Way back in May for this year I decided to visit an ABDL store that was about a 45 mins away from me. I went with my supportive friend but I kinda chickened out and didn't buy anything cause I felt weird with my friend watching. I'm going back today to actually get some pamps and I feel embarrassed as shit, but here I go, I'm a big girl!!!

Which do you prefer when referring to someone who wears? Personally I feel it's more playful sounding to say, "I wear diapers to bed at night", whereas "I wear a diaper to bed at night" sounds like I have a condition.

I can go number 1 no problem in a diaper. Its a little itchy if i keep it on too long but i think thats normal. Im talking about number 2. I always wanted to go number 2 in a diaper, just to see how it feels and if i like it. But i have afab parts, and im too scared ill get a UTI or something like that. Is there any tips on how to prevent this?

Hi 🩷 I thought this is probably a good place to ask for advice/help 🤭

Currently I own 2 pacis from Littleforbig and I love the design and using them soothes me a lot and makes me feel very little! Unfortunately my mouth is kinda small, which keeps me from using them during the night 😭 after a while they hurt my jaw because they keep my teeth too far apart and I have to sleep without a paci. I already tried using the biggest available paci sizes for toddlers from different brands, but those ones are all too small 😭

Does anyone know a good paci that might work for me? Or some advice how I could get used to the LfB ones? 🥰

From time to time I will think about trying some stuff from Northshore at some point, but I remember reading an alarming anecdote that they will sometimes send unsolicited and unexpected samples and junk mail to previous customers.

Is that really true?

If not, then sorry for helping to spread a rumor.

But if it is, then please Northshore and any other adult diaper brands, do not send out unsolicited mail of any kind. Whether ABDL or not I think it's fair to say that wearing diapers is a thing that many adults want to keep at least somewhat discreet, and while we all appreciate good promotions and free sales, many of us live in situations where our mail isn't as private as we would like and that can cause a lot of anxiety and drama. Promo codes over email or social media would be a way better approach.

For the homies struggling with acceptance …

You are the master of your own shit 💩 For whatever reason, this kink is apart of your circumstance, you like this thing and that is just the truth, you can’t change it. You CAN decide how you respond to it, and I have AMAZING news for you. This thing you like is inconsequential. It doesn’t have affect your ability to do your job or be a functioning part of society, it doesn’t affect your ability to have meaningful relationships with people who aren’t into this. It is not an affliction.

I think because this is a ‘weird’ kink, it can be easy to make it the scapegoat, to let it grow into a bigger deal than it is. Maybe you have low self-esteem, maybe you feel like life is passing you by. But guess what, there is a cool, confident, best version of you that can still put on a pull-up before bed. Because the best version of you, is the version of you that is in control of their shit. The version of you that goes out (or stays in) and does the things that fulfill them and makes them happy.

For me, The times I feel the worst about being into ABDL, are the times when I am least in control of the rest of my life, maybe I’m overspending and not hitting my savings goals, maybe I’m not eating properly, maybe I’ve not been going to the gym, or making enough time for friends. But when I’m on top of my needs, and the things I pursue that contribute positively to my life, it just becomes just another thing I do that makes me happy. I’m not a weirdo, I’m someone that is in tune with themself.

I know it can be rough sometimes, maybe all the time for some. Reading mean comments and feeling like some kind of weirdo, but you have to keep that chin up. You know who you are, you know you aren’t those things. Those people don’t have any stake in what goes on in your bedroom, so why should their opinion matter?

New here, looking for friends let’s chat!

I’m sick and pregnant and when I cough I pee a little I’m in a pull up now cause it happens when I cough …. I was doing so well

So idk if I’m in the purge phase or just not interested rn but anything to do with abdl just doesn’t seem to interest me. I don’t think I’m wanting to avoid it but any attraction to it rn just seems flat.

I'm not sure what I'm doing, it's my first time doing this type of stuff and I'm kind of worried that I might get blackmailed or something like that?

Does anybody have any experiences with that and if so how did you stop it?, any tips of how I can keep my life private from all this? I like this stuff. I'm just not sure I want my friends to know that's reasonable.

I want to post pictures. I want to do all of it, like DM people. I want to have fun but I'm not sure how to do it safely. So if anybody has any ideas?

I have a submissive who likes to wear diapers, but he feels bad about getting them dirty. I explained to him several times that it's part of the game... If it bothers him he can just remove them, does this happen to anyone else? Personally, I love seeing him in diapers... Especially the ones with some drawings on them.

