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32 [F4R] #Ontario #Online - Domme seeking friends and a connection!

Hi hi!

If you’ve found your way to my post I hope you had a lovely week so far! Please make sure that you have read alll the way to the bottom - you have a much better response from me if you take the time to read things fully and not ask me questions that are very clearly answered here.

I am an AFAB Enby person looking to make a new connection in the community! I currently have a nesting partner but I am poly - I am not looking for an exclusive connection. I am pansexual and demisexual as well - I do not have any interest in quick sexual exchanges. I need a friend first and foremost.

I am not going to rush into anything and I am certainly not going to be someone’s masturbation fodder. If you need someone to get you off, there are plenty of other folks who would be happy to help you with that! I am really looking for someone who is interested in a long-term connection and is willing to put in the hard work that is required.

A little about me:

  • passionate, creative, and driven - I’ve always got some project on the go - I have been working on a drawing challenge throughout the month of October and I’d love to get some ideas for a project for November!
  • poly, partnered, and happy! - I am very happily in a relationship and this is not going to affect or change that
  • I love to work on myself and learn new things! I’m always reading something interesting and I stick to a pretty strict routine - I’m not going to be up half the night and I’m not always endlessly available.
  • I am learning to love to read again!

About kinky me:

  • I am a dominant leaning switch
  • I am currently in a 24/7 dynamic as a service submissive to my partner
  • I am most interested in tasks, mental domination, and someone who can add something to my life. I am not a kink dispenser and I will not accept someone who is looking for one.
  • I am not interested in sexual play of any kind; if you are only interested in orgasm control, pegging, or anything like that I will not be a good fit for you
  • If you claim to not have any limits, we will not be a good fit. I don’t mind people being new but knowing what your limits are and aren’t is an important thing

Who I’m looking for:

  • a submissive or switch between the ages of 30-45 with some experience in kink - no exceptions on the age
  • someone poly or single - I do not have any interest in someone who is going behind their partners back
  • someone who understands that reciprocal effort is important - I have no interest in being the driving force behind every single interaction.
  • time zone doesn’t really matter but if you’re closer to EST we will likely have similar schedules
  • someone who knows what they want and what their intentions are - I do not want to rush but I do want to know what I am getting into. I do not want someone who just wants to get into a dynamic without any thought about it
  • someone who is willing to have conversations that are not just about kink! I want to be friends as well - I feel like it makes for the best play if we are to progress that far

-someone interested in voice and video chats! I’ve usually got a decent amount of time throughout the day ☺️

  • someone willing to be honest, open, and communicate with me. I do not tolerate people who aren’t willing to have the hard talks and work as a team.

If this sounds like something you could be interested in, feel free to send me a DM! I would love to hear about something you are passionate about and what you hope to get out of a new connection ☺️

Looking forward to hearing from you soon!

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2024/10/30
13:57 UTC

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23 [M4F] #Netherlands #Online looking for cozy vibes with a side of kink!

Heya! If you're reading this i hope you're having a lovely day. I'm making this post to try and find a fun domme to become friends and hopefully start a dynamic with. I'd love to get to know someone beyond just the kinky side, so allow me to try and sell you on why you should send yours truly a message and maybe we can have a chat!

To start with, let me tell you a bit about my general vibe. I'm a 23 year old queer Dutch guy and I'd say i fit certain stereotypes, like being over 6 feet tall and very direct, although the latter could be my autism! So if you can appreciate direct open communication and someone who's honest to a fault I'm sure we'd get along swimmingly! Although fair warning, this also means my brain is chaotic often. Consider this a gentle warning. :)

In terms of appearance i look pretty alternative, with shoulder length blonde hair, a short beard, a tattoo with more to follow, and usually dressed in darker colors and nerdy t-shirts or band merch! So if you're someone who enjoys or also fits that vibe, hit me up!

Speaking of nerdy stuff, i have a lot of nerdy interests! So if you enjoy video games, movies, pop culture, table top RPG's, fantasy, writing, folklore/mythology or anything of the sort I'm sure we'll have plenty to talk about! And if you don't share many of these I'm always open to learning about new interests!

Now for the part we're all secretly or not so secretly here for, the kinky side! While i prefer to discuss the nitty gritty in an actual conversation I can't exactly leave you with nothing to go off of, now can i? So here's a little rundown to give you an idea!

As i am a very affectionate (and submissive) person I'm a big fan of gentle dommes. So this is what I'm hoping to find. I like the mommy domme side, but this is optional. A bit of a mean streak is totally welcome, as long as it's balanced with gentleness and care. It would be nice to find someone from my country or timezone, but don't let that stop you from applying! I'm always happy to meet people around the world. Age wise I'm open to anyone age 20-50. Only single people or people practicing ENM/polyamory please. This is non negotiable.

All body types are very much welcome, though i must admit i have a thing for plus size women. Should you, dear reader, be someone who partakes in the wondrous world of gender non-comformity, and consider yourself a feminine or androgynous person, you are more than welcome in my DM's as well!

What i like most about being a sub and what I like to think makes me a good one, is that i get a sense of comfort from following clear instructions, i genuinely enjoy proper and open communication and nothing makes me happier and more turned on than seeing a partner who's clearly enjoying themselves. The feeling of letting go of control is an added bonus as a naturally anxious person haha.

I'll share a few kinks i really love and some hard limits, so you know a bit of what to expect should the conversation end up going in the NSFW direction If you like the sound of any of the following, we might be a great fit:

-Facesitting and ass smothering -edging and JOI -Making out, spit, licking and tongues -Mommy domming -Praise (warning, you will get me flustered) -Anything involving hands. This is a recent addition to my kinky corner and I'm curious to explore more!

A few soft limits are degradation and denial.

Some hard limits are extreme pain, scat, sounding, blood, vomit, cuckolding, findom, chastity cages and permanent markings

I will leave it here, since this is getting way too rambly and long, but if you made it this far, first of all thank you for making it this far through my rambling of questionable coherence. If I sparked your interest, please be so kind to include your age, gender and location in your opening message. An SFW picture is also welcome, but entirely optional!No need if it makes you uncomfortable.

If you read everything open your message with your favorite animal so i know you've made it down here! Hopefully I'll hear from you soon!

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2024/10/30
13:46 UTC

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20 [F4M] - #Indianapolis looking for in-person sub UPDATED w/ pics

i didn’t provide enough direction on what you should message me with. i don’t want to sift through a bunch of messages without pics, so i have included one on my profile. now i expect you to send me the picture in the first message so that i can visually know if i want to go further. i want to see:

  • the message
  • physical description and location
  • picture

i have a shit ton of toys and other bells and whistles. i’d like to meet in a public spot before doing any of them femdom stuff. i don’t have any extreme sexual fetishes, i just enjoy dominating men, teasing them, and getting them to do my bidding for me. i’m way more into the psychological fantasy of controlling someone more than the physical one. i’m the type of person who needs the mental before i get involved physically. i don’t like men telling me what to do, which humorously, is what femdom usually is, just fulfilling men’s fantasy. this is why it is your job to enact my fantasies.

the toys

i have a lot of things i’d like to do in the future. i’d like to you be within range so that we can meet fairly often, such as a few times a month to “practice” 😁

let’s exchange some pics and then talk on snapchat or phone.

non negotiables

  • should be in college, or college-aged like between 19-22 or around this range.

