I M20 have been into chastity for a while now but have really struggled meeting someone to do it with as I am not sure how to bring it up in conversation. Does anyone know good places online or irl where I could meet people for this or how to go about bringing it up?

Hey girlies and co, I love wearing my cage for long periods and can go months of doing it but I somehow always end up with peeling skin and open skin under my cage on my shaft. I do the usual, I clean every time I shower, I moisturize and etc, How do I get around this problem?

This may be a long shot but can anyone recommend a kink friendly studio in NYC where my wife can bring me in chastity to get pierced?

My wife ordered me an inverted cage that also has the urethra plug for easy peeing. The penis is pushed inward so how does cleaning work? She would like me to stay locked in it for a week but i dont think thats realistic.

How are you cleaning it

I’m like a week into chastity which has been great and I’m super fucking horny now. Like a lot. Problem is that I’m getting a massage tomorrow. I will definitely take it off, but my dick is so sensitive what if I get a boner or cum?

We've been looking to get started with chastity as a part of exploring my fem side. I'm non-binary, AMAB, and exploring with a supportive SO. I like sissy stuff and small chastity, and want something feminizing and maybe a touch humiliating. I'm not particularly large, only 2.5in soft, 5.5in hardbut my base ring measurements have bounced from 60mm to 70mm which is pretty big, and you can't seem to find a balance between a fem cage and a large enough ring. I also don't want to break the bank on a thing I'm just experimenting with for now. Any advice for a newbie sis?

First off, I am not affiliated with this company in any way, just a happy customer. I've had several chastity devices throughout the years and recently came across Kink3D when searching for a new cage. They are a 3D printed cage and base rings that come in a variety of sizes. They have pretty good sizing guides on their website but where they really shine is their sizing recommendation service through their customer service.

I had a couple of questions still after going through their online sizing guides and emailed their customer service as they recommend on their site. After a few email exchanges and sending over a few pictures and measurements they had a size recommendation for me. It was definitely not the size I was originally planning on purchasing but it sure seems to fit like a glove! If you're looking into a new cage I would definitely recommend taking a look at these guys.

Me (19M) her (19F) we’ve talked alot about kinks and we’re open about our sex life, we’re both switches which works out to be a great dynamic. I have 2 cages already which I like to use on myself from time to time. I love the feeling and idea behind 1 person who controls my dick.

How do I introduce her to the idea, hoping to learn of personal experiences of people.

Works pretty well.. Waaaay better than having nothing at all 😊 all that's needed is a cock ring or hair tie, and a rolled up sock 🤭

Want me to show you how just dm ❤️

I bought a chasity cage and i was able to get my cock inside, i liked the feeling of beeing inside it but my cock was able to swell so that the chasity cage pushes forward and the base of my cock is swollen, that felt a bit weird... I returned it. Can you help me find the right cage so i can be a good Sissy<3?

My cock is 10cm soft and 18cm hard😊

I hope some of you can Help me or give me Tips. Thank you💕

Btw ask me anything If you need more Infos😌

I am concerned that I might not be buying from the right website. I made an account a long time ago and purchased a test cage, I tried logging in and it says my email isn’t registered. I found 3 different websites that has some variation of the name such as. BAWR badassworkroom Badassworkroompro

How do I know I’m buying from the right website for sure? The websites look the same.

Hey so just like the above says I’m looking to see if any of yall know something about a good body safe and good feeling cock extender that I can slip on over my kink3d cobra cage that will feel good for my partner.

I’ve used strap-ons which have felt clunky and I’ve used Vac-u-lock dildos with my cherry keeper unicorn. I was pretty satisfied with the cherry keeper unicorn combo but I’m wearing a kink3d cobra S these days instead.

Online I keep seeing all these shitty products made of “soft plastic” or others, but none that are actual body safe silicone. Also I want to consider my partner in all this, meaning I want a device that will actually FEEL GOOD in her. If she can’t have the real deal, aka my dick I’d like if it were at least well equipped to do the job and satisfy her. So… any ideas guys? Thanks a ton in advance (:

P.s. am willing to pay for quality if that’s what it takes

I'm looking to buy my first cage and I was wondering if ABS is safe for that kind of skin contact. Does anyone with a cage made out of that material have experience with skin irritation? And, on a less related noe, would a 70 mm size cage be a good fit if I'm around 76 mm soft? Thank you.

