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Hey there! 25M here and a bit about me is, i like to hike, i swim often and i sketch sometimes. I like the sky, so much that I can just sit there and watch the clouds pass by or it just change colors as the day goes by. I have a dream journal and I like to narrate them as stories, so if you'd like to hear i will definitely share them.
I'm looking for long term friends, i don't mind what we are gonna talk about so just go ahead tell me about it, I'll share about my day, i share pics of my day and around and talk random convos, so if you feel like it, you can too.
I don't have a preference on who you are or where you are from, i will lend you my ear if you just like to talk for a while or vent and forget we ever talked too (i know title says long term but no worries). So have a nice day/night!!
Hey, I'm 23 y/o and single for quite sometime now. Not that am desperate to talk to someone but it would be nice to have someone to talk to about anything without caring what they might think. I'm very open minded and would like for you to be the same ig..
A bit about me, well it's been 3 and a half months in Bangalore now and apart from the weekdays, weekend is the most free time i get :P and it makes me feel lonely. I'm 5"10' and I wear glasses, like to swim or play volleyball or football and I sketch sometimes, I can share some if you like and If your wondering how look well I look decent dw :P.
Idk what or who I'm looking for here but I don't wanna feel lonely... Maybe a connection or maybe someone to flirt with or maybe just physical or maybe something serious? I'm very open-minded so be fine with things. Let's talk and let me get to know you or hear about your day maybe make you smile or laugh if your also feeling the same as me.
To whoever you are, I hope we make some good memories.
Maybe you are looking for something to take your mind off a disappointing week or you don't get the selfless attention you require. Whatever it is, I won't pry too much into your situation, I just want to make sure your needs are taken care of
Happy to chat first and see if we can get something brewing. I love putting in the time to learn your body. I have done this before a few times while trying to learn about a woman's body and always had a lot of fun learning techniques from my previous partners. Maybe you can put what I've learned to the test or teach me something new that you like best; it's been a goal of mine to develop jaw dropping skills but it's hard to improve without help.
I'm looking for a woman to go down on and pleasure until she fills my mouth up with her juices; the more mouthfuls the better. A woman getting off in my mouth is my biggest turn on . You can lay back and enjoy, or ride my face, either way I'm just happy to be here for you and receive a delicious taste in return!
This will be discreet and a fun one time encounter. I'd rather us laugh and have fun rather than be super serious and intense about it.
If you are interested, send me a brief description of yourself so I know who I have the pleasure of talking with! Chat soon!
So I'm stuck without any plans for Diwali here in Mumbai. This is a random effort to find someone to spend time with for this weekend because I'm bored out of my mind.
I'm lean, tall and okay looking. Looking for someone to chat or cuddle with this weekend and maybe after. I haven't met anyone through Reddit yet so this may be a shot in the dark.
DM if interested.
Hey 👋 Hope you are doing great! 26 M Delhi here, looking for some fun, interesting and kinky experiences.
If you are into tall guys with broad shoulders, bit of a dad bod and a sense of humour, then it’s a plus.
Some of my interests include: f1,movies sitcoms, international relations, history, memes, etc.
I have a thing for interesting conversations. Looking for something cerebral too. 420 friendly. Let’s connect, cuddle and explore together. DMs are open to know more. Thanks for reading this have a great day ✌🏻
hilloooo
I'm 24, lawyer and a leftist. i like to read, watch movies, binge shows, go on long walks or the gym, spend time w my catto and more.
Here because I've recently moved to a new city and some company would be nice.
Interested in politics, public policy, spirituality and watermelons. What's your favourite fruit?
Heyy, I'm a 24 year old guy and am staying in Bangalore and work a job here. I'm looking for someone to talk to and see where things go and hopefully form a deep intimate connection. We can talk about anything and everything. I'm kinda a hopeless romantic so guess I'm looking for this to be a long-term relationship but we can maybe start off with a meaningful connect where we both can be our true selves with each other.
I'm a very affectionate person and and am an ambivert but I guess am more on the introvert side of it. I like reading (both fiction and non-fiction) a lot. I also like watching web series, being out in nature, listening to music (a lot of indie and folk).
