Today's Aftercare post is all about the potential for sexually transmitted infections and diseases as a sexually active person. Some questions to consider:

•What are some symptoms of an STD/I?

•After having unprotected sex, how soon can symptoms of an infection or disease show?

•How soon after having unprotected sex should you get an STD Test?

•What are some ways to lower the chances of you getting an STD in the future?

•If you test positive for an STD after having unprotected sex, what steps should you take to stay safe?

Any other questions you'd like to be discussed?

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Today's Aftercare discussion is all about coming into contact with semen when having unprotected sex and potential pregnancies.Some scenarios to consider:

1.) When you aren't on birth control (and pregnancy is not wanted)

-What are some examples of emergency contraceptives and how can you maximize the efficiency of them?

-How soon after having unprotected sex should you take a pregnancy test? Additionally, how fast can someone become pregnant after unprotected sex?

-What options are available for unwanted pregnancies?

2.) When you are on birth control

-How effective are the different birth control methods?

-Should you still wear condoms while on birth control?

3.) When you both are trying for baby

-What are some ways you can maximize the chances of pregancy?

-What are some lifestyle changes you can make to prepare for pregnancy?

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This week's sexual health topic is going to be centered around taking care of yourself after sex as a sexually active person.

Some examples of discussion topics will be emotional well-being, STD testing, pregnancy, and more!

Are there any topics you'd like to be discussed? Please leave a comment!

Today's Sex & Aging post is all about Erectile Dysfunction (ED). Some questions to consider:

What is ED?

How common is ED in men?

Can it be treated?

What are some causes of ED?

When should you see a medical professional for ED?

Can young men experience ED?

Are there any other questions you have? .

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Today's Sex & Aging post is about information on Menopause. Some questions to consider:

What is menopause?

At what age does menopause start to affect women?

What are the symptoms?

How does it affect a woman's sex life?

Do trans women experience menopause? .

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Hello everyone! I know, I know... It's been about...a year? since the last post on the subreddit and I sincerely apologize. I've been able to regain moderation access, and we're ready to get the sub back up and running again!

I thought it would be nice to focus these upcoming topics around what sex will be like as you get older and experience the changes that your body goes through while aging.

This would be a great time to comment any topics you'd like to be discussed or to just share any thoughts you might have.

Yay to the grand re-opening of r/blacksexualhealth🎉🎉😂

Hiya for my final year year project, I am carrying out a simulation study on a intimate health chatbot that aims to remove the stigma surrounding sexual health and increase uptake for STI testing without having to talk to a person. African and Caribbean are one of the most effected minority ethnic groups and have one of the lowest STI take up rates in the UK. One reason is related to social stigma and this chatbot aims to change this by directing people to the correct services in the UK and what signs you should look for.

To increase participation there is a £100 prize draw that you can enter at the end of the survey, it will have a separate link so you response will be anonymous. https://westminsterpsych.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_7ZLuZVDPLKiFEpM

I need 300 responses if you can share it with friends it will be very much appreciated :)

Many thanks

If you have any questions or feedback drop me a message or contact me :

w1758651@my.westminster.ac.uk

Today's LGBTQIA+ topic is about the different gender Identities. Here are some questions to consider:

-What does it mean to be non-binary?

-What is "cis"

-What does it mean to be transgender?

-What is gender fluid?

-What is Agender?

What other questions may you have?

Today's LGBTQIA topic is on asexual spectrum. Some questions to consider:

• What does it mean to be asexual?

-What does it mean to be aromantic?

-What are the differences between sex-repulsed, sex-neutral, and sex-favorable?

-Can an asexual person masturbate and/or watch porn?

-If you find sexual activities pleasurable, can you still be an asexual?

Are there any other questions you may have?

If you are questioning whether or not you are an asexual you should check out these subreddits:

r/asexuality r/asexual r/aromantic r/aromanticasexual

This week we are going to be discussing the different sexualities and terms within the LGBTQ community. This would be a great time to ask any questions you may have about certain identities.

Since this week's topic is all about relationships, when is the last time you showed gratitude towards your partner?

Studies show that expressing gratitude towards your partner can lead to healthier relationships and stronger connections between each other.

Today is the perfect day to take some time and tell your partner of the things that you appreciate about them as well as share some of them in the comments below.

Maybe you have a hard time knowing how to express your gratitude? Do any of you have different ways you can express gratitude towards your partner?

Today's Relationships & Dating discussion is on setting boundaries with a partner. Whether it be a new relationship and you want to be clear on what things you are comfortable with with your new partner, or it be a current relationship and there have been some things you want to bring up with your current partner, every relationship prospers when both people feel that they are being respected.

When it comes to setting boundaries, it is not limited to sexual boundaries, and this thread is open for discussing any type of boundary you may have been wanting to set.

Today's Dating & Relationships topic is about how to have conversations surrounding sexual history with your partners, whether they be long term or casual.

What are some tips or pieces of advice you may have to give when it comes to bringing up this kind of conversation? What are some things you should be asking your partner to make sure you are getting the full picture? What other things should be brought up in this conversation?

This week, or topic is on relationships and dating. Throughout the week, I am going to make posts that touch on new relationships, communication, setting boundaries, and spicing things up. Are there any discussions you would like to be highlighted?

Today's Sexual Hygiene discussion is all about proper care for sex toys and masturbation. Some questions to consider:

-How often should you clean your sex toys?

