Relationship type / My Kinks:

First and foremost, actively pursuing my lifelong partner in crime. Seeking a genuine connection with the goal of an everlasting relationship. I'd love to develop a close bond with my partner, being able to communicate effectively, enjoying deep chats. Let's take our time and get to know one another genuinely, and see if we're a compatible match.

My attraction leans towards a partner who embraces being moderately dominant, as me being moderately submissive. Together we'd figure a balance of power that works for us, as we'll have skills where we shine best. I trust you'll treat me in the highest regard, respect means the world to me. I'd be most comfortable in the relationship role as a stay at home partner, vs breadwinner.

My predominantly kink would be Rope Bunny. I love the idea of being restrained at regular intervals, referring to simple rope techniques or restraints quick to apply such as handcuffs. Let's make kink venturous such as making it a challenge, or maybe a roll of the dice! Having direct communication is utmost important to keeping kink a positive and safe experience.

About me / My Personality

• White Caucasian, [Open to different races]
• [Marriage Minded- Monogamous] Believe in Jesus.
• Personality Type: [ISFJ]
• Physically Affectionate as in : ''How about a hug!''
• Presently: No kids or pets

Quotes & Music: That mean something special to me.

• “A place for everything, everything in its place" Benjamin Franklin
• “For the most sensitive among us, the noise can be too much.” Jim Carrey
• “There’s no place like home,” The Wizard of Oz,
• Chester Bennington, One More Light [Rest in Peace, My Sister of 39 years]

Appearance:

• 6 Ft Tall, Few Extra lbs. Body Type.
• You'll usually see me trying to keep positive with a smile.
• Generally a hoodie and jeans for me. Vs dress clothes.

Pictures, [Clothed]

• https://ibb.co/9b1CL23
• https://ibb.co/RTFhL1b

Politics: Strong Conservative.

Deal Breakers

• No Dogs
• No Atheism
• No Partying Lifestyle / Excessive Alcohol
• No Smoking / Marijuana or Drugs

Politics: Strong Conservative, Freedom!

Location & Age:

• Canada, B.C. Okanagan Valley
• Ages 29-43 [Little Flexible]

Hi!

I am 25y old nurse student (my last year now!) And the last couple of years i have found out more and more than i a submissive and that i wanna explore the aspects around it more. My recents obessions are mainly with the idea of giving up more and more control to someone like with premature ejaculation that u can control ur own orgasm or chastity and denial Most of my life i have been a dom but a little while back i sort of got to explore a new side about myself and became more of a switch and that again as evolved to as u see me today.

I got brown hair and blue eyes and are around 180 cm tall. I train around 3 times a week so i got a healthy body as well, but i wouldnt say am thin. Outside of all of this my hobbies ranges from taking longer trips, board games, to just managing to experience new things!

I both looking for somebody to explore new things and to learn from so feel free to both hit me up for just a chat or something else. Mainly looking for long term stuff. Id also prefer you to be around my age (25) tho i am open for anyone in their 20s as well!

Looking forward to hearing from u, and love to see any intersting dms. I prefer to know that u actually have read my post so please start ur dm with ur favorite animal.

Hi there, thanks for reading my post. I am a male slave looking for his owner.

I want a real connection, that's important to me. Being able to talk with my owner about things only helps strengthen our bond.

I'm a heavy masochist, and lean more towards the extreme side of kink, but mommy dommes are also welcome! I thrive on pain and humiliation, so if that's something you enjoy inflicting, I'm your guy.

I've been in the BDSM scene for a while, so negotiation is important to me. I want everyone to always have a good time.

In my vanilla life, I love to cook, I hike, and I camp. I go around my region to play big game scenario paintball, so I usually have a bruise or two on me from that.

I love to learn, so I'm happy to listen to you ramble about your hobbies and passions. I find sitting and listening one of my favorite activities.

So, what I'm looking for: A sadist is preferred, but honestly anyone who can keep me in line. I want someone I can connect with on both a kink and personal level. Other than over 18, I'm not picky about age, or jealous of other partners/subs. I know it's a long shot, but my long-term goal is to be a 24/7 live in slave or pet. I've done some 24/7 dynamics before, so I understand the logistics nightmare that can be. But until then, I'm happy to be your good boy on whatever schedule we can.

I really hope to hear from you, please send me a DM!

Making decisions is hard, life is difficult. But you know what isn't? Being my good girl, letting me make those choices for you. It's only natural, isn't it? Just let me help, darling.

Let me help you control your urges, make you be better. I know some of you pretty things need some structure in your life and I am more than happy to help provide that.

Or maybe you need something else~ maybe you need depravity. Maybe you need a mistress to give you a push, to make you take a step. Maybe you sluttier, more submissive, more depraved~ Come on, my lovely, we know you could be so, so much better off if you just gave in to your urges, if you just let me take control~

I love kinky girls, I love messed up girls, I love older women, really, I love you all~ And I cannot wait to make you mine.
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I hope you enjoyed that little bit of teasing, but I would also like to take a step back and talk a little bit about this ooc:

First off, my kinks. I usually go with whatever my sub likes most, but as a baseline, I like: impact play degradation, humiliation, tasks, orgasm denial, orgasm control, forced orgasm, TPE, wardrobe control, punishments, restraints, cnc

Also! I would very much appreciate if you were close to my time zone (UTC +3)

my limits are: men, being a sub, misogyny, scat

The way I see this going slow at first, after we talk about consent, limits and boundaries, I would like to slowly build up more trust and get more power over you, little by little, until you are more my property than your own person.

Well, I hope you've enjoyed, be a good girl and put some effort in your first message, the more effort you put in, the more likely I am to reply and make you mine~

Hi there, nice to meet you! 😊I hope you're doing well! I'm 27m from Wisconsin, 5'10 and 195 lbs. (Working on the weight a bit, I'm down 20 lbs from this summer!) I have short brown hair and blue eyes with glasses.

