So we are a mid 20's couple that have recently gotten into all of this! The first cage that we tried didn't quite fit right. We got another cage and so far it seems to fit him great! So far he has only worn it around the house, during sex, or when it's just the two of us around.

We're both super into the idea of him wearing it in public, like maybe if we go out to a bar or a club or anything like that. Maybe even just normal everyday type of places as well like the grocery store, or just running errands, etc.

The only concerns he has is other people out in public being able to tell that he's wearing a cage (which would be hot in my opinion hahah oops). So is it usually pretty easy to spot when wearing a cage in public? Or does the general public just mostly go on about their lives and never notice something like that?

Also, any tips for longer time in his cage? We're thinking maybe start with a whole day of wearing it while we're out and about, and gradually going up from there based on how it goes. I'm just worried about his comfort if we're out walking around a bunch and doing stuff.

Any other fun places that ya'll have worn them that we could try? I really want to cage him while we go out bar hopping around town, and I'd love more suggestions as well!

Thank you in advance!!:))

I used to not last that long before I was locked up, but chastity seems to have made it significantly worse. Now I can come (caged) just by giving my wife oral. This is becoming a vicious cycle, since now I am so premature, there is no point in unlocking me. Has anybody else had this problem?

I need suggestions and advice on what to use to keep it comfortable in the future. I heard that creams/lube is important. I’d like to know what you boys use

I tried my steel cage of 7 to 8cm long on my dik of 14 cm when erect. I loved it. Now i will keep it locked for one month . Encourage me please. Affer that im planning to vet a smaller cage.

I tried my steel cage of 7 to 8cm long on my dik of 14 cm when erect. I loved it. Now i will keep it locked for one month . Encourage me please🥰. Affer that im planning to vet a smaller cage.

I tried my steel cage of 7 to 8cm long on my dik of 14 cm when erect. I loved it. Now i will keep it locked for one month . Encourage me please🥰. Affer that im planning to vet a smaller cage.

I tried my steel cage of 7 to 8cm long on my dik of 14 cm when erect. I loved it. Now i will keep it locked for one month . Encourage me please🥰. Affer that im planning to vet a smaller cage.

I tried my steel cage of 7 to 8cm long on my dik of 14 cm when erect. I loved it. Now i will keep it locked for one month . Encourage me please🥰. Affer that im planning to vet a smaller cage.

I’m interested in buy my first chastity cage? Anything I need to know?

In search of a cage for a new sub that will fit his anatomy the best. Sub has tight testicles to the body and his penis seems to, when flaccid, retreat into his body. This makes it easy for him to slip out of average cages easy. Any suggestions on cages or belts to keep him locked up would be appreciated!

Not to sound to full of myself but I have huge balls. Two years ago I still managed to force them into the largest ring size for a cobra cage, but these days there’s no way to fit one ball through the ring. Does anyone have similar issues or experiences or knows a brand that has especially large rings available?

I ordered some sizing rings from Evotion on 11/25 and then on the 29th, a pair of cages. In those five days, it appears they got 28 additional orders as the order numbers are very likely sequential (I had order numbers 7248 and 7277).

Evotion was running a Black Friday sale on 3D printed nylon cages during that period but still, considering their cages run from $300 to $3000, these aren’t just people trying an Amazon cages for fun. These are serious chastity users.

So, to all the people asking about if someone’s going to see your “bulge”: don’t worry about it; everyone is too busy looking at everyone else’s bulge.

Quick background is, im masculine male with femdom kinks etc. shared this w my wife finally after about 15 years. But she is not at all dominant in our relationship and has never been.

She has been open to exploring some denial and extremely gentle femdom. I do alot of unrequested service to her while we have been exploring this together and I believe she really enjoys that part of it and it makes me happy.

after about a month in we discussed chasity and I expressed to her that it would make me feel dominated/owned by her which makes me feel loved/close/safe with her even though she wouldn’t have to engage too much.

So she ordered some cheap metal beginner cage that i wore one day for about 7 hours. We both seemed to love the experience of it that day and how it changed my frame of mind.

But the cage was brutal. I took it off and was sore for the next three days.

So i ordered a different cheaper smaller plastic knockoff to try. When it arrived she seemed almost offput by it which was weird I thought. Then later that night she just randomly started discussing the dom name she chose for me to use “yes baby” and then shifted to saying I was to put the new cage on the next day.