If you feel we might be a match, don't hesitate to hit me up (maybe with your fav song or anything). If nothing happens, I wish you all the best. And thanks for reading :)
This weekend has not been that busy, with Diwali and everything, which has allowed me to hop onto Reddit. I use it intermittently, and the last time I'd checked, restrictions on this subreddit had been lifted, leading to a flurry of weird, unintelligible posts. Now that things are back to normal, I thought I'd post.
Though things haven't changed. Still M4F posts dominate. The subreddit seems dead for some reason. Still, men and women lurk, the latter hounded by messages the moment someone gets a hint that they're women. It is still the internet at the end of the day. Anonymity can bring out the worst in people. And sometimes the best. And that is why I post. To cut through the clutter.
What I seek is, is something which can be somewhat hard to come across. And that is a conversation. A conversation which flows, like a river, from one topic to the next, seamlessly. From literature, to music, to food, to other topics, you get the gist. I've done the whole dating app shebang, and I'm done with that. I don't like the carefully timed texts, the acting nonchalant, trying to woo each other and fight for attention with every text. I'm not really a fan of small talk, as you might have guessed from the content of this post, and length of it, pun not intended.
About me; 27 years old. Have a penchant for words, music, and food. I'm 5'11, I'd say I'm conventionally attractive. I workout regularly, had fallen of the bandwagon, but now back at it. I also play football, though not as regularly these days. One of the pleasures in life is exploring new avenues, and I enjoy discovering new dishes, new cuisines. I love to cook, though that's more of a once a week affair, than anything else. I love music, play occasionally, though I'm constantly on the prowl, discovering new artists. Discovering obscure artists before they blow up is one of my guilty pleasures.
What I seek; Someone who read all of this for starters, and had her curiosity piqued by all of this. Someone who likes food, sex and music, as much as I do. I wouldn't lie that physical appearance doesn't matter to me. It does, I take care of myself, and I'd like someone who does as well. It'd be easier to say what I don't seek; anything too casual, or too serious. I've been single for a long time, and I'm hesitant to be anything but that. As I'd mentioned, I'd be looking for a scintillating, titillating conversation, I can add more adjectives, but you get the gist.
So anyhow, if you've had the patience to read through ALL of this, and it has piqued your interest, you should write to to me. We all have multiple conversations with multiple people regularly. And most fizzle out. That is the nature of these conversations. But sometimes, we need to get it right, only once. And this post might be that one time for you.
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I love cuddles and warm hugs! Who better than a cute, fat woman to cuddle with? Yes, I said a fat woman and I mean it with all the love in my heart. I have always been fond of soft, plump and fat women my whole life. It makes my heart flutter every time I see a big beautiful girl walking this god's green earth. The existence of these ladies is what makes this world a paradise! I am unashamedly and proudly into fat Indian women.
To get straight to the point, I am looking for a fat girl with whom I could cuddle for hours on end and admire her curves. One warm hug from a chubby girl would heal what aches this heart! Wanna be friend with benefits with me? Of course, I value the "Friend" part in it equally well. Without us being comfortable in each other's company, there won't be any benefits.
I am a non-judgemental human with whom you can talk about anything and every thing. This post is my poor attempt to see if I could meet the Fat Princess my heart is seeking for.
If you want to hang out with a laid back, dark skinned and introverted guy who can talk anime as well as bollywood with you, shoot me a message!
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Hello there, I Hope you are doing fine this weather which is still not cold yet, cause I love the cold breeze and it gets me craving for someone emotionally and to kinky with too. And I would love to have someone to rant our days about it while we both get messy!
So coming to the point, it has been some time since I had someone on the other end of my phone to whom I can talk, share, rant, and talk about my hobbies or listen to yours and get kinky to a point where we both are messy. As my life motto goes, switch for the right girl always!
