/r/lesbianr4r

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A lesbian dating sub for lesbians by lesbians. All WLW are welcome. TERFS and unicorn hunters are not.

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These aren't required by any means, but can help your fellow raptors find each other a bit more easily ;)

Title formatting:
<age> [F4F] <location> - <title>

Ex: 22 [F4F] Canada - Maple Syrup and Cuddles

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  • Age/location (if not listed in your title)
  • Whether you're looking for a long distance relationship or something more local
  • Your type/preferences (if applicable)
  • Details about yourself
  • What you're looking for
  • Hobbies & activities
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24 F4F [CA/SoCal] Looking for my girl 💕

Hello loves!

I’m Maxie a 24 y.o lesbian born and raised in Southern California. I’m looking for a serious long term relationship with the EVENTUAL intention of marriage and kid(s). I’m exclusively looking for someone in California with a preference for SoCal.

About me: I have a passion for working with children who have special needs, currently I’m a full time caregiver of a child with ASD. My dream is to open a daycare aimed at low income families to provide a family environment as well as quality care for the little ones.

When I’m not taking care of my little love, I’m hiking or training my dog, working towards becoming multilingual (currently learning both Italian and Spanish), practicing guitar and jamming to EPIC: The Musical. Greek mythology is a uh on going hyper fixation 😅😅. I am for better or worse a hopeless romantic who’s love languages are touch and acts of service. (Sweet kisses will have me melting)

Random tidbits: I’m super resourceful and creative! I am a practicing Hellenist, raging ADHD’er and a big traveler!

Physically description: I am a whole 5’9 with warm brown eyes and dark brown hair that goes a little bit below my shoulders!

Looking for 👀👀: A woman who is genuine, kind, communicative and honest. Somebody who is between the ages of 21-30 y.o and is currently living in California, preferably SoCal. I want my person to be genuine and unapologetically themselves! Someone who’s okay with a last minute adventure here and there, who loves dogs (my dog is my world), willing to indulge me in my hopeless romanticism, think love notes under your pillow, homemade treated snuck in lunch with a desire and intention to reciprocate back. Preference for someone who is okay with developing an emotional connection before sex.

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2024/12/03
07:08 UTC

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35 [F4F] - WA/Online - Looking for something casual and mutual

I'm very busy with my dating myself era, fit and cute as a damn button, (see my profile), and handy with tools or a pen.

I'd like to find a friend in a similar frame of mind, into herself, into switchy fun, and into some dope discourse. I'd hit up my local lesbian bar, but 1, I don't really like to drink, and 2, covid buddy, can't take a chance on that.

I'm not available for anything more than a solid friendship, but I'm very good at that. I'm in western Washington, but open to online flirty fun. Ask me about my poetry or my queer career fairs or what all I get up to and into as a switch.

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2024/12/03
01:58 UTC

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33F looking to chat

heyo. masc lesbian on the east coast usa. mainly looking to text and flirt. just finished Arcane, so working on my Vi physique currently and i just wanna send you pics of my abs 🤷🏽 420 friendly, dom/switch if you’re into that. hit me up

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2024/12/03
01:56 UTC

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24 [Eu/any] socially burned out but lonesome

passing time alone and looking for some mates and dates and friends

im kind of a slow life vibe, kind of flexbile i do well as house human but i can also survive outside i do love nature dont do well with crowds. i pat my plants when i water them think they grow nicer and happier when i do, they are kind of pet you know they love me and i love them.
heavily in to the art word and fandoms, i do make it digital, but fire and water but it really makes me feel alive its just make sence but also dont its just like little bit of soul thing but also supper silly nice little doodles and colors yes i do like those my fave is red whats is yours, perhabs you should be my other half writer you know like thats pretty gay pen and brush kind of dynamic

kind of in to the culinary thing i just like go get real tedious with and and make it all nice the top shelf stuff

i like comfortable shoes and bags that are just right size shaws thhat double as blanket and all between ig

im bit nerdy little normie little wicked and little cutie idk i got it all maybe

my scope is WORLD WIDE but i do live in eastern eu with diabolical sleeping schedule

dont mind me prose im just having fun this texting which remind me YOU should be texting to me

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2024/12/03
01:45 UTC

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24 [F4F] Chicago - looking for someone comfortable asking for what she wants

Pictures on my profile.

