IDK if i'm crazy, but she never did that before. Is that a thing ? Because of me ?

I was so excited, diapers arrived and my onesie and I felt awesome, laid them out for the night and wore them for a while, then the second I take them off. I just feel horrible now, I feel guilty for wearing them, the second I take them off I just feel like I did a bad thing? Like I feel like now something bad will happen to me, it felt nice to wear them but I ain’t sure what to do.

What are your favorite non-conventional things to put in your diaper? I know that’s not everybody’s thing, but I find it so fun and hilarious (and usually hot tbh, but don’t tell anyone lol).

I’ll go first: oatmeal (a classic), Orbeez (cold but satisfying), and as of yesterday… pumpkin guts (you just have to try it to understand)

Now I wanna know your guys’ ideas! Haters, stay out and let us enjoy our shame 😭

So I'm curious how you all incorporate diapers into a "hookup" type date. To summarise, I love to present feminine and have socialised in kink and swinger spaces but never revealed my diaper fetish. I don't really identity as an adult baby but love the look and feel of diapers and soaking them especially presenting feminine. But I'm struggling to visualise a play date involving diapers with another. Any tips?

Hey guys, it’s been a few months. I’ve taken quite a long break and I’m back! First off with an inquiry :(

I saw this post online but can’t reverse search and find a onesie like it. The weather is getting cold and I need a fleece onesie similar to this. If anyone knows this specific model or company and could provide it that would be amazing!!

No one even knows I’m abdl but I struggle so much with internal shame and regret. It’s not even like post-nut clarity it’s just general shame

Title: The Intimacy of ABDL: Embracing Vulnerability, Trust, and Communication

Hello r/ABDL community!

I wanted to take a moment to discuss some of the deeper aspects of our ABDL lifestyle that often go unspoken but are incredibly important—intimacy, power dynamics, vulnerability, trust, and communication.

Intimacy and Connection

At its core, the ABDL experience is about creating a unique bond that fosters intimacy. Whether it’s through shared experiences of wearing diapers or engaging in age regression, there’s a special connection that forms when we embrace our inner child together. This intimacy allows us to express parts of ourselves that we may not feel comfortable showing in our everyday lives.

Power Dynamics

Power dynamics can play a significant role in our ABDL relationships. Whether you identify more as a caregiver or as a little, there’s an inherent exchange of power that can be both comforting and exhilarating. For many, this dynamic provides a safe space to explore feelings of submission and dominance, and a way to experience a sense of safety and care. It’s important to navigate these dynamics with mutual respect and understanding.

Vulnerability and Trust

Engaging in ABDL activities, including wetting and messing, requires a level of vulnerability that can be daunting. It’s essential to establish a strong foundation of trust with your partner or community. Knowing that you can be open about your desires, fears, and experiences without judgment is what makes the ABDL community so special. This trust allows us to explore our vulnerabilities in a safe environment.

Importance of Communication

Communication is key in any relationship, but it takes on an even greater importance in the ABDL community. Discussing boundaries, desires, and comfort levels openly ensures that both partners feel respected and cared for. It’s vital to check in with each other regularly, especially when engaging in activities that may push personal boundaries. Remember, it’s okay to express when something feels uncomfortable or if you want to explore something new.

Conclusion

Embracing the ABDL lifestyle is not just about the physical aspects; it’s about creating a nurturing environment where intimacy, trust, and communication flourish. Let's continue to support one another as we navigate these complex and rewarding dynamics. I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this topic!

Looking forward to your insights!

I’m looking for buy samples for some cloth backs and hoping for a tier list (obviously it’s subjective but maybe some pros and cons of each). Please only include ones that have prints and are available in the US.

Also feel free to mention any newly/soon to be released even if you haven’t worn them

Imagine all the softness that you'd feel

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Hello!

I've been a mommy to my sweet baby boy for around three years or so now and we have absolutely loved our time together. I truly love the control I have when I keep him diapered and have recently moved to 24/7 for him. It's been nearly two months and we've both learned a lot. Previously, he only would wear occasionally, it took a long while for me to warm up to the idea haha, he would take care of everything himself.

The issues we have been having are leaks and I don't know if it's because I'm not diapering him correctly (he says I do well...) or if there's something else wrong. In particular, he sometimes leaks when he tries going sitting down, or, laying down. For him, it leaks out the side guards across his thighs. I've showered the Internet for help and the most prevalent suggestions I've found were pointing his toy down/tucking, or plastic pants.

