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Looks for diapered friends with benefits and more to hang out, watch movies, and fill our diapers:3
Hey there!
I am a 32 year old currently living in the Pacific Northwest. I'm into improv comedy (watching and participating), soccer, baseball, hiking and other outdoor activities, just to name a few things! I tend to listen to a lot of punk, indie, and other alternative music but I am not picky about music in general. I love learning new things and am always down to try new things and experiences.
I am looking for someone to share my life with. Someone who wants to go bring the house down at karaoke. Someone to go on adventures with, hiking, camping, exploring. Someone who wants to be in the same room while we do our own separate little hobbies. Someone who doesn't mind taking control sometimes. Must love cats.
Mostly into wearing diapers but I have a few little/middle tendencies. Not 24/7 and have no desire to be. It would be great if you like wearing diapers too but it's not really a deal breaker (I do want to wear together both sexually and not sexually). I also enjoy pegging, spanking, sometimes cross dressing, (between you and me I may or may not be wearing a dress right now) and I really do love giving head.
If you've read this far and any of this resonates with you, message me! To let me know you've read this please include "red red red" in your message.
Hiii, im pretty new here and im looking for someone to help me experiment with my kinks. Im into bondage, being forced to mess myself, toys, orgasm denial and more
Hey all! About me:
About you:
I have sought a caregiver before, but unfortunately, they have not seemed to work out :/ On a positive note, I am here to try again ! I live in the Midwest and my time zone is EST. I am in no rush to meet-up or participate in an IRL relationship/dynamic. So, I prefer to keep things online or long distance. I hope that is okay for the foreseeable future. An additional note, I do have a husband whom knows I am seeking, (he will have no involvement).
While I do seek a caregiver, I wish for fwens or a little of my own too !! All I ask is that you please be older than 21. I hope to find a soft, sweet caregiver that is able to provide support, care, and guidance. One that helps offer direction to mold me into a good little one while understanding and respecting boundaries or when space is needed. I tend to have a lot of leisure time, so it would be nice to have some structure or routine. I hope to share about our days and become close 🙂↕️
As for me, I really enjoy anime ! Tell me what you’re currently watching or your favorites :) Also in my spare time, I like reading, gardening, and playing video games (although I have not been playing much recently 😅). I really enjoy learning about other cultures and hearing the experiences of those around me, so please do not hesitate to share your ethnicity, language, or lifestyle. I usually do not have much going on, so my day-to-day is quite mundane. It would be nice to have someone to share thoughts, emotions, and opinions with. Therefore, I would like to get to know one another intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually before delving into anything little. I am new to this sort of dynamic, but with any relationship, please know that I am demisexual. If you would like to know more, just please ask :)
Thank youu for your interest and reading this far 🫶🏻 I hope to hear from you soon ! Please do not reach out if you only crave something nsfw. I wish to build a friendship before anything more and explore each other’s minds with deep conversation. Au revoir 🙂
Switch just looking for somebody else in this community to explore new things with and talk with, anybody 18+ is welcome to dm
howdy! I'm a silly adult with a creative side. when I'm not indulging my little side, I enjoy listening to music, watching horror movies (especially during October!), writing stories. I work a lot but when I'm not working I love to have fun and be little. I pride myself on my vivid imagination when it comes to creating stories and doing roleplay.
I'm shy, sweet and fun. I value kindness, patience and a good sense of humor in others so if you know how to make someone laugh, I'll surely be a gigglebutt around you! I'm looking for someone who can match my energy and vibe, both in and out of the little dynamic.
I'm seeking someone who is reliable and loves to talk and keep in touch. I appreciate people who have their own passions and can engage in interesting conversations about various topics. It is important to me that we connect on multiple levels, not just as a little and a big. I want someone I can actually be around even if I'm not feeling little. I want a good friend! someone that matches my energy and vibe as I said.
regarding my little side, I see myself as female. a baby girl. I'm drawn to cute things, comfy onesies and creating adorable scenarios through roleplay and my stories I write. I'm looking for an experienced and patient CG who understands the needs of a little one and is willing to explore this world with me and help me learn about myself more.
I would love a dynamic where we can talk regularly about anything that comes to mind, engage in playful roleplay (and come up with cute scenarios together!) and create memorable moments together. I want your big self and your CG self! I'm open to discussing and establishing boundaries to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience for both of us because it is about us, not about just me or just you.