Above all else, I'm really hoping to meet a sweet and loving mommy! Someone who can make me feel cared for and safe, and I'll do my best to help you feel the same.

I'm admittedly not the most experienced when it comes to this set of thing, but te thought of letting someone take the lead in life makes and doing my best to make them happy makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside! 🙂

To be honest I don't really have much self confidence or experience in life, and I'm really just hoping to find my special someone who can help me feel like everything will be okay. I want to do my best to make you as happy as I can too though! Whether you'd like different levels or control, or something along the lines of a FLR as well, I'd be happy to know how I can make you happy too! 🤗

For some of my interests, there's a few things I really like doing when I get the chance. There's a handful of videos games and series that I really like, a few of my favorites are Stardew Valley, Pokemon, Minecraft, Sonic (especially the Chao garden!), and an older MMO called RuneScape. I also like doing some little crafts, collect Tamagotchis, and love pets! (And anything cute really! 😄). I love traveling too, but haven't been able to do much of it yet. I'm working on changing that though!

I'm trying to learn how to cook a bit more lately. Some of my favorites so far are curry, and chocolate chip or blueberry muffins! 🧁 I'd love to help you bake, and make some yummy treats for you too!

As far as work goes, I work online as an IT Tech. It definitely keeps me busy some days, but I really enjoy it and the people I get to work with!

As for kinks, to be honest I don't have much experience, or really any at all. I'm definitely a sub, the thought of just being cuddled, held, or just doing what I can to make someone happy while being called a good boy just sounds like the best feeling in the entire world! 😊

To be a bit more specific though, some of my kinks are femdom, flr, power exchange, pegging, cum control and denial, edging, and just being someone's good boy!

My limits are the usual bathroom stuff, pain, kids, animals, and anything illegal.

Even beyond that though, I'm open to at least giving most things a try.

While things would start online, I'm hoping that maybe someday we could meet up and move things to IRL too! I'm open to a long distance relationship and differing timezones as well, I think of we really connected we could make it all work out!

No worries about rushing into things though, I think it would be nice if we took some time to really grow closer and get to know each other deeply before that thought comes to mind.

Also, I'm sorry if I'm a bit quiet and soft spoken at first, I'm really shy and it takes me a little while to really get comfortable with someone, I hope it's alright.

If you e read this far though, I'd love to chat and see if were maybe a good fit for each other! 🙂

Hello! I'm a 18 year old college student who's looking for a dom either online or in the state of Ohio.

A little bit about me: I'm a current college student who has been into femdom for a little while, and I'm going to try to get back into it again. I'm a little chubby, and I have a lot of body hair. I have long brown hair and brown eyes with a beard. I am also fairly tall at 6'0". I enjoy reading, coffee, playing video games, and D&D. I mainly just want someone who I can build a relationship with and share a similar sexual life with as well, along with a dom/sub sfw aspect. I so share photos, but only if I receive photos too.(two-way street) I try to be fairly independent but I do become very needy and dependent at times. I also can be very busy too.

I'm looking for someone around my age, (18-25) who would love to build a relationship with me. I don't have many preferences to looks, but I really like blonde hair, and brunettes too. The closer to Ohio the better! I would prefer someone who shares photos, but it's not required. My dms are open if you would like to get to know me!

36 [M4F/M] Chubby sub seeking #online or in person

I’m searching for a new Dom in philly area. I’m a sub that’s very into humiliation and submission.

Exhibition is important to me so I enjoy serving naked but you (the Dom) is in charge, so what you say goes. You are in charge of what I say and do while we’re together. I’m an extremely open minded and willing sub. I’ve served before, both male and female. My kink is whatever my dom is into. That being said I’m personally into humiliation, forced fem, sph. I’m bi sexual and into just about anything. Not into bathroom stuff and anything that gets either of us injured.

In my personal relationships I’ve been completely straight but when I serve I’m bi sexual. Im 6,2 and chubby. I’m masc and in confident in my everyday life. At work I’m in charge of a large group of people and have to be in control at all times. This is why my kinks are so important for me to balance my life.

You as a dom must truly enjoy controlling and manipulating. You could do this without ever taking any clothes off. I had a dom that made me clean her apartment while she poked fun at my naked shame. I’ve had a guy that simply wanted me to listen to him for a while and sometimes he would make me suck him off. Maybe you have something you want me to do that I’ve never experienced. I’m probably into it. I’ve had experienced doms that established incredible connections with me based on trust and obedience.

What you look like is not important. Race, gender, weight, age are all not important. It’s about your commitment to being a dom. And you’re ability to host. Send me a DM if you’re interested. I look forward to hearing from any interested parties.

About me:

Contrary to my username I am not actually a fern but I have a pretty nice collection of them. I'm 6'2"and thin but pretty fit with brown hair and pretty blue eyes. I'm an environmental engineer and am really passionate about my work along with all things cities and environment related. As a person I'm very mellow, open, and easygoing, I'll try just about anything once and generally have a pretty positive outlook on life. I'm also a definitely a bit of a nerd, I'm very passionate about my interests and hobbies.

Hobbies/Interests:

Houseplants: Mostly tropicals but I have an appreciation for succulents Lifting: Definitely not an expert but I'm really enjoying it Sci-fi/fantasy books and movies Aquariums: Don't even get me started here Restaurants: Particularly Japanese and Italian! What I'm looking for:

Something ideally long term and in-person although I'm open to online if we really click well. I know I need a strong connection and to feel cared about in any dynamic. I like some rougher kinks but would like to find someone with more gentle vibes. I'm not into degradation or anything overly harsh. We can talk more about specific kinks as we get to know each other but I enjoy doing whatever it takes to please my partner and really love praise.