Hoping you have a rough idea of what I am looking for, but if not please do not worry, as I will make sure to steer this icy ride to your understanding madame or none shall pass! I would love to know about your kinky self if you are okay with it. I mean what can be a better ice-breaker than us knowing each other dark fantasies or offering a fucking chilled drink in this summer. I love exploring, so feel free to hit me up with any kinky dark fantasy you have and I'll let you know mine. For instance, I would love to either having someone over my sheets, tied up for the moment. I get to feast on her until she is a sobbing mess with no release in sight or have someone ride my face until she makes a mess over my hair and lips.
God! Talk about craving someone nerdy and kinky to vibe and doing this huff huff! Coming to the hobby side of me I love reading and writing a lot in my spare time. With an occasional annoyance over the Merc F1 team. I am a die-hard fan of mangas, especially with good artwork, cause someone who can write and draw already is GOATed. So that explains my obsession with art and paintings and a big time plant dad who loves to vibe on DHH and we can argue about our music taste during missionary too ngl! Sounds like a fun deal and time for both of us xD
and lastly, I would really love someone who can be upfront on connecting further if we vibe and if things get good. Maybe we can meet and spoil each other irl! !lock
Bellieving in reddit again. I hope to get soneone to be friends with and let's see where it leads. I'm an independent adult, financially stable and doesn't believe in arrange marriages. I like the thrill to know someone and learn about different cultures.
Looking for someone for relationship, around my age from Delhi.
Just be ready to verify yourself day 1.
No weirdos please.
(I have divided this post in various parts with suitable headlines in bold, dive in. I sincerely hope we make it past the exchange of pleasantries and develop a connection. Too tired of people being unsure, some clarity of mind is very desirable.)
Who I am: I'm 36, professionally gainfully employed , 5.10 of height and trying to live a very healthy lifestyle. I have been in the kink/bdsm lifestyle for over 15+ years now.
Who I am (but a little deeper): I'm the kind of person who likes vulnerability. I like the intensity that comes with honesty. I believe in mutual respect. Even when I'm degrading you, we both know there's a mutual respect for each other in our minds. I've been a daddy dom for over ten years now and with pandemic, just like everyone, I focused on mental health first. I now think I'm ready to venture and train someone with all that I've got.
Kinks: My kinks include orgasm control, denial, edging, forced orgasm, sadism, cnc, rapeplay, free use, impact play, bladder control, primal, slave/slut training and many more.I don't force my kink on anyone and I respect consent. I just don't want to only be a dom but will prefer that you (my sub) and I talk beyond the dynamic as well. Mental stimulation is important or I believe things go stale.
What it means to me: I take my role as a daddy dom religiously and put all my heart into it. I am strict and at the same time, I'm also a human besides being a daddy dom. And I know exactly when to be caring and loving. It's a duality that I live with. This duality is a part of me and you'll see that this somehow helps me in being the best version of myself.
What I am looking for? (What you and I are looking for?): A connection. A dynamic. Some honesty. Some vulnerability. A lot of Intensity. An imaginative mind. Healthy libido. Rants. Sessions. Intellectual discourse. (As you can see I am not very demanding!!!)
How can you reach me? What do you need to write in your message?: You can either DM me or Initiate a chat with me. You can either put in some effort (as most post here say it) in your reply or you can just say HELLO and we will go from there. I don't think Hellos are low effort though you’ll have to put in effort in your conversations once we start talking. You can share about what you think of my username. To reach out to someone takes courage and that is never a low effort to me.
Miscellaneous but important things What I ask is that be ready to have a conversation and no I won’t roleplay, I’m looking for a sub and I think that’s plenty clear from my post. In the recent past I’ve connected with few people from here, some were duds, some got cold feet and some were insecured, which honestly we all are but if you don’t communicate your insecurities out loud then you can’t expect me to read your mind. I needed to say this because once you feel like you’re developing a connection and invest your precious mental wavelengths with that person and the next moment they think you’re too busy with work and decide to vanish. My point is be communicative. Be open. Yes I’m an adult. Yes some days I may get busy. Some days even you might get busy. What I don’t appreciate or want is unnecessary drama when there needs to be none. We may begin at Reddit but I’ll prefer moving to someplace convenient for both of us to talk. I may or may not ask you to verify, I reserve the right for the same. I’m already verified here. I also prefer connecting on calls after usual texting since it brings in a lot more personal touch to the connection and communication.