If you're a caring CG with a good sense of humor, enjoy being creative and are interested in forming a genuine connection then I'd love to hear from you. please send a message introducing yourself and include the words "Beep Beep I'ma Jeep!" so I know you've read this thoroughly because I like for people to know the basics about me before we talk a lot.
Hey :) I'm looking for a little (or switch) and would love to chat and see how we get along and such! I am particular that you be from the area though, long distance just honestly doesn't really work for me :(
A little about me, I love to play board games, I love to be outdoors, I love to listen to music, I love to enjoy the joy in others, and that's something that is really gratifying from being in the daddy role. I definitely see myself more as an affectionate big, but can still be very stern if need be. Punishments are fun and I can conjure quite the humiliation, especially since its something I too am into :P. I also have a little side, buried somewhere in there, so that too is something I'm looking forward to exploring!
If you are in the MD/VA area and are looking for either a daddy or little (or both!), then feel free to dm me!
Best of luck in your searches!!
Hi I’m Dan, a loving and nurturing daddy dom near Fresno. I want nothing more to make my future baby smile and laugh while she enjoys little time. However I can be strict and won’t hesitate to punish when she is doing something that isn’t good for her or our relationship.
Helping my baby regress is important to me. I will do this by making her feel safe, knowing I will make all adult decisions and take care of all responsibilities. I love imagining having my baby laying in my lap while I hold a bottle to her lips. She drinks and nuzzles into my chest listening to my heartbeat. It’s an intimate bonding moment with meditative qualities. Acts of service, like giving her a bath, changing her diaper, getting her dressed and playing together are other bonding experiences I cherish.
I am looking for a cisgender girl 18-35 who lives near enough so we can spend time together in person but I’m open to starting long distance with the potential for relocating if we are right for each other. Please be playful and childlike and open to exploring the lifestyle. Ultimately I am looking for my lifelong baby girl but I’m okay with starting small.
Please don’t respond if this is a purely sexual kink for you. Sex is nice but it can get in the way of the loving bond of daddy and baby, especially when it becomes the focus of the relationship.
I can’t wait to hear from you. Please include your name, age, and some description of your little side in your DM. Thanks
Hello! I'm looking for a real little who loves to be babied. I have a lot of "daddy / father" energy and I just need to let it out with someone. Can I read you little kid books? Can I buy you a coloring set? Let me be your dad/daddy/father. Thanks for reading
Note - I am more into ageplay than I am into adult baby or diapers. I just love the parental/caretaker energy.
Hello there. Looking to make friends and hopefully bring more cuteness into my life! Mostly looking for friendship and occasional babysitting when you need it but no pressure or expectations.
I'm missing that lovely feeling of being there for someone and encouraging them so hoping this appeals to someone and if so I'd love to chat! I'm generally a super soft person and enjoy praise and encouragement and will only put my foot down if it's really needed so postive vibes in this chat!
I'm looking for sfw unless we massively click and there's more there but not my expectations going in.
Away from cgl stuff I'm very much into nerdy stuff like sci fi, gaming, started watching some anime so if you have any recommendations that would be nice and would love to chat about random shows and music too.
I often get out to the beach and countryside so expect some random pictures of adventures too and if you feel comfortable sharing I'd love to share in hearing about what you get up to.
Beyond that I'm hoping to just meet a nice person who can have a laugh with me and be friends who happen to also like the same kink. If you're reading this and wondering if you should reach out, you're probably who I'm looking to chat to so don't be shy and say hi!
Bonus points if you tolerate dad jokes 😃
Hello!
I'm Amanda, and I'm currently seeking a dom/cg to help aid me in my unpotty training quest! I want to become diaper-dependent by any means necessary and am hoping for someone to help guide me toward total dependency. I have been wearing it 24/7 for a few weeks now. I only use the potty for messes, but that would be something I'm interested in doing down the road as well. I do have a full-time job, but I've been going to work now since going 24/7.
I am pansexual.
Kinks include but are not limited to, abdl, bdsm, blackmail, orgasm control/denial, cuckqueening, humiliation (public and private), belittling, forced babying, forced regression/diaper usage (wet and or messy) being degraded, hypnosis, de potty training, chastity, locking plastic pants, straight jackets, vibrators/magic wands, dildos/plugs, car seats/highchairs/changing tables/strollers/cribs, hyper diaper usage, futa, and nursing.
Limits: Blood, permanent damage/disfigurations, vomit, vore.
