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WLW seeking other WLW.

L4L - Lesbian for Lesbian

The WLW version of r4r, q4q

Whether you're seeking dating, platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travelmates, groups to join, activity partners, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

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When creating a submission please include a body in your post and a TAG in your post title AT THE BEGINNING:

Age [F4F] Location - Post Title .

Example: 25 [F4F] Dallas - Someone to message at 2am.

If posting a Missed Connection, add the flair to help with post organization.

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26 feeling very lonely tonight 8

I am going through a tough break up and I just want someone to talk to on the phone and maybe fall asleep together on call. If anyone other women is feeling as lonely as me my phone is open to you tonight me inviting you a night to just sleep together. Iโ€™m from Texas, Dallas if youโ€™re closer than thatโ€™s even better I just want to give attention and in a way love to someone who is feeling lonely for it

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2024/11/22
02:49 UTC

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27 [F4F] Los Angeles, California looking for friends to relationship arc (pic in profile) 8

Hi ๐Ÿ‘‹. Iโ€™m looking for a female who is willing to see if we are compatible enough for a monogamous relationship. Ideally weโ€™d do this through chat, voice calls and eventually meeting up. So itโ€™s preferred that youโ€™re relatively nearby. Keep in mind that I donโ€™t know how to drive yet. I mostly spend my free time watching movies and writing. Itโ€™s a goal of mine to become a working screenwriter. I donโ€™t play video games, watch anime, play dnd or anything like that, but if you do thatโ€™s ok- interests arenโ€™t the only thing for compatibility.

Sexually Iโ€™m pretty vanilla. Im not into kink or hookups. I am not too experienced sexually. I want to see if we can be friends first. Thereโ€™s a picture on my profile. My dms and chat are open. Since you can see what I look like, I want to know what you look like- mutual attraction is somewhat important to me. Messages without a picture will be ignored. If this at all piques your interest and you live near Los Angeles California or SoCal, donโ€™t be shy and message me, with a picture and what your favorite movie is.

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2024/11/02
05:23 UTC

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30F anyone else looking for a reason to be excited for a notification on their phone? 8

Hey hey there! Perhaps my title caught your interest? Iโ€™m being as clear as I can be with that. Iโ€™m here looking to make friends, now Iโ€™m not sure at this point in time if Iโ€™m looking for more, but you never know, thereโ€™s always that slight chance you might just find your person? Right?

Iโ€™d love to meet other passionate soul, Iโ€™m rather a chatty person when it comes to the things I love, and Iโ€™d love to meet other people whoโ€™re of the same mind. I dare say, in a self call-out and perhaps a bit of a โ€œfairโ€ that I can absoluthely be a little over the top when excited/on a topic I care about, which Iโ€™m well aware can annoy. That being said, I just want to be heard and have someone whoโ€™s just as eager to lose their brain a little over these kinds of things.

I love to be laid back, just having a laugh and kicking back. Iโ€™ve never been overly adventurous or outgoing, but Iโ€™m hitting that itch under the collar phase and wanting to branch out, do more, have more excitement in my life! And wanting to jump into that with company as well.

Iโ€™m a lover of art, of nature. Iโ€™m very much into the green thumb side of things. Iโ€™d absolutely love to also meet people who wanna nerd out to gardening! Also builder, I love to make things, and fix things. Anyone else out there want an excuse to buy that new tool theyโ€™ve been eyeing for months, hoping for a legitimate excuse to get it?

Iโ€™d also just like to meet people I can hang out. Phone calls, movies or game nights even if itโ€™s long distance, whatever it is as an excuse to get out chat on?

Anyway, I wonโ€™t make this post too huge. If Iโ€™ve gained your interest, please feel free to hit me up! Iโ€™d really rather chat to people within my own age range if possible. Thanks for taking the time to read!

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2024/10/17
07:30 UTC

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31 NB Michigan - Butch for other Butch/Masc/non-gender-conforming/identity is complicated :)

Hi all. I am Trips, also known as Sab once you get to know me.

I am a handsome butch with a kind heart and all sorts of cool stuff.

If you are looking for a long-term, kind of more serious relationship I am the person for you!

It would most likely be better to get to know each other at the pace most comfortable. So, if you prefer reddit for awhile that's ok.

I am a veteran, I hold two bachelor's degrees. The person I would be interested in doesn't need to be any where like the things I have. I'm just fortunate and have privilege to be able to do these things. I have long term aspirations of being a professional artist and art therapist. Art is very important to me, I am a visual artist. I cannot do music but I love listening.

I like rock music, metal, and instrumentals.

I do live in Michigan but willing to relocate for the right person but that clearly is not a next week kind of thing lol. I am also willing to drive long distance and/or fly depending on the circumstances.

Look forward to get to know you :)

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2024/07/07
02:49 UTC

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29 [TF4F] United States, New Hampshire

I am MtF Trans, about 3 year into HRT

Live in NH and visit MA often, I don't mind drives that are under 1.5hr

I teach Game Programming at a college

I enjoy DnD as well as most other games

I love watching anime with friends, and I don't mind rewatching shows: The joy of seeing someone enjoy something that you enjoyed is often better than the experience of seeing something new.

