/r/StraightPegging
A place for couples to discuss pegging stuff. Share your personal experiences and knowledge with other couples.
1- A sub-Reddit dedicated to real couples that enjoy pegging. A place to share experiences and ask questions
2- Be nice! Rude or insulting comments will be removed. Repeated violations will result in banning.
3- No porn
4- No Solo pics (unless it is part of a discussion, and will help the discussion)
5- Kink friendly - light BDSM and light Femdom acceptable.
6- No hardcore Femdom and/or humiliation allowed.
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Last night my beautiful wife and I had the most incredible experience. After lots of foreplay and mutual oral, my wife put on her strap on. We teased each other and rubbed our bodies together, getting hotter and hornier.
I then went down on her cock. It was so hot. She was reacting to my sucking and licking as if she could feel it. She came and squirted many times.
I then laid on my back and put my legs on her shoulders. I hit a popper and she entered me. This was amazing. She then started to stroke in and out hitting my prostate in just right place and right way. I then had three massive, seemingly endless dry orgasms. I had never experienced anything like that. My wife was so turn on that she continued to come and squirt.
After a short break and more foreplay, I climbed on the loveseat in our room with my elbows on the back and knees on the cushions. It was the perfect position to huff a popper while my wife entered me from behind huffing her popper. We quickly found the magic spot for more endless mind blowing orgasm that were mostly dry with some precum. We took a short break and then we did it again from this position with the same success.
Another break and then I got on top of her cowgirl or cowboy style. This allowed me to find that magic spot for more amazing orgasms. This position allowed me to thrust her cock deep in to me as I came again and again with just some precum dripping on to her beautiful body.
Throughout the adventure, which went to about 2:30 am, my wife came and squirted countless times. She loves pegging me. It turns her on so much.
I can’t wait to do it again notwithstanding my sore and well used ass.
Anyone here into the guy being pegged wearing panties? My ex girlfriend put her panties on me for pegging a few times. Just wondering how common it is.
Hey there I know there’s heaps of advice on here but can anyone with experience give me their thoughts on this harness as a first investment?
https://www.honeybirdette.com/products/fashion-fetish-strap-on
So, my wife after difficult UTI is very worried about touching anything (during sex) that may have been near my butt for fear of E Coli. Google didn't give me an answer, but I believe the E Coli is only in the poop, and after a good cleaning its not there. I've gone as far as swabbing my butt, and performing an ultra sensitive E Coli water test and it so far its not showing anything (36 of the 48 hours waiting). Any thoughts? How do you handle possible contamination? Thanks!
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Moderators, forgive me if this isn’t allowed but it isn’t porn so maybe it’ll fly. These are the three rigs that get used most often. I do leather work so we have others but they’re specifically designed so I can wear a dildo for double penetration. You might notice that the one on the left has been modified to use a 2” sanitary pipe clamp for the bigger toys that need additional support. Damn, never mind… this community doesn’t support even non-porn images. That’s too bad.
Just a fantasy of mine and my Mrs is probably gonna whoop my ass for this one!
My Mrs and I are having a date night and we plan on some extra curricular activity.
Peggers , have you ever worn your harness and cock out in public underneath your clothing? Was it awkward or exhilarating? How did you manage concealing your weapon?
I can't wait till I'm earning some money so I can buy some pegging materials. I want to fuck someone so bad, I want to be someone's dildo, just take your pleasure from me. I want you on all fours with your head down so I can suck your neck while I twist and rub your nipples then I'll let my hands wander down until I'm teasing your dick while I lick and suck on your hole. I'll squeeze some lube on my fingers and down your crack and slowly rub your hole and insert my finger slowly teasing it while I find your prostate and slowly fuck it until I have 3 fingers spreading you wide. I want to fuck you into the mattress, your cock trapped between your stomach and the bed, you feel the sheets rub against your cock but it's not enough to come. I want to fuck you till you scream yourself hoarse impaling yourself on my dick, your hands behind your back and then come shooting out of you while you ride wave after wave of pleasure coursing through you. As I take out my dick from your loose hole i place hickeys from up your neck, to you collarbone down to your inner thighs and on your ass, just everywhere so everyone that sees you know you had a good fuck. Then I'll wipe you down with a towel damp with warm water and suffused with my own pleasure of knowing I fucked the come out of you.
