Was I reasonable?

Went to see an escort whilst I’m abroad in foreign country just, after a few texts and my original choice not being available. It was all very rushed from the off to be honest and I didn’t even really find her attractive.

I get in her apartment and pay her, I genuinely thought the price was 10 less so asked was it that amount and she said no 10 more which was fine. So she maybe thought I was a dick from the start.

Anyway, we can barely understand each other and she’s ushering me to take my clothes off and I’m asking about kissing etc because on the texts it said French kissing was more but no mention of a general kiss. I wanted to kiss to get hard but it ended up not happening and she’s telling me to strip before I’m even remotely hard which I’m not too comfortable with, hint the want for a little feel or kiss before. Anyway i uncomfortably take my boxers off and she starts trying to ram this small condom on my flaccid penis and it’s half on. Then she’s demanding I stand here, move there and starts sucking it terribly and I’m just standing there and put my hands round my back sort of and she starts going mental going “ew ew no no” I have no idea why I may have touched the top of my bum but I’d showered 20 minutes ago and am clearly a hygienic person. Oh yeah just so I don’t miss anything, I’m not allowed to touch my own cock either, as I tried to give it a little jerk to get it fully erect she goes crazy at me about that too.

Anyway she’s sucking and I’m getting harder but not fully and it seems she wants fucking now and positions herself for it so I move onto the bed and she starts going mad at something, idk if she wanted eating out or something but it seemed she wanted fucking to me. But yeh when she just starts getting annoyed again and there’s no vibes at all I just say I’m not really feeling it and get off the bed to get my clothes on, from me starting to take my clothes off to this point was certainly no more than 5 minutes, i was very polite and apologetic about it and start getting changed, but obviously we don’t understand each other fully.

I type on my phone that she doesn’t have to give me a full refund and 60% back was fine (never experienced this before, but just assumed it was pretty reasonable?) for her time, she started giving it attitude and I could tell she was saying no money back, I was fumbling around trying to type into the translator that it wasn’t very fair and being nice and not showing any aggression at all, I got my clothes on and she just walked to the door and held it open whilst I was still trying to type messages to translate. At the same time she was on her phone and I thought maybe translating something but more likely texting her pimp to come over maybe expecting trouble (got quite nervous), I just said whatever ok and left.

I know I wasn’t an ideal client here by any means, but was just wondering what’s the standard in terms of money back? Was I completely wrong to ask for it or would you guys expect the same? I’ve seen a few escorts in my time and had some shitty and some great experiences but never had to leave before the experience was over for any reason.

I'm a client and regularly visit an escort for long sessions for a couple years now.

We usually just do sessions in hotels, but for the first time I decided to try something outside with her. Booked tickets to an EDM club show.

Having a good time and we're both drinking, both of us are just tipsy and having a good time. I've seen her full on drunk before and she didn't seem that way at all, nor did she drink enough to be in that state.

At one point she lets me know she's going to the bathroom and would be back, I stayed on the floor until then. Noticed she'd been gone for a bit, went to the general area of the bathroom to check on her / wait outside if she was still in there. Waited about 10 mins then texted her asking if everything's ok. She texted back saying she's good and will come back in a few mins.

I turn to head back to the floor, end up doing a double take after I see two people full on making out against a wall. It's her. I just laughed when I saw that and left the club and just got an Uber back to the hotel.

She did not text me until the next morning with a "did you have fun last night?" text. I was surprised she didn't even end up asking where I was last night, I guess she was too caught up in the moment to even think that she was doing a session. Mind you I paid for an overnight, so the plan was to go to the club then back to my hotel.

I didn't respond to that text. My course of action now is to just block and move on, which of course isn't super easy given how long ive been a regular. Is that appropriate or should I respond and give a detailed explanation.

going from my last post about a man recognizing me in my apartment off an ad (from my NAILS)

me personally im not too scared cuz i've dealt with a crazy man before but get this... as i was about to leave i saw him by the entrance LOOKING FOR ME?? now there is a chance he was just looking for someone else but i watched him come out, scan the lobby, and go back up.

i was spooked but thankfully i hid just in time lmao before he could see me. i'm wondering is there really any way i could go about this situation without completely moving out of my building? i'm pretty creeped out. any advice would be greatly appreciated ❤️

A lot of times when I see escorts I don’t get hard until the cbj . Is it like that with other clients ? Or are they usually hard from the start . Was wondering if I’m the only one it happens to.

Had my first ever visit with a provider this week. We had a long dinner date 5 hours mid 4 figures rate.