Next Steps:

Shoot me a message if you think we'd vibe, I'm usually a pretty quick texter. If you include a SFW picture with your message I'll return the favor.

Hello! :)

I am a sub-leaning switch inexperienced bisexual guy looking for a dominant woman to be friends with! I was hoping to find someone who would like to go out and have fun in the city. I spend too much time indoors lol, so I need a good excuse to go out on the weekends. :P

In my free time I live like a goblin a lot of the time, but I like to involve myself in a little bit of writing, singing, a bit of reading, some programming, going to museums and restaurants, video games, and learning Dutch. I used to play chess, hike, and winter camp but it has been years lol.

Sorry if this is too tmi, but just to answer before anyone asks, I have a chubby belly and a micropenis, and then I'm also 5'9", caucasian, long brown hair, glasses, a little bit of hair everywhere, and a fat ass. People like my voice too, but I am relatively quiet.

I would say my personality is impulsive a bit. I generally keep it under wraps, but I mean impulsive by randomly clingy but still respecting space you know? And then, I have a silly perverted sense of humor, and a wit that gets me into trouble sometimes lol. I would say I'm more of the deep talk than small talk type of person.

This is a femdom subreddit, so you probably are curious about my kinks. :P I have been interested in finding older men (I have a gay account) to have fun with, and so I guess you could say forced bi or not-so-forced bi would be the biggest ones recently? None of this is required for me to bring up, but I also am curious about spanking, pegging, body worship, petplay, tpe, sph, cuckholding, emasculation, mdlb, chastity, humiliation, exhibitionism, cbt, sounding, electricity, musk, nasty kinks, drinking pee, fat shaming, choking, ruining, edging, dry humping, bondage, cfnm, and domestic service. I am very masochistic.

I don't care what we do because I have little experience, so my standards are pretty low. It would be nice to spend thanksgiving with someone albeit a stranger. I am not looking for anybody in particular that I have in mind really, so feel free to say hi. :)

Hi everyone! I'm Jess. I'm a 26 year old, submissive transwoman living in the CST time zone. I'm looking for a dominant woman that can make me squirm.

About Me:

• I have had about a decade of online experience with kink and basically zero in person experience.
• I live in the CST time zone, but am open to partners in any part of the States.
• I'm a massive fuckin' nerd. I love tabletop RPGs, Shounen anime, and video games. It's not necessary that we share the same interests, but it's definitely a big plus!
• I've got a bachelor's degree in Computer Science (Game Development), and I'm working as a software developer for a fortune 300 company. I work weekdays, but I work from home so I have a lot of freedom to spend my time doing whatever I want as long as I'm getting my tasks done.
• I'm 6'4" with long blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm not exactly skinny, but I'm hoping the diet I'm on, the exercise I'm doing, and Zepbound make relatively quick work of that problem lol
• I've got such a weakness for goth women. I mean, who doesn't, sure, but like. Y'know. If you've got colorful hair and mental illness, PLEASE hit me up

What I'm Looking For:

• I'm looking for an online dynamic with a dominant woman between the ages of 20 and 35
• Being honest and open about expectations is extremely important to me. We should be able to express ourselves freely with each other in order to build a strong foundation for our dynamic.
• I'm looking for something long term. The type of dynamic I'm hoping to create won't happen over night. It'll take time for us to get to know each other, to learn what makes each of us tick. If after a while, we've decided we're compatible, I'd definitely be down to meet in person
• I want someone who will make me feel comfortable in my body and who will push me to always love myself. Understand that I am a work in progress, and that that just makes the process of you turning me into your perfect girltoy all the more rewarding.
• Arguably just as important as the kink side of things, I'm looking for a friend first and foremost. I'm looking for someone who I can message throughout the day to ramble about the game I'm playing or the manga I'm reading. I'm looking for someone who will want to watch shows or play games together while in VC. I want someone who I can trust and that I know cares for me immensely.

Kink Information:

• We can discuss kinks privately because I'm really more interested in who you are as a person, but I'll give a short list here.
• Orgasm control and denial is probably the biggest kink I have. Giving up control in general is really big for me. What do I need to think for? You know so much better than I do.
• Mental domination is a close second, I love having my mind molded to become my partner's perfect little girltoy.
• Mild degradation and humiliation are also big. The blush on my cheeks is directly correlated to my arousal.
• Others include bondage, breeding, anal, breathplay and breath control, MD/lg, occasional brattiness, very light pain play, and overstimulation or mind break. Pretty open to anything though, so if you don't see it here, feel free to ask!
• Not too many limits. Scat, blood, and severe pain are kind of the big three.

I think that's everything? I'm pretty sure I hit on everything I wanted to hit on. If you think we'd be a good match or if I sparked your interest at all, please don't hesitate to message me! I promise I'm more nervous than you are lol. reddit DMs or the Chat feature are fine, so use whichever you prefer. If you actually read all of this, thanks so much! Hopefully we'll be chatting soon <3

Hi there and thanks for taking the time to read my post. As stated above I'm a 30 year old submissive male seeking an intelligent and caring domme for a female led relationship in the Hudson Valley area. I do not want a kink dispenser, I want a best friend.

Vanilla about me: I work in healthcare and have a great career. I have a master's degree and I'm very financially stable (currently saving to purchase a house when the market corrects). I'm a big nerd so I really, high fantasy things, PC gaming, and some anime. I'm socially well adjusted and just as comfortable staying in for the night or going out to a nice dinner with friends.

Not so vanilla: I have experience as a collared sub in a past relationship and have gone to IRL play parties as well. I have a laundry list of kinks including body worship, chastity, pegging, bondage (this is a big one), impact, tease and denial, and objectification. I really enjoy most kinds of play. I'd love to be tied up to watch a movie and cuddle, or we could even rent the local dungeon for a special occasion.