  • is slim/skinny or muscular, anything but overly obese or overweight

  • taller is better. i will automatically subtract two inches from your proposed height to the correct value.

  • has a light complexion but i also like tan and olive

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2024/10/30
13:38 UTC

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24 [F4M] #Mexico #Texas Femdom looking for love 💗

Disclaimer: Im looking for love. What do I mean by that? A romantic relationship/monogamy. I'm single, don't have kids, and don't want them in the future.

Age: 24 Appearance: I'm 4'11" or 1.49cm Picture of me SFW : https://imgur.com/a/eerGFwA Location: I live in Monterrey, Mexico. Open to relocating. Mexico / US.

I work in HR, and what can I say? I like to boss people around. I enjoy going to the gym and am currently on cut.

My gym motivation has been to hip trust my future boyfriend's body weight. I like nature, hiking, and long walks, but it is usually too hot here to go outside that much.

Hobbies: My main hobbies are audiobooks/books. There is nothing like a long walk to a romance or horror book. I dabble in other genres as well, like sci-fiction and memoirs.

Series: The Boys, GOT, Doctor Who. Animes: Tokyo Ghoul, Fruit Basket, Jujutsi Kaisen, Blen S, Attack on Titans.

What do I look for in a partner? Someone who is kind and likes teasing will want to play silly games with me and understand that I’m not perfect and am not looking for perfection in them. We all have space for growth, but compassion is essential. I believe love is a choice. You choose to put effort, compassion, and care into each other’s.

My kinky side : Well, I have tried a little bit of everything. I’m a curious person. Some of the things that I like are bondage, chastity, pegging, role play, pet play, praise play, light pain, spankings, and panties. I’m a nerd. The pre-work before the session is fun, doing my research to set the scene and discuss the session's goal.

I don’t expect to match 100% on kinks, and I like more things outside of this list.

Hard limits: scat, fire, sissification.

Requirements :

  • age: 24 up to 33
  • location: Mexico/ US.
  • able to travel to meet in person if we connect
  • doesn't want kids. Because I don't.
  • non-religious. I'm atheist/agnostic
  • emotionally available
  • wants a romantic, monogamous relationship
  • BONUS if you are in therapy or have been in therapy

If this sounds appealing, send me a message or DM with a cute cat picture, little about yourself and a picture of yourself with clothes SFW. You don’t need to show your face.

This is me

https://imgur.com/a/eerGFwA

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2024/10/30
13:28 UTC

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20 [F4M] princess looking for simp in #nyc

hi. hope you're doing well! i'm looking for a sub aged 20-22 (no exceptions) living in nyc, who enjoys not only the physical but also the psychological aspect of a d/s dynamic. i'm not looking for a long term relationship, but a nice arrangement where we can indulge in our fantasies and foster a really good friendship. as the title suggests, i like a good simp, as in i like a man whose actions make me feel like the center of attention. dynamic wise, a service sub. though i like subs that'd do anything for my pleasure, i consider myself a soft domme. ¡ don't like brats and i don't do ONS (i actually take great pleasure in taking things as slow as i see fit). my main kink is orgasm denial so be prepared for that. i'm not into feminization/ sissies/ gore/scat/ etc. my personal preferences can be discussed at a later stage. i won't respond to simple messages. be proactive and show interest and thoughtfulness in your reply. give me your asl, tell me about who you are, your beliefs and values and why you think we'd be a good match. add a sfw picture (it's ok if you're not comfortable doing it at a first interaction, just beware that i'd like to verify you if we were to ta. this outside of reddit).

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2024/10/30
13:12 UTC

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22 [M4F] #Russia/Online – Seeking a Gentle Dom for Long-Term Friendship and CEI Tasks

Hello! I'm a 22-year-old guy from Russia who's looking for a female dom who can be a friend even beyond the kink stuff. I'm specifically seeking for someone around my age who can help me grow even more comfortable with my submissive side, particularly when it comes to eating my own cum. I find it almost impossible to do on my own, and it feels unacceptable for a beta like me not to be able to follow through. I think a supportive, understanding guiding help could help me get past this.

I’d love to explore a relationship where we can build a deep, mutual trust, with a focus on daily or spontaneous CEI tasks. It would be great if we could discuss these tasks together make them creative most importantly both have fun with it.

A bit about me: I'm quite nerdy, with a deep passion for video games, music, and movies. I could talk endlessly about these topics, but I'm also open to chatting about anything else that interests you. I am shy though and it takes some time for me to open up to someone. Friendship, connection and mutual trust are important to me, so I'd love to get to know you on a personal level. I don't want it to be just a boring d/s relationship, I want to become genuine friends who could discuss anything and have sfw fun as well.

When it comes to kinks, I strongly believe in female supremacy, and I have a huge foot fetish that I can't get enough of. Spit and verbal degradation are also things I find incredibly arousing. I've also been curious about prejac training and beta-safe content—both of which I'd love to explore further and maybe implement it here as well (not a main priority but would be a great addition).

My limits: I'm not interested in anything sissy-related (so no anal, feminization and so on), public humiliation or any exposure (I don't want to drag anyone else in this and I won't risk it), or anything that could cause permanent harm. I believe in boundaries and mutual respect, and I hope to find someone who shares those values.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, I’d love to chat and see if we’re a good fit for each other. DM with your kinks (if it's not my limit I'm willing to consider it), some info about yourself and I'd like to hear how you see this thing going. Please, no men! I'm only looking for a female Dom who can guide me on this journey.

Looking forward to connecting with someone special!

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2024/10/30
11:15 UTC

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25 [M4F] Curious Sub looking for assertive dommes interested in vore #online

Hiya, thanks for checking me out!

Basically I've had a decent amount of instability in my life the past couple of years, but now that I'm finally graduated and working a new job for almost a year now, I'm feeling like things have settled down enough for me to actually want to explore some of these cute dorky feelings I've had bottling up inside me for a while now.

Since I'm still exploring myself, I don't have a real measurement about how submissive I am or how clearly I can define my boundaries around certain things, and I feel like that might just sound like extra work for a domme (oh yay now I have yet *another* grown man I need to babysit with his feelings, etc..) but genuinely I am quite an independent person, so I'm not expecting anyone to guide me like I'm a lost toddler, just looking for someone curious enough like me to explore all sorts of feelings we have about femdom and relationships in general.

