Hey everyone!

Been posting here for a while and while it did not work out for me, I don’t doubt the potentil this place has for finding someone right.

So this one is for a very good friend of mine.

A brief intro:

She is 27, put up in Delhi, and currently working. A very soft spoken person and have never seen her causing useless drama.

I will let her tell you more about herself if things go right for you both!

Oh and she is 5’7”.

What is she looking for?

A long term relationship with someone sensible, kind, and fun. Hooksups, flings, FWBs is a big no. You should be living in Delhi/NCR. Lastly, would be good if your native language is hindi/punjabi(i guess).

Her username is J_J_97 over reddit.

Bbye!

Hi I am sensitive means feels the emotions of others and myself more deeply than others what that means others are ignore things I deep thinkers like poverty child labour meaning of life spiritual I am emotional deeply feels from inside I am kind and compassionate one I am creative also love art and music most explore other interest also I want my independence because my parents restricts it not there fault due to I respect i never truly stand for myself i sometimes overthinking and self doubt about myself I hurt frequently by others even when small things I don't like when someone criticize me and I expect everyone understands my deep nature but people don't.

I grew up in this city in the 90s and have moved away and back due to a constantly changing life. Having a wonderful time in South Bengaluru since a few years and hoping there to find the one to share the journey.

I love driving, exploring, reading, enjoy experiences that challenge my curious and imaginative mind, can tell you great pjs, and also laugh heartily at your dad jokes.

Looking for a fellow Kannadiga who enjoys reading and shares any of my interests. Tell me about you when you dm and pls avoid leaving me at hi/hello.

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Hey! I’m 36M here, single and never married. Have time and can put some efforts to take it slow and get to know someone. I work in IT, I am workaholic and when I am not at work, I like to listen to music or go for a walk. A movie buff, I watch a lot of Malayalam movies though I don't understand Malayalam. I like group traveling (minus the drama) compared to solo travelling, but it's been long I ever stepped out with a group. We can share music, watch movies, play games online and one day maybe travel together and watch some movie in person :p Please do not message if you take eternity to reply to messages or you have no intention to be open and vulnerable. I don’t mind you being clingy, needy. Send me a DM. Please don’t ping if you plan to ghost the next day!

M4F!

Heya folks.

What am I looking for : 22+, can speak English, has a sense of humour, doesn't ghost and does reply hmmm, k all the time.

You shouldn't talk to me if you're looking to fuel your ego or just have no time to make a proper conversation.

What are my interests : Marvel, GoT, trying different cuisines, binge watching Netflix, watching football, playing fifa.

How can I add value: if you're looking for general guidance in your career then I'm happy to speak, if you're just frustrated in life and feel stuck, if you've no one to listen but want to vent out stuff, if you just want someone to inquire about your well-being eveey few days and keep you on your toes and keep pushing you to do well in life. If you have social anxiety but want to move away from it.

Current relationship status : single and probably ready to mingle.

Ideally I'd prefer something long term but also open to short term conversations.

Feel free to say hi and add a short intro if you read till here.

Thanks for being awesome

Have a great year ahead. Take care of yourself and stay safe.

Hey there!

I'm 24M I’ve been single for about a year and a half, taking time to focus on personal growth and career hustle. Now, I feel ready to find someone to share life’s adventures with a genuine, healthy, and meaningful connection.

A bit about me:

• I’m a software engineer.

• Fitness and sports keep me active.

• Love traveling and would love to find a travel buddy!

• Big on music, trying to learn guitar as well (let’s swap playlists?) and movies (especially hunting underrated gems; hello movie dates!).

• I'm into gaming as well (yeah I have a PS4 and 5, late night gaming together will hit with sleep deprivation xD)

• I’m a one-woman kind of guy who believes in effort, communication, and making things work.

Not into dating apps because I’m all about “date to marry” vibes. If you’re someone who values authentic companionship and wants to build something real (while geeking out over music or planning trips), let’s chat!

DMs are open. Promise, no creepy vibes. Just chill, respectful convos :)

Hi everyone,

I'm a self-proclaimed introvert with a wild side. I may be quiet at first, but once you get to know me, you'll discover that I'm a funny, flirty, and charming guy who loves to live life to the fullest.

I'm here to introduce myself and hopefully catch the eye of someone special. I'm not looking for just anyone; I want someone who can keep up with my adventurous spirit and appreciate my quirky sense of humor.

