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37 [M4F] Looking for Mommy, I'll share, show off, and always make sure you feel wanted and needed #online

About Me:

37M, East Coast US, Looking for Online only at the moment. 5'8", 130lb, slim fit. A few SFW interests include movies, games, snowboarding, comics, and happy to be more specific later.

This is me

My Ideal Domme:

Searching for a nurturing Mommy that wants a thoughtful, sexy, and confident guy that is eager to please her mind as well as body. If you do a quick dive, you can see I have personality as well as that I enjoy showing off and sharing. I am avid sexter and good with description, to make sure I am stimulating you visually and mentally. My interest in femdom is primarily from my attraction to strong independent women and the turn on of being seduced by an older woman to be used for her pleasure. I prioritize pleasing others over myself, so I tend to be very considerate and selfless in intimacy, making sure you are entirely satisfied before even thinking about myself. Ideally, I am looking for a Mommy that is less into degradatory ownership or humiliation and more into showing affection and desire to nurture a free use male ready and eager to satisfy all of Mommy's sexual needs.

Age range: 22-45

Location: Online so anywhere is fine as long as we can find time to actually interact as to leaving messages.

Body Type: Slim, Fit, to Slim Curvy

Personality traits: Empathetic, Thoughtful with a dirty mind

Domme Traits: Nurturing

Femdom Preferances:

Limits: CEI, CBT, Pegging, Degradation, Humilation, Sissification, Feminization

Favority Kinks: Edging, Orgasm Denial, Cunnilingus, Face sitting (receiving), Nipple Play, Panty fetish, Pussy Worship, Sexting

Contact: Reddit chat initially, but then Snap and/or discord preferred

Initial Message: ASL & SFW or NSFW picture (no face necessary)

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2024/12/07
17:31 UTC

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19 [M4F] #online #tennessee, fit, biker, blue collar sub eager to find his domme

as the title states, im 19 and from tennessee. i work out daily, i ride motorcycles, i work as a heavy equipment operator at a whiskey distillery. physically, im 5’10” with brown hair and eyes, slim, toned, athletic build with very visible muscles. conventionally intelligent, i went to college early for cyber sec received my degrees, but hated working inside at a desk. heavily into automotive and musician photography, and if you like small underground indie or grunge artists, there’s a chance you’ve seen my pictures before. enough about myself and my hobbies.

nsfw:

i enjoy joi, bdsm, bondage, cei, some cbt, anal play (i have a few toys,) edging/denial, cum control, but i could be open to more i haven’t experienced yet. truly just want to be the best slut i can be. hard limits are scat, blood, blackmail, anything illegal. anything not listed in limits, im open to.

about you: understand i do work a lot and sometimes, while at work, i can’t be on my phone serving, while other times i can. be strict and straightforward about what you want. but understanding, (obviously) dominant, even outside of sexual relations. put me in my place. not afraid to show yourself when i’m being good for you either. i will be loyal to one mistress/domme and i’ll always try my best to fulfill your desires no matter how busy i am, but sometimes it just takes a little bit longer. if im not at work, you have absolutely all my attention.

cent wait to (be your dumb little mindless slut) meet you 🥰

if this post is still up, don’t hesitate to message me :)

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2024/12/07
17:24 UTC

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34 [M4F] #UK - I want to be humiliated, dominated and degraded by a nearby girl as I serve her

I'm really eager to serve. I'm slim and very tall, boyish and white, with strong legs. I've always felt awkward and nerdy. I live in a small village in Yorkshire, in the north of England, and I'm naturally submissive.

So I want to accept my true nature. I want to be broken down, as I worship and serve a nearby girl. I will know my place. I'll get down on my knees and kiss your feet or massage your body, lick your pussy and rim your tight hole, whatever you want from me. I just want to make you happy.

I'll follow your orders eagerly and be your obedient slaveboy. I'm willing to serve a nearby girl or woman of any legal age, race, size or bodyshape. You don't need to have any experience, just enthusiasm to make me submit to you. I can travel within the UK for you, if you can host.

You can spank me hard. You can slap me, spit on my face and laugh at my small cock. You can choke me, piss on me and bust my balls. Call me names and make me cry. I'm willing to be degraded and humiliated in any way you see fit. You can twist my puffy nipples, hurt me and laugh at my pain. I know that I deserve to be punished.

You can be as rough or as gentle with me as you want, so long as you take control of me for your own pleasure, desires and entertainment. I just want to work hard, submit completely and do whatever I can to make you happy. So please get in touch if you want to dominate me in any way, and we can discuss what you want from me in more detail.

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2024/12/07
17:16 UTC

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36 [M4F] #London #UK #Online looking for a dominant woman to own me and to explore anal training, chastity and humiliation

I am 36-year-old man from the UK and am looking for a domme to own me. I've been into BDSM for the past 10 years. I had both, online and IRL partners. While I did have vanilla partners, it doesn't really work.

NSFW wise:

Kinks: anal-only lifestyle, chastity, orgasm control / denial, tasks, tease and denial.

Limits: body fluids, sissification, pain, age regression, hard-core humiliation.

I am looking for online, and if there's chemistry we can then meet in person. If you're in Europe, feel free to get in touch too, as I travel very often.

I'd love to find a woman to have a genuine connection with. Please no pros or findoms - don't bother to get in touch.

I am athletic, 185cm and 200lbs. I work out regularly. I have short hair and blue eyes. Please see pictures on my profile. Happy to verify. I'd expect you to verify as well.

Feel free to message me if you're interested. Looking forward to hearing from you 😊

About Me

• Age and Location (or continent, or time zone): 36, London UK • Interests, hobbies, and SFW passions: travelling, exploring new places, restaurants, sports • Current work or education or projects: AI business • Height, weight, body type information: 185cm, 200lbs, athletic

• Links to SFW pictures: my profile

My Ideal Domme

• Age range (upper and lower): 18 - 50 • Location: UK or online • Body type / height / weight: it doesn’t matter, but there should be mutual attraction • Preferred domme style(s): once dynamic established, firm

My Femdom Preferences

• My favourite kinks: anal-only lifestyle, chastity, orgasm control and denial, light humiliation, tease and denial, tasks • My hard limits: body fluids, forced bi, sissification, pain, age regression, body damage, findom. • Previous d/s experience(s): around 10 years • Available toys and equipment: a few to choose from. • Links to NSFW pictures: https://ibb.co/0BtyrqR

Next Steps

• How to contact: text me on Reddit to begin with. Then Telegram • Verification requirements: I am willing to verify, and would expect you to do the same. If you’re not willing to verify, do not get in touch. • Likely response time: few hours - same day.

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2024/12/07
17:09 UTC

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25 [TM4F] #Maryland #DC: Submissive trans male seeking Domme in MD/DC metro area

Hi! I'm a 25 year old trans guy looking for a Domme in MD or DC. Primarily interested in a long-term D/s dynamic but I'm open to other relationship types as well.

I'm a submissive with a bit of a bratty streak (although I can behave when I need to). I tried being a Dom/switch in the past but it wasn't really my thing. My kinks include bondage, discipline, s&m, breath play, impact play, edging, orgasm control/denial, pup play, degradation, and erotic hypnosis. Hard limits include blood, scat, piss, anal, permanent markings, and anything generally disgusting or excessively painful.

I've briefly tried a number of kinks with partners in the past but I haven't had anyone consistent enough to explore anything in depth. I'm hoping to find a more experienced woman who can teach me more about kink as well as introduce me to new ones.

