/r/r4rasian
An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians.
An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians. For reference on what constitutes an Asian person, see this Wikipedia page.
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Just testing the waters here. Hit me up on telegram with a selfie. I’ll reciprocate. Asian fit girl. Yoga. Swimming. Pocha hopping.
Telegram sushinyc2022
Send a selfie if you message. I like to know who I’m talking to
Id love to find some fun friends for some regular casual fun or a relationship. Kinky and open minded. Down for solo or group play in and out of the bedroom.
I was wondering if there are any Redditors in California. Pinoy here! Near Cerritos. I recently moved here and wanting to meet new friends here and get boba!!! Down to drink, get dinner or just smoke up and chill. Looking for people who wants to play billards! I think im pretty okay but i wanna learn more. Ill pay for the tables! I know a good place in Buena Park
G for anything basically. Hoping for kind souls there.
About me 5'9 Medium build Fair complexion Works in the creative field Into running Into mma Listens to k pop
Hello ladies of Reddit,
I’ll be in town this evening and I have a fwb who enjoys playing with both men and women. I’d love to surprise her with someone we can both play with, but primarily for her.
I’m 41, 5’10 and Asian She’s 40, 5’4 and Caucasian
Happy to grab a drink first and see what vibe we have and if things go well, we can take it from there.
ISO of someone in the district who doesn’t mind grabbing a drink/trying out a new restaurant on the weekends, as well as have a movie night. Also looking for a FWB if we click. 27 fit wm professional. Enjoy watching prem soccer, going to the gym/hiking the state parks, and catching up on the plethora of Apple TV shows out there. Chat is open so lmk!
As the titles says lmao, 7", fit and nerdy interests lol dm me :)
Hey there! I'm a 30-year-old male, Chinese, and I'm looking to meet someone who could turn into something meaningful. I’m generally drawn to East Asians, but I’m open-minded and believe chemistry can come from anywhere.
I enjoy spending time getting to know people on a deeper level and value honesty, trust, and shared laughter. Some of my hobbies include camping, fishing, golf, motorcycle, cars and I love trying new things.
I’m looking for someone who’s also open to building something long-term, where we can connect emotionally and see where things go from there.
Hmu if you're looking for something similar. 😊
Heyo there I'm looking for someone to play games or maybe to just talk with. I'd prefer someone clingy because I'm looking for something longterm. I don't ghost people so I'd like the same in return but I guess that's sort of unrealistic.
Stuff about me.
Half asian half white. 5'11. I play the saxophone and clarinet though I'm pretty mediocre. Have a degree in account though I don't know anything nor am I working. Dark humor and very sarcastic so be ready I guess (::.
Games that I play.
League of Legends and tft. Currently masters in tft and pretty much just play arams in regular league.
Stardew, Minecraft, Terraria, Corekeeper, poe 2, bg3, pokemon, 7 days to die, valheim and palworld .
Those are the games that immediately come to mind but I play a bunch of other random stuff and I'm open to trying new games.
I prefer using discord to chat though we can use something else. Also I guess it goes without saying but be 18+.
29 M4F Dom Asian looking for hot Asian Fob girl as fwb. Looking for someone who’s Chinese/Korean Fob girls and someone who’s submissive and sexually compatible. Hoping to develop into a long term thing.
Im 6’2 and fit (East Asian), run and work out regularly, above average looks. Can host from time to time, send a dm if interested and we can exchange details.
Hello there,
I'm looking for some nice and fun people to chat with. Just went through a break up and want to get my mind off it. We can talk about anything and everything. Open to SFW and NSFW.
Do you have discord? Or play PoE2? Or have a Disneyland pass? Let's talk and chat! :)
A little about me:
Korean-American
5'11
Flip flop between INFJ and INFP lol
Corpo slave
21+ only.
Thank you for reading and hope to talk soon :)
hi guys! 21M korean american here, finishing up my last semester of college. while i've done sexual things before, i've never actually done the deed and am looking to change that. 5 10, black hair, brown eyes, 170 pounds, and extremely kind and a good conversationalist. very caring, sweet, and down for whatever! also can host, let's talk and get to know each other!
