/r/r4rasian

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An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians.

An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians. For reference on what constitutes an Asian person, see this Wikipedia page.

Ethnicity may be included in the title or description. As with anything else, please remain respectful of all posters and commenters.

RULES

This is an 18+ subreddit. If you are under 18 your post will be removed.

Tag your posts to be more clear. Include pertinent information such as age, location and a condensed version of what you are looking for.

Tag NSFW posts.

Tagging Legend

M - male

F - female

T - transgender

R - redditor/anyone

Do not put personal information in ads or comments, including Skype, Kik, Snapchat or other social media handles, addresses or phone numbers.

Do not post your ad more than once per week.

Please refrain from making any hateful comments. Racist, sexist, homophobic, and otherwise intolerant comments are not permitted.

If you have an issue on the subreddit, use the report button or contact the moderators.

Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.

Moderators reserve the right to remove posts and/or ban users upon their discretion.

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Subreddits

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18 [F4M] #Texas im white i want asian men to knock me up pregnant šŸ¤° i can host or drive

Hi, Im 18 white 4f7, 94ish punds and want to get pregs again! I love asian men. I alredi have 2 kids (from a vietnamese and indonesian) don't judge me i started early šŸ¤­. Im in texas and wanna get another baby. Im on state aide and a single mom im not looking to marry r be in any kinda relationship. Just pump me full of nut and leave i dnt even need to know ur name. I just wanna another baby in me. I can host or drive up to 500 miles to u

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2024/11/22
13:01 UTC

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24 [M4F] - Looking for SFW or NSFW conversations or friends :)

Hiii :) I am a 24 year old white guy from southern texas looking to talk or play a game with a beautiful female lol

A little bit about meā€¦ Iā€™m 6ā€™0ā€, 190 pounds, brown hair, green eyes, beard.

Just looking to explore other peoples interests, and maybe some of my own some more. Willing to have SFW or NSFW discussions about anything really.

If youā€™re interested just shoot me a message with a little bit about yourself (age,sex,location, what youā€™re interested in talking about) :)

Hope to see you soon!

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2024/11/22
12:30 UTC

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24 [M4F] London/Online - nsfw or sfw chat? Iā€™m bored

Iā€™m kinda bored and itā€™s a lazy day, Iā€™d be up for anything as long as itā€™s fun doesnā€™t matter if itā€™s nsfw or not, drop a dm and a topic <3

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2024/11/22
11:08 UTC

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32 [m4f] Dutch giant looking for fun chats, friends, fwb, whatever.

I'm happy to tell you all about me in our chat, but here's a few things: 32 years old, 6'5" (196cm) tall, has a cute dog(might send cute pics), gamer, and I'm very talkative if the other puts in some effort too :) I'm down for anything.

Mainly looking for something online, but I'm not opposed to meeting up if we click and are relatively close (I'm sorry, not planning in moving half way across the world for someonešŸ™ˆ)

So yes, just message me and say hi, I'm sure we'll get along!

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2024/11/22
10:44 UTC

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23 [M4F] Los Angeles - Looking for fun dates and.. šŸ˜ˆ

6ā€™1 23 yo East Asian male based in LA. Looking for good company. Iā€™m always doing something new, camping and exploring the outdoors, surfing, climbing, sports (soccer, basketball, volleyball), and I dabble in music. Would be nice to find a muse. I love good convos.. so if youā€™re intellectual stimulatingā€¦ and physicallyā€¦ ohh youā€™re in trouble šŸ˜‰

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2024/11/22
09:48 UTC

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25 [M4F] #sydney - looking for fwb

Heya!

So after a period of lurking different subreddits, I want to expand my search wider!

About me:

ā€¢ Iā€™m southeast asian with fluffy curly hair (that you can play with) ā€¢ currently looking for fwb, i really want to be good friends with you, on top of the benefits part ā€¢ Iā€™m DDF and regularly tested because I compete nationally ā€¢ im into gym, martial arts, bouldering gaming and anime - your typical needy asian type ā€¢ I am currently going through my one piece journey and it is my goal to watch at least an episode a day lol! ā€¢ gaming-wise, i am playing through the new farmmagia game about farming and dungeon crawling! But i also play online games on pc - league, val, but most of the time i play against the storm these days lol ā€¢ i work full time in film and motion graphics and im loving it

What Iā€™m looking for: ā€¢ age range between 20-35, DDF ā€¢ i dont mind about looks, i think as long as you take care of yourself, keen for fun and can hold a conversation, thats awesome, whatever comes next will come! ā€¢ would love it if you are into the same things Iā€™m into, especially something that we could do together outside of just having sex, if you are into bouldering, lets go bouldering together

If I sound like someone you would like to know more, feel free to drop me a DM request, your picture gets mine!

