/r/r4rasian

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An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians.

An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians. For reference on what constitutes an Asian person, see this Wikipedia page.

Ethnicity may be included in the title or description. As with anything else, please remain respectful of all posters and commenters.

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Moderators reserve the right to remove posts and/or ban users upon their discretion.

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24 [M4F] #Singapore be my pillow princess tonight

hey! im a 180cm 65kg athletic chi guy, looking for a girl who is keen to get teased, played with and eaten out for however long you want. have been told my fingering game is pretty good btw :p

im relatively chill and decent looking, feel free to message me with an intro to discuss more! we can chat for abit to see how we vibe - or we can skip straight to the fun too

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2024/05/12
09:26 UTC

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37 [M4F] (Scotland) Half Japanese looking for a nice lady to chat to

Hi! I'm 37 m Scotland, but look much younger.

I'm half Japanese, fluent in Japanese!

I'm 6ft tall, slim and in good physical shape, decent looking, longish black hair, green eyes...

I'm looking for a lovely lady to chat to. SFW or NSFW, whatever you're comfortable with.

We could talk about all things Japan, music, arts, travelling, fun things, and something sexy if you want to.

Pics available upon request. I'm discreet & respectful.

DM if you're interested. If not have a lovely weekend! :)

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2024/05/12
09:06 UTC

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32 [M4F] - LA - Looking for fun :)

Hello - Making a late night post to see if anyone might be up :)

I’m a 32M Asian American living in the LA area and seeing if there’s someone who is also looking for some fun as well.

A little about me - born and raised in SoCal, currently working in the corporate world, work out 2-3x a week, and love eating all types of foods. Also been thinking of going to EDC and need someone to convince me to go!

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2024/05/12
08:05 UTC

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28 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for fwb

Hello! I’m looking to make friends mainly, but would be really nice if we can be more (benefit) and fill each others’ needs from time to time. Preferably asian but also open for others honestly.

I’m southeast asian, 5’6, working full time in tech. I moved to LA from Europe not too long ago by my self for work. Still exploring this big city, so would like to make more friends to hang out with. I do workout, not big muscular or anything, but definitely not out of shape, used to play a lot of sports at school. I am into music, like to go to concerts and play guitar myself.

Hmu if you’re interested! :)

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2024/05/12
07:49 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Online / Just a guy here looking for someone to connect with and be a good simp for!

Have you ever been in a place where you wanted something stable. A best friend or a boyfriend that'd listen to you and care for you, but at the same time you get to be a slut as much as you wanted. I mean, Surely no girl would want a simp bf who'd wait for her as she cucks him by getting pounded by bigger guys.. Right? And well if you do, hi.. :p

Hey there! Today I'm looking for someone to explore role reversal and maybecuckolding with online. It could just be a chat, or if we connect, we can even try it fr? Who knows.

I'm kinda looking for a situation where we'd both connect, and just talk about our days. Or maybe we could just be dating too. And I'd be all loyal to you. But in the meantime, you get to explore as much as you'd want. We'd get all the emotional support and friendship from each other. And with the sexual aspect, I'd like you to take control of it. That's pretty much the ideal scenario but it can go how we want it to be

I really love the whole mental aspect of this so feel free to go as wild as you can. Anyway, if you're looking to talk, feel free to message me. And i know it's obvious, BUT NO GUYS PLS

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2024/05/12
07:34 UTC

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27[F4M] - Asian/American girl looking for chats and to explore

Hello I’m asian american girl (eng)looking for people to chat with and explore lives together . I prefer older but any age 18+ is okay too

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2024/05/12
07:33 UTC

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23 [F4M] #Chicago, Any man down to meet and hit things off this week.

I'm looking for a fuckbuddy, I mean we explore each others kinks and just go out ways till the next time, not important youre experience, just be cool and down to have fun 😊

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2024/05/12
07:16 UTC

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26 [F4M] anywhere - looking for online fun

any sexy men out there looking for a fun chat? if so, plz dm me. 26, f, latina/black mix.

3 Comments
2024/05/12
07:03 UTC

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24 [M4F] #Singapore sit back and let me do the work

looking for girls who need a release. will pleasure you until you’re satisfied - no reciprocation needed! occasionally able to host, drop me a message with your stats and what youre looking for!

about me: athletic chi guy, 180cm tall. chill and easy going, open minded too 😉

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2024/05/12
06:42 UTC

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20 [m4f] NorCal/Online - college student looking for a friend, hopefully with benefits (:

I hope you are having a great day.

