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for context, i met this girl on hinge and we started talking. we went on a few dates but she told me she was also seeing a guy at the time and wanted that to get more serious so we ended up just being friends. we’ve been good friends for a few months now and she recently told me she stopped seeing him. now we’re back to talking and i’m kind of wanting to tell her i’m still interested in her romantically. i don’t know how to approach this though since she very recently broke things off with this guy and i don’t know if she would be ready for a relationship. i don’t know if i should tell her in person or over text, or if i should just make a move instead of a verbal confession? any tips on how to do this without ruining the friendship?

Loooord. im not entirely sure where else to go about this. so. reddit i suppose. tldr me and my roommate have this Thing going on and i like her quite a bit. in true queer fashion we’ve only been roommates for 4ish months? and started picking up around when she broke up with her boyfriend. really it’s a recipe for disaster (fresh out of relationship/my first wlw experience) but i want to savor as much of this as i can. i’ve been in a long term relationship previously with a man that crashed and burned (we’re fine now) mostly because of my debilitating jealousy issues. it’s been a while and i am in a much better space mentally so i figured those feelings would’ve subsided by now. oh Mama was i wrong. i genuinely care about her so much and i do not want to fuck this up in any way. any advice for breaking old habits?

I (24F) have been dating my girlfriend (27F) for almost 2.5 years, but my family doesn’t know we’re together. To them, we’re just “roommates.” Every time I bring my girlfriend with me to visit, it feels like they are unwelcoming and awkward around her. Whenever I mention her in conversation, they quickly change the subject, and it feels like they intentionally ignore me. They haven’t outright told me they don’t like her, but it’s clear from their behavior that they are uncomfortable when she’s around.

My therapist has suggested that my family might be acting awkward because they secretly know we’re dating but don’t know how to treat her or what to say. That idea makes sense to me, but I also feel like my mother, in particular, thinks I’ve abandoned her in some way. I’ve always been close to her, and I worry she’s struggling with the fact that I’m in a relationship that she doesn’t fully understand or accept. I met my girlfriend in the middle of my parent’s rough divorce and spent a lot of time at my girlfriend’s house during this period.

I’m really torn about what to do. I’m scared to tell them that I’m gay. One of my sisters knows and is supportive, but the rest of my family has no idea. My girlfriend has been nothing but kind, respectful, and loving towards them, and it breaks my heart to see her feel unwelcome. It’s so frustrating because I don’t know how much longer I can keep our relationship a secret. I feel like I’m living a double life, and it’s starting to take a toll on me. My girlfriend is the first person I have ever been able to rely on and who makes me feel completely happy and I am not going to let my family take that away from me.

Has anyone else dealt with something like this? How did you handle it? I could really use some advice and perspective on how to move forward.

i just got into a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and her birthday is next month. i already plan to make her a playlist and make her a few things, but i was wondering if there was some cute websites or things online that i can send her <3

I have been "friends" with my Armenian girlfriend for almost two years now. Im 23 and she's 26. We met at university and I had asked her out thinking she was gay (she dresses very masculine). She told me she wasn't but that we should be friends. Fast forward a couple months of hanging out, she kisses me, and the rest is history. We have been in a situationship up until last month. We are physically and emotionally intimate, and obviously in love with each other. However, I broke up with her because the relationship was impacting me significantly. She told me she loved me, often, told me nothing would make her happier than spending her life with me, but that she's never going to come out to her parents. I see myself with her and have told her multiple times that if I could, I would marry her. She says she wants a life with me, but her circumstances are what's stopping this. Her family.

She admits she is sacrificing her own happiness for theirs, and understands also that their love for her is conditional. She is a deeply insecure person as well, she does not imagine or see a happy life for herself. She lives day by day, not aspiring to anything, and accepting that this is as good as life will get. She calls me the only happiness in her life, and thinks she will never be happy again after me.

Not to mention, her family is not only extremely homophobic but also extremely overbearing. They constantly call her to see where she is, who she is with, what she's doing, and when she will be back home. Her sister especially causes her a lot of stress- constantly asking if she's seeing someone and if its a girl or a guy.

She tells me that coming out is a categorical no, because she knows the way her family will react. I empathize with her situation, especially because I am Arab and understand how constricting traditional families can be. The problem is that we love each other. We've only been broken up for around six weeks and can't manage to stop texting about how much we miss each other and wish we were together. Even with the pain of being separated, she does not see herself ever telling her mother about me.