Looking to go on a date to see if we click, then ideally hook up. If things go really well and we're both feeling it, possibly enter into a FWB situation.

I'll ask to see a picture of you when we first start talking. Before we meet up, I'll ask for your Instagram, but I'll give you mine too, just so we're not total strangers.

Sounds like you? DM.

Men and hetero couples will be blocked.

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2024/12/03
00:59 UTC

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25MTF - ISO friends for my Minecraft SMP, "Snuggle Up"!

This is the last time I'ma post for a while, deleting this account in 24h for unrelated reasons.

Hi hi! I go by Aries/Ari, I'm a 25y/o trans gal running a (modded) SMP of ~15 people and wanting more.
This SMP is modded yes, but is merely an expansion on base vanilla gameplay! The only non-vanilla features added are;
~ Structure/Biome compasses (perfect for the 30k x 30k map)
~ FTB Chunks for maps, waypoints, and chunk claiming/loading.
~ An optional vein miner enchantment book!

Everything else is vanilla - this pack not only keeps to the core mechanics while making vanilla feel refreshing, but performs marginally better than vanilla itself! Also includes VR, controller, and shader support.

The server is up 24/7 for 1.21 Java/Fabric Minecraft ! This SMP has no intention of resetting as long as nothing goes horribly wrong. Everyone here is very sweet and wholesome. If you want an invite before it's too late, send me a DM for the server link & your username so I can whitelist you! <3

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2024/12/02
23:51 UTC

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25 F4F [Europe] small town loser who will probably talk your ear off

Hi there, it's my first time making a post like this so bear with me.

As mentioned in the title, I'm a 25 year old lesbian and I live in a small town in western europe, not too far from the city but still the kind of place where the general consensus is that bullfighting is the peak of manliness and that some trump-like politician archetype who "tells it like it is" is what the country needs the most. Long story short, I don't have many people to relate to around here, nor do I have dating prospects.

And that's where you come in! (if you want)

I'm looking for a woman whose company I enjoy, plain and simple. I don't like interacting with people with romantic expectations in mind, I think that sort of meaningful attraction is something that should be built up as we get to know eachother, so going in with pre-conceived notions can often just lead to disappointment. In that sense, communication is very important for me. I'll try to be as clear as I can be about my intentions and I'd like for you to do the same as we get to know eachother.

Now let's get into some things about me that you might consider dealbreakers:

  • I live with my parents still, and I'm not out to them;
  • I'm currently working a part-time job while also looking for work in other cities;
  • I don't plan to have children myself, but I would possibly be open to adoption once my employment situation was stable and comfortable (and if I met the right woman ofc);
  • I was raised catholic, and my thoughts on religion are complicated;
  • I'm only willing to date women close to my age (22-30 at most);
  • I'm strictly monogamous;
  • I smoke occasionally, usually when I go out drinking;
  • I'm not willing to move outside of Europe.

If you're still reading after that, let's move on to more lighthearted territory.

Style-wise I guess I'm a futch? tomboy? something of the sort. I own a great collection of hoodies but I'm willing to part with some of them if we find out they look better on you. Physically I'm a bit on the shorter side at 160cms (around 5'3 for the feet users) so if that's a dealbreaker for you please tell me in advance so I have time to practice walking on stilts before we meet irl. I also don't mind swapping photos or video calling, but I'll expect you to prove that you are who you claim to be as well, since I've been burned before.

When it comes to hobbies, I'm a bit of a homebody... although I largely blame the lack of options in my town. I like movies, particularly horror and the kind of art films that don't get theatrical releases in the cinemas near me (still haven't watched the substance because of this ;-;). I'm not exactly a hardcore PC gamer, but I do play in my free time too. I'm mostly into single player rpgs and roguelikes, but I also like fast-paced action sometimes.

When it comes to books, I almost exclusively read nonfiction. But I swear it's the fun kind of nonfiction, usually around philosophy or anthropology or sociology or other such -ologies, if you've got book recs on obscure topics I'll probably love them. I'm also really into music, from alt rock/metal to art pop to ska punk, just ask me and I'll send you enough playlists to make you regret ever having spoken to me in the first place.

I have an interest in combat sports too, though unfortunately right now I'm taking a break from high impact workouts in general due to injury. I've been getting better though and I'm slowly trying to regain my strength through light exercises, so if you're interested in fitness we can both hype eachother up!

