Hi, I didn't find much so I'm opening the debate. I am very experienced, I have reached a certain level of mastery. I noticed that if I abstain for a long time, after getting back into it, my body is full of muscle aches. Exactly like when you get back into sports ! They keep telling us that we need to exercise regularly to stay healthy and look more attractive, so it would be great if I could combine business with pleasure.

My other point is that I’ve heard several interviews and posts on X where pornstars (like Adriana Chechik) said it changes their bodies, even to the point of affecting their health. I’ve also heard this from Olympic champions !

What do you think about it ?

I think it is great how we can all sit here and share experiences and outcomes of our adventures . But don’t know how to include our friends outside of this chat room. Am I wrong to feel this way why does something so pleasurable need to be such a secret I mean you have gay bars where people meet. And now trans bars and clubs Do you all think that we should all keep this to ourselves . I would love to share my knowledge and equipment that I have spent 4 years investing in with others am I wrong to feel this way??

maybe i'm not applying it correctly (is there science to this lmao..) but i easily went through 50ml of water based lube in one session. i had to use coconut oil in the end and it made a BIG mess that i now have to explain to my parents (anyways)

is this normal??

I got myself a lovense mini sex machine a few months ago but I was never really able to enjoy it yet. I guess because I was still learning how to use the machine?

Anyway I tried many positions but I always found myself getting tired. My legs always get tired on missionary and doggy and couldn't maintain that position for hours

But just now I tried the prone position and man oh man it was so comfy! I've always wanted to crank the machine to its full speed and just take it for several minutes but I would always stop because the position is getting uncomfy but with this position I was able to take the machine full speed for several minutes non stop!

I never knew my ass can get very creamy, I had a webcam pointed at my ass and was watching myself get pounded through the TV and it's the first time I noticed myself producing lots and lots of cream on the dildo, that view turned me on so much I got a HFWO.

For today I've clocked in about 1 and a half hour of anal session already and I'm just taking a break now but would be putting my ass against the machine again shortly ;)

Looking for some advice here. I’ve been experimenting with prostate play—trying different stuff and adding in some weed—but I’m kind of stuck.

So, here’s the routine: I use a fucking machine to hit my prostate, then take microdose weed before starting, with an extra 1-2 hits about 10 minutes in. After smoking, things feel great, and I usually get hard or semi-hard, but I can’t quite hit that HFO. To up the sensation, I’ve tried sounding, which feels amazing, especially when I hit the right spot, but eventually, my erection just fades without me realizing it, even though it still feels good and horny.

At that point, I’m lost on what to do. I’ve tried stimulating it to get hard again, but it doesn’t come back. Do I just keep going with soft-penis stimulating and finish that way, or should I let it go in its own way? And how long should I wait for it?

TLDR: When trying to rewrite, focus on the arousal emanating from your prostate, not just the pleasure.

So lately I’ve been remembering one really good session I had where I thought I was getting pretty close to a prostate orgasm, but I ran out of time before. Since then I’ve been trying to pin down the difference between that session and my normal, average ones.

Last session I think I found it, just a shame it was towards the end. Everyone on here always talks about mindset and rewiring, and until recently I never got it. But last session it kind of clicked.

For me, mentally placing the arousal itself, and not just the pleasure, within the prostate and entire anal region had a massive benefit in triggering some light pwaves. It’s a lot of pretending, but essentially I worked myself up to the point where my body just kind of gave up on me using my penis for anything worthwhile, and shifted opportunities to the prostate.

Just a theory so far.

So I've been experimenting for a while but have yet to reach a Super O or any kind of O with no penile stimulation. I read a lot of advice such as avoiding masturbation, and not chasing an orgasm and this has had limited success, I get too pent up after a few days and need a release!

Recently I've been using various toys until I get very close but can't seem to break through the barrier, needing to pee etc isn't a problem.

So I've taken to edging to the point of orgasm a few times and finishing myself with a toy, making a rule that I can't cum unless I have something inside me. I've had a few intense orgasms this way but nothing mind shattering and no chance of multiples.

