They closing my WF account i have spa llc ..it's the 3rd bank they close it .. how u guy do it to get around that .. im payin my taxes no issues w irs.. or should I bank w smaller banks ? If u can pm to talk about numbers please do i don't wanna disclose that here. Thank u sm I really need advice specifically that highvend girls since everyday u make good $

I’m in fl. And haven’t been able to find one. I want to network and also find other options to tryst.

I want to meet more escorts that in London or not far, I’m new so want to be around people who are nice and reliable that I can work along side, that is genuine and wants to see me do well, vice Versa🤪

Does getting an assistant help grow your business? Unfortunately, I certainly do not need one as of yet b/c Im getting barely any inquires, but, I do wonder if it's b/c no one takes me seriously without an assistant, lol! They are NOT cheap. I probably need to lower my rates and expectations, but mentally Im just not there yet. I remember how "easy" it used to be in this business years ago.

Currently I’m using my Notes app. I include any pertinent info like preferences, requests, what I wore, tip amount, etc. I’ve considered switching to an excel spreadsheet but I like the convenience of having my phone so I can quickly add to the note straight after a date or if something comes to mind that I forgot about.

I’d love to hear various ways in which we’re keeping up with client info and what information we find important to track.

Do you have separate rates for incall/outcall or a singular hourly rate?

I’m starting to question whether more is really better. Does a higher following equate to more bookings? Is there a point where things start to shift? I’m curious to hear others’ experiences with their growth on social media.

I never thought I’d get into online dating again because I always found it too time consuming and but I’ve really neglected dating in my personal life. Apart from two relationships that lasted one year each, I’m not having sex or dating in my personal life. So a friend suggested online dating since that’s what’s most popular nowadays. But I’ve made profiles in the past and end up seeing some of my clients on there. It kind of freaks me out, and one time I had a client super swipe me and it pissed me off so much. for reference I’m face in, and use a different alias name on personal dating profiles. I don’t think I can stick with online dating for privacy reasons it’s probably best to meet people in person but I’m so unmotivated to do so. How are you managing to date in your personal life? Would appreciate any dating advice.

Does anyone have experience with their civilian friends randomly switching up their thoughts of your work even years after you started?

What I find particularly interesting about this is that a couple of them even dipped their toes in the bowl with me back when we were 19-21 on things like Seeking Arrangements and Tinder. Like we literally did duos & trios together.. However, I’m the only one that wanted to progress it into a structured career.. i.e building websites, having ads up, and dedicating a lot of time to improving myself physically/emotionally/mentally to be a better companion and person in general.

Now that we’re inching closer to 30 and they’re all engaged (I’m still single) it seems like they’re subtly pushing me to change routes.. even suggesting careers that I’ve literally never talked about? It’s leaving a bad taste in my mouth idk..

A common denominator that I keep coming to is that these specific friends are all engaged to men that work in similar fields of the clients I see. They also know I see married men (bc duh) and I think it’s off-putting to them that I’m very close with these clients and speak highly of them (despite the obvious fact that, yes, they are cheating on their wives). I’m not in love or trying to take anyones husband, I just like to share some of the fun things I do on dates.. that’s it! I mean, we get to do some really fun things as companions. It also hurts because I haven’t always had the most pleasant clients.. they know what I used to deal with in my early years so I just want them to be happy that I’m not constantly in fight-or-flight mode during dates anymore.

I’m worried that, because almost everyone around me knows what I do, they fear I would take their husbands as clients if it were ever on the table. Which, for the record, I would never do. I do not sh*t where I sleep. But I feel tension in the air whenever I express wanting to stay in SW idk. They’ve all been done dirty and cheated on pretty bad, but it feels like they’re projecting their fear onto me with follow up statements like “..yeah, but don’t you feel bad for the wife?” or “if only the kids knew about you..” One of these friends actually had a fallout with their dad because he was someone that spent his nights at the strip club and wasn’t around a lot. It feels like built up resentment being passed onto me idk. I want to handle it with care because these have been my best friends for a long time. I’d be devastated if this was something we fell out over because I’m only doing my job 🤷‍♀️

Is there anything I can do or say that might switch their view on it? I fear I’m too blunt and might come off harsh. If anything, thank you for letting me rant 🙏

Does having a calendar that notes your availability on your website increase bookings? Does it make it easier for clients to book? How has it benefited you from doing this?