I'm writing this because I'm wondering if there is ever any hope for us. Should I just accept that she may one day go on to marry a man that her family chooses for her? Accept that we can never be happy?

like 2 months ago i matched with a girl on tinder and we talked literally nonstop after our first message. we went on a date and things went well and we continued to talk and plan more dates. things were going really well. she liked me a lot and gave me the look when a girl really likes you. anyways after about 2 weeks she started taking longer to respond and her responses were not very good. what were once paragraphs, were now single word responses. i asked her if she was still into me and she explained that her mental health was terrible and she didn’t think it was going to get better and subsequently ended things with me :(

i really miss her and i want to know if it would be bad to text her? what’s should i say? should i just give her space? if you were in her situation what would you want?

I love chronically online cutecore girls they’re so cute i’m so gay for them they’re just like mee but whenever I meet them they’re always into ddlg and want older men like no like me me me no stinky old men meeeeeee. I need to get a life

My ex didn’t treat me right, and it took us breaking up for me to realize it. It makes me sad but i was always so focused on the good things she was doing. It was hard for me to realize that the bad things actually existed and so i always blamed myself and chalked it up to me being anxious or overthinking things.

She always snapped at me when she had a bad day (bad days for her were caused by one small thing going wrong), said really mean things to me towards the end of our relationship, and was constantly distant and not prioritizing our relationship. (these are kind of vague but). She kind of just took everything out on me, and then also made school her top priority above anything and everything else. Eventually i was scared of talking to her because i couldn’t tell if i was going to catch her in a good mood or a bad mood. if she would just be mean and dry or sweet.

I also think at the end we weren’t compatible because of our views on life. I’m more optimistic, she’s pessimistic, she really cares about school and work, while i care more about life outside of those things and school and work come second.

Still though, knowing all of that i sometimes think about moments she was really sweet to me, and then i convince myself that she could’ve been a good girlfriend.

idk, i keep telling myself those good things exist in another people who won’t treat me the same way, but I just keep thinking about it.

I (F20) have a gf (F19) and we got into a HUGE fight last night bc i called her out for saying slurs she’s not allowed to say (the one against trans people and the one against disabled people) and for saying bisexuality isn’t real. she keeps telling me she can say them in private bc she’s not using them against those minority groups. So i blew up at her and told her every time she says a slur i question our relationship and how i don’t want to be with someone who uses such hateful words. and i went to bed giving her the silent treatment bc she wasn’t listening to me at all. and now it’s the next morning and i think she’s still upset at me. am i in the wrong for telling her that?

this is really random - but i'm trying to gage if things my ex did were normal or not?? if that makes sense. A lot of the way she treated me was horrible, but when there were some good parts it's hard to not get hung up on those? (i don't as much anymore but) there were still sweet moments. and i would like to believe ill still get those with other people. and one of the sweet things she did was like whisper and talk to me while im asleep?? was wondering if anyone else's partners did that?

Me and my girlfriend go to the same school and take the bus together but they're both pretty public places and we both want to kiss but like we don't know where to kiss. Any advice?

We go to school together and we take the bus together but both places are both a bit too public for a kiss and we both went to kiss each other but there's not really a place we could so I don't know what to do

Ok so I am taking dating more seriously in a confidence building way, right now I am not really attached to the idea of finding a relationship but more into exploring hooking up; now the thing is I am a little scared. I've had a girlfriend before, but we didn't get past stuff like finger stuff on the outside, knee thing, and 2 base type stuff.

If anyone could walk me through a typical hookup, IK every time isn't going to be the same but when you first meet someone off the apps, I am assuming you don't just go straight into some of the other stuff like (eating or strap). SO am I really overthinking this?

I hung out with my crush and she brought a friend. For most the day nothing flirty really happened. Until towards the end when we got food and I got up to get water and when I came back her friend was telling her "I love her she's great", and my friend answered "I know". And as I approach they shut up. Later when they drop me off my crushes friend left us to talk. And we were bantering and flirting a little bit and then there was a long awkward pause where we just looked at each other, and I wasn't sure if I should go in for a hug or not or something else, and in the end I just said okay bye and turned around and left 🤦‍♀️

Do you think I should have made a move I wasn't sure the whole day whether or not she was into me or she had friend zoned me. But the end made it feel like it was a little bit more intimate when it was just the two of us.