So, what makes me so special, you ask? Well, for starters, I know how to make a girl feel special. I'm not one to shy away from a compliment, and I always know just the right thing to say to make a woman feel like the most beautiful girl in the room.

But don't let my flirty side fool you; I'm also a guy who enjoys deep conversations and getting to know someone on a deeper level. I'm a great listener, and I love learning about what makes someone tick.

When I'm not out exploring the world or trying new things, you can usually find me curled up with a good book or binging the latest Netflix series. I'm a bit of a homebody, but I'm always up for an adventure if the right person comes along.

So, if you're looking for a guy who can make you laugh, feel special, and go on exciting adventures with, then look no further. Drop me a message, and let's see where this connection takes us.

Hey there! I’m a 30-year-old guy from Bengaluru, looking to connect with someone for good conversations, laid-back vibes, and just a chill time. Not into the usual drinking or smoking scene, but I do enjoy great company and meaningful chats.

If you're someone who appreciates deep convos, a good laugh, and a relaxed time, hit me up. No pressure, no expectations just looking to meet like-minded people.

Let’s see where the conversation takes us!

I Just want to make a friend I can talk to and spend time with. We can talk about whatever you want, whatever you're comfortable with. I want someone I can have silly and fun as well as deep and meaningful conversations with. I want someone who will be there for me and I promise to be there for them. I just want a genuine friend. I will admit I’m not the best at holding conversations initially, but once I get to know someone, I can open up more.

I want people to stick around because they genuinely want to, not out of pity. I crave genuine human interaction, not just someone texting me because they need something from me. The only time someone messages me is if they need something. Otherwise, I’m always the one initiating the conversation. I just want to know what it’s like to be someone’s first choice, to be chosen first for once.

I think my loneliness has affected my expectations. Since I don’t have anyone, I crave attention and interaction, which leads me to expect that people should drop everything and talk to me whenever I want. I know this is unhealthy, and I shouldn’t expect it, but I just want to feel wanted. I want to be thought of first, or at the very least, not as an afterthought. It gets lonely, and I feel lost and confused.

I’m scared of ending up alone, and that fear keeps me up at night. I’m not sure what I want exactly, but I don’t want to be alone. Sometimes, I feel like I have so much love and affection to give, but no one to give it to. I just want someone to be there for me, and I promise I’ll be there for them. I need someone to talk to, someone who genuinely cares. I don’t want to just talk to people out of loneliness; I want to build something meaningful. If you're down for a conversation feel free to hit me up. My only request is that you're around my age (I'm 22 is ±2 years). Thanks for reading this far. Hope you have a nice day 😁

Hi there! I’m posting here with the hope of meeting someone who has the time, space, and intention to build a meaningful relationship. If you’re looking for a partner to share life’s journey with, maybe we could connect!

To share a bit about me: I’m a 31 year-old who loves animals—especially cats. I spend a fair bit of time on the subreddit learningtocat (it’s a thing, trust me!). In a way, I’m also learning to human, constantly working on self-improvement because I believe it’s never too late to grow and become better.

I’m not great at small talk, but once I feel comfortable, I promise the conversations will flow naturally. I love football—both watching and occasionally playing—and I’m also a movie enthusiast. My favorite genres are sci-fi and horror, with titles like The Shining, The Thing, Contact, Split, and The Girl with All the Gifts topping my list. On the lighter side, I enjoy rom-coms like You’ve Got Mail, Notting Hill, and Music and Lyrics.

On weekends, I indulge in gaming and am trying to get back to reading—though doom scrolling and reels have been a tough habit to break. To counter this, I’ve recently started cooking, which has been both fun and a step towards being more independent.

I’m more of a voice-note or call person than a texter, as I feel conversations flow better that way. I work remotely, which gives me the flexibility to travel more—something I’d love to do with a partner. If you’re into traveling, perhaps we could explore new places together and see if we’re compatible.

I want to approach finding a partner with intention and care, taking the time to truly get to know you and letting you know more about me. This post just scratches the surface—there’s definitely more to me than meets the eye. 😊

If anything here resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Let’s see where this goes! As a small request, please be at least 25 or older. Oh, and I firmly believe cheese needs to be banned—just putting that out there!