And that's probably enough info-dumping for now. If any of this peaks your interest and you'd like to know more about me, you're more than welcome to shoot me a message, I'll be waiting. ;)

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2024/12/02
17:20 UTC

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27, F4F, looking for masc girl to start something nice. Europe and everywhere

I'm 27 y.o. lesbian woman from the north of Europe, planning to move in future and I'm open to LDR if we plan to meet eventually. I'm interested in relationship but I'd like to start it simple and natural and just get to know each other at first.

I'm 5'3 and not exactly a femme but I like manicure (short, of course), makeup and some stuff like this. Stupid romcoms from early 2000s is my guilty pleasure. I like RPG video games a lot, as well as series, reading, painting, hiking, making jewelry. I'm planning to start my own graphic novel. I'm ambivert and I'd like to go out more, from time to time. I have a bit of overweight and I'm about to start gym to change it. Oh and I'm a big sweet tooth 🍰

I'm not passive in relationship, although I'm okay with my partner taking the lead, I don't expect her to do everything. I like showing my affection in different ways. I'm strictly monogamous and don't want children, also, despite loving nature, I would only like to live in more or less big city.

I prefer someone at least slightly taller than me and about 25-31 years old. Recently I found out I'm into women with muscles 😳 (that's not that important but I like it). So I'd say I'm looking for a masc 💛

I like strong women with a soft side, who can be both funny and emotional or serious when needed and who are not extremely introverted. I'd like someone ready for healthy relationship. I appreciate people who are passionate about something - life, hobbies or work.

Feel free to tell me about your favorite activities, pets, work, favorite TV show or anything you like

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2024/12/02
16:00 UTC

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F23 [NJ/LA/Anywhere] - Searching for a whimsical and passionate nerd

I’m Emma, I’m 23, and I’ve been working on my stop-motion passion project for the last year. As much as I love hunching over a desk or computer by myself for hours every day bringing my silly clay people to life, I would love to find a meaningful romantic connection with someone as passionate and weird and a little bit strange as me. I would do anything for my art and I think I need to be with someone who can relate to that passion for what they love…whatever that is! I’m currently in New Jersey but I’m hoping to move to Los Angeles within the next year - so no matter where you are on this big goofy globe feel free to message me!

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2024/12/02
15:01 UTC

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[21F] looking for the lesbians

About me:

  • I’m from the UK and would love to travel more
  • I’m 5’9, an Aries and biracial
  • I currently work nigh shifts so my sleep schedule is wild
  • I love listening! Please tell me everything about your interests
  • I’m currently trying to detox from being chronically online
  • My style is more masc leaning and has been described as “tiktok-core” by someone at a bar :(
  • I love just doing things and going on random trips #sidequests
  • I play some video games but not a lot, but I’m always open to trying new ones! (I only play League of Legends actively and I have played Valorant but its been a while 💀)

I’m looking for friends primarily, but i’m also interested in something more if that’s how it goes!

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2024/12/02
11:41 UTC

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20F I'm really starting to feel like the only vegan on earth

dms open 😭 check my bio as well please, I'm tired of feeling lonely

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2024/12/02
07:40 UTC

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30 South GA or North FL area and 28-38 ONLY

I'm not so sure about dating but I'm considering looking for a hookup situation. I've had a rough year in general lol. I may be moving closer to the tallahassee area sometime next year so I'm mostly looking for short term unless something happens.

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2024/12/01
21:09 UTC

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24 #London looking for someone to cook for 🫶🏽

Hello everyone!! I’m Dee (not my full name but this is what I prefer!) and I live in London, I’m bi and trying out what works from this subreddit!

My interests (which keep changing) are crochet, art, playing board games and card games, cozy games (SDV!!). I look cooking and baking and experimenting with food. I’m trying to get back into tennis and going to the gym regularly.

I’ve been living in London for the past 2 years but I am from India.

My type - I would say I am rather short so I like people taller than me, but that’s post people when you’re 5”1 xD. I am a pillow princess and switchy and would prefer someone who likes that! I like people who are kind and funny more than anything. I am looking for something casual possibly serious but I do not want to pressure or have expectations but rather see how I get along with someone!

Edit - thank you for messages I’ve gotten for everyone you’re so sweet. And yes if the post is up everyone from London don’t be afraid to drop a message!