I was scrolling through their dancing and personal accounts, what do you think about them? they are so beautiful and get so many fancy experiences and hotels bags etc is it only from dancing or they are escorts?, how they work especially by being in middle east and there's no official and safe sites for them? Who are their costumers, i tried to search about any information on their situation but i didn't find anything

I have shyed away from overnights up until now, just wasn’t as confident and something about it has made me kind of nervous. I have a fun, visiting client I quite enjoy that has been inquiring about this. I’m an $800 an hour gal and I do frame my rates to favor longer dates. I just don’t want to get taken advantage of or ask too much to the point where I lose the client. I would for sure enjoy the night with this client but I’m running business.

Am i the only one who does not see clients who are screaming low confidence and need to be coddled????

A client called me insensitive for cutting his conversation, short due to our hour ending and running over. After this, I've been super strict with who I do see any man who talks about me picking them or thinking they don't deserve me. I don't even even give them the time a day. Like you're a grown man with a high paying job please get it together emotionally

So for those who notice that sometimes a prospective client will make you wait and wonder if you have a date or if they'll actually send screening: I just thought of something really simple and used it, and it worked!

Someone reached out and said, "Let's meet at 9pm tonight." I ask some questions like, "Have you seen anyone before?" ("No.") So I mention I would like ID, (name/photo,) and this time.... THIS TIME, I think to add in a "Don't leave me hanging" clause: "Please send this within the next 20 minutes so I know if you want to make plans."

5 minutes later, I get a text: No, I'm just not comfortable.

What a relief. No more waiting. And if he had never said anything further, same thing.

Why have I never thought to say this before?

Clients are messaging me from tryst, but they are time wasting, I can see some of them are going to follow my twitter .

I’m going to Dublin over Thanksgiving and wanted to make the most out of the trip. Where’s the best area of the city to stay and where should I be posting ads? I’m also unclear on screening protocols but please DM me for that!!

I have a client who's a high paid professional and values time and he also likes either multiple women or long 4+ hour sessions with dinner one one-on-one, depending on his mood. Today he wanted a session with me and specifically one of my duo partners and no one and nothing else would do. Shes coming off an injury but last we'd spoken she was back at work doing sessions and I asked if she was available for duos. She said definitely. So he reaches out to me and I tell him I'll ask her and start reaching out to her, but she doesn't respond. He says he'll wait until 7 and could I keep trying. I finally get ahold of her at 5:30 and let her know I have a $2K session for us to split and she says she doesn't want to do it even though she has been upset over financial losses due to injury. And myself I really could have used the other $1K.

So I let him know and offer to either ask another provider or do a one to one session and he's not into it and was upset. Now I'm upset because she told me she was avaialable, but she's upset because I assumed she'd be into it (although she told me she was just last week - maybe she forgot she told me?) I'm also upset because he wouldn't consider another option, but I've been seeing him off and on for 2 years and get that he wants what he wants and expects it if it's offered.

Part of me is just mad because it wasn't a long appointment, I'm like how hard is it to just show up with an established, predictable client, and let me do the work so you can stay off the injury while you look pretty and distract him visually? Especially if you're worried about money. But everyone seems to be mad now and it's her space I work out of and now I feel awkward about booking there when we're mad at each other. I feel like my reputation just took a hit and so did my income because he didn't even try to reschedule and abruptly ended our conversation.

How could this have gone better?

I've been traveling for work, about every other week. I did 4 trips in the past 2 months, and I have 3 more coming up before the year ends. This is mostly FMTY's, and 2 short single-city tours.

What does your typical travel schedule look like? Do you try to spend a certain amount of time at home, between traveling/touring? I worry I'm neglecting my good local clients, and I'm starting to feel burned out. I appreciate your thoughts and input!

Hi I need really nice pics to apply for agencies in London. Any recommendation would be much appreciated 🙏

Prostitution is legal in the UK where I am based and I am thinking of becoming high-end. I’m thinking where would they transfer money? I prefer transfer as it’s immediate and you can’t charge bag I don’t mind them transferring me money to my personal account so I don’t have to pay tax but then they will know my real name. I’m so confused as to what to do rn……Should I just start a business account, under a different name/company ?