TLDR; Basically I really want to fuck someone so bad. I just want to vent.
Hi everyone,
My wife as always been using the Aslan leather Minx harness, she just loves it, swears by it. We started our pegging journey with the Vixen Mustang, perfect fit for the Minx. Then I wanted something bigger so we went with the Maverick and with a bigger O-ring, it worked perfectly on the Minx. But I guess I'm a bit of a size queen and needed something bigger again so we went ahead and bought the Outlaw which came in last week. I thought the balls would be a fun addition but they really do get in the way of the lower snap, I can't snap it in place, is there a fix for that? Or should I be looking at a different harness for my wife?
Help! I want to see that thing strapped on her :D
Long story short: I've been pegged before years ago and it felt amazing and I've done some anal self play. But I really want to get the most out of the experience and I'm looking for advice (other then clean out and lube). Something that will take the experience to the whole next level. Any types of kinks or fetish that would just make the experience step up a level or three.
Here's an improved version of your post:
I recently posted on this subreddit about my interest in rimming and pegging, but it seems like a lot of people assume that means I'm submissive. Just because I enjoy these things doesn’t mean I'm into being a sub. I'm not looking for a dominant partner; I just enjoy passionate, mutual sex where both partners are involved and exploring new experiences together. I wish people didn’t stereotype these interests—it’s just about shared pleasure, not submission. Anyone else feel this way?
Curious if anyone has ever talked to or told their friends, relatives, co-workers, etc. about being a pegger or peggee? If so, what was the reaction?
I call it 'powdering the donut' I prefer to keep some in a small sealable salt shaker and have a small Spray bottle of water. Spritz the appendage and/or orifice with water then lightly dust with powder. Continue spritzing until it turns clear, begin play. Respritz as needed. I've found this method to work exceptionally well in keeping the lube where it needs to be (in/on the hole, not the bed). I'm curious if anybody else has tried or will try (for scientific purposes, of course) and let me know your thoughts on this method
Originally posted in r/sex posting here maybe for a different perspective.
Hello everyone, Me (24M) and my GF(25F) have been dating for almost 3 years now. Our sex life has been great, our libidos match almost perfectly and I love her to death.
A while ago she started to mess with me and joke about pegging me. Ofc i knew what it was but I had never really thought about it, that sent me into a curiosity web search about it, and honestly the more I read about it whether it was reddit posts or videos about it made me more and more curious to try it.
I waited for her to bring it up again and when she eventually did I told her “Sure, let’s do it!”. She first thought I was joking but I confessed that I had looked it up and it seemed fun so i was down to try it out. She let me pick out the strap on and everything and honestly I was quite excited to try it. The day of the deed we were drinking a little to loosen up and I had already gotten ready and cleaned up for her beforehand. She bent me over and we took it slow and I was loving it. Usually I am the dominant one and she is rather submissive but this switch in roles was extremely hot for me. We were 3 minutes in and I was enjoying it so much if i had so much as touched my dick I would have probably cum, but my girlfriend stopped and complained that the thrusting and the harness were hurting her stomach (she has a very sensitive stomach) so obviously we stop. For some reason i felt like she wasn’t enjoying it, and seeing her feeling pain made me feel bad as if i forced her to do this. I got cleaned up from all the lube and got dressed. We talked about it and i asked her if everything was alright but she just said that the strap on was hurting her stomach and that’s why we stopped so I didn’t really push it.
She hasn’t brought up pegging since and the issue is that I enjoyed those 3 minutes a lot and I would love to do it again. I asked her if maybe she didn’t like seeing me like that or if she didn’t like doing it, but she said the only problem was that her stomach hurt when doing it. I have tried to subtly ask for us to try again but she never really continues the conversation. I do not want to do something she doesn’t like or feel comfortable with but I am left a little fetish now and an itch that I can’t scratch.
Just as a quick note, our sex life remains the same. We still have sex just as often as we used to and it is great.
Sorry for the wall of text, I hope it is understandable (English is not my first language)
It's okay to get addicted for pegging I got once and afterwards I just seeking for this but no chance now why this happened to me???