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2024/12/01
18:44 UTC

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42,F4F: Looking For A Buddy

I'm 42 and from the southern US, but currently live in Utah. I'm looking for someone local or long distance to spend time with watching true crime, movies (my favs are horror and thrillers), or tv shows (my fav is Love Is Blind). I also enjoy gaming, but all kinds. Love board games, video games, and table top. If you know how to play DnD 5e and can teach me? Omg, I would appreciate it forever. I've never gotten to play a full game. Currently I only play video games on PC through Steam.

I'm looking for someone that is sweet and kind, but also nonjudgmental. In the past I've had people not want to talk to me because I'm butch, my race, or because I'm on disability. I will never ask for anything from another people or try to use someone. Age, race, and all that don't matter to me. All you need is a kind heart and conversational skills.

I don't usually date anymore, but I've been told not give up on love. I don't know if I believe in it anymore, but I'm trying to keep an open mind. I am open to friends with benefits, as it's been 10+ years since I've been intimately close with another woman. I'm not open trans woman, because of some bad experiences in my past. I'm sorry.

Please DM or message me if anything I've said sounds good or you think we might have fun together.

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2024/12/01
18:01 UTC

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Looking for love in the age of loneliness

Hey there, I'm a 33 y/o trans woman in Maryland looking for love and connection. I like gardening and cooking, staying up way too late with a book, and occasionally playing video games. I'm kind of shy and awkward around new people but I've been told I have a sassy charm when I'm comfortable around people, a bit like a beautiful flower slowly unfolding and then squirting you in the face. I have a sort of witchy/punk vibe but I'm usually either in my work clothes or my pajamas, which goes to show that I need to get out more, but if you wanted to chill at home and bake something delicious, I'm also down for that. But if you just want someone new to talk to, feel free to message me. I'm open to long distance relationships. Jane 💜

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2024/12/01
17:08 UTC

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28 F4F - looking for someone to crush on

I'm primarily looking for someone to build an emotional and sexual relationship with. But let's take things slow, first get to know each other, share some good laughs, maybe things click between us, maybe now. I love getting to know all sorts of people and simply treasure human conmection.

I'm a very open minded person, outgoing and I don't take myself too seriously. I have a rather dark sense of humour. Romantically I'm definitely the type that will give you a lot of attention. I have strong golden retriever energy. I'm also very open sexually and happy to explore stuff in a safe space. Nothing has to be, but anything can happen.

I'm based in Europe. You can be anywhere.

Looking forward to your messages :)

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2024/12/01
12:51 UTC

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27 F4F - looking for my person

Hi! My name is Taylor, or Tay. I’m in the US and open to LDR. I am looking for my endgame but not at all to force anything. Natural conversation and connection is what I’m interested in.

A little about me - I grew up in the south, did not like it, moved to Denver a couple years ago but don’t plan to stay forever. I’m 5’9” and femme (fluctuating between hyperfemme and tomboy femme depending on the day). I live alone with my dog and enjoy it. In my free time I am playing rec sports, gabbing with my friends, in the gym, watching tv or reading, crocheting or some other craft, or taking a nap. I live a simple, stress free life. I have been on my own since I was 17, so I do typically gravitate towards people a bit older than me but I’m looking at ages 25-34.

A little about you - you are kind and empathetic, open minded and free spirited, strong willed and opinionated, active and hungry for life, balanced in your seriousness and goofiness, curious and passionate with your own hobbies and interests.

I am not looking to be someone’s everything, but I do want someone whose lifestyle complements my own and adds to it in small or big ways depending on the day or situation.

Just a lover girl looking for someone to love 💕

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2024/12/01
02:55 UTC

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38 Femme seeking Masc/Butch - Long shot, but…let’s write our next chapter together!

I’m Steph—38, femme to my core (think flowing dresses and nails always done), but I’m equally smitten with my trusty overalls, which are perfect for digging into new adventures and carrying all my things! I’m a full-time student, aspiring writer, and part-time parent to two incredible teenagers who teach me daily about resilience, humor, and the art of navigating chaos.

When I’m not managing a life full of delightful contradictions, you can find me at my laptop with a mug of tea that’s probably gone cold because I got distracted by a line in a poetry collection. My current hobbies include dabbling in birding (mallards are surprisingly fascinating, by the way) and foraging (new territory, but thrilling nonetheless). I love experimenting in the kitchen, attempting recipes that range from “breathtakingly delicious” to “perhaps we’ll never speak of this again.” I’ve also been known to spend entire afternoons and evenings getting lost in painting!

