hi everyone!

my name’s Mia and I am looking for a long-term partner preferably in the BDSM/kink lifestyle and who wants to someday get married and have a family. I am a switch but lean submissive.

a little about me, i’m a pansexual college grad and i just moved to florida. some of my hobbies include reading, playing animal crossing, baking, and crocheting. i enjoy going on walks and being in nature as well. i love music and in addition to that i love going to concerts, festivals, and raves. is slo love movies! i’m into horror, romcoms, A24, Blumhouse, and psycho thrillers!

i am pansexual so any gender identity works for me! i am looking for someone age 22-35 who is attentive, communicative, loyal, and motivated. my main love languages are quality time and acts of service. i have experienced some trauma and i do struggle with my mental health so huge bonus if you can be patient and gentle with me.

as for physical appearance i am a 5’2 latina with brown hair and brown eyes. i am mid-sized and super femme!

if any of this sounds interesting to you feel free to message me! :)

Hello all,

I am a 32 year old seeking connections close by or online; whatever the universe brings along at this point. I am not seeking serious relationships, but I am not entirely against it if someday it flourishes.

About me: I work two jobs and I’m studying psychology although I am pausing it due to some life changes. I may be changing majors once I finish my associates though. I have a cat, and enjoy reading, writing, cooking, making art and getting into whatever hypefixation that’s next in line. I am diagnosed with ADHD, so my hobbies do change here and there when I have the time. I also am a system in regards with OSDD/DID. You can ask about that if you wish.

I am in my Victorian/velvet goth era but I am masc appearing with some cutesy undertones. I consider myself androgynous but I am born female. I have a preference for ciswomen however. I love black and has always been my hyperfixations. Everything in my apartment is black (except the walls cause I’m not spending that kind of money only to undo it for whenever I leave). I've had this fixation since I was a kid and even to this day, I am very picky about how black everything must be.

I reside in LA. I like to go out when I can and plan for in advance. I enjoy going out and meeting people and getting coffee which I absolutely love. Sometimes I’ll hit the bars for some drinks. I am poly/ENM but I am single and prefer to be single at my pace as I get to know more people. I am not monogamous and that will not change.

I am heavily into kink for hedonistic adventures, and I just can’t do vanilla. But that stuff takes time for me to get into with someone. Trust and the vetting process is important to me as a top. This also connects with my DID, as my main alter is much more heavily into a kink (a Primal Sadist). I also want to explore cuddling and kissing more with friends or whatever and just be free. I am breaking away from societal and religious constraints that have made me live a life of guilt and feeling terrible about myself, my body and my desires. I just have so much love and care to give but even that does have its constraints as I am careful not to be taken advantage of again.

I’m 5’5”, a bit on the thicc daddy side but I’ve been losing weight due to health reasons and for health purposes (I follow a keto diet most times but allow myself a treat), I have dark brown hair past my shoulders a bit (used to have butt length hair but had to cut it). I’ve dyed it black a few times but it never lasts long. I have semi fair skin and freckles, and I can share selfies if needed. Maybe exchange IG handles? Aside from that, I do want to explore new places with new people especially restaurants. I’m a foodie (but with some dietary restrictions). Let me know if you’re interested in meeting? We can go grab some coffee or lunch. And if you live far we can totally be friends and share memes and silly IG reels.

I match energy with people. If I feel you stop sharing interest or don't seem to care about making an actual connection, I will drop you. I don't chase or waste my time with others that don't wish to reciprocate the same effort and energy as I do. selfie

Hi, I'm a lesbian from the Midwest looking for a relationship for ideally with another lesbian.

I'll say that I'm quite a boring person. I don't watch much tv/movies and I'm not on social media or into games. I'm mostly focused on my academics and I enjoy learning. I like reading books about history, philosophy, culture and other interesting topics.

As for physical features, I'm 5ft 5, brown skin, facially average or slightly below, basic style (shirt and jeans most of the time, no makeup, minimal jewelry) slim, brown eyes, and my hair is braided usually.

I like crafting, collages, decorating things, programming and math. I am also a panentheist (not atheist and not agnostic) and I like meditating and things like that.

I do not want children and I am not interested in legal marriage. My ideal relationship would consist of good conversations, interesting discussions, helping each other, doing fun things like going to museums, traveling, concerts, restaurants.

