Been already a week in chastity, my training is going so well and my Gf is just loving being a keyholder. Thank you y'all for always being so supportive and kind 💕

does anyone know a good lockable box to hold your chastity keys?
i was looking at this, not sure tho
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So, my base ring is pretty snug. It’s 45mm but I think I could probably go tighter with a 40mm. Anyway, with the current 45mm it stays in place all day and doesn’t fall with the weight of the shaft. BUT, when I soap myself up in the shower, the whole cage falls down. Obviously it’s lubed up with the soap, but I’m wondering does this mean I need to go smaller?

I’d like some ideas/advice

What is a good way to secure a belt with an online dom being the key keeper?

Something that I can have a safe way out if anything but also not having access to it (for obvious reasons)

And no online key holder/locks etc. I need to be safe

Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Thank you!

Most of my chastity cages have the standard cylinder Barrel lock.

When I wear a strap on for my Queen, the pointy corners of the locks tend to poke Her.

I tried filing the corners down, but it doesn't really help. I have to cover it with a bandaid.

Does anyone else have this problem? I can't seem to find a good substitute lock that's affordable.

Hi Chastity folk!

I got a question I could use some advice on. Me and my boyfriend have a slightly long-distance relationship. It isn’t far, but it’s far enough. Anywho… he is in chastity for the foreseeable future until probably marriage happens.

I got talking to my best friend who is super into kink as well. She sorta implied the other day, (now I’m not sure if it was joking or not,) that she’d be willing to put me in a chastity belt and bra for the foreseeable future. She’d hold on to mine, and my boyfriend’s keys. (I’d obviously discuss this with him.)

If you look in my post history, you would also see that I’m exploring parental control software kinks, and would like to lock my boyfriend’s devices down.

I sorta explained to her the kink and she’d be willing to control both mine and my boyfriend’s devices.

I find it exciting, but I’m wondering if this is normal. I’ve switched before, but typically I am a domme. So I’d like to know people’s thoughts.

I really want it to go into our marriage where she is sorta the person we turn to when we want to have sex, and she controls that. But I’m not too sure if she’d be interested in that level of control.

I've posted several times before and shared my thoughts on what I've dubbed "minimal device chastity"—which is chastity outside of the standard ball trap device, but with some physical embodiment. I have zero interest in chastity without some physical manifestation of the commitment.

Guys may use minimal device chastity to change things up or maybe they do it because they just can't handle being locked in a ball trap device. These days there are many options including tubeless devices. I thought I would share one more that I've just come across.

I'm undergoing a bit of change down below—purely accidental at first but now I'm intentionally trying to stretch the skin on my cock to reclaim my foreskin. There are many methods and two practices employed—one is stretching and the other is retention of what gains you've made in the stretching department. Last week I had a three day period where not only did I stretch, but I also used a retainer during the time that I wasn't actively stretching. The second straight morning where I woke up with somewhat restrained morning wood it struck me that the little silicone retainer on the end of my dick was powerful enough to mute my boner—but more importantly it never came close to falling off, and because of that it could act like a minimal chastity device.

The retainer is fairly cheap, super comfortable and it even allows you to urinate without removal (but I would recommend not going more than a day without removing and cleaning). And it could work for someone who is very active who can't rock a full device for whatever reason.

Here's a picture for reference—and no, this was the not the morning wood I mentioned.

My soon be wife just leaves the house with her sister, sister in law an best friend to a bachelorette day...she is wearing the key ostensibly in a necklace and leaves me caged at home. Its going to be a long day...anyone also had enjoyed something like this? BTW her best friend knows im caged and my wife show her sister a picture of me caged a few months ago so they ill figure out pretty fast

I've been fantasising about wearing a cage for years and getting turned on to it online by reading this subreddit.

A few months back I bought a cheap steel cage and brought up the idea with my girlfriend of 1 year. She was kind of intimated by the cage and said it looked painful and didn't like that. I wore it for a few hours but she insisted I keep the keys.