Is this a smart thing to do? I've read a lot about "rewiring your brain" and don't want to be taking myself further away from the elusive super O

I'm curious if anyone knows if certain OTC painkillers have less effect on sensations when doing prostate play than others. For instance, would it be better to take Acetaminophen, Ibuprofen, or Aspirin to relieve pain while still allowing play? Like say I have a headache, but still feel in the right headspace to play, is there any better option (besides none) when it comes to OTC Painkillers for that situation?

I’m in my bed and laying on my stomach with my Aneros Helix Syn in while scrolling thru Reddit. I’ve noticed that no matter what position, if I flex the center muscle too hard with the Aneros in, it gives me the sensation as if I’m holding in my pee. This makes me think that it’s applying too much upward pressure and it’s more pressure towards the bladder with each keagle.

I’ve noticed that light to 75% muscle flexes for center don’t result in that need to pee sensation and feels much better.

People told me that if you feel like you need to pee, you’re in the right spot but I’m a little conflicted.

I'm guessing no, since they're two different parts, but I'm getting circumcised in a few months and I really wanna make sure(?. Does anyone know?

Finally decided to get a proper toy. I got the Hush 2 from Lovense 1.75” diameter (the second largest size). It’s nice to be able to wear it around for long periods of time, but I’m starting to wish I’d gotten something a bit less “passive”. The initial entry is nice, but once I adjust to it, it’s just kind of a dull presence, almost unnoticeable if I’m sitting still, not really hitting my prostate. The vibrations are good and strong but not necessarily contributing to the pleasure factor. So basically, all this is to say I ended up using the buttplug more like a dildo, angling it inwards and thrusting to really hit my prostate.

This past month, at some point I stopped masturbating manually because I was so focused on getting there from prostate stimulation. I went a good two or three weeks without orgasm, eventually realizing I could just use the plug to milk myself every day or two to relive some pressure, but never actually cumming. Finally, last weekend I decided to spend the day with the plug. I wore it for several hours, sometimes playing with it actively and other times just leaving it there while going about my day. Eventually that afternoon I decided to really work for it.

I managed to find a position that let me hold the plug in place, angled forward instead of up, while I pushed back against it to really grind it into that sweet spot. I was getting the usual sensation of pleasure. As it kept building, something strange happened that I’ve never felt before. It felt like a tingling sensation, kind of like when your limb falls asleep, but it was through my whole body. I could feel it all the way in my fingertips. Eventually the sensation wore off and I couldn’t get back to it.

Is this a good sign? Am I getting closer to a real prostate orgasm?

Ok, probs the wrong place to ask, but I don’t see anywhere to pose the question…. Will massage help or hinder an enlarged prostrate? Thanks so much

Hay, I've been trying some stuff out for some time now. But I wanna improve on my experience with a new toy. I have a few plugs but found out (through experience) that the round base can slip in quite easily with me, so no basic round bases for me anymore. (Got it out safely myself) Also the just insert and leave it there plug doesn't do much for me. Because of these points I bought a pulsing toy. My problem with that one is that it slips out too easily, there is not much of a "sharp" bulb that keeps it in (Metoy - Pallós Anale vibrators with remote). So are there specific toys some of you can recommend? What I'm used to is a dia of 4 cm (1.6 inch)

I recently learned about meditation that even the best meditators can‘t force a deep trance at will. It‘s a lot like falling asleep. You can lay down and wait for it to happen but you can‘t try harder or force a muscle to fall asleep faster, that would achieve the opposite and you‘d never fall asleep. You‘ll fall asleep more easily if you‘re tired and relaxed. You‘ll have better sleep in a dark and quiet room.

I think prostate play works in the same way as falling asleep or meditating. After all it basically is meditating. The sleep hygiene in this case would be arousal, being clean and relaxation. If you try to achieve it faster by ramping up the speed or pressure, you would also push the pgasm further away.

Do you also treat prostate play in the same way? Did you have any success yet?

