/r/chastityjourney

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This subreddit is for users to share and discuss their chastity journey, aswell as to give advice to those looking to start.

This subreddit is for users to share and discuss their chastity journey, aswell as to give advice to those looking to start.

/r/chastityjourney

8,235 Subscribers

19

I love self chastity. Been locked 40 days. Wife knows but very indifferent

4 Comments
2025/01/31
17:49 UTC

6

Want to cum so badly!

0 Comments
2025/01/31
17:05 UTC

17

Who's currently locked?

This is a weekly scheduled post.

Feel free to share more details in the comments if you wish.

22 Comments
2025/01/31
17:00 UTC

4

My Journey - The delivery [Part 3]

Intro (skip if you have read Day-1): My partner (u/toront-hoe420) and I (both late-20s/early-30s) have decided to expand our sexual relationship to be more kink-related. My intention is to blog this transition for all to read. The hope of gaining advice and keeping me honest on this path.

The big Delivery came and we were both very excited. u/toront-hoe420 was in work when the packages came but immediately demanded I open it and lock myself up and send her proof.

I of course obliged. Squeezing my little dick into the new bright pink cage and locking it shut and sending the evidence as required.

I also took one of the new butt plugs and fed it into me - it was so much bigger that my 1st plug but it eventually went in.

There I was standing there, naked, locked and plugged - thinking about how less than a week ago none of this was like this, and that the future will only look and feel more like this.

I put my clothes back on and went about my day - feeling the restraint of the cage, feeling the plug as my ass tried to unsuccessful fight it.

When u/toront-hoe420 got back from work, I was cooking dinner, she came straight in and passionately kissed me, one hand holding my head, the other grabbing the cage. Instantly it made me try and get hard - the cage did it's job and put an end to that.

After we had stopped kissing, the 1st thing she said was "were are my keys?" I directed her to the keys on the table which she lifted and pocketed before acting like nothing had happened, asking about what was for dinner etc.

After dinner we had sex similar to how we have been. This time I was plugged and locked - giving her head and using Tyrone (the dildo) until she orgasmed all over him and all over my face.

The cage was beginning to irritate so she released me for the night - we agreed that it would require similar training to the plug, few hours every day, getting longer each day, until I got used to it. We went to bed with her cum still drying on my face and the taste in my mouth.

A few days prior, u/toront-hoe420 had showed me reddit pages for rating cocks - I have become some what addicted to it.

The next morning after our 1st night of sex in cage, she allowed me to cum but I could only wank myself to pictures of dicks whilst I rated them. I came such a big load to an alpha, hung, thick cock - we even talked about the cock and how perfect it was.

After I cummed, she locked me again...

Conclusion: It's dawning on me now that in the not so distance future, I could be permanently locked and getting all my sexual pleasure from worshipping u/toront-hoe420 and getting my ass fucked. I feel like this should be scaring me but I am excited. Hopefully you found this entry interesting. Always appreciate any feedback/advice Would be keen to know of any other reddits that you would recommend posting my story to!

2 Comments
2025/01/31
12:35 UTC

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Next Release/orgasm

So my wife/Queen/KH told me today in a text that today was going to me the next time that she was going to let me out of the cage and give me and orgasm which the last one was 17 days ago. Which she picked because she has a spinner app that she uses for picking my next release date, and even how she will give me the orgasm, and one for punishments. 17 as of right now has been the longest I have gone without having an orgasm or cumming since starting Chastity over two months ago. Tonight also in the text she told me that because I asked if she would like to wait and let me cum for her on Valentines Day as a special treat for her and me she told me because of me asking and that I didn’t like her decide that outcome that she is now going to to keep me locked up until February 14 with no stoking me for edging, no touching my caged cock, or my balls by her and I will not be allowed to cum now until Valentine’s Day! That will be a new personal record for me ever going over 33 days locked and not allowed to cum. Now with her not touching me I know I will be begging for her touch by then and needing to cum so bad! I can’t wait to see how much I shoot out for her on the 14th now. Thanks for reading my post!

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2025/01/31
06:38 UTC

4

Solo chastity

Its getting bored in solo chastity. Can anyone advise how to make it more entertaining and more horny to enjoy. I am in 24*7 chastity but its getting mundane. Need some guidance.

0 Comments
2025/01/31
04:10 UTC

3

From jerking, to locked, to inverted, to busting what’s left. What a progression

0 Comments
2025/01/31
04:09 UTC

2

#TBT for TBT (Throw back Thursday for Tall But Tiny)! My hubby in his first cage, the ole CB6000, back when we first starting playing around with chastity. As you can see he greatly overestimated his size when he bought it. The small lock is hiding is entire tiny penis - which I now call a clit!