At the end of the day I feel many men cheapen the value of their own submission by throwing it at the feet of any "domme" with little to no thought. Men should feel empowered in their submission, choosing to give over control to someone they respect. The respect should be mutual. It's important for me to feel respected in a dynamic.

Please 25 or older and within an hour or two drive of me. If you read the entire post send me a chat or DM with the word Red in the first sentence or title. I'm happy to exchange pictures fairly quickly to make sure there's mutual attraction. As a heads up I'm very masculine and have a bit of a dad bod (I do lift weights). Please be single and unattached with no kids. If you're poly it depends on your arrangement and we can discuss this later.

I know this was a long post but I wanted to make it clear what I'm looking for. Thanks for sticking it out. Hoping to hear from you soon.

Well, I followed the rules and it has been 7+ days since I posted in here. I have a few......possibilities, but nothing that says "Yup, this is it!".

Directions for the applicant: start out eager with a proper, respectful introduction. "Hey" is neither proper nor respectful. Tell Me about yourself in your first message.

Please be kinky, fit, attractive, and 18 or over (40 max!!!)

I am NOT into:

Chubby guys

Dad bods

Hairy guys

Partnered guys

Beards or moustaches. Yes, that means unless you shave and stay shaved, it IS a dealbreaker.

Address Me as Miss. Always.

I am a determined ginger, who is well educated, attractive, practices martial arts, from a huge family, and a huge outdoor enthusiast.

Your face must be clearly shown in all pic and video tasks without exception.

My kinks (the *** ones are REQUIRED):

***Watersports - yes, drinking it as well.

***Cum-eating.

***Ass-play.

***Bi sex (m/m).

***Feminization/sissification.

-Uniforms: sports and military.

-Precum wet spots.

-Big cum shots.

-Self suckers.

-Imaginative submissiveness.

-Public: HUGE turnon, especially tagging.

-Roleplay: especially incest, school.

-Sounding - more intrigue; no real knowledge.

-Extreme ass-play: bad dragon anyone?

-Cuckolding: bonus if the bull and the cuckold know each other.

Some things I'm not looking for:

-Partnered subs

-Switches

-Single sessions or short term servitude

Fair warning: After your initial message, if I choose to continue, all pics and vids that you'll send will be required to have your face in them. No exceptions!!!!

Hello,

I am a 45 year old single man, fairly fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. I am OK starting slow and even part time as we feel things out.

I’ve had some experience taking the lead in relationships in the past, but I’m more interested and experienced with submission and reversing roles for quite a while now. I’m now posting this year in the hope of making a connection with a woman who is into role reversal and exploring taking the lead, being physically/ sexually assertive, making relationship decisions, giving direction for fun, pleasure, and companionship. I’m typically an independent person and have a full life with responsibilities, but submitting and putting my partner on top greatly appeals to me. Preference is for someone in the nyc area (open to outside the area if the connection is great).

I’m open to connecting with either someone experienced or someone who is new to this and curious. Either way I would want to kind of grow and learn together, the way a pet gets to know their owner and what she likes and expects, or the way a dominant person gets to know the limits and boundaries of their submissive, seriously and intimately. What I mean to say is that I am open to exploring this gently with a newbie or going in more deeply. Ultimately I would want to be pushed mentally and emotionally to submit myself to your pleasure and give you control of my physical self.

I’m a pretty balanced person, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits. I love biking, soccer, and started indoor rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and services to offer, I have a background in public health, but also enjoy film, philosophy, and teaching. I like to cook, and especially baking healthy treats, and enjoy communication and conversation.

I had a bad experience on reddit in the past and for that reason I prefer to start a little slow and casual, and build up and blossom as we connect more over time. This means not jumping into something full time, but feeling things out and see how that goes.

The connection is important to me, not looking to get too vulnerable with someone when trust hasn’t yet been established. You might say I’m old fashioned in that I believe in forming a connection and having it grow.

I know this is long, but I hope someone reads it and feels a connection with it. I’m open to starting a conversation and just see where it leads.

If possible, please include age, location, and a physical description in your message just to cut down on out all the spam!

thank you very much

Hey! I am Omar a 20 yr old male from the Germany. For the longest time i have had the fantasy of a girl sitting on my face with her ass and smothering me till i cant breathe anymore. This fantasy has developed now into a real fetish and kink to asses and especially facesitting or smothering.

About me: I go to the gym almost 4/5 a week.Therefore, I am pretty fit maybe even muscular. I still am in college im a 2nd year engineer in TUM (Technical University of Munich) . I like fitness in general and adventurous activities such as hiking, skiing, going to a water park or even a roller coaster etc.

About my kinks: As i said I am in-love with ass and the fact that they could smother me. But besides that i've developed a kink of being generally dominated by a mommy and being told exactly what to do and controlled. I like Jol, CBT, cum control, edging, denial, ofc face sitting and overall having to give over my body to be an obedient little slut to my mommy/mistress and be controlled by her. I'll do literally anything u ask from me. And I am alo open for new kinks as long as it's not anything illegal or gore/blood.

I'll reply to all the DMs and i'm open to send pics right away. Just need to verify ur real then we're good to go and start. And i'm also open to video calls, chatting and anything along those lines. Thank you for taking out of your time to read post and please if you feel at all interested mommies, then please DM me. Thank you <3

Hi everyone!

Firstly, I hope you're having a good day, and if not, I hope it wil get better soon!

Let me briefly introduce myself - although I'm perfectly fine with short-term play, ideally I'm looking for a long-term partner, and I believe, that if you're considering to become one, you'd like to know more about me beforehand.

I'm a 22 years old, shy, virgin boy from Europe, Poland. My body is a rather average build, not overweight, not skinny, not very muscular. To whom it may concern, my dick is also average. I'm a shy, introverted person, although fairly capable of going outside of my comfort zone in social situations. Also, as mentioned in the title, I'm a virgin.