Had dinner at a nice place which by the time we got back to the hotel it was about halfway through the time. Went back up to room and got underway fairly quickly, ended up with 3 orgasms during the time and had great sex. Fairly passionate, she seemed to enjoy it especially time #3.

Anyway we were laying in bed naked chatting for a while between sex and then after the final time. I had glanced quickly at the time at some point and saw we still had over an hour left. At some point during chatting I put on my boxers as I was a bit cold and she took that as a queue to get dressed and leave. I’d assumed time was up and we said our goodbyes. After she left I saw the clock was about I think 30 or 40 mins over time. Sent an email saying I had a great time and thanking her and sent a tip electronically and said I hope to see her again and she replied echoing all of those and thanking me for the gift. I had also sent her a small amount as a gift in advance.

Anyway I’m just curious whether she wasn’t keeping track of time, was really enjoying our time, or what. Like everything I’ve read said to be respectful of her time which I was, but I didn't keep a constant watch over the time. Assumed she would based on everything read.

So curious why she did this/whether I did anything wrong. It didn’t seem like she cared and I honestly wonder if I had not started to get dressed whether she’d have stayed chatting for longer.

Definitely look forward to seeing her again and will continue to treat her well.

So I am in Chicago to help a friend that’s moving to town. This is my first time in the city, and also as is my birthday month. I wanted to have a little fun. I had notice a companion that was touring years ago in Texas, but never quite made it to my area, so literally for about three or four years now I’ve kept this companion on my radar just in case I were to be the same place, and now I happen to be visiting her home city. I follow all the directions, attempt to keep communication open, do everything right that I’ve learned over the years in this world, even though I stopped consistently hobbing a couple years ago.

I get confirmation the morning of that we are still ago, then I hear nothing for the rest of the day. Our time comes and goes, I follow up a couple of times, I don’t hear anything back.

I sincerely hope that nothing really bad happened, and I like to assume the best… But I’m curious for you, ladies from your perspective, What situations or scenario would cause this from your perspective?

I actually still want to see this person, maybe it’s the years of pent up fantasizing and the fact that she really seems like an awesome person. Does this mean i did something wrong? How should i handle this?

I visited my regular provider yesterday. We usually pillowtalk openly about anything for about an hour. After some tiptoeing she asked if I don't feel "taken advantage of"🤣 I told her hell no. I'm a grown man. No one is forcing me to visit.

Made me curious though, was there ever a situation where you felt bad for accepting someone's money and if so, why?

Client here. I am just wondering what are your thoughts on a client contacting you to ask if you will be available during the dates he plans to meet up with you?

I ask because I will be travelling in a month, and I was looking up escorts around that place. Part of me wants to contact one escort I am very interested to meet just to introduce myself and make sure she will be around during those dates. I just don't want to get too excited for meeting her, and then when I arrive to that place in a month, I write to her and find out she's in vacations or something like that. But at the same time, I don't know if contacting her with so much time in anticipation is a good idea and if it may be wasting their time or it may be bothersome.

Thanks for your responses!

As the title says, I’m wondering if you ever experience any feelings of guilt/shame around working with married or otherwise “taken” men. I ask this without judgment, your work is legitimate, you’re not the one breaking any vows, and those dudes will likely find sex somewhere so you may as well make some money. But does it ever get to you? Have you ever had a situation where things went really wrong for you/them due to working with someone who was married or in a “committed” relationship? How does it feel as a woman to think about the other woman (or children if there are any) in the situation, or do you just try to avoid thinking about it altogether?

Edit: To be 100% clear, I am not trying to make anyone feel guilty. If my husband cheated on me, I’d much rather it be with a sex worker who is practicing safe sex than with an affair partner or random hookup. In fact I’ve told him as much and would literally help him find a sex worker if I wasn’t able to have sex for whatever reason. I have a lot of respect for sex workers and think you provide a valuable service.

I need advice. Im not even sure if this woould be the appropriate place to look for it considering fits probably more of a local question. but ive been an escort for 3 years. this last year ive had it rough. mainly becauase of people effing with me . stalkers and crazies galore. so Ive gone into hiding a bit but im trying to come back out and get my "status" back . I used to use megapersonals, tryst, p411, private delights, the erotic review etc. however it sort of dwindled as my motivation did and landed me with just megapersonals. ANd now that im tryign to pick it back up im having a harder time. it feels like everyone moved on to new websites and i didnt get the memo. Im in the Phx az area . anyone have suggestions on new websites to use?

I recently saw a provider for the first time, booked a dinner date. She was gorgeous, had a lovely dinner and headed back to her place.