Base ring circumference is 240 mm. 240/3.14 = 76.4 mm diameter.

A 45 mm chastity cage falls off me when I sleep.

This doesn't compute. What am I doing wrong?

Hey guys newbie here, I wanted to give my key to a keyholder but I’m not sure to give both keys or just one.

I’m currently really comfortable with the current device and I might not open it up for the next week or days. He only live like 4 blocks away from my house. What do you guys think? Should I give him both?

I live long distance (few hours drive£l) from my partner so for the time being, we only see each other every other/third weekend for the weekend

In the time between though, I struggle to stay locked (self locking) and either don't wear it for the time, or wear it on and off

I want to make it more permanent. Is it solely a discipline/mindset thing? What helped you to go more permanent with it?

Any month long challenges for February ?

TL;DR: looking for advice on tweaks. Have done a lot of reading. Excited to engage for feedback from the very experienced among you.

Fellow chastity enthusiasts, I'm trying to integrate a bunch of information I've read on here in one place to troubleshoot some chastity cage issues and decide on potential modifications to make something work well. I'm not the person being locked up, so let's say that I'm familiar up close with the wide variety in penis-holder anatomy, but I can't tell you myself how the specific issue feels, only the outwardly obvious problems.

Current problem: minimizing erections behind the cage for an uncircumcised penis that is a larger size flaccid but still a grower, with a good amount of scrotum skin, looking for medium-term (think days/week+) chastity sessions, bonus points if a sound can be incorporated into the cage, no loss in ability to become hard/have sensation over time*.

Have tried the Kink3D Cobra R/R+. Smaller size was tight but doable, larger was more comfortable. Switched to Evotion Orion because of the nice sounding accessory. Generally has been fine, but after sleeping in the setup and some... stimulation, was notably hard behind the cage but not into the body in an uncomfortable way.

I've read through a number of discussions here and a few things jump out, but I'd like feedback on where could be useful to make changes first, what things could be most important to ask for in custom solutions, and places to be careful:

• I've seen several mentions that lose scrotum skin can be an issue because it gives something to pull on and through the ring to allow a visible out-of-abdomen, but behind the cage erection. It appears there's a balance between not letting it chafe as it pulls through the ring when erections do start and having the ring be tight enough to not even let this happen. I'm concerned as one gets toward "tight enough to minimize pull" you're getting into the "tight enough to create blood flow/nerve damage issues" range. Is this somewhere that changing ring shape is most important to try and strike the right balance? Or really targeting size is a good place to start?

• I also see a lot of back and forth on the point of whatever setup you're in simply not allowing erections to start. I will fully own this problem may have been caused by deliberately trying to stimulate the caged person. It's hard to think about what not allowing them to start means because I have seen several proposed solutions: wider cages that give some room to grow a little bit in the cage, tighter rings or a belt to hold everything so whatever does grow ends up growing internally, and cages that allow no sensation as to minimize starting triggers.  For those of you who are more experienced, what order would you try these in?

• For people who do incorporates sounds and tetherspouts, what makes longer sessions both comfortable and safe for you while retaining the "locked in from all sides" feeling?

• *I call this out because I appreciate that for many chastity enthusiasts, less ability to become hard or have some sensations in the long term is an acceptable outcome and is a turn-on. Imagine this is for a switch where retaining sensation and functionality is important, but also, so is getting to feel completely controlled and non-functional. For those of you where retaining functionality and sensation is important, what are the most important things you've learned over time?

If you are home sick with Covid, flu, food poisoning, etc... does your keyholder let you out?

I have not used chastity cage yet. What happens if me and my girlfriend started caging me how would that be . Would i become submissive and i can only cum when she unlocks me . Idk please guide me and if possible if there are any websites that contain chastity related video please do recommend

Can anyone help me? The ring feel like it’s crating a raw spot under my nuts. I’m currently using the 45mm ring. I have one smaller but my nuts barely fit through it. 😕

Any advice to help this?

Is this normal? I downsized my ring and my balls really stick out between my legs makes walking a little difficult but I find I can’t really close my legs when I sit down and I can’t cross them. Any insight is appreciated!

What was the hottest thing, your wife/gf/KH hast ever done to you while caged?

We need new ideas an inspirations :)

As some of you know, I've become enamored with shaft-only chastity.. cages secured by piercings, tetherspouts, or options that require nothing but a penis and a cage so I've made a community specific for shaft-only devices: r/ShaftOnlyChastity.