I think that will be all and I will wrap it up here. Adios!
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I don't really know what to say, but I'd love to chat with some folks on Reddit for kicks. I'm super bored, so hit me up if you need someone new to chat/rant/sext with.
A little bit about me: I'm a single, tall, average-looking guy who thinks he's a star because he loves astronomy. I'm into movies, TV series, and anime. I'm calm, keep to myself mostly, and enjoy interesting discussions over coffee or the occasional drink.
Have a great weekend y'all!
25 Male from Bangalore!
I’m looking to connect with someone from the city who is chill, easy to vibe with and who is open to exploring something sexually!
About me : I’m a side into dudes who don’t mind someone thicc.
What I like? - Cuddles, kisses, chest play, oral play, blindfold play.
Fetish: Men in tight trunks just do the thing for me. There’s nothing hotter than a man in some good tight Calvins 🤤
Kinks: Though I’m a pretty plain vanilla guy, I occasionally enjoy the dom-sub dynamic (both ways). I also sometimes like some semi-gentle spanks.
If you can host in the city, hit me up:)
Hello peeps,
Your friendly neighborhood man here.
I've been dipping my toes into the dom/sub dynamics for a bit now. Unfortunately, my older sub has now moved abroad and I miss the in person play time.
I'm looking for someone that's 23+, has some sense of humor, knows what her limits are, is drug and disease free and has some basic understanding of what a dom/sub dynamics are. I'm okay if you're just looking to explore and are curious as well. There's no upper limit on the age. I'm also open to couples as long as the husband feels comfortable watching it or has consented to it.
Again, I'm not looking to hookup so if that's your idea then this isn't the right time for that. I'd ideally want to talk for a bit and see if our vibes match and then proceed with it. Verification to be done from both sides.
If you've read till here then feel free to drop a hi or if you've any questions! Drop a short intro about yourself if you decide to message me and we can take it from there
Good luck and take care.
Hello! Looking to spend a lovely afternoon/evening with women who enjoy giving handjobs. There is no expectation of penetrative sex or even nudity. Just a steaming make out sesh with an equally torturous and pleasurable edging.
So if you're a woman with a very strong grip, perverted mind and hopefully enough time on your hands. Let's connect, verify and meet. DMs are open
Do you wanna spend 4-5 days getting to know each other and casually flirting but we ultimately don't end up together because I'm not ready to emotionally invest in anything long term? Press 1 for yes. Yep. That's your only option.
I hope that's a nice little intro. It's the festive season, and everytime I go out, I see couples hanging out and stuff. Usually I can keep my urges under control, but lately I've been feeling extra lonely and robbed of physical intimacy due to all that PDA. Soooo here I am, looking for people who feel the same and like the idea of being all touchy -feely without getting into the emotional details.
I'm not looking for sex at all. Just some casual making out and cuddling maybe? Could be our fun little date this weekend.
Oh, you don't know anything about me? Here you go:
5'11, fair-ish complexion (if that matters)
Lean and moderately good looking (I think, based on the looks I get in my office???)
Zero experience with sex, but some experience with making out (So you know you're not dealing with a complete celibate)
Interesting enough to hang out with (you can refer to my previous r4r post for this)
Since it's a long weekend, I'm hoping to strike gold and end up putting a success post in this sub. Wanna help me with that?
I'll be honest, I've always loved being the kinkier one. Nothing is more satisfying than seeing a woman lose her "innocent girl" persona and completely submit herself to you.
And you know it's not just about the sex, there are so many trivial things that continue to create the tension which is unleashed in bed. Well, that is what I'm looking for.
I want to get to know you
Have a connection with you
&
Help you lose your mind to filth.
A little about me:
24 y.o, medico, passionate about cinema, art & music. Been hitting the gym for a while now while training for athleticism simultaneously. Currently exploring new (weird) hobbies as well. I've had the opportunity of talking to some wonderful women on here so hoping the post resonates back this time as well!
