/r/ChastityChat

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The subreddit for people in chastity to find others in chastity. Post any discussion you have for the community or request personal chats with others.

/r/ChastityChat

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Hey i hope this post fits here

i was locked up and have to give up control to others.

https://chaster.app/sessions/gaCD0r7FIOt5Lxrt

Do whatevery you want. Chat me up is you like :3

0 Comments
2024/12/01
12:21 UTC

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Online key keeper

Hope it's correct flair Hello everyone, I am a man locked in a cage for my wife, but I really want to hold another guy’s key in the same way. decide how long he should be in the cage, perhaps set a few rules, come up with a couple of funny punishments. if you want this you can write to me in chat

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2024/11/28
20:25 UTC

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Would love a cage recommendation with a large ball gap

As the title suggests I have a large sack and this causes many issues with circulation on most normal cages a custom is In the running but I just don't know what brand to go. Would love some assistance 😊

3 Comments
2024/11/25
05:18 UTC

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I want an IRL chastity friend SO BAD 😭😭😭

I'm looking for ppl that would just like to chat about whatever is going on involving chastity or anything else in their lives!!! I want a proper friend instead of just a rp or dirty talk partner who i only talk to for 1 night... I want more then that! Besides isn't anything hornier when your doing it with a friend?

7 Comments
2024/11/21
03:10 UTC

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What’s the female psychology around this

I’m about to get locked up. I kinda understand my needs around this. However I haven’t figured out where it’s exactly is coming from. But I’m wondering what women get out of this in general.

My wife is seeing all kinds of new cuck opportunities. She is not so much in feminisation, actually she hates that idea. Also I read about women who are not into cuckolding and have no other men to satisfy them. I would love to understand the dynamic better.

3 Comments
2024/11/19
19:13 UTC

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Winter/cold frustrations help.

I need someone’s assistance/advice and I didn’t really know what else to title it. I still consider myself fairly new to this even though I’ve been locked off & on for about a year now. But what I struggle with the most is that during the winter or when it’s cold, sometimes one of my balls will pop out of the ring due to shrinkage, it’s very uncomfortable. I never properly measured for my cage, a friend of mine had some extras and we just used what fit. Is this a cage/ring are the wrong size kinda issue?

2 Comments
2024/11/18
16:14 UTC

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18 looking to get into chastity

I need help because I’ve never done this, some tips and pointers would be greatly appreciated.

3 Comments
2024/11/14
03:04 UTC

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Becoming a man's wife with Chastity

I think that's what I want. I want to wear Chastity and live a life as a husband and wife with an alpha man. Not just sexually but in general. I would like to have a permanent husband and wife relationship including cooking, cleaning etc. at home. What do you think? Do you also have similar requests?

2 Comments
2024/11/13
23:21 UTC

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Cage length advice

Hi All Me and my hubby are trying chastity for about 3 months and on selection of cage we are facing issues We are planning to get a cobra cage as existing bird cage is too bulky to weak outdoors. What will be the cage length to select for a flacid penies size of 3.2". We don't have any plan for down sizing in future and planning to wear outdoors is the main purpose of this purchase. Anyone can give some suggestions on this?

8 Comments
2024/11/13
02:31 UTC

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Looking for a keyholder

I want to hsve my first ever keyholder

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2024/11/10
08:17 UTC

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Looking for a casual keyholser

Still somewhat new to chastity and my longest lockup was a week at the start of locktober. Hoping to be locked for longer in NNN. Just want someone to do an occasional cage check, maybe a little sph to keep me reminded why I'm locked. DM me if you're interested

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2024/11/10
07:49 UTC

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What is the best way to tell your girlfriend you want to be locked up and share what chastity is?

I’ve been into self chastity for a while on and off for the past few years. My gf knows I’ve done it before but isn’t very knowledgeable on the subject or know what it is. I want it implemented into my relationship but don’t know the best way to bring it up. Any advice?

3 Comments
2024/11/10
01:33 UTC

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Christmas Present

This year For Christmas I have decided to buy a chastity cage and turn over complete control of my cock to my girlfriend. She has expressed a want to be more dominant and I believe she will make a great femdom. Bdsm has always been my kink but not necessarily my girlfriends, but as time has gone on she has began to take more interest in it. We've had conversations about kinky femdom stuff and I can see how it excites her. We have been together for almost 10 years now.

Lately she has been extra busy at work and having extra amount of stress. And just had her in a bad mood and in a funk of not wanting to have sex lately. I have been eating her out and making her cum twice a day or more to help feel more relaxed at work and at home. So I bought this chastity about a month ago and have been wearing it to work everyday and getting used to doing things with it on, so I can prepare for turning over the keys on Christmas and giving her control of my orgasms.

Well like I said she has been extra stressed lately and could use something to really cheer her up.

On my lunch break from work I came home and she was venting about some work drama and was really irritated. She giving me a hug and saying she wish she had a Christmas present to open early to cheer her up.

So I said to her I have a Christmas present right now she could open. I pulled down my pants revealing my caged cock to her. Her eyes lit up and a smile came across her face, she was giggling and sooo excited. I pulled the keys out of my pocket and gave them to her. I told her present this year was to give her complete control of my cock and my orgasms to her.

Sooo...... it's no longer mine, I have no more control of my cock. I'm as excited as she is to see how this can of worms I am opening will end up. It's gonna be Soo much fun. I think.

