Idk if this is allowed but if so who would like to send diapered snaps? If so add me celestialshoota

I was in a comment conversation and it got me thinking about how many people here see this as just a kink, compared to those who see this as who they are (something you can’t change but goes deeper then just sex)

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I love my baby! Slow danced the other night. I still get chills thinking about it. Any idea how to make it more babyish??

Hi, my new girlfriend is into abdl and I'm getting there. She wants me to plan something for us to do online tomorrow night after I have her put on diapers and I told her I absolutely would and I absolutely can't come up with anything. She likes tasks and when I'm firm and being humiliated and bullied. But I only know how to be a sweet and gentle domme. So any advice at all about how I can please her would be appreciated.

I'll start this by saying that I'm a fiend who does the top tapes first, which I've quickly gathered is a crime like no other around these parts, so maybe that's why I feel this way... but I feel like with some of my diapers, the bottom tapes aren't even necessary. If I get the top tapes snug enough, then the fit around my legs is already perfect, and actually taping them ends up too tight. Does anyone else feel like they don't always need the bottom tapes?

My wife has known about me being ABDL since the beginning of our relationship, and I'd never so much as tried on a diaper when we'd first met. About 8 months into our relationship she encouraged me to buy my first pack of Bambino's and a pacifier, and I only wore maybe once ever few months.

Over time I've gotten the courage to wear more around her and while she has boundaries she's recently said she would accept if I wanted to wear every day while I'm working (we both work from home) or at night. Not that I need it every day, but she said one thing that bothers her is the amount of plastic waste I'm making. We've always tried to reduce waste where we can, so I totally get it.

She suggested cloth diapers, which I'm 100% for but I wouldn't know where to begin. I don't want to do anything with safety pins and I'm not sure how I feel about plastic pants yet. Anyone have some good suggestions for a comfortable, not crazy bulky, cloth diaper? I like thick squishy diapers but I'd imagine cloth are a very different experience entirely.

As the title suggests, how do I ask my mother to buy me diapers? I’ve been exploring my kinks and fetishes, and things that make me feel safe and I think being an ABDL will help with that. She knows I have bottles and a paci, but I don’t know how to ask her for diapers or onesies… can you please give me suggestions? She finds it really weird and doesn’t necessarily accept it.

Something about the thickness makes me me safe, like no one can see me. I naturally have a very big butt and that makes me feel self conscious because bending over or anything really. I always feel like I’m being stared at(even tho I know this likely isn’t true). But when I wear a diaper, even just a thin medical one, I feel like my butt is safely covered. Like no one is staring, like I can bend over and do my job without being embarrassed. My wearer a dang drugstore diaper right now for my period and I just feel clean and comfortable and safe. Idk why

Hi everyone so I been thinking about this for a year now and let me introduce myself first I’m Maze I’m 26 ,transgender and autistic. so I have a feeling that a lot of ABDL not all but a lot are autistic and I couldn’t find any research about this but do you think that some autism people prefer diapers than underwear in a way? Not saying that there using them in public but more of a comfort thing like a sensory feel. whenever my friends told me why I like diapers I tell them because i like the comfort of wearing diapers and such. So I wonder if diapers plays a role in the autism spectrum part

Hey peeps, just wondering fpr anyone who has a iPhone, where do yall save ur diapee pictures, i dont want them on my camera roll 😅

One of the forums, I don’t remember which I read someone said “ if there was option get rid of my diaper desire for good , I would “

Saying that , we are all wired this way, not really having option to stop having this kink.

If there was a magic switch, just to turn it off for good would you?

I am a trucker

  I finally got up the courage to check into a receiver padded.

Not only that, but it was sooo soggy!

So I got an ingrown toenail cut out this morning and the doctor told me to stay off my feet as much as possible for the next 24 hours. So I took that as you need to put a diaper on when you get home. Sounds right to me

Imagine if we could get some non babyish cloth backed diapers for the DLs like myself out there who aren’t really down to wear something with a baby lion or alligator on it with ABCs lol. Imagine if the Str8up line came out with a cloth backed option on top of the plastic backed that’s already offered, that would be the dream. Diaper gods, I hope you see this. 🙏🏻

Fellow DLs out there who feel similarly, what kind of plain or simple prints would make you happy?

Have you heard of this saying?

It's been making the rounds in the baby/diaper fur side of the ABDL community and is meant to be a calling card to other undercover ABDLs like the saying "A friend of Dorothy"

Is this something people in the community outside of the furries have been adopting?