So, my ex has been hitting up my phone a lot recently after she broke up with me. She’s been really wanting to get back together but I’m trying to have my space. Now i probably shouldn’t have, but I said something about wishing I had someone to wear something cute around. And now she’s trying to get me to come over to her apartment and have me put on her new leather skirt, clear nail polish and make some bad decisions. She said she’s been dreaming about it. I’m trying to be strong but holy fuck…… I might have to take the bait.
There have been 2 threads about this recently, so I was wondering how many people do this. I have never thought sissy pegging was the correct term for it, but that is for another day
Long Story first story
We have to tried pegging a couple times before with no big success. But recently I convinced her to accompany me to our local adult store for a new dildo as it was my birthday present. All that was about to change. We purchased a 7in silicone and hurried home.
So upon getting home I mix us both a drink to loosen up for what’s about to go down. I hit the shower first and then proceed to get ready as she showers.
This is where I need to backup the story a little. I occasionally purchase from estate auctions. Recently I purchased a lot labeled costumes and dress up. When I got the lot home it was mostly adult sized costumes and some women’s clothing. But in the bottom of one of the boxes were a few pairs of women’s shoes. One pair in particular caught my interest they were a size 12 black velvety pumps with 4in heels and two straps around the ankle. Those damn shoes were hot!
I know there has been a lot of talk on this page recently regarding dressing up for the occasion and believe me I hadn’t really considered it myself before. But those damn shoes kept on my mind!
Now I’m not a small guy 6ft, 230 and a beard, but I’ve always had a pantyhose thing for as long as can remember. Wearing myself or both of us. Just love the feeling of both of us lying in bed rubbing our silky smooth legs together. It really drives me and her both crazy.
While looking through my purchased lot later with my wife I noticed her looking at those damn shoes and casually I mentioned what the size difference was between men and women’s? She said that she didn’t know and gestured for me to try them and find out. Well they wouldn’t fit with my socks and when I pulled them off they kinda fit my barefoot. Regardless I put them a side and said maybe later. We both laughed it off. But those damn shoes kept in my head!
Back to my night.
While she was finishing her shower I decided to go all out tonight the pantyhose and yes those damn shoes! I went to my wife’s dresser drawer and found a pair of pantyhose that I had purchased for us from one those inexpensive Chinese websites with the real shiny pantyhose. They were shiny black and crotchless. In the next drawer over was a black sheer long sleeve that just fit but snug, that I purchased for her from the same website. The hose fit perfectly. Then came the shoes as I arched my foot to get the right angle and wouldn’t you know it my foot slipped right in against the silky hose. My nerves started to get the better of me as I tried to buckle the straps around my ankles. Still not sure how my wife would perceive them. But damn I thought my legs looked fantastic with those damn shoes! Again I’m not a small or fem guy, so I thought this outfit would fit me best.
Earlier my wife said that this may not work as our bed was too high for the occasion, so off to our media room I went which has a couch and ottoman perfect for our situation. I quickly put in a movie, a plug and covered myself with a blanket to hide my outfit until the big reveal!
About 10 minutes passed and I could hear my wife coming downstairs to where I was nervously waiting for her to appear, and I was not disappointed! She was wearing a sheer black silky nightgown that barely covered the cheeks of her ass, a pair of black fishnets, and pair of black Converse. She looked amazing and I really liked the sneakers. She doesn’t really like high heels and rarely wears them outside of our bedroom.
As she sat down she could tell something was up with my outfit and reached under the blanket to feel my silky legs as she nodded in approval. She reached to pull off the blanket I grabbed her hand as she questioned why I had stopped her. She asked what other surprises I was hiding?
Moment of truth.
She pulled off the blanket to reveal the shoes I had been hiding. Those damn shoes. As surprised as she was she didn’t really mind my attire at all and just giggled.
She on the other hand had her own surprise that she was hiding. She was wearing a pair of black shorts underneath her nightgown that barely covered the bulge of her fake dick. I reached out to rub her bulge as she pushed my hand away momentarily to build up to the situation that she was still getting comfortable with.
We both sat on the couch watching our movie and just letting our hands search each other’s bodies. She was sliding her hands up and down my silky legs. And I stroked and kissed her while my hands slid down her nightgown until they reached her covered bulge. I wanted desperately to pull it out and get the show going.
