/r/lesbianr4r

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A lesbian dating sub for lesbians by lesbians. All WLW are welcome. TERFS and unicorn hunters are not.

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These aren't required by any means, but can help your fellow raptors find each other a bit more easily ;)

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Ex: 22 [F4F] Canada - Maple Syrup and Cuddles

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22F - I'm almost cute enough to make February tolerable

As much as I enjoy living independently, I'm suffering from the slight problem of only knowing like two people in my city! What better way to improve my situation on the worst month of the year than talking to cute girls on the internet?

I’m primarily looking for friends rather than romance, but I can be pretty flirty, especially when I’m nervous! So who knows, maybe we’ll end up getting married next year and living together in a cute hidden cottage in the woods.

But you're not gonna want to hang around with a total stranger, so I should probably provide a few of those details you're after!

I play a few videogames, though a worrying proportion of it is just Pokémon. I've recently started Xenoblade Chronicles, and I have Opinions about the story so far, but the world design is gonna make every other game I play seem tiny in comparison.

Outside of games, I mostly stick to books. I tend towards sci-fi and fantasy, but I'm open to most anything well-written. My favourite novel is Piranesi, but it's the kind of book that you can't exactly talk about without spoilers spilling out.

I said mostly there, because the rest of my time is dedicated to watching the 311 episodes of Doctor Who on repeat. I mean- studying, just studying I'm a dedicated student!

Hmm, anything else? I don’t want you finding out everything about me in the first post, I need the mystique! If I sound vaguely interesting to you, feel free to say hi!

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2025/02/01
11:13 UTC

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18F looking for connections from around the globe

I'm 18+¾, from Rio. Haven't been super successful on subs like this one but why not give it another try? Probably the last one.

I'm fem presenting most of the time and am attracted to fems as well. I love talking about politics, pop culture, psychology, ghosts, gosh...the list goes on. I'd love to share my MBTI, but the result changes everytime I take the test. What can I say? There's still so much to find out about life.

I'm just tired of getting ghosted and really wish I had more lesbian friends right now. Having a girlfriend would also be stupendous in times like this. I believe a lot of us are on the same boat hahaha.

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2025/02/01
04:57 UTC

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29F - #UK , London

Hey it's Jae! A tomboy at heart,

Looking for masc and stem women either in the UK , USA, CA or worldwide for something real. Distance isn't an issue but if it's anything more than platonic, I would like to meet one day. Hoping to make new Queer connections and find a the woman for me.

I'm 29, 5ft5, Black, Petite build, Queer and Autistic.

Im into astrology, psychology and mental health. I enjoy going for walks, day trips, travelling, brunches, cafés and bars. I enjoy watching theatre shows and I'm also a homebody. #420friendly

Looking for someone who loves deep conversations and is emotionally intelligence. I'm abit of a homeless romantic.

Looking for women ages 27-38.

Happy to pic swap if we vibe.

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2025/01/31
21:58 UTC

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[TF4F](Cis fem allowed) Geeky transfem looking for love~!

Greetings, I am Rae, a transgender asexual lesbian girl from Colombia, been on hormones for a bit more than a year.

I am a nerdy and artistic person that loves biological sciences, with a lean on molecular.

Favorite thing of mine is Pokemon, along with dnd, recently been getting into warhammer.

I am about 166cm tall, with black hair and glasses, would love someone to really tower over me~!

I am fine with a LDR if we eventually meet, but preffer someone that is close.

Note i am a Top

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2025/01/31
20:40 UTC

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28F Lesbian looking for friends in Midwest IL/IN/OH/MI

The above states are my general boundaries but I may make exception for other nearby states. Hoping to meet up with prospective friends in person, ideally, so we can have fun adventures together!

I am single and a lesbian but I'm not really actively looking to date right now for a reason I am willing to discuss more. This may change but not right now.

Just looking to make friends with some lesbians or bisexual women in the area. I like to discuss politics, conspiracies, global news, funny trends, morality etc. In terms of active hobbies: going to the gym with friends is fun, hiking, trying new restaurants, gardening, shooting, road-tripping, thrifting and just exploring. If you hunt or fish and want to bring someone along I'll go (I'm not anti vegan either). I'm willing to try new things like rock wall climbing, wood-working, archery etc other active hobbies you may have. Just no skiing. I won't do that.