Plastic pants don't really solve the problem, they just slightly prevent too big of leaks since they fit around the waist and thighs. Pointing him down has helped a lot, but he still can leak and we've figured out that if he sits/stands several times, it can come untucked enough to leak, OR, the big one, if he gets excited it can also undo a tuck.

We've tried a cage, but it's uncomfortable for him for long usage and I don't want him to remain flacid all the time, (outside of diapers lol), and I'm worried about keeping him clean and comfortable so I'd rather avoid cages. I've tried different diapering techniques to try and keep him pointing down, but especially after a long night of sleep, he always finds a way to be pointed up sigh.

Does anyone have any advice to help? I've looked at tucking panties but I doubt they will be of much help... I'm a struggling Mommy with too many leaky diapers 😭

Hi i got my little weekend alone for first time in a few months! And i just got my diapers ordered! I got the little for big potty pants (they were adorable and fitting for me) and i got the little for big baby usagi! A purple french maid outfit! And a bottle and pacifer i ordered them to an amazon locker! And i am scared but exited!

I also got a colloring book and a new cat stuffie that my friend picked out!

I’m finally going to be in Indiana for the first time in a very long time this weekend. I remembered a bucket list item to go to my inner baby. Only to realize they are closed :(. Completely irrelevant post but I felt like I wanted to share somewhere.

Hey everyone, I have noticed that I have been quite lonely during these times and wish to talk to someone but not just through texts but also through calls/FaceTime it helps me get in the mood.

Sorry for lil rant I haven’t told anyone outside of reddit/insta

It’s my dream to meet someone like that even better if they are close by (I’m from Australia, Brisbane) so it’s hard to. Especially women I am gay so it’s hard to connect with people like that. Plus I am autistic so it’s been harder for me.

Title says it all. Trying to get craft again with sewing. My GF and I went to go get some materials for bows and I spotted some cloth material that would make an excellent custom onesie.

Hey everybody, quick question for those that are able to wet at night and not leak:

How do you get it to wick right up the back of the diaper?

When I’ve wet at night (still conscious) I’ve been lying on my back and it seems all the pee congregates around my butt cheeks and while it does slowly seep through the padding and slight up, it’s not all the way. I’m worried about springing a leak because of the uncontrollable nighttime flow and it all building up around my cheeks and out the sides.

My leak guards are always positioned correctly but I tend to move around a bit at night and I’m worried that could maybe cause some issues with them?

Even when I’m lying on my stomach, if the flow isn’t slow, and my penis isn’t sort of positioned in a way that allows for it to directly wick into the sap easily, it sorta builds up around my balls and out the side?

Sorry if that was a bit too much detail but hopefully some other dong owners can give a bit of advice :)

So I wanna play a game of diaper truth or diaper dare but idk what are some good dares anyone have. Any fun ones? Limitsvarw insertion or messing

Personally, I like the reverse toilet training plot, where the main character is forced to wear diapers at first, and then they actually need them (bedwetting or incontinence).

Like baby business, or baby betting.

It should be forced, not voluntary (a misunderstanding, an unavoidable situation, a bet, etc.)

I like the kind where the main character is humiliated, not degraded to the point of insanity.

So I keep hearing about fluffing your diaper and I wnated to know what the point of it like is it better to do that instead of just putting lthem on from the box and won’t they clump up and fall apart easier when you live or is the same ? and how do you do it too ?

I feel so weird about wearing diapers I like it but I feel so awkward when I do that I can't even get turned on and then I'm cagey and distant with my husband who approves but isn't really into it and that makes me feel more awkward and distant and I just end up getting frustrated with myself but I cant have an orgasm without them or thinking about them but its mostly needing the humiliation that frustrates me but I need that too I know I'm rambling now I just don't know what to do

My personal experience is almost every day, wannabe 24/7 , but it’s complicated

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I must say I never have been caged for so long. Since it was new she gave me a 20 hours break between the days, but still I had more than 48 hours locked.

Today is supposed to be the unlocked, in about 2 hours...maybe she'll let me play in my soggy diaper before sending me to the shower ? 🫣

Being caged was sometime unconformable, but mostly fun, even though not being able to "have fun" when you want is...sad, the needing Mommy part is fun and worth it ☺️

Next step after that will be Friday Night, where I should be in diapers all weekend, but saturday pm/evening ! I wonder if she will inforce the no toilet allowed while diapered, or she will give me some loose permission since it's our first time 😳