tomorrow I interview with a potential second job on top of my full time job, so i can be a good client much more often and/or save up for higher end!

What are your thoughts on this? Have you came across a client like this before?! I am so DONE w being lonely. Im neurospicy so i have a hard time trying to form a regular relationship w a woman, i dont think im cut out for it

Planning on meeting up with a girl and I’m curious to know if the time matters? Last time I did this was a few years ago and it was in the early afternoon, is that still a good time or would a more later time be better? It would just be for an hour.

I order some specific ones online but they’re not going to arrive in time. I’m looking for some last minute alternatives if anyone can recommend some?

(I’m aware of the health risk associated with sponges please don’t tell me lol)

I've seen an escort on websites and she has mostly really good reviews but I've come across one or two reviews saying she rushed them, was rude or pushed them out after not being interested. Seems quite random and out of character and idk if I should take the risk. Could it be the clients looks, attitude or she's had a bad day?

so i recently finally started making some big wig money in finance (I'll let you guess what sector) and I been working really hard to finally succeed in this and afford the big wig stuff. but I don't have a boss thus I don't have ID (akin to a work pass) that says I do x-work. understandably that can also be interpreted to new SW that I'm lying and I don't want to fill out the screening process which isn't true but i understand everyone can make their own perspective about things.

How do i navigate that i don't have such id, since i see many times on sites like Eros or Tryst or the like that they require screening, including where you work and stuff. On top of that i'm black and i been hit with multiple excuses to avoid "dating" a black man so that's a double whammy?

Side question: do you girls really use the work ID as a bargaining chip in case a customer becomes a bad apple and you can use it as leverage or something? that's why i heard but i don't know for sure.

question for providers and clients. When you find a new escort and text her on the number provided on the ad and get no reply. What do you do? Try again in a few days? move on because maybe she is not active? I never know what to do. I do not want to chase, I could be doing stupid regular dating for that. and yes I make sure the ad is at least of the last 3 weeks and not a really old one.

Does escort take shower with a customer?

How do I get reviews for p411 approval?

I bought my first garter belts and stockings but wtf!!! It doesn't look cute at all, my tights look like sausages, and it took me a while to attach the suspenders. The garter belt with the 2 piece looked super cute, but when I put the stockings, ew!

I got a garter belt with 2 suspenders and another with 4, but still, the stockings do not look cute on me and they roll from the inner thigh. I bought them from a local lingerie store, they're not the best quality tbh.

Can you give me some recommendations for brands that do stockings for fluffy thick thighs that stay up, don't roll and Are do not make thighs look like sausages.

I have a shoot next week, and I'd like my thighs and stockings to look nice.

Thank you in advance !!

Hello all,

I paid for sw services to see if my body can physically do sexual activites after 6 years rehab but also to increase my sexual and social experiences as I've been living under a rock for a 26yr old.

Anyway, my question is:

Is it possible to ask the sw for feedback on my performance after session and get real answers? Any feedback like "you seemed more nervous with X than Y" or "you could use more knowledge in B" etc.

Feels counter intuitive as client retention tactic goes but I feel it could help me achieve my goals faster that way...

I have a client I found on cuddle comfort who has a foot fetish and wants to do things with my feet. I charge him $120/hr just to cuddle. How much can I charge him for feet stuff? So far he’s asking to kiss, massage, and put my feet in his mouth. I’m sure he’ll ask for more.

I see alot of remarks that the info is not kept. Does that mean I need to re-screen again if I was to see her a month or two later?

Is it as bad as it seems?! The amount of bullshit i see on r/sexworkers and r/clientcringe is just so insane it really demoralizes me. I send my boo small cashapp gifts all the time, brought her flowers our second date, and gifted her 2 carts after i took her to olive garden for lunch. Ive got my next gift picked out! i still worry all the time that what if she doesnt actually like being with me and what if im too infatuated or what if she’s in a bad mood. I feel so stressed and pressured when i want to book because i feel like i gotta pick up all the slack from every single one these asshole guys💯 are there really way more assholes/timewasters than there are good men like? How can i not be so nervous and not put so much pressure on myself?

