I’m a genetic female and I’m curious how hard have yall fought it to find an abdl partner?

I’m wanting to someday find another girl or boy to be with who likes it like me

I personally like wearing them and would hope my partner In the future would to

What are your experiences?

Hello everyone, if you want to follow along this story…. I just bought a new “special” bed that is enclosed with high padded walls and a locking gate, it will be like a locking crib/enclosure for me.

Lookup “sleep safe Tall bed”, I specifically looked around for a Tall models… I’ve been holding out watching secondhand sales, and I’m so glad to say I finally found one!

It comes as a Twin size, but I have plans to widen it to a Fullsize, but for now just want to enjoy it before I make any big changes. I’ll also need to add mounts for my Segufix restraints and want to add a timer maglock setup for the segufix so I can lock myself in securely.

Right now I’m waiting on a friend to bring it over to me (it was a long drive away and I didn’t have a vehicle big enough to carry it, so I had to call-in a favor)

I’m So excited just wanted to share, and show-off a bit. Will update more when I get it setup.

Manufacturer’s picture (mine is slightly different colours) https://sleepsafebed.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/SSR-SleepSafer-Bed-Specification-TALL-092024.pdf

Does anybody remember how Bilbng86 double his diapers to be so thick before his tumblr was removed ? Many thanks :))

Hi guys, so I have been wetting in diapers for a little bit of time now but I just heard that if you sit in a wet one for too long you can get UTIs or yeast infections and basically the recommendation is to change as soon as possible after wetting…

I am now pretty anxious thinking about this - I don’t know fuck all about proper diapering and the care that I need to be taking to stay clean and sanitary and healthy

Here is what I’m thinking so far: Dry diaper can be worn for up to three hours max, maybe two?? then upon wetting, should be instantly removed.
After wetting, I guess I should like, pour water over my area/use baby wipes to clean the urine and smell and stuff, and then moisturize my skin with body cream (not on the exposed part of the genitals ofc like not on the vulva or in the vagina) and wear loose cotton boxers to and loose pants to “air out”??

Is there anything I’m missing here? I really do not want issues down there. My worst fear.

Edit: I want to take the path of the least risk possible while still wearing occasionally

Sooo, I was a little bit drunk past weekend and my GF and I had a conversation again why I so damn like to wear diapers. She doesn’t understand why I like to walk, sit and sleep in wet diapers, but accepts it all and likes to take care of me.

Sometimes I don’t want to wear, because of busy adult life and going straight to little mode isn’t always what comes up in my mind. I find excuses when my GF want to diaper me and I don’t. So while talking, being drunk, diapered and more little than usual. I said I want to wear more. I told her if I refuse to wear, she will get week of daily massage for 20 minutes. But if I wear when she initiate, she will still get a 10 minutes massage on that day…

So now two days later, whe ordered 140 diapers… And when I got home today from a busy work day, she had me in diapers in no time… Guess I will have busy hands from now on…

So I'm 18 and I like to wear diapers I'm going to be honest I love wearing diapers and I love them a lot but I've been trying to hide that part of me because I'm scared that I will be a lone for the rest of my life and before everyone say oh there is someone who would except me I've been in at least 3 relationship and everyone of them judged me for liking to wear diapers and it hurt a lot honestly so now I'm hiding this side of me for a while until I can find someone who will love me and not judge me for it.

Hey, I'm 19 and live with someone but I want to go back to wearing a diaper 24/7 because I've been doing it for 2 years now. . Does anyone have any tips on this? I can tell him subtly or hide it better, or should i tell him directly to save myself stress ?

Hello all, so I have recently purchased myself some real ABDL diapers, as I have been using pull-ups for a while. I was wondering if I should be using baby powder with them, as I have never used it with pull-ups. Will I get a rash if I don’t?

It’s totally okay if diapers are your preferred underwear! That is all ☁️☁️☁️

What’s the longest you’ve worn and how many times did you wet it

Hello everyone, I'm a very close to buying my first pack of ABDL diapers. I've always worn GoodNites or equivalents because I live with family, I wanted to post here because I'm hoping to get some help so I can make the best purchase possible. Due to my living situation I plan on using an Amazon locker so my purchase would have to be done through them to make this possible.

Things about me:

• 6 feet tall
• 170 - 175 lbs
• 28 - 30 inch waist
• Average size penis

Preferences:

• Budget friendly and market price diapers
• Diapers that emulate the late 90s and early 2000's baby diaper style like ABU Super Dry kids
• Pure white diaper or ones with the landing strip design, I'm open to ones that replicate late 2000's, 10s and modern design as well

Questions:

• Would you recommend a chasity cage for someone easily aroused by diapers and want to wear casually for longer periods?
• Would it be better to point my penis downwards for better wetting? I ask because I've tried with GoodNites before but I my bonner just realigns my penis upwards.

Thank you for reading this, I love this sub and the community because everyone always seems ready to help at any time.