Im half Filipino half white (:

In short, I’m just looking to make friends that want to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (: looking for someone to do casual stuff with so we can both have our needs fulfilled with zero strings attached!

Hopefully you’re closish so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:

Here’s the about me since I know you don’t wanna waste your time on someone that doesn’t fit ur type.

6’, black curly hair, tan, pretty average all around. Not shredded but definitely not out of shape. It’s my 2nd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.

I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have. Like I said above, I’m open to keeping something together online if that’s all you want to do for now.

I look forward to getting to know you (:

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2024/05/12
06:22 UTC

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30 [M4F] #California -I would like a fun friend or girlfriend

I would like a fun friend or girlfriend, hopefully someone that likes anime or videogames. I would hope we have a lot in common. Someone entertaining, someone that gets my attention.

Bonus if you are also Armenian.

Coffee and alcohol is ok but no drugs especially any type of smoking.

About me. I am Armenian (Armenian American) I like video games (PC gamer) and watching anime. I like all kinds of music When it comes to TV and movies I like comedy and action. My favorite animal is any almost any type of penguin. I would love to go to Japan.

For some people it's not important but I like to look up comparability for fun. I am a Virgo and a rooster.

If you like video games board games, card games, we can play together and have fun. Game I am playing the most lately is fallout 76 and fallout 3. I like playing uno or monopoly other games in an offline setting.

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2024/05/12
05:09 UTC

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27 [M4F] Singapore/Online Long-term FWB

I'm just looking for someone that I can have a nice chat about our day, how life is going, with occasional sexual stuff in between. Having that personal connection makes anything we share just that much more special and fun. Ideally that includes NSFW stuff, but even if it doesn't, it's always good fun to be flirty.

Little about me: Ethinically chinese, timezone is GMT +8, 180cm tall or 5'11, besides the regular stuff like gaming and movies/TV I also build model kits.

So yeah hmu, love to know more about you. Doesn't neccessarily have to start off sexual, since like I said, I'm looking long-term so even if it's not tonight that's perfectly fine.

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2024/05/12
05:00 UTC

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35 [M4F] NYC - Looking for a shy kinky slut to tie up

Me: 5'8, 140lbs. Japanese tattoos. Look kinda young for my age. Gentleman with bdsm tendencies. DM for pic.

Let me unleash my demons on you

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2024/05/12
04:38 UTC

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21[M4F] South Asian, Is there any Muslim slut who wants to be degraded or railed by a 7 inches.

Just dm me my Pakistani slut and I am all yours.

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2024/05/12
04:37 UTC

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31 [M4F] #SanJose - Dating apps have been full of those international crypto scammers

Title. The scammers seem way more abundant nowadays. Kinda sucks.

Looking for someone to talk to. Pretty bored on a Saturday night. Interested in dating but if the feeling is mutual why not?

I'm a Single Asian Male working in Tech living with his old man of a dog. 5'11, definitely fell out of shape. A gal I spoke to recently said I fall under the cute chubby type lol

I have a wide range of interest: Video Games (Helldivers 2, Valorant, Strategy/Roguelike games, Chess, Puzzles, almost anything coop), Cooking (living alone means I should cook. I explore new recipes here and there when I find something interesting on YouTube), documentaries (True Crime, history), Board Game Fanatic. I generally prefer to do something with company I enjoy than do something by myself. Make memories with others in your life. Just a brief list of things I am into.

Hoping to talk to someone around my age and local to the East / South Bay. Shoot me a line! Tell me what you got going on this weekend! Even if it's just errands and laundry lol

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2024/05/12
04:37 UTC

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23 [M4F] Omaha/Online - emo nerd

So I’m not exactly sure what to say here but I’m just gonna wing it lol.

Some tags to see if you want to keep reading lol: Slowdive, Visual Kei, Goth, Dostoevsky, Camus, anime, dogs, guitar

So hey :) I would describe myself as a lover of all things art, from music to digital and physical art, I just think it’s almost intertwined with the human experience in a sense. Im not great at making it myself but if you are I’d 100% love to see your work lol.

I also really like to listen and learn about people, it’s great to see someone become excited and nerd out about the things they love 😭 lol. Once you find out about someone’s niche interests and the little special things that makes them them it’s like you understand them on a deeper level and I think that’s always something worth pursuing with any kind of relationship.