Any tips, advice, or suggestions you have for a first time chastity relationship would love to hear about it. I'm new to chastity and will be caged basically 24/7 moving forward. Any suggestions for cages that work well for long term use would be nice.

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2024/11/08
05:47 UTC

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Caged and bored

I’m at home. Caged, bored, and a little drunk. I’m new to chastity but looking to chat about it. Or something else. No need to ask; just DM me.

0 Comments
2024/11/07
20:47 UTC

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ive been caged for 200+ days

from someone experienced what would be the beat cage for me im 1.5 inch soft and 3 inches when im hard 🤪

2 Comments
2024/11/05
16:13 UTC

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Viper S+ or Comfyne - I'm un-cut

I'm finally going to bite the bullet and buy a premium cage...

What do un-cut guys recommend out of these two?

0 Comments
2024/11/05
08:57 UTC

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Solutions / ideas for being a parent and getting partner interested.

I'll start with the question's:

  • What arrangements do you and your significant other have around chastity (particularly interested in responses from family people)

  • how did you manage to get your partner from un-intrested into being very into it?

We have dabbled with chastity over the years with nothing ever coming of it with my fiancée actually being the key holder.

She likes the idea of me not being able to watch porn and have fun by myself when she isn't in the house but the look of the devices and having the key on show etc does nothing for her sexually.

I'd love for her to be more into it but she worries too much, mainly if the kids were to spot it or accidentally touch it and start asking questions, or if in an emergency I couldn't take it off... I know there are solutions with me having a key in an envelope so she would know if I've opened it etc... but I just wondered if anyone else has had similar issues and what solutions have you found?

And before people say they would never know, there are situations as a parent where it could be awkward... Ie taking your 4 year old to the toilets when you also need to go (there is always a chance they would look or ask, why are you sitting down etc...)

1 Comment
2024/11/04
10:44 UTC

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Decide for me!

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2024/11/02
02:34 UTC

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Permanent Chastity Fantasies as a vers top

So as the title suggests. Curious to see how many people out there also share the fantasy of permanent chastity but still really enjoy topping (and not just with a strap on). Its so contradictory, and it annoys me.

Permanent chastity and shrinkage turns me on so much but I don't i'll be able to ever give up my cock though.

Anyone else here share my struggles and frustrations?

3 Comments
2024/11/01
03:03 UTC

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Sleeping in chastity

Yesterday was the first night that I was supposed to wear the cage, I woke up middle of the night with my testicles and my left leg totally numb, I immediately woke up my wife and took it off. Honestly we are a little worried by this, is this normal? I started with a 54mm ring, then change it to a 51mm and it feels more tight , should I change it back to 54mm?

2 Comments
2024/10/31
18:00 UTC

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Want to chat 😋

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2 Comments
2024/10/31
06:48 UTC

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My gland pokes out of my flat chastity

I'm circumcised and my gland is poking out of the middle (it has a buttlerfly sillouete) and it's uncomfortable, any help?

0 Comments
2024/10/29
17:38 UTC

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24 [NB4F] Tease me in my flat cage

I'm currently locked in my flat cage (self locked) and want to get reeeeally horny while I have it on! My chat is open for anyone (NOT MEN) and I really, really want to get super teased. Like, do not be merciful with how tight you make my cage or how achy you make my balls.

I have a fair amount of kinks and fetishes so we can chat about those too!

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2024/10/24
13:42 UTC

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Ring size

Hi, I kind of new so I'm wondering if the size of the ring needed changes over time as the cage part may. Any thoughts?

1 Comment
2024/10/22
21:53 UTC

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New cage suggestions

Hi all, I've had a few cages over the years and never found the right fit. There appears to be a lot of new designs on the marked this year...

Painted plastic tents to cause skin reaction for me, and metal are quite bulky for everyday.

Does anyone have some good suggestions for everyday use?

4 Comments
2024/10/22
09:24 UTC

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24 [NB4F] make my flat cage tighter please?

I'm currently locked in my flat cage (self locked)and want to get reeeeally horny while I have it on! My chat is open for anyone (NOT MEN) and I really, really want to get super teased. Like, do not be merciful with how tight you make my cage or how achy you make my balls.

I have a fair amount of kinks and fetishes so we can chat about those too!

0 Comments
2024/10/22
02:31 UTC

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24 [NB4F] Looking to be teased in my flat cage

I'm waiting for my vibrator to charge but I'm currently locked in my flat cage (self locked)and want to get reeeeally horny while I have the house to myself. My chat is open for anyone (NOT MEN) and I really, really want to get super teased. Like, do not be merciful with how tight you make my cage or how achy you make my balls.

0 Comments
2024/10/20
16:00 UTC

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Any one want to cadge me

26 male

0 Comments
2024/10/19
22:32 UTC

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How to tell partner I want to try chastity

I know this is the million dollar question, but how do you pluck up the courage to tell your partner you want to try chastity? I’ve wanted to tell my wife for years, but when I try to talk about this, I go from self confident to tongue tied idiot.

Part of me just wants to lock myself up and let her find out during sexy time, but I know this is probably a horrible idea. However, this is how I have managed to introduce other toys to our relationship, so I guess it might work?

13 Comments
2024/10/19
08:39 UTC

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Just got caged

Well My queen wants me in chastity So here goes Already am leaking like crazy

5 Comments
2024/10/18
23:06 UTC

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