Hi everyone.. do y’all think I am overreacting for wanting my gf to let her coworkers know she’s dating ? there are just so many ways you could tell, just putting it out there like “oh yeah I’ve done that with my gf” or “yeah my gf gifted me that” or “yeah I’ve been there with my gf” .. I started to get pretty nervous about this because this random male coworker started liking her stories and he commented on one and from that one they talked for the whole evening lol she’s craving friendships so much since she doesn’t have them and I understand it. We had discussions on this because she says FOR HER he’s just being friendly but I really can’t believe a MAN goes all the way contacting her and talking with her for the whole evening lol. I don’t know if she’s being fr or she’s fucking w me tbh at this point but.. I read some of their messages when she was at the toilet and I know it’s wrong, I’ve never done it before but she was being way too difensive and yeah their long ass conversation was them talking 50 about work and 50 joking and saying in a way I didn’t like it at all. I didn’t tell her I read some of them but now I can’t even look at her because I’m so mad and I feel so unseen on this.. can y’all share some opinions and suggestions on how to get better?

Hi!! I’m going on a date with a sort-of-acquaintance/friend-of-a-friend on Thursday. I’ve met her twice before, once very briefly and once (and most recently) when we were both hair models for the hairdresser studio our mutual friend works at. It was very fun at the shoot, but I didn’t get to talk much to her except briefly when she commented on my book (we like the same book) and when we were solving word puzzles in a group while we had some downtime. We had a smoke but two others were there and I was masking heavily (I’m autistic) so I feel like I made a fool out of myself by being very talkative. Maybe I’m overthinking but I’m worried her first impression of me is too over the top, and not like the actual me since I was masking.

I think she’s very pretty but also out of my league; she’s the kind of person to go party, to be impulsive, who has friends who do “crazy” things and hang out a lot. Or, at least that’s my impression of her and her friend group. I am very much the opposite. I’m autistic and very shy, introverted, a little nerdy, and I get drunk off one cider (if I even finish it). I like to stay home and read and knit, and I’m much too anxious to have a lot of friends or to party regularly in any sense of the word… I fear she’ll find me boring, or weird, or too intense. Our mutual friend told me she is very excited for our date, and even said “finally a date with a beautiful girl” - now that’s very flattering and sure made me giddy, but it also makes me very anxious. I want to do well on this date, as I’m very interested in getting to know her.

So, I would like some advice and tips and tricks. This is my first date with another woman, and also first date with someone I didn’t already know well or was already in a relationship with. I’ve never done this kind of dating before. I saw her on tinder, and I swiped partly because I thought it was funny since we’re acquainted. I didn’t know what to say tho, and I kinda freaked out, but she ended up texting me first asking me to tell her more about my favourite book over a cup of tea… I don’t think I’ve heard a better pick up line before lmao.

Ofc I said yes, and we scheduled for Thursday, but now I don’t know what to do! I really like her, or at least the idea I have of her, but I’ve never been on a wlw date. Are there any questions I should ask her? And maybe some things I should avoid? I don’t want to talk just about myself, but I don’t know what to ask about her. I’m quite nervous; I’m even going shopping today because I want to wear my best (yet appropriate) outfit for our date and I don’t have a top I’m happy with lol. I really want to impress her!

How is it that I’m single? I don’t go out much but I am willing to if I was certain there was a lgbtq+ place near me. I truly want to be with a woman but not just any woman. I never really see or hear about pretty privilege and even racial privileges associated with the wlw world but they definitely exist. I feel I often times get overlooked bc I don’t dress girly but also not masculine enough. I’ve had women flirt occasionally and the typical curious woman but I just want a woman who is sure of what she wants and does not care about race. There’s not much of an lgbtq+ scene around where I live. I hate this. I dead don’t feel I will find anyone. I consider myself a great catch for many reasons but here I am single af. Too many times in the past where women would do pretty gay stuff with or towards me except they’d end up saying something like “I didn’t mean to blur the lines” OR “if you were a man I’d be with you” 🙄 help me. Do y’all have any single friends on the east coast? Please😭

I'm a 17 year old girl and I've necver had a crush or ever thought of a girl in a romantic way. Until I met this girl about 2 months ago and she's all I think about and I don't know what I am because I've never felt like this before with anyone else but I don't know what it means for me as I've been sure I've been straight for s long time but she's really made me question myself if anyone ever felt like this I'd love some advice!