Hi all! Newbie on this world. Succes came so early I was shocked. Started at teenage with finger,small candles,door handle. Then stopped for years. Spent 13 years without any buttplay then just one day bought a massager, and an other. Was not bad,but only get me HFWO. Then tried dildos and shortly get a Hismith tabletop. My fav setup is wearing ripped thighs at the bottom, very little weed sometimes not. And missionary in a special position. Fav dildos are Strap on me P&G plug medium size and Luxe cici from Blush novelties (this actually gave me a full body, mindmeling orgasm). With this I shortly achieved a full body orgasm. Feeling was like…can not find the words. It was radiated from my anal region,burning,painy and blissful sensation at the same time radiates through my entire body and actually I seen and feel “sphere” growing from my spot and getting bigger and bigger and leaves my body and grabs my soul with him. Actually it felt like I am does not exist in a form of human body.

My question is for more experienced dudes. I am planning to buy an Aneros. How does it feel compared to fuck machine and trusting? Cause for fuck machine I think the best way is tototally relaxes your body and just “give” yourself for the session. Just relaxing your anus and let the dildo rubs your hole and your spots.

That means no contractions in the pelvic muscles like in Aneros otherwise you push out the dildo. In Aneros what I read they say you moving the plug with contractions then it will contracting without command just by itself after a while. Does this contracting thing adds something to the whole thing? Is an Aneros orgasm feels differently?

Thanks for every information.

I got a lelo 2 a few months fealt good but didn't quite push to the edge made my hole tremble n throbbed like crazy after a few hour attempts at a time so I was thinking of trying out a njoy pure wand cuz everyone on here keeps saying how great they are to getting closer in prostate play progression any comments or replies would b appreciated thank you

What are the different sensations with the three different style of toys?

I have a small enjoy plug and I don't even really feel it when I have it in. Do I just need a bigger one?

I have an aneros and I can feel a certain fullness but not getting much of a prostate feel yet. Doing the keagle clenches and feeling it moving but seem to feel a little more with quarter to half inch in out movements.

Will a dildo give me the fuller feel and give any prostate stimulation? Or is it just a.stretch and feeling of being full?

Hey friends, I'm hoping to get some input from those of you who have experienced internal bruising or excessive force leading to pain/ injury. I had an incident about a week ago that I'm still not bouncing back from and am hoping to hear some of your experiences with similar things and what your recovery was like.

The injury happened while using my nJoy wand with a 3D printed handle I purchased from a community member on here. It requires one to use the big end of the wand (which I'm not as used to) and adds a nice long lever arm to the small end which makes moving it around really easy. I was warned that the extra leverage could be dangerous so I was being careful about my manual movement. The problem arose when I was ramping up to a super O and sorta lost control of my body- my pelvis entered a feedback loop where I was thrusting back and forth uncontrollably which, because of the toy's altered center of gravity from the handle attachment, lead the wand to auto-fuck me with its own weight. After a few seconds of this I felt a sharp pain when the wand impacted something inside of me. It hit HARD and was painful to remove. After removal I felt another sharp pain internally when I shifted my body to get up off the bed.

Since then having a full bladder has been uncomfortable, but not painful. My prostate has been quiet where it had a happy little constant buzz of pleasure before. I can feel that something is inflamed in there. At this point I'm worried about nerve damage but trying to not to spiral. Any input at all would be appreciated! Thanks!

I've been using dildos for the past year and a half and I'd never been able to make it to a HFWO. At some point I pretty much gave up trying for one and used manual assistance instead in order to get there. However, that went differently today.

Finding the right angle that's comfortable and hits the right spot without exerting too much energy has always been really difficult. I decided I'd go back to the dildo-on-edge-of-toilet-seat method that never really worked before. I normally put the dildo on the front edge of the seat and face the tank while in more of a squatting position, but this got kind of tiring and didn't exactly hit the spot well enough. Using the part between the tank and bowl to support my legs as well as the tank to hold onto something, I straightened my legs out to see if having my entire lower half follow the curve of dildo would feel any better (it did).

It felt pretty comfortable, took very little energy and hit the spot just right, so I really started going to town on it. I did a little kegel as I was riding it and I think that's what ended up pushing me over the edge, because riding it gradually started feeling way better not too long after doing the kegel. I just kept going until it felt like I was about to climax. Then I kept going some more until I finally managed to cum hands free. I don't think it was the explosive prostate orgasm everyone speaks of but it still felt pretty good. Even 4 hours later my ass still kind of feels like it's tingling a bit.