My main intrests include, but are not limited to, astronomy, movies and tv shows/series (I like various genres, ranging from sci-fi and thrillers to comedies), gardening, woodworking, and many more. I love talking about people's hobbies and passions, and in many cases I'm more than willing to give them a try!

When it comes to kink related stuff, here's what you probably would like to know about me:

• My main kinks include: femdom, orgasm control, orgasm denial, chastity, edging, soft humiliation, toy play (chastity cages, lovense edge 2, lovense diamo, DG-Lab Coyote, buttplugs, fleshlights, etc), performing tasks, ass play, and many others. If you're not into some of them, it's perfectly fine - just let me know which are hard limits for you and which you're willing to try. If you're into some other kinks, please let me know - I'm more than open to trying new kinks, especially, if that will make you happy!
• My limits are: scat, blood, permanent or visible body modifications (e.g. writing on face is not okay, trimming pubic hair or writing on private parts is alright), exposing face
• I'm not fond of exposing myself - I'm perfectly fine with taking pictures or videos of perforing some tasks, showing that I'm locked in chastity, etc, as long, as the pictures are not too revealing. I won't show my face, unless we really click with eachother and something more serious spawns out of this.
• I have a couple of toys at my disposal, including a chastity cage, a steel buttplug, lovense edge 2 and a fleshlight. I like playing with toys, so there's a high chance, that If I don't have the kind of toy you'd like me to play with, I'd be happy getting one. I'm also willing to use household objects or anything creative, as long as it's hygenic and safe.

Toys:

• Lovense Edge 2
• Lovense Diamo
• DG-Lab Coyote (app-controlled e-stim device)
• CAG-INK PRO / Callmate 3 (App controlled chastity cage)
• Chastity cages (steel, silicone, plastic - cobra, HT v3, flat)
• Steel Buttplug
• Fleshlight
• Penis pump
• Shock collar

My timezone is GMT+2, which means, that I'm 6 hours ahead of New York (NY 2PM is my 8PM) and 9 hours ahead of Los Angeles (LA 2PM is my 11PM). Even though this might be an inconvenience, I believe that even if you're in LA, we'll be able to figure something out :D

I'm looking forward to meeting you soon! Both Reddit Messages and Reddit Chat are fine with me, if you prefer some other form of communication, I'm also fine with that :)

Hello everyone,

Let’s tell you something about me first:

I’m Milan, 20 yo from Holland, I’m a 2nd year studying to become a teacher. I work at a supermarket and am currently following an internship on a primary school. In my free time I like to play games, spend time with my gf and read books. I’m a kind, smart and open person. I love a good talk and communication is key.

As the title says this is new for me, I was in a relationship but it didn’t fulfill my need for some femdom. She was very submissive and I was just missing an element for my desires.

That’s where you, hopefully, come in. I’m looking for a girl/woman that is:

• Between the age of 18 and 30 (If you are a bit above it’s okay)
• Mostly gentle, teaching me discipline is okay ofc but I like it to be mostly gentle and supporting
• Supportive and kind, as stated above I don’t like a mean domme. Yes humiliation is fine from time to time but please create a safe environment for me
• Okay with something low maintenance, i have a busy week but try my best to make time in between. I would love to fit you into my schedule and work on solutions

My appereance if you’d like to know:

https://dirtycode.io/L4BQF

I hope I mentioned everything, if there’s something you wanna know please reach out to me!!

-Milan

I’m relatively new to the kink world. Been exploring on my own for years now but would love to take it to the next level. I’m looking for someone who’s willing to do stuff in person (your place as I live with family right now or like a hotel) on weekends. I’m interested in sissification/feminization, bondage, and am interested in pegging. I would absolutely LOVE to be dressed up, tied up tight, and pegged. That being said, I’m extremely open to trying most things like chastity or anything else. Dm me if you’re interested in taking control and turning me into your little sissy bitch.

A little more about me: I’m 23, 5’6”, and 180-something pounds. I have a little bit of a belly but I’m working on that. I’ve been crossdressing and exploring with toys for years alone in the privacy of my room. I own a number of toys and articles of clothing but have never used or worn any out in public or with someone else.

As the title says, I am in fact a virgin. I’ve never done anything. I would love to find someone who would help me experience everything. You know, like, I get to experience regular and oral sex, then you lock me up in chastity and I please you however you like and beg for release.

I’m looking for more than just a play partner. I’d like to find a girlfriend through here who has a kinky side.

I’m pretty shy and anxious at first and VERY cautious about sending anyone pictures of even just my face or body. If you want to know what I look like, which is very understandable, I’d much prefer we video chat so that we can both verify that we are who we say we are.

Hi! I’m a young, fun, and adventurous guy seeking a Dominant woman who is interested in a Female Led Relationship.

I’m 34, 5’11”, I live an active lifestyle, a bit nerdy, and can be a bit shy when first meeting people.

In my Vanilla life, I have my life together and work a full time job in Tech. On my free time, I love making art, playing video/board games, concerts, beach sunsets, and hanging out with friends.

In the bdsm world, I’d love to find a dominant to serve. I love the rituals, giving up controls, and focusing entirely on my partner. I enjoy being caged, love bondage, following directions, pegging, body worship, and humiliation. I’m not into findom and am not interested in pro-dommes. I would like to develop a meaningful relationship with a power dynamic involved. Some of my limits include scat/pee, abdl. I hope to meet a goddess to serve soon!

If you would be interested in chatting and meeting up for coffee or brunch, feel free to shoot me a message!

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Please be located in San Diego, CA 420 Friendly

Hello!