Please be:
a woman, interesting & sensible. and before I forget,
the kinkier the better!
Hello Hyderabadis! I'm back in the city after 5ish months and can see a lot of things have changed. I'll be here for a little over a week and I see a huge influx of new cafes and eateries that I want to explore.
I'm primarily looking for someone to explore these new places with. Would we become friends? Mostly. Would we get intimate? I'd like that 😉 but I'll respect your choice and pace. Would we part ways as strangers? I won't prefer that but I'll let you convince me otherwise.
I'm wheatish fair skinned, 5'10" tall, well educated, work in IT (infrastructure and AI to be specific), physically active most days. I'm into photography and travel a lot out of personal choice. I follow F1, eternally confused about what to watch most of the times, used to play a bunch of musical instruments and cook. I'm not overly particular with your physical traits but I'm going to be head over heels for you if you have chubby cheeks, especially if they turn pink when you blush 😂, not at all a deal breaker though. I prefer if you prefer speaking either Telugu or English. I don't mean to be rude but I often don't truly vibe with the conversations in Hindi. I generally can vibe with people across different age groups, so that's not something I'm worried about either.
That's the end of the trailer. Slide into my DMs if you want to the complete picture.
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In a very CNC/primal/taboo headspace. Please message me if you are interested to chat / play on this subject. I would prefer this is to eventually happen in real but that’s not a necessity if we can keep our online dynamic hot enough.
I live in bombay and i have a place of my own and i don't mind travelling if we vibe very well sexually. Of course, I would take care of bed & breakfast!
For money, i work for a tech firm. Otherwise, interested in art in form of cinema, stories and sex.
What really excites me is one’s ability to talk once our clothes are off. Seeing sex as form of communication, expression of vulnerability just like many other form of communication.
Also, if you are neurodivergent, queer and not-heteronormative, a huge+.
Things i am absolutely NOT looking for :
Few things you should know about me
If you have read till here, start your DM with an answer to this question - “What made you send me a DM ? Anything that you are seeking in particular ?”
See you in my DMs.
!lock
I'm looking for someone who wants to have a real deep connection together . We should plan for a meeting physically in real at some point and until then , I want you to be comfortable with idea of voice calls .
I have touch needs . The loneliness I feel cannot be dispellled by online company alone. I am honest and expect honesty. I am tall (6 feet), fit , I take care of my body , hygiene . I am rational , intellectually sound . I have average IQ but I have sufficient wisdom and common sense to differentiate wrong from right . I am principled but also practical . Like I won't lie / cheat but I am not against giving / taking bribes . Sometimes small wrongs are important for greater good . However , in relationships ,I believe in showing my partner all my cards so they can evaluate for themselves whether I'm a good match for them.
I'm open to starting out casually . Due to my lack of relationship experience , I'm not sure whether I'm monogamous or polyamorous or into things like swinging / open relationship etc . I'll know what I'm comfortable with better only with time. But I believe in being an open book and am open minded and flexible to my partner's preferences.
I'm also a fun company. Have both a serious and humorous side. I am open to experimentation in bed , understanding your likes and dislikes and doing things accordingly.
Hey there lovely fellas, I hope you are doing well. It’s going to be a long post, so just bear with me. So first thing first, you guys always ask me about my frequent posts on reddit. Well yes I have talked to few wonderful people on reddit but unfortunately I haven't met someone with mutual interests. So I am still on the lookout. My last serious bdsm relation taught me a lot of things and it was the best. I want it back again.
About me:
I’m 27 years old from India, an engineer by profession. I am currently in Mumbai but orignally from north India. I am around 5’7”, wear specs, and have a lean body. I have a beard and I just love it. I love music, binge watching and traveling.
Me & BDSM:
I have had two serious bdsm relationships. I came to know about bdsm at the age of 18 when it was introduced to me by my ex-gf and later that relation turned into a dom-sub dynamics. It lasted for 5 years. Those five years taught me the true essence of BDSM and I realised that this is the thing that suits me. After this I had few short-term flings. Later I met my second sub through online bdsm forims. She was amazing. We were an instant hit. She took care of me really well and in return I gave her all of my love. Sadly, we had to end this thing, we ended it on a good note. But as they say you can’t stay away much from BDSM and yes I’m craving for it.