I have been "friends" with my Armenian girlfriend for almost two years now. Im 23 and she's 26. We met at university and I had asked her out thinking she was gay (she dresses very masculine). She told me she wasn't but that we should be friends. Fast forward a couple months of hanging out, she kisses me, and the rest is history. We have been in a situationship up until last month. We are physically and emotionally intimate, and obviously in love with each other. However, I broke up with her because the relationship was impacting me significantly. She told me she loved me, often, told me nothing would make her happier than spending her life with me, but that she's never going to come out to her parents. I see myself with her and have told her multiple times that if I could, I would marry her. She says she wants a life with me, but her circumstances are what's stopping this. Her family.

She admits she is sacrificing her own happiness for theirs, and understands also that their love for her is conditional. She is a deeply insecure person as well, she does not imagine or see a happy life for herself. She lives day by day, not aspiring to anything, and accepting that this is as good as life will get. She calls me the only happiness in her life, and thinks she will never be happy again after me.

Not to mention, her family is not only extremely homophobic but also extremely overbearing. They constantly call her to see where she is, who she is with, what she's doing, and when she will be back home. Her sister especially causes her a lot of stress- constantly asking if she's seeing someone and if its a girl or a guy.

She tells me that coming out is a categorical no, because she knows the way her family will react. I empathize with her situation, especially because I am Arab and understand how constricting traditional families can be. The problem is that we love each other. We've only been broken up for around six weeks and can't manage to stop texting about how much we miss each other and wish we were together. Even with the pain of being separated, she does not see herself ever telling her mother about me.

I'm writing this because I'm wondering if there is ever any hope for us. Should I just accept that she may one day go on to marry a man that her family chooses for her? Accept that we can never be happy?

What are yall getting your femme gf for Christmas. I want to get her wholesome, thoughtful gifts but I am also tight on money. Any ideas appreciated :)

I’ve had a crush on this girl from the moment I first saw her a bit more of a year ago, we became friends and even though I didn’t specifically tell her that I liked her I wasn’t exactly discreet about it either, we ended up having a brief situationship on September-October 2023 but she ended things via voice message and a week after she was on a relationship with another guy.

It obviously hurt me and things were awkward for two or three months, we kept being friends though, in June or July she told me that she liked me again, I also liked her but knowing how indecisive she is + her just ending up her relationship it was best for nothing to happen. So not knowing how to tell her no but also not wanting to say yes just for her to do the same as the last time I kinda ghosted her, soon after that she started another relationship proving that she was in fact not sure about “us” (which I mean, it’s fine it’s not like she’s obligated to like me back and it’s also my fault, but yeah it’s still frustrating).

After that we haven’t really talked about it but here’s the thing I still like her and every time we are together I feel like we give the perfect relationship vibes, I’ve tried to distance myself but it always ends up being worse. I also feel guilty because I’m her friend and I mean it’s not like I’m faking it but I don’t want her to feel like it’s purely for convenience yet I don’t think I could stay as only her friend.

Lately I feel like she’s been flirting with me again but I’m not sure, we’ve had moments were we grew closer to each other so it could be her just getting more comfortable with me as a friend. I feel like I won’t really get closure from this till we have something properly but I don’t wanna do anything stupid.

Any advice you could give me is appreciated

i seriously don’t know what to do, i had a year long relationship going with the most perfect girl, we never fought we were so good together and we broke up 2 months ago and i can’t seem to shake it, i feel like it haunts me every day and i don’t know how to stop this feeling. she broke up with me for the classic “i need to work on myself and my sobriety” which was very valid, but she’s still not sober and hanging out with bad people, not to mention hanging out with the girl she cheated on me with and i can’t get it out of my head. i’ve had absolutely no closure, she broke up with me over text and i haven’t seen her since the day before we broke up. please help me i don’t know what to do anymore

I decided to try some dating apps (bumble and hinge)because I want to explore and have fun. I don’t usually like dating apps and i’m not counting on anything amazing lol but just wanting to try it again. I’m new to dating, I’ve had one partner and 2 FWB before but that’s about it. I don’t know how to flirt, with girls or guys (i’m bi but prefer women, i only have the women and NB filter turned on.) I’m just trying to play it cool and be natural, but wondering how i can up my game a little since i haven’t done much before. I’m talking to a few people rn, Im autistic and not the best at conversational skills but trying my best to connect!

