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34 [M4F] CG and daddy looking for my perfect clingy girl #ontario #serious

It’s always hard for me to make some of these, but here’s a go. I’m looking to make a good little girls night with cuddles, diaper changes, and lots of love… message me if you’re interested.. kinky ones get front row. I love clingy girls who are super dependent on me. Don’t worry I’ll spoil you :)

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2024/11/02
13:25 UTC

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36 m northeast Indiana

Hey everyone! Just another ABDL looking for online friends or anyone that just wants to talk! DMs are open 😎

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2024/11/02
12:53 UTC

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32 [M4F] MA- looking for caregiver

I am looking for an understanding and empathetic caregiver. I have been a DL since I was young due to a health issue. I would like to wear diapers 24/7.

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2024/11/02
12:43 UTC

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18[F4A] thinking of getting goodnites today!

hehe hiii

i was thinking of holding my bladder today, but i allllsooo want to make sure i don’t get any leaks anywhere 🙈 plus i love how the padding feels against me hehe

come encourage me!! im a little nervous. i also would love to show off when i finally get them hehe. i just need compaaany. make me yours.

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2024/11/02
12:35 UTC

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24M I will be diapered later today. Give me tasks to do in my diaper!

You can DM me if you are wanting to see more of it!!

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2024/11/02
12:27 UTC

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20 M in Philly, PA

Looking for another guy my age ONLY!❤️

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2024/11/02
11:49 UTC

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[21M] M4A I need a mommy or daddy online

I’m a 21 year old male from the uk looking for a daddy or mommy to put me in diapers. Punish me or do whatever they wanted to me. I want someone who is in it for the long run and it’s looking for a baby to own and make a them be diaper 24/7

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2024/11/02
11:28 UTC

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39 [M4F], #Ontario Canada - seeks ABF, ANR, Breast Play

ABF, ANR is the relation which I crave everyday. Whenever I wake up or try to sleep, I will look for some breasts to suckle on or latch on. Even if she does not lactate, I wish to nurse her dry happily everyday.

My intention is to give loving, soothing and healing touch to someone's breasts and in helping her in inducing lactation and giving her relief from the pressure built in her engorged breasts by long hours nursing.

When it comes to inducing lactation, I wish to commit myself to it like my full time job or my duty and as service to my lady. Not just lactation, but I am also very curious to massage some breasts, playing, groping and all kind of sensual loving plays with them. I want to hear her moaning while she relax and rest and I massage and caress her curves up top.

I am very passionate for those women who believe that lactation affirms their femininity like nothing else and want to gift their milk as a mother's nectar to hungry babies. I am passionate for those women whose sensuality radiate from their nipples. I am very passionate for those women who experience a fierce power, a rediscovered link to a forgotten goddess of beauty and life, when their breasts get filled with milk and that goddess connection is more powerful and straightens their core with a radiance when making milk without birthing. My dream is to draw my name on her breasts which can never be erased. And the way she will press my face into her chest and stroke my hair and whispers in my ear or kiss on my forehead or cheeks, that magical bond I am looking for. I am looking for someone who calls me or texts me and tell me that "Honey, I am full and I need you. My nipples are aching for you and my milk is just ready to burst and flow like a river. I want to nourish you on my chest."

I'd love to have you direct your nipple into my mouth as I do my part and latch on, suckling you and feeling the closeness as I nurse from you, and you nurse me. Not in a baby way, but in a sensual way of two adults enjoying this special, warm bonding experience.

I crave for those hungry grunts, satisfied moans, long deep breaths, sloppy slurping suckling sounds as milk gushes and over flows from my mouth. Nuzzling my face into the soft, warm cleavage between two big breasts is one of the most wonderful feelings, second only to the feel of sweet milk spraying the back of your throat as I suckle her stiff nipple, I'll either fall asleep or become extremely turned on while enjoying the relaxation and vulnerability of suckling in a gentle environment and feeling the soothing and caring energy. It can be deeply rewarding to experience a unique blend of sensuality and relaxation while letting go in your own world. Laying, relaxing allowing my latch to separate your body from your mind, from the world, the obligations, the pressure, the stress, and a moment of control.

To me, ANR is about creating a connection that brings, peace, contentment and relaxation through suckling. ANR is also a double edged sword - it’s such a glorious feeling to have this desire fulfilled, but it’s such an ache when it’s missing.