Lastly, please start your message with the phrase “The Peanut Butter Falcon” so I know you’ve read this post.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

I’ve done some crazy things in life - both good & bad. But off late, I’m feeling the need to be myself and not think too much. Looking for a friend who wouldn’t judge me for my past. I’ve no intentions of whatsoever, just looking to go with the flow. I’m not ready to sign up for anything serious or confront about my past mistakes/actions. Just looking for light conversations and see where it takes us.

Looking for someone who wants to be their original self and not change anything. I’ll reciprocate being a good friend and not add more to your list of problems. We could grab a coffee or a drink and see if we have something in common. I’m well travelled, decently educated and sustainably successful. Physically I’m 6ft2, 100kgs. Non smoker, drink occasionally and not into any forms of drugs.

If interested let’s chat. Thanks for your time

Hey there, folks! I’m a 25M, today I’m offering a free trial of something priceless: long-term, real-deal friendships. No hidden charges, no cancellations – just good vibes and meaningful connections!

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Heyy, I'm a 24 year old guy and am currently staying in Bangalore and work a job here. I'm looking for someone to talk to and see where things go and hopefully form a deep connection where we both can be our true selves with each other.

I'm a very affectionate person and and am an ambivert but I guess am more on the introvert side of it. I like reading (both fiction and non-fiction) a lot. I also like watching web series, being out in nature, listening to music (a lot of indie and folk).

If you feel we might be a match, do hit me up (maybe with your fav song or anything) :)

Heylo! I wanted to write a cool title to the post but did not want to show off my coolness yk lol. Anyway, I wanted to find someone to connect with and be friends with first. I love the idea of being good for someone and simping for someone and would love to explore that side with someone. I am kind of new to the city so would love to explore and hang out too if we hit it off. I am into cooking and football and anime, and taking aesthetic pictures ( even tho I suck at them haha ) Bonus points if you can teach me about skincare lol. Anyway, looking forward to hearing from you - Cheers!

Hey there! 25M here and a bit about me is, i like to hike, i swim often and i sketch sometimes. I like the sky, so much that I can just sit there and watch the clouds pass by or it just change colors as the day goes by. I have a dream journal and I like to narrate them as stories, so if you'd like to hear i will definitely share them.

I'm looking for long term friendships and am open to whatever it leads to, i don't mind what we are gonna talk about so just go ahead tell me about it, I'll share about my day, i share pics of my day and around and talk random convos, so if you feel like it, you can too.

Oh also I'm travelling to Delhi next month for a few days, so if you're from Delhi, we could meet up and hang out too if things works out.

I will lend you my ear if you just like to talk for a while or vent and forget we ever talked too (i know title says long term but no worries). So have a nice day!!

change is the only constant in life. I mean, I get it intellectually, but the heart? Well, the heart has its own plans, doesn't it? So here I am, 29 years young, standing tall at 6'2, a tech entrepreneur by trade, and somewhere on the ambivert spectrum you know, enjoying solitude one minute and thriving in company the next.

But why am I here, you ask? Well, lately my mind and heart have been in a bit of a civil war. You see, while I've been busy building, creating, and chasing ambitions, there's been a little rebellion growing inside a soft whisper nudging me to find that special someone. Someone to fill the spaces between the hustle and heartbeats. To walk hand in hand through life's ups and downs, to share the sunsets, the laughter, and yes, even those awkward, beautiful silences.

A bit more about me? Sure. I’ve built everything I have from scratch, coming from humble beginnings. Most of my time has been spent chasing dreams, except for a few flings that, let’s just say, added some lessons to the life. But now, it feels like the stars are aligning, nudging me toward something more meaningful and longterm.

So, here I am, hoping to find that one person who’s ready for the same chapter a partnership built on shared dreams, loyalty, and a dash of spontaneity.

Lifestyle? Well, I don't drink, smoke, or dabble in any vices unless taking some risky decisions , but hey, that’s a battle for another day. I’m health conscious and live by the philosophy of being the best version of myself, and I’d love for my partner to vibe with that too.

So, who am I looking for? I’m looking for someone who’s ready to build something real. Someone who understands the beauty of living in the moment, while dreaming about the future.

Hobbies? Oh, the usual suspects reading, movies,talking, deep debates (the kind where you might just change my mind), traveling, trekking, hiking, working out, yoga, meditation… basically anything that keeps me balanced and grounded. I believe in constantly leveling up, and I’m hoping to find someone who feels the same.

Now, let’s talk red flags. I’ll admit, I can be a bit clumsy absent minded at times, and well, I don’t always play by the social norms. I’ve always been a bit of a rebel at heart, and small talk? Not really my thing. Sure, I can turn on the charm when needed, but I usually prefer deeper conversations over surface-level chatter.