About you;
Please be a decent person. I don’t expect you to be a hotshot, I just want you to be a loving, kind and a caring person. I value honesty and loyalty, so if this is you then hands down, we are a good match for sure.
I’m a straight guy who leans more towards dominant side, so you need to be a 18+ female submissive or female switch. It’s alright if you’re a newbie or experienced, just be your true self when you talk to me. Location is not an issue for me, you can be from any part of this planet. I’m open for couples as well but you guys have to approach me together. I don’t have interest in ruining someone’s marriage so if you both of you guys are in this together, then I might consider this.
My ideal bdsm relation would be a real life master slave dynamics (24*7 basics).
How this dynamics is going to be!
I like being in control, so I want full control over you. Yes it takes time and I’m up for it. I’d like to know more and more about you before jumping into any sort of dynamics, so just be patient. We’ll start it slow, we’ll get to know each other and then slowly I’m going to take over. Also, I seek for both emotional connection and physical attraction. If we came into a bdsm relationship then we’re going to have regular interactions over audio/VC (Both sexual and Non Sexual). We’ll have daily tasks and occasional short/long sessions and punishments too, haha they are very important. I love teasing and troubling my submissives a lot and this is non negotiable (HaHa).
We are going to have a detailed discussion on each other’s kinks but one thing is for sure that I don’t like anything filthy, anything illegal and no permanent marks.
I think it’s enough for today, just hit me up if you want the same thing. Keep it simple but unique. Do tell me about your favourite colour (we can use it as our safe word), mine is blue.
Cheers! <3
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Hi All
Firstly about me, I am a 27 year old indian research scientist based out of Illinois, returning to India. I really like what I am learning in my research and honestly I feel I will be the one changing the semiconductor industry in the future. I mean it's a pretty lofty dream but what is the point of even existing if we don't push for greatness.
I am also deep into martial arts. I have been practicing Brazilian jiujitsu for an year and have gotten decently good at it. I won my first silver medal in a grappling competition few weeks ago. I would say I am pretty disciplined and like consistency in my routine. I believe discipline is the only thing that can give you freedom to do pursue different activities. I love reading. I try to read a book every week.
Currently, I am reading Basic Economics by Thomas Sowell. He is a very good author. You should check him out. I also love watching movies and TV series. Thriller and horrors are my favorite genre but I watch anything that's not boring.
Now, what I am looking for? I am looking for a submissive female who wants to be disciplined. I seek someone who wants to relinquish control and seeks structure in her life. People confuse submission with sexual acts generally but what I want is someone who wants to change and someone who wants to be better and I give her the push she needs. I love control, being incharge and you must have the need to be trained and micromanaged. Sexually, I love giving tasks and you will get sexual relief only when you have pleased me by being the best version of you that I want you to be. My kinks include micromanagement, domination, slavery, orgasm denial, pet play, cliy torture, edging, spanking, slapping, total submission to name a few. I am fine with begining online and having a potential meet up down the line. Most importantly, I want someone who is serious about taking owned and trained, someone who actually needs it. I do not want to waste time on someone who is in it just for sexual pleasure. Pleasure without suffering has no meaning and you must be willing to take that journey with me.
So, if you are interested and serious about being controlled and micromanaged, message me and let me know in detail why I should train you. So, if you are interested and seek something similar to this. Let me know!
Well hello there, Allow me to introduce myself, I'm the funny and slightly introverted guy that you never knew you needed in your life. If you're looking for a laugh, a flirt, or just someone to chat with about random things, then I'm your man.
I might not be the loudest guy in the room, but that doesn't mean I can't hold my own in a conversation. In fact, I pride myself on being able to make people laugh and smile with my witty one-liners and sarcastic quips. I'm like a human version of a dad joke, but with a little bit more charm (if I do say so myself).