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2024/11/22
09:27 UTC

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35 [F4M] #Singapore - Platonic Cuddle

Not new to this but didn't have much luck. I'll be in the town for some time. Maybe this time it is different? And always nerve wracking for a female to make a post?

About myself - 4'11", 114lbs, medium length hair, educated

Want to chat for a week or two to see if there is a connection and a vibe-check coffee before anything else happens. Not able to host. But I guess arrangements can be made if it does happen. You should be - around my age, be at least HWP, respectful of my comfort level (especially regarding personal/private information), well-educated, don't be pushy/demanding

If you read this far and interested, send a message introducing yourself and tell me what song do you currently play on repeat?

*I don't use the chat function

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2024/11/22
09:02 UTC

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28 [M4R] #Pasadena - Just need a place to stay or rent in Pasadena

Hello reddit people! Would anyone know like cheap apartments or if u have a place where i can stay in pasadena. Im just starting out here in Cali and i just need a place to go 4 days out of the week. My job is near san gabriel blvd. Would love to meet new redditors too. Dw ill pay my half of thr rent!

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2024/11/22
08:47 UTC

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29 [M4F] SoCal/Online - Best Friend Application!

Hi! Thank you for opening this! Iā€™m currently taking best friend applications!

What can I offer you? Amazing conversations, quick responses, 29 years of experience talking with others, a new best friend, food and drinks if things go well, and so much more!

Who am I? 29 Asian male! I can verify and exchange pics if youā€™d like. A working professional. In shape if that matters. Enjoys drinking and meeting new people. An open book so feel free to ask me anything.

Who are you? Let me know! This application process is more rigorous than getting into Harvard, so make sure to make the application comprehensive. Looking forward to talking to you!

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2024/11/22
08:13 UTC

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23 [M4F] #syd/aus - closest friends for chats and call applications

Hey! Would love to form a close relationship with someone real life or online as friends or a relationship with someone here. Interests dont have to align completely, just looking to find someone thats on the same wavelength as me when we talk and banter about random thoughts and details of what's been going on in our days. A few bits and pieces about me

- aus born east asian
- big on trying new things (food/sport etc.)
- occasionally play league/valorant
- travelling! heading away for chrissy and new years
- going on walks and critiquing houses i cant afford
- spotify premium working overtime
- career driven but enjoy living life

If you want to chat, send through a dm with however long an intro about yourself and lets see where things go

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2024/11/22
07:56 UTC

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20[M4F] online/Sydney need an ABG to ruin my life tbh

Like the title says, looking for an ABG to ruin my life, either irl or just to live rent free in my head. Need someone to send me pictures of boba and talk about Ghibli with. About me: -20 male, Egyptian, -living near Sydney -Play League -open to anything

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2024/11/22
07:36 UTC

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32 [M4F] - SoCal/SGV - Looking for someone to banter with or FWB

Hello! This daylight savings time has been very mid and been making me feel like the days are getting shorter, but the nights are getting longer. And that means more times being indoors and am looking for someone to banter with. If we vibes, down to also be FWBs too :)

  • 32M East Asian
  • Fit and athletic build - workout 4-5x a week. Rest days don't feel great, but they happen. Can't go ham everyday.
  • In the SoCal/626/SGV area and would be fun if local, but also keeping things open with being online, so open to anywhere
  • Love shopping at Costco and thinking of all the money I saved from spending $200 every time
  • High libido so down for nsfw chats
  • Enjoy running and hiking
  • Love EDM and will be going to EDC next year
  • Is it too late to invest in Bitcoin??
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2024/11/22
07:18 UTC

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31 [M4F] #DMV #MD - Looking to solve or start world problems

Hi there!