I've spent so much time here trying to help people find a way to be comfortable in a ball-trap device. But the best and easiest advice is to ditch the damn ring. "How do I stop the ring from pulling away?", "My balls feel like they are doing to be ripped out of my sac", "I can't get my cage to stop slipping", "My balls are changing color", "Ring size help!". Every one of these problems just vanish. Gone. Never have to think about them again. Ever.

Since getting my shaft-only device in early January, it has become my daily driver. I have a box full of really nice cages I'll only seldom wear again. And why would I want to? Why did I get into chastity? Was it to wear a cock ring 24x7? Was it to watch my cock try to push the cage away from my body? No. It was to give my wife control of my orgasms. Everything else was a bug, not a feature.

Now I have whittled down chastity to only what is necessary. Jenn absolutely loves having access to my shaft again. Hell, I love her having access to my shaft again.

If your curious about shaft-only devices, have thoughts you want to share, or want to show off your toy, please help me build the community.

I want to put my slave in chastity. Problem: It's an Long-distance thing. My idea was to take a combination lock. But how can I put my slave in chastity with a combination lock w/o him seeing the combination when the lock is open? Kinda hard...

Why combo lock? Cuz it's a bit safer. In case of emergency I can tell him the combination and no keys need to be sended.

Hey there ! Hope everyone is doing fine in this long January month 😅 I’m coming here because as you saw on my title, I have spent more than two months in chastity but I am still getting hard. My body still didn’t understand that it shouldn’t erect anymore. And to be true, I don’t really do anything to fight this because I literally have no idea what to do to not get hard ? Should I get in some mindspace and get a mantra or stuff like this to make my brain understand I don’t need to get hard ?

Also, I have a foreskin and I found the type of cage that is perfect for me, which is a tiny pink cage (that you can see on my profile) in which the foreskin is entirely inside of and doesn’t give any problem to the skin. But this cage doesn’t prevent from erection at all (nor does any other but it is true that this one is more comfortable to get hard on lol)

I was thinking of holding a journal that might help me with all of this in addition to other stuff in chastity.

What do you think ? Any pieces of advice to give ?

Hi 👋🏻 I got a highly reviewed cage off of Amazon and I really enjoy using it, although I'm a bit big for it (width makes it hard to get into it). While I was wearing it I tried to go pee and was met with pain and I had to immediately take it off so I could finish peeing, and I had some really bad pain in my urethra for a while after this. Anytime I'd pee, there would be pain when without it on. I've made sure that I don't pee while wearing this cage since then as everything else has been fine, but how do you all avoid this? How do I avoid this going forward? Ideally I'd like to try a flat cage for an extended period, but I'm scared to hurt myself again.

It has taken me a few years to find the right device and mood. A Holy Trainer V5 Nub has proved effective and last year I was able to go a few days, but had issues with my testicles popping out and then device falling off etc. I was very disappointed and my partner could see this (she takes a fairly hands off approach, mainly because she is too busy with everything else, but likes to see me happy and finds my desire to lock it up amusing). I keep the keys in her bedside drawer and ask her permission to unlock for cleaning or other special purposes and delight in her pushing the lock button when I have the device back on.

New year and I tried a smaller ring. I had done this before but it was hard to get on and my testicles would get that burning sensation. However this time it has proved much easier. In the seven days it has been off once (fully for about 90 minutes for a exercise class and good clean and shave - shaving still not perfected, but not something to cover at the moment) and twice - nub only, ring stayed in place, for cleaning while in shower, say 15 minutes each time. So maybe just two hours in a week unlocked.

I am interested to know how that compares with other experiences in similar devices (where the penis is totally enclosed).

For the first few nights I suffered from the morning erection problem, but I read here about doing bicep curls and that seems to be a great help in reducing the discomfort.

It is all very exciting as my partner is talking about keeping me pussyfree all year (it was something she teased me with last year. Being in chastity just adds a new level of commitment. She does appreciate how ready to please her I become when denied and I think this will help motivate her. This morning she told me not to be sad, but to be happy and enjoy being locked and pussyfree.

Like everything else is sized well but my balls always end up with a burning feeling on like end of day 1 start or day 2. I love being cages and want to stay locked longer (I know I could). But that's just such a massive problem for me

I bought a Cherry Keeper yesterday and decided to wear it tonight. It fits really well and is surprisingly comfortable