A month or so later I bought a few different cages to see what would fit and be comfortable, a few cheap ones gave me rashs and finally I got a Kink3d Wide which fit me well.

I sent her a photo of me wearing it and she said "what do I have to do to get the keys?". Progress.

I told ger to read the secret to a happy marriage website so we were on the same page. She read it but didn't like the idea of 3 month break in, she didn't want to change my assertive and masculine energy with her. I just left it and continued to wear the new cage a few hours a day making sure it would be ok for longer term wear around gym and walking and meetings etc.

A few days ago i woke up before she did and put the cage on and got back to bed, leaving the keys beside her bed.

She woke up and after a few minutes noticed it and got excited and asked where the keys were. I pointed beside the bed and she looked happy.

I got up and went about my day, horny and nervous at what was happening. That evening she said "I think it's so hot you wearing the cage for me. I think about us at the grocery store and you at the gym. I like that's it's our secret, I like the feeling of controlling you and that you trust me with this"

She now wants me to start with a month. And I've been giving her extra massages and ensuring she finishes when I go down on her.

So now the fantasy has become a reality. I think she will end up liking this more than me, but it feels nice to be owned.

Bought a cheap cage to start with a 50mm diameter. I can’t tell if I’m just not used to the sensation, but it feels like it’s squeezing my balls a lot. Kinda makes me nervous after having it on for more than 15 mins. My balls felt cooler than normal, though not cold. Was able to get an erection with it on.

My shaft size is very average and my girth probably below. Is there a correlation between dick size and ring size? I’m surprised I need to go bigger than 50mm, that already seems pretty big.

I have noticed the same thing with silicone rings, they need to make my balls ache quite quickly. Should I just size up with another cheap cage and see how it feels?

I assume I wanna be very certain of my size before I buy a kink3d?

So I have this problem (or not depending on the way you look at it) where I can cum in my cage without touching or without any anal stimulation. It happens when I'm horny enough and I can feel my dick pushing against my cage which then leads me to an orgasm. It's probably the best orgasms I've ever had but I kinda hate it at the same time because it makes me end up just taking it off. I'd also much rather only be able to cum caged due to anal stimulation. My cage fits well but I'm wondering if a smaller one would help? Any ideas would be appreciated.

I've been working on an innie cage that you can hygienically pee in it. I think I'm close, but am at a turning point. I have 2 designs.

One lets you pee without getting much on your balls(except a little splashback), but it extends out about as far as a Nub cage, so it has kind of an awkward bump in some pants, and ruins the "flat" aesthetic of an innie.

The other is basically flat and cleanable, but your piss runs directly down your balls into the toilet. It wipes "clean" with toilet paper afterwards and everything "pushed back in" stays clean and dry, but it's a little disconcerting to purposely piss on your own balls.

Which of these sounds preferable to you? If you had to pick one to finish, which would you choose?

Is it possible to be Dom personality and allow yourself to succumb to a domme? I am struggling. I go with it for a few days and can’t stay with it because part of me wants it but part of me doesn’t… but she’s distant not close so I’m bouncing back and forth. I have cages, been wearing off and on. I don’t know.

So recently I was a bit drunk and ordered a bunch of sissy stuff online(hell i am alredy drunk as I am typinhg this), like my first cage, stockings, and a bunch of other stuff, it is already on the way so cannot cancel it (not like I would have wanted to anyways), I am very excited and waiting till the package arrives and have decided to edge myself till it comes, it should arrive in about 4 days, (the longest I have gone without an orgasm is about 7 days and it was because I was in a summer camp that too almost 5 years ago), but this time I have my own room and am alone for 80% of the day, I dont know how I am going to get through this.
I have seen many girls having a sissy gasm with a cage on here, and it turned the hell out of me, so my main aim is to edge till my spiked cage arrives and then have a sissygasm while wearing it, I konw it is going to be basically impossibe to have one on my first try, but I have vowed to not jerkoff and only orgasm via anal stimulation from now on.