Here’s what lights me up: kindness, optimism, and emotional depth. I’m drawn to people who think before they speak, feel deeply, and aren’t afraid to show it. Bonus points if you can turn a quiet moment into something extraordinary, whether through shared glances, clever quips, or an unspoken understanding.

I’m looking to connect with butch or masculine women my age or older who appreciate both the adventure of trying something new and the beauty of a quiet night in. Someone who doesn’t just tolerate conversations but thrives on them—whether they’re about the merits of composting, the poetry of Mary Oliver, or which baked good could singlehandedly bring about world peace.

For now, I’m in Minnesota (yes, it’s cold, but we do cozy like nobody else), with plans to relocate once my kids graduate. I dream of a future where I’m tending to a little cottage garden, canning summer’s bounty, and sharing meals I’ve made with someone who feels like home.

So, if you’re a butch or masculine woman who loves thoughtful chats, longs for meaningful connection, and maybe has a thing for lingering glances that make the world fade away—I’d love to hear from you. Tell me what you’re passionate about, what you’re dreaming of, or even the last thing that made you laugh out loud. Let’s start a conversation and see where it takes us.

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2024/12/01
01:19 UTC

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23 [F4F] Just a girl looking for her player 2

Hi! I'm Laurentia, or Laurie for short!

Possible dealbreakers first:

  • Most importantly, I'm trans, and pre-everything. I don't think I pass very well, but when I'm happy I think I'm sexy, and that has to count for something.
  • I'm born and raised in Scotland, so if you're not from here and distance is an issue for you, then probably don't message me.
  • I'm 23, and I'm really not comfortable dating someone not around my age, so I'd say probably don't message me if you're older than 27/28 and younger than 20.
  • Admittedly, while I have graduated from uni, I'm currently unemployed. I am actively searching for work, but I haven't had any luck so far.

Now onto my own personal hangups:

  • Please send me a picture of yourself alongside your message. Don't worry, I will send a picture of myself in return if you ask. It's just that I've fallen for people based on their personality before, and then it turns out that I'm not physically attracted to them when they send a picture, and I'd like to avoid breaking someone's heart after we get attached to each other. If you're not comfortable with that, that's obviously ok, but I'll probably not respond to your message, and I apologise for that.
  • I'm not very comfortable with sexting/sexual messages. It makes me uncomfortable and I'd prefer to avoid it unless it's necessary.

Ok now that those are out of the way, let's get to me.

I consider myself to be a bit of a nerd. I love playing video games (especially Pokémon), I read comics, and I love to talk about those sorts of subjects. I graduated university for filmmaking, and I'm an avid watcher of films and tv. I've also been playing some DnD lately too, and I'd love to get more into that if you do too. I'm also big on food. I especially love macaroni cheese, it's my favourite food, and I'm a big fan of the controversial hawaiian pizza.

In terms of what I'm posting here looking for, I'm looking for a hopefully lifelong, strictly monogamous relationship with another woman. I'd prefer if you were in Scotland as well, but I'm definitely open to long distance stuff too. I very much do want children, so I'm looking for someone who shares that wish, and I would hope you're a dog person as well because I have a couple dogs myself and I hope to own more in the future.

That's about it I think. If you think we'll get along, shoot me a message! I'm sure I'd love to get to know you.

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2024/11/30
22:53 UTC

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23 [F4F] Just a girl looking for her player 2

Hi! I'm Laurentia, or Laurie for short!

Possible dealbreakers first:

  • Most importantly, I'm trans, and pre-everything. I don't think I pass very well, but when I'm happy I think I'm sexy, and that has to count for something.
  • I'm born and raised in Scotland, so if you're not from here and distance is an issue for you, then probably don't message me.
  • I'm 23, and I'm really not comfortable dating someone not around my age, so I'd say probably don't message me if you're older than 27/28 and younger than 20.
  • Admittedly, while I have graduated from uni, I'm currently unemployed. I am actively searching for work, but I haven't had any luck so far.

Now onto my own personal hangups:

  • Please send me a picture of yourself alongside your message. Don't worry, I will send a picture of myself in return if you ask. It's just that I've fallen for people based on their personality before, and then it turns out that I'm not physically attracted to them when they send a picture, and I'd like to avoid breaking someone's heart after we get attached to each other. If you're not comfortable with that, that's obviously ok, but I'll probably not respond to your message, and I apologise for that.
  • I'm not very comfortable with sexting/sexual messages. It makes me uncomfortable and I'd prefer to avoid it unless it's necessary.