When it comes to flirting, well, let's just say that I'm a bit of a smooth operator. I can make your heart skip a beat with just a few well-placed compliments, and my sense of humor will keep you on your toes. I'm the kind of guy who will buy you flowers just because, and then make you laugh so hard that you forget why you were mad at me in the first place.
But don't let my introverted nature fool you, I love meeting new people and trying new things. Whether it's exploring a new city, trying a new restaurant, or just watching a movie at home, I'm always up for an adventure. And who knows, maybe you could be the one to bring me out of my shell even more.
So, if you're looking for a guy who can make you laugh, flirt like a pro, and maybe even surprise you with his hidden talents, then look no further. Let's chat and see where this goes.
Or are you just feeling that you don't get the attention you deserve?! Feeling like you are lacking a flaire? Thats the most sucky feeling right? You must have imagined your love life to be honey and roses and this is where you've ended up!
May I entice you with a good conversation and all the possibilities under the blue sky?
What will you get : Well, lemme just introduce myself to you then, a late 20 something, handsome (I didn't say it, people around me says that :P) and charming guy who stands tall!
I like to cook, eat, travel around, read and write. So you will always be in for a good conversation, someone who will make you feel giddy, and butterflies in your stomach, and if that's not needed, you can always sign up to read the things i write, or listen to the songs I sing.
What am I looking for: Ideally someone older than me, because always have felt like I'm missing out on a mature, wise person's perspective in my life :D
but open to anyone. Just be very particular of our eachothers privacy! And please don't introduce me to your spouses. If we ever meet, be hygienic. Who doesn't like a woman who carries an aura around her!
Hoping to see you in my DMs, and I surely will not make you regret it :)
Hey, happy diwali all
So I've been having a rough time and as we all have, I am missing the intimacy and excitement. I got busy with personal stuff. But I'm back here looking for someone who doesn't mind my irregular schedules. I used to have an fwb awhile back. Looking for one and hopefully I'll find one down the line. But right now I need an online chat/sext buddy. Someone who I can get in touch with frequently and have good conversations with and someone who is very kinky.
I'm tamil. So if you're also Tamil, it'll be great. But not a dealbraker though. Age wise - 25+ is good. The older the better Relationship status doesn't matter.. If you're interested, let me know.
Dear Ladies of Mumbai/Navi Mumbai,
This is going to be long, but please do read this if you're interested in a man who is fiercely loyal, honest, goofy, sometimes funny & sometimes lame, but will always try to make you laugh! Probably nothing will come out of this, but so tired of the loneliness, especially with all the surrounding festivities and upcoming ones as well, that I thought why the hell not!
I am just another regular corporate slave, a senior consultant to be precise, who has been working in Mumbai for some time now. In the city surrounded by the sea, I am surrounded by my own sea of loneliness. At this point, I very much feel a strong need of a female presence in my life, hence making this post here.
I am trying my luck to find a female friend who can be a possible future partner, or at the very least, a hangout buddy or a female "bestie". All I want is a genuine female presence in my life, so after reading this, if you want to connect but don't want to date or have a relationship, that's fine. I would still like to connect with you and have any kind of relationship you're comfortable in, I would totally leave it upto you to set the boundaries and I'll respect them. I just don't want to feel the loneliness which has been giving me a slow death every f'n second!
About myself:
I am very bad at selling/marketing myself. I'll just say I'm a simple person, a good guy, with a good sense of humor. I'm well educated and well settled with a good career.
~5'10. Lean to Average body. Not sure how good or great I look, but it's not bad either, let's call it 7/10. (pure assumption based on what I have heard from girls and the few number of matches I get on dating apps. PS nothing materialised there, so trying my luck here lol.) I look a bit younger than my age as per general opinion, and give the shy innocent guy vibes, which I guess I am XD.
I am Non-Vegetarian, but I'm fine with Vegetarians. I don't drink nor smoke, but have no issues if you do. (You'll have to smoke out in the balcony though! Also, no weeds or drugs please.)
Interests:
I watch a lot of movies these days, mainly Bollywood. Huge SRK fan. I also watch many TV series, currently binging and loving The Office. I LOVE F.R.I.E.N.D.S, also Breaking Bad & some other drama series.