I love cooking, but I don't love cleaning: Ideally I'll find someone here who's the opposite :)

I'm a hopeless romantic and the one thing I can promise is that I'll make you feel like someone really does care.

Friends tell me that they respect me for my honesty, so if you want a partner who will never lie to you then I'm your girl.

I get attached too quickly, and my first instinct when something goes wrong is to communicate and have a discussion about it so that I can do better. This can be smothering for some people, and when someone just needs space I can often end up doing the exact wrong thing by mistake.

One of the most magical things in the world is when you can show your affection and the other person sees that and matches you, they push back harder. They show you that you can keep being yourself, that you can push further without fear of rejection.

What I look for:

Honesty and Openness (Trust is VERY important to me)

Communication (Its important to talk about issues so we don't build resentments)

Someone who likes Cuddles (I am ALWAYS cold haha)

Overlapping Interests (Doesn't need to be everything, but there needs to be something we can do together/talk about)

Deep Conversations (I hate aimless small talk)

I'll give anyone a chance so even if you don't fit my criteria's perfectly please reach out! I've found that with every relationship you discover a new thing that you didn't know you were looking for.

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2024/01/30
06:17 UTC

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33 [F4F] NYC/NJ - ๐‘ธ๐’–๐’†๐’”๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’๐’‚๐’Š๐’“๐’† ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’• ๐’Ž๐’†. ๐‘ฐ'๐’Ž ๐’๐’๐’๐’Œ๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’– <3

NAME: Janette (pronounced Janet) and my nickname is Jay. It's super generic, I know, but what can I say, it stuck hard lmao

AGE: 33 years young.

GENDER IDENTITY: Cisgender woman

PRONOUNS: She/her mainly, but they/them is also fine (:

LOCATION: NJ/NYC (Open to meeting anyone from anywhere, long distance relationships are fine as well)

RELATIONSHIP STATUS: Single and monogamous.

EDUCATION: Associates in Biology, expired Pharmacy Technician certificate (switched career fields for several reasons)

LOOKING FOR: A long term monogamous relationship. I'm looking for my person <3

JOB: I basically work with medical records and insurance. Glamorous, I know (;

SEXUAL ORIENTATION: WLW / Queer. I usually say "gay" for brevity sake lol

ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Homoromantic

ZODIAC SIGN: Aries (date of birth 03/31/1990)

RELIGIOUS BELIEFS: Atheist.

POLITICAL STANDINGS: Leftist. I love politics and can go on for hours, but I know it's not everyone's cup of tea. No worries if you're apolitical lol

KIDS: Absolutely not. I have none and want none. I'm also not interested in dating a parent. Sorry.

PETS: No.

SMOKE: Nope.

DRINK: Nah.

(I'm childfree and pet free ~though I don't mind if my partner has a pet but I am allergic to dogs and cats lol I'm also sXe ~straight edge, meaning I don't smoke or drink. Again, I don't mind if my partner partakes in whatever drugs as long as they're being safe and responsible about it)

FAVORITES

ANIMALS: Foxes, elephants and owls.

MOVIES: I can't think of a specific one but I can get into any movie if it's engaging. You name it and I'll watch it. I usually stray away from comedies because they usual don't make me laugh lmao

VIDEO GAMES: Overwatch 2!

FOOD: I have a limited diet due to dietary restrictions and some food allergies. I eat very simply.

MUSIC: I love all kinds of music but my favorite these days are electronic dance music and all it's various sub genres. Recently fell into the K-Pop rabbit hole as well, it makes me very happy!

ACTIVITIES: Despite being a homebody and an introvert, I'm actually pretty active. I love going to the gym, going for walks, hikes or jogs.

SEASON: I can appreciate something in all 4 seasons. As long as the climate isn't extreme in either direction, I'll be fine lol

INTERESTS: Most of my preferred hobbies are solo. I like to play video games, read (both fiction and non fiction), watch TV shows, movies documentaries and anime. I also use to do arts and crafts.

IDEAL (ROMANTIC) RELATIONSHIP FOR ME: I'm open to all kinds of women, I just ask that you're emotional, physically and mentally available, stable, open to communication, honest, kind and respectful. It helps if we can make each other laugh and have a good time together <3

REPLY TIME: It depends on many variables, but I try to respond in a timely fashion. If I can't, I will let you know why. Communication is very important to me.

BONUS

Love Language Breakdown is: 9 - Quality Time 8 - Words of Affirmation 7 - Acts of Service 5 - Physical Touch 1 - Receiving Gifts

Myers Briggs Personality Type: ISTJ-A

I have a discord if this piqued your interest! Thanks for reading, I appreciate your time and I look forward to hearing from you <3

EDIT: I can't take credit for this idea, I saw it online and figured it would be a good idea!

