids (and am not interested in having any). I enjoy reading, drawing, practicing guitar, photography, video games, walking, lifting weights and yoga.
What I'm Looking For:
Looking for someone relatively close, but I'm up for chatting online if you're willing to meet up at some point. Depending on our chemistry and how we get along, I'm open to either something casual or something serious (and anything that falls somewhere between). Whatever our situation ends up being, I'm only interested in monogamy - juggling multiple partners isn't something that interests me, regardless of how casual/serious our relationship is.
I don't have a specific type of woman I'm looking for but at the bare minimum it is important to me that you are able to hold a conversation. Also would like to exchange unfiltered SFW pics early on if we hit it off because A: physical attraction matters and B: getting catfished suuuuuuuuuuuuucks.
Random SFW Facts About Me (That Could Possibly Stimulate Conversation)
My best karaoke song: Careless Whisper by George Michael. Good Old Fashioned Lover Boy by Queen is a close second.
Latest Addition to My Phone's Photo Album: Picture of a display that says "Cougar Social Hour". FYI: the Cougar is the mascot of the school I'm attending which provides some necessary context.
Most Recent Mundane Errand Completed: I just threw a load of clothes into the washing machine.
What Did I Have For Breakfast Today?: A banana alongside with oatmeal with blueberries.
Last Treat Enjoyed: Ben and Jerry's Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough ice cream.
Currently Listening To: Lonely Boy - The Black Keys
Currently Watching: A bunch of walking tour videos on YouTube from far off places in the world. My favorite ones so far are the walks through cities in Japan and Italy.
Currently Wearing: My purple "Macho Man" Randy Savage t-shirt and light grey sweatpants.
Currently Contemplating: What the composition of my next figure drawing class project should look like.
Favorite beverage: Mandarin orange herbal tea
If you're interested, please say "hi" AND let me know a little bit about yourself. Also, to let me know you read the entire post and are not a bot, please tell me:
How do you feel about the time change? Annoyed that it gets dark so soon or grateful for the extra hour of sleep?
What's a piece of media (movie/song/book/tv show/etc) that you recently enjoyed?
What's your favorite dessert?
Low effort responses (e.g. "hey", "how's it going", "tell me more lol", etc.) will be completely ignored :-P Looking forward to hearing from you!
Pm me let’s share a pic. And see if we like what we’re see.
I’m Chinese born in CA looking for someone to spend time and bond with over fun activities and food adventures. I recently been to When We Were Young Fest and the occasional raves here and there and would love an event buddy or someone with similar music taste. Im aware i have mostly nsfw pics in my profile but absolutely also looking for platonic friendships and not just dive into anything nsfw
I'm a single woman with no kids looking to make genuine connection with someone who wants to build a meaningful relationship. I enjoy the outdoors, reading, cooking, movies and exploring other interests.
Let's chat and see where things go.
I'm tall and curvy.
Seeking a monogamous relationship. No fwb.
Well hello!
I hope you are doing well. I'm making this post because I would love to see who's out there and who ultimately I can share my life with.
Briefly about myself, without giving away too much and ruin the good conversation we very well might have. I'm a Korean transplant, living in NY since I was adopted as an infant, I love science topics and pushing my limits, jumping into new things, however I also love just going on all sorts of adventures like estate sales, record stores, museums, or exploring parts of the city I have not been to yet. Sometimes I just like to stay in, working on small hobby projects or fixing stuff on my car.
I'm a very open and honest person, I feel I'm quite easy to talk to. I enjoy a good and a bit stupid sense of humor (dad-joke level). Perhaps spark up the conversation with a good meme or send a song you really like. Send me a sentence or two about yourself and lwe can share selfies. I am excited to see where this can go!
About me physically: I am 5'8" tall and am about 155 lbs. I have an atheltic build and work out a couple times per week. I have fairly long hair which I might get cut soon. Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/5cmw1HG
I would prefer someone F23-F33 and in the NYC/Westchester/Greenwich area. Also preferences if you too have an active lifestyle. If you made it this far, include a picture of a shark in your DM haha.
Hope to hear from you!
I would like ongoing with My submissive as it intensifies the connection. But, it's difficult just finding a submissive that is compatible. I have some experience in training subs from blindfold, bondage, edging, orgasm control, sense deprivation, spanking, rules, canning, flogging, lg/DD, and some light pet training. However, I'm still learning and evolving my skills but find this lifestyle fulfilling.
I'm not looking for a relationship or anything serious. But I am wanting something ongoing and safe. Plus, it's hard discovering a person's deepest secrets and boundaries in one meet. I'm open minded and non-judgmental. I'm looking for someone to further explore and evolve too.
HMU if you want
I'm looking to meet someone cool to hang out and have fun with. I'm laid back and down to earth, 41, 5ft4, 130lbs fit Canadian born Chinese.