To explain my title a bit more: I'm someone who really loves to just chat and find out more about someone. It's really fun to just talk about our lives, our interests and passions, and of course our more kinky sides as well. I'm also quite interested in voice calling people online. It can be pretty intimidating I know, but I think its quite enjoyable if its with the right person and its done at a steady pace, like all good things. I'm more than happy to send a sample of how I sound if you are the type of person who wants to know that before jumping into a call (I am sort of similar, it just kinda eases the tension a bit when you have an idea of what to expect), and I've been told before that I have a nice voice and a cute accent! (I'm South African which is basically a baby boy between England and Australia in terms of tones and pronunciation of things)

I'm not against sending pics, or video calling or anything, I just think these things need to be done in the right order. Talking and getting to know people first, then if we are comfortable with that we could voice call or share pics and things, but everything needs to 'feel' natural and not forced, otherwise talking to someone is more of a chore rather than a pleasurable fun thing like it really should be.

To give a brief overview of me and my likes:

I'm a gamer nerd techbro Cybersecurity full-on dork. I studied computer science in University. Anime is great, my gyming progress is going decently too, I have a decent group of pals and a super nice relationship with my family. The only real part of my life that feels a bit lacking is what I'm looking to fill by posting on here! But otherwise, I'm just a really content and relaxed person who is feeling high up on life right now. So if you want some positivity, someone to watch shows/play games with or just someone to talk to, then it might work out nicely.

Reach out to me on here if any of this seems interesting / tolerable to you, and maybe we could move to discord or some other app when you like!

Im still exploring myself but I think right now I'm looking for dynamic, assertive people who can hold conversation. People who enjoy the more romantic / gentle side of femdom, things that aren't too focused on pain or humiliation (public stuff mostly), and I'd be super curious to find people who have an oral fixation like me and think anything to do with mouths is incredibly intimate. Also, the crazy kinks I mentioned in my title are a real love of mine to explore too.

Feel free to dm to talk or just ask questions!

Discord: jamiesmol

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2024/10/30
11:10 UTC

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21 [M4F] #UK #Online looking for a keyholder to keep me locked

Hi, I’m looking for a keyholder to help me through my first time in chastity. I’m looking for someone who is going to be strict with me in order to keep me locked but also needs to be supportive and encouraging.

Please note that I’m not looking for a full blown dom / sub relationship as of yet because I’m so new to this lifestyle. Im purely just looking to find a keyholder to help guide me through my chastity adventure

About me

Outside of kink I don’t really do a lot. I work a full time job in an industry I can’t really talk too much about. I play a lot of games such as FIFA, GTA, RDR2 and R6. I play 7-a-side football with friends on a Monday and I spend a fair amount of time in the pub with my mates.

Inside of kink I am pretty new to the whole scene (about a month). So I thought that chastity was a very good place to start. I don’t have any real complex kinks atm only the basics. I.e Edging, CBT, denial, SPH and some very light anal play. Since I’m new to this lifestyle it’s worth noting that I don’t own any toys and I’m not willing to buy any until I’m sure that this is right for me. In light of all this I have set myself some boundaries for if this does work out and this develops into a full blown femdom dynamic. These limits are: Blood / scat, incest, illegal, feminisation, permanent markings & blackmail / exposure.

Thank you for reading this post. Please feel free to DM if you’re interested in discussing chastity terms.

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2024/10/30
09:04 UTC

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30 [F4M] Nerdy Chick Looking for Lifelong Baby Boy / Golden Retriever Soulmate #michigan #ontario

About Me:

Here's the basics about me.

I am a 30 year old cisgender woman currently living in Southern Canada. I have beautiful blue eyes, white skin, and am on the thicker side, though I am attempting to lose some weight. I will never be super skinny, but being healthier would be very nice. I might be up for sharing pictures but only once you pass a vibe check.

For my career, I have immersed myself in artful joys. Previously I would make handmade goods such as sewing plushies by hand, but when that became too time consuming, I also expanded my business to enamel pin production. While this career path is successful for me, I do want to stress I will never be rich and I am not willing to return to the actual workforce.

Related to my art, I have numerous successful Kickstarter campaigns under my belt. I have an etsy shop that makes strong sales. And I go to many conventions and events a year to sell my goods in person, something I'd love for you to join me with if you are close enough to do so.

Beyond art, I also taught myself how to code and recently launched a virtual pet browser game (think neopets). This is growing a strong community and we hope to fund more merchandise this year.

Besides the stuff mentioned above, I love really nerdy things such as western animation, enamel pin trading, conventions of any type (furry/comic con/anime), making friendship bracelets, hanging with friends, writing fanfiction, and probably more I can't think of. I also enjoy cozy gaming and short board games - my attention span can be a bit short at times. I do have interest in LARP and ren faires, though I've never been to any.

About You:

I am currently looking for a cisgender male between the ages of 27-35ish. While I am willing to budge a bit on age, please don't message me if you are under 25. That kind of power dynamic just isn't right to me.

I would really love someone as nerdy as I am. Someone who wants to share in the things I love even if they don't always understand. And I'm willing to give that same passion in return. I love also love chubby guys and guys who where glasses. I just think they're cute.

If you are just looking for a hookup, please don't bother messaging me. I am looking for the love of my life. Someone to share my time with and dedicate all my love to while getting the same in return. While I can be very work orientated, I am always willing to schedule time in for my loved ones when asked.

I understand finding the perfect person and building a solid relationship will take time to build but I am always spammed with non serious messages and dick pics, something that I find extremely disrespectful.

Boundary Warnings:

To not waste your time, I will be stating my boundaries here.

  1. I am not looking to have children ever. I am sorry.
  2. I will not make out with you ever. This really icks me out and turns me off. It's something I just made a boundary with years ago and my dating life has been much healthier since.
  3. I am not interested in the following kinks: scat, pain, bodily damage, oxygen play, sounding, vomit, feet, major bondage, diapers
  4. I am nervous about but willing to explore: chastity cages, body worship

Kinks:

Above all, I am a gentle dom that wants to praise my submissive. Because I do not enjoy bodily harm, it is almost impossible to "punish" a bratty submissive and it just isn't fun for me. I want a submissive that is looking to make my day better and one that I can shower with praise and rewards in return.

Like all women, I love massages. Though even above that, I love any kind of weirdness that gives my body attention. This includes tarot card reading, reiki, palm reading, back scratching, drawing on my back, etc. While I don't believe in the powers of these and wouldn't pay for them, I would melt under anything like this.

When it comes to any major relationship steps, major first flirtings, and sexual initiation, I much prefer to take the lead. This means that if you are inexperienced, that's fine with me. It also takes a lot of the guess work away from you because if there's something I want / need, I will just ask for it.

In fact, I'm kind of turned on by virgins/inexperience. This obviously is not a requirement, but I definitely do love teaching a new dog new tricks. I find these types are just more willing to learn what I like and less stuck on the things their past partners liked.