And a confession: My desk (and my room) might just be the definition of chaos. Disorganized? Absolutely. But hey, they say opposites attract, right? Maybe I'll bring the house, and you’ll be the one to make it a home.

So, if you’re still with me, and you're also open to a long-term, meaningful relationship, then let’s see where this goes. If you're ready for something real, we might just be on the same page.

So, that’s me unpolished, a little unconventional, but always striving for something authentic. Maybe that's what you’re looking for too.

Please don’t just send a hi and please be descriptive. Maybe,this is the beginning of the story that i narrate to our kids on how i met your mother.

Hey i am looking for online gf to share my feelings and talk i never had gf that need someone can be my gf online atleast, i will not ask anything bad just need someone to love even tho it's online i am ok with it, someone with whom i can talk daily and listen her nothing sexual need emotional support someone who understand me as good as i will, so if your interested dm me or text in comment

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The old woman stared at the dusty photo, a single tear tracing the faded smile of her long-lost love. The train whistle echoed, a final goodbye." Explanation: This story captures a poignant moment of reminiscence, with a clear image of an elderly woman grieving over a past love, with the train sound symbolizing the finality of their separation. Key points: Concise imagery: "Dusty photo," "faded smile," "single tear" paint a picture of nostalgia. Emotional impact: The "long-lost love" and the "final goodbye" convey a deep sense of loss. Symbolism: The train whistle represents the passage of time and the irreversible nature of the separation.

TL;DR Looking for a long term committed relationship

I'm at that point in my life where I know I deserve to experience that cute, adorable, sweet love. The kind which gets you kicking your feet in the air and makes your heart skip a beat when you receive a text from that person. Whenever I see a couple, I feel so happy for them but somewhere inside, I'm screaming GOD ME WHEN 😭

And no, I'm not immature or childish. It's just that I never got to experience such love and so my heart longs for it. I hope you understand. This is the kind of relationship I aspire to have with my partner.

Few things about me: I love singing. So tell me your favourite song, sit back and enjoy my voice. I also write poetry. You can expect a few poems dedicated to you if we click. I also fancy playing cricket, badminton and chess. Music is an irreplaceable part of my life. I also watch movies and TV shows which look interesting. I'm very fond of affection. I love hugs and cuddles as my primary love language is physical touch.

I don't have much expectations honestly. Just be kind hearted. That's enough for me. Age and distance are not a barrier for me because finding your forever within your region and around your age is unlikely. So don't let that deter you from starting something which could possibly change our lives :)

I am someone who is quite a sweet and effortful person. I would love an online connection with someone similar to me and have good, intellectual conversations and also share some laughter and affection. Affection can light us up and make us happy. (Even platonic connection is fine.) I like giving and receiving affection in the form of cute, little nicknames for each other, checking up on each other, asking about each other.

I would like someone with whom I can exchange sweet words with and have heart to heart conversations with.

I am fine with a wholesome, platonic connection as well.

Our meeting seemed to dangle so much on fate, it's only fair we pay our dues. Give it our best shot. Do justice to the matchmakers of heaven - The directors of this romance.

I love bonding with someone through heart to heart conversation. Through exchanging genuine care and concern. Through passionate exchange of our interests and hobbies. Through clockwork logging of our daily lives. Through mindful curiosity in each other's interests. Through mutual preference for glitter over gold, depth over deception, charm over carelessness and symphonies over superficiality.

The conversation starts out with pleasantaries and outward introduction of our demographic information - the most rudimentary. The most formal. Gradually, the outer layers crack and a mild joke cuts across the mask and we're another layer deep. Common or different tastes in art are the usual social custom for making new acquaintances.

Soon, our conversation flows like a roaring river eliciting deep intellectual and emotional responses from both of us.

We're discussing prized memories and cherished fantasies of the future. Chalking out hypotheticals and admiring the other's world views. Pretty soon, we're suddenly bare and feeling a strong bond by virtue of what we've shared.

Small silences punctuated the conversation. These silences were not awkward. It was a comforting waterfall of connection. It was the silence that followed from both of us knowing and enjoying the bond created by our hearts.

I loved the feeling of ending a conversation with a stranger on the first day with the feeling you've known them for years. I harboured romantic beliefs that such a connection must be the byproduct of a relationship in a previous life !