Fun times ensured (no complaints here) and with 45mins left she prompted me to take a shower thus ending the night. Now it was a bit late and we both had had a few cocktails/wines but i usually have a quick recovery time and could have easily gone a second round (which i have with other providers) but i tend to be a bit passive so followed her lead.

Afterwards, I can’t help but feel a bit short changed by it as It was an expensive night. Would it have been wrong to ask to continue the booking as we had so much time left? I would actually like to see her again but only if i know I’m going to get my full booking time which i may have to get her to confirm beforehand (not sure how i can do this politely?)

Is ok to ask the escort for their personal number? because I feel like we clicked on so many levels and I wanna stay in contact and I’m afraid they might disappear.

Have you ever had clients who visit you every week or twice a week for a long period. What's the longest period you had a regular?

Hello,

I'm a 22-year-old virgin currently traveling alone. Since I’m far from home, I thought this might be a good opportunity to experiment a bit. After doing some research, I found that the most relevant site for my location is Eurogirlsescort. I found two profiles I liked and contacted them on WhatsApp, as that seems to be the main way to reach them (besides email). However, neither has responded yet (it's been 3 days for one, and 2 days for the other), and now I’m feeling more stressed than excited.

I checked the profile photos, and they don’t seem AI-generated or from any stock model sources. The profiles are also marked as verified. Still, now that I’ve reached out, I’m worried about being scammed or that my personal information could be at risk. Does anyone know how safe Eurogirlsescort is, and whether it's secure to contact providers via WhatsApp? If this is a scam, could I get into any trouble if they only have my phone number and first name? What could someone do with just my phone number?

I also read the "How to find a safe provider" guide and realized my first message might have been a bit too direct. I introduced myself, asked if it was really x and y from Eurogirlsescort, and expressed interest in a 30-minute or 1-hour incall. I mentioned that I was a virgin and asked if they were comfortable with that, thinking it wouldn’t be an issue. I also asked which area they were in and mentioned not wanting vaginal sex (as I want a "soft" experience for a first time, avoiding full intercourse).

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Am I overthinking this, or did I mess up my initial message?

Thank you in advance!

I know this might be a silly question, and I'm sure none of you can answer it for sure but hopefully you can give me some insight at least.

I'm looking at booking a provider to explore a couple of fantasies of mine, including some new things I've wanted to try for a while. I've met a couple of ladies in the past, with varying results. I've found a lady I like, and from her socials she seems great. I'm not yet sure whether I'll choose the same provider for all of these things.

Other than booking an hour or two for drinks, is there any other way to know if the spark will be there? Obviously I don't want to waste anyone's time, and I'm happy to pay for any preparation or communication time ahead of the meet.

I don't want to spend thousands and then it not work out because there's no spark. I completely get that it's a job, but I feel like at least some connection is needed.

First off, y'all doing gods work.

I'm actually going for massage, HE is nice bonus which I didn't expect from a grandma. Been twice and masseuse fixed something I went to PT for over a year that never resolved.

Is early in shift or later better? Is double house fee good tip or add more? Would asking her if she wants a massage be out of line? She's old but has insane body

If you have separate ones, for an hour session, few hours , weekend bag etc. what’s in it?

Greetings all.

I’m an American postgraduate student (28M) in London and a few days ago I saw an escort (25F) for just over 2 hours.

We got on quite well and we laughed a lot; we shared a fair bit about each other, or at least seemed to. The session was less pure “sex” and much more being intimate, ie caressing each other—mostly me to her. I like this aspect since I’m a pretty intense sort of person and I enjoy the intensity of eye contact and kissing more than anything else. She responded—as a professional would, I suppose—in like kind but towards the end, there was a marked upsurge in the “intensity” of us making out. We seemed to be really into just staring into each other’s eyes very closely and intently.

Our 2 hours were up and she wanted to stay longer but I declined (with deep reluctance, which I expressed to her) since it was late by then and I had an early morning the next day.

She showered, and while she was doing so I gathered her clothes and laid them across my bed to make it easier for her—courtesy is a major point for me. When she came out of the bathroom, she was surprised that I had gathered and laid out her her clothes, saying I was “not like anyone others” and was “really kind”. While she dressed, she asked my phone number and had me enter it into her phone. We laughed some more about little nothings and eventually said goodnight and goodbye. As she was leaving, we hugged and I kissed her on her forehead and she responded with deeper kiss.

We’ve talked back and forth the past few days and she’s told me not to message her on her work WhatsApp number. I’ve been confused what to make of this or where it might go—if it might go anywhere. Unclarity rather unnerves me so I messaged her asking ‘what this means for us’ in so many words. She responded that it means we can ‘know each other well’.