I am a big Football fan and watch a lot of football. (Can reduce that if you wish haha). I love sports & games in general, so if you're into any other sport (e.g., F1, Tennis, Cricket, Badminton etc, even Ludo XD), I can partner up in watching/playing with you.
I want to explore doing things like reading, travelling, cafe hopping, restaurant exploring etc, just looking for a perfect partner to do new things.
I don't really have much ask or criteria. Maybe Age? I am fine with anyone who is 21+. If you like sports or movies, it'll be a bonus.
I am looking for someone who is warm, kind, caring, gentle and compassionate. Someone who is nice to people. But also someone who is goofy with a tinge bit of naughtiness. Someone who can give me warmth and will let me know that I'm not lonely, and will give me loads of hugs and cuddles!
I don't really have a fun date idea per se, but have in mind a few things that the dates must include. For example, the dates should have good conversations, good food, nice long walks, holding hands, and loads of hugs! (Okay, maybe not "loads" haha). Maybe we can sit for hours somewhere nice, Marine Drive or the beach comes to mind. Or we can go to a nice restaurant. Or the movies. Or Shopping! I'm open to anything you prefer.
Thank you so much if you read all that. Please DM if interested. Hopefully I'm not alone again on any more Diwalis, or Christmas, or New Years, or Valentine's days, or EVER! 🤞🏻
Hello there. My name is Ritik and I am writing this post in order to find someone who I can talk to. I want someone who can be my friend or close one and we can play video games , chat etc.
Personality wise, I am quite introvert and shy but I do open up and get confident when I get to know a person. Or when a situation calls it, I can switch to extrovert and try to fake it till I make it lol. I also love animals , especially cats and dogs, they are cute and friendly. They are very beautiful creature , very lovely things .
My hobbies are drawing, playing guitar, watching anime and playing game mostly. I feel good when I draw and playing musical instrument brings some joy to my ears and heart.
I wish to find someone from my own country that is India but I am fine if you are from anywhere else or even Mars lol. (more diversity xD) whoever is reading this, I wish to have a long term connection so please hmu or I can DM you and we can chat together and play games together.
I am open minded and not judgemental so don't be afraid. <3
This is a little different from my usual posts. It's not a friend/dating post as such. That's why it's open to both genders.
My parents are going to go through a divorce and a divorce lawyer is contacted as well. I hope the process goes smoothly, and while I fully understand the reason for it being initiated, and happy for one parent, it also leaves me sad.
It's difficult to view your parents as two adults rather than your parents and realise that the relationship was unhealthy for one of them and it's good for them.
A part of me is feeling very sad even while the other side is understanding and lending support to the parent.
I don't want to discuss too much about the reasons on a public platform, but emotionally I do feel a little low though I'm trying to pick myself up and cheer myself up. I am also feeling happy for one parent and sad for the other.
Life is difficult sometimes.
I always had a kind of fear from childhood that my parents might get divorced.
There is also a kind of fear of things going down south or retaliating. I hope nothing of the kind happens.
Anyway, it would just be nice to have some comforting talks, I suppose.
To everyone who feels the ache of being alone this Diwali in their heart but not its warmth this year:
To the young adults, who can't go home or won't go home, chasing dreams and deadlines, far from home: May the flicker of Diwali lights remind you of the joy waiting for you back home. May you know that every missed celebration is also building something beautiful.
To the quiet strength of middle-aged souls, who provide without pause or applause: You hold the lights that others celebrate by, but this Diwali, take a moment just for you. May your own heart feel even a sliver of the light you bring to others.
To those who feel alone tonight: The Diwali glow is yours too. May the quiet night remind you that solitude can be a friend, and may you find warmth in the simple things—your favorite treat, a good song, or even a long forgotten memory.
To those who plaster smiles on their faces, holding up the weight of “happy”: Know that Diwali’s light doesn’t demand anything from you. It’s just there to remind you that in all this struggle, there’s still beauty.
This Diwali, here’s to finding a moment of peace, in whatever form it comes, and to remembering that sometimes, even a flicker of light is enough to keep us going.