If you require an actual kink list, I will list it here but keep in mind you don't need to be into all of them and I'm willing to explore things outside of this:

  • Pegging (Never done but interested)
  • Minor Piss Play (Desperation, Watching)
  • Acts of Service & Acts of Love
  • Innocence & Virginity
  • Teasing & Accidental Boners
  • Mommy / Baby Boy Dynamic (Only Once I Say its Okay)
  • Internal Cumshots & Breeding (But no babies!!)
  • Packing (Wearing a cock for non sexual purposes)
  • Probably More I Can't Remember

If Intersted:

Send a detailed message about yourself. I've put a large amount of detail about myself here, so I expect a good amount in return. That way I can get a good idea about you, your career, your ideals, your hobbies, etc. I get sent dozens to hundreds of messages so describin yourself can really help you stand out.

Including a picture can definitely help your chances if I find you attracted.

Also if you are into hazbin hotel, warrior cats, are a furry, or going to conventions, these are my current interests and it could be a good bonding point if mentioned. <3

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2024/10/30
06:39 UTC

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27 [M4F] #New Zealand - This Caveman needs an extra !gentle! bonk on the head before getting dragged back to your cave.

As the title unsubtly suggests, even a caveman needs a bonk and dragged back to NOT his cave. By all means feel free to check the rest of my posts to determine my worth. If not, by all means, read on :)

A bit about me, physically, first.

I am 6ft exactly. Black hair down to my shoulder blades. Black bearded. And starting back at the gym for the new years, burly turning muscular. I love to drink protein shakes, eat meat, lift, and get an ego boost from beating my personal bests. So... Caveman right? The real hairy and sweaty kind. The real loud laugh and rubbing my arms kind.

BUT!

Sometimes I want to relax, step away from the confident 'Dom' looking man. I want to be carried away - not physically, although, we can have a laugh if you wish to try. I am 110kgs after all. But I want to be whisked away, romanced, cared for, embraced.

What does that look like?

Well, I have expectations of grandeur; I also believed in romance novels and anime and such. I am a really creative person. I hate just sitting around absorbing ideas and watching the fruition of others's work, I'd rather combine them into my own thing. I have so many creative dreams from at least one mural on the side of a public wall, to fixing up my own burnt out classic chassis I found in a scrapyard some place. I want to write novels and make ASMR. I want to work towards these things. But such work and life-long dedications takes both time and money but worst of all, it gets pretty lonely.

Looking like me, you tend to be sexualised a lot. Feared, respected, desired for strength and power, yes, but sometimes objectified - which is what very little people recognise if not notice. Whenever I've been approached by women it's always, repeat, ALWAYS on the basis of sex or short-term flings. Nothing long lasting, nothing substantial, nothing to come home to. To be clear, that isn't your duty nor anyone's. But you have no idea; one time receiving a 'hey, how's things? how's your project coming along?' saved me from every negative end of every negative spectrum.

What does romance and care look like? Well, everything you interact with me with is done with an undertone or overtone of affection, wisdom, safety, and reassurance. Even go strict with it like scheduling, or even just a conversational check-in. You'd be surprised with just how little men can live with their entire lives, if at all.

But regardless, who am I?

As said, I am a creative. An academic at heart, creativity is my lifeblood. My whole family is filled with lawyers, soldiers, teachers, people that state the status quo in a now morbid and overtly realistic way. While my writing style and reading habits are similar, I still like to create a sort of 'waystation'. I am constantly experiencing and researching escapism and the benefits of just stepping away into a realm where everything unavailable or impossible is present in droves. Resilience. Fortitude. Value systems. Fighting in the midst of losing. Things lost in the pursuit of identity.

I really enjoy writing - as you can tell - if you were to meet me in person, you'll no doubt think that - based on looks as well - I am a very quiet person. I only speak when spoken to and i struggle to be interesting. But my writing is always going to outclass my tongue. And for that I am thankful because I also have a touch of hypergraphia. Always writing or thinking about writing, if I am doing something important and my mind drifts? I'm done for. Productivity be damned. I am also always drawing and getting better by the week. I do 3D modelling on the side and saving up for a proper camera.

The punchline?

Well, I suppose now comes the part where I go with the herd and dictate what I desire and dislike and outright ban.

Here's the thing though. I have no idea. I suppose beginning with my 'vanilla' kinks:

Breeding/pregnancy/birthing; Anal; and Free-Use. But is that any different to the average modern man?

Here're the more unconventional ones I am TRYING to get into:

Intimacy/Romance' Affectionate slow burn/gestures/or even respectful distance in spite of extreme desires; therefore Barely contained obsession/staring/silent examination. And finally, here's the more femdom 'focused' kinks - this one is hard however, since I consider myself relatively new. Only pornography, conversations on reddit, or fantasising through yearning and loneliness.

Gentle/loving/soft femdom Serving - touching, cooking, cleaning, and companionship and even remaining silent (which I kind of love the most if not deep and meaningful conversations). Pegging and bdsm submission (I am new to this side of the D/s scenario, so be aware I may pull back.)

Endgame?

I have no idea. Want to find out? Because I am inexperienced, and I admit that freely, I still recognise a desire to simply be loved rather than always do the loving. I placed my trust too frequently and too deeply to really believe exactly what I want exists. I am always fantasising and I suppose it negatively informs my standards to solidifying but I aim to keep my mind and horizons open.

Please don't be afraid to message at all. I know I wrote a lot but I want people to be clear on who I want to be elsewhere in my life. I am always seen as a monolith of strength, but even then monoliths struggle and crumble. I won't say I want to submit. I suppose I just want to be teased, I want to feel that tingle of attention and a soft hand on my shoulder.

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2024/10/30
05:50 UTC

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21 [M4F] #Online looking for a GFD for long term online relationship

Hii I'm Nate, I've always been a submissive person in general but recently have come to the conclusion that I would love to find a GFD for a long term online relationship not just about sex but about my submission to you and you caring about me and nurturing me as whole

As far as physique I'm 6"3, and about 250 (a decent amount muscle but also fat), I have dark brown curly long hair (my favorite feature about myself), blue eyes, and I would say my style is gothic/alternative, I also have snake bites studs

A little about me: I'm Nate 21 from Michigan, my main hobbies are cooking and playing video games, but I watch anime from time to time also (if we ever go IRL I could cook you food)

As far as kinks go I'm into: GFD, light anal play, countdown, joi, voice/video calls, praise, tasks, and worship but I'm interested in a lot more just haven't experienced them to know for sure

My limits are: scat, piss play, and findom

If anything in my post interests you please reach out I'm really looking forward to hearing from you 👉🏻👈🏻

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2024/10/30
05:32 UTC

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26 [M4F] #losangeles - looking for something long term and a bit more gentle

Hello,

I’m a sub living in LA looking for a domme or switch leaning domme. Ideally I’m not looking for a fetish dispenser or a ONS, but rather a relationship built on mutual respect, love and kink of course :P. While I certainly don’t feel like a need something like this to complete or fulfill my life, I take a lot of joy in making my partners feel like the most important person in the world to me and I want to take that to new heights.