Just curious :3

Since yesterday I've been wearing a pullup and pretending like using the potty is a big achievement. Showing off how good I am at it to the bigs I know has been decent at "microdosing" little space for me. Also decided to ask permission to use the potty to add a little bit of dependence to it. Overall fun experience gonna keep doing it.

I don’t know how I didn’t figure this out before but jeans are the absolute best for covering up even thick diapers.

I (29m) like most here love to wear and wet my diapers; but finding time to just sit at home and do that all day isn’t common so I wanted to find a way to go about my day to day and still be able to wet my diaper all day long. Jeans are the go to now and can hide the largest of bulges of a a thick diaper, currently in a 6x wetted Sunkiss Masterpiece (knockoff MegaMax) and feel like no one would be able to tell.

Thought others would like to know :)

You should read these before this one so you know the backstory behind this:

First Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/ABDL/s/X65W05Ygqs

Second Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/ABDL/s/lETA6osFk9

I had gotten a really good alibi for "going to town" last second where I was asked by a friend to ask some people in this shop something - which meant my parents wouldn't been as suspicious when I was going into the city!

I got off the bus and went to the shop, shopping bag in hand I swiftly grabbed the drynites while slowly walking to checkout out, scanned it so fast that it was like a blur and got out with nobody looking in sight.

(maybe the guys at the camera but hopefully no one else😅)

When I got back, I tried to fit it in the hiding space I was planning but it didn't fit..

well actually, it would but a bar is in a way so I've hid it somewhere else that will be secure enough until I get the time to hide them properly.

It's now safe and I can't wait to grab the first one when my family is doing something or I am home alone!

Thank you for everyone who supported me and I give a good luck to any other new abdls who are taking their first-step into this!

Yesterday I had an experience where my partner and i tried something after I told him that I would like to try diapers in a degrading way. Now for some context, we already have a power exchange and participate heavily into a bdsm lifestyle. So we are both aware what i like when it comes to being degraded, We have dabbled in piss play before but not with diapers specifically. We had sex, doggy because it just kinda worked with having to pull it to the side, and ( i’m on some extremely good BC that has saved my ass for almost 3 year ) and he came in me and slide it back in place and made me sit in it for about an hour ( didn’t want to get something kind of reaction to it ) Honestly, i loved it. I love being degraded, we do a lot of pet play so i like the whole “being bred” thing. But i never really considered diapers to be sexual until we tried this. Am i alone in this or is this more prominent than i think? If so what are you guys doing? ——

I am traveling to dallas soon for work, is there a ked supply store that sells plastic diapers? Even something like abena, molicare etc? I know there aren’t any abdl stores

I need help. I need some ideas for masturbation. I am planning a weekend all by myself. I already ordered some diapers and collected my cum in the freezer for a while. (I don't know why 😂)

So, i am male, an abdl and ok with anal play. I also got a good variety of toys and girly/baby clothes.

I like baths and being tied.

And crazy ideas? 😊

As i am wearing more in my day to day life (tabbed diapers) i am exploring a “diaper light” option, although my experience with pull ups before are they are garbage, have leaked with one wetting.

I am looking for something that can actually take one or two wettings that I can wear on days I don’t want to wear a tabbed diaper.

Last night I let myself get so desperate to pee that my bladder was bulging out of my stomach. I put on a diaper I found and just let go. I almost cum hand free just because of how intense it felt. I have been watching a lot a videos of people messing themselves and I really wanna try but I’m nervous.

For some reason I always get incredibly anxious about opening up to others. It's not that I'm scared she's going to leave me or anything I an just incredibly scared to tell her and I don't know how to do it or even initiate the conversation.

Looking for ideas that will lead lots of changes so we can stop being shy about diapers with each other

As the title says. And it was actually my first time padded outside of the house.

I was curious about riding my motorcycle while wearing for quite a while and i finally got the courage. It was amazing. The seat was double as comfortable and combining two of my passions just felt so nice.

Also i weirdly never had to go to the toilet while riding and i didnt drink anything prior because i didnt intend to use it while out. But the universe had other plans and suddenly i had the strong urge to pee, so i thought oh well and at the next stop light i just stood up and let go. Was the best experience i had in a while.

I hope this can ecourage someone else to do something like this if they're unsure. Anyway, thanks.

IDK if i'm crazy, but she never did that before. Is that a thing ? Because of me ?

I was so excited, diapers arrived and my onesie and I felt awesome, laid them out for the night and wore them for a while, then the second I take them off. I just feel horrible now, I feel guilty for wearing them, the second I take them off I just feel like I did a bad thing? Like I feel like now something bad will happen to me, it felt nice to wear them but I ain’t sure what to do.