EDIT #2: Here's what I look like if you're curious ;D

EDIT #3: I should have originally included this but my ideal age range would be 25 - 45.

EDIT #4: Reddit chat is not working properly for me. It's glitchy, refuses to load, doesn't show notifications for weeks at a time, etc. Please DM me instead. Thanks for understanding <3

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2023/05/24
19:20 UTC

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32 [Stud4fem] Toronto, Ontario, Canada - looking for whatever

Hi, I'm a trans stud and looking for fems to be friends with and/or date (fellow disabled people only please for dating - any disability/ies).

I'm AuDHD, CP and Deaf. I'm a powerchair user and fluent in American Sign Language (ASL), my first language.

I'm a YouTuber, mainly gaming videos but also other content as well such as around my transition.

I'm a gamer, and would love to learn/play more non-FPS games. I have been playing Zelda's Breath of the Wild and it's awesome.

I also love hanging out. I go to ASL socials, they are fun!

I'm kinky. Also I'm polyamorous so I'm unable to offer you monogamy.

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2023/05/20
19:22 UTC

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22F - East Coast USA - Looking for a genuine connection

Hi everyone!

I've been on a good amount of first dates with people I've met through dating apps, but none of those dates ever turned into anything, so I've decided to come here and give reddit a try.

I'm a freelance writer and editor! I work online and on my own schedule, which I love, but I'm not too passionate about the work itself. I'm at a stage in my life where I'm actively exploring my interests and trying to discover new things in an effort to figure out what my passions are and what I want to do with my career. I'd love to have someone in my life to explore the world with :)

My main hobby is playing the piano. I've been doing it for about 15 years now. I also enjoy reading fantasy novels and comics, drawing, sewing, cooking/baking, going to the movie theater, and playing video games and board games! I love the sims. Crusader Kings is another favorite of mine.

Personality wise, I am quite shy and quiet. I love being able to joke around and not take things too seriously all the time. I like the outdoors and am not afraid to get dirty. I hope you aren't either! I'm into fashion, but I also suck at picking out clothes. I don't have great style, but I'm working on it.

I've also been getting into kdramas, kpop, jpop, and Thai gl series lately. Besides that, I listen to a lot of music from the 1920s and 30s, and I watch a lot of classic Hollywood movies. I'm also watching the Walking Dead and it's the BEST show ever!

Anyways, that was just a bunch of jumbled fun-facts about me. If you'd like to know more, send me a message! Please include a photo of yourself! I've got a photo of myself on my profile.

I am 22 years old, strawberry blond hair, 5'7", 120 pounds.

My age preference is 20-30. If you're a year or two older or younger, that's okay.

I am looking for a cis woman.

Please be from New York or the surrounding area! I'm not interested in something too long-distance.

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2023/04/28
00:04 UTC

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Butch4butch ISO relationship near Dallas :)

Hey, my name is Kellan, I am 23, single/monogamous, and Iโ€™m looking for a relationship here with another transmasc/butch person.

I am a transmasculine non-binary lesbian or a trans man depending on the group Iโ€™m talking to, and Iโ€™m still figuring some of that out. I use they/he.

I work in the animal care field and I really love what I do :) I am into art, history, rock music, philosophy discussions, menโ€™s fashion. Iโ€™m still figuring out my political beliefs but Iโ€™m more or less a leftist.

I was raised Mormon, now Episcopalian.

I donโ€™t drink or smoke. You can find pics of me on my profile.

If you like personality tests, Iโ€™m an INFJ and a 4W5 enneagram.

About you:

  • Transmasc/butch/masc of center
  • between 21-28
  • Christian preferred
  • non smoker
  • enjoy art
  • enjoy watching shows
  • more of a homebody

Comment or DM me if youโ€™re interested.

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2023/04/24
11:30 UTC

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32 [F4F] Anywhere - Are you looking for a slow burn?

Iโ€™m 32 F and quite introverted. I am masc presenting and I donโ€™t mind if youโ€™re masc or femme presenting. A few points for you if you are masc presenting and reach out! Im not putting any limits on this time. I see these posts and weโ€™re all into some sort of movies, true crime, documentaries, games and nice walks on the beach.

Letโ€™s skip that part. Forget the superficial madness. I really want to get to know someone. Find out what makes them tick. I want to know your passions and what pushes you in life. I look forward to finding out the little things that take your day over the top.

Iโ€™m very low maintenance and easy going. I look for kindness, direction, some sort of stability (life happens I know).

I prefer to talk on discord if you have it. If not reddit chat will suffice. Send me a message letโ€™s start the journey of getting to know each other and see where the path takes us.

5 Comments
2023/01/20
20:40 UTC

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26 [F4F] Itโ€™s 2023, letโ€™s fall in love?