Also first post here soo yea

So long story short I left the house forgot to lock my door I live with my mother. She gets home before me and I call her before I go to collage around 5:30pm ish and she did not say shit about it. Soo it’s not like I’m hiding em in my room probably should have at least tried a little to hide em in there but any way I got home about 30 min go she is sleeping I see my doors wide open making this Hole thing. She will probably be cool about it after explaining it all to her then she will ether go way over the top or we will just act like it never happened what you all think

So I thought my Self the last few weeks if there were benefits to wear a diaper and not like yeah you don’t need to go to toilet well that’s obvious but like as a girl you just have it normal as a underwear it can just hold pee realy well nothing bothers (I guess idk I’m not an girl sadly) but as a guy your thing is squeezed up when you get a random Bonner you can’t pee and it’s a bit hard to enjoy in my opinion but I wanna know if there are some benefits to wear a diaper as a guy because I’m always a person who sees everything negative so I would be happy if someone would give me some because I can’t think of one

Got diapered early before bed and I forgot to go get groceries so this should be exciting.

As a caregiver, I see diapers as both, depending on the moment and the mood. For instance, I love seeing my Babygirl in her diaper no matter the setting. She can be incredibly hot when wearing a diaper with lingerie, playfully kissing me and being flirty. At the same time, she’s irresistibly cute when she’s curled up on me in a baggy shirt that barely covers her diapered bottom, peacefully falling asleep.

I’m curious how others feel about this. Do you see diapers as hot, cute, or a mix of both? There’s no wrong answer—I just want to hear your thoughts and the reasons behind them!

I got my first ABUs today, a sample of dinos and peekabus. Ive previously only worn reusable cloth diapers with velcro from DependEco (highly recommend!)

So trying to tape a dino diaper on today for the first time- they just dont seem to stick? And it seems like the adhesive area is tiny? I feel like I must be missing something or doing something wrong. Im reaching the landing zone no problem, but as soon as I move at all they pop right open. I was so excited at work all day knowing Id come home to new diapers and it was really disappointing to have such a struggle. I tried to get my Daddy to help after my failed attempts and he wound up ripping one of the tapes off entirely.

Any tips?

Now my friend sent a video today in WTF Springfield, if ykyk what that is and where.

It's a huge city wide Facebook group where you can post wtf moments that people see around town.

Now that, that is addressed for what that is let's get into it. Today there was a video of an older man in pink shirt, pink skirt that was above his ass and above his everything up to his tummy. He had pantyhose on and.....a pink rearz diaper. In a dollar general.... very exposed. Now I'm not an older DL and the weird part is everyone's saying so many reasons why he was wearing it all. (He lost a bet - He's into something weird) yk the regular, some were defending him and saying "let people live and do what they want!!!" But it was an ABDL like rearz princess diaper or something not just a medical diaper that can be bought at anywhere retail wise.

Now that we've addressed that. I am and I KNOW so so so many others are apart of regular society and keep this in private and sometimes yall do public things and alot of the time it's under your pants or shorts or leggings or even a skirt with shorts. But it's never exposed. And I normally don't get on here and yap about something like this and normally people are overreacting or take a picture of someone's but and see some peekage and make fun of it, so what at that point.

This is NEVER okay to just be exposed to public and if you are in the abdl here and see this. I want you to know please don't wear and expose in public, if you want to. Cover. Yourself. Up. Please.

No one of regular society wants to see an old person wearing a tutu and have pantyhose on at dollar general with their kids or even a regular person. KEEP YOUR KINKS PRIVATE. THE VIDEO HAS SEVENTY SEVEN THOUSANNDDD VIEWS. THATS A QUARTER OF SPRINGFIELD DUDE.

Now no hate i don't want you to die, I don't pray bad things on you. I will actually keep you in my prayers that this hits your heart in a loving way as if I was your friend telling you to not do something that's a bad decision.

Is there anyone in here who is on my side with this at all. And I would love to hear your guys thoughts on this please 🙏 I feel almost crazy posting this but I feel like this was needed to be said.

So I just got my first job so I treated myself to some dipies

I got these from Aldi for £3.89 for a pack of 9 which is 43p a diper

They are actually really comfy are have the padding of an abdl one but without the plastic and they are so comfy

Better than the Tesco ones I used last time

an absolute grail (price tag is 1,000 bucks) is it worth it?

Is this a good stash for an occasion wearer or do i need more?

As the title states. I already shopped black friday. I'm surprised Little For Big didn't do anything.

Does anybody have any reviews on these diapers as I may be purchasing but I want some reviews on them first, if anyone would like to show me pictures of them wearing them don’t hesitate to dm me!

So this is something I came across so I was drinking Powerade and went to bed make sure I’m diapered before bed as it was comfortable for me and makes me sleep better at night. Well I don’t remember wetting my diaper so I woke up in the morning and I noticed my diaper was so full I was kinda embarrassed but at the same time feels good in a wet diaper made me felt vulnerable and little.