I have some opinions that irritate people on both sides of the political aisle so that's why I feel outcast. Just to give examples: I think what has happened in Gaza at this time is a genocide and displacement will continue in the West Bank in pursuit of an ethnostate. I do think RFK Jr would be the best nominee (unlikely to pass) to come out of Trump's presidency. I am in support of radical change to our healthcare system towards universal healthcare. I'm pro-choice but personally against abortion. I support border security and removing illegal criminals from this country. I am against the expansion of the surveillance state and speech monitoring. Lastly, the general attiude toward service workers on the tipping subreddit to me is sociopathic and lacking in any empathy.

I know I have a big heart and cry during sad movies pretty regularly but I think in the current climate of our country people are very hostile to one another. Republicans tend to be more open to my opinions but they seem to lack empathy in regard to several areas. I am too conservative for most progressive Democrats since I am in favor of certain arguments for morality which conflicts with an anything goes approach. I'd describe myself as a conservative Social Democrat, essentially and I'm not going to pass any team red/team blue purity tests.

Anyway, if you are at all still interested in talking with me maybe we can be friends. I'm open to discussion with all walks of life who are WLW but prefer those closer in age to myself.

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2025/01/31
11:01 UTC

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30y/o Nerdy Weirdo 🤷🏽‍♀️ from Michigan

As the title states. I'm pretty weird, at least compared to most of the people I live around. I'm an anime loving furry. No, I don't want to fuck animals, I mostly like the drawings and having sex while wearing a fursuit is a turn off as well. I'm not trying to fuck an animal, and frankly, idk how people can do it in fursuits and not die from a heat stroke.

Anyway, if you seen my obsession with Cats the musical that started when I was 2 it makes perfect sense that I ended up as a furry lol. I do a significant amount of gaming and mostly watch cartoons. I like to write and draw and smoke tree. My personal style is horror/kawaii. I love comedy and I'm a huge potty mouth and I border on being a communist.

I'm just making this post for shits and giggles. I don't really expect much as far as responses, but I have just enough curiosity to do it.

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2025/01/31
00:00 UTC

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19f femme4masc looking for romance~

hey hey! posting here for the first time and lowkey testing the waters. i am 19 years old, 20 in March and Aries sun (obvi), Scorpio rising and Taurus moon 😁. i'm a plus sized/curvy Black African Femme™ and i usually prefer mascs but im flexible still :3. i've just gotten out of a relationship, so a long term thing might not happennnn but also lowkey going with the flow

my hobbies include: crocheting, drawing, cooking, watching horror movies, watching musicals, listening to music (J Cole is my number one till i die) and reading! and i am currently in my second year of law school

i'm open to anything online (my country is, so to speak, extremely homophobic) but if somehow we're able to meet physically i'm open :D can't wait to hear from y'all! xoxo

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2025/01/30
18:59 UTC

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32F NV fem looking for another fem to spend time with

Hi! I'm looking to get to know someone and see where things go. I’d love to build something meaningful, but I prefer to take my time and don’t like being rushed or pressured.

A little about me: I love video games, music, and spending time in nature. Cute dates make me so happy, but I also love cozy nights in.

As for looks, I'm 5'7", light skin, with brown hair, and around 120 lbs. My wardrobe is basically Uniqlo-core. I’m fem presenting (as the title says!) and only interested in others who present fem as well.

I’m happy to share pics! If you’re in the U.S. and think we’d vibe, feel free to DM me.

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2025/01/30
03:06 UTC

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24f femme USA

Hello all ❤️ I’m ISO LDR/SDR or friendships whichever suits the connection best.

About me:

24, Virgo, plus size, black femme 5’7/5’8 Avid writer and reader, loves to travel, cook/bake, binge watch shows and go to the movies. Located in NC, I don’t mind where you are in the world☺️

Currently in a cosmetology program, making things/people beautiful is a new passion of mine.

Animal lover! I have one dog and adore all of my friends cats (extra points if you have a cat)

I believe in platonic and romantic soulmates so either or are welcome!

Don’t really have a type, I love femmes, stems, mascs and enbys. Just please (for romantic)don’t be still associated with your ex, don’t be toxic, don’t be inappropriate

Please be at least 21, everyone else is welcome!