Iā€™m a 31 year old East Asian guy looking for someone who shares my love for starting the day with coffee and good company. Whether itā€™s chatting about the latest news while strolling through Georgetown or debating whether French or Korean for dinner, Iā€™m all in for meaningful moments.

If you love coffee, good times, or late-night conversations that could solve (or start) world problems, send me a DM and let's see where it takes us.

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2024/11/22
06:39 UTC

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26 [F4M] Online or #Singapore: Filipino-Chinese slim, kinky and submissive

Hi! I'm currently assigned in SG for work. I'm 26 years old, Filipino-Chinese. I grew up in the Philippines so I only speak Filipino/English. I have a fair white complexion, 5'4 ft height, slim type body with black hair and eyes. I can say that I'm quite good looking. Btw, I'm a sub!

Looking for: Online fun now (videocalls) or FUBU/FWB here in Singapore. Must be good looking too, and dominant, I prefer taken guys since I have a cheating kink. Although single guys are welcome too

Let me know your info when you message me. How you look like, body type, age, if single or not, location, nationality, etc.

PS: I'll be back next month in Philippines for a month-long vacay!

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2024/11/22
06:09 UTC

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23 [F4M] San Francisco /anywhere looking for chat buddy and more

About me: 23 years old Female, 5ā€6, Chinese, from San Francisco, currently working in politics for couple years before law school!

Some of my hobby: binge watching Netflix, listen to music and podcast, explore new restaurants and bars, traveling, baking, go on walks!

Looking for: chat buddy but could be more,prefer East Asian, someone around my age, preferably taller than me, share some similar interest! Only looking for someone under 30, please say something other than hi for a response!

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2024/11/22
06:01 UTC

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[M4F] #sydney 30m fit looking for fwb

30m in dead bedroom looking for fwb/ affair partner, discrete and happy to verify through pics

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2024/11/22
05:39 UTC

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34 [M4F] #sfbayarea - Want some company on these cold night.

It is getting cold outside and if youā€™re interested would love to cuddle to keep each other warm! Iā€™d love to find someone who is interested in going on fun dates and maybe some fun after in private if there is a connection.

Iā€™m looking for someone who isnā€™t afraid of their sexuality and eager to communicate their needs. Iā€™m very kink friendly and comfortable talking about sex which I hope you are as well or interested in breaking that barrier. However, Iā€™d also like to get to know you and your interests. Iā€™m not looking for a one time thing.

Me:

  • 34 years old, 5ā€™9, 150lbs and Asian American
  • Oakland and can host
  • covid vaccinated and STI free can provide recent results
  • enjoy the outdoors, cooking and travel when I have time

If youā€™re interested happy to exchange photos in messages and verify myself. What is your favorite museum in the Bay Area?

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2024/11/22
05:24 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Australia - Looking to meet new people and possibly fwb?

Heyo!! Just wanting to find a chill and vibey person to chat and banter with, no pressure on where it could lead to but someone to chat with and share life stories with and possibly some fun on the side?

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2024/11/22
05:15 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Seattle Just an Introverted, awkward virgin looking for first time experience.

Hi, Iā€™m a 31 m in Seattle looking to for my first time experience with a woman. Iā€™m shy and awkward and introverted which likely has lead me to having very little experience with women. I sit in frustration and want to experience sex for the first time.

I have no preference in type of woman Iā€™m looking for. I have no preference on experience level or ethnicity. I just want a patient person and who is understanding. Who knows, maybe this will become a consistent thing that we do?

Please note that I donā€™t want to pay and I am straight. No escorts and no guys please.

Please send a message for more details and letā€™s see what happens. Thanks for reading.

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2024/11/22
05:13 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Montreal - Muffdiving Tourist

Hello! Will be in Montreal starting December 15th for 2 weeks and looking to eat pussy. Will be staying at a hotel in the Old-Port. Down to grab food, boba, or drinks! Iā€™m 5ā€™10 and am kinda fit but have been slacking on the gym lately :)

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2024/11/22
05:05 UTC

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40 [M4F] Asian. #LA #online DM me if you are a hidden slut in private

i am a working professional. genuinely looking for a total slut - ie free use whores, cumsluts, and cock starved whores. prefer asians but love latinas and red heads or general whites who have insatiable desires for asian cocks.
i know you are out there.