Another thing I'm hoping to get out of this is someone to keep me in line. I have problems with self-discipline and impulse control. It would be nice to have someone make sure I'm doing my chores, going to the gym, taking care of myself, working towards my goals, etc.

In a nutshell I want a Domme that can play with the horny subby parts of my brain while making sure I get my shit done. In exchange I'll give you my submission and obedience in whatever form you'll accept.

Message me if you want to know more, these are CliffsNotes not an autobiography lol. Let's chat a bit and see where it goes.

No long distance. I don't want a pen pal.

Serious inquiries only please.

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2024/12/07
17:01 UTC

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26 [F4M] #Massachusetts #Online looking for a young white sub 18-19 to milk and play with.

For a while I have had the urge to find a guy who has recently turned 18 or 19 and wants to make the most out of pleasuring his body and being commanded on how to do such. The thought of a guy starting off as an “innocent” young man to a sinful one after I guide them is such a turn on. Having a full amount of cum in a guy’s balls is such a waste if it’s not being deposited regularly, and I want to try to milk every drop out of someone.

Who am I looking for? I like white smooth guys, with hairless faces and relatively smooth torsos. I like a cut cock and the size doesn’t matter. The legs can be hairy and whether your pubes are shaved, trimmed, or full doesn’t matter. What turns me on as much as a cock is the ass. Being able to milk you from behind while I stroke your cock and stare at your ass is hot. I’m happy to eat you out or finger you while I stroke you. Also love to go to town on a taint.

Tell me a bit about yourself when you message me. Be sure to include your age and where you’re from. 18-19 is ideal. If in your early 20s and you’re physically what I’m into as mentioned above, maybe I’ll make an exception. Tell me some of your hobbies. What sports do you play? What are some nerdy things you like to do? Do you workout? Let me know your archetype. Are you nerdy? A surfer? A preppy tool who needs to be put in his place? A popular jock? I’m happy to see how we could turn your archetype into some type of role play where I’m the more dominant figure.

Kinks I’m into? I like voyeurism. Secretly watching a guy get undressed and start to pleasure himself when he thinks no one is looking. Then I pounce on him and start the milking process. I love it when a guy moans and displays ahegao (what’s that? Google it) while stroking and fucking. I love to see a guy humping in all positions and showing off his beautiful ass and cock. I do love a bit of ass play with stroking. But it’s not a dealbreaker if that’s not your thing. If you like role playing, happy to come up with a scenario if you haven’t thought of one already.

Things I’m not into? Pain, scat, blood.

I ask that you include a picture along with some information I mentioned above about yourself. Face is preferred along with a clothed or shirtless body pic. Don’t start with nsfw yet until I tell you to. Depending on the vibe, I will let you know what you can address me as.

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2024/12/07
16:54 UTC

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30 [M4F] #NYC #Philly #DC #Online - Damsel seeking distress (and tight bondage with even tighter gags)

Are you the kind of distressor I dream about running into while alone in the woods at night? Do you have a creepy basement that, for some reason, locks from the outside? Is one of your questions about the Cybertruck "how am I supposed to shove him tied up and gagged into that tiny frunk" - before you even think about the range or the safety of your fingers? If any of this rings a bell with you, let's talk.

Who am I? Just to get some gears turning, here's a self-portrait of me in my natural, ideal (and some may say, sexiest) state: inescapably bound, thoroughly gagged and not going anywhere or getting into any trouble. Besides, somebody I met here on Reddit once told me that seeing those photos of me tied up made her feral. I just found that the cutest compliment I’ve heard in a while. Others have told me that I just have something about me that makes them want to tie, gag and shove me into their car trunk to drive away. And you can bet that all of that lit a fire underneath the old chimney to fuel another one of these personals, even as the winter continues to be frightful. Positive reinforcement: it’s not just for pets of an animal nature.

Being an unapologetic tease aside, I am still seeking to find my idea people. My FWB as I’ve called it previously – friends with bondage. Specifically, friends and partners I can trust enough to meet alone in the desolate woods and find myself quite the helpless damsel after it all. Unfortunately, it is not quite her blue Mystery Machine you see in that shot hanging around in the background – but you can be assured it is her equally blue panties you see dangling from my big mouth. I picture you, whoever you may be, finding me just like that, unable to see nor speak. What would you do? Go for the big reveal by taking the rope blindfold off? Or keep me in suspense as you carry me over the shoulder to your car?

Bondage and damsels in distress, alongside drawing and photography, are some of my favorite things. I’d do it as a vocation if I could. One of my long-term fantasies (you know, ranking before the brownstone with the dungeon and cells in the basement, but after the custom-fit steel chastity belt to which my other half has the only key) is to have a form of therapy in which one is just thoroughly, tightly and inescapably tied, massively gagged and securely blindfolded. It will be a way to either relax and sink into the feeling or to let out some energy with some vicious struggling depending on one’s temperament. That cannot possibly be worse than chiropractic.

But closer to the ground, I am looking for both online conversation and in-person play partners (and ultimately one primary partner but baby steps) who either derive pleasure from the thought of tying me the fuck up and thoroughly, massively gagging me, or of being rendered into such a helpless, distressed mess themselves even though I’m getting a bit more selective as to who I distress myself. To make the point crystal clear, I am talking about just shoving your nasty, soaking wet panties into every cranny in my mouth and wrapping heaps of vet wrap over my big yapping mouth to seal it all in. That kind of thing, if you know what I’m talking about.

Seriously, it is not that much of an exaggeration to say that bondage is a pastime I would engage in every day if I could. I’ve been tied and tying plenty, but I particularly adore being the classic damsel-in-distress, even if as a masculine spin-off of the old archetype, and being a tied up, quiet, helpless but still defiant and ferociously struggling captive. I want to be hogtied, wriggling, and backtalking you as you cram your filthy dirty socks into my equally filthy mouth to shut me up, as I fight and protest until the final moment when the stuffing is shoved into that big trap and the sound of duct tape coming off the roll fills the air.

But those are details. The big picture is that bondage is core to my kink and I am nothing if not open to suggestion. Rope and not-rope, Eastern style or Western, as long as somebody (ideally me) ends up helpless and writhing, I’m good, game and willing. Nevertheless, as a visual aid, I lean towards the classic helpless "damsel in distress" look you can see in the works of Dominic Wolfe, JJ Plush, Eric Cain, Steve Villa, and others. Restrictive inescapable ties, thick blindfolds or hoods, mouth-filling gags, and just relentless teasing and playing with.

But beyond that, the “friends” part means that beyond sexy kink, I want us to actually be friends. A casual engagement is fine but at the very least we should be acquaintances who care about each other and want nothing but the best for the other half. I’m already mature enough to use the 30+ personals subreddit and I think that signals that it has become the right time in my story to sink more effort and energy into lasting connections. I live life by the ethos that if you’re fair to me, I’ll be fair to you.

Oh, and I did foreshadow that photography is my other big love. I am always looking for tied up friends to shoot. As a practical matter, it’s challenging to take photos if I’m the one with hands securely tied up behind my back if the binding is done right.

I am serious when I said that I have a special interest in gags. If your idea of sexting involves us talking about how we can gag each other so tight that we've choking on that thick wad, we're already off to a great start. Something about being totally helpless and voiceless, being unable to communicate and fully under somebody’s control really does it for me. Just cuff my hands behind my back, cram my mouth full of your wet panties and tape it shut, maybe with a vibrator stuck in me. I am willing to call that a date. It is even more affordable than a movie in this inflationary environment; plus reusing dirty laundry this way just has to be good for environmental sustainability. You too can help save the Colorado River by using your worn, dirty undergarments as a great gag instead of putting them through the wash. I can go on for days talking about gags (oh the irony). It is definitely not a dealbreaker though; just a special interest.