I am a women's liberationist (similar to feminism but not quite), not into queer theory, vegetarian and socialist/communist. I am also interested in someone around my age 20-24 who shares similar views. I like people who are ambitious and like new experiences.

If you're interested, message me.

Hey there! I’m a queer 27-year-old canadian (she/they) with a love for movies, video games, and gardening (yeah, the green kind). I’ve got that ADHD/autistic charm, so don’t be surprised if I jump from “How cool are octopuses?” to “Wait, what was I saying?”—it keeps things interesting. I’m also a mom of two, so free time is rare and precious. If you’re into late-night rants, random hyperfixations, and vibing online with zero pressure to leave the house, let’s chat. Who knows, I might be your new favorite distraction!

Hi! I’m Kali and I am 22 years old. I work at a funeral home part time and I’m going to school to get my funeral directors license.

I am currently in California but I am moving back home to Virginia in a few months. I am down to talk to anyone! I’m looking for a serious relationship.

I like to play video games and crochet in my free time. I’m looking for someone with a good sense of humor and who I can be best friends with. :)

I have been single for awhile and would love to be with someone and build a life together

I would def want to vibe with this person !

If you’re 27+ Masc Looking for long term In SoCal or into long distance Trying to build a little mini community with another woman + many animals

Dm me :) please be down to send a pic, my pic is below💕

I’m curvy, Jewish, clever, sexy, autistic, AND a Scorpio

I know, what more could you want?

https://imgur.com/a/M7QVkTL

I’m a 33 year old white woman in the south. I plan to relocate in the next year to either the PNW or NY state, but there’s still flexibility in that.

People describe me as kind-hearted and sweet. I have a big heart and a lot of love to give. I’m playful, affectionate and love to laugh.

I enjoy learning, and am attracted to partners that expand my world and knowledge. Do you ramble about your passions that nobody understands? I’m here for it.

I want a life where we dance in the kitchen to music while we cook. A relationship where we can both sit there in silence and be comfortable or have deep conversations for hours.

I like to travel. So someone with a curiosity to see other places would be amazing.

My hobbies include: Baking (I make a great pain au chocolat), light hiking, going to farmers’ markets, crocheting, traveling, listening to music, nature, watching documentaries and shows, video games, painting, writing, going to the beach and diving down rabbit holes.

I lean heavily feminine in appearance. I am 5’4. I’m overweight but working on it. I’ve lost 35 pounds! I am monogamous and that is important to me.

I don’t really have types. I just love women.

If you are interested, send me a message with some information about you. :)

×| Hello, everyone! First of all, please make sure to read the entirety of my post!^^ I hope everyone is having a lovely day/night so far. I've come in search of my soulmate, my other half, the light of my life, whatever you'd like to call it^^ I'm looking for someone with similar interests, beliefs, and views as me since I feel it'll help the conversation get started. Also I'm only looking for people 20-27 years old!^^ I'll put some of my interest down below! 👇(Apologies for how long this post is btw 😭)

°| Interests/Likes • Space • Marvel(spiderman and deadpool mainly) • Cats (i have one of my own^^) • Weed • Deftones, Kendrick Lamar, The Living Tombstone, Glorilla, Gorillaz, Sufjan Stevens • Photography • Autumn/Fall • Rdr 2, me cod remakes, fallout, sims 4 • voice calls/voice notes • wild west stuff • language exchange • accents(southern and more)

°| Dislikes • Bitter foods/drinks • Hot weather • Flying insects • Processed American Cheese • Public Speaking • Country Music • Awkward Silence • Cigarettes

°| A lil' about me • on the shorter side • chubby • wears glasses • has stretched lobes, septum, vertical labret • short, pixie cut strawberry blonde hair • hard left-leaning (probably socialist) • child-free life • pro-choice • talkative • aries • bubbly • forgetful • likes my alone time and sleeps a lot • space enthusiast • naturalistic pantheism • #1 love language: physical touch, also words of affirmation • INFP-T

°| What I'm looking for in a partner • talkative • also intiates conversations • funny • stoner • someone who isnt pushy or controlling • some who likes discussing space theories and playful banter and bickering • supports any oppressed countries • I'm a fan of relaxing voices(bonus if you have an accent haha-)

°| Type of relationship I'm looking for • If we're in a call, I'd like someone who actually replies to stuff I say to them instead of saying nothing at all or just saying short words like okay (I just feel so awkward 😭) • Someone who communicates well and enjoys calling or sending voice notes and isn't a dry texter(I become a dry texter if you are lolol)