Feel free to dm for any advice you might have.

Hi all. I’m new to chastity devices and am not sure if my ring is too tight.

Nothing feels painful. My balls aren’t necessarily purple but just more red and coloured than my legs for example.

I was trying to find stuff online but was wondering if anyone would be okay with me sending them a few pics of it and getting advice whether or not it looks fine.

Thanks

So I want to get into chastity with my partner. But the trouble is I'm have a hard time with sizing. I have a small cock (4.5 erect and under 1.5 soft) and small short balls. I tried some knock off cages, did some measurements, and then decided to go with kink 3d.

I went with there second smallest cage in a narrow version. It seemed to fit ok at first, but once I started wearing it for a few hours my cock retracted and got even smaller than usual. Like instead of filling out the cage like I thought (because I thought it would be the perfect length for my soft size) my cock just kind of shrinks even more and folds in on itself. Which then makes it so it doesn't align with the hole.

Am I doing something wrong or do I really need the smallest cage possible? I'm so lost with the sizing and fit at this point. Every cage I've tried seems like there is too much room for my head when I get super soft. Don't want to keep wasting money.

Anyone have any experience or advice to offer?

I need someone in charge of me so I stop unlocking my cage

I bought a wand a week ago and I haven’t used it much but I’ve found it difficult to use. It either just bounces around or it touches the tip which seems to hurt. Sometimes it feels good but never consistently. It’s always hit or miss. The pain from hitting the tip is pushing me away from it but man I’m getting desperate after 1 week since ruining, 2 weeks since my last orgasm and 3 days straight in chastity.

I had made a post earlier this week asking about how often people are locked 24/7 and I took it upon myself to go for a week without a single unlock to see if I would like 24/7 chastity. I was kind of nervous about doing this because the longest I had ever been locked was 2 days but I was up for the challenge. I had gotten a small box from amazon that was made for keyholding and I put a timer lock on it to prevent any temptations that I might have had. I need to reset the lock once because it only went up to 99 hours but that wasn't an issue for me.

Let me tell you this was a great idea on my part. Since chastity has been one of my biggest kinks for the longest time, this was so much fun. Having the constant reminder that I was locked whenever I wasn't doing anything almost made me giddy. Especially whenever I went out to run errands or to hang out with friends, I was wishing I could share this excitement with anybody. Having the only way that I could pleasure myself being through anal was also a very fun time, just straining the whole time really made me enjoy it.

A couple of things that I did figure out when it comes to actually being locked for long periods of time is that sleep can be a bit difficult. Granted, I knew this going into it, but after a while it has been getting easier to sleep. I think after maybe another week or two that probably won't be an issue anymore. Another thing I figured out was chaffing. After about a day, I noticed a bit of irritation around the base ring of the cage but I started putting on lotion around the ring a couple time a day and that fixed that issue. But other than that, that's all the real issues I ran into this week.

So looking back on this week, I have decided to stay locked 24/7 only to come out for hygiene reasons once a week. This was such a fun and satisfying experience to have the urge to masturbate but physically could not because of the timer lock on the box. To anyone who is struggling with self locking, hang in there a lot of things just comes with time and I'll put the link to box and timer lock I used at the end of this because I found it to be game changing. Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

Box: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C5JBCMZZ?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details

Lock: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09ZYJ3Y88?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details

I've decides to buy a new cage because the one i got is a little to big. Can you tell me which are the best cages or at least the most reliable brands? I'd prefer non metal cages thanks.

Just got a new cage for long-term wear holy trainer so far it's comfortable got the nano size probably should have ordered the nub but was afraid that would have been too tight.

How would you would feel if your wife/girlfriend expressed an interest in being the keyholder of their Ex partner?