Ok now that those are out of the way, let's get to me.

I consider myself to be a bit of a nerd. I love playing video games (especially Pokémon), I read comics, and I love to talk about those sorts of subjects. I graduated university for filmmaking, and I'm an avid watcher of films and tv. I've also been playing some DnD lately too, and I'd love to get more into that if you do too. I'm also big on food. I especially love macaroni cheese, it's my favourite food, and I'm a big fan of the controversial hawaiian pizza.

In terms of what I'm posting here looking for, I'm looking for a hopefully lifelong, strictly monogamous relationship with another woman. I'd prefer if you were in Scotland as well, but I'm definitely open to long distance stuff too. I very much do want children, so I'm looking for someone who shares that wish, and I would hope you're a dog person as well because I have a couple dogs myself and I hope to own more in the future.

That's about it I think. If you think we'll get along, shoot me a message! I'm sure I'd love to get to know you.

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2024/11/30
22:53 UTC

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34F - Another message in a bottle 🌊

Hoping the waves will be kind and finally deliver my message to you. 😌

You can find selfies and more in my profile. 💕

I am seeking femmes over age 27. I am 34, masc, fit, mixed race. I am monogamous, and a stone top.

I’d like to hear your voice at the end of long days, and spend time watching and playing media together often as we hopefully develop a relationship.

If you’d like to know more about me, I have many previous posts in my profile.

Let’s play some video games, talk about food and K-pop, watch our favorite films, and grasp at some warmth and familiarity together in this unforgivingly cold and strange world.

If you like poetry and singing, I have some of that too.

Please chat me directly, comments are often invisible. Thanks for reading! 🩷

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2024/11/30
22:50 UTC

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28F / ON, Canada / looking for love 💕

Hello! My name is Salem and I’m looking for more friends to talk to throughout the day! If you’re lonely too, well you’re in luck. I’m here!

I am a small town lesbian looking for love. Distance doesn’t matter too much, just as long as we meet up at some point!

My interests: TOTK, ACNH, TikTok, watching tv and movies, reading, walking, being in nature, not having to wear socks 🧦, anime, drawing and sketching, and plenty more!

I can yap about everything and anything! Just as long as you don’t send one word messages.

Message me! I can’t wait to meet new friends and talk about stuff with you. ✨

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2024/11/30
18:37 UTC

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20f lf for my sweetheart

helloooo!!! i’m interested in finding someone I can be sappy with and really give to. I’m romantic and I’ve always felt like I had to hold it in, so I’d hope to feel safe to express that. things like love letters, poems, etc). I have an age limit of 22. i know wlw relationships can move fast, but I would like to keep it slow. ideally the more time the better to see if we are compatible. idk why but I feel like sometimes when it moves too fast i kinda get the vibe the other person is just saying what I want to hear and it’s not entirely genuine 💀

about relationship stuff… im masc, top, needs often communication (not constant but I like talking to the person I like throughout the day) loveee long conversations. i don’t really have a physical preference. I show how I care through quality time, words of affirmation and gifts. I like receiving it through quality time and words of affirmation.

more about myself is im in school rn so there’s that time commitment especially near finals :/ love manga, deftones, radiohead, jrock music, saiki k, jrpg games, MOBA games and cute girls

im big on banter and i LOVE playfully teasing as well. we could be silly too it’s up to you :p

if you’re interested DM ME!!! If you’re breathing DM ME!!! if you’re on life support DM ME!!!!!!!!!

ps. i wanna watch arcane so watch it with me, okay?

4 Comments
2024/11/30
08:02 UTC

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Sagittarius Bookworm Seeks Butch or Masc Lesbian for Long Talks and Baked Goods 🍪📚

Hi there! I’m Steph, a 38-year-old aspiring writer, full-time student, and part-time parent to two teens. Femme through and through, love my nails and dresses :) - oh and overalls, I LOVE my overalls.

Tonight, I’m curled up watching The Great British Baking Show and flipping through poetry collections, but what I’d really love is someone to share these cozy moments with.