I'm looking for someone who enjoys exploring the city, go for drinks or eats, or someone who enjoys staying in a cuddling up to a movie.
Hey!
Do you love Halloween? It's the only holiday that's "just for fun!" I dig the vibes, but it's been a while since I've bothered to do anything... what with being an adult and all. Maybe you can relate to a long standing desire to change that!
It's really just a fleeting idea, but I thought it'd be so fun to do something simple with someone. Maybe a date, maybe just hang out online. Maybe the 31st, or the day after, or who knows!
I’m a nerdy artist/creative type from the South Bay! I'm an absolute goof, always saving my seriousness for when on rare occasion I need it. I'm half white, half asian, and spend my free time with gaming, art, DnD, writing, and many things somewhere in between. I’ve been on a long journey of self improvement (who hasn't?). Fitness, discipline, etc. I’ve made strides, built better habits, have an office job I like, but have a long way to go. I'm chubby and not satisfied with where I am, but that only encourages me to keep moving. There’s(mostly creative!) things I want to accomplish, and I'm figuring out the work/life/laziness balance that will see me there.
Virtues: Chill. Open to ideas. Chill temper. Very stable. Extroverted and silly when appropriate(when I can get away with it!). Serious or lighthearted when appropriate(When I have to be >.>). Passionate about many things. Cooks. Broad shoulders.
Weaknesses: Procrastinates too much. Daydreams. Procrastinates more. Not yet in good shape.
Hobbies: Into Gaming, Art, Creative things, Writing, Fantasy and Worldbuilding, and Design. Extremely passionate about the TTRPG space and personal projects revolving around it!
Lifestyle: I enjoy cooking, hanging out with friends, doing fun stuff together, watching movies, debating about silly nerdy things, and taking it easy. Would like kids one day. I don’t drink/other similar things partially because I know I can get addicted to things. I want to surround myself with small beautiful things, ideas, stories, feelings to inspire myself to create. Friends and Family and loved ones are the most beautiful things.
Romance: Will tickle you. Will boop your nose. Will give headpats. Silly, Affectionate, Teasing, Playful, Explorative and mischievous… But always communicative.
"Switch".
Looking for: Someone playful to share the joy of little things with. Someone warm and passionate, perhaps with an eye for the creative. Perhaps someone patient because a bit of that always helps. And someone with a feisty side when they need to use it.
There’s certainly something a bit odd about putting a dating resume out there. I feel like this method of meeting people is probably thought upon as bizarre by many. That’s understandable, but why not cast a lure into the dark? There’s something romantic about someone latching onto you in a fleeting moment across the net, on a whim. At first, I thought I’d wait until I've met more of my goals. But why? Perhaps now is when we need each other the most. So here I am. Hi. :)
Hey all!~
I've posted before but wanted to see if there were any fresh chats looking to happen.
I'm 23, curvy/midsize, 5'4" (164 cm), looking for an Asian guy to sweep me off my feet. Bonus points if you speak Japanese (I'm learning!! 🙏) but would love chats from anyone!
I love animanga, hoyoverse games (cringe ik) and digital art! My favorite music right now consists of music from a Japanese multimedia project called Paradox Live, I'm totally normal about it (its my biggest hyperfixation)
What did you dress up as for Halloween? I got pics of me in my costume if you wanna exchange! Hit me up! 😋✌️
DISCLAIMER: not looking for fwb, hookups, nsfw exchange. i am demisexual 🤝
Hi. Small town girl in Texas wondering where to meet an Asian man. 5'3 Redhead, blue eyes, fun loving and kind hearted.
Hi. Small town girl in Texas wondering where to meet an Asian man. 5'3 Redhead, blue eyes, fun loving and kind hearted.
Hiii I'm from Japan but currently living in Europe for 2y now.
I am very open minded and curious about many things. And I am a very shy person and not very talkative for the first time but I'm nice and friendly!
About me: 175cm and around 60kg, ( not too skiny but kinda), Black long hair.
hobbies: Photography, visiting new places, books ( classic literature), Anime, Fashion.
hit me up if you wanna know more! I hope we can have a good chat and maybe meet!
Well hello!
I hope you are doing well. I'm making this post because I would love to see who's out there and who ultimately I can share my life with.
Briefly about myself, without giving away too much and ruin the good conversation we very well might have. I'm a Korean transplant, living in NY since I was adopted as an infant, I love science topics and pushing my limits, jumping into new things, however I also love just going on all sorts of adventures like estate sales, record stores, museums, or exploring parts of the city I have not been to yet. Sometimes I just like to stay in, working on small hobby projects or fixing stuff on my car.