So that was this morning and i’ve been in it all day. I brought it up once and she got sorta mad and told me she didn’t want to hear about it. It doesn’t hurt but it has slightly pinched me a few times through the day and it’s still a little long I think. It is definitely at least uncomfortable when I get hard. I was very aware every time i started getting hard.

throughout the day I thought once “maybe i should just take this off” after realizing how much of a (figurative)pain peeing is now. Only to realize she has the key now and I’m actually locked up. She also made a rule that I was not to make any sexual innuendos and I should always assume that she doesn’t want sex.

So I can’t even bring it up at all to her today or even tomorrow really imo. which is fine I mean it’s all about denial. BUT I’m about to fall asleep and it’s still on. i took a shower and cleaned around it and inside the cage what little i could.

My concern is that I’m going to hurt myself tonight puling it off in my sleep or something? I know I can fall asleep it is not that bothersome. But all the guides i read have told me not to sleep in it straight away but I can’t even bring it up to her!! Im not sure if she has locked and forgotten or what? should i be worried?

Also are more expensive cages really worth it? or is it just slightly more comfortable?

Hey. im m19 and have been so tempted recently to purchase a chasity cage. I have so many questions though… will this cause shrinkage? Also I have no clue how the sizing works. for reference my penis is 6-6.5 inches erect and about 3 soft. Also, what happens when you get an erection while caged? Does it hurt?

I have so many more questions I need someone with lots of experience to guide me into this. That would be appreciated❤️

I thought I got a decent fit.... Cherry Keeper has many options.....

Problem is the anatomy changes around so much according to the weather, posture, temperature, sitting, standing, lying...... And one minute its perfectly comfortable, the next its too loose and later way too tight and turns my balls blue..... Doesn't really make any sense....

If it was just too small or too big I could figure that, but seems my body just doesn't work for a fixed size....

Any one have experiences like that ?

It's not like a bra or a pair of shoes and that has a few hundred years of technology and millions of customers... And even women's breasts or anyones feet can change size a bit and not quite so delicate......

TLDR: I got my Goddess pregnant and now have to be locked for a year. Looking for advice from people who have been locked that long or longer.

I(26m) got my Goddess/KH(25F) pregnant! It worked! And it came with some surprises! Pun intended lol

So if you've been following me, or if you've read some of my posts, you'd know my Goddess and I have been trying for another baby with some strings attached. Well, it happened. Life has been a bit hectic, so I am sorry for not posting for awhile 😅.

We got really lucky. Her cycle lined up with my birthday in early October so I got unlocked for a few days in a row. Was an absolutely awesome birthday present since at the time I was only getting unlocked for getting her pregnant. A few weeks later we found out it worked! Oct. 19th I woke up and she showed me the pregnancy tests! We went to the doctors, got everything confirmed. We got to see the ultrasound...

Annnnnnnnd.....

Wait for it.....

TWINS!!!!

YUP! TWINS!!

My Goddess and I had been joking the whole time about what if? Lol... well it happened. We are having twins! What this all means: well, my Goddess set some rules around getting her pregnant again. I am now locked for at minimum the next year. Possibly two thanks to the twins rule doubling my locked time. I say Possibly because she says she hasn't made up her mind yet on just how long she really wants to keep me locked for.

October 19th I was allowed one final unlock before starting the new locked period. That night was amazing, my Goddess unlocked me but did not allow me to finish. She decided she wanted to start it off with making me as desperate as possible and told me I had gone through enough orgasms trying to get her pregnant.

For those that have read about my orgasm countdown to permanent chastity... in trying to get her pregnant I am now at 436.

That brings us to today!

Last night was the 19th of December. It was officially 2 months locked for me. I am only allowed unlocks for hygiene about 1-2 times a week or for medical emergencies. There is one exception to the no unlocks. I am allowed to be unlocked at the end of every month I am in chastity for my Goddess. During this unlock I am restrained so that I can not touch myself or have have any pleasure, and am made to watch my Goddess please herself with her toys which are all very large compared to me. This is a punishment for my attitudes and to remind me of my place in our FLR. She is in charge, I am her sub. She wants me to really remember who owns who.