In terms of geography, while it would be great if you were local to the NY metro, I travel a lot and am happy to start online with an eye on in-person visits sometime in the future if we vibe – wordplay fully and shamelessly intended. But I am prioritizing in-person connections at the moment.

On that note, I’ve rambled for long enough, talking your ear off. Now, it is your turn. Sometimes, at this point, people would ask the reader to include this or that word to indicate they have read to the end. Yawn. My previous request to have the reader answer me, ‘how would you gag the fuck out of me?’ has drawn some very sexy and piping hot creative writing exercises and we both enjoyed that very much. But unfortunately, as LLMs get better and better, my challenges must also accordingly evolve. So instead, let me know which of these gags do you think would best match my eyes and personality? Just want to make sure we’re both real, that’s all.

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2024/12/07
16:37 UTC

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35 [M4F] #Norway/Scandinavia - cute sub looking for a partner

Hello!

Writing in english, but I understand all Scandinavian languages. I'm looking for a domme that can maybe turn into something long term! For now, its no pressure making it all the way to long term, so im open to playmates too. Im a pretty relaxed guy, I work full time at an office and outside of that I like enjoying the city life, concerts, sports/games, museums and more. My favorite sports are football and cycling, and i like doing things like table tennis and pool. I like music and movies/series, food and nice wine! Im a pretty calm person, open for different dynamics and miss someone to feel a connection with! I believe communication is key in this kind of relationship, and hope to meet someone who values the same.

Physically im 185 cm, 80 kg and white skin with short dark hair. Im open to sending a selfie in DM, if you like.

Kinks

  • Edging
  • Denial
  • Chasity play
  • JOI
  • Light
  • Assplay
  • Those my primary kinks. Im also curious about other parts, like mommydom&ageplay, encouraged bi and maybe cuckold relationships, humiliation and maybe more

Limits

Bathroom stuff (except maybe golden shower), blood, permanent damage, findom

About you

Hopefully you are somewhat close so that meeting IRL could be an option. Im open to some distance if it works well and chemistry is good. I value honesty, trust, and humor to mention some things. I hope you will be open to voicecall every now and then also.

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2024/12/07
16:34 UTC

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28 [M4FM] #NYC Sub Looking For Mean Dominant Woman Or Couple To Dress Me Up And Make Me Clean Their Apartment

Never been dominated before but always had a lot of fantasies! Girls seem to usually find me attractive but Im kind of awkward so I prefer if girls take the lead. I want to try being a service sub for a day, doesnt have to be anything sexual involved, and I think I would enjoy that! It would be erotic for me and at the very leash useful for you even if you dont gain any sexual pleasure from it. I will cook, clean, give massages and other service sub stuff you tell me to do.

If there is anthing sexual, vou have to initiate it and guide me through it, and ld prefer if its one sided such as eating your pussy/ass/cock, or if you stimulate me then Id prefer if its in some unusual or humiliating way such as prostate, ballsqueezing, nipple or belly button play! Also into being dressed up in panties and bra and put on a leash or in chastity! Also into pet play such as being your puppy or kitten, and would love to swallow your spit, sweat, piss, period blood, or cum!

I dont get a lot of messages so if youre interested just message me or comment on this post, no secret words to "prove" you read this lol

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2024/12/07
16:24 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Ohio #online looking for someone on the more gentle side to give you all my little spoon love

I’ve got ADHD and it’s a gift and curse. I’m into includes Star Wars, gaming, gardening, fitness (workout buddy?) and plenty of other things. Currently I am editing a YouTube video and another one after this. That’s really my passion. Being able to help someone forget about the things they are going through.

I don’t want kids and One day I would like to have someone to actually care about me. I do not play any games, I’ll always be straight up with you no matter what.

  • I love feet
  • Want to be someone’s good boy
  • Open and honest communication not matter. I’m very big on that. No matter how awkward, uncomfortable, weird, etc.
  • I’m open to almost all fetishes
  • I have never done anything like this before so I ask that you please bear with me because I’m still learning.
  • Finally I believe that a lot of people think femdom stuff is only sexual but that couldn’t be farther from the truth. It’s a dynamic and feeling of security. At least that’s how I feel about it.

If you read this far, I sincerely thank you. There is a lot more about me but that is a quick run down.

https://imgur.com/a/gQT8e6f

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2024/12/07
16:21 UTC

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22 [F4R] #Online - Sadistic Lady looking for masochistic gentleman/woman

###Disclaimer - This is a long post with no TL:DR so suck it up, I guess. I have years of experience(unless I state otherwise) in everything I’ll be talking about, I’m not just going into the heavy kinks blindly. Ideally, you have experience in being a masochist since I don’t really know how to teach you to become one. This will be online with a possibility to meet up with the right person. I’m attracted to more than one gender so anyone can reply to this. Please be legal and not more than 60.

##About me Hello. I’m a 22 years old cis female, 5’4, HWP but curvy. I’m a student but I also have an office job(I mostly wear suit pants and heels if you like that sort of thing). I’ve been called a mean person a lot but I think I’m just outspoken, plain and direct. I have no soft, delicate bone in my body so if you’re looking for a mommy/gentle femdom, this isn’t for you. I’m very ambitious, my biggest goal is to become a director in the company I work for(fingers crossed). Sarcasm is my go-to humour, I go along well with people that can take a joke and are really confident with themselves as a person.

I carry myself with dignity, pride, spite, disdain, service-worker fake smiles and contempt. I enjoy reading, writing, listening to music, taking lollies from kids and fine dining when I can. When I read, I enjoy the slow burn and I’d love to include that in a new dynamic. Let’s get excited to message each other. Let’s re-read messages because it sounded like a teasing, sexual innuendo the first time. My love language is words of affirmation, I enjoy my words saying a lot and going a long way for my pet - I guess that’s my own way of showing care. The weirdest thing that makes me happy is receiving flowers, I see it as a beautiful form of devotion. I’m romantically monogamous(Phrasing it this way since cucking is something I enjoy doing) but I don’t mind if you’re not. I enjoy being called my Lady so include that in your message to me.

##How I like to dominate If you figured out that I’m a sadist, you’re smart(yay). I’m sadistic in all the ways. I think sadism is a spectrum and most people only encounter the I like whipping until blood comes out kind. I enjoy the psychological/emotional aspect of sadism. I want to control my person like a puppet, I want them putty in my arms and say “yes, I trust you” while being scared of what’s in store for them. I’ve been told that my kindness is scary and usually comes with a hidden meaning behind it. I like the idea of giving you whiplash because I’m suddenly kind and caring, leaving you guessing and thinking of what I’m planning.

I enjoy getting pleasure from giving my pet deep humiliation whether it comes from laughing at the size of your sexual organ, cuckolding you while you’re not allowed to have sex, having you all dressed up as a maid attending to my whims. Getting my pet do the most absurd things is so funny. I am non sexual with my subs so if that’s something you need/require, it won’t work out. I do enjoy teasing and prolonging your chastity days whether it’s because you’ve been doing so good/bad. Over the years, I’ve grown my collection of toys so it would be nice to have someone to use it on.