-What should you use to clean your sex toys?

-What are the best places to store your sex toy?

-Is it okay to share sex toys with a partner?

-How important is it to wash your hands before touching yourself?

Are there any other questions you may want answered?

My wife of 15 years does not get pleasure from vaginal sex. She’s aroused and climax from clitoral stimulation, but does not get pleasure from intercourse. It’s bothered me because it makes me think I’m not “big enough”, despite her reassurances (I’m about 7” erect, average girth). What she feels during intercourse is the pressure and the sensations of the stroke but it does not turn her on. Suggestions?

Today's Sexual Hygiene discussion of the day is all about how to have clean oral sex, proper usage and disposal of condoms, and other barrier methods such as dental dental dams. Some questions to consider:

-Should you switch condoms after anal sex when you want to transition to vaginal?

-How can latex condoms irritate your genitals?

-What are dental dams and how are they used?

-What are some signs you shouldn't give someone oral sex?

-What are the proper ways to dispose of a used condom?

Are there any other questions you guys may want answered?

Today's Sexual Hygiene discussion is about Odors and Bathing. There could be some of us who may genuinely need a tip or two when it comes to personal hygiene and that's totally fine! Some questions to consider:

-How often should one bathe?

-What are some key areas to clean for both male and female?

-For women: should you use soap inside of the vagina?

-For men: Is there a difference in how circumcised men and non-circumcised men should clean themselves?

-When should body odor become a serious concern?

Do any of you have any other questions you may want answered?

Beginning today, the subreddit will make a transition from daily topics to weekly topics, and I will create posts throughout the week to touch on different discussions centered around the chosen subject of the week.

To start us off, this week's topic is all about sexual hygiene! I want us to have conversations about the different ways to keep your body clean and healthy before, during, and after sex.

(In case there might be a question about it, I would like to note that everyone is welcome to make any post about anything related to the subreddit, and that your posts do not have to be limited to the topic of the week)

Look forward to starting the New Year off with you guys!

2023 is a few hours away, and I wanted to see if any of you had any relationship goals or resolutions for the New Year. Are there any changes you hope to see in your relationships? Any boundaries you are hoping to start setting? Maybe you want to have more fun in the new year? Would love to hear from everyone!

Are any of you in polyamorist relationships? What are some things you would like to share about having this kind of relationship dynamic? What are some misconceptions you have heard about poly relationships that you would like to clear up? Do you have any words of advice for those looking to pursue this kind of relationship dynamic?

To those who are not in polyamorist relationships or have not heard much about it, what are some questions you may have about this kind of dynamic? .

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Hello, all! It has been a while since we have seen posts on the subreddit, and I sincerely apologize. I would like to avoid this becoming a dead subreddit because I do feel as if this is a very important one to have for the black community. That being said, Topic of the Day posts will resume, but an issue I have been having with that, is that I have a hard time finding new topics to discuss everyday. I have some topics lined up for the next few days, but if any of you have any topic of the day suggestions, you are welcome to either DM me or leave a comment on any post about your suggestion!

Also, I would like to ask if there are any changes you all would like to see within the subreddit or if there is something you are unhappy with about the subreddits moderation.

I would like to increase the user participation for the subreddit, and I want to make sure everyone feels as if they are being heard.

Thanks so much for your patience,

u/kei_jonai

Hiya for my final year year project, I am carrying out a simulation study on a intimate health chatbot that aims to remove the stigma surrounding sexual health and increase uptake for STI testing without having to talk to a person. African and Caribbean are one of the most effected minority ethnic groups and have one of the lowest STI take up rates in the UK. One reason is related to social stigma and this chatbot aims to change this by directing people to the correct services in the UK and what signs you should look for. To increase participation there is a £100 prize draw that you can enter at the end of the survey, it will have a separate link so you response will be anonymous. https://westminsterpsych.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_7ZLuZVDPLKiFEpM

I need 300 responses if you can share it with friends it will be very much appreciated :)

Many thanks

This chatbot is at its preliminary stages of development and language options is something we aim to include latter on right now we are trying to perfect the conversation so pls give it ago and if you have any questions or feedback drop me a message or contact me :

w1758651@my.westminster.ac.uk

How would you define intimacy? What are some ways you can become more intimate with your partner? .

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Soo I had a baby and now I’m always horny , and explored masturbating now I’m thinking of trying Kama Sutra any tips or pointers?

The world of kink is very broad and there are a lot of things people may misunderstand about it. What exactly is kink? Have any of you participated in any kinky activities? Do you have any advice on how to have a safe and enjoyable kink experience? What would you say to people looking to explore the world of kink for the first time? What are some stigmas/misconceptions you would like to challenge?

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There are a lot of stigmas around the act of masturbating and pleasuring yourself, and I would like to dedicate today's topic of the day to challenge that. What are some things you'd like to clear up or share about masturbating? Are there any questions you may have or have heard about masturbating? .

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What are some common misconceptions you have heard about orgasms? What are some facts you'd like to share? How common is it to not reach orgasm during sex?

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Are they the same thing?

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This is quite a broad subject and a very important one to discuss. Some questions to consider: How is semen produced? How long can semen survive in a vagina versus how long it can survive outside of the vagina? Do men ever run out of it? Does sperm determine the sex of a baby? How can semen indicate whether or not a man has an STI/STD? Are there ways to improve the quality of your sperm?

Are there any more questions or comments you'd like to make about semen?

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