Hi people of reddit, so I'm kinda in that awkward stage of life where I don't know where the hell I'm going and when things are gonna happen. One thing I do know is I'm looking to out of state back closer to family especially since many of my friends are now more centrally located. In my life I really haven't been very adventurous when it came to sexual things, between school, COVID, anxiety, and attempts at relationships I just never had any great opportunities. So I'm looking to see if there's other people out there who are in a similar boat of being too busy to really commit for a long time and be interested in fwb or just fun experiences. If anyone responds please let me know which one you'd be more inclined to and include the word "cucumber" so I know you're not a bot lol.

I'm pretty average height and I got a bit of a dad bod, dark hair, lighter skin (not Asian btw), 7 inches, switch, ddf, and more than willing to verify pending how convo goes. As a side note I don't smoke and I don't really want to be around people when they're smoking, I get pretty nauseous from the smell alone.

In general I'm ok with girls 18+ but prefer over 21, upper end of age is in early 30's but the line's blurry pending looks and some other stuff lol. Also please be ddf, it wouldn't be very fun if we gave each other something. Beyond that I honestly am genuinely attracted to many typical Asian feature and not in like a race-play kinda way. So even if you're not feeling sure about looks I can see past a lot of those.

I have been more and more interested in a softer cnc scenario/play. It would be less about humiliation and degradation, but it would still include cnc and non consent.  

So something that would interest me is pushing past your boundaries and groping your body while you push me away. I'm still forcing it on you while you reject me, but I'll be praising you and telling you how it'll be ok. There'll be a large focus on sensual touching and kissing.

There would be some coercion and manipulation as well, since I would constantly praise you and try to make you dependent/subservient. I would be open to the idea of corrupting you and owning you too. I will take lead, but safe words are yellow (slow down, not now) and red (stop). I would need your limits too, but reminder I would focus on praise and teasing instead of humiliation. 

In terms of build, I have a dad bod and am 5'9. In this scenario, I would overpower you in some circumstances and you would hopefully like to feel weaker or helpless. I am on the nerdier side and like be good company and having deep conversations. So, ideally we can connect in a non-sexual way as well as sexually.

These are the main kinks that would be relevant. Praise, Groping, CNC, Kissing. Optional kinks would be DDLG, Petplay, Breeding, Slight degradation, BDSM, etc.

You would ideally be 18-40 years old and thin, skinny, or chubby. You must be tested and we will video verify before meeting. I'd like to exchange faceless pictures too. Please provide your AS.

The main issue is that hosting will be a bit difficult, I often have roommates in the home. Despite that, I can host rarely and I can get us a motel for nsfw sessions. I am also open to driving you and aim to have more toys as time goes on.

Hi, my name is Aaron! Nice to meet you! I’m looking for someone who’s actually down to explore our bodies with. I’m very much looking forward to have a very nice, chill and composed time with someone around my age that is chill, understanding, and has a bit of experience. It’s okay if you don’t opt to, but I’d also really love it if we could have perhaps drink some hot chocolate, under our blankets, or maybe cuddle for a while! ☺️

I’m a 6’1, 185 pound fit and handsome guy, brown, who is just about open with anybody around my age. (BONUS POINTS if you’re Desi).

We can exchange face pics for verification purposes. But after getting to know each other, I’d like to switch the conversation over to Snapchat! DM if interested!

NOTE. PLEASE do not waste my time if you’re a fake account or if you’re going to ghost! And also, exercising hygiene before we meet up is very important and mandatory!!

Hello all,

I'm a 28 year old Caucasian lad living in Scotland. I'm creative, fun and sensitive, with tonnes of hobbies I like to chat about, including; astronomy, fitness, writing, films, theatre, music (playing and listening), paleontology, reading and gaming.

I'm on the lookout for a woman I can be penpals with. Ideally, if we're getting along really well, we'd be checking in on each other every day, writing up detailed messages to one another, talking about anything and everything under the sun. I find it really exciting to get to know someone deeply and feeling that indescribable spark we're all searching for.

Of course, this is the dirty reddit chat sub, so there'd have to be an element of attraction in there somewhere, but that doesn't mean I need you to reveal too much too soon. If you're comfortable sending pics and verifying, then great! If not, then a description of yourself will suffice in the short term. (That said, being able to verify eventually is a must. I've been catfished 5 times!)

I myself am 5'11, have neck length thick and scruffy brown hair, am lean and toned thanks to my exercise and, in my opinion, I'm packing something pretty good down South. Check out my profile and you'll see what I mean.

Whether you're introverted and a little shy, or extroverted and curious, I'll be a kind and patient friend to you, with a naughty twist whenever you're feeling it. If you're doubtful, please reach out! You never know what you're missing out on!