Message me or comment, let’s get to know each other better 🖤🩷

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2025/01/30
00:34 UTC

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36 [TF4F] Canada: An ad about looking for genuine connection, good conversation, and fun! It's pretty cold and lonely this time of year; so I'm looking for those who are willing to enjoy our conversations, and help me feel less alone.

Hi there, my name is Renee. Thank you for taking the time to check out my post. As the title states, I am looking for genuine connection and good conversation. I live in Northern Ontario, so the chances to meet people are pretty slim, and the cold weather doesn't help any. I'm not really a "winter" person anyway, I much prefer fall.

A little bit more about me: I'm 5'6", with brown hair and eyes, and weigh roughly 170 pounds. I am vision and hearing impaired, s often prefer text messages to voice calls. I am kinda quiet, kinda shy. I more often than not just keep to myself, and let the world happen around me. I quite enjoy watching TV shows, anime, and movies. I really enjoy video games. (I have a PS5, a Switch, a few retro consoles, and an older gaming PC.) I take the time every day to go for a walk. (Even if it's winter, it's good to get a little physical activity in! Although the days when it's -40 usually mean I'm staying in.)

I'm looking for people who are looking to have long term chats, about whatever we bond over. Ideally, our interests align. I would really appreciate it if you would include your age, gender, and general location in your first correspondence, so I have an idea of who I'm talking with. I'm looking for kind, funny, and caring people.

Well, that's about all I can really think of, off the cuff, about me and what I'm looking for. If this little bit catches your attention, feel free to reach out. No matter what, I hope you have an enjoyable day! :)

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2025/01/30
00:02 UTC

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20F online/uk Looking to meet new people and see where it goes!

Hello anyone who sees this!! I have very little confidence anything will come of this but it's worth a shot!

For a little about me and what im looking for; Im a huge nerd and love video games, manga, reading, music, animals, retro technology and can ramble on about all for hours! I am not opposed to things being sexual although please not straight away, that being said i am a switch with a slight lean to subbing! Ideally I am looking for someone to chat with and if we connect then we can see where it goes!

Thanks for your time, have a lovely day!!

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2025/01/29
22:57 UTC

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24 F #Online LDR Long-Term Seeking Domme

24 F. I’m a lesbian in the U.S. I’m a sub bottom and single as well.

Some of my kinks: sensation play, breath play, degradation, overstimulation, orgasm denial, power play

Limits: anything illegal, animals, age play, weapons.

New to kink, but I want to explore and try online. Pretty outgoing and extroverted. Love a good conversation. It takes a while for me to open up and build trust. I’m not looking for a 24/7 just sexual for me to be submissive to you.

Not looking to exchange photos. Looking for a long term online monogamous relationship with a domme.

Please let me know why this interested you and how you think we’d get along. Let me know a little about you too!

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2025/01/29
22:26 UTC

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discussing the elephant in the room

ive been on this sub for about 2 years lets look at the stats

total responses i've gotten from my ad: 4

total responses ive gotten from answering ads?: 5 ive responded to 50+

people that kept talking after one day 6

relationship or something past one day?:0

i notice this sub caters to the 25+ crowd which is fine! but the constant need to fit a perfect blueprint of "lesbian" is getting tiring

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2025/01/29
16:09 UTC

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28F Tomboy femme FL Top/domme

Hello fellow chronically online lesbians 🤣 I am posting here again to say, that I LOVE short very feminine women.. to the point of almost hyper femininity. 😅 I find it so sexy. Personality wise, I really like a woman who’s intelligent, kind, caring, maternal, & sensitive. I love a woman who can be a little mean but also cries at puppies.. ✨ balance ✨ If you’re not healed or are involved with/hung up on an ex, kindly stay away from my DMs cause ain’t nobody got time for that 😅 I want someone that I can talk to about anything, from movies, sports, books, culture, the world, and politics. I enjoy someone who mentally stimulates me. Bonus points if we have good banter 😏 plus more bonus points if you’re a subby bottom. Let me know sexy ladies 😁

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2025/01/29
01:15 UTC

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26F in Chicago - Partner in Crime

Hey everyone, it's Big B on the beat :) I'm putting myself out there in hopes of finding someone special ❤️‍🩹

l added some of the emojis so this wouldn't be so hard/ daunting to read through, I hope they aren't annoying!

A bit about Me • I'm 26 years old and based in Chicago 🌃. I'm open to long-distance if the connection is right. A picture of myself is on my profile.