I enjoy harder kinks like watersports, deep humiliation, blackmail(not a lot of experience with this so I’m willing to compromise if it’s a hard limit for you), 24/7 chastity and TPE, scat, findom*, cbt. My other kinks include facesitting, whipping, chastity, cuckolding, orgasm denial and torture, hypnosis and trigger words, food, sleep and wardrobe control, feet/ass/heel worship, groping, CFNM etc.

My limits include anything non consensual, anything involving kids and animals, cuts and blood, permanent damage(mental, physical, emotional and financial).

##About you (I’m assuming you’re sick of reading the sheer amount of “I’s” I’ve written so you can read about You now). You’re uxorious, extroverted, possibly asexual(not a requirement), well-spoken, got your life together. Preferably, you’re a businessman in a suit. You wear your heart on your sleeve and crave attention from your Lady. You know how to cook and bake(Aprons on guys are so freaking sexy and I don’t know how to cook). You can start up a conversation, very confident, think of yourself as a service sub and an overall himbo. There’s nothing hotter than a person who is intelligent and knowledgeable about fine wine and dining. Basically, if you get along well with other people then you’re the one I’m looking for!

If this post is still up, then I'm still looking. Send me a message about you as a person, as a sub and the weirdest thing that makes you happy. I will not start domming you immediately, talk to me with respect and as a human but not as your Domme. I'm verified but willing to share photos after some days of talking.

*Findom - This is a kink that’s meant to be fun and not destructive to your life/mental health. Please don’t try to sell your house for me.

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2024/12/07
16:20 UTC

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38 [M4F] #Boston / Online Experienced Switch searching for Top, Sadist, Bondage enthusiast

While I identify as a switch, lately I have been bottom saturated and craving more connections with individuals who are either tops, or lean top. I tend to be most interested in sadists or individuals who enjoy hurting, restraining and denying men such as myself. I don't ever feel that sex is not required when it comes to kink. If you don't necessarily want to mix kink / sex then we may be compatible! The individuals that get off inflicting pain or seeing people stringently bound and gagged for long periods of time... please say hi :)

About me: I am 6’3, 190 pounds with dark hair and overall I have a pretty lean build. Just so you're aware I am engaged to my fiancee. We are open (Poly/ENM) and dating separately. I have been involved in the kink lifestyle for nearly 20 years now and I know that while I have a good foundation there are always new experiences and people to share dynamics with. I would not scene with anyone without finding out more about them first. If you cannot text or have no desire to ever meet in public to see how we vibe then we won't be a good match. I currently live a couple of miles south of Boston but spend a lot of my time in Cambridge, Somerville and Boston. I have a car, can travel, host and have a large collection of kink/BDSM gear such as a bondage chair, cage, frame, electro kit, numerous impact tools and more restraints / gags than would be necessary for probably 10 people hah. There's a good chance that if you are looking for some type of implement to use then I probably have it or would acquire it :D

Kink wise - I love bondage, impact, edging, degradation, sensory deprivation, choking / breath play, CBT, biting, tease / denial just to name a few. I have a full list of my kinks, interests and experience that I would be happy to share! I like flirty and fun kink just as much as I like those intense "heavy" sessions. Aftercare is important. I will never play with anyone who doesn't comprehend or isn't willing to learn about boundaries and safe words. I feel like consent should be an automatic but since it somehow still isn't... consent and communication must always be present and can be revoked at any time. I am hoping to find someone that may have similar interests to my own.

Outside of kink I love gaming whether I am playing, watching, or talking about it. I enjoy having others that I can enjoy this with so if you’re looking for someone to chat / play with then let me know! Board games, online games, mobile games... I am all for it! I do love sports. Hockey, Football, baseball/softball are my top three but not necessarily in that order. I enjoy being active and getting to play as well whenever I have the opportunity. I also enjoy musicals, ballet, and exploring new places. I generally will jump in to try something new because I am always out to have a good time. I would say that I am someone who enjoys communicating frequently. I am open to comets (though in this case distance may not necessarily be a factor), LTR's, or other relationship styles depending on the connection level. I love getting to know people and taking the time to cultivate a good foundation for a relationship regardless of what it may be.

If you made it this far, are intrigued and would like to chat then send me a message and let's see how well we mesh. I look forward to chatting and getting to meet some new people. I am also happy to share my Fetlife with you if you want to browse that as well!

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2024/12/07
16:09 UTC

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32 [F4M] Gentle Femdom for Younger, Fit Subs #online

Gentle domme here who loves to be called miss or ma'am and just generally respected. :) I'm in search of college-aged subs (young to mid-20s; please no 30+) who are also fit/athletic (reasonably) and enjoy being observed, working out, and otherwise performing tasks for me on cam, yielding their pleasure and enjoyment for my own. I do get bored if it's just me ordering you around every time, particularly if it's only sexual, so I also like for there to be a special connection in our dom/sub relationship, with nice chats and more of an ongoing reason for you to want to serve me.

I enjoy having multiple subs serving, so if you're looking for an exclusive thing I'm sorry but that's not me. But on the flip side, I also don't mind if you serve other dommes or even have a SO. In fact, I kind of enjoy the jealousy this dynamic creates. The more the merrier. :)

I specialize in hypnosis as a domme, as I've been hypnotizing for 5+ years and have always enjoyed the control along with the creativity that this allows. It's not fake role-play hypnosis but actual hypnosis, to be clear. I use mic-only for all of my sessions in calls to get you relaxed and deep into a state of trance, and then I can give suggestions as you feel comfortable following them without any thought. It's quite relaxing and potentially arousing too. I love for all my subs to try it at least once. :)

If this interests you so far, please keep reading. You may also send me a chat message (not DM) with which animal you could turn into for a day and why. I like people who can not only serve me on cam but also have engaging and interesting conversations with me during and in between sessions.

Other than hypnosis, I just enjoy giving instructions and having them followed. Perhaps keeping you accountable at the gym so you make your body even more pleasing for me? I enjoy having our sessions be an event that we both look forward to, maybe once or twice a week? Doesn't have to be every day or anything, but I also like it not to be super random. I like a bit of structure.

If that appeals to you, tell me about yourself and share a clothed pic after the chat is accepted. Personality is huge. Please don't be boring. :) I'd enjoy getting to see if we hit it off well!

I always use mic-only for all of my calls/sessions and expect my subs to use cam (mic-optional for you). Please also let me know if that boundary works for you in your chat message to me so we don't waste each other's time!

Hope to hear from you if you fit these qualifications. :)

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2024/12/07
15:53 UTC

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27 [M4F] Music and Film Fanatic looking for Domme to build a dynamic with in #London #UK

Hello everyone!

I'm an athletic 27 year old with long black curly hair from London (UK). As the title suggests my main hobbies are film and music. I'm a film critic who watches pretty much everything old and new, including a lot of foreign and cult movies. You can also find me at a lot of rock, metal and hardcore shows around the city, with the occasional bit of jazz too. I keep fit. I climb and go to the gym, and I love it when my partner enjoys my body! I'll put a link to a picture (minus my face) here: https://ibb.co/zHYv4Mq

I'm looking for a woman between the ages of 21-31, who I can get on with really well. I need a connection before starting a dynamic and I would love to talk about your interests and hobbies. I'm very politically engaged and consider myself rather left wing, so ideally I would like to find someone who shares a good amount of my world view.

OK, now onto the fun stuff!

If you think we'd make good play partners or friends with benefits than please feel free to pop me a message, but I am looking to build a 24/7 dynamic with someone. Though I am a switch, I would love to deepen my submission and serve someone IRL who I can be proud to call my domme.