Do Asian Men ever give Latinas attention? Like ever? Lol I haven’t been able to find a single man who does. Or that can handle it. If you’re interested: 28+ , Asian, and can hold a conversation. 😘
Casual. Deep. Whatever you like.
Hello, I'm looking for a local and genuine friend with benefits. Mates dates, cuddles, making out and giving you multiple orgasms.
I'm introverted and a little shy but very easy going, funny, sweet and can keep a conversation going. No kids, never married. Born and raised in London. 5ft7, 74 kg, 32inch waist, black hair, brown eyes, stubble, bespectacled, cute smile, sweet looking, average build, smell nice everywhere, caramel skin tone (south Asian). Look late 20s. Cut, thick and just under 7" down below.
Sexually, versatile leaning towards dominant. Love foreplay, delicate touching, nipple sucking, feet/footjobs. I've got great stamina (~90min). Been told that I'm a great kisser and taste good down below (I leak a lot of pre cm). My favourite position is missionary but dggy makes me c*m a 2nd time.
You: nice personality, easy going, taller or shorter than me. Any weight, ethnicity, religion. Between 24 and 45. I don't mind if you are hairy either.
Message me your age, a bit about you and your favourite colour if interested. Post will remain up until someone genuine found.
A little detail about me, I'm a college student my physical appearance is average 5'3 height body type is slim I'm tan I sometimes working out with my weight (whenever I feel haha) I do love cooking and reading books. And I'm also fan of Doramas/Japanese drama and anime.
I don't have hard requirements on guys just a matured one.
I'm a 25-year-old guy who's looking for a relationship with a woman between the ages of 22 and 28. I've made a few friends on Reddit but this is the first time I'm seeking something romantic. You have no idea how much courage it took for me to write all this, let alone post it.
Just to save you the trouble of reading through this essay of a post before deciding if I'm worth it, here are some things to consider about me:
If you're okay with all of the above, let's get into the meat of things!
2024 was eventful for me in many ways as I put a lot of work into taking back the control I lost thanks to my depression and anxiety, such as getting back into my hobbies. Full transparency, I'm still far from happy with myself but I'm really trying to tell myself that progress is progress.
Here are some of my hobbies and interests:
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TV Series and Movies:
I'm primarily into DC and Marvel series and movies and have watched most of them.
Gaming:
I got back into gaming last year but I'm still on and off with it due to being busy. Here's a list of some games I finished playing in 2024 and 2025.
Other games/game franchises I'm into include Minecraft, Crash Bandicoot and The Sims. I also just started playing Stardew Valley. I hope to finish more games in my backlog this year.
Despite having a big backlog, I've sort of fallen down a rabbit hole of indie games I want to get. :P I think it scratches an itch in my brain to keep learning about new games.
Reading:
I got back into reading last year and was able to finish reading the Percy Jackson series and its two sequel series. I just started reading The Maze Runner.
I also read through the Hunger Games series in 2022 and became a fan.
Music:
I have a wide taste in music but here are some of my favorite artists/bands:
I'd be more than happy to swap songs and/or playlists with you!
Other:
This is more of a habit than a hobby, I suppose, but I also journal daily and have kept up a 980-ish-day streak.
I've also been trying to do a lot of self-discovery lately. I'm currently filling up a self-love workbook, bit by bit every day (or more like once every few days :P). I'm basically still trying to find myself. I have my eye on some other self-love/self-discovery books to get in the future. Maybe you can call it another interest of mine?
I have a background in Computer Science and spend some of my free time doing web development challenges to sharpen my skills. I'm a Master's student who should be graduating soon. I've also applied for jobs to no success.
What am I looking for?
I want someone I can confide in and talk to about anything and everything: our interests, our secrets, how our day went…
I don't subscribe to the traditional view that the man should lead the relationship. I'm infinitely more interested in being partners, taking on the world and our problems together.
I'm a romantic at heart (you should see all the stuff I've saved from all over the internet!) so I want someone I can love deeply (after we've gotten to know each other better) and who can love me back the same; someone I can say mushy things to or do mushy things with.
I consider myself a good listener so you can vent or yap to me about anything!