• I have a passion for helping struggling youth better their lives, and doing what I can to make my community a better place 💯

I love spending my free time with my dog 🐕, watching a good movie with some freshly baked brownies or cookies 🧑‍🍳. I really enjoy journaling, going to the lake, reading, and a few other things. I believe in the power of genuine connections and the beauty of building a supportive and loving relationship 💪🏾

• I'm looking for someone who is consistent, and values communication, mutual respect, and shared laughter. If you think we might click, feel free to drop a comment or send me a message. I'm looking forward to getting to know you!

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2025/01/28
23:40 UTC

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34F, SoCal - Wya

Hey there! I'm Mari, a 34 yo cis woman currently living in Rialto. I am looking for someone to spend off time with, obviously hook up with but also get to know a bit and maintain a sort of friendship with. Open to a relationship if things go that route. There are photos of me on my profile. I can provide more photos if requested, but be prepared to verify first and also provide photos when inquiring. Please be d/d free 420 is ok I don't personally partake. If there's anything else you'd like to know shoot me a DM and let's get to know each other!

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2025/01/28
21:48 UTC

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26F, Brazil -> anywhere, looking for buddies

Hey all. I've always enjoyed talking to foreigners online. Hope I can meet someone interesting to text about life and maybe create a meaningful platonic bond.

I'm kinda complex (scientifically proven), but laid-back and easygoing. Fairly quirky and unusual. But I can socialize well, even as an introvert.

I love music and it's a big part of my life. I play the guitar and sing, sometimes compose and write. I'm mainly into rock and metal subgenres, but I also dabble in kpop, hiphop and ambient. I also like languages (way too many to keep up with), history, literature, calligraphy, social sciences in general. Also a horror enthusiast. My friends describe me as obsessed. Oh well!

I'm a homebody but enjoy going out with friends to eat, drink and enjoy live music. Or going out alone. Why is it not widely acceptable to enjoy lonely cinema nights yet? I love them.

For those who are into it: I'm an ISFJ in the MBTI, Type 1 in the Enneagram and of phlegmatic-sanguine temperament. Taurus Sun, Virgo rising. Half mixed Brazilian + half Syrian, ethnically speaking.

I'm mostly ignorant on pop culture in general. That includes anime and games, sadly. Lmao.

Let's talk life, or whatever. I'm a good listener, promise. See you!

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2025/01/28
21:36 UTC

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24 F - Looking for friendship or anyone to talk to

I’m currently single and open to seeing where things go if anything develops :). I’m from the Middle East, so I don’t think I’ll find anyone nearby, but I’m very open to online friendships with people I can relate to, especially since I don’t know any lesbians irl..

A little bit about me: I work a corporate job, so most of my day is spent at work. In my free time, I enjoy reading, playing video games, and traveling whenever I get the chance. When it comes to relationships, I’m mostly into fems and would consider myself a stem. I’ve only been in one relationship before, and while it was toxic, I’ve learned and grown from the experience.

I’m looking for someone to chat with, share experiences, and hopefully build a friendship or maybe even something more. If you’re looking for the same thing, feel free to hmu.

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2025/01/28
17:16 UTC

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38 [TF4F] West Coast (US) / LDR - "Well, I wrote your name and burned it, to see the color of the flame. And it burned out the whole spectrum, as if you were everything."

Hi! I'm a friendly trans woman//total dweeb who would really just like to settle down with the right person and call it a day. I love music more than most things, and enjoy singing and playing a few different instruments myself. I like to travel when I can, I absolutely adore animals, and I can never resist a good taco (like, you know, the, with the tortilla, and the, never mind). I also collect records, I'm thinking of getting back into baseball (if I can find an queer-friendly league), and I watch way too many movies and classic sitcoms. I'm currently on the west coast, but I'll be moving next year (location undetermined), so I'm totally cool with long distance (though I would eventually like to close the gap).

Physically, I'm 5'7, with long-ish brown hair, blue eyes, fair/pale skin and freckles, and a slightly chubby but increasingly feminine body. I will clarify this right now, I am 100% a work in progress, not only transition-wise, but in terms of my weight/figure, and also my career (I'm thinking of going back to school). If you can handle that, great! I appreciate your patience and open-mindedness. Maybe we could work on ourselves together!