So music is probably my biggest passion, it’s always been a big part of my life and it makes life seem so beautiful, I can’t imagine not listening to it. I’m really into alternative genres like goth and shoegaze, but I’ll just list a few of my favorite bands here instead of talking your ear off about it all lmao:

The Cure, The Smiths, Slowdive, Aphex Twin, Mojave 3, Lebanon Hanover

Also I’m from the us and I’m Korean if that matters at all, I’d love to meet someone and learn about their culture or just them in general. There’s more to say but I think it might be cooler just to chat in DMs to get to know each other. I’m also only looking for people around my age, thank you :)

Forgot to say my favorite movie is fallen angels lol

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2024/05/12
04:31 UTC

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24 [M4F] #Toronto, anyone in the mood to see some big Asian cock?

Hit me up if you’ve never seen one hehe

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2024/05/12
04:30 UTC

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28 [M4F] California/Online - Audio and Chill?

Helloooo

Me: 28 Asian (East Asian), Attractive voice, fit, works in finance (investment management), loves music (I play guitar and piano!), and enjoys random conversations.

Life’s been pretty boring, I’m just looking for random strangers to talk to over audio (open to SFW convos). Down to talk about anything. :). I’m chill to talk to!!

Oh, I used to be a cam boy (ask about it 🫡)… so if you’re into watching while we have an audio call, I’m up for it… 😅😅. ISTG I’m hot, LOL. Inquire within 👀

Message me with your age and ethnicity~~~~~

Bonus points if you know the name of this song (lyrics below): “feel like summer and I don’t want to miss you, if we don’t touch lips not an issue, I don’t want to talk ‘bout nobody else, know I said no love but I want to”.

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2024/05/12
04:12 UTC

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22[m4f] San Francisco/Online - looking to make connections :)

Hi r4rasian, looking for some connections with people around my age in the bay area! Being a newly graduated student, I recently moved back home and I’m just missing a bit of that social life from college so I figured I’d make a post on here! I’m not specifically looking for a relationship but I am open to one if there’s something there, but mainly just looking to meet new people. A lil about me: into sports and the gym, likes going to raves on occasion, big fan of anime and manga, likes outdoorsy stuff and into pc games like valorant! If you’re interested, send a message :)

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2024/05/12
03:43 UTC

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22 [M4F] #California/online Looking for more…

Hiii East Asian college student here. Not looking for something that serious but not opposed to all ideas. I’m just here looking for someone to hang out with while also sharing a sexual connection. I guess fwb type of relationship but also willing to do pg related activities. I’m 5’8 and 155 pounds. I go to the gym, like video games, and food. Let me know if you’re interested and I’m down to trade socials or pics!

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2024/05/12
03:29 UTC

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22 [F4M] Anywhere - Any mature guys around?

Hello everyone! My name is Anna, I am 22 years and from the Netherlands (but casting my web worldwide as I will explain later). I’m blonde, quite tall with 5’7” and I am quite active. I love to go snowboarding, wakeboarding, and you can often find me in the gym or on the treadmill.

Right now I am finishing my undergrad in life sciences. Once I’m done later this year I have two deep wishes. 1) I finally want to visit Asia! I love traveling but never made it there. 2) I want to spend a few weeks in the USA exploring different cities because I’d love to do my postgrad somewhere there. I studied one semester in the UK which was incredible and I hope to do this again but now in the USA.

As to what ‘type’ I’m into it’s quite broad. Well I am generally attracted to older guys, or at least guys who are mature enough to know what they want and have a good conversation. I’m not gonna put an exact number on it but if you could be my dad we’re still ok, if you could be my grandad probably not lol. I’m also usually not really into K-pop type of guys who are all stylised and perfect. I’m more into guys next door, like someone who could be your friendly neighbour or someone you run into in the supermarket lol. Also - not a must - but I like guys with a bit of meat around the bones.

More details about me. I guess I’m a typical Dutch person lol. I love cheese, I cycle everywhere, and I can be quite straight to the point (if it’s too direct you can totally just tell me straight to my face). I also looove spicy food. Last month I tried Sichuan food for the first time and my mind and taste buds were blown away. I've also started trying to learn Mandarin last year but it's damn hard.

If you’re interested to just get to know each other then please reach out. Since I do have a few travel plans I’d be happy to talk to people all over the world because you might become my reason to visit your city or country haha. As a few conversation starters, here are some suggestions:

  • What’s your name and age?
  • Can you describe your looks and body type?
  • Which country in Asia should I absolutely travel to after graduation and why?
  • What’s your favourite subreddit on here?
  • What are your kinks if you have any?

Oh yeah I’m a night owl by the way lol so time difference might not be that much of an issue

PS. If your response to a long post like this is "hey" then we're probably not going to be a match.

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2024/05/12
03:16 UTC

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26[M4R] USA EST Korean med student looking for a gaming/anime friend!