I myself am a bit of a nerd. I like movies and TV, video games (Helldivers anyone?) writing and cooking. I try to do at least one or two cool things a week outside the house and I spend as much of my weekend as possible hiking or exploring the city. I work in entertainment and I’m trying to get a book published. I’m 5’11” and trying to get a bit stronger, mixing in weight between my Krav Maga training.

My ideal domme is 22-50 and lives in the area, as I’d really love someone I could meet and spend time with in person. Style wise I definitely prefer something a little more gentle. I do love taking abuse but there have been times where the level I’ve experienced has made me feel alone and disposable and I don’t want to experience that again.

Kink wise I’m a big fan of pegging, chastity, mommies, impact play and bondage, but honestly I’m open to just about anything. I have some toys of my own but not a ton.

If any of that sounds interesting send me a DM, I’d love to talk to you :)

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2024/10/30
05:19 UTC

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22 [M4F] I want to be dominated and controlled #online

Hello! I am looking for a domme who can train me and help me grow as a sub. I am a Korean, 22, 5'9", about 200lbs (working to lose weight!). I live in California currently. I like listening to music and watching anime in my free time. I also like to go cycle, ski, and go explore. My ideal weekend is going out to a place I have never been and end the day with a really nice dinner. My friends decribe me as friendly, shy, fun. I am a submissive, slave, and pet. I really love doing anything to please my domme. My kinks are pegging, cbt, orgasm control, chastity, body worship, rope, humiliation, facesitting, milking, and more. My limits are anything with blood, public, bathroom, and permanent damage. I have few limits and I am open to new ideas. I have no preference for appearance for my domme. I can send pictures if you send me pictures. I am serious about serving someone and I am very submissive and ready to give it my all. Ideally I am hoping build a trusting relationship in and out of the bedroom. Sometimes I can do this long term and grow together! Please reach out if there is any questions or if you are interested!

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2024/10/30
04:58 UTC

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28 [M4F] - Let me be your cute asian boyfriend~ #Online

Looking for someone to play the role of my sweet and affectionate soft dom. I want us to go on cute dates and do cute activities together, while whispering dirty things and teasing each other throughout it. Going out to cute date spots like cafes, museums or the library. Of course, it won’t be entirely innocent and you’ll tease me. Maybe you’ll feel how hard my cock is through my clothes or when you're sitting on my lap. I’m super affectionate and I’ll act all embarrassed but judging from how my body reacts, you’ll know I’ll be super into it….

This will continue on throughout the date. My embarrassed and blushing face trying to hide how I turned on I truly am. When we get home, you’ll only continue to tease me further as I continue to squirm under your hands, begging you to let me release all of it. What will you do? I want you to control my body and use it to make yourself orgasm. I’ll play the role of your cute Asian boyfriend with an innocent face. But underneath it, I only want to serve my dom and do so many not-so-innocent things with you 😉

Maybe you can read a book or play games while I try to get your attention? Trying to tease you before leading you into the bedroom? Maybe I’ll try to sneak into you when you’re taking a shower. Maybe I’ll wake you up by going down on you with my warm, wet tongue.

If you think we'll vibe, don't hesitate to reach out 🙂

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2024/10/30
04:35 UTC

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29 [M4F] #LosAngeles- White, 6’2”, Fit/Attractive, with Dark Hair - cover me in your cum!

Hello!! Still searching for that oral domme or pleasure sub..

About me: I live a fairly normal vanilla life. Work has been slow and would love to pass the time playing with someone who’s looking for a fun physical connection. Should note that I’m only interested in sessions vs long term dynamics.

That said, if we vibe can definitely be an ongoing thing just not looking for anything too serious at the moment.

Sexually: I love giving oral - especially when I’m forced down there or if you’re a sub begging for more. I want you to cum in my mouth as many times as you possibly can. I want your legs to quiver as they are wrapped tightly around my head while you make me spend hours with my mouth pushed up against your most sensitive parts. Make me to lick you in every possible hole until you’re completely satisfied.

I’m also very open to light pegging, pain, and bondage etc.. but am newer to the space so don’t have many of the tools.

I consider myself a switch but more of a pleasure dom / sub. I’m open to either scenario or perhaps we can try both ;)

Some preferences but not requirements:

  • waxed / well groomed
  • open to all body types!
  • innie labia
  • squirter
  • can cum quickly and multiple times
  • very loud / vocal

If you’re interested please shoot me a message and a sfw pic if you’re comfortable. I’ll send a pic of myself of course and happy to verify in public or on video chat prior to meeting!

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2024/10/30
04:19 UTC

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18 [M4F] looking to get into a new relationship with gentle femdom, willing to experiment #Online

This is a bit of a throwaway effort, since I’m doubtful the male side of this subreddit gets much action, but one can only hope. Let me go ahead and give a disclaimer: my Reddit name is NOT indicative of anything to do with my sexuality—it was a shitty decision I’m far more willing to explain than to rectify.

I’m a comic book nerd, with messy, long-ish dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I’m pale and skinny enough that my ribs are just barely visible. I’m 5'5" and about 115 lbs. My last irl relationship helped me discover that I’m into the femdom dynamic, and unfortunately, due to some personal issues, I’ve been pretty isolated for the past month. Right now, I’m only looking for someone to chat with. Definitely not the type that goes for actual torture, (at least more than light pain) because I’m a sensitive little bitch, but pleasure doms are welcome. I kind of just go for the feeling of being owned—belonging and such. Verbal is very important to me.

Since this post is public, I’m trying to mask a little, but I can be pretty vulnerable if you make a little effort. DMs are open, but I do NOT care for the messaging system on Reddit. And as for any overall appeal I have—well, I’d consider myself pretty easy to get into the head of, and I don’t think I’m terrible at reciprocating emotion. But actual sex stuff? Totally inexperienced. I understand that’ll only be a benefit to a select few.

Sorry for the rambling format of this post, but I’m still hoping it’s of interest to someone. In all, this post is an attempt to just fill an empty hole, emotionally and maybe physically. (Please laugh at my totally original joke.)

That's all, fingers crossed

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2024/10/30
02:46 UTC

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37 [M4F] Looking for a Dom, short or long terms, for Femdom 101 and beyond #online

Dear potential Mommy or Mistress,

I hope this post holds your attention so that I have the oppurtunity to give you all of the attention you deserve later. So many of these posts end up more like u/unsentletters than Femdom personals, as it seems there are more people searching and a lot less finding partners for their dynamic. I hope this post will yield different results and the nurturing instict of a Mommy or hunger of a Mistress out there will motivate you to reach out.