As far as who I'm looking for, the quickest way to my heart is just to warm it. I am a total sucker for kindness, empathy, compassion, all that good stuff. I also value honesty, integrity, communication/openness, a sense of humor, a positive outlook on life, and an appreciation for art of some kind (and bonus points if you have a creative side yourself!). Physically, I'm attracted to all types so long as you like to put some effort into your style, so don't be shy! I'm happy to trade pics off the bat if you'd like, but I'm also willing to take things as slow as you need to according to your comfort level.

If you would be interested in getting to know each other a bit and seeing where things go, say hello and tell me a little about yourself!

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2025/01/28
05:19 UTC

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38 in the Pacific Northwest

Thanks for being willing to click! I truly hope you are doing well :)

I never quite know what to write with these darn things. I suppose I'm just your average person, wandering purposefully toward the vague idea of no longer being single.

I've already tried to impress and self-deprecate, so I'm going to try being myself.

Sharing values is more important to me than sharing hobbies (though I'm quite certain your hobbies are perfect). To that end, I guess I believe in looking for the good in others and myself, staying positive, being kind. That the measure of my life is how well I treat others. I value memories and relationships so much more than possessions.

In terms of the more practical, I am just shy of 6 feet with classic androgynous, Scandinavian features. Long blonde hair and blue eyes. I am intersex. It's not something I ever bring up or that defines my personality - but I mention because it's relevant here. Gainfully employed and healthy - and I gratefully acknowledge that both of those are huge privileges.

I have a dose of the silly and the serious inside of me. I'm still not certain which one is better or how appropriate it is to be both, but that hasn't stopped me yet. You'll usually find me working, volunteering, swing dancing, hiking, and studying math. Unless I'm talking to you of course!

I'm a whole person - complete with strengths, weaknesses, kindnesses, and insecurities - and my assumption is that you are too! I don't need anyone to complete me - and I won't be able to complete you. But maybe we can both help the other complete themselves.

I guess end of the day, it would be nice to have someone to share life with. Someone I can pick up from the airport, and who will drive with me to pick up the rental car. Someone who will pretend to laugh at my bad jokes on the way home from the in-laws, who has a bunch of movies we can watch while sharing a blanket. Someone who has a favorite kind of salad dressing I can get them every time I go to Walmart. Someone who will have a stupid fight with me over something that doesn't matter, so we can both realize what does.

I do not really have a type. I always thought I did, but I have realized that expectations just rob me of my ability to appreciate what is. So if you are interested in talking to me, I'm interested in talking to and learning from you!

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2025/01/27
06:18 UTC

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35F - Washington State/Online - Ironworker and Labor Activist seeks activism minded friends

I know I can't be the only blue collar woman in the US who's fired up about what's happening in our country at the national level and looking to build community about it, would you like to take a crack at that with me?

I organize LGBTQIA career fairs in my home city for union labor hopefuls and have lobbied before and will again at the state and national level. I'd love to swap skills, network, and build something with my peers to help create safe union workplaces in an increasingly hostile nation.

Other things about me are: I write a lot of good poetry, I make a smaller amount of okay art, I love doing my own fashion photography, and really thrive in the construction world.

My schedule is kinda slammed 6 days a week right now, but I will be responding as much and often as I can, as I'd very much love to expand my community and the cause of LGBTQIA labor rights is very dear to me. Hope to hear from you soon!

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2025/01/27
03:22 UTC

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23F [F4F] looking to make genuine relationships/friendships. Florida/Anywhere

Hi all,

I’m a 23 y/o lesbian from Florida with an oral hygiene obsession and hatred for organic chemistry. I graduated last may with a bachelors in psych, and I’m applying for dental school this cycle. I was previously pursuing medicine but after a year of working as a medical assistant I realized it just wasn’t for me. I pass time by reading, going to the gym, bullying children while playing games online (only half joking). I’ve had a bit of a rough year, and am recently getting back into DBT therapy.