39M recently back into the scene after taking a break for a few months to work on myself. I’m interesting finding a domme or dominant couple for a limited power exchange. I say “limited” due to 2 main factors:

1. I’m married with kids. My wife is hardcore vanilla (believe me, I’ve tried several times to get her to dominate me, and she knows I’d welcome it), but we have been pretty much celibate for the last few years. I know that’s a hard stop for some people, and I understand. If you’d like, we can discuss it further. But I put this out there so you are aware and don’t waste your time. Additionally, this also means I have to be discreet about my activities, as well as sharing my limited time with my family responsibilities.

2. I work full-time. I work in an office environment with access to my phone, but little privacy. My job and livelihood to provide for my family is more important to me than any sort of fulfillment that I would receive from a dynamic. So I wouldn’t be doing anything that would directly jeopardize that.

As for myself, I’m still relatively new to BDSM, as I started subbing about 9 months ago. I have had some short-term, non-romantic dynamics that went fairly well and ended amicably by mutual agreement. Mostly I see myself as a service-sub and a pleasure-bottom… something that is a challenge to pursue solely online. Mostly I just like to help do what I can to make other people happy. While I enjoy a number of kinks, my main avenue of fulfillment is pleasing other people, and often times just knowing that my efforts were appreciated is enough for me. I’m not the sort to say that I’ve “earned” something from my Dom - I much prefer any “reward” be a gift freely given out of pride in my performance or gratitude for my efforts, rather than feeling obligated to recompense me.

I also am very obedient, am willing to push myself, and enjoy having rules and expectations to adhere to. Furthermore, I also enjoy having my mind played with, and would allow myself to be molded and reshaped mentally and (within limits) physically.

Note: While I consider myself hetero and have always sought female domination, in a kink dynamic, I have found myself becoming more open to the idea of being dominated by a male/female or female/female couple. The configuration could be a number of things: shared co-dominants, a primary dominant and a secondary dominant, a D/s couple with limited interaction with the subordinate partner (co-submissive)… this is new for me and I’m open to ideas, but it is something that I am now at the point where I am willing to open my horizons and try.

While there are a number of likes and dislikes, I have compiled a list of know limits. At this time, the hard limits are exactly that: hard. The soft limits we can discuss, but would be the sort of thing that we would have to work up to once trust is well-established.

If any of this sounds of interest to you, feel free to message me, and I’ll be happy to talk with you!

Statistics: 39/M/CUST Skin: White Hair: Brown, kept short with a trimmed beard that is starting to gray Eyes: Gray Height: 5’ 8” Build: Overweight and large framed Endowment: Undersized (4” when erect)

SOFT LIMITS: Urine / Watersports Bladder Control / Bowel Control Diapers Large / Rough Anal Rimming Moderate CBT Hair Removal Wax (Candle) Forced Porn (watching non-preference material) Sounding / Urethral Insertion Choking / Breathplay

HARD LIMITS: Prohibited Bodily Fluids: Blood, Scat, Vomit Permanent Body Damage, Scarring, Marking, Piercing, or Modification Any activities with minors Needles, Blades, Flame/Heat, Caustic chemicals Public or Online Exhibition Blasphemy or Religious play Financial Domination (Findom) or any other financial exchange Heavy CBT Blackmail / Extortion Caging/Jail Furry/animal/pet-play Beastiality Ass to Mouth activities Smoking/Drugs (Self and anyone involved during play)

Hi I’m really feel lonely myself and want to feel mutual warmth and care from someone. I want to get to know each other better every day and build a sincere deep relationship. ❤️ Here some information about me: I’m mostly introvert, like to watch series and movies. I am constantly working on self-improvement and achieving my goals, and I would like my partner to be interested in his own development too. If desired, we could motivate each other. 😊 In sex things My main kink is femdom. I really like to obey goddess and follow every her rule and command. In session you can be as cruel and strict as you want. But in regular conversation I would like to have a kind and cute talks. Some my preferred kinks: edging, humiliation, feminization, ballbusting, cei, orgasm control and much more! And also I have a nice set of toys 🔥

I am not ready to send much opening photos at beginning like my face and etc. Therefore, I would ask you to do this very warmly, starting with close body particles and other things.

Hi, I'm new to this kind of thing but i thought i could try my luck! I'm searching for someone to chat to that would like not only to get off and enjoy each other but also to know each other. I want someone that i can build a connection with :). As i said I'm new to this so i'll probably be a bit uncertain at first and could take things a bit slow to actually get to know you.

About me: i'm an italian musician with a bit of a dad bod. I study Physics and have a lot of interest in nerd culture. I like philosophy and i am always curious to understand how others think life should be lived and they're point of view in general.

About you: not much tbh, just someone who wants to follow what i have written above. Bonus points if you are willing to send pics, even just a face pic/verification pic (so that i can be certain to who i'm talking to) and MANY bonus points if you have an alternative style (i'm a sucker for tattoos, piercings, colored hair and all of that stuff).

Kinks: JOI, gentle domme, face sitting, breastfeeding, CNC, worship (i'm also here to try new things so tell me what you like maybe i'm down!).

Limits: gore, vore, illegal stuff

Don't hesitate to dm me, i'll be waiting! :]

Art is Anything You Can Get Away With

-Andy Warhol

Looking for the girl that gets away with it, and people still want to hang with her.

I feel like that quote really defines beautiful play for me.

I want to respect, admire, worship, please, and resist but fail.

You want to get away with it, and usually do

I want you to get away with it, and then rub it in my face.

I like to joke around, but I'm a get things done kind of guy. I love polarities. The capacity for experiencing the dynamics of life are symbolic of being open minded.

I enjoy having a private kinky world of exploration and fun with a perfect vibe we both ride like a beautiful wave on a sunny day. For the outside world I like being the regular, but eccentric, cute intellectual guy.

I'm not into online culture. Ironic, yet here I am. I prefer grounded human interactions. I am into healthy food, spirituality, philosophy, aesthetics, and going with the flow.