This is me

I have some experience, but not a lot, so ideally looking for someone that is either experienced and willing to teach and nurture or someone new that is turned on by femdom and wants to explore together. I think there are benefits to both, so if you are new and intrigued, by all means reach out. I am extremely turned on by strong and independent women, which is why I am gravitating toward femdom. I am a natural pleaser and enjoy giving attention, worship, and appreciating both your mind and body. I will leave more specific kinks/limits for getting to know each other, but especially since this online, I prefer a dynamic with reciprocation, where we both exchange and share pics, video, etc..... as to be one sided. I will never be demanding. How much or how little you want to share is of course up to you. The best compliment I have received is that I put online partners at ease and make them feel relaxed and comfortable. My goal is always to make sure you are content, happy with the dynamic, smiling, and most importantly satisfied.

I understand reaching out is always taking a chance, but I guarentee you have nothing to lose. I am very easy going, non judgemental, and it is totally ok if I am not what you are looking for. I will not be offended and at the very least meeting genuine people is far better than the sound of silence that NSFW reddit seems to be struggling with these days among all the fake accounts.

Please be 22+, female, slim or slim curvy body type and willing to send an intial picture of yourself to verify physical attraction. Sfw or nsfw is totally fine. If you take a quick peruse, you can find plenty of me. Looking forward to hearing from some of you :)

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2024/10/30
02:25 UTC

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40 [M4F] #online - successful lawyer switch

Hi there I'm a 40 year old lawyer who is looking for a fun dom or switch. I'm classically good looking and successful, and I tend to fill the dominant daddy role by default but I love subbing and humiliation so much. I'm open to all body sizes and shapes, and have a serious soft spot for spunky troublemakers and sassy ladies. I have a lot of kinks and am very open minded.

A little about me - I'm tall and skinny but have wide shoulders and strong arms. I have light skin, light brown hair and blue green eyes. I'm a bit nerdy and have glasses, but with abs. I enjoy traveling, cooking, working out, and going for drinks with friends. Im very successful in my job but it comes with a lot of stress and responsibility and late hours.

I love tease and denial, power struggles of all kinds mental and physical, humiliation, chastity, sissy, and strapons. I'm very open minded and looking to try new things. My favorite game with switches is to 69 and whoever cums first loses and has to sub.

I also enjoy role playing and weed. My favorite scenarios to play out include meeting someone at the fancy hotel bar where I’m staying for work, wrestling each other after I’m cocky at a class, and being taken as a sub to a party where I’m totally at your mercy or your guests mercy

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2024/10/30
02:15 UTC

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26 [M4F] Shy, switchy boy looking for casual friendships and chill dommes #LosAngeles #Online

Hello lovely ladies of Femdom Personals!

I am a 26 cis male who is ethically non-monogamous and I am looking for a casual play partner. Online/long distance is totally fine with me but I would really like to gain some more in person experiences, I believe I'd be looking for something fairly "low protocol".

Me: Physically I am: 5'10, Messy brown hair with reddish highlights, dark brown eyes and fairly pale skin. A good amount of freckles on my face and shoulders, I've been told I have a nice broad chest and nice hands whatever that could inspire. I suppose, I should mention have quite a high sex drive too~ I would be happy to exchange pictures with you if there's anything you're dying to see. My interests vary from things like long distance running, reading good literature and the usual video games/movies. I'm a pretty good cook if I say so myself, too!

You: Someone who is soft, caring and okay with a casual or slower pace. That said having you take charge is why we're both here, right? If you're a switch or ever want to be topped I'm more than happy to do that as well. I suppose my type is nerdy (affectionately) girls. Hanging out and being friends sounds like a good first step, as sappy as that sounds. Really I'm just shyly talking my way around friends with benefits. If this sounds interesting to you and you're 21+, I'd love to hear from you!

Thank you for reading this far! If you have any questions about anything here from kinks to enm to physical stuff, please ask. My DMs are open so feel free to stop by and tell me your favorite video games or shows or books you've been reading lately!

Hope to hear from you soon <3

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2024/10/30
00:54 UTC

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22 [M4F] #London #Online Take away all control and leave me helpless.

Hello beautiful people. Before we get in to the juicy stuff here’s a little about me. I’m 6’2 78kg muscular(pic on profile), going the gym is important for me and has almost become an addiction. I work in finance so a lot of my time is spent working. I am a huge musics fan all types really from Taylor swift to led zeplin. I spend at least 6 hours a day listening to music it my happy place.

Juicy details: Like I said it’s all about control so any kink that strips that away I am in to or at the very least willing to try. Bondage is a massive one for me being helpless at mercy of some else… ohh that’s the stuff. I don’t have much experience with too many of the kinks but like I said I am willing to learn/ give it a go.

Limits: Cum eating Scat Blackmail

What I am looking for: Ideally someone around my age but that’s not a deal breaker. Someone active as it’s a massive part of my life it would be nice if it was for you as well. Similar time zone ideally.

Anyway I would love to hear from you and is you made it this far please start your message with pineapple to weed out the scammers

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2024/10/29
22:20 UTC

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29 [M4F] #Online Sub attempting to find Domme for training

I am going out on a limb and already know that more than likely all I'll get are scammers and bots but what the hell why not give it a shot.

I'm looking to try and find a domme. I have some experience but I'm always looking 5o gain more. I will be honest I'm just looking for an occasional dynamic that if things click well could develop into more a 24/7 situation.

Kinks are pretty open but here's a list

Service, control, impact play, sensation play, light cbt, bondage, light pegging (still practicing this one), scent (worn panties and socks), feet, worship, instruction, edging, denile, post orgasn torture, multiple orgasms, cei, light humiliation, light public play.

My no go's are anything age play, scat, blood, or markings that are visible in public.

Like I said I'm mostly looking to learn and see where I'm at and to really get out if my head. I've always had a serious interest and have some experience so I'm not a new comer I do get alot of the basics just wanting to really push the limits. If maybe this sounds like something that you would be interested in then hey maybe we could have a connection. If it's not well thanks for reading at this point I think I'm mostly just rambling because I'm nervous and don't know how else to go about this. Okay I'm done thanks

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2024/10/29
23:34 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Orlando Submissive guy seeking Dominant woman for meaningful connection

Hi there,

I'm a 28-year-old guy from just outside Orlando, Florida and I am seeking a real connection with a dominant woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it. Feel free to reach out if this stands out to you, I'd love to talk. I live alone and have been described by close friends as silly and compassionate, inclusion is one of the most important things in my life. I'm seeking a female-led relationship, the type of dynamic I am looking for is a life partner who is firmly in control, to what extent we can determine what works best for us, maybe we're just friends who enjoy a specific dynamic or we really click and find ourselves immersed into a full fledged FLR - I'm honestly quite open and happy to discuss what works best for us.

About me:

Basic stuff: I work a full-time job but also have a side hustle writing, I promise this is not nearly as exciting as it sounds but it is an increasingly lucrative thing that I'm looking to make my full-time focus sooner than later, still figuring out when sooner is though. I'm 5'7, about 160 lbs active gym goer and looking to constantly improve PRs and work on my physique. And as I recognize this is important to some people, I do not drive, my eyesight is very poor and as a result, I cannot legally drive, this, however, does not stop me from living an entirely independent life, most people don't actually know/can't tell until I tell them that I cannot drive.