Now comes the rub: I liked the intensity we shared and I want it continue, maybe even become something but I’m confused and unsure whether she was actually sending me signals in that direction. Above all, I’m anxious that this isn’t just some ploy of which I’m a potential victim. I’m in politics and a naturally cynical person, so I’d like to think that I'm shrewd enough to detect maneuverings and schemes… but I didn’t sense anything like that when we met.

I’m open to advice and reasonable judgements.

i have my ads up on leolist and a guy happened to see me in the building and asked me if that was me (he was black and my ad says no black gents) i got spooked that he was gonna attack me cuz i kept denying that it was me.

then he quickly left the building... im scared asfuck right now because i cant even wait in the lobby without being worried about seeing him again. my mom also lives here 😔 cant wait to leave this place

any advice?? ❤️ thanks

I have noticed some escorts and these are high end ones that are not verified on eurogirlsescort. Initially, I thought it's a fake profile but later I noticed some other high end escorts who I have actually met in the past are also not verified on eurogirlsescort.

Whenever I look for escorts on eurogirlsescort I have the habit of using the filter to click on verified to skip the scammer profiles and avoid wasting time but now I'm realising doing so makes me miss real escorts too. I can't be the only one who uses the verified filter. Also these unverified profiles are not profiles of escorts that have just created the profile at least the high end ones I met 4-5 years back still have the same unverified profile.

So my question is why so many escorts on eurogirlsescort don't have a verified profile? I'm sure there must be some very valid and compelling reason cause I'm sure choosing not to have a verified profile means losing some business for sure.

I feel I need to be more discreet over texts. People are always reaching out to me asking about sexual favors, pricing, photos etc. I don’t want to lose business by blocking anyone who sends me stuff like that but I don’t want to get caught up either.

I know I should put something in my ads to let people know not to send anything explicit but then how do I book appointments if I don’t know what the people want. My pricing has a standard rate just to show up then I add any additional charges for additional services.

How should I better respond to potential clients? Do yall respond to explicit messages?

I don't mean something like a costume, but something on the lines of heels or a dress (not a specific one, anyone, the one the person has available and would be willing to wear). Obviously, if the girl says "no", I wouldn't insist or be bothered, just wondering if it's a common request and if it's reasonable to ask for it.

Hey ladies, Particularly North FLA. What's everyone's rates around here. For a half hour of my time it's usually 170 an hour 220 sometimes 250. I just want to make sure I'm not selling myself short. I would be considered upscale and desirable so I'm just curious about US rates. Thanks and if this is the second post I've posted I wasnt sure the first one went through. Sorry

I see ADS for providers who have obviously been brought in by an agency into the U.S. And I often consider the ethics of the entire thing. Are they usually brought in voluntarily? Are they tricked? Are they just answering a job offer where you romp Your way through America for 3 months and retire for the rest of your life? Then I've also seen people say. We should call law enforcement. But the US is known for not being very nice to immigrants. And so I would expect some of the girls after spending some time in jail because.... They may get shipped back to where they came from or possibly just dropped off in the Southern border. While the agency keeps whatever money They were promised.

But I honestly don't know.

Is anyone on here ever done this?

I know this is gonna sound stupid before I even ask but where could I go in the city to get tested with quick results that I can give to a provider should I decide to spontaneously pursue services? Context: I’m in the boondocks of SD, Cali

I met a well established provider for a date it was unexpectedly hot session. I had brought some flowers and champagne, and we hit it off pretty quickly. About 2 days later she reaches out and wants to meet again and says something about going out on a real date with me. I assumed this to mean that she wants me to book longer sessions. I didn’t have the money, so I postponed until I was ready. A couple of weeks later, I reached out. We worked through some scheduling issues and agreed to meet again for 1hr. I just didn’t think I was ready for longer dates with her. She agreed to meet and signed off all positive, etc. The day of the date, I checked to see if we were still on as I usually do. There was no communication and none since. It has bothered me since. I don’t have a crush on her, but feel poorly about it, and can’t help wonder if it was something I did. What is the Escort perspective? Fwiw, I am not particularly good looking or fit or anything. I think a friend once described me as not bad looking Lol.

What’s the most you ever made in one day/night? Did you make that working with an agency or working independently?

What’s the least you made in one day/night? Why was it that low amount? Lack of effort or just a bad day?

Have you guys ever had any clients with phimosis? If yes, then do you refuse them or continue.

That's not so say that all independent girls do GFE, but I've noticed that girls working under pimps -never- offer GFE (BBJ/DATY/DFK).. Maybe because they don't have another man in their life they don't mind offering those services?