°| Deal breakers • you have a kid/or want a kid • you're conservative, moderate, or apolitical • you're controlling • you're obsessed with guns • you're pro-life • you're a zionist

°| Topics we can conversate about • quantum immortality • space theories • cats • last of us, Rdr 2(I've finished the game twice and am already on chp. 2 again), characters from the cod mw remakes • marvel • just asking each other random questions

×| Alright, I believe that is it! Just a bit more info:I also want to take it slow and really get to know and learn about each other instead of speeding through it. I also find that mutual attraction is important in a relationship, especially a serious one so we can exchange selfies in pms^^ So with that, I'll go ahead and stop here. When you message me, please write where you're from, age, and a good conversation starter. Thank you!^^

Hi , I’m Mel ( don’t wanna give out my real name yet ) and I’m here to look for the love of my life and maybe some friends as well because I need to go past the talking stage when trying to find the one plus I don’t wanna go out in public embarrassing myself to just make friends as well

Hiya folks of Reddit :)

Are you looking for someone who you can rant, vent, or open up to? Someone who is kind, sensitive, and sometimes funny? Someone who has depth, and wants to see every facet of you and your wonderful personality? Look no further!

I might just be the girl for you! I feature a caring heart, top-notch listening skills, and entirely too much knowledge about Early Medieval history! Also, I have AWARD-WINNING HUGS! Please, I love love love hugging and cuddling, big/little spoon is negotiable ;).

Nitty-gritty facts section! I'm a pre-HRT (sadly) trans woman, and a former college varsity athlete Bonus points if you can guess the sport. I'm majoring in Classics and minoring in History. [send a bear emoji if ur reading this ;)] Hopefully, I'll either be a high school teacher or a college history professor one day. I am a Star Wars nerd, and my favorite tv shows/movies are usually historical/historical fiction or science fiction. I also make art! I'm mostly doing wood sculpture and drawing to relax these days :). If you make art pls pls pls show me, I love seeing creative people create!

I also am really looking for someone who can be a supportive shoulder to lean on when dysphoria hits, and can give me advice on outfits, make-up, anything :) (NOTE: proficiency in that stuff not required, I need any help you can offer lol). I want to grow into myself alongside your own personal growth!

What I'm looking for from you! A kind person (femmes get priority, but everyone's welcome!) who will treat me well, will be there to support me through my transition, and will positively impact my day :). Also a plus if you're on the more in-charge/extroverted side of the spectrum, thats a biggggggggg plus!

Anyways, thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you soon! <33
All the best, xoxo :)

Wanting to go on a date to see if we click, then ideally hook up, maybe enter into some kind of FWB situation. Pics on my profile.

I'm going to ask for your Instagram or similar before we meet up so you aren't a complete and total stranger, but I'll give you mine too.

Does this sound like you? DMs open.

I screwed this up the first time LOL

Hi there! I’ve posted before, and I promise I’m not trying to seem desperate—I just really enjoy meeting and talking with new people. I’ve had some good experiences here (and was just ghosted by an IRL date lol) so I figured it’s worth another shot. A heads-up: I may not always respond, but please don’t take it personally. I’m doing my best to be mindful of both your time and mine. I wish you the best if I do not respond! Seriously! You deserve good things!!!

A bit about me: I’m a chapstick lesbian and a writer who loves music, movies, books, and history. I don’t like nerdy stuff (gaming, fantasy, etc.) I do though love spooky stuff and would like to see one alien before my time is over. My work is pretty demanding, so I can get drained, but I’m always down for meaningful connections when I have the energy. I have a spiritual side and enjoy exploring tarot and past lives. My home is shared with two adorable guinea pigs, and I dream of adding a dog someday. I’m also working on my fitness again after some time off and bring an INFP, Taurus vibe to most things. I live with anxiety, depression, ADHD, and a trauma disorder, so therapy is a regular part of my life—I’m a big believer in growth.

I’m open to long-distance relationships if you’re willing to meet halfway, and I’d love a serious, monogamous connection. That said, I’m happy to take things slowly and build trust over time. I prefer dating femme women between 23 and 48 who are communicative and comfortable with regular check-ins (extended silences can be a bit tough for me). I’m okay with making friends too, though I’m prioritizing in-person connections at the moment.

On a more playful note, I’m open to talking spicy if there’s a good vibe, but I’m not looking to exchange racy pics right away—I need trust and a sense of security first. If you ask me for nudes I’ll likely stop talking to you… it makes me so uncomfortable.