Personal Interests: I love hanging out with friends and doing who knows what, I will admit that I am a bit of a homebody but my greatest joys in life are typically with other people, doing pretty much whatever. I am sober as in I do not drink or smoke but totally cool if you do as long as it is responsibly. I love going to thrift stores, eating great food, and really just exploring. I'm pretty nerdy in that I would say my single favorite thing to do is learn be that via YouTube videos, Reading or just getting out and trying something new, Psychology however is what interests me most and I could spend hours and hours talking about the weird ways people act and why. I also really enjoy movies and would love to know your favorite, I love anything funny or scary, and the Shrek series has a special place in my heart.

Kinky Stuff

I am relatively inexperienced but I am someone who learns quickly and has done a thorough amount of research, enough that I feel that I can confidently serve a woman, the biggest part of all of this to me is the sense of belonging, the feeling of being owned by someone who wants the best for me and thus inspires me to want to be the best possible version of myself for them. I do not take this role lightly and it would be a privilege to be yours.

The Person I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a dominant woman In or near Orlando. My ideal partner would be someone emotionally intelligent and capable of communicating in a healthy, consistent way, nothing excites me more than knowing exactly where I stand with you, for better or worse. (So I can improve to better serve.) Body type is unimportant to me as all women are beautiful in their own unique ways, as long as you take care of yourself you are my type. Age and your experience level are mostly unimportant to me as long as you're 20+ and know what it is you're looking for. Just to reiterate the connection is what is most important to me, knowing that someone has my best interest at heart and I have theirs, knowing that while I am still very much a person with real feelings but I want to be yours, completely.

Thank you for taking the time to check this out, I look forward to speaking to you soon.

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2024/10/29
23:29 UTC

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24 [M4F] #tennessee #middletn just a switch looking for a loving domme.

Little bit about me, I’m 5’10”, blonde hair blue eyes, I’m slim, some would say skinny. Blonde hair blue eyes. I love being out side, walking, kayaking, camping, hiking, love all of them. I have a dog, she’s a lil baby. I do hvac, and I have a beard.

I read, and just like about everyone in my age group, I play video games. On pc of course I’ll play with you. Also, my dog is scared of her shadow, so don’t take it personally if she barks and pees herself.

So my ideal domme, is a smart, independent, women who knows what she wants. Preferably somone seeking a relationship, likes the outdoors, and dogs. Somone caring, affectionate. All the sappy stuff, and hopefully freaky, but sex is only half of a relationship.

FYI not into findom, we’ll have to get married if you wanna control my money, or idk kiss me or something I’m a pushover.

if I find a connection, great! Mostly looking for a relationship, not really into being a plaything or fuck buddy. I guess you’re probably curious about kinks, I’ll give ya a couple for now. Body whorship, praise, pegging, edging. If you’re super kinky don’t worry, I’m very flexible (literally kinda) with kinks, and open to most.

I’m terrible at talking about my self. But I could talk about you all day. Love me some food, we should go get some together. Let’s go on a date or a walk or something, not text on an app for a week and then ghost me. That’d be great. my face

Don’t be a stranger, slide into my dms, tell me a little about you self and see where we go from there, I’m hoping not to get any catfish this time, or ghost.

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2024/10/29
23:27 UTC

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26 [M4F] #Online #Netherlands Athletic nerd looking for Domme

About me:

Appearance wise I look athletic, am 5'7 and have short wavy hair. Here is a pic. I'm currently studying Economics and spend most of my free time cooking (my friends call me mr. Ramsay), going to the gym or learning about history (I love museums and love historic art). I could speak hours about topics I'm passionate about. Going to parties/clubs is not really my thing. I'm also a virgin.

Outside of this I sometimes play various games; don't really have a favourite genre I can play anything from Elden Ring to Cities Skylines to League of Legends. Watching good movies in cinemas and discussing them afterwards is also something I love doing. I'm very open minded an love having my opinion challenged.

What I'm looking for:

I'd like to build a connection with someone before moving onto kinks. Even though I'm very attracted to assertiveness, it feels hard to submit to someone you don't know at all. I'd like to start off online with the possibility of an in person meetup. Ideally you have the same interests as me but that's not a requirement, I just find it very attractive if someone has a passion. I'm looking for someone who enjoys being in control and is open minded.

In terms of kinks I enjoy anal play, chastity, praise, bondage, feet and role reversal. My limits are scat, pee, blood, cuckolding, CEI or anything public.

If you've read up till here, send me a DM

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2024/10/29
23:03 UTC

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28 [F4M] #online Guys into a Forced Bi kink

Hi dirty boys of the internet. This is the second post I'm making about this as throughout these past 2 weeks I've learned more and more of what I want out of a sub so I figured it'd be a good idea to make a new post and make it more specific.

I'm looking for a guy, or possibly more than one, who is into engaging in a forced bi kink. Wanting a guy who's wanting to take cock in his ass for me amongst other activities like suck dick etc.

What I AM looking for:

-Guys actually determined to do this kink in real life and share with me the pictures/videos taken at these encounters

-Guys who will show me who they are, I'm not looking for a sub who I won't get to know better and being able to see each other is what I want. This does not mean IRL interactions this just means we're not hiding from each other

  • Guys who are consistent and frequent in their responses. This doesn't mean having to be online 24/7 but that respond in a timely manner

-Guys who are patient, I am not online all the time and have a life outside of here so patience is virtue with me.

-Proactive subs who are willing to look and plan meetups even if I'm not online. I will do my best to be there for you but I can't plan 50 meetups with 50 subs lol I need your help

What I am NOT looking for:

-Sissies and any form of forced feminization. I like a bit of femininity but overall not into CDs of any kind.

-Guys who will take A LOT of effort to move into this kink. I'm not looking to spend months on end trying to convince you, I'm trying to make things happen

-Guys who are all talk: Please DO NOT message me if all you care about is discussing your fantasy. I don't actually care because a lot of you are just using this as an opportunity to jerk off while talking to me, cum, and log off. Waste of time.

-Guys who are trying to get me to get them with trans women. Forced bi does not and should not include trans women as trans women ARE women and saying you're bi for being with them is essentially calling them men; which is extremely disrespectful.

-Guys who are inexperienced to the point of not knowing or having much to say. Don't waste my time.

If interested message me the following:

-Intro telling me about yourself, your kinks, and a few photos of you (I know you can't on the first go via chat so use a link from image website like Regif)

-What makes you a better candidate than others and how you can prove it

-The first thing you should write is "Swordplay" to confirm to me you've read this entire post, or immediate ignore.

If all of those things I mentioned above are not in your message I will ignore it.