I’m drawn to kindness, optimism, and emotional depth. I love exploring new hobbies (currently dabbling in birding and foraging), experimenting in the kitchen, and dreaming about someday living in a little cottage with a garden. Conversations are my jam—whether they’re deep, silly, or somewhere in between.

I’m particularly looking to connect with butch or masculine women my age or older. I’m in Minnesota for now, but I’m planning to relocate after my kids graduate. If you’re into thoughtful chats, lingering glances that make my heart race, or turning a quiet night into something unforgettable, I’d love to hear from you!

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2024/11/30
01:40 UTC

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23F NYC/US looking for strictly platonic friendships

Hope this type of friendship post is allowed!

Hi, I’m a 23F who is about to graduate college and move to NYC, and I would love to make more queer friends as I move into this next phase of my life. I am in a committed monogamous relationship with my girlfriend, but I don’t have many queer especially wlw friends and I’d like to have people that I can relate to in those aspects.

A bit about me: I work in finance, which means I can get super busy (promise I’m not ghosting you!) and tend to be up at strange hours lol. In my free time, I love to play pickleball, listen to music especially country and bedroom pop, travel as much as I can, and try out new restaurants and bars. But by far my biggest hobby is board games — I have over 30 in my collection and have logged over 200 plays in an app I use to track them (yes I’m a nerd lol). I’d say I have a snarky sense of humor, but I also enjoy genuinely listening and engaging with people.

Dealbreakers: I am not looking for a romantic or sexual relationship in anyway. I just want more queer friends! Anyone younger than 18 I’d feel weird talking to. (More dealbreaker for you than me probably) I’m somewhat opinionated but open minded to most views, if you are dogmatic about anti-capitalism, we might not get along.

Bonus points: Anyone local-ish to NYC! Anyone already in a relationship who would want to go on double dates! Anyone who also works in finance or other male-dominated fields and wants to complain… People who love board games!

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2024/11/30
01:00 UTC

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26F [USA/Anywhere] looking 4 a future wife

so. it's been about a decade (lol fuck) since my last relationship w/ a woman. pls be patient & understanding ((:

strictly seeking a long-term to eventual marriage relationship. not interested in hook-ups, ONS or FWB. fiercely monogamous. non-religious, child-free, leftist. heavy pref 4 femmes, ages 25-32. LDR is all good, but a meet-up is absolutely necessary.

i don't do drugs, drink or party etc. i try to take care of my fam (it's complicated lol) and have a few various hobbies (reading, writing, painting, long walks and arts n crafty stuffs) infj & leo if ur into that

if u post nudes or thirst traps, i'm not replying. same goes for terfs & unicorn hunters - DNI

tell me 1 thing that makes u smile.

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2024/11/29
22:40 UTC

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25 [F4F] India/Anywhere - Looking for like-minded people to connect with

Hi ladies! 🧡

I'm 25, afab, lesbian, ambivert and currently a Biology postgrad. I'm ambitious, sensitive, observant and like being there for people. So if you're similar I'd love to connect.

I love getting to know others, listening to music, sharing Spotify playlists, walking, cooking, reading wlw fiction, watching movies/YouTube and sending Instagram reels. True crime and wlw are my favorite movie/Netflix genres and I listen to all kinds of music.

I’m posting as I'd love to connect with other women who like women. Also, I'm not looking for anything romantic or casual.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a message.

(Men pretending to be women/catfishes please don’t bother! I value authenticity and y'all have no idea how much I hate y'all)

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2024/11/29
19:07 UTC

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🏃‍♀️💨 <-- me, running after you, to be my wife

25F Lesbian 🌸 | Taurus ♉ | Romanian 🇷🇴

Hi hello! I'm just passing by on your feed for your daily dating post reading 📖 Maybe you will stop and read the whole text, DM me, we race with each other with witty conversation and we fall in love 💕 (trying to bring some joy in this sadness ridden world).

Anime & KPop fan, language enthusiast, dance lover and and graphic designer speaking here 🎀 I am a bit of a nerd who enjoys learning new information about almost anything. In the past year I started pushing myself to read more books as well, not just online content. Cooking when I am not pressured by time is therapy for me (I make pancakes as a coping mechanism sometimes) 🥞. My true passion in life is dancing, I love plushies and watching the Olympics. I am also funny (reviewed by the 2 friends I have, they're very precious to me).

I am an introvert, but I do love socialising and going out within reason. I am an atheist, I am not spiritual, but I do get along with spiritual people usually, of course it depends on the person overall.