On one hand, I feel I would be jealous but on the other I’m like, well he’s not getting any - yet either am I..

Would you be open to the idea or a hard no?

I'm constantly locked and it makes me always thinking about things I shouldn't. Sometimes I notice things irl and wonder if it's just me or do other people notice it as well. I was at a party and Beyonce's latest tune came on Texas Holdem. I looked at the Spotify and the first thing I thought was she is in chastity 👀🔒

Look at the cover image and let me know.

so just had a cage on for 48 hours ISH put on yesterday afternoon, i was allowed piv sex and cum with base ring still on in evening and then locked back up and slept was fine. I took cage off this afternoon again and had more piv in the shower, as I got close to climax (Mrs was tugging on balls a bit too) I had a really bad head rush, not in a nice way at all and as I finished, I felt really bad and still got a cracking head ache and feel a little sick, had to lay down for a bit, felt like gonna passout ... I'm just wondering whether base ring is too small and causing blood circulation issues , it doesn't /didn't feel tight and I can slip finger in between etc and it was fine yesterday. idk if BC Mrs was squeezing/pulling too hard or too hot shower or what but kinda put me off a bit the whole chastity thing tbh not that I had it on at the time and it was her hand , if it was that cutting things off, along with some pnc idk.

Me and my long distance girlfriend are starting out with locking me in a chastity cage, and we are wondering if you guys have any tips or ideas of how she can have control over the cage while on distance; without sending the keys via mail? Anything will help since we are new to this, thx in beforehand☺️

First time posting, long time lurker. Been locked for a week and wanted to post some of the noticeable life changes.

1. Mornings are just better. I wake up earlier, with less grogginess as my penis fills it's prison. And it feels amazing every morning. My ripples have become sensitive to touch, and I can simply lay in bed and keep myself straining in the cage by playing with my nipples.

2. I find myself trying to get erect nearly hourly. For the most part when uncaged I have very little drive, caged, someone brushing past me sends me into ovripples.

3. Sleep has become much, much better. At night rather than gooning for hours, watching porn I simply fall asleep. This has also led to me waking earlier and being able to fully wakeup in the morning before leaving for work.

Having read posts here for a while, I'm guessing this isn't a typical experience, but thought I would share, since being caged for over a week solid for the first time seems to be leading to some interesting positive side effects. Been using my pool every morning (water is very cold) to promote relaxation and help relieve the straining before work.

Overall positive experiences so far, and interested to see how this progresses as I go into week two.

Has anyone taken their key to a jeweller to have it made into a unique piece of jewellery for their key holder?

I work out about 5-6 days a week. CrossFit, hot yoga, or 1-2 hours on a bike outside or a peloton. I think the peloton is the only exercise I’d feel comfortable doing in my cage.

What are other people doing in this space? I tried wearing my cage to the Y once and it wasn’t the worst thing, but that’s a far cry from the pace of CrossFit and my tight yoga shorts hide nothing. :(

My girlfriend and I live apart and have opposite custody schedules. I proposed the idea of her keeping me in chastity while I am away from her. She was thrilled at the idea and I immediately got her a lovely anklet to commemorate our journey. But then life gets in the way, CrossFit, yoga, and she’s not always around to unlock me. I exercise daily so that’s on average one unlock a day.

So we have decided to just be a little pragmatic, I keep a key and lock and unlock when she tells me to. Sometime I’ll ask if I can wear it.

I’m still unable to sleep through the night so usually take it off from 12 until about 5. Hopefully that will improve over time.

I guess it’s not the sexiest way to do it, but maybe it’s the practical way until we get married.

Hi all Slowly getting wife into keyholding and recently purchased the qiui key lock box thingy and then found the Chester app ... Can I set the Qiui lockbox up with a 4 digit code that could be entered into the Chester app so then when time up on Chester it'll reveals code,i which I then could enter into the qiui app to unlock the key box , or is it only a time lock and I brought the wrong thing? Thanks