/r/ABDL

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A lot of people enjoy wearing diapers - for many different reasons. Here's a space for all of them

This subreddit is dedicated to all things related to Age Play, Adult Diapers/Nappies, Diaper Lovers and Adult Baby.


This subreddit is 18+, and this rule is strictly enforced.


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Understanding

[AB]: Adult Baby - AB is a sexual fetish that involves role-playing a regression to an infant-like state.

[DL]: Diaper Lover - A DL has a sexual fetish in which a they feel a desire to wear or use diapers.

[Age Play]: Ageplay is a form of roleplaying in which an individual acts or treats another as if they were a different age. The practice can be regressive, in which the goal is to re-experience childhood, or sexual, recreating a sexual relationship with people of the pretend and/or true ages. Generally this can involve someone pretending to be younger than they actually are.


Rules and guidelines

  1. No advertisements: This sub is not here for relationship findings. Personals are redirected to /r/ABDLpersonals. Do not post links to social groups such as discord servers, telegram groups, etc.

  2. Be Nice: Be respectful of each other. Don't spew hate. We're serious, and this is the number one reason for people to get banned.

  3. We Are 18+: NO EXCEPTIONS. If you're below 18, you are not allowed to be on this board. If we find out you're a minor, we will ban you.

  4. Keep It On Topic: This is a board to talk about ageplay and diapers. Avoid posting unrelated stuff.

  5. Poor/Unwanted Content: This is a post that leaves a bad taste in your mouth. Sure the downvotes can shove things to the bottom, but there's no reason for the clutter. E.g. This isn't your blog. This isn't the place for spam. This isn't the place for un-creative posts. This isn't the place for fap fodder. If you ask a general question as the general title, make sure to include your own answer/explanation of why you need the question answered. Again, be creative.

  6. Poor Quality Picture: Pictures are welcome, but be creative.Let's keep it classy and interesting. A picture of a person needs to include from the mid chest to the kneecaps whether it's from the front or back. We prefer no frontal nudity, but we are still NSFW. Keep the pics in focus. Don't make us strain our eyes looking at a dark/grainy picture. Do not post shock content (messy diapers that have "leaked" is included in this) Post an explanation/story in the comments of your pic if the title doesn't cover it.

  7. Due Credit: If you're going to repost content from other creators, please make sure the content creator is okay with their content being reposted, and credit them. This isn't the place for piracy or to reap karma from someone else's work without them being credited.

  8. Commercial brands are welcome to promote on this sub, but only if they're active members of the community. Your promotional content can not be more than 10% than your total participation. If you wish to promote without participating on the board, you should pay for reddit ads.

/r/ABDL

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Are there any girls actually into diapers and pee?

Are there any girls who actually enjoy diapers and other elements of the pee fetish or do you think most are doing it for money or to please their partner? Personally I find the idea of girl having a pee or diaper fetish extremely attractive. Unfortunately I have never met a girl who is actually into it.

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2024/11/02
13:24 UTC

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The light at the end of the tunnel is visible.

I separated from the military a year ago. Since then, wife and I have been living with my in-laws. We were finally able to make the plunge recently, and are under contract buying a house. I'm so ready to be done with our current living situation, it's been hell, plus I haven't been able to be little in so long that it's been crushing. The stress is unreal, I have a new job that I'm learning, the house buying process, having to share space while living with another family; I'm so tired and ready to be done. Mama says at the new house I'll have a lot of time to make up for; apparently I'm gonna be in diapers all day every day unless she says otherwise when I'm home (which is exciting). Our sex life has been far less than what it used to be since living with my in-laws and we're going to have to get back in that rhythm too. It's terrifying but at the same time we have so much to look forward to. I have been barely active in this community for almost a year and I can't wait to be back. Mama wants to join too to give her ideas on how to more effectively baby me. I love and miss you guys and hope I'll become a much more active contributor again in the very near future. Venting concluded. Until soon, like-minded peoples.

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2024/11/02
12:35 UTC

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Looking to be humiliated in my diaper later. Give me tasks to do while diapered!!

Message me if you wanna see my diaper later and be friends!

4 Comments
2024/11/02
12:31 UTC

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Dubblely diapered

I just got home from work and had a rough week so it's diaper time! I put on a megamax with a booster and a over night cloth diaper then put on footy jammies with sharks a whales on it. Now I'm playing space engineers. I can barely walk but that ok cause I won't be walking much anyway!! 😁😁😁

4 Comments
2024/11/02
12:25 UTC

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M37 Anyone have the lovespouse app and want to control me

I'm currently in my skirt, swim suit and diaper wanting to wet my self and orgasm if anyone wants to control me, 2709284802

1 Comment
2024/11/02
11:15 UTC

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Has anyone been to ‘Dungeon Crawlers’ in SF? I am curious to go to my first ABDL event but am a bit nervous! More interested in the naughty play area, and wondering what that’s like if you’re a gay diaper lover like me ☺️

Comment or message me if you’re happy to share your experience from this event or any Abdl parties!

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2024/11/02
10:38 UTC

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Last good sleep I had was in my diaper

I slept for 2 nights in a row wearing my diaper and my onesie but then I stopped for 2 nights because of work. And both nights(counting this one) I woke up and 3am grumpy and sad 😢

0 Comments
2024/11/02
10:34 UTC

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Cloth diaper recommendations

I have tried cloth diapers, and I have never had a good experience with them because they do not hold a lot of wettings. Is there any cloth diapers on the market that are suitable for heavy wettings or many?