I also want someone who's understanding and compassionate as I have a lot of self-esteem issues and a slew of health issues, some of which I'm getting treatment for and others which I'm stuck with for life.
I could say more but I'd rather reveal that in our chats. I've revealed more about myself than I'm usually comfortable with in a public setting, anyway. XD
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If you've made it this far into the post, thank you for reading. :) Hope to hear from you! Maybe you can start the DM by mentioning what we have in common? I may take time to respond but I will respond as long as you're being respectful.
Life has been terrible lately. I just want someone who can make things feel okay and take care of me. Maybe we could feel less lonely.
What you’ll get:
What I’m looking for:
If you’re interested, shoot me a DM with a little intro about yourself. Let’s chat and see where it goes!
Heyo there I'm looking for someone to play games or maybe to just talk with. I'd prefer someone clingy because I'm looking for something longterm. I don't ghost people so I'd like the same in return but I guess that's sort of unrealistic.
Stuff about me.
Half asian half white. 5'11. I play the saxophone and clarinet though I'm pretty mediocre. Have a degree in account though I don't know anything nor am I working. Dark humor and very sarcastic so be ready I guess (::.
Games that I play.
League of Legends and tft. Currently masters in tft and pretty much just play arams in regular league.
Stardew, Minecraft, Terraria, Corekeeper, poe 2, bg3, pokemon, 7 days to die, valheim and palworld .
Those are the games that immediately come to mind but I play a bunch of other random stuff and I'm open to trying new games.
I prefer using discord to chat though we can use something else. Also I guess it goes without saying but be 18+.
Tired of making all the decisions? Ready to let someone else take charge—completely? If the idea of control, TPE (Total Power Exchange), bondage, pee play, and even a little pain excites you, we might just be a perfect match. After all, a red ass is a lovely sight, don’t you think?
I’m 26, experienced, and looking for subs who crave structure, rules, and the thrill of surrendering control. Whether it’s your wardrobe, schedule, tasks, or even how you spend your free time, I’m ready to shape your routine and keep you in line.
What I’m into: Control – Your choices become my decisions. TPE – Long-term dynamic? Absolutely. Bondage – Restraint in all its forms. Pee Play – If that’s your thing, we’ll make it fun. Pain – Just enough to keep you on edge and wanting more.
Limits? No blood, scat, or age play.
Whether you’re new and curious or already know what submission means to you, I’m open to building something exciting. If this sounds like what you’re looking for, DM me, and let’s talk.
Are you ready to let go and obey?
Looking for a girl who is willing to drain my balls for me. Whether you wanna suck my cock or fuck its up to you! Im 5’11 175lbs. Not super picky about age or anything either. Let me know what your favorite color is so i know you read this as well lol. Thank you for reading
Hey everyone!
Feeling bored? Looking for someone fun to chat with? Well, lucky you—you just found me! 😉 As the title suggests, I’m on the lookout for someone to talk to about literally anything under the sun. Got a random thought? A hot take? A weird but interesting fact? I’m all ears. I love listening to people ramble about whatever’s on their mind, and I’m always up for a fun, easygoing conversation.
So, if you’re in the mood for some witty banter, deep talks, or just need a distraction from life, my DMs are open—don’t be shy! Who knows? We might just vibe. 😏
A few facts about me (because my last post got removed for being too short, lol):
Now that you know a little about me, your turn! Shoot me a message and let’s see where this goes. 😏
Hey everyone! I'm here looking for someone to chat/talk with on a daily basis. Something consistent that may possibly lead to more? Friends or someone to really connect with I'm open for either. It can be NSFW or SFW. (primarily looking for NSFW). If all goes well I'm not opposed to meeting up. I can fly out anywhere.
I'm full Chinese. Fluent in English, Cantonese, and learning a bit of Korean. I travel quite often for work so if I respond late please take no offense! Changing time zones often puts my sleep schedule out of wack. If I'm not traveling I'm back home working or in my room sleeping lol. I like k-pop, hop hop, anime, manga, working out, I'm a big foodie but I have to watch the weight!
We can chat here, disc0rd, sn@p, or tel3gram! Looking forward to hearing from you.