Last night itself was incredible! I don't want to go into details because it's a bit personal. But I will say this. It started with her asking my thoughts after two months of being locked and pussyfree. As I started to answer by telling her how much I love being locked for her, she started playing with herself and looking into my eyes with such dominance and love. As I kept explaining my thoughts she kept going. (Gonna skip this part sorry lol) After watching her take something so much bigger than me, after watching her pull it out and seeing how stretched out she was compared to PIV sex with me. Hearing her moan. Watching her orgasm like that. Being completely denied and controlled by her. After being made to see just how superior my Goddess is to me. After two months of being locked. I can honestly say that I don't want to ever go back. Being hers is the greatest part of my life. Being locked for her and kept on edge all the time is astounding. I truly feel like the luckiest man on the planet. Seeing my Goddess belly grow knowing my twins are in there. Getting to be caged up for her and getting to fully submit to her has made me feel more fulfilled and happier than I ever have in my life. I feel more loved and closer to her than ever before. Our Intimacy has gotten even better. There's obviously been a bit of a change in how we make love, but I honestly feel closer to my Goddess than ever before.

I'm now 62 days locked and counting. My next unlock will either be Nov 1st, 2025 (if she decides to be lenient) or Nov 1st, 2026 (more likely tbh). That's either 316 days left or 681 lol. So wild. I feel like most guys would freak out being in my situation, but I am so happy. I wake up everyday and look down at my cage, smiling ear to ear, knowing that I get to serve the woman of my dreams. What an amazing life 🥰🔒🍓

Now that I've given you guys a small windows into my life, I'm curious about other couple's and other people's experiences with long term lock up and denial. Risks, conversations to be had with my KH, ideas for the future, and opinions from y'all about being locked for so long.

Tbh these last two months I've been spiraling lol. Kinda need a bit of support from people who have gone a year plus being locked, so any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks to everyone in this community, I really like this page and the advice I've gotten from people on here is probably what helped lead me to this point with my Wife/Goddess. You all are the best!

Well, that's it. And as always, Happy Locking, y'all! 🔒🍓

I was wondering what everyone else does for their pubic hair cause I shave like once a week but after only like 2-3 days when the hair starts to grow back it's uncomfortable against my cage, but if I don't shave the hairs seem to always wanna get caught when putting the cage back on after showering. So I was just wondering what other try/do to help with this problem.

Is this a thing Ladies, desperate for some HELP? In a strong marriage but looking to add something for my caged hubby. He’s mostly a good boy but I struggle with discipline and a structured FLR. Looking for a FEMALE ONLY dominatrix with benefits. A girlfriend if you will, to go shopping, have a drink, lunch/ dinner and discuss how to properly train him. We need someone with experience and is more comfortable with establishing the rules and laying down the law when he gets out of line every full months. No problem sharing the key or foot rubs. Please help….

Hey, if you want some context about my femdom relationship with my KH gf theres loads of posts I’ve made on my profile.

My annual physical exam for playing in college has just been scheduled for January next year and my gf has obviously agreed to unlock my cock.

We both trust each other but it will be strange to be unlocked without her supervision or without any teasing, edging or milking happening.

It also feels weird to have a day planned where I’ll be unlocked that my gf hasn’t rewarded me for being a good boy.

Are there any other scenarios where guys are unlocked other than normal? I can only really think of going through the security scanner at the airport.

I am looking for a store where I can purchase a chastity cage in Nebraska. I’ve looked around a couple of places in the Omaha area but I keep ending up with lingerie stores and no cage. I was wondering if there are any stores that sell cages in Omaha that I could look into.

Hey! I’ve made a post here previously asking for advice on locking my boyfriend for the first time which has gone really well! So thank you for that, his cage is comfy etc etc.

He’s had fun being locked, and I’ve had fun teasing him both verbally and physically. So far he’s worn it for a 6-10 hours of the day, I’ll let him take it off to use the bathroom and shower, and just some breaks which he’s appreciated.

He’s quite comfy and I think he could go an entire day without unlocking, I’m just unsure on the natural progression of when it’s time to stop unlocking for the bathroom, having him sleep in it (cuddling is so lovely with it).