Hey all my name is Sungmin. I'm a Korean dude living in Boston and I have a bunch of downtime currently. I work on weekends but I'm mostly free during the weekdays, so I have a lot of time on my hands, at least until I go off to med school in August. Just thought it would be nice to have some friends to play games with and chat whenever I'm bored. I mostly play league, any aram enjoyers here? I used to be pretty high rank but i get summoners rift anxiety so I play mostly arams, but i miss 5 stack sr too. I also play warframe and tekken here and there.

I also have gotten back into anime and have been watching a lot with my gf, so we can talk about that too. Currently watching spice and wolf remake, blue lock, dungeon meshi, and mushoku tensei

It would be nice if you also work in healthcare since we would know the struggles haha. I work in a psych inpatient unit things can get pretty crazy in there.

I'm looking for strictly for platonic things since I have a gf.

I hope to make lots of good friends!

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2024/05/12
03:02 UTC

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37 [M4R] #Socal / California - Looking for new friends! We can voicechat, watch shows/movies/anime, or play games!

Edit: forgot to update my age. I just turned 38 this month. 😅

Hi hi there! Been finding myself kind of lonely and friendless lately and late so I'm trying to make some new connections out here. Whether it be platonic (with men or women) or if it goes that way naturally, I'm also open to maybe something more (with women only). Just be honest what you're looking for is all I'm asking. Definitely more of an introvert but I can be a yapper! (don't say I didn't warn ya)

Some info about me that might be relevant:

  • I'm of Southeast Asian descent

  • Born and raised in Southern California

  • Raised Buddhist but I'm not religious at all

  • I love reading fantasies, manga, manhwa, manhua, sci-fi, horror, and poorly written web novels

  • Hit me up if you wanna game sometimes! I play mostly on PC nowadays (I'm up for some Minecraft, Stardew, Grounded, Valheim, other open world survival and co-op games)

  • Currently focused on self-improvement (going back to school to finish up ny degree in CS, try to socialize more, working out, being open to new experiences, being more mindful and just generally a better person)

  • Been trying to pick up new hobbies Anybody got any suggestions?

  • Big fan of crime procedural shows for some reason (Criminal Minds, Numbers, Psych), cartoons like Furturama/Avatar:TLA, Rick and Morty, Simpsons, ect and anime (I used to be a huge weeb), shows like Friends, Psych, Numbers, ect.

Looking for someone chill and more laid back to chat with. We can game, watch shows/movies or just talk. Maybe we can even meet one day! We can hit up an arcade, get some korean bbq or watch something together if we vibe well together! Please send me a message with some info about yourself if you wanna chat! :]

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2024/05/12
02:13 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Vancouver,BC - Tatted Asian gym rat looking for discreet FWB

Hi all, looking for casual discreet fun with a girl. Can be a one time thing or on going if we develop chemistry.

I’m East Asian, 5’6, and 150lbs. I’m gym fit, clean and hygienic. Also 420 friendly.

Ideally you’re petite, fit and clean and also hygienic.

I’m down for car fun but I can also travel or host in north Burnaby.

Lmk what you’re into if you are interested!

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2024/05/12
01:48 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Lakewood redditors in California

Helloo! I was wondering if there are any pinoy Redditors in California. Near LA, Cerritos, Norwalk malapit. Im traveling there forr a couple of months and i wonder if we can hangout be friends. Show me around. Im considering migrating there din this year. I wanna make my stay there fun before i finally decide if i wanna stay there.gym buddy or running buddy too. Or food buddy! Just recently moved here from the Philippines, would love to meet new people.

G for anything basically. Hoping for kind souls there.

About me 5'9 Medium build Fair complexion Works in the creative field Into running Into mma Listens to k pop Plays a lot of games on my PC

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2024/05/12
01:16 UTC

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25 [M4F] Athletic Guy with a Girthy "You-Know-What" Looking for a FWB (Texas/TX/East Texas)

Hello! I’m just looking for a FWB in the Texas. I’m in East Texas, near Longview, specifically. Having said that, I don’t at all mind driving out a bit if you aren’t the closest. I’m also able to host, if necessary.

As for myself, I’m a black guy, and rather shy and introverted. I warm up quickly around the right person, though! I'm quite the nerd, and enjoy gaming, cool tech, and sci-fi. I have pretty broad gaming tastes, but I mostly stick with singleplayer or co-op stuff, and really like RPGs and retro games. The most recent game I played was Secret of Mana. I also enjoy cooking and checking out new recipes, and will probably be making some bread from scratch after I post this, lol. I exercise often, and I enjoy endurance running, typically running 3~4 miles once a week. I’m trying to ease myself back into reading like I used to, as I churned through 6 books or so a month when I was younger. I’m very much the gentle, intimate type, and really just want to make sure whomever I’m with is pleasured, feels safe, and has a good time overall.