Here are a few things about me -

• I love staying at home.
• I do not drink or smoke and don't like going to noisy pubs. Although there are times when friends or office parties are conducted there, it's something I just tolerate.
• I love reading. I am interested in programming, Mathematics, Chess, Science, Psychology, Geopolitics, Space, Literature (fantasy particularly or late but I like all kinds) and Self Help (Productivity and Positive Psychology) - and a lot more ! I'm generally intellectually curious and a lifelong learner.
• I love following updates on things I'm passionate about and sharing them regularly. I love following podcasts and blogs and videos on them and sharing and discussing them. I also love explaining a new thing I have learnt as it helps me understand it better.
• I tend to be positive and look at the brighter side of life usually. But I also like sharing the problems I am going through and like listening to your's.
• I love animals. I have a lot of pets. I am also quite close to my family and am surrounded by my loving pets (5 dogs and 5 cats). I recovered from dengue last month and they were always around me all the time. It felt very good.
• I love putting in effort into messages and writing effortful messages and generally use complete words and not much abbreviations. I love crafting a symphony of text.
• I am usually quite calm and supportive and remember things that are told to me in conversation. I like getting emotional and expressive and am soft hearted and sensitive. I am also quite mature and enjoy talking to similarly mature people.

Do not reach out to me if you're just bored, did not read the post, don't like anything about me or my profile or don't know what you want or don't want to invest in having a good connection or don't even have the intention for talking for a few weeks. I am already quite hurt at repeated ghosting so please do not even reach out to me if you intend to ghost by tomorrow or next week.

Here's what I would like from us

• Genuine interest, care and empathy for each other - Making each other a priority though we are strangers at first. That's part of the excitement in jumping head first into this ! That does not mean we do not respect each other's busy schedules or commitments. I'm looking for something really genuine.
• Regular effortful messages, and remembering things the other says
• I love sharing or explaining anything new I learn, whether it is a blog post, podcast, video, book or a general thought that came through my mind. It would be great if you love listening to good explanations and are interested in such things. I'd also love it if you too like sharing blogs or podcasts on topics that you are interested in but it's not necessary.
• I also love self improvement and sharing progress or motivation as we are doing things towards our goals and dreams.
• I love voice calls as I love the sound of voice. I would love it if you are someone who is excited at having regular voice calls (2-3 times a week) or at least exchanging voice messages at times !
• We don't need to have similar taste in art (music, TV shows, movies). I am open to learning about new kinds of interests and new subcultures !
• Openly sharing our thoughts on the bigger ideas and arcs of life and also venting about the smaller frustrations
• Being excited at receiving messages from the other person every time we light each other's phones up.

Also would be nice if we can just share photos so we can visualise what we look like as I like sharing photos when I go somewhere.

Hey you, How are you? What has you been upto? What’s been on your mind lately? Let me know!

If you’re looking to have a company, please feel free to slide into DMs, no limitation about location or age (just be an adult). Some info about me in case it helps:

Your regular “the guy next door”, who’s bit into everything.

Come join me for a chat/ vent/rant session. I promise I will try to be a good listener and I never judge.

Books, movies, music and sports takes up whatever free time I can have to myself

Always open to talk about anything and everything under the moon.

Hope to see at least some of you in DMs/Chat.

Have a great time on Reddit!

We all know 2 + 2 = 4, but sometimes, just sometimes, wouldn’t it be nice if 2 + 2 = 5? A little rebellion against logic, a little irrationality in a world obsessed with equations.

Yeah, I stole that from Dostoevsky because why not? A fitting existential crisis for my predicament, wouldn’t you say?

Hey, you. Yes, you. The one I’ve been waiting for. Took you long enough, huh? But hey, not your fault. I was busy chasing ambitions, tangled in the grand design of building something from nothing.

I come from a humble background, and making sure my world was steady before inviting someone into it? That was my priority. But now? Now, I’m ready.

See, I’m not the type to obsess over love like some lovesick poet. We all have things to do, mountains to climb, victories to claim. But still, there’s this quiet yearning.

A whisper in my heart that wants to find you, hold you, walk through life with you, not just in fair weather but through every storm. Romantic? Maybe. But what’s life without a little poetry?

So here I am, taking my one shot because, as they say, you miss 100% of the chances you don’t take.

Who am I?