I just got a girlfriend a few weeks ago now She’s my safe place, . Every moment with her feels like home, and I’m endlessly grateful for the love we share. I can't believe she is my girlfriend she is smart, beautiful, and the kindest soul I’ve ever known.

She’s the kind of person who turns the ordinary into magic and reminds me what it feels like to truly be loved. I can’t wait to keep making memories with her, celebrating all the little and big moments that make our story uniquely ours.

Even though we're miles apart, with me in Wales and her in Belgium, our connection feels as strong as ever. Distance may separate us physically, but it only deepens my appreciation for her, and every day apart reminds me just how much I love her. Every late-night call, every message, and every plan to visit keeps our bond unbreakable.

Okay so I’m a bi girl and finding straight porn is super easy but when i try to find anything wlw it’s so obviously made for men. So does anyone have any tips on where to find the good stuff? The ones that aren’t weirdly aggressive, you know?

I'm still looking😝 But! It'd be great to hear some realistic stories. They don't have to be long, hopefully not at all [Wuhluhwuh ya know what I'm sayun]. But go for it by all means.

I’m sorry but this is gonna be really long. Let me give some backstory. Basically, i have been friends with this girl for 6 years now, we’ve been good friends for all those years and just recently we’ve been getting a little closer. We are both in high school btw so you know our maturity level or whatever. Anyways, I feel like she’s starting to become my best friend and she’s really amazing to talk to. As we’ve gotten older our friend groups have changed but we’ve always remained friends. Our current friend group is very fun, they’re all so kind and easy to talk to. Our friend group is really touchy, like we all pretend to act gay together and like flirt in a funny way, like we’ll put our hand on someone’s thigh just to be funny. But I feel like it’s different with her. Btw idk if i like girls or not so this is really conflicting. i feel like i probably do and that i’m just in denial about it. But anyways let me get back to the actual story. Basically, there have been some events leading up to now that have caused me to question her. One thing that makes me unsure that she is flirting for real and that she likes girls is that she is very republican, she is very open about her support for trump but she doesn’t push it in my face. So that first event that made me question her is that we went on a school trip across our state to go debate for model un. We were rooming together and were basically inseparable the whole trip. One night, when we were in our room, I was complaining to her about how I’ve never gotten with anyone, that I’ve only had my first kiss way back in 7th grade and that’s it. Then OUT OF NOWHERE SHE SAYS “well we could practice kissing if you want?” LIKE EKWITHENSKAJABRBR!!! WHAT!?!!!! I was just so caught off guard and I don’t even know if i like her like that but maybe i do idek. but that definitely made my body tingle, whatever that means. I’ve never felt that before so idk what it means. I kinda just stared at her after she said that and I told her “no it’s fine we don’t have to”, because we were going to some guys room that night to prepare documents for the next day. I think I had butterflies when she asked me but idk. so nothing happened because if fucking said no… bruh 😭😭😭. anyways we were holding hands and snuggling the whole trip and we were sitting together during the actual conference. we took naps together during the event, she would rest her head on my shoulder and i would rest my head on top of hers. i felt too scared to move when we were laying like this. OMG AND WE ARE ALWAYS FLIRTING AND I CANT TELL. She’ll walk up to me and look me in the eyes and tell me that im so hot and i just say it back like “no, YOURE so hot.” LIKE OMG!! and we’ll say stuff like that all the time. So fast forward to yesterday. We went paintballing with our group of friends, me and her were kinda hanging out on the side together so that was really fun. We just got carts and i got high for the first time with her in the bathroom. It was so crazy so it was kinda like we had our own inside joke the whole time cuz no one else in our group knew that we were high. Then when we finished paintballing, we went to chikfila. We went to the bathroom there and smoked some more together. we were having so much fun and laughing. The hangout was coming to and end and her mom offered for me to go home with them to hangout for a little longer. So i went home with her!! we hung out in her room and chilled. we lied in bed together and snuggled!! we were watching tiktok and she was like hugging me and laying on me, i watched her tiktok while laying back against the headboard. Then we would stop watching and talk to each other, just talking about literally anything. sometimes she would fidget with my pockets in my pants and that made me tingle, i don’t know what that feeling is. and sometimes she would kinda lean her arm against my hips to like prop up her arm to hold her phone so we could both see, she would sometimes slide her arm up without even noticing and that gave me butterflies. omg and at one point when we were watching tiktoks on her phone and reached up, still laying on me (facing away) and pulls her hand towards my face, she started caressing my cheek and jawline and neck a little bit!!! like omg i felt so hot in that moment. and another time she basically did the same move but instead of caressing my face, she kinda just repeatedly bounced her loose fist against my lips. AND OMG THROUGHOUT OUR HANGOUT SHE WOULD JUST TURN HER HEAD TO LOOK UP AT ME!! SHE WOULD JUST MAKE EYE CONTACT AND STARE AT MY EYES FOR LIKE 5 WHOLE SECONDS AND I WOULD SAY WHAT GENTLY AND THEN SHE WOULD TURN HER HEAD AWAY AGAIN!!! but idk if that mean anything, this is just so weird. at one point we were just talking and i started ranting about how friends with benefits get too much hate because it’s lowkey chill cuz like what if you don’t want to/can’t date someone, they can just make you feel good until you find someone to date. and right at the end of my tangent she fucking looked back at me and just stared into my eyes, i felt so hot inside. I felt so flushed. but then the confusing part is that during all of this she would rant to me about the guy(s) she’s talking to. she has a lot of randoms but then there’s this one guy who i think she actually likes and they live in the same neighborhood. and then to be even more confusing she went on a walk with him right after i left her house. as far as i know she’s straight but then she does this and i feel like it’s lowkey not normal for a straight girl to do that. i think she was turning me on with all of that. i just keep imagining what would’ve happened if when she looked back at me and made eye contact, i actually likes touched her hair or made some sort of move but idk. i thought about it all night last night, i was just replaying all the moments in my head! idk what i should do or if there’s anything i can do to figure out if she’s like that. plus i think i could still ask her to practice kissing if i want to see if i actually like girls like that. please just give me some advice, im so confused. what do i do??