I am not looking for just an encounter, but a long-term thing as I am serious about this lifestyle. I have never outgrown the need to suckle to soothe and relax myself.

Thank you for reading my post.

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2024/11/02
11:11 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Atlanta - looking for my sweet little

Hi! I'm a 25 yo Daddy/caregiver who is looking for a little of his own to get plenty of love to and dote. I'm an experienced daddy who has been in the lifestyle for a fairly good amount of years!

I'm not that picky of a daddy but I do like a little who's sweet, kind , a little clingy and who's just fine and sweet to be around. I would love to find a little I could give all my care and affection to and dote on. I want a little who's willing to live and explore the lifestyle with me 24/7 and takes the ddlg dynamic very very seriously. I also prefer someone equally as kinky as me but that can be talked about later

I strongly prefer local but online is ok as long as we plan to meet in the near future.

When messaging me pleas include your age and location. Also let me know what you're looking for in a relationship and how you would like things to progress.

Feel free to ask me any questions! I love to tell random facts so expect some! Hope to talk to and find someone soon! Thanks for reading!

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2024/11/02
10:53 UTC

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F4a 20 little for cg online

Hi im stella an im looking for a firm cg to help me regress full time for a while. If your intrested DM me

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2024/11/02
10:47 UTC

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22 [M4F] Online Little Girly Boy Looking to chat

Hello I’m just a little girly boy looking for his sweet girl to chat with about being all little and girly, if this interests you then dm me

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2024/11/02
09:39 UTC

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19 t4a looking for loving daddy or mommy local too #illinois

Dm me if your interested in chatting and maybe becoming cg and little couple.

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2024/11/02
09:31 UTC

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32 [M4F] PNW - DL : looking long term, but also down to chat!

Hey there!

I am a 32 year old currently living in the Pacific Northwest. I'm into improv comedy (watching and participating), soccer, baseball, hiking and other outdoor activities, just to name a few things! I tend to listen to a lot of punk, indie, and other alternative music but I am not picky about music in general. I love learning new things and am always down to try new things and experiences.

I am looking for someone to share my life with. Someone who wants to go bring the house down at karaoke. Someone to go on adventures with, hiking, camping, exploring. Someone who wants to be in the same room while we do our own separate little hobbies. Someone who doesn't mind taking control sometimes. Must love cats.

Mostly into wearing diapers but I have a few little/middle tendencies. Not 24/7 and have no desire to be. It would be great if you like wearing diapers too but it's not really a deal breaker (I do want to wear together both sexually and not sexually). I also enjoy pegging, spanking, sometimes cross dressing, (between you and me I may or may not be wearing a dress right now) and I really do love giving head.

If you've read this far and any of this resonates with you, message me! To let me know you've read this please include "red red red" in your message.

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2024/11/02
09:04 UTC

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35 [M4A] looking for little friends for hangouts and playtime together! CGs welcome too!

Hai! 🤗

I am a 35 year old switch who is both a CG and little, and lately moreso little! I love video games, movies and cartoons and I'm also a 420 stoner little. I have to because I have chronic pain and it's medical necessity, but I also enjoy it! So bonus points if we can have online smoke sesh and chats too!

I am looking for little friends to hangout with regularly and maybe we can be besties?

For games I love alot of games, Minecraft, no Man's sky, Warframe, FFXIV, and so much more. I love zombie shooters too, but I do not play any form of battle royals sorry, a lot of fps games I avoid minus zomzoms..hehe .

Movies shows and anime I watch so many things tbh I can't even begin to list. I'll just say my favorite little shows are Lilo and stitch (I love stitch hehe) bear in the big blue house, and a anime called black clover.

I'm nuerospicy and part of a DID system. So please respect that. I prefer other nuerospicy people.

Anyhow I also love being affectionate in a friendly way as well. So hugs and cuddles all around. Looking for friends but if it evolves that's ok. Just know I'm poly and have two partners. So if that's a issue in dating we can just be friends hehe.

As far as NSFW, once comfy I am ok with that if you are, but I'm also very ok with not as well. I just thought I'd throw it out there for compatibility reasons, you can just let me know if you want that and we can discuss kinks, otherwise I'll assume strictly platonic hehe.