Hey! Happy new year. Iโ€™ve been single for quite a while,so just hoping to meet a girl who wants to be in love again. But ofc i dont mind friends too~

Haha distance donโ€™t matter, eventually weโ€™ll meet, if things goes well, iโ€™m up for commitment. Iโ€™m an ENFJ & Cancer. Iโ€™m romantic, caring, sometimes funny, and also affectionate, I love to sing, listen to music, travel, Iphone photographing, cooking, hugs, trekking, true crime, learning languages, DIYs~ Currently, working full time~

Am looking for someone, femme/chapstick~ Someone whos accepting, loving, and wouldnt get sick of my singing and my cringey pick up lines at times! Anyways if you think we can click just hit me up!๐Ÿ˜ Sorry for the long story, have a nice day ahead!! Ps: Iโ€™m into girls only (:

4 Comments
2022/12/31
15:28 UTC

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30 [F4F] Azeroth - Looking for some company in Dragonflight.

Heya,

I'm looking for a few people to fill my chatlog while playing the new expansion. I'm very casual and don't do any difficult content, but I've been enjoying Dragonflight and just vibing in it, but it'd be better to vibe with someone else. Innuendo not even intended. I play in the EU region and follow a regular CET time schedule. :D

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2022/12/05
14:03 UTC

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30 [F4F] looking for love!!

Hi there!!!! I live in Indiana, on a little hobby farm. Im a caregiver for my dad and brother and I work part time. Im looking for a beautiful soul who cares. Someone who wants to tell me about their day and hear about mine. I love all kinds of music. If I had to choose a favorite it would be rock lol. I like to be out in nature and go on hikes/camping. I also like to stay in and watch movies/ tv too. Iโ€™m a sweet, caring person, I have a wild sense of humor and like to make people laugh. So hope you like to laugh as well cuz god knows Iโ€™ll try to make ya laugh. I like to play video games, I do have a few mobile games as well. Hit me up if ya want to talk!!! Thank you for reading this and have a wonderful day!!!! ๐Ÿ˜Š

1 Comment
2022/11/30
02:25 UTC

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26 [Gothy crust punk F4F] Portland/PNW/USA/Europe

I'm looking for another woman/femme to form a connection with, esp if you're in the PNW!

I'm 6'2, quite a femme but I have my androgynous moments. I'm a full-time student, majoring in the arts of Psychology I'm full blown alternative, but don't get me wrong, I have my shit together.

I'm 6'2, fair-skinned, and have peach blonde hair. Somewhat chubby but my height amends that.

Hobbies: I highly enjoy watching movies(both at home and at the cinema), mainly horror, fantasy, or Marvel. I enjoy sowing and modifying accessories such as bags, vests, etc for fun. I enjoy cooking both Eurocentric and South East Asian cuisines,

I enjoy the deep macabre, the grotesque but I'll gosh over Squishmallows and Power Puff Girls, because why not? I listen to a lot of music, including crust punk, deathrock, pop, outlaw country, and black metal(here's a playlist I've made.)

I don't drink or use, but I don't mind if you do, it is not a dealbreaker.

0 Comments
2022/09/28
03:40 UTC

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31 [F4F] Earth - Letโ€™s make an interconnection.

I think we can all agree. Finding connections on any level is just plain hard from time zone issues, busy schedules, different communication styles and more, itโ€™s exhausting.

Post after post we get a few replies. Communication is spotty and we never talk again, the search begins again and the cycle repeats.

Iโ€™m here to break that cycle. Things that are important to me is consistency, communication, passion about something and just a general life direction. People to share my days / weeks with. Talking daily isnโ€™t a requirement but consistency is key. I have soo much going on thats good and that Iโ€™m excited about but sadly no one to share it with.

The rest can be figured out later. I love sarcasm of the dry variety. I love watching sports. Iโ€™m not a fitness junkie but Iโ€™ve built a home gym to reach my fitness goals. If working out is your thing send me some pointers! If youโ€™re new to it well you found an accountability partner. I enjoy traveling, admiring architecture. Also I donโ€™t mind sitting at home watching a movie or a show along with dinner and snacks or maybe even a game night. Iโ€™m versatile and open.

In a matter of weeks Iโ€™ll be 32. Currently Iโ€™m a web developer for my own business. I am in the middle of a career change so Iโ€™m back in school as well.

Life can be hectic but I believe we put in the time and effort to the things we really want. A(n) interconnection(s) is exactly what the doctor ordered for me.

Please if you respond introduce yourself. Age, gender, an introduction of yourself etc. a simple hey or how are you etc aka low effort messages will not receive a reply. I took my time to write and post this so please do the same.

Iโ€™m a strong believer of: You get what you give.

2 Comments
2022/09/13
04:51 UTC

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28 [TF4F] USA New Hampshire

I'm looking for a long term relationship

I am MtF Trans, about 1 year into HRT
Live in NH and visit MA often
I'm a game programmer and I love my job
I enjoy DnD as well as most other games
I love watching anime with friends, and I don't mind rewatching shows: The joy of seeing someone enjoy something that you enjoyed is often better than the experience of seeing something new.
I love cooking, but I don't love cleaning: Ideally I'll find someone here who's the opposite :)
I'm a hopeless romantic and the one thing I can promise is that I'll make you feel like someone really does care.
Friends tell me that they respect me for my honesty, so if you want a partner who will never lie to you then I'm your girl.