Hi everyone! I'm posting here to hopefully find someone who's into the same stuff as I am! I value connection and friendship a lot - while I'm looking for a FWB, I'm also open to something that could develop into a committed relationship over time.
Here's more about me: I'm 25, 176cm or 5'9", 65kg or 145lbs, and I grew up in Singapore! I currently live in Manchester (UK) but I travel a lot - so even if you're pretty far away there's a decent chance I might be near you soon :)
Onto my hobbies and interests - I really like music, musicals, anime, sci-fi books and movies, hiking, skiing and a whole lot more! I also love reelbombing my friends on instagram with all sorts of stuff - from cute animals to random funny facts to the most cursed memes that shouldn't have seen the light of day :)) I'm also open to trying all sorts of new stuff - if there's anything you'd love to geek out about I'd love to hear all about it!
Now let's get on to the juicy info >:) I'm a gentle dom with some experience, and I promise I'll be respectful of boundaries and consent! But once we're comfortable enough with intimacy, here's what I'm into:
Here's some of my preferences, but these are not at all dealbreakers. Bonus points if you:
Once again these are not dealbreakers - I value emotional connection more than physical attributes!
If you're interested, do drop me a chat or message with your ASL (age, sex, location)!
p.s. here's a faceless, mildly NSFW pic of me :)
p.p.s. even if I'm not your type or vice versa, feel free to drop me a message just to chat - I'm always open to making new friends or talking about literally anything with anyone.
Looking for the special one!
I play sports and lift weights. I also play video games so ask me about it!
I am a foodie! Ex competitive eater or still is maybe!
Travel with me! Or travel to me? Prefer local but open to long distance
34m / 5 10” / East Asian
Hey all - I have been lurking for a while and wanted to post finally. I wanted to find someone to connect with and be friends with first. I love the idea of being good for someone and simping for someone and would love to explore that side with someone. I am kind of new to the city so would love to explore and hang out too if we hit it off. I am into cooking and football and anime, and taking aesthetic pictures ( even tho I suck at them haha ) Bonus points if you can teach me about skincare lol. Anyway, looking forward to hearing from you - Cheers!
heyy! im m19 and ive never gotten a blowjob before. ive never been with a woman before either to be completely honest. i was just hoping to find someone who would be interested in trying to help me out. i would be willing to do whatever you would want to do as well. im just looking for a fun first experience and to get to learn a little bit from you.
about me: 5’11 170lbs and i like to cook, go out with my friends, play video games, watch tv shows, hiking, and traveling
thank you if you read this far and please let me know if you would be interested!
Ideally seeking someone who is interested in both dating and having lots of kinky fun together. We could go on cute dates and end the night with some naughty fun.
Hi! I hope you're having a good day. This might be a long shot but I figured I post and cross my fingers. I am 31M Asian 5'11 225lbs HWP, tatted, located in Oakland. I am looking for a long-term relationship but I'm not oppose to short term / casual / FWB. Dating apps haven’t been doing it for me lately, so... here I am :')
A few things about me and some things I enjoy:
Just to put it out there, I tend to prefer other Asians and someone younger than me but please don't let that deter you if you think we'll be a good fit. Thanks for reading!
Hi, I’m 28m, fit, working professional, Overland Park area, looking for something discrete. Recently my married affair partner got caught by her husband. She had to stop talking to me to save her marriage. So I’m looking for someone new to get to know, and potentially have some fun with. I’m a nerd at heart but I also love to drink, go out, and have a good time. Fitness is important to me as I try to take care of my body. Career is also important for me and I hope that you have career goals or other goals too. Let’s talk on here and potentially meet up sometime if the vibe is right. I prefer that you be in a relationship as well. I don’t have kids, and I live a busy life so you have to be okay with me not responding for some periods of time. But I will always respond eventually. Also I’m also not trying to change your situation and you should also be okay with keeping this as a side thing. We have one life so we should make the most of it even if it’s having fun with random internet strangers online lol. Drop me a message if you’re interested in talking more…
I’ve been super busy with work lately and been wanting to meet some new people to chat with! On top of wanting to just chat and start connections, I have a pretty high sex drive so looking to have some online fun and maybe in person if you’re nearby!