I can't wait to hear from you! Also daddies mommies and CGs welcome to message, or couples! Can always use CG friends too!

I respond to everyone if there's a delay I feel asleep and will respond in morning

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2024/11/02
09:03 UTC

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38 [M4f] #UK Delightfully Deviant Daddy Dom type seeking little spoon for Communication, Consent and Cuddles...

Hello there, I’m going to preface this with an apology for length (I don’t get to do that too often) and a request that you read through thoroughly, so you have a decent idea of who I am and what and who I’m looking for.

I’m Adam; I’m 38 and live in a rural part of the North West of England. I’m six feet tall, have short blonde hair and blue eyes, my voice is quite deep and would consider myself quite well spoken. I’ve a secure, professional job which I enjoy and gives me a decent amount of time and means to entertain myself. My interests are broad, I’m on a bit of a history binge at the moment but also enjoy pulp sci-fi or fantasy. I do a bit of gaming; mainly RPGs and 4x types (I’m getting a bit long in the tooth for twitch based shooters and getting tea bagged by children). Physically I do a fair bit of swimming and I’ve made a start on bagging the Wainwrights this year in an effort to get back to my fighting weight. I’m an avid Radio 4 enjoyer when I’m in the car and have no particular musical taste. My sense of humour can be juvenile at times; life’s too short to get up tight and cringe at a fart joke. My 'Reddit horoscope' consistently comes out as ENTP. I would consider myself easy going, have been described as unflappable (I tend to keep my head when everyone else is losing theirs, possibly due to a lack of self awareness), and take what I do seriously but not myself. At work I get involved a lot with mentoring off my own back and pre COVID did a lot of STEM outreach work with schools. I’m in good physical and mental health, with no chronic issues and Jeffrey Epstein didn’t kill himself. As for the kickers; I have a child of late primary school age from a previous relationship. I am still active in their life and they spend an average of one night a week with me. I’m not looking for someone to palm off any roles and responsibilities with regards to that in the slightest, I can manage that aspect fine, but there needs to be an awareness that I have that commitment. I am ambivalent about having more children, more with the right person would be great but I will not go to my deathbed feeling unfulfilled having only sired one heir.

With regards to what I’m looking for; I’m drawn to the concept of providing structure and nurturing someone and I feel like the CG/l, ‘soft/daddy Dom’ thing fits me as well as any label could. I’m looking for something long term; a life partner. I’ve had a couple of long-distance things over the years and have plenty of play experience. Obviously, every relationship is different, there’s no cookie cutter dynamic that I’m looking to apply. My kink list is pretty broad and I’m always open to new things; this can all be discussed at a later date (I’m not looking to jump into NSFW conversations straight off the bat). I will say that I do have a big thing for nappies so it would be nice that you would indulge in at least wearing one occasionally. Limits are the standard; poo, blood, vomit, anything illegal and any public play that isn’t very discrete. I’m not overly sadistic and wouldn’t consider myself a ‘brat tamer’ but I don’t mind enforcing rules as and when required. I’m not sure how I feel about ‘daddy’ as a moniker for obvious reasons and I find a few elements of age play a bit cringey; I can’t indulge baby talk with any seriousness (I would definitely be more on the ‘DL’ side of the AB/DL spectrum). I’m just as happy engaging in caregiving activities and having cuddles as I am devolving into degenerate sexual activity… I’m pretty meticulous with planning play with partners so there are no unwelcome surprises. I don’t want to jump into any sort of dynamic in a rush and you can probably expect some little research/writing tasks before we start to ease into anything (and you are free to ask the same of me). I’m interested in exploring some form of power exchange but it’s going to take a lot of time and trust for both parties before that discussion even begins.  I have no desire to switch and can’t see it being a thing for me in the future.

As to who I’m looking for… I don’t really have a ‘type’. Ideally you should be shorter than me (not difficult), of a reasonably healthy weight or working towards it. I value curiosity above most, if not all, traits in someone, as well as the ability to maintain a conversation (not necessarily lead it) and keeping an open mind. Turn offs are the inability to see issues from another’s perspective and slow walkers. I appreciate everyone has their struggles, baggage, good and bad days but I’m not a therapist and I don’t want to deal with anyone with untreated/severe mental health issues. Consistency of communication is a must; I appreciate that real life gets in the way from time to time and I will let you know if I’m going to be unavailable for more than a few hours; I won’t leave you hanging on read and I would like that to be reciprocated. With regards to location; I’m looking for Little Miss Right, not Little Miss Right Now and can do the distance thing but for personal and professional reasons I can’t move so you should ultimately be willing to relocate to me. I don’t have an age range in mind but if I’m old enough to be your actual dad by all means drop me a message but you’re really going to have to have something about you for us to click.