I get attached too quickly, and my first instinct when something goes wrong is to communicate and have a discussion about it so that I can do better. This can be smothering for some people, and when someone just needs space I can often end up doing the exact wrong thing by mistake.

One of the most magical things in the world is when you can show your affection and the other person sees that and matches you, they push back harder. They show you that you can keep being yourself, that you can push further without fear of rejection.

What I look for:
Honesty and Openness (Trust is VERY important to me)
Communication (Its important to talk about issues so we don't build resentments)
Someone who likes Cuddles (I am ALWAYS cold haha)
Overlapping Interests (Doesn't need to be everything, but there needs to be something we can do together/talk about)
Deep Conversations (I hate aimless small talk)

I'll give anyone a chance so even if you don't fit my criteria's perfectly please reach out! I've found that with every relationship you discover a new thing that you didn't know you were looking for.

0 Comments
2022/08/09
17:22 UTC

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19 [TF4F] Alberta, Canada Looking for a girlfriend!

Im bisexual and while I dont have a preference one way or the other when it comes to men or women, men are too easy.

Too much attention from them, appreciated and otherwise, need a break from that nonsense.

I like talking about nerdy stuff (warhammer 40k, pokemon, fallout new vegas, warhammer 40k, and history)

I want to be held, be loved, explain warhammer 40k lore to someone who will listen, etc. The essentials. I also like to talk about politics, my politics being more in the leftwing libertarian sphere of things. Activism is important to me, I try to be as involved as I can.

I own a fish named moss. He likes poetry.

member of the catholic church, 420 friendly, dm me if interested

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2022/07/11
23:31 UTC

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24 [TF4F] Czechia Europe/anywhere - Looking for connection and maybe relationship in future

Hi,
I'm Lilith, i'm 24years old transgender woman from czehia.
I consider myself bambi lesbian as i preffer cuddles over other things.

I'm gamer girl too xD i occasionaly stream on twitch for fun :) im in no way big or good streamer but some good beanies are there in chat :3
Other than games i read webnovels, watch anime, like trips to zoo...

What I'm looking for is someone to hang out with, spend time together, go to cinemas, trips, zoo... cuddle a lot.

But big downside of me is my not exactly positive view of myself, and depresion(medicated).

I don't really care much about age or anything but being close to my would be definitely plus :3

So if this sounds interesting enough for you, hit me up in dms :)

PS: Bit of personal info but some find it important... I'm pre-op... that means i take hormones but didnt have bottom surgery yet.

0 Comments
2022/07/04
15:50 UTC

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32 [F4F] NYC/NJ - Questionnaire all about me! Take a look, maybe I'll pique your interest ๐Ÿ˜

**Fully vaccinated and boosted (:

NAME: Janette (pronounced Janet) and my nickname is Jay. It's super generic, I know, but what can I say, it stuck hard lmao

AGE: 32 years young.

GENDER IDENTITY: Cisgender woman

PRONOUNS: She/her mainly, but they/them is also fine (:

LOCATION: NJ/NYC (Open to meeting anyone from anywhere, long distance relationships are fine as well)

RELATIONSHIP STATUS: Single and monogamous.

EDUCATION: Associates in Biology, expired Pharmacy Technician certificate (switched career fields for several reasons)

LOOKING FOR: A long term monogamous relationship. I'm looking for my person <3

JOB: I basically work with medical records and insurance. Glamorous, I know (;

SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Pansexual though I've identified as a lesbian for most of my life. I have more experience with and am more attracted to women (including trans men & women) <3

ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Homoromantic

ZODIAC SIGN: Aries (date of birth 03/31/1990)

RELIGIOUS BELIEFS: Athiest.

POLITICAL STANDINGS: Leftist. I love politics and can go on for hours, but I know it's not everyone's cup of tea. No worries if you're apolitical lol

KIDS: Absolutely not. I have none and want none. I'm also not interested in dating a parent. Sorry.

PETS: No.

SMOKE: Nope.

DRINK: Nah.

(I'm childfree and pet free ~though I don't mind if my partner has a pet but I am allergic to dogs and cats lol I'm also sXe ~straight edge, meaning I don't smoke or drink. Again, I don't mind if my partner partakes in whatever drugs as long as they're being safe and responsible about it)

FAVORITES

ANIMALS: Foxes, elephants and owls.

MOVIES: I can't think of a specific one but I can get into any movie if it's engaging. You name it and I'll watch it. I usually stray away from comedies because they usual don't make me laugh lmao

VIDEO GAMES: Overwatch. I'm excited for Overwatch 2 to come out!

FOOD: I have a limited diet due to dietary restrictions and some food allergies. I eat very simply.