My main kinks are service, worship, humiliation and of course power exchange! I'm not a brat at all; I love obeying and I want to please you and make your life better in any way I can. I'm also not looking for a soft/gentle domme dynamic, I enjoy a more traditional M/s style of play.

Hard limits include food play, sounding and scat; while pegging is a soft limit

Anyway, if we sound compatible please drop me a message and if we vibe lets go for a drink, I love nothing more than a good pint of ale and great chat!

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2024/12/07
15:45 UTC

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27 [F4M] #Online #StateCollege looking for a hung sub with abs

I'm looking for a submissive guy who's obsessed with working out just for and loves showing off. If you’re a "hot boy fit" type who hits the gym just to look good and enjoys turning on your Domme, keep reading.

I want a guy with a great body, someone who loves flexing and being watched. You must be an exhibitionist, eager to show off your hard-earned muscles and sculpted form. I'm looking for someone who's ready to serve and please, who gets a thrill from making his Domina proud.

Show me what you've got and let's make this a fun, intense connection where you shine as my devoted, hot boy fit sub. I’m excited to see how you can turn me on with your dedication and charm.

My kinks: light cbt, worshiping, breath play, anal play, edging, forced bi, spit play, public, hidden public, voyeurism, threesomes, pegging, queening, water-sports,non-permanent branding, light pain, jerk-off instructions, cum eating instructions and humiliation.

(You dont have to be into all of these)

Limits: sph, feet, sissification, abdl, toilet, chastity.

If you have visble abs follow these messaging instructions:

Age:

Country:

Favorite kinks:

How frequently do you workout:

Cock size:

6 Comments
2024/12/07
15:39 UTC

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57 [M4F] #Ontario/Online. Extremely Submissive older man awaits you on his knees.

Thankfully I have my knee pads on.... only $3 at the dollar store and they work quite well for my tired old bones. Other than that I am naked except for my chastity cage.... but my pink panties are nearby if you want me in them. I am in the corner, facing the wall, seen but not heard. Who sees me? Is it you, my potential owner and goddess? I am ready to worship, serve, obey.... suffer for you willingly, gratefully, in whatever way most pleases you. Humiliate and degrade me to your liking....have me torture myself for your amusement....I exist only for the whims of the superior female. At 57 I know who and what I am, what I have always been. Educated, intelligent, articulate, dedicated, devoted.... very easy on the eyes....a sense of humor as dynamic and heart warming as Vladimir Putin's....let me make you laugh as I clean your ass for the first of many times each day.... as I serve you a drink with ice cubes made from my tears... the ones I shed when you....well, you remember it well.... No OF girls, scammers, fakes, frauds, dudes, Jehovah's Witnesses, etc. Thank you, from my tired old knees....

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2024/12/07
15:25 UTC

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31 [M4F] #UK or #Online - Seeking my special domme

Hey there, I hope you're having an amazing day! I'm making this post to hopefully find my perfect match :)

About me: I'm 31 years old, from England, I'm 6'3" (192cm) tall. slim/athletic, have brown hair and eyes and wear glasses. I'm looking for someone who is mean and controlling in the bedroom but kind and considerate outside of it.

My interests and hobbies include - video games, music, film & TV, nature and I'm a big animal lover. I have a pet cat and dog and they're both amazing creatures. I like to keep active and healthy but I'm not buff or muscular. I enjoy reading and am currently working through The Lord of the Rings, I'm a bit of a geek.

In terms of dirty stuff - My kinks include: femdom, bondage, petplay, chastity, taming, teasing, light humiliation, spanking, milking, worship, reverse pegging/strap-on (me wearing), facesitting, tease and denial, FLR and TPE.

My dislikes/hard limits are - findom, cuckolding, CBT, CEI, anything pain related, blood and scat/pee. I'm not looking for a paid dynamic.

I have a bunch of toys and props including: 2 bone gags, a ball gag, ring gag, tape, 2 pairs of ears, a collar, a silicone and metal chastity cage. a Lovense remote controlled cock ring and fleshlight.

About you: I'm looking for some one ideally in the age range of 24-34 but can be slightly flexible either side. I don't mind what colour hair you have but I do prefer shoulder length or longer (bonus points if you put it up in a ponytail!). I'm looking for someone that looks after themselves and is slim to average in body size.

If you're interested and read this far I'd love to get to know you! Feel free to send me a message and tell me your fave animal so I know you're serious :) Once we get to know each other and are comfortable I'm happy to share photos.

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2024/12/07
15:20 UTC

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22 [m4f] looking for domme #anywhere #online

Hi everyone

M22 here. I am 6'7 (200cm) fit body, working out, short black hair. I am looking for genuine connection or just having fun with girl who really likes being dominant and truly enjoys submissive guy. I love sweet talk as you slowly seduce me and make me your little slave boy.

Even if you are newbie in this and would like to try i am happy to hear from you.

As for my daily life i am usually free during the day so you are not gonna get ghosted or anything. I will always let you know what i am up to. I also like playing basketball in free time and playing video games sometimes. Also big fun of femdom video games as they can be pretty hot.

As for my kinks i am almost limitless. I think it's important we talk about what we both like and dislike so we both have fun and be comfortable. I really care about your enjoyment too. Some of my kinks include: body worship, facesitting, feet, spit, pet play, humiliation, some pain, spanking, light feminization, cuckold talk... none of these are deal breakers so just let me know. Happy to hear your kinks and fantasies.

Be free to hit me up (msg or dm whatever works for you) and let's see if we fit together.

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2024/12/07
15:10 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Online, Looking for a DOMME. No FINDOM

Hello,
I want to start by saying upfront that I am NOT into Findom. This is not about money for me. What I am searching for is much deeper—a genuine connection with a Domme who wants to explore their dominant side with me or someone with experience who can truly own me.

About me: I’m a 23-year-old, 6-foot-tall guy, a little on the chubbier side. I’m currently a university student and work part-time, so my schedule can be a little busy, but I’m always eager to make time to fulfill my Mistress’s commands. My hobbies aren’t extensive because of my commitments, but my deepest desire is to explore and indulge in my submissive nature under the guidance of the right Domme.

Submission is my biggest kink, and I take immense pleasure in being entirely obedient to my Mistress. If she says sit, I sit. If she says bark, I bark. I love to beg like a dog and find joy in being degraded, controlled, and molded into what she desires. Denial and cum control excite me deeply, and I crave a Domme who would relish taking complete control over me. I long to be trained, shaped, and fully owned, knowing I’m exactly where I belong.

Here’s a bit more about what I’m into:

  • Role Play
  • Pet Play
  • Anal
  • Worship
  • JOI
  • Self Cum Drinking
  • Ruined Orgasms
  • Edging
  • Being Fully Controlled
  • Wax Play

Limits:

  • No gore or extreme violence.
  • No pee play.

I’ve been searching for over a year now, and it’s been an exhausting and painful journey. I feel like I’m lost in a sea of disappointment, unable to find the right Domme to take me in and guide me. I need someone who can train me, mold me into the pet and slave I dream of being, and make me feel truly owned.

This journey has been emotionally draining, and I’m desperate to find someone who can finally put an end to this search. I need someone to give me the structure, discipline, and pleasure I crave, someone who can make me feel like I’ve finally found my place. Please, if this resonates with you, reach out to me. I’m ready to give you everything I have and be everything you want me to be.

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2024/12/07
15:00 UTC

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25 [M4F] Cute soldier looking to actually get to know someone #Texas #Poland #Online (retry)

Reposting this because I think my original may have been a bit much for a submissive guy. I'm genuinely interested in talking to anyone who might even be slightly interested.