I'm a very open and honest person, I feel I'm quite easy to talk to. I enjoy a good and a bit stupid sense of humor (dad-joke level). Perhaps spark up the conversation with a good meme or send a song you really like. Send me a sentence or two about yourself and we can share selfies. I am excited to see where this can go!
About me physically: I am 5'8" tall and am about 155 lbs. I have an atheltic build and work out a couple times per week. I have fairly long hair which I might get cut soon. Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/5cmw1HG
I would prefer someone F23-F33 and in the NYC/Westchester/Greenwich area. Bonus points if you too have an active lifestyle. If you made it this far, include a picture of a shark in your DM haha.
Hope to hear from you!
Hey my name is Dave and a few things about me~~~
Athletic built, southeast Asian. Very humorous and teasing. Gentle and soft spoken.
Hobbies - gaming (steam, vintage consoles or Xbox), surfing, shopping, watching shows or movies, listening to music, cooking, bodybuilding, travelling, skating, skiing, Lego building, hiking.
My cup of tea- Classic rock, alternative rock, indie rock, pop music from 60’s to 2000’s, action movies, spy movies like James Bond, vintage and new cars, vintage clothing (70’s and 80’s being my favorites), 90’s and 2000’s cartoons, drake and josh, family guy, South Park, bobs burgers, Philadelphia eagles, Washington capitals and nationals, history, and my pre workout
Personality- Introvert with a dash of randomness once you get to know me.
Favorite bands- The Strokes, stone temple pilots, Steve miller band, deep purple, Boston, Beatles, linkin park, the cure, blondie etc.
Favorite movies- Collateral, commando, terminator, John wick, 007, heat, con air, aliens, saving private Ryan, marvel and dc movies, Disney movies, etc
Fun Fact- I am an expert at Geoguessr lol
What I’m looking for is someone I can confide to, share laughs with, distance doesn’t matter we just gotta meet at one point. Isn’t narcissistic or rude.
Once again here trying to find my right one. I'm a bbw that is looking to find my soulmate, my one and only. I've only had the wrong type of people approaching me so I'm posting here once again. I'm into smaller sized guys than me (I mean slimmer not shorter, I'm 5'3 btw), dad bods too. I prefer east Asians (please no south Asians, you're wasting your time). So if you're into bbw and something serious reach out to me, I'd love to get to know you 😊
Preferably a man of traditional values (provider/SAHM) will be more to my preference. Age preference 28 to 40. I have a full dating cv of myself that I'm willing to share below. Have a nice day ✌️ https://i.imgur.com/3LAgKEn.jpeg
Flight attendant based in Hong Kong. Have a thing for girls with incredibly pale skin, freckles, gingers. Introverted, homebody, maybe even a hermit. Can be kinky, love making you grool. Hope to find a long term partner.
Thank you for stopping by this post! I'm Japanese living in France and I'm new here.
That would be nice if I could find someone that I can connect with while going out, exploring and having coffee!
Please message me if you feel the same with me!
Hi! I am 30 YO Born White Female/genderfluid/Depends on the day person, Alt Nerd, wow that was a mouth full, I go by any Pronouns. I posted before on other subreddits but quickly got overwhelmed by all the messages and busy with life so if I don’t respond quickly, apologies! I had no idea this subreddit existed, my longest relationship was with an AMWF dynamic and it was one,if not the best relationship I've had.
More things about me: I was born and raised in New England, I currently live in ME, But have lived in Washington state(1 Year), NYC (5 years MY FAVORITE PLACE) and England(6 Months) I am a Metal Head(Sleep Token,BMTH,DGD ect. I am an “Elder Emo”. I have some piercings and tattoos and need MOAR. I tend to go from Goth GF/BF to kawaii pastel to Adam Sandler, I’m short , blue eyes, and curves, I am a parent to a 2 YO I have signed up for some dating apps but BAD VIBES MAN, So much anxiety. I am a HUGE gamer, Gaming is VERY important to me(Music taste is important too but this is the biggest one as long as you are open!). I have a steam Library of over 700 games, am I going to stop buying them? No, Do I have a problem? Probably.
I love coffee and sweets But my belly does not I am a picky eater. I am bad at spelling and grammar as you can tell I am Neurospicy, I also have POTS so sometimes it hard for me to do some activities I am DemiSexual, I am Basically a cat give me all the affection then don’t touch me. I would say My personality is very bubbly but does not fit my look. I have no Volume control, it goes from quiet to loud very quickly, I am a Homebody and an Introvert but like going out as well. Coffee keeps me alive and banter is my love language. I work In healthcare. I am a work in progress but I have come far.