Hi!

I'm a respectful, professional male and my interests include keeping active and cooking in my spare time. I am into coding and playing guitar, although I suck at both, haha. Oh, and I love animals, especially birds. I don't take drugs/smoke, have no tattoos, and only drink alcohol occasionally. If it matters I'm HK Chinese by ethnicity, 180cm tall, 75kg, slim.

I would ideally like to be in touch throughout the day, perhaps via a messaging app of your choice? If you're not from Southern England please be open to the idea of travelling as I would like to meet up IRL if we click. I currently pet sit as a hobby, so if that's something you're also interested in maybe we could even co-sit!

Also to add that I'm not seeking a casual fling nor am I looking to dive into anything serious! I'm thinking somewhere in between with a spark, connection and meaning, plus occasional flirty banter if/when we get to that stage?

Let me know how that sounds. :) No ghosters please! I promise I won't disappear.

Howdy y’all I’m looking for a good Asian girl to start a connection with. I’m 6’8, big man, and I have NSFW pics on my profile if you’d like a peek. I’m not picky when it comes to women, if there’s a connection, physical or otherwise, we can roll with it. Would prefer to start out as fwb and be actual friends, not just fuck buddies. Let’s see where that goes, if interested DM and we can swap pics

Hello as the title suggest, I am looking for anything. I will try to keep the convo going as much as possible but ofc you need to help out too!

About me:

• Asian
• Love KDRAMA and games
• love 18+ manhwa

Feel free to DM and ofc tell me about yourself and a pic if comfortable!

I'm a scottish traveller currently in Europe looking for friends or people to chat with. I'm very easy going and open so can chat about anything.

My main interests currently are: Travel, working out, making cocktails, reading, playing games and learning new skills

hey! asian m 27 here looking playful chats, exploring fantasies, or just having some discreet fun.

A little about me, I am your typical chill guy working in corporate. If you don't catch me with my whiskey on the weekend you'll find me at a rave (yes i was at Epik last weekend).

Feel free to dm me for more info!

Hey 26f looking for someone to be my man bc it’s that time of the year. I’m hoping this can be serious/long term LOL

me: -Asian

• bbw, so I’m thiccc LMAO

-5’7 -sarcastic, cute, funny as heck, and likes banter :) -I like being taken cared of and babied

• I’m not in norcal lol, you should live south of cali preferably

-not interested in an open relationship lmfao -I like to play some games like fn, league, Bloons, Hopefully we can play together

What I’m looking for: -my age or older, max 30 -live near me -taller than me 5’7 (plus if you are a gym rat :)) -plus if you are Asian (south east/east), but I’m open -good humor, eq, dependable, empathetic :) -I know what my post history looks like, but I just wanna take it slow ok lmao

If you are interested, hmu and give me an actual bio about yourself. pls don’t send just a hi LOL

See ya :)))

What I'm Looking For: I’m looking to make friends and/or maybe find a FWB situation. I’m lil inexperienced but wanting n having a need to learn more hehe. I can be both shy and outgoing, depending on the vibe. I’m looking for someone who’s understanding, kind, patient, and non-judgmental. It would be great if you're willing to help me learn more, whether you’re also new or experienced. If you want to get some experience too, don’t hesitate to message me!

About Me: I enjoy gaming (online, card games, or board games—love poker) I like long walks and deep conversations Cooking and eating are fun for me Watching all kinds of shows, anime, and movies I love cats (and other animals too, but cats are my favorite) I enjoy relaxing at home n chilling.

Background: I’m Asian, half Chinese and half Vietnamese. If my body type is a dealbreaker for you, please don’t message, as I’ve had issues with this before.

Goals: I want to experiment and see what I enjoy to have more fun I want to get better at oral and with my hands. Hopefully make someone orgasm from my mouth n fingers alone.

What I’m Looking For: I’m looking for someone chill who can teach me and have fun with me, including some NSFW experiences. Size or ethnicity don’t matter to me. I prefer people around my age, but I’m open to older friends too. Looking for someone who preferably has similar kinks but open to trying many. Many exciting days and nights where we can have do fun things/activities but also just cuddle up at home n have fun inside ;)

What I Offer: I’ve been told I’m good with my fingers and mouth (want to get better tho),and I love cuddles, so aftercare is important to me! I’m a good listener and can provide a fun time for anyone who needs to talk or vent about anything.

Physical Appearance: 182 cm tall, with longish hair A leg sleeve tattoo, broad shoulders, and big hands and legs Asian, average/big build A little chubby, but everyone I’ve talked to says I look fine.