Thank you for listening to my TED talk, if you’re still here then you can take yesterday off. If you’re interested in what you’ve read then feel free to message me or start a chat and tell me a bit about yourself; as an icebreaker if you want to tell me two truths and a lie and try and guess mine…

-I’ve lived in an Arabian Palace -I’ve worked in the Arctic circle -I’ve climbed the tallest mountain in Malaysia

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2024/11/02
08:29 UTC

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27M4F looking for CG

Might be a long shot but would any female CGs be interested in a play partner? I’ve been missing the social aspect of this kink.

I’m a singer/guitarist/pianist and like to make originals! Usually lofi or chill RnB stuff. Sometimes indie or punkish.

I really enjoy reading up on health science, tech, and watching movies! The best movies are the ones that are so incredibly dumb that theyre funny. Extra points if you’ve seen Airplane.

I am 5’8 and do have a bit of a belly (that I’m working on) but if you are tall or taler that is most definitely NOT a problem at ALL. I currently live in Florida but work remote!

When in littlespace I’m usually VERY little like 1-3yrs and very wiggly, snuggly, and excitable. I enjoy soft and sweet roleplay with a cg and all the activities that come with it! But I also love the idea of hypnosis, getting dressed up, and being talked into having zero big boy thoughts.

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2024/11/02
07:43 UTC

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56m Broken hearted wannabe baby boy yearning for irl mommy in the Atlanta Georgia area for relationship.

I'm looking for a mommy in the Atlanta Georgia baby that will transition me from a closet Diaper Lover to an Adult Baby for her pleasure and enjoyment.

Why and Adult Baby and not some other fetish?

I think it has to do with a nearly fatal accident when I was a child. I was in the hospital for a semester of school and confined to a bed. So, I had others taking care of me 24/7. That is the only conclusion that I can come to.

That being said, I'm looking for a mommy to start a mommy/baby relationship with. She would force me to do all things baby. I would be forced to use diapers as they are intended to be used, eat baby food, drink from bottles etc.

As mommy is the adult figure I would expect punishments for bad behavior.

I like to play with Legos, Lincoln Logs, coloring books, and like Bugs Bunny cartoons.

As mommy is the adult she chooses clothing, whether I'm in diaper and t-shirt, or just a diaper.

Mommy has the right to place her hand on the front of baby's diaper feeling it get warm as he wets his diaper.

Mommy has the right to place her hand on the back of baby's diaper feeling the bulge grow as he messes his diaper.

Mommy has the right to have baby's diaper exposed even when her friends come to visit.

Mommy even controls when diaper changes occur.

I would love to talk to my future mommy.

I'm looking for a mommy in the Atlanta Georgia baby that will transition me from a closet Diaper Lover to an Adult Baby for her pleasure and enjoyment.

Why and Adult Baby and not some other fetish?

I think it has to do with a nearly fatal accident when I was a child. I was in the hospital for a semester of school and confined to a bed. So, I had others taking care of me 24/7. That is the only conclusion that I can come to.

That being said, I'm looking for a mommy to start a mommy/baby relationship with. She would force me to do all things baby. I would be forced to use diapers as they are intended to be used, eat baby food, drink from bottles etc.

As mommy is the adult figure I would expect punishments for bad behavior.

I like to play with Legos, Lincoln Logs, coloring books, and like Bugs Bunny cartoons.

As mommy is the adult she chooses clothing, whether I'm in diaper and t-shirt, or just a diaper.

Mommy has the right to place her hand on the front of baby's diaper feeling it get warm as he wets his diaper.

Mommy has the right to place her hand on the back of baby's diaper feeling the bulge grow as he messes his diaper.

Mommy has the right to have baby's diaper exposed even when her friends come to visit.

Mommy even controls when diaper changes occur.

I would love to talk to my future mommy.