Despite a few attempts, I have never been able to successfully de-train myself, and I feel lost getting to my ultimate goal. I struggle with motivating myself occasionally, and I would love someone to help keep me in line, up to and including blackmail if necessary. I am on the spectrum, and communication isn't always my strong suit, but I will give it my best and try. I keep to my schedule; most of my day is planned well before waking up. I'd love to have someone help guide me and teach me not only about dependency but also about life as the baby I'm supposed to be. That can be up to and including total de-sexualization, only being able to consume childish content, etc. I am willing to change/diaper you if you wear yourself, I don't mind, but I'm not dominant.
Outside of kink, I am an avid reader and writer; I greatly enjoy photography and video games. Although I'm a picky eater, I am slowly teaching myself to cook. For games, I love creative games but also enjoy the occasional shooter too. I like stuff such as Factorio, Portal, the Sims, Minecraft, Escape from Tarkov, World of Warships, Cosmoteer, Apex, Rimworld, Snowrunner, Derail Valley, Stardrew, just to name a few.
Please be patient if I don't get right back to you; girls get a lot of messages when they post on ABDL subreddits...
If you are interested, please shoot me a chat request along with what you like/disliked about my post and what you want in a sub/little.
Cheers! - Amanda
ISO legal, obedient, slender sub female ISO little or middle who enjoy a benevolent Dictator who will support them in coloring their color books but then find themselves gagging on something big as they orgasm for His pleasure. Sapiosexual who desires to be micromanaged, spanked/slapped, disciplined and maybe humiliated privately.
A pacifier goes into your mouth and you sleep on the floor when you are not a good gal. You should be on the slender side with curves and a pretty face. A lack of deference towards Me is a good way to get dropped. I can be cruel at times and this should arouse you.
Bonus points if you get aroused while giving oral to Me and like to roleplay — you enjoy wearing stylish makeup, you’re multiorgasmic (faking it nicely is acceptable) because I can cum three times in an extended lovemaking with the right person, you're a cuckquean or you are busty to your frame.
Extra bonus points for enjoying free use, domestic discipline, patriarch, CNC, begging and orgasm denial. 55 SWM lean muscled build (5’11”), hairy chest and often taken for 40s (recently a colleague who is seven years younger than me said, “When you get to be my age you will understand how getting old wears the body down.” This was his response when I invited him on a seven-mile hike)! Couple of body pics on my feed.
I tend to be a protective teacher Daddy type who obviously enjoys teaching you. It should warm your heart if I start to look out for you outside of the bedroom. My vanilla interests: hot yoga, cultural knowledge, tabletop gaming, video games (preference for Steam), novels, movies & movie trivia, travel, History, red wine, hiking & the many Metaverses. This is a shared fantasy between two consenting adults - 20 or older - probably no older than 43.
This could go towards an LTR in which case you would sometimes need to act “normal” in public circles. Ideally, you are a clever and pretty woman who likes to privately play out some very naughty fantasies. I tend to lean toward traditional roles in a romantic relationship. If I like you enough to go from online to audio and then in-person you should be vaccinated like me and willing to prove it. Long-term audio partners who are never able to meet might work. When I become exclusive with someone you should understand it means the breaking of our audio interactions - unless it arouses her that I am with other women.
I am exacting and seeking a quality experience. When you contact Me put “Excalibur” in your detailed message explaining why I should consider you, including a physical description that includes your height, weight, body measurements and dress size.
If you cannot write at least five sentences to me in your reply I doubt you will get a response. Be ready to voice verify a file to me to prove you are not some guy trolling.
5'11" 196 lbs athletic build blue eyes dark brown hair.
Hey there,
So like the title says I’m a switch looking for someone in SoCal or online to chat or do some roleplay. Feel free to DM me and we can see how match up
I got between iowa and Michigan I'm into car, lifting, sports, anime, video games, and I like to talk to people.
Just go ahead and dm me
Hi! I'm recently 40. I live alone with two cats and a leopard gecko, have a career, I've never been married, and don't have any children (I've had a vasectomy). I'm 5'9" brown hair and have a dad bod.
I am seeking a long term monogamous relationship and hopefully my forever partner.
More about me: I love hiking and being outdoors and active. I love cooking (I have posted some of my food on reddit) and trying new things. I find cleaning to be a stress reliever for me. I love going to flea markets, and thrift stores hunting for Elvis records, under priced comic books, or cursed objects. I love my job and while it can be very mentally demanding at times, I prioritize a healthy work/life balance. My music tastes are all over the map but like The Menzingers, Silverstein, Radio Company, and everything from emo to classic rock to some limited country or rap.