Recently outgrew the capacity for GoodNites. Sizing of the XL is perfect for me but I need something more robust 😭

What do u guys recommend that are still not too bulky to wear at night, breathable, but more absorbent?

Ever since I’ve made more of an effort to actively participate in the community and talk to people I’ve noticed that some people have a really hard time remembering that everyone here is a person and should be treated as such I can’t count the sheer amount of messages where it goes from vaguely sexual / talking to the most vulgar and down bad shit ever from spamming unwanted pictures to calling me all sorts of names and slurs when I refuse to fulfill someone’s personal fantasy . I’m just some stranger on the internet and while majority of everyone here is chill and I can’t thank y’all enough some people are absolute nightmares. Someone even tried to threaten to harm me and gave a (fake not actually mine) ip address to scare me. Ofc I block them and move on but there is an endless wave of them it seems it’s so incredibly frustrating as someone who genuinely enjoys interacting with other abdls to have to risk having another person harass me in my dms for even posting a thread asking for diaper recommendations .

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When you're all alone with no caregiver in your life what do you do when you're feeling small and sad?

For me I like to lay out all my soft cute blankies and put my all my stuffies out. I change into my cute soft pajamas and snuggle up with my teddies and my squishies and watch some cartoons. Sometimes I will prepare myself a snack and a juice box before I put my jammies on.

Life can be lonely and depressing sometimes, especially when I hide this side of myself from everyone else, so it feels good to be kind to my little self when I can.

I'm glad to have a space where I can reach out to other littles for support 🥰 thanks for reading! What do you do to comfort yourself when you're alone?

Not too interesting but I finally get to restock!! I don’t have a huge backstock due to moneys but I am trying Pretend Again Try Again diapers!!! I’m like a kid on Christmas right now!!!

One of the things I really like about diapers is being able to pee without leaving my bedroom. Just now I felt a big pee coming so I put on a diaper and got into a squatting position. I let out a huge flood and I could hear the stream through my diaper. After I finished I sat in my computer chair and it was super warm. I’m probably gonna change into a fresh diaper before bed and hopefully do my morning pee in that diaper.

Ok I know I’m not really the best content creator/ writer just yet but just out of curiosity for those who are/ who plan to. What do you guys wanna see? I mean I personally love watching the mundane stuff, chores, cooking, grocery shopping sign me up. Hell I even love it when a guy is trying to get dressed up but fail miserably to hide their gargantuan diapers in some pair of flimsy pair of dress pants only to take an evening waddle down the driveway or something. However, I absolutely goon for masc guys just talking/ vlogging about diapers like it’s a regular thing but with just a bit more details. Like “yeah man, I can barely feel the hardness of these cold metal park benches anymore … yeah I know right, like why haven’t I done this years ago! I mean yeah I’m stuck waddling to the truck at the end of the day but so what! I’ve got a change of clothes back there, and hey now I know where all my beer is going am-I-right!”

please private message me and we can play games, diapered rn bur can play almost anything just looking for someone to play with! 😁

Hi all,

I'm buying some diapers soon to get into my baby mode, I like the pink ones and found these are they any good

Soooo we all know that “little” furniture is hard to come by, whether it be the space we have available, price, not wanting everyone who enters our homes to know we wear diapers😂 etc…. Well I just picked up a double “Papasan” chair/couch and I gotta say me and my partner have been in love with it ever since. It gives off a vintage bassinet vibe when set up properly and sits as a unique but not “alarming” couch when used normally! This is it next to a queen sized bed!

I can't seem to get rid of the smell from wearing diapers even after I shower. I was wondering what you guys do to get rid of the smell so it doesn't stick to you?

I love being a little. I LOVE being a little is my first time here. I've been here before but deleted my account because I was embarrassed but now I'm like not. I'm super excited. I'm like really excited. I want to do all sorts of things like post pictures. Talk about my experiences like I'm so ready. I don't know what it was holding me back but whatever it is it's gone now and I'm excited and so ready!

So...how do I start. I don't exactly remember where my first contact with this whole thing was. Probably when I was browsing around Deviantart,where I've collected quite a pile of ABDL art and literature by now. I am not a little myself, but reading about women my age going back to a much simpler time in their life, or seeing pictures of them with poofy diapers bulging out of their clothing awakened something in me. It has since developed into a proper kink of mine. It is honestly surprising for myself, since am usually really not a fan of scat and pissplay, but it's kinda ok for me in this kontext. Abdl is also a lot more of a sexual nature for me than for other people here it seems.

So yeah, just wanted to say hello and get some thoughts off my chest.