Looking for bit of advise and insight

1.) I want to order a cage with a Pa that is 4g(5mm). 1a.) can I get him pierced starting at 4g? If not what is the largest? 1b.) Is 5mm the most secure, comfortable size?

2.) How did things change after? 2a.) Subs; How did you feel once you realised you really couldn’t get out? Is it different to normal chastity? Also did you notice a change in your self? Did you start to feel more submissive? 2b.) Dom’s; how did you feel when you first got him locked in that totally secure cage? Did the relationship evolved? Did you notice a change in your sub?

Thanks :)

As some of you know from r/chastitytraining, I've become enamoured with shaft-only chastity. So, instead of posting periodically over there about shaft-only cages, I thought I'd just make a subreddit: r/ShaftOnlyChastity.

I've spent so much time trying to help people find a way to be comfortable in a ball-trap device. But the best and easiest advice is to ditch the damn ring. "How do I stop the ring from pulling away?", "My balls feel like they are doing to be ripped out of my sac", "I can't get my cage to stop slipping", "My balls are changing color", "What strap should I get". Every one of these problems just vanish. Gone. Never have to think about them again. Ever.

Since getting my device in early January, it has become my daily driver. I have a box full of really nice cages I'll only seldom wear again. And why would I want to? Why did I get into chastity? Was it to wear a cock ring 24x7? Was it to watch my cock try to push the cage away from my body? No. It was to give my wife control of my orgasms. Everything else was a bug, not a feature.

Now I have whittled down chastity to only what is necessary. Jenn absolutely loves having access to my shaft again. Hell, I love her having access to my shaft again.

If you're interested, please come by and help me build a community.

Hey. TLDR, what's best way to secure the front to prevent pull out, a hook type or padlock/locking jewerelly ?

So we've played with chastity a little, my Mrs is currently playing along. I have several cheap knock off cages that I've tried but not yet got the one. I'd love something like the Queens Keep or the jail bird from Mature Metal but Mrs doesn't want me to spend that much on one, although I've probably spent near enough on all the cheaper cages. The thing is I took wouldn't want spend that much on one when I could quite easily pull out the back as a grower. No I don't have the self control not too and I love edging myself to porn , I can still satisfy her as well anyway and she's not that bothered anyways. So I want a comfortable way to secure a cage to prevent pull out. I've previously had a PA prior to getting more into chastity but it was short lived as it "grossed" the Mrs out both the jewellery and the hole. I've tried a teatherspout that I haven't shown the Mrs yet as I think she'll be grossed out as much if not more so by this. I'm considering trying a glans armour type , I've tried making my own with a silicone ring and using cable tie to zip tie to cage but not managed to find a comfortable fit. She has previously mentioned a surface piercing type wouldn't be as bad so I'm thinking frenum .

What's the best way to secure a piercing /teatherspout ? Is a hook of some description fixed to the cage or some kind of jewellery /lock better? I have tried a PA lock and a normal small padlock at the end of the teatherspout and also locked or threaded through the cage but it always ends up pinching painfully . I have seen the locking nut that badass workshop do and I did see one jewellery captive ring that had a security screw so it could be locked on place that seems to lock on tight without any movement

Hi all

My wife is keen for me to get something more permanent and inescapable for my chastity.

From what I understand there are different types of PA piercing. I am curious on the different methods of securing a chastity If there are any? And the pros and cons?

What is the most comfortable and practical for long term use?

If there is only one usual method, do I tell the person doing my piercing what I am getting it done for or is that irrelevant?

Does anyone have a reversed PA and in chastity? Does this piecing allow for you to pee standing up without any issues? With this piecing, you can't pull out still, correct? I was looking at the BSWR cages with the reversed PA hook, but wanted to know others experience. Thanks

Testing this out to see how it goes. This is the first time I’ve been able to wear a cage since I was pierced.

8ga titanium curved barbell; m&m end inside the cage; ball on the other end; pink Kink3D N+ (a tight fit)

I hope I tightened the ball enough. It was difficult holding the bar with the cage on.

Here’s my BA-33 I got a few weeks ago. I’ve tried all the popular ones, but I could never find a ball trap device that worked for me, so I went with a head cage secured by my PA. Most comfortable cage by miles.

Hey all, I know BAWR currently states 8-12 weeks production time on their website, but I'm assuming that's wildly optimistic. I'm at ~8 weeks waiting on a new BA-28, and I'm really not expecting to hear anything for a couple more months.

I'm just curious if anyone has gotten one recently and how long it took, or if there's been any communication with BAWR about their current production time.

I am watching the thread on Chastity Mansion about this topic, but figured it'd be worth asking here too.

For a kink that really stresses the virtue of patience, waiting on a new cage to arrive feels more frustrating than anything else right now lol.

I've started taking measurements for a Badass Workroom cage and I would appreciate any advice on accurately measuring the PA depth. Any advice for S shape PA hooks for the uncircumcised?

Greetings,

Zach

Hey all. I've been wearing chastity cages for almost 15 years now and I really would like to eventually get a piercing so I can't "pull out". When I am locked, I don't ever pull out anyway, I have good self control, but I would LOVE to not even have the option if possible. I currently have a custom Mature Metal Jail bird that fits me perfectly. I can pee standing up 100% of the time, and don't EVER have to sit. With that being said, everyone that I talk about says that a PA will cause you to not be able to stand when peeing. This is a huge deciding factor for me due to my jobs.
I've been told that a Frenum piecing would allow me to still be able to pee standing up and give me the security I am looking for. But I've also seen others say that its too thin skin for a chastity cage. I am looking at a BSWR cage. Once I find one that works for me, I don't buy a bunch of different cages. So as long it works, I'm good with just one.
I guess my questions are, will a frenum piecing work for long term chastity and give me the security I am looking for safely? Also, is there any other piecing's that will allow me to pee standing up that are a better option?

thank you