MUSIC: I love all kinds of music but my favorite these days are electronic dance music and all it's various sub genres.

ACTIVITIES: Despite being a homebody and an introvert, I'm actually pretty active. I love going to the gym, going for walks, hikes or jogs.

SEASON: I can appreciate something in all 4 seasons. As long as the climate isn't extreme in either direction, I'll be fine lol

INTERESTS: Most of my preferred hobbies are solo. I like to play video games, read (both fiction and non fiction), watch TV shows, movies documentaries and anime. I also use to do arts and crafts.

IDEAL (ROMANTIC) RELATIONSHIP FOR ME: I'm open to all kinds of women, I just ask that you're emotional, physically and mentally available, stable, open to communication, honest, kind and respectful. It helps if we can make each other laugh and have a good time together <3

REPLY TIME: It depends on many variables, but I try to respond in a timely fashion. If I can't, I will let you know why. Communication is very important to me.

BONUS

Love Language Breakdown is: 9 - Quality Time 8 - Words of Affirmation 7 - Acts of Service 5 - Physical Touch 1 - Receiving Gifts

Myers Briggs Personality Type: ISTJ-A

I have a discord if this piqued your interest! Thanks for reading, I appreciate your time and I look forward to hearing from you <3

EDIT: I can't take credit for this idea, I saw it online and figured it would be a good idea!

EDIT #2: Here's what I look like if you're curious ;D

3 Comments
2022/05/31
18:23 UTC

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20 [f4r] usa/online - looking for a fellow insomniac partner in crime

I'm a female-presenting nonbinary 20 year old, and building my own life after escaping toxic family that was never going to let that happen. I've been realizing lately how marvelous having someone to share it with would be. I would love to find someone to grow an emotional connection with, mostly online for now but within the US / Canada in case things go that route. I hope to move to one of the coasts down the road.

My friends would say that my biggest strength and weakness are the same thing โ€” how compassionately and deeply I feel for those closest to me. They'd also tell you I'm a writer with a penchant for semicolons; I have a few self-published books out there and used to do feedback critiques as a hobby. I love psychological (not gorefest / torture) horror like Dr. Sleep or Silent Hill with a side crush on the works of Shakespeare โ€” what a combination, right? Alas, poor Yorickโ€ฆ

You don't have to like the same things that I do though! Learning about a friend or beloved's interests is a great way to bond and discover new parts of life. I'm partway through college in the Midwest, with a passion for criminal justice โ€” real justice, not systemic oppression โ€” and women's rights. I would describe myself as non-denominationally spiritual, but can accept any beliefs that truly accept others โ€” and "the other".

I love photography and adore my Nikon SLR. If you're a Canon shooterโ€ฆ well, we can probably still work out our creative differences even if we can't share lenses. Like the idea of photographing cosplays of Claire Redfield, Jill Valentine, Wednesday Addams, Rose the Hat, or a stabby Silent Hill nurse? For the love of everything holy, hit me up already.

All four of my guitars have names โ€” ask me about them and I'll happily tell you their stories. The ocean and my cat are my current true loves, but maybe you can go on that list too? My favorite bands โ€” Badflower, Palaye Royale, Queens of the Stone Age โ€” come close.

I'm growing much more comfortable being seen as feminine lately, even with the idea of that being a positive and attractive thing in a partner's eyesโ€ฆ starting a boudoir / "gone mild" OF has been a huge boost with my body positivity. If you eventually want to call me your girlfriend, I certainly won't complain โ€” might melt or swoon though. I'm also very much on board with some conversations and expectations regarding what followers / subs get to see vs. what's just for my partner.

As far as "types" go, I'm moderate height and have a pretty diverse and freeflowing style. My hair color changes periodically, it has been long and blonde or black in the past, currently I'm somewhere between a pixie and bob, growing it out with the hopes of something flowy with a nice undercut. I can be found in an old band shirt and cutoffs one day, and a cute dress the next. My favorite feature about myself is probably my legs, but I'm slowly coming around to the idea that my friends who keep assuring me what I thought was unpleasant pandemic weight manifests as, direct quote, "all the right curves" might not be as insane as I once thought. (They're still kinda cringe, but I adore them anyway.)

I'm open to 18 to mid 20s, any gender identity and most body types, but frankly dicks are a problem and pretty much a non-starter. (If you're MTF and pending bottom surgery, maybe we can talk.) I also need you to know up front that I'm asexual. I am absolutely interested in affectionate physical contact, but sex itself is uncomfortably foreign to me. On the flip side, a bunch of reflection has led to a hunch I'd be open to a loving partner who sought that kind of intimacy outside of our relationship - whether through a friend with benefits, sex workers, or even being the latter themselves.

If I've caught and retained your interest, even platonically, drop me a DM? I'll pay a lot more attention if you indicate you've read all this by telling me your favorite color, or what my apparent favorite punctuation mark is. I would love to exchange wholesome "good morning" messages, get your opinions on which outfit combinations work, or have thoughtful philosophical conversations between the firefights of a co-op video game.