0 Comments
2025/01/30
21:51 UTC

11

Almost 3 weeks!!!

Been locked for almost 3 weeks, I think it's time to learn to sissygasm!!

0 Comments
2025/01/30
19:00 UTC

1

What would say to someone wanting to start chastity?

This is a weekly scheduled post.

1 Comment
2025/01/30
12:00 UTC

6

I think I’ve finally broken it

14 Comments
2025/01/30
04:06 UTC

6

Balls so full starting to hide the cage

0 Comments
2025/01/29
16:46 UTC

4

My story so far

This is my story so far. I'd love to know if any of it resonates with anyone else.

I would describe myself as a chronic masturbator, and have reached the stage where I want to exercise some discipline over my habit.

I have enjoyed playing with my cock for as long as I remember, and I recall times when I was very young being told by my father and my grandfather to “stop playing with yourself”. Later on, when I was about 11, my father walked in on me as I was feeling myself in the bath. He didn’t say anything at the time, but a few days later, when I dropped something that we were lifting together, he made a comment that “all that wanking in the bath” was making me weak. He would also occasionally make comments about teenage boys needing to wear boxing gloves in bed, and make knowing remarks about “what you get up to”.

I sometimes wonder if attempts to discourage me from masturbating began earlier. My mother once told me that I had rubbed my penis between my thighs as a baby, and also told me that the family doctor was very keen to get me circumcised. I don’t remember that doctor, as he was an old man who retired in the early 1970s when I was still a toddler. I do occasionally wonder if he was the last of that generation of doctors who thought that masturbation was something that needed to be cured, and circumcision was the way to cure it. My brothers, younger than me, were not circumcised as we had a different doctor by the time they were born.

And so I spent my teens masturbating frequently, and sometimes compulsively, and feeling desperately guilty about it. Discovering the invention of devices to cure it fascinated and aroused me in equal measure.

I read Alex Comfort’s book 'The Anxiety Makers' in a university library in the early 90s. I had gone looking for it after seeing it referred to in Brian Easlea’s ‘Science and Sexual Oppression’ and Reay Tannahill’s ‘Sex in History’. Both of those had shown illustrations of Victorian anti-masturbation devices which I had found arousing.

Over the years, I have tried making my own devices. I once fashioned a spiked penis ring (in imitation of the Victorian ones illustrated in those books) using part of a cardboard tube, some ribbon and some drawing pins. Tying that round my cock made me very hard, and the pain caused by the pins was both agonising and wonderful! I’ve had a lot of fun with jockstraps with hard cups, and enjoy the feeling of my cock being held securely inside the cup.

Whilst the fantasy of being locked is one I have carried around for years, I only discovered that modern devices were available when stumbling across something on the internet about 10 years ago. Since then I have looked at images of such things regularly, but have only recently dared to buy one. I bought a cheap steel one. The first time I locked it on I was trembling with anticipation, and got such a thrill from looking in the mirror and seeing my cock locked up. However, I can’t wear it for long, as it is rather visible under clothes, and at night it wakes me up as the ring pulls at my balls each time I begin to get an erection.

Part of me would love to try a full belt, if only to know what that feels like. I suspect it would be more comfortable than a ball clamp device. Recently, I've discovered 'Behind Barz' devices, which seem to have good reviews. I have now booked a session at the Chastity Station at Behind Barz. I don't know if I will buy a device or not, but it will be fascinating to try one.  

0 Comments
2025/01/29
15:45 UTC

1

Quality aluminum cage manufacturers? Sorry for the cross post

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2025/01/29
03:34 UTC

6

Another day locked in chastity paradise!

My wife said I’ve posted enough clitty pics lately, so she locked me in an inverted pink cage today! My teeny, tiny clitty is now back being all snug & secure! Aargh! It’s not fair mommy!

0 Comments
2025/01/29
00:08 UTC

11

Balls are beginning to fill quite nicely

0 Comments
2025/01/28
14:02 UTC

4

Edging with time

I lean more towards being asexual I don't find pleasure in physical sexual behaviors like most people do, I'm not including the feeling of being locked in a chastity cage in my description of "physical sexual behaviors".

I enjoy chastity in a different way compared to others. instead of the standing idea of "edging" I enjoy the concept I can only describe as "edging with time" I asked AI to help me explain it better.