ISO: 20+. Looking for someone to laugh with after long days, who can help make life feel just a little less lonely. If you play bg3 that’s a plus :) messages are open

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2025/01/26
22:37 UTC

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19F - Germany looking for a connection

hi there! i go by rose, and i’m here putting myself out there—bear with me, i’m not the best at intros 🫠

i’m 19, a cis woman from the u.s., and i just recently made the big move to germany. a little about me: i love bike rides, reading, working out, gaming, writing, and binging horror movies. i like going out occasionally—restaurants are nice—but i’d much rather do something like that with someone by my side 💋

i’m currently in the military, and i know people have mixed feelings about it, but i promise i’m not what you’re probably imagining—I just work here 😭 down the line, i’d love to settle down, study, and live that happy wife, happy life dream 🤭

i don’t really know what else to say, but if you’ve made it this far, here’s what matters most to me: be authentic. if you’re real and willing, i think we could make great friends—or maybe even something more <3

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2025/01/26
22:35 UTC

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22F, UK, looking for someone to match my creative nerd energy 💗

Hi! This is my first time posting here so excited to see who I might meet. 🤞

About me:

-I’m 22, my friends describe be as dressing femme, yet I carry myself with masc energy. I’d say that describes me pretty well. Let me know if you want to see any photos.

-I’m in the south of England, near london. Outside of that I spend a lot of time in Wales and Somerset, but I love taking weekend getaways to any random place in the country.

-I’ve recently graduated uni (psychology) and am working and volunteering before I go back for a PhD. My career means a lot to me and I’m a huge nerd about it.

-I LOVE reading. When it comes to fiction I adore sci fi and dystopian books (but I love them to be character driving as opposed to lore driven) and I read a lot of non-fiction, mainly psychology, ecology and evolution focused. Once again, a huge nerd. Tell me about what you like to read!

-I also like musicals! Am seeing the OBC of Hadestown next month which is very exciting. I’ve spent time in my past directing shows and raising money in amateur theatre groups. All live music is beautiful to me, honestly.

-I love all things creative but can often be daunted as the prospect of trying something new. Let me know what crafts you enjoy and I’d love to hear about it.

-If you look though my post history you will see I have a past with physical disability. That’s very much a part of me but I do like living an active life. I love outdoor swimming and weightlifting. So whilst I have some physical limitations, I love getting stronger and being active as much as I can. Snuggling up on the sofa with snacks, a blanket and good company is also very preferable too.

About you:

-I’m happy to talk to people from a wide age range (19-29ish). Most of my friends are older so I’m quite comfortable talking to people older than me.

-I’d love it if you were in the UK, but I’m not opposed to talking to people from different countries if you think we make a good match!

-I am somewhat on the ace / demi spectrum (still figuring the last bits out!) so please don’t expect me to engage in physical or sexual flirting right away. That takes time for me and right now I’d love to get to know the rest of you.

-I’m open to people who do or don’t drink but slightly opposed to heavy smokers (occasional or social smoking is fine!). If you’re sober, I hope you’d be comfortable with me having a drink or two every once in a while. I love mixing funky cocktails!

-I’m very much attracted to passion. So the two of us talking about and sharing what we love most is the perfect conversation in my eyes. Talking about your favours books, research, or any creative hobbies would be a great way to start a conversation with me. Oh! Or pets, that’s always a winner.

And that’s all I can think of ! Looking forward to getting to know some of you :) please tell me something about yourself in your first message so I can reply with something substantial !

💗💗💗

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2025/01/26
16:54 UTC

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29 F- Chicago Suburbs, looking for love ❤️

Hi 🤓

I’m a 29 year old cis lesbian living in the Chicago suburbs, and I’m looking for the one. I am 5’9”, have brunette hair and blueish-greenish eyes. I love all things musicals and theater, superheroes, music, books, puzzles/legos, paranormal/ magic shows and movies. I also love watching stand up comedy. Some of my faves are Matteo Lane, Jeff Arcuri, and Kathleen Madigan.

Honestly, I’ve never really been in a relationship before, (came out when I was in college, and then the area I’m in doesn’t really have any LGBT places or hangouts) but I know I’m looking for someone with similar interests, someone who has a great sense of humor and who is a good communicator.

I would love to get to know more queer women and see where it goes!

Feel free to send me a message, and please don’t just send a simple ‘hi’, let me know a little about you! ❤️

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2025/01/25
23:36 UTC

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F28 Europe and everywhere. Fem 4 Masc connection 💫

Hey there! I’m almost 28-year-old fem lesbian from Eastern Europe, looking to connect with someone who vibes with me. I’m into butch/masculine women between 24 and 32, monogamous and child free. Confident, grounded, and emotionally stable types who are passionate and okay with being treated gently.