Hey everyone! I'm Thomas, it's my first time doing this. I'm 25, originally from Texas, but in Poland for a few months. I've been in the Army for a few years, college-educated too. Probably my favorite hobby is working out. I love to lift and run, and take care of myself. I also game too, usually turn-based strategy games.

A little about me physically: I'm 5'8", 170 lbs, white, and in good shape. I'm cute too, and I'm willing to share a face pic if/when we get comfortable talking with each other. Here's a pic of me.

My ideal domme? Genuinely, just someone I get along with outside of kink. The last thing I want is for our little session to end, and for things to be awkward. Besides, we're both people, so let's treat each other as such. I really just want someone I get along with.

In terms of "requirements", I'd say really anyone 21 or older, with a preference for older. I'm not really sure what else to put here. Everyone is welcome to hit me up though!

Kink wise, I'm not trying to make a shopping list, just seeing who might be interested in me. Besides, I wouldn't be much of a submissive if I demanded things, now would I? But I am interested in trying a few things. Orgasm control, premature ejaculation training, cuckolding. Nothing is written in stone though! It's up to us to talk and see what each other is interested in. Ultimately, I want to make you happy. I'm here for you.

Because I'm overseas for a few months, I'm a little less flexible than normal. I have a roommate and a lot less privacy than normal. I'm willing to make it work if you are though. Even though we're starting online, if it works out, I would love to eventually meet in person. Perhaps even have a relationship. I'm not interested in a fling, but actually getting to know you. Just send me a DM if you're interested. Please, tell me about you! The more the better.

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2024/12/07
14:56 UTC

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19 [M4F] #online fit male sub looking for a Domme

Hey I’m 19 years old and will soon graduate and hopefully start working around that time too.

I’m your normal straight guy, but ever since I was a kid dominant women had made way hornier than just submissive women and that’s why I’m here.I feel like this will sexually fulfill me

I only want an online relationship because I’m not ready to do stuff in person and I won’t cam for now, that could change but I’ll have to really trust you to cam since it’s something I’ve never done before.

If you want to know something about me, I’m 5 foot 8, I weight about 70 kilos and I would say I have an athletic body,my hobbies are watching movies or anime’s, listening to music(mostly hiphop), and playing football/basketball, I also watch both sports but not regularly.Im also more of a shy person which makes it really exciting for me to post on here.

Kink wise I’m open to try some stuff, but the things I know I like are JOIs,nipple play, jerking in various positions,teasing,hypnosis,breath play,doing tasks in general and I unfortunately don’t have any toys. My limits are scat blood piss, anything illegal in general and trying to involve my family in any kind of way. You can dm me here or on discord:hoodiedude4

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2024/12/07
14:22 UTC

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20 [TF4F] #LosAngeles #Online Chubby Trans Girl Brat Looking for a Femdom or Enby to Tame Her

hiiiii!!!! as my title says, i’m a chubby trans girl looking for a femdom or enby to come and tame her brattiness!! mainly looking for online but if you’re also in the la area, that’s a bonus too!

about me

  • i am 20 years old, turning 21 in a couple months here woo and live on the west coast of the us, specifically near la
  • i love playing video games, dnd, listening to music, and writing!
  • i currently work at a hotel as a front desk agent (exhilarating, i know) and something im currently working on is writing a dnd campaign!
  • i am about 5’9”, about 270 pounds, and kinda like, blocky?? if that makes sense???? i do have a chest tho so there’s that
  • i have a very cute dog named chloe and she is the cutest dog ever and if anyone says otherwise, they’re obviously wrong
  • a pic of what i look like! https://imgur.com/a/nCgtYON

what im looking for

  • i can’t stress this enough, woman and enbies only. essentially no men and if i get any men in my dms, i will instantly ignore you.
  • preferably someone within my age range but id be open until about 45 and that’s it. when i say mommy, i don’t want to actually mean it
  • i would like someone also who is near la but i am open to around the world
  • i honestly don’t have any preference about what body type as all women and enbies are amazing and beautiful and i would consider myself blessed by the gods above to be dommed by one
  • again, no real preference in terms of personality but someone who’s as nerdy as me would be really great and would be willing to listen to my dnd rants
  • like before, no real preference for physical trains. all is good
  • i prefer a more like, hybrid way of domming? essentially, i would like someone who will call me a beautiful slut, aka both degrading and praising at the same time

about me (but spicy)

  • here is what my kinklist looks like! https://i.imgur.com/VLwxZzv.png
  • my absolute favorite kinks is pet play, degradation, humiliation, pegging (duh), brat taming, and orgasm control/denial
  • my absolute limits are scat, watersports, any impact play past spanking and slapping, and anything involving nonconsenting adults
  • my preferred style of d/s dynamic is one of like, im owned by you and i am at your very whim. (like a dog……)
  • i do have some experience with d/s dynamics but not a lot
  • some toys i have are a dildo (specifically a bad dragon one so do what you will with that info) and a remote controlled buttplug
  • i know i spoke of my chest (which im proud of) so here’s a pic of it! https://imgur.com/a/udLo5qC

the end

  • if you managed to read this far, thank you very much and have a slice of cake 🍰
  • i prefer to be contacted via reddit dm and discord. if you want to do discord, just tell me so and i can give you my username.
  • if you do plan to message me, make sure to mention your age, gender, location, fav kinks and limits, and a fun fact about you.
  • i typically will expect photos to be shared between parties as a form of verification so if you are not comfortable with that, we will not be compatible
  • i will more than likely respond within the next 30 mins of receiving a message but if i don’t, expect a message by the end of my day, which is pst

hope to hear from ya!

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2024/12/07
14:18 UTC

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22 [M4F] looking for an alpha domme mommy I may accidentally call daddy while she pegs me like her bitch #Edmonton #alberta #close

Crossdresser whose too ashamed to call himself a sissy who wants an FLR kinda like a 1950s housewife dynamic me obviously the female role I literally want to be codependent on you for my happiness feminize and breed me like a bitch, your bitch;) I like hyper aggressive dominant controlling demanding overzealous jealous independent women preferably in Canada but even online attention will be good to boost my estrogen levels I jus need to be reminded I'm their bitch. I'm young I'm bratty I'm thick and I'm jus a whore wen mommy tells me to fuck that bullshit (no chastity off limits will take hormones won't lock up my sissy clit). I'm 5'9 190 pounds fit with abs I'm actually very muscular for someone who wants to be accepted as more feminine I grow a beard sometimes but am hairless everywhere else I work full-time and have my own apartment I can host jus can't drive to people due to a medical condition except on the weekends if I pay a ride. I'm very socially awkward and shy I'm not very good at makeup yet but I will and do try my hardest. I like to think of myself as a spoiled girly girl brat yano form fitting dress g string thigh highs or stockings garter belt heels while I prepare you dinner Edmonton Alberta willing to travel to Calgary for example or even farther if we hit it off I desperately need and want this so don't hold back

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2024/12/07
14:00 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Online looking for a gentle domme

Hi, a switch submissive leaning guy looking for a sweet girl for preferably a GFD relationship.

I am 31 years old who is focused on his work and career on a daily. I would say am pretty much easy going though am a bit of an inrovret.

I enjoy playing video games, reading a book, going for a walk or simply hangout with friends in my free time.

Benefits?

  • I will keep you company and make sure you won't feel alone with me.
  • I am a great listner so you can vent or tell me about your day.
  • I will be there to comfort you when you are feeling down.
  • You will find someone who is honest, compationate and sweet.