Im sorry if i ask too many questions here, ive just been so so lonely for years and im in a financial rut right now💔 i hope you are all staying safe

I'm not a rich guy. I am pretty ok with my finances, enough to hire an escort from time to time. But yeah, I'm not the type of guy to be able to afford something extravagent to an escort I appreciate. That said, I want to see an escort I saw these last few days again and gift her some chocolate, considering she told she likes chocolate. What are your thoughts on receiving such a simple gift like that, rather than something expensive?

My buddy wants to take his escort out to a nice dinner then back to the room, does this happen a lot are girls willing to do it or is it a waste of their time

For whatever reason I have a hard getting escorts to respond to my inquiries. I always start out with the following. “Hello good afternoon/evening hope you are having a great day. May I ask for your prices?” Should I say something else? Is this the norm?

Met up with an escort who started the service for like 5/10 mins before saying she forgot something in her car and just leaving. The moment she said she was getting something from her car, I knew it was a scam but not much you can do at that point. In any case, why would she start the service rather than just leave after getting the money...

A few months ago as a treat I hired a girl for my husband and I. We got along great and I feel like we all had a good time. I'd like to book with her again but I don't want to come across as weird or creepy.

I’m new at this screening thing. Nervous about releasing my LinkedIn link, with a risk of getting the info in the wrong hands or being used nefariously (blackmail?). Any perspectives?

Some girls that I’m considering from TER say they’re “agency” versus independent. Does that mean they’re managed by a pimp or really an agency? I’m a bit skeptical to give my screening info to a less than professional party

Is tipping a lady for giving a reference expected, a nice gesture, or not even necessary as normal part of being a regular?

If so, how much (range) is appropriate?

So I booked an appointment for a few weeks ago, and since then, she has often asked for time changes and cancelled multiple times. She has been excellent at communicating this, though today, she cancelled within 40 minutes of the booking.

She has a lot of decent feedback, so I'm sure she's real, plus, no one who would take my deposit and run would continue to put this much effort in.

Thing is, the reasons for cancellation are legitimate. First her friend had been in an accident, then she had a cold sore, now she's ill.

It takes me an hour on the bus to get to the incall location, and so far, I've taken two trips that I didn't need (the other time, she cancelled before I caught the bus).

Now we're due to meet on Wednesday, but if she cancels again, even if it's for a legitimate reason, I'm wondering if I should ask for the deposit back.

It's frustrating, as I've already had a similar experience with another lady whom I had a great time with, but eventually decided not to see again because of the delays.

I've been searching for someone in my local area for some time who would fit me, and she seems like she would, but I'm not sure how much longer I can take this.

Just read a thread on this sub from a while back about “addiction to seeing escorts” and one of the comments said “dude, dont tell escort you are with about other ones youve seen. They are trying to scope out how much you give to them vs other escorts” and im thinking, well what about references?! Is using a reference a red flag because of this?

Is there a thread for the Good stories ? I feel like I mostly see the opposite

I've (M50) enjoyed the services of SW's for about 15yrs. Really works for me. I'm clean, polite, respectful and therefore always had a great time and get good feedback, whether that be escorts or massage parlours etc. Usually I would treat myself say 6 or 7 times across the year. Different providers, no names shared, purely commercial, haven't given it too much thought after the booking. Would average say £3k spend across the year.

In August a lady replied to my reverse booking and I was just smitten. I've seen here 9 times now in under 3 months at a cost of say £5K When the booking is finished I always say to myself I will cool off and have a break or go to another provider etc and then about 2days later find myself booking another hotel and session with her!

I've never taken drugs, gambled, drunk to excess and I have good control in every other area of my life. Financially I've always been sensible.

