I'm nervous as hell LOL. But I've thought about this for at least 5 years now, the thought will never go away until I actually do it. Wish me luck 😶‍🌫️

Questions:

1. I've noticed that PA piercings are placed either on the left or right side of the frenulum. Is there any preference for which side is better to pierce, depending on if you're left or right handed?

2. How far back from the head should it be placed? I think my main concern is long-term comfort, especially with a PA cage

3. Is it better to be hard or soft during the piercing? I'm very much a grower, not a shower 💀 I wanted a male piercer, but I waited for over a month, and the male who does piercings at my local shop almost never has avaailablty. So I'm going with a female piercer instead. She has lots of experience but admittedly I'm awkward. But in terms of ease of piercing, which way is better (hard or soft)?

Edit: I survived!

It hurt like a MOTHERFUCKER though... whoever said "it's just a pinch" is lying 😂

Don't regret it though

Does anyone have experiences regarding Holy Trainer V4 with PA extension? On pictures it looks like just a wire fixed to the top, which would be kinda disappointing imo. I was thinking of getting one, but I'd rather know if the PA extension is worth it beforehand. ^^

My friend checking the cage before sex.

My measuring, with which I was in fact, very careful, may have been a bit over generous. We will see how much of a problem this is when I stop thinking about it as much and things revert to their idle state

But going from a four gauge ring to a two gauge through-tube piercing was no problem

First time caged after getting pierced. Feels good

I just got pierced 3 days ago with a 6 gauge and I just have a few questions.

1. When I got pierced the person who did it recommended it to be slightly off center, has anyone else heard that before?

2. How long does the soreness typically last?

3. How long before you used a chastity cage with a princess Albert attachment?

4. Do you guys think 6 gauge is ok for longterm chastity use?

5. Is there any other tips and tricks or warnings you could give me?

I appreciate whatever advise you guys give!

Hello I am about ready to order my bawr cage with a PA hook since my piercing if finally healing/healed( far enough along that I figure it should be good by time it’s done) I’m wondering if anyone has any tips on measuring for a Pa hook length or if I’d be better suited to get one of the locking curved bars they do? With the bar I wonder if the locking mechanism will be in the way for using the restroom more than the hook but I think it will be better for pinch or pulling. Any help would be great thanks! I am at an 8G currently.

Hey there!

I've been enjoying chastity for a while but my KH and me want to make it more secure with a piercing. I have a few questions:

1. How much does it hurt?
2. When can I wear a chastity device?
3. How do I stretch the piercing? By "overstretching" it with a sound or just by putting in a larger diameter piercing after some time?
4. I'm uncircumcised and many people say that uncircumcised piercing will be bad or not even possible - how are your experiences there?
5. I'm a bit worried that it will irritate my urethra - I tried sounding a few times and it always stung afterwards when urinating - did I do something wrong or could my urethra be sensitive to contact and could that also happen with a piercing?
6. Some people say that a pa piercing was the best decision they ever made, others tell horror storys about nerve damage and people fainting when getting the piercing - what about that?

I hope you can answer my questions and help me with my decision and get rid of my worries ;)

Best regards :)

EDIT: Can you recommend any good beginner cages for uncircumcised people?

32 mm diameter. Pin 9 mm. Very comfortable and light weight. Suits me well when it’s colder weather! A little tight in hot weather, so have ordered a 34 mm too! The hollow pin (not in the picture) allows me to stand when peeling - which is nice - had to sit since i was pierced a few years ago!

https://www.reddit.com/r/chastity/s/1QR3sGFs3u

Not allowed to crosspost so I linked op. Basically I'm getting some pulling or something and it's damaged the urethra. Bawrpro doesn't really ask for pin height just length. Do you think bending the pin upward would help?

I am well aware that literally everyone recommends waiting 12 weeks or more to start wearing a cage following a pa piercing. Not trying to get into that debate. However, I don’t want to do that. To me this Seems like after a week of no cage this would work, it would not irritate the piercing, and even act to protect it. I was thinking getting it a little big so it wouldn’t be squeezing or anything. This would allow for chastity to continue while healing and not needing to take a 3 month break. Does anyone see any issues in my logic here or have experience doing this or with a different type of cage? Picture is the type of cage I am referencing.