I’m new of prostate stimulation and i don’t know if it was an orgasm, but during prostate stimulation i feel a sensation in my pelvis growing, after my penis get an erection and I reach a point when i feel that I have to ejaculate, but really I’m completely dry. If I don’t relax, i “close” my legs. Am i on the right track?

Please help me get over the final hurdle

Whenever I use my dildo I get so ridiculously close to an orgasm however I start to feel like I’m about to pee, but also I get tired and start to lose the rhythm. What do you guys recommend to overcome that barrier and cum from the stimulation? I feel like a thrusting machine would be perfect but that’s currently not an option. Thank you!

So lately I have been pretty successful in my sessions.

Had some nice "orgasms", stronger and longer than penile.

I put the word orgasms in quotes because it felt as though I could probably end them at any point, so I don't know if that answers the definition of an orgasm. The pleasure level however, was definitely something like 110% of a penile orgasm, which is great.

I'm looking to get over the edge, but since I never had a proper uncontrollable prostate orgasm, I have no idea where that edge (or threshold) is.

Am I supposed to keep myself in that pleasure welcoming mental state for longer? Or longer increments? Where should I expect the threshold to be? Does it matter at all for the execution or for my mental state of mind?

Is the trigger something unrelated to pleasure level? Or is it something that gets triggered by itself when pleasure level is above a threshold?

Thanks! 🙏🙏🙏

Hello everyone.

My couple of past sessions have been weird to say the least, and not good to be more accurate.

First, past Sunday I had a session after a whole week of not releasing (been too busy to even have time for that). And after so many days I was really horny. It was enjoyable at first but, suddenly after 10-15 minutes of having the Aneros in, I had a (hands free) ejaculation without an orgasm.

It was the second time in my life that I experience that, first one was a couple of weeks maybe? during another session with a prostate toy.

This no-orgasm-ejaculation (it was full semen what it came out, not just precum or seminal liquid) was a bit worrisome not gonna lie, but also a bit frustrating. Luckily, due probably to not orgasming, I remained horny and was able to continue my session until I finished manually, this time with a wet traditional orgasm.

However, things get weirder. Yesterday I indulged myself once again on a session, and I had another (small) ejaculation, again, not just precum, after a few minutes of beginning the stimulation.

But there’s another thing that is worrying me. With each of the past 3 or 4 sessions, I’m feeling less and less my prostate. All of this began with a bigger, girthier toy with a size close to a real penis. I had it in for 20-30 minutes to help stretch my ass, and I felt how it pressed against my prostate as well. After that, my toys didn’t feel like before.

It is like I’ve “pushed my prostate” forward, towards the pubic area? And since then, it is harder to “touch” it with smaller toys such as the Aneros.

I don’t know if both symptoms are connected but if someone else experiences any of them (no-orgasm-ejaculation, or feeling the prostate more distant from the toy) just let me know.

Thank you.

1. I was trying to milk myself with a dildo after hearing it feels so good. Everything was going great and feeling awesome, no pain at all, precum dripping a little. When I reached it though, what came out was blood??? It would have felt great have it not been for that, cause, again, no pain or discomfort. Never touched dick, it was all dildo. Freaked out a little bit, then came to reddit looking for others who had similar experience. Seems like you can be too aggressive without feeling pain... I wonder if that was the case?

2. Now on a less urgent tone, what I reached was orgasm? And the ejaculation from prost stim is no like the regular sex/masturbation cum right?

3. After a while I peed and there was no blood, and also no blood came from behind. Now, if I should see a doctor, what kind of doctor do I even go to? Now I know they've seen it all but how do I even explain lol

Nearly three years on this journey, and I'm still learning new things about myself!

I had a three hour session last night of some of the most intense dry orgasms to date. It took a bit of encouragement to wake up my prostate after a disappointing Saturday dildo session (finished with a penile orgasm as a result, but was still able to lie face down on the bed 2 hours later with my Aneros in and cum into a sock, which has been the only way I've managed HFWO). These HFWOs are insanely intense, but I think my weight on top of my penis definitely triggers those orgasms.