If you’re on the West Coast USA or anywhere and looking for something genuine, let’s connect!

P.S. bonus points if you live in Scandinavia as I want to move there someday. Australia may also be on my list 😅

UGH I MEANT 30 I AM ONLY 30!!

Hi! I’m a femme cis white woman from the northeastern US, but I’m open to chatting with women from anywhere. It’s often difficult to meet other queer women where I live, so I figured I’d stop lurking and finally post 🤓

I’m pretty laid back and spend most of my time at home watching tv/movies, listening to music/podcasts, painting, drawing, rearranging decor throughout my apartment and staring at my cat. I’m not a total hermit though; I love to travel when possible, camp, go to museums or shows (whether it be music, comedy, drag, whatever). I feel like I could articulate some of this better, but considering the kind of day we have had here in the states, I’m not at 100% right now lol. I’m a bit of a bird nerd and animal lover in general. I have that typical dream of owning land and having as many animals as I can realistically financially care for along with a little garden where I inadvertently kill a ton of plants through trial and error. Morning coffee on the porch with a good book and kisses from my lady (you? perhaps?) 🤔

Above all else I value empathy, kindness and honesty. I can promise you will get that from me as well. Physically, I’m 5’1” and overweight (although improving my health is a goal I am working toward). Some tattoos/piercings in case that’s not your bag. I am for sure cool and nice and worth talking to~

Hey all, just your average Canadian (GTA) looking for a deep, meaningful relationship. The local poly community over here is making me feel kind of hopeless...it just seems everyone is eager to get into the more casual stuff and just keep it that way.

I'm hoping to connect with those who like myself, value a balance between connection and independence. I want a future that involves love, growth...and perhaps even marriage, with the openness to explore and build/strengthen other connections.

A bit about me:

I'm the adventurous type of person, love cycling, running, and just generally staying active. I enjoy gardening (though apparently I can only keep food alive, nothing else), the type of music your parents are probably more into, dad jokes, and I'm sure there's more.

If any of this resonates with anyone out there, I'd love to hear more about you and what you're looking for! Canadians to the front :)

hi, i’m a 20 y/o high femme lesbian in southern california looking for friends or something more ^^ i’m an introvert but i open up quite quickly, i love video games like tlou, the persona series, and overwatch. i have a playstation and a switch. i also enjoy cooking and baking. i love listening to music — i’m a big music nerd, i collect cds. i mainly listen to a lot of artists but my favorite are björk, charli xcx, and portishead. i also collect digital cameras as well, i love photography.

i don’t mind chatting, i love to talk ^^!!! so feel free to send me a message no matter where you’re from. i’d love to have more friends or something more <3!

This is the moment where im supposed to say something interesting about myself but i instantly forget my name.

Hello! Im a 22 yesrs old bi girl from Europe. Im looking for other lgbt friends to chat with or play video games or both =)

My hobbies are (all over the place ) playing vifeo games, driving as a therapy (even if i am soon to be licensed psychologist), exploring random hobbies. Im a bit ambiverted - some days i can't seem to find my peace at home while others i can't stop hugging the pillow. Honestly i talk a lot just not about myself (unless it comes up in the conversation/someone asks me) so this whole thing of saying something interesting to catch ur attention just isn't my cup of tea (wow i am glad i am not pursuing a career as an entertainer because i would go hungry for days it seems) as u may have noticed i have some (some fr) sense of humour (it gets worse as u continue to talk with me) so what can i say let's chat see if we click and maybe i will tell u my zodiac sign and u will end up blocking me? Orr! We would become very good friends =)

Short list of important questions u may have:

What are u seeking: friendship

Do u like girls: bet. Even more than u for sure.

What's wrong with u: pretty much everything.

Anyway text me and dw only thing worst than my jokes is.. Ah.. Oh! My skills for presenting myself (maybe i will need u to help me work on my CV)

hi :)

I have a cold (boo) so I am quarantined in my bedroom tonight. I’m feeling a lot of stress about the US election.

I would love to just dm with some other sapphics about non-election things tonight. (We could also start a group chat to just talk about random shit if you’d prefer).

I’m west coast USA. I’m not a US citizen so I didn’t vote. I would’ve voted Kamala. I’m not really a fan of hers, but I think it’s so essential that Tr*** doesn’t become president again.