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2024/11/22
04:45 UTC

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40 [M4F] in #SanFrancisco #BayArea, 6ā€™0ā€ athletic professional looking for partner to spoil and cherish

Hi there :-),

I am 6ā€™0ā€ tall with an athletic build and my ethnicity is mediterranean (moroccan/turkish/persian) and 1/4 east asian. I keep a trim beard and shave my head. I am a sane, well educated (published Ph.D. researcher from a top school), law-abiding professional with an established career.

I am attracted to a woman that takes care of her body by leading an active and healthy lifestyle. I donā€™t expect you to be an instagram model. I just want someone who is working to be their best self, like how I am. Intelligence also attracts me. I get along well with women who consider themselves size queens.

I am looking for one partner with whom I could have a mental connection as well as a physical connection. I enjoy being the provider for my partner by planning our activities, and covering all our expenses (fine dining, lingerie, hotels, transportation, thoughtful gifts).

I am happy to take things slow, but I do hope that within one week of connecting we can meet in-person for something casual like lunch or coffee so we can judge our potential.

I live in the city but I can drive to many parts of the SF Bay Area (SF, San Jose, Oakland, Peninsula, Palo Alto, Mountain View, Santa Clara, etc.)

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2024/11/22
04:44 UTC

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20 [M4R] Seattle/Online - looking for fun/flirty chats

Hey Reddit! Well-spoken college guy here with an adventurous spirit and great sense of humor. I prefer to keep things on Reddit where we can have engaging conversations and see if we click.

About me:

  • Love witty banter and can keep a conversation flowing
  • Adventurous and open-minded about kinks
  • Focus on quality conversation over pictures
  • Great sense of humor and genuinely enjoy getting to know people

Looking for:

  • Women or M/F couples only
  • Well-spoken individuals who enjoy good conversation
  • People who are open-minded and adventurous
  • Would love to chat while you're having fun with your partner šŸ˜

If you're looking for engaging chats that could turn spicy when the chemistry is right, drop me a message! Please include your age and gender in your initial message šŸ”„

I stay on Reddit for comfort and safety. Let's start with good conversation and see where things lead!

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2024/11/22
04:29 UTC

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35 [m4f] #NYC Manhattan - IRL

5ā€™7ā€ Husky Bearded Hispanic

To start off, Iā€™m going eat you out and then weā€™re going to have some fun.

At my core, Iā€™m a soft dom, caregiver, and service top. If you want praise then youā€™re going to have to earn it. If you act up then youā€™re going to get what you deserve. So be a good girl, or else šŸ˜ˆ

I appreciate all women, and also have an attraction to femboys. Though, like most people, I do have preferences. I find women/fems of Asian decent very attractive, so donā€™t be shy to swing my way ;)

I currently have a partner/submissive (F), we're in an open relationship. She is open to threesomes once she gets to know you, also Iā€™m ddf and recent paper I prefer you to be on the same status as wellšŸ˜œ

Top kinks ā€¢bondage ā€¢rough play ā€¢ass play ā€¢cnc ā€¢pet play ā€¢sadist ā€¢ddlg ā€¢aftercare is must letā€™s get our cuddle on

Hard noā€™s ā€¢scat ā€¢me being sub ā€¢no breaking law

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2024/11/22
04:19 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Los Angeles - Looking to find my special someone, and if luck permits, a long term relationship!

Hi! This isĀ me, orĀ me, I'm 31 and out here in Los Angeles! It's been relatively tough meeting new people outside of work. Dating apps haven't drawn out much results either, so here I am. Been posting here quite a bit without much success, but hey, sometimes ya just gotta keep going right? Might as well give everything a shot. Maybe I might just find my forever special person here where I least expect it.

So a little about myself - I'm a professional artist/designer, laid back and easy going. If I'm not taking long walks to nowhere, watching a nice little sunset, you can probably find me all cozied up with a nice show/movie and jamming to my latest music finds on Spotify! Now if any of that sounds even remotely nice to do together? Hit me up! I don't bite! Not violently at least! Oh and I think I should mention that I am a huge sucker for seafood, and a big fan of Lord of the Rings (wouldn't mind if you're someone who's down for a LoTR marathon sometime!)

