From website to this sub activities are getting slow. post on website or this sub-reddit. wht is the cause. anyone explain

About Me:

Hi! I’m a 25-year-old guy from a small town near Lucknow, India, on the lookout for someone special to share meaningful, long-term experiences with.

I believe in living authentically—embracing simplicity, meaningful connections, and unforgettable experiences, rather than just following the usual societal norms.

A little more about me:

• Personality: Ambivert – I thrive on engaging conversations but cherish my quiet time too.
• Languages: Hindi and English
• Religious beliefs: Ex-muslim Atheist
• Sexual Orientation: Straight
• Height: 5'6"
• Education: B.Sc. (Physics), M.A. (Sociology), with plans for a Ph.D. soon.
• Lifestyle: Minimalist, Eco-conscious, Zero Waste, Vegan. Non-smoker but sometimes consume weed and drink occasionally with friends.
• Hobbies: Trekking, travelling, cycling, badminton, reading, listening to ghazals and songs, cooking, exploring museums and historical places, watching movies and playing guitar.
• Attachment Style : Disorganized/Anxious, working on becoming more secure.

I'm open to all caste/religion. I want us to get to know each other well as friends too cause I believe a strong friendship is the basis of good romantic relationship.

I live by the philosophy of minimizing suffering and maximizing joy. There are already lots of problems in the world, so don't want to contribute to the suffering anymore. That's why I'm an antinatalist and childfree. Kindness is also at the core of my beliefs, which is why I follow a vegan lifestyle.

What I’m Looking For: I’d love to meet someone who shares my values and passions—a partner who is not just a companion but also a friend and an equal. Here’s what I’m looking for in a partner :

• Honesty and open communication are non-negotiable.
• A playful, friendly, funny and grounded personality.
• A compassionate heart and love for animals.
• An open-minded perspective, especially regarding political views (liberal or left-leaning is a plus).
• Someone who enjoys traveling, cooking, and exploring life’s experiences as much as I do.
• Should be open to LDR at least in initial stage
• Age: 23-30 years (± 2 years)

Relationship and Life Goals: I'm looking for someone with whom we can be our true selves with each other, form a strong emotional support for each other through ups and downs of life and to help each other grow and become a better person.

I also dream of opening a bookshop/library cafe or restaurant in the mountains, where I can spend the rest of my life surrounded by nature and tranquility.

Deal Breakers:

• Poor communication or ghosting.
• Uncertainty about being childfree or antinatalist.
• If you have baggage of past relationships/haven't moved on yet.

Bonus Points If You’re:

• Vegan
• Hindi speaker/can understand Hindi
• “Not in a rush to get married”.

Looking forward to meeting someone amazing!

Note : When reaching out, please introduce yourself with your age, gender, location, and a little about yourself (education, hobbies, etc.). A simple "hi/hello" won’t help us connect meaningfully. Also, it would be better if we exchange pictures and move to voice notes or calls as soon as possible as I’ve been catfished before and want to avoid that again.

Helping those who struggle with Islam.. and those concerned for the future of our world.

📢 Announcing a new call-in livestream dedicated primarily to helping people struggling with Islam, in all the ways that they need help with. Its also for the purpose of helping the outside world better understand us and the communities we come from. (Its part of a non-profit called Uniting The Cults.)

This livestream is co-hosted with Dr. Usama al-Binni, theoretical physicist and ex-Muslim activist, and one of the people heading the Arab Atheist Broadcasting project and serves on the editorial board of Arab Atheists Magazine.

Here's the link to the first livestream. Please turn on notifications.

How to get involved?

• Check out our current list of topics.
• Suggest a topic here or comment below.
• Request to call-in.

In the meantime, is there anything special you'd like us to talk about, or fun activities for the first livestream?

I'm from South Asia. And I'm done with this barbaric, insecure & egotistical religion.

Lately, I've been having negative thoughts that there might be chances my dreams won't come true of getting out of this country, considering I am an ex-muslim woman from South Asia. Here, unsolicited advices even from the extended families are taken into strict consideration. If it's somebody old, no matter how uneducated, their advice would not be taken for granted.

I am 22 right now, and I have had discussions with my parents that I wish to go abroad for my post-graduation studies as education system here is not worth it. They approve of this reason but once or twice, my father straight up told me there's no way you are ever going outside the country by yourself, that it is haram and not 'deeni' and women are not allowed to do so. Plus, my grandmother constantly forces restrictions on me and my sisters to do basic stuff by just asking my father. I am too tired of this and now there's a high possibility she'll be again strictly advising my father to not let me go. She's uneducated, extremely religious and loves living under misogyny and usually forces these views on both of my parents that they're slowly becoming more and more radical themselves. Also, I constantly debate over religion, question directly about everything, and they get heated. I don't pray anymore. I have already had some of my career dreams crashed when I was in high school planning to study music.

This is making me scared of a dark future I can possibly have, even after getting everything all planned out. Is there any way I can avoid this happening in advance? Please give me some suggestions.

Visit r/atheismindia instead.

Jai Sree Dinkan