Hey Ya'll!

Trying to find a cloth-backed diaper I fit in. Find myself somewhere between M and L. For reference:

• ABU Little Kings: M too small, L ok, but a bit Large
• Kiddo Teddy Ultra 4t / Tykables Alphagators (almost same): M too small, L too large

Do you have any recommendations? Was wondering about LFB Baby Parade & Babyfur (they look almost the same as Teddy Ultra/Alpha Gator though...). Or maybe Kiddo Fluffy Fly?

Please help :-)

How would you feel if you found out your Therapist was ABDL? Or if you knew a therapist was out about being ABDL would you choose them as a therapist? Would you feel differently about either of those question if you knew they were padded during your appointment? I just learned about an out ABDL therapist and I'm trying to decide how I feel and curious about other perspectives.

I'm currently in the US military stationed overseas, the only way for me to get mail and packages is through the APO (army/air post office) i know that USPS doesn't open and check amazon packages but I'm not so sure about the people working in the APO. Is there anyone who knows for certain that the APO does not check amazon packages? i want to order some diapers and i don't want anyone checking the box.

any help is appreciated, thank you :)

You rarely see me wearing diapers on my posts, but I wear them every night and love it. 😍💙 I'm sick (just the flu), but I don't feel like wearing diapers. 🥺🥺 Can you please motivate me to wear diapers especially now while I'm not feeling so well. 😘🥰

What is everyone's favorite diapers to get?

Edit:** i am a larger person. Sorry not to specify at first

Just wondered if anyone had a recipe for "Adult Baby Formula" - I want to make something that tastes great and causes big messes. I'm happy to hear anything:)

Hello, I don't have the possibility of having diapers, what can I do to make it look like this with everyday objects like pads and others Thank you

Hello :) very new to this, and want to find, which diaper/diapers are the most absorbant , which ones can you wear for a long time, and pee in them often, and still no leaks

Good morning to you all! I have been getting more involved with this community ever since I went 24/7. It seems finding people to interact with proves more difficult than initially thought. From Reddit, Tumblr, and now blue sky, I have been met with more scammers and people begging me for money than any other time before. I know what everyone’s gonna say. I’m just ranting that I’m sick and tired people asking for money in this community. It’s inappropriate. Unless you’re in a relationship with somebody or have a pre-arranged agreement, don’t hit people up for money. ABDL is expensive and it’s on right. It’s expensive to go 24/7. Luckily I make a decent salary where I’m able to afford this lifestyle. That doesn’t mean that I’m going to support your lifestyle. Not saying everyone is guilty, and there may only be a select few, but it’s getting really annoying that seemingly every person I talk to hit me up for money. Here’s a novel idea, go to work and make your own money. . Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

Where my peeps at?

What are some diapers with the best odor control? So far only LFB (specifically Astrobabies) and TREST have been the best imo

Hello, I just wanted to share my experience with banana trick ! For context I'm 27M, DL for less than a year now. So after reading some post about the banana trick I decided to try this by myself. I bought bananas (not ripe) and inserted 3 quarters in my butt few minutes after pooping. Lube helps a lot for an easy insert. Inserting was fun, and exciting. But "pooping" the banana was not what I expected. It was like diarrhea at the beginning, not really fun. Once it was done, the smell was weird, a mix of banana and poop, it wasn't a great experience.

Do you have some recommendations ? Maybe I've done something wrong, or maybe it's not for me :)

I want to try new things.

Lately I've been watching some diaper hypno frequently. It definitely brings me in some kind of mood. 😳 I especially like the ones with girls in messy diapers.