I decorate my living space with Halloween decorations and have an appreciation for anything creepy, spooky, or goth even though I I dress like anyone's Dad in flannel most of the time. (My living space is posted).
About my style: I am a daddy type dom to my core. I really enjoy a needy partner who wants someone to rely on, and trust and I really look forward to building that trust with someone. I will not call you a pet name, or try to establish rules, or make demands of you for a while, and only after the relationship has a very sturdy and healthy foundation. I want to get to know and connect with someone who could potentially be my forever person. I'm patient and respectful and know how much of a nightmare this place can be, so I'll do my best to make things fun and enjoyable
If this will be an online thing for a while we can talk ok the phone or FaceTime and do virtual dates and exchange care packages to make the distance feel smaller.
Experience as both a Dom, daddy, and Dd and I have love for all of those roles. Kink list is extensive but nothing that would be shocking.
I hope I hear from you soon and we can start building something really beautiful together.
Hello, I'm a DL gentle daddy looking for a serious, long term relationship. I have an online little who I adore and I'm ready for something in-person. I'm in NW Arkansas and would prefer you to be within a reasonable driving distance, but willing to start online with the goal to meet in person.
About me: I'm 5'10 and 165 pounds. I'm fairly normal outside of kink, graduated college about 5 years ago and have a regular office job. I'm into sports, trying new breweries, and anything outdoors, especially with my dog. Also love going to concerts (mostly indie, folk, rock, Americana, country).
My kinks include ABDL, DDLG, omorashi, wetting, and teasing/light humiliation. Definitely open to exploring other kinks, specifically impact play. I'm a gentle but firm daddy and I adore taking care of littles. Think diaper checks and changes, cuddles, bath time, play time, giving rewards and punishments, etc. I've been a part of the community for years now and it's my dream to have a little of my own to take care of.
What I'm looking for: A genuine connection with someone both inside and outside of kink. I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship. Please be somewhat close to my age, preferably 20-30.
I’m Sissy Maid Suki who loves wearing cute pink girly diapers whilst doing the household chores. I am loyal, obedient & very subservient. I looking for a kind mommy who I can serve & love 24/7, who in return will nurture & take care of me & complete my training by setting me tasks, etc. Is that you mommy?🤞💋🧷🥰
Hey I’m 19 m UK & im looking for some new friends feel free to comment or dm me Again literally just looking for friends no I don’t want a cg
Hey there! I’m bored at home tonight and definitely in a teasy type mood! I’d love to chat with anyone into abdl! I tend to like the cute sort of stuff, with the humiliation mixed in! Switches are preferred, but a little girl or mommy is fine with me too! Maybe down for some diapered dares and stuff as well!
Outside of kink, Im a grad student who’s close to finishing his masters! I love to hike, camp, play video games, and board games too! Also super into linguistics or sports if you wanna chat about those too!
Hai, I’m Ty! Little age 3! I’m looking for the bestest of buddies to go on adventures wiff and all sorts of cool stuff! Play dates and all. I am married so strictly non sexual friendship is what I’m after!
A little about me, I love cars, trucks, planes, arts n crafts, cartoons, stuffies, puzzles, and video games!
If you wanna chat hmu here!
Thanks for reading!
Haiiiii :3 I'm Lily I've been on HRT for 3 years and I really want to make some abdl connections near me to hopefully got a play party someday!
Hi I'm a Switch looking for a stuffie care taker who is the perfect mix of cute and adorable. The stuffie caretaker will fulfill the following responsibilities. (no MTF please)
Must be an amazing cuddler! Organize and take care of all the animal! You must enjoy pillow forts, sleep overs, cute outdoor dates! You must love being told bedtime stories as well as wear diapers at night to keep the animals (and Daddy) dry😉. If you think you'd like to apply feel free message me for your first interview!
Hey there
I’m a 32 M in the U.S. (Idaho) and I’m a long time diaper lover. I do also love care giving and dominating
What I would love to do is chat with other ABDLs in their mid to late twenties and older. I am very turned on by diaper use, especially stinky diapers!
Please feel free to send me a chat. I’m also open to moving to discord if we hit it off. When sending me a chat; let me know your age, gender, location and a little about you!
Talk to you soon
27 year old, chubbier guy looking to explore being a little and age play in general :).