A little about me: I'm not tall (159 cm), kind of classic Slavik appearance. I have few tattoos on my arms (getting a new one in a week, right on my 28th birthday) and several piercings. I’m a mix of serious and fun, thoughtful, and caring. My hobbies include painting, gaming, watching series, and going for walks when I need to clear my head. I’m also trying to read more these days (recommendations welcome!). Bonus points if you like meaningful conversations and like to work out.

I’m open to long-distance, preferably from Europe but basically anywhere since I believe the right connection can bridge any gap. If you’re someone who’s authentic, kind, and not afraid to take the lead, feel free to reach out — I’d love to hear about you.

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2025/01/24
11:28 UTC

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19 [tf4f/tf] Uk Online trans lesbian looking for some fun

im ngl, im down bad and a top and thats why im here

msg me with ur age and gender and a fun fact about you if youre interested

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2025/01/23
01:07 UTC

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30F [F4F] just here looking to see if there’s anyone else out there looking to make new friends to chat to. Australia/Anywhere.

Hey hey there! Perhaps my title caught your interest? I’m being as clear as I can be with that. I’m here looking to make friends!

I’d love to meet other passionate soul, I’m rather a chatty person when it comes to the things I love, and I’d love to meet other people who’re of the same mind. I dare say, in a self call-out and perhaps a bit of a “fair” that I can absoluthely be a little over the top when excited/on a topic I care about, which I’m well aware can annoy. That being said, I just want to be heard and have someone who’s just as eager to lose their brain a little over these kinds of things.

I love to be laid back, just having a laugh and kicking back. I’ve never been overly adventurous or outgoing, but I’m hitting that itch under the collar phase and wanting to branch out, do more, have more excitement in my life! And wanting to jump into that with company as well.

I’m a lover of art, of nature. I’m very much into the green thumb side of things. I’d absolutely love to also meet people who wanna nerd out to gardening! Also builder, I love to make things, and fix things. Anyone else out there want an excuse to buy that new tool they’ve been eyeing for months, hoping for a legitimate excuse to get it?

I’d also just like to meet people I can hang out. Phone calls, movies or game nights even if it’s long distance, whatever it is as an excuse to get out chat on?

Anyway, I won’t make this post too huge. If I’ve gained your interest, please feel free to hit me up! I’d really rather chat to people within my own age range if possible. Thanks for taking the time to read!

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2025/01/22
12:08 UTC

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23//USA//Small Town Nerd Looking for Love

Hi there, I found myself here in hopes to try something new. I'm a bit of a rambler though so be prepared!

I'll be honest I'm not insanely interesting, I work a typical office job (that I absolutely love), don't have any pets (pretty allergic to animal fur :( ), and embroider for fun. I really enjoy the outdoors in the summer (when I essentially live in the pool), picking flowers when the daffodils are in bloom, and spending my time off from work catching up on my favorite series. I also really enjoy yoga and picking up new hobbies every few months.

I'm average height, white, and chubby. I am not religious (although I am open to others being religious) but I am spiritual. Social work is my field and I am a very morally driven person. I am stable financially and mentally. I am probably what is considered chapstick lesbian although I don't really care for labels.

The most important things I need in a partner are the ability to communicate and honesty. I have worked very hard on being my own person, learning to love me, and finding what it means to be a good partner. I want someone who wants to be a good partner as well, who is willing to be open and work together. Of course that's long term stuff but I'd rather be up front about it, I don't like playing games with relationships.

I don't have many preferences when it comes to a partner so as long as you're 18-30ish I'd love to hear from you! Please send something more than "Hey", if you haven't noticed I'm not a small talk type gal. I am a bit shy though so it may take some time for me to reply! If you've made it this far thanks for reading and good luck on your journey for love <3

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2025/01/22
04:15 UTC

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36F Colorado BBW looking for her romantic masc

Hey there! I'm Kara, a bit shy but ready to explore the dating world with amazing women. I've known I'm gay since 9th grade, but I'm new to dating women and looking for a patient, sweet, and romantic stud to share adventures with. I'm college educated and have been building my career in insurance for the last 8 years. I'm a BBW and looking for a woman who appreciates and is okay with a curvy woman. I'm looking for someone who has their life together and won't lead me on. Let's connect and see where things go!

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2025/01/22
01:07 UTC

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