Ideal relationship:

  • A relationship built on mutual respect and affection.
  • Clear communication as it is a key to a successful relationship.
  • Spending time together whether just talking or doing an activity.
  • Becoming comfortable around each other.
  • Intemacy and affection.

Regarding the dynamic we can talk about it in private and have an agreement. Though I am a switch I do not mind taking the submissive role and keeping that way.

This got a bit longer than I expected. If you have read this far consider sending me a message with a little introduction.

I look forward to hear from you.

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2024/12/07
13:48 UTC

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29 [M4R] #Germany #Online #LTR: Nerd with good humor looking for a dominant and witty mind

Summary: I am looking for a dominant mind between 20 and 50 years old for a long term dynamic, ideally from Europe or a similar time zone. I don’t care too much about looks and have a decent amount of experience. I am looking to start online only, let's talk about meeting irl if and when we vibe.

Who am I as a person?

To kick things off: You can call me Lacram, I am 28 years old and from Germany. I work a 9 to 5 office job 5 days a week and live alone. I wouldn’t call myself heavily involved in politics but definitely lean left.

I live in a big city and like to spend time with friends in cafés, pubs and outside - despite my favorite season being winter! I’m into cycling ever since buying a new bike last year and want to expand on that in the future. Riding through the landscapes is just perfect to clear the mind after a stressful week. My other hobbies include watching soccer, playing video games, watching tv shows or reading/music.

I’m often said to be pretty calm and levelheaded and I love to discuss and argue in a constructive manner. So sign me up for your deep talks!

While I am not quite an introvert, my social battery tends to drain in company of multiple people. To charge up again I typically need a couple of hours of alone time to game or watch something or sleep.

Last but not least: I am about 190 cm tall, slim but not skinny, have short black hair and brown eyes. I do have a normal amount of body hair on my arms and legs, in case that matters.

I am open to exchanging pictures once we’ve gotten to know each other but it’s not a requirement. I will never send a nsfw picture with my face in it, everything else I am open to once I am comfortable with you.

Who am I as a sub?

I have been in multiple long time D/s dynamics over time, all online. Moreover i am involved in a small but really nice online kink community ever since my first dynamic in 2015. While i am not the most experienced sub i do know my way around. In one of the dynamics we’d switch regularly, so I also know the Dom side of things. Don’t worry, I am not looking to switch again, I feel home being submissive.

At first I started out as what you’d call a brat pushing to be put in place. Nowadays I’d much rather let go and embrace it, unless you want to push my brat buttons. In any case, expect lengthy and detailed reports from me.

Quite a few of my kinks probably fall under the humiliation category but let me give you a non-exhaustive list in no particular order.

Likes:

  • Edging
  • Tease and denial
  • Orgasm control & ruined orgasms
  • Anal
  • Clothing control
  • Aftercare
  • Cum play
  • Body writing
  • Rules/Tasks
  • Being cared for

What I am interested in/want to explore more of (not a must):

  • Hypnosis
  • Mild Feminization
  • Chastity (I have a cage)
  • Post orgasm torture
  • Micromanagement
  • CNC
  • TPE
  • Reports

Limits:

  • Blood, Scat
  • Social ruin
  • Full on public play (hidden public is fine)
  • Family/Friends
  • Extreme pain

I am happy to talk about my kinks in detail and why they work or don't work for me in the case of dislikes or limits. Feel free to name kinks you’d like to explore as I am open-minded and good about vocalising my thoughts!

If you’d like I can you provide you with a list of the toys I own. But it kinda goes like this: Plugs, cages, dildos, masturbators, bondage stuff, gags, lovense toys, prostate massagers and so on.

What am i looking for?

You shouldn’t be just my play partner. If I am to submit to someone long-term there needs to be a real connection. My partner should be able to hold a normal conversation, watch movies with me and hangout. Gaming holds a special place in my heart! And I’d love to hear about how your days go and how you’re feeling.

I am also a sucker for being cared for. Call me a good boy, protect me and make sure I am well - aftercare is very important to me. As long as I am behaving, that is. In any case, I’d definitely tease you in playful ways.

I’d love to have regular play sessions but am also looking for casual flirting, rules, habits, tasks and so on. We should be talking to each other almost daily, obviously with room for exceptions.

You should be open to voice chats eventually.

How to reach me

Shoot me a message either through chat or DMs. Please make it a detailed response including at least the following information:

  1. Age
  2. What does your life look like currently?
  3. What’s important to you as a dominant?
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2024/12/07
13:15 UTC

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24 [NB4A] #France - Looking for a submissive partner

Hello! I'm a 24-year-old non-binary person based in France, and I'm seeking a submissive partner who’s ready to explore a dynamic built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. As a dominant, I enjoy taking control and guiding my partner, but always with a focus on their comfort and boundaries.

I'm looking for someone who is open-minded, respectful, and willing to engage in a consensual power exchange. We can discuss the details of what you're looking for and what your boundaries are, as I believe communication is key in any relationship.

My practices: Pegging, orgasm control, bondage, humiliation, anal training, denial, edging, chastity play, and impact play. I'm open to exploring other dynamics as long as they're rooted in trust and mutual enjoyment.

My limits : No scat, no uro, no blood play. My focus is on creating a safe and respectful environment for both partners.

If you feel like this might be a dynamic that excites you, feel free to reach out and let's see where things go!

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2024/12/07
12:00 UTC

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34 [M4F] - #Melbourne #Australia male sub seeks Domme to be useful and/or amusing to

Hi, thank you for stopping by.

Normally I structure my ads by putting all the potential deal breakers up front, but after feedback that I don't highlight what I can offer a potential Domme enough I'm doing this different. Afterall, I am aiming to please.

What I can offer

As much I think there needs to be mutual compatibility for ongoing connections, first and foremost I want to be pleasing to a potential owner. I don't enjoy topping from the bottom, or the sense that my partner is catering to my whims.

I'd like to be given a pathway to please you. I consider myself raw material that I'm hoping, together, we can find the way to extract the most value for you.

Some ways I think I can be valuable:

  • A kinky outlet: Somewhat obvious, but it is a way I can be pleasing. When you're in the mood to be mean and inflict pain and/or humiliation on someone I'm happy to be that person.
  • Physical worship: Providing massage, pampering, oral pleasure.
  • Chauffeuring: I'm comfortable driving, and happy to provide drop offs and pick-ups. Or picking up things to deliver to you.
  • Domestic service: Cleaning, cooking, laundry, gardening, menial labour, simple handyman tasks.
  • Technical skills: Professionally I work in technology. I can provide general technical support, and am able to program applications/websites
  • Running board games/TTRPGs: This one is going to have more niche appeal. But for those who have a love of board games if you need someone to be Game Master, or to go and read the rules so that you don't have to,  these are particular skills of mine.
  • Gaming partner: Playing video games with you of your preference
  • Research assistant: If you've got a general question that you want information for I'm happy to go and find it for you.
  • Kink guinea pig: If you have something new that you want to try I'm open to it. I've been the first sub for a couple of Dommes and am able to provide technical and emotional feedback. I'm also just not scared off by the idea of experimentation (risk aware, naturally)
  • Company/conversationalist: Perhaps this is just a way of saying that I'd like to have some connection beyond a strict power dynamic, but I understand it can be useful to have someone to vent to.

This list is far from exhaustive, the purpose is to show that I'm open to pleasing in many ways. If you have other ideas or desires I'd love to hear about them. I'm very interested in novel and non-traditional ways of expressing D/s dynamics.