6’2 ft Ambitious, audacious, and selectively social Tech entrepreneur by profession, lawyer by education (yes, I like chaos)

Dabbles in multiple industries because one field is just too mainstream A certified workaholic, but don’t worry, I’ll make time for the right person

Hobbies? Reading, writing, long walks, chess, traveling (13 countries so far. Don’t worry, we’ll travel more) Vices? None. No drinking, no smoking. But reckless adventures? Absolutely. Because what’s life without a few well-placed red flags?

Who are you?

Hopefully, someone who won’t just slide into my DMs with a dry “hi.” Give me something real. Tell me what’s been on your mind lately, what excites you, what keeps you up at night. Make me curious. Make me want to know more.

So, let’s put an end to this hide and seek, shall we? Take your shot. Be mine.

Hey everyone

It's Friday and I don't want this weekend to go by uneventful.

So posting here is my little attempt to make it better.

I would love to have a great conversation which lasts this entire weekend, we don't share much about each other and just have fun without any strings and without any prerequisites.

The only catch is we forget about this after the weekend, thus ensuring it stays a good memory. So hmu if this resonates with you.

Don't just say hi, Lmk your asl if you want to talk.

Have a great weekend otherwise.

I’m just looking to talk, banter and gossip about everything interesting and uninteresting in both of our lives. Everyone around me, and everything around me has started to make me feel old lol. I’m looking for someone with the energy and vibe and enthusiasm in life with a great outlook on life. I’m looking for someone between the ages of 20-25. I like tall and fit men. I’m looking for a good mental and emotional connection more than anything else. Please message me if you think we can vibe. Please also include your age, your city and what you do in your life in your intro message so I can find someone I think I’ll match with better.

I’ve been single for two years. I genuinely don’t have the time to form relationships thanks to work and my schedule. I try to put in the effort but usually it’s all pointless.

I’m looking for someone who I can take someone out on a date this Valentines. I want to just have something happen on that front so that I can tell myself, that at least kuch toh hua do saalon mein.

You will not have any obligations on your part. If you want to spend time outside nice on Valentines night and have nothing to do with me after that it’s fine. This doesn’t necessarily have to be the start of a relationship. The only thing I ask is that you spend an evening with me somewhere nice. If you want to relax at home after work, we can go out over the weekend as well.

To reiterate, there is no obligation on your part to do anything else. If you just want something to do on Valentines and return back to your life you can choose to do that as well. However, if you show interest in anything else beyond the date, I will be more than happy to reciprocate.

Requirements: Should be living in Mumbai permanently and should be single. Preferably between 23-30.

A little bit about me: I’m 27 years old. My interests include reading up on historical events, watching F1, and obsessing over special interests. I’m also working on a novel. I’m also a huge fan of rock music. I am well read, I can yap till the sun comes up, and I have been told I have a nice voice.

I have a nice set of friends and I love my family.

What you will get: Some chocolates and maybe, flowers (if it’s a work night that’s gonna be hard but I’ll try). I will write you a poem and present it to you on the day we go out.

Objective

At this point, dating apps feel like a broken job portal where every profile wants “6 ft, gym, dog person,” and I’m stuck wondering if “knows how to make perfectly round rotis” qualifies as an essential skill. I’m not here to sell a curated version of myself—I’ve overanalyzed my life enough to know I’m an ongoing beta version.

I work remotely, which means I can escape Delhi’s air pollution whenever I want. Ideally looking for someone who enjoys a mix of deep convos, spontaneous getaways, and the kind of chemistry that makes Sunday mornings (or late Saturday nights) actually worth looking forward to.

Not here just to collect good morning texts—I’d rather meet up, see if we vibe, and take it from there. If you’re looking for something casual-but-good, real-but-not-rushed, or just someone who makes a solid breakfast after a long night, let’s talk.

Summary

Mildly attractive North Indian (solid 7/10, can stretch to 8 in good lighting, 8.5 if you squint). Highly skilled in creating awkward situations, overthinking texts, and explaining movies no one asked about. Peak energy hours: 12 AM - 2 AM. Fluent in sarcasm, self-roasting, and questionable life choices. Cook for me once, and I’ll probably start planning our wedding menu. No pressure.

Experience

Girl A – High School (~2 years)

• Hugged me once. Said I was cute.
• Assisted her with math homework. Did not receive love or extra credit. What I learned: I’m definitely not gay.