It probably doesn't work as real hypnosis but it's more fun to pretend it does 😁

Curious to hear what r/ABDL thinks about it.🤔

Does anyone know some pink cloth backed abdl diapers? I never tryed cloth backed but i want to soooo bad. Thank you all for your help😊

Long story short, I finally got the courage to tell my partner yesterday! (Funny story below) Whoo what a weight lifted off my shoulders! I super recommend telling your partner if you are on that fence whether or not to tell them. So it started off really good. He was surprised, but didnt seem bothered by it. He asked a few questions and we talked about the subject for about 30 mins and moved on with our normal day to day conversations. We ordered take out and later that night we had a Christmas light show to go to. I had thought about wearing but decided it was too soon. When we got home it was late, so we cuddled up in bed and resumed our TV series that we watch while falling asleep. Discovery channels "Dirty Jobs with Mike Rowe". Super random, I know. It's been slowly going through episodes and it was somewhere in the middle of season 3? Its quiet, we haven't discussed anything more about this "new side" to me. The silence is starting to get awkward (at least for me) Then the perfect timing for the job Mike Rowe was doing that episode.... He was working at a commercial sized laundry facility for a hospital.THEY WERE WASHING CLOTH REUSABLE DIAPERS! Of course Mike had quite a few diaper jokes. It felt like the scene went on forever as i didnt know whether to laugh or not. Then to make it even more of a great moment... Mike and his crew were in nothing but cloth diapers holding up filming equipment standing outside at the end of that episode. HOW IRONIC! Imagine just telling the most hard to tell secret about yourself to your partner and Mike Rowe comes in for the awkward finale. Just my luck. 🤣

Is baby powder and wipes ok to use as adults? Or is there a better option! I only wet and normally shower right after but gf said she is willing to change me soo we’re gonna try it

I've noticed that the people who are most visible and have the most fun in the community are queer people. I am very active and accepted within the community. I've never seen such positivity from the cishet community, only gatekeeping and gender essentialism.

I used to be a very "straight" ABDL myself - I was almost pathologically paranoid that the person I was looking at pictures had a penis. This turned out to be a symptom of a bigger issue - that I had not unpacked that gender is a huge fuck, and that I myself am not the cisgender, heterosexual person society expected me to be.

It's amazing how much my enjoyment with the community changed with my acceptance of my identity and my own queerness. I now have a large community of friends to tease, be silly, and play with nearly all of the time. I meet new people every day and we flirt, and it rules.

Yet every day I'm here, I see the same negativity. "I can't find an ABDL gf", "I'm lonely", whatever. The general consensus for dating as a cishet man is to try and "convert" their partner into being a kink dispenser for them. I think it's a little odd, personally. I'd guess that my message at the end of the day is, you don't have to force yourself into a box of being straight. This community values its queer members deeply. It's ok to even experiment, and if you decide you're still straight, that's okay too!

Just please don't view being queer as an inherently bad thing. I believe that at its roots, this kink is better experienced with open minded queer people that don't put so much emphasis on some concept of straightness. I promise you, you will have much more fun.

edit: this thread sure is getting some interesting attention! I'm happy to have started a discussion. I love this community and I don't want it to be a reflection of a broken cisheterosexual society. We are weird. We should be happy to be weird.

edit2: I'm turning off the replies to this. Like or not, queer folk are the life of the scene. 💗

I'm getting alot of negativity for being HONEST about a question asked here .

So let's actually discuss the topic if you want ... Stop acting like you have the slightest idea who or what I am ...

I'm not the one hiding behind an ABDL account.... I'm a real ABDL lifestyle liver ... Have been longer than most of you have been born I bet.

The ugly topic is the Hijacking of the Term BabyGirl... By the Trans community.

As someone who has actually been.a Daddy to multiple Littles my opinion might hold some weight.

I know for a FACT there are many Daddies walking away from this scene because repeatedly they are led on by a BabyGirl who has a penis

It's unacceptable honestly. You all act like Daddies are not people with feeling that don't like being played a fool.

I was simply implying and will again now that perhaps if there was a subtle way to distinguish the two.... Like TBabyGirl... It would avoid alot of confusion is all I'm saying. Someone else mentioned this point....

There is actually an element of non concent when a person is interacting with someone they believe to be a female BabyGirl. And they are exposed to a picture of a penis....