anyways thanks for reading my long rant.

I’d like to start by saying if you know me in real life (apart from M) to exit this post. So I really love my girlfriend, she’s literally the best thing that’s happened this year. We’ve taken things fairly slowly but at a good pace for us however I keep almost slipping up and saying “I love you.” I’m just scared if I say it it may be too soon or maybe something bad could happen? I’m quite an over-thinker as well. How do I not slip up and ruin things? I know she would probably reciprocate however I don’t want to rush into anything and I’m quite an impulsive person. So what do I do?

Hi! I’m going through my first wlw breakup. We were best friends & ended up dating for a year but broke up when she threatened to kill herself if I didn’t come out to my parents even though I was planning to. Clearly it was toxic but I love her so fucking much I don’t know how to get over it. It’s been 4 months since we broke up - I’ve since come out to everyone I know & made a lot of personal changes but I’m still devastated & cry everyday & all I want is to talk to her. Help 😭

Back story: so me and my now ex ig were together for about 2 years. We met in high school when i was a sophomore and she was a senior... Anywho during our relationship it was great, we were able to communicate properly and spend time with eachother while balancing work school etc. One night about a year ago i wanted to talk to her about how i was SAd as a child and i did…she basically said she was sorry i went through that and afterwards she wanted to give me head..i let her because i was kinda in disbelief and didn’t know what to say..I was numb the whole time and couldnt do anything but cry afterwards and it hurt even more because i had to sleep next her..anyways i forgave her and moved on

After that incident i havent ever been able to open up to her or talk about my mental health or how i am really feeling or anything. It doesnt make it any better that I truly have no friends or acquaintances. For the past month or so ive been extremely depressed and just basically losing motivation in life quick. Before i ended the relationship, i felt mentally checked out of it (but then again i feel mentally checked out if life) and all i could try and do is make her happy and smile.

I told her that i wanted to stop what we had going on because i could feel myself kinda hating both of us because i couldn’t really talk to her. Like idk I still love this girl with all my heart and i dont see myself dating anybody else besides her..but my mental health is just gonna go on a deline being with her.

All i can do is crave her tho, even through the pain she caused me and what i am going through right now..all i want is her even though this is where were at right now.

I have told myself that i can get my mental health together and try and fully forgive her and move on but would that even work?

Idk my life is kinda in the shitter rn