Girl B – Senior School + College (~3 years)

• Dated my ex-best friend’s girlfriend (yes, I was the villain in someone’s coming-of-age story).
• Got karma’d when she left me for another guy. What I learned: Cheating is dumb. I am also dumb.

Girl C – College (~2 years)

• Thought it was love. Turns out, we repeat relationship patterns until we learn from them.
• Which means I repeated them. What I learned: Love is a verb, and complacency is a slow breakup. Also, there is no such thing as "too much communication."

Girl D – Work (~1 year)

• Office romance. 10/10 would not recommend.
• Work gossip moves faster than office internet. What I learned: Don’t mix paychecks and...you know.

Girl E – Reddit (~3 months)

• Google Meet is hands down the worst dating app. Video lag ruins chemistry faster than bad texting.
• Somehow made a long-distance attempt, but real-life buffering ruined it. What I learned: r4r actually works. No one tells you about the timezone issues though.

Education

High School (2010-2013)

• Discovered I was too nerdy for Dota but not cool enough to go clubbing.
• My high school bully is now a therapist. Still processing this.

University – Literature Major (2013-2016)

• Can write cringeworthy poetry just for you.
• Will quote obscure books to sound deep.
• Nearly dropped out to become a writer at least three times. Might still do it.

Interests & Skills

• Gaming: Just finished Ghost of Tsushima, what should I play next?
• Anime: No, I do not own a body pillow.
• Books: I own way more books than I’ve read, but the intention is real. The Japanese have a word for this (Tsundoku, in case you were wondering).
• Painting: Imagine Majnu Bhai’s horse, but worse.
• Exercise: Every time I feel bloated, which is often.
• Cooking: Yes. Big YES. Can and will cook for you. If you let me use your kitchen, I will also reorganize your spice rack.

Awards & Achievements

• Runner-up, "Best Son 2024" (for not bringing shame to the family)
• Winner, "How Are You Not Dead Yet?"

Languages Spoken

• English: Fluent, obviously.
• Hindi: Native.
• Spanish: First line of Despacito.
• French: Can confidently ask for the bathroom and a glass of wine. That’s all you really need.

References

• Mom: “If he doesn’t get a GF soon, I will start making calls.”
• Best Friend: “Let’s make a gay pact at 30.”
• Ex-Best Friend: “Let’s make a gay pact at 22.”

Pictures available on request.

I got a hike almost 3 years of not getting one due to my plans to change career.

It isn’t huge but I so wish there was someone to hold me and appreciate it maybe? Like you know hug me tight and just freaking kiss.

I have been sick since a month. But I was still fortunate enough to attend Coldplay concert.

Here’s to good health and a nice career to all of you.

Maybe this post will eventually get me one from Delhi this time?

2024 has been a roller-coaster, for me, and I'm sure for a lot of others too. But, after a long time, I have moved into a new year with a lot to look forward to. What lays ahead excites me and I'm looking for a partner to share the joys and the sorrows of the life that is to come. Perhaps the clichés, like visiting a museum or an evening at the beach where we just sit and read a book; but it's been increasingly feeling like one of those times when a little effort will take us a long way. Perhaps we'll be friends by the end of it, or return to being strangers; or perhaps something more. Maybe the first of many incredible holidays together. If you are one with a hint of intergenerational trauma, a love for stories and a hatred for bigotry we'd fit right like a glove.

I love rainy afternoons, the memories of long lost friends, whisky, Bob Dylan, alliterations, old maps and pineapples.

I'm 28 years old, living in a city far away from home; a city I don't know too well and will perhaps get to explore with you. In you, I'm looking for someone who is anti-caste, kind and fiercely opinionated! It is important to me that our politics align and that's a value I hold very dear to me. Reading a lot or playing a good game of chess makes me feel productive; I find people with hobbies extremely sexy. I'm politically inclined to the left and hope that we'd bond over our mutual hatred of fascism.

I'd like to know how you deal with uncomfortable situations and conversations and what your expectations from your partner are in times of conflict. I'd love to break dating stereotypes by communicating like healthy adults and I expect the same from you too.

I want to build a deep and meaningful relationship with you that hopefully stands the test of time. I understand the effort required to build one and would love to paint a room yellow with you someday.

Things I bring to the table

• food (I've been told I'm a great cook)
• emotional availability and support
• neurodivergence

I don't mind connecting to people from other cities as long as there are possibilities to meet and eventually close the gap.