I've been around along time and know even alot of the girls are starting to notice a big drop in the Daddies out there. Or that they have to "prove" they are really a girl. Making them feel pressured into exposing themselves

Now as stated in my post. I am all for Trans people both directions to enjoy whatever they want. It offends me to be called Transphobic though. Again as stated in my post. My Child is 23, Trans at 16.... And we have a wonderful relationship frankly. How many of you play Wordle with your Dad everyday ??

So seriously..... If you want to try to pick a fight online with me. It will just prove to everyone else in right...... But hey I figured someone always needs to be the asshole who speaks up !!!

I was also only voicing my opinion on the ABDL community in a thread that was asking people to do exactly that .... 🤔

EDIT..... I'm going to bed now. So you all can keep trying to convince me I'm wrong or a bigot or whatever else you'd like.

I will actually take the time to respond to everyone who actually would like to discuss each other's opinions. You know the way a civilized society does...

I've been doing a lot of work on becoming more open about this side of myself recently, and I've had several non-ABDL partners/play partners/FWBs respond positively and say that, when I'm ready, they're open to exploring it with me. I still feel a lot of anxiety and vulnerability about it though, and it's leaving me unsure how to move forward.

For folks who've shared this kink with non-ABDL partners: How do you find the confidence to go from "I'm fine with you wearing diapers around me" or "I'm open to experimenting with diapers together" to actually, y'know... doing that?

Has diaper hypnosis worked?

Ok before you jump me, let me explain in the aspect I think is one of the most important

SEX I can speak only from a male POV. It’s much easier and hot to slide a pull up to the side and slide in to her vagina. While doing this I can be very physical and move her up and around, and also slide my hand and squeeze her but while f**** the living life out of her.

I’ve found this much more difficult with tape on diapers. They are much more wider and thicker at the crotch that it’s nearly impossible to slide in without having to tape the actual diaper off. And once the diaper is off, it’s just regular sex, not really involving diapers other than her sitting on it.

Hi y'all!! I got a unique issue that I might need some help with from y'all.

My girlfriend ordered some Northshore products to my apartment because she has light bowel incontinence and wanted to try those products in a non-judgemental zone, since she lives with her folks and she knows I'm ABDL. She came over to try them; one thing led to another and she realized she's ABDL as well!! We're really happy about this realization and are excited to see where it takes us.

She wants to indulge in ABDL Porn. The problem is she's blind and visual porn like captions do not work for her. I don't necessarily know a good source for free audio-only or audio-focused porn. For anyone out there who knows where I can get my fix, any links or subs based around this would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!!

I live abdl or designed diapers. Looking for the softest inside brand, with plastic outer covering. As a male, I move a lot while sleeping, and sometimes the tighter or harsher inside causes abrasions.

What have you found to be the softest inside. Feel free To share the worst Too!

Testing something out, I’m using 3 different diapers as stuffers inside of a little kings, first is a luvs size 6 with holes cut to allow flow through, on top of that is a girls xl goodnite with holes and on top of that is a Walgreens brand tabbed diaper with holes, how long should this last before I need to change given that a little kings typically lasts me about 8 hours ? My estimate is maybe 12. What do y’all think ?

For those who regress, does anyone experience it happening without trying or wanting it? I've been through a lot since I realized I was little, and my panic disorder co-opted my regression as an automatic stress response. Sometimes it lasts only a moment, sometimes it's the entire rest of the day. It's also a very visceral experience - I feel like my heart skips a beat, I shudder or twitch a bit, I feel like I need to gasp to catch my breath. As much as I love being little, it's disconcerting when it happens without my permission. It's almost like being force-fed your favorite food - yes, it's enjoyable, but you'd kinda rather have it on your own terms.

If you're like me, how do you deal with it? How long does it last? What's it feel like for you?

Daddy surprised me with some puppy themed diapers! He knew I was running low 🥺

Diaper pictured is normal size, not one of my customs.

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