I like video games and tv shows and music and animals but I’m also down to talk about whatever. I just need some people to talk to while this all goes down.

Preferably you are 24+ and also a democrat supporter (to some degree) and within a few hours of my timezone.

Men, do not message me. You will be banned from this sub.

Happy to talk to women and enbies. Trans inclusive.

I am primarily looking for a relationship but I would love to make new friendships. I realized I lack lesbian friendships.. but that also could be that we are already less in numbers.

About me - I am a quite person but I am trying to socialize these days to find a circle of friends that I can resonate with. When not swamped with work, I like to ride bicycle, read books, and find new rock songs. I spend most of my time searching and watching lesbian series on YouTube, haha.

Not sure what else I should mention but, I am definitely looking forward to exploring the beautiful Christmas markets with someone this year :)

Edit: Please be from Europe (reasonable travel distance). I am not looking for an LDR. Also, it goes without saying that if I get messages from men, I'll block.

Hello! I hope you're having a good day!

Just to keep things clear, this is a dating post, where I live just doesn't have a big wlw scene so I'm interested for long distance dating, which seems more doable. I'm not looking for online friends at the moment, so please keep that in mind. If you message me, please send a picture of yourself in your first message, it gets pretty awkward having to ask and since this is a dating post, it's relevant to know what you look like.

This is me--I'm 32, I speak English and Spanish and I'm 5'4. I'm a designer and I do artsy things for work, I love art workshops and dabble in different areas, like painting, photography, sewing and other things of the sort. I'm very unserious, sassy and a bit of a clown. I'm really into horror, vampires, ghosts and scary things. I like period movies, dewy morning grass, spicy potato chips and cool thrifted trinkets. I have 3 cats, 1 dog, and fish; I hope to also have a donkey and a cow one day. Style wise, I'm pretty femme and I prefer butches/mascs, girls with dominant personalities and in general, girls who are masculine. I'm attracted to girls who are smarter than me, sporty, nerdy/dorky, funny or really talented at something.

If you're masc/butch, 30+, monogamous and don't have kids, feel free to message me. Effort is attractive and so is having clear intentions, I know this type of post attracts all sorts of people who do not read or care to read what I write, but I hope I meet someone who does and is looking for what I'm looking for. :) Thank you for reading and I'll see you later!

I posted about two weeks ago but I think I posted at a bad time or something, but no matter! I will try again.

First and foremost I’m looking for a relationship. I’m really tired of being asked to be friends, be someone’s experiment, etc. I’m really exhausted from being told “oh I didn’t realize you were looking for a relationship.” I don’t mind going slow or pacing ourselves… but I don’t want my heart played with, it hurts.

My area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm super exhausted from all the dating apps and unicorn-hunting couples.

About Me:. 28 cisF and an Aquarius!
Femme4Femme Top from the US Pacific Northwest.

I have ADHD and consider myself a 'Jack of All Trades,' but my true passions are gaming, editing for a fantasy series, theatre, and riding my eBike. The ADHD does noticeably impact my life however, so I'd like to meet someone who understands that.

I really love video games! See if you can guess which ones!

I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual for a femme lesbian, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am also deceptively geeky. l’m strictly monogamous, and not really a fan of anything else. I like to try to stay somewhat physically healthy, though I’ve ended up being a total stick creature eldritch horror.

I have long brown hair and intense eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart.

I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats (unfortunately, dogs are a no-go for me, with the odd exception of Huskies/Malamutes. I love those). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag!

I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) and have been for about 3-4 years. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand.

While I prefer to get around on my eBike due to the bureaucratic hassle of owning a car, I'd love to meet someone who can easily travel to my area. Long-distance journeys for me however are very challenging, thanks to being constrained by my two-wheeled friend (and the absolutely abysmal lack of a transit system in this country).

I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!

I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Alcohol and Weed are ok in my book however.

I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.

If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you. Feel free to send me a message with a good joke or your favorite songs, and maybe things can go from there!

I’d appreciate a picture if you DM me! I’ll happily send one back in return of course!

I also really prefer Discord, so huge plus if we can converse there!

Thanks for reading! I know it’s a very long post… I hope there’s a girl out there for me!

heya, first off, im trans, hi! if ur not into that i totally get it, attraction isn't rational or politcally correct haha (just dont be a dick about it). i have some pictures on my profile so you can have a check ^^

listen, for some reason the loneliness has just been hitting me harder lately and i guess i cant compain if i dont try to do something about it haha. im from the netherlands so it'll probably just be an online thing, but if you wanna have a chat please do!! just being friendly or something more, im absolutely happy with whatever you're confortable with.