Hi everyone! My name’s Jarod, I’m a 27y Daddy that lives in the Midwest. A bit about me and what I’m looking for:
I currently work in a children’s hospital and I’m in college for flight nursing (: I’m a bit taller at 6’4, strawberry blonde hair and some facial hair, and I’m a HUGE adrenaline junkie. I love mountain and rock climbing, biking, skydiving, all sorts of adventurous things, but with my more ambiverted personality, I also enjoy staying at home and baking snacks, writing music (I play 3 instruments and sing), cooking, and writing stories!
Some possible dealbreakers for you would be that I’m liberal, Pagan, (my family is Celtic and Native American so we’re not Christian and are pretty deep with our cultural beliefs), a little bit heavier at 250lbs but I’ve dropped almost 50 of that in the last 7 months, and am on the way to drop the last 50 here by the time I graduate! I’m also a soft dom, and not really much of a brat tamer. So if you like/need rougher enforcement and punishment, or you have brat tendencies, I wouldn’t really do well with that and I might not be the fit for you!
About my dom/daddy side, I’ve been in this lifestyle for roughly 8 years. I’ve had a couple irl relationships and a decent amount of experience, but I’m always willing and excited to learn more about this lifestyle and my partner’s needs/wants specifically (: Like I said above, I’m a softer dom. I love having a little because it’s just as cathartic for me as well, giving me a way to destress and focus on my tiny bean. I have always had a knack for taking care of others, and I really enjoy being able to do the small things like tie your shoes, pick outfits, have tea parties, things like that. I also love that I have a role in helping my partner explore her little side and be a soft, encouraging, caring means of support for her to just let go of all the scary adult things and feel safe and protected. It’s a way of healing for a lot of littles and I love being a part of that, having someone to take care of, and showing them that it’s okay to be themselves.
The biggest things in a relationship for me are that the energy is reciprocated between both people, we both realize that we’re adults at the core and have to have normal, healthy foundations for a relationship, that we communicate well, and that we validate and hear the feelings of each other and respect what each other has to say. It’s so surprising how many people on both sides of this dynamic don’t understand the emotional needs of their partner and what is expected in a relationship, so hopefully I can find someone who is emotionally mature and intelligent!
Because of this, I’m not really looking for anyone under like 22-23. I know that people that are younger can be emotionally mature, it’s just a personal preference! I’d also not like anyone over 30-31 (: All I ask is that if you’re far away, be willing to go 50/50 on visits with me when we get comfortable with it, but being within a days drive (or the same state) is best!
Kink wise, I’m into quite a bit. From shibari and watersports, to denial, abdl, somno, breath play, all sorts of things. I have about 5 of my 8 years as irl experience with bdsm, so I’m not the most inexperienced but I love to learn and I’m open minded, so please feel free to share in private once we both feel comfortable with it and the vibes are right!
Please tell me a bit about yourself in your intro, your passions, future goals, things like that! I’m not great with writing these so if you have any questions please don’t be shy, I’ll gladly answer! I expect to verify and be verified so we know we’re not catfishing each other, so please be ready to exchange sfw pictures at some point! I hope to hear from you!
Hi there! Im an ABDL/Little seeking a babygirl diaper dweller that shares my interest in this lifestyle. Simply a female friend who can I watch cartoons, color and play with.
I live in an adult nursery complete with a queen size crib, plushies, toys, changing station, and lots of diapers.
Pics available here: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1luuwPD9rfWHtTNfq5Hcc_P6R5nScJNnb?usp=sharing
Its an environment that truly captures the innocence of being a toddler in a wholesome manner. Im 5'9, slender, geeky, artsy, with a youthful complexion. Lets get a conversation going and see what pans out ;)
Note: Must live in the SF Bay Area, be over 18 and biologically female.
Hi~!! I'm so happy that you stopped by to see me!
As said up above, I will be honest, I love anyone who loves me back wholeheartedly and I will be mainly online until I finish college, for now, Video Chats & Calls are perfect! ( i hope to be IRL in the future though!!) I am looking for a long-term partner (ANY GENDER) (I'm in it to win it and I'm not down with causal !)
Let me tell you a bit about myself !
Lastly, (I know I am a yapper), If this interests you at all, please do dm me a snippet about yourself (please put effort into it so I know you actually want to get to know each other) and text "Strawberry" showing that you at least read through my post~!
Pretty much as the title says. Just took 100mg edible, want someone to keep me company while high and padded ^.^