I know I should stop but I enjoy it so much. Everything, the comms, antiptation, catch up etc. I usually have about £750 disposable income pm after all my bills etc.

Logically I know the answer but it's like a drug. Also given my age a couple of my male friends have newly diagnosed medical issues (C) so I feel life is too short and I won't be able to enjoy myself for too much longer so why the hell not.

Case of putting down on paper what I am feeling I guess.

Any advice welcome.

So I am very conflicted. I started seeing this escort a few months ago. We hit it off pretty good sexually at first. After some time passed, I grew quite fond of her. I wrote her some poetry. She brought me to her house and showed me her paint studio. So I decided to actually ask her on a date. She agreed but I backed out because I was worried that I was in over my head. Well I asked her again and she accepted. The plan was to grab dinner and drinks. The restaurant was closed so we just had drinks. To show her I was interested in still paying her I offered her to come upstairs but she declined. We did end up having a session the next night. I bought her flowers which she loved. Our sex was way different that night. She even broke her strict condom rule with me which it sounds like she’s never done. She even mentioned maybe sleeping over but she ended up not. Afterwards she mentioned that she would love to have a re do of our date where we can actually grab dinner for a change. Once again off the clock. She mentioned to me that she feels a connection with me that’s more than sexual. Now I consider her pretty out of my league in vanilla life but she mentions how much she loves how kind and respectful I am. I’m afraid to suggest actually moving beyond being a client because I would hate to risk not being able to see her anymore. But a part of me has to wonder what she wants. Is she just being nice to keep me as a regular or is it possible she might have some feelings as well.

Hi there! My bf and I (both males) are interested in potentially working part-time as an escort couple and were just wondering where to advertise? We want to be a duo only for men only. I've seen Tryst mentioned but in our big city, there are maybe 20 men advertising vs hundreds of women so we're not sure we'd get much through it (open to being proven wrong about this though). Other than that, we know of rentmen but we're having trouble understanding if you can advertise as a couple on there since it doesn't seem clear? If anyone has any advice on where to advertise as a couple, please let us know. Thank you!

I worked as a high end escort for about 4 years and my favorite client suggested an arrangement 3 years ago. It’s a good deal financially and I don’t want to lose it, but it comes at a price. We meet at a hotel once a week and then about twice a week we have phone sex. He’s a nice guy and I like him but he’s extremely objectifying. I realize this is part of the biz, but after three years I’m exhausted by his constant texting and sexual appetite. He wants me to send photos of me all the time, sends me pictures off the internet of big 🍆 and asks me if I would want it. I can’t have a normal conversation with him without him jerking off. He wants to know about all the men I’ve been with and gets off on it. I really don’t want to be reminded of it. When we meet in the hotel within 5 minutes he wants me to lay on the bed and just jerk his d without looking at my face. His eyes glaze over if I talk about anything but sex. I have a daughter and he couldn’t tell you her name if I put a gun to his head. I realize it is what it is but I’m absolutely exhausted by it and don’t even feel like a human being around him if that makes sense. I don’t want to ruin this but I wonder if I should set some boundaries with him. He was much more personable when we first met but it’s changed. He’s the type that wouldn’t take criticism well. I’m starting to act robotic around him. Just trying to please him and ignoring how I feel. I starting to need anxiety meds before seeing him. I obviously can’t talk to anyone about this so I appreciate any suggestions.

It's actually the first time I will take any woman to eat. In this case an escort. I'm a very awkward and shy person, and I have never been good with women. So I haven't had the experience of taking a woman out to eat. I just want to experience this and learn how this sort of dynamic works, so I can be better prepared for the real deal some day. Any tips?

And for some context, it's not going to be the most fancy dinner. But I want to at least treat her right and make her feel comfortable, even if it won't be the fanciest of dates.

How does it begin? You meet up somewhere then what? Is there ground rules you go over? Do you discuss the nights activities 😂 I’m thinking of trying for the first time but very nervous. TIA