I suppose I’m asking what the timeline of progression was for many of you? Many thanks again 🥰🥰🥰

I did start caging, I started like a week ago and only have worn my cage to school twice but it feels really awkward and like everyone is staring at it and its a decent bulge. Since I’m closeted its really my biggest fear of those finding out so it loses all of its attraction of being caged if all i can think about is the embarrassment. So i just reallt started to cage only at night for a few hours…

Hey frens you just got a cage and belt and don't know how to put on the belt? What you wanna do is put the base ring on, then get the biggest peice of the belt loop one side of the base ring with the studs wrap around your waist into the other side into the base ring. And if have butt support loop it at the bottom of the base ring, then pull through your legs to connect it back to your waist, on both sides. There ya go hope this helps

Every morning at work, it’s pretty cold and my balls want to hide away. Obviously they can’t cause of my cage, but what can I do about this? It almost seems like they start to hurt a little if they get too cold. Also, can’t the cold mess with your fertility?

New issue has come up: morning wood. I wear my cage and harness both day and night. Normally, getting an attempted erection doesn’t hurt but every morning, I wake up in serious pain and am forced to take the cage off. When I do, my shaft and balls are both worryingly blue and my morning wood like doesn’t go away and I can’t remove the ring until it does. Does that mean my ring is too tight? My balls aren’t cold otherwise and it’s only in the morning that they and the shaft turn blue. Also, what can I do about attempted morning wood hurting like crazy?

Hey y’all,

Been caged on and off for maybe 24 hours at a time. My partner is amazing and loves it when I’m caged but has been forced to leave me with the key in case my cage starts getting uncomfortable.

Ideally I would like to be caged for up to a week at a time without the possibility of unlocking.

The main issue is my cage can get pretty uncomfortable after a while. The size feels perfect but I have some chaffing under my balls.

I’m in a knock off cobra nano+ with a curved base ring. Been looking to upgrade maybe even down size to a real kink3d cobra or viper. Anyone have experience with chaffing? I use lube that helps a little. Also anyone have experience with the new viper cages? Do curved base rings cause chaffing

Ps. I would love any other recommendations a being a good chast submissive for my gf ;)

Hello everyone, I wanted to ask if anyone has a similar mentality to chastity. I started wearing it for mostly dom/sexual purposes. I have always felt more feminine than masculine despite being biologically male. Wearing a cage has made me feel feminine. It has taken a part of me and locked it up and made me feel like I am more feminine which makes me feel really good. This has been a bit of an unexpected effect but one that I am so happy with. Does anyone else have this feeling? Has anyone else made chastity cages more of a lifestyle that allows them to express their feminine side and feel closer to what identity they feel they truly are?

I'm curious, also how do you handle hygiene if you're not allowed / able to unlock? Is it possible? (Especially with the smaller or flat cages)

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I’ve been into chastity for at least 15 years. It was only until the last two years I got really dedicated.

I’ve spent the last year locked essentially 24/7 in a kink3d cobra, debating getting a MM Jailbird to solve a problem I have with the cobra, where the tip turtles behind the head trap portion even though the cage is shorter than my flaccid length.

That’s not the important question. I’m self locked. I’ve been trying to find a lady who would want to hold my keys, with no luck. I’ve been open to everything except paying online dommes, that’s just not a real connection.

Found some people to play with here and there but no luck with my hopes for finding a real relationship.

Is this all just a pipe dream? Should I even bother spending the money on a new cage?

It helped with my goal of quitting porn, thankful for that. At this point I’m having a hard time believing there are any women into this at all.

Maybe I’ll just go back to the vanilla dominant guy they all seem to want. That always worked for me.

Sigh.

Mostly the title. How do you navigate a relationship with chastity well when you and your partner are both submissive leaning?

My girlfriend and I were making strides forward when I suggested to her about locking me in chastity. We had a great initial conversation about it, sort of discussing why I would want something like that and some possible benefits for her. But we haven’t really talked about it since or moved further.

We both definitely lean towards being more submissive, and enjoy when the other takes control during sex a lot. However, we can also switch sometimes, particularly if it pleases the other person.

My question is: do any of you have that type of relationship dynamic where you prefer to be in chastity but your partner still loves penetrative sex and generally isn’t dominant in the bedroom? Where she’s timid about locking you up and also enjoys being dominated? What does that look like for you?

Any thoughts and experiences are appreciated! Thanks! Just looking for possible ways to make it work best for both of us