I don't know how many pairs of eyes will see this post, but if this is you, and any part of that sounds pleasant to you, drop me a message, let me know you exist, tell me a little about yourself and let's get to know each other. And if fate permits, a date or two~ Who knows where else it'll lead right? Crazier things have happened in life.

I look forward to hearing from you! And as they say, all roads lead to Rome. We'll find each other some day, one way or another~

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2024/11/22
04:17 UTC

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31 [m4f] #California. Letā€™s Be Friends Firstā€”Flirt Later (If We Click)

Hey what's going on, as the title suggests, I'm looking for a someone to hang out with and pass the time. As much as this post mentions flirting, I don't mind platonic friends if it turns out that way. I'm looking for someone to really connect with and get to know. I don't have any expectation of this getting too serious, just something fun. I've done a couple of these before and people have come and gone for various reasons. I've met some really great people doing this and getting to know them is my favorite part of all this. I'll let chemistry happen organically and I know that takes time to develop. I do prefer voice calls or even FaceTimes if we click.

Me:

  • Asian American, 5'9 170lbs (for you stat lovers)

-I work as a nurse

-I got a lot of crazy and funny stories if you have the stomach for it (life and work)

-because of my job I like to balance out by being a silly dude

-because of all the sick and unhealthy people I help I take care of my body and exercise regularly, I prefer running over lifting

-traveling (Amsterdam is next on the list), cooking, fishing, sports

-music festivals/ concerts (all music besides country). Let's share music

-random: I love grocery shopping more I like clothes shopping

You:

  • Asian American

  • around my age preferred but I'm open if you think we'd click

  • takes care of your body and health

  • passionate about their career and life experiences

  • cool hobbies, cool stories to share

  • must be funny and be able to hold a conversation (you'd be surprised)

Hope to hear from yah!

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2024/11/22
03:47 UTC

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24 [M4F] #online spreading a bit of positivity

Heya! If you're reading this and incase you needed to hear it today, you're absolutely amazing and so proud of you! If you ever feel lonely or lost, just a message away šŸ’œ

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2024/11/22
02:52 UTC

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55 [M4F] San Francisco - hung masculine muscular looking for hotwife

That about says it. I want to drive you over the edge while your hubby or bf gets off on me getting you off. Pics in profile and ready to go.

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2024/11/22
02:27 UTC

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27 [M4F] Fit and hung Korean looking for chill vibes

Went through some very intense emotional rollercoasters the past year and itā€™s finally settled down; Iā€™m looking for casual virtual company.

I'm fairly athletic with a good amount of muscle, and just looking for someone chill to chat with tonight and maybe this week. When Iā€™m not busy, Iā€™m pretty responsive and communicative.

I love food media and cooking shows, and recently just finished watching singles inferno. Recently also watched some kdramas, marvel shows, etc

Happy to include a sfw pic of myself once we feel more comfortable! Open to nsfw but not required.

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2024/11/22
02:22 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Bay Area, California ā€“ Daddy Seeks Petite Princess for FWB into Relationship

I am a Sensual/Loving/Caring/Kinky Daddy in Solano County in the SF Bay area who is looking for his petite, cute, sane princess. Are you a Princess who has unrealized and unfulfilled needs, desires and fantasies? With Daddy you can fulfill those things and many more. With Daddy, you will experience pleasure that you have dreamed about, but never thought possible.

Daddy will take good care of you, opening the doors of your repressed needs, desires and fantasies, so that you can explore and finally experience them, resulting in your having many intensely satisfying experiences. In the process. You will be taken to the highest levels of passion and pleasure, allowing your fantasies to become your realities, as well as allowing you to fulfill your sexual desires. I explore with safe words and respect, up to what ever limits you have in mind, as long as you respect my limits.

Acceptable ages are of course 18+ all the way up to 30. If you desire to be Daddy's Princess, DM me. Whether you are experienced or not, I would love to hear from you. Please no sellers, men, flakes, or uncommitted girls. I am looking for something more long term, and willing to drive/host within reason. Being close to UC Davis and Sacramento those areas are also close enough to find the one I am looking for!

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2024/11/22
02:01 UTC

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