I like books, tea, moterbikes,music, am studying chemistry and just like being social overall. going out with friends and doing fun events and stuff (weird how im still lonely ey)

I usually try to be cutesy and interesting and funny in conversations, but we'll see what the vibe is like :)

hopefully see you soon! ~Melody

31F, cis gendered female, femme, DDF, non- smoker

I enjoy traveling, hiking, crafting, thrifting, cooking, card games, the occasional reality TV show, and spending time with loved ones.

Looking for someone 25+, DDF, and willing to form a connection before meeting. I have a lot of airline miles I’d love to spend on the right person 💖

If your interest is piqued, let’s chat!

Hey! I'm a 27 year old lesbian born & raised in Southern California. A bit about me, I'm a bit of an introvert, but I enjoy traveling (went on a few solo trips already!). I love writing (fanfics & short stories), playing video games (I have a PC, Switch & Oculus), reading manga, manwha etc, listening to music (I work in the music industry). eating good food, and taking a much needed nap lol. I have an eyebrow and a septum piercing, no tattoos (yet, I'm just indecisive) and even though I forget to wear them I love rings (& silver jewelry in general). For what, I'm looking for, I tend to lean towards masc/butch but truly open to everyone. Would love to meet someone in SoCal but I can def do some long distance. I would say that I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic, so I'm really looking for someone who wants to build & share a deep connection. But, idk someone who is a quirky, weirdo like me ig. Feel free to shoot me a message!

Other things: Some of the ladies I currently have on my wall are Billie Eilish (biggest fan), Rhea Ripley (who doesn't love muscles & tattoos???), Chappell Ronan (went to her concert in TN), Kristen Stewart (her Rolling Stone cover OMG) & Ellie Williams (any TLOU fans?). If you're a fan of any of them pls hmu lol

Did I mention that my fav. movie this year is Love Lies Bleeding (but it might have some competition when Sonic 3 comes out).

-Monogamous -gay very

Just looking for someone to connect with if ur a really good conversationalist I’m super down to talk with u

I’m obsessed with motorbikes love the outdoors and any creative activity (except for pottery and dancing specifically line dancing). I grew up travelling the Queensland area with my parents I’m settled now in a quiet town I have an odd sense of humour and adhd so yknow I don’t shut up and if I do I’m zoning out 🤌✨

Thankyou for ur time💖

Hi all. My name is Jane and I’m 30. Based near Seattle.

I should say right off the bat I have anxiety and cerebral palsy. I might also be autistic/ADHD but I don’t have a formal diagnosis so I’m just going through life infodumping and hoping people don’t shun me for it lmao. I’m working on the anxiety (it’s slowly getting better) but the cerebral palsy is kind of like an obnoxious house guest that won’t leave. I gave her Botox and two surgeries and she was still like “Okay but this is my house too”. C’est la vie I guess. 

 I can’t drive and I’ve never gotten the hang of tying my own shoes, advanced math, or playing guitar/piano, but I can do everything else. I do use a wheelchair to get around but it’s second nature to me so don’t let it scare you. Worst case scenario, I might get a flat tire. 

If I’m comfortable with you I will talk. A lot. Sorry in advance. I was a certified yapper before it was cool. 

I love to read. I’m usually going through about ten books at a time. (Speaking of that ADHD…) I may or may not have had a Twilight obsession back in the day. Listen. I live in Washington. It was inevitable. The marketing campaigns here were BONKERS, you don’t even know. 

 I’m also a writer. I’m in the middle of revising my first novel in preparation for querying literary agents, and drafting a second book. Both have lesbian main characters. I bet you didn’t see that coming at all. :P

 I work as a copywriter and freelance editor. TL;DR my wrists hurt from all this typing. Save me. 

I REALLY like video games. Some favorites include Fallout (especially 4), The Sims, Stardew Valley, Pokemon, and Final Fantasy XIV. I’m absolutely horrible at platformers since I’m basically bad timing wrapped in a skin suit. But I do enjoy them! :)

I love Paramore beyond what is probably considered reasonable. Like, I went on a cruise hosted by them. You don’t have to love them as much as I do. I realize that’s a tall order. As long as you love something with similar intensity we’ll probably get along great. I listen to basically all kinds of music. My other favorite artist is Taylor Swift but I grew up listening to artists like Ella Fitzgerald, Grateful Dead, Steely Dan, Bing Crosby, and so many others. It’s incredibly rare for me to hear a song and go “well, I hate that”.