"Edging with time" means getting as close as possible to the point where my lock timer would end, or where I’d be released, without actually reaching that point. It's about managing the timer in such a way that the release feels just within reach—but it’s always drawn out a little longer. This creates a constant anticipation of freedom without actually achieving it.

While wearing a chastity cage, this mental 'edging' mirrors the physical concept of delaying climax. I aim to push myself to endure for as long as possible without giving in to release. It’s a psychological challenge where the focus is on resisting the urge and staying in control, with the added twist of time manipulation making it feel like the end is always near—but never quite there."

For me I like the idea of my timer constantly be less than 24 hours, even down to less than 10 mins before time is added. The idea of playing with time is a mental stimulus that physical stimulus doesn't provide.

0 Comments
2025/01/28
03:37 UTC

6

Day 1

1 Comment
2025/01/27
22:25 UTC

2

It’s a little cold

0 Comments
2025/01/27
18:16 UTC

13

Love getting fucked by my inverted cage at work

0 Comments
2025/01/27
14:54 UTC

6

My Journey - The following days [Part 2]

Intro (skip if you have read Day-1): My partner (u/toront-hoe420) and I (both late-20s/early-30s) have decided to expand our sexual relationship to be more kink-related. My intention is to blog this transition for all to read. The hope of gaining advice and keeping me honest on this path.

The following days: We continued having sex in similar ways to the last post - me giving her head, sometimes with Tyrone (our large black dildo),sometimes without.

I have the small plug in for approx 3 hours a day - it has definitely gotten easier to put in and is comfortable.

I suggested the idea of creating a reddit and creating this blog - she was supportive and even chose my reddit name - the same night, I posted "Day-1"

On Saturday after she once again came over my face, she had me turn around and began using her hand to fuck me with the plug. This kept going until my legs where like jelly and I couldn't feel the plug coming in or out.

We talked about other parts of our life we want to improve, mainly dieting and exercise (I'll talk about this more below).

On Sunday, I took photos of her (u/toront-hoe420) for her to post on Reddit - check them out :).

The plug felt different - on day 1 it was painful going in and keeping it in, now only after 4 days, it slides in easily and I struggle to keep it coming out. I can't wait for the week ahead to get my next plug.

My goal is to make myself the best version of myself for taking cock - to do this I believe I need to loose weight (I am currently overweight) and become skinny. I also want to become more flexible so I can be fucked in various positions.

Having looked online I found some posts/advice that aligned with my vision - I feel these can be split into 3 categories - diet, flexibility (yoga) and exercise

Diet Plan:

  • have a calorie deficit - I'm setting my total calories at 1800 per day
  • High Fibre and high protein
  • Avoid junk food, red meat and diary
  • drink 3 litres of water a day
  • fruit and veg focused diet

Flexibility (yoga) Plan: Split into 2 alternating days - blue and green days. Each stretch being held for 30-45seconds: Blue days:

  • Figure-4 stretch
  • Laying quad stretch
  • Forward fold
  • Sphinx pose
  • Calf stretch
  • Lunge with spinal twist

Green days:

  • Seated shoulder squeeze
  • Reclining spinal twist
  • Knee-to-chest stretch
  • Happy baby pose
  • Extended puppy pose
  • Frog stretch

Exercise: Similiar to previous - split into 2 days - each exercise I will do 3 sets of 10. On top of this, I will do sit-ups everyday Blue days:

  • Globet squat
  • Leg lift
  • Bird dog
  • Standing glute kickback
  • Single leg hip-bridge
  • press ups

Green days:

  • Glute bridge
  • Fire hydrant
  • jump squats
  • donkey kick
  • forward lunge

Metrics: To track my progress - I want to focus on the following metrics:

  • using an app to track my calories
  • my weight - starting weight: 126.2kg
  • circumference of my body:
    • around nipples - starting size: 116cm
    • around belly-button - starting size: 121cm
    • around waist - starting size:114cm
    • around butt - starting size: 120cm

Conclusion: Excited for this week when our new toys arrive and I can be plugged/locked for longer.
Hopefully you found this entry interesting. Always appreciate any feedback/advice Would be keen to know of any other reddits that you would recommend posting my story to!

2 Comments
2025/01/27
14:33 UTC

11

Don't forget why we do this

Unrestricted video game time for the kids and Jenn and I having a sofa date complete with charcuterie, faux candies (who needs the soot), a cat, and a cheesy rom-com.

1 Comment
2025/01/27
03:17 UTC

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