I get along well with women who are smart, accomplished, and can hold their own in a professional setting. That doesn't mean boring and stuffy. I am looking for somebody similar in that regard, who is also feminine, conventionally attractive and a complete person.

Emotional connection is lovely. Let's talk :) We can share pics too.

I lean more on the gentle side of things, but also am looking for mutual adoration and exploration of your toys.

Send me a message if you'd like to explore more.

Im a 6’2”, ginger, Scottish sub who is looking for a mommy!

I moved to Glasgow a wee while ago while ago from the Highlands, so I’m still getting used to the city life. So a wee side tangent: If you’ve got any thing I should go see or good food spots to try, id love to hear em!

I’ve always been fascinated by confident and caring women, that fascination quickly turned into attraction. Since then I’ve wanted to serve someone, make mommy happy, and be a good boy for someone. I will go to the ends of the Earth to hear a good boy, it sends shivers down my spine and just makes me melt where I stand. I absolutely love to be pet, given praise and love. But at the same time a little rougher treatment can be absolutely intoxicating! Being slapped around having my hair pulled, being bitten, it all just makes me melt. I’m also a massive slut for voices, if you like sending voice notes or videos, then please shoot me a message!

My limits are cuckholdery, gore, and excrement play.

Anyways, I can’t wait to hear from you!

I’ve been exploring some kinks and fantasies for a while now, and I’m really curious to try what it feels like to be dominated. I’m 24 years old and have some experience with this dynamic, so I know a bit of what to expect, but I’m still eager to explore it further and see what new experiences I can have. If you’re interested in connecting and exploring this with me, feel free to send me a message.

A little about me: I work as a mechanic, so I’m used to being hands-on and dealing with tough, physical work. I stay in good shape through my job, as well as by playing sports and going on hikes in my free time. I’m 6 feet tall, 170 pounds, with blonde hair and blue eyes, and I currently have a beard. I take care of myself and try to stay active. At the moment, I don’t have any toys or accessories to use, so everything would be done with my hands and physical interaction for now, but I’m planning to invest in some gear once I get more into this. I’m looking for someone who’s experienced or confident in taking control and guiding the experience, and I’d love to have open communication and see where this exploration leads.

If you’re interested, don’t hesitate to reach out and we can talk more about our interests and what we’re looking for.

As the title says, I’m looking to explore my sub side with a domme. Specifically hoping to find a woman interested in being a keyholder/gentle but firm domme.

A bit about me: I'm a 26 year old guy calling Washington, DC home, and I've been really interested in exploring the world of femdom. I do have some experience, but I’m hoping to find someone to continue this journey with.

About you: Live in DC, although if you’re just passing through I’m open to that as well if we click. I’m also open to online as well. Around my age, reasonably attractive, and any level of experience is welcome—whether you're exploring or have some seasoned knowledge.

In terms of appearance, I'd say I'm a good -looking guy, about 6 feet tall with a lean, athletic build. For the most part, I carry an assertive, but very kind and caring, "A" personality in my day-to-day life but I’m very submissive with women, evidently. Open to both long-term and short-term dynamics and happy to discuss kinks if we connect :)

SFW: I'm a bookish nerd who finds joy in reading and loves deep intellectual conversation. Teach me something new or challenge my ideas! Love hanging out with friends, whether it's hitting the town on weekends or just unwinding after a hectic workday.

DM me if you’re interested and tell me a bit about yourself!

If you’ve read this far, tell me your favorite movie.

Hello!

Writing in english, but I understand all Scandinavian languages. I'm looking for a domme that can maybe turn into something long term! For now, its no pressure making it all the way to long term, so im open to playmates too. Im a pretty relaxed guy, I work full time at an office and outside of that I like enjoying the city life, concerts, sports/games, museums and more. My favorite sports are football and cycling, and i like doing things like table tennis and pool. I like music and movies/series, food and nice wine! Im a pretty calm person, open for different dynamics and miss someone to feel a connection with!

Physically im 185 cm, 80 kg and white skin with short dark hair. Im open to sending a selfie in DM, if you like.

Kinks

• Edging
• Denial
• Chasity play
• JOI
• Light
• Assplay
• Those my primary kinks. Im also curious about other parts, like mommydom, encouraged bi and maybe cuckold relationships, humiliation and maybe more

Limits

Bathroom stuff (except maybe golden shower), blood, permanent damage, findom

About you

Hopefully you are somewhat close so that meeting IRL could be an option. Im open to some distance if it works well and chemistry is good. I value honesty, trust, and humor to mention some things. I hope you will be open to voicecall every now and then also.

[Picture here and there's more on my profile] [I'm bilingual: FR+EN] Hi! I'm just a soft boy searching for a domme who will enjoy spending time with me and doing activities, as well as indulging in kink together... I just wanna be someone's good boy ☺️💕💕

I have been in a sub / domme relationship in the past and I do have experience with many kinks. I also just recently started attending kinky events at a dungeon!! I know that kink and bdsm are a part of me. I just know deep down that I need this dynamic in a relationship to truly be happy! I want us to be friends, and also enjoy kink together, but ideally what I'm really looking for is a long term relationship where we can both be happy and grow together as persons.

Some of my interests include animes, video games, sports like basketball and hiking, car rides, music (especially emo rap, such as Lil Peep, but also other genres).

I work as a graphic designer and I also do other web marketing related tasks.

My favorite season is fall. My favorite animal is cats. I like poetry, beautiful landscapes, looking at the stars and holding hands when we take walks...

I'm a soft boy at heart. I wanna prepare your lunches for work, borrow your hoodies and be the little spoon when we sleep 🥺💕💕

I like wearing black nail polish, skinny jeans and large hoodies. I wear earrings, I have a little piercing, and I'd like to get some more as well as tattoos in the future!! I mostly present as masculine in public, even though I like wearing some softer or more girly colors sometimes, like pink hoodies under my black jacket 💖

I should also mention that I'm a stoner and I smoke weed regularly. Oh and my mother tongue is french! So the best scenario is that you speak french too, because I'm much more comfortable speaking french than English. But I wouldn't mind meeting someone who only speaks English!