She had other ideas as she slid down between my legs on her knees and took me into her warm mouth. The feelings I was having right now was almost more than I could handle. She worked her magic on me with her mouth and hands on my cock, driving me closer to the edge with every second that passed. After what seemed like forever she lifted my legs and directed her efforts toward my waiting ass. She swirled her tongue around my opening while stroking my cock, pushing her tongue further into my ass.
This the first real time that I caught a glimpse of my legs and arched feet strapped within those black heels. I grabbed the back of both knees with my hands giving her better access to my waiting ass. I stroked up and down my silky legs grabbing my heels. I was in complete heaven!
She grabs a latex glove from our bag of toys that I had brought down with me. She removed my plug and quickly lubed the glove and started to work my opening with her fingers to get me ready. First one finger, then two all in a twisting motion. Within a few minutes I was ready.
She stands above me pulling me to the edge of the ottoman and slowly works her new member into my waiting ass. After a few moments of going slow she started to build a real rhythm and worked that dildo all the way into my ass at a faster pace. I had all seven inches buried in me and she was hitting all the right buttons. I thought I was going to cum right there and then. She pulled my legs up and started licking both my calves .That’s when she did something that really increased my pleasure which at this point I didn’t think was possible. She grabs both of my four inch heels into her hands and really started to pound me good! I felt like I was just melting into that ottoman right there I was all hers to do whatever she wanted with me.
After about five to ten minutes of blissful pounding my cock was leaking like crazy! She then had me roll over to all fours lubed up more and took me from behind just as aggressively as she had with me on my back. Though not as comfortable it was still quite enjoyable as she was still rubbing my nylon legs and slapping my ass. What was most memorable about this position is when she grabbed my sheer top and bunched it up to my shoulders to use as handle to really drive into me. Unfortunately I couldn’t take much more pounding for very long and had her stop so I could return at least a fraction of the pleasure she had given to me!
As I stood wobbling on my feet trying to stand in those damn shoes, I stood next to my beautiful wife both of us admiring the new height difference between us. Both laughing at my poor display of balance after getting railed to almost orgasm and still getting used to my new footwear. I removed her harness and laid her back into my previous spot I quickly knelt down between her legs to see how wet she was. I dove right in kissing and licking her slit and the inside of her legs, but once I started on her clit she quickly orgasmed. As I was stroking my cock and nylon covered legs sure not miss those shoes and the inside arches of my feet where they met the shoes.
That’s when I reached into our bag of tricks and pulled out an eight inch dildo we have only used a couple of times, as my wife thinks it’s too big, she usually says that she doesn’t need something that big. But this time was special as we were both super worked up. I placed the head at her opening and with a slight pop it went right in as her ass lifted a bit and she let out a slight moan. I worked the large toy into her as I licked and sucked on her clit and brought her to multiple earth shattering orgasms as she screamed out in pleasure and pain from the large toy.
After I was quite sure that she was satiated I got her up onto all fours and entered her from behind and really started to bang into her as we were both lost in lust.As I drove into her I positioned one of my heeled feet beside her and grabbed her hips as I kept drilling into her and soon I was unloading into her sopping pussy.
We both fell onto our backs onto the couch panting after what just happened! Once the post nut clarity hit I was ready to remove those damn shoes as I was starting to feel a little awkward. But five minutes later I was ready to slide back into them and go again.
So for those of you asking about dressing for your significant other, I say don’t knock until you’ve tried it!
This started out as a pegging story but it turned out to be those damn shoes that were the star for me for sure!
So now with Christmas right around the corner the only question is do I ask for another dildo for more stretch or another pair of those damn shoes?!
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Literally just got done with a spontaneous pegging sesh with the wife that ended in embarrassment… take the time you need to prepare when sexy time comes… you may regret it otherwise.
On another note, 1. My wife has perfected her stroke.. so effing good 2. She’s a very wonderful life partner who can laugh with me through the awkward bits like tonight.
Carry on!
My wife already knows and is ok with p massage and pegging. What are some fun flirty texts I can send when I want it? She's not really into pegging but does it for my pleasure so if I don't ask she won't offer/initiate.