Looking forward to reading your messages! Got a lot of interest last time

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2024/10/29
22:39 UTC

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28 [M4F] 6.6" (198cm), Athletic , Submissive slut looking for strong Woman #online

I am looking for a strong woman (or trans) who is interested in controlling a very obediant slave, to follow her every rule and humiliate him. I will do almost anything to make my Mistress proud!

About me, I am 28 years old from germany (but currently in the US), 6.6" (198cm) tall, I would say fairly Athletic (check out my profile for plenty of NSFW pictures, or ask me for anything you like). I love all kinds of sports.

I am more than happy to share pics/videos of anything you order me, however I will not show my face.

If you wanna share too, it is appreciated, but not a must.

I prefer text chat over video or voice chat.

Other than wanting to receive orders from a dominant female, some of my kinks are JOI, CEI, Humiliation, Public and risky stuff, edging, cum control, cbt, etc.. But I don't think there will be alot that you can request from me that I would not try.

Hart limits would be anything with piss or shit and I also am not going to pay money.

Please consider making me your obediant little slut, I love to follow order and live only to please and worship you! Please give this toy a chance to prove it's obediance, I will not dissapoint (if I do, please punish me).

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2024/10/29
21:59 UTC

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35 [M4F] #Kansas #Missouri Service sub in search of a domme for a long-term in-person FLR

About me: Age: 35 Location: Kansas City, MO Body Type: 5'6", 210 lbs, hazel eyes, bearded (neat), some tattoos. I have put some stress weight on recently, but am actively working on shedding it. Work: Blue Collar worker just starting my journey as a small business owner. Sub style: Service is my love language. Cooking, chores, bathing, cuddling, etc.

You: Age range: 28-50 Location: Within driving distance of Kansas City Body type: Relatively healthy. No preference on height. I value hygiene and would like a domme who does as well. Domme style: Ideally one who enjoys discipline and accountability. Sadistic tendencies are welcome. But respect for both parties is paramount.

Relationship: Outside of the D/s aspect, I would love to find a forever person; someone whose life I can help make easier and more interesting and vice versa. Some possible shared interests would be hiking, working out (it's been a while for me!), doing the morning crossword on the back porch with coffee, certain nerdy activities, and general rooting for one another.

Kinks: As a sub I would love to find a domme who shares my interest in queening, cbt, pegging, chastity, spanking, body worship, bondage/bdsm, potentially 24/7, 1950s role reversals, and S&M. I'm open to discuss other forms of kink/lifestyle play that weren't mentioned.

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2024/10/29
21:47 UTC

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24 [M4F] #Germany #online | Student looking for an online mistress or sub for longterm training

Hello,

for a very long time  I have been interested in BDSM. I did find a mistress here on Reddit before and we honesty had an amazing time until it unfortunately came to complications on her part and it fizzled out. You can read about two of our experiences on my profile. Now I am looking to do more!. I am a 24 year old German student, about 1.93 cm tall, weigh 88 kg and go to the gym weekly. Blue eyes, dark blonde hair. I love to read, hike, play videos games, hangout with friends and honestly can get excited for just about everything.

What I am looking for is something long term, but without the obligation to write each other constantly. I have a part time job in addition to studying, so my time is unfortunately limited. While I would enjoy writing even when at work, I can't guarantee it and need someone who won't mind not writing for days at a time if necessary. I will of course make time for longer sessions regularly and also wouldn't mind to get or give tasks and rules that I can do once I find time for it.

I am and have always been an extremely curious person, thus it is hard to define my kinks. I am definitely interested in humiliation, edging, bondage but honestly there is just Soo much more that I would like to explore. You can probably make me interested in almost everything and I like getting pushed. I am also really turned on by the thought of getting trained. Same interests when it comes to dominating

As for my limits, the most important one first: I won't send pictures, videos and anything similar. It might be paranoid of me, but I won't risk getting, exposed or anything the like that might ruin my social reputation and possibly my career. I expect you to respect that limit. Other than that I won't do anything illegal, anything too public or leaving permanent marks. I'm also not into ageplay/ddlg or feet.

If you read this far I take it that you are at least a bit interested and I would love to hear from you.

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2024/10/29
12:50 UTC

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21 [M4F] [Serious] Looking for an [older] romance partner to build a strong bond with #Russia #Online #EU

Greetings, ladies!

Let me introduce myself first. My name is Stephan, I’m a 21 years old guy from Russia. I’m 172cm tall and people never give me more than 16 years😁 Despite such young age I already have a full-time job in a software development company (pairing it with uni is such a headache). I love cooking and experimenting by pairing various cuisines, learning and exploring electronic music, going for long strolls, reading scientific books and just about anything that broadens my horizons.

I’m now looking for a long-term romance partner. Are you in your twenties and want to hang out? No problem! Are you in your forties and wanna have some fun? You’re welcome! Your age does not matter to me: I’m fine with my partner being just the same age as me or older than me, even 30-45 years age bracket (as you can imagine, that one TLC show has definitely inspired this reach out😂). I’m not in the position of making requests and be demanding, but I’d like my partner to be literate and open-minded. I’m looking forward to meeting new people and making something more grand out of our acquaintance.

As said in the title - I’m mostly looking for romance partner, that is showing affection, having long nightly talks, etc. I’m always open emotionally, so I will always be there for you. And I will definitely not be against taking it a step further into the lusty realm! On the spicier side of things: I hardly have any limits and am into a number of very kinky fetishes, ask me to thoroughly describe them and watch me slowly melt away or you may completely take the initiative in your hands on this one :) But I still have two hard NO’s: findom and humiliation.

Feel free to reach out and see what we can do! And if you are from Russia but don’t fall in the mentioned category - don’t worry and hit me up anyway :)

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2024/10/29
17:13 UTC

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30 [fm4f] #Virginia_Beach, kinky couple looking for Domme play partner

Hello, we’re a couple in Virginia Beach looking for a female, preferably dominant, play partner.

We are interested in something long term with a partner about our age. Our hobbies include traveling, trying new restaurants, movies, concerts and board games.

In the bedroom we are both switches with him on the more submissive side and her the more dominant.

Kinks include bondage, tpe, orgasm control, chastity play. He also enjoys pegging and some cbt. We’re open to a lot of others as well and non-kink play if you’re interested in that.

We’re looking for a friend outside of the bedroom as well. We have a ton of different hobbies. We travel a lot and could always use another companion. We spend a lot of time going to the movies, we try to check out everything that’s new. We enjoy going to restaurants and trying new foods. We’re big into live music, we try to go to concerts whenever we get a chance.

What we’re looking for: Someone 25-45. Dominant, or a switch, bisexual/pansexual. Willing to explore and try new things. Little no experience required, just a willingness to learn. Preferably someone in the Hampton roads area or least an under 2 hour drive. Other than that we don’t have a ton of preferences.

As far as the dynamic goes, we’re pretty open, you can be dominant over one or both of us. Feel free to reach out and see if we connect.

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2024/10/29
20:26 UTC

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