Thanks to whoever has made the painful effort of reading through this, I promise that your effort will be reciprocated. I shall be looking forward to your messages. Bonus points if you can teach me Urdu or Spanish.

Tell me your most controversial opinion.

P.S. please be an atheist and over 25. A liking for Green Lay's is a must! :P

Hi everyone,

I’m a 25-year-old from India, currently living in Italy. Life abroad has been a great journey of self-discovery and growth, but I’ve realized that what I’m missing is a genuine connection with someone who values mutual respect and understanding as much as I do.

A bit about me—sports have always been a big part of my life, and in my free time, you’ll usually find me watching movies or bingeing on TV series. I’m also a huge fan of Formula 1, so weekends often involve cheering on my favorite teams and dissecting race strategies.

That said, I believe a meaningful relationship is built on more than just common interests. While it’s always nice to share a hobby or two, what matters most to me is that we respect each other’s passions and make space for one another’s individuality.

Quality time is very important to me—whether it’s sharing a meal, exploring new places, or just having a thoughtful conversation. Speaking of meals, food is my love language. I enjoy cooking (and eating, of course), so if you enjoy sharing a good meal, we’d probably get along great.

I’m here looking for someone who values meaningful communication, mutual respect, and building something that goes beyond surface-level interactions. If that resonates with you, feel free to drop a message—I’d love to hear about your interests and what brings you joy in life.

Looking forward to connecting with someone who’s as excited about sharing moments as I am. Thanks for reading!

A daytime post since things appear to be slow at work.

I'm pretty sure of what I seek (or rather crave) right now, It's company, exchange of ideas, intimacy, it's wantingness to hold someone and feel a certain warmth. I do feel anxious about the futility of another week going by uneventfully, because time awaits for no one.

Having said that, I seek cuddles, I seek evening walks together, I seek time together, I seek romanticism. I want to know you, the real you, fool around, care about you, talk about meaningful things. All the good stuff. Emotionally I do not have many expectations. I'm very much open to something meaningful with no strings attached. My value system is liberal, I believe in equality for all and do not discriminate. I'm an agnost so not much into religion really. I like to keep myself fit, I'm a reasonably attractive guy, would often get right swiped on the apps but lately I'm struggling to connect at a certain level with just anyone. Doing apps while doomswiping, feels like a chore. Therefore, conversation and articulation would be the centrepiece of our bond, if it ever comes to that.

I would very much be interested in 2 major things, conversations and physical intimacy, where the latter isn't necessary, it's subject to the level of connect, vibe and mutual attraction. Need to hear you, flirt with you, and share our stories for the day. All the good or the bad stuff. Would be up for a virtual connection at first and if we bond well then we can meet physically too.

Have a good day. :)

Hey there, I'm a 23-year-old guy, just shy of 6 feet, originally from a place near Varanasi, currently living in Assam. I'm excited to start my 2-year internship in Mumbai soon!

A bit about me: I'm a non-vegetarian foodie who's also in the process of learning cooking. I'm also pursuing CA. So, technically, I'll be a 'man in finance'. ;) I want someone to be part of this journey, the same way, I'll be part of yours!

When I'm not studying or working, you can find me exploring virtual worlds on Google Maps, dreaming of future travel adventures, or reminiscing about my artistic pursuits. I've always been fascinated by geography and the stories that maps tell. During the lockdown, I even tried my hand at creating digital maps!

I'm also a skilled painter and sketcher, although it's been a while since I last picked up a brush or pencil. Maybe with the right person, I'll find inspiration to rekindle my artistic side!

I'm a big fan of movies and series, especially sci-fi and thrillers.

Music is another passion of mine! I enjoy listening to melodious and upbeat songs, regardless of the language. While most of my playlist consists of Hindi and English tracks, I'm always eager to discover new tunes and artists.

I love traveling to new places - both natural wonders and man-made attractions. I enjoy experiencing different cultures and trying local food. I hope you're travel enthusiast too because I would want to go on trips with my partner.

As the elder sibling, I've often found myself in a caretaking role. While I love my family, sometimes I wish I had someone to offer me a warm hug and listen to my thoughts. If you're someone who can offer emotional support and be a partner in every sense, I'd love to connect with you.

On a more personal note, I'm quite particular about hygiene and cleanliness. I believe it's essential to maintain a certain level of personal hygiene, and I seek someone who shares similar habits and values.

I've been single my whole life, and I'm ready to meet someone special. If that someone is you, let's connect and see where the journey takes us!