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2024/11/02
06:32 UTC

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20Ftm looking to chat with anyone about their abdl experience

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2024/11/02
06:05 UTC

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28 M looking for F, looking to chat or rp :)

Hey, 28 M from Ontario, Canada here. Looking for someone to chat or roleplay. Message me if you're interested. Kinks: Diapers, age regression, humiliation, public, messing, babytalk

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2024/11/02
05:55 UTC

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18mfa anyone wanna chat

My name is Kyle just wanting to meet friends irl or online, I’m in Phoenix az btw

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2024/11/02
05:48 UTC

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18[M/Fb4A] looking for a mommy or daddy in North Texas

I'm a little in North Texas looking for a mommy or daddy to diaper me and make me their little.

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2024/11/02
05:47 UTC

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25 [M4A] Come “Play” with me!

Let’s play! DM me!

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2024/11/02
05:36 UTC

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27f looking to chat

Experienced sub looking to explore this community even deeper, I have some gear but need some guidance 🥺 pm me

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2024/11/02
05:26 UTC

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20 bi f make me admit the truth

I (20 bi f) have had quite a few accidents these past few months but I'm still a big girl right? Make me admit what you think is the truth, make me share my fantasy, make me dive into the deep end with my fantasy. Laugh at me, make fun of me, make me admit all the things I need punishing for, make me admit my embarrassing little fantasy, make me tell you my humiliating secret. Please make me admit the truth. Dms are open.

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2024/11/02
05:23 UTC

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19 m4a looking to be blackmailed

I have some photos that i would hate to get out

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2024/11/02
05:18 UTC

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36 M Sydney, looking for diaper friends/daddy. DMs open

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2024/11/02
04:22 UTC

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24/f diapered 24hrs

Have the best opportunity to be completely diaper dependent the next 24 hours. Just put on the first diaper and already having trouble staying dry. Would love a mommy or daddy to talk to/ humiliate and degrade me. I love rough and aggressive

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2024/11/02
04:15 UTC

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18m looking for someone in ny area

Looking for friends or maybe someone to get to know and have a relationship I wear sometimes but trying to get better at cg role in hopes of finding someone

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2024/11/02
03:16 UTC

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35M Experienced Daddy looking for his Babygirl (Australia - Victoria - Melbourne, But open to relocation for the right one)

I am a tall experienced Gentle loving Daddy, I am more into giving the loving nurturing aspect, less into sex or discipline, I am looking for a monogamous long term relationship, and would like to get to know you as a person first before we get into Little/ Daddy as want to find out if we click outside any of the dynamic first as I find that more important.

I am Australian, Back in Australia after jumping around the world trying to find "The one special Little", been Mexico, US, and Canada, I have made plenty of new little friends, but am still looking for You, I speak a little Spanish however mostly English, my preference would be for someone that would be willing to settle down in Australia, however if you are from a majority English country so long as you are prepared to consider Australia than I will consider settling in your country.

For work I suppose I would be classed as Emergency/ Disaster career, worked 000 (think 911), I am a disaster Coordinator at a hospital, Been SES (State Emergency Service), Forensic Pathology, was almost an Intelligence analysis with the Airforce and may go for that again, but suffice to say I'm cool under pressure and takes a lot to unsettle me.

I have a lot of experience with Bipolar, Autistic, Shy, etc, Littles so we can take it as slow as you like, but don't worry if you have a hard time chatting, I like a shy little and find it cute and have a talent for bringing out even the most introverted little.

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I'm looking for a little that likes wearing diapers (wetting only), someone that both wants and wants to give lots of love, I have no issue with a homebody, and with non-sexual littles, I want to be your world, and in turn you mine, someone that loves cuddles, wants to be changed, dressed, bathed, cooked for, likes doing arts and crafts like coloring in drawing or making things.

Outside little, I am wanting someone that would consider themselves to be a bit of a nerd, DnD, Video Games, Books, Likes Animals as I have two cats (brothers) and would like a dog in the future, wants to travel and have adventures even if its just a drive in the country, but also loves staying home and just having a lazy cuddly day in

Feel free to message me, let me know what your top five favorite things to do when little would be

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2024/11/02
02:15 UTC

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48m 4 A Wisconsin

Just checking in to see who all in Wisconsin. Would be nice to find a diaper friend in the state. I am around the Chippewa Valley. Fell free to send me a message.

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2024/11/02
01:54 UTC

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