My greatest dream besides being a published author is to have a family someday - a partner and 1-3 kids. I’m kind of a hot mess but I have a lot of maternal instincts and I think I’d be a good mom. I’m also a hopeless romantic and will spoil the shit out of whoever I’m dating. Pregnancy would probably be hard for me physically but I’m open to the possibility of adopting or finding a surrogate as well. I’m monogamous by nature. Not sexually experienced (with others) because people often don’t see disabled people as sexually desiring or desirable. I can assure you I have desire in spades. Hehehe.

I have a lot of abandonment trauma so the number one thing I need in a relationship is consistent communication and reassurance. I don’t want to wake up every day feeling like I’m about to be left behind. I don’t expect to spend every minute together and I don’t want my life with someone to become my ENTIRE life. All I ask is that we spend some time together every day and / or talk daily - texts, FaceTime, in person, whatever. Non-communication = sad Jane. I try not to lean on other people too much but there are times when my mental health gets shitty and I need extra support. I’ve gone to a lot of therapy but I still have bad days. I’ll also support you on your bad days. I try to be super attentive to others’ needs. 

(27f) you know it’s SO hard to talk to locals and i’m just trying to find some other girls to talk to/flirt with because I want a possible relationship, local or ldr it doesn’t matter to me!! I work a good amount of the time to spoil myself aswell lol

I LOVE playing games (fortnite, ow2, etc) and watching anime, and wrestling !!

As the title states, I'm boring and I don't really want to change that. I like staying in, watching TV, reading the same books over and over, making stuff on my 3d printer, and doing origami. I don't drink, or smoke. Covid cautious. I'm childfree and also pet free. Occasionally I like to drive to a random town and just walk around and see what I can find. I like camping when the weather is good. Also autistic and somewhere on the ace-spectrum.

I'm looking for someone similar, where we can simply enjoy each other's company. Distance is not an issue, although I would like to meet eventually. If you're a homebody like me, send me a message and let's stay in, together!

Shooting my shot! Looking for a long term partner and or friends in my wonderful home city of SF. I like visiting bookstores, drinking totally not expensive coffee, and kicking back a few drinks at Mother and El Rio. I am autistic, so ideally I hope you are too!

Hello everyone! I’m just here looking for my other half! With the weather turning chilly I’m looking for someone to cuddle under a blanket with and binge Netflix!

I am a 24y/o recent college grad, who is in the middle of a career change, where I am going from pursuing my teaching degree to working in bio tech. A little physical description, average height, fit build, short hair, masc, and multiple tattoos

When I am not working, I am swimming, watching tv, watching history documentaries, and cooking and baking.

Some little nerdy things about me, I love Disney, I love Pokémon I can talk anyones ear off about history and any sort of dcom movie from the early 2000’s in my eyes are amazing!

I am looking for someone close in distance, (New York, new jersey, Connecticut) and someone in the age range of 20-29.

I am really just a golden retriever in human form and I hope to hear from you and get to know you ☺️

Hello! Hi! I’m just here shouting into the void, looking to make some friends or possibly making a connection that leads to more! ✨

A lil about me, I am a bi cis lady, from western Canada and I am pretty femme but have a very comfortable casual style, I do want to get a few more tattoos in the future as well! I am about 5’4, average size ish. I do work full time too! In terms of like actual hobbies I do spend most of my free time knitting and crocheting. I do love napping when I can, I do smoke sometimes, I love collecting blind box toys, vinyl and sneakers! I also enjoy doing my makeup and tweaking my skincare routine (does this count as a hobby lol?) I love going for walks, and hiking when I have the time and I do game very seldom sometimes on my switch. I also love dogs, if you have one send pics PLZ. 🥰

Im not really dead set on something particular I’m looking for, I’m very chatty and am hoping you are too though! I’d love to hear about your day, your hobbies, yours passions and everything else in between! ✨ I would prefer if you were close ish to my age, and preferably from North America? I can’t do huge time zone differences, I sleep too early! 😂 I am also monogamous relationship wise.

Please do reach out if you’re interested, and I hope y’all have an absolutely lovely day! ✨🫶🏼