Back to last night with my Aneros: I felt that I came close to a true HFWO with zero penile stimulation multiple times. The energy faded off and I took maybe 5 minutes to check messages before trying again between each near climax (it really doesn't take much to get the prostate going again). I was unable to get over the edge, but was drenched in sweat.

After a while I transitioned and put two pillows under me and sat on it. I didn't even need to grind, but that certainly added to the sensations. Nearly immediately the feelings of a wet orgasm began to surge up and my entire pelvic area felt on fire as my ab muscles cramped up. I stretched out the cramp and made sure to arch my back as a way to keep them stretched out. The wet orgasm sensations returned and I tried to catch my cum and prevent any more cleanup than necessary.

But it wasn't cum. It was the watery liquid I've heard so much about. Quite a lot of it. I thought it was cum because that's what comes out when I've had those sensations. Only after I cleaned up did I realise it wasn't cum, and that I'm probably a squirter ☺️

I would have continued and tried again if I wasn't so exhausted by that point.

Nothing unusual to my norm, just inserted my large butt plug, playing with nipples, then sniffed some poppers to enjoy sensation in my ass. Could feel the pleasure building strong and all of a sudden this woosh feeling travelled through my whole body. Wow it was amazing. I just don’t know if that was a prostate orgasm as I’ve never experienced it before!

Hi yall pretty new to prostate stuff. Bought an Njoy wand and tried it today but having weird sensations that dont feel like previous prostate play. Previously, I would get a warm feeling in my prostate that would radiate around my body (face, chest, etc). With this new toy, I just experienced something different. I read on here that i should sit with the urge to pee for a while and kind of ride the sensations from that. I ended up feeling some pretty powerful sensations that made my legs and abs shake the tiniest bit but I wouldnt describe it as the same feeling as the warm pleasurable one from earlier. When i feel that warmth, I get hard and feel some pleasure, but haven't gotten past that point yet. Just wondering which sensation I should follow in my future sessions :)

New alternate account for NSFW reasons ... I'm sure that this is unusual, but I have a kink for prostate and electro play without finishing with an orgasm. I've been married over 25 years to a wonderful woman who wants me to finish with her and I'm totally fine with that, but I stumbled on orgasm denial during my "me time" prostate play and, after all this time, I have really come to crave it. I have had a couple of HFOs through the years, but most of the time I find orgasm from prostate play frustratingly elusive. I just get really horny and desperate to cum before I end up giving up.

What started out as frustrating in the wrong kind of way and that I still I don't like is that once a toy slides inside of me, I go soft. It doesn't matter how horny or hard I am, I completely lose my erection no matter how good it feels. When I first started, that was a problem because I wanted to be able to stroke myself. Furiously pushing a wet noodle around just doesn't do it. But, over time it became a turn-on knowing that choosing prostate pleasure for "me time" means giving up having an orgasm. But, massaging and milking my prostate satisfies a craving that's hard to explain. I really (really) get off on the feeling and sight of my cum leaking out and taking my orgasm with it, and now I love that desperate need to cum and the frustration of not being able to do anything about it.

Orgasm or not I'd love to be able to stay hard while I milk my prostate. I've watched guys completely hard milking themselves. It looks hot and makes me envious :). But, even with Viagra and a cock ring I just can't stay hard once I've penetrated myself. Has anyone learned to overcome the "deflation reflex"? Any tricks to learn? At this point, I would probably still choose not to cum because waiting until I get inside of my wife is so addicting, but I think being able to add a Tenga or something would amp up the fun.

I've read a few hot stories about prostate milking for orgasm denial. Even if it's made up, I know I can't cum once I've milked myself and it's exquisite. It's not my wife's cup of tea, unfortunately, but I'd like hearing if anyone else use prostate play for orgasm denial?

Hiya, new to the area and was wondering if it’s possible to reach the super Os i hear mentioned so much just with a finger or even two - if not, what household items work? Want to know how much success can be had without buying toys before making a huge monetary investment

Recently started to discover prostate play and it’s been a journey. Long way to go but has anyone else discovered a better mood afterwards? Definitely less irritable and maybe even happier lol