I’d love to chat and get to know you first! If you’re interested, feel free to reach out! Reply decently fast n open to things or if you just even have a question, ask away! Hope to hear from you!

Younger female within 200 KLM of Brisbane for connection and see what occurs

22 Asian Female. I am from Toronto

Looking connections

I am very cute with the best personality!

I am an ambivert!

Hobbies: I like to eat, sleep, read, shopping, watch Youtube. Cooking, I am a good cook too!

I like anime, KPOP and JPOP.

I am very happy, kind and funny and very talented, and MOST FUNNIEST PERSON! SUNSHINE GIRL!

Talents: Good with children, acting, designing, writing, cooking, comedy, imitate someone, and ribbon dance

I’m in the SGV and Torrance area quite often. If things lead to more, willing to get a room. I also have test results ready to share. I’ve had previous success here on reddit in the past with an old account, so testing my luck again. I know I know. New account, blank profile. I’ll happily verify and we can set up a voice call in advance.

Work has been quite the shit show at the moment and I’d like just a relaxing evening. I’d love to grab some food (maybe one of the Kei concepts restaurants?), chase it with pregame it with some boba/coffee.

A little about me: I’m 32, 6’1, nerdy, career driven and yapper. I work in tech and I do photography on the side for stress relief. I love a good horror or sci fi movie, stargazing, deep convos and book recommendations. I’ll happily to the driving and make life easy for you.

You: over 21, good head on your shoulders and just open minded and ready for some banter. If you’re open to more I’d undoubtedly enjoy having you as a pillow princess.

Please reach out if interested and let me know your favorite cheesecake or movie. Again, I’ll happily verify with pic.

47 [M4F] #losangeles - Artist and Multimedia Director Seeking Princess Muse

Imaginative, Kinky, Sane, Sweet, Sometimes Primal // ENM - Polyamorous Leaning

Like to establish a rapport, understand desires for soft and hard limits, aftercare, etc., and ease into things

I'm 20, 6'1, Korean, Fit Lean build and relatively attractive. Just looking for a girl to connect with and have oral, just not ready for full sex again yet. Up to just chat with ppl outside of toronto as well. Pm for a pic of me.

Hey! I’m a 23 year old medical student and it’s been super stressful, so I’m looking for a casual FWB relationship.

More about me, I’m 5’9” 185lbs and love working out, basically in the gym every day. I enjoy snowboarding during the winters and love basketball. Also always looking for anime recs!

If you’re interested all I ask is that you’re 18+and drug and disease free. In my opinion experience doesn’t matter! I love teaching and what matters most is your enthusiasm! Send a message and let’s see if we vibe! I’ll be happy to verify.

i’m 18 and a senior in HS, 6’0 asian 145lbs skinny build. Looking for a female who is into the idea of being somebodies first sexual experience and is patient. You should be able to host and i can come to you anywhere in NYC area

I hope you had an amazing summer (:

I’m from Sonoma County but happy to travel some for the right person! I’m mixed so feel free to inquire within (;

In short, I’m just looking to make friends that want to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (: pretty much looking for someone to do casual stuff with so we can both have our needs fulfilled with zero strings attached!

Hopefully you’re closish so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:

Here’s the about me since I know you don’t wanna waste your time on someone that doesn’t fit ur type.

6’, black curly hair, tan, pretty average all around. Not shredded but definitely not out of shape. It’s my 2nd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.

I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have. Like I said above, I’m open to keeping something together online if that’s all you want to do for now.

I look forward to getting to know you (:

Kinks are cnc, breeding, ddlg, free use, sleep play, cheating, etc. Looking for someone to trade pictures with and have some online fun ;)

I'd consider myself fairly attractive and am willing to verify once we chat!

Trying to find female friend with benefits (FFWB) in the GTA

Benefits is self explanatory. Priority is to . Build and create safety and comfort through random anything and everything type conversations. Get to know who you are as a person. Personality and character gets my interest especially a woman who is genuine straight forward, No second guessing. Knows what she wants..

In return will find a way to make you laugh smile and never feel or treat like you are an object..

42 year old. Clean Canadian born Asian from the west end Toronto, . average height.. slim ish build, Dark brown eyes... great overall easy going, chill speak my mind approachable open minded charcter no judgement

Not here to waste time..

Interested or curious? Let's start with a Simple hi with the addition of anything you want to share :)

Chat or dm

Pretty much the title. It's a bit disheartening when people you're talking with just vanish one day without any explanation. If anyone does reach out to me, I can promise you I won't do that. I hope you wouldn't do the same.

I used to type out long, heartfelt essays trying to convey who I am but there's little point when this is just going to get buried under an endless stream of posts. So I'll just keep it basic.