3 Comments
2024/11/02
10:13 UTC

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I accepted her dare for me

In 13 hours I am gonna be stuck diapered tell she is done or I ask to be done I am so exited but scared big girl potties are off limits! But we are baking a cake! And brownies!! Sooo that will be awsome! I got my onesie and I'll be like actually stuck there is a zipper on the back? To keep me from getting out! This is gonna be awsome!! Thing I can do is sit like a baby! And wet myself like one while she takes care of me! This is awsome!!

She Is also helping me with some big girl stuff like makeup my nails and just all around giving me a girls a day while treating me like a little girl :) I am soo happy!!

First girls day and first little weekend :) First weekend getting treated like a girl after being out for 4 years :)

4 Comments
2024/11/02
08:36 UTC

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20M little looking for abdl friends

hey i’m looking for either a caregiver or some other abdl friends to maybe have play dates with. dm if interested.

3 Comments
2024/11/02
08:28 UTC

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New to ABDL, what does it feel like to mess?

Ftm 20– I’m fairly new to this and only started wetting in diapers a few weeks ago but I am really interested in messing but a little nervous. What does it feel like?

12 Comments
2024/11/02
05:45 UTC

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Question about really wet diapers and sleeping.

I have pull ups, and they don't absorb very much in comparison to diapers, before I sleep, they're usually really full and bulky, will sleeping in it irritate my skin?

4 Comments
2024/11/02
05:05 UTC

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More DL and less AB products?

Hayo! Just wanna know if there are any sellers that focus more on the diaper lover aspects that the adult baby ones!

I'm looking for diapers with solid colours (green/purple/black/dark blue etc), or prints that are more 'mature' looking, like dragon heads robots, locks, bio hazard signs and so on! Also would love if there were prints that focussed on single large logos across the front/bottom of the diaper instead of just at the hem of it.

If there even is someone who sells stuff like this please direct me that way! I love the cutesy stuff more than just plain white diapers, but I'd love if there was a selection for the more niche diaper lover who isn't necessarily an adult baby.

4 Comments
2024/11/02
05:02 UTC

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'Done Adulting' by Alex Bridges

Anybody else read this amazing story? I read both volumes and it's one of the most wonderful stories I've read. I finished reading it a couple weeks ago and can't stop thinking about it.

To anyone who hasn't read it, I'd highly recommend. I think many of us ready abdl stories to scratch an itch, but this one was just....different.

Summary if you're curious: Some time ago on earth, an inter-dimensional portal was established to a world almost exactly like our own. In the other dimension everyone is ~15-18 feet tall and more intelligent/evolved, but only slightly. They view humans as children and treat them as such. There's an adoption agency on earth where people may choose to adopt themselves to a family in the other dimension with a mimimum commitment of ten years. Humans can choose to mentally regress themselves before committing to the adoption, or not.

The protagonist is a guy named Eric, who had a traumatic upbringing in foster homes during his childhood, and as an adult became a social worker. He witnessed some terrible things during his career, and decides to end his time on earth to adopt himself out to a family in the other dimension without being mentally regressed.

In the new world he finds himself in, he is treated quite literally like a toddler due to his comparitve size and the fact that he is a human, or 'little'. Initially he opposes the treatment, but slowly over time learns to let go of his past trauma and accept his new life as a 'little' human in a world full of 'big' people. The progression is fantastic.

Has anyone else read this story? I found it to be quite healing in terms of my own self-acceptance. If you have any similar story recommendations I'd love to hear them.

1 Comment
2024/11/02
04:41 UTC

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Spanking your thing?

I like

View Poll

2 Comments
2024/11/02
04:30 UTC

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Just drank a ton of water (and other things) should I wear…

A: nothing/regular underwear B: little kings C: rearz rebel D: pull up

Bonus question: pacifier tonight?

1 Comment
2024/11/02
03:55 UTC

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Advice on ordering from ODU

I want to order from onesies downunder but I’m kinda scared. I can’t use my card bc my parents still have access to it and can’t get my own, any suggestions?

1 Comment
2024/11/02
03:17 UTC

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Simple Green Onesies?

I'm looking for a green onesie. I know ABU has some, but they're out of stock in my size, and judging by previous posts, they may not be restocking them. Any other ideas for where to get a simple green onesie...other than the company that shall not be named with the crappy plastic snaps?

4 Comments
2024/11/02
02:34 UTC

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Bored anyone from Indiana

Just bored and looking for friends that is diaper lover

1 Comment
2024/11/02
02:19 UTC

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How do you feel about plastic backed vs cloth backed diapers?

I’ve tried both and I don’t understand the appeal of plastic backed. Whenever I would wear them, they felt so hot and sweaty and made my tush too warm. It made it even worse when I wet them or was out on a hot day. But with cloth backed ones they feel more breathable and less likely to get a rash. Does anyone feel the same way? Can you convince me otherwise?

6 Comments
2024/11/02
00:21 UTC

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Happy Halloween!!

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2024/11/01
16:46 UTC

11

Indian liquor business using our acronym…🤣

On a whole other note a blended malt scotch whisky sounds wonderful. Especially if I’m diapered for the night!!

5 Comments
2024/11/01
21:39 UTC

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Diaper day is the best day!!

1 Comment
2024/11/01
23:35 UTC

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Just a quick peak :3

Hi!! I was dazzling-tart but I moved over to a new account for a fresh start! We’re Bunny 20F and Kitty 23F and we’re new here!! Just documenting our silly lil journey :p

2 Comments
2024/11/02
01:05 UTC

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Best Wife Ever

“Mommy” stocked me up as a 6 year wedding anniversary present!

So happy I divorced the last toxic wife, and found the love of my life🥰

13 Comments
2024/11/02
01:39 UTC

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