There’s pictures pinned to the top of my profile, so feel free to take a look! If this sounds interesting to you, or if you have questions, feel free to message me!

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2024/05/12
01:15 UTC

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27 [M4F] Portugal looking for some fun

Hey there! I'm a 27 asian m who will be in Lisbon, Portugal this week. Just your typical asian professional who enjoys the occassional rave / festival. Would be good to meet some liked minded redditors who could show me around the clubs in Lisbon (and possibly have some fun after). DM me for more info but can verify on snapchat first.

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2024/05/12
00:39 UTC

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28 [M4F] - California/nevada - Fit, handsome, tall Korean looking for Fwb

Hello,

I am creating this post in hopes to find a fwb with an emphasis on the Friend part. If you’re only looking for the benefits we can discuss that.

While I was in college I had a couple female friends that I was really close with. We shared input on life, relationships, and more. Many of them have moved so it has been hard to stay connected.

I definitely value input from a female prospective and I can also provide a male prospective to you.

Although I am not looking for a relationship/situationship at the moment I am not opposed to it if it happens.

Really looking for someone who shares common interests as me.

About me: 6ft 2 , Korean, fit, handsome, clean, college educated, working full time.

Interests: live Music concerts (rap/r&b), Lunch and dinner dates, fitness, sporting events, retail therapy/sneakers and travel.

About you: cute, hwp, relatable, chill

I also travel to Vegas and La often for very short 1-2 days trips. So someone who could accompany me would also be great ! 😃

TLDR: looking for female friends/fwb to hang out and do activities with/talk about life.

Let’s chat if you’re interested!

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2024/05/12
00:36 UTC

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28 [M4F] #EastBay - Korean M looking for someone to spend to enjoy the simple things with

I'm 5'10 170lb and somewhat fit, I just started working out again. Also got out of a relationship a few months ago. I’m hoping to meet someone who is interested in chatting and meeting up to get to know each other a bit and becoming a fwb or a relationship. It'd be great to have someone to cuddle up on some weekends and hang out :]

Some details about me:

  • I'm still a pleb that plays league (aram + tft too) and overwatch amongst others
  • Enjoy watching kdramas too, currently watching Queen of Tears also enjoy reading manhwas
  • A bit of an adrenaline junkie as I like riding motorcycles and roller coasters, but mostly a homebody
  • I enjoy all types of music, but lately have been listening to The Rose these days

Also love all things cute and fluffy, I have a doodle and two holland lops

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2024/05/12
00:36 UTC

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44 [M4F] #NYC. Seeking Someone intelligent, Ambitious, and Kinky for Ongoing Connection. Possibility of more

Hello,

I'm a 44 year old man here in downtown NYC. I'm in good shape, really great career giving back to society, mentally balanced, healthy, high EQ, and looking for an ongoing connection that, I hope, can blossom into something real. I've come to realize that kink is something I enjoy and want to incorporate, to some degree, in the bedroom (it has become awkward when I hit it off and the other person is completely vanilla and not into kink at all). I’m very experienced with kink and don’t want to trip the filters here but can say more in chat if you’re curious.

Seeking something ongoing, but starting slow. Feel like I have my life together, feel good about life and have always been a happy person. I'm an intelligent guy, clean cut, suit and tie for work but casual otherwise. I've been burned before so I'm currently looking to start slow, as our busy schedules allow, and that see what unfolds naturally.

Other things about me: I really enjoy good conversation, speakeasies, reading especially about public health issues, I enjoy attempting to be health-conscious, studying pop culture, I like to think I excel at baking healthy snacks. I am also a huge jazz and film buff, pretty big music fan, like being a foodie, keeping up with current events. I’m really fond of biking and spending hours in the park. I like good conversation, snuggles, laughing. I am also interested in the impact that social media has on human relationships. I speak a second language but... am pretty rusty!

You: Single, mentally balanced, average body type, are curious about kinky explorations, have a good heart. I don't usually jibe too well with people who are overly clingy, and being pretty drama free is important to me. Doing something productive with life will be helpful. Able to laugh.

If you write please be sure to state your age, location, and two or three things about yourself (a physical description goes a long way), and we can start a conversation and see where it leads!

thanks ;)

1 Comment
2024/05/12
00:26 UTC

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