This post is part of my never ending search for my partner in crime, who will hold my hand ✨ I am 100% monogamous and a romantic at heart, but I do need someone to bring it out of me, it's been hidden away for way too long. I wish to meet someone who is kind, ambitious and a good communicator, being honest is something non-negociable to me. Also, because of the timezones, Europe would be preferred BUT time is just a social construct, especially in lesbian terms, so we can work it out.

Appearance wise, I am a femme, 170cm tall, dark hair and eyes and, as a fun fact, I am hypermobile, which means I sometimes scare people when they see how much I can bend my arms outwards from my elbow. I am attracted to non-femme lesbians (nonbinary people included). Oh, also, I'm into kink 😊

You have my appreciation if you read up to this point and if you want to, leave a message in my DMs, maybe tell me about your guilty pleasure as an opener. See you 💕

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2024/11/29
13:41 UTC

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24F [UK/Europe] It's winter and its really cold searching for someone to cuddle up to so my feet don't freeze off.

Welcome to my cute cabin in the woods, I promise I am not a witch 🫶

Come sit down and grab a drink so we can chat and discuss what is for dinner ✨

I'm 24F from the UK and I am mainly searching for a relationship but I'm happy to be friends as well just maybe give me a heads up what you are searching for as well ✨

I'm only searching in Europe for now, no hate to the rest of the world but timezones be timezoney.

Oh and only people who are 21 to 28 range pretty pls 😅

A little about me is that I am starting a degree is software engineering so far its okay but I can tell its going to be hard.

I enjoy some geeky things like reading and board games, I play the occasional video game to pass the time and I'm actually getting into D&D for the first time it sounds like a fun way to be social. 😇

But I also enjoy other things like travelling and I really want to try new activities like pottery and axe throwing.

I'm the type of girl that is immediately going to find the corner seat somewhere so I can curl up in it 🤣 I'm also the type of girl that a good Friday night feels more like some good food and good company at home then going out 😅

I am more than happy to stay up and greet you when you get home after a fun night out with a kiss (Just please don't throw up on me 😭)

I guess time for the potential deal breakers:

If you are messaging me with intentions to pursue things romantically one thing I will ask is that we share pictures of ourselves early on just so we can see if we are compatible from a physical attraction standpoint. If you are willing to lead with a photo that is a huge plus but we are online and safeguarding is important so I will absolutely respect hold off a little.✨

I am asexual, I'm sex positive and there are times where I initiate myself as I enjoy using sex as a relationship builder or to show a lot of love. But there are some moments where I become indifferent about sex and a few moments where I just won't want sex so consent is extremely important to me ✨

If you got this far and I seem interesting come say hii and please introduce yourself a little 👋

bonus brownie points if you include the words “pick’n mix” in your initial message, and you'll get a prize

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2024/11/29
13:14 UTC

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22 Masc - Guess who's back, back again (not shady)

Hello!

Redoing this post now that my birthday has passed to post a bit more info and hopefully connect better with any potentially interested girls!

I'm B, in my early 20s and a masculine lesbian (AFAB). I identify as nonbinary, although I have no issue with being gendered as a woman and use terms for any gender (bro, sis, dude, etc). I have a great interest in literature (ranging from classics to GL to books on crime to leftist theory), history and geography! I'm a huge culture buff and telling me about yours is something I would love to hear about. Aside from that, I also like videogames (things like Beat-'Em-Ups, RPGS and story driven games) and movies (Huge fan of Ferris Bueller's Day Off and the likes, but my true passion are animated movies like SpiderVerse). I once aspired to write in my free time and I am still quite passionate about art (and I will cry about paintings and some literary works), nowadays I settled for something a bit more boring (some of you even guessed it right).

What I am looking for, and can hopefully meet some of you wonderful people:

-- Bi or lesbian feminine/femme women (F);

-- Age range from 20-26;

-- Leftist, passionate about topics like this;

-- Someone who shares a bit of my taste in music or media, but that's not a requirement!

-- Someone who doesn't mind a total yapper... I am usually pretty busy, but once I start talking, I talk a lot! Let's hope you don't mind that!

-- A girl who is looking for something a bit more serious, like a meaningful friendship that can bloom into a relationship;

-- And if you read until here, please open your message with the animal you think you would be and why!

Edit: Formatting!

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2024/11/29
01:15 UTC

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