As for my current situation, I'm single (my last relationship was about a year ago) and I live alone in my apartment, in Boisbriand. I have a car and I work from home, on the computer. So I guess I can say I got my shit together?

I'm someone who likes romance and craves affection. I wanna cuddle and watch animes, and talk for hours, tell you about my day or the latest news article that I read... I like talking about politics, social justice, sports, and news in general. I like to pay attention to what is going on in the world around me.

Now as for the kinky part of me. I'm not looking for anything specific. I just wanna to have a life companion who is also into femdom. I enjoy being the submissive one, in the bedroom, but outside of it too. I like following rules, being obedient, and sometimes funishments ;) I'm not a brat at all. And I'm a total bottom!!

My kinks include but are not limited to: pegging, chastity (I do own a cage!!🔐), crossdressing, spanking, face sitting, foot worship, pet play, mommy dom, CBT, CNC, being forced to eat my own cum, bondage, impact play, being choked, humiliation... All that good stuff and much much more!! I'm also very open minded so don't hesitate to tell me about yours. Even if I never heard of them, I'll be happy to try new things with you. I want a relationship where we can both explore kink together and sometimes step out of our comfort zone. I don't want us to fall in a boring routine... I want us to be passionate, happy and enjoy ourselves 💖

And my limits are: vomit, scat, blackmailing and blood.

If you've read this far, well thanks a lot! I appreciate it because I thought about it for a long time before writing this post.

Now if you think we could be a good match and you would like me to be your good boy, all you gotta do is send me a chat or DM!!

My fingers are crossed: I don't see many posts from anyone that lives in Quebec so I don't know if I have any chance to find the person I'm looking for... but I won't give up !! ☺️💕

My name is Sam, I'm 24 m and looking for a soft mommy. I really love intimacy. I like deep kissing, cuddling, praise, licking, giving oral, cock warming. I just can't get enough of it. My limits are humiliation, degradation, and bathroom stuff.

I am a virgin, I have just always been focused on schooling and now my job that I have never actually tried to find someone. I just wanted you to know because I know it can be kind of a red flag. I figured that I would try here because I'm really into gentle femdom and I'm not sure where else I could really find that.

A bit about me, I'm pretty nerdy, I like movies, games, watching youtube, programing, stuff like that. I'm pretty skinny. I am 5'9 and 145lbs. I am also bisexual. I am usually kinda nervous when it comes to intimacy irl, I never really got a lot of it when I was younger. I guess you could call me touch starved. I am very submissive and like listening to orders. I don't mind being called a girl either, honestly I have been questioning my gender and might be gender fluid.

I'm looking for a long term partner, or at least a new friend. If you are going to just message me trying to get me to pay you to talk to me, please don't message me. Please don't just start off calling me names and stuff, if you do you will be blocked.

Hi hi! I'm gonna try to sell myself like one of those door to door salesmen so I look way better than I actually am.

Ahem*

Hello Madam! Can I interest you in a top of the line, state of art, fully functional Jamie? [For the sake of this terrible joke I'm going to write the rest of this assuming you said yes to the previous question] I thought as much. However, you may be wondering, "Why do I need a new Jamie? I already have like 5 Jamie's at home." Excellent question! Let me give you a run down of Jamie's perks.

1. Jamie is submissive as hell and super affectionate, so prepare to be idolized

2. Jamie loves to build a bond with his dominant, and can thrive in both the kinky and emotional side to any dynamic

3. I heard that he's pretty cool and stuff

4. Has a lot of other qualities that are pretty great that he can't think of at the moment

See? I knew I'd convince you. And you can own your very one Jamie for only 15 low low payments of love and affection.

Don't laugh I know, I'm cringe.

Anyway, Im just a young submissive starting his journey on the path of submission, and I could use a guide.

I’m open to most anything, and I’ll try anything at least once.

Pm me 😊

P.S. this is kinda what I was going for Jamie who might actually be a car if you read into this too literally

Hello PHX! I am still in search of a goddess (or sub) but with my PHX move on the horizon thought I would see if there are any lurkers out there that might have similar desires and be interested in connecting sometime after my move in December. I’m a switch - leaning more sub atm but open to being a dom as well. Ideally looking for IRL sessions but I am open to online as a starting point.

I am not looking for anything long term, however, open to some level of ongoing sessions. If you're looking for a new toy, someone to use for your pleasure, I am certainly your guy.. I love the thought of being forced to do whatever you ask, losing control, brought to the edge so that all i can think about is serving my goddess. On the dom side, I would consider myself more of a pleasure/gentle dom and happy to get into those details if you're interested. This post will mostly outline my preferences as a sub.

I’m 6’2”, fit and attractive by most standards. Hoping to find someone relatively close but willing / able to travel so don’t hesitate to reach out if we aren’t in the same immediate vicinity (PHX). I am happy to pay for a hotel for our sessions of course but open to hosting with the right person.

Top Kinks (not a must to be into all of these):

• Giving / forced to give oral (both holes) / face sitting
• Pegging / anal play
• forced dildo sucking
• forced cum eating
• edging / orgasm denial

Also open to with the right person:

• light pain
• piss play
• chastity
• maybe maybe forced bi

Limits:

• scat/blood/permanent damage

What I’m looking for in a domme:

• someone who is open to a session dynamic vs long term 24/7
• NSA type of relationship
• well groomed or waxed / clean and hygienic
• agnostic to age / body type
• someone who is loud / vocal when I’m pleasing them
• bonus points if you can squirt or have creamy cum

If you’re interested please provide your asl in your first message! I am happy to share some pics and meet or video chat prior to making any formal plans / arrangements.