What I am looking for: A deep connection that ultimately turns into a friendship and then a relationship, someone to talk to through out the day. Someone who doesnt mind Banter. I dont mind LDR but I dont plan on leaving New England so if we are in it for the long haul, you would probably be the one moving unless you some how convince me but prefer the Northeast. Ive moved so much in my life i want to stay put haha! I have a hard time getting attached to people but once I do, I’m in it for the long haul. A gamer is important to me and someone who does not despise kids as I have one of my own, also not planning on Anymore but who knows. Honesty and Communication are VITAL. Bonus points if you are a gamer/Alt/Metal head. I am an open book, If I peak your interest tell me a little bit about yourself, what you look like, and let me know.
Hi! I am a medical student in the Midwest and am passionate about healthcare and science.
When I'm not studying, I enjoy playing piano, cooking, working out and running, reading, road trips. I'm always looking for new recipes, so let me know your favorites. My favorite TV shows are The Office and Big Bang Theory, and my favorite movies are LOTR and The Hobbit trilogies. I'm always looking for new recommendations on what to watch or read.
In terms of personality, I am chill, friendly, and ambitious. I’ve also been told that I am a good listener. Height and weight wise I am 5'10 and 150.
Send me a chat or dm if you'd like to talk more. Tell me about your goals and aspirations. I'm open to exchanging pictures as well
preferably locals but beggars can’t be choosers
Hey 👋
I'm a 26 year old living in the greater Boston area. I'm currently in the process of job hunting/relocating out of New England (will probably create a new post with my location after I move)
I'd love to talk to someone- I am super chatty online if we vibe haha 😄 - while I'm in this transition period of waiting to get a new job and move. I'm not really looking for anything serious or outright long term but it's fun to learn new things from people.
I'd prefer not to send my face picture immediately, however I am fat/chubby whatever term you want to use so if talking to a fat person is not your thing totally understand!
My hobbies include hiking, house plant care, yoga, going on walks, watching true crime videos, and I've been trying to get into reading again. My current job interfaces with Asia teams often, I've been to China, Taiwan, Malaysia for work this year and it's been interesting to experience different cultures.
Forgot to add that I'm not a kpop or anime person, I don't know any of those references, sorry in advance!
Hi, nice to meet you! I’m based in Massachusetts, but I work remotely, so relocating to be closer to the right person wouldn’t be a problem. I came here from Taiwan two years ago for my master’s degree, graduated, and have been enjoying life and work here ever since!
I’m 34, 5'10", and around 170 pounds. Staying active and enjoying the simple things in life are a big part of who I am. I’m all about down-to-earth activities: working out, playing basketball and soccer, spending time at the beach, exploring mountains, and trying new food. Traveling and discovering new places are also high on my list. Quality time is my love language, and I’m hoping to find someone who values meaningful connections.
I’m looking for someone who’s into health and staying active, ideally under my age. I’m hoping to meet someone open to deep conversations and real connections—a genuine person interested in building a long-term foundation together. I’m open to long-distance if you’re within the U.S. and up for consistent, sincere connection.
If any of this resonates, feel free to reach out! I’d love to get to know you better and see where things go. Looking forward to it!
I'm your typical asian guy whith short black hair, glasses and I'm 182cm if that matters, on the chubbier side. I never fell in love nor have a GF before even though I clearly wasn't against it.
I'm the perfect example of the introverted guy who prefered spending time on video games, mangas/animes and drawing instead of developping social skills (do I regret this though ? No). Please at least like one of these thing, that would give us something to talk about.
I currently work in web development and before I used to study paleontology.
I guess what I'm looking for is a woman interested in chatting and seeing if it could become more than that (unfortunately, I'm better at answering than leading a conversation).. Don't expect me to be the only one to try initiating convo too, if you are not interested anymore just say it.
I would prefer finding someone near me, but I'm not against a LDR.
That pretty much sums it up, if you are interested or want to know more feel free to send me a DM/chat or ask for my discord.
Hi everybody! I'm looking for someone to have some fun :) would love to find a one night stand or fwb😊
A little about me:
A little about you:
If you’re interested, please pm me and let’s chat!
I have been working towards finding a relationship and thought I'd try here again. I am a big gamer nerd that enjoys anime but is probably living in the wrong province for those interests 😅 I feel like I have a lot of love to give and am actively looking for a companion to go on cute dates with, cosplay at conventions together and someone I can come home to. If there are any cute women who also enjoy the nerdy weeby kinds of things please DM me! Prefer something more local but I'm open to chatting with anyone out there! Other info about me: 5'5, an average looking body, glasses, have a car and can drive
Here in sunny London until Q1 2025 then I'll be moving to Dubai for a new job and will relocate for 2 years. Ideal if you live in London or in Europe so I can travel to you before I leave for Middle East or if you're already in Dubai or nearby we can chat to see if we have chemistry and meet once I relocate. I'm in good shape with slim physique, brown eyes, black hair and your pic gets mine