Maybe you're the one I'm hoping to hear from?

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2022/04/14
23:39 UTC

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33 [F4WhateverTFiFeelLike] wherever whatever

Hello ladies,

I'm inebriated at some Microsoft related event, and I just emasculated some dude because I know more than he does. Oh well. I'm looking to talk to some level-headed, well-rounded ladies.

I, otherwise, have weird standards, I hate checklists, and I love getting to know people through conversations. I want to make friends (always first) dependent on conversation, and I believe this is the best way to do so. Sorry in advance if we're not compatible or remain acquaintances. Fuck your lists. It doesn't represent character et al.

If you are easily offended or pretty sensitive, I have a knack for making people cry. Sorry not sorry.

PM me, but i rely on Discord for regular conversation.

Kthxbai,

hotdog

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2022/04/13
06:00 UTC

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22F/NewYork/Anywhere - Looking for the right one <3

Hi! Iโ€™m looking for a monogamous relationship and I donโ€™t mind doing ldr with someone. Iโ€™m asian myself looking for a fellow asian gf around my age(22) to 26. Iโ€™m also Bilingual, Iโ€™m fluent in speaking Tagalog and English. Iโ€™m 5โ€™3 and an ambivert, I like to be by myself but also I like to be around people sometimes. I like to play games ๐ŸŽฎ, listen to Music ๐ŸŽง, Iโ€™m an anime weeb and I like to Binge-watch kdramas, Iโ€™ve been doing this all by myself but hopefully with right person soon :) Iโ€™m also a Foodie! I love to go out to places and taste new foods!

Once I finish my degree I would love to travel to Korea or Japan with my person someday โ˜บ๏ธ

I like women who are more in the feminine side but if this is not you thatโ€™s not a deal breaker :))

Hmu If you like what you read about me :) Iโ€™ll reply back as soon as I can! ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’•

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2022/04/08
03:23 UTC

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24 (F4F) looking for lovers or friendship

Hey! I live in the United States and am looking for someone I can give my love to. The lgbt community isnโ€™t super great where Iโ€™m from so Iโ€™m just pretty out of luck. I definitely prefer a more masc girl but I love femmes and all other types of lesbians. I also would love to make some friends! Would love to have someone to share my life with and talk to all day. Iโ€™m super 420 friendly, love to travel, love all things outdoors, and am very artsy. Some like to describe me as a trippy hippy rave queen. I just call myself the space queen

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2022/04/06
04:48 UTC

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Tall F25 lesbian - North Oregon /Anywhere Looking for that ๐ŸŒˆ someone ๐ŸŒˆ

Looking for someone to chat with, "vibe" with, over chat/facetimeIRL.

I am looking for a potential life partner, but I'm not too adamant to rush things straight to the aisle.

I love the macabre, the occult, aliens, and brunches on a rainy day.

I'm 25 years old, a full-time student studying psychology(don't worry I'm not going to diagnose you).

I'm sober, but I have no issues with you using, along it is NOT HARD DRUGS.

My favorite movie franchise is Star Wars, Star Trek, Terminator, Alien(s), but I also recently fell in love with Nomadland & The Ritual.

I enjoy hiking and talking about nature, sharing about it, experiencing it.

I can't describe my music taste, but here's a playlist that sums it up quite well.

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2022/04/01
02:33 UTC

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33/f/w4w - Los Angeles girl looking for some fun with other ladies :)

Title says it all. I'm. 33 yo bi woman in Los Angeles looking to find other girls to chat with and maybe swap pics with? I'm a pretty busy person but I love women and making new connections. Would love to find ladies who are open to that sort of thing. Happy to share my snapchat with like-minded ladies. Chat soon?

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2022/03/16
22:33 UTC

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28 [F4F] WV Just came to terms with my gayness, looking for partner

I've always liked women, but I grew up in a very conservative part of the country. I never wanted a relationship with men, but I thought it was something I was going to have to do eventually. I've had this repressed for a long time. People say thay they have the most amazing dreams where they're astronauts, pirates, spies. You know what I was almost every night? A lesbian. One dream in particular my mother walked up to me and said, "If you date women, I'm going to disown you. However, if you date men, I won't." Where is the allegory? The metaphor? I live on my own and pay my own bills now, so I'm going to be happy. I think the final nail in the coffin was last week when I thought about a boy who would be a good potential mateโ„ข. I thought, "Wouldn't it be great if he transitioned into a woman if we were together? Then it wouldn't be my fault ๐Ÿ˜" ๐Ÿคš

Anyway, I'm embracing it. I'm looking for someone to spend my life with. A best friend, someone weird like me, to cuddle and watch garbage shows with and travel with if the world doesn't end. I like comedy, dogs, and whatever category you'd put Vince Gilligan's shows and Dexter in. Maybe antihero shows? I'm about to graduate as an engineer. I'm trying to find work on the east coast right now. I love dogs and cats, but I don't want kids. Alcohol is ok, but smoking anything is a deal breaker (think of the pets ๐Ÿ˜ญ). Also I'm tall: 6'1". You were warned. I'm not overweight or underweight, but I'm trying to get fit ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’ช

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2022/03/03
20:06 UTC

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31 F4F NY looking for friends or more

Hi, I will actually be 32 next week but whatever. Also am a big girl, if that's not your cup of tea I get it.