Who am I?

I'm J, or Melkorvum.

I've been playing around in kink my entire adult life. I would describe myself as a heavily Dom-leaning switch. That doesn't mean I'm looking to switch with someone. I prefer distinct roles within a dynamic. I'm here as a sub/slave type.

I'm a middle aged guy. Parent to a couple of young boys, happily married and polyamorous. Physically I'm 6ft/183cm, 110kg. My build is solid. I have a good amount of muscle, but also a bit of extra around the stomach. I'm working on losing that, down from 120kg so far. I'm Caucasian, clean shaven bald, wear glasses, and have a short dark beard.

I'm decently physically active - I do middle distance running, lift weights, and get out for a bit of golf each week.  So capable enough to do most of what I can imagine being asked of.

In terms of hobbies, I like watching sports (mostly footy), reading fiction, playing video games, playing board games, and playing golf.

Professionally, I work in the tech industry. Most of my history is in corporate environments.

I'm a reflective person, and able to communicate complicated or nuanced concepts effectively.

But honestly, the trump card of what makes me good to spend time with is my sense of humour. I have quick wit and believe any situation is improved with a laugh.

Who am I looking for?

As with the "what can I offer" section, I struggle with writing something that is descriptive without coming across prescriptive. Just take it as a list of my preferences, not my demands.

While I'm open to anyone of legal consenting age, I tend to be most drawn to people around my age. 25 - 45 is pretty ideal.

Similarly, people in a similar living situation are most comfortable. Those with an existing primary/nesting partner and/or children.

Physically, I've got a lot of varying types. I love curves, I love athletic figures. I love tall women, I love short women. You get the idea. Whilst physical attraction certainly helps a kink connection, I want to be very clear. You don't need to look any particular way to be interesting to me.

I like emotionally intelligent and communicative partners. Those who don't take themselves too serious and who are open to growth.

What sort of dynamic am I searching for?

The headline is "ongoing".

Something between regular play partners and TPE. Depending on mutual availability and interest.

Ideally I'd like someone who regularly asserts their dominance over me, in person or apart. And who molds me into the version of myself that most pleases them. But even just someone who I can provide an outlet for their dominant energy, and they can provide me an outlet for submission every now and again is good.

Hopefully we'd enjoy spending time together outside of kink. Romance isn't required

Potential deal breakers

As mentioned, I'm poly. My wife and other partners know I'm here. I'm not looking to replace or impact my existing relationships.

I'm drug and disease free and looking for the same.

Kink list and limits

My likes: Verbal humiliation/degradation, SPH, CBT, Pain, Anal, Watersports, Bondage, Spanking, Bladder control, Enforced exercise, Forced Bi, Supremist beliefs (E.g. Female supremacy - only in the context of consensual kink).

My interests: Chastity, Hypnosis, Sensory deprivation, writing tasks (writeforme.org or linepunishment.com).

My dislikes: Gagging, Semi-public, Roleplay, Chemical play (icy hot, toothpaste), Ice, Urethal play, Hot wax, Edging, Orgasm Denial, Crossdressing, Ruined orgasms.

My limits: Public, Shaving, Fire play, Extreme pain/Permanent damage, Make up, Scat, Messy, Gross, Dancing, Tattoos, Piercings, findom, intox.

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2024/12/07
11:15 UTC

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20 [M4F] #Europe #Online - looking to become someones humiliation slut

Have you always wanted to humiliate a boy to make yourself feel good? Now is your chance~

Im a 20 year old man from Europe. Im blonde, white and I like to train and play football, so I’m pretty muscular, feel free to ask for a picture :) as a person I am pretty calm, I love to walk and read. But on the sexual side I am very submissive and I love to please and follow orders, just being at someone’s mercy is what I love the most. Had a good experience with a domme that sadly didnt have time anymore in a humiliation dynamic, so I am looking for a new (amazing!) experience.

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for a dominant woman. Someone who loves to take control and loves to humiliate, im looking to become your humiliation slut that you make a fool of for your own pleasure and entertainment. I have no age or ethnicity preference. You just have to love giving humiliation

I love some of the following things: Humilation, Facesitting, degradation, overstimulation, mind control, teasing, anal and light CBT.

I have 2 dildos, A but plug and a small vibrator.

Im also pretty open to feminization if thats whats you like.

My limits are: Scat, piss, things that cause permanent harm and knifeplay.

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2024/12/07
10:47 UTC

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24 [M4F] Looking for a domme in #WA or #Online

Hi! My name is James, I'm a 24 y/o male who is interested in a femdom dynamic. Interested in a long term dynamic if possible or seeing where things go

Body type: 6'2, fit, white with blonde hair, blue eyes, I look clean cut/professional in my professional life and am largely masculine besides in the bedroom.

Personality: High energy, caring, "golden retriever type", goofy, but can be serious at times

Hobbies: in my free time I like to cook, work out, read, game, and chat with friends.

Kinks: chastity/orgasm control/denial, tpe (or ppe), tasks, light CBT/spanking, interested in petplay or anything that has you taking control! :) (happy to discuss)

Limits: scat, blood, permanent harm/blackmail

Turn ons: Just being direct, straightforward, and telling me what you want, when you want it is big for me. Please take control and I will be more than happy to submit.

Experience: I have been in one previous dedicated domme relationship and own or am willing to purchase toys

Please let me know if you're interested and I'm happy to discuss further!

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2024/12/07
09:25 UTC

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23 [M4F] Looking for domme & keyholder in #Worcester #Boston #Massachusetts

About Me

I'm a 23 year old cishet man in Massachusetts, I'm 5'10", with an average build, brown hair and hazel eyes, and I work in manufacturing. I can provide SFW pictures on request. I'm very active in my local LARP community (if you're not familiar, imagine if historical reenactment and Dungeons & Dragons had a baby, and you'd be pretty on target), and I also like to tinker with computers in my spare time. I run my own private home server with my own version of Google Drive and similar type stuff. I also have a 3D printer that sees regular use for technical projects or LARP props. I am a leftist, and I do not smoke, drink, or use any recreational drugs.

My Ideal Domme

I am looking for a domme ages 21-28 within ~90 minutes driving distance of Worcester, Massachusetts, give or take. I am not interested in a purely online dynamic. If you drink or use recreational drugs, that's perfectly fine, although the smell of marijuana smoke makes me very nauseous. I would prefer a fellow leftist, so if you are not at the very least politically liberal, kindly do not respond.

My Femdom Preferences

My kinklist image can be found here.

My favorite kinks are chastity, bondage (the heavier the better), orgasm control, tease & denial, and light pain. I'm interested in pegging, although I have never done it before.

My soft limits are verbal degradation and humiliation, as I find I tend to internalize it a little too much.

My hard limits are pet- or age-play, forced bi, watersports, scat, blood, needles (they can and will send me into actual medical shock), drugs or alcohol use during a scene, and feminization/sissification of any kind.

My previous experience is unfortunately limited to experimentation with a couple of past partners who didn't end up being into it, and some sketchy online things that in hindsight I should've stayed away from.

As far as toys ago, I have a small assortment of ropes & leather cuffs, a couple of gags, a Hitachi, and I've been trying to find a chastity cage that fits properly for ages so I have several that don't, and one or two that kinda do. I can be reached here on Reddit via either chat message or old-reddit PM, although PMs are preferred. I will do my best to respond within a day or two. For longer term communication after initial vetting, Discord works better for me than Reddit.

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2024/12/07
08:43 UTC

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