I'm very introverted. I don't go out to bars or parties, really. But, I can talk for hours with people whose company I enjoy. I might not be that interesting as a person, but I like to think I have some interesting things to say. Other than that, I like video games, reading, listening to music, and taking walks.

I'm half-asian/white, 5'9 and in decent shape. Here's a picture of myself, I've added a space to the link.

https ://imgur.com/a/WxXcEBp

27 Male here Looking to find BAD and NAUGHTY younger or older females to have FUN with. I am Based in Southend-On-Sea, Essex, UK!

Are you a naughty bad girl that is in need? Let me know x

Dear Adventurers in Desire,

I’m a 47-year-old man from the NYC area who has recently discovered the world of tantric sex—a path that’s opened my eyes to the profound beauty of deeper intimacy, connection, and pleasure. I’ve come to realize that there’s so much more to love and desire than just the physical; it’s about savoring every moment, feeling every breath, and truly seeing the soul across from you.

I’m hoping to find a woman who feels the same pull toward a more meaningful connection—someone who wants to explore the art of tantra, where we can share slow, lingering moments filled with presence, energy, and passion. Whether you’re new to this world or have some experience, I’m open to discovering it together, allowing every touch, every look, every shared breath to mean more.

Beyond this, I’m an athletic, adventurous guy who loves staying active, learning, and experiencing all that life has to offer. If you’re someone who believes that the journey is just as important as the destination, let’s connect and see where this path might take us.

Looking forward to the possibility of something extraordinary

Hi!

Normally I go back to Asia during the winter to see family but I won't be this year. Looking to find a meaningful connection and spend the holidays with together. I also just recently moved from central SD up here to north county so I could use new friends too if you're looking for something strictly platonic.

I'm a simple, easy-going person who spends his free time going to the gym, playing video games, discovering new music/movies/tv shows, [going on drives](https://imgur.com/a/ve18dLR) and food adventures around the city.

If you share any of the interests above and feel like we'd vibe, feel free to reach out via dm or chat. Ideally you're between the ages of 20-30. I'm 5'9 and in [decent shape](https://imgur.com/UV2g7NJ) if that matters.

Bonus points if your love language is touch, are a gamer, gymrat, enjoy the company of animals (I have a [cat](https://imgur.com/sldVYBt)), have a cultured culinary palette and you're adventurous when it comes to food!

Ideally you are between 20-29 but at the end of the day, I don't mind if you're slightly out of this age range if we get along personality-wise :)

Hello there! I’m 25M with a lot of sex drive, looking for some crazy girl(or girls) for some kinky stuffs in Singapore! I’ll be in Singapore for a few weeks! DM me and let’s see if our vibes match or not! so let’s sexplore!

ps: I don’t have a place, if you could host that’ll be amazing!

I'm a 33 year old east asian and athletic. I am seeking a fwb long-term relationship. I currently can't maintain a long-term relationship with my workload. If you are also in the same boat, that would be awesome. A little about myself, I live an active lifestyle participating in many sports. If you are also into an active lifestyle its a plus. I enjoy reading, movies, and carpentry. I'm quite funny, confident, and easy going type person. I enjoy going out to lounges for drinks and chatting. I am very experienced, ddf, and can drive.

https://ibb.co/jDd68Qm

*I am only interested in ladies. No guys please.

Looking to connect with someone who's as passionate about exploring new cafes and hidden gems in the city as I am. I'm a 25yo Korean guy in STEM with a love for cars (especially anything European), indie music, and photography. I'm always up for a concert or trying a new restaurant, and I love getting lost in deep conversations about life, the universe, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find a white woman (23-35, under 5'8"/173cm) who shares my sense of adventure and has a quick wit (sarcasm is a plus!). Bonus points if you love cats. What song are you currently obsessed with?

I'm in my 30s, masc, and work nights in healthcare (so if I go radio silent after 3x12s, don't take it personally lol) I'm real into EDM-especially hard techno and hardstyle-and my goal is to learn how to mix by 2026. l'd love to connect with other ravers to vibe and hit shows with!

I'm into working out, hiking, finding secret sunset spots, gardening in nature 🍃 and exploring tide pools. I'm also always down to try new food spots or catch a chill hang.

Looking for other friends, who are a good vibes, late-night convos, and maybe hyping each other up during those 4 a.m. sets. Let's connect.

Hey, just looking to make some new friends. Hit me up if we share similar interests!

• running
• dogs
• fish keeping
• anime
• wood working
• EDM
• working out
• hiking
• programming
• health and wellness

Pretty vague list but hopefully a good starting point :)