I love video games, huge mass effect fan, I love to cook and learn new things to cook, I have 2 cat's Ghost and Yennefer, and am a huge horror fan slasher movie's from the 80's being my favorite. I am a new york giants fan, listen to most types of music, love to watch crime documentaries, and crime shows.

I love all types of woman, would prefer someone from the US but I will talk to anyone if you want. May have a picture or two on my profile, did cut my hair in June so it's still short.

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2022/02/16
16:49 UTC

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35 [F4F] - PNW/Anywhere - Looking for Kind and Gentle Hearts

Hi Everyone!!

I hope you are all doing wonderfully.

I am an intersex trans-fem lady. INFJ, for those of you who take that seriously.... though I do find it slightly disturbing just how accurate that personality description is. I'm shy and quiet initially, but I love to share the deepest parts of myself with anyone I feel safe with.

I have some hobbies, but really, I would be happy doing anything with someone else who has a kind and gentle heart.

I love to care for and nurture others - and most of my free time outside of work is spent as a volunteer with the homeless and the hospice.

I really believe in and try to live out loving and appreciating everyone for who they are. People are so unique and beautiful - and I believe when you surround someone with love and appreciation, they heal and grow towards their very best self - which is always more beautiful than what I could imagine them to be.

I view kindness as an underutilized superpower. It turns enemies into friends and can subtly and permanently shift another person's life for the better. Undeserved kindness is the kryptonite of meanness!! Though I am big about healthy boundaries.

I love to learn about other people, and have a severe addiction to reading biographies and memoirs, haha. I have listened to over 1100 books and would love to hear your favorites!

I'm quite physically active and you will find me hiking in the mountains or just generally outside in nature whenever I can manage it.

Like most introverts, I need alone time to ponder things in my heart, and I try really hard to stay positive.

Also, cuddling is the best!

Thank you to everyone here for being you, and for how you make the world a brighter, better, and more beautiful place.

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2022/02/10
07:08 UTC

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32F [F4F] US/anywhere outdoorsy homebody looking for something new

Hi.

I'm just getting out of a long-term relationship and looking for someone to chat with that could potentially turn into more.

I'm kind of athletic build. Only 5'2". I'm a jeans and t-shirt and maybe a backwards snap back kind of girl. I'm kind of quiet/awkward around new people, but once I'm comfortable I can be hard to shut up if the topic is something I'm interested in.

I'm into some outdoorsy things like hiking or just treking a city by foot. I love exploring the PNW or hiking mountains in Montana, Utah, Or Colorado. I like traveling all over, especially if I can catch a soccer game along the way too! I have friends all across the US thanks to my soccer traveling adventures over the last 10ish years.

I'm also good with watching a movie on the couch or playing mario kart. Or talking shit about whatever medical drama is currently being watched.

I have two herding dogs that are my babies! I love dogs and animals in general.

I currently live in the South, but I move fairly regularly for work. I am hoping to end up back west in 2023, but I could just as easily end up in DC or the Midwest.

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2022/02/06
20:39 UTC

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31F -[F4F] -SoCal- My Cat wants you to know I'm the best pillow on the West Coast =P

Greetings fellow wlw! I've posted and replied to posts here before but haven't completed the "find your person" quest yet, so here I am. (I have made some dope friends, though!)

I'm a 31 year old lesbian living in Southern California. I relocated from the southeast just before Covid took over everything. Not much is tying me to SoCal anymore - I'm open to chatting with lovely humans in other parts of the country and maybe outside of it- so long as you understand that long distance traveling is a little hard for me at the moment. I lost my dog at the end of last year and I need to settle the debt that came with that. (I guess this is a disclaimer lol).

I'll happily exchange pics if you'd like. I am overweight but -20lbs, I picked up lifting and trying to inch my way to more cardio. ๐Ÿ˜ญ I know this is a deal breaker for some, which is cool if you fall in that category.

Personality wise, I'm equal parts cat and golden retriever. (I feel foolish writing that but I don't know how else to explain myself). I work full-time as a chemist, although I'm not sure how much longer I'll be working in this space. Time will tell.

I'm overly passionate about animals and sometimes nature documentaries make the onion cutting ninjas invade my house. I mentioned that I had a dog, I currently have an 11 year old cat as well. I've been pet sitting and considering volunteering with shelters to fill the dog shaped void in my life.

Outside of the lab you'll find me gaming/streaming, reading, writing, or exploring some random creative project.

Since this is becoming lengthy, I'm going to taper this off here.

Please, no one under the age of 24.

4 Comments
2022/02/02
00:21 UTC

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