We started out by stretching each other’s asses slowly. Her so she could take my cock in her ass and I so I could take our toys. She can take me easily now and I can rock some large toys. One day she said she could probably get her fist inside me. It was a struggle at first but now every pegging session ends with her fisting me. It feels so beyond amazing and she hits nerves that are far beyond the prostate and guarantee an explosive orgasm. It turns her on so much that her juices run down her legs. Are we alone or do other pegging partners enjoy that too?
I’m sorry this is super long and I’m sure most won’t read it but maybe someone will…
I have been pegged before, I had a gal that was super into it. The problem is she wasn’t my wife. This person was my “outlet”. She knew I was married and we satisfied each other’s pegging desires. There was nothing but the pegging and cocktails, no other kind of sex. This person has been a friend for a long time, and upon joking conversations about pegging, it became what it was.
I will say to everyone that my wife was aware of this. So, albeit she wasn’t the biggest fan of me “stepping out”, she said she wanted me to be satisfied, even if she couldn’t be the one to do it. It was just something we didn’t talk about. Our schedules with work and home are so opposite, I could go get pegged and be home long before she got home.
My wife and I discussed pegging a long time ago and we got a harness, a cheap Amazon one. 5 minutes into it, I was super stoked and she clearly wasn’t. I immediately noticed her lack of enthusiasm, and decided to stop. I didn’t want to make her any more uncomfortable than she already was. I do try to be cognizant of her feelings, reactions, emotions. I love her more than life itself!
When I was out “getting taken care of”, I would always close my eyes and imagine her being the one that was taking me. I had to end the outside relationship because I knew (even though it was never discussed) my life didn’t like it, and I didn’t like (essentially) cheating.
I’m here asking women for advice about how to maybe revisit this with my wife. I would never pressure her to do anything she didn’t want to. I have read so many things about pegging, and how it can make a woman feel empowered (I don’t know if that’s the right word).
My wife is what would be classifies as a submissive. We have great sex, kinky sex! She loves anal, she loves being fisted. She could go the rest of her life and never RECEIVE oral again and be ok with it. However I showed her how she can cum via that route and doesn’t mind when I go down on here. It’s a self image thing for her.
She gives oral, and really puts effort in it. I think it’s amazing. However, she worries it’s not good enough because of her shallow throat. I assure her the pleasure is fantastic!
How can explain to her that her pegging me can fill her with confidence and power and she can own this ass. I quit my friend, well, because she’s not my wife and I don’t want to have a pleasure like that with anyone but my wife…
Thanks for reading if you made it this far. I’m just in between a rock and a hard place, and maybe someone in this subreddit has some good advice. There are some details I’m leaving out, so ask anything you need to help. This is real, I’m not AI, I’m not a troll… I simply need advice. Thanks!
So finally after of many years of fantasizing about being pegged. We were in an adult shop and to my surprise she was into getting a strap on. I spent the money on good harness that came with what I had imagined was a good dildo. And after some drinking and other fun games she gave it a try. Needless to say it was very awkward and funny at times. But we both enjoyed the hell out of it. She actually had an orgasm from it. The dildo we got had some kind of molded bump that fit nice in her pussy. It was the greatest feeling for me. I think a nubbed or textured dildo would be more pleasurable. But this is a start and we are both into exploring this new kink to find the right attachment and the right position. This may cost some money but the experience was worth it. Does anyone have any suggestions on dildos that were pleasurable for both partners? I’d like to add that I am completely straight and have absolutely no desire to be with a man. I just really enjoy anal play with my partner of almost 25 years. We are also both 50 years old. So to anyone thinking you’re too old for new tricks. You’re not! Enjoy your life and do what feels good and makes you happy. I just felt like getting that out here for anyone that might be hesitating asking their partner about pegging. Enjoy !
So my (M25) gf (F24) and I started incorporating pegging into our sex life a few weeks ago. It's gone great so far and we both really enjoy it. The one thing I can't get over is that I can't cum from it. I enjoy the sex itself but I just can't reach that final tipping point. So far we've tried doing missionary and doggystyle but nothing. What else can we try? Did any of you guys experience this when you fisrt started?
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