What did you do for your rates? Increase, decrease, impliment a 90/2hr minimum or kept everything the same?

I’ll be attending school full time soon and want to know how you all juggled both SW/time for clients and personal life

Hi ladies! Just received my first overnight with a new client, and super excited! He already sent 2x the deposit.

Now the thing is...... we will be meeting up for dinner at a different hotel, as he is in town for a conference and wants to dodge his colleges, which I understand. My concern however is bringing an overnight bag and not being able to drop it off, this meaning I will have to bring a medium tote bag that still looks cute for dinner, which may or may not fit everything I wanted to bring. (Change of cloths, cute night slip, and makeup bag)

Do you ladies bring a change of cloths for the next day orrrr the infamous walk of delight? (with 3k+ in my purse there's no shame here lol)

Thanks!

I just broke my record of the most money I made from 1 date. It was overnight and it was normal nothing out of ordinary. We had nice dinner and went to nice show and the client was not bad. But I put lots of emotional energy that I did not realize when I was in date. I came back home from overnight and I was so tired and drained and I felt like I came back to the 'reality' and I did not like it. I wish I was my escort persona in my real life. Because In my real life Im disorganized and someday I feel like I have adhd and somedays Im depressed and have anxiety(but still managable)

Anyways I had 1hr meeting that night I took the appt even thou I was tired because it was a easy regular that I like to deal with. Than I woke up the next day, which is today, and got really depressed that I cannot get out of bed. I have been depressed but not to this degree for a very long time. I don't feel happy anymore about the money. I think It is because I want to buy a house and I still have long way to go to get to the goal. Maybe Ill be happy if I get like 50k at once which has not happen yet. Honestly I don't know why Im feeling so depressed today. Maybe because I put too much emotional work and I don't like my reality compare to my escort persona. I wish I had someone that I can show my real self to. But I think people only like me because I pretend to be happy and this and that. But in real life Im not

I’ve been away for a bit, and I’ve noticed that the dynamic here has shifted. I’m curious if there’s another community where more experienced high-end providers connect? I’m looking to engage with others who are already well-established and know what they are doing. No offense to newcomers—just hoping to find a more focused space. If anyone knows of a sub like that, or if people have migrated to a different platform, please feel free to DM me. Thanks so much!

Hey guys, so a year ago I launched my indy business in Canada and it's gone extremely well - I'm more financially secure than I've ever been, and it feels incredible. The issue is, I grew up poor, and this newfound wealth and security has been really difficult to wrap my head around as far as my ego is concerned. I feel like I'm more egotistical now, and so excited about the money and car etc etc, and my socialist/lefty values are feeling kinda shaken. It's been hard on my friendships and relationships too, I'm feeling like I get egotistical and pride-filled, and it feels fucked. I'm not sure how to navigate this. The other tricky thing is that I find myself required to posture as upperclass in my escort role, and the line between my real values and my persona values isn't as defined as it was when I wasn't doing such high end work.

What's helping a bit is the redistribution of wealth im doing, I'm able to give money to grassroots solidarity projects I'm involved with, but theres still white savior vibes there that i feel cautious about. Having money and being in high demand is really getting to my head though and its fucked!! The lustre of power and glamour is so delicious, fucking hell. I'm also trying to maintain a perspective that this job doesn't make me more "high value" than my comrades (who in all honesty work harder than I do) - the only reason i can get paid really well is because this industry is connected with the super wealthy 1%, and we're just in a strange position as high end escorts, being around men who hold and concentrate money and power But we CAN find ways to separate ourselves from whatever identities our personas are required to perform to not alienate our clients.

Anyway, help please! How to navigate having this money and being in high demand, without turning into a pompous bitch??

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I have a potential client from the UK contact me about visiting me during his US visit. However, I don't feel as confident in my screening process as I do for US gentlemen. He is willing to send his driver's license, but not sure how much that would help me doing any background check since it is not a US license. Can someone DM me suggestions on how to screen someone from the UK (when I'm US-based). Or share here if you feel comfortable. Thanks!