My fiance wants to lock me on the night of our wedding. It turns me on as well. What are some things and rituals that we can incorporate in our daily lives regarding chastity.

We currently have the following 1- I will do all the house chores naked and locked 2- Whenever we visit her parents or her friends come over I will be locked 3- Cinema dates will be locked 4- She will always wear the key on display and be vague about its representation if someone answers 5- Fucking my ass Everytime with her new heels she buys

She initially plans to unlock me on our first anniversary for PIV sex.

Please tell us more fun and sexy activities with chastity and femdom for our marriage, and any ideas of how can I be of more service to my mistress/wife

From the start of my short experience with chastity, (around 8 years between playing, self locking, and giving control to my wife) most of the outside stimulus I see related to chastity leans on a beta male dynamic… I personally do not resemble that.

I want to remind everyone that is experimenting with or embracing chastity: this is YOUR journey. You DO NOT have to follow everything you see or hear or read about…

A little background with me: I work in the heavy equipment/construction industry. I have progressed from turning wrenches to currently product support/operator training/technical assistance. I am the primary bread winner in my wife and I’s marriage. When I’m not working for my employer, I am repairing heavy equipment on the side (self employed), farming (beef cattle), or taking care of our property.

I have never in our chastity journey expressed the desire to become a ‘beta’ anything. I am not into feminization. I am not into diminishing my masculinity.

I did express desire to put my wife first in our marriage. I want to worship her. I want to put her needs before my own. I want her to hold the keys to my sexuality. I want every sexual experience I have to be with her and only her.

She also is not interested in diminishing my masculinity. She loves that I am a strong, masculine guy. She knows I would go to hell and back for her, and chastity has only strengthened this bond.

Chastity for us is just a way to keep my desire on a chain. The only time I am allowed release, it is on her terms and is enjoyed only between us.

What I’m trying to say, is don’t listen to the masses, social media, or any other chastity stigma out there. If you’re on the fence about it, remember that there is no rule book. This lifestyle can be incorporated and used in an infinite number of ways.

You can be locked and be a beta. You can be locked and be a sissy. You can be locked and manifest any kind of personality you prefer.. OR, you can be locked and still be a manly, alpha male.

Just food for thought…

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I've self locked for quite a while now. My partner isn't interested in chastity at all so I've had to do it on my own in secret. It's not up for debate as it's been a hard point that she's not into it. I regularly lock up and we still have sex so there's a balance. I have a 2 week stint coming up of pure night shifts so I won't be home much nor expect to have sex during that time so I'm going to attempt 2 weeks of pure lock up. I've been edging multiple times to make it as agonizing as possible

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Snuggling with the wife and she pointed out that my balls were prickly from the close trim that I'd done with a home body groomer trimmer. She jokingly said "We should send you to get waxed," and the thought has been living in my head since then.

A few points I've considered here, and I'd love insight from anyone who has partaken in such things:

1. I assume there are shops that will do the male equivalent of a Brazilian, but that I probably have to call first to confirm. Is that what I ask for?
2. Chastity shouldn't be mentioned or worn at all - as far as they're concerned I'm a regular dude, not involving them in my kinks at all.
3. How does recovery mesh with cage wearing? I'm gonna assume you can't lock up the instant you're done, but how has that gone for guys who have done this?
4. I'm slightly worried about erections, since I'm also a CBT perv along with chastity (although mostly ball busting, so who knows how it carries over). Everything I've read says essentially "we're professionals, we know it happens, don't be inappropriate or touch/mention it, and it's fine."
5. Anything else I'm not considering here that chastity waxers think I should know.

Insight please!

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I bought a little pink cage to use and it came in today. I Usually jerk off a bunch everyday, so I thought I would try chastity. I've seen a bunch of clips of women making men cum without any stimulation to their dick. I thought these were very hot, especially ones where they stroked a dildo next to their locked up dick. I finally got my cage on after having to take a warm shower and finagle it. I knew I wanted to frustrate myself by watching porn if i was going to stay in for a while. I started watching some chastity porn where the woman was making a guy cum without touching. I was stroking a dildo near my cage. To my surprise I was able to make myself cum with no stimulation like this in about 20 minutes with zero days built up. I feel so pathetic but it's so hot. I had to take my cage off to clean, and I think I might need a different one for more long term comfortability. Maybe chastity is right for me if im able to cum with no stimulation on day 1.

I'm caged and in a long distance relationship. She has asked me to stay caged so she can unlock me